“Don't settle for average. Bring your best to the moment. Then, whether it fails or succeeds, at least you know you gave all you had. We need your whole heart.” - Maya Angelou

“There is a purpose behind everything that happens, whether or not we can understand it at the time.” - James Redfield

“Whatever you wish for, wish with all your heart, soul, and strength. Wish for it as if you know the outcome depends on it, and then work as if the outcome doesn't depend on it.” - Colin Powell

“Acceptance doesn't mean resignation; it means understanding that things are what they are and that there's a way through it.” - Wayne Dyer

“Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.” - Nelson Mandela

“Silence the voices in your head who whisper doubts and replace them with the sounds of your own victory.” - Mary Anne Radmacher

“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” - Confucius

“Just when the caterpillar thought the world was ending, it became a butterfly.” - Proverb

“The biggest risk is not taking any risk. In a world that is changing really quickly, the only strategy that is guaranteed to fail is not taking risks.” - Mark Zuckerberg

“Your positive energy attracts positive energy. Your negative energy attracts negative energy.” - Joe Vitale

“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy” - Dale Carnegie

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.” - Winston Churchill

“Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” - Melody Beattie

“Trust your instincts. Your mistakes might as well be your own, instead of someone else's.” - Billy Wilder

Life often throws obstacles our way to test our commitment and push us to grow. The path to success is rarely smooth, and we may need to endure periods of hardship before achieving our true desires.

“Life is a precious gift; don't waste it waiting for perfect conditions. Act now, and create your own opportunities.”

“The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential... These are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence.” – Confucius

“Your destiny in love is in your hands. Focus on what you seek, take action, and watch the world unfold its endless possibilities.”

“Don't compromise your well-being for any mediocre love. Your heart deserves a story that feels like a celebration of your worth. Hold out for the love that aligns with your values and makes you genuinely happy.”

“Challenges are what make life interesting. Overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.” - Joshua J. Marine

“Don't be pushed around by the fears in your mind. Be led by the dreams in your heart.” - Roy T. Bennett

"Your gut instinct will tell you when something doesn't feel right, but your mind will override it and make you do things anyway."

“No matter how dark the night, the sun always rises again.” - Victor Hugo

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, Dream, Discover." - Mark Twain

“The biggest risk is not taking any risk. In a world that is changing really quickly, the only strategy that is guaranteed to fail is not taking risks.” - Mark Zuckerberg

"Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day. It's about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen." - Brené Brown

"Patience is not simply the ability to wait – it's the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting." – Joyce Meyer

“Never settle for a relationship that’s less than you deserve. Not only will you make yourself unhappy, but you’ll be showing your partner that it’s okay to not give their best effort.” - Sonya Parker

“Healing may not be so much about getting better, as about letting go of everything that isn't you – all of the expectations, all of the beliefs – and becoming who you are.” - Rachel Naomi Remen

“Love yourself first and everything will fall into place. You just have to believe in yourself.” - Oprah Winfrey

“Acceptance is not resignation; it is the recognition of things as they are as a starting point for change or adjustment.” – Michael J. Fox

“The best thing you can do is let go of what is not serving you, even if it hurts. The new will not come until the old goes away.” - David R. Hamilton

“Life's journey is not about the fairness of the road but the strength with which you tread upon it.”

“It's hard to wait for something you know might not happen, but it's even harder to give up when you know it's everything you want.”

“Trust the wait. Embrace the uncertainty. Enjoy the beauty of becoming. When nothing is certain, anything is possible.” - Mandy Hale

“Your story is not just a tale; it's a testament to your strength, resilience, and the beauty of embracing your true self.”

“Fear has no power unless we let it control our actions. Confront it today, or tomorrow might be just another day of hesitation.” “Life is too short to let fear dictate our choices. The real tragedy is not in facing rejection or failure but in allowing fear to steal our opportunities for growth.”

“The true power of trying lies in the courage to face the odds and persist, no matter how daunting the journey may seem. When you try, you not only defy the odds but also define your own destiny.”

"You deserve to be happy, and don't let anyone make you think otherwise. Your worth is not determined by your circumstances."

“The journey of life becomes more beautiful when we savor the small moments and prioritize self-care. A balanced life is one where goals are pursued with enthusiasm, but self-care is never neglected.”

"When you let go of expectations, you allow life to happen." - Eckhart Tolle

"In the face of challenges, we discover our true potential and grow into the best versions of ourselves."

“The greatest achievements begin with the belief that 'It's me who can make a difference.’ Be bold, be courageous, and be the leader of your own life.”

"Believing in your potential is the first step; embracing discomfort is the second. To achieve greatness, one must overcome the belief that it's beyond their reach and the tendency to try only once or twice."

"Success is not measured by how easily one reaches their destination, but by the determination to continue the journey. Achieving meaningful goals is rarely easy and will always require persistence and resilience. "

“Settling for less is the easy way out; it's challenging yourself to aim higher that leads to personal growth and fulfillment. Don't let the fear of loneliness or change make you settle for a life that doesn't truly reflect your desires.”

"Learn to live with your questions without pursuing the answers. Much of life is a mystery, and true wisdom can only be found by continuously revisiting the question. When you do this, the answer will be revealed."

“Focus on your daily actions, habits, and feelings within your control, and let go of others' reactions. Train yourself to worry less about outcomes; caring less can make you content with whatever life offers.”

"Hard times may have held you down, but they will not last forever. When all is said and done, you will be increased." - Joel Osteen

“Life is all about timing... the unreachable becomes reachable, the unavailable becomes available, the unattainable becomes attainable. Have the patience, wait it out. It's all about timing. Don't rush anything. When the time is right, it'll happen.”

"Courage isn't the absence of fear; it's the determination to keep going despite it."

“Closed doors are not the end; they are the beginning of a new journey towards open doors. Closed doors are the universe's way of saying, 'Not this way, there's something better for you.”

"If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." - Wayne Dyer "Your perspective is your unique lens, and it can color your view of the world. Choose a lens that empowers you."

"Trust the timing of your life. Just because it's not happening right now doesn't mean it never will. God or The Universe is always with you and is always working for your good.”

"If you want to be happy, don't take anything personally. Nothing others do is because of you. It is because of them." - Don Miguel Ruiz

"The art of living lies in accepting the present moment, regardless of whether it aligns with your expectations or not." "Life's unpredictability is what makes it beautiful. Trust that every choice you make is a stepping stone to your destiny."  

"Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise." - Victor Hugo “Even when things are tough, they will not last forever. The pain and suffering that you are feeling right now is only temporary. You will get through this.”  

"Don't be afraid to ask questions, make mistakes, and try new things. The only way to learn is by making mistakes. So get out there and make some!" "The wisest people are the ones who are not afraid to look foolish."

"Self-love is the key to high standards. When you love yourself, you demand the best for yourself. You don't settle for less than you deserve." - Tony Gaskins Love Yourself Enough to Not Lower Your Standards

"Competition is an illusion; we are each the ultimate champion in our own world." "Embrace abundance within, and you'll find that life unfolds effortlessly." "Your inner confidence is the key that unlocks the door to a life of ease and fulfillment."

Uncertainty is a part of life and worrying about it will not solve any problem. Whatever needs to happen will happen. Have faith in the future.

"The only real failure in life is not to try." - George Bernard Shaw Success requires perseverance and the spirit of not giving up. You only need to win one to make all the failures worthwhile.  

We all have a limited amount of time and energy. You can do almost anything, but you can’t do everything. Know your end goals and then identify a few important activities that most likely help you generate the desired outcome and do them in the most efficient way.

“Being realistic is the most common path to mediocrity.”  “Everyday you have a choice to be mediocre or you can be the version of yourself that can conquer the world.”

Realize that you will always have a tendency to compare yourself to others. It is just thoughts. They are either good or bad. Accept them as they are and let go of the need to fight back.

You’re born to be different, to be unique, follow your own path and dreams. Trust in your own journey, in the timing of your life. It may be lonely now, but it won’t be like this forever. Focus on doing what makes you happy and always constantly improve yourself.

“Some moments are happy. Some moments are sad. Live each moment. Embrace life.” - Avijeet Das

“Be decisive. Right or wrong, make a decision. The road of life is paved with flat squirrels who couldn’t make a decision.”  “Decisiveness is a characteristic of high-performing men and women. Almost any decision is better than no decision at all.” - Brian Tracy

“Our mind is so powerful that, if we hold in mind a single thought such as, “My relationships never work out,” then that is most likely going to happen in our life.”  - David Hawkins Having positive beliefs doesn’t mean bad things won’t happen to you, no in fact, sometimes it happens even more. But by having a positive mind working for you, you’ll soon overcome difficulties easier and eventually achieve your dreams. So be patient and always believe that everything will work out for you.  

“Everything happens when it needs to happen; everyone is always where they need to be. You will never miss out on what is meant for you, even if it has to come to you in a roundabout way.” 

“Experience is not what happens to you. It is what you do with what happens to you. Don’t waste your pain; use it to help others.” - Rick Warren  No matter how you live your life, the most important thing is the experience you gain over time and how it will bring value to others. If your main focus is to help others without any attachment, I believe that you are moving in the right direction.

What if I told you that your future self already accomplished everything you’ve ever wanted? Do you still worry about the ups and downs, the challenges that you face?  Have faith in yourself and in God. Progress may be slow but you’ll eventually arrive, so relax, keep calm and keep being YOU!  

“Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be.” - Sonia Ricotti Letting go doesn’t mean we are being passive, but being active in a positive way. We know what we want, we put the intention out there, we take action but let go of the desire and surrender to how and when it will happen.  

“When we give up we don’t know how close we were to succeeding.” “Don’t give up too fast just because you don’t see it works. Sometimes it just needs a little bit more time. Be patient.”

“How others see you is not important. How you see yourself means everything.” “You must expect great things of yourself before you can do them.” - Michael Jordan  A journey to your greatness must start from within. Start seeing yourself as a high value priceless ROCK!

“For every dark night, there is a brighter day.” - Harriet Morgan “Every violent storm will eventually give away to sunshine; every dark night will finally fade into dawn.” - Steve Goodier

Knowing that everyone is still figuring out and nobody really has their shit together should remove the pressure that you need to be on top of the game all the time. Stop worrying about whether you’re so behind everybody else. Focus on your own journey and believe in your own path!

Painful emotions aren’t bad when you know how to handle them correctly. A part of being a human is to experience both good and bad feelings. How to deal with bad feelings will determine how your life will turn out to be. Your life would be so much easier and freer when you learn to accept, embrace and surrender to them.

In the end, nobody will care about your failure. But you know what they will pay attention to? Your SUCCESS. You can fail 1000 times but you only need 1 success to make every single failure worth it and I promise you it will be all worth it!

“Believe in your infinite potential. Your only limitations are those you set upon yourself. Believe in yourself, your abilities, and your own potential. Never let self-doubt hold you captive.” - Roy T. Bennett

Life is about looking for the doors that are open and stepping through them. There will always be open doors if you do not let the closed ones occupy your attention. You’ll never reach what’s ahead of you if you keep focusing on what’s behind you. You never know what awaits ahead of you if you don’t take a step forward. A future door will never open if you don’t knock. You have to be intentional in looking for it. Have faith that the right door will open at the right time, maybe not in your timing, but it’ll eventually happen.

“Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you.” - Oprah Winfrey We all want success, we all want to be better than anybody else, we want to experience everything life has to offer, but in the end we’re all gonna die. So what really matters is the feelings that you experience in each present moment. Life itself is priceless and each moment matters.

“You always have a choice. Don’t ever imagine you don’t. Whatever you do, it’s a decision and you have to accept responsibility for it. That’s when honor becomes more than empty words.” - Lynn Flewelling  It doesn’t matter what circumstances you are in, you always have a choice and whether you believe it or not, you are always in control of your destiny. Never give your power away by complaining or blaming. Although life won’t be easy and it will never be fair, it will always give you enough resources to overcome challenges and to help you grow into a person you were meant to be.  

“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not.” - Andre Gide  The more you let go, the easier it is for you to express your true self!  

“Follow your instincts. That’s where true wisdom manifests itself.” - Oprah Winfrey In many situations, we know what’s the best thing to do by listening to our intuitions. However, if the intuitions show us something different than the outcome we hope for, we often ignore, start bullshiting ourselves and find another way to make it work. That’s when we end up suffering more later…

Believe in your heart and soul without doubt that you’ll eventually accomplish everything you’ve ever wanted. Carry this mindset and energy with you when you face challenges. Life is too short to spend time worrying.  “Sometimes you have to stop worrying, wondering and doubting. Have faith that things will work out, maybe not how you planned but just how it’s meant to be.”  

“Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” - Lucille Ball  Accept every flaw, weakness and imperfection about yourself. They are parts of who you are and they are the reason that makes you unique, different and beautiful.  

Focus on your own journey, your own path, purpose, mission, vision despite the fact that the world may not see or understand it. If it brings you joy and a sense of fulfillment or purpose, then pursue it with all of your heart, love, energy and passion.

The key to stop overthinking is to learn to let go and welcome any outcome. “Don’t overthink life. You can’t control everything, just let it be. Trust that you made the right decision and continue to grow.”  

“If you are willing to do only what’s easy, life will be hard, but if you are willing to do what’s hard, life will be easy.” - T. Harv Eker “Don’t take shortcuts or seek to find the easy way out, we only end up shortchanging ourselves when we don’t put in 100%.” - Will Rivera

“Winners embrace hard work. They love the discipline of it, the trade-off they’re making to win. Losers, on the other hand, see it as punishment. And that’s the difference.” - Lou Holtz “Everything in life is a trade-off and you decide whether a trade-off is worth it or not.”  WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO SUFFER?

“Men with nothing to lose will stop at nothing to win.” - Antonio G.Martinez “Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.” - Steve Jobs

“No matter what your background is and what your current circumstances are, you have the capacity to take action. This is one of the golden threads of humanity - we all have the power to act in a way that will improve the quality of our lives.” - Robin Sharma “Courage is the willingness to act in spite of fear.” - Michael Hyatt “Courage is the secret sauce that allows you to act despite your fears.” - Haryana Kanath

“Some days are just bad days, that’s all. You have to experience sadness to know happiness. Sometimes it takes sadness to know happiness, noise to appreciate silence and absence to value presence, failure to appreciate success, and I remind myself  that not everyday is going to be a good day, that’s just the way it is.” “Some days are better. Some days are worse. Look for the blessing instead of the curse. Be positive, stay strong, and get enough rest. You can’t do it all. But you can do your best.”

“Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.” “You must welcome change as the rule, but not as your ruler.” - Denis Wailey “Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.” - John Wooden

“You did not wake up today to be mediocre.”  “Refuse to be average. Let your heart soar as high as it will.” A.W. Tozer Stop tolerating average, stop accepting mediocrity. You're not born just to be normal.

“Stay focused on your destination, even if your path may seem stormy today.” - Bill Cox  “You’re here for a reason. If you’re comparing yourself to someone else, you’re off your own path. Focus on your own path.”

Sometimes what is meant to be doesn’t necessarily what you wanna experience… "Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breath, and have faith that everything will work out for the best."

When you feel like giving up, remember that you not only do it for you, but also for those who can’t do it for themselves because they’re not lucky enough to have privileges like yourself.

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover” - Mark Twain

“Always remember that your present situation is not your final destination. The best is yet to come.” You’re going to look back at this and be so glad you kept going. Keep it up, you're almost there!

You can almost screw everything up and things still somehow work out in the end. If you knew in advance that you’ll succeed eventually, what are you still afraid of anymore? Stop playing it safe and start living the life of your dreams.

“Living with fear stops us taking risks, and if you don’t go out on the branch, you’re never going to get the best fruit.” - Sarah Parish Mistakes are acceptable, screwing things up is acceptable, failure is acceptable, but continuing to live in fear without taking action is unacceptable.

You do nothing good by living an average life, by settling for less than what you want just because you don’t have the courage to go for dreams. Live boldly and courageously doesn’t necessarily guarantee success, but it will definitely please you and one day when you look back at the things you have done, you’ll be so proud of yourself.

“Expectation is the root of all heartache.” William Shakespeare “Expectation is the mother of all frustration.” Antonio Banderas Let go of expectations and welcome life as it is. 

“The combination of hard work and smart work is efficient work.” - Robert Half The truth is we have a limited amount of time, energy and resources. If we pay attention to everything, we may not accomplish what truly matters to us in the end. Therefore, learn to work efficiently rather than to work hard blindly at everything.

“The fear of missing out can lead you to miss out on something even greater: the life that you truly desire.” Aili Kuutan Missing out on something is not really as bad as you think, so live confidently and do things that are aligned with your values.

“Do what brings you joy, and your purpose will unfold.” Iyanla Vanzant It’s not really about when you reach your goals, but in the pursuit, they bring out the best of you and happiness. Therefore, keep pursuing whatever your heart desires. Find what makes you happy and move toward that direction.

“You have to take risks. We will only understand the miracle of life fully when we allow the unexpected to happen” - Paulo Coelho  “There are risks and costs to action. But they are far less than the long range risks of comfortable inaction” - John Kennedy “Take chances, make mistakes. That’s how you grow. Pain nourishes your courage. You have to fail in order to practice being brave.” Mary Moore  “The only chance that we have of achieving our dreams is to take a risk, and most people who are consumed with negative self-talk do not find the risk to be worth it.” - Jennifer Smith

“While working to attain your goal, don’t forget to pause and celebrate the little victories along the way.” “Adknowledge all of your small victories. They will eventually add up to something great.”

“The trouble is you think you have time.” - Buddha “One day, you will wake up and there won’t be any more time to do the things you’ve always wanted. Do it now.” - Paulo Coelho

Self-confidence is the ability to stay calm and peaceful during a difficult and uncomfortable situation because you trust that everything will work out for you no matter what. Have faith in yourself, my dear!

It can be scary when facing your fears and there is always a possibility that you will fail. But there is always a possibility that you will end up achieving everything you’ve ever wanted. So what not taking a shot anyway?

If you’re hesitant to take action or to get started due to whatever reason, do it anyway. It may not make sense now but it will later. We can only connect the dots when we look back, not when we move forward. So relax, have faith and take action!

Yes life is always unfair but it will always reward those who never give up and never stop pursuing their dreams. So be one of those fearless warriors that will never surrender to any obstacle.

Asking the right questions could change your perspective about a current situation for the better. Realize that worry won’t really prevent the bad things from happening, it just stops you from enjoying the good and the present moment. So stop worrying and start living!

“Never believe for a second that you're weak, within all of us we have a reserve of inner hidden strength.” YOU ARE STRONGER THAN ANY CHALLENGE.  “You are not what you think you are; but what you think, you are!” - Norman Vincent Peale

“For any movement to gain momentum, one must start with a small action.” Adam Braun Once you do something, you'll be more likely to keep doing it for a long time. It’s true for both good and boring things. Therefore, make sure you spend your time wisely on doing the things that you are passionate about.

Be very selective and careful about what you wanna believe. If you don’t want it to be a reality, then refuse to believe. Your belief is very powerful, but it is only useful when you understand and use it correctly.

Be aware of your thoughts and any negative talk about yourself and then change those negative thoughts to positive ones. Learn to take responsibility for the situation and decide to interpret it in a positive light.

The key is to be willing to accept any of your desire, want, need and weakness without any judgment. Totally embrace all of them without feeling guilty or ashamed. You’re born to be unique. So DO NOT hide your special self!

Do what you think is right and let destiny decide. Stop doubting yourself and doubting the process. You don’t need and shouldn’t need to know when it will happen. It’s not your business. Your energy and time should focus on taking consistent action until you succeed.

We all want the final results or the destinations, but the endings won’t be that beautiful if you don’t really enjoy the journey. It may seem long, but each destination will arrive quicker than you think. Learn to have fun and make the best out of this while you’re on the ride.

No one is smarter or better than you. We are all given opportunities and chances to succeed and although each one may have a different circumstance, we can always have control over our mindsets. Never lower your self worth for any reason

Change may not happen fast and it isn’t always easy - but with enough time and effort, you can make it happen.

“The day you stop caring what other people think of you is the day your life begins.” - Aaron Eckhart “Life is so much better when you stop caring about what everyone thinks, and start to actually live for yourself.” When you care less, you start having more freedom in your life!

The goal is to be your fun self most of the time. Embrace your weirdness/silliness. Life is too short to be anything but happy. When you fail, brush it off, move on and laugh about it!

Nothing can replace action - life helps those who help themselves. Action is the path to your dreams, and you are capable of generating that action. Prayer or meditation is great, but you still have to do your part. You have to take responsibility for your life. Success requires consistent effort and hard work.

The key is to get to the point that you don’t feel any need or intention to explain because you are confident and comfortable with who you are. It is a process, so be patient with yourself!

“It is not easy to be a person of high standards; you have to pay for it. It does, however, make you stand out from the crowd, which alone makes it worth more than its price.”  Living a high standard is honorable, but it comes with a high cost. This cost of admission has stopped many people from pursuing their greatness. Pay the cost now and enjoy life later!

You don’t have to wait until you feel worthy in order to ask for what you want. Believe that you’re already enough and you deserve to ask for it NOW. The intention that you have about yourself is what really matters.

Your mind has a wonderful ability that affects how you view the outside world. Sadly many people go through life unconsciously and never bother to understand this powerful tool. So learn to control your mind to work to your advantage.

You are not expected to win every game, to succeed in every attempt. Learn to forgive yourself and remember that you can always try again - That’s the beauty about life. You take action, you fail but you keep showing up until you succeed.

Remember you are exactly where you need to be and your best day is yet to come! While we are waiting, keep taking action, learn to have fun and enjoy the chaos. Believe it or not, this journey won’t last long…

“We overthink happiness. Keep it simple. There is something good in every moment, find it and keep your focus there.” Kristen Butler Our emotions are what really make things seem hard. When life gets complicated, remind yourself that nothing is really that complicated. Make it simple and focus on what is important.

Life gives us challenges so that we can develop necessary character traits that prepare us for success later. Life would be so boring and meaningless without challenges wouldn’t it? “Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.” - Joshua Marine

You have the power to motivate yourself at any moment in life without waiting for anybody. Don't forget that you already have a superpower within you that can be activated at any time. “You have what it takes to become the best that you can be. DON’T DOUBT YOURSELF.”

We’re wired to seek easiness, convenience, pleasure, and avoid pain and discomfort. Develop a habit of constantly seeking challenges. That’s how we fight back the urge to settle, to stay easy and average. Train yourself to the point where you actually feel uncomfortable if you don’t seek challenges.

When you look back on the failures of the present, the future you will thank you for them. Wherever you’re going through hard times, start thinking about your future self and knowing in your heart that this is what your future will need. Do it for your future self!

“Success does not happen in one day, but it will happen one day.” - Ali Vongsathian You decide to believe because it is in the moment of belief, that’s when you find motivation, hope and meaning to keep going. It doesn’t matter whether you achieve success or not, it’s not in your control. All you can do is to believe that it will happen and take action towards it.

What you want will come to you at the right time when you are ready. It should feel easy and effortless. Don’t try to force something to happen that isn’t meant for you. If one door closes, remember there are many other doors down the road. Think and act abundantly!

If you want to achieve great things in life you must make a commitment to yourself. The road ahead of you is undoubtedly hard and challenging, and the only way you can push through is to commit.

We often wait until we feel confident to try something or to do something. But do we ever really feel totally confident or ready? So why are you still waiting for that perfect moment to take action?

It takes courage to be yourself - to say and do what really aligns with your values. The day you realize the outcome doesn’t matter is the day you start living your authentic life.

Anyone can accept and enjoy good times, but not everyone is willing and able to endure tough times - life will be easier when you learn to face and accept challenges. Life changes often, each cycle comes with unique pain and joy. Hold on a little longer because life is always moving forward to new stages.

“There is a powerful driving force inside every human being that, once unleashed, can make any vision, dream, or desire a reality.” - Tony Robbins It doesn’t matter how hard it gets. Tell yourself that you’ll just win - you’ll keep going until the end!

“The moment we begin to celebrate ourselves and focus on our successes is the moment we begin living.” ~ Gabby Bernstein

“Change is hard at first, messy in the middle and gorgeous at the end.” - Robin Sharma We think it’s easy to change when things are bad. Is it really that easy? When we tolerate them for so long, we tell ourselves a story that it’s okay to live with them and not to change. Isn't that so interesting?

Everything always ends up working out. Sometimes even better than you can imagine. Remember this when you feel like you're in a hard place or you feel like you're being challenged the most. Believe in yourself and in the process. When you finally arrive, you remember when things never went your way, now things have changed you’ll be forever grateful. The price you pay now will be worth every single penny.

Working hard doesn’t always guarantee success, but not working hard is a disaster. Pursuing your dreams doesn’t guarantee you’ll succeed but not pursuing it is guarantee failure and to live a meaningless life. So what do you choose?

“Life doesn’t have to be perfect to be wonderful.” - Annette Funicello “Happiness is a choice. You can choose to be happy. There’s going to be stress in life, but it’s your choice whether you let it affect you or not.” - Valerie Bertinelli

“If there is no struggle, there is no progress.” Frederick Douglass “Comfort is the enemy of progress.” - P.T. Barnum

Near the end of difficulty often we are the closest to giving up, but this is the point that you are very near success. Please take a deep breath and know that you can do this. Push a bit harder. Don’t let that failure make you think that you are far away from success. You are very very close to winning! Keep pushing!

When you get discouraged, remember it is only your feeling, you can change it by taking action. A circumstance won’t just change by itself, you have to be responsible for your life by taking action. Don’t expect or rely on somebody to change it.   “Let no feeling of discouragement prey upon you, and in the end you are sure to succeed.” - Abraham Lincoln

It’s not fun and enjoyable to receive no or rejection. However, once we learn to come to a term and accept it gratefully, it will no longer control or have power over you anymore. Doesn’t it feel good to know that? Have faith that everything will work out as the way it is intended to work out, not the way you want it to work out. Learn to let go of control and start trusting the process.

The problem with average things is the more we invest time and effort into, the harder for us to say no later. That’s why many people stay in a relationship or a job for too long, and eventually talk themselves into settling. It’s only by saying NO that you can concentrate on the things that are really important. - Steve Jobs

“Life is a gift, and it offers us the privilege, opportunity, and responsibility to give something back by becoming more” - Tony Robbins  “Do not be discouraged by the challenges that you face as you move toward your dreams. These challenges will serve to expand your outcomes in a way that you cannot appreciate at this moment.” When you feel discouraged during a hard time, remind yourself that this hardship will shape you into a better version of yourself.

The road ahead of you is undoubtedly challenging, lots of ups and downs, you will doubt and wanna give up so many times. If you know in your head that you have an option to come back, you will not go all in, you will not put even more than 100% effort. That’s why we have to burn the bridge, shut that door permanently, and stop looking backward. “Sometimes you need to burn bridges to stop yourself from crossing them again.”

Time won’t wait for you and me to get ready, to fully prepare, until you feel like it or motivated. You simply just get started, just do it. Don’t worry about when and if you succeed or not. What is more important is that you have that passion, you have that desire within you. Start exploring it, start today, start now, while you still have that passion, that enthusiasm within you. Don’t let that passion die in you like most people. They wait until someday that’ll never arrive in the future. So TAKE ACTION NOW!

“There is no comfort in the growth zone and no growth in the comfort zone.” It’s not easy to leave the familiar. It’s not the initiative thing that we normally do. Your ego will hurt and it won’t like it. It will make all the excuses possible to keep you safe, keep you the same, but if you want more from life, you have to be willing to risk failures and say no to that comfortable zone. “If it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you.”

Things happen for you and through you, not to you. Life happens for you and it wants you to win, even when it doesn’t seem that way in the moment. So TRUST and have FAITH!

When you feel hopeless and discouraged, remember that all you can do is keep going. Things will get better only when you keep taking action. Keep going, it may not get easy today, maybe not even tomorrow, but the day after tomorrow it will get easier. “No matter how bad things are right now No matter how stuck you feel No matter how many days you’ve spent crying and wishing things were different No matter how hopeless or depressed you feel, I promise you that you won’t feel this way forever. Keep going” - Helen Wilson

“You don’t learn to walk by following rules. You learn by doing and by falling over.” - Richard Branson  You have to show up no matter what, no matter how many times you feel down or feel discouraged. You have to take action on the bad days to make the good days better. Don’t keep wondering what it would be like… go find out!

“You are what you think about all day long. You are also what you say to yourself all day long. If you say that you are old and tired, this mantra will be manifested in your external reality. If you say you are weak and lack enthusiasm, this too will be the nature of your world. But if you say that you are healthy, dynamic and fully alive, your life will be transformed. Words have remarkable power.” Focus on the WHY of life and not the HOW, remembering that where focus goes, energy flows.  The Quality of Your Thinking Determines The Quality of Your Life. Your thoughts should focus on the image of your future self or focus on taking action toward that image.  

The main purpose of the goal is to inspire, to excite, to motivate, and to give you what actions and how much effort you need to put in. It doesn’t matter if you accomplish your goal or not. What really matters is you have a huge goal and you take massive action toward it.   Achieving a goal does not really matter much as compared to a person you’ll become in the process.

“The beauty of life doesn’t reside in certainty or conformity. It resides in the infinite possibilities of uncertainty.” - Debasish Mridha  “Very successful people don’t seek comfort; they seek success and are willing to do what is most uncomfortable.” Grant Cardone  Move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow if you are willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new. The more you embrace the discomfort, the less challenging it will seem.

Problems will always exist. Learn to enjoy life while you solve them. Life is short. Learn to take the good and the bad with gratitude. We can’t really control an outcome, but we can control our attitudes. So have fun and have peace when you are going through any struggle!

With great courage or great power, it comes with great responsibility. Promise me and most importantly promise to yourself that you will never give up or settle too early. You were born to be a winner, to pursue that greatness within yourself. It’s undoubtedly not an easy road by any means, but it is a very honorable and worthy path to pursue.

“There are two kinds of pain: the pain of change and the pain of never changing and remaining the same” - Joyce Meyer Change is hard, painful, and uncomfortable. But not changing is harder, long lasting pain, regret. You have to decide what pain you want to endure.

The hardest part of building long lasting habits is consistent - to do it regularly. The key is to do something rather than nothing at all. A small completion is better than nothing at all.  Building a habit is not a one time thing. It’ll be your new identity. That’s why it’s very important that you start small and establish incremental progress over time.

When we attempt something and we fail, what really keeps us motivated is the next opportunity. Everytime you attempt something and fail, ask yourself what’s next? Because that’s where you find motivation and hope again. That's when you can take action again and again until you succeed. The goal is not to dwell too much effort and time on failures, but to get back up as soon as possible.

Goodbye 2022, thank you for all the experiences and lessons. You might not be my best year ever, but you definitely contributed to the person I am today. Now it’s time for me to move forward in 2023 courageously with dreams and hope.

 “Those who wait until all the lights are on green before starting will never leave home.” Zigzag  The truth is you will never be fully ready. There is no such thing as a perfect moment. You just take this moment and make it perfect!

Accepting hardship or sadness is a part of life. We always have ups and downs, even for the most positive people. They also experience the downs many times. Therefore, accept it, be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to be vulnerable. That way you will overcome quicker and easier. Every storm or difficulty will pass and you will experience good times. So be patient and don’t give up!

Thinking positive thoughts doesn’t mean that you won’t see negative things anymore. It simply means that you will experience both the good and bad but you choose to focus on the positive - it’s a choice!  “Remember you become what you think. Think discouraging thoughts, and you’ll get discouraged.” - Joyce Meyer The key is to have an awareness - to be aware when you notice yourself thinking negative thoughts.

Hope that things will get better. Every struggle will end and you will see the light again. Surrender to the universe and accept whatever comes your way.

Never be afraid doesn’t mean that you will always get what you want, but it puts you in a better mood and mentality despite whatever outcome you’ll get.  Oddly enough the more you are afraid of making mistakes or being wrong, the higher a chance you will make one. So whether you are afraid or not afraid, you will make a mistake anyways. So why not act like you have nothing to lose?!

Show up because it’s your purpose, it’s who you are, show up and let nature take control of the result. Let go of the need to control an outcome and accept whatever life throws at you - the good, the bad and the ugly!  A result will come at its own time, not in your timing. So stop wasting energy thinking when it will come. Just show up and have fun!

The truth is life is hard, and if anyone tells you otherwise, don’t really believe them. Life is easy if you settle, if you follow the crowd, like the rest of the world, then it could be easy and predictable. But what’s the point of living an easy life? Keeping passion may not get what you want right away, but losing passion is guaranteed that you will settle!

“If you can get through doing things that you hate to do, on the other side is greatness.” - David Goggins  “Be brave, push your limits and work hard until you’re celebrating your victories.”

“Not too many people could walk a mile in your shoes. Only you know your struggles, challenges and obstacles; so be proud of how far you have come.” - Edmond Mbiaka “Don’t let your illness make you afraid to live, getting to the end of each day and knowing you did it proves the strength you have inside. Don’t give up.” Whatever goal that you want to accomplish, it may not come today, tomorrow, or a year from now, but don’t let that discourage you from showing up again!  

You’ll never know how far you can go if you’re too scared to move forward. Be fearless when you don’t want to, when every fiber of your body just wants you to stay the same. To accomplish worthy things, it requires you to consistently take bold action. So be FEARLESS when you are AFRAID! 

The hard choice is usually the right choice. Don't take the easy way out. Sorrow is an inextricable part of life. Whoever lives experiences it. There’s no escape. If we understand this then we would stop bewailing every misfortune that occurs. Life is a bargain. You want joy but you can’t have it without suffering. You must accept the whole package. - The Ancient Sage Be ready to pay the price when you take the shortcut in life. There is no easy way out!  

Trust and have faith that it will work out in your favor in the end even if it seems very confusing right now. You don’t need or shouldn’t need to try to understand every piece of the puzzle. In time, it will make sense. Learn to make yourself happy by letting go of your expectations and accepting life as it comes to you right now. “Whatever life throws at me I’ll take it and be grateful for it as well.” - Tom Felton

You will never regret for being courageous, for trying, for making an attempt.  You may fail but so is the possibility that you will succeed. You really have nothing to lose but a huge deal to gain. So go out there and risk it!

“When we give ourselves permission to fail, we, at the same time, give ourselves permission to excel.” - Eloise Ristad  “Failure is a part of creating a great life.”  “Give yourself permission to fail. If you never fail, you never learn. If you never learn, you will never grow.” Don’t take life and yourself too seriously. Give you permission to fail, to make mistakes, to be wrong, and to screw up.

Self-trust is more important than being right. You make decisions based on your true self and you trust it completely.  “Self-trust is the first secret of success.” - Ralph Emerson  “Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.” - Dr. Benjamin

Dark times teach you a lot of things, show you the reality that pursuing your life's purpose is not easy. It has many ups and downs and sometimes the downs may seem like they would last forever, but they shape you to be stronger than ever and then reward you with the brightest times of your life.  “Dark times are what you compare to your good times. The good times will mean so much more when they arrive, hold on and don’t fade away.” “Life is at its best when everything has fallen out of place, and you decide that you’re going to fight to get them right, not when everything is going your way and everyone is praising you.”

Gratitude is a conscious choice, it is a conscious decision. It may not give you success right away, but it is a very crucial component, a very significant ingredient of success. So Be Grateful despite whatever circumstance that you are in right now and believe that THE BEST IS YET TO COME.  “Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance.” - Eckhart Tolle

When you experience a feeling of impatience, unease or feeling rushed and want things now, remind yourself that what’s meant to be will come your way, what’s not will fade away.  “Sometimes you just need to relax and remind yourself that you’re doing all that you can and everything is going to turn out just fine.”

“One bad day doesn’t mean that you have failed and you should quit. It simply means you had a bad day.”  “Don’t let the bad days make you think you have a bad life.” “Without bad days, how would you be able to know what a good day is like? So be grateful about your bad day, it means that a good day is just around the corner.” It takes losses to appreciate wins, sadness to happiness, failure to success, bad to good, ugly to beautiful, and most importantly, BE GRATEFUL!

"Don't quit. Sometimes the things you are hoping for come at unexpected times."  I know the only thing in your mind is quitting when you are tired, frustrated, disappointed and hopeless. But keep in mind that quitting is done, is game over, and you would experience a permanent feeling of REGRET! "When you feel like quitting think about why you started"  "Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations. Don't quit."   

“All our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them.” - Walt Disney “Courage is the most important of all the virtues because without courage, you can’t practice any other virtue consistently.” - Maya Angelou The truth is the road to greatness is never rainbow and clear sky. It always requires you regularly step in the unknown and the discomfort, and it can be very difficult and scary. That’s why you need COURAGE to do it!

When faced with death, normal fears like fear of rejection or failure no longer matter. We feel totally free to go after what we want. We would live courageously, fearlessly and authentically. When we cultivate a ‘deathbed’ mentality, it puts everything into perspective - To do what is important and stop doing bullshit things. “When you waste a moment, you have killed it in a sense, squandering an irreplaceable opportunity. But when you use the moment properly, filling it with purpose and productivity, it lives on forever.”

"If I persist long enough I will win" - Og Mandino "Lose enough and eventually you will win. It's only a matter of time" - Joseph Sugarman You only need to succeed 10% of the time.  The goal is to mainly focus on your efforts and aim to take action as much as possible because you will fail a lot of the times but you only need to succeed ONE! "You learn more from losing than winning. You learn how to keep going." - Morgan Wootten  

People say work smart, not work hard. But I say work smart and work hard at "What Matters Most"... Good workers work hard, great workers work smart, but exceptional workers work hard and smart  “The combination of hard work and smart work is efficient work” - Robert Half  

Successful people just tell you to follow your passion, but they really haven’t told you what the path would look like when you do it. The truth is there are many times they question and doubt themselves and even want to quit.  Pursuing your passion is definitely not easy, but it will be very well worth it.

“Stay afraid, but do it anyway. What’s important is the action. You don’t have to wait to be confident. Just do it and eventually the confidence will follow.” - Carrie Fisher "Everything you want is on the other side of fear" - Jack Canfield You just need to overcome that initial hesitation. The mountain is not that big as our minds make it out to be. Don’t let it stop you from going for what you want!

"If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." - Wayne Dyer “I was complaining that I had no shoes till I met a man who had no feet.” - Confucius Human beings we don't appreciate our circumstances until we are in a worse situation. Many things that you take for granted right now are used to be the things that you once wished you had.

It Took Me Over 10 Years To Really Understand This Crucial Truth. I will tell you in 12 min... "You get what you focus on, so focus on what you want." "Whatever you focus on is what you get." - Tony Robbins "What you focus on expands, and when you focus on the goodness in your life, you create more of it." - Oprah Winfrey  

The quality of your SELF-TALK determines the quality of your life. SELF-TALK is the most powerful form of communication because it either inspires you or it defeats you. "Be mindful of your self-talk. It's a conversation with the universe." - David James

Our brains are so powerful but they only work well when we know how to use them in our favor. We will be more likely to take action when we see benefits in going through a challenge. That's why it is important that you focus on the good side and make it obvious.  

"You'll never get what you truly deserve if you constantly focus on keeping what you can have" It’s hard to fight for what you deserve and let go of what you can have. That’s why this is not for everybody. It requires a true Warrior to pursue this path, and YOU ARE THAT WARRIOR!  

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." Maya Angelou Difficult and meaningful will always bring more satisfaction than easy and meaningless. Easy life is often associated with a boring and mediocre life.  We rarely find a real meaning in an easy life and rarely find what you truly want in an easy decision. So let's live a meaningful life!

"See failure as road and not a wall." Scott Adams  "No man ever became great or good except through many and great mistakes." W.E Gladstone Sometimes we are so worried about an outcome that we stop taking action, stop taking chances. But is failing really that big of a deal? Whatever the outcome is, it’s not that bad. Start embracing your failure. In life, you win some and you lose some. The more you participate, the higher a chance you will win.

Somehow life always has a way of working itself out.  Perhaps not in a way that you expected, but it always works out in the end. So DON'T YOU WORRY! "Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming." - John Wooden  

“At the end of the day, you put all the work in, and eventually it’ll pay off. It could be in a year, it could be in 30 years. Eventually, your hard work will pay off.” – Kevin Hart There is no clear evidence that your hard work will pay off. But one thing I know for sure is that if you don’t work hard, you will be guaranteed to live a mediocre life. "Trust your hard work. It's unlocking doors you can't see yet." "Everything comes to you at the right time. Be patient and trust on your hard work."

"The pain of reaching your goal will only last a short while the pain of not trying, will last a lifetime" - Steven Aitchison The cost of NOT trying is always GREATER than the cost of trying and failing. ALWAYS! "Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts" - Winston Churchill

You can’t really get injured if you don’t play. But you also never know what it means to be a WINNER. YOU WILL NEVER HAVE THE LIFE YOU WANT IF YOU ONLY PLAY IT SAFE! “You can’t fall if you don’t climb. But there’s no joy in living your whole life on the ground.”

"That's what learning is, after all; not whether we lose the game, but how we lose and how we've changed because of it, and what we take away from it that we never had before, to apply to other games. Losing, in a curious way is winning" - Richard Bach Loss is actually a part of a win! It adds more flavors when you finally achieve victory.

“Love who you are, embrace who you are. Love yourself. When you love yourself, people can kind of pick up on that: they can see confidence, they can see self-esteem, and naturally, people gravitate towards you” - Lilly Singh Love yourself no matter what other people think, perceive, or view of you. It all starts with you FIRST!

“Some people don’t like change, but you need to embrace change if the alternative is disaster” - Elon Musk When you DECIDE that going back or staying stagnant is NOT an option, you'll find ways to GROW into the person you were created to be.  No change is easy but ALL growth is WORTH IT!

The biggest risk one can ever take is not taking any risk at all.  Why are you holding to things that don’t really bring true happiness to you? What do you have to lose?

What if you know that you can only live until the age of 30 or 40, would you change the way you are currently living now? Will you be more intentional with your time? Will you take more chances, more risks, and more opportunities?

The thing about trying is that you have totally 100% control. You can try as many times as you want to. No one can tell you to stop. You are the one that decides whether to stop or not. You have the power to change your life at any moment by deciding just to try! Every time you are afraid of taking action, remind yourself that you have nothing to lose and a great deal to gain!

"Some of us are luckier than others. Some are tough and some are weak. Some are rich and some poor. But no one's superman - in that way, we're all weak. If we own things, we're terrified we'll lose them; if we've got nothing we worry it'll be that way forever. We're all the same" - Haruki Marukami The good news is that it won’t be like this forever...

"Don't ever lower your standards. Because the moment that you do, you'll be disappointed by what you get."  "Never lower your target; increase your actions."

Stop tolerating average! Stop accepting mediocrity! You are born for GREATNESS! 

“Earning success is hard. The process is laborious, tedious, sometimes even boring. Becoming wealthy, influential, and world-class in your field is slow and arduous” - Darren Hardy Successful people also have so many moments when they feel very unmotivated. The only difference is they push themselves to take action no matter how they feel…

To conquer fear you have to act in a moment of time without hesitation. Each time you procrastinate, not only you waste valuable time that you will never get back but also opportunities will be gone forever.  “Don’t spend a dollar's worth of time on a ten-cent decision.”

“You have to create your own luck. You have to be aware of the opportunities around you and take advantage of them” - Bruce Lee Winning is frequently a number of games. The more you take action, the higher a chance you will succeed.

Everything will be alright. Everything will work out. It always does. So don't you worry!

“Sometimes things aren’t clear right away. That’s where you need to be patient and persevere and see where things lead.” - Mary pierce The road to mastery requires patience. You won’t see the result until 5 or 10 years down the road. Keep putting in the effort!

Is there such a thing called ‘perfect’ time? Do not wait; the time will never be ‘just right.’ Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along.

Before you put too much trust and your whole life's hope on somebody, accept this harsh truth - You can always be replaced. The sooner you learn to accept it, the quicker you can move forwards. People who resist this will only end up suffering.

Are you really succeeding at the things that matter to you? Or are you succeeding at many things that deep down your soul doesn’t even care…

“Having unshakable self-confidence is not about being invincible. It’s about how quickly you can dust yourself off after a disappointment.”

When you encounter one of those ‘bad days’, take small action. Consistent tiny steps will over time make a huge difference. Compounded ‘bad days’ with tiny action will create noticeable progress in the long run. We think that our actions need to be huge in order to make a difference in our lives. But it is far from the truth. Winning teams don't always hit a home run every time. They just need to hit it consistently.

"The Universe Wants You To Win. You just have to start. Success will follow." Every time when you are in doubt and think that everything is going against you, remind yourself that the universe has your back and it wants you to win… Trust that and DON’T QUIT!

When you are confused about a woman's interest, chances are she has a low interest. The moment that you have to come up with a justification is the moment you are trying to bullshit yourself. Deep down your intuition already gives you an answer, just not an answer you want to hear…

If you don’t pay attention to your environment, gradually it could work against you…Eventually you will get comfortable in that situation and you settle into an environment of mediocrity. This is dangerous because it happens at the subconscious level… DON’T GET COMFORTABLE WITH MEDIOCRITY!

Disappointment comes from unmet expectations. Where have we been conditioned to have these expectations?  The key is you can train your mind to accept life as it is.  “Surrender to what is, let go of what was, have faith in what will be” - Sonia Ricotta

It is more of an ART than a science!

Start taking control of your life, your relationships, your health, your finance, and your mind. Taking control means that you are willing to take responsibility for your actions. If you don’t have a life of your dreams yet, it is on you to decide to start taking control!

“Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things” - Robert Brault Gratitude is a skill that anyone can learn and master. It helps you overcome hard times easier and quicker. NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THIS!

Once you understand this concept, it will change your life! It will give you peace and the belief that you need to keep pursuing your dreams.  You are equipped with everything you need to succeed and you have that superpower within you. Trust yourself!

1. Do what you want 2. Only listen to high value individuals 3. Stop giving excuses

Stop taking it SO damn serious! "Sometimes it's ok to be silly, life is not that serious, but we make it too serious." Most things don’t matter. Somehow it ALWAYS ends up working in the end. You will mess up, and in fact, you will mess up more than you can even count. That’s the whole point. Life is supposed to be fun while you are busy pursuing what is meaningful to you.

“Good pain is pain in the service of a purpose. Bad pain is pain endured because we are resisting a needed growth step” - Henry Cloud  Stop resisting and start accepting pain comes into your life for a reason. Every challenge will help prepare you for the next chapter of your life. Believe that there is a purpose in your pain.

Take risks. If you win, you will be happy. If you lose, you will be wiser  Don’t worry about failure; you only have to be right once.  It doesn’t matter how many times you fail. You only have to be right once and then everyone can tell you that you are an overnight success.

In life you get what you focus on. When you miss a shot, never think of what you did wrong. Take the next shot thinking of what you must do right. With each attempt that you failed, leave it there, it was your past, it was over. Move on and create the next opportunity.

Anyone can get lucky here and there, but true luck only comes when you actually put in a lot of hard work. Luck is an element of hard work. For luck to come, you have to show up, take action, keep doing it over and over again. If you still haven’t had what you want yet, keep putting in the work because that’s all you can do. At the end of the day, EFFORT and MINDSET are really what you can control.

Here is the harsh truth: to accomplish big things in life, you have to work harder than anyone else. You should attempt to fail more than everybody else, because that means you’re trying harder than anyone else.  In a way that you actually want ‘failure’. Because the more you fail, the faster you move closer to your destination. If you delay failure, it also means you delay success. So what do you have to lose? Go out there and risk it!

It’s not about being easy. It’s not about enjoyment. It’s not about having a good time. It’s about GREATNESS  Most people are NOT willing to pay the price of greatness. It is just a reality.

Most people know that they are living way less than what they are capable of, but they often use bullshit logic to justify their average choices and make their circumstances look better than it is. That’s way they don’t have to feel so bad for their poor choices and that it is okay to live 5 or 6 level. However, when you are living a life that is less than 9 or 10 level, you are settling.  In order to go for 9 and 10, you have to let go of mental justification and go with the vibration of the body - intuition. 9 or 10 actions should make you feel excited, awesome, but also scary and most likely uncomfortable at the same time.

"Life isn’t always happy, but it can always be meaningful" - Tony Robbin It doesn’t matter if you accomplish your goals or not. What matters is you know what you’re working towards and why you’re working towards it. What we really look for here is HOPE AND JOY. HOPE that things will get better and there is a possibility that something you always want will happen. JOY is what you experience when you finally arrive.

Welcome to Fearless Warrior Podcast! Inspiration, Success, Purpose, Challenge, Awareness, and Greatness.

"I've Never Been Good at That" This is one of the most common bullshit excuses that most people use to justify their average action. In their heads, it makes sense because since I have never been good at that, it gives me permission to continue to do the same things without changing anything. Most people are never expanding outside of their comfort zone. They are doing the same thing over and over again. The problem is when you are stuck in your comfort zone for so long, it would be very difficult to do anything outside of that.

Nobody wants to be average, but why do so many people end up being average? Why do people hold on to the things that make them stay mediocre, stay way below their capacity?  So many people are afraid of facing their fear. Instead of facing fear, they run from it and distract themselves with other habits and addiction. They would rather stay unhappy but knowing that certain things will happen than to go for their dreams and face the unknown.  We live below our potential and use false limited logic to justify why it is okay to stay there. We tell ourselves a bullshit STORY to make sense of all average choices. But deep down we know that something is missing.

People generally love to find any possible excuse to blame or to not do anything. Why? Because it is a lot easier to blame anything but themselves than to actually point a finger at themselves and start taking responsibility.  Don’t leave your destiny depending on somebody’s hand. No matter how valid a reason can be, always think of a way that you can complete it by yourself. You have to be in control of your relationships, your health, your career, and your LIFE!

I know there will be many times you are tempted to quit, but you actually don’t want to quit. You just want another way to keep going.  When you wanna quit, tell yourself that you will go for one more time. You are very close to your goals. Keep persisting even when nothing makes sense. Persist until the miracle happens. Remember, if You Don't Quit You Won't Fail. Your time will come.

When people are average or settled, they often come up with all reasons or excuses why it makes sense to stay average.  They try to protect themselves with ‘valid’ excuses. They will try to convince others to make decisions like themselves so that it doesn’t feel that bad to stay average  Average people try to make sense of why they are average. Their intention may not be bad, but their reasons for staying average are bad for you  Don’t listen to everyone’s opinion. Learn to identify average thinkers and stay away from them.

The reason people often blame everything else but themselves, even if it is valid, is because they don’t want to put in the work needed to be done. Taking responsibility for themselves means they have to put in the effort to change their lives and most people are too lazy to put in the work.  The bottom line is if you want something bad enough, you have to find a way to make it happen. Don’t surrender to your circumstances, don’t give in to your excuses. Take control of your life and willing to do whatever it takes.

#1 Learning doesn’t equal with progress #2 It is a marathon, not a sprint #3 Do it yourself 

The only way that you care less about what other people think is to live to your authentic self, to embrace your weirdness and actually be proud of who you are. Society will try to change or pressure you to be like everyone else. But Don’t give in, Stay Strong! The way to know when you live to your authentic self is when you experience PEACE and CALMNESS.

When you encounter fear, remember that’s the indicator that you are moving in the right direction In many cases, you will not have all the information, all the details that you want to know. However, let me reassure you that you don’t need it. Just accept challenges and figure it out later.  Human beings make decisions based on 2 factors: Fear or Gain. Many people focus on Fear, but you must learn to focus on the potential GAIN.  The bottom line is learn to make quick decisions. When an opportunity presents itself, say yes, commit, don’t worry about the details and figure everything out as you go.

Do you have courage to walk alone? It is easy to feel the need to fit in when we experience peer or social pressure.  Many people want to be inclusive with their groups, but sometimes it may not be good for their growth. In many instances, they are willing to sacrifice their goals and dreams to do something else unimportant so they can be a ‘part of the group.’ Be confident and brave to walk alone. Be a leader!

If not now, when? Someday never comes.   Do you want to stay the same or go for it? Do you want to chase your dreams or live with "What If"?

Nobody really wants to be an average. Even the ones that have no desire to succeed big in life still want something more than average. However, somehow many people just give up and accept ‘OKAY’ things instead of exceptional things.  But will ‘OKAY’ things really make you satisfied and fulfilled in the end?

Most people don’t get what they want in life, and if you listen to their advice, you will end up the same where they are.  Never blindly listen to low achievers opinions/feedback. Just because they are older or “wiser” than you, you should listen to them. Trust yourself with what you already know and take action on it.  The powerful key indicator to recognize what advice to take is to look at their lives. Do they have a type of life that you want?

Success May Be Just Around a Corner “Just because you fail once, doesn’t mean you’re gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don’t, then who will, sweetie?” -Marilyn Monroe “Most great people have attained their greatest success just one step beyond their greatest failure.” -Napoleon Hill Don’t stop with the huge failure. Take a few more steps and see if it gets you where you wanted to go. “The only thing that separates success from failure is one last attempt. Try one more time and you will get lucky.” -Apoorve Dubey Every success comes from an attempt. If you don’t try one more time, you’ll never know if it could’ve been your big chance at big success.

"If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant; if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome." Life is a journey through good times and bad times. Keep that in mind during tough parts of your journey.  When you are in a bad season, keep planting seeds for growth so you can ultimately experience a bumper crop, and experience ultimate joy and happiness. It might feel difficult now, but you’ll be so proud of yourself when you’re done. The harder you work for something, the greater you’ll feel when you achieve it.

We may have heard so many times about habits of successful people, but how consistently do we actually apply it? It is easy to hear it and think that it is simple and feel good and forget about it. But it is hard to consistently put it into practice. 3 Key Habits Of Successful People: Become an Early Riser Practice Gratitude  Be Bold 

Your mind is good at coming up with excuses. If you only wait until you feel like it to do it, you may never reach your goals.  Train yourself to do it even when you don’t feel like it. Your mind and feelings love looking for an easy way, but oftentimes an easy road won’t help you move in the right direction of your purpose.  So, THINK LESS - ACT MORE

When you want it badly enough, you will find a way and all negative emotions like fear, embarrassment, failure, rejection are no longer having power to hold you back.  Weak fire can’t survive during a wind, and A WEAK DESIRE CANNOT PRODUCE GREAT RESULTS. Whatever you want in life, you have to know WHY you want it? And that “WHY” must excite you! Think about what you desire the most in life and work towards getting it. Don’t allow your environment or other people to influence the things that you truly want.

Minimum Effort Won't Really Change Your Life! Many people spend time doing many things that are not helping build their dreams. They do something that is insignificant. They major in minor things in life. They often put minimum to zero effort and hope that things will change for the better tomorrow, but life doesn’t quite work that way. Good luck only happens when we put in sufficient efforts. Each day we are given opportunities to put our best efforts, yet we only do minimal or mediocre work, saving the more important things for “another” day - one day we realize that our lives are not as what we hoped them to be. But it is too late to rebuild it. Your attitudes and the choices you make today will be your life tomorrow; build it wisely.

Many people will choose unhappiness over uncertainty. Don’t do it. Uncertainty is where new things happen. It trades the reassuring comfort of certainty for a shifting, delicate, and fragile balancing act of propositions. Uncertainty is a license to explore.  Our natural tendency is rather to choose NO or withdraw than to step in the unknown. We are conditioned to avoid uncertainty. However, uncertainty is where the miracle happens, is where you will be able to find what you want.

“Realize that if a door closes, it’s because what was behind it wasn’t meant for you.” It is hard to accept at the moment, but God/life knows what is best for you. Stop looking at the closed door and wondering “What if”...  Things didn’t work out for a reason and sometimes we don’t need to know what that reason is. All you need is ACCEPTANCE and FAITH. 

The universe has its process. Give in and let it occur naturally. It will work out for you if you let it. The one thing that we don't have control over is TIME. You can show up, put in the work, and you don't know when your time will come, but it will come eventually at the time that you least expect it. However, if you stop putting in the work, it is a guarantee that it will never come.  "Keep on going, and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I never heard of anyone ever stumbling on something sitting down."

“People develop first impressions of you in a tenth of a second.” Sometimes you don’t have a 2nd chance to change someone’s perception of you. Everybody is judging you. People say that don’t judge, but it happens subconsciously. By understanding this knowledge, it will help you be conscious about how you position yourself in the best way possible. Dress apart and pay attention to your body language.  Sometimes life only gives you one chance, but if you are prepared, that one chance is enough to change your life!

Everyone Wants a Great Life, But NOT Everyone Deserves a Great Life. You may have heard somebody tell you that “you can achieve anything you want in life as long as you put your mind to it” But what they don’t tell you is that you also must put in a lot of effort and perseverance until the end. It is easy to say that you “WANT” something. Everyone can say that, but it takes true warriors to put in the work to make it happen. So ask yourself, what do you want? Do you want it bad enough? Are you willing to put in tremendous effort to make it happen?

THIS IS The MAIN REASON HOLDING YOU BACK From Whatever You WANT in life Throughout your life, you make decisions based on what you believe. Whether that belief is true or false, you will act accordingly. If you are not mindful of your belief, you can unconsciously feed your belief with negative views and that would work against you.  However, if you feed your belief with a positive outlook, it will work for you and drive all of your decisions towards what you want in life.  Our personal beliefs are powerful beyond measure and often dictate our outcomes. They can work for or against us. Identify your limiting beliefs so you can push against them. To change your OLD belief, you must take CONSISTENT and NEW actions.

You are either in or out. There is no such thing as a maybe. You either chase your dream or you don’t. If YES then commit all the way through, if NO why are you even in it. When you decide either yes or no, it helps you remove a wondering thought.  Many people know what they should do, but they do zero things about it. They never get started because of their “maybe” attitude.  People use “maybe” because they are afraid of making mistakes. However, what they don’t see is that it is even worse to do nothing and be hesitant than to make mistakes.

Hesitation kills confidence and trust in yourself. When you are hesitant, you will let many opportunities pass by. Another opportunity may come again, but maybe NOT. You don't know it and that's why you need to appreciate and seize each time opportunity comes your way.  It doesn't really matter whether you will get what you want when you take action each time opportunity comes. What more important is you learn to make a quick decision and trust what you know best in the moment. 

It is better to know and be disappointed, than to not know and always wonder. It is better to be disappointed than what if. Sometimes we try to avoid disappointment by doing nothing or avoiding making decisions. However, the truth is as long as you are still alive disappointment is guaranteed. Whether you take action or not, we will face disappointment in the end anyway. So why not take action and live the life you’ve always wanted!

Success lies on the other side of effort, which makes suffering part of the process. Be grateful for your struggle, because of it, you know that you are still surviving and you are in progress.   Difficult events occur for our spiritual growth. These aren’t meant to be punishment. Beautiful sunset or rainbow awaits after heavy rain. Once you understand the purpose behind the discomfort, it will be easier to overcome. It will help change your attitude towards how you react to each event that happens to you. 

The reason many people settle for average is because they put success last and see it as just an option that may or may not come later in their lives and that’s why they take very little action. If you really want success badly enough, you must change your belief/thought about SUCCESS.  Challenge yourself to see success is vital. Success is a MUST. You either succeed or fail. There is nothing in between. If you choose to succeed and I hope you sure do, go all in and take massive ACTION.

Each person has a “number” that he/she has to overcome. Until you reach that number, you will not experience a big success yet. That’s why it is very crucial that you keep taking action despite how many failures you encounter. Knowing this in advance, I hope you don’t get discouraged or don’t lose enthusiasm when you encounter setbacks. At the end of the day, it is really a number of games. The more action you take, the faster it helps you move closer to your goals.

A Distance Between Fulfillment & Settlement is very fragile. You could either be one step away from settling or one step away from fulfilling. If you are not aware, you could be in a settling zone!  It all starts with your decision.  A path to your ultimate freedom and happiness is  very very hard and lonely. I wish somebody could tell me earlier so that I can prepare, so I don’t get disappointed, frustrated. But there is a hope, hard doesn’t equal impossible! . I hope you have strength and courage to continue searching for what you want.

Reality is an interpretation. If you choose to interpret in good ways, you will experience many opportunities to evolve, to grow.  When you blame others, you create negative energy, you put yourself in a victim mentality - whenever we think negatively, it consumes a lot of our energy.  Train your mind to focus on the potential of what is good in each event that happens in your life. Trust and have faith that things will work out for your own good in the end even if you don’t see it now. There is hidden meaning behind all events, and this hidden meaning is serving your own evolution

This moment is as it should be because the whole universe is as it should be You need to accept things as they are, not as you wish they were in this moment  You can wish for things in the future to be different, but in this moment you have to accept things as they are  When we wish things to be different, we waste our energy and effort. The past is history, and thinking something else would happen differently is nonsense. Accept it!

Things don’t always go as planned in life, and they certainly don’t always go the way we want them to. But, no matter how bad a situation is, it’s critical to be proactive and face the problem head-on. Don’t wait until the last minute to handle the problem. At some point you will lose all energy and enthusiasm for life. You will lose hope and give up. Don’t think your passion will stay the same over years. You will change and same with your passion.

It doesn’t matter how many setbacks you come across, it’s the comeback that makes your story stand the test of time. So, be the comebacks. Defy odds. The world doesn’t really damn care about you. They have no problem seeing you fail. But don’t give in, don’t give them a chance to see you fail. You can fall as many times as you want, but stand up and do it again.  People won’t hear or really show empathy to you until you succeed. You don’t have any other options besides SUCCESS.! Success is vital. You don’t have an option to give up. You already pay a high price, you must keep going. Stand up and take action until you succeed. Every time you feel like you have a thousand mile to go, just remember that one success will make everything all worth it in the end.

Almost everything is outside of your control. You may take all the right action and fail. You may take no action and win. All you can do is put yourself in positions to win. Be consistent. Patience will eventually get luck on your side.  The reality is you have to put in a lot more effort than anyone else and there is no guarantee that you will succeed. This is not to discourage you, but to accept and motivate yourself to work even harder. Because of these hard things, you will find a true meaning.  Life is not fair and it is not expected to be fair. However, it is very worthy to live if you are not willing to surrender to its reality and do whatever it takes to go

You don’t need to take a big action every time in order to change your life. Sometimes, life changing opportunities come in small ways, in a little moment. It’s important to value every little opportunity and take action when it arises.  You can’t move the mountain in one day, but your daily action can make a difference for tomorrow and for the next few years.  Stop making excuses and value and take action every little opportunity that comes your way. Your next day will need your action today!

One of the biggest regrets of the dying is they wish they hadn’t worked so hard. Yes your job is important, but so are other things like your relationships.  Nobody really cares about what you accomplish or how much you make at your job when you are lying on your deathbed. What you only remember is memories that you create with people that you love and care for.  Work hard on your job, work harder on your dreams and relationships.

We often only say “YES” to opportunities when we know for certain that something will happen. We seek that “Guarantee”. However, the only certainty in life is the UNCERTAINTY. By only taking action when something is certain, we miss out on many opportunities that could change our lives.    So start saying “YES” to opportunities. Not for others, but for giving yourself a chance! 

Human being wants to believe in something tomorrow, and a dream gives us HOPE. Whether you reach your dreams or not, IT DOESN’T MATTER. Because of a dream, it gives you strength, hope, energy, love for life and strives to become better each day. A dream will give you FAITH to see what is impossible becomes possible.

The only way that gets you a result is ACTION. Don’t fall into a trap of keeping learning without taking consistent action. We often think that learning is equal to making progress. But it is an illusion! Your mind is changed, but your life won’t change until you show up! Showing up may not get you what you want, but I can guarantee that you will NEVER get what you want if you don’t show up!  Showing up is fundamental to everything. It is very simple, but often skipped by many people. In order to master anything else, you must master the art of showing up!

The most effective way to overcome self doubt is to gain confidence. And the only way to gain confidence is to take action consistently. How to overcome it?  Embrace it. Stop resisting to it  Remove expectation and accept imperfection  Take new massive action to build a new belief  Focus on learning   Make decisions based on what you believe, even if it’s wrong. Because you will discover that mistakes won’t really kill you and it’s not as scary as you think it is. The fact is no one wins 100% of the time, even 80%. You will make some right decisions and some wrong. After all, you will build trust with yourself.  In your self development journey, self doubt is inevitable. Instead of looking at it as a bad thing, I challenge you to change that mindset to see it as a friend telling you that what you want is on the other side and you just have to take action to get there.

YouTube link to the Video: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/niTrESVJU-M 3 LIFE LESSONS Learned: Stop seeking approval  Practice/Improve emotional self-control  Real life and movie life are NOT the same

Have you ever taken a Monday off and worked on your side passion before? When you have a taste of freedom, you don’t wanna come back - give you motivation to keep going - to do hard things - so you can enjoy later - let your coworkers keep fighting for that promotion…  You may be in a job that you think it’s good, but I know a part of you always wants to do something greater. Therefore, you have to leave something good to go for something great, if not even amazing!  The reality is most people hate Monday because it reminds them of traffic, stress at work, a long week before the weekend, and doing things that they hate with people that they don’t like.  Are you currently working towards your dreams? I believe wholeheartedly that you will love MONDAY and look forward to it when you are working on what you love at the comfort of your house or wherever you choose.  It will TAKE A WHILE, but it’s POSSIBLE. DON’T QUIT!

“Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn’t matter to me… Going to bed at night saying we’ve done something wonderful… that’s what matters to me”. - STEVE JOBS When we lose something, that’s when it becomes important to us…  All little moments if you use wisely with the ones you love or with what you enjoy will one day become big moments when you look back. These will be your treasure memories.  Minimize distractions and stop doing things that don't matter. Find out what makes your heart happy and do more of it. Because once you know what is really important to you, it will drive all of your future decisions!  Wake up call to really think about what we have done and what our daily actions are all about? Do your actions help move you closer to what you want to accomplish in life? To the meaningful things or to the superficial things? It's easy to go through life endlessly and spend time doing what NOT matters if you are not aware of it.  When we go on for too long, we forget what really matters. We chase success, we chase a relationship, we chase money, we chase materialistic things. But at the end of day, what matters is just around the corner. Life is short. It will END at some point. NOTHING is worth stressing over. Focus on what really matters most!

The world is already filled with average people, and they will try to condition you to do the same as everyone else. People don’t want to see you become an exceptional person because that would make them feel uncomfortable.  You will lose the game called life if you play average anyways. So why not try harder and become an exceptional instead of being average.  Once you are being average in one area, you will most likely settle in other areas as well.  The path to excellence is very hard and lonely, but it will be very WORTHY.

Oftentimes we do many nice things for others because we want something in return such as money, love, favor, fame, promotion, etc. There is nothing wrong with pleasing others as long as that’s just who we are. However, if we please others because we attach to an outcome, we often behave “too nice” to others, which in turn causes ourselves to act differently.  When you act not according to who we truly are, others often pick up on it and doubt our intentions.    The most effective way to stop being a people pleaser is to have an awareness and to constantly work to improve yourself. When you have an abundant mindset, you don’t need anything from others. Therefore, The better you feel about yourself, the less you feel the need to show off.

Let go is hard, but STARTING OVER is even harder. Many people when they decide to let go, they start to resent the past and regret their past decisions. Instead of beginning a new journey, they decide to give up. It takes great courage to start again!  Don’t be afraid to start over. This time you’re not starting from scratch. You’re starting from experience. This time you are trying again with more knowledge, strength and power than you had before. Your journey was never over, it was just waiting for you to find it again.  When you trust in yourself, you’ll find the courage to start over. When you start again, you will truly experience a feeling of freedom! A freedom to build a life that you have always wanted.

Let go is 2 simple words, but never simple to apply it.  Three main reasons WHY we experience difficulty to let go: We believe that the past is better than the present or future. We would rather living in the past vs present. We use the past to justify a current condition and can’t figure out how to let go.  False self-limiting belief. We don’t trust our ability. We are afraid that you will not find anybody else because of all past experiences. Our brain tells us that remember all the rejection you have before… You are not good enough, you are not attractive enough… Then we use these stories to make excuses why we should continue to hold on to things. We need CERTAINTY. Human nature often wants to know that certain things will happen. We have been conditioned to avoid any bad surprises or unknown. If we move on from current things, we will experience too much of UNCERTAINTY, and that’s why many people would rather stick with old things so they can avoid uncertainty. ACTION STEP: Trust yourself. Trust your ability. Look at your past history. You have overcome many challenges that you thought you couldn’t, but you eventually did, and this time will not be any different. I know uncertainty is scary and it fills your thoughts with all bad scenarios. However, it also offers many opportunities that could change your life for the better. So trust that you can overcome any obstacle.  Change your old beliefs. In order to change your old beliefs, you must replace them with new beliefs. And the only way to form new beliefs is to take CONSISTENT ACTION UNTIL YOU SUCCEED.  Take responsibility. Stop blaming others for what happened in your past. Yes it could be their fault as well. But who would guarantee your life would have been different if things went the way you expected. So take responsibility and embrace lessons learned.  Gratitude - When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears. Forgive other people. I know it’s not easy, but it will free you from all anger and resentment. When you are grateful for everything that happened, you grow as a new person and it will be easier for you to move on to the next best things in your life. Everyday is a new day and you will never find happiness if you don’t move on. Let the past behind. The present and future are waiting for you. Closed that When you live in the past, it will only end up hurting you. Let the past go and start opening your arms for new opportunities. 

3 main reasons why you need to learn not to give a fuck: Take control back to yourself. You will no longer depend on the outcome and therefore, nothing will hold you back from doing what you want. Stay focused. When we give too much damn about everything, we will easily get distracted and therefore, we will not be able to do anything well. However, when we stay focused, we will easily accomplish our goals.  Improve mental health. When we give too much attention to things that are not truthly mattered, we will easily get upset, disappointed, and frustrated. However, when we only focus on what only matters, anything else will become less important and therefore they will NOT affect our mood greatly. The truth is we often give way much attention to things that are not mattered than the ones that do. Therefore, the art of not giving a f*ck is simply that you give fucks to only the things that matters more in your life. So choose wisely what matters in your life!

It’s easy for everyone to work on something when you are excited or motivated. But life is not always exciting all the time. Many times when we just start something new, we are all motivated and excited. But as time goes on, we lose interest because it becomes boring, tasks that initially felt exciting, now become more of a burden… Remember success in anything must take time and consistent effort.  The difference between successful and unsuccessful people is that successful people work on tasks even when they don’t feel like it. The truth is that a process to success is boring. You may take a while until you see a result. You may not like the late night or early morning, but you have to put in the work, especially when tasks are not pleasurable.

“The tiny seed knew that in order to grow, it needed to be dropped in dirt, covered with darkness, and struggle to reach light.”  We have to go through failure, darkness, and obstacles in order for us to realize what is important, what matters and most important, to appreciate good times. Without struggle and bad times, we will never understand good times. No matter how much you complain, the problem never goes away. In fact it just destroys your health and your relationship. Therefore, why do we still resist it? If it is already a part of the nature of life, why don’t we just embrace and accept it? Because once you embrace/ love it, you will have more strength to overcome it.  We don’t come this far just to give up. Keep going my friend, hard times will pass and its pain will be replaced with strength within you. But if you give up now, the pain will last forever. Have courage to try again. Have courage to show up again.

Success really is a marathon that requires daily action. Thinking that you will just get directly to success without failure is nonsense and bullshit.  There are no shortcuts to any place worth going - Beverly Sills The reality is you will surely make mistakes, risk failure, experience rejection, look humiliated. It’s not to discourage you, but to prepare you to face challenges like a warrior.  Anything worthy to fight for is NO SHORTCUT. What others experience may not always apply to you. Life will be your greatest teacher that you need during a tough time. You will learn, grow, and eventually you will succeed.  NEVER GIVE UP my handsome friends!

Sometimes when we focus too much on how fast we can accomplish our goals, we forget how important it is to appreciate and enjoy things in the process. We become impatient, bitter and unhappy because a result doesn’t come fast enough. We are so attached to an outcome that we are only happy when we achieve our goals. We set expectations depending on a result, instead of a growing process.  Remember you are not where you want to be, but neither are you where you used to be.  It’s okay to feel rushed. It’s okay to want more, but it’s absolutely NOT okay to be ungrateful.  When you feel overwhelmed, pause, reflect and see how far you have come. Be grateful for struggles, challenges and hard times because they have shaped who you are capable of becoming.

What do you really want? Fancy cars, big houses, a lot of money? These material things may bring you a short term happiness, but it will never fulfill you long term. The thing that really makes you happy often times it is something that gives you a sense of PURPOSE. We have to know what we are here for, and what we can do to improve others' lives. The only thing that can bring meaningful to your life is when you know that you are being helpful to others people. Do you remember the last time how much joy you had when you helped other people? That's the key. The more people you help, the more happier you experience. Therefore, find out what you are passionate about and pursue it.

To focus on a few things in your life. To enjoy what really matters  Why are many people not happy? They want so many things in their life. Therefore, the secret to happiness is to enjoy less. Less is really more. It is not about seeking more, but it’s about the art of enjoying less.  There is nothing wrong with wanting more, but if you let the desire of wanting more affect your overall happiness, that desire is a problem. Here is the dangerous part: the things that you think you want may not be the things that actually make you happy.  The funny thing is one you learn to enjoy less, you will be more peaceful, less stressed, and things will come to you more naturally. 

Face your fears and take as many shots as you can, take many chances. Say yes to whatever that you are afraid of. You can only grow if you face your fears. Yes you will fail a lot, yes you will miss a lot of shots, but you will also have more chances of success. You will encounter many ‘no’ in your life, but the final ‘YES’ will make all the ‘NO’ worthy to endure. The main reason that you say no to yourself is because of fear. But you know who really is the greatest enemy? YOU! We often talk ourselves out of many opportunities. We let the opportunities paralyze us. But the good news is that you can control and make decisions to face what scares you.

It’s easier to do nothing and tell yourself that it will never work out than to attempt something and find out. Have you ever been in a situation where you see an attractive girl from a distance but not making an attempt to approach her because of fear of rejection? Have you ever wanted to ask for a raise but ended up not doing it due to fear of failure? Our brain is really powerful. It could work in your favor or it could work against you. When we make excuses frequently, we will have a higher tendency of making excuses more than taking action. In contrast, when we take action more often, we will have a higher chance to stop making excuses.

When you experience a tough day, you need to remind yourself that awesome days will come soon.  The reality is some days are tough and some days are awesome. We have to experience sadness, difficulty, challenges in order to understand or to value all good days. Because without a tough day, we would totally take a good day for granted. Understanding this concept will help you have an open mind and actually appreciate the meaning of a tough time. Tough days are part of your journey, and it will end eventually. Once it is over, your great days will come. NEVER FORGET THIS!

Careless about the outcome. Focus on living to your true authentic self. Say and do things that please yourself instead of others. The fact is people will judge or criticize you anyways no matter what your intentions are. If your action is mainly focusing on winning over others so that they will like you more, you will often end up disappointed because you care too much or at least more than others about the outcome. However, if your action is focusing on amusing yourself, you will become more attractive because you CARE LESS about the outcome.  After all, what really matters is how you feel after you do things that are authentic with who you are and what you feel right in that moment. Stop worrying about the outcome. The result will take care of itself.

Being single is a tough experience that everyone will experience at some points or even many stages in their lives. I know that we all desire to be with someone we love, to share experiences, adventures together, to hangout at family gatherings, family holidays, to have someone to share time with on Friday or Saturday nights.  We don’t like feeling alone on the weekend. When we see our friends, people on social media getting married, that makes us question ourselves about self-worth. However, single time is the most important time that gives us the opportunity to work on our improvement journey, to focus on our visions, our dreams, and what we truly want.  We have to experience loneliness, sadness, frustration, disappointment, before we can taste a feeling of happiness and success.  Being single is not fun, but it does come with some benefits. You can either focus on why being single is sucked, terrible, not good, or something to avoid, or you can focus on what good it brings to your life.  But after all, remember being single is TEMPORARY, and you will find a special person at the point that you are unexpected. DON’T SETTLE!

There's a difference between interest and commitment. When you’re interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstances permit. When you’re committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results - Art Turock The only way to make a commitment long lasting is to choose to do what you are naturally passionate about. That’s way you will most likely keep going, keep trying when things get hard, when results have not come yet, when you don’t feel motivated. Even when you are stuck, you won’t just give up or give in easily to the naysayers.  The thing is that going for your dreams is never easy, and it is very important that you choose something we love so that it makes it easier to endure.

Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage - Dale Carnegie Becoming fearless doesn’t mean you don’t have fear. It means that your desire for success is greater than your fear.  The only way to become fearless is to take consistent actions towards your goals and dreams.  Most importantly, you must discipline yourself to take action even when you don’t feel like it because 8/10 you will not feel like it    3 steps to help you overcome fears: Acknowledge what are you afraid of  Look fear in the face and take consistent action  You’ve gotta be willing to fail, willing to look bad, willing to look embarrassed, willing to look humiliated. Basically willing to do whatever it takes.

Belief. What a simple word that you hear repeatedly so many times in your life, but we know how much power this word contains. People often say that if you just have a strong belief, we could accomplish anything you want. They say everything starts with belief first, but that’s not the whole story. It must follow up with something else…   Triangle Formula: BELIEF - ACTION - RESULT

Don’t wait for all external factors to give you a reason to do what you want. Don’t wait for the right time. Stop waiting for tomorrow. We only have that many tomorrows, and one day there is no more tomorrow. Don’t wait for the right feelings. Your feelings are always changing and you can’t wait until you are happy to take action. Don’t wait until you reach that goal. It may be awhile until you complete it. There is no reason to wait until then to be happy.  Don’t wait for others to tell you that you are worthy. Believe in yourself and trust that. Don’t wait until life gets easier. There is alway life problems and if you wait until then, it may never come.

"Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and think of what could go right." When we decide to do something, our brain has a tendency to focus on what could go wrong rather than what could go right. It’s like we would rather focus on possibilities of 10% things go wrong than possibilities of 90% things go right. Once we are aware of this, we can consciously focus on potential gains instead of potential loss. 

You don’t need it all figured out. The more you think you do. The more you’ll procrastinate and fear moving forward. Have courage and start now. Even if you start small.  The more we know, the more we analyze and eventually we end up making excuses. 

By leaving tasks or work for tomorrow, it won’t reduce the amount of work that you have to complete. The steps that you have to take are still there waiting for you. The only thing that gets shorter is your LIFE!

When you stop worrying about “how” and focus on “why” you’ll realize that this new beginning isn’t quite so scary When you trust in yourself, you’ll find the courage to start over.

If you wait until everything is certain, you may find you’ve waited too long.  You don’t have to do anything perfectly. You just have to try.

What is #1 important trait you must have in 2022? Most people know this, but they don't really know how to develop it. The key is you must be aware of it.

It comes down to one simple thing: how bad do you want it?

I want to experience a life to my fullest potential. I want to see what all life gotta offer.

The pain of being an average is way greater than anything else and that’s why  I would rather put in the work and keep going.

The fear of the unknown will always be an obstacle if you try to predict the outcome of an action

If you don’t make the time to work on creating the life you want, you’re eventually going to be forced to spend a lot of time dealing with a life you don’t want.

Oftentimes we don’t take action because you don’t feel a sense of urgency. We use “someday” as a reason that we will work on it later, but the “later” never comes…

I will get to it someday... Does that sound familiar? There is NO someday. Either today or never! You decide!

Don’t hope that events will turn out the way you want, welcome events in whichever way they happen: this is the path to peace.

You may think that a lot of people are doing brave things out there, but the fact is not as common as you think... Courageous action doesn’t mean you go out there and do something crazy. it ‘s simply means you do something that deep down you are afraid of.

When you trust in yourself, you’ll find the courage to start over. Believe in yourself and have faith that things will work out for you.

Stop aiming for only "good enough" in your life. We are not here to settle for mediocrity. We are here to aim for the AMAZING things that we truly want!

It will not be easy at all, and there are many times you can’t stand the path that you chose. But you must believe that things will work out in the end and it will be all worthy.

Worry doesn’t give you another moment to live longer. It ONLY takes away a joy from your moment. You never realize how much a moment will last until it’s gone. So take every opportunity to enjoy the present.

Most people really are not looking forward to the future. They either look forward to the weekend or look forward to that vacation. However, they almost never look forward to who they will become tomorrow and what they can accomplish. For them tomorrow is the same as it is yesterday...

Stop make excuses why it is not working! Start believing in yourself and take that action depiste whatever outcome happens.

The main reason why we often get upset or frustrated because things are not going the way you anticipated. What if the things we are worry NO longer matter? Would you still put your energy into it?

Champions keep going even when they are tired, frustrated, and want to give up.  

Focus on the momentum, instead of perfection or imagine results

Go big or go home. Because it’s true. What do you have to lose? It’s okay to be afraid and in fact it is expected to have fear. You just have to take action no matter how you feel!

Your journey will not get any shorter if you wait until tomorrow. The only thing that is getting shorter is your life. So Don't Wait!

Don’t try to share whatever your dreams or passion with every single friend or family that you know. Look at their values. Think in advance, chances are you know them better than they even themselves

Be grateful and always take action to get what you want in life!

You can only achieve what you believe that you deserve. Your mindset must go first, and you must believe that you are worthy of having what you want to have in life. 

Nothing lasts forever. This is also true for hard times. It's not easy to clearly see how to overcome these hardships. However, by knowing that these hard times will eventully pass, it will give you HOPE to stay in the game...

Your past experiences have proven that you have overcome any difficuties, any challenges in life even though you did not think so in that moment. And you will also overcome any obstacles in the future as well. Believe in yourself!

Don't ignore your inner voice. Somehow it already knows where you need to go in life.

Faith. It’s all about believing. You don’t know how it will happen. But you know it will.

Self-doubt is one of the biggest enemies that you will encounter many times in your journey to success. By knowning how to destroy it, you will stay focus and get things done even when you are in doubt.

Once you’ve made the decision to move on, don’t look back. You will never find your future in the rear view mirror. Keep going and find a way!

In life, we all have ambitions and dreams and we told ourselves that we would pursue it someday. When that day comes, we are excited at the beginning, then setbacks, challenges come our way, we begin to get discouraged and back down and wanted to come back to where we used to be. Where we thought it was good, but deep down we are not satisfied with it. So don’t look back! There is no future in the rear mirror. 

Action may not give you what you want, but it definitely creates possibilities.

Being courageous enough to be alone frees you up to invite people into your life because you want them and not because you need them

You will face many challenges and failures in your life, but never let those failures fail you.

Success starts with the mindset that you can do it. You must believe that you can, despite what adversity may come your way.

You have to work hard silently for years without anyone even knowing about it. The moment they find out about who you are and what you accomplished is when you are successful.

You don't have time to workout, but you always have time to play video games. Nobody is too busy, it is just a matter of priorities.

 Whatever rejection or failure that you have been experiencing, they will be all worthy in the end. Better things are coming.

Negative Events happen could either ruin your life or shape who you are. You decide!

Why do most people never get started? Why are they never able to arrive at the final destination?

Money is the root of all evil. Money can’t buy happiness. Have you heard this before? Is this a really true statement?

Bad things happen all the times, but it is how you look at it would play more important role than the event itself.

Do you remember a last time when you were happy or when you were stress? What caused your emotion to be that way? Once you understand it, you can rewire your brain to think in your favor.

Do you feel low energy quite often? Do you feel like when you are about to work on your purpose/goals, your energy or your mood is very low and that causes you to procrastinate? Watch out what you put into your body!

What information do you consume everyday? Do you mostly listen to many bullshit politic news going on around or all bullshit stories about other people that don't even contribute to your goals? Remember what you consume would affect how you think. 

It's easy to take more action when things go well and results come fast. What would you do if there is still no result even though you have taken so many action? Would you give up? Or would you stand up and keep going? It is a real true warrior to continue to take action even when results hasn't come for awhile. 

Everyone wants to be noticed, want to let others know that you are the one that makes things happen. We want to win an argument with family, friends and even strangers. But does it really matter if we let others win?

Doing the same things with everyone else would end up the same life with them. Would you want to be like that or are you desired to do something more meaningful and fullfilled?

If you want to be richer, have more freedom, control of your time and schedule, you must do differently than anyone else.

We all have hope and dreams, but at some point we let things, challenges, obstacles get on the way and defeat us. The decision is yours whether to stand up again and keep fighting until the end or to give up and settle.

We live in the world where many things could distract us from our purpose and goals. It is very important to keep remind yourself on what important in life so that you could be productive. 

You could either decide to face your fear or run from it. But there are consequences if you run from it...

Is making mistatke a bad thing to avoid? How many times you have missed great opportunities because you are afraid of making mistakes?

If the chance of failure is already there, what are you even afraid of not trying anymore when you already have nothing to lose?

On the journey to success, we will sure experience many negative feelings, including doubt, fear, disspointment, etc. But how do we handle those negative emotions would determine our successes. 

Most people are worry about risking everything, but little that they know that when they risk little, they actually miss out on many golden opportunities in life...

What do you do daily in your spare time? Does your action move towards what you want to accomplish in the future?

When things get tough, what motivates you to keep going? That's where the passion will help you push through hardship in life

On my last episode, I mentioned the fastest way to wealth is investing. But how do you even get started on investing? Listen to today episode and take action!

Everyone wants to be rich/wealthy, but how many of them know what to do to get to where they want to be?

Some people find out their purpose early in life, while others may take awhile to figure it out. Whether it is sooner or later, the path to pursue passion is never easy, but if it is your passion, I believe that you will make it till the end!

We often make decision based on our ego (what others think), instead of what our instincts. Be aware!

Indecisive could cost you many good opportunities. Understand reason why many people don't get what they want could help you get ahead.

Great results don't come quick as you expected and you started doubting and resenting yourself. Remembered progress takes time. Love yourself!

We have very limited time on earth. So spend your time wisely!

Doubt is one of the main factors that prevent us from taking action and settle for less than what we want. Destroy it and believe that success will come eventually.

The world consists of many factors that distract you from your goals. Stay Focus!

Life is a game. To win the game of life, you must know the rules!

Trust in your action and carry it with confidence!

Most of people give up and never finish what they started. Don't be like most people!

Once you know how to listen to your heart, new doors/opportunities will come to you...

Success is a lonely path. It's the path that everyone wants it, but not everyone is willing to sacrifice...

Stop looking for perfectionism, safety and security. Everything is working as the way it is. You just have to show up and take action!

We all know that worry only causes stress in our lives, but why do we keep worring everyday? Understand what causes worry and how to control it will completely change your level of happiness.

Pay attention to what everybody does, analyze and really think about it. Do you want your life to end up similar like them? Or are you desired to do something bigger and meaningful? 

Often times we think that if we moved to a different environment, we would be happy. However, a reality is not what people really expect it...

It's easy to feel good and happen when things go smoothly. However, we could train ourselves to feel good too when things go south. This will help you detach from whatever outcomes. 

Opportunity sometimes comes and goes very quickly. If you are too hesitant and indecisive, it will pass by...

Nothing worth comes easy. We all know that, but how many of us are actually putting in the neccessary work to make it happen? Something to think about...

Things will happen to you at the right time and in the right place when you are ready as long as you put in the work.

Many self help gurus focus mostly on mindset, but they often forget there is something still more important than mindset alone... 

Knowing this rule and actually using it when you feel giving up would change your attitude.

It's hard to keep taking action when you see no results, but it's even harder to keep doing it for a long period of time knowing that you may or may not get what you want. That's why most people give up...

Happiness is never found in an easy life. The more difficulty that you have to go through the higher the joy is.

Having a backup is often a good thing, but there are some instances, it could hold you back from accomplishing what you truly want it.

Nothing lasts forever. It applies the same things for challenges in life. By embrace these two quotes, you would have a peace of mind while others are worry and fearful.

Are you okay to wait another months or years to pursue your dreams? Are you okay to live a life of mediocrity for another a year, or even a day?!

Knowledge is only potential power... Action is the main thing that determines where you want to be...

Don't let fear control your life! Face it and it will disappear

We often think highly of other people, but doubt our abilities to make a difference. Many things that come easy to you, doesn't mean it would come easy to others.

Not everyone would go the same path or direction as you do. Understand this and you would be able to trust yourself and keep going even when no one is in your team.

Human beings we love the certainty and avoid the unknown or uncertainty. But many of us are actually willing to admit and to embrace the uncertainty...

It's easy to come up with all types of excuses and they are all seened valid. The longer you tolarate them the less likely you would take control of your life.

Change is uncomfortable and the more you resist to it, the more you encounter stress, fear, and anxiety.

Feeling lazy of taking action that you need to take to get to where you want to be? Here's how you could push through that feeling...

You may have heard some of benefits of waking up earlier, but never able to get yourself wake up early enough, or may not keep the habit consistently. Here is Why...

You want to open the credit card, but you hear many different opinions about it... And you are not sure what to do? This will definitely help you make decision easier.

You may have tried it in the past... but the result wasn't what you expected. Something must be wrong about it? Hmm... Let's find out!

Our brain often focus on the worse outcome than a good one, and that causes us to sabotage ourselves before the event even happens...

Sometime we worry about so many things which cause us to doubt ourselves, doubt the process. By knowing this powerful method, you would have a peace of mind to keep going and enjoy the journey. 

If it were easy, everyone would achive it. That's why learning to embrace challenges is one of the best skills that you could learn.

Going for your dreams is never an easy thing to do. Therefore, knowing what to do when you feel giving up is very important.

Inspirational Speech

The way you perceive money would affect whether you attract or repel it more into your life. This episode would help you understand what money really means.

How do you feel when you compared yourself to others' successes, especially the ones we know?

Are you still living your life according to other's expectation or standards? How do you feel if you have to live this way until the rest of your life?

Some of very important questions that could change your life forever...

Inspirational episode!

Realizing some of most common regrets, what would you do to not have to live a life of regret?

Do you have any regret? If so, what are your some of your regrets? Do you want to live a life of regret?

There is HUGE difference between passion and hobby. Find out what that is and you are on the way to your dream destination...

Many times in our lives, we often procrastinate about what we want to do, what we always been curious, or even our dreams. Why wait?!

Inspirational Episode!

Are you like 95% of the world population that still come up with all excuses to not take action? Are you still too busy for your dream?

What would you think your friends or family members would say when they know you are going for your dream while they were not? 

There is one particular value that you always carry with you since you were a child. Knowing this value would help you make a decision easier.

Really?! You have to be perfect to start? Who told you that?! 

Have you ever written down your ideal everyday like? How would your life be if you live like everyday is your perfect day?

I set a goal, I achieved it, then I set another goal, and I achieved again... However, I am still not happy. Have you ever been there...

We have heard this term over and over again, but how often have we taken action to grow ourselves? Let's see some of things that you could do to expand your comfort zone.

Many times we will not have the answer for everything we want to understand. It admits the way it is and move on with your life. It's the best medication.

Bonus Episode!

Do you live an authentic life? Do you worry or feel the need to do something that it is not aligned with your values just to please other people or not to offend them?

Letting go is definitely not an easy decision at all. Many of us have been sticking with the things that we should have let go for a long time...

When have you stopped pursuing your dream because you have to be "realistic"? Who said that you would never achieve your dream, so why even bother? Don't sell yourself short!

How long have you been putting up with all the things that you hate? Are you still letting your fear and excuses control your destiny?

Why do many people live in scarcity mindset? Does the world really have limited number of things that we have to worry about?

Many times we are bitter about how long it would take to get to where we want to be. That’s also the reason that many people give up... However, it actually is good things...

Have you been living your life according to others’ expectations instead of yourself? Do people’s opinions make you doubt yourself or your ability? Let’s see why and how to overcome it!

Many people complain about why they don’t have the things that they want and the world is not fair and seems to go against them. Is that true? Let’s find out!

Do you realize how important self-discipline is to your purpose?  Have you been in a situation where you know you should focus on your goals but you did something else instead? Let’s see what you could do to improve another warrior characteristic.

Has anyone given you advice to just be yourself, instead of being your best self? What difference? Let's find out!

Some days are simply better than others. When going for your goals or the things that you want, you would experience plateau. Don't let it hold you back!

What are the 3 most desirable traits of a fearless man? Develop them and you would become a more attractive and authentic version of yourself.

Do we only enjoy of the outcome without putting a work? Or do you really enjoy the learning to get to where we want to be?

How do you make an important decision? Do you use mostly intuition or based on facts? Which one should you reply more often? Let’s find out!

Do you feel the need of having a girlfriend in order to feel complete or happy? Do women really make you happy? Let’s find out!

The message today is a wake up call for anyone that has been wasting time and hasn't been doing the real important things in your life.

Let's find out what makes you deeply happy and what to do to achieve it.