Happy New Year, Birds! In our first episode of 2024, Charleen and Ellie talk about New Years traditions and kisses. The girls listen back to the New Years Resolutions they made at the start of 2023 to see how many of them they stuck to, as well as making new Resolutions for the year ahead.The girls answer your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls, including whether a listener should wait around for a guy who is very busy with setting up a business right now? And should a girl stay with her boyfriend of four years when they don't do much together as a result of his anxieties?

We've got an update from a listener about a family dilemma!There's also brand new dilemmas this week. How can you stop loving your ex who you were with for 12 years? Does friends with benefits actually work? How do you approach a guy that you really like? And should you continue to speak to someone when you know you're moving abroad soon?

We are joined by Bee, Ro and Teddy C of the Ireland's dance pop trio, Chasing Abbey! The lads chat to us about their start in music together, achieving number one songs, supporting international superstars and playing sold out live shows around Europe. They also open up about relationships and how to maintain them while touring. And they let us in on what to expect from their upcoming shows at the 3Olympia Theatre on Friday, 5th April and Saturday, 4th May 2024! You can get tickets on chasingabbey.ie and make sure to follow @chasingabbey on social media!In Secrets From The Stalls, the girls help with a girl's dilemma about her boyfriend going to nightclubs when he has told her before that they are a "place to meet people". And what do you do when you're caught up with a family friend?

There is an update from a recent dilemma this week, as well as a whole bunch of new dilemmas too!Can you finally get through to your friend who keeps getting back together with her emotionally abusive and manipulative ex-boyfriend? Should you try things out with your ex-boyfriend's cousin? And what do you do if you're getting the ick from a boy and are nearly embarrassed to talk to anyone about him?

Disclaimer: This episode is not suitable for children! So parents, make sure you listen to this one alone!It's the Hold My Drink Christmas Special and we are feeling fully festive! Charleen and Ellie make some Christmas cocktails and chat about Christmas traditions, and the best and worst presents they've ever received. You sent in your Christmas dilemmas in this festive edition of Secrets From The Stalls, and the girls help with what to buy your boyfriend when it's your first Christmas together, getting re-gifted presents, and how to not ruin Christmas (or absolutely do) by drinking too much.We hope your Christmas is wonderfully peaceful and thanks for listening to Hold My Drink this year!

We've got an update on a healthy relationship that broke up and were considering getting back together - did they?! You'll find out in this episode, as well as hearing brand new dilemmas too.Can you forgive the boy you're seeing since June after he kissed someone else? Is the guy you ended up back in yours really just bad on his phone, or is there something he is hiding? And does your ex want to get back with you because he is calling and texting more often lately?

Warning: This episode contains conversations about violence and abuse.Charleen speaks about her attack that happened in February 2023, that left her with stitches in her head and personal trauma.If you are affected by anything spoken about in this episode, please visit www.womensaid.ie for support.

We've got a listener engagement update in this episode! As well as new dilemmas to be answered!Charleen and Ellie offer advice about how to get motivated to go the the gym. Will the boy that you were texting for over 3 years come back to you eventually, after he told you that it won't work out? And should one of our listeners get on the plane to America to tell the guy that she is in love with him too?

This week, we are joined by the winners of Love Island Season 7, Millie Grace Court and Liam Reardon! Millie and Liam tell us about their lives before Love Island, reveal some villa secrets, and what it was like receiving instant fame after the show. They chat about the expectations and realities of influencing and talk about some of their new business ventures and career goals. Millie and Liam also tell us the goss about getting back together after their break-up last summer!Charleen and Ellie answer dilemmas about how you can approach letting a boy know that you like him, and what to do when you feel like there's no one out there for you when you've been single all your life.

In this week's bonus episode, Charleen and Ellie help with extra dilemmas from you! How do you get to the bottom of rumours that your boyfriend has cheated on you? How can you and your best friend have your normal friendship without her boyfriend storming out every time you're around? What do you do if you feel your boyfriend is making no effort in your relationship? And how do you approach your partner about rarely receiving compliments from them?

If you missed out on attending any of our recent live shows, this week's episode is sure to give you a taste of what you can expect from them - fun, surprises and plenty of drink!Tuesday, 4th April 2023 LIVE at Vicar Street. We were thrilled to be joined by influencer, Sophie Murray and TikTok star, Kneevo as our special guests. The incredible Sean Phipps helped us out with a brand new segment called 'Hold My Sick'. We hosted Blind Date in a bid to find our good friend Jamie a lovely lady. And we answer dilemmas that have been sent to us by the audience!

It's your extra fix of dilemmas in the week! Should you stop texting your ex-boyfriend when you know he doesn't want to get back together? Do you go on nights out and trips abroad with your boyfriend and his best friend who you have issues with? How do you deal with a super clingy and crying best friend on nights out? And how do you stop thinking about your colleague who's in a 4-year relationship with someone else?

Ireland's top dating and relationship expert, Frances Kelleher is back this week! Frances discusses how to put yourself out there to date, masculine vs feminine energy, arguments in relationships tips for doing long distance, plus so much more. Frances also helps out with some dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls, including whether to give your boyfriend a second chance after he has cheated on you, and should you compromise with your partner who doesn't want any more kids or to get married when you definitely do?

We've got an update from a previous dilemma, as well as advice from one listener to another regarding your partner interacting with escorts.Charleen and Ellie advise whether you should try to get your friendships, or just let them drift away before you move abroad? And do you say something to your boyfriend about being put off that he got no grieve from his friends for getting with someone just before you, whereas you did get grieve from them?

Ireland's top dating and relationship expert, Frances Kelleher joins us this week to give advice on some of your dilemmas and questions to do with your own dates, situationships and relationships - from feeling clingy, how to master dating apps, to the perfect first date.Frances also helped with your Secrets From The Stalls, including dealing with the feeling that you are going to be cheated on again in future relationships, advice on how to navigate a relationship with a housemate and not make it awkward for others living under the same roof, and should you get back with your boyfriend after a break?You can get in touch with Frances through her website or on social media:www.franceskellehercoaching.com@franceskellehercoaching

This is our bonus episode where we get to answer even more of your dilemmas in the week! Is your boyfriend of 6+ years up to things with his co-worker whose been brought up a few times and he is spending a lot of time with recently? How can you get over a situationship? Do you split from your husband who has been trying to call an escort's number? And what do you do if you partner's friend keeps asking you really personal questions?

We bring you Part 2 to one of the funniest episodes we've ever released - from takeaway receipts being found and leaving dates to go on a date with another girl, Instagram glitches, and pretending to leave the country to avoid your birthday, you share some of the WILDEST lies a man has ever told you!Charleen and Ellie help with a dilemma about an ex-girlfriend who keeps following and unfollowing the listener's boyfriend on Instagram in a bid to get his attention. And should one male listener get back with his complicated ex-boyfriend after finding him on hookup apps twice before?

It's dilemma time, and there are some tricky situations to delve into this week. What advice can be given to feel less lonely and anxious in college, when your friends are in a different college having a great time? Is your boyfriend not prioritising you anymore, and what can you do? How can you forgive your ex, open yourself back up to him and get back to where your relationship was before? And should you trust your partner of 8 years who never goes on nights out, but when he did once, he stayed out until 7am?

To celebrate the 2nd Birthday of Hold My Drink, Charleen and Ellie are exposing each other - asking each other unfiltered and unapproved questions that they have to answer and spilling all the gossip on themselves - from favourite and least favourite ex boyfriends, biggest regrets in life, last time they lied and so much more!The girls catch up on the live shows in Cork and Dublin - a big thanks to all of you who came, we hope you enjoyed it as much as us! And, of course, there's help with some tricky dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls.

On this week's bonus episode, Charleen and Ellie help with a wedding dilemma - if your friends are fighting, do you just have a smaller wedding and not invite them to save you any headaches? How do you save a friendship after cancelling on and neglecting your best friend, to be with your boyfriend but without even realising you were doing it? Is the boy you're talking to interested in another girl because he is resharing her photos on VSCO? And is it okay to speak to and potentially get with your ex-best friend's ex-situationship?

Singer, actor and former YouTube star, Beau Brooks joins us this week. Beau chats to us about starting the Janoskians Youtube channel, their quick rise to international fame and the pros and cons that come with the stardom. He opens up about his own personal struggles as a result of the intense fame, including a battle with his mental health and addiction. Beau tells us about his sobriety and weight loss journey, and his decision to carve his career now all by himself.Charleen and Beau have actually met before...10 years ago! You'll hear about that in Wait Til I Tell Ya (and check out @holdmydrinkpod on Instagram to see the recreation of their photo!) And the girls help with a friendship group dilemma in Secrets From The Stalls!

There are some tricky dilemmas to be answered in this bonus episode! Should you drop out of college when you're dreading it, or stick it out to see if it's just feelings around the early weeks? How do you cope with a breakup that you think happened because of your ex-boyfriend's mental health? And is your partner capable of changing their ways when they tend to take things too far on nights out?

What are working hours like as influencer? Can you ever fully switch off from the online world? Do you ever feel overwhelmed by your work? And has your career had an impact on personal relationships in your life? This week, Charleen and Ellie discuss what having a career in social media is really life - the pros, the cons and the things you never thought about.Charleen and Ellie help with a dilemma about a girl who is questioning whether she is a bad girlfriend for trying to persuade her boyfriend to go with his thoughts of getting braces. And it's live show week - we cannot wait to see you in Cork on Friday night, and Dublin on Saturday and Sunday night!

Ready for your extra helping of dilemmas? Charleen and Ellie give advice to a listener who's heart has been broken over a boy she knew in person for just 10 days but now lives abroad. How can you feel better about not getting any male attention? Why has the boy you've been seeing suddenly gone MIA in person, but is still texts you every day? And what are the pros and cons of a breast augmentation?

Global superstar DJ and producer, Joel Corry joins us this week to chat about his new album, 'Another Friday Night', which is out now! Joel tells us about his DJ roots, the importance of music knowledge in his career, gigging festivals in Ireland and abroad, and his biggest ick and red flag.Since it's a special episode with a special guest, we bring you an extended version of Secrets From The Stalls, which means we are getting to answer even more of your dilemmas! How do you get the confidence back to re-enter the dating world after a failed situationship? Is it bad to make more of an effort for your boyfriend's friend's girlfriends, than your own girlfriends? Can you look past your boyfriend making vulgar comments on a social media post 5 years ago? And do you stay or leave if your partner doesn't want marriage and kids, and you know you do?

Ready to hear some extra dilemmas? Is it disrespectful for your boyfriend to look up other girls on Instagram? Should you tell your ex's girlfriend that he cheated on her with you in an attempt to shut off communication with him for good? And is closure from an ex needed, even when you're in a loving, happy relationship now?

This week, we are talking about some of the crazy and desperate things that you’ve done for love, either to get someone's attention, to be with someone or in a bid to keep a partner. Charleen and Ellie tell their own, and our listeners share theirs, including wearing certain clothes, unfollowing people on social media, paying for things and lending money and so many more!Ellie tells us about a viewing she had recently as her search for a house continues, and the girls Sip or Skip to getting with an ex's friend.In Secrets From The Stalls, Charleen and Ellie help with a dilemma about wanting to confess feelings to a boy that you've friend-zoned in the past that says he's not interested in a relationship right now. And does the boy in work really fancy you?

Charleen and Ellie are here to answer some extra dilemmas in this week's bonus episode. Should you tell your boyfriend that you cheated on him 5 years ago, or keep living on being as happy as you both are? Why is your friend suddenly being off with you since coming back from your holiday? And should you wait for a man who you've been seeing for so long who you know deep down will never leave his girlfriend?

DJ and Radio Presenter, Marty Guilfoyle joins us this week to talk about nightlife culture. Is the drink and drugs scene prevalent in Ireland? Do people feel pressure to consume alcohol or drugs to enjoy a night out these days? What is the future for Irish night life with so many venues shutting down?Marty also tells about the drama he found himself in surrounding the GOAT House, and goes through some of his experiences playing different venues at home and abroad as a DJ. Trigger warning: This episode includes conversations around food, eating disorders, exercise and body confidence. It is discussed from 53:20 in our Secrets From The Stalls segment.

Extra dilemmas? Extra Juice!Charleen and Ellie help with advice on flirting when you feel like nobody will ever be interested in you. How do you help someone who can't see they need help with their anxiety and behaviour towards people? Should you feel worried about another girl catching your partner's eye? And should you wait for the man you're meeting to separate with his wife like he said he would, or are you just holding out false hope?

Charleen and Ellie talk Girl Math! These are the things that only add up for girls. Paying with cash vs card, returning online purchases, loyalty cards, hair washing days and much more.Charleen explains the full story about how she got to sing with Rita Ora.And in Secrets From The Stalls, the girls help with a dilemma about a girl who is wondering whether to let go of her ex who broke up with her because he couldn’t give her what she wants, or wait for him to sort out his past trauma. Plus, is it forgivable for your partner to forget your birthday, not one, but TWO YEARS in a row?!

Ready to hear some bonus dilemmas? Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer them!Should you continue to reach out to friends when they're not putting in effort to communicate while you're living abroad? Is going out in college overrated? And do you cut off a guy that is giving fear of commitment vibes, or try to navigate the chemistry?

If you could go back in time and give your teenage self advice, what would it be? Charleen and Ellie discuss some things that they wish they knew in their teens, including advice about relationships and confidence. We also asked you to tell us what you would want to say to the younger you, including advice about peer pressure, dating, body image, school, friendships and much more. Charleen's Wait Til I Tell You is a wholesome one this week, and both her and Ellie Sip or Skip to whether or not you should wait until your 20s for a serious relationship, so that you can enjoy your teenage years. The girls also answer some listener dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls, including whether you a guy you met while travelling during the summer really likes you or is just being nice, and what you should do if your boyfriend is being sketchy with his phone.

It's your extra fix of dilemmas in the week! Charleen and Ellie are giving advice to a boy who has outgrow his friends and wants to "bin them off as quickly as possible". Should you tell someone if your colleague is making sexual remarks to you in work, even when he says he's "joking"? And what should you do if your boyfriend is never the one to make plans with you anymore, or sometimes doesn't say he loves you back?

It's the 100th episode of Hold My Drink! To celebrate, we've invited back two of our favourite guests - Kneevo and Sean Phipps! Kneevo tells us about her future on OnlyFans, her new business mindset and the turning point of her online career. Sean tells us about his upcoming move to Australia, being king of the roller discos and his new social media segment that he will start in Oz.Producer Leanne has a mystery segment that leaves Charleen and Ellie in tears. The girls reminisce on the beginnings of the podcast, and even listen back to some clips from the very first episode.Thank you for listening to 100 episodes of Hold My Drink. We are so incredibly grateful to you and happy to have this wonderful community of all of you. Here's to 100 more episodes <3

We absolutely love getting updates from you about dilemmas we've answered, and we've got two updates this week!Charleen and Ellie are answering some new dilemmas too. What do you say when you're soon-to-be mother-in-law all of a sudden wants to start getting involved with your life and is wanting to go baby and wedding shopping with you? How do you know if you need to stop putting effort into a friendship and let it just move on? And do you say something to your Dad after spotting him in a questionable Facebook group?

Holistic sex educator, Jenny Keane (@hellojennykeane) joins us this week to talk all things sex - the importance of sex education, communication around pleasure, porn, sex drives and types of sex. Jenny answers some of your questions on the topic, including having a partner who has never had sex before, and experiencing pain during sex.If you are headed to Electric Picnic this weekend, be sure to catch Hold My Drink LIVE on the podcast stage on Saturday, 2nd September from 6:15 - 7:15pm!Our Cork and Wexford live shows are sold out. There are limited tickets left for our Vicar Street shows on Saturday, 21st and Sunday, 22nd October, which you can get now on ticketmaster.ie. There are also limited tickets left for our Limerick show on Thursday, 16th November, which you can get now on uch.ie or by phoning the UCH box office on (061) 331 549.

We've got a very SPICY update from a listener - you're not ready for this!Plus, there are fresh new dilemmas to answer! Should you break things off with a guy you really like because he's said he has commitment issues and doesn't believe in marriage? And what can you do for yourself when you feel lonely and that you have no friends in college?

You asked, Charleen answered! This week, you are finding out everything you want to know about her, including her biggest regrets in life, happiest moment, her move out of home happening at the moment, if she changed as a person since her break with Dano and plenty more! Charleen and Ellie have exciting updates about the live shows in October, and they're also answering some of your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls - what should a girl do after being left alone by a friend who went to see a boy on holidays, and are your friends overreacting by saying your boyfriend is being possessive?

Charleen and Ellie are answering some more of your dilemmas in this week's bonus episode! How do you trust that in time, things will work out between you and your ex when the love is still there for each other? What does it mean when someone who has blocked you on social media suddenly unblocks you? How can you try to build yourself back up after a broken situationship? Do you tell your co-worker that you've caught feelings for them? And what do you do when your boyfriend goes mad over a photograph of you and a male family friend?

Charleen and Ellie deep dive into their bucket lists, and Charleen has definitely given this more thought than Ellie with a Bucket List BOOK! From travelling and fancy cars, to meeting celebrities, this bucket list book leaves nothing unturned! We also ask you to share some of the things on your bucket list too. In Secrets From The Stalls, the girls answer a dilemma about her boyfriend's ex who is still obsessed with him, and another about a girl who has gotten the ick for her friend!

We've got updates this week! Of course, there are also brand new dilemmas to be answered too. How do you go about starting a career in social media when you fear what others might think of you? Is it normal to dread moving abroad? And what do you do if your boyfriend is giving you the ick a lot lately?

Singer-songwriter, Cian Ducrot joins us this week! Cian tells us about growing up in Cork, his school days, pursuing a career in music, the importance of believing in yourself, his ADHD diagnosis, his famous flashmobs, and touring with the one and only Ed Sheeran! There's also an impromptu songwriting session in this episode! In Secrets From The Stalls, Charleen and Ellie help with a dilemma from a girl who is unsure about rekindling things with her ex-boyfriend.

It's your extra fix of dilemmas in the week and Charleen and Ellie are ready to give some advice! How do you have a conversation with your best friend about her "angry" and "possessive" boyfriend? What advice is there to build up the confidence to kiss? Should you stay with or leave your boyfriend when your relationship has changed a lot since moving abroad? And how can you feel good about yourself again since gaining weight?

This week, Charleen and Ellie are joined by singer-songwriter and lovely human, Anne-Marie! She chats about her new album 'Unhealthy' which is out now, playing in front of Irish crowds, the weirdest things people have thrown onstage at her gigs and her dream collaborations. We are also bringing you extended Secrets From The Stalls for this special episode! Why is the boy your seeing only staying over with you after he's had a few drinks? Do you tell your friend that you're getting red flags and bad vibes from her boyfriend? How do you go about cutting people out of your life when they've done nothing wrong? Why is the boy your seeing gone distant since you went on holidays together? And how do you put yourself out there to make new friends and meet somebody?

More dilemmas means more episodes! This week, Charleen and Ellie are helping with advice for a girl who is seeing someone that keeps getting with girls on nights out. Do you hold out for the guy you're speaking to everyday to break up with his fiancee? And should you take a job 4 hours away from your significant other in the same country, when you've already been doing long distance from another country?

In the lead up to their birthdays next month, Charleen and Ellie are reminiscing on some of their best and worst birthdays. Do they celebrate every year with a party, or just the big birthdays, like 16, 18, 21 etc.? We also hear some of our listeners birthday stories - the good, the bad and the ugly! The girls are helping with some tricky dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls too. How do you break-up with your hairdresser? And should you be suspicious if your boyfriend's female colleague is ringing him at 4am?

There's some tricky dilemmas to answer this week, but Charleen and Ellie are on hand with advice. Should a guy meet up with an ex-girlfriend for closure after 3 years, and when he wants to get possibly get back together with her? Do you break up with your partner if they're getting on your nerves a lot recently and you're not attracted to them anymore? And how can you shift the feeling of worry after your boyfriend (who previously told you he was bi-curious) tried to kiss one of his guy friends on a night out?

Would you go on a girls or lads holiday if you were in a relationship? And would you be happy with your partner going on one either? Charleen and Ellie talk about Leaving Cert holidays, girls trips they've been on, and how girls and guys act on nights out abroad. They also chat about some of your worries when it comes to your other half going on a trip with friends, including the possibility of cheating, being encouraged to do bad things by friends and lack of communication with you. In Secrets From The Stalls, the girls answer a dilemma about a girl who can't stop thinking about a boy she met on holidays, despite being in a relationship at the moment. And is it okay for your boyfriend to "grab" your phone and snoop through your messages?

We've got updates from a girl about her brother's girlfriend making nasty comments towards her, and another about potentially needing a friendship breakup. Is "pretty privilege" a thing in certain industries and can it really be the reason for your success? What can you do when you feel like your sibling is spending more time with their partner and growing apart from you? And how do you know if you're boyfriend is really sexually attracted to you, or if there is just something wrong in the bedroom?

A one-sided relationship can be described as one where either you or your partner are giving more energy, time, effort and support than the other person. How do you know if you are in a one-sided relationship, why do people stay, and when should you leave it? Charleen and Ellie discuss and mention some of their own personal experiences of these types of relationships. The girls answer a dilemma about a girl who isn't sure if her work colleague is flirting with her, or just being friendly, and they also help to figure out when is the best time to introduce the person you're seeing to your family and friends. PLUS there is a NEW SEGMENT in this week's episode!

There are some tough dilemmas to answer in this week's bonus episode. Should you leave a situation with your ex now or give it a chance to see if he actually does what you ask of him? Why is your best friend distancing from you and not telling you important things going on in her life anymore? How do you bring up a conversation with your financé that you don't like the person he is when he's drinking? And should you keep texting the boy you really like that's moved away to Australia, or break it off now?

The long-awaited and highly-anticipated Dano Mandroiu is on the podcast this week! He chats about his professional footballer career and family life, as well as his relationship with Charleen - who starts and finishes arguments, icks about each other and whether Dano knew him and Charleen would get back together again?! Charleen and Ellie also help with advice for a few dilemmas. How can you move on from someone who you thought was the love of your life? And what should you do when your boyfriend doesn't say "I love you" back?

For the first time ever on our bonus episode, we've got a special guest to help answer your extra dilemmas alongside Charleen and Ellie! The wonderful Holly McAllister (@hollymcallisterrr) is here with some amazing advice, and also talks about some of her personal experiences, including her recent breakup. Do you keep reconnecting with the same person for a reason? How can you stop comparing every single person you're with to your previous situationship? And why has a boy that's gone to so much effort to find out about you suddenly started pulling back?

This week, Charleen and Ellie do a deep dive into rebranding and reinventing yourself - something the girls admit to having done a few times in the past. Do different groups of people see you differently? When is a rebrand most common? And if you feel the need to rebrand, what advice can be given to you? In Secrets From The Stalls, Charleen and Ellie give advice to a listener who is not getting good vibes from her best friend's boyfriend - should she say something to the friend? And would your ex have reached out by now if he wanted you back, or is he just stubborn?

Some tricky dilemmas to be answered in this week's bonus episode. How can you prepare for a serious relationship when all your confidence comes from alcohol? Did you actually like the boy you met on a night out, or was it the potential you liked? Should you reach out to friends who aren't keeping in touch with you while you're living abroad? And why haven't you heard back from someone who said they wanted to plan a second date with you?

This week, the music management legend, Louis Walsh, joins Charleen and Ellie on Hold My Drink. Louis gives us all the gossip on what the X Factor was really like behind the scenes, including the judges and contestants on it, and the formation of huge bands such as One Direction and JLS. He gives the reason why it's not on our TV screens anymore, and talks about if we could ever see another Irish talent show like You're A Star or Ireland's Got Talent again. Louis explains why some artists have great success in the music business, and why others may fail. He also reveals his upcoming projects, as well as some of his favourite stores and restaurants in Dublin! The girls are answering a dilemma about feeling guilty for outgrowing a friend in Secrets From The Stalls, and they also decide whether a popstar life would be for them!

It's your extra fix of dilemmas in the week! On today's bonus episode, Charleen and Ellie help with advice for a girl who has found out her boyfriend has been cheating on her with his ex girlfriend for the past 2 years. Who should you go with when having to choose between two boys? And should you leave your relationship if your partner does not propose to you when you want them to so badly?

This week, Charleen and Ellie are talking all things sex - from first times and self-confidence in the bedroom, to libidos and fetishes. The girls also answer some sex dilemmas for Secrets From The Stalls. How soon is too soon to have sex with someone you're seeing? How do you manage your partner having a low sex drive? And how can you shake the thoughts of your fiancé having slept with other people in the past?

Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer some more of your dilemmas. Why has your boyfriend sudden changed from being clingy and wanting your love, to being slow at replying and not making plans with you? Are you "crazy" for feeling uncomfortable with the guy your seeing following other girls on social media? Should you do anything about the girl who seems to be a bit possessive over boys? And do you try to reach out to your friend again to see why she's stopped talking to you all of a sudden?

Charleen and Ellie reminisce on their memories of The Debs - the dresses they wore, how they were asked or how they did the asking, the dreaded corsage moment and so much more. We also asked for your debs stories, and they are wild - from falling off horses, going with jealous exes and puking on / ripping dresses. The girls answer some of your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls. How do you react with an old flame sending a photo of them in bed with someone else, 2 days after you were together? And what should you say or do if your partner isn't making time for you?

We've got updates in this bonus episode, and there may be tears shed. Charleen and Ellie also help out with a dilemma about a girlfriend who is tired of her boyfriend spending their only day together hungover. And is it worth going back to someone for just 4 months before they go away?

Life's been busy lately, so this week, Charleen and Ellie are catching up - from Charleen's recent holiday to Barbados, to school days, and having to call out people being inappropriate. The girls are also getting the hang of the new segment, Word Association. But everyone's favourite segment is back, Secrets From The Stalls. Should you keep talking to someone, although you're going on a J1 this summer, or should you call it off now? And how can you set boundaries with the guy you're seeing and with his friends?

It's Ellie again helping out with your dilemmas this week. Should you cut off a friendship with someone you used to have a thing with? Have you wasted two years studying a college degree that you don't have a passion for? And why is your boyfriend lacking on communication every couple of weeks?

While Charleen is away, Producer Leanne is stepping in to ask Ellie all of the juicy questions that you want to know about her - from life goals and proudest achievements, to potential regrets about botox and fillers, her career as an influencer and, of course, mystery man. Ellie and Leanne are answering a few of your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls too. Should you tell your boy best friend that you've caught feelings for him? And how can you make friends when you don't drink alcohol?

Charleen is away this week, so Ellie is flying solo, but she's still offering some advice to help you with your dilemmas! Should you make a move for fear that they'll find someone else in the meantime? Why has news that a co-worker that you fancy sleeping with another co-worker triggered you into thinking about him now all of a sudden? How do you let someone know that a friendship is done for good? And how can you toughen up and adopt a "not giving a fuck" attitude?

This week, we are joined by Conor and Sarah from ICON Management to talk all things influencing, the work behind the job, what their management company is all about and the future of social media. We also ask them the juicy questions, including who out of Charleen and Ellie is harder to work with, and how do brand deals and influencer rates/fees work? Charleen tells us about her experience at a strip club in Amsterdam and there's a dilemma about a boyfriend who was accused of cheating that is phone and video calling another girl.

We've got even more of your Secrets From The Stalls to answer! Is the guy you're seeing just with you to get over his ex? How do you break up with someone you live with and still care about? Should you bring up the fact that your ex that you're seeing again is texting other girls on Snapchat? And how can you keep close to your best friend who is living abroad?

Money can buy you happiness?! Ketchup belongs in the fridge?! Friends is overrated?! Drinking is never worth it?! They are just some of the unpopular opinions that Charleen and Ellie are discussing on this week's episodes. There are lots to get through as sent in by you! The girls are answering some tricky dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls too. What advice can you take after being ghosted by a friend? And should tell someone you're talking to that you haven't lost your virginity?

Keep your dilemmas coming in - we love to answer them in our bonus episodes every Monday! This week, Charleen and Ellie are giving advice as to how to deal with having little luck with anyone you start to catch feelings for. What should you do if you can't seem to get close to your boyfriend's friend's girlfriends? Should you wait and see if a counsellor will solve your partner's mental health issues, or will it just end up hurting you? And do you drop a friend who uses you as an emotional punching bag?

This week, Charleen and Ellie are chatting with the insanely talented and very lovely, Niall Horan! Niall chats about the inspiration behind his new single, 'Meltdown', and reveals what we can expect from his upcoming album, 'The Show', which is going to be released on June 9th. He also talks us through his drink of choice on a night out, his skincare routine, his favourite podcasts (asides from Hold My Drink, of course) and tells us his biggest ick and red flag. The girls are answering your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls. Should you hold out for a situationship that has drifted apart when you are a hopeless romantic? And is it unhealthy to not want your best friend to grow closer to another friend of yours?

If you're in need of some advice, Charleen and Ellie are ready and waiting! How do you completely cut ties with a toxic friendship group when they won't leave you alone? Should your boyfriend's family member come between your futures? How can you save a relationship where your partner has completely distanced themselves from you? And have you made a mistake for leaving your boyfriend who doesn't want the same things as you?

Have you ever played hard to get? How do you do it? Leaving messages unopened for a while, or not viewing their stories too quickly? Charleen and Ellie tell of times where they have played hard to get. They discuss whether it's a smooth move, or if and when it works at all. The girls are answering some tricky dilemmas this week. What should you do if your boyfriend has asked you to delete all your social media and stop going to the gym for fear that you'll cheat on him? Do you chase someone who's not bothered messaging you or meeting up with you again? And should you be worried about your partner sending flirty messages to someone that he's only met once before?

We've got lots more dilemmas to answer! Should you get back with someone who got with other people so soon after your break-up, or just let them go? Do you continue to text someone who has made no action to meet up with you again after your brilliant first date? How do you deal with your boyfriend's sister who uses you as a weapon? And what's the best thing you can do when you don't receive proper closure from someone you were seeing?

You know those situations that have made you question whether you are the asshole or not? You've sent Charleen and Ellie your scenarios to discuss this week! German Word of the Week has been officially retired (RIP) and replaced with a brand new, and very funny, segment. Sip or Skip is also on a break, so the girls debate on an interesting Would You Rather question in place! Secrets From The Stalls remains, as always. Do you go back to or bin the boy who's been looking up and meeting girls he was previously with? And how to you cope with seeing an old friend group doing things together after you were forced out of the group by one of them?

This week, we've got an update on a previously answered dilemma about a friend's girlfriend keeping her away from a friend group. We hear some listener advice about people being approached by strangers in the gym. And, of course, fresh new dilemmas to help you out with. Once you fall out of love with someone, can you fall back in again? What do you do if your best friend has suddenly stopped talking to you for no particular reason? And is seeing your ex on dates making you think that you don't see a future with anyone else?

Is it a good or bad idea to go back to an ex? Charleen and Ellie have very differing experiences and opinions on the topic, in which they discuss in this week's episode. They talk about whether they have regrets about either of their decisions, or if they would change anything about how they went about things in previous (or current) relationships. The girls are answering dilemmas about a boy who has suggested meeting up with a girl, but has ghosted her now. Another about a guy that is pretty much just a "pen-pal", and what can you do if you feel you don't have any best friends or a proper group of friends?

There's updates, there's listener advice and, of course, there's brand new dilemmas in today's bonus episode. Should you move to Australia with your work "friend" who is showing red flags? What can you do if you feel as if you don't have a best friend within your friend group?

IT'S LIVE SHOW DAY! But we still bring you a brand new episode of the podcast, where Charleen and Ellie discuss some very ordinary things that shockingly they (and you!) have never done before - from eating a Big Mac and braking bones, to having a cup or tea or having a boyfriend. The girls are answering some tricky dilemmas this week too. Should you wait around for a guy you really like and can't stop thinking about, although he broke up with you because of college? How do you stop comparing yourself to your other half's ex? And should you be anxious that your boyfriend now wants to go to nightclubs with his single friends and without you?

We've got updates! We've also got brand new dilemmas to help you out with! Should you give a past fling another chance, even though he's got a girlfriend and kids now? How do you put a stop to a guy texting your boyfriend lies about you? Where should you start with research about a nose job? And how do you find confidence in your relationship, even when your partner has never given you a reason to not trust them?

Charleen and Ellie have made some big-girl decisions this week - could the girls be moving out of home for the very first time? They talk about their longest time spent living away from their family house, lessons learned from their past experiences, their feelings about potentially moving out now and what they think they will be like as housemates. The girls are also helping out with your dilemmas. How do you become confident in yourself when chatting with boys and potentially meeting up with them? What should you do if your boyfriend has ghosted you for 13 days after an amazing Valentines? And should you tell your friend that she's not going to be a bridesmaid for your other friend, when she's been led to think that she is?

Ready to hear some more dilemmas? Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer them! How should you feel about videos of "half-naked" girls appearing on your boyfriend's fyp as a result of his co-worker sending them to him? What should you do if your friends are making no effort to see you anymore? Is it materialistic to want a gift from your other half for your birthday, or should you absolutely expect to get something every year? And is the guy your seeing with someone else and trying to hide it from you?

TikTok sensation, Lauren Whelan is this week's special guest on the podcast. Lauren has 1.6 million followers on TikTok and talks about when she began posting videos online and her first viral video on the platform. She also gives us the inside scoop about the infamous GOAT House, and reveals some TikTok drama she was involved in. Lauren also helps out with your dilemmas this week, alongside Charleen and Ellie. Why is your other half going quiet on text and calls in the lead up to coming home to see you? Should you call it quits with your long-term partner after finding out they've been texting other people? And what should you do or say if you found porn on your boyfriend's phone?

We've got updates! Always keep us posted if we answer your dilemma because we love to hear how your situation is working out! Of course, there's plenty of new dilemmas to help out with too this week. Should you believe the whole "he's not ready for a relationship" when you think he might be showing you otherwise? What do you do if your best friend is making no time or effort with you since getting a boyfriend? And how do you grieve over the loss of a pet?

No, Ellie hasn't gotten married. This week, we've got one of the most special guests we've ever had on the podcast before - Ellie's mam, Mrs Kelly! She spills the beans about Ellie as a child, her most memorable stories of their family, what she thinks of a career as an influencer and the secret to a long-lasting marraige. Mrs Kelly also helps us with some of your dilemmas, including what you should do if you're not really over someone who was never fully yours and should you trust someone with a "billy big bollox" attitude?

Ready to hear some more dilemmas? Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer them! How do you confront a girl who's in your friend group but puts you down in every situation? Is it suspicious if the person you're seeing won't let you see his phone at all? Advice for when you're feeling lost and upset after a breakup? And is it a red flag if the guy you're dating only brings you to hotels and hasn't even told his mother about you?

What is a thirst trap? What kind of content is it, who posts it and who are they for? Charleen and Ellie discuss in this week's episode, and also reveal whether or not they have ever posted a thirst trap online and if they got their desired outcome from it. But is there also some toxicity in thirst trapping? As well as answering the thirst trapping questions, the girls are answering your dilemmas too. Is it okay for you to tell your friends everything about your partner? Do you keep pursuing a friendship with a someone who is never actively trying to uphold your conversations? And should you meet up with someone from Tinder when you are afraid they will get back with their ex if you don't?

We've got updates in this bonus episode! One is a shocking revelation! Of course, there are still plenty of new dilemmas to get through this week. How do you get over your ex breaking up with you out of the blue and disrespecting you? Is there anything to fix a controlling relationship? And what boundaries can you set with a friend so that you will remain friends only?

Charleen and Ellie are talking about some of the most well-known conspiracies, and some of their own superstitions, from magpies, to black cats and more. Charleen received amazing news this week, so you'll hear about that. And, of course, there's dilemmas to be helped with. Do you say something if you're boy-friend's girlfriend doesn't seem to like you? Should your boyfriend still be doing accounts for his ex's sister? How do you deal with past resentment in your healed relationship? And should you forget someone who you isn't giving you the attention and communication that you need?

Charleen and Ellie are back to answer even more of your dilemmas this week! What do you do when you find out that your boy-friend has caught feelings for you, but he hasn't told you himself? Do you bring up your drunken night of fun to your work colleague who you might be into? And how do you bring up a tough conversation with your partner who's not ready to be a father yet, but you are pregnant?

When two podcasts collide! The hilarious Grace Keeling, aka GK Barry from the Saving Grace Podcast is our very special guest this week! Grace talks about going viral on TikTok during lockdown, starting a podcast (which she didn't want to do), her favourite guests and dealing with trolls online. She also tries to pronounce Irish names, which goes...well, you'll hear for yourself. Grace gives her honest advice as she helps Charleen and Ellie with your Secrets From The Stalls? Should you let your brother's girlfriend (who you really don't think) come on a family holiday to visit you in Australia? Is your relationship just routine and toxic? And has your latex-loving boyfriend just become the biggest walking red flag?

Ellie and Sean are answering some extra dilemmas this week! Should you quit the job that you thought was your dream career? Do you confront the girl who drunkenly told you that she had slept with your boyfriend? How can you get your "mammy's boy" boyfriend to start doing things for himself? And how can you be more confident in the bedroom?

Wondering why this episode is out earlier than usual? It's because the presale for our live show in Vicar Street, Dublin on Tuesday, 4th of April is ON HAPPENING NOW! General sale will be happening this Friday, 17th of February, so make sure you get your tickets as soon as possible to avoid disappointment! This week, the wonderful Sean Phipps co-hosts with Ellie to talk about things that feel illegal, but aren't. Walking around barefoot, chewing loudly, clapping when the plane lands, mayonnaise...the list seems to go on. Sean is also helping Ellie give advice to a few of your dilemmas. Should you break up with your boyfriend when he's done nothing wrong, but you feel like you need time on your own? Is the boy with the girlfriend really flirting with you? And why is your supposed best friend acting sly and making remarks towards you all of a sudden?

The dilemmas keep coming, and Charleen and Ellie keep helping! On this episode, we give some advice on how to get over your ex who dumped you out of nowhere. Should you confront your friends if you think they are not making an effort to see you when you're living abroad? How do you deal with your in-denial boyfriend who's been looking up girls in lingerie outfits on Instagram? What should you do if your partner if a few chapters ahead of you in life, and you feel like they want you to catch up? And hear some advice for going through a raw breakup.

Do you need to ask someone to be your Valentine? If you're only seeing someone recently, do you get them something for Valentines Day? What are some gift ideas for your significant other to mark the occasion? What is a good date idea? Should you post about it on social media? Or is Valentines just a load of commercial nonsense? Charleen and Ellie are discussing all things Valentines (and Galentines) this week! We are also helping out with your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls. This week, it's advice for a girl who's boyfriend got her best friend pregnant, and what do to if your partner is always too tired to have sex?

*Trigger warning: There are mentions of sexual assault in this episode* We've got more updates this week! Of course, there are new dilemmas that Charleen and Ellie are helping you out with too. What advice do you need to hear if your self-confidence is ruined and you feel like you will never trust again? Are you being toxic in your relationship? And is it okay to feel annoyed about your partner lying about losing their virginity?

This week, we are joined by the lovely and super talented band, New Rules. Nathan, Alec and Ryan talk about the origins of the group, life in the band, song-writing, fan mail, icks, red flags and so much more. You can find them on social media @newrules (or @newrulestweets on Twitter). Charleen and Ellie help out with a dilemma about a "friend" pushing you out of your group, and advice for a girl who found out her boyfriend was cheating on her via an Instagram DM from a random person.

As much as giving advice to your dilemmas, we LOVE hearing updates, and there's three updates today! Disclaimer: one of them may or may not have made Charleen and Ellie cry... This week, the girls are helping out a girl who feels like she's missing out on opportunities because her boyfriend does not want to go on holidays because they are "not worth it". Should you give your ex the time to better himself and get back to the old him, or should you stop romanticising his potential and accept that things will never be the same? And how do you deal with a really bad texter?

This new TikTok trend is "the belief that you can attract good things into your life by asserting that you deserve them and that assuming you are lucky will bring you good fortune". But is it a load of waffle or is it a real thing? Charleen and Ellie talk about 'Lucky Girl Syndrome', how it is practiced and what it can do for you, and we hear some of your opinions on this new manifestation trend. In Secrets From The Stalls, the girls help out with advice for a girl who is with her boyfriend for 5 years, but keeps thinking back to an old fling. How do you bring up the "what are we" conversation to the person you're seeing? And should you reach out to the guy who told you he wanted a relationship with you, but then it turned out that he was in it for the sex?

It's that time of the week, where Charleen and Ellie help out with answering even more of your dilemmas! How do you tell your boyfriend that his mother is too involved in your relationship? Do boys come clean about cheating or do you have to investigate into it? What can you do to open yourself up for a relationship when you're scared of the heartbreak it might bring? And is your personal trainer the person that a medium told you that you would meet?

There's lots of questions that we all have but you don't know who to ask or where to go to find the answers. They are the questions that you might feel awkward or scared to ask, or think that you should already know the answer to, so you don't ask at all. That is what this episode is for! From birth control, tampons, and shaving to first time doing the deed, consider Charleen and Ellie your 'big sisters' to answer your questions! Not only are the girls answering these questions, but, as always, they are also answering your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls. What can you do if you think that guys see you as "easy" to get with, and you're not making any real connections with anyone? Should you confront your boyfriend if he's following and storing content from provocative accounts on social media? And is it time to hand in your notice if you're hating your job, but it's keeping you there for experience and money?

We're deep-diving into more of your dilemmas on today's bonus episode! How do you tell your friends that they need to start paying for services that you're providing as part of your business? What should you do if your boyfriend is making no effort to see you or to prioritize your relationship? And should you stick it out with a boy that keeps blowing hot and cold a lot, or just cut all contact and move on?

The girls mentioned Dry January as a potential New Year's Resolution on last week's episode. Charleen is determined to complete it. Ellie, not so much. Our producer, Leanne is on to talk about the fact that she has NEVER DRANK in her life, her reasons why and how she can go on nights out and to social events without alcohol. If you are attempting Dry January right now, or are still wanting to give it a go, the girls have some tips on how you can successfully complete it! Also on this episode, Charleen tells all about her exciting news (which you may have seen on Instagram)! There are dilemmas to be answered, as always, in Secrets From The Stalls. Should you stay friends with your ex-boyfriend got with another girl in the same college course as you? And do you cut contact with the person who dumped you out of the blue, or do you try to fight for what you once had?

Let's jump straight into some extra dilemmas for this week's bonus episode! Is there a reason why you and your sneaky link seem to keep coming back to each other? Should you give your partner another chance, even when you're family won't accept him again? And do you slowly remove yourself from your friend group if they are not making an effort to keep the friendship up now that you've moved abroad?

It may be a New Year, but it's still your favourite girls on your favourite pod, ready for a big 2023! Charleen and Ellie are chatting through the New Year's Resolutions that they have made for this year, and deciding which of them they actually think they'll stick to - from career goals, to personal improvements and buying a house?! There's plenty to digest in this episode. It's also a New Year but the same favourite segment of Secrets From The Stalls, and there's already plenty of dilemmas to help out with. Should you let your boyfriend go on a course holiday, when a girl he's gotten with in the past will be on the same trip? If an old flame keeps texting and flirting with you, should you send screenshots of the messages to his current girlfriend? And how can you feel good within yourself when you feel like you're constantly the 'single friend'?

New Year? New dilemmas! Should you continue dating a guy from Tinder if he's still seeing other people after you've have 6+ dates together? Is there any point in continuing to invite the girl who never shows? And do you have a valid reason to not get back together with your ex after you both handled your breakup so differently?

We LOVE talking red flags, but sometimes, certain things can actually be green flags. Other times, it can be difficult to differentiate the two, so this week, Charleen and Ellie are helping you to navigate the two! Liking other girls Instagram photos, when he's a mommy's boy, when they're rude to a waiter, when he buys you flowers, when they post very often on social media...are these red flags or green flags to you? Find out what the girls had to say in this episode. There are some dilemmas that need answering this week in Secrets From The Stalls. Should you keep trying for a friendship when your friends are leaving you out of things since getting with your boyfriend? Has the fella you were talking to actually split with his girlfriend (after he told you he was going to), or was it a cop out to try and cheat on her but keep it a secret? And what should you do if your boyfriend says he needs to to himself "to find himself again"?

It's the days between Christmas and New Years now, where you don't know what day it is, what time it is, or who you are anymore. What better way to keep the brains active than hearing and helping with some juicy dilemmas? Should you stay friends with a girl who's pushing you away from a friend group you introduced her to? What's the best advice if you are your siblings don't have a good relationship at all? And does it mean something when you find yourself attracted to a guy in your course, as you admit that your current relationship is boring?

This week it's our Christmas Special, and we are playing a game called 'Hold My Drink's Christmas Crackers'! There are 12 Christmas crackers that Charleen and Ellie have to pull, and whoever draws the shorter side has to pick a mystery card to answer - it could be a question to answer, a truth to reveal, a dare to do - and the girls have no idea what they could be! Even though it's the most wonderful time of the year, there are still plenty of your dilemmas that need answering. Do you wait for the boy you're texting to ask you out or how could you hint it yourself? How do you handle the feeling that nothing is going well for you in life right now? What do you do if your best friend's ex keeps trying to contact her after he got blocked? And should you resort to hacking the phone of the guy you're seeing if you don't trust him?

Ready to hear even more Secrets From The Stalls this week? Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer! Should you call out a friend after she painted you out to be a bad person, but you know she will have an answer back? How can you have confidence doing you're own thing and not suffering with FOMO, when all your friends are going out and partying? And is the reason why you were ghosted to do with a problem the boy you were talking to had within himself, or was he not attracted to you all along?

Between trips away and projects, It's been a while since Charleen and Ellie have sat down, chatted and answered some of your questions. Also, we've realised that the girls have done individual Q&As, but never one together on the podcast - so here you go! Get ready to hear about their favourite guests so far, best holiday ever, Ellie's house-hunting update and a potential soft launch of a "bae-friend" from over the weekend? It's a busy episode for Charleen and Ellie, as they are also answering your dilemmas. Do you tell the girlfriend of a man who's trying to chat you up? Should you be worried about your boyfriend *potentially* having messaged his ex on Snapchat? And is it "normal" to go through phases of feeling off in your relationship?

Our weekly bonus episode is the place to get your extra fix of the podcast. It's also the place where Charleen and Ellie get to help out with more dilemmas, because there are LOADS to get through each week! On this episode, what should you do it you're finding college really stressful? How do you bring up the conversation about the lack of intimacy in your relationship with your boyfriend? And do you have feelings for your boyfriend's best friend now?

This is an episode dedicated to the Swindlers and Spoofers. Ladies, what is the wildest lie a man has ever told you? We got you to send in yours...from pretending his child is his sibling, to getting chlamydia from a sunbed, these lies are INSANE. Charleen and Ellie help out with some of your dilemmas for Secrets From The Stalls. Should you be concerned about your boyfriend following lingerie models on social media? Are you "too protective" over your friends and partners by mistaking chatting for cheating? Which should you choose in a sticky situation, your friend's feelings or your boyfriend's feelings? And how do you deal with your partner telling you constant white lies?

It's time to dive head-first into some of your dilemmas, in the hopes of helping you out with them! Should you message the guy that's moved abroad when you left things on pretty bad terms? Has your boyfriend not had enough time to be single since his last relationship? How should you react if your partner calls you their ex's name? And is your boyfriend's bad headspace a valid excuse for messaging other girls?

The mornings are darker, the evenings are longer, the weather is colder, which means cuffing season is officially here! If you've never heard of the term before, you'll find out all about what "cuffing" is, what is involves and why it happens. Cuffing can ultimately lead to a winter boyfriend, another concept we chat about this week. Charleen and Ellie are filling you in on their recent travels to New York. Finally, there are some sticky dilemmas to try help out with. What do you do if your partner is making no effort in your relationship? How do you approach a friend that doesn't make time for you since getting a boyfriend? And should you stick out seeing a guy just because he's nice, but you're not sure if you're feeling it?

Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer some extra dilemmas on this week's bonus episode! How can you make friends as an adult? What to do if your views on life are different to your partners and you keep having the same arguments over again? Do you confront your boyfriend for putting photos of him and his ex back up on Instagram? And should you tell your best friend's brother that you have feelings for him when he's in a relationship?

Charleen and Ellie are going undercover to pull off a big surprise for one of their best friends, Caoimhe, in New York City. They talk about how they are hoping to pull it off and the feelings that come with surprising something. The girls also talk about surprises that have been done for them in the past, and surprises they would like done for them in the future - babies, dogs, engagements...! There's another boot disaster in Wait Til I Tell You, as well as a public plea from Charleen to find her missing ring. We've also got plenty of dilemmas to help out with - how to approach a friend giving you the cold shoulder for no reason? Should you get back together with your ex who seems to have grown up in your time apart, but where you still have reservations? And is a German man really THAT intense, or is it just the German culture?

We love answering your dilemmas, so keep them coming in. On this week's bonus episode, there's some tricky situations that Charleen and Ellie are helping out with. Do you try to get back together with your partner after cheating on them? Would somebody having chlamydia turn you off them? And is being drunk and stupid an excuse for night-out behavior with the lads?

*Trigger warning: There are conversations around abuse in this episode* 1 in 5 young women aged 18-25 have been subjected to abuse by a current or former male partner, and 1 in 3 of them never told anyone about the abuse. Because we know that a huge number of you that listen to Hold My Drink are within this bracket, we want to raise awareness and spread the word about supports that are available, so you don't have to suffer in silence. We are kindly joined by Mary Hayes of Women's Aid for a really important conversation about spotting the signs of abuse in relationships. Mary talks to us about how abuse happens and what you can do if you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship. She explains the different forms of abuse, such as gaslighting and love-bombing. Mary also speaks about Women's Aid's new campaign, #TooIntoYou. Chat to Women’s Aid and take the relationship quiz at toointoyou.ie If you are affected by anything you have heard on this episode, you can call the Women’s Aid 24hr National freephone helpline on 1800 341 900 or chat online at toointoyou.ie for information and support. As well as this conversation, Charleen and Ellie are answering your Secrets From The Stalls - how do you unfriend someone without the drama? Should you trust a random text message saying that your boyfriend has cheated on you? And what to do if your partner's parents heard you having sex in their house?"

Ever wanted to know what Charleen and Ellie would name their OnlyFans? Well, you'll find out in this episode. You'll also hear some extra dilemmas answered. Should you try to hold onto a fading talking stage? Are you right to consider getting back with an ex that got with your sister since your break-up?

Since it is Hold My Drink Live Show week, we want to give you a listen to our very first live show EVER! Wednesday, 24th August 2022 at Liberty Hall in Dublin. You'll hear all your favourite segments like Wait Til I Tell You, German Word of the Week, Secrets From The Stalls, and Sip or Skip. You'll meet some very special guests like Aoibh and Bla Murphy and Protein Bor King himself, James Doyle. And you'll also have some SERIOUS FOMO if you weren't there! See you at the next live show!!

We always ask for your updates when we answer your Secrets From The Stalls, and today, we've got that, as well as a mad dating story! Charleen and Ellie are still answering some more of your dilemmas - is your ex stalking you via his mam's Instagram? And should you go for the guy that's been waiting for you for years, that is promising you all the things your current boyfriend isn't doing for you right now?

Charleen and Ellie are chatting clothes and style in this episode. How would they describe their own styles and how have their styles evolved over the years? The girls give some advice on how to feel confident in your clothes and how to deal with people's comments or opinions about the clothes you wear. There are also some of your dilemmas to be answered. Is it a red flag for the guy your seeing to bring up decisions you made in the past when you weren't together, but you never mention any of his mistakes? What should you do if your best friend is drifting away from you for no reason? And should you distance yourself from your friends who don't like the boy your seeing?

Charleen and Ellie have recruited some additional help for your Secrets From The Stalls this week. It's Emma and Amanda from last week's main episode - you can listen back to that after this! The girls are giving some pretty big advice to you in this episode. How do you deal with your boyfriend's brother's belittling girlfriend? Should you pursue something with a boy, where you both have a strong connection, but he still has a girlfriend? How do you move on from someone who hasn't technically done anything wrong? And are you wasting your time on a guy that won't commit or put a label on your relationship?

TRIGGER WARNING: In this episode, there are conversations about suicide, death and grief. If you are affected by anything you hear, we would advise you to seek professional help. Charleen and Ellie are joined by Emma Smyth and Amanda Dunne for an open and honest conversation about Kevin. Kevin lost his life to suicide in June 2021. Emma was Kevin's girlfriend, and Amanda was his sister. They tell us about Kevin - who he was, his love for his family, and his hard-working nature. They speak about the heartbreak they faced when he passed away, what it is like to cope with the ever-changing dealing of grief, and how they get through each day after a loss to suicide. If you are feeling down or having dark thoughts, Emma and Amanda's advice is to hold on - for another day, for the people that love you, and for yourself, most importantly. When you are at rock bottom, they only way is up and things will get better. Contact Samaritans Ireland, available 24/7 on 116 123

Got a dilemma? Charleen and Ellie have some advice for you in our bonus episode! Should you keep trying to text the guy you're seeing if he's ghosting you? Do you stick out your well-paid job when you're not clicking with your colleagues? How can you make the move on a stranger? And should you explore 'the one who got away', even though you're in a relationship for the last 6 years?

What are your standards when it comes to relationships? What must you have in a partner, and what can you absolutely not tolerate from your other half? Charleen and Ellie are talking standards this week, including their own from previous relationships, to the standards they have now from life experiences. We asked you to tell us your standards, which the girls discuss. There's also some dilemmas to be answered - do you tell your sneaky link you want to be something more? Is the boy your seeing hiding something (or someone from you) by how he's acting? And should you confront the lad you've been seeing on and off about your relationship that's not a relationship?

Ready for your extra fix of dilemmas? Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer them! What does a boy need to do to impress girls? How do you approach a conversation with your partner about the importance of sex in your relationship? Should you stay with or leave your boyfriend if he's pushing you away as of recent? And how should you feel if your boyfriend is Snapchatting random girls out of 'boredom'?

Charleen and Ellie reminisce on their childhoods, from school days, to first experiences with social media, and navigating career ideas. Ellie also shares some very exciting news in Wait Til I Tell Ya. The girls are ready to answer some of your dilemmas, as always, such as feeling like a walk over within your friend group, and feelings around your boyfriend still following his ex and her family online.

Ready to hear some more dilemmas? Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer them! How do you put your mind at ease getting back together with your ex after he lied to you? Why can't you shake feelings for a boy you didn't even meet, even though you are both in separate relationships now? And should you date different boys in the same friend group?

We are celebrating one whole year of Hold My Drink this week, and what better way to commemorate the occasion than a good old-fashioned game of Say It or Shot It?! Playing the game alongside Charleen and Ellie is our birthday guest, the one and only Sean Phipps. The girls are also answering your dilemmas, including your boyfriend planning on breaking your relationship off as soon as he goes to college, and is going back to your ex after nights out a good idea? Finally, Charleen and Ellie are reminiscing on the last 12 months of our special podcast and looking forward to the next 12 months by doing a time capsule! Thank you all for a wonderful year of Hold My Drink, we are so grateful to you all x

Here's your extra fix of Charleen and Ellie in the week, and the girls are ready to answer your dilemmas! Should you let the boy you've been talking to come visit you abroad when you don't feel ready for a relationship? What to do if a married with kids co-worker is flirting with you? And should you trust your boyfriend after finding out he's been lying to you during your entire relationship?

Charleen and Ellie are talking all things dating on this week's episode - their first dates, their worst dates, and their dream dates. The girls are also trying to figure out some of the "rules" that comes with dating, like how long do you wait to text them afterwards, and can you date multiple people at once? You've also sent in your dilemmas for Charleen and Ellie to help out with, such as struggling with not having girl friends, and what to do if you are still madly in love with your ex and think he might be the one?!

We're going deep into your dilemmas on this week's bonus episode. How do you find your place in the world again after the loss of a loved one? Were you right to forgive your boyfriend for sleeping with other people during your 'break' while you dealt with personal issues? And are you a bad girlfriend for feeling attracted to other men?

We're going down memory lane this week to the best days of your life (or are they?!) Charleen and Ellie reminisce about their school days, the uniforms, mitching, young love and everything in between. You are also sharing some of your favourite school memories - Alive-O, Blackberry and Samsung Pings, Lunchables and lots more! The girls are on hand as always to answer some of your dilemmas, including how to get over a boy you never dated, and is it normal for your boyfriend to look at other girls while with you in public?

Ready to hear some more dilemmas? Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer them! How do you deal with the girl friend of your boyfriend who keeps flirting with him and making comments at you? Do you break-up with your partner if you can't take his difficult family anymore? And how to get back to the world of flirting and dating after ending a 'situationship'?

Disclaimer: This episode features tears from both Charleen and Ellie, but it's not to do with the theme - that theme is starting and going back to college. The girls talk about their own experiences of their courses, dropping out, restarting a new course, balancing work and life in education and everything in between. And we hear about Charleen's confrontation with one of her teachers in Germany. As always, your dilemmas are answered, including what to do if your boyfriend has sent and received from another girl when you were fighting with each other, and how should you deal with your boyfriend breaking up with you the day before a family member's wedding?

Charleen and Ellie return to answer more of your dilemmas on this week's bonus episode. Do you pack up and move to Australia, or try to rekindle things with your ex-fianceé? And what to do and say if your relationship with your boyfriend of 3 years has gone downhill since you came back from your holidays together?

We have a special guest on this week's episode - Founder & Director of Mars The Label and actress, Arianna Ajtar! She talks all about building her business from the age of 19, balancing work, life and love, and how she got a role in Coronation Street. Arianna also helps with your dilemmas alongside Charleen and Ellie, including how to deal with your boyfriend being rude to people, and should you start OnlyFans if you're strapped for cash?

There are more of your dilemmas to answer, and Charleen and Ellie are on hand to do exactly that for this week's bonus episode. How do you deal with the fear of being alone after a break-up, and still feeling reliant on your ex? What is the honeymoon phase, and should your friends be using it as an excuse for why your relationship is going well?

There's a special guest on this week's episode - it's OnlyFans creator and social media personality, Kneevo! She chats about her journey creating adult content, online hate, TikTok trolls and having surgery. She also helps to answer some of your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls, including how to find yourself after getting out of a long-term relationship, and what to do if you feel you want your ex back. As well as that, you'll get to hear Ellie's Wait 'Til I Tell You story from last week's live show at Liberty Hall!

Charleen and Ellie are answering more of your dilemmas in this week's bonus episode. What should you do if the boy you were seeing has decided to go back to his ex, but still texts you all day, every day? How to feel if your boyfriend won't introduce you to his mother and doesn't like sleeping in the same bed as you? And how do you stop beating yourself up over past mistakes?

It's been two months since The Break Up episode, so this week, Charleen and Ellie are updating you on how they are feeling since then, and what they've learned about the break up process. Charleen ended up in hospital last week, and fills you in on the horror for Wait 'Til I Tell Ya. The girls are also answering your Secrets From The Stalls. What to do if your boyfriend is getting overly defensive when arguing? And how to tell a boy that you're not into him as he's giving you "major ick" vibes?

Ellie's sister, Caoimhe, was so good with advice on last week's episode, we decided to keep her around for your bonus episode of Hold My Drink. Ellie and Caoimhe help you with more of your dilemmas like, how do you play things cool when the boy you've seen (and that you really like) is a slow texter? Was he overdramatic for breaking up with you, just because you said another man looked good? And do all girls feel pressured into looking the same nowadays?

Subbing in for Charleen this week is Ellie's big sis, Caoimhe! We get to know all about her and life in the Kelly household, including hearing some of their favourite childhood stories, their worst fights and biggest pet peeves of each other. Caoimhe also helps us with your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls - how to deal with nasty online comments, what should you do if your boyfriend is watching videos of him and his ex, and do you tell someone if another person has spoken badly about you?

In this week's bonus episode, Charleen and Ellie are answering some extra Secrets From The Stalls. What do you do if your boyfriend wants to be exclusive again after asking for an open relationship? How do you deal with a constant cycle of small arguments with your partner? And is 'right person, wrong time' a real thing?

Charleen and Ellie's best friends, Caoimhe and Nickela are on this week's episode, and they are spilling the beans on the girls. From sharing drinking stories, to talking about their exes and everything in between. The four help to answer some of your Secrets From The Stalls, including how to confront your friend who is seeing a married man, and dealing with the thoughts of your fiancé not wanting marriage or kids.

There's plenty of extra dilemmas in this week's bonus episode, and Charleen and Ellie are on hand to help you out with some of them. How do you ask your friend if she is back seeing her ex-boyfriend? What should you do if you've caught feelings for your friends-with-benefits, and they have too? And how do you deal with feelings that your partner isn't into you anymore?

What's the worst hangover you have ever experienced? Charleen and Ellie share their own stories - everything from hospitals, house parties and hanxiety. The girls also have some helpful tips on how to combat a hangover. We've got your dilemmas help in Secrets From The Stalls. What to do if you feel your co-worker is your soulmate, but you don't want to overstep a boundary with your boyfriend? How to feel if your boyfriend tells you that he is bi-curious? And what can you do if you have a low sex drive, but your partner has a high sex drive?

Ready to hear more Secrets From The Stalls? Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer! Should you let things fizzle out with a boy you've met once and won't see again for 10 weeks? How should you feel if your boyfriend's friend's girlfriend doesn't like you? What do you do if your boyfriend hasn't made up for a really bad mistake he has made? And facing the fear of dating when you've never been on one and don't like yourself."

Imagine multiple episodes of Hold My Drink in one...that is what this is. Charleen and Ellie chat about some of their debs stories, what to wear and do on a first date, tips on how to feel confident in a bikini, and their "pinch-me" moments. For Secrets From The Stalls, the girls are discussing marriage breakdown, is it a red flag if he doesn't text that much, but you have good dates, and the importance of reassurance in a relationship. Also, let us know what dress code you'd like for the live shows!

More dilemmas, more answers! Charleen and Ellie are helping out with some more of your Secrets From The Stalls. Should you be afraid of your boyfriend cheating on his lads holiday, if he has already cheated in the past? What to do if your boyfriend and best friend hate each other? And should you consider moving in with your long-distance partner?

How do you spot a f*ckboy? What do they dress like, how do they act etc.? You'll find out in this episode, as Charleen and Ellie talk about their experiences of f*ckboys and if/when you should entertain them. Could there be a case of a f*ckboy in one of our Secrets From The Stalls too, as a partner has gone from intense effort in a relationship to very distant in a short space of time? And should you go on holidays when an ex is going too? Plus, Charleen is live from New York again this week, so hear about her boozy picnic in Central Park, while Ellie experiences her first final in Croke Park.

Your dilemmas residents, Charleen and Ellie are back for another bonus episode to try help you out. What do you do if you're a very confident texter, but not confident at all to meet up in person? Does your friend only want a boy because you're interested in him now? And how to drop hints to someone to show them you like them, when they think you're not interested?

Charleen is coming to us live from the Big Apple for a catch-up on her travels in New York. Ellie is looking after the Hold My Drink studio back home, and went to see Westlife last weekend, as well as having an encounter with the Gardaí. No distance could keep your Secrets From The Stalls away. The girls are answering whether or not it's okay if your boyfriend paid for an OnlyFans account, and what you should do if you feel like you've hit a slump in your long-term relationship.

Charleen and Ellie are answering even more your dilemmas in this bonus episode. Has your friend with benefits caught feelings for you? What do you do if your friend's boyfriend is slipping up on lies, but she thinks you're trying to break them up? And have you made the right decision in breaking up over three years ago?

Charleen and Ellie are hopping on the "he's a 10 but..." trend in this week's episode, to find out what makes or breaks a man. Black socks? Chicken nuggets and chips? Android phones? The girls also help out with advice for Secrets From The Stalls, including should you leave a friendship if it's making you unhappy, and how to deal with worry when you're boyfriend is away and posting pictures with other girls?

It's your bonus fix of Charleen and Ellie, and they are answering more of your Secrets From The Stalls! How would you react if you find out that your friend and boyfriend have a sexual history? Should you try things with a guy you matched with on Tinder years ago, but he has a girlfriend now? And why can you not stop dreaming about your ex?

It's the one you've been waiting for. Charleen and Ellie talk about their break-ups, and things get emotional. As well as helping each other through their dilemmas, the girls also help you for Secret From The Stalls, including deciding if you should tell your friend that her boyfriend is cheating on her, and what to do if you have a higher sex drive than your partner?

Get ready for more Secrets From The Stalls in this week's bonus episode! Charleen and Ellie answer your dilemmas. How should you feel about your ex bringing another girl on holidays to a place that you two were suppose to go to? Why are your ex's friends keeping tabs on you? And what to do if you're missing your partners birthday for the first time in your relationship?

What was expected to be a step-by-step guide on how you can become a bad bitch, turned out to be a lot raunchier than expected. Let's just say, if you ever wanted to know how to seduce a man, you're going to learn it in this episode. Charleen and Ellie answer your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls, including what to do if you find old texts that your boyfriend had sent about you from before you were together, and does he really like you if he acts different each time you see him? Hear about Charleen's very supportive friends, who went "ex-boyfriend" spotting in Wait Til I Tell You.

On this week's bonus episode, Charleen and Ellie answer some extra dilemmas. They discuss whether it's forgivable for your significant other to not get you anything for your anniversary, how should you feel if your boyfriend gets a lap dance, and what does it mean if you're attracted to someone else when you're in a relationship?

Charleen and (a half-broken) Ellie are back for another episode. Ellie fills us in on her injury ordeal from over the weekend, and the girls also chat about their thoughts on this year's Love Island cast so far. An important topic of conversation this week is emigration, as a few of Charleen's friends are making the big moves very soon. Find out if the girls have any plans to move abroad soon and where to if so. As always, we have more dilemmas to help you out with on Secrets From The Stalls, including trying to figure out why your ex boyfriend (who has a new gf) is still viewing your Instagram stories, and does your sex dream about your boyfriend's brother mean anything?

Charleen and Ellie are back for this week's bonus episode, and as always, there are lots of extra dilemmas to digest. As the Leaving Cert began last week, what are some tips for getting through it? Should you still go to New York if your ex (who was your boyfriend at the time of booking) is coming? And should you stay with your boyfriend at home when you've been seeing an older man abroad?

Charleen and Ellie reveal the good the bad and the ugly of cosmetic surgery in relation to their own personal journeys. In this episode, find out their experiences with boob jobs, nose jobs and fillers all packaged up with changing hair colour and wigs. The girls open up and answer some all-important questions such as, would you still get surgery if you were not an influencer and did the procedures give you more confidence? Alongside your questions answered in this week's episode in Secrets From The Stalls, including your gym crush struggles and the ordeal of your partner and your bestie not seeing eye to eye.

It's your extra fix of Charleen and Ellie. The girls are answering even more of your dilemmas in this bonus episode. Did your boyfriend ever care about you if he broke up with you over a voice note? Should you still have feelings for a sneaky fling from 4 years ago? Is he a bad texter or does he just not want to talk to you? And should you be worried if your boyfriend has recent pictures of him ex saved?

This episode may hurt your head and cause you to think about things you've never thought about. How do phone sounds work? Are we relocating to Mars? How do traffic lights know when to change at night? For a bit of an easier listen, you'll also get to hear all about the latest addition to the Kelly family. Charleen and Ellie answer your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls - including how to deal with phone-addicted friends (and loud eaters!) in social situations, and should you worry that your ex is now in a relationship with a friend that he had throughout your relationship?

On this week's bonus episode, Charleen and Ellie answer some sticky dilemmas. Do you let your housemate stay in the house when they've hurt everyone living there? Is it okay for your boyfriend to pay for an OnlyFans subscription? And should you continue your relationship if your other half is going travelling?

What are your relationship rules? Charleen and Ellie discuss some of their own, such as liking other girls' photos on Instagram, having phone passwords, integrating your partner into your friend group, and paying for dates. We also hear lots of your own relationship boundaries, including keeping pictures of your ex on social media, alone time and cheating. As well as that, Ellie fills you in on her trip to Turkey this week, and her nightmare on the M50.

Charleen and Ellie are back to answer even more of your dilemmas in this bonus episode. Should you give your ex his festival ticket back, when you broke up after buying it? Should you text someone that you're missing? Why is your boyfriend not inviting you to things? And what to do if your fella has had a sudden shift in his attitude towards you.

Charleen and Ellie are reunited in the studio after 3 weeks and there's lot to catch up on, including Charleen's cosmetic procedure in Turkey, and Ellie's longer-than-expected stay in New York. There's also some dilemmas to be answered, including deciding if you're boyfriend is taking advantage of your financial situation, and dealing with feelings of insecurity when you're not 'exclusive' with the person you're seeing.

We're missing Ellie on this week's episode of Hold My Drink, but the wonderful Keilidh Cashell (@KeilidhMUA) is hopping in the co-host seat, alongside Charleen. Keilidh is a super-talented make-up artist and content creator, with almost 3 million followers on TikTok and over half a million followers on Instagram. She talks about her road to success and the growth of her platforms and business, KASH Beauty. The girls give you a deeper insight into their careers and what's involved, and chat about the importance of appreciating your life, standing out and being yourself. There are also some dilemmas to be answered, including feeling like you're a "pause" in the story of your boyfriend and his ex, and how to get back on the dating scene.

Your favourite podcaster is here with a recommendation for you. Charleen introduces Will You Shift My Friend, a new comedy and entertainment podcast where well known people take a trip down memory lane to discuss growing up, their first shift, and much more. Guests include Charleen, Marty Guilfoyle, James Kavanagh, Fionnuala Jones, Greg O'Shea, and Justine Stafford to name but a few. Will You Shift My Friend is available to download now on the GoLoud app and all major podcast platforms.

There's a special guest on hand for this week's episode - the one and only Keilidh Cashell (@KeilidhMUA)! Charleen and Keilidh help out with some of your dilemmas. Should you block your ex on social media if you feel like they're lurking? Do you tell your work colleague that you're crushing on him after kissing him? And what to do if you're not having sex with your other half?

Want to get to know Charleen and Ellie even more than you already do? In this episode, you'll find out their biggest fear, worst habit, what day the girls would go to if they could time travel and their favourite thing about themselves. There's some deeper questions in there too, including what Charleen and Ellie look for in a partner, if they would rather love and lose or never love, and what question they would ask their ex. There's more to be answered in Secrets From The Stalls, including what to do if your boyfriend keeps talking about someone he was seeing, and should you call things quits as soon as you start seeing red flags?

It's your extra fix of Charleen and Ellie in the week and Bonus Episode 3 gets into some extra juicy Secrets From The Stalls. Should you be hiding from your friends if you got back with your ex? Do you take back the boy that broke up with you because he wanted to live the single lifestyle? And is getting pregnant the way to make your fella stick around for good?

Who knew the post-pandemic life could be so overwhelming sometimes? Charleen and Ellie chat about getting back out to events and getting on with your social life after all the lockdowns in the last 2 years. As always, the girls answer your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls, including what to do if you think your boyfriend is depressed, should you still move away if your partner doesn't want to, and feeling stressed about going back to work in an office.

It's Bonus Episode 2 and Charleen and Ellie have some deep dilemmas to help you out with. Is it okay that your boyfriend is still meeting up with his ex in his flat? What to do if you are your boyfriend want different things, but you've met someone else that you've clicked with? And should your virginity be holding you back from things?

This week, Charleen and Ellie talk concerts and festivals, taking you through some favourites that they have been too, and sharing stories from some of those times, including Charleen winning P Diddy tickets and why Ellie left Electric Picnic early. Also, some exciting news - Hold My Drink now brings you bonus episodes every Monday, so make sure to listen back to that! As always, the girls are ready to answer some of your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls, including what to do if your friend is kissing other people while in a relationship, do you say something to your boyfriend if you feel he's making no effort with you, and should you start seeing someone if they live over 2 hours away from you?

You asked for more, and we listened...introducing 'HMD: EXTRA JUICE' - an extra fix of Charleen and Ellie in your week! The girls are on hand every Monday to answer even MORE of your dilemmas - think of it like an extended Secrets From The Stalls. On this first bonus episode, Charleen and Ellie give advice if your boyfriend was viewing his ex's Instagram stories, how to help your other half deal with grief when you're worried about them, and managing being there for your friends, but nobody being there for you.

This week, Charleen and Ellie's personal trainer, Jamie Goonery, joins them for some motivational talk about fitness, gym mindsets and climbing Kilimanjaro. They chat about icks, such as commenting on celebrity social media posts, certain dance moves in a nightclub, making noises at the gym and plenty more. Jamie is also on hand to give the male perspective on your dilemmas for Secrets From The Stalls, including what to do if you've been sleeping with two friends and they both find out, avoiding breaking the heart of your partner and how long is too long distance?

Horoscopes, star signs and spirituality are up for discussion on this week's episode of Hold My Drink. As two Leos, Charleen and Ellie chat about if they fit the characteristics of their star sign, and their feelings and experiences of spiritual readings. There's a hilarious story sent in by one of our listeners for What 'Til I Tell You that involves a dreadful first impression with new housemates on her J1 in San Diego. Charleen and Ellie are on hand to answer your dilemmas too, including dealing with worry that you'll end up heartbroken in your relationship, and should you meet your ex for a chat if you think he wants to get back together again? jmbswgfz

There's a very special guest on the podcast this week - it's Greg 'Greggie O' O'Shea! Greg gives us an insight into the world of Love Island, including how you get on the show, cameras in the villa toilets and the lack of a sense of time when you're in there. Does he still chat to anyone from the show, and what did he do with the money since winning? He chats about his journey to the Olympic Games and becoming a solicitor too. Things get deep as him, Charleen and Ellie discuss relationships, engagements, weddings and having kids. Greg is also on hand to offer his advice to your dilemmas for Secrets From The Stalls, including how to tell your boyfriend you want to take out a mortgage alone, should you move away to Australia if your partner if staying in Ireland and if you should mention your friend's unhealthy drug habit to them.

Retail assistant, hairdresser, waitress, and egg lady - these are some of the jobs that Charleen and Ellie have had, and in this episode, they tell all about each of them. There’s a new element to Wait Til I Tell You, as we hear a listener’s story this week! Speaking of our listeners, the girls are on hand to answer your dilemmas, including long-distance relationships, dealing with finding out that your boyfriend has a child and how to return to “the streets”.

The duo are back together again and there's lots to catch up on, including exciting details about how you can come along to see a live recording of Hold My Drink in our studios. This week's episode is all about red flags, and you've sent in loads for Charleen and Ellie to discuss. As always, the girls are on hand to help with your dilemmas for Secrets From The Stalls, including do you tell your best friend if you see her ex with another girl, how to deal with a sloppy drunk on a night-out, and what to do if you're getting ghosted by someone who says they want to go out with you?

Although Hold My Drink is a gal down this week, the podcast must go on. Charleen takes the reigns to talk in depth about her college life, her experience with seeing a college counsellor and all about her J1 to Boston. With Ellie off, a few special guests pop in, including Producer Leanne to guess our German Word of the Week, and the one and only Terence Power to help with Secrets From The Stalls. Some of your dilemmas this week include how to tell your best friend that her boyfriend is gay, should you go on a sixth-year holiday to Ibiza, and are you wasting your teenage years by being in a relationship?

It's a special episode of Hold My Drink this week, as Irish breakout pop star, Aimée joins Charleen and Ellie to chat about her music career and her latest single, 'Nobody Else'. The girls have an inspiring conversation about body confidence and ways in which to feel good in your own skin. Aimée gives some great advice with your dilemmas on Secrets From The Stalls, including how to find yourself when life feels chaotic, are you boring if you don't want to drink all the time and your friends do, and what you should do if your partner owns you a lot of money! Also, prepare yourself to hear all about the antics from the Kingdom, as Charleen and Ellie fill you in on their trip to County Kerry.

Your favourite podcasters are here with a recommendation for you. Charleen and Ellie introduce Unusual Suspects, a gripping new true crime podcast. Available to download now on the GoLoud app and all major podcast platforms.

It's been a while since the last Q&A session, so this week, we wanted to bring it back to you. In this episode, you'll find out Ellie's current relationship status, what jobs the girls think they would had if they weren't influencing, if they feel pressured to look "done up" all the time and act a certain way in public and plenty more. We also hear the story about how Charleen and Ellie actually met! We also ask for your dilemma's for Secrets From The Stalls. This week's include being in the middle of two of your best friends fighting, should you feel nervous about leaving your bf/gf to live abroad for a few months, dealing with a breakup even though you know it's the right decision, and how to know if your friend's boyfriend is toxic and controlling. Plus, find out why Channing Tatum is this week's Sip or Skip.

This week, Charleen and Ellie chat about feeling lost, not knowing what you want in life or where you are going, and things that might be helpful when it comes to finding the balance and your way when you feel like this. Prepare yourself for a gruesome and bloody What 'Til I Tell You from Ellie that landed her in hospital. As always, the girls answers your dilemmas in Secrets From The Stalls, including should you end it with your partner if you don't see it working long-term, what to do if you want to split from your other half that you co-parent dogs with, how to make friends as you get older, and tips on overcoming hanxiety (hangover anxiety).

It's time for a girly chat this week, as Charleen and Ellie discuss periods, contraception and the idea of having kids. Also, with Valentine's Day just ahead, the girls chat about going all out for the occasion, or is it all just a bit cringe and overhyped? As well as that, Charleen and Ellie have a big check-in with you to see how you are and how they can help with your dilemmas for an extended version of Secrets From The Stalls. How do you let someone down when you get the ick? Should you go on holidays with your partner that you might be breaking up with? Do you tell the girlfriend that you are pregnant with the baby of her cheating boyfriend? And sleeping with your friends brother - good idea or not?

This week, Charleen and Ellie talk about cosmetic enhancements and surgery. You'll hear what procedures both the girls have had and why they decided to get it done. Also, is there still a judgement around this topic in the modern day, and how does it affect personal and working life? As always, Charleen and Ellie answer your dilemmas too, including if you should call it quits when you and your bf are having "tiffs" every day, what to do if your friends aren't supporting a passion of yours, and is your happiness worth sacrificing for a good job with good benefits?

Have you ever wanted a deep dive into the world of OnlyFans? On this week's episode, Charleen and Ellie are joined by Tina (@irlxtinax), who is a content creator on OnlyFans, and she doesn't hold back. Tina shares how much money she makes from the site, how she charges and what is included in a subscription, a day in her life, the best and worst aspects of the job, the wildest parties and biggest celebs in her DMs, her ambitions and SO much more. Charleen and Ellie tell you all about their recent trip to Paris, and some interesting (maybe flirty?!) messages that Ellie has been getting in her Instagram DMs. The girls also answer some of your dilemmas, including if you feel like you are "mothering" your boyfriend, and the all-important decision of choosing your bridal party.

On this week's episode, Charleen and Ellie chat about the gym - their first experiences of going to a gym, overcoming gym anxiety when you think everyone is looking at you or when you don't know what you're doing. The girls offer advice to some of your secrets, including an emotional answer to the question of getting over the romanticised version of somebody, a tricky thought of never being with anyone else when you're in a relationship and should braces stop you from dating? Another listener dilemma about body image leads into the conversation of "glow-ups", a very popular term at the moment. Charleen and Ellie debate whether the idea of a glow-up is good or not and how do you achieve a glow-up if you want to have one for yourself. Also, you'll get to hear Charleen's rather traumatic driving test experience.

On this week's episode of Hold My Drink, we find out some of the 'firsts' of Charleen and Ellie...first kisses, first loves and the cute (or embarrassing!) stories that go with them. Also, Ellie reveals to you that her name is not actually Ellie! Listen in to find out what it actually is. We've also got some in-depth Secrets from the Stalls to address, including reappearing old flames, how to be on good terms with an ex, and spicing things up in the bedroom.

It's a New Year, but still your favourite gals back for Hold My Drink! The podcast is bigger and better than ever for 2022, and there is some serious catching up to do! Charleen fills us in on her magical (and sometimes creepy...and crawly) Mexican/American adventures and Ellie was half-woman, half-alcohol over the festive season. The girls also chat about some of their New Year's Resolutions and plans for 2022. And if you are looking to improve yourself in this new year, you're going to need a hand with your dilemmas...Charleen and Ellie are here to help! Ever felt like you were outgrowing your partner? What should you do if you really don't like your girlfriend/boyfriend's style in clothes? And arguments in a relationship...normal or not?

If you haven't listened to Part 1 yet, go do that first! This is the second and final part of our Christmas special from the crossover you didn't know you needed...'Hold My Bollox'. Terence Power and Calvin O'Brien from the Talking Bollox podcast are back to answer even more of the questions that girls are too afraid to ask guys. In this episode, you'll find out about how guys will show or tell a girl if they like her. What is a man's definition of "seeing someone"...or do guys check Snapchat scores or a girl's location? We hope you enjoy this listen as much as you're enjoying your Christmas break!

When podcast worlds collide...for a Christmas special! You know the Hold My Drink podcast is your safe space to talk about life, relationships, dilemmas etc. This week, it is not so safe as the rowdy bunch are in from the Talking Bollox podcast - it's Terence Power and Calvin O'Brien! What better men to answer ALL the questions that girls are too afraid to ask guys, such as...Does body count or the number of exes matter? Do guys care about body hair? What's the definition of "seeing someone"? Do guys check Snapchat scores or a girl's location? What is "post-nut syndrome"? Find out the answers to all of these and so many more in this Christmas special. In a plot twist of events, Calvin teaches Charleen some German as part of German Word of the Week. You'll find out where you can get the best spice bag in Dublin. And, since it's the festive season, let's settle the age-old question of the best tin of chocolates. We had so much to talk about with the guys that we're going to have part 2 for you next week.

One of our Hold My Drink co-hosts made it to a billboard in Times Square, New York City - but which one? This week's episode is all talk about travel, an activity that Charleen and Ellie are no strangers too. Find out the cities and countries each of the girls have visited and the locations and activities on their travel bucket list. As always, Charleen and Ellie help you with your dilemmas in 'Secrets From The Stalls', but this week got even more juicy than others! How soon is too soon to move onto someone new after a breakup? Would you tell your mam if you caught your dad sexting? And what do you do if you found out that you've already been with your fellas DAD before your fella?

Back by popular demand - it is Part 2 of The Secret Life of an Influencer. Charleen and Ellie answer even more of your questions about the job, including if influencers are conscious of being recognised in public, the worst hate comments they have received and sharing their thoughts on working with fast fashion brands. Also, we bring you an extended version of one of your favourite segments of the podcast, Secrets From The Stalls. How should you approach your ex (with a new girlfriend!!), who keeps texting you? Or what to do if you are spotting red flags at an early stage of seeing someone? And let's discuss the age-old questions of which is more important...looks or personality?!

This week, Ellie is in the hot seat to answer all of your burning questions about her, and she has no idea what they are! Charleen is the only one who knows what is about to be discussed. On this episode, we find out Ellie's type in men, her advice to her 19-year-old self, why she broke up with her ex and many more juicy details of her life. The girls also answer your dilemmas that you have sent in, including how to not let anxiety get in the way of your relationships, how to get from "exclusive" to "relationship", and should you get the person you're seeing for only a few months a Christmas present with the season approaching?

On this week’s episode, Charleen is in the hot seat. Ellie asked for your burning questions about everything you want to know about Charleen. And the best thing? Charleen has no idea what the questions are! We find out about her favourite baby names and the most famous person to slide in her DMs. Things take a turn, as we find out her body count and the first time she “did the deed” with her boyfriend. The girls also answer some of your dilemmas, including feelings of jealousy when other girls talk to your boyfriend, comparing yourself to your other half’s ex and also debate on the “right person, wrong time” narrative.

This week, Charleen and Ellie discuss THE ICK, or as Urban Dictionary defines it, "something someone does that is an instant turn off for you". The girls blind react to what gives YOU The Ick - including lads that shadow box, Velcro wallets and waiting to cross the road. As well as that, Charleen and Ellie help with some of your dilemmas this week, such as getting back on the dating scene after being single for 5 years and how to end a toxic relationship.

Would you shoot your shot with someone you liked? Does anyone ever get through the dreaded (or exciting?!) talking stage? Charleen has done both - Ellie fears the rejection of it all. This week's episode will give you the confidence to text that boy/girl you like, aka "shoot your shot" and give you advice on the aftermath of your shooting success - the talking/texting/voice-noting/FaceTiming stage. The girls also answer some of your dilemmas, including long-distance relationships, age gaps and OnlyFans.

How do the preconceived notions of "influencers" match up with the realities of the job? Is "influencing" a real career and what does a typical workday look like? How many followers do you need to be considered an "influencer"? This week, Charleen and Ellie let you in on an exclusive look into their world as influencers by answering all the burning questions you have - from pay, to working with brands, to the effects it has on relationships and so much more. The girls also answer some of your dilemmas, including what to do if you've started to fancy other lads while in a relationship, and how to handle a "stingy-with-money" partner.

School, college, courses... sometimes it's a bit too much!! On Episode 3 of Hold My Drink, Charleen and Ellie talk about the pressures of going to college before you even get there - and that is if you even want to go to college. The girls discuss their own experiences, both claiming to be "college drop-outs" and how they overcome them. As always, we hear from you with your dilemmas, including how to stay motivated in college, and what would an episode be without some boy trouble too?! How do you react if your boyfriend treats you well, but doesn't tell you? Or is it acceptable to post an Instagram in the hopes of a specific someone liking said post? Charleen and Ellie are here to discuss and solve the problems!

On this week's episode, Charleen and Ellie talk drinking and alcohol, and share some drunk stories of their own - once of which had Charleen kicked out of a club in Ibiza, and another that led Ellie to a night in the hospital. What do you do if your boyfriend has a very​ close girl "friend"? And would you tell your best friend that their other half is "trash"? The girls also discuss your dilemmas and decide if you should tell your best friend that you like them.

For our opening episode Charleen gives the inside story on her Love Island audition experience and reveals what contestants go through to get on the show, the girls talk about the rise of cosmetic surgery in Ireland and the role social media is playing, and how difficult life in the public eye can be.

A small sip from the new Hold My Drink podcast with Charleen Murphy and Ellie Kelly, the girls give you a taster of what you can expect from their podcast. Hold My Drink is a GoLoud Original podcast. It's coming soon to the GoLoud app.