Main Topics: Dating, Men, Commitment, Fear, Personal Growth, Communication In this week's mini-episode, I talk about an ingredient that makes men way more attractive to women that most men are unconsciously terrible at showing.   Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe  Men’s Dating Accelerator, 5 Week Mini Training - Jan 22nd to Feb 19th: https://www.theauthenticman.net/store/mens-dating-accelerator

In this week’s podcast, I am joined by Ailey Jolie, a psychotherapist who’s work is rooted in Jungian depth psychology, relational somatics, intersectional feminism, anti-oppressive ideologies, and interpersonal neurobiology.   Ailey was born in Canada, where she grew up in the dancing, entertainment and modelling industries and later became Miss Canada. While she was in that environment, Ailey experienced a lot of sexualised violence, which led her to her personal psychotherapy and then to the work that she does today.   Ailey went to Harvard to study global mental health trauma recovery, where she met with deep thinkers who seemingly were much further along in their career. However, she noticed a deep somatic body sense of heaviness, pain and sorrow in these people who were helping the victims of horrendous trauma, and gender and sexual violence. Ailey was missing the play and the passion in this work, so she continued her search through the field of sex therapy and later really found her home in relational work. She resonated with Esther Perel’s way of thinking that the quality of relationships really resembles the quality of our life. Ailey's whole journey of relationships with others, with her body, herself, and her sexuality, is reflected in her beautiful writing.   Key topics include:  ⭐️ Is Therapy Designed for Men & the Lack of Direction for Practical Implication ⭐️ Teaching Healthy Masculine Values & the Need for Positive Role Models ⭐️ Toxic Cultural Traits & the Crisis of Masculinity   ⭐️ The Inner Work that’s Needed In Society Beyond Gender  ⭐️ Gentleness & Sensitivity in Men and the Expectation for Stoicism  ⭐️ Advice for Women on Sitting with Men’s Feelings & Avoid Psychoanalysis ⭐️ What to Do When Our Partner Doesn’t Do the Inner Work ⭐️ The Threat of Allowing Societal Notions to Get into the Relationship  ⭐️ The Importance of Asking & Clearing for Ourselves How Do We Want to Be Treated ⭐️ First Give the Love to Ourselves Before Moving Into Relational Love ⭐️ The Benefit of Sitting With the Uncomfortable Feelings and Situations ⭐️ Chemistry and Compatibility    Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe    Guest: Ailey Jolie   Instagram: www.instagram.com/aileyjolie  Website: www.aileyjolie.com   

Carrying on from last week's mini-episode, I answer the question, "Is it ok for a 30-year-old to date a 16-year-old?" 

In this week's mini-episode, I dive into a request that many men get from their woman, but have no idea what to do with, the request for move love.   ✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49 🔥What other men said after being on the programme: 👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me" 👉🏽 “The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn’t tapped into before” 👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself" 👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life" 👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want." The waitlist link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

In this week's mini-episode, I am exploring self-leadership, which I see so many men lacking.  So many men come to me feeling lost, stuck and hopeless; with all of those, I see a low capacity for self-leadership. Once that is cultivated, their lives radically change for the better.   ✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49 🔥What other men said after being on the programme: 👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me" 👉🏽 “The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn’t tapped into before” 👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself" 👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life" 👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want." The waitlist link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe   

This week you get something very different.  David has been the host of this podcast for 142 episodes (plus all the Mini Episodes), but this week it’s different.  The podcast has been hijacked by Tyson Adams to get deep into David's story, what it's like being in a relationship with him and what his relationship fears are.  Tyson Adams is a trauma-informed men's coach, somatic bodyworker and psychedelic facilitator. He's been on the show once before on episode 127, titled - Sex Transmutation, Mindful Masturbation, and Developing a Profound Connection to Yourself.   Key topics include:  ⭐️ Planning A Life Journey & Creating a Family ⭐️ My fears of Parenting & Having Children ⭐️ Commitment fears ⭐️ Being Present as a Father & Parent ⭐️ How we have made our anxious/avoidant relationship work ⭐️ How to Be a Better Partner ⭐️ Having Difficult and Open Conversations With Your Partner ⭐️ Men’s Coaching As a Journey of Self Awareness ⭐️ Why Men work creates better men ⭐️ How to make your Mixed Raced Relationship Work ⭐️ How to get to know your partners' culture ⭐️ Avoidant and Anxious Men - Patterns on The Dating Scene ⭐️ How Couples Coaching transforms your relationship   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Men's Programme WaitList: https://forms.gle/TiFR4KycgkNp5zC17  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe    Connect With Tyson Adams : Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tysonadams__  Website: https://www.thriive.life

In this week's, mini-episode I talk about something that underpins so much of the successful work I do with men around dating, relationships and intimacy, vulnerability.  Vulnerability is often seen as just sharing weakness, but it's much more than that. Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net    Up and Coming Workshops & Programmes 🧠 The Foundations of Conscious Relationships (FREE)- 19th July 7PM: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-foundation-of-a-conscious-relationship-tickets-368490875127    🥰 Enroll into The Relationships School - Asa & David's 8-Week Group Coaching Programme for Singles & Couples to learn the art of deeply connected and authentic relating in Sep-Oct. More Info here: https://www.asabaav.com/the-relationship-school/  

In this week's mini-episode, I explore something that often comes up in my coaching with men, do women want less sex? And if they don't what are men doing wrong.

In this week's mini-episode, I discuss the importance of designing your relationship how you want it to be and what you should consider when deciding how you want your relationship to be.

It's been a little while since I have done a mini-episode and the reason for that is that I have been away on a couple of retreats. One of which was ISTA level 1.    I had an amazing time and a profoundly life-changing experience, and I don't use those words lightly, I really don't.   This is me talking about my experience. It's important to note that I don't talk about the rituals, exercises or other people's experiences.   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net

In this week's topics, I quickly tackle an issue that was once one of my biggest dating fears, ending up in the wrong relationship.   I talk about the ways that I avoided bad and misaligned relationships.    

In this weeks mini-episode, I talk about the 4 types of sex that we have. Each varying in pleasure, connection, emotionally engagement and nurturing.    I talk about the types of sex that you don't want to me having in a relationship and how to experience the high levels of sex and why.

This weeks mini-episode inspired my own feelings and inquiry into not being good enough.   I ask the question, What if you aren't good enough?     What will happen? Can you be happy? Can you be successful? Who decides if you are good enough? What is good enough?   https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/   Ilan's Shaking Video: https://youtu.be/TO2cMBkZDms

This is a little practice that I use to stop disagreements, arguments and conflicts from even happening.  This is something you do, not just something you say.  This practice will stop you from having huge blowout arguments.  

This is a special one, I am answering a question from a listener question.    The question is "Can be authentic without coming across as needy and scaring a woman of."   Everything you need to know is in the episode.   Events: https://linktr.ee/theauthenticman

In this weeks mini-episode, I reveal my number one tip for having a happier and healthy dating life.    Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net