A Sugar Daddy recently got scammed, and unfortunately, it’s a common one. Find out how she set him up, and all the sad details in this Sugar Dating extra…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast    

The very popular Sugar Daddy guest Jay joins us again to discuss his latest Sugar Dating adventures. First Lilly gets us caught up with her 2-week Caribbean vacation trip with her Sugar Daddy / Boyfriend. Jay gives his thoughts of our big Thanksgiving weekend podcast party. He finds out that often when you’re Sugar Dating a foreigner, you date and support the entire family. It’s easy for them to become dependent on the financial support, but what happens when the well dries up? Later, Jay talks about his ease in finding women lately, which he attributes to the momentum he has created and his much-improved profile. All this and so much more!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast  

We talk punctuality, how important is it? Here’s a quick story of a Sugar Daddy who cancels the date with a Sugar Baby when she was only running 15 minutes behind! It’s important to be dependable and timely, but sometimes things happen. Just don’t make a habit of it.       Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com       Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy       Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

Lilly is still on vacation, so Bad Brad volunteered to be my co-host. We welcome Jen (who is a dead ringer for Jennifer Aniston), and we discuss her adventures as a new Sugar Baby. Apparently, I was the first Sugar Daddy she met on Seeking. We had a lot of fun as I took her to roll dice at the local casino. At 30 years old, she’s still trying to find herself sexually. A couple reached out to her, and she had never engaged in that lifestyle. She tried it and told us the details of what she learned. She also met a Sugar Daddy for dinner who immediately booked a trip for the two of them to Costa Rica! How did you think the trip went after only knowing him for a few days? This was a fun episode!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast  

Grigor, a huge fan of the show, had a frightening experience when he got an unsolicited Snapchat threatening him with a gun. He was arranging to meet a potential Sugar Baby, and thankfully he had taken precautions to protect his identity as a current or ex love interest of the Sugar Baby was not happy about this at all. We explore a few ways that you can stay safe in this crazy world of online dating.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

Erotic massage expert Lee Jagger joins us to discuss her amazing discoveries on how to please a man with her hands! After finding herself in a desperate financial situation, she reluctantly agreed to work at an erotic massage parlor. After 2000+ clients, which could be as many as 5-7 per day, Lee developed techniques that propelled her clients to full ecstasy. You’ll be shocked to hear what she can do with a soft penis, which she actually prefers over an erect one. Now she teaches her techniques to her students who become very confident in their skills which is very sexy. Surprisingly, she has named her special techniques after food. She’ll teach you how to throw in some variety to spice up the bedroom. And finally, she reveals what the most important thing is that she learned to please men in the bedroom! Listen up Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies, this might be our new favorite episode…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast   Find Lee Jagger’s coaching at www.rockthebedroom.com

In this segment, we explore a Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby breakup and explore how to move on. Even in the world of compensated dating, feelings can grow when the chemistry is strong. But as most relationships unfortunately end, how do you deal with the aftermath which can be quite painful? I had a similar situation and was able to find a path to a better life and a better version of myself which I will reveal in the end.

Kevin and Vivian take over this episode, and the stories get juicy! Vivian is moving to the east coast for a year, and we’re going to miss her. We reveal that Sugar Baby Alejandra is considering an experience outside of her comfort zone. I must leave the show early to catch a flight, so Kevin takes over and gives his recap of the party shenanigans. Was there a foursome Friday? We should actually call this episode “A Day in the Life of Kevin”. Did he really give Vivian control of his Seeking account? Then Kevin convinces Vivian to ride the Sybian sex machine! Podcast Fanboy and Kevin had a prior connection before the show existed, and we find out the shocking details.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

Clara, a European Sugar Baby, joins us in person as a guest of Podcast Fanboy. She had an interesting start to Sugar Dating when she initially searched for men looking for travel partners. That lead her to create a profile on a Sugar Dating site. Clara had a Sugar Daddy from Japan offer to fly her there, but she decided not to go. But she did fly to New York City to meet a Sugar Daddy and spent 2 weeks with him. Millionaires and Billionaires have reached out to her, and she’s discovered big differences on how they treat women for the most part. Finally, we explore her connection with Podcast Fanboy and get a peek into how they met and dated while he was in Europe.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast  

Amy and Alejandra (my Sugar Baby/Girlfriend) join us to talk about a BDSM experience gone horribly wrong! Alejandra met a Sugar Daddy who invited her to his house without giving her an idea of what he wanted to do with her. He only informed her that “the day has come” when he gave her directions to his place. After a quick tour, he asked her to submit to all his sexual demands, which she agreed. What happens going forward is revealed, and it’s a bit gut wrenching. Alejandra went into a sub-space to get through the ordeal she was experiencing. This Sugar Daddy actually builds and sells BDSM equipment which he had stored in a special room where he took Alejandra. He basically wouldn’t let her leave until he was satisfied. This was difficult to talk about, but Alejandra explained her experience the best she could, the good and the bad.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast  

Let’s end the year with some Sugar Dating stories, the good, the bad, and the shocking!!! We hear from a few Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies about some memorable Sugar Dating encounters you won’t want to miss!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

Maria Scaptura, who is now a professor at the University of Arkansas, talks to us about her PhD studies of Sugar Dating. Although she has never participated in the lifestyle, she found the subject intriguing. Originally, she was gaining knowledge from Reddit forums and then found our podcast. She found that men can use their money as a cheat code to get the attention of the women who wouldn’t ordinarily give them the time of day on other apps. Maria talked with Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies and even a Sugar Momma to find out what is behind the curtains of this lifestyle. She was a bit surprised on how willing people were to open up about this still taboo dating style. You’ll definitely want to find out about some of the surprising statistics and general observations that were derived from this study.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast          

Victoria from Utah flew down to party with the crew of Secrets of a Sugar Daddy. She had no idea what she was in for! Married at a young age, she felt the strict religious expectations were having a negative impact on her life. As a professional dancer, she wanted to be set free. Her first Sugar Daddy came from the wild, and she loved the travel and financial benefits that came from the lifestyle. Victoria actually started making enough money from Sugar Dating that she quit her job. She admitted that she’s bi-sexual and loves women along with older men. We get her impressions of everyone at the party and of course Kevin is quite different in person than most imagine. She revealed the secret of why women like to go fast as Kevin tickled her clitoris when he floored his Tesla. Amy joined us not only for the pre-party but also the concert, along with Kimmy who danced quite nicely on the party bus. At the end of the night though, Victoria finally passed out on the couch as the party continued without her. All this and so much more in this fun party wrap-up episode.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show and hear sneak peaks of episodes before the public, join www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

I’m joined today by a young, 5’4” Sugar Daddy who has no problem attracting the women! He was obese at a young age yet found a way to shed the pounds and now owns a successful weight loss company. His marriage was difficult as it took 2 weeks to have intercourse after the wedding day. He was so frustrated, Short King started seeing escorts. After his marriage failed, an escort recommended he turn to Sugar Dating as he desired more of a connection. There he quickly met someone who would become his fiancé. We chat about the party as he was a last-minute sponsor. Finally, we reveal a great way to find solutions to your relationship issues. So much gold is packed into this episode…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

When Sugar Dating online or any kind of dating, there is usually messages and texts involved before the initial meeting. Should a Sugar Baby send nudes to the potential Sugar Daddy to get him interested. Alejandra joins me to weigh in on this question, along with a few other forum members.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

Lana joins us to share a few crazy Sugar Dating stories. Does her roommate really have a Sugar Daddy as a slave? She actually found her first Sugar Daddy in the wild. We discuss our Sugar Dating podcast party and dispel the notion that it’s a swinger’s party. We both think sushi is a great dinner date when getting to know someone. Lana did meet a doctor online, and he resembled the character Thor. She then tells us about the worst Sugar Daddy date ever and finds out Alejandra had a similar experience with the same guy. When your date is rude to a server, do they instantly lose your respect? I’m still on Seeking despite being exclusive as I’m still introducing people to our show and our network. Finally, did Lana and Dale start to profess their love within the first few dates? Such a great episode, and you’ll definitely enjoy this one…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP member of the show and get to hear episodes before everyone else at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast    

Jazzy Jasmine, an aspiring Sugar Baby, has a lot of Sugar Dating questions about age, compensation, mentorship, business, sex, investing and so much more. This letter covers a lot of common Sugar Dating insecurities most go through when deciding to jump into the Sugar Bowl.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show and get a sneak peek at episodes before they are released www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

Carl and Isabel join us from Austin, Texas and share their crazy Sugar Dating stories. They went exclusive the day they met. He’s 47 and she’s 25, and now they are married! Carl met her whole family during a birthday celebration, and an uncle of Isabel was giving him a death stare. They share a shocking story where people thought Isabel was in trouble while out on a date with Carl. She admits she initially left him on read, but his persistence finally won her over. Once they were comfortable with each other, they started having fun in the swinging lifestyle. Later they share some public sexual encounters they participated in. Finally, Isabel talks about how she thought something was wrong with her because of her sexual desires, but now feels like a huge weight has been lifted from her. Such a fun interview with this married Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy couple.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast  

This special Extra Sugar was recorded during our Secrets of a Sugar Daddy party weekend, and I’m joined by Molly and Short King. We give step by step instructions to help Sugar Babies multiply the money they receive from Sugar Daddies. We later get personal with Molly and Short King about their interesting relationship. You’ll really enjoy the candid conversation we have about building wealth, structuring arrangements, and how Short King discovered dancing! All this and so much more… *Financial and tax strategies discussed in this episode should not be considered as professional or legal advice. These are just a few strategies implemented by some listeners of the show, and discussed accordingly, and may not be applicable in all states or countries.*   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

Podcast Fanboy joins us to discuss relationship and dating lessons he’s continuing to learn. We chat about a recent Sugar Baby situation that went south due to family pressures. Podcast Fanboy reveals his real reason to travel abroad as we all think he’s an undercover agent. Long distance relationships can be quite difficult, but how about trying an intercontinental relationship! He spills the tea on his latest European dating adventures. Finally, he reveals a shocking sugar dating story that made us all gasp! This and so much more on another fun episode with our biggest fan…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP member of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

The Secrets of a Sugar Daddy Party weekend has begun. Sofia from London flew in early and celebrated an American Thanksgiving with us. She is very excited to meet others in the Sugar Dating lifestyle. She briefly describes the London Sugar Dating scene. We also express our thanks along with my Sugar Baby Alejandra.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

Lilly and I get into a lot of fun discussions in this episode. First, we give an update on Kimmy and her billionaire boyfriend from Seeking. Is our Secrets of a Sugar Daddy party getting out of hand already? Lilly and I find out we’re too old to pull all-nighters. Lilly confesses she tried cocaine for the first time with a Sugar Daddy she met in the wild. She also thinks her daughter might be on to her Sugar Dating lifestyle. I once had a date who liked to tell everyone at the bar who would listen that Michelle Obama is a man, which made for a lot of interesting conversations. And finally, we get into a few listener letters which are always enjoyable to discuss.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Help support the show and become a VIP member at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

Milani joins us as a young Sugar Baby to talk about Sugar Dating and Networking. She met a doctor in the wild who became her first Sugar Daddy. Even though I’m exclusive, I’m still on Seeking doing “podcast research” and some profiles I chat with pass up great opportunities. One of the most crucial ways of networking your way to success is to simply ”Show Up”. Learning golf or mingling with country club members can also propel your opportunities. If you want your profile to get noticed, make sure you stay online as much as possible. Active profiles get the most attention. Ladies don’t be afraid to reach out to the busy men, you might be surprised where it can take you.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP member at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast  

Kevin and Vivian join us for an update on their workplace romance. Of course, Kevin has a new relationship analogy that involves trifolds. Have you ever had sex at the airport? Apparently Kevin has, and you’ll want to hear his story. The couple spends some time in Nashville, and it seems to be full of bridal parties. Does Vivian need to dress down at work? She seems to be distracting her business associates and Kevin loves it. Later we discuss how a Sugar Daddy got robbed of $50k after his Sugar Baby went to the restroom. And finally, what’s the latest with the sex swing in Kevin’s room?   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at https://patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast

My friend found out he’s getting a divorce after 30+ years. Now that he’s single and in his 50’s with quite a bit of wealth, I give him some advice on how to start Sugar Dating. It’s a crazy world out there, so you must be smart when dating online. We talk secondary numbers, how to video chat, what to say in your messages, and how to structure the Sugar.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Join our VIP club at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast  

Jay joins us from Colorado to share his Sugar Dating adventures. Even though he inherited his wealth at a young age, he’s taken care of it wisely. He discovered Sugar Dating during covid and it has been a game changer for him. He has more free time than normal people, so he loves spending it Sugar Dating. Can you fall in love with a Sugar Baby? Living a free life can be exhilarating but sharing that experience with someone is even better. In Sugar Dating, you don’t have to be completely compatible to enjoy dating. You’ll be surprised that Jay’s first Sugar Baby was a transgender female. Being a bit naïve, Jay did experience a few scammers. He admits he might give a bit too much too soon. Finally, he tells us about a sex club in Austria that he really enjoyed.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Join our exclusive club at https://patreon.com/SecretsofaSugarDaddyPodcast

Lilly takes over this segment with a lot of great profile advice. This applies to everyone, so take note. If you want to present yourself for Sugar Dating success, you should implement these strategies. Whether you’re a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby, you’ll definitely want to take notes.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP member and unlock exclusive content, perks and benefits https://patreon.com/SecretsofaSugarDaddyPodcast  

Kimmy flew in from California to get us caught up with her love life. The billionaire she met on Seeking during the Superbowl is now her boyfriend, but she’s torn. Kimmy reunited with her “husband” and sparks were flying. Is he really her Twin Flame? The she explains why she quit OnlyFans despite making 6 figures a month! Kimmy is torn between two lovers, and it’s a tough situation. Can you really get a download from the universe? Here this shocking story how a friend of hers became highly intelligent about physics instantly. Lilly voices concerns about the situation. Does the billionaire boyfriend really need someone to mother him? Kimmy went on a spiritual journey that has completely changed her focus. Finally, she teases us about her trip to Europe with Sugar Daddy Dr. Charles.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Support the show and get bonus VIP perks at https://patreon.com/SecretsofaSugarDaddyPodcast  

Nancy Shenker, from the Geezer-Proofer podcast, joins us to discuss how to find the ever-elusive Sugar Momma. There are different flavors of Sugar Mommas, and like Sugar Daddies, they have various needs also. Nancy has quite an accomplished working history and has written 9 books, and although she could qualify as a Sugar Momma, she prefers the traditional dating role. She’s now in her 60’s but not ready to be classified as an old geezer. Lilly admits that she is fighting the aging process the best way she can. We discuss how dating can be tricky at all ages, and we have a lot of fun talking about the lesser well-known subject of Sugar Mommas.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP of the show and join us at https://patreon.com/SecretsofaSugarDaddyPodcast     #SugarBaby #SugarDaddy #SugarDating #SugarMomma

One of our most popular guests, Sugar Daddy Dwayne, returns with more words of wisdom and crazy Sugar Dating Stories. Throughout a sequence of events that happened between shows, Dwayne suggests what a Sugar Baby can do better while participating in this lifestyle. He began chatting with a girl he met online who wanted her roommate to also join in the date. I then remember a sister duo who also were on the site who would prefer to date men together. There is some basic phone etiquette that has been lost over the years, and we discuss what could be improved. Since Sugar Dating involves financial compensation for the date, there is gold at the end of the rainbow. But when you annualize the ppm or weekly allowance, it makes a bigger impact. We find most women on the site unfortunately are fiscally irresponsible. But that doesn’t stop you from at least being reliable, which is also an uncommon trait unfortunately. Dwayne kept encountering red flags followed by green flags with this duo and it was quite confusing. But since he met them in person, he became vulnerable as they were definitely his type. But find out what happened when they pulled the “hourly rate” card on Dwayne, you’ll be a bit surprised…   Share your stories, questions, and thoughts at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

This Extra Sugar is dedicated to Ivana, not only a long-term Sugar Baby of mine, but also a good friend. Her life ended way too early.  I know we all struggle with various mental issues, so I wanted to talk about the mental health of Sugar Dating. It’s hard not to become envious of others who we often view as prettier, smarter, and sexier. We often hear of the exotic trips, lavish shopping trips, and big allowances that the Sugar Daddy is providing. But is this the norm? I think you’ll find real answers in this segment.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

I am joined by Podcast Fanboy and Katy, past guests of the show, to find out how their first weekend together turned out. After hearing Katy on the show, Podcast Fanboy reached out to see if they would be a good connection and arranged a fun holiday trip for her to his cabin. He has been in the Sugar Dating scene for about 4 years and Katy is still very new to the Sugar Baby lifestyle. But what does Podcast Fanboy think of her tattoos, and can that be something he’s comfortable with? We have an interesting question posed during the interview about the compatibility of people if they are too much alike in their beliefs and views. Should there be more differences to keep the couple interested in each other? And a common topic in this lifestyle is the jealousy issue. We explore what drives jealousy and how to cope with it while Sugar Dating. Allowance discussions come in all shapes and sizes, and we all seem to approach the subject in our own unique way. And finally, find out what happens when Podcast Fanboy tries to re-enact a porn sex scene in his kitchen!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2  

One of the most common questions in Sugar Dating is “What are you looking for?” These answers are all over the place, but there are definitely responses that get your noticed. When a Sugar Baby asks this, don’t state the obvious. Get specific in a tactful way. You’ll find some great Sugar Daddy responses in this episode that will help you navigate this sometimes-difficult question.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

Alaina joined us in studio during her work trip to Arizona. She loves being a submissive and has been in the Sugar Dating lifestyle for about 5 years. From Mexican-Puerto Rican roots, this beauty is 37 and quite a catch. She shares a few fun Sugar Dating stories about a Sugar Cub (a younger Sugar Daddy) and her Short King. She confesses she doesn’t mind dating married men. Finally, find out what happened when she didn’t get her PPM as promised and she sent the Sugar Daddy a Venmo request!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

A long-debated topic is whether there should be compensation for an initial meeting? There are a lot of factors involved, but you’ll hear a few varying opinions to a recent situation where a Sugar Baby bailed after requesting a gift. What are your thoughts?   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

Kevin and Vivian join us to update their workplace romance! Vivian is a busty blonde who works in a male dominated environment, which Kevin doesn’t mind at all. We find out that Kevin is granted a few “watermelons” each month, you’ll be shocked to hear how that works. Is he now introducing her as his girlfriend? They admit that they may be looking for a 3rd to join them soon. We explore the jealousy aspect and it doesn’t seem to be an issue yet. But are there advancement opportunities, and how lenient is Kevin with the performance review? Vivian does not plan on having children, so this relationship suits her well. And watch out Australia as they have plans to invade down under. This and so much more!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2   Take the Sugar Dating Survey at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/survey  

We explore this scenario that happens quite often. A Sugar Daddy buys a flight for a Sugar Baby. She cancels the flight for a “valid” reason. The flight credits are now in her name, and she uses them for personal travel that does not involve the Sugar Daddy. Should she pay him back, or is this considered a gift? You’ll hear various answers and my opinion on the matter. What do you think?   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us to see Pitbull, Enrique Iglesias and Ricky Martin at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2  

I’m not sure what Lilly and I were expecting, but this episode is jaw dropping as Kiylea joins us in the studio. She admits that she started Sugar Dating at age 17. And she still has her first Sugar Daddy from 13 years ago. Kiylea is a self-described bombshell with a big personality, and we have to agree! Lilly tried on a diamond ring so big that it almost left her speechless. Kiylea has been presented with 7 engagement rings. Her Sugar Dating has taken her to 13 countries and 27 states. She now helps other Sugar Babies with their profiles and coaching. She grew up poor and found this type of dating has benefited her financially and emotionally.  Kiylea has battled cancer 3 times, but she is currently in remission and quite healthy. Can you believe one Sugar Daddy sent her 150 dozen roses at one time? All this and so much more in this very fun episode.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2   Follow Kiylea at https://www.instagram.com/sugar_and_advice/

Lilly and Angie join us to dive deep into the mailbag, and it does get crazy! We find out one Sugar Daddy likes to get frisky in empty houses for sale. But what happens when there are cameras inside the house? One Sugar Baby has a gift giving dilemma. We explore various gift options for a Sugar Daddy. Another listener has a strange encounter with an arrogant Sugar Daddy, only to find out he has some wild fetishes. You’ll really enjoy this fun episode.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

We are joined by Todd, the host from The Laundry List Podcast, to share his life and dating experiences which include Sugar Dating. He tries to create peace, harmony, joy, and happiness. Todd feels he has lots of love to give, and loves talking about all aspects of relationships. When he found Sugar Dating, he felt like it was a new drug. Later he met his current wife through his uncle. Even though our bodies age, our minds often still feel very young. Later, we get an update on Kevin, Vivian, and Kimmy. Find out what a “watermelon” means to Kevin…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2   The Laundry List Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/5jMPuBt4rOWZMFb3SfI9m5?si=3e6ad57d44d74e33

Big announcements, we are now paying for 3 lucky winner’s airfares to come party with us. Follow the link below to enter. Also, next week look for 2 full episodes of Secrets of a Sugar Daddy! Have you ever taken a date or a Sugar Baby to see a comedy show?  I share 3 horrifying stories that happened while taking a date to a show.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

Manny joined us from Buenos Aires to share his experiences as an international Sugar Daddy. Can you believe he was a virgin until his thirties? His first sexual experience was accidentally life changing for both parties. Dating Sugar Babies in different countries and different languages has its challenges. Sometimes things get lost in translation. He’s finding that many women are eager to date an Experience Daddy. Manny now has experience dating Russian, Polish, South American and many other international women. They do not all have the same manners and expectations of the men they date. Find out some of his crazy Sugar Dating stories and much more in this international episode…   Share your questions, thoughts, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2  

Big announcement, Dr Charles has also committed to paying an airfare for a contest winner. So now 2 lucky entries will not only have a great 3 day 2 night vacation and concert in Phoenix, AZ, but their flights will be free! Also, we dive into some online sugar forums. Can you believe a Sugar Daddy opened a tab for someone at her favorite café? We explore the scenario of a Sugar Baby becoming a Sugar Momma. Finally, a 19-year-old has an interesting first date with a Sugar Daddy that ended on a sour note.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2  

Katy joins us from a small midwestern town to share her first few Sugar Dating encounters. She has never been a Sugar Baby, but decided to give it a try as a 46-year-old single mom with 3 children. She’s found that although she’s enjoying this type of dating, there are still men in this lifestyle who are pressuring her to be exclusive very quickly. What is she going to do with the concert tickets a Sugar Daddy gifted her after they parted ways? Lilly updates us briefly on Kimmy and reveals that she may have quit doing OnlyFans despite making six figures monthly! Katy is still confused on when and how to talk finances with a potential Sugar Daddy. She has found a very nice prospect that almost got away when someone else was managing her Sugar Dating account. She also has a big holiday weekend planned with Podcast Fanboy, and we’re anxious to hear how things went with the two of them. This is our longest episode yet, because there’s so much more in this revealing show.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2  

I share a funny story about my very first boss when I moved to Arizona. Also, the listeners have feedback on a recent dilemma I found myself in. And finally, did one of my seeking friends just get a 5 carat diamond ring?   Share your stories, questions, and thoughts at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

Lilly and I have so much to talk about in this episode. First of all, she’s sporting a beautiful new ring from her now exclusive Sugar Daddy. I then recap my Las Vegas trip to see Adele with my Sugar Baby. Lilly and her man did a little traveling also. These are perks of the sugar lifestyle. We also recap some of the Sugar Baby assistants that I’ve employed with mostly positive experiences. Now that we have triple digit episodes, where do you start when you want to binge listen? Amy has a superfan, and we read her letters to our audience along with some other great correspondence. Should you use a fake name along with a secondary number when online dating? Later, I discuss a true story of a friend hitting on Alejandra, despite knowing that she is dating me. What would be your course of action knowing this? And finally, the younger generation seems to deal with issues differently, and frankly, it’s a disturbing trend.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

Here’s a special Extra Sugar with Lilly as we read a few listener letters and reveal some shocking Sugar Baby stories in our contest submission form. You won’t believe some of the answers we received to our questions!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2  

  Lilly, Angie, and I have a fun conversation with Sugar Daddy Dwayne. Traditional dating was not working for him, and even though he’s not wealthy, he has enough disposable income to Sugar Date. Dwayne is hoping to find love eventually, and he tells us about how he thought he found his person. He describes how a submissive energy is almost spiritual. Angie reveals she’s actually more dominant with other women. We then start comparing Seeking to Secret Benefits and make our suggestions. Dwayne takes a look at Angie’s profile with some good critique. Finally, we get to hear a few juicy stories from Dwayne and unfortunately, he’s encountered his share of scammers. There’s a lot more to unpack in this fun episode…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

While my main Sugar Baby was traveling for the last 10 days, I decided to message a few girls on Seeking, hoping to meet for a few drinks and laughs. Since I started the podcast, I’ve decided that gifting even on a Meet and Greet should be encouraged. Well, I ran into a perplexing situation where I decided not to gift her at the end of the date. I want to hear your thoughts and opinions whether I should have given her the financial gift despite the shocking way things ended.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2  

Lilly joins me to talk about Sugar Daddies and Sugar Dating. We discuss our appearance on a popular sports podcast called Action Junkeez. Then, does the spicy Latina always get her way? We rehash Lilly’s short and awkward first meet and greet with Trucker, but now she has a lot of fun trips scheduled. I find one of our haters on Reddit, and I think she may have divulged a lot of personal information. Update on Ryan, a past guest, and he’s closed his sugar dating account. Later we read a few listener letters. One gentleman is so obsessed with his Sugar Baby that he’s driving her away. I reveal a sneaky way to get her full name when compensating your Sugar Baby. And Lilly hears from the cuddler again. Did she take his offer to cuddle for $100 per hour? Find out and much more…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

If you’ve been single long enough and trying to date, inevitably you’ll come across daters who are still quite immature and rude. Lilly and I discuss such an incident in an upcoming episode, so you’ll get a sneak peek in this segment of Extra Sugar.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

Angie and Vivian join us for a fun-filled episode that goes off the rails! Sometimes politics plays a role in dating, so we briefly discuss how to navigate this sometimes-touchy subject. We find out that Sugar Daddy Kevin and Sugar Baby Vivian are now exclusive. Vivian and Angie made an interesting trade, but who got the best deal? The girls find out they were in the same religious cult many years ago. We re-live the fun and crazy story of how Vivian met all of us. Then we discuss how Vivian fell for Kevin! Does Angie really keep stealing our girls? And of course, we find ourselves discussing 3-somes when Angie is around. Finally, we touch on jealousy in an exclusive relationship while Sugar Dating.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

I fell into “her” trap in 2020 and I see that this Sugar Baby is still online in 2023, using the same photos and the same sad story. This one is a little different than the others, so take note! Don’t ignore the many red flags because the photos are gorgeous, and you want to come to the rescue.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2  

We are joined by Rachel Uchitel and Kelli Brink to talk about her podcast and Sugar Dating! After a well-documented scandal, Rachel found herself in the world spotlight. But what does the world really know about her except what’s in the news? She found herself on Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew after turning down Donald Trump’s Apprentice. Her podcast producer Kelli is trying to find a marriage partner, and Rachel helped set up her dating profiles on various dating apps. They reveal the key for a man to get her attention. Rachel then tells us how she became a spokesperson for Seeking.com. What site did Kelli meet a gentleman who flew his private plane to pick her up for a date? You’ll find out. Rachel is a self-described shredder, but she also describes the qualities of a man that will make her melt. We briefly discuss how politics can play a part in finding a partner. And can a former teacher really make over $1 million on Only Fans in a year? Find out this and so much more!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2   Find Rachel Uchitel at www.instagram.com/racheluchitelnyc   Find Kelli Brink at www.instagram.com/kellibrink or email her at gettingmarried@missunderstoodpodcast.com  

Here is a BONUS Extra Sugar! Our interview with the host of Miss Understood with Rachel Uchitel and her producer Kelli Brink went for about an hour, but here are a few clips to get you started. You’ll definitely want to catch the full episode as we had so much fun!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2   Find Rachel Uchitel at www.instagram.com/racheluchitelnyc   Kelli Brink at www.instagram.com/kellibrink

In preparation for our newest episode #103, here is a little behind the scenes chit chat with the host of Miss Understood with Rachel Uchitel and her producer Kelli Brink. Even though we ended the show, the record button was still on and we got into some interesting discussions. Be sure to catch the full episode on Tuesday.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2   Find Rachel Uchitel at www.instagram.com/racheluchitelnyc   Find Kelli Brink at www.instagram.com/kellibrink or email her at gettingmarried@missunderstoodpodcast.com

Mel joins us from her residence in London to discuss the dating mindset. From her past life experiences, including Sugar Dating, Mel has now made it her mission to help people get into the right life and dating mindset. As a self-described pansexual, she has experienced the good and bad in relationships, which has taught her many valuable lessons. These lessons are the foundation of her coaching. Her partner suggested Sugar Dating, and Mel dove in. Even though many of the arrangements didn’t work out, she received some very valuable mentorship. We talk about the laws of manifestation and how the better you see yourself, the better it works. So many nuggets of great information in this episode…   Share your stories, questions, and thoughts at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2   Find Mel on Instagram at www.instagram.com/healographic or https://healographic.com/

In this Extra Sugar, we explore a few different Sugar Daddy Scams, how they work, and how to avoid them. That easy money that seems too good to be true should raise many red flags, so proceed with caution. Don’t fall into the trap that these scammers set.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

We finally get to hear all about Lilly’s fabulous European vacation with Podcast Fanboy. This was the first trip together, and it was a big one. She got to meet lots of family while overseas. You’ll be surprised to discover her favorite city she visited. But did her other Sugar Daddy do a little revenge Sugar Dating while she was gone? Are men as chivalrous as they used to be? Lilly reveals that she is cutting back on Sugar Dating for now. But while actively Sugar Dating, we discuss the key to getting new messages. Lilly finally responded to Robot Chicken and you’ll want to hear about that! There are lots of age-gap couples, and it seems to be more accepted. Finally, find out what happened when Lilly and I help out a desperate Sugar Baby. Things might not have gone well…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2  

In this segment, we talk about important boundaries you should implement into your Sugar Dating life, to keep you safe and happy.   Share your stories, questions, and thoughts at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

I’m joined by a couple of superfans, Podcast Fanboy and Alejandra. PF for short, just got back from a European vacation with Lilly, and we get to hear all about it. He made the connection with Lilly after hearing on the podcast that her current relationship was crumbling. He reveals his secret to planning such a complicated trip. Did I really get mistaken for being the dad of my sugar baby? Then PF reveals how he avoided some college party traps, which helped him excel in his career. He also reveals that he is hopeless romantic. His marriage record has been quite dismal though, so he’s changed his tune towards relationships. Find out what happened when he discovered he was attracted to his sugar baby’s friend. Now he actually enjoys smoking out scammers using some facial recognition software. All this and so much more…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

Many people are traveling this time of year, and it can be exciting, rewarding, and quite memorable. We explore the steps you should take to travel with your Sugar partner. Hopefully by following these recommendations, you’ll have an amazing experience, and your trips will be successful.   Share your stories, thoughts, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Come party with us www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Vivian and Kevin join me to chat about crossing the line! But lo and behold, Kimmy walked into the show for some updates. Has she really lost 25 pounds? We find out that Kevin’s beard worked its magic on seducing Vivian. Her ex has been back in the Sugar Dating world, and we read a few shocking stories. Kimmy then tells us how her trip to Dallas went after an ex-gf broke into the guy’s house where she was staying. This situation set off a now hilarious chain of events when Kimmy misses her flight and then Ubers to the wrong airport! Kimmy then finds herself back in the arms of a billionaire she met during the Super Bowl in Arizona. But is Kimmy really a lesbian? Finally, Vivian has some advice about dating men over 50 years old, and you’ll want to take note. All this and more craziness…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

Find out what happened when my Sugar Baby Alejandra and I went shopping for her new car at a few dealerships this past weekend. We walked out with a beauty, but it can be a frustrating and exhausting experience. I give you some tricks of the trade to get the best price and how to avoid overpriced dealer traps.   Share your stories, questions, and thoughts at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Come party with us November 25th 2023, here are the details.  https://www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

I make an exciting announcement in this episode, and you’ll want to hear this! We explore a couple of listener letters, and how one Sugar Daddy was the target of an extortion plot. He dismissed his first red flag when the login location of the Sugar Baby said Mexico. He details some of the mistakes he made in his profile which made him a prime target. Next, we find out that a Sugar Baby is getting the royal treatment despite not being intimate with her Sugar Daddy. Later I detail my failed marriage and how I ended up a Sugar Daddy. What happens when you develop feelings for your Sugar Baby and you’re in an open relationship? It’s important to discuss and agree upon how much detail each other is willing and needing to share about the other partners.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Sign up for a chance to win a fabulous party package https://www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2

I read 2 listener letters, one from a recent Sugar Daddy guest, Porter. After recording his interview in Episode 97, he wrote me a letter to detail one of the craziest Sugar Dating experiences he could imagine that we did not cover. You’ll definitely want to hear this one. Then we hear from another Sugar Daddy who can totally relate to the Sugar Dating experiences we discuss.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Sugar Daddy Porter joins me to share his interesting Sugar Dating stories. He stumbled into the lifestyle out of necessity. His wife stopped intimacy after the kids were born, leaving Porter in a tricky situation. Getting a girlfriend for sex was originally her idea. Find out what happened when Porter met an exotic beauty who didn’t fit his criteria. Their arrangement lasted about 3.5 years! There are challenges that come when you and your sugar partner admit love for one another. Does it change the relationship for better or for worse? Porter’s wife found out he was dating behind her back when she opened his credit card bill. After a year of counseling, the wife agreed to partake in a threesome. What happens though when your kids suspect you have sexual interests outside of the marriage? All this and more interesting situations Porter found himself involved with while Sugar Dating.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Taking a close look at the statistics, Sugar Dating is more popular than ever. But is that driving down the allowances and financial benefits that a Sugar Baby used to enjoy? You’ll be shocked to see the trending income and age of a modern Sugar Daddy.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Kevin, Kimmy, Vivian and I discuss our current Sugar Dating adventures. We had a very interesting Memorial Day weekend. Kimmy loved the jello shots. She updates us on her billionaire Sugar Daddy. Can you ever re-negotiate an allowance? Find out Kevin’s new formula for determining a PPM. Kevin and Vivian had an interesting conversation at an airport bar. We also figure out why Kevin has gotten lots of Sugar Baby messages lately. I tried regular dating again this week; find out how it compares to Sugar Dating. Did Kimmy really create OnlyFans content on the yacht? Vivian let us know that she’s leaving her original Sugar Daddy. Later Kimmy reveals she has finally produced over $100k in a month on OF. And finally, one fan gave up on Kimmy when he was so close to a response. This episode is packed with lots of great stories and so much more…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

You’ll want to take notes on this one, here are some valuable lessons learned from a new Sugar Baby. Everything from creating your profile, talking money, how to communicate with a Sugar Daddy, and avoiding scammers. We cover it all in this segment.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Can you really find a Sugar Daddy worth over a billion dollars? Absolutely, and they are quite a different breed of men. But first, Lilly gets us caught up on her Sugar Dating activities. Not only is she about to go on a lavish European vacation, but her Sugar Daddy is more than doubling her lost wages! Lilly finds out that another Sugar Daddy is catching feelings for her. Did my main Sugar Baby get back on the dating sites? You must protect your heart when Sugar Dating, and there are risks while involved in an open relationship. A past guest told us about a Sugar Daddy that messaged her who knows her dad in another state. And even crazier is Lilly was approached by the same gentleman and has a crazy story about him. Then we explore an article about dating billionaires. Is it the life for you? It may be more difficult than you would think. Many times they are eccentric, entitled, and delusional according to Lilly! All this and so much more…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Alexa sent an email to the show, and wow, it got spicy. She’s an older Sugar Baby who is rediscovering herself after her marriage ended. Find out what happened when a Tinder date introduced her to a threesome. Then she found a couple on Seeking, and things got wild. This Sugar Daddy made her squirt for the first time, and she discovered a pleasure she’d never felt before.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Lilly and I get caught up as it’s just the two of us. She tells us all about her first meet at a library. Does she really have murderer thumbs? Then we get to find out what happened with her “booger guy” date. Just because a Sugar Daddy is very wealthy doesn’t mean they are always generous. He wanted to direct her every move. Find out what happened what he told her while they were trying to sleep for the night. Then she meets someone who wants a Sugar Baby travel companion and is very generous! We revisit her marriage to find out why that didn’t last. Later we share some great tips on how to date safely. Are you doing a little harmless sleuthing about your potential date? You definitely should. Always meet your first date in a public place. Finally, listen to your gut, it’s trying to warn you. All this and so much more…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Just because a Sugar Daddy might have the money, prestige and power that makes him attractive, that doesn’t mean he can throw the dating etiquette out the window, even if she’s just a Sugar Baby. In this segment we explore 7 common mistakes that Sugar Daddies can make and give solutions on how to avoid these mistakes.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy    

Kevin and Lilly join me for an expanded look into the financial aspects of sugar dating. First, we get caught up on our recent sugar dating adventures. Lilly went shopping for the George Strait concert and one of her Sugar Daddies bought her some very nice boots. Then he bought her an expensive bicycle. We then dive into a listener letter who thinks we are not doing the sugar baby world any favors by talking about allowances. Kevin thinks there might be a correlation to the price of a steak. But supply and demand drive the market which is economics 101. Kevin has a theory why the sugar baby sites have users that can’t use former websites to get customers. You must bring your best now that the supply has increased. Guys want the most for the least, and so do the women! Lilly does find that most men are still very chivalrous. Don’t have a scarcity attitude when dating, and you’ll find the attitudes of the women will change. Finally, Kevin reveals how he challenges a woman to prove him wrong to get his way sexually. All this and so much more…   Share your stories, questions, and thoughts at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

In this segment, we explore the good and bad aspects of Sugar Dating, and why it can make a return to traditional dating quite difficult. We hear about a few Sugar Baby relationships that became somewhat challenging when there were no financial components involved. Dating a Sugar Daddy and dating traditionally can be distinctly different on the emotional side. But there are aspects of Sugar Dating that one can actually bring with them to positively enhance their traditional dating efforts.   Share your stories, questions, and thoughts at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Christian flew down to tell us his sugar dating stories in person. He discovered sugar dating while reading a magazine on an airplane. Do many women confuse generous with stupid? Find out if his Diamond Member status is worth it. Can you sugar date and look for a deep, emotional connection? You’ll be surprised that many men appreciate when a Sugar Baby plans the date. What is your response when someone asks how you met? Find out how woman who are on multiple dating apps change their tune when you match with them on a sugar dating site. We discuss the much talked about subject of PPM vs Allowance. How do you show up to an initial meet and greet and should you pay for a meet and greet? Find out all this and more!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

In this segment, you’ll hear 20 Sugar Daddy confessions written on the Whisper app. Should you give a Sugar Baby a credit card? How do you juggle more than one Sugar Baby? Do feelings get involved? All this and much more…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Kimmy is leaving for the summer, so we gathered a full house to say goodbye. Someone brought a bell to keep us on track, but did it work? Kevin is always stirring up drama. Then we find out one of our earlier guest hosts had a short fling with one of Lilly’s current Sugar Daddies. Somehow, the size of Kevin’s package gets brought into the conversation. And of course, he’s ready with another interesting analogy.  Can a Sugar Daddy get Dad zoned? Vivian reveals that she took a job as Kevin’s assistant. We review the one-year anniversary of Kimmy’s nose job. Kimmy found herself in an interesting situation when she ran into a Sugar Daddy while out with a different guy. Did a Sugar Daddy really use the “L” word on her? All this and much more on another crazy episode.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

In this segment, we talk sugar! How much do Sugar Babies actually make per meet or per month? What is the best structure and why? You’ll find the financial contribution can vary for many different reasons. I touch on the definition of the dreaded Salt Daddies or Splenda Daddies. Does the allowance vary much between a platonic arrangement and a sexual arrangement? You’ll find all the answers to these questions and much more in this segment.   Share your stories, thoughts, and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Lexy, a Sugar Baby with an interesting and tragic story, joins us in this sobering episode. She joined the Navy to get away from her parents and was drugged and raped by her superior on the first night! Her first Sugar Daddy was a regular at a bar who introduced her to the lifestyle. Lexy and I met at a sushi restaurant and had saki bombers the first night which was a lot of fun. She has been on the site for almost 2 years and maintains a platonic relationship with the men she meets who do compensate her nicely. Lexy shares a funny Sugar Dating story where she played the role of a girlfriend and was introduced to his mother. We then get into a discussion of great concerts and the outrageous price of tickets these days. Lexy explains how she discusses the allowance part, which she learned from listening to the podcast. We find out she loves to salsa dance and that is her therapy. Finally, Lilly reveals a shocking request from a potential Sugar Daddy.   Share your stories, comments, and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

In this segment, we share 5 Sugar Baby stories that didn’t go as planned. Sugar Dating can be a great way to meet successful, wealthy men, but it can also result in a few bad experiences. All these girls learned valuable lessons, so take note of their stories. You may find yourself in a similar situation, and hopefully you’ll be able to navigate it with the knowledge provided here.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Vivian joins Kevin and Lilly to give us an update to her Sugar Dating. She went to Hawaii twice in a month for very different reasons. Find out how she made it very special for her Sugar Daddy. But is she still active on a sugar dating site? We get an update on Kevin’s beard and Vivian approves. Vivian tells us about her special polygraph moment where she believes men are the most truthful. Should you use the phrase “good girl” on your Sugar Baby? I then give an update on my trip to San Diego with my Sugar Baby to hang out with a guest of the show and his two Sugar Babies! We discuss the swinger lifestyle and a fun discussion about threesomes. Lilly accidentally met a guy for a second date while not realizing it was someone she had already met and wasn’t interested in seeing again. Find out how that turned out. Finally, Kevin is experimenting with ChatGPT to help him build the perfect online dating profile.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

In this segment, I give you 5 very common mistakes that Sugar Babies make when looking for a potential Sugar Daddy. I also give you advice on how to avoid these mistakes. Your time is valuable, so make the most of it.   Share your stories, questions, and thoughts at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Kevin joins the gang to celebrate his birthday along with Lilly. We find out they are the same age and born 2 days apart. Kimmy shares some fun stories about her work trip to Hawaii with Kevin and Vivian. We revisit more stories from the Taylor Swift concert. Did Kimmy really try to get Vitamin D through her anus? We hear a story about a very expensive Jeep rental in Hawaii. Lilly gives us a report as she is trying several sugar dating sites. One first date wanted her to go on a 3 mile walk to the restaurant. Is Kevin in the muffin buying business? We then talk about the sexual pull an average girl has versus a male celebrity. Patience is very important when developing a relationship. What is the real reason Kevin is growing a beard? Kevin would rather buy the gold than waste time digging for it. Finally, Kimmy throws down an epic rap that Kevin wrote for her birthday. All this and so much more…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Sugar Dating is often associated with prostitution, but one of those by most state laws is illegal. What makes Sugar Dating different than prostitution? Can you be charged with a crime for Sugar Dating? I explore a few articles, one written by a law firm, to determine and clarify the legal differences to this type of dating.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy    

Another fantastic birthday show featuring my personal Sugar Baby Alejandra. But first, Lilly talks about her new Sugar Daddy affectionally nicknamed Podcast Fanboy. We double dated for our birthdays at a top 5 restaurant in the nation! Alejandra rewards me for treating her so well. She’s new to sugar dating and it was initially a bit overwhelming. She listened to our podcast and learned why she needs a secondary number. Lots of men want to meet during the day which made it difficult as she has a normal hour job. What happened when her boss found her on a sugar dating site? She basically signed up out of curiosity, but she made it clear she’s not looking for anything serious. But what happens when feelings get involved? She found out that many guys want to move quickly into a relationship. Then we talk about our open relationship and the difficulties and challenges around that. But one guy she met on Hinge found a way to her mom’s heart. We also reveal how our allowance works and why it’s structured that way. Finally, I reveal why giving her freedom to date others has brought us closer together.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

In this segment of Extra Sugar, we get candid responses from 16 sugar babies who tell it like it is. You’ll find some had over-the-top amazing experiences, while others came away a bit jaded from their experiences. Is the lifestyle for everyone? Some find it perfectly suited for their situation, others find the Sugar Daddies to be a bit aggressive.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Dave, a Sugar Daddy from the southwest, joins us to share some outrageous stories. First, Lilly tells us why she canceled her Taylor Swift concert date with a Sugar Daddy. Dave had no idea what sugar dating would bring after being married for over 20 years. Fortunately, he found our podcast which saved him thousands of dollars. He is a very generous Sugar Daddy, often giving allowances of $2k per day. Find out what happened though when he caught his Sugar Baby in a committed relationship. Then I share a story how one of my Sugar Babies died and magically came back to life after I donated to her funeral expenses! Then Dave must hire a lawyer to draft up paperwork for a Sugar Baby to sign so she would stop harassing him for money. Later find out what happened when Dave was in bed with a Sugar Baby who admitted she stabbed her ex-boyfriend. Should you always gift a girl for an initial meeting? Dave tells us of scam where the police call him because he was texting an underage girl. Finally, a clever and convincing Sugar Baby from Canada, who scammed me personally 5 years earlier for around $5k in gifts and jewelry from a local fashion mall, tried the same scam on Dave! Fortunately, he had listened to my story and her devious intentions took an unexpected turn.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy Scammer photos  https://valeriebodmer.blogspot.com/2018/04/beware-of-professional-scam-artist-that.html

A new relationship can be thrilling, passionate, exciting and bring on feelings of exhilaration, but you need to slow down and learn the art of patience if you want that relationship to grow and survive. Humans naturally want to rush into something that feels right, something that makes them feel on top of the world. Only to see it come crashing down, to see it turn into the unexpected. Patience is not a popular subject, but arguably one of the most important attributes of building a solid relationship and deepening the foundation of your love. I detail 15 proven ways to build your patience not only with your partner, but for your non-romantic encounters also.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

  Former Sugar Daddy guest Jack and Canela join us to discuss her journey into sugar dating. Canela is from the Caribbean and quite exotic. She messaged Jack because of his vibe video, so yes, those work. She reveals she worked at a few brothels in Nevada. Girls there can make over $200k per year. Then she left and started sugar dating and had a 2-year arrangement of $5k per month. But the arrangement soured when Canela decided to date others. The shocking part is that she still lives in her Sugar Daddy’s house. Is variety really the spice of life while dating? We then discuss how a Sugar Baby is initially playing a role. Canela admits that she took a customer from the brother and made him into a Sugar Daddy. We find out she was published in Hustler Magazine 4 times. Has she ever been in love? Later we get into her tough upbringing through foster care and molestation. Finally, we discuss Sugar Daddy fetishes that are more common than people think.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

So, you found a live one, and she’s possibly the perfect woman. But then you receive a message from her that she only wants to be friends! Do you accept the friend-zone or do you walk away? What happens if you walk away, will she ever reach out again? I relay a true story about my recent experience, and you’ll be surprised on how it turned out.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Charli Phoenix, a self-proclaimed MILF in the porn industry, joins us to discuss her newfound love of sugar dating. She was always quite sexual, and transitioned into porn during covid after someone discovered her OnlyFans page. She reveals that she loves group sex and is quite the exhibitionist. But what does she love about Sugar Dating? Then she talks about her specialty which is squirting and demonstrates how to make any woman explode like a fountain. Charli sometimes likes to recharge herself with self-pleasure. Does she really look like Marilyn Monroe? Check her out on Pornhub to find out. But you might be surprised, she’s actually loyal to a fault. We discuss open relationships and how to make them work. Kimmy discovered that the allowance doesn’t seem to change even when the men are ultra wealthy. Find out what happened with Kimmy during Super Bowl week. Surprisingly, neither talk allowance ahead of time. And in the end, it still takes time, patience and communication to build a relationship with your Sugar Partner.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

The letters have been piling up, so I read a few from both sides of the Sugar Bowl. Christian brings up some important topics that are basic to Sugar Dating.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us in Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Jennifer joins us for a quite shocking interview. But first, we get a quick update from Lilly as she’s back on the market. She is exploring other sugar dating sites. Jennifer signed up for sugar dating on her 18th birthday and her first Sugar Daddy was in his sixties. She tells us about his sex room and the shenanigans that took place there. Does dating older men make her feel alive? She loves older men because they enjoy pleasuring a woman. Was her mom a sex drug dealer? Jennifer also talks about an amazing trip one Sugar Daddy provided her for a weekend. She also shares that her traditional relationship partner was addicted to porn. Can you ever go back to traditional dating after sugar dating? Lilly then shares more info on her recent breakup and that he claimed she was hypersexual. We also discuss that it seems wealthy men are severely lacking the skills required for dating. Does Jennifer really enjoy the dick pics? She tells us about her sex toy bag she takes with her on all her dates. And finally, we hear a crazy story about the time she took on 3 men at once!!!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardad

Here are some shocking and eye-opening confessionals from Sugar Babies. Some find the lifestyle amazing; some find it rewarding, and others regret their experiences. Not all Sugar Daddies are equal, and every experience is unique.   Share your sugar dating stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

I’ve got my hands full with Kimmy, Lilly, and Vivian in this very fun episode. We get an update on the girls’ trip to Mexico. Did Kimmy really dance for the border guard? We share stories of our trip to the local strip club. I also took the gang to the Phoenix Open and it got wild. Vivian gives us an update on her Sugar Daddy romance. Did Kimmy have an orgasm while riding bareback in Mexico? Then we find out Lilly and her Sugar Daddy ended things. Did she give the $10k ring back? Find out what kind of photos men share online that the girls DO NOT want to see! I think you’ll be surprised. They also share what kind of messages get their interest. Are you boring on the first date? And find out why Kimmy is done with free meet and greets. You’ll enjoy these many stories and inside information on yet another epic episode.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Are you uncomfortable talking about the allowance with your Sugar Daddy? Here are 6 tips that will help you with everything from determining the amount of allowance to ask, how to deliver the number, and how to practice being confident. You can do these ladies; just follow this advice and you’ll be on your way to an allowance both of you can live with.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Sugar Daddy Bruce joins us for another interesting episode of great stories. Are men just overgrown boys? Girls definitely bring the boys out of the men! We all reminisce about our quite memorable first kisses. And we give examples of how just one decision can completely change the direction of your life! I give some networking and wealth secrets and how it’s worked for me. Then, we discuss great dating ideas and how to make your Sugar Baby think about you all the time. We all have stories of leaving someone behind because the date was not going well. Finally, Lilly reads some texts that do not work, and we discuss a married sugar baby listener letter. All this and much more in another fun episode about sugar dating.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Often, a Sugar Daddy will find himself falling in love with a Sugar Baby. I mean, she’s offering him all the best parts of a relationship without the pressures of a relationship. No drama, great sex, fun dates, mesmerizing beauty, intriguing conversation and more…So of course he’s going to think he’s in love! There are 3 ways you as a Sugar Baby can deal with your smitten Sugar Daddy. You can give him a reality check reminder, you can let him down gently, or you can ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after. Find out which one is right for your situation.   Share your stories, questions and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Credit: sugardating101

Ryan jumped online and found almost instant success with Vivian. They both join me for Kimmy’s Birthday show, part 2! Does he have a checkered past though? His wife had an affair while he was away, and you’ll want to hear the rest of this story. The girls are still talking about the strip clubs and their new obsession. Ryan tells us about a lunch date that went horribly wrong. Also, did he really get offered a hummer on his first date? I share a story about one of my first dates and it gets juicy, literally! Kimmy had a wet dream and was shocked. Ryan also fell for a couple of scams, and he explains how that happened. Find out how Kimmy got scammed out of $12k by a guy she had sex with. You’ll want to hear my story of how I spent $20k defending a lawsuit that originally started over a request for $200 from a renter. Vivian learns how to please Ryan by watching homemade movies on his phone. We then give many reasons why you should do research about your dates. But also keep that information to yourself. It’s vital you don’t rush into a relationship, and we teach you how to take the pressure off to let it build naturally. All this and much more in another crazy episode… Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy    

Buckle up for another crazy episode as we celebrate Kimmy’s 22nd birthday! Does she have a new obsession with strippers? Then I get an interesting call during the show from a Sugar Baby stranded in a foreign country! Vivian and Kimmy recount a hilarious story of getting caught in the act. Find out what happened when Kimmy offered her love interest a sexy stripper inspired dance. He might be a serial killer as he has a dead body count of over 272! Does this frighten Kimmy or actually make her wet with excitement? Then Amy starts talking BDSM and the girls have questions. The girls reveal they are going to Mexico to celebrate Kimmy’s birthday. Special guest Vivian updates us on her Sugar Daddy boyfriend experience. Can you really be that open and honest in a relationship? Finally, Kimmy is back on Seeking and her allowance expectations are confusing. These stories and much more on yet another outrageous episode.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Tyler, a Sugar Daddy from Atlanta, flew in to join us this week. Lilly and Kimmy also join in on the fun since our show has become a soap opera! Tyler has been in this lifestyle a long time, and even got caught up in the Ashley Madison dating site hacker breach. He studies profiles better than most and has become an expert in the field. Did Tyler really get stood up on the first date? He tells us what the most catfish thing women do. Then Tyler shares a juice suggestion that helps with Erectile Disfunction. Are you Sugar Babies still posting bathroom mirror selfies with cluttered countertops? Tyler used to write articles and answer questions for a site called Let’s Talk Sugar. He reveals what are the top 5 best Sugar Baby cities in the US. Have you been rinsed and what does that even mean? There is a difference between a Sugar Daddy and a generous boyfriend. Is it true that the more money he makes, the more peculiar he gets? We also explain the difference between a prostitute and a Sugar Baby. Finally, Lilly updates us on her wealthy Sugar Daddy and some of the current issues. This and much more!   Share your stories, comments and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

We interview a fairly new Sugar Daddy, and this might be one of my favorite episodes so far! Kimmy and Lilly also join us and the party gets started quickly. Did Bruce really make a porn movie with his online date? Then he reveals he is relationship oriented, which adds a challenge to sugar dating. But he explains he has adjusted from being a Splenda Daddy to a Sugar Daddy. He tells us about a porn star that he met online who had 7 squirting orgasms! Big News – Kimmy found out she’s a squirter also! She just figured out how to print money with this new found talent. Later we talk about dating younger women who are less than half our age. Is there inspiration to be had from someone so young? One of us reveals details of having sex on a plane! Finally Kimmy tells us about lot lizards and her 400 pound friend that she has been offering to men who want to date her. These stories and much, much more in this most entertaining episode…   Share your dating stories, questions or comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

The gang is back for a new year and we’ve got stories! Find out how big a check Lilly got from her Sugar Daddy. Then Kevin gets us caught up about his 5 day trip with a sugar baby. Did it go well? Does Kimmy really have a crush on Andrew Tate? You’ll be surprised on what Kimmy and I did for New Year’s Eve. This will be the year of work Kimmy, not fun Kimmy! And does a 21 year old really need an assistant? Kimmy reveals how she got the ick from her original crush. Has any of us become monogamous? You’ll be shocked at the answers. But what about the money to morality ratio? Later, Kimmy gets into some deep conspiracy thoughts. Finally, why you should not go through a love interest’s phone! All this and so much more on another quite entertaining episode about sugar dating. Share your stories, questions and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Pete, a Sugar Daddy from Colorado, joins me and Kimmy to share his sugar dating experiences. Is marriage just a business agreement? Pete is a typical male and finds himself falling in love easily. But he appreciates the up front honesty of sugar dating. Did I really get suspended from Seeking? We talk about the dangers of gifting before meeting. Then Kimmy gets hit in the face with a huge tax liability. Welcome to being an adult! Did Kimmy really meet a doctor on the beach? Men fear of getting replaced which causes them to act foolishly at times. And did the leasing agents from Kimmy’s apartment complex really start hitting on her crush? Find out this and much more…   Share your dating stories, questions and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

My original co-host joins us to celebrate her birthday and the bubbly is flowing! Even though Amy is now 33, she just got braces and she looks adorable. Of course, Kimmy brings the bubbly and the girls partake. We are also celebrating that Amy is halfway done with her degree. Then, you’ll hear a shocking first date story where Amy gets left at the bar after he flies her there in his private plane! Did Kimmy really get turned on when she was flashed by someone who had Triple D boobs? Kimmy is starting to question her sexuality preferences! Also, Kimmy’s main crush just moved into her apartment complex, so you’ll want to hear an update on that development. She admits that she is an attention whore and a flirt. Lilly gives us an update on their trip to San Diego and why her boyfriend/fiancé got upset. Did Kimmy really talk to God when she was stoned? She sure thinks so. Finally, the girls exchange gifts and we wrap up another great birthday/Christmas show.   Share your stories, questions and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy    

Kimmy Seltzer, a popular dating coach with a hit podcast called the Charisma Quotient, joins me and the sugar baby gang for a lot of fun! Of course, we talk about how us men are using wealth to attract women, but agree that being wealthy only goes so far. Kimmy S. tells us how her move to California shattered her life and how she recovered from the devastation. She discusses her “red dress” moment, and I think many can relate. Her coaching and therapy sessions focus on working from the outside in. Then we have an interesting discussion about online dating and how to interact and meet people in person. It’s important to practice and build the social muscle. What happens when I reveal my fear of approaching random women in a bar setting? No one likes rejection, except for Kimmy Dae lol. Lilly then reveals how she got recently rejected and surprisingly how it impressed another patron at the bar. Finally, maybe an ice breaker is to tell someone you’re on a scavenger hunt so the interaction feels less awkward.   Share your sugar dating stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Find Kimmy Seltzer at www.kimmyseltzer.com

My co-hosts Lilly and Kimmy join me to discuss a wide range of interesting sugar dating topics. But is Kimmy not dating right now? Lilly reveals that her Sugar Daddy is moving very fast! We discuss why the “Vibes” feature works well on Seeking.com. Kimmy is dolled up as she is meeting a fan after the show. We examine Lilly’s huge “promise” ring that is full of brilliant diamonds. Kimmy then randomly tells us about a pill she popped in her vagina to clean it up. Is Kimmy full of worms? Then the girls are getting ready for another vacation. This time the lucky town is San Diego, California. What happens when someone Kimmy knows walks by the podcast studio and grabs a card? Later, I talk about meeting Lilly’s Sugar Daddy for the first time at dinner. We also dive into some listener letters about non-profit sugaring and sexual safety. Finally, we ponder if we can grow the show by giving away money and prizes to our audience.   Share your stories, comments, and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Vivian and her best friend Mia join me to share their initial thoughts of being a Sugar Baby. Vivian has only had 2 serious relationships despite being in her 30’s and the first was a part of a religious cult. The ending of the second relationship has been a test of strength for her, and she’s moved across the country to start a new life. Mia has had 3 long term relationships and tried a dating app for the first time at age 27! She has been helping Vivian with her sugar baby account and things are quite interesting. They are finding that men can be very impatient. Find out what kind of profiles get noticed. Is it the buff and shirtless men? As men are offering dollars for the attention of this sugar baby, are we proving that everyone has a price? Find out how the men really get through the noise of the competition. And men, these women give great advice on how to structure your profile and what kind of photos really get them going. Find out this and much more in this eye-opening episode!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

The girls are back from New York City, and they have a few stories to divulge. But first we find out that Kevin pulled an all-nighter…Up all night to get lucky? Then Lilly breaks some shocking news! Did she really go ring shopping with her Sugar Daddy? While in NYC, the girls were interviewed in Times Square, and Lilly rewarded her tour guide. Find out what happened when Kimmy got recognized on the streets of New York! Later we hear about her interesting plane ride when she sat next to a rabbi and then masturbated in the bathroom. Also, she gives us an update on her OnlyFans business. Finally, is Kimmy a THOT and what does that even mean?   Share your crazy dating stories, comments and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

These women give us great advice on how to be real and genuine online to win their love and maybe even their hand in marriage. There is someone out there for everyone, so just be yourself. And while being true to yourself, make it easy to meet, be attentive when together, stick to your core values and don’t shy away from cultural differences.   Share your dating stories, advice, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

The gang is all here and it’s a wild one! Kimmy might be feeling the edible from the night before, and she’s in rare form. Find out what she did with her Seeking profile. Kimmy and Lilly are headed to New York City and it’s going to be crazy. Also, did Kimmy put her own mom on payroll during her mind-altering adventure? Lilly announces she might have found her person! And the girls tell us why every guy should consider having a hot tub. Lilly tells us a funny story about a Sugar Daddy who made her breakfast and then gave her an STD test. Do Sugar Daddies like to start bringing the allowance down as time goes on? Later, find out the shocking reveal of who Kimmy will be marrying. Kevin ponders if wealth also makes a woman more attractive like it does for most men. Finally, we dive into the mailbag and read a listener letter.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

No one likes to be ghosted, and in this segment, we explore what ghosting is and how to respond when you’ve been ghosted. Is there ever an occasion where ghosting is encouraged? Actually, there is and I’ll reveal the answer.   Let me know your thoughts about ghosting and dating at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Jack, an older Sugar Daddy, joins us for a very insightful and entertaining episode. Never married with no children, he found this lifestyle suits him best as it’s difficult to find a complete partner. We get into an interesting discussion comparing marijuana laws and prostitution laws. He likes to use the acronym PPP, which stands for Pay per Play. But don’t start out your message with “Hi Daddy” or you’ll get blocked! What happens when you meet someone where their only job is being a Sugar Baby? Then we compare notes on allowances and availability once the allowance has been negotiated. What would you do if your Sugar Baby starts demanding a higher allowance and extras? And you never know who is going to be compatible in bed. Finally, what happens when you show up and your date has a car four times as expensive as yours? Find out in this eye-opening episode.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

The gang is all here for this entertaining episode. Lilly loses her Sugar Daddy and we find out why. Why does Kimmy have bruises on her face? You won’t believe what kind of requests Kimmy gets for custom content. Do girls really like some toxicity? Believe it or not, sometimes a date can consist of shopping at Costco! Then, what happened when Kimmy shows up at my country club with her ass hanging out of her booty shorts? And the girls are headed to New York City for the first time. They’ve got quite a few Sugar Daddies wanting to entertain them. Is this lifestyle shallow and greedy? We answer that in depth. Find out about Kevin and his 3-some proposal. And finally does Kimmy have an honesty problem? You’ll enjoy hearing the answer to this and much more…   Submit your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Is your dating life stagnant and you are running out of fun date ideas? This segment is for you as we describe 57 fun and exciting dating ideas that are easy to implement with little planning.   Share your stories, dating ideas, questions and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Credit to www.today.com for references.

Have you ever tried using a pick-up line on someone at a bar, restaurant, or grocery store? There are 3 important steps you must consider when delivering the pick-up line. Then I reveal some of the funniest and best pick-up lines to get the conversation started.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Once you’re in a committed monogamous relationship, how do you deal with a cheating partner? In this segment, we’ll discuss 7 ways to handle the situation but ultimately it’s up to you whether you stay or go.   Share your stories, questions and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Making lists is a recommended method to increase productivity, relieve anxiety, and to feel more accomplished. In this segment we explore a variety of list producing methods and reveal the benefits of each one.   Share your stories, thoughts and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Aria joins us to chat about the life of a black Sugar Baby. She decided to join the lifestyle while being 18 and a virgin! The first Sugar Daddy was ok with a non-sexual relationship, but what happened with her second Sugar Daddy bought her some sexy lingerie? Is it more difficult for a woman of color in a predominately Caucasian pool of candidates? Aria gives some great advice on how to make a good impression. Should you date multiple Sugar Daddies or focus in on one good one? Then she reveals details about an amazing trip with a Sugar Daddy. How did she hide it from her family while being so young and still living at home? Later Lilly reveals that she lost her main Sugar Daddy and what her plans are going forward. Finally, can you find love on a Sugar Daddy dating site? You’ll hear their answers and much more in this intriguing interview!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Most everyone has been dumped or broken up with in a relationship, and it can be quite painful. In this segment I’ll give you 13 proven ways to move on from the heartbreak and you’ll become a stronger, better person in the end.   Share your stories, questions and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

I learned dating etiquette the hard way, so here are some great first date rules you should consider whether you are sugar dating or you just matched on a traditional dating app.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Even though honesty is crucial for a successful relationship, there are times where the truth is not in your partner’s best interest. I give a few scenarios where actually not being honest is the better route, and I think you’ll find it makes sense.   Share your stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Credit www.time.com for references to their article.

Sugar Daddy Kevin joins us for another fun episode. We find out Kimmy lost her Tik Tok account and still hasn’t paid her speeding ticket! The gang discusses PDA and we’re all over the board. Is Kimmy being pressured into an exclusive relationship? And did Lilly really get a pay cut from her main Sugar Daddy? We get an update on Kevin’s sexual mishap and his smashed fingers. Kevin also brags about his meat! Kimmy tells us how she scraped her knees and it’s pretty entertaining. Have you ever picked up a woman at a supermarket? Then Lilly tells us she got scammed after she showed her boobs! Finally, why is Kevin considering the Muslim faith? You’ll want to hear his reasoning…   Share your stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Find Kimmy at www.instagram.com/kikidaee

Welcome to the 1st Segment of Extra Sugar with Marcus. One of the biggest complaints from women is men that are too needy. In this segment I’ll reveal some secrets on how to change your mindset to one of abundance. I also give some fun examples of how to talk to women when asked a simple question of “what have you been up to lately”…   Share your sugar dating stories, comments and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Credit www.themodernman.com for the neediness article referenced in this segment

Dr. Charles joins us again to share more sugar dating stories. You will be shocked at how many sugar babies he has juggled at one time! Is being a Sugar Daddy like a full-time job? But, we find out Dr. Charles might be falling in love. Then we share our experiences about hiring a former or current sugar baby. Did his office really make him a Sugar Baby calendar? Later we discuss how he likes to sugar his women. Kimmy chimes in with a story about a Dentist who she told no twenty times to his sexual advances, and then finally gave him a yes. You’ll be interested in how that played out! Is the truth just better in the long run when juggling multiple sugar babies? The girls educate us on how a woman scorned can react. Find out what happened when Dr. Charles accidently became a Diamond Member. Finally, Lilly reminds us that girls just want to have fun and SUGAR!   Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Follow Kimmy on IG at www.instagram.com/kikidaee

Relationship coach Gayle Lynn joins me and Lilly to talk about non-traditional relationships. Lilly met her at a very interesting place. We explore Gayle’s journey from marriage to an open relationship to becoming a relationship coach. Then she enlightens us on Orgasmic Meditation and Sacred Sexuality, and you’ll be amazed and surprised at some biological facts that she reveals. What are her pillars of agreement for an open relationship? Later we peel back the layers of jealousy, and how to get past it in a non-traditional relationship. Finally, Gayle talks about her experience as a sugar baby and life after divorce.   Share your thoughts, stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Find Gayle Lynn at https://relationshipsevolving.com/

Kimmy and I have fun talking about her latest Sugar Daddy shenanigans before we dive into the mailbag and answer listener letters. Hear about her major purchase decision at the young age of 21! Kimmy and Lilly hit the town looking for wealthy men and you’ll never believe what happened! Then we get the latest update about her salt daddy and it’s not pretty. Did he really break every relationship rule in the book? Later we read a few listener letters. What is a man supposed to do if he wants to attract young, beautiful women but he lost his wealth? There are ways and we discuss those. How do you dodge the weirdos in the online apps? They are everywhere but you can succeed. Kimmy reveals what her ex-Sugar Daddy wanted from the relationship, and it only consisted of 4 things. Finally, we reveal what will make a Sugar Daddy open his wallet and generosity.   Share your thoughts and stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy and find Kimmy at www.instagram.com/kikidaee

Another full house episode as Kimmy, Lilly, Kevin and I get into lots of interesting sugar dating discussions! Do girls really leave things behind on purpose? Find out what happens when Kimmy goes out with a fan of the show. Lilly shares an interesting story about an 11” cock! Then Kevin reveals he prefers to be a back hugger. What happens when you see the same profile on different apps? Also, Kimmy meets a guy with a $20 million mansion and tells us about his shocking sexual request. Did Kimmy meet a doctor who wanted to exchange botox for blowjobs? And she also thinks her drink was tainted on purpose as there was a powder residue on top! Did Kevin really meet twin sisters by accident on the dating site? Finally, we get into a lively discussion about broke guys posing as Sugar Daddies and some red flags.   Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy and Kimmy www.instagram.com/kikidaee  

David joins us to share some interesting insights to sugar dating. Do the men often feel like an ATM? We explore reasons why you should meet quickly. Some people age well and others don’t age well at all. Does texting for long periods of time make the face-to-face meeting more special? Kimmy reveals how she has become a networking pro, and she also gives some great advice about focusing. Should you take a dopamine break? Later we discuss how profile words matter. What do you think about kissing, is it too intimate? Finally, we get into the 5 love languages and personality types.   Share your sugar dating stories or questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy and www.instagram.com/kikidaee

Long lost Angie joins Kevin, Kimmy and me after taking a break for 4 months. Has Seeking.com really changed that much over the summer? Seems that the men’s profiles are getting younger and they don’t understand the premise of the original site. Then we start comparing sex faces and it’s quite hilarious. Kimmy reveals her sales funnels which fuel her OnlyFans account with paying subscribers. Later she starts wondering if her men are secretly gay, and really only wants them to be their true self. Finally, we discuss Diamond members, profile boosts and the new Vibes feature of Seeking.com. Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

I had another full house as I was joined by my co-hosts Kimmy and Lilly, along with Sugar Daddy Kevin. Of course we touched on a lot of interesting subjects. Will there be an arrest warrant issued for Kimmy? Also, we recap our busy week of concerts which included Men at Work, Rick Springfield and The Weeknd. Kevin and I go through a few profiles to discuss if they are real or fake. Kimmy updates us on her spiritual retreat and the changes she has made. Then we discuss drunk sex vs sober sex and things get interesting. Did Kevin really leave his body during a spiritual ritual while on mushrooms? Apparently Leonardo DiCaprio has an age limit, and we evaluate a Sugar Daddy’s age limit when searching for a Sugar Baby. What is your D.E.P.O. (Dollars Expended per Orgasm)? And finally, we try to determine what amount of crazy people put up with according to one’s beauty and success. Share your sugar dating stories or questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us in IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

My co-hosts Kimmy and Lilly join me to get caught up on their latest adventures. Did Kimmy really get bbl surgery in Mexico? And find out about her trip to Vegas, where she discovered the casting couch! Can someone really turn $2500 into $60k in one day trading bitcoin? Then Kimmy spends 10 hours in the Las Vegas airport, reflecting on the direction of her life. She’s even contemplating on writing a book. What happens when Lilly meets my other co-host Amy’s Sugar Daddy for breakfast? The sugar dating world can be quite small at times. Later we give advice on how to spot scammers. We also discuss ideal meet and greet environments, and which ones to avoid. Do you show public displays of affection with your sugar date? And finally, find out what the top 4 expectations are for a Sugar Daddy. Tell us your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Shawn, a Diamond Member Sugar Daddy, joins past guest Kevin and my co-host Lilly for an episode of storytelling and dating observations. Did Shawn try to compress the process of finding love too quickly with a misguided vetting process? Now he suggests for potential partners to stay in his orbit. Then he reveals a shocking story about falling in love with a stripper in Mexico and how she killed her boyfriend! Can you really expect and find on-demand chemistry? Sometimes we lie to our partners because the relationship isn’t strong. How can we get to a point of complete honesty and understanding? Kevin seems to be meeting a lot of Mormons online and it’s more common than expected. Later Shawn reveals his well thought out secret Sugar Baby PPM formula. And finally, did Kevin really have to take an online quiz about prostitution to keep his account active? Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Dr Kanwal Bawa (aka Dr Sex Fairy) joins us to talk sexual health. She has pioneered many techniques for men and women to help revive and rejuvenate their sex lives. You’ll be surprised at how early erectile dysfunction can start for men. Then we discuss length versus girth, and Dr Bawa reveals how she can increase both! How do most women orgasm? You’ll find out when Dr Bawa reveals the facts. Your body is meant for sex and we discuss ways to train yourself to become multi-orgasmic. Later Dr Bawa tells us what the best position is for a woman to have ultimate control of her orgasm. And finally, what happens if the erection doesn’t go away after 4 hours? You’ll find out and much more on this fascinating look into sexual disorders.   Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Kevin joins us again to give an update on his sugar dating adventures. He and Kimmy talk Tijuana as there are lots of interesting shenanigans south of the border. Did Kevin unknowingly go down on a girl shortly after she had sex with someone else? Then Lilly tells us about her visit to a swinger’s sex club and things get interesting! Also, what happened when I took my co-hosts to a sex store? Do you tend to do first meetings at the same bar and are the employees starting to recognize you? We then discuss the qualifications to be considered a porn star. Finally, we debate on how you should dress for a meet and greet, especially in the summer. Share your sugar dating stories or questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Our guest Marisa fell on difficult times and decided to find a Sugar Daddy. Find out what her research discovered to be the best candidate. Did this arrangement change her life for the better or worse? And did she sacrifice her career and finances for years while chasing love? Then she shares what her lifestyle was like while in a sugar relationship. But was she just role playing the entire time? You'll be quite interested and a little surprised to hear this discussion. Finally she shares some great advice on how to quickly screen her messages for Sugar Daddy candidates, and which messages get the most response versus being ignored!   Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com    Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/Secretsofasugardaddy

All 3 of my co-hosts showed up for this crazy episode which marks our 1 year anniversary! What happened when Kimmy met a porn star? She reveals something men do that drives her wild. Then Lilly updates us on her week-long vacation with a Sugar Daddy. We also talk sex rooms, sex machines, flogging and mirror sex! Kimmy found her libido and a sex drink, and Lilly is down to try it. We then read a listener letter which takes us in a whole different direction. Amy talks BDSM and shares photos of rare kinks she’s explored with people. Finally, we get into a sensitive discussion of ass play as Kimmy confesses she accidently went south! Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Julia from Episode 22 – Did an Accidental Orgasm change her life?, returns to give us some interesting updates. Hear why she decided to delete a worn-out profile and start fresh. Did a Sugar Daddy really give her a used cookbook as a gift after the best blowjob of his life? And hear what the girls say about men who masturbate too much! What are your thoughts on displays of affection? The girls are all over the place on this subject. We then talk about starting a business with your Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy and exploring the pros and cons. Julia later reveals that she really isn’t sexually compatible with her current Sugar Daddy and how they are making it work. Finally, we hear a few shocking stories about showing up for a date and finding out that person was playing us for fools.   Share your sugar dating stories or questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   And don’t forget to leave a 5 star review on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to the show! We really appreciate your support.

We get into lots of great discussions as I have all 3 of my co-hosts in the house. You will not believe what Kimmy has been up to, and did she hit the lottery with OnlyFans? You will be shocked to hear how much she is making per month! Then Lilly shares some advice to men that has been bothering her lately. We discuss the right and wrong way to end things with your Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby and it gets lively! Did Lilly really have to end things with someone she didn’t even know she was dating? Later Amy gets to talking about her sexual passion which is BDSM, and she discusses foot play and cooking. Finally, you’ll want to hear the shocking way Amy lost her virginity!!!   Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Lilly and I discuss traveling with our sugar partners. How should the allowance be calculated? Calling all Sugar Mommas, we want to hear from you! And are we all really just looking for our special person? Later we discuss social media and communication off the site. Does a beautiful, sexy woman really elevate a man's status in social situations? Finally we try to figure out the answer to a very common question of where did you meet...   Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

  My co-hosts Amy and Lilly share a lot of great insights in this special episode. Has Lilly become a professional cuddler? We then read a listener letter that becomes quite concerning. Is Lilly spreading herself too thin in the dating pool? FOMO is a real thing, especially for the older daters. We also debate whether your perfect person really exists. Can you share something that will change someone's life? Later we discuss if sugar dating is corrupting Lilly! Finally, Amy and Lilly reveal what attracts them most to a man, is it money, success, looks, or something else? You'll definitely want to hear the answer!   Share your stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at http://www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Sasha joins us as a fairly new Sugar Baby to share some interesting experiences. But does she really use her “real” number to correspond? Here how she met a Sugar Daddy who whisked her away on a European vacation. And find out what is revealed when you travel with a Sugar Daddy. Sasha gives some great advice to new Sugar Babies and why meeting them in a social gathering is quite enjoyable. What do you say to a Sugar Daddy who doesn’t want to help you financially? Later we discuss Sugar Daddy profiles that get little consideration from Sugar Babies and how to generate a higher response. And do the women really like it when you say “good girl” during sex? You’ll want to hear the shocking answer to this question and more in this fun episode. Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Emily joins us from Miami to share her sugar dating stories. Did a Sugar Daddy’s wife really show up for her first date to approve? Then Emily tells us how her friend found a Billionaire on the site and we dive into that craziness. And should you see it as a huge red flag when someone lies about their age? We also discuss an inherent issue of large age gaps and how to handle yourself in public. Did Emily fall in love with a toxic Sugar Daddy? Later, Emily tells us an experience where her $5k monthly allowance was paid upfront and then he ghosted her. Finally, you’ll want to find out what happened when she was contacted by the FBI concerning someone on the site! Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Lilly joins me in this more mature episode to discuss being an older Sugar Baby. Is there a unique niche for women over 50? You’ll be shocked at some of the multi-million dollar arrangement offers and fetish proposals she has encountered in the Sugar Bowl. We discuss many interesting topics ranging from things that make a good date, how to escape a bad date, what makes a good lover, and dealbreakers. Lilly tells us how she filters through all the messages and what gets her attention. Later we dive into the mailbag to read a few listener letters.   Share your sugar dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Also you can find links to our affiliates and great articles on the website. Please follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

My assistant Lilly and my project manager Kimi share their unique perspectives on sugar dating. Even though they have a 30 year age difference, they have found a common interest as Sugar Babies. We discuss how their lives have changed through this experience. But are they actually looking for a completely different experience from the men they meet? We then dive into the mailbag and read some interesting listener letters. Kimi answers some questions from her debut show as the listeners had a lot of feedback. And finally, the girls reveal what men are doing to really turn them off.   Share your sugar dating stories or questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy And find Kimi https://www.tiktok.com/@persiansmoochy

Emily, who grew up in Canada and now lives in London, shares with us her sugar dating stories. She decided to explore the lifestyle while still a virgin. Does Emily and Amy really like the couples better? Then we discuss messages from men that get noticed and messages that get ignored. Has seeking.com changed from a sugar lifestyle website to a more traditional one? We explore what’s going on and give advice on how not to get your account suspended when talking to potential partners. Emily also shares with us that she enjoys being a matchmaker and has consulted many on how to find sugar dating success. Finally, why is Amy having a hard time finding genuine men on the site lately? Should she take a break? We explore all this and more… Tell us your sugar dating stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy And to get Emily’s help, her website is www.elitesugarmatch.com

Kimi joins us to share her story about a very toxic Sugar Daddy relationship. After she joined the site at a young age, she was soon living with her Sugar Daddy in LA. The adventure was initially exciting for this young Sugar Baby until he wanted to control every aspect of her life. It's a wild story that unfortunately ended up with violence and ultimately a restraining order. Kimmy has moved on and grown from the experience, so find out what she's up to now and the valuable lessons she has learned!   Share your crazy dating experiences at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Also follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/Secretsofasugardaddy   Follow Kimmy on www.tiktok.com/@kimmydaee and click on her Instagram link there to find her very sexy OnlyFans page.    

Sidney, who is a married Sugar Baby, joins us to reveal what she has learned over the past few months. Did she really crack the code to finding success on the site? And should you ever pay just to meet someone for coffee or a drink? We also discuss why and how men and women should put in the effort and time to understand the dating mind. Later we discuss why you need to develop a thick skin when you’re cyber dating. And did I really get ghosted after 5 weeks of amazing dates and engaging conversation? We reveal what you should do if that happens to you! There’s a lot of great information in this episode… Let us know your thoughts, questions and dating stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Ryan Black, a men’s transformation coach, joins us to reveal the dating and relationship secrets he has discovered. And while the “Pick Up Artist” material may get your foot in the door, it just doesn’t have lasting success. Great looks and confidence may give men an edge, but what about the rest of the men who may not fall into that category? Is there hope? Ryan discusses his methods on how to have an abundance of dating partners with unique messages and a marketing funnel. And do you have a fear of talking to women in person? We may have some great tips to get over that. Later we discuss why most relationship last longer than they should. But in the end, does Angie reveal that women really do love confident nerds? Find out all this and more in this very informative episode! Share your dating stories and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com And follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

My co-host Amy and I are talking profiles! As we experiment and tinker, are we getting the desired results? Amy even feels that revealing her podcast host status has given men the wrong impression. And how often do you refresh your profile photos? We also dive into some listener letters where the allowance seems to be a hot topic. Should you compensate for a meet and greet? Then, we discuss an interesting dilemma one Sugar Baby is having about sitting in coach while her Sugar Daddy sits in First Class on a long vacation trip overseas. And finally, we discover that feedback is always encouraged during sex as everyone is different and likes different things. Share your stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Rose, who always knew she was different, joins us for an eye opening discussion about being a transgender sugar baby. Amy and I have lots of questions! Rose decided to leave her small conservative community and venture off to the big city where she has found acceptance as she is transitioning. But do men have a hard time staying focused or is it off to the next shiny object? But is Rose is in a very unique and sought after niche? Later we discuss what Amy and Rose have to say about the way men show up for the first date. Finally is Amy looking to date a transgender herself? Find out these answers and much more in one of the most unique interviews I have ever done! Share your crazy dating stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com. Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Amy and I have a very interesting conversation as she had a few drinks before the show! She shares a story about a fake profile from a past Sugar Daddy that rattled her a bit. Then she finally gets into the juicy details of when she managed a mansion full of sugar babies for a very wealthy Sugar Daddy.  Later we discuss that there is a book to help men become better and more desirable than 97% of the others! And should a Sugar Baby refrain from “retail therapy”? Those fun topics and much more await you in this episode. Share your crazy dating stories or questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Amy and Sabrina help me respond to the listener letters and things get deep. We seem to get lots of questions about plus size sugar babies, so we explore that further. Amy reveals that she likes to do social experimentation with her dates, to find out what’s really turning men on. Should you show both the casual and dolled up side in your profile photos? And does a Sugar Daddy prefer a really beautiful and stunning Sugar Baby, or do they feel more comfortable with someone more down to earth? We might have some great insight to that question. We also talk about scars and body issues and how it affects a relationship. Later Brian Howie from The Great Love Debate joins us to answer the question of who ultimately controls the relationship. Is it the one who cares the least?   Share your Sugar Dating stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Kevin, a very successful Sugar Daddy, joins us for this fun episode. We find out quickly why profiles with spelling and grammar mistakes are red flags. Angie shares her experiences with Kevin as not only a financially supportive Sugar Daddy, but also as a mentor. And do green text bubbles really mean trouble? Kevin tells us his frustration with time-diggers as time is something you cannot recover! Angie then explains why the sugar dating game feels like chess and traditional dating feels like checkers. She also loves playing matchmaker and has become quite successful with her matches. And finally, are women the ultimate male accessory? Share your sugar dating stories on www.secretsofasugardaddy.com And follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Ella is a flight attendant who stopped by for a quick show during her layover. She loves being a Sugar Baby and really feels like she dates up. But what happened when she tried Sugar Dating on a traditional swiping app? Seemed like all was well in the beginning after she met someone, he even bought her an HVAC system for her house and paid off her car! But then the Red Flags started appearing, and they are easy to ignore. How do you learn from a relationship that has gone south? What resources are out there to help you bounce back even stronger? We reveal how to get back in the game as a new and improved dater. Tell us your Sugar Dating stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com And follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Jason joins us for one of the most shocking and interesting interviews we have ever done! Mostly heterosexual and married, Jason explores the Sugar Baby life while in grad school. Did men only want him for his body? My co-host Amy shares similar kinks and fantasies as Jason, so the conversation gets quite titillating. And once a cheater always a cheater? Then we get into the fantasy and reality of threesomes as Amy and Jason share stories. Should we all try different things and come out of our comfort zone? Finally, find out the shocking way Jason got caught and how he had to admit everything to his church, family and friends. Tell us your shocking stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com And follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Sabrina, who is unfamiliar with sugar dating, joins us for this very informative episode. We answer common questions that people have about multiple partners, allowance discussions, traveling with your Sugar Daddy, and what happens when emotions get involved. The perception of a Sugar Baby is often different than reality. We dive into the fact that it can sometimes be a lonely lifestyle, but are people actually finding love? Later we chat with my Sugar Baby assistant and why she looks differently at her friends who sleep around for free! Can great conversation make sex more intense? And finally we discuss some important tips for both sides that will help make this sugar lifestyle work better for everyone. Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy Tell us your story at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com  

Melissa joins us from across the pond to share her international sugar baby experiences. Her steady partner actually enjoys that she is desirable and encourages her to keep her profile active. What happens when one of her dates shows up late and drunk? And men, I know we’re lazy but please keep your profile photos somewhat current! Later we find out that Melissa never talks allowance, and why it works for her. We also touch briefly on the mental health aspect of sugar dating. And finally, is sugar dating spreading to other dating apps? Find out in this very informative episode. Tell us your stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

My guest Brian Howie is the host of the #1 Dating and Relationship podcast in the world, The Great Love Debate. He joins me and my co-hosts to discuss the many facets of love and dating. Basically, Brian reveals that women want men to try harder and men want women to make it easier! Also, do women constantly look for red flags and men look for green lights? And is VR porn going to satisfy our future sexual desires? Later Amy reveals that something big has changed about the way she is looking at relationships. Did Brian really claim that he can manipulate dating apps to melt the hearts of most women? And finally, find out if the juice is worth the squeeze!   Tell us your sugar dating adventures at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy    

Daniel, a self-admitted science geek who makes $1.0 million per year, shares his Sugar Daddy stories. My co-host Angie and I get to hear personally his wealth building secrets, and we reveal them in this episode. After two failed marriages, Daniel finally jumped on Seeking and his short guy issues became non-existent. Then we answer the 10 insightful questions he poses in his profile. And is mentoring more satisfying than sex? You’ll be surprised to hear the answers as we discuss the long game! Later Daniel tells us about some dating disasters which one included an extra 150 pounds! And finally, he gives his thoughts on how both sides can win the sugar dating game. Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy Tell us your crazy dating stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com  

My co-host Amy and I get caught up, and it’s always a fun episode. We dive into the mailbag as Amy gets a shocking message from a couple. I share a story about my assistant and her latest Sugar Daddy shopping fiasco. And did he really put her hand on his privates while she was asleep?! Amy then tells us why she doesn’t like to kiss. Finally we talk extensively about communication and how men are struggling with it. Tell us your crazy sugar dating stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com and please follow us on IG, www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy      

Amy reveals a shocking story when her Sugar Daddy found the podcast! Then we dive into the mailbag to discuss a listener letter. Is Amy an introvert or extrovert? She reveals all. Later we get into a deep discussion about jealousy and how to deal with it. And how many married men are really on the Sugar Daddy sites? Finally we reveal many great resources to help you become a better lover! Follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  and tell us your stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com  

It’s always a party when you get Amy and Angie together for a show! Did Amy really hook up with another guest? And does a large amount of money sway Angie to adventure out of her comfort zone? I think you’ll be surprised at the answer. We also tell you the reasons why you should consider installing a hot tub! Then sex becomes the main topic as we explore doing it in the water and theaters. Are you getting gifts from your wishlist on SA? Angie has received some interesting items from Sugar Daddies! And finally, find out what Amy and Angie do while receiving oral sex that sends them into ecstasy. Tell us your stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com and follow us on here www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Plastic surgeon Charles joins us for a fun episode. After marrying a teenager, Dr. Charles found himself single after 22 years and promptly fell in love with a stripper. But the rebound marriage didn’t last long and he’s been on SA ever since. He tells us some crazy stories and claims he has seen more boobs on the first date as anyone! But like the other men, Charles really likes the girlfriend experience that comes with this lifestyle. Later, my co-host Angie reveals a dating pyramid that gives one a more fulfilling dating experience! And did Dr. Charles get burned giving monthly allowances? Tell us your crazy stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com. And follow us on Instagram www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

This gorgeous Texas sugar baby joins us to share some advice and adventures. She and my co-host Amy reveal what is sexy about a grey fox! And are you afraid of sharks? Maybe you shouldn’t be. And can you network your way to financial independence through dating Sugar Daddies? Later Amy and Jessica reveal what first impression items really get them going! And do you have an exit strategy when a date is not going well? Finally Jessica gives some great parting words for aspiring sugar babies. Tell us your stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com and follow us on IG at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy.  

I dive into the mailbag and share some listener letters. Is this really prostitution in disguise? Then, I share my secrets on how I became a multi-millionaire and surprisingly, it’s a simple formula that you can follow too! Is money the root of all evil? I reveal the answer. Also, I explain how networking can make you rich, and why the wealthy hire people much smarter than them! This is a must-listen episode and I’d love your feedback at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com. And follow us now on Instagram www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy.    

My guest Julia shares with us how she finally discovered her pleasure zone, and it’s quite entertaining. Is she yet another sugar baby from a very religious family? And you’ll be shocked to hear how a wrong number changed her dating life forever! Did Julia really “butt dial” her ex-husband while on a sugar date, and what did he hear? Then the show really picks up when she admits she finally began honing her oral skills at age 35! And finally, Julia and my co-host Amy swap mirror sex stories, apparently that’s a thing. Tell me your stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com. And don’t forget to follow us on Instagram and Facebook.

Joseph joins us again to continue sharing his adventures as a Sugar Daddy. Did the Boyfriend Experience experiment work for him? Then we find out why Amy really hates to be ghosted. I share a secret trick on how to quickly find out if you’ve been blocked or not by someone on the site. And later Amy discusses why you should never call her babe in your opening message. Finally, you’ll want to hear some crazy stories when men find out she is really a he! What would you do? Tell me your crazy stories and adventures at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com. And don’t forget to follow us on Instagram and Facebook.

By far the craziest and sexiest episode yet as we celebrate co-host Amy’s birthday! This show is full of surprises as we explore a wide variety of hot topics. Why does Amy feel pressured to keep being a sugar baby? And do the girls like you in a sports car or big truck? You’ll hear their answers and what makes them melt. Later, we get into a deep discussion about car sex and share a few stories of getting caught in the act. And did my guest co-host Joseph really have sex in his church? This is a must listen episode! Tell me your stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com.

My guest Eve talks about her new sugar dating journey, and we discuss how to improve your mental health during the process. Also, you’ll find out what my co-host Amy says is her secret formula to maximize her sugar baby experience. We also discuss the premium version of the site for women, is it worth it? And how much are you drinking on the first date? We dive into what’s acceptable and what to avoid. Later in this episode, Eve breaks down her pros and cons of seeking.com and how it can be addicting. Finally, we get into a heated debate on acceptable ppm terms! Tell me your thoughts about the show and ideas for future shows at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com.    

Aubrey, a self-described sub, shares some of her naughty sugar baby stories.  But, is she attracting the right kind of men with her profile? We explore ideas on how to find a high quality Sugar Daddy and still fulfill all the kinky fantasies. Also, find out what happens when Aubrey gets stood up for a date after prepping for hours! Later I share a story about a special unexpected gift from Santa. And finally did Aubrey start crushing on me and my co-host Angie? These stories and much more in this provocative episode. I want to hear your thoughts and stories too, tell me at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com.

Thomas is a physician who recently discovered the sugar baby world. He lets us in on his journey on how he got to this point. And find out what happened when his wife discovered his secret life! We explore this lifestyle through the views of a married doctor. Also, my co-host Amy admits she prefers married Sugar Daddies, and she tells us why you should drop the ego and listen to your partner during sex. And what is the preferred allowance frequency, per meet or weekly? We get into all of this and much more! Tell me your thoughts about the show and share your stories on our website www.secretsofasugardaddy.com.

Angie and I have fun talking about her new profile experiment, and she gives us an interesting update. Has she finally sewed her wild oats? And we’re both finding so many members come from strict religious backgrounds. Also, once you experience sugar dating, can you ever go back to normal dating? Find out later which sugar baby trashed my rental car, what happened at the Dua Lipa concert, and why I jumped off the top of the Stratosphere in Las Vegas! What are the craziest dating stories you’ve had? Tell me at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com!  

Joseph, a local Sugar Daddy joins me and Angie to share his experiences. And he makes a shocking discovery when he fulfills a fantasy threesome with a sugar baby from his church and then she slaps him in the face! We discuss what photos actually get our attention, and it’s not what you think. Joseph and I talk about how to discuss arrangement terms and how inflation has affected expectations. And finally did he really lose $12k to an online scammer and what happened when he found them and knocked on the door? You will be shocked! Tell us your shocking stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com.

Mia joins us to discuss why she became a Sugar Baby despite being married. Will an open marriage save her relationship? She opens up about the touchy subject of how to talk about the allowance and shares why she asks for more than average. Later, we divulge an inside secret of why you should keep your browser open on the dating site even though you're not actively using it. And finally, Amy tells a shocking story about a stalker that walked right into her room! Tell us your shocking stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com.   

Amy and I spill the tea in this episode, and it gets juicy! Did she really move on? And find out if my sugar baby co-hosts had a threesome! Also, does Amy finally do Vegas? Later we discuss why guys are falling in love with her so quickly. And one of her guy friends is attracted to crazy women, but he doesn’t take his own advice! And finally, I’ll update you on the pillow princess situation. Tell us your stories at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com, we’d love to hear from you!

In this episode, Angie and I talk with Meah who is from Egypt and has lived in the US for a short time, but found herself seeking a sugar daddy experience once her marriage failed. Although English is not her native language, she quickly discovered how to weed out the “douchebags” that are sometimes on the site. And after exploring this lifestyle, many women find out they take a more dominant role despite thinking they are submissive. And is that why the toy collection starts growing? Meah also discovered the advantages of an open relationship while experiencing the pleasures multiple people can bring to her life. Follow us on IG and tell us your story at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com  

My guest host Angie and I talk about how to discuss arrangement terms, meeting for the first time, her booty shots, and filtered profile photos. Also in this episode, we give some advice on how to make your opening message sound personal instead of the copy and paste method. And men, are you still sending Dick Pics? Later we talk about our three-some experiences, how to have balanced conversations and why most Sugar Daddies are looking for a Girlfriend Experience! Comments are welcome at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com.

In this episode, we dive into the intimate part of an arrangement. Is having multiple partners a key to fulfilling your needs? Also, what is a Pillow Princess and how do you deal with one? Later we explore the subject of oral sex on women and why the instructional course OMGYes can help. We’d love to hear your thoughts about the show at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com.  

Angie joins us to share her story on how she has discovered herself after a long, strict, religious marriage. Did sugar dating really change her life? We talk about her niche, married men, and sugar baby therapy. This episode is deep and heart warming as we hear her perspective along with more great dating advice. If you want to share your story, let us know at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com. And don’t forget to follow us on Instagram!

An “older” but fairly new sugar baby, Rayanne joins us to discuss how to find success using Seeking.com. Are there men with mommy issues on the site? Apparently so! We chat about why she has ventured down this road although not really looking for anything financial. Amy and I give her hard learned advice about fake numbers, reverse image searches, etc. And finally, we discuss how one can learn from a mentor and eventually become a sugar momma!

Author of The Sugar Factory, Jerry Bigs joins us to discuss his book on How to Become a Sugar Daddy. His journey started with Love at AOL to eventually hiring a sugar baby assistant. We talk about open relationships and why it brings us joy to help a sugar baby learn or start a business. Also, should you show up for your first date in a Hawaiian shirt? We’ll see what Amy had to say about that. Don’t be too quick to judge a man by his clothes. And should you ever send someone gas money before your first date? We’ll discuss why it’s probably a bad idea!  

How many times have you ignored something someone said or did in your first few dates, only to haunt you in the end? We discuss Yellow and Red Flags - and how to avoid them. I read an email from one of our listeners who was a victim of a grab and dash scam. Also in this episode, Sugar Baby Amy talks about being a thruple, “Snatchchat”, and winter is coming! And do men really pay women to rate their privates? You’ll find out here!

We really let loose on this hilarious yet sobering episode where we discuss first date nightmares, spontaneous trips to Vegas, Titos and soda, and Jimmy Choo shoes! Also, not everyone is cut out to be a sugar baby, so we explore briefly the dark side of sugar dating.  

We’re talking money! How to discuss the arrangement terms, my interesting house guests, and how I was scammed by a seasoned con artist. Amy and I reveal some tough lessons learned in this fun episode.

Amy and I discuss profiles that work like magic to attract what you want and how to weed out the noise. Also there are things men say that will send sugar babies running for the hills. Finally we share a few catfishing stories that are sad but true!  

Sugar Baby Vanessa joins me and Amy to discuss why this lifestyle works for her. She is a gorgeous competitive fitness model who has limited time and resources. Why swiping right, swiping left is so exhausting.  Also, we reveal why a sugar baby offered me $50k!

Amy and I discuss how we became a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby after becoming frustrated with traditional dating. In this episode we begin to explore a dating lifestyle that is becoming quite popular but is still taboo. If you want a dating lifestyle that includes exciting dates, exotic travels, lavish gifts, shopping sprees and is financially rewarding without the drama, you’ll find out how in this podcast!

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