Join us, Topher and Thomas, two twenty-somethings who like guys but love God. We'll dive head-first into your questions about LGBTQ+ issues, church culture, and living authentically while giving our questionable advice. This is a safe place for real conversations, so come on in! Welcome to your Home from Home!
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75. Parenting LGBTQ+ Kids (ft. Ellen's Mom)
In this episode, we sit down with my mother and discuss her advice for Christian parents of LGBTQ+ kids!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
12/9/2023 • 28 minutes, 4 seconds
74. Wrestles with God
In this episode, we discuss how to stay close to god when wrestling through hard topics and we also talk about our tendency to run from God during this tension....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
12/2/2023 • 22 minutes, 23 seconds
73. Autumn Q & A
In this episode, we answer some of your questions! We discuss celebrating our sexual orientation and supporting our LGBTQ friends and colleagues alongside some of the difficulties we may navigate....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
10/1/2023 • 17 minutes, 3 seconds
72. What's the Best Part of Being SSA?
In this episode, we discuss the best parts of being SSA, we also talk about the tension of not being ashamed or reveling in its glory....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
9/17/2023 • 26 minutes, 40 seconds
71. Grief — Part II
In this episode, we wrap up our discussion on grief by talking through the intersection of grief and the LGBTQ community, we also discuss how we can move through grief which can sometimes be really complicated!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
7/28/2023 • 28 minutes, 26 seconds
70. Grief — Part I
In this episode, we discuss the journey and process of grief, we also talk about how it can be hard to navigate and talk about with others....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
7/8/2023 • 37 minutes, 40 seconds
69. Biblical Justice and the LGBTQ Community (ft. Hashim Warren)
In this episode, we welcome back Hashim to discuss the intersection between biblical justice and the LGBTQ community, we also talk about the hurts of injustice and how we can respond as Christians....Check out Hashim's Website and Reading Plan on Justice Year:https://justiceyear.com...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
6/1/2023 • 32 minutes, 4 seconds
68. Biblical Justice (ft. Hashim Warren)
In this episode, we invite Hashim Warren to discuss biblical justice and how God feels about it, we also discuss how difficult and polarising it can be!...Check out Hashim's Website and Reading Plan on Justice Year:https://justiceyear.com...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
5/26/2023 • 37 minutes, 54 seconds
67. Let's Have "The Talk"!
In this episode, we discuss, how, when, and where to talk to our children about sexuality and same-sex attraction, as well as the pitfalls of how complicated of a subject this can be....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
4/12/2023 • 36 minutes, 25 seconds
66. Friendships Growing Up (ft. Ellen's Childhood Best Friend)
In this episode, we welcome Katie, Ellen's childhood best friend, to discuss how friendships when growing up SSA can be complex, complicated but also enriching!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
4/5/2023 • 34 minutes, 23 seconds
65. It's All About the Relationship! (ft. Dr Jennifer Konzen)
In this episode, we invite Dr. Jennifer Konzen to discuss with us how it's all about the relationship, our relationship with God. We also discuss the pitfalls of when we make it all about everything but our relationship with God!Email Dr. Jennifer Konzen at:jenniferkonzen@yahoo.com ...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
2/12/2023 • 48 minutes, 33 seconds
64. Spiritual Mentors
In this episode, Morgan and Ellen discuss the value and impact of spiritual mentors. They also talk about the pitfalls when these mentors are absent from a teen’s life!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
1/24/2023 • 20 minutes, 9 seconds
63. Finding Identity
In this episode, Morgan and Ellen discuss the importance of finding our identity and the roles parents can play during these formative years, they also talk about the pitfalls of when we look outside of God to do so....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
1/7/2023 • 25 minutes
62. Woke Culture
In this episode, Morgan and Ellen discuss the intricacies of navigating woke culture as Christians. How do we love with compassion and empathy whilst upholding biblical statutes? Let's find out!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
12/7/2022 • 31 minutes, 55 seconds
61. Asexuality
In this episode, we discuss asexuality and what it means for both single and married Christians, we also talk about some pitfalls of this topic!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
11/18/2022 • 27 minutes, 31 seconds
60. Love Thyself
In this episode, Morgan and Ellen discuss how to practice self-love in a way not based on works, but a real and meditative connection with God and his love!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
11/4/2022 • 17 minutes, 54 seconds
59. Healthy Friendships!
In this episode, Morgan and Ellen discuss how to have healthy same-sex friendships that lean away from codependency and enmeshment yet are truly deep and fulfilling, rooted in a friendship with God!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
10/22/2022 • 29 minutes, 32 seconds
58. We're a Dad-Cast!
In this episode, we share some big announcements, giving an exciting podcast update as well as some very special news from Thomas!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
10/12/2022 • 29 minutes, 33 seconds
57. Dude-Bros, You Are Welcome
In this episode, we discuss the nuances of living amongst dude-bros as an SSA individual and some of the new strengths we have found in being same-sex attracted!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
6/25/2022 • 28 minutes, 9 seconds
56. How Do I Know if I'm SSA?
In this episode, we are back to discuss your questions on figuring out whether you could be same-sex attracted or not. We give some practical advice on indicators and frame the discussion within wider topics of labeling and identity. ...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
5/23/2022 • 27 minutes, 10 seconds
55. Gay and Christian? - New Testament Scriptures
In this fifth episode, we continue our series on pro-gay theology as we read Guy Hammond's new book 'Gay and Christian?'We address the second half of what Guy calls the 'Clobbering Six', scriptures that talk about homosexuality which are all written in the New Testament. We discuss these key scriptures, potential mistranslations, pro-gay interpretations, and where we stand within these discussions....To read along with us, you can find the book here:https://www.ipibooks.com/collections/all/products/gay-christian...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
4/1/2022 • 42 minutes, 34 seconds
54. Gay and Christian? - Old Testament Scriptures
In this fourth episode, we continue our series on pro-gay theology as we read Guy Hammond's new book 'Gay and Christian?'We address the first 3 scriptures of what Guy calls the 'Clobbering Six' which are all written in the Old Testament. We discuss these key scriptures, potential mistranslations, pro-gay interpretations, and how we resolve God's loving character in the Old Testament....To read along with us, you can find the book here:https://www.ipibooks.com/collections/all/products/gay-christian...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
3/14/2022 • 46 minutes, 34 seconds
53. Gay and Christian? - Biblical Arguments within Pro-Gay Theology
In this third episode, we continue our series on pro-gay theology as we read Guy Hammond's new book 'Gay and Christian?'We discuss some of the key biblical interpretations that support pro-gay theology. Why didn't Jesus mention homosexuality? Aren't we called not to judge as Christians? And how could the biblical authors have understood the monogamous and loving gay relationships we see today? Let's discuss!...To read along with us, you can find the book here:https://www.ipibooks.com/collections/all/products/gay-christian...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
2/11/2022 • 39 minutes, 12 seconds
52. Gay and Christian? - Relational Arguments within Pro-Gay Theology
In this second episode, we continue our series on pro-gay theology as we read Guy Hammond's new book 'Gay and Christian?'We discuss some of the key relational arguments that support pro-gay theology. Why shouldn't we follow our feelings if they feel so right? Why did God make me this way and who does homosexuality hurt anyway? Let's discuss!...To read along with us, you can find the book here:https://www.ipibooks.com/collections/all/products/gay-christian...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
1/11/2022 • 46 minutes, 5 seconds
51. Gay and Christian? - Introduction to Pro-Gay Theology
In this episode, we begin our series on pro-gay theology as we read Guy Hammond's new book 'Gay and Christian?' We overview the beginning of the book, looking at the history of pro-gay theology and discussing why it can be so difficult to not support pro-gay theology as Christians today....To read along with us, you can find the book here:https://www.ipibooks.com/collections/all/products/gay-christianhttps://www.amazon.com/Gay-Christian-Guy-Hammond/dp/1953623123 ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
12/17/2021 • 40 minutes, 2 seconds
50. Fifty Episodes Later!
In this special episode, we celebrate turning 50! Let's reminisce on our favourite conversations over the last fifty episodes. A lot has changed for the both of us and we've been so grateful to have been able to share this journey with you so far! Let's take a trip down memory lane. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
11/23/2021 • 32 minutes, 24 seconds
49. Mentor Crushes are the Worst!
In this episode, we tackle crushes on your same-sex mentor. Let's discuss how to set healthy boundaries in these spiritually intimate and meaningful relationships! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
11/6/2021 • 29 minutes, 30 seconds
48. Church Purity Culture & Sexuality
In this episode, we discuss growing up with a strong church purity culture and question the ways in which it could have affected our sense of self and sexuality! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
10/17/2021 • 31 minutes, 39 seconds
47. All You Need is Love!
In this episode, we discuss a question submitted by a parent of a 15 year-old same-sex attracted teen! Sometimes there feels like there are so many questions and things to try get right. We talk about the best things to prioritize and where to place our focus. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
10/7/2021 • 29 minutes, 47 seconds
46. Let's Talk About Therapy! (ft. Ellen Radcliff)
In this special episode, we welcome back Ellen Radcliff to help Thomas answer your questions about therapy and same-sex attraction. They discuss the ethical code behind therapy, operating in another person's worldview and how to have compassionate and proactive conversation. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
9/24/2021 • 34 minutes, 52 seconds
45. Topher's Coming Out
In this episode, we hear from Topher about his experience navigating coming out! We hear his stories about sharing with the first person all the way to coming out to his entire church! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
9/13/2021 • 31 minutes, 31 seconds
44. Back to School!
In this back to school episode, we talk about handling life as a same-sex attracted student and how have the best kind of interactions at school with your classmates or even your pupils! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
9/2/2021 • 27 minutes, 54 seconds
43. Body-ody-ody Issues
In this episode we discuss Thomas’s past struggles with chronic illness and the body image issues and insecurities which are so prevalent among men especially within the LGBTQ+ community! You really don't want to miss this one. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
8/23/2021 • 30 minutes, 20 seconds
42. I'm So Over It!
Welcome back to your home from home! In this episode, we reconvene to discuss a couple more of your burning questions on the hardships of being same sex attracted. We discuss our personal relationships with shame and same-sex attraction and how we relate to the five stages of grief personally. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
8/19/2021 • 31 minutes, 58 seconds
41. What's So Hard About Being SSA? — Q & A
Welcome to the final episode in our series on what's so hard about being same sex attracted.This week we tackle your questions addressing various hardships of being same sex attracted. We discuss opening up to someone you’ve known for a really long time, our varying points of view on physical touch, addressing the possibility of long term celibacy and dealing with overwhelming curiosities! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
7/26/2021 • 43 minutes, 11 seconds
40. What's So Hard About Being SSA? — Loss & Longing
Welcome to our 3rd episode in our series on what's so hard about being same-sex attracted. Today we address the feelings of loss and longing. What has the same-sex attracted Christian lost in their lives? What do they long for? How can we process loss to find healing and come to acceptance with pain? Stick around to find out! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7 ...Email us at: topherandthomas@gmail.com
7/12/2021 • 34 minutes, 28 seconds
39. What's So Hard About Being SSA? — Family & Relationships
Welcome to Episode 2 of what’s so hard about being SSA. This week we talk about the strain that same-sex attraction can place on the relationships in our lives especially within the Christian community. We discuss some potential road bumps with family, friends, crushes and partners! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
6/22/2021 • 47 minutes, 35 seconds
38. What's So Hard About Being SSA? — Identity and Belonging
We're back! Welcome to our new series on What’s So hard about being SSA! This month we’ll diver deeper into the pain and longing experienced by the same-sex attracted Christian with the aim of sharing our own stories and finding healing through vulnerability. Today we talk about contradictory feelings of identity and belonging both in our sexuality and in our relationship with God....Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
6/2/2021 • 44 minutes, 9 seconds
37. Special Q & A (ft. Guy Hammond)
Welcome to our special Q & A episode with Guy Hammond. We ask his advice on some of the trickier questions submitted by you, the listeners! We discuss keeping your attractions secret from your spouse, sex changes, same-sex divorce and address Guys approach within Strength in Weakness toward pro-gay theology....Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
5/14/2021 • 48 minutes, 29 seconds
36. Finding Guy — Part III (ft. Guy Hammond)
Welcome to episode 3 of Finding Guy.In this episode, Thomas sits down with Guy to hear about how he started the conversation on the church and homosexuality and began Strength in Weakness. What was it like giving up his job to share this story around the world? We hear Guy’s direct advice to the same-sex attracted Christian and the church and talk about how he stayed faithful through the loss of his wife Cathy.Watch Finding Guy - YoutubePart 1: https://youtu.be/Ey8BEWOg6VwPart 2: https://youtu.be/zvtKzTfYwboPart 3: https://youtu.be/teApciLVJJw...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
5/5/2021 • 47 minutes, 40 seconds
35. Finding Guy — Part II (ft. Guy Hammond)
Welcome to episode 2 of Finding Guy.In this episode, we follow Part II of the film 'Finding Guy' and sit down to talk about Guy's conversion to faith. What was this major transition like? How did he stay faithful? How did he fall in love and what is the reason he decided that God was enough? Let's find out!Watch Finding Guy - YoutubePart 1: https://youtu.be/Ey8BEWOg6VwPart 2: https://youtu.be/zvtKzTfYwboPart 3: https://youtu.be/teApciLVJJw...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
4/27/2021 • 44 minutes, 36 seconds
34. Finding Guy — Part I (ft. Guy Hammond)
Welcome to our first episode in our four-part mini-series on Finding Guy. We are delighted to welcome Guy Hammond, Executive Director and Founder of Strength in Weakness. We discuss Part I of his film, Finding Guy. We dive deeper into his experiences of childhood trauma, teenage relationships and early adulthood living as a gay man. How did his early experiences affect who he is today? Why did he not just give up on God? Let's ask him!Watch Finding Guy - YoutubePart 1: https://youtu.be/Ey8BEWOg6VwPart 2: https://youtu.be/zvtKzTfYwboPart 3: https://youtu.be/teApciLVJJw...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
4/15/2021 • 42 minutes, 21 seconds
33. Spring Q & A — Part II
Welcome to the second half of our Spring Q & A. In this episode, we discuss the belief in demonic spirits causing same-sex attraction, responding to the harm of conversion therapy, addressing loneliness and resentment toward love-crazed friends and we share our take on consuming gay-media and the need for representation. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.comFinding Guy Movie - YoutubePart 1: https://youtu.be/Ey8BEWOg6VwPart 2: https://youtu.be/zvtKzTfYwboPart 3: https://youtu.be/teApciLVJJw
4/8/2021 • 43 minutes, 32 seconds
32. Spring Q & A — Part I
Spring has sprung, the flowers are opening as we are opening some of your questions for the first half of our Spring Q & A. We offer dubious parenting advice for ages 5-10, discuss studying the bible with someone you have a crush on and address church culture as to why same-sex attracted disciples can find it hard to stick around. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
4/2/2021 • 43 minutes, 50 seconds
31. Growing Up SSA — Entering Adulthood
Welcome to our final episode in our four-part series on Growing Up SSA!In the episode, we’ve caught up to date as we talk about the process of entering adulthood. It has proven to be a difficult yet exciting time for us both. Join us as we discuss the scariness of independence, finding careers and love, dealing with old hurts and loss all the while trying to remain walking with God throughout our 20's!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
3/24/2021 • 39 minutes, 8 seconds
30. Growing Up SSA — Campus Life
Welcome to our third episode in our four-part series on Growing Up SSAIn this episode, we talk all about life on campus! We discuss the freedom and fear in moving out as students, broken hearts, messy encounters, opening up and discovering a deeper sense of identity and purpose in our trials!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
3/16/2021 • 39 minutes, 51 seconds
29. Growing Up SSA — Teenage Years
Welcome to the second episode in our four-part series on Growing Up SSA. In this episode, we talk all about our teenage years. We reminisce on old music, fashion and memories from school. We talk about the highs and lows of life as a same-sex attracted teenager and question the common experience of teenage shame....Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
3/11/2021 • 37 minutes, 25 seconds
28. Growing Up SSA — Remembering Childhood
Welcome to the first episode of our new, four-part series on Growing Up SSA. In this episode, we talk all about childhood. We reminisce on old friends, toys, music and mini-crushes and discuss the importance of childhood in same-sex attraction. Where does same-sex attraction come from and what contributes to it? What was feeling different like? How old were we when we knew we were same-sex attracted? Let’s discuss. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.comwww.strengthinweakness.org
3/1/2021 • 37 minutes, 5 seconds
27. Singleness, Relationships & Love — Mariage II (ft. Rolando and Kathy Gonzalez)
Welcome to our final episode in our four-part series on Singleness, Relationships and Love. Today we welcome Rolando and Kathy Gonzalez, who have had three kids and been married for over 30 years! We hear about both the joys and the trials of marriage whilst experiencing same-sex attraction. We are so grateful to soak up all the wisdom and maturity that they bring. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.comwww.strengthinweakness.org
2/23/2021 • 51 minutes, 53 seconds
26. Singleness, Relationships & Love — Marriage I (ft. Paul & Ellen Radcliff)
Welcome to Episode 3 in our four-part series on Singleness, Relationships and Love. Today we welcome Paul and Ellen Radcliff for our Marriage episode. Ellen, who is same-sex attracted has been happily married to Paul for a number of years now so we hear all about their relationship. We talk about dating, cultural expectations of feminity, the wedding night and receive lots of great advice!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.comwww.strengthinweakness.org
Welcome to Episode 2 in our four-part series on Singleness, Relationships and Love. Today we welcome someone very special, Thomas’s girlfriend, Sophia! We talk all about navigating a loving dating relationship when one partner is same-sex attracted. Warning, things are gonna get gushy!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.comwww.strengthinweakness.org
2/9/2021 • 45 minutes, 44 seconds
24. Singleness, Relationships & Love — Embracing Singleness
In this episode, we kick off Season 2 of Home from Home with our first mini-series on Singleness, Relationships and Love!Today we requestion singleness, diving into both cultural and spiritual perspectives of the topic. Is being single really a choice? A gift or a curse? A transitionary season or an exciting adventure? Let’s discuss!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.comwww.strengthinweakness.org
1/30/2021 • 46 minutes, 13 seconds
23. A Mother's Love: Interview with Deb Bowen
In this very special family episode, we welcome Deb Bowen to our home from home. We listen to her experiences as a mother of three wonderful children, two of whom came out as gay. We talk about the cultural expectations of a Christian family, kids coming home for Christmas, mourning, overcoming hurt and most importantly lighting up our homes with unconditional love. You really don't want to miss this one!
12/15/2020 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 41 seconds
22. Exploring Sexuality
In this episode, we talk about friendships with the opposite sex who are also same-sex attracted and a deeper discussion on exploring and celebrating sexuality whilst being a Christian. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7www.strengthinweakness.org
12/7/2020 • 36 minutes, 27 seconds
21. Let's Give Thanks!
In this special Thanksgiving episode, we give thanks! We talk about the things we are most grateful for, from music to coffee to God's unending patience, we talk about it all! It so good to remember God's blessings, so come join us around the thanksgiving dinner table, it's great to have you.
11/29/2020 • 36 minutes, 18 seconds
20. That's Just Not Who I Am!
In this 20th episode, we talk about walking through thick and thin with our friends, our culture in which we can often equate marriage with spiritual growth and some tips for a church leader in their local congregation ...oh and a special announcement!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7www.strengthinweakness.org
11/21/2020 • 38 minutes, 39 seconds
19. So Now What?
In this episode, we answer more of your questions with some personal reflection. We talk about any regrets in deciding to live for God and discuss our approaches to lust, security, belonging and longing and how God’s love really is the answer to it all. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7www.strengthinweakness.org
11/16/2020 • 34 minutes, 12 seconds
18. Hey Y'all
In this episode, we discuss whether we should say someone is cute or hot, taking on ministry responsibility despite spiritual ups and downs and our personal approaches toward pro-gay theology. ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7www.strengthinweakness.org
11/2/2020 • 35 minutes, 3 seconds
17. Refined or Defined?
In this episode, we discuss supporting LGBT causes, the use of they/them pronouns and the wider implications of gender in language and how to find peace in accepting same-sex attraction....Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7www.strengthinweakness.org
10/26/2020 • 30 minutes, 16 seconds
16. Homies From Home
In this episode, we discuss sharing your attractions with a new roommate, how to effectively bring Jesus into our conversations and tackle some quick-fire questions about handling tricky discussions with friends....Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7www.strengthinweakness.org
10/21/2020 • 31 minutes, 43 seconds
15. My Life is a Man Crush
In this episode, we try to uncover a biblical perspective on asexuality and answer your questions all about crushes and what to do with them!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7www.strengthinweakness.org
10/5/2020 • 29 minutes, 12 seconds
14. Your Beautiful Soul
In this episode, we discuss masculinity insecurities, how to welcome our LGBTQ+ friends into a church environment and cultivating an incredible friendship with someone who is also same-sex attracted!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7www.strengthinweakness.org
9/28/2020 • 30 minutes, 16 seconds
13. I Just Want Someone to Talk To
In this episode, we're back to just the two of us so we reminisce on how we started the podcast, talk about the importance of taking initiative, and discuss how to build effective communities of support!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7www.strengthinweakness.org
9/14/2020 • 28 minutes, 45 seconds
12. The Female Perspective: An Interview With Morgan Roberts
In this special extended episode, we welcome Morgan Roberts, a same-sex attracted woman, as she answers your special questions by women for women! She’ll share all about the differences between male and female same-sex attraction, relationships with guys and girls, the pressure to have a family and her found fulfilment in marriage! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7www.strengthinweakness.org
9/7/2020 • 55 minutes, 16 seconds
11. Warm, Fuzzy Feelings
In this relationships episode, we discuss our thoughts on being married to the opposite sex whilst being same-sex attracted, our own relational aspirations and tips for dating someone who is attracted to the same gender!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7
8/31/2020 • 30 minutes, 53 seconds
10. I'm Just a Kid and My Life is a Nightmare
In this episode, we talk about identifying as gay instead of ssa, give some specific advice to twins and talk about conflicts with your gay-identifying teenager! Also, stick around for our exciting announcement!...Submit your regular questions or women's episode questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7
8/24/2020 • 31 minutes, 23 seconds
9. Overflowing Hearts and Toilets
In this episode, we give advice on moving in together, question our use of gender pronouns, and talk about our experiences of both support and prejudice within our Christian community....Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at topherandthomas@gmail.com
8/17/2020 • 36 minutes, 26 seconds
8. A Man is Not a Plan
In this episode, we discuss speaking to kids about LGBT issues, the overwhelming desire for a same-sex partner and some practical tips on doing our best to stay pure! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7
8/10/2020 • 28 minutes, 39 seconds
7. It's Okay to Seek Help
In this episode, we discuss Romans 1; a key scripture on homosexuality, talk about the mental health challenges and suicidal ideation amongst LGBTQ+ youth and give some practical advice for picking yourself back up during difficult times!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7
8/3/2020 • 31 minutes, 26 seconds
6. Dude... Bro Out!
In this episode, let's dive deeper. We talk about gender norms, hanging out with girls or guys, acting effeminate/masculine, discuss whether someone is born gay and try to approach the gospel from a trans perspective. Goodness, we talk about a lot this episode!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7
7/27/2020 • 30 minutes, 44 seconds
5. Let's Get To Know You
In this special episode, we take a brief pause on answering your questions to ask each other some questions of our own! We'll share more of our personal stories with some fun along the way!...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7
7/20/2020 • 31 minutes, 52 seconds
4. Sleepover Stories
In this episode, we trade sleepover stories, discuss celebrating milestones in your child’s same-sex relationship and how to be super close with your LGBTQ+ colleagues! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7
7/13/2020 • 28 minutes, 59 seconds
3. Sweetie, You're Not That Special...
In this episode, we give seemingly harsh advice to younger selves and discuss our good and bad experiences in sharing about our attractions with friends! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7
7/6/2020 • 29 minutes, 38 seconds
2. Single and Ready to Mingle
In this episode, we answer questions on dating, studying the bible with someone who identifies as gay, and whether you should come out to your ministry! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7
6/29/2020 • 36 minutes, 18 seconds
1. Welcome Home!
In this episode, we discuss LGBTQ+ activism, Pride Month, identifying as same-sex attracted and how to find identity in Christ! ...Submit your questions here: https://forms.gle/FRG4nV525xSViRet7
