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If Your Spouse Doesn’t Receive Positive Affirmations
Have you tried to be encouraging to your spouse, but he or she wasn't receptive to it? Jim Daly talks to Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma about some healthy perspectives on if your spouse isn't receiving your kind words. Plus, John and the Smalley's discuss how positive affirmations can help a couple build trust and have more enjoyable intimacy.
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Honest Affirmation Can Make Your Marriage Great
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2/1/2024 • 8 minutes, 24 seconds
Owning Your Responsibility to Feel Good
Being affirmed by your spouse is great, but do you need it to survive? John, Erin and Greg explain why affirming your spouse is healthy, and discuss the difference between a need and a strong desire. You'll also hear from Jim Daly and Dr. Michael Sytsma on why feeling good about yourself is your decision, and should not be dependent on what your spouse says.
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Discovering Mutual Pleasure in Marriage
Honest Affirmation Can Make Your Marriage Great
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1/30/2024 • 11 minutes, 39 seconds
Maintaining Joy When Your Plate is Full
What your marriage is in a busy season, how can you make time for fun and laughter? Jim Daly speaks to Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer about how they've learned to be joyful during busy seasons. John also talks with Greg and Erin about how they maintain joy, even with a taxing schedule.
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A Laugh Between Us
What Is Intimacy?
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1/25/2024 • 10 minutes, 36 seconds
When Your Husband Doesn’t Initiate Romance
What can you do if you desire romance, but your spouse isn't the romantic type? Jim Daly talks with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer about a concept they call, "biblical flirtation." Plus, John and the Smalley's share about why it's good for men to be romantic toward their wives.
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A Guy’s Guide to Romance
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1/23/2024 • 12 minutes, 16 seconds
Openness That Leads to Healing
Pretending like you've got it all together is not good for your your marriage. John and Greg address why it's not okay to act like your relationship is perfect, especially when there are issues going on. Also, Jim Daly talks with Pastor Rick Bulman about how he and his wife Tiffany don't hide from their broken past, and ways they've seen God heal their marriage.
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Hope Restored
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Recovering From an Affair
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1/18/2024 • 10 minutes, 21 seconds
A Wedding for Blended Couples
For couples facing remarriage, what's the way to do a wedding right? John and the Smalley's share how they've seen God restore people, even after an unwanted divorce. Also, Jim Daly and Dr. Ron Deal talk about ways kids can be involved in a blended family wedding.
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How Remarriage Affects Kids
Remarriage Doesn’t Wipe Away Memories and Old Habits
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1/16/2024 • 11 minutes, 5 seconds
When You and Your Spouse Don’t Agree on Discipline
How do you and your spouse find agreement on ways to discipline your kids? John, Erin and Greg address how this is a common tension point for couples, and why having kids can help you be a better spouse. Also, Dr. Ron Deal and Jim Daly discuss what healthy discipline can look like for blended families.
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Discipline Is Worth the Effort
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1/11/2024 • 15 minutes, 12 seconds
Blended Couples and Their Finances
Money is one of the top areas of conflict for married couples. If you're facing financial problems, John, Erin and Greg will explain why you can still have hope. They'll also address whether or not a prenuptial agreement is a good idea. Plus, Jim Daly and Dr. Ron Deal discuss how blended families can deal with financial issues.
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Making a Financial Plan Matters to Your Marriage
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1/9/2024 • 14 minutes, 34 seconds
Focusing on the Best for a Better Sex Life
You long to feel emotionally safe in marriage. When you feel that safety, it can positively impact your sexual relationship. Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma talk with Jim Daly about the need to focus on good things in your marriage, even outside of the bedroom. Plus, John and the Smalley's talk about how you can help your mate overcome his or her insecurities.
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5 Things Experts Wish You Knew About Healthy Sex in Marriage
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1/4/2024 • 12 minutes, 32 seconds
Are We the Only Ones Struggling with Sex?
The truth is, many couples face challenges regarding physical intimacy. John, Greg, and Erin share why a satisfying sex life takes time and doesn't happen overnight. You'll also hear from Jim Daly, who talks to Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma about common misconceptions many couples have about sex.
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5 Things Experts Wish You Knew About Healthy Sex in Marriage
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1/2/2024 • 13 minutes, 36 seconds
Taking the Chance to Flirt
It can be easy to neglect romance when life gets busy. John talks with the Smalley's about how they've learned to be playful and flirtatious. Also, Jim Daly speaks with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer about a concept they call, "biblical flirtation," that you can apply to your relationship.
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Flirt Your Way to a Better Marriage
Conversation Starters for Date Nights
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12/28/2023 • 12 minutes, 18 seconds
Stop Criticizing and Start Planning
Have you ever been critical of your spouse and you didn't realize how your words hurt his or her feelings? Dr. Randy Schroeder talks to Jim Daly about how couples can recognize if they're criticizing their mate too much. Plus, John and the Smalley's address why planning things together, instead of complaining, can go a long way in your marriage.
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The Reactive Cycle
6 Tools for Healthy Communication in Marriage
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12/26/2023 • 11 minutes, 17 seconds
Can God Heal the Betrayal?
Adultery does great damage to a marriage, and it's strongly warned about in the Bible. Pastor Rick and Tiffany Bulman discuss what happened after her affair with a friend came to light. Also, John and the Smalley's share about what you can do, if you're wondering if you'll ever trust your mate again.
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Hope Restored
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Recovering From an Affair
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12/21/2023 • 12 minutes, 35 seconds
Your Spouse Had an Affair, Now What?
Sadly, many marriages today are broken when one or both spouses have been unfaithful to the marriage vows. If you know someone in that scenario, there can be restoration. Pastor Rick and Tiffany Bulman tell about the moment where her affair came to light. Plus, John and the Smalley's discuss how they've seen God heal many couples through the Hope Restored program.
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Recovering From an Affair
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12/19/2023 • 11 minutes, 48 seconds
Is Sex Really That Important?
Sometimes, one spouse desires sex more than the other. When that happens, how can you and your spouse talk about it? John and the Smalley's address why it's good to put your spouse's needs above your own. Also, Jim Daly talks to Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn about why it matters that you and your spouse have a good sex life.
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12/13/2023 • 10 minutes, 35 seconds
Respecting Your Past and Each Other
How can blended families show each other grace, when they reveal difficult details about their pasts? Jim Daly and Ron Deal share about how couples can have healthy conversations on their past histories. Also, John and the Smalley's offer hope to people who didn't have good marriages modeled to them by their parents.
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Getting to Know You
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12/12/2023 • 13 minutes, 13 seconds
How to Have Good Conversations About Sex
When was the last time you and your spouse talked about sex? The truth is, many couples struggle to discus it at all. Jim Daly speaks to Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma about why many couples face challenges regarding physical intimacy. Plus, John and the Smalley's address why you need to talk about physical intimacy.
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12/5/2023 • 9 minutes, 4 seconds
Navigating Toxic Friendships
Your marriage needs friendships. But how can you discern if your friendships are truly helping your relationship? Greg Smalley talks with John and Erin about ways you can tell if a friendship is toxic. Plus, Jim Daly speaks to Dr. Randy Schroeder on how friendships influence a marriage.
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How to Help a Friend Who Has Marriage Problems
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11/30/2023 • 14 minutes, 13 seconds
Practicing Dialogue, Not a Monologue
You thought you were making such a good point to your spouse, but instead, your mate got annoyed by how much you talked! Sound familiar? Jim Daly speaks with Counselor, Dr. Randy Schroeder about the need for couples to practice dialogue. Also, John and the Smalley's will encourage you to make dialoguing a habit in your conversations with your spouse.
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Positive Communication in Marriage
Four Types of Communication to Strengthen Your Marriage
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11/28/2023 • 12 minutes, 46 seconds
How Affairs Get Started
Many affairs get started with something that seems innocent - a nice text, a friendly conversation, etc. John, Greg and Erin will encourage you to notice the warning signs, so you can prevent an affair from happening. You'll also hear Jim Daly talk to Rick and Tiffany Bulman, as they address how she developed a seemingly innocent friendship that led her down a dark road.
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Counseling
How to Recognize Where Your Marriage Is Vulnerable to an Affair
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11/27/2023 • 13 minutes, 39 seconds
Warning Signs That Can Lead to an Affair
Small things left unchecked in your marriage might make your relationship more vulnerable to an affair. John, Erin and Greg discuss how you can guard your marriage from an affair. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Pastor Rick Bulman and his wife Tiffany about a season where they didn't heed the warning signs in their marriage.
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Counseling
How to Recognize Where Your Marriage Is Vulnerable to an Affair
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11/21/2023 • 14 minutes, 25 seconds
A Wedding for Blended Couples
For couples facing remarriage, what's the way to do a wedding right? John and the Smalley's share how they've seen God restore people, even after an unwanted divorce. Also, Jim Daly and Dr. Ron Deal talk about ways kids can be involved in a blended family wedding.
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How Remarriage Affects Kids
Remarriage Doesn’t Wipe Away Memories and Old Habits
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11/16/2023 • 12 minutes, 16 seconds
Blended Couples and Kids
We all need God's grace for our past mistakes. But what does that look like if you've gotten remarried? John, Greg, and Erin provide hope to those in a blended marriage. Then, Jim Daly and Dr. Ron Deal explain the need for spouses to prioritize their marriage, even when kids are involved.
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Living in a Stepfamily
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11/14/2023 • 15 minutes, 8 seconds
Designed for Passionate Pleasure
Do you see sex in your marriage as a gift? John and the Smalley's explain some of the benefits of physical intimacy in marriage, and why it's a gift from God. Plus, Jim Daly and Dr. Juli Slattery discuss why sex is designed by God for passionate celebration.
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How Important is Sex in a Relationship?
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11/9/2023 • 11 minutes, 37 seconds
Sex and Sacrificial Love
God calls us to minister to our spouse, even when it comes to sex. Dr. Juli Slattery and Jim Daly discuss what it means to practice sacrificial love in your sex life. Plus, John talks with the Smalley's about why couples need to have a selfless approach to sex in marriage.
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Rekindling Intimacy
How Important is Sex in a Relationship?
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11/7/2023 • 11 minutes, 10 seconds
It’s How You Approach Conflict
One of the toughest challenges with conflict in marriage is focusing on what's best for your spouse instead of trying to win an argument. Jim Daly and Dr. Randy Schroeder offer some guidelines for how to make tough discussions with your spouse productive. Plus, John, Greg and Erin share about why it's good to try and solve one problem at a time.
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Find Your Hot-Button Issues to Improve Your Marriage
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11/2/2023 • 13 minutes, 2 seconds
When Conflict is Actually a Good Thing
Conflict is an inevitable part of a good marriage. The key is in how you work through it. John and the Smalley's give some hope to couples who seem to be fighting a lot. Plus, Jim Daly and Dr. Randy Schroeder provide a few pointers on how to handle conflict well in your relationship.
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Identify Your Reactive Cycle
A Better Way to Resolve Conflict
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10/31/2023 • 11 minutes, 13 seconds
Before an Affair Takes Place
Infidelity does tremendous damage to a marriage, but it doesn't have to be the end of your story. John and the Smalley's address how many couples have faced this crisis. Then, Jim Daly chats with Pastor Rick Bulman and his wife Tiffany about their story before she had an affair.
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Hope Restored
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Recovering from an Affair
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10/26/2023 • 13 minutes, 23 seconds
For the Couple Who’s Lost a Child
Many of us know a couple who's lost a child, and the pain is devastating. John and the Smalley's share how they've seen couples walk through this. Then, Jim Daly and Gary Thomas discuss the need for community that couples have during a trying season.
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Resources: Grieving the Loss of a Child
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10/24/2023 • 13 minutes, 30 seconds
If You’ve Come from a Blended Family
Even if you come from a broken home, there is still hope for you. Jim Daly talks with Ron Deal about his own personal background of coming from a blended family. Then, John Fuller talks with the Smalley's about the need for couples in a blended marriage to be honest with each other about their pasts.
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Living in a Stepfamily
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10/19/2023 • 10 minutes, 55 seconds
What Blended Families Face
The statistics indicate many couples today are part of a blended family. If that's you or someone you know, John and the Smalley's will provide some hope on learning to move forward. You'll also hear Jim Daly and Ron Deal discuss how choosing to remarry impacts more people besides just you and your mate.
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Remarriage Doesn’t Wipe Away Memories and Old Habits
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10/17/2023 • 9 minutes, 34 seconds
Sex and Intimacy Aren’t the Same Thing
What is the difference between sex and intimacy? Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Juli Slattery, who helps people understand God's design for sex. Plus, John talks with Greg Smalley about questions we can ask our spouse to discern if we're meeting each other's needs.
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10/12/2023 • 12 minutes, 13 seconds
Godly Character and Your Sex Life
The world tells you that good sex is about what feels right to you. However, that's not the biblical approach. John and the Smalley's address misconceptions many couples have about sex. You'll also hear Jim Daly and Dr. Juli Slattery discuss why your character is the most important part of your sex life in marriage.
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What is Intimacy?
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10/10/2023 • 12 minutes, 35 seconds
Responding to Hurtful Comments from Your Spouse
It hurts when your spouse has said mean things to you. If you're feeling resentment because of rude comments from your mate, Jim Daly and Dr. Randy Schroeder share a 4-step formula to help you move on productively in your marriage. Then, Greg talks with John and Erin about how someone can be patient, even when his or her spouse doesn't see a need to apologize for hurtful comments.
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10/5/2023 • 11 minutes, 36 seconds
Listening Before Criticizing
Being a good listener doesn't happen by accident. It takes intentionality. Greg Smalley shares with Erin Smalley and John Fuller about how he's learning to get better at listening. Plus, Jim Daly speaks with counselor, Dr. Randy Schroeder, about why it's best to listen well and offer constructive feedback to your spouse. They will also bring up why negative criticism is so dangerous.
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10/3/2023 • 13 minutes, 15 seconds
My Life is Busy! Please Help!
When your schedule is full, it's hard to make time for your spouse. John Fuller talks with Erin Smalley about ways each of them has struggled with overcrowding their schedules in their marriages. Then, Jim Daly and Gary Thomas discuss why busyness isn't good for your relationship. They'll also share about how to hear from God, when making decisions in your marriage.
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9/28/2023 • 12 minutes, 34 seconds
When Financial Problems Turn to Anger
Financial struggles can lead to bitterness in your marriage, if you aren't careful. Jim Daly and marriage expert Gary Thomas share how your marriage can survive a financial hardship. Also, John Fuller and Erin Smalley discuss how to handle any anger you feel toward your spouse about money.
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Embrace Your Money Type to Find Financial Unity
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9/26/2023 • 12 minutes, 2 seconds
Leaving a Legacy that Matters
Your marriage is building a legacy that will one day be remembered. To encourage you to leave a godly legacy, Jim Daly chats with Kimberly and Danny Ray Thompson about living for what truly matters. You'll also hear John Fuller and the Smalley's share about a couple they admire.
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9/21/2023 • 11 minutes, 41 seconds
When God Stepped in Your Marriage
Can you look back to a moment in your marriage and say, "only God could've done that?" Greg, Erin and share with John about a time that happened in their relationship. Also, Jim Daly speaks with Danny Ray and Kimberly Thompson about how God sustained them through a difficult childbirth.
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Relationship Rituals: 20 Ideas for Staying Connected to Your Spouse
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9/19/2023 • 9 minutes, 58 seconds
Sex is Meant to Reflect God’s Love
What if your sex life was meant to be a reflection of God's love for His people? Jim Daly talks with psychologist Dr. Juli Slattery about how to honor God in our sexuality. John Fuller also speaks with Greg and Erin Smalley about why it's a good thing for couples to enjoy sex in marriage.
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How Important is Sex in a Relationship?
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9/14/2023 • 9 minutes, 59 seconds
Sex and Covenant Love
What comes to your mind when you heard the word "covenant?" Dr. Juli Slattery and Jim Daly explain how something called "covenant love," can greatly impact your sex life. Plus, John and the Smalley's explain why it's good for married couples to pray about physical intimacy.
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What is Intimacy?
How Important is Sex in a Relationship?
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9/12/2023 • 12 minutes, 9 seconds
You Can’t Read Your Spouse’s Mind!
Time for an honest question, have you tried to read your spouse's mind? Jim Daly and Counselor Randy Schroeder explain why that's not a good thing for your marriage. You'll also hear John Fuller and Erin Smalley talk about ways you and your spouse can share your honest thoughts with each other, instead of relying on assumptions.
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The Reactive Cycle
You Didn't Marry a Mind Reader: How to Communicate Your Expectations
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9/7/2023 • 12 minutes, 18 seconds
No Tech Secrets Between Us
Have you ever been enjoying a nice dinner with your spouse, only to look up and see he or she was glued to a phone screen? John and Erin share how they are working on getting better about not overusing technology. Also, Jim Daly and Dr. Randy Schroeder address how you can have better tech habits in your marriage.
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7 Tips for a Technology and Social Media Detox
How to Reconnect When You're Lonely in Marriage
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9/5/2023 • 12 minutes, 32 seconds
Good Kinds of Storms
Having a baby or getting a new job are wonderful blessings. Yet, those same things can add a lot of stress to your marriage. If you're in a stressful season, you'll be encouraged by what John, Greg and Erin have to say. Plus, Gary Thomas and Jim Daly offer a few practical ideas for maintaining your communication when you're overwhelmed by stress.
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Finding Stability Amidst Marriage Stressors
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8/31/2023 • 15 minutes, 53 seconds
3 Building Blocks for Emotional Connection
How do you maintain a strong connection with your spouse when you are going through a storm? Jim Daly and Gary Thomas will offer you three ways you can do that. You'll also hear John Fuller and the Smalley's share about tough times they faced, and how to keep your communication strong when life gets stressful.
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Finding Stability Amidst Marriage Stressors
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8/29/2023 • 10 minutes, 30 seconds
Can We Start Over?
When you're in the middle of an argument with your spouse, there's tremendous value in learning to pause and start over. John and the Smalley's discuss how taking a moment to stop can help resolve an argument in your marriage. You'll also hear Jim Daly chat with Danny Ray and Kimberly Thompson, as they address ways they've learned to start over in the midst of conflict.
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Relationship Rituals: 20 Ideas for Staying Connected to Your Spouse
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8/24/2023 • 12 minutes, 11 seconds
Doing Whatever it Takes
At some point in your marriage, you'll make a mistake or handle a situation poorly. Danny Ray and Kimberly Thompson share a funny story with Jim Daly about a time something went awry in their marriage. Erin Smalley and John Fuller will also give some tips for how to forgive yourself, even after you make a mistake.
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8/22/2023 • 10 minutes, 56 seconds
How God Can Redeem Your Sexual Brokenness
Sex is meant to be a gift from God', but how can you see it as a blessing when you've made many mistakes? Jim Daly and Dr. Juli Slattery share how the gospel can redeem you from sexual brokenness. You'll also hear a powerful story from Dr. Greg Smalley, as he chats with his wife Erin and John Fuller.
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An Interview With A Post-Abortive Father
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8/17/2023 • 14 minutes, 5 seconds
Two Wrong Perspectives About Sex
Many of us enter marriage with a distorted view of God's design for sex. To give you some hope, Jim Daly talks with Dr. Juli Slattery about two wrong perspectives about sex, and how God can redeem them. You'll also hear John Fuller chat with the Smalley's about why there's a spiritual battle regarding our sexuality.
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Rekindling Intimacy
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8/15/2023 • 11 minutes, 34 seconds
Sarcasm: Helpful or Harmful to Your Marriage?
Have you ever said something sarcastic to your spouse, only to have him or her be offended? The Smalley's share with John Fuller about how sarcasm has been a struggle in their relationship. Plus, Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Randy Schroder on why sarcasm is bad for your marriage. They'll also address how to leave your family of origin well so you can prioritize your marriage.
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Contempt in Marriage
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8/10/2023 • 14 minutes, 37 seconds
Making Appreciation a Habit
Telling your mate how much you appreciate him or her is very life-giving to your relationship. John talks with Greg and Erin Smalley about reasons they appreicate each other. Also, Focus President Jim Daly and Dr. Randy Shroeder address why it's healthy to develop a habit of showing gratitude to your spouse.
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How to Appreciate Your Spouse's Unique Personality
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8/8/2023 • 10 minutes, 56 seconds
Don’t Isolate Your Marriage
It's easy for many people to feel isolated in their marriages today. John and the Smalley's discuss factors that can lead to feeling disconnected in your relationship. You'll also hear Jim Daly and Gary Thomas address why isolation is so bad for your marriage.
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Three Ways Your Imperfect Marriage Can Bless Others
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8/3/2023 • 13 minutes, 2 seconds
Overcoming Anger and Financial Hardships as a Couple
Tension in your marriage can be caused by a number of factors. But what if the real reason you're upset is not what you think it is? Gary Thomas speaks with Jim Daly about a couple who's worked through challenges and frustrations in their marriage. Plus, John Fuller and the Smalley's address how finances can be the cause for friction in your relationship.
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Money and Marriage – How to Thrive in Love and Money
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8/1/2023 • 13 minutes, 55 seconds
God Works in the Messiness of Marriage
It's freeing when you can learn to love your spouse even when things are not perfect. But what do you do in the seasons of life deal you a bad hand? John and the Smalley's will share about a couple who handled a hard season of life well. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Danny Ray and Kimberly Thompson about how God can use messy situations in your marriage.
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Relationship Rituals: 20 Ideas for Staying Connected to Your Spouse
How to Rekindle a Relationship with Your Spouse
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7/27/2023 • 15 minutes, 18 seconds
Having a "Team Us" Mentality
Having a team mentality is one of the keys to making your marriage work. John talks with Greg and Erin about how they've learned to adopt a team mindset. Plus, Jim Daly speaks with Danny Ray and Kimberly Thompson on how they've learned to appreciate their different temperaments.
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