Our son broke down on the highways and ..

We were on stage speaking to 10k people and i asked you...

I was determined to be. the best mom ever before we had kids..

When our first of three sons was born..

One of my favorite things we get to do as parents is discover who are kids are...

Here's a question most parents never ask..

Do you know what I remember most about our wedding night... my incredible abs..

Do you know what two of the greatest words in the bible are? I think, But GOD..

If God said murder is wrong, why do we celebrate King David...

You know, i don't know if I believe anything in the bible anymore..

Author lewis needs wrote when you forgive someone you set..

Marriage conferences don't change marriages..

When it comes to conflict nothing is worse than doing nothing at all..

Every conflict in a marriage is like a brick..

Why did god create marriage? Oh I use to ask that question all the time before we got married..

God does not want you to be happy in your marriage.. he has a bigger dream..

We often hear a husband or a wife state their priorities WITH PASSION.. god is first..

I remember at times feeling so hopeless that our marriage would never be good...

Do you know what I remember most about our honeymoon night..

You were playing golf one day and...

Every single parent needs to know this one thing.. when..

You know after you've been married for awhile it's easy to think your spouse is your enemy..

I remember the day when our 12 year old burst through the kitchen..

I remember when our kids were teenagers I decided to ask them this questions..

To the day I die, i will never forget..

So it's 11:30 at night and im crawling into bed after a long day and you said I wish..

As a mom of 3 little boys I thought I felt so overwhelmed at times..

You know one of the best things you can do for your kids is make life hard for them..

Remember that time you taught me not to fix your problems..

So we're on a canoe trip with others and it gets a little crazy..

When you go camping as a family bad things are bound to happen..

One of the things you emphasized was getting away on vacation..

One of the best things you can do in your marriage is get away from your kids..

One of the things I find amazing in the 10 commandments is..

You wanna know whats the most attractive thing that you do..

Just share something with me... sometimes I feel like, booooo..

If there's one piece of advice that you could give husbands..

For years you kept telling me i was harsh with you, critiqued you..

Words to never say in a conflict..

Here's a relationship truth that every couple needs to know..

Marrying you was the biggest mistake in my life..

I've often heard people say that forgiven people, forgive people..

You know when you hurt me or I hurt you with words or action, you know we have two actions of how to respond..

One thing I underestimated in marriage is how much we would hurt one another..

I think for years I was so disappointed in how you were leading our family...

We've been speaking at marriage conferences and talking about marriage for 35 years..

Do you remember the day I walk in the garage and see you yelling, throwing the hammer and kicking it..

You know what I love and long for in our relationship... ugh everything

When was the last time we kissed..

There's a survey recently with teenager that said, guess what..

I remmeber when our first son was born I thought "I have no clue how to be a dad"...

I will never forget the first week of our honeymoon when I just broke down..

The first time I gave another woman a compliment, I was 23 years old..

I think every husband wants to know what makes him attractive to his wife..

Remember that time I was suppose to fix your headlight for that 4 hour drive and I didn't fix it..

There are nights that I know you're upstairs waiting for me with one thing on my mind..

I remember meeting you after your junior year in college and you tore your knee..

I believe everyone has and IT, that thing that...

Remember the times in our marriage where I asked you " why are you so angry"..

Before we had kids, I just knew our kids would be so athletic...

So what is the worst thing I could say to you when you're all amped up..

You know the best part of our honey moon.. are we gonna go there..

As a boy mom I ended up having, lizards, snakes..

There were years where we had so many animals in our house with...

I will never forget the day I decided to quit in the front..

Change your legacy by being someone who is bringing the same energy you're putting the outside world to your home. Bring it to your family!

It's easy to find your spouse doing something wrong but what we should be focused on is the GOOD, thank your spouse for something they're doing right today!

Do you want your marriage to be better or bitter? In the middle of the pain you can make a choice in your marriage to cling to God and he can make you better.

Ann held onto conflict without expressing it to Dave and after awhile it felt sooo toxic, God calls us to get rid of any root of bitterness. Through this God can do a beautiful thing.

Dave and Ann use to have tons of conflict, Dave always thought it was bad but stay there, resolve it and talk.

They both dismissed each others wounds, which caused a lot of different things in the relationship. Lean in and love your partner through the pain.

They thought there was someone in the house so both of them were so scared, they both stayed in their bed and they didn't go down stairs until the police came.

Care and walk beside them when they are struggling. Sometimes we care more about how we are perceived instead of caring about what's happening to our kids.

Dave wanted the kids to mess up when they were under their roof and Ann totally didn't want that. Dave helped Ann see a different perspective, where they can lay things down at Jesus feet and know they can handle the things that happen.

One of the best moments is when you're so thankful you're almost in tears but you know the author of those blessings..

God is passionate, loving and devine, it changes everything. When Jesus changes you, it changes your marriage, and everything. You're a better parent, spouse etc.

God uses marriages to shape and define us to be a closer resemblance of who he is for us.In marriage you will find that it won't meet all your needs, marriage was built to refine us. God wants to shape us to become more like him.

There is a cost to being controlling in marriage, don't fall into it.

Comparisons are easy in marriage but it's not helpful and that's not real

Make the decision to talk about things in your marriage. Talk about your relationship, it's good to see where you can improve.

Monitor how much time you're spending away from your family, evenings and moments together are sacred and it's important to prioritize them.

Ask your kids what bugs them, take their concerns and see what you might have to reassess.

Ann asked her kids what they don't like about her, she learned so many things *and through that she was able to compromise with certain things and explain why clear boundaries were set.

Through unmotivation and tiredness it's still so important to pray for your kids at night.

All the Dave's energy was going into work after they got married. Put the energy you put into the job, into your wife. Make her feel loved. Don't quick pursuing your wife atfter you're married

Ask God how he sees your wife then speak life into your spouse.Start speaking life into your spouse

Teach your kids along the way, bedtime, mealtime, car time, it's an overflow of your walk with Christ in your everyday life.

Dave and Ann felt like they made the biggest mistake by marrying each other, they both thought the other person would make them happy!

When your marriage is struggling, go back and do the things you first loved.If you want the love you first had you have to do the things you first did.

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Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

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Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

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Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

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Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

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Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

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Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

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Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

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Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

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Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

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Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

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Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

Featuring a playful spark between hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, Real FamilyLife® packs all the hard-earned discoveries, joys, and hardships of a 40-year marriage into 60 seconds. Timeless wisdom for everyday families, every day.

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Here's a scary thought. Your home should become a teenage hangout.

Have you read any good books with your children lately?

You don't keep score against your own teamates.

When was the last time you shared your faith?

There's something every husband and wife can do to make decision making a lot easier for their family.

Even as adults, some people are still afraid to go into the attic.

From time to time, I think every parent worries that they're being too strict.

(Pressure Sound Effects, "Warning! Warning!") Sometimes the pressure in life builds to the point that we feel like we're about to burst!

Many singles fear, "I may never get married!!"

So… can you laugh at yourself in a blended family? Laughter just might be the stress-relief you need.

Debt can seriously hamper a family's future.

What are you doing to build your mate's self esteem?

When people look at your marriage, are they seeing the love of God?

It can be hard for a busy mom to develop friendships with other women.

Okay, parents, listen up. What would you do if your teenager came home from school with a ring in his nose and his hair was dyed orange?

Are you and your spouse using the same blueprints to build your home?

In the race of life, are you on track to cross the finish line?

How does your spouse show love to you?

Some people believe that fasting is something they used to do in Bible times, but it's not for Christians today. I disagree.

What guides all those little decisions that you make every day?

Is there such a thing as Absolute Truth?

Have you seen any good bumper stickers lately?

According to the dictionary, a mnemonic device is "anything assisting or intending to assist memory." I could use that about now, how about you?

It's really easy for a teenager's schedule to get way out of control.

Why does it seem that commitment in marriage is so rare today?

Nobody wants it, but everyone either has it…or will have it. I'm talking about suffering.

Your family may be more important than you realize.

Parents, do you really know your children's friends?

Do your children have a Hollywood's view of alcohol abuse, or a realistic one?

Your kids may grow up to be just like you. Is that an encouraging thought or a sobering one?

Mind if I get on my soap box for a minute? It has to do with the word "commitment".

What types of things create a restful atmosphere for your family?

It's possible to live with someone, without truly knowing them.

In the race of life, are you on track to cross the finish line?

It's easy to have the wrong perspective of small, annoying circumstances.

No matter how good your marriage is, I'll bet you could use a little more romance.

Okay! Time for a pop quiz! Are you ready? Please list the Ten Commandments.

You and your spouse got married because you had so much in common, didn't you? Ever wonder what happened?

Who do you think has the most important occupation in our country?

Children play hide and seek as a game. Adults can play hide and seek out of fear.

My mom's death was no surprise, but you know what? I still miss her.

Are the pressures in your life the same as they were ten, or even 20 years ago? Think about it.

I've got a question for you. Can you give a child too much affection?

Most parents of pre-adolesents don't realize that just around the bend are some severe rapids.

If you're engaged and want to be married, what's your motivation?

When you get stuck in traffic, are you more likely to give thanks or complain?

Okay, ladies. It's your turn to do some mentoring. When did you last invest some time in a younger woman?

Are you modeling character for your children in the little things?

The phrase "No Fear" isn't just a popular sports slogan. It also describes perfect love.

Men, did you know there is romantic power when you use gentle words to speak to your wives?

This Valentine's Day, let me tell you about a love relationship that began a long, long time ago.

Sex symbol? Or great lover? Which one do you want to be?

Men, are you communicating love to your wives?

When every direction seems confusing, how do you know where to go?

The beautiful people on TV and the movies don't look quite as good up close.

Now tell the truth. Why did you get married? Seriously. Was it for sex? Romance? Security? To have children? Why did you get married?

Let me ask you a question. If I walked into your house today, would I be able to tell what your family really believes?

You were sincere when you said your marriage vows, did you mean them?

If your child is going through a rough time; PLEASE, please, don't give up on him!

Is your marriage ready for the golden years?

As a parent, do you have any goals?

Our church surveys indicate that 75 percent of parents pray for their children, and only 35 percent pray with their children.

At some point, your children will be exposed to people who don't share your values.

If you were diagnosed with a life-threatening disease, would you change the way you're spending your time?

Parents have the wonderful opportunity of preparing children to be a light to a dark world.

God can provide more protection to our children than we as their parents can.

Does your spouse know your most painful memories?

It seems like teenagers have a knack for putting their parents' love to the test.

Would you like to grow a spiritually strong family? Then make sure you're feeding them nutritious spiritual food.

As a parent, you could be the source of your child's anger.

If you're a follower of Jesus Christ, sharing your faith with others… isn't optional.

This may come as a surprise, but other people have problems in their marriage just like you.

Let me ask you a question. Are there any landmarks in your home?

Okay. Think about this one… What are the three hardest words to say to another person? I'll bet you can't guess.

Besides making New Year's resolutions, what are some other ways you can look ahead and be purposeful about your life this coming year?

If you're a dad, there are some "little eyes" watching every move that you make.

Does the thought of sharing your faith with others make you kinda weak in the knees?

Men, if you're like me, you may need a little practical help at loving your wife creatively and romantically.

In the midst of all your family's Christmas activities, whatever you do, don't forget Christ.

When Jesus Christ is our Master, as Dr. Ray Stedman once said, The ship won't sink and the storm won't last forever.

When is the last time you had a good laugh with your family?

Now, I'm no seamstress, but I'm about to tell you how your marriage is like sewing a dress from a pattern."

My guess is that you either need one, or you can be one. What am I talking about? Keep listening.

Nothing will pull a team apart like selfishness.

Could I ask you a question? What do you want your last words to be?

Are your child's activities for their benefit, or for yours?

One of the hardest things for a parent to say to a child is, "I was wrong."

If you're a parent, I have a question for you. Are you living by the same standards that you've set for your children?

If you're married, what does your mate need from you more than anything else? Do you really know?

Were your spirits ever lifted up by something someone said to you?

Every dad is the manager of one of the most important organizations in all the world.

(singing: "Just an old-fashioned love song Now, I'm no musician, but I do know enough to know that if two people aren't singing together, it sounds horrible.

What you're about to hear is one sure-fire way to be lonely.

I've noticed that for newlyweds, reality often begins before the honeymoon ends.

I don't mean to sound alarming, but your days are numbered!

When life throws you a curve, will your marriage come apart, or will it become stronger?

I've got an interesting question for you. When you were a child, did you ever try to pull the wool over your parents' eyes?

Mom! Dad! You're on duty, Your mission is simple: protect your children.

Today, Don't settle for left overs.

Did you know God wants you to give thanks…no matter what?

Thanksgiving is a great day to build meaningful family traditions.

At our house, we celebrate Thanksgiving with five kernels of corn.

There's a right way, and a wrong way to teach your children.

How do you decide that your child is too busy?

We in America value individuality. But is that good for a marriage?

Are you and your family looking for a good church to attend? I've got some advice for you.

Do you know what the "big three" sources of temptation are? They're the world, our selfishness, and the Devil.

Do you respect your spouse? Does your spouse respect you?

There's a lost art today. The lost art of Grandparenting.

If you want a happy marriage, why don't you spend a little more time thinking about your spouse.

Did you know that you can make a big difference in the success of a younger couple's marriage?

Men, what's the most courageous thing you've ever done in all your life?

Men, do you have Low? That's right, C, as in the letter C.

Men, can you name your sons hero?

Hey, dads, are your sons getting enough boy time?

Men, listen up! Do you know which step you're standing on?

The choices children make in junior high can have a lasting impact.

Every day provides an opportunity to fill your wife's emotional tank.

When a young man and a young woman walk down the aisle to get married, their relationship with their parents should change.

What causes your family stress?

Every chance you have to connect with your children is valuable.

In my home, there were seven children growing up. Ashley, Benjamin, Samuel, Rebecca, Debra, Laura -- and a child named Nobody.

I'm afraid that among most of us, thinking has become a lost art.

Raising a child is more than a tough job. It's also a privilege.

Has the romance in your marriage begun to cool?

Training soldiers and training children have a lot in common.

In your family, is Sunday more a "day of rest," or a "day of stress"?

Want to teach your child an important lesson? This new school year is a great time to do it.

What does playing a violin and raising children have in common?

Can a child really study and listen to music all the time? You may be surprised at the answer.

Would you go to sleep knowing a fire is burning out of control right outside your house?

Have you ever heard of the "if" maneuver?

Have you ever felt a little "under the pile"?

Your children are probably pretty smart. But they can't read your mind.

So many people chase after a fantasy, only to be surprised when reality kicks in.

Peer pressure is not always bad.

What are you doing today that will have the greatest impact on the future?

How do you know your children are obeying you?

What's the most significant thing you've done today? Now take a second and think about it.

A lack of communication can literally lead to death.

Is there anyone in your life willing to look you in the eye and ask, "Are you clean?"

Do you realize that your son or daughter could change the world?

When we give people words of encouragement, we are saying we think they're valuable.

Teenage daughters need their dads, and teenage sons need their moms.

What do you do when your children have a nightmare?

You give something valuable to your child when you teach him to give to others.

When is the last time your family sat down for dinner together?

What have your children taught you recently?

What's the most dangerous time in your child's life as you raise them to maturity?

Did you know beautiful things come out of difficult circumstances.

What does it mean to honor your father and mother?

Do you find it difficult to say "I'm sorry"?

What could you do to offer friendship and support to a military family?

When you think about retirement, how do you envision it?

Are you becoming a better friend to your spouse?

When's the last time you told your father, "thank you"?

Do you understand your dad, and where he came from?

Have you given your spouse complete access to your life?

In this modern day culture, have you ever thought of yourself as a shepherd?

When you were first married, you just knew you'd always be faithful to your spouse, right?

It IS possible for a single parent to raise a Godly child.

Do you want to know how to have a truly satisfying life?

Do your children tell you they have bad habits they just can't break?

In your family relationships, is your tounge more like an ice pick or a paint brush?

I think there's something today that's become a lost art…it's manners.

I know it's hard to believe, but every parent makes mistakes.

Childhood - it ends so quickly.

Why is it that couples that pray together are more likely to stay together?

Treating your parents as friends is a sign of growing up.

Men, are you truly protecting your wives?

The first step to being forgiven is to admit you are wrong.

If you're a single parent, do your spiritual batteries need recharging?

Have you done recently to create some romance - you know, some real sparkle and sizzle in your marriage?

What types of dates did you and your spouse go on before you married?

31 years ago, when I married my wife, I told her I loved her, that day. And if I ever change my mind, I'll be sure and tell her that, too.

I love my wife because of how much respect I have for her and all that she does for me. I love my wife because I think she's cute.

I remember when I was 29 years old. My dad was dying with cancer, and I had just made a major career change, my wife was unexpectedly pregnant with our first child. That all happened within a three-month period. It was hard.

I don't look forward to growing old, but I do look forward to the time when the kids are out of the house, and we can spend more dedicated time together, and be more spontaneous.

Some children at recess had signaled with the third middle finger. She was asking me what that meant, and why was it mean or not nice.

Why is it that some men just don't act like men?

Listen to this woman describe the time she and her husband signed a written marriage covennant

I have written my own story of things that I remember about my life and now I'm preserving the things that I want my grandchildren and great - grandchildren to know about me.

Gotta be the great dad, a good listener to your wife, cut the grass, lead family devotions, win at work, serve at church...it's kind of exhausting. I get tired just thinking about it. Maybe I have low T!

Now I realize this is an unfair question, but it's for every dad. Do you work harder at home or on the job?

How far is your teenager willing to go with the opposite sex prior to marriage?

Do you realize that your son or daughter could change the world?

Everyone - and I mean, everyone - needs to be encouraged.

As parents, it's not enough to teach character. We must also model character.

Do you know your children's deepest fears?

When I left home for college, I learned the power of some important words.

Children can teach adults a thing or to about the way to show love.

Even when they're very different, brothers and sisters can learn to become friends.

Every mom and dad needs to learn the value of a shut door.

In order to be close to someone, you have to take some risks.

Does it feel good to you, to give something to another person?

Can you help your children feel good about themselves?

When thinking of your spouse, is the glass half empty? Or half full?

God has created each person for a very special purpose. Please note: The missionary to China Dennis Rainey referenced in today’s recording is Grace Aylward, not Elizabeth.

Does absence makes the heart grow fonder? Or does it tempt the heart to wander?

If you are in the habit of telling lies, you may start to notice your children doing the same thing.

There are times in your life when you need to change the direction you're going.

Teach your children that rules and boundaries exist, not to restrict us, but also to protect us.

Will your child bend to the winds of peer pressure or will they stand firm?

Do any of your New Year's Resolutions include improving your marriage?

Do you know what direction your children are headed?

Who is really in control of your life? Is it you? Or is it Jesus Christ?

As Christmas approaches, let me ask you a question? What's the best gift you've ever received?

Don't let The Grinch visit your home this Christmas.

For anyone who regrets an abortion in their past, there is forgiveness and RELIEF in Christ.

When it comes to holiday activities, simplicity is a beautiful thing.

Do you want to lower stress this Christmas? Set a budget.

What Christmas memories stand out in your mind?

Now let's be honest, what activities take over your schedule during the holidays?

How can you minimize stress this holiday season?

Let me ask you a question. Are you open enough to allow another person to confront you?

When your children complain, they're missing a chance to be thankful.

Would you ever consider starting a fire in your own home?

A picture is worth a thousand words. But could it be that words of praise are worth a thousand pictures?

You and your mate are not exactly alike. Know what? That's a good thing.

Is the competition for your spouse finished, or could someone else win his heart?

I think there are some moms that deserve a special award today.

Men, are you ready to grow...down?

Is the Bible a collection of nice stories? Or is it something even greater?

In marriage, we need to heed the advice of an old song.

When I grow up I wanna be ... a baby!?

Men, are you doing the sideways shuffle?

Men, do you have a secret mistress?

I think that apathy represents one of the greatest threats to a marriage.

Why is it so important to pray every day with your mate?

Talking is easy, right? Making sounds while moving our mouths to form words. But there's a lot more to good communication.

Being a mom is a huge assignment. Sometimes you just don't know where to turn for help.

Forgivness is a choice - not an emotion.

O.K. Word association: First word "Vulnerable"...second word? "prayer?

Men, is your prayer conduit clogged with sin?

When your phone rings, and it's your wife...do you answer?

Wondering how to get intimate with your spouse tonight?

Some of the most spiritually intimate times a husband and wife share happen on their knees.

As parents, how much do we want God? How much do our children really love Him and fear Him?

Let me ask you a question. Who does your child imitate? Who's his hero?

Whether you know it or not, your home is being invaded.

Sometimes, we need to ask our teenagers some tough, penetrating questions.

Ever feel like your marriage has slipped off into a ditch?

Do you spend your Labor Day holiday working or resting?

If you grew up with a workaholic parent, be careful you don't swing too far in the other direction.

Okay, dads, listen up. Do you know how to lead your family with vision?

What types of things are you spending your time collecting?

Sometimes the simple things in life can be the best teachers.

Ask any photographer, they'll tell you-one thing is essential for great photos: FOCUS.

Guest: Dennis Rainey | What does it mean to be isolated?

Let me ask you a personal question. Are things in your bedroom getting a little routine? Maybe it's time to re-fire the desire.

Men, we often need to give things up in order to truly show love to our wives.

What do you do when your child rolls his eyes at you and announces, "Whatever!"?

To whom are you accountable?

Is laughter encouraged or extinguished in your home?

Could your marriage use a little romance right now?

Once the children leave home, your life IS going to be different. Trust me.

How do you lead family devotions with a house full of wiggle worms?

Let me ask you a question. What do you think your last words would be, if you knew they'd be your last?

Are you teaching your children about the rich legacy of your family?

When it comes to a child's behavior, some of it is rebellion, but some of it is just plain childishness.

Do you trust your young child to spend the night at a friend's house?

Are your children prepared for peer pressure?

It should go without saying...slowing down and taking a break from the hectic pace of life is more than just a luxury.

Do you think its really possible to understand the mind of a teenager?

Do you ever give "preference" to your spouse?

In your house, does the word "no" really mean..."no"?

On a scale of one to ten, how would you rate the romance in your marriage?

Ah, yes, it's spring time, love is in the air, and more than just a few of you are making wedding plans!

Every married couple needs to face the decision. "When do we start having children?"

MS magazine once said, "Marriage is the only war where you sleep with the enemy."

One of the most important ways you can show that you love your spouse is by growing closer to God.

We've all heard that opposites attract. But did you ever wonder why?

Parenting can be tough, and when you encounter problems, where do you turn for help?

It has many men hooked, but it's not a drug. It destroys families, day in and day out. I'm talking about...pornography.

When should you start introducing your child to God?

What do you appreciate most about your mom?

Difficult decisions are never fun. But they can become less difficult if you really know what you believe.

Okay! Time for a pop quiz! Are you ready? Please list the Ten Commandments.

When is the last time you encouraged a worn - out mom?

Do you ever have trouble coming up with a good gift for Mother's Day?

The greeting card industry might look forward to Mother's Day even more than our moms do.

Do you know the history of Mother's Day?