On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠ shares four key pathways to finding your God-given purpose and how it can change your life. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out ⁠⁠⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠⁠⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠@raydelanuez.⁠⁠⁠ Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠⁠⁠T⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠⁠⁠. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠ shares seven of the most powerful rules he's learned as a Marine Corps Officer to forge unstoppable self-discipline. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠⁠⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠⁠⁠ Check out ⁠⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠⁠@raydelanuez.⁠⁠ Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠⁠T⁠⁠⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠⁠. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠ is joined by Allan Draper. Allan is a serial entrepreneur whose owned over 28 businesses and counting. He specializes in scaling small businesses and helping entrepreneurs transform an idea into a thriving business. Allan is also the host of the Business Growth Pod designed specifically to help those wanting to start and grow a business. Check out ⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠ Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠@raydelanuez.⁠ Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠T⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, ⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠ shares 12 lessons he's learned over 12 years of service in the United States Marine Corps. Check out ⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠ Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram ⁠@raydelanuez.⁠ Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to ⁠T⁠⁠heBecomingMen.com/Partner⁠. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Carl Thomas. Carl and Ray focus on defining shame, exploring how it sustains unhealthy sexual habits, and identifying the steps necessary to break free from it. They also discuss the impact of genuine community in managing shame effectively.  Carl's organization provides resources, including the Live Free Community app, for men seeking freedom from undesired sexual behaviors. Additionally, Live Free Wives provides a supportive environment for spouses healing from betrayal. Carl has recently authored a book titled "When Shame Gets Real: A New Way to Talk About Sex, Porn, and Masturbation." Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by  Remi Adeleke.  Remi was born in Western Africa, but following the death of his father, he, his mother, and his brother relocated permanently to the Bronx in New York City. After years of making regrettable decisions, Remi joined the Navy in 2002 and later became a Navy SEAL.  As a SEAL he saw multiple combat deployments alongside some of the world's most elite men. Ending his successful naval career in 2016, he was led to pursue a career in speaking and acting.  Since then, Remi has played roles in Transformers, 6 Underground, Plane, Ambulance, and Special Forces: World's Toughest Tests. He has also written and directed multiple award-winning short films.  Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Find out what ALL Christian men need to know about the 2023 Asbury Revival. See what it means for you as a Christian, and learn how to discern with wisdom. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez begins a brand new series on the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Morgan Snyder. Morgan Snyder is an author, speaker, and fellow podcaster who serves on the executive leadership team at Wild at Heart. Morgan has contended for the wholeheartedness of men and women alongside John and Stasi Eldredge for more than two decades. He has led over a decade of Become Good Soil Intensives and sold-out Wild at Heart men’s events across the United States, United Kingdom, South Africa, and Australia. His passion is to both be shaped by and shape the men and women who are shaping the kingdom of God. He certainly has shaped much of what you have heard here on the last 98 episodes of the Becoming Men Podcast! In 2010, he established BecomeGoodSoil, a fellowship of leaders whose global reach offers guidance for the narrow road of becoming the kind of person to whom God can confidently entrust the care of his kingdom. Join the Becoming a King Experience for FREE! Tune in to the Become Good Soil Podcast! Check out Morgan's AMAZING Book, Becoming A King. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Brian Barcelona. Brian is an author, speaker, evangelist, and the founder of One Voice Student Missions and The Jesus Clubs. Through these ministries, Brian and his team have reached hundreds of millions of people around the world with the truth of the Gospel. Today Brian and Ray sit down to talk about the importance of spiritual fathers, discipleship and what evangelism looks like in a digital age. Brian's Instagram Brian's TikTok Brian's Facebook Brian's Youtube Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Justin Camp. Justin co-founded Gather Ministries with his wife, Jennifer, and created the WiRE for Men devotional. His passion is to encourage and equip men to pursue God more earnestly and to enjoy more of His goodness and love. Justin is writing The WiRE Series for Men—a set of books for the publisher David C Cook. His many articles and books have been featured and seen on Charisma, Moody Radio, Focus on the Family, GOD TV, The Christian Post, Crosswalk, LifeWay Men, Outreach Magazine, CBN, and other media outlets. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Don Manning. Don is a podcaster and business owner/investor, CFO of a real estate company, and serves on the elder board of Valley Creek Church, a church he and Suzanne helped start over 30 years ago. Don and his wife have an awesome podcast called Crazy Cool Family that is dedicated to showing parents how to create amazing families by building their lives around Jesus and helping their kids to do the same.  Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this BONUS episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is interviewed by Nathan Spearing on The Life On Target Podcast. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Matt Beaudreau Matt is a world-renowned keynote speaker, speaking to over 250,000 people across the globe with clients ranging from Lockheed Martin and the United States Air Force to Caterpillar and Honeywell. He is the founder of Acton Academy, the co-founder of Apogee Strong and the host of the Essential 11 Podcast. Matt is a former public educator, administrator and professor at Stanford University who has made it his life’s mission to find alternative and powerful education opportunities for our young men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Chase Replogle Chase is the founding pastor of Bent Oak Church, a writer, & podcaster. He is also the author of The 5 Masculine Instincts. His work draws from history, psychology, literature, and a rich narrative approach to Scripture to help readers think more deeply about faith and life. His work has been featured on Good Morning American, Christianity Today, The Gospel Coalition, Ekstasis, Bible Engagement Project, and Influence Magazine. In addition, he hosts the Pastor Writer Podcast, where he interviews Christian authors on writing and publishing. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Ben Bennett Ben is an author, podcast host, speaker, and serves with Josh McDowell Ministry as the Director of Resolution Movement–a global movement helping people overcome hurts and struggles and thrive in life. For the past 11 years, he has partnered with world-renowned therapists and ministry leaders, helping individuals young and old understand and work through the underlying factors driving the unhealthy patterns in their lives. He and Josh McDowell recently co-authored the book Free To Thrive: How Your Hurt, Struggles, And Deepest Longings Can Lead To A Fulfilling Life. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Matt Schneider Tune in as they discuss the impact of the Modern Day Knight Project and every man's continual need to face the daily crucible of life, shatter self-doubt, gain clarity and heal from trauma. Matt Schneider is the Executive Vice-President & equity owner of a global software (SaaS) company with a target valuation of over $150M. He is also the co-founder of The MDK Project (A leadership development program helping men from all over the world) and The Squire Program (a young men’s and father/son development program). Prior to becoming a successful entrepreneur, Matt spent 7 years in Special Operations on SWAT and was a TFO on the United States Marshal’s Office Fugitive Team. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Fred Grewe Tune in as they discuss what the dying can teach us about living like the men God created us to be. Fred Grewe is a Board Certified Chaplain (Association of Professional Chaplains) with a Doctor of Ministry degree from the Pacific School of Religion in Berkeley and is an ordained Congregationalist minister working for Providence Hospice in Medford, Oregon.  His interest in working with the dying began in the early 1990’s with the death of his best friend who succumbed to AIDS. Fred is a mystery – even to himself.  He is a middle-aged, bald, white man who believes God loves him very much and the power of this belief has helped transform a frightened, angry, little man into a more loving and considerate human being. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Dr. Don Wilton Listen in as they discuss what it takes to become the sort of man that can change the lives of hundreds of millions of people around the world. Dr. Don Wilton is an internationally known pastor, speaker, and author. Our conversation today is based on his most recent book, Saturday's with Billy, where he writes about his deep friendship with Dr. Billy Graham and reveals the invincible character of the man who preached the Gospel to more people in live audiences than anyone else in history. Dr. Billy Graham was a well-known public figure, but today Dr. Wilton shares some intimate and impactful stories from over 15 years of spending his Saturdays with Billy Graham. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Blaine Eldredge Blaine is a fellow podcast and a writer with a deep and passionate desire to see people thrive. He's the co-founder of the And Sons Magazine as well as the And Sons Podcast which has over 1,000,000 downloads and continues to impact the lives of young men around the world. Today, he's the co-host of the Mount Vigil Podcast, a platform to help men and women interpret the movements of the story of God and discover how to enter into a deep and alert experience of Jesus in this significant time. Because we really are living in some interesting times. Think about it: the rise of the pagan, the growing divide in the Church along political lines, ALL things COVID, the polarization of left/right political sides, the infusion of Marxian ideologies in all societal institutions (and even the Church), transhumanism, and, oh, don't forget the pending storm in the horizon between major countries capable of starting WWIII. Today, Blaine and I sit down and talk about how you can best partner with Jesus to navigate these crazy times. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Dillon Bowles D-Bo is the host of the Young Married Christian Podcast and on an epic mission to end one of the largest and underrepresented crises in America; fatherlessness. D-Bo sits down with top christian influencers to discuss parenting and marriage, but also to help raise awareness of the simple facts: There are 400,000 foster children in the American system, and there are 400,000 churches in America. You do the math! Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Enjoy this conversation between Ray De La Nuez and Sathiya Sam on the Unleash The Man Within Podcast. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Tom Crandall Tom is a pastor, author, the overseer of Evangelism and the Director of Young Saints at Bethel Church in Redding, CA. He and his wife Leslie have served together in full-time ministry for over eighteen years, ten of which have been at Bethel. Tom has given his life to see a generation encounter God, step into freedom, discover their identity, and send them out as revivalists to impact their world with the Gospel. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Adam Griffin. Adam is an all-star husband, father to three boys, and the lead pastor at Eastside Community Church in Dallas, TX. He is also one of the authors behind the book Family Discipleship. Today, Adam and Ray talk about how you can begin to effectively disciple your family to become lovers and friends of Jesus so that you can lead you and yours into a meaningful and rich legacy founded on the rock. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode, Ray De La Nuez shares some of the tips and strategies that the world's most successful men continue to apply on a daily basis so that you can begin achieving the goals you've set for yourself this year. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Kyle Thompson Kyle is the founder of Undaunted Life, an organization equipping men to push back darkness. He's also the host of the Undaunted Life Podcast which produces content specifically designed for the rugged Christian looking for ways to improve as a man. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Have you ever struggled with sexual lust or pornography? Maybe you've even tried to walk away from it altogether and change your habits. But no matter what you tried or did, it was like you were stuck in a repetitive cycle. Then you felt the overwhelming shame of messing up and the frustration of wanting to do good but not being able to control the thoughts or temptations. This conversation with Justin Khoe is for you. Make sure that you check out everything that Justin is on YouTube and get connected with him on Instagram @jkhoe. You can also find him on Twitter and Facebook. Finally, connect with this ministry on Instagram @becoming.men and get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Troy Mangum Troy is a speaker, the author of Fatherhood Faceplants, and the host of The Kindling Fire podcast. He believes that fathers pass down who they are more than what they know. Fearful dads raise anxious children. Bold dads raise bold kids. Today, we'll be talking about fatherhood faceplants so that you can learn How to consistently get back up and be the dad your kids need! Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Make sure you connect with me on Instagram @raydelanuez. Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Shelby Abbott! He is a author, speaker and podcast host with an incredible gift for writing and communicating with young adults. Shelby has traveled the United States visiting churches and campuses with the ministry Cru and impacting a generation of young believers. From this conversation, you will learn that Shelby is not afraid of the hard questions, but rather, he methodically faces and tackles them in meaningful and relevant terms. Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by David Murrow! He is the author of the book Why Men Hate Going to Church. David and Ray talk about the great disparity that exists in the sex ratio of today's Christian churches and what most churches are doing wrong. The stakes are high and churches need to figure it out how to reach, motivate and impact millennial men who are leaving the church at a faster rate then ever before.  David is the director of Church for Men, an organization dedicated to restoring a healthy, life-giving masculine spirit in Christian. He currently works as a television producer and writer.  Want to meet with me One-on-One on a FREE coaching call. Click here to book our Zoom Call! Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to TheBecomingMen.com/Partner. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by Dan Hyun. Dan is the author of The Bible in 52 Weeks for Men; Small Group Workbook. In 2008, Dan was privileged to lead a team to start The Village Church in Baltimore, MD with dreams of making God famous through justice, mission, and reconciliation. Dan’s vision is to empower others to serve God with all they have. He serves as a missionary, pastor, professor, and writer and is frequently invited to speak on a wide variety of issues including justice, mission, reconciliation, and leadership. God led Dan to help start and lead the Ethnos Conference to catalyze the Church in conversations about justice, reconciliation, and mission. If you're considering becoming a financial supporter of this podcast, head to TheBecomingMen.com! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In all of my coaching, I've come to realize that the thing most men are missing is not a thing at all. It's a person. Men who are trying to become the men they were created to be, but who feel lost and alone in the process would do well to find an older man to come along and put his arm around you and tell you, "you’re not alone," Now, if after reading all of that you realize you need an older man to come along and put his arm around me and say, " you’re not alone," then I highly encourage you to not waste anytime; get your phone out right now and invite that man out to a cup of coffee. But, if you are like me, and you didn't have someone in your life that could do that for you, then I would be honored to invite you on a completely free coaching call with me. Can't wait to hear from you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by UFC Lightweight Fighter Joe Solecki Joe and Ray discuss how victories and defeats shape and mold men to become who they were created to be and achieve their lifelong dreams. Joe breaks down his thoughts on real manhood and how fighting has shaped him to be the authentic, humble and confident Christian man he is today.  They also discuss the importance of a man finding his breaking points, preparing for warm and being intentional about putting his best self forward to win on and off the mat. If you're considering becoming a financial supporter of this podcast, head to TheBecomingMen.com! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by...  Joseph Warren! Joseph started a $2M/yr business at age 19 and then semi-retired for 5 years. After blowing through all his money and almost being murdered TWICE, he suffered severe depression and considered ending his life. But then something extraordinary happened... God pulled him out of his dark twisted worship of pleasure, money and success to show him his true Identity and Higher Purpose. Now Joseph is the host of 2 podcasts Broken Catholic and Your FIRST $100K, with listeners in 85+ countries! He encourages Christians to Build FAITH & PROFITS Into Their Business™  because he believes that real success is about more than just money. Joseph also offers Spiritual Coaching to successful Christian Business Owners and helps them Win in Business AND in Life! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In today's episode, Ray De La Nuez shares the spark notes from a conversation he had with a Marine Corps General and reveals three tips that all men can benefit from right now! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

On this episode, you will hear Ray De La Nuez be interviewed by author, speaker and host of the Becoming Kings Podcast, Johnny King. Here's the description from Johnny King himself: What is one thing you hold onto every day? If all else fails, what can you cling to that serves as your beacon to follow? Many of us call this our “why.” With the shifting paradigm of masculinity, men need direction and something valuable they can uphold on a daily basis. ⁣ ⁣ This week’s guest, Ray De La Nuez, @raydelanuez calls this “Commander’s Intent.” An active duty Marine Corps Officer, Ray has spent over a decade assessing combat situations on the ground helping his fellow marines understand Commander’s Intent. His guiding principle? At the end of the day, what absolutely needs to happen and how can that be achieved? Through his lived experience, he has identified Commander’s Intent as the first step to establishing the ground rules for a mission, your life, or any other situation that may occur. ⁣ ⁣ All of this wasn’t so clear for Ray. Despite having a successful marriage, career, and family life, Ray still couldn’t grapple with his complicated relationship with his father and childhood. An immigrant from the Dominican Republic, Ray was left searching for answers as to why he still felt unfulfilled. It was only when he identified his own Commander’s Intent that he began to feel more confident and able to move forward. ⁣ ⁣ On this episode of Becoming Kings, we explore how Ray’s experiences in the Marine Corps have shaped who he is today, how grit plays a role in every part of our lives, and how we can all identify our “why.”⁣ Schedule your FREE 1:1 Coaching Call HERE! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Earlier this year you made a promise to yourself. Maybe it was a half-ass promise, but you made it nonetheless. You told yourself you would do something different this year. Remembering yet? You committed to building healthy habits and breaking destructive old ones. You said 2021 was going to be your year. But something happened, didn't it? Let me ask you this: Are you proud of who you've become so far? Or, after these last 10 months (yes, it's been that long) do you find yourself defeated in your efforts to change? Listen bro, foolishness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. If you find yourself dissatisfied with the lack of change in your life then it's time to do something different. Notice I didn't ask you anything about your specific goal to run more, read more, workout more, drink less, curse less etc. I asked you a more important question. Who are you becoming? We are human beings, not human doings. You're not a machine that can be programed and left to do it's task. Your a thinking, breathing, emotional, irrational and at sometimes rational human (I said that correctly). If you truly want to see change in your life this year then you need to focus on becoming the type of man that can accomplish the things you want to achieve. A lazy man doesn't wake up one day and say he's going to run 3 times a week, but a runner does. An undisciplined man doesn't read 12 books a year, but a reader does. If you want to live the life that you've envisioned for yourself this year then you have to be more intentional about who you are becoming TODAY. It just so happens that the best way to do that is to bring others to come alongside of you. So let's bridge the gap between where you are now and where you want to be by the end of 2021. Get a FREE one-hour coaching session with me by clicking HERE! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Do you feel like you’re capable of doing and being so much more, but you can’t break out of the rut? Are you struggling physically, emotionally, and financially and wondering, is this it? Is this all there is to life? Most of us are just surviving, trying to get through the day. We want to leave a legacy behind, but we don’t know where to begin. This changes today. Today, Ray De La Nuez sits down with Larry Hagner. Larry is the founder of The Dad Edge and host of the Dad Edge podcast with a mission to empower men to live and lead legendary lives. The Dad Edge empowers men, like you, to create legendary marriages, create epic connections with your kids, master your personal finances, optimize your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health and become a leader within your family. Enjoy this legendary conversation with Larry Hagner. Connect with me @raydelanuez and with @thedadedge on Instagram. Schedule your FREE coaching call today. Consider leaving me a rating on iTunes. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Here's the # 1 tip for guys striving to become more confident & disciplined 👇⁣ ⁣ I'll get straight to the point since I know you clicked the "More" button because this matters to you.⁣ ⁣ First, DISCLAIMER: ⁣ ⁣ Results will vary in direct proportion to the level of YOUR desire to stop feeling like you're an inadequate and unreliable man. ⁣ Okay, now that we got that out of the way, I want to tell you this simple principle that I've applied in my own life over the last decade, & that military Generals have attested to intentionally applying in their lives.⁣ ⁣ You ready?⁣ ⁣ In order to become a more confident and disciplined person, & to be known by others as someone who is self-reliant and dependable you MUST surround yourself with the people who CHALLENGE you to be better.⁣ ⁣ Sounds simple enough, right?⁣ ⁣ Then why aren't all men doing it? And you might say, "well, I am!"⁣ ⁣ But bro, are you really? Are you really being purposeful about surrounding yourself with people BECAUSE they challenge you? ⁣ ⁣ Or, are you stuck in the default mode of surrounding yourself with people just like you?⁣ ⁣ Because if you are going to tell me that you have been surrounding yourself with people who are truly challenging you, but you're still dealing with feelings of incompetence & inadequacy, then I am forced to question the intentionality of those relationships or the integrity of those people. ⁣ I'm also forced to remind you of that old adage that says "you become like the people you surround yourself with.⁣" ⁣ Right about now you should be asking yourself, "who in my phone book can I actually count on being there to sharpen me?" (You may not have used those exact words, but it's all the same)⁣ ⁣ Bro, for the sake of your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual health, I sincerely pray that you have at least ONE person that you can reach out to right now.⁣ ⁣ But in case you don't, I would hate to leave you so exposed without also offering an opportunity to connect with a genuine community of like-minded Christian men. We meet virtually to help forge, sharpen and shape each other into the image of the men God intended them to be.⁣ Learn more at TheBecomingMen.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Enjoy this conversation between Ray De La Nuez and Steven Murphy from the Nook Podcast. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

This week, Ray De La Nuez unpacks some of the best nuggets of wisdom and advice recorded here on the Becoming Men Podcast. You will hear from guest like Gary Thomas, Ryan Michler, Dr. Joe Martin, Dr. Billy Alsbrooks and more. Jeremiah 6:16 says: “Stop at the crossroads and look around. Ask for the old, godly way, and walk in it. Travel its path, and you will find rest for your souls."  We are looking and asking for the old, godly way so that you can better walk in it! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

This is a debrief of episode 041 with Ken Williams. In that episode, I sat down with Ken Williams to talk about his masculine journey as he overcame homosexuality and porn addiction. In our conversation, Ken talks openly about how he struggled for decades with the shame and confusion of same-sex attraction. He describes his fight against depression and suicide before finally seeking help and getting on a path where he would eventually encounter God and His transformative power. Today, he consults with those who struggle with sexual brokenness and help them journey with God to find wholeness & freedom. You can connect with Ken Williams Ministries to learn more about his story and his work. Also, check out Equipped to Love and Changed Movement for more helpful resources and testimonies. You can also get to know me personally at @raydelanuez and don't forget to follow this podcast on Instagram @becoming.men. By the way, I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a copy or screenshot of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Becoming Men is a community of guys like you becoming the men who God created them to be.  This non-profit sprung from conversations with men from all walks of life as they described their greatest struggles. I noticed a pattern evolve as I heard things like, "I just want to become a better man" and "I really want to become the father my kids need me to be." I heard the same longings to become better men in areas of faith, finance, health and business.  Honestly, I was just grateful that I wasn't alone! I felt hopeful knowing that I wasn't the only one that felt like I had a ways to go. We are all on a journey of becoming. The problem is that without direction we usually end up becoming someone who we don't want to be. That's why Becoming Men is carving out a road map for the masculine journey. We do not offer exact directions because no two journeys are ever the same. We simply want to show you which paths have worked for us and which ones haven't. We want to encourage and empower you on your journey of becoming. The Becoming Men Podcast is your go-to guide for that journey! Get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. HEY! I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a copy or screenshot of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Is it safe to say that the first thing you did after waking up this morning was to check your phone? Let's just be honest here; we are on our phones much more than we would like to admit! And though we know it, and even feel it, we often do little about it. I sat down with Nathan Sutherland from Flint and Iron to dialogue about our tech use and how we, as Christian men, can approach the dilemma of keeping God first while engaging with all the technology we are surrounded by.  Nathan is the host of the Gospel Tech Podcast. You can connect with him on Instagram @flintandiron! You can also connect with our ministry on Instagram @madetoreign and get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. HEY! I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a copy or screenshot of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Connect with our this ministry on Instagram @madetoreign and get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. HEY! I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a copy or screenshot of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

This is part two of my conversation with Dr. Billy Alsbrooks. World Influencer Dr. Billy Alsbrooks, Jr. is a former Billboard recording artist, songwriter, and hit music producer who became a born again Christian in 2008. Since graduating from FCU, with a major in Bible Ministry, Billy has become a powerful and passionate motivational speaker, top selling author, thought surgeon, and success engineer. His viral inspirational videos have currently been viewed more than 25 MILLION times on Youtube. I just happened to catch him right in the middle of a tour to unpack his vision to positively impact ONE BILLION souls. Connect with him on Instagram @BillyAlsbrooks1 or on Twitter @BillyAlsbrooks. Connect with our ministry on Instagram @madetoreign and get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. HEY! I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a copy or screenshot of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

World Influencer Dr. Billy Alsbrooks, Jr. is a former Billboard recording artist, songwriter, and hit music producer who became a born again Christian in 2008. Since graduating from FCU, with a major in Bible Ministry, Billy has become a powerful and passionate motivational speaker, top selling author, thought surgeon, and success engineer. His viral inspirational videos have currently been viewed more than 25 MILLION times on Youtube.  I just happened to catch him right in the middle of a tour to unpack his vision to positively impact ONE BILLION souls. Connect with him on Instagram @BillyAlsbrooks1 or on Twitter @BillyAlsbrooks. Connect with our ministry on Instagram @madetoreign and get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. HEY! I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a copy or screenshot of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

I have to be honest with you: I SUCK at dealing with my wife's emotions. In this episode, I dive into it with my buddy Kyle Hughes. We share some thoughts and ideas that might just help you be better at dealing with YOUR wive's emotions than I am at dealing with mine.  Connect with our this ministry on Instagram @madetoreign and get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. HEY! I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a copy or screenshot of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Connect with our this ministry on Instagram @madetoreign and get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. HEY! I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a copy or screenshot of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Here's a recent Man Myth I put out on our Instagram:  "You can look as long as you don't touch." This is what I grew up believing. This is what many of us have been taught. I'm embarrassed to admit this, but someone needs to hear it🤦🏽‍♂️: I had the worst wandering eyes👀. So much so that while on one of my first dates with my current wife, I was caught checking out the waitress. Of course, I denied it!👌 But apparently I didn't even try to hide it. And how could I? I was a young 20-year-old dude in the Marine Corps. I was stationed ON THE BEACH in beautiful Southern California. Plus, every man I ever looked up to told me that I was supposed to check women out. The Truth About This Man-Myth Even looking at a woman with wrong intentions is a barrier to intimacy between us and God. We can't afford to sell out to cheap misrepresentations of the masculine heart. We have been ushered into a heart-to-heart relationship with the Father! It is from that place that we learn our identities as co-heirs with Christ (see Romans 8:17). This is why there is so much emphasis on the INTENT of our hearts. You can read the rest of this blog HERE. Connect with our this ministry on Instagram @madetoreign and get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. HEY! I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a copy or screenshot of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Whether you BELIEVE it or not, does not matter. The fact that you don't FEEL like it's true, does not matter. The ONLY thing that does matter is that JESUS paid the price aide from your feelings and beliefs. He has commissioned you into the ranks as a special forces soldier for the Kingdom of Heaven.  Gentlemen, there is no greater honor than this. In this week's episode, I got to sit down with a General in the Spirit who is leading a charge of men, LIKE YOU, towards their calling and identities in Jesus. Tune in to this awesome conversation with John Clark of Soulcon Ministries and prepare to get suited up for you walk into victory. You can connect with John through Instagram @soulconofficial or join the thousands of men connecting through their Facebook. You can also connect with our ministry on Instagram @madetoreign and get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. HEY! I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a copy or screenshot of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Have you ever struggled with sexual lust or pornography? Maybe you've even tried to walk away from it altogether and change your habits. But no matter what you tried or did, it was like you were stuck in a repetitive cycle. Then you felt the overwhelming shame of messing up and the frustration of wanting to do good but not being able to control the thoughts or temptations. This conversation with Justin Khoe is for you. Make sure that you check out everything that Justin is on YouTube and get connected with him on Instagram @jkhoe. You can also find him on Twitter and Facebook. Finally, connect with our this ministry on Instagram @madetoreign and get to know me personally at @raydelanuez. HEY! I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a copy or screenshot of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering, and encouraging men in their faith. Consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Maybe you're in a new relationship and are wondering (or have wondered) what to do with your ex. Do you still call/text them here and there? Do you cut them off completely? Me and Pastor Nick Griffin talk about this and so much more in this quick bonus episode. Connect with me on Instagram @madetoreign to watch this episode on IGTV and make sure to follow Pastor Nick @nickgriffin and me @raydelanuez. HEY! I am giving away FREE Starbucks gift cards to those who leave a podcast review. REVIEW our podcast HERE. Then email a screenshot or copy of your review to wereigninlife@gmail.com. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organization engaging, empowering and encouraging men in their faith. We would like you to consider becoming a financial supporter of this ministry. Thank you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Amazon Effect SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray FOLLOW me on Instagram REVIEW our podcast HERE SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  BECOME an awesome Patron  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

This is the second part of my conversation with Gary Thomas. If you haven't done so already, head over to episode 026 of the Made To Reign Podcast to listen to the first part. I recently had the amazing opportunity to sit down with author and speaker, Gary Thomas, to dive into some of the topics and ideas from his book, "Sacred Marriage." Not only has this book reached the Million Books Sold list, but it has helped transform innumerable marriages around the globe. I know it helped reshape mine! Make sure that you REVIEW our podcast HERE. Consider giving to this ministry by BECOMING an awesome Patron  OHER SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray FOLLOW me on Instagram SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Email me at wereigninlife@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

"What if God's primary intent for your marriage isn't to make you happy, but Holy? And what if your relationship isn't as much about you and your spouse as it is about you and God?" I recently had the amazing opportunity to sit down with author and speaker, Gary Thomas, to dive into some of the topics and ideas from his book, "Sacred Marriage." Not only has this book reached the Million Books Sold list, but it has helped transform innumerable marriages around the globe. I know it helped reshape mine! Gentlemen, let me just go ahead and tell you now; This book and this conversation could potentially change your marriage! Maybe this is exactly what you needed to hear today.  Make sure that you REVIEW our podcast HERE.  Consider giving to this ministry by BECOMING an awesome Patron  OHER SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray FOLLOW me on Instagram SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  Email me at wereigninlife@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray FOLLOW me on Instagram REVIEW our podcast HERE SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  BECOME an awesome Patron  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Jon Whited is a passionate worshipper of God with an intense calling on his life. He and his wife Kelly are determined to see the world encounter God's life-giving love. They believe everyone is created to be a worshipper of Jesus. Jon and Kelly's desire is to see all people have their own encounters with God. They have recently released their first worship album called The Price He Paid while preparing to move their family to Lyon, France. Jon and Kelly are serving their local churches in St. Petersburg, FL and raising their two boys, Caleb and Cadence You can learn more about the Whited Family Adventure to France and keep up with everything they are doing on Facebook or Instagram! You can also connect with Jon directly through his Facebook AND Instagram. Finally, consider supporting their ministry via Donor Give and see how God moves through your provision. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray FOLLOW me on Instagram REVIEW our podcast HERE SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  BECOME an awesome Patron  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

This week's Q&Ray is devoted to answering a really good question I received via my Instagram story. Here's what it said: How do you build relationships with people you just meet without sharing stuff before you're ready? This is an excellent question that I have had to answer for myself more than 10 times in the last 9 years of being in the military. Constantly moving from one side of the U.S. to the other will do that. In this episode, I break down how critical it is to identify potential relationships and be purposeful about building that friendship with the marble jar analogy. What!? Tune in and see what I mean.  Remember that you can submit your own questions to be featured on a future podcast episode.  SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray FOLLOW me on Instagram REVIEW our podcast HERE SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  BECOME an awesome Patron  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Friends with unshakeable faith are few and far between. So, when you find them, you hold onto them! Jason Burnside is one of those friends for me. He and his wife live a lifestyle that speaks for itself; They don't just talk the talk. Listen in as this mighty man of God shares his story, his struggles and his walk with Jesus. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray FOLLOW me on Instagram REVIEW our podcast HERE SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  BECOME an awesome Patron  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

I fielded some questions from our Instagram followers and brought them here to you. Thank you to @get_lifted0121 @nickgriffin and @dezzy3.0 for your questions. It's always a lot of fun when I get to sit down and thoughtfully go through some of these topics and see where my mindset has changed or remained the same. DM me your own questions on Instagram @madetoreign. I can't wait to hear from you. Enjoy. SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray FOLLOW me on Instagram REVIEW our podcast HERE SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  BECOME an awesome Patron  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

John Eldredge has rocked the lives of men around the world with his epic books and teachings about the masculine soul and the Father heart of God. Aside from being an author, he is also a counselor, teacher, husband and father to three world-changers. He is the founder and director of Ransomed Heart Ministries based out of Colorado Springs, CO and hosts the Ransomed Heart Podcast. Personally, I want to tell you all that my life has been altered by this man and his ministry. I literally have memories of weeping over his book as the Holy Spirit worked on my heart. I can truly say that I am a better friend, son, brother, husband, father and Marine Officer because of God's work through John's ministry. No, I am not sponsored. . . yet! You can connect with them on Instagram @ransomedheart SHOW LINKS: FOLLOW me on Instagram REVIEW our podcast HERE SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  BECOME an awesome Patron  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Psychologist may have tapped into an amazing discovery that points directly to the effect of an intimate relationship with Jesus. Tune in for this quick dose of encouragement.  BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray  SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

"Like most of the young men I know, I want to be self-sufficient. I want to struggle for my own direction and step out in pursuit of my dreams. I want to know it all and never ask for help. This is how most of the guys I know approach young manhood— on their own, never asking for help, wandering through these years, and pretending they are doing better than they really are" (Killing Lions). If any of that resonates with any of you then you have to tune in to this week's episode. where I sit down with Sam Eldredge and Blaine Eldredge. They are brothers based in Colorado working together as the writer/producer/director team that runs And Sons, a platform for guys in their 20s who want to understand their moment and invest in their own soul. CHECK OUT their Killing Lions Series HERE! BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

The turn of a new year often brings new goals, aspirations and motivations. So for the first episode of the new year we are empowering and encouraging you to BECOME the best father, husband, brother, son and friend that you can be. Listen in as author and speaker, Jerrad Lopes of Dad Tired unpacks what it means to not just wear a Jesus Jersey, but to make the plays the get you and your family down field. Grab a coffee, kick up your feet and turn this one up. Then catch up with Jerrad on Instagram @jerradlopes FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Think about it. When you are in a tough situation, when you are tense, when you are stressed, and when pressure is heavily applied in your life; do you react to the situation, or do you respond to it. I got a call the other day that turned into an awesome conversation about what it means to actively respond versus passively react to situations. I wanted to share some of the thoughts from that conversation here and challenge you to look inwardly. Enjoy! BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Ryan Michler is the founder of the Order of Man, an online community of like-minded men with a passion for growing and learning what it means to be a man that protects, provides and presides. I sat down with him to discuss the importance of men engaging in communities and seeking wisdom, guidance, and insight from others. You will be encouraged by what he has to say! Catch up with Ryan on Instagram @orderofman BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

I just wanted to take a couple of minutes to reassure you that you DO NOT have a porn problem. Now, I know that might sound a bit weird from a guy who doesn't even know you right? Trust me, you're going to want to tune in for this one.  SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray HERE SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel HERE  SIGN UP for the Reign In Life Email HERE JOIN our online Life Groups HERE BECOME part of our Inner Circle HERE REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

If I could attribute most of my success as a man, a husband, a father, and a Marine, it would be to this one thing: HAVING MENTORS! But what I see more often than not is that men are too timid, or to ensure to reach out and ask for one. In this podcast, I give you some insight to a conversation I had with Dr. Joe Martin of Real Men Connect. We talk about connection, community, counseling and how to make getting all three much less AWKWARD! Check out THIS YouTube video and see how I applied some of Dr. Joe's tips.  Connect with Dr. Joe on Instagram @realdrjoemartin BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this week's Q&Ray I give some insight on a question we got from a young man. He wanted to know: "How do you make plans in life and make sure that your plans are aligned with God?" To get better insight and conversation, I reach out to Pastor Nick Griffin and get him on the hot seat to answer this question. This episode was fun, informative and packed full with wisdom that will help you reign in life. Enjoy! BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

The Alive in 5 segment of the podcast is designed to do just that: ENCOURAGE and MOTIVATE you about being alive in under five minutes!  In this episode, I invite you into a personal struggle of mine and encourage you to see if you may be experiencing something similar.  SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray HERE SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel HERE  SIGN UP for the Reign In Life Email HERE JOIN our online Life Groups HERE BECOME part of our Inner Circle HERE REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode of the Reign In Life Men's Podcast I sit down with author, speaker, and pastor Jim Ramos. We dive into the difference between a man and a male and define what true manhood looks like. We also talk about Jim's newest book, 'The Man Card,' and reveal some of the critical components of the masculine journey. Sit down, relax and listen in as this warrior in the spirit delivers some of the most powerful truths you will hear this year! ▶ SHOW LINKS: BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode of the Reign In Life Men's Podcast, I sit down with pastor Nick Griffin to discuss a question emailed to us by a young man in his 20's. Tune in to get empowered and encouraged with truth! When you choose to believe in what God says about you, when you choose to believe who you truly are called to be, you will watch the chains of sin fall off form your life. I know I did. BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode of the Reign In Life Men's Podcast I sit down with author, speaker, and pastor Jim Ramos. We dive into the difference between a man and a male and define what true manhood looks like. We also talk about Jim's newest book, 'The Man Card,' and reveal some of the critical components of the masculine journey.  Sit down, relax and listen in as this warrior in the spirit delivers some of the most powerful truths you will hear this year! ▶ SHOW LINKS: BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode I sit down with Mike Sehon who served as a missionary to the nation of Peru for over a decade. Mike guides us through the preparation process that had to take place before he and his family moved to Peru. Tune in to find out exactly how much God could be using the mundane things to prepare you for something in the future. Be empowered. Be encouraged. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Proverbs 18:22 says "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD." Do you see your wife as a blessing from God yet? In this episode of the Reign In Life Men's Podcast, I sit down with Pastor Nick Griffin and discuss just how much his wife had to do with his calling to, and success as, a pastor. Listen in as we talk about the struggles between shame and grace, between lack and abundance. Be empowered. Be encouraged. ▶ SHOW LINKS: BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode, I sit down with Pastor Nick Griffin and get a deep dive into his testimony of how God led him from prison to His presence, and later, to move across the country and pastor His people. Listen in so that you would be empowered with truth and encouraged by his testimony. Nick gives us a brief account of his youth and how he ended up in prison. But God. We find out how the Lord spoke to Nick, and led him out of prison and into His presence. Finally, Nick's passion stirs even more before he faithfully leaves the West coast to become a pastor in Central Florida. ▶ SHOW LINKS: BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

 Are you the type of man that wants to immediately spring to action when the Lord shares something with you?  Brother, I can relate! At times, it's as if I don't even let God finish speaking before i'm out making plans.  In this episode, I sit down with Mike Sehon and discuss the importance of seeking God's timing when He calls us to step out in faith. Mike and his family served as missionaries to Peru for over a decade and offers great insight about gathering men around us in the process of stewarding God's calling. He speaks of his experiences as a man called by God to be a missionary to the nations, but refined and sculpted for the calling at home.  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

In this episode I call all men listening to action. I encourage every man to help me make the Reign In Life movement possible by simply creating content for this ministry, by heading to iReigninlife.com and becoming part of the tribe, and by sharing it with the guys you know.  Below are a few of the links mentioned in the show: JOIN THE REIGN IN LIFE ONLINE TRIBE:  https://www.ireigninlife.com/membership  BECOME A PATRON FOR THIS MOVEMENT:  https://www.patreon.com/Reigninlife  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

Us men get all too comfortable with the convenience of not getting to the root of our issues. We walk around life dismissing the check engine light. We turn up worship music to ignore the loud gongs and clanks. Then we show back up to church hoping to top-off the fluid levels that always seem to be empty. God is more concerned with what's going on inside of you than with your appearances. He doesn't care about you looking good or sounding holy. He doesn't care about you having it all together or saying the Christian thing. God is after your heart! Jesus has come so that your heart would be enlightened. Jesus paid the high price so that you would have a heart to heart relationship with the Most High! It is up to you to decide whether you will present yourself in a manner worthy of Jesus. Only you decide how you will take care of the things under the hood. If you want to see Jesus move in and through your life, I dare you to take a peak underneath the hood of the things that are overwhelming you. I double dare you to invite Holy Spirit to show you what's going on under there. And I triple dare you to get alone with Jesus and ask Him to reveal himself to you in that area.  ▶ SHOW LINKS: BECOME an awesome Patron  FOLLOW on Instagram SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE  REVIEW our podcast via iTunes HERE Continue to march! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support

 Have you ever felt overwhelmed by thoughts and temptations that you knew you didn't want to think about? Then, after feeling defeated, you began to question what you are doing wrong. I'm very aware and very familiar of this cycle. I too went through a season when I was frustrated at the amount of temptations that came from seemingly every angle of life. It felt as if my 'old man' never left and I began to reason; “Maybe I'm doing this wrong!”   I  questioned why I was being tempted and believed that I simply wasn't focusing on God enough. Even worse, I began to equate temptation with sin. I believed that anytime a thought came to my mind or that I was tempted in some way; It was me. I was sinning. I was no good. I was rotten.   If you can relate to that, I want to tell you, that is so far from the truth.  Speaking of Jesus, the apostle Paul says that He, has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.           -Hebrews 4:15  That means that you can be tempted and still not sin. It doesn't mean you’re not good enough. It doesn't mean you are not saved. It doesn't mean that you are far away from God.   On the contrary, the fact that you are being tempted in a certain area is probably because you are walking into a Promise Land. A land that may have been occupied by the enemy before. A land that he may have been wreaking havoc in before, but here you are, showing up with God by your side. He knows that you are an overcomer. Now the only thing he can do is shoot some flaming arrows at you.  Here's what the word says. Ephesians 6:16 says “Take up the shield of faith with which you will be able to extinguish the flaming arrows from the evil one.”     So check this out, I don't want you to miss this. Pay attention: If a flaming arrow passes your shield of faith it doesn't stop there. You see because the next verse, Ephesians 6:17 says that you should “Take up the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.” Now, the word sword in the Greek isn’t actually a sword that you would take up and use both hands with. No, it is the word for “dagger”. It is the type of dagger that the Roman soldiers would carry on them to be able to dig out any arrows that would pierce their armor. What God is actually saying here is that if by chance, any flaming arrows, any lies from the enemy, passes through your faith and actually pierces you, you still have the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. You still have your dagger to be able to dig that flaming arrow out. So you flip to the word of God and you find the promises that He’s speaking to you. You find the actual truths that he is saying about you.   You see, the devil is called an accuser and a liar in the Bible for a reason. If you ever want to know the truth, if you are ever curious about what the truth is you just go ahead and hear what he is saying to you, flip it, and you have your answer. Flip whatever the enemy is telling you right now and that's the truth. Men, be encouraged! If the enemy is trying to come at you it's probably for a reason. It’s probably because you are gaining ground in an area that he occupied before. He knows how dangerous you would be if you actually stepped into your identity in that area. He knows he must do everything he can to be able to keep you out of that. So he starts to throw these flaming arrows at you, makes sure that you keep at a distance from the area you are supposed to inhabit. He tells you that you are not worthy. That you are not the man that you should be; that you aren't a chosen one, that you aren't a saint.  Whatever! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becomingmen/support