Dating, Relationships, and Love Podcast (DRL) shares life-changing lessons and explores unique dating experiences covering the full spectrum of relationships. Join dating coach and matchmaker Tennesha Wood every week for unfiltered and engaging conversations with everyone from singles sick of swiping on Tinder, partners exploring open/poly relationships, happily married couples in Black Love bliss, divorcees starting from scratch, to sex workers juggling careers with romantic connections. Full of eye-openers across 185+ bingeable episodes, DRL gives invaluable advice through coaching sessions with real clients, industry experts, and Tennesha's Jamaican mom, who isn't afraid to tell it like it is. DRL is your how-to guide on being your authentic self, understanding relationships, and creating the love you desire.
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S4, E42: What (Black) Men Want
Gentlemen's Factory founder, Jeff Lindor, is sharing why Black men need safe spaces and what men talk about when women aren't around. He's also discussing why getting married at 25 turned out to be his biggest blessing.
9/23/2021 • 36 minutes, 34 seconds
S4, E41: Still Processing
Tennesha's back! She's sharing where she's been for the last year and why she's still processing 2020.
9/16/2021 • 11 minutes, 43 seconds
S4, E40: How to Heal: Getting Over Your Ex and Understanding the Psychology of Breakups
Breakup Coach and Author Amy Chan is sharing what happens in the body and the brain during a breakup and how to work through the stages of heartbreak. She’s also sharing how her upbringing and the fantasy of the 'fairy tale' led her to ignore red flags that caused her own traumatic breakup.
12/10/2020 • 53 minutes, 51 seconds
S4, E39: Dating After Divorce: How to Trust Yourself Again When You Chose Wrong the First Time
Donnetta got married at 24, and divorced her husband after years of lies and infidelity. Now 41, she's having trouble trusting her instincts and the men she dates. Tennesha coaches Donetta on defining her own needs, being upfront, and the power of positive thought and manifestation. Tennesha is also sharing some exciting news that will redefine how Black professionals meet and date.
11/18/2020 • 43 minutes, 2 seconds
S4, E38: Souled: How This Couple Met on Facebook and Fell In Love a Week Later
Kola and Kofie met on Facebook and instantly realized they were soul mates. They fell in love within a week, and Kola sold her house and moved to Georgia with her children to start a life together. The couple shares how working on themselves led them to love and why they have no doubts despite moving so quickly.
10/22/2020 • 26 minutes, 23 seconds
S4, E37: Your Choosing, Not Attracting: How to Avoid Situationships
Tennesha and her boyfriend Chris answer listener questions and advise on preventing situationships, exposing screenshots from a cheater, and when men are actually ready to get married. The pair also share how they manifested each other and why they believe music perpetuates cheating.
10/15/2020 • 51 minutes, 41 seconds
S4, E36: WYD?: How to Communicate While Courting
Tennesha advises on how to handle the infamous "WYD" "good morning beautiful" and "we should hang out" texts that every woman has received from men. It's frustrating and wastes time, but men aren't the only ones to blame! She's sharing why it's happening and how you can end the ambiguity and establish quality communication while courting.
9/30/2020 • 14 minutes, 57 seconds
S4, E35: Two Is Better Than One: Why This Woman Took on a Second Husband
After ten years in a monogamous marriage, Kenya and her husband decided to embark on a new journey that began with seeing other people. Even after settling into a poly relationship, they still had to remove layers of conditioning that caused jealousy and anger. Kenya is sharing why she doesn't believe in monogamy, how she manages two husbands and other partners, and how her children view of their lifestyle.
9/23/2020 • 40 minutes, 6 seconds
S4, E34: Your Womb Is Not Your Worth: Why Motherhood Isn't Every Woman's Goal
Ryan was fairly certain she didn't want kids but assumed the urge might come someday. Although she never changed her mind, she met the love of her life and got married. Tennesha and Ryan discuss the stigmas associated with women that are childfree by choice. Tennesha also shares how a medical condition has not only made the topic of children a more imminent one but has also put her on the fence about having children of her own.
9/16/2020 • 42 minutes, 35 seconds
S4, E33: Detanglements: A Divorce Attorneys' Advice on Staying Married
Divorce attorney Kimberly Cook is sharing the number one reason couples get divorced and the crucial conversations to have before getting married. She's also discussing why everyone needs to look into a pre-up and how to protect your future.
9/10/2020 • 41 minutes, 19 seconds
S4, E32: More Than a Quarantine Bae: How Sliding Into His DM Led to Love Before First Sight
Renata noticed that Chris kept liking all her photos, so she slid into his DM to say hi. Soon they were talking for hours every day and fell in love. They are sharing why this relationship has shown them that love is possible at any stage and why they waited for two months to meet in person. Spoiler alert: Since recording this episode, Renata and Chris got engaged!
9/3/2020 • 36 minutes, 40 seconds
S4, E31: Sonia Says
Tennesha and mom Sonia answer listener questions and give advice about dealing with a monster in law, regrets about getting married too young, and a former player who 'thinks' he's ready to change. Sonia also wonders how Tennesha's OCD nature is impacting her relationship.
8/26/2020 • 41 minutes, 22 seconds
S4, E30: Boo'ed Up Abroad: Why This Woman Left America to Date Internationally
After years of dating in the U.S., Bako felt like men weren't pursuing her, so she left to work and date abroad. She's sharing some of her hilarious tales from dating in Japan and dispelling some myths about Asian men. Tennesha and Bako also discuss how she's been able to separate sexual connections from emotional ones and why her happily ever will always include a suitcase.
8/13/2020 • 34 minutes, 7 seconds
S4, E29: How 22-Year-Old 'Marrying Millions' Star Bri Ramirez Found Love with a 62-Year-Old Millionaire
When 22-year-old Bri met her 62-year-old boyfriend Bill, friends and family were skeptical of the union and his circle did not initially accept her. Despite the 40-year age gap, the couple has forged a strong bond; Bri is now helping to parent his two youngest children and is open to having more in the future. She's sharing how she has learned to navigate his world and why she belives their age gap is not an issue.
8/5/2020 • 42 minutes, 15 seconds
S4, E28: Saved: How Ego Caused an Emotional Affair and Faith Ended It
Damilola was in a relationship with the woman he knew he would marry, but old friends still lingered, and eventually, he became entangled in an emotional affair. He’s sharing how his faith led him to come clean to his girlfriend and why he believes their connection is now stronger than ever.
7/30/2020 • 31 minutes, 1 second
S4, E27: A Thousand Words: How a photoshoot between strangers created an undeniable connection
Heather and Baxter answered a casting call for a "stranger session" photoshoot; something that was out of character for both of them. Their chemistry was clear in the photos that immediately went viral. They are sharing what really happened during the photoshoot and whether they have formed a romantic connection since then.
7/22/2020 • 16 minutes, 39 seconds
S4, E26: I Still Believe
After a secret wedding in the Dominican Republic, LaRhonda found out that her new husband had children she knew nothing about. She's sharing how she learned to trust her gut and let go of old baggage and why she has never stopped believing in the wonder and adventure of dating.
7/16/2020 • 51 minutes, 57 seconds
S4, E25: Father Figure
Tennesha and boyfriend Chris discuss whether it's possible to overcome strained parental relationships and start fresh.
7/9/2020 • 53 minutes, 47 seconds
S4, E24: True Colors
'Too Much Soul' author Cindy Wilson was born in South Korea and adopted by a Black couple from Jackson, Mississippi. Cindy is sharing how she has navigated being of Korean descent but connected primarily to Black American culture while growing up in the deep south. We also discuss why Cindy had exclusively dated black men and how living in Atlanta has expanded her horizon.
7/2/2020 • 49 minutes, 15 seconds
S4, E23: How to Deal
Psychotherapist Kenya Crawford is joining Tennesha to talk about racial trauma, being mindful of your own mental health, and how to handle workplace discussions around race. Kenya is also answering a listener question from a woman whose boyfriend refused to join her at a Black Lives Matter protest.
6/24/2020 • 49 minutes, 3 seconds
S4, E22: Call Your Mother
Tennesha and her mother Sonia discuss her experience growing up in Jamaica and transitioning to the racial inequalities of America. Sonia also shares how she dealt with the systemic racism in the education system and why she continues to fight in the face of “Minnesota nice.”
6/17/2020 • 57 minutes, 27 seconds
S4, E21: Dear White People
Dear White people- If you are ready to join the fight against racism and oppression in America, please start by examining your own beliefs, privileges, and interactions with Black people. ~Tennesha
6/3/2020 • 4 minutes, 53 seconds
S4, E20: The Bright Side
Tennesha revisits three interracial relationships to help navigate the rough week we've all been through. www.drlpodcast.com/margaret-wilkerson-sexton/ www.drlpodcast.com/michael-and-meghan/ www.drlpodcast.com/kara-young-interracial-relationships/
5/28/2020 • 49 minutes, 31 seconds
S4, E19: Purposefully Fun
Although Dana is waiting on Mr. Right and believes in dating with purpose, she also believes that the wait should be fun. With age, Dana's non-negotiables have shifted and she's now dating people she didn't previously consider, including older men and white men. Dana also shares the hilarious tale of dating a man that was a few decades her senior.
5/20/2020 • 36 minutes, 28 seconds
S4, E18: Eggs on Ice
Tennesha explores the process of egg freezing with Azella, Lauren, and Nubia, who have varying views on childbearing. The ladies also share the mental, emotional and financial impacts of the process and how it affected the way they date. They discuss whether it's possible for women to have it all, given all the sacrifices that motherhood brings and how gender roles also play into the equation.
5/13/2020 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 29 seconds
S4, E17: How Lashaun Got Her Groove Back
Lashaun’s husband kept a secret from her and it eventually led to their divorce. After 15 years of marriage, she began dating again and had the time of her life, before meeting her new boo. She’s sharing how her divorce forced her to face her flaws and embrace her freedom.
5/7/2020 • 54 minutes, 12 seconds
S4, E16: Romantic Comedy
At 47, Omar was single and wanted children but hadn't met the one. Just as he was about to start the surrogacy process, he met his now-fiancée Shar on the street. Though 20 years his junior, they knew it was meant to be and got engaged just two months later. Omar is sharing why he's glad Shar came later in life and how he knew she was the one he had been waiting for.
4/30/2020 • 49 minutes, 19 seconds
S4, E15: Being Okay With Not Being Okay
Mika is sharing how she grieved the death of her boyfriend Reggie and overcame the unhealthy coping mechanisms she used to numb the pain. Eventually, therapy helped her to face the grief head-on. She also reveals how Reggie's words gave her the courage to date again.
4/23/2020 • 57 minutes, 2 seconds
S4, E14: What's a 'Fin Dom'?
Financial dominatrix, Mistress Marley introduces us to the world of kink and domination. She's also sharing why she left her corporate job to be a 'fin dom', where men pay to worship her.
4/15/2020 • 36 minutes, 7 seconds
S4, E13: In the Moment
Tearra shares how becoming a mother has changed her perspective and taught her to live in the moment. She is also explaining how she learned to work through her traumas and how motherhood has impacted her relationship with her own mom.
4/1/2020 • 38 minutes, 57 seconds
S4, E12: Pandatemic
Tennesha gives tips on how to date during a pandemic; from setting up a profile to creating a quarantine date. Chris and Tennesha also discuss why being apart during the formation of their relationship actually brought them closer together.
3/26/2020 • 51 minutes, 45 seconds
S4, E11: Social Distancing
Tennesha is joined by her boyfriend Chris to answer listener questions and discuss "quarantine and chill" etiquette, why a pandemic is not a good excuse to reach out to your ex, and how soon is too soon to share your phone passcode with your significant other.
3/18/2020 • 55 minutes, 19 seconds
S4, E10: (Nice) Guy Meets Girl
Essah is sharing how she learned to recognize what she needed instead of what she wanted and how it lead her to her husband. Tennesha and Essah also discuss how women's insecurities cause nice guys to finish last.
3/12/2020 • 44 minutes, 41 seconds
S4, E09: Throuple
Married couple Dillion and Venza are sharing how they formed a partnership with their fiance Mari and why jealousy has not impacted their relationship. The throuple is also discussing how friends and family reacted to the decision to live a polygynous life, why they plan to add more women to their tribe, and why they believe polygyny is a part of human nature.
3/5/2020 • 56 minutes, 29 seconds
S4, E08: Pure Potential
At 34, Arhonda felt the pressure to get married and start a family. Soon into the marriage, she realized that she ignored red flags and married her husband based on his potential. She's sharing why she waited almost 10 years to end the marriage and how divorcing gave her the freedom to explore what she really wants.
2/27/2020 • 57 minutes, 24 seconds
S4, E07: Sister Sister
Erin never knew her father and felt like she chose the wrong men to fill the void, and ended up in an abusive relationship. She is sharing why she's has gotten a new lease on life after meeting the sister she never knew.
2/19/2020 • 30 minutes, 24 seconds
S4, E06: The Happy Award
Elisha is sharing how taking time off her career gave her the freedom to just be and find "her most mature relationship" and why she actually enjoys being in a long-distance partnership. Tennesha and Elisha also discuss how the choice to delay marriage and children have afforded other opportunities.
2/12/2020 • 43 minutes, 58 seconds
S4, E05: Past the Past
Fatima lost her mother to suicide, at just two years old, and had no relationship with her father. The trauma of her past and never witnessing a successful relationship brought difficulty in her own relationships. She’s sharing how she learned to accept her past and gain strength from it. Fatima is also discussing why she believes it's important to keep your ego and your pride.
2/6/2020 • 59 minutes, 9 seconds
S4, E04: Clearing the Space
After leaving an 11-year toxic relationship, Eliana decided to clear all things from her life that no longer served her; including one-sided friendships and a career that brought her no joy. She is sharing her journey to self-love, empowerment and how becoming a plus-sized model has helped her to define her destiny.
1/29/2020 • 52 minutes, 25 seconds
S4, E03: Sonia Says
Tennesha's mom, Sonia, shares wisdom on what to look for in a partner and answers listener questions. She also discusses why she chose the quiet guy despite being courted by so many eager men.
1/23/2020 • 29 minutes, 30 seconds
S4, E02: The Rebuild
After nearly 20 years together, Tracy and her husband have been faced with infidelity and family tragedies; they reached a breaking point and decided to tear it all down and rebuild their marriage on their own terms. Tracy is sharing how they found new ways to deal with old issues and why they are honest with their kids about the work it takes to maintain a happy marriage.
1/15/2020 • 49 minutes, 16 seconds
S4,E01: Seven Year Itch
Seven years into her relationship, Glaiza is debating about whether she should change habits her boyfriend doesn't like in order to get a ring. -------------------------------- This episode is sponsored by Booknotes. Try a free 7 day free trial here: https://booknotes.page.link/dating
