You can’t get rid of us that easily. While this is sadly our last episode (for now), we can’t help but reflect on all of the fantastic moments this podcast has brought us! We have loved connecting with you all and hope you will continue to follow our journey on our other platforms until we … Continue reading It’s Not Goodbye, It’s See You Later →

Do you ever feel like the life you’re living isn’t good enough? As humans, we’re constantly striving for the next best thing. We think, “if only I had a better job, lived in a different city, had a better partner,” etc. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about why the grass isn’t always necessarily … Continue reading Is The Grass Always Greener? →

A true friend celebrates your wins, supports you in times of need, and is an all-around good listener. They’re there for you! But sometimes, it’s not always easy to be a good friend. Life happens, responsibilities get in the way, and other things prioritize your time. In this episode, Jon and Alex discuss ways to … Continue reading Being A Better Friend →

Communication is key- or is it? Strong communication in a relationship is commonly known as an essential tool for success. However, it’s a little more complicated than that. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk with best-selling author, TEDx speaker, psychologist, podcast host, and all-around relationship expert Dr. Abby Medcalf about the real reason relationships … Continue reading The Real Reason Relationships Fail feat. Dr. Abby Medcalf →

No ragrets, not even a single letter. Life is a rollercoaster! While there are many ups and downs, it ultimately sculpts us into who we are. But can you still have regrets? In this episode, Jon and Alex speak with a super special guest, Jon’s Dad! They talk about life lessons, what makes Jon who … Continue reading No Regrets feat. Jons Dad →

Goodbye, 20’s! Hello, 30’s! Reaching the big 3-0 should be like any other birthday, but entering a new decade can come with several underlying social expectations. Questions like, “what have you accomplished?” and “are you doing enough?” enter your brain. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about the best part about being in your … Continue reading Entering A New Decade: Turning 30 →

Are you known as the nice person in your group? Are you willing to drop everything when someone needs you? Do you feel bad when you say no? Would you give away your firstborn if someone asked? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you might be a people pleaser. Many people suffer … Continue reading Are You A People Pleaser? →

When a relationship ends, it’s hard to imagine your life without the other person. There are several reasons why someone might want to keep an ex in their life after a breakup, but is it the best choice? In this episode, Alex and Jon talk with their friend Sean about navigating dating life while maintaining … Continue reading Can You Be Friends With An Ex? feat. Sean Tadlock →

There’s nothing worse than reaching the last episode after binge-watching your favorite series. Thankfully with guests Taylor and James, the entertainment never has to stop. This week Alex and Jon chat with fellow TikTokers Taylor and James about the origin of #SuccessionTok and the genius behind the parodies they create that consistently go viral! Follow … Continue reading The Origin Of #SuccessionTok feat. Taylor Owen and James Neal →

WE’RE BACK, BABY! After a month long bae-cation, Alex and Jon are back and ready to give it to you straight. This week they discuss the importance of prioritizing your relationship. Many things in life require our attention, work, friends, kids, etc. but keeping a solid foundation with your partner is key to longevity and … Continue reading Prioritizing Your Relationships →

Working with your partner might sound like a nightmare to some, but could it be your recipe for success? When you both have shared dreams and goals, the sky’s the limit! This week Alex and Jon talk with their managers turned friends, Ashley and Cameron, about the many benefits of pursuing your passion and building … Continue reading Pursuing Your Passion With Your Partner feat. Currents Management →

Does your partner complain about unloading the dishwasher because they “don’t know where things go?” or maybe they don’t do the laundry because they don’t know the “right” way to do it. This behavior is called “weaponized incompetence,” a common form of gaslighting or manipulation. In this episode, Jon and Alex discuss the signs of … Continue reading What Is Weaponized Incompetence? →

What’s better than taking a vacation, you ask? A vacation with friends! Traveling with friends can be a great experience, but this might not be the best idea if you have different travel styles. In this episode, Jon and Alex discuss what you should consider before you decide to travel with friends, tips on communicating, … Continue reading What To Consider Before Traveling With Friends →

When you first start dating someone, you might be a little more reserved, dress to impress, and go the extra mile to make a good impression! Eventually, you get to a point in your relationship where you can relax and be yourself. You get comfortable with the person. But what happens when you get a … Continue reading How Comfortable Is Too Comfortable? →

Leaving any relationship is a hard decision, but walking away from a toxic partner can be more complicated than you’d imagine. Your relationship with this person becomes an addiction. A rollercoaster of highs, lows, and unanticipated emotions! But all the while, it feels comfortable for you. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk with Corrine, … Continue reading Why Toxic Relationships Are Hard To Leave →

The rise of social media in the early 2000s grew into something none of us could have imagined! But does too much of a good thing become a bad thing? A tool that connects others from across the world also brings people down. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about the good, the bad, … Continue reading Social Media – The Good, The Bad, The Ugly →

Let’s face it; life is hard. And we can almost guarantee that you are not alone in your struggles. In a world where being independent and self-sufficient is celebrated, it can be hard to accept that you could use a helping hand. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk with their guest Christia Rocha, host … Continue reading You Don’t Have To Do It Alone Feat. Christie Rocha from Sass Says →

It’s easy to assume that everyone knows to say please and thank you or hold the door open, but what about when to put the phone down or why it’s not ok to invite an unexpected guest? In this episode, Jon and Alex discuss social matters that are often overlooked. Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find … Continue reading Exercising Social Etiquette →

“New Year, New Me!” We’ve all said that phrase, heard that phrase, or at least seen it written as a caption on an Instagram post. Instead of a resolution, many of us simply want a fresh start! But what are we actually doing to refresh ourselves in the New Year? In this episode, Alex and … Continue reading How To Refresh Your Life →

And that’s a wrap! 2021 has come to an end, and it has been quite a year! If you’re like most people, you’ve probably been thinking about resolutions and goals you want to hit for 2022. January, we start strong, and then life gets in the way. Our plans hit the backburner. In this episode, … Continue reading Reaching Your Goals In The New Year →

Visiting family for the holidays can be stressful, especially if you’re joining your partner for the first time! Nobody wants to have uncomfortable conversations with family members they hardly know, or worse, join in on awkward traditions. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about preparing for the holidays before things get weird! Visit our … Continue reading Preparing For The Holidays And Awkward Family Traditions →

Going to couples therapy can be a proactive tool for a healthy relationship! Most people believe that you can only ask for help when things are bad, but that is far from the truth. This week Alex and Jon chat with fellow husband and wife TikTokers, Anna and Rory (aka. Mellorlite) about the benefits of … Continue reading Changing The Stigma Around Couples Counseling feat. Rory and Anna aka. Mellorlite →

Ho! Ho! Ho! It’s the holiday season and we’re diving right into gender stereotypes. 9/10 times women are more harshly criticized and categorized for their sexual history. Most people have a past but does that play a role in their future? In today’s episode, Alex and Jon give their opinions on the popular song lyric. … Continue reading Can’t Make A Wife Out Of A Hoe – Or Can You? →

Another personality test? You bet! In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon chat with enneagram experts *ahem*, “non” experts, on all things enneagram. There are 9 enneagram personality types that can be used as a tool to help us gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and the people around us! Sydney and Erin dive deep … Continue reading Using The Enneagram As A Tool For Life feat. Sydney and Erin From The Enneagram (Non) Experts →

People continue to disagree on this controversial topic, “can men and women just be friends”? Hundreds of romantic comedies address this question based on heterosexual relationships because it is all too common! In this episode, Alex and Jon talk about setting boundaries, what is considered crossing a line, and the age-old question, can you JUST … Continue reading Can Men And Women Be “Just Friends”? →

No matter how much you love your partner, there’s bound to be something they do that will annoy you. Every relationship is filled with habits and annoyances that can crawl under your skin, but is it a deal-breaker? In today’s episode, Alex and Jon talk about pet peeves in relationships! Is it just a pet … Continue reading Pet Peeves In Your Relationship →

In a world where you constantly feel like you’re being judged, it can be difficult to show parts of you that are different than what’s considered “normal.” In today’s episode, Jon and Alex talk to author Joseph Aguila about being a parent, teacher, and the inspiration behind his new children’s book, Lumpia For Lunch! His book … Continue reading Celebrating Our Differences feat. Joseph Aguila →

We’ve all heard the saying, “stop and smell the roses.” However, it’s easier said than done. In a fast-paced world, we often forget to take time to appreciate the moment we’re in! With cell phones in our back pocket, we have unlimited access to the internet, social media, and other people. We’re rarely ever disconnected. … Continue reading Living In The Moment →

Did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed? Sometimes we have bad mornings, and other times those bad mornings turn into bad days. Instead of just letting the little things go, you let it eat you up inside and ruin (what could have been) a perfect day! In this episode, Jon and … Continue reading Improve Your Mood Before You Ruin Your Day →

The age-old question “can people change?” is one that you might as yourself more often than not. Your friend, family member, or partner might continue to make false promises, just to fall back into their old habits. We want to believe people when they say that they’ll change! In this episode, Alex and Jon dive … Continue reading Can People Actually Change? →

6-pack abs might be made in the kitchen, but it all starts with a healthy mindset! In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon discuss all things health and wellness with their guest, Jenna Altman! Jenna shares her knowledge and expertise on how mental health plays a huge role towards a lifestyle change in exercise and … Continue reading Changing Your Mindset Around Fitness and Nutrition feat. Jenna Altman →

Burnout is REAL! But before you get to the point of a mental breakdown, do yourself a favor and take a break. In this episode, Alex and Jon talk about why breaks are important and what you can learn from them! Whether it’s from work or a relationship, everyone needs time to step back and … Continue reading Time To Take A Break →

Are you holding onto something that is causing you stress? Things happen in life that are out of our control, but as Queen Elsa says, “LET IT GO!”. In this episode,  Jon and Alex talk about the importance of letting go of feelings, relationships, and stressors that have been holding you back. Visit our website … Continue reading The Importance Of Letting Go →

You’ve finally met someone you love, and you do everything together! It’s completely normal to want to spend almost 100% of your time with someone when you’re in the honeymoon stage. But what about after that? In this episode, Jon and Alex talk with their guests, Katie and Tom from Vanderpump Rules, about long-term love, … Continue reading Maintaining Your Individuality In A Relationship feat. Katie Maloney and Tom Schwartz →

As much as we would love for things to go according to plan, unfortunately, that isn’t always the case. As we have all experienced in 2020 (and most of 2021), you could plan out your day/week/year to the minute, and things just happen. In this episode, Alex and Jon talk with their guest Stephanie about … Continue reading 36. Expect The Unexpected →

It has been said that “comparison is the thief of joy”, and we’ve never heard truer words. Everyone is on a different path in life, and if you continue to compare yourself to someone else, you may be left feeling unfulfilled or inferior. In this episode, Alex and Jon talk about the importance of recognizing … Continue reading Stop Comparing Yourself To Others →

Newly engaged and not sure where to start? Wedding planning can be intimidating, but not if you ask the right questions! It’s important that both you and your partner are involved in the process to ensure you have the perfect day for YOU! This week we talk with luxury wedding planner and friend, Erin McLean! … Continue reading Plan A Wedding That You Both Love feat. Erin McLean →

We all have that one friend who falls off the face of the earth as soon as they’re in a relationship. While the honeymoon phase is completely normal, you might just miss your friend! In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about navigating your friendships, relationships, and finding a healthy balance between them all. Visit … Continue reading Losing A Friend To Their Partner →

This week Alex and Jon talk about their favorite word! CoMmUnIcAtIoN! In the digital world we live in, most of your conversations are through a screen. Whether you’re online dating, texting your significant other, or emailing for work, communicating can be a difficult thing to navigate! Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us on Instagram!Podcast giveittomestraightpodcastAlex … Continue reading Communication Is Key →

Are you a saver and your partner is a spender? Maybe it’s vice versa? Either way, if you have different spending habits than your partner, this can create a huge roadblock in your relationship! In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about the tools you can use to get on the same page financially with … Continue reading When You And Your Partner Have Different Spending Habits →

Do you feel like you’re lacking self-confidence? Whether it be in yourself, your career, or your relationship, building your self-confidence isn’t always easy. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about the importance of becoming a more confident person and how to do it! Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us on Instagram!Podcast giveittomestraightpodcastAlex IG alexandramadisonnJon … Continue reading Building Your Self-Confidence →

As the song goes, the first cut is the deepest. But let’s be real, all breakups are hard. If you’ve recently split with your significant other, it might be hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but you’re not alone! We’ve all been there! In this episode, Jon and Alex talk … Continue reading Tools For Getting Over A Breakup →

Thinking of taking the next step with your partner? Maybe that next step is adopting a pet! If you’re considering adding a furry family member to your life, there is a lot to consider beforehand. In this episode, Alex and Jon talk about the important conversations you should have before you and your partner commit … Continue reading Adopting A Pet With Your Significant Other →

Are you starting to feel burnt out at your job? Wondering why you’re doing what you’re doing? Maybe it’s time to change your career! In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about how to know when it’s time to move on from your current job, and onto something that gives you purpose. Visit our website … Continue reading Changing Your Career – Is It Time? →

Are you working to live? Or living to work? Sometimes, it’s hard to tell. We all have bills to pay, but when does too much work take a toll on your relationships? In this episode Jon and Alex talk with their guest, DJ John about finding work life balance while hustling towards your goals! Visit … Continue reading Discovering Work Life Balance →

There’s nothing wrong with some friendly competition? Right?! Competing with your partner can be all fun and games until one person takes things a little too far. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about the benefits of playful competition with your significant other, and how to remember that you’re on the same team! Visit … Continue reading Being In A Competitive Relationship →

We all know that one couple who goes a little too far with their PDA. Is it because they have something to prove? Are they actually that into each other? Or is it coming from a place of insecurity? In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about public display of affection (PDA). How much is … Continue reading How Much Is Too Much PDA? →

Finding it harder to stay cool, calm, and collected? We feel ya! Times are stressful for everyone these days. Whether it’s work-related, financial, or relationship-based, it’s important to know the tools you can use to reduce stress. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about factors that trigger stress, the negative impacts it can have … Continue reading How To Manage Your Stress →

If you really want to get to know someone, plan a trip together! In today’s episode, Jon and Alex talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of traveling with your partner. It’s not always a walk in the park, but when you’re creating memories, nothing else matters! Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us … Continue reading Traveling With Your Partner →

Ever thought about leaving it all behind and traveling for a year? (or more!) In this episode, Jon and Alex chat with their friend LG about the risks and rewards of living a life abroad. They talk about the benefits of traveling, how to communicate your aspirations to your partner, and stepping out of your … Continue reading Taking A Gap Year →

Do you feel like you’re constantly working to find happiness and success? To finally be able to say, “I made it!” Or maybe when you reach your goal, it’s not what you thought it would be? In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about how to recognize your achievements and define your version of happiness … Continue reading Finding Your Version Of Success →

You’ve met someone you like and you’re ready to take the next step in your relationship…meet the parents! While this can be a nerve-racking encounter, it doesn’t have to be! In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about how to make a great first impression and what to do if things get weird. Visit our … Continue reading Meeting The Parents →

In good times and in bad, you want to have a supportive partner! When shit hits the fan, it’s essential to have someone by your side that you can lean on. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about the traits of a supportive partner and how to recognize if your partner is not supportive. … Continue reading What To Do With An Unsupportive Partner →

Are you thinking about moving in with your significant other? Whether it’s the next step in your relationship, or you just want to save some money, the choice to move in with someone can be a difficult one! In this episode, Alex and Jon talk about how to know you’re ready to move in with … Continue reading Is It Time To Move In Together? →

The older you get, the harder it can be to make new friends! Especially when you move to a new city where you don’t know anyone! In this week’s episode, Jon and Alex talk with their guest Jenn about fostering new friendships as an adult.  Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us on Instagram!Podcast giveittomestraightpodcastAlex IG … Continue reading Making Friends When You’re Older →

Dating apps in your 30’s can look a little different than what it was in your 20’s. In this week’s episode, Jon and Alex talk with Jon’s best friend, Ryan “Goo” about his experience dating as a guy on the move in his mid 30’s. Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us on Instagram!Podcast giveittomestraightpodcastAlex IG … Continue reading Navigating The Dating World In Your 30’s →

Sex drives can vary person to person, but there’s nothing worse than when yours doesn’t align with your partners. If this is you, you’re not alone! In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about tips on finding a healthy balance in your libido so both you and your partner can end up satisfied. Visit our … Continue reading How To Handle A Mismatched Sex Drive →

Relationships can be tough to navigate sometimes. When things get rocky, do you call it quits? Is it worth fighting for? Or should you consider therapy? This week Alex and Jon sit down with their guest Abby to talk about the benefits of going to therapy before a lifelong commitment! Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find … Continue reading Therapy Before Marriage, Is It Worth It? →

They say, “don’t judge a book by its cover,” but sometimes it’s not always that easy. In today’s episode, Alex and Jon talk about when being too judgemental can be a bad thing and how to change your mindset! Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us on Instagram!Podcast giveittomestraightpodcastAlex IG alexandramadisonnJon IG jbouffard2 Looking for relationship … Continue reading Who Are You To Judge? →

Does your success intimidate your partner? The topic of finances can be uncomfortable to talk about, especially when there is an imbalance of income. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk with their guest Leila about balancing financial success in a relationship! Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us on Instagram!Podcast giveittomestraightpodcastAlex IG alexandramadisonnJon IG jbouffard2 … Continue reading Balancing Money, Success, and Relationships →

Getting into arguments with your significant other is inevitable, so you might as well learn how to do it right. Not every fight needs to end in a breakup. In this episode, Jon and Alex give their advice on how to have healthy disagreements with your partner! Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us on Instagram!Podcast … Continue reading What Should We Fight About Today? →

Have you ever been in a relationship where your partner doesn’t like one of your closest friends? Or your friends don’t like your significant other? When two important parts of your life can’t see eye to eye, it can make things super difficult! In today’s episode, Jon and Alex talk with their first-ever guest, Erin! … Continue reading But…I Don’t Like Their Friends →

 Congrats! You found someone you actually like! But now you have to have the awkward “what are we” conversation. In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about how you know you’re ready to have “the talk” and how to do it! Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us on Instagram!Podcast giveittomestraightpodcastAlex IG alexandramadisonnJon IG jbouffard2 Looking … Continue reading Are We Official? →

Bonus Episode! Jon and Alex are celebrating 3 years of owning a business! They discuss what lead them to start a company and what it’s like working as a husband and wife team. Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us on Instagram!Podcast giveittomestraightpodcastAlex IG alexandramadisonnJon IG jbouffard2 Looking for relationship advice? Email us! giveittomestraightpodcast@gmail.com

Sick of spending too much time with your significant other? We get it. Sometimes you just need some good ole “me” time to reset and recharge. In this episode, Alex and Jon talk about the benefits of spending time apart from your partner and how to do it successfully! Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us … Continue reading Leave Me Alone →

Breakups are hard (duh) and sometimes we stay in relationships longer than we should to avoid the pain. But ya know what’s worse? Staying in a shitty relationship! Jon and Alex talk about some of the first signs in your relationship that you should call it quits. Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com Find us on Instagram!Podcast … Continue reading When To Call It Quits →

Do you feel like all of the chores and responsibilities fall on you? Do you constantly ask your partner to clean up their shit and help with dishes and they STILL don’t do it?! In this episode, Jon and Alex talk about what to do when your partner isn’t contributing and pulling their weight. Find … Continue reading I Don’t Cook, I Don’t Clean →

As the popular 90’s song went, “people of the world, SPICE UP YOUR LIFE”. Alex and Jon give you their very own tips and tricks to change your dull and dying relationship to alive and thriving.  Find us on Instagram!Podcast giveittomestraightpodcastAlex IG alexandramadisonnJon IG jbouffard2 Looking for relationship advice? Email us! giveittomestraightpodcast@gmail.com

In this episode, Jon and Alex discuss the topic of Instagram vs. Reality. Can too much social media be harmful to your relationship? Does Instagram create unrealistic expectations? Find out in this episode! Find us on Instagram!Podcast giveittomestraightpodcastAlex IG alexandramadisonnJon IG jbouffard2 Looking for relationship advice? Email us! giveittomestraightpodcast@gmail.com

Welcome to Give It To Me Straight! Jon and Alex introduce themselves in their very first episode and then dive headfirst into the topic of online dating. Is dating on apps worth your time? Can you actually find love on Tinder? Find out in this episode! Find us on Instagram!Podcast giveittomestraightpodcastAlex IG alexandramadisonnJon IG jbouffard2 … Continue reading Can You Find Love On The Apps? →