Scot and Emily here, at your service. You might know us already from the X & Y On The Fly--Dating Podcast or The Chick Whisperer Podcast. But even if you don't, we're glad you're here. We're the dating coaches at X & Y Communications and spend a good bit of our time helping people just like you sort out their online profiles so that they can meet someone great. We met on Match.com ourselves (go figure) so what more fun could two human beings have than to do a show where we select a REAL online profile from Match.com every episode and OVERHAUL it? Who knows? Yours could be next! And be sure to get in on our action-packed newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com. We both also welcome your feedback and Match.com usernames at scot@deservewhatyouwant.com, emily@datetoorder.com, or via voicemail at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us. We appreciate reviews and ratings on iTunes. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support! If you'd like to once and for all get in on online dating yourself, join Match.com at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/match and receive a special bonus from us.
Show 11--Online Dating Profile Rating
He's a man of adventure with a heart of gold. His pictures are right on the money and he really knows how to paint a word picture. It's almost like he's been studying Grant Adams...almost... Find out how his online profile can go from good to great in this episode.
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Show 4--Online Dating Profile Rating
Her picture taken at the beach looks great. Too bad it's the only one up here. Nonetheless, learn what this adventurous yet classy lady did right when building her profile that would make any baby boomer's heart go bang.
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Show 15--Online Dating Profile Rating
Finally...a profile from a woman listener. And it's a REAL GOOD one. Plenty of positive takeaways from this one for the good of everyone listening. Also, an honest discussion of what "a few extra pounds" really means...
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Show 19--Online Dating Profile Rating
Brought to you by EliteMate (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/elitemate). How bad can a username get, exactly? You're about to find out. And just for good measure, discover how an otherwise very masculine man can completely lose everything he's worked so hard for all profile long...in three simple words.
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Show 2--Online Dating Profile Rating
We thought this lady was an underage fugitive from the 'Red Hat Society'...until we figured out that she was actually on her knees in a big sombrero hugging some guy's inseam. Ten seconds with 'Photoshop' and Scot and Emily could change this woman's life.
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Show 12--Online Dating Profile Rating
Will the 'cute college girl' look cut it for this 24-year-old? Perhaps...as long as she can lose 'Billy Idol' and get a grip on her own sense of self-esteem. Emily and Scot take what's good about this profile and demonstrate how to make it really shine.
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Show 7--Online Dating Profile Rating
Okay, there you have it. The shining example of what NOT to choose for a username. That's unfortunate because the rest of the profile is brilliantly executed right down to the pictures...well, except for the one with the Druids in it. That's just bizarre.
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Show 23--Online Dating Profile Rating
Now brought to you by Match.com (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/match). Well, it's kind of hard to attract fantastic women when most of one's pictures show the back of one's head. And even harder with black shoes and white socks...in shorts. But all of that aside, here we have a guy who truly GETS IT insofar as writing a profile narrative goes. Learn all about why that is, and also discover Emily's brand-new Click With Him Program for women (www.clickwithhim.com), all on this majorly overdue episode of ODPR.
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Show 5--Online Dating Profile Rating
Glamour Shots? Oh no, he didn't. But he did. But at least he salvages masculinity while somehow managing to give us all the feeling that we know this guy even LESS having read his profile. NOW WITH DRAMATICALLY IMPROVED SOUND QUALITY.
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Show 21--Online Dating Profile Rating
Now brought to you by Match.com (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/match). You've got to portray masculinity in your online profile if you are a guy. The trick, however, is to make sure you also do it in a way that actually ATTRACTS women. This guy's profile is a classic case study on both how to do that and how NOT to do that. Find out how that can be possible in this episode.
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Show 3--Online Dating Profile Rating
He's a CEO in a skull cap. He also wonders why he's online. Discussion on leadership skill, self-esteem, and 'legal separation' highlight this episode. And what does it say to a woman when a man has custody of the kids?
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Show 1--Online Dating Profile Rating
Come on now...are we really supposed to believe a man wants to go shopping, watch 'Grey's Anatomy' and have deep conversations? Not if he really wants to attract a woman he shouldn't! Scot and Emily launch their brand new podcast dedicated to online profile overhauls with a true challenge. My Podcast Alley feed! {pca-c69da4177b4e354f29ef8140a3ec458c}
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Show 14--Online Dating Profile Rating
So who does he look more like, Adam Sandler or that guy from 'Blues Clues'? It's hard to tell, which brings up a good question...should your pictures be consistent? Also, what's the right way to add 'mystery' to your persona short of creeping women out? Scot and Emily deal with all these major life questions and more in this episode, including how to talk about your drinking habits online.
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Show 24--Online Dating Profile Rating
Now brought to you by Match.com (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/match). It may seem like the profile of a 31-year-old woman...but is it really? Find out some possible earmarks of a fake profile as posted by man impersonating a woman online. Ultimately, however, this particular profile is a question mark...and not only because its authenticity is questionable. This goes WAY deeper. Check out Click With Him for women (www.clickwithhim.com) and Online Dating Domination for men (www.onlinedatingdomination.com).
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Show 6--Online Dating Profile Rating
She's young and blonde with a great smile. She's also the mother of twins! Oh wait...those aren't aren't actually her kids. At least we guess not.
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Show 18--Online Dating Profile Rating
Now brought to you by EliteMate (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/elitemate). On this show we meet a woman with high standards for the guy she wants to meet. That's great, but she's going to have to give that guy more information about herself than what her 'laundry list' looks like.
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Show 25--Online Dating Profile Rating
Brought to you by Match.com (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/match). If you are a guy and you look kind of young for your age, it's probably best to do what you can to come off more mature. The backpack picture and emphasis on being a full-time student probably won't help, though. And warning all the women out there about your mom DEFINITELY won't... Check out Click With Him for women (www.clickwithhim.com) and the newly-expanded Online Dating Domination for men (www.onlinedatingdomination.com).
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Show 20--Online Dating Profile Rating
Now brought to you by Match.com (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/match). Here we have the quintessential example of a 'comma chameleon'. She can be whatever you want her to be and has the exhaustive list of stuff in her profile to back it up. But is that really what it takes to separate oneself from the crowd? And are those who search 'Catholic' really going to be okay with the Shaman stuff and the tarot cards? Find out as we meet a lady who truly 'runs with the big dogs'.
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Show 16--Online Dating Profile Rating
OK, get your 'fire suit' on for this one because the going gets pretty rough. What happens when a man goes out of his way (or so it seems) to appear as deeply involved in the homosexual sub-culture as humanly possible? Not a whole lot...if he's really looking for women online as his profile states. And simply showing off that he has been somewhere cool like the Taj Mahal isn't going to redeem this one, either.
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Show 9--Online Dating Profile Rating
A widowed former beauty queen is living in the past...make that the PREHISTORIC past. But what kind of results will her strategy really get online? Emily and Scot take a hard look.
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Show 17--Online Dating Profile Rating
Here we have a profile that specializes in mixed-messages. The guy with a Jeep and a leather jacket likes to go shoe shopping. He's ambitious and confident...but wants to make sure it's okay with you to be friends. Scot and Emily tighten up the loose meanings.
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Show 22--Online Dating Profile Rating
Now brought to you by Match.com (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/match). OK, now we've got a profile from the kind of guy who Emily admits she may have actually replied to an e-mail from back when she was online. Or at least until she noticed those two MAJOR, MAJOR gaffes that probably ruin his chances with 99% of the women out there. And, well...except for the subtle apologies for being a man. And, um, all those commas. Come to think about it, this is a solid case of being 'so close, yet so far away', huh?
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Show 10--Online Dating Profile Rating
Today marks a special milestone for this show--we take on an actual profile belonging to one of our listeners for the first time. Will this high-flying pilot be able to make a high-altitude impression on the ladies? Find out why our he's so close to his destination yet so far away in this particularly exciting episode.
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Show 8--Online Dating Profile Rating
Today's show deals with honesty, body art, legal separation and "other" spirituality. What more could you ask for? Well...maybe we could have done without the pigs.
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Show 13--Online Dating Profile Rating
Why would this woman specify such a narrow income range in the guy she is looking for? Better yet, what does she mean when she says she'll 'try anything'? And above all, how would Emily and Scot answer an email that asks what to do about an online love affair that has lasted eight months--without the two of them actually meeting! Find out all of that and more in this action-packed episode.
