Welcome back to another episode of Conversations That Bloom! Today's episode delves into a topic close to the heart: "Trusting God with Your Relationships." Relationships can be complicated, but trusting God can bring guidance and strength. The lovely Wonani joins me as we talk about how faith can shape and transform our relationships with others. Wonani is a blogger, podcaster, and civil engineer. She is the mind and voice behind Dose of Wonani, a Podcast and Blog. She believes God has blessed her with her gifts to bring His reality to the world. Here’s what to expect in today’s episode: How has trust in your relationships evolved? What have you learned about God in your relationships? What are your fears when it comes to marriage and commitment? Advice for anyone in the middle of a hard place in their relationship. Bible verse to meditate on -- ”He answered, “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” ‭‭Luke‬ ‭10‬:‭27‬ ‭NIV‬ Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy, and enjoy the conversation! Join the community: Be a part of the Bloomers Community: @bloomerscommunity on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyabukuru on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f  Follow Wonani on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doseofwonani?igsh=MW8zNGp2Y3Z5N3Rzdg==  #KeepOnBlooming

Are you part of a group or community of women who help and support each other? What impact have they had on your life? In today's episode, we talk about the lessons we've learned in sisterhood. I have the pleasure of discussing this topic with Kabwe Yambayamba. Kabwe is a lover of Jesus, project lead in the Bloomers Community, and Co-founder of Genius Zambia. Our story is one written by God Himself and I am so grateful we get to share our lessons with you all today Here's what to expect from today's episode: How to rebuke our sisters with love. How to heal from broken friendships. How to allow ourselves to be rebuked by the Holy Spirit in our friendships. How to assess ourselves in order to be more loving with ourselves and others. Things to focus on to grow and nurture healthy friendships/sisterhood. God wants us to be connected and have healthy friendships. Here are some verses we can reflect on: Romans 12:10: “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above      yourselves.” Proverbs 17:17: “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.” Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy, and enjoy the conversation! Join the community: Be a part of the Bloomers Community: @bloomerscommunity on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyabukuru on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f  #KeepOnBlooming

Back again with an inspiring episode of Conversations that Bloom! Life throws many different challenges our way. These experiences can become part of who we are and change how we see ourselves and life in general. In today’s episode, backed by the Word of God, we reflect on what our outlook on life’s challenges should be. We remind ourselves that life's challenges are opportunities for growth, and by embracing hope, patience, and faith, we can overcome them. Here’s what to expect on today’s episode: 1.       Reflect on what you are grateful for.  2.       How can we depend on God and His word when the challenges of life are thrown at us? 3.       How do we wrestle the principalities of the world? 4.       Questions to ask yourself in order to align yourself with the word of God.  5.   Romans 12:11-13-  Our guide on how to be joyful in hope, patient in affliction and faithful in Prayer 6.       Psalm 23 – a reminder of who our master is. Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy, and enjoy the conversation! Join the community: Be a part of the Bloomers Community: @bloomerscommunity on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyabukuru on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f  Join the WhatsApp Group: Whatsapp Group Chat #KeepOnBlooming

Welcome back to conversations that bloom! I’m so thrilled to be back and with a special episode dedicated to catching you up on what's been happening in my life since our last episode. It's been a while since we last connected, and I have some exciting news and updates to share with you. Here’s what you can expect from our conversation today: 1.  The remaining episodes of season two will be released biweekly. 2.  What is the vision of the podcast? 3.  Took a break to rest and settle into my new life as a wife. 4.  Update on Yellow Ray. 5.  Activities happening in the Bloomers community. Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy, and enjoy the conversation! Join the community: Be a part of the Bloomers Community: @bloomerscommunity on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyabukuru on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f  Join the WhatsApp Group: Whatsapp Group Chat #KeepOnBlooming

I had the pleasure of catching up with the new author herself Jane Mazimba! She’s one of my good friends and has released her new book “Catching F.I.R.E.” I am thrilled to be having this conversation because I have been part of her journey. She has shared very valuable advice about finances with me and so many others in her community. Today’s conversation will leave you inspired and excited to go after your own dreams! Ice breaker: What’s one thing you are grateful for each decade of your life? Here’s what you can expect from our conversation today: The back story of Jayne’s Finance Journey The vision and the heart behind the book. Catching F.I.R.E “ Financial Independence Retire Early” is the book & The Ted Talk was about F.I.R.E - why is it important? How do we start implementing F.I.R.E. in our finances? What does the future look like for Jayne? Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy, and enjoy the conversation! Follow Jayne on socials: @Jaynemazimba Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com

Hey family! I hope the new month is off to a great start. This year I will be having conversations with different women that are doing phenomenal things in the Kingdom of God. Today’s episode is extra special for me because I had the honor of sitting with my lovely, powerful, and anointed Pastor Kgomotso. She’s not only my pastor but also a spiritual mentor to so many daughters.  I am so thrilled to be having this conversation this year and I believe it will change your life. Ps K alongside Ps Sean are the lead pastors of Kingdomcity Zambia, they are incredible parents to 3 kinglets: Josiah, Jordan, and Judah. She alongside her beautiful family has had such a phenomenal impact on me and many that call Kingdomcity Zambia home. Her influence is tangible, personal, and Holy Spirit-led. Today's conversation will leave you stirred, centered, and ready to conquer the year ahead. Here’s what you can expect from our conversation today: How did Kgomosto become Pastor K? What does it mean to be a Daughter? The power and gift of a grace-driven life. How to run to God and not the world. What’s one thing you wish you knew early in your walk with Christ? Practical steps in allowing God to lead your life. Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy, and enjoy the conversation! Follow Pastor K on Instagram: https://instagram.com/kgomotsoking5?igshid=YWJhMjlhZTc= Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com

Ladies and gentlemen! I am so so excited to be back again with a new conversation that has been long overdue with my lovely friend Esther. We get real and talk about singleness, why it’s important to listen to God’s voice in all areas of your life, and especially when you are ready to get married. A God-designed love story requires us to all acknowledge where we are at with God, how we view relationships, and why we want to be in a relationship in the first place. When we do this, we allow God to do what He does best and we get to enjoy His will coming to pass in our lives without us trying to be in control. Here’s what you can expect from our conversation today: Living as a single God-fearing woman and what that REALLY feels like. The questions we ask God when we are waiting. Staying focused on the vision of your life. Trusting God through it all. How do I know the person I am with is aligned with my purpose? Grab your beverage of choice, get comfy and enjoy the conversation! Follow Esther on socials: @itsestherchungu Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com

Do you know your real enemy? Are you fighting a battle that isn’t yours? How do we receive strategies to fight the things that feel like they are about to take us out? The word of God has all the answers we need. Today’s episode is really special for me because I’ve had to take a good look at my own battles, and how I tend to rely on my own strength when things get hard. But recently I’ve been receiving such powerful revelations from the Holy Spirit on how to fight from the position of victory and what this looks like. God wants us to always remember that He fights our battles for us, and all we have to do is trust in His ways, His word, and His love for us. I am confident that today’s conversation will bless you as much as it did me!  “For we[a] are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.” Ephesians 6:12 Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

Hello once again! Let’s get started with a quick life update, and reflect. Our episode today is all about grace and failure. Our hope is that you ask yourself this questions “What is my relationship with failure and how do I show myself grace if any?” Giving ourselves grace is easier said than done. We beat ourselves up for mistakes and things that are out of our control. It may be a cliche catchphrase, but it's one we should start taking to heart -- the times when you need grace most are the times when you're least likely to give it to yourself. What you should expect Know how to strive for realness, not perfection Importance of permitting yourself to not do or be everything Why your me-time should be a priority not an option Keeping our eyes on Jesus, always Questions to answer How do you self-regulate? How do you spend your me-time? What things do you cut off to be sane? Who in your life constantly reminds you to show yourself grace when you forget? Do you spend time journaling your emotions and feelings?

Hey friends and family! I am super excited to be back again with another season filled with faith conversations. This season is jam-packed with fire content, and amazing guests, and our focus is on Jesus! My number one prayer is that you experience the joy of going on the journey of getting true healing in every area of your life.  Enjoy this intro and stay tuned for more episodes dropping every Monday morning. Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

It's the final episode of the first season and I am beyond grateful for everything! This is a special show because I got to do an Instagram Live and record the podcast at the same time. My heart is full and I owe it all to God. Press play and enjoy the vibes. Here’s what you can expect; What gratitude is/is not What I am grateful for Why gratitude is so important Lessons learnt in 2021 A special annoucement!  Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

Building a brand that’s authentic and that you love could be the difference between having a successful business and one that’s not. Why? Because having a brand that’s authentic means being more in tune with who you are and where your passions lie as well as meeting the needs of your community. Here’s what you can expect; Define your passions and purpose Identify and understand your community How to communicate your key message strategically How to be unique and stand out Follow Sekayi Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sekayitigere/?hl=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/sekayitigere YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCH0s9TqZtN3EE1t8-oH4FOQ Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

Have you ever found yourself running on empty? Feeling like you are pouring out and not being filled yourself? If your answers were yes to these questions then sis, that’s an evident sign you need to assess how much time you’ve been spending with Jesus and how much focus you’ve been placing on what you can control. Listen, your own strength can only go so far and when you burn out, that's a sign you need more Jesus. More Jesus will give you more freedom. You need more Jesus every day; every minute and every second. Isaiah 26:3 - You will keep the mind that is dependent on You in perfect peace, for it is trusting in You. John 15:4 - Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. Here’s what you to expect; How Jesus knows and holds our lives Letting Jesus in on everything we do Staying connected to the vine in all seasons How to operate from a place of obedience How to have honest conversations with Jesus on where you’re at right now Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

Money is a touchy topic, for a lot of women, for a lot of reasons. If I am being honest with myself, money has always been a distant relative that I am only getting acquainted with and finally understanding why they matter in my life. And so, Money and I are currently working on building a healthy, transparent, and fun relationship. Instead of me avoiding the subject of money, I am facing it with everything I’ve got to make sure I pass on a healthy mindset to others and my kids (Yes I want kids but that's a whole conversation for another day). This is going to be a fun episode because get to answer some of the questions you shared with me on Instagram.  Here’s what you can expect; How I used to view money conversations/money in general What I do to maintain a healthy money mindset The hardest lesson I have learned about money this year How I have managed my money mindset as an entrepreneur   Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com

Waiting on God is never fun, but it’s filled with so much potential for us to test ourselves and see how grown and mature we really are. Waiting is part of the journey, and while we wait on God, He is working for us -- My talented friend Shekinah shares her wisdom and perspective on living in the waiting season. Follow Shekinah Facebook page: https://web.facebook.com/TheKingcess  Instagram page: https://www.instagram.com/the_kingcess/  Listen to her latest song Season Changes:https://audiomack.com/mskinahm/song/season-changer    Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

As the saying goes, the only constant thing in life is change. In this week's episode my guest and get into why change is so hard to embrace, how change should be embraced and what we need to do often to understand that principle of adapting to change. Here’s what you can expect: Luwi’s perspective on change What life has taught us about change Change + sacrifice Advice on how to embrace change Follow Luwi Her personal page: https://www.instagram.com/luwikpp/ Itala Designs: https://www.instagram.com/italadesigns/ Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

The beauty of innovation lies in our ability to continuously be open to change and adapt, but what happens when we don’t know where to start? In today’s episode, Mel and I share our experiences with innovation on a personal and professional level and how we have approached what it means to be an innovative thinker and future builder! Here’s what you can expect: Melissa’s story and how she found her love for innovation What innovation looks like in the African context How to develop a future-focused mindset Why your tribe impacts your ability to innovate and grow Follow Melissa Her personal page: https://twitter.com/melmbugua Africa Podfest: https://twitter.com/africapodfest Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

7. The 33% Rule: How Your Network Impacts Your Growth The 33% rule states that 33% of your time should be spent with mentors (people that challenge you), 33% with your peers (those on the same level as you), and 33% with people that you can mentor and guide. The idea was created by Tai Lopez, a TED speaker and creator of some famously annoying YouTube videos in which he shows off his incredible wealth. I don’t normally take advice from Lamborghini drivers, but in this case, I think Lopez may be on to something. I'm a firm believer in your network is your net worth, and this rule has been at work in my life without me even realizing it. It has helped me bear so many fruits and I thought, why not share this with you? Here’s what you can expect: How the 33% rule has helped me in my everyday interactions Why do you need to start assessing your circle of friends and network How to build healthier relationships with people you respect and honor Should you invest in mentorship? Five things you can try to implement the 33% rule. Ask yourself the hard questions about the people you surround yourself with Write down your values and pray over them - ask God to bring the right people your way Create space for God to bless you. Whatever that looks like for you eg: spend more time in prayer, ask people you trust for advice Write down a few things you want to achieve and think of the people you will need to help you get there. This will help you assess the type of character you want around you Pray. Pray! Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Sign up for the Professional Bragging Waiting List: https://www.bloomerscommunity.com/whktpt2fvm Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

In a world that glorifies business and celebrates “the hustle”, slowing down and resting is a form of rebellion against what society deems as important. This act of slowing down allows us to create space for the Holy Spirit to meet us where we are at. Whatever that looks like for you, good or bad. The point is you are allowing God to meet you as you are without you ‘cleaning up’ before you invite Him in and surrender your will to always be busy. This act of rebellion is something ambitious women like myself and my guest today are on a quest to perfect. Here’s what you can expect: Godly rest vs worldly rest What has God been revealing and teaching us about rest The process of taming your inner busy bee Advice for ambitious women that need to embrace resting Follow Sampa Her personal page: https://www.instagram.com/sampa_x/ Rubi Trii: https://www.instagram.com/rubi.trii/ Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

The modern Christian lifestyle + society have placed a huge stamp of importance on serving, but you have to stop and ask yourself this question: Am I living true to myself or am I striving to please others? We are busy with programs, we are busy keeping up with our to-do lists and we are so busy with the idea of church that & if we are not careful we’ll find ourselves living through a Christian mask. In my conversation with Rudi today, a licensed Christian therapist, we dive into the reason what the Christian mask looks like today, why so many of us wear one or have worn one, and how to take deliberate steps to live an authentic and free life. Here’s what you can expect: Identity in Christ Comparing your journey to Christ with others Insecurities & self-doubt Knowing God for yourself Check out Rudi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rudi_maria_/ By Grace Counseling: http://bygracecounselingllc.com/ Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

It’s no easy task keeping another human being alive and thriving. Society doesn’t help make this task any less challenging for ambitious young women. With hurdles starting from how we are brought up to think, to communities placing unrealistic standards on women and young mothers. Yet many millennial moms are defying the odds and changing the narrative that is told about what it means to be a thriving mom and boss babe. Here’s what we you can expect: How our upbringing influences motherhood God's grace for the unconventional mom Making time to run business and baby Lessons learnt Importance of community when raising a child Pros and cons of motherhood The beauty of children Check our braidsbyvuyo on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/braidsbyvuyo/ Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming

When it comes to porn, we tend to be gender-biased. Porn has been the elephant in the room that women refuse to address or fully embrace. In today’s episode, my guest Edna and I will have a very real conversation about what we compromise about entertaining porn and what the journey towards freedom looks like. Here’s what you can expect: Why do some women watch porn? What challenges do women face when it comes to overcoming a porn addiction? What Jesus says about porn Why accountability matters Resource mentioned: Women’s Experiences of Pornography: A Systematic Review of Research Using Qualitative Methods: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2017.136433 If you are struggling with porn, here are some helpful resources: The Compromise of Pornography // How to Quit Porn: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ewJ2ek5qj50 Your Porn Battle Plan - Warrior: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UEBKwpmKoG0 Join the community: Follow Bloomers: @wearebloomers on all platforms Follow The Host: @beliyandhlovu on all platforms Subscribe to our newsletter here: http://eepurl.com/hao28f Yellow Ray Digital Agency: www.yellowraydigital.com #KeepOnBlooming