Two Philly bred best friends who strive to produce content that is authentic, unapologetic and exalting of the magic we see in ourselves and in you. Join us as we oscillate between money and sex & love and light. Because duality is a thing.
Ep 328. Trumpman 1s, Wendy Williams + Who TF Did I Marry?
In this week's episode, Shanti shares a recent gym mishap, while Antoinette updates us on the health of her beloved cat, Blue. For politics, we discuss the Alabama State Supreme Court's ruling on embryos being children, a nonbinary teen killed in Oklahoma, and Trump's recent release of sneakers that sold out in Philly. For pop culture, we talk about Beyoncé's new haircare line and Wendy William's struggles with dementia and aphasia. Join us...Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
2/26/2024 • 1 hour, 31 minutes, 9 seconds
Ep 327. What’s My 5 Year Plan? To Have a Good Day
In this week's episode, Shanti has little to no updates while Antoinette attempts to get clear on her voting strategy for the coming presidential elections. For our main topic, Shanti invites us to consider possible 5,10, or 20-year life goals starting and ending with "have a good day". In this topic, we discuss the root causes of "bad days" and what control and responsibility we have as individuals to have a good day. Join us.Book referenced: Real Love "The Art of Mindful Connection" By Sharon SalzbergHotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
2/22/2024 • 1 hour, 26 minutes, 43 seconds
Ep 326. Country Bey, D*** Over Democracy, Syphilis in the Black Community
In this week's episode, Shanti recaps her first Valentine's Day as a single lady while Antoinette asks for prayers for her cat Blue. Together, we acknowledge Philly for ranking the highest in the country for two outstanding reasons, share our mixed feelings about Fani Willis, recap Usher's Super Bowl performance, and discuss our reactions to Beyonce's newest country song releases. Join Us.0:00 Valentine's Day/ Galentine's Day3:10 Disappointing Valentine's Day Dinner7:05: Which Game Of Thrones Character is You14:47 Blue's Health Concern19:14 Hot Shit- Giants Art Exhibit in BK25:26 Philly STD Rates and Singlehood32:36 Fani Willis & Trump Trial 52:10 Israel Pending Ground Invasion1:02:19 Usher Halftime Performance1:23:14 Black History Month: Reclaiming Country Music Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentNEW MERCH DROPPED Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
2/19/2024 • 1 hour, 39 minutes, 50 seconds
Ep 325. When I’m Desired, I Put On Baby Phat Panties
Happy Valentine's Day Curmmunity! In this week's episode, Shanti decides to paint her apartment while Antoinette excitedly continues the journey of watching Game Of Thrones with someone who has never seen it. Together we play a game from the Queen of Desire - Esther Perel dedicated to the themes of sex and desire. Join us...NEW MERCH DROPPED Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsHotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
2/15/2024 • 56 minutes, 56 seconds
Ep 234. Baby Phat… It’s All Cap
In this week's episode, the girls record early in the morning! Shanti shares her appreciation for everyone checking in on her mental well-being while Antoinette attends a gala where she is awarded for her incredible performance at work. Together we discuss parents serving time for their children's crimes, Shaun King's lifelong ban from Meta, Drake's leaked nude video, The Grammys, and Monique on Club Shay Shay. Join us...NEW MERCH DROPPED Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsHotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
2/12/2024 • 1 hour, 40 minutes, 48 seconds
Ep 323. Are Black & Brown People Perpetually Out Of Time?
In this week's episode, Shanti encourages us to watch her new favorite series while Antoinette reflects on a listener's review. Together we discuss a TED talk by Brittany Cooper, The Racial Politics of Time where Brittany examines racism through the lens of time, showing us how historically it has been stolen from people of color, resulting in lost moments of joy and connection, lost years of healthy quality of life and the delay of progress. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!NEW MERCH DROPPED Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsHotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
2/8/2024 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 35 seconds
Ep 322. Meta, Migration & Moving on from Justin Timberlake
In this week's episode, Shanti prepares for a job interview while Antoinette quietly supports Megan Thee Stallion the best way she knows how. Together we discuss social media platforms under fire by lawmakers, the US border crisis, and how Justin Timberlake's lack of self-awareness continues to make us cringe. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!NEW MERCH DROPPED Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsHotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
2/5/2024 • 1 hour, 33 minutes, 37 seconds
Ep 321. Get Into Your Guts
NEW MERCH JUST DROPPED! Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsIn this week's episode, Shanti aims high for a job at the airport while Antoinette resists being indoctrinated into the culture at her current job. For our main topic, Shanti tries to get to the root of her dissociation and is lovingly redirected by Antoinette to approach "the work" with compassion and without judgment. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
2/1/2024 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 40 seconds
Ep 320. Alabama, Texas, Tim Scott, Oprah & Barbie
NEW MERCH JUST DROPPED! Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsIn this week's episode, Shanti reveals the way to her heart while Antoinette manages disappointing others but doing what feels right for herself. Together we discuss Israel's recent negotiation rejections, Alabama's newest form of human execution, Tim Scott's buffoonery, and the controversy surrounding Dave Chapelle, Oprah & Barbie at the Oscars. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
1/29/2024 • 1 hour, 51 minutes, 35 seconds
Ep 319. Liberation In Troubled Times ft. Joèl Leon Live from Babel Loft
In this week's episode, we are joined by writer Joèl Leon. Together we discuss navigating personal liberation while holding space for a tumultuous world. How do we maintain a sense of self while empathizing with the world's struggles?Joel Leon is a performer, author, and storyteller, born and raised in the Bronx who writes and tells stories for Black people. Follow him here . Pre-order his coming book "Everything and Nothing At Once" here.This episode was recorded live at Babel Loft in Prospect Heights, Brooklyn. Babel Loft is the first Black women-owned members-only social club in Prospect Heights. Learn more about them here.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
1/25/2024 • 1 hour, 56 minutes, 8 seconds
Ep 318. Early Puberty, Yasiin & Drake, The Emmys & Beef with Vlad TV
In this week's episode, Shanti deepens her love of Broadway musicals while Antoinette recaps seeing her favorite author: Cole Arthur Riley in Philadelphia. Together, we discuss the current phenomena of young girls reaching puberty earlier, Yasiin Bay, Drake, and the tale of "so many SKUs", the Emmy winners, and Antoinette's beef with VladTV. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
1/22/2024 • 1 hour, 50 minutes, 40 seconds
Ep 317. We’re 13 Years In & Still Married
In this episode, Shanti wrestles with her inner voice as revealed to her by her "morning pages" and Antoinette reflects on a lesson in faith from her beloved Godson. Together and with the help of psychotherapist Esther Perel, they explore the Paradox of Security vs. Freedom within their personal and working relationship. This brings Shanti to a sort of revelation about partnership. Join us. Watch the Esther Perel video referenced: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODWcrvZhM94 Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7dDt5jEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
1/18/2024 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 39 seconds
Ep 316. Delulu: The Color Purple, Katt Williams, Jonathan Majors & Coretta
And we are back! Thank you for everyone's patience and welcome arms after we return from a much-needed break. Shanti shares her recent trip to Savannah GA and her new favorite genre of television: white women cult leaders, while Antoinette shares her vacation escapades and her new obsession with perfumes. Together, we kick off 2024 jam-packed with topics as we attempt to keep up with all that has happened in pop culture while we were away starting with the iconic interview with Katt Williams, the terrible PR train wreck that is Jonathan Major's interview, the legacy of Coretta Scott King, and Shanti's hot take on The Color Purple. Join us.Consider supporting the creation of "Tell me when you get home" https://seedandspark.com/fund/tellmewhenyougethome#storyDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/SNcBFaEPJPEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
1/15/2024 • 1 hour, 55 minutes, 49 seconds
Reprise: Ep 252. Reimagining Relationships ft. Joél Leon
WE'RE BACK FROM OUR BREAK WITH NEW EPISODES NEXT WEEK!This week Shanti has no updates while Antoinette tells us a love story gone wrong after shooting her shot at Trader Joe's. We are then joined by artist, writer, and dope human being, Joèl Leon for a conversation about reimagining co-parenting & intimate relationships. Join us.Follow Joèl: Twitter: @JoelakaMaGIG: iamjoelleonDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
1/11/2024 • 1 hour, 49 minutes, 56 seconds
Reprise Ep 262. Transparency is the Enemy of Exploitation ft. Toi Marie Smith
In this episode, Antoinette gives us valuable information on how to survive the end of the world in your car while Shanti revels in JoJo being old enough to care more for herself so her momma can run in these here streets. The girls are then joined by a powerhouse, mother, impact strategist, and revolutionary, Toi Marie Smith. Together, they discuss the 6 requirements of capitalism and its effects on motherhood, the responsibility of white wealth, and the power of financial transparency. Join us.Follow Toi Marie Smith:IG: https://instagram.com/toimarie?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==Website: https://www.toimarie.com/Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
1/8/2024 • 1 hour, 27 minutes, 14 seconds
Reprise Ep 234. You’re Projecting On To Me & That’s F'd Up
In this week's episode, Shanti is inspired by Toni Morrison and wants to create "a place that feels like it is all hers" as she navigates nurturing her inner world and cultivating new hobbies. Antoinette leans into daily stretching and shares her attempt at a homemade ice bath that didn't go as planned. Together, we talk about projection after a recent conflict with one another. What is projection? What is it seated in? How can we become more aware when we are projecting? Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
1/4/2024 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 4 seconds
Reprise Ep 162. Red Lip Theology ft. Candice Marie Benbow
This week, we are joined by theologian and essayist, Candace Marie Benbow. whose work lies at the intersections of beauty, faith, feminism, and culture. Together, we discuss Black luxury, the danger Kevin Samuels poses to the community, and question if women's sexual liberation is being packaged for male consumption. For our main topic, we deep dive into Candace's book, Red Lip Theology, where she invites us to pave our own unique pathways to righteousness through activism, feminism, radical authenticity, and freedom. Join us.Follow Candice:IG & Twitter: @candicebenbowPurchase her book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/665375/red-lip-theology-by-candice-marie-benbow-foreword-by-melissa-harris-perry/ `Wesbite: https://candicebenbow.comHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: Hold Me As I Land https://music.apple.com/us/album/hold-me-as-i-land/1424924009?i=1424924528See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
1/1/2024 • 2 hours, 1 minute, 41 seconds
Reprise Ep 266. Are You Living A Creative Life?
For this week's episode, Antoinette laments that her cat Blue may have disowned her while Shanti wants to know what the listeners' top 5 rapid questions would be to get to know a stranger.For the main topic, Shanti has recently been inspired by the work of authors Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love + Big Magic) + Julia Cameron (The Artist's Way). Each author focuses on creativity and the transformation that can occur when we take up the courage to unblock, release fear and invite more creativity and curiosity into our lives. Join us.Would you like to begin group meetings for The Artist's Way? Do you want to begin the journey together? Join our Discord and let's figure this out together!Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/SNcBFaEPJP Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
12/28/2023 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 41 seconds
Ep 315. The Best ATWC of 2023
This is the last episode of the year! Join us as we share some of our best episodes of 2023 ranging from the funniest, and most impactful, to our favorite guests and best breakthroughs.We want to thank all of the amazing supporters of ATWC who have been rocking with us this year. We are so excited for what's ahead. Happy New Year and happy holidays to the ATWC curmmunity!Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/4hRQbTkBEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
12/22/2023 • 1 hour, 31 minutes, 52 seconds
Ep 314. Jonathan Majors Guilty While Gaza Still Griefs Ft. Nehad Khader
In one of our final episodes of this year Shanti shares her last accomplishment in her attempt to "look like herself" while Antoinette recaps her family Christmas party and her favorite cup of tea (literally).For our politics segment, we are joined by special guest Nehad Khader. As much as we wanted to end the year in love and light, we felt it important to continue to raise awareness about the continuing genocide in Gaza. Nehad was generous enough to share her lived experience as a Palestinian who like many of us is attempting to maintain hope while refusing to ignore her duty to her homeland and her people in the fight for all oppressed people throughout the world.We end our episode discussing the recent verdict of Jonathan Majors in which he was convicted of assault in the 3rd degree and harassment in the 2nd degree. We share our reactions and discuss the qualifications of redemption and potential within the public sphere. Join us...Palestinians to follow to learn more of the history and current events unfolding in Gaza.@wizard_bisan1@motaz_azaiza@hatem.h.rawagh@nouraerakat@theimeu@eye.on.palestineContact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/4hRQbTkBEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
12/20/2023 • 2 hours, 3 minutes, 14 seconds
Ep 313. Sagittarius Season: Shanti’s Bday
In this week's episode, Shanti moves closer to her birthday and is feeling tender while Antoinette shares her excitement about the coming movie premiere of The Color Purple. Together we answer a caller's questions about maintaining friendship while doing business. For our main topic, Antoinette asks Shanti some birthday questions to help usher her into a reflective new year. Join us. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
12/14/2023 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 15 seconds
Ep 312. A White Coretta Scott King?
In this week's episode, Shanti attends a gala and is seated with retail royalty while Antoinette ruminates over the theory of predator and prey. For politics, we discuss the recent charges against a woman in Ohio who miscarried and the global panic button pressed by UN Secretary-General Antonio Guterres demanding a cease-fire action from Israel in Gaza. Together we discuss the taboo love affair of Amy Robach and T.J. Holmes, and the court evidence shared of Jonathan Majors imploring his white ex-girlfriend to be more like Coretta Scott King. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/4hRQbTkBEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
12/11/2023 • 1 hour, 48 minutes, 14 seconds
Ep 311. Soft Yeses & Commurnity Catch Up
In this week's episode, Shanti is humbled by her yearly Spotify wrapped while Antoinette learns more about consent in conversation with a male friend. Together we catch up with the curmmunity and listen to caller's voicemails bringing voice to some of your questions, concerns and general comments.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/4hRQbTkBEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
12/7/2023 • 58 minutes, 25 seconds
Ep 310. Statute of Limitations, Mama Tina, Lenny, Teyana & Iman
In this week's episode, Shanti mentally spirals as her birthday nears while Antoinette recounts bearing witness to Sir. Marvelous's care and sexual healing at a sex club. For politics as usual, Antoinette explains the New York Survivors Act and the misconceptions around sexual misconduct civil suits. For pop culture, we share our thoughts on Beyonce's Renaissance movie premiere look & the claims that she "wants to be white", Mama TIna's defense of her daughter, and the newly emerged details around Iman and Teyana Taylor's unfortunate divorce. Join us...IN LOVE AND STRUGGLE, VOL. 3: The Future Is Around UsDecember 14-16In its third year, "IN LOVE AND STRUGGLE" unites visionary Black women and nonbinary individuals for memorable evenings of storytelling, music, comedy, and monologues. This year's theme draws inspiration from science fiction writer Octavia Butler, featuring a diverse and creative cast, including adrienne maree brown, Cree Summer, Zainab Johnson, Mahogany L. Browne, Treasure Brooks, Amanda Seales, and more to be announced. Join us for an eclectic celebration of love, resilience, and creativity.Discount code 35% off of prime orchestra seats! promo code: bit.ly/inloveclp35Contact Us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/4hRQbTkBEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
12/4/2023 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 23 seconds
Reprise: Ep 31. You Don't Own Me Ft. Hey Fran Hey
In episode 31, we are joined by our homegirl, the amazing Francheska Medina aka Hey Fran Fran. We talk about the new wave of "heartbeat bills" and the looming republican challenge of Roe vs. Wade while examining the ever-present Pro Life/Pro Choice argument. From there, we explore the idea of the self-possessed woman. We ask ourselves if it is possible, as women, to achieve true agency over ourselves, our thoughts, and our bodies in a man's world. And if so, how? Join us.Follow Hey Fran Hey on all platforms @heyfranheyListen to her podcast The Friend Zonehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-friend-zone/id1031936205Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/T6gSCEu4Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
11/30/2023 • 1 hour, 37 minutes, 47 seconds
Reprise: Ep 270. Koreans Fry The Best Chicken?
Yall, We did not record the week of Thanksgiving and took a much needed break to be with friends, family and each other. Enjoy this reprise. We'll be back next week:) Shanti pours herself a drank (or 3) while Antoinette takes an edible before the chaos begins...The episode starts seriously with Antoinette sharing her frustrations about the men she is attracting (Shanti does her best to keep it together to console her). Things begin to unravel while listening to voicemails and the real shenanigans begin with us trying to figure out who knows the other better. We end with a deep discussion on which culture fries the best chicken. Join us...Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/T6gSCEu4Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
11/27/2023 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 2 seconds
Ep 309. No More Gender Wars ft. Leo
In this week's episode, Shanti and Antoinette are joined by our beloved listener Leo. Leo shares his perspectives on moving past the polarizing expectations that men and women put on one another to gain more love and connection in our intimate relationships and friendships. Join us...Follow Leo: IG & TikTok: @MINDOFMCAFEEJRContact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/jhR7tBXSSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
11/22/2023 • 1 hour, 46 minutes, 10 seconds
Ep 308. Diddy & Cassie. Andre & His Flute
In this week's episode, Shanti gets ready for Philly's Christmas Village while Antoinette dives into Britney Spear's new book, The Woman In Me. Together, we discuss the seemingly pointless adoption of ethics codes by The Supreme Court and the opposing narratives of Israel and Palestine (some would say Hamas) war in the news. For pop culture, we share our thoughts on Andre 3000's upcoming album and the alarming accusations against Diddy by his former partner Cassie. Join us.*This episode was recorded 11/16 and some new information may be available. Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/jhR7tBXSSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
11/20/2023 • 1 hour, 32 minutes, 51 seconds
Ep 307. Keke, Darrius, Jidenna & Jeezy
In this week's podcast Shanti shouts out the curmunnity and feels grateful while Antoinette attempts to not feel intimidated when dating fancy men. For our main topics we discuss the abusive allegations unfolding involving Keke Palmer and her child's father Darrius and we share our thoughts about Jidenna's recent interview on "Style Like You" in which he talks about masculinity and his past of manipulating women. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/aHpvrARmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
11/16/2023 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 45 seconds
Ep 306. Joe Biden: Lesser of Two Evils?
In this week's episode, Shanti begins the wild ride of entering the Holiday season as a small business owner while Antoinette gracefully checks someone coming for Shanti out in these streets. Together, we dive into our current political climate discussing Biden's re-election and whether or not he truly qualifies as "the lesser of two evils". Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/aHpvrARmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
11/13/2023 • 1 hour, 44 minutes, 30 seconds
Ep 305. Dating: DO Judge a Book By It’s Cover?
In this week's episode, Shanti feels called by "The Void" but is pulled back by warm showers and daylight while Antoinette finally gives up on The Walking Dead and remembers the talent that is Kelly Price. In addition, Shanti goes on a tangent about often being misheard during sex which prompts Antoinette to give us some pointers for clitorial stimulation. For our main topic, Shanti invites us to judge a book by its cover. Maybe our first instincts and snap judgments are the immediate vibe checks we need to lead our decision-making. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/aHpvrARmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
11/9/2023 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 43 seconds
Ep 304. What’s Good With You, Yo?
In this week's episode, Shanti sips wine while Antoinette takes an edible. Let the antics ensue! Shanti recaps her experience on Bet On Black while Antoinette's recent date leaves her questioning her relationship to luxury. Together we discuss The United States' rise in Anti-Semitism and lslamophobia, while offering further resources about BDS (Boycott, Divest + Sanction) of companies that profit from the occupation of Palestine. For pop culture we get into Britney Spear's memoir debut and Flava Flav's rendition of the National Anthem. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/aHpvrARmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
11/6/2023 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 49 seconds
Ep 303. What is Your Human Design?
In this week's episode, Shanti has little to offer in terms of updates while Antoinette shares a very interesting and somewhat alarming encounter with a palm reader. For our main topic we share our results of the Human Design which is a mystic match up of Kabbalah, I'Ching, Myers-Briggs, astrology, biochemistry, genetics, and the chakra system all in one. See what we learn about one another and ourselves. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/aHpvrARmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
11/2/2023 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 21 seconds
Season 2 of Can't Afford Therapy Starts Tomorrow!
Season 2 of Antoinette's other pod Can't Afford Therapy drops TOMORROW! Make sure you tune in wherever you get your podcasts and check out their YouTube channel for visuals including Season 1!Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cant-afford-therapy/id1665052686Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6hc0zARCMA4X1K3CMyiJC9?si=e263d5837df246a5Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@cantaffordtherapyPodcastIG: https://www.instagram.com/cantaffordtherapypod/?hl=en Hosts: Josh @fazefunk Savon @savonslvter Antoinette @antoinettewashereExecutive Producer: @fullcourtpumpsStudio & Edit: @thefullcourtstudiosSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
10/31/2023 • 4 minutes, 27 seconds
Ep 302. Blaxploitopia
In this week's episode Shanti finds comfort in old "Insecure" episodes while Antoinette faces some backlash from family members concerning her stance on Palestine. Together, we discuss the GOP's newest Speaker of the House Mike Johnson, the Ebony Alert system, and Barack Obama's recent statement on Israel and Palestine. For pop culture, Antoinette celebrates the life of Richard Roundtree and we try to unravel the many layers surrounding Dwight Howard and an uncanny connection between Candace Owens and Carlee Russell. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/aHpvrARmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
10/30/2023 • 1 hour, 38 minutes, 19 seconds
Ep 301. Collective Cooperation & Activation
In this week's episode, Shanti shares more of her coming appearance on Revolt TV's Bet on Black pitch competition series, while Antoinette continues her commitment to completing The Walking Dead, regardless of how ridiculous it becomes. Together, we respond to listener voicemails sharing survival resources, and inquiring about poly relationships. For our main topic, we consider the absurdity of continuing the daily demands of life and work while the world is imploding around us. How does one manage it? Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/aHpvrARmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
10/26/2023 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 26 seconds
Ep 300. What is Sacred?
We hit 300 episodes! Thank you for all the continued support from old and new listeners! We so appreciate you! In this week's episode, Shanti finally reveals her big surprise to everyone while Antoinette continues to feel tender about the conflict in the Middle East. Together, we discuss Biden's political goals for his trip to Israel & debate who is responsible for the hospital bombing in Gaza. For pop culture, inspired by Jada, we discuss the nuance of 'sacredness' + Lupita's recent social media content. Do we consider things to be more sacred when they are private? Is privacy a form of protection and hiding? Are folks speaking their "truth" or subtly virtue signaling and stroking their egos? Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/aHpvrARmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
10/23/2023 • 1 hour, 42 minutes, 40 seconds
Ep 299. Will & Jada, Drake & Doja…Tricky
*This episode was recorded before the genocide began in Palestine at the hands of the far-right Israeli Gov. This will be discussed next Monday. In this week's episode, Shanti attempts to prepare for the Holidays while feeling completely dissociated from work while Antoinette ponders the woman she wants to become as her birthday approaches. For our main topic, we keep it strictly pop culture. We make a public apology for all the biracials that have been wildin' these past couple of weeks and discuss Beyonce making an appearance at Taylor Swift's movie premiere. Finally, we question the recent critique and conversation surrounding Jada Pinkett's coming memoir "Worthy". Is Jada a marketing genius, a woman speaking her truth, or a self-centered gossipmonger? Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/aHpvrARmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
10/19/2023 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 40 seconds
Ep 298. Palestine & Israel: Are We Either Predator or Prey?
The war is unfolding rapidly every minute. With that said, this episode was recorded Oct 12th, 2023 before Israel began to drop bombs on innocent Palestinians who are unaffiliated with the terrorist group, Hamas. We mourn the loss of ALL innocent lives, condemn the war crimes of the Israeli Gov, and send our deep love and prayers to the Jewish community after the horrendous attack committed by Hamas.In this episode, we attempt to provide listeners with high-level, historical context of the Israeli-Palestinian war. We hope this serves as a springboard for you to do your own research, ask more questions, & reconnect with your humanity. Please, join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/Jqe6BGBdSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
10/16/2023 • 1 hour, 37 minutes, 1 second
Ep 297. Did Jay-Z Teach Beyonce How To Be A Woman?
In this week's episode, Shanti ponders the possibility of dating multiple people at a time while Antoinette finds herself becoming more and more entangled in the absurdity of the series "The Walking Dead". Together, we respond to voicemails as listeners react to our polarizing conversation ignited by Eboni K. Williams. Finally, for our main topic, we react to an old video of Beyonce praising and celebrating Jay Z on his birthday. She states, "You taught me how to be a woman". Black Twitter went ablaze with criticism which led us to ask questions like: Why are mainly women feeling resistance to this admittance of Beyoncé? Has the collective mood of women turned into scorn and self-defense?Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/aHpvrARmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
10/12/2023 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 18 seconds
Ep 296. Is Interracial Dating Inherently Wrong?
In this week's episode, Shanti is back to learning middle school math with Jolie and still ain't getting it while Antoinette self-diagnoses. Together, we clear the air about our perceived "fighting", deep dive into the ousting of former House Speaker Kevin McCarthy & discuss Terrell Owen's recent comments on interracial dating. This makes us beg the question - is interracial dating inherently wrong due to racial inequity & a global history of white colonization? Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/N6GFhmrdSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
10/9/2023 • 1 hour, 45 minutes, 50 seconds
Ep 295. The Relationship Attachment Model
This week Shanti takes back all the things she's said about biracial men and teaches us about her new slang while Antoinette, due to her binging The Walking Dead realizes she is not ready for the zombie apocalypse. We listen and respond to some voicemails and finally Shanti introduces us to the Relationship Attachment Method (R.A.M.) which reveals some interesting aspects of our relationship. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/N6GFhmrd See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
10/5/2023 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 14 seconds
Ep 294. Ebony K. Williams & “The Mrs.” Degree
In this week's episode, Shanti may have sobered up from her delusional streak while Antoinette receives monetary help from unexpected sources. Together, we discuss the recent Republican Presidential Debate and Democratic Senator Menendez's current investigation into his seemingly illegal dealings with Egypt. For pop culture, we respond to Ebony K. William's viral advice to young women and comment on Philly's recent looting of its high-end shopping strips. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/aHpvrARmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
10/2/2023 • 1 hour, 40 minutes, 29 seconds
Ep 293. Bootcut, Birkenstock, Big Belly, Bae
In this week's show, the girls start off strong and steadily begin to unravel. To start, Shanti shares her hesitation about going to this year's Culture Con without Antoinette while Antoinette basks in pride over our Instagram's growing popularity as a meme account. Together, we very quickly lose control as Antoinette attempts to lead us into a serious conversation about self-love using excerpts from the book "You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life" while intoxicated, and Shanti is just Shanti. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/cyUJGBdJSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
9/28/2023 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 33 seconds
Ep 292. Say it Ain't So...Teyana & Iman, Jeezy & Jeannie, Remy Ma & Papoose
In this week's episode, Shanti works out and feels the burn in both her muscles and her heartstrings while Antoinette steps into full grind mode recording 2 podcasts on top of her 9 - 5 job. Together, we discuss recent celebrity breakups and which celebrity couples we never want to see split, a win for criminal justice reform in Illinois, and question JT's clap back at critical fans of her recent campaign with "Beats by Dre". Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg/cyUJGBdJSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
9/25/2023 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 12 seconds
Ep 291. Insatiable, I’m in My Kanye Era
This week, Shanti is throwing caution to the wind and embracing her inner Kanye while Antoinette reckons with the fact that her caution is most likely holding her back. We listen & respond to some lovely listener voicemails and finally dive into a recent episode of We Can Do Hard Things ft. Adrienne Marie Brown where we question and observe our own satisfiability. Join us Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/rWcyGRKCSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
9/21/2023 • 1 hour, 16 minutes, 41 seconds
Ep 290. Don’t Have Sex Then
In this week's episode, Shanti discovers abstinence hits differently when the energy is channeled productively while Antoinette falls back in love with football and prepares for a new work/life routine. Together we discuss Mitt Romney's retirement, Joseph Robinette's pain in the a** impeachment inquiry, Danny Masterson's recent rape conviction, and question if Jonathan Major's recent act of "breaking up a fight" was a pathetic PR stunt? Join us.EVENTS:https://www.instagram.com/p/CxGZuE3Osd-/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3Dhttps://www.eventbrite.com/e/brooklyn-brujeria-magic-market-fair-tickets-714645422697Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/rWcyGRKCSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
9/18/2023 • 1 hour, 34 minutes, 48 seconds
Ep 289. Insubordinate + Churlish
In this week's episode Shanti finds inspiration from Kanye's masterpiece "The Life of Pablo" while Antoinette experiments with her personal code of ethics and moral alignment. Together, we respond to listener voicemails about BDSM, our relationships with anger, getting out of our own ways, and learning to let our guards down. As always, we love the input from our ATWC curmmunity. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/rWcyGRKCSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
9/14/2023 • 58 minutes, 34 seconds
Ep 288. I Love That Range For Him
In this week's episode, Shanti runs for the first time in years and now can't walk while Antoinette proves why men are needed in her life during a recent visit to the mechanic. Together we talk age limits for politicians, Chrisean's birth, the recent violent attack against a woman refusing a man's advances and allegations made against beloved Barack Obama involving crack cocaine and sex in the 1999s. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/SU8uds9pSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
9/11/2023 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 39 seconds
Ep. 287 The 5 Closest People Around You Mirror You
For this week's topic, we dive into the science of association. Are we only as good as the 5 people we spend the most time with? Do we admire and want to be like the folks we spend the most time with? Are we honest about who we are presently? Can we identify who we want to become? Who or what does it take to help us bridge this gap to reach our personal definitions of success and greatness? As always, more questions than answers. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/SU8uds9pSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
9/7/2023 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 46 seconds
Ep 286. Why is Miguel Hanging By Hooks?
In this week's episode, Shanti returns and decides that she is ready to move while Antoinette feels all the feelings. Together we talk about Clarence Thomas' withholding of more financial information, Shanti's take on the car wreck that is "And Just Like That" and explore the polars of pleasure and pain inspired by Miguel's recent performance suspended from hooks.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/SU8uds9pSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
9/4/2023 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 41 seconds
Ep 285. I Don't Want To Disappoint Myself Ft. Amanda Henderson
Shanti is still away but Antoinette is joined by our bestie Amanda Henderson. Inspired yet again, by our beloved Mrs. Pam, Antoinette and Amanda discuss their forgotten dreams and abandoned gifts. They ask themselves: What makes us turn our backs on our passions that once kept us feeling alive? How do we navigate the shame of discarding them and betraying ourselves? And finally, how do we develop the courage to share them once again? Join us.Follow Amanda: IG : @amandalrae_ https://www.instagram.com/amandalrae_/ TikTok: amandalrae_YouTube: @AmandaLRae https://youtube.com/@AmandaLRae?si=7R1LYQBT9TGnQ2X2Listen to her new single: Monster: https://xn--amandalrae-qw6e.hearnow.com Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/SU8uds9pSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
8/31/2023 • 1 hour, 21 minutes, 47 seconds
Ep 284. Naked & Awake Ft. Hey Fran Hey & Jade of All Jades
Shanti is away this week BUT Antoinette is joined by pod royalty Hey Fran Hey & Jade of All Jades. Together, we talk about leaning into our cougar energy, dating crunchy dudes, online dating, and the mess that was Republican presidential hopeful, Larry Elder. For our main topic, we deep dive into aging. How do we feel about aging? What were we taught about aging? What did we observe from our mothers? What outside influences have informed our thoughts and feelings on it? Have we considered getting work done? Why or why not? Join us.Follow Hey Fran Hey:Website: https://heyfranhey.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyfranhey/?hl=enTwitter: https://twitter.com/heyfranhey?lang=enLiving for We Podcast: https://www.npr.org/podcasts/1160361239/living-for-we_Follow Jade of All Jades:Website: https://jadeofalljades.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jadeofalljades/Twitter: https://twitter.com/JadeofallJades_Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/SU8uds9pSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
8/28/2023 • 1 hour, 52 minutes, 37 seconds
Ep 283. What is Your Enough?
This week, Shanti gets real when it comes to whether or not women especially single mothers can really have "it all while Antoinette grapples with the anxiety of going back to church. Together, they listen and respond to some really thoughtful and poignant voicemails, and then, inspired by a video on baboons, Antoinette takes us down a rabbit hole of hierarchy, social status, and inequity pondering if it's all just a part of our animalistic nature. Join usContact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/SU8uds9pSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
8/24/2023 • 1 hour, 10 minutes, 16 seconds
Ep 282. Be the Villain
This week, Shanti is grateful for the outpouring of love and support from episode 281. If you haven't listened, you should because it's top 10 ATWC episodes of all time. Antoinette however, has another story to tell & this one is about her recent standoff with a UPS man. Together, they practice bipartisanship and offer criticism of Joseph Robinette's response (or lack thereof) to the Maui Wildfires. Finally, they discuss the importance of controlling "the narrative" when it comes to Trump's latest indictment, Michael Oher & "The Blind Side", Obama possibly being queer, and KeKe Palmer & Usher. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
8/21/2023 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 54 seconds
Ep 281. Do It Scared I Guess
This week, Shanti reflects on being a mother to a teenage girl while Antoinette feels shame over a recent encounter with a dear friend. They listen and respond to some wide-ranging listener voicemails and finally deep dive into the main topic. Inspired by Shanti's internal strife and inability to see her own magnificence, we explore self-doubt and all the ways it both hinders and helps. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
8/17/2023 • 1 hour, 23 minutes, 2 seconds
Ep 280: Tory Lanez, Jamie Foxx & the Jewish Community + Aliens
We're back and with clean audio! Shanti discusses her irrational distrust of Lakeith Stanfield while Antoinette gushes with pride over the rising stardom of Armani White. For Politics as Usual, the girls discuss a newly FDA-approved drug for postpartum depression, Cornel West's presidential campaign, and Florida allowing right-wing PragerU to re-write history using a white Fredrick Douglas. And finally, for pop culture, we debate the sentencing of Tory Lanez and explore our relationship with the Jewish community after Jamie Foxx's recent backlash. Join us.' Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
8/14/2023 • 1 hour, 37 minutes, 54 seconds
Ep 279. How Do You Want To Be Remembered?
Due to personal matters, we were not able to use our recording equipment so the audio is not ideal but the content is there.This week, Shanti apologizes to Antoinette for coming at her for one of her VERY unpopular opinions while Antoinette responds to a voicemail from our new favorite Floridian. Finally, as a result of their recent loss, the girls reflect on their fears and feelings about what happens after death. It's a hard conversation but an important one. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
8/10/2023 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 56 seconds
Ep. 278 Lizzo & Biden Are In Trouble & Trump Got Arrested… Again
Due to personal events, we were not able to use our recording equipment so the audio is not ideal but the content is there.In this week's episode, Shanti and Antoinette share the recent loss of our beloved "squad mom", Mrs. Pam. Together, we discuss our Beyonce experience, the recent allegations made against Lizzo, ALL of Trump's indictments, and the deaths of Sinead O'Connor, Angus Cloud, and Pee Wee Herman.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
8/7/2023 • 1 hour, 34 minutes, 3 seconds
Ep 277. Mid-Year Checkin
This episode was recorded on July 20th. There was a delay in the release due to personal matters.
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7/31/2023 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 37 seconds
REPRISE: Time - The Most Valuable Currency ft. Black
Due to unforeseen circumstances, we were not able to air a new episode this week. Enjoy this reprise.In this episode, Shanti is away and Antoinette is joined by one of her nearest and dearest friends...photographer, musician, multimedia artist extraordinaire, and overall brilliant being "Black" aka @thnwblk_ on IG. Together, they weigh in on a few interesting listener calls (of which both have gripes to pick with Antoinette) and discuss the concept of time. How do we utilize it? What is its value? Is it even real? What role does it play in how we govern and navigate our lives? Join us.Follow BlackIG: @THNWBLK_Website: https://thnwblk.com/ Follow Renae Bluitt & come hang at the Holiday Baazar!IG: @iamrenaebluitt https://www.instagram.com/accounts/login/?next=%2Fiamrenaebluitt%2F&source=omni_redirect Holiday Bazaar: shedidthatholidaynyc.eventbrite.comWebsite: https://www.renaebluitt.com/Song credit: Only Time by EnyaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
7/27/2023 • 1 hour, 33 minutes, 16 seconds
Ep 276. Carlee Russell + Cocaine In the White House
In this week's episode, Shanti falls into a spiral with her mother, while Antoinette keeps it low-key. Together, we discuss the mysterious dime bag of cocaine found in the White House, the Florida Board of Education's new Black History standards, Hollywood being on strike, and the saga of Carlee Russell. Join us...Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/6X4RNYC3VAEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
7/24/2023 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 2 seconds
Ep 275. They Have Range Ft. Branford Jones
This week's episode is all things classic R&B! We are super excited to have Branford Jones, the creator of the viral platform, "They Have The Range" on our show! Branford shares his early beginnings of the platform that have led him to collaborate with some of music's most legendary artists like Mariah Carey, Brandi, and Missy Elliot. Together, we play a fun game of R&B rapid-fire questions, forcing Branford to make some hard decisions such as, who has the better runs?: Jazmine Sullivan, Brandy, Keke Wyatt, or Ledisi? Join Us...Follow "They Have The Range" on Instagram + TwitterHotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/6X4RNYC3VAEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
7/20/2023 • 1 hour, 53 minutes, 53 seconds
Ep 274: Jonah, Boosie, Darrius & Blueface
In this week's episode, Shanti shares her first concert experience with her daughter while Antoinette confesses her growing obsession with World War II. Together, we discuss the FDA's approval of over-the-counter birth control pills, the recent disheartening ruling against survivors of The Tulsa Massacre, our thoughts on Jonah Hill's coercive texts, and the continued harmful ways of Lil Boosie and Blueface. Join us...Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/v5Q8HkRp Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
7/17/2023 • 1 hour, 16 minutes, 41 seconds
Ep 273. Do We Need Black Men?
This week, we get provocative & discuss whether or not we “need” men. Inspired by Megan Thee Stallion’s proclamation at Essence Fest- “We don’t need men. We want ya’ll, but we don’t need ya’ll” - we dissect the statement and share our interpretations of “need” vs “want”. Finally, we explore & acknowledge what deeper wounds may be the source of our gender wars. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/v5Q8HkRp Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
7/13/2023 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 3 seconds
Ep 272. All You Had to Do Was Be Quiet, Darius
In this week's episode, Shanti explores NYC and begins to imagine living a life there while Antoinette continues to float in her Disney Princess Divine Feminine energy, finding joy and pleasure in her domestic duties.For politics, Antoinette catches us up on the "Supreme" Court's recent rulings on Affirmative Action and LGBTQIA rights..Together, we discuss the delusions of Darrius in his response to Keke Palmer + Usher as well as the recent rants of India Irie on Megan Thee Stallion and Janelle Monae. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/v5Q8HkRp Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
7/10/2023 • 1 hour, 38 minutes, 42 seconds
Ep 271. Solo Shanti & The Disney Porcelain Princess
We are back! To begin we share updates on our lives this past month. Shanti shares her new relationship status, takes an art class and awaits for summer to actually begin. Meanwhile, Antoinette realizes the power of flirting like a Disney Princess and recounts a fight in her hot yoga class. Together we discuss the downfall of Russel Simmons, the drama of Queer Ultimatum and listen to caller voicemails. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/v5Q8HkRp Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
7/6/2023 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 12 seconds
REPRISE: What's Freedom To You? Ft. Armani White
We are joined by Philly's own, Armani White. Artist, Rapper, Creator, Musician who went from writing bars about Disney movies to being on billboards in Times Square. After interviewing him for Thursday's upcoming episode, we stayed on the call to chop it up. This is that call. We shoot the shit, talk Kanye & get into some Black History trivia. In the end, Armani drops some gems on what it is to live your most free life. Get to know him on this episode, and get to know his music on the next one. Join us. Follow Armani @armaniblanco on IG. Stream & buy his shit yall.https://open.spotify.com/artist/2qAwMsiIjTzlmfAkXKvhVA?si=X38F5XEORSKzUT6EBHX1Mg https://music.apple.com/us/album/keep-in-touch/1484564941Video Content - Join Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsGeneral Inquiries:Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
7/3/2023 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 29 seconds
REPRISE: Are You Satisfiable?
In this episode, Shanti grieves the loss of a friend while Antoinette realizes she lives in a social bubble. Together, we single handily disprove Dr. Umar's theory that White women marry up in interracial marriages, discuss genetically modified mosquitoes and some pop culture. For our main topic, we are inspired by a conversation between Adrienne Maree Brown + Jocelyn K. Glei, we ask: Are you satsifiable? Do you know what it is like to have enough? Join us....General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Rolling Stone's Satisfaction here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/whoa/80969514?i=80968940See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
6/29/2023 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 21 seconds
REPRISE: Not All Black Art Slaps ft. Jade + X.D.
Chile, we needed a break from publicly deep-diving into soul work and decided to chop it up with our faves Jade and XD because Black joy is also an act of resistance and self-preservation. We talk about our dislike for a certain mahogany art, the "L' in Salmon being anti-Black, and much more. Join us. Follow Jade + X.D. IG @jadeandxdSubscribe to their pod: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jade-x-d/id1578749770Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy "Glory" (from the Motion Picture Selma" by John Legend & Common here https://music.apple.com/us/album/glory-from-the-motion-picture-selma/951104551?i=95110456See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
6/26/2023 • 1 hour, 33 minutes, 58 seconds
REPRISE: Ep 85. Liberation Without Our LGBTQ+ Family is NOT Liberation
In episode 85 we are joined by special guests Nico, Desiree and Ilya. Together we describe our collective imaginings of liberation through the recognition, care and protection of queer and trans lives. Join us...Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comJoin Patreon for video of this episode and other exclusive content: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsBuy Solange's Rise here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/rise/1159507212?i=1159507235See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
6/22/2023 • 2 hours, 15 minutes, 29 seconds
REPRISE: Ep 223. Did an Edible Change My Life?
Gentle Reminder, we are taking a two-week break to rest. In the meantime enjoy some favorites from the catalog. In this episode, Shanti discusses the wonderful world of micro-dosing (shoutout to @Kimbology) while Antoinette explores the idea of having a sponsor. Together, the ladies discuss Spotify-wrapped reveals, World Cup controversies, the Defense for Marriage Act shortcomings, the delusion of Jennifer Lyn Lopez Affleck, and how men will embarrass you unprovoked. Lastly, Antoinette may or may not have had an edible during this episode. Join us. You are invited to our first Town Hall on our Patreon on June 29th. Not a Patron? Become a patron now and enjoy exclusive content and bonus episodes. Hit the link below!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/6X4RNYC3VAEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
6/19/2023 • 57 minutes, 27 seconds
Ep 270. Koreans Fry The Best Chicken?
This is our last episode before we go on a 2 week haitus and we intended to go out with a bang! Shanti pours herself a drank (or 3) while Antoinette takes an edible before the chaos begins... The episode starts seriously with Antoinette sharing her frustrations about the men she is attracting (Shanti does her best to keep it together to console her). Things begin to unravel while listening to voicemails and the real shenanigans begin with us trying to figure out who knows the other better. We end with a deep discussion on which culture fries the best chicken. Join us...You are invited to our first Town Hall on our Patreon on June 29th. Not a Patron? Become a patron now and enjoy exclusive content and bonus episodes. Hit the link below!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/6X4RNYC3VAEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
6/15/2023 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 2 seconds
Ep 269. It's Giving Jail...
In this week's episode, Shanti returns after completing The Roots Picnic Marketplace in Philly feeling thankful and proud. Antoinette shares her own experience at the festival with stories of her appreciation of Usher, Jazmine, Armani, being high, and catching a potential suitor red-handed. Together, we discuss the origins of Pride month, Trump's most recent indictment, Dr. Cornel West running for President, wildfires, and Kelis dating Bill Murray. Does Antoinette recant her infamous opinion about Usher + JT in a Verzuz?? Does Shanti think Bill Murray is a hot catch!? Join us...Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/6X4RNYC3VAEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
6/12/2023 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 26 seconds
Ep 268. You Are the Only Person That Will Never Leave You ft. Ashley Simpo
This week, Shanti is still on hiatus, BUT Antoinette holds down the fort by responding to some listener voicemails and giving us some personal updates. She is then joined by writer, editor, mother, and all-around dope human, Ashley Simpo aka "Black Ashley". Together, they discuss the below affirmations/prompts written by Ashley from her social media:
"Stay curious about the people you love."
"You don't need closure with them. You need closure with the version of yourself that loved them."
"Platonic love, romantic love. It's all building community."
"I just want Black women to be properly loved."
"The older I get, the more I feel self-love is the answer to everything."
Join us. Follow Ashley: Website: https://blackashley.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashleysimpo/?hl=enTwitter: https://twitter.com/ashleysimpo?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/6X4RNYC3VAEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
6/8/2023 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 44 seconds
Ep 267. People Are Not Willing to Learn ft. Crissle West
This week, Shanti is busy prepping for The Roots Picnic so Antoinette enlisted the help of POD GAWD, King Crissle West. Together, they chop it up and discuss: SPORTS (NOT SHORTS), public outrage with Target for their recent Pride collection, slaves apparently missing from The Little Mermaid, Orcas conspiring & teaming up to jump boats off the coast of Spain, biracials overcompensating, and problematic pop psychology. Join usFollow Crissle IG: @crissle & @thereadTwitter: @crisslesWebsite: https://www.crissle.com/Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/6X4RNYC3VAEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
6/5/2023 • 2 hours, 12 minutes, 3 seconds
Ep 266. Are You Living A Creative Life?
For this week's episode, Antoinette laments that her cat Blue may have disowned her while Shanti wants to know what the listeners' top 5 rapid questions would be to get to know a stranger.For the main topic, Shanti has recently been inspired by the work of authors Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love + Big Magic) + Julia Cameron (The Artist's Way). Each author focuses on creativity and the transformation that can occur when we take up the courage to unblock, release fear and invite more creativity and curiosity into our lives. Join us. Would you like to begin group meetings for The Artist's Way? Do you want to begin the journey together? Join our Discord and let's figure this out together!Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/6X4RNYC3VAEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
6/1/2023 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 41 seconds
Ep 265. The Dangers of Derrick Jaxn & Ron Disney DeSantis
This week, Shanti preps for The Roots Picnic and feels encouraged while Antoinette is consumed by the demands of home & aging parents. Still, Antoinette gives us a detailed rundown on the policies and political platform of Ron DeSantis and fails miserably at remaining bipartisan. Finally, the girls discuss Johnathan Majors dating Megan Good, the complicated legacy of Jim Brown, and DaNaia Jaxn's (former wife of Derrick Jaxn) recent interview. Join Us. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/v5Q8HkRp Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
5/29/2023 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 18 seconds
Ep 264. What Age Are Bikinis Appropriate?
In this week's podcast episode, Shanti describes how adulting is providing an unrelenting beatdown on her while Antoinette solves a mystery about why her upstairs neighbor is always making noise. For this week's topic, we listen to an extended version of emails and ask: When is the appropriate age for a child to start making real decisions about their appearance? What were are earliest acts of independence? Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/v5Q8HkRp Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
5/25/2023 • 1 hour, 21 minutes, 33 seconds
Ep 263. Janelle Monae Makes Us Project Onto Her
We're back baby! Shanti teaches us about Jewish matchmaking while Antoinette seeks refuge from her many stressors in girl's nights with Jade, Mandii, Fran, & Cristle. Shanti fills us in on some white excellence and Antoinette breaks down Trump's latest antics on CNN's Townhall. Finally, we give yall some pop culture and cover Beyonce's opening tour weekend for Renaissance, Kim K paying restitution fees for mothers on Mother's Day, & finally Janelle Monae's new song and video Lipstick Lover. Join us. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/v5Q8HkRp Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
5/22/2023 • 1 hour, 23 minutes, 24 seconds
REPRISE: Ep 204. Everyone Needs Touch
In this episode, Shanti commits herself to a white woman regimen while Antoinette shares the tragic aftermath of appearing on "The Pineapple Show". Together, we respond to a caller who thinks Shanti's "brown privilege card" should be revoked, while another caller accuses us of aging ourselves. For our main topic, we discuss touch deprivation, our personal experience with it, & the general effects it has on the human brain and psyche. How do we cope? How do we reconnect? How do we ask for touch? Once again we have more questions than answers. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
5/18/2023 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 48 seconds
REPRISE: Ep 181. Blame the Voices in Our Heads
In episode 181, Antoinette fills us in on her tragic love life while Shanti shares that she is no longer trusting herself. Together, we dive into current events and share unpopular opinions on the Black cultural phenomenon that is "The Wiz" & the social media celebration of Loving vs Virginia. Finally, we have a temperature check and share what the voices are saying in their heads. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: Believe in Yourself Diana Ross version from The WizSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
5/15/2023 • 2 hours, 13 minutes, 35 seconds
Ep 262. Transparency is the Enemy of Exploitation ft. Toi Marie Smith
In this episode, Antoinette gives us valuable information on how to survive the end of the world in your car while Shanti revels in JoJo being old enough to care more for herself so her momma can run in these here streets. The girls are then joined by a powerhouse, mother, impact strategist, and revolutionary, Toi Marie Smith. Together, they discuss the 6 requirements of capitalism and its effects on motherhood, the responsibility of white wealth, and the power of financial transparency. Join us. Follow Toi Marie Smith: IG: https://instagram.com/toimarie?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==Website: https://www.toimarie.com/Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
5/11/2023 • 1 hour, 27 minutes, 14 seconds
Ep 261. To Drive? Or Own The Bus? That Is The Question.
In this week's episode, Shanti prepares for a busy season with The Sable Collective while Antoinette grapples with her offbeat social awkwardness that seems to be in direct conflict with her online persona. We then keep it light on the politics and instead, deep dive into pop culture as we share our favorite Meta Gala looks (while acknowledging the absurdity of it all). We curse Brian Mcknight tf out, celebrate Missy Elliot, show compassion for Da Brat, and ponder the age-old question that continues to rack the hearts and minds of modern civilization - "Would you date a man who drives a bus?" Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
5/8/2023 • 1 hour, 42 minutes, 11 seconds
Ep 260. The Only AI We Acknowledge is Allen Iverson
In this week's episode, Shanti realizes she's a workaholic, while Antoinette demands that her job offer her more than just hollow praise. For our main topic, we talk about the world of A.I and its inevitable effects on our lives for both good and bad. Are we ready? Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
5/4/2023 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 41 seconds
Ep 259. God, for Real, Help Us.
In this week's episode, Shanti is getting a reality check as she deep-dives into her finances while Antoinette finds joy in the NBA playoffs. Together we talk about the state of corporate news with the recent firings of Carl Tuckerson and Don Lemon and the House passing a bill that limits trans women athletes' participation in sports. Lastly, we pay tribute to the late great Harry Belafonte as well as the trash tv talk show legend Jerry Springer. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
5/1/2023 • 1 hour, 29 minutes, 5 seconds
Ep 258. Well, That Was Good, That Was Good
This week, Antoinette is somehow still high & recounts reconnecting with her ex as Shanti gives us a tutorial on how to live in luxury. We talk more about gentle & not-so-gentle parenting while responding to listener voicemails, provide you with a chaotic Around the Way Affirmation, and completely unravel by the end of the episode. It was "good". Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
4/27/2023 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 33 seconds
Ep 257. Shanti's Back & Ant is High
In this week's episode, Upon Shanti's return, Antoinette eats an edible, resulting in an hour & 14 mins of ATWC chaos. Shanti celebrates "Beef" and Bjork while Antoinette manages the good and bad of being overwhelmed. Together, we talk about our upcoming hotep summer, some politics as usual (including the shooting of Ralph Yarl) & the continuing fall of Jonathan Majors. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
4/24/2023 • 1 hour, 14 minutes, 19 seconds
Ep 256. When Relationships Change ft. Mandii B
In this episode, Antoinette is joined by Mandii B and together they discuss how to manage the inevitable changes that come in relationships. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
4/20/2023 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 59 seconds
Ep 255. Pandering, Group Think, & the Hypocrisy of it All. Ft Mandii B
This week, filling in for Shanti is the pod Gawd, Mandii B. Together, Mandii, and Antoinette make fun of her social life while also holding her accountable for creating the vibe she wants. They discuss cancel culture in response to Daniel Caeser's new album + give their takes on Cardi B vs the Dalai Lama. Antoinette also gets Mandii to deep dive into politics while dissecting what Fox News calls Justin Pearson's persona, "political cosplay". Join Us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
4/17/2023 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 30 seconds
Ep 254. My Mother Was My First Bully
This week Shanti is beaming with pride after going to all of her checkups and dental appointments while Antoinette is reminded of a time she was a hotep putting money on her former king's books. We listen & respond to some intriguing voicemails and finally deep dive into the concept of our mothers being our first bullies. Join us Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
4/13/2023 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 8 seconds
Ep 253. What Does Marcus Houston & Jay Z Have In Common?
In this week's episode, Shanti shares a lovely weekend of friendship while Antoinette shares two terrifying events that happened in one day involving her cat and a tornado. Together, we ponder if Van Jones' compassion is misplaced, the expulsion of two Black Tennesee lawmakers, Jill Biden losing her got damn mind, and if Jay Z and Marcus Houston share a common practice in the selection of their wives? Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
4/10/2023 • 1 hour, 15 minutes, 25 seconds
Ep 252. Reimagining Relationships ft. Joél Leon
This week Shanti has no updates while Antoinette tells us a love story gone wrong after shooting her shot at Trader Joe's. We are then joined by artist, writer, and dope human being, Joèl Leon for a conversation about reimagining co-parenting & intimate relationships. Join us.Follow Joèl: Twitter: @JoelakaMaGIG: iamjoelleonDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
4/6/2023 • 1 hour, 49 minutes, 57 seconds
Ep 251. Jonathan Majors & Jebediah Springfield
This week Antoinette is sitting in gratitude while Shanti is learning that everything in life is a negotiation. We talk about the return of HBO's, Succession and FINALLY address Jonathan Majors being accused of assault & harassment. Join us.* Note this episode was recorded before the text message exchange between him and the alleged victim was released.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
4/3/2023 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 2 seconds
Ep 250. Relationship Anarchy 101
In this week's episode, Shanti shares her favorite social media couples that she secretly roots for while Antoinette sits with herself and leans into feeling all her feelings. For our main topic, we read the Relationship Anarchy manifesto written by Andie Nordgren as we continue the conversation around polyamory. What are the foundational values of relationship anarchy? Do we really even understand and agree with the philosophy? Is this something that we truly subscribe to? Do we want to? Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
3/30/2023 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 42 seconds
Ep 249. Is Blac Chyna The New Queen Afua?
In this week's episode, Shanti shares a proud mom moment, while Antoinette learns to manage the difficult art of doing too much and feeling like it's nothing ever enough. Together, we get into the transformation of Black Chyna, share our reviews of Netflix's The Strays, Trump's pending indictment, the possibility of World War 3, and grieve the death of Lance Reddick. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
3/27/2023 • 1 hour, 21 minutes, 18 seconds
Ep 248. A Conversation About Polyamory ft. Dar
This week, Antoinette navigates the "sliminess" of networking while Shanti avoids her feelings by talking about The Last Of Us. Together, we respond to some listener voicemails that lead us down some interesting convos. Finally, we are joined by Dar, founder of Boonoonoonoos - a collective of polyam-friendly Black hotties liberating joy & pleasure through the intimacy of community. We talk about ethical polyamory, over-communicating, and love outside the bounds monogamy. Follow Dar: IG @dlabeachIG @Boonoonoonoos_coDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
3/23/2023 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 14 seconds
Ep 247. Banks Collapsing, Biden & Oil, Angela & The Oscars
In this week's episode, Shanti prays to stay off of Instagram while Antoinette feels called to create the life she wants to live. Together we talk about banks collapsing, approval of the Willow Project, and Angela & The Oscars. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
3/20/2023 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 40 seconds
Ep 246. What Happened to Wonder?
This week Shanti is literally fighting sadness while Antoinette fights dehydrated skin. Together, we respond to listener messages and deep dive into a conversation about wonder. Inspired by, Cole Arthur Riley's, "This Here Flesh", we ask ourselves: "What happened to wonder? What happened to awe? Do we still reserve room for them?" Why or why not? Join usDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
3/16/2023 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 13 seconds
Ep 245. Should Chris Get Slapped Again?
Antoinette returns for this week's episode! Shanti realizes that dating herself is exhausting and looks to create more simple experiences while Antoinette found herself in a precarious situation in the Bronx last weekend. Together, we discuss the monumental lawsuit against Fox News, decide if Micheal B. Jordan is really corny, and share our thoughts on Chris Rock's recent Netflix special. Does he deserve to get molly-whopped again? Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
3/13/2023 • 1 hour, 30 minutes, 1 second
Ep 244. Questionnaire to Oneself ft Naana
For this week's episode, we are joined again by the lovely Naana of "Work Bae" Podcast. Together we jump right into our main topic inspired by Audre Lorde's "Questionnaire to Oneself". For 3 days, Naana and Shanti wrote responses in their journals to the prompts. Listen as they share what came up for each of them. Feel free to begin your own journaling process with these prompts below:What are the words you do not have yet? [Or, “for what do you not have words, yet?”]What do you need to say? [List as many things as necessary]“What are the tyrannies you swallow day by day and attempt to make your own, until you will sicken and die of them, still in silence?” [List as many as necessary today. Then write a new list tomorrow. And the day after.]If we have been “socialized to respect fear more than our own needs for language and definition”, ask yourself: “What’s the worst that could happen to me if I tell this truth?”* [So, answer this today. And every day.]Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
3/9/2023 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 32 seconds
Ep 243. Sweet Baby Leodis Ft. Naana
In this week's episode, we are joined by Naana of the "Work Bae" podcast while Antoinette takes a week away. Shanti shares her recent unpopular opinions about gender and Lizzo and together we discuss Keke Palmer's new bundle of joy, Modern Day Minstrel shows, and Dilbert's racist cartoon creator. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
3/6/2023 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 14 seconds
Ep 242. Time Isn't Real But We're Old
In this episode, Shanti travels back in time while Antoinette shares anxiety over an upcoming photoshoot. After a couple of listener voicemails, we keep it light this week as we discuss all the things we are too damn old for now that we have reached our mid-thirties. Join usDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
3/2/2023 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 17 seconds
Ep 241. Does Bashir Pump Gas?
In this week's episode, we both are in our feelings. Is it because of Pisces season or is it because we need therapy? Shanti shares updates about school while Antoinette shares her experience at The Read's 10th Anniversary Live Show. Together, we talk about real-life zombies in Philly, Black Excellence in STEM, and global burnout amongst parents and end with our thoughts on questioning gender norms due to the outrage caused by Jonathan Major's new Essence cover. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
2/27/2023 • 1 hour, 26 minutes, 34 seconds
Ep 240. A Tale of Two Khadijahs
In this week's episode, we begin with music. Shanti claims her actual soulmate is her Spotify "Discover Weekly" playlist while Antoinette considers a trip to London to see Cleo Sol this spring. For our main topic, we listen to voicemails. As usual, our callers share their insights, questions, and wise corrections with the community. We end with two very different responses from women both named Khadijah giving us the duality we didn't know we needed. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
2/23/2023 • 1 hour, 32 minutes, 14 seconds
Ep 239. Rihanna, Idris, Ageism & Aliens
In this week's episode, Shanti deepens her understanding of what creating a life she loves means by correcting her daily work practices. Antoinette took another step towards her aliveness by sharing her voice with a friend which led to a greater leap of courage.Together, we talk about The Super Bowl, Rihanna'a performance, if are being bamboozled by balloons, and Idris's recent declaration about being a Black actor. Join us....Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
2/20/2023 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 52 seconds
Ep 238. Eroticism Should Be Part of Your Self Care Plan
This week we deep dive into the erotic with help from the GAWD Esther Perel. Her recent article, Why Eroticism Should Be Part of your Self-Care Plan, helps us define eroticism & guides us on to access & practice it. We then question how we have limited our idea of eroticism & only attached it to sex. In our daily lives, how often do we really prioritize + will the practice of the fullest expression of ourselves? In our daily lives, how often do we really prioritize + will the practice of the fullest expression of ourselves? How often are we looking to someone else, someplace else, work, etc to make us feel alive and well? Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsArticle by Esther Perel: https://www.estherperel.com/blog/eroticism-self-care-plan?utm_source=Klaviyo&utm_medium=campaign&_kx=OoQ1nm61pNXUz6TQKk-DM9LY6Rdemnj06RyCat-zle1jKu83fbffzBBbdIvDpvvM.N5ubDS
2/16/2023 • 1 hour, 18 minutes
Ep 237. Beyonce, Bell Hooks & State of the Union
In this week's episode, Shanti explores her city and finds enjoyment in working at a cafe that plays experimental jazz loudly, while Antoinette grounds herself in the wise words of bell hooks' All about Love for Valentine's Day. Together, we address recent assumptions and critiques made by listeners about our relationship. We discuss the Grammys, Beyonce's wins and losses, China's spy balloon, and Joseph Robinette Biden's recent State Of The Union Address. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
2/13/2023 • 1 hour, 27 minutes, 3 seconds
Ep 236. I’d Rather be Hurt By The Truth
In this week's episode, Shanti buys herself tickets to a play in New York for another solo date as Antoinette also considers dating herself due to the poor selection of men out here who respond with green texts, and have poor dating etiquette.For our main topic, we dive into the taboo. What happens when you are in love with a person who you can't have? Do we indulge in our pleasure and get more entangled in love? Do we withdraw and stop all communication in the name of respect and morality? Or do we push the boundaries outside of society's norms and recreate relationship structures that fit our needs? What would you do? Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsTo get a copy of the zine "This Is About More Than Who We Fuck" email us directly!
2/9/2023 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 19 seconds
Ep 235. 4,094 Ancestors Before You
This week, Shanti fully embraces her nickname, Shalom Shanti by becoming a yogi & expresses gratitude to a listener for her help in restoring The Sable Collective's IG. Antoinette gushes over the Eagles going to the Superbowl and shares some of the many lessons she is learning from working more closely with her girl, Mandii B. Together, they ring in Black History Month right by examining the SYSTEM that is white supremacy, expressing gratitude for the ancestors, and imagining the faith, love, & liberation that no system could rob them of. Join us for a very special episode of Around the Way Curls. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsWatch Karen Hunter's: In Class with Carr, Ep. 151: Tyre Nichols and the SYSTEM of Brutality here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bjxfqmz5EJE&t=198sWatch Yaba Blay's live with Colel Arthur Riley: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CoGl3OhqiLz/?igshid=NDk5N2NlZjQ=Follow Dr. Car on Twitter: https://twitter.com/AfricanaCarr?s=20&t=b6hD3Oh5ZWtVbQtfUXByAw Follow Karen Hunter on Twitter: https://twitter.com/karenhunter?s=20&t=b6hD3Oh5ZWtVbQtfUXByAw
2/6/2023 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 24 seconds
Ep 234. You’re Projecting On To Me & That’s F'd Up
In this week's episode, Shanti is inspired by Toni Morrison and wants to create "a place that feels like it is all hers" as she navigates nurturing her inner world and cultivating new hobbies. Antoinette leans into daily stretching and shares her attempt at a homemade ice bath that didn't go as planned. Together, we talk about projection after a recent conflict with one another. What is projection? What is it seated in? How can we become more aware when we are projecting? Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
2/2/2023 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 5 seconds
Ep 233. No Good News
*Note* This episode was recorded before the video release of Tyre Nichol's' brutal murder at the hands of Memphis police.In this week's episode, Shanti manages the emotional and collateral damage of having her business' Instagram account stolen from her while Antoinette celebrates the release of her newest podcast "Can't Afford Therapy". Together, we agree that Bob Ross was good at stroking more than just a paintbrush! We disagree on the significance of Beyonce's recent performance in Dubai, shake our heads at Biden's growing stack of confiscated confidential papers, and the consequences of Florida's governor's "Anti-Woke" crusades. Join us.Shop + Support Shanti's business at https://www.thesablecollective.com/Listen to Antoinette's newest Podcast, Can't Afford Therapy here https://link.chtbl.com/CantAffordTherapy?fbclid=PAAaaUFLloG8R_USyoTdV0H5RusOwPGxyfj0VDMFL-evrDVENmvQAx1GYLE44 Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Dont Nobody Bring Me No Bad News from 'The Wiz" by Charlie Smalls
1/30/2023 • 1 hour, 23 minutes, 3 seconds
Ep 232: Are Rewards Ruining Us?
In this week's episode, Shanti stands by her mac and cheese and finds joy in headphones and Homegoods while Antoinette shares her shock at Black women getting facial cosmetic surgery. Together, we listen to callers' very different responses to the same episode about marriage and longevity. For our main topic, Antoinette finds that only a white man, Dr. Andrew Huberman holds the keys to her motivation. Inspired by his teachings, she offers his advice on how to start the day off "right" and stay motivated for a lifetime. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Morning Sex by Ralph Castelli
1/26/2023 • 59 minutes, 22 seconds
Can't Afford Therapy: New Podcast Alert!
Antoinette has a new podcast! She's been talking about the new project she has diligently been working on and it's finally here. Be sure to head over to the Can't Afford Therapy Podcast and check out the first two episodes today!Be a fly on the wall as Josh "Fazefunk," Antoinette, and SaVon hold conversations about mindfulness, compassion, healing, and more. While being vulnerable and allowing each other to open up about each of their individual life paths. This trio will get you to peel back the layers, reconnect to your humanity, and manage all of the joy and pain that this thing called life entails.Whether you can afford therapy or not, these conversations will make you question how well you know yourself and are in touch with your mental health.Follow Can't Afford Therapy on IG @CantAffordTherapyPod
1/25/2023 • 4 minutes, 37 seconds
Ep 231: Maybe I’ll Do Adderall Tomorrow
In episode 231, Shanti is excited to be back in school but frustrated by the two ghosts haunting her house while Antoinette struggles to tell friends she isn't paying for the 4 rounds of drinks when she got a regular chicken entree. Together they discuss the Seattle school district suing social media leaders Meta, Google, Snapchat + Tiktok, Joseph Robinette Biden's classified document scandal, Goerge Santos lies on lies on lies, and China going from 100 to 0 when it comes to covid. Finally, we give our thoughts on the new MLK statue and Lori Harvey adding Damson Idris to her collection of celebrity men in love with her. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio credit: Pusherlove Girl by Justin Timberlake
1/23/2023 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 4 seconds
Ep 230. Juggling Multiple Men & Feelings
In episode 230, Shanti is committed to dating herself while Antoinette examines the epigenetics of her "middle-class mindset". We then get into some passionate voicemails regarding the word. "Sable", Meghan Markle's identity, Black women's labor, and a unique form of polyamory. Finally, we continue to indulge in hot topics for the week discussing The Equal Act failing in the Senate, Mielle Organics being inquired by Procter and Gambel, and Gwen Stefani claiming she is Japanese. Join usDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: 1,2,3 (You, her and me) by Rick James
1/19/2023 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 2 seconds
Ep 229. A White Woman Reads Me To Sleep
Happy MLK DAY! We return to the New Year with updates about Shanti going back to school while Antoinette recovers from a disappointing new year & haircut. Together, we share hot new music, TV shows, and Antoinette's newest ritual of having white women read to her at night. Of course, we catch up on politics & Antoinette goes IN on the GOP/Speaker of the House chaos while finally getting into pop culture discussing Megan Thee Stallion, Diddy's new baby, and Jerrod Carmichael & The Golden Globes wins. Join us!Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: We Still in This B*tch by B.o.B
1/16/2023 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 24 seconds
Reprise: Ep 78. Waiting to Exhale
Episode 78 is a special one! After a long controversy and a lot of shaming, Shanti has finally watched the movie “Waiting to Exhale”. There is no better duo to help Around The Way Curls dissect the classic than Jade and XD. Join this mashup of podcasts as we revel in the 90’s Black fashion, friendship, terracotta makeup, thirsty women, raggedy men, and the timeless soundtrack that makes “Waiting to Exhale” a classic for the culture. Book Club:Next week’s Pleasure Activism Chapter: A Timeline/Tutorial On Squirting page 189.Contact UsIG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comFollow Jade & XDJade- @jadeofalljades on all platformsXD- @xavier.dleau on IG @xavierDLeau on twitter@JadeandXD on IGBuy Chante Moore’s Wey U here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/wey-u/216124789?i=216125457
1/12/2023 • 1 hour, 50 minutes, 36 seconds
Reprise: Ep 193. Inner Chile
* Sorry. We experienced technical difficulties and had to use zoom audio*For this week's episode, we talk about White women smiling and walking versus Black women smiling and walking, the surge of Covid-19, and react to Normani and Cardi's Wild Side. For the main jawn, we tap into our inner BéBés kids. Inspired by Mary J Blige, we question the needs, and conditioning of our inner children and how we carry them into our adult lives. Join us.General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Beyonce's Grown Woman here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/grown-woman/1440755899?i=1440756683
1/9/2023 • 1 hour, 33 minutes, 24 seconds
Reprise: Ep 117. Eating A$$ May Kill You
This week Shanti reflects on sometimes having low self-esteem while Antoinette is shocked by her revelation. Together, they discuss the Grammys and celebrate Jazmine's wins. For our main topic, we dive into our most wild, inappropriate, and unpopular opinions. Join usHotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit "Bodies" by Jazmine Sullivan
1/5/2023 • 1 hour, 42 minutes, 45 seconds
Reprise: Ep 196. Sex Sucks Because of Capitalism?
This episode aired 8/25/22 and it was one of the best we've done.We are back for another 'More Questions Than Answers" episode! Inspired by the Boston Review article, Nine Ways That Capitalism Is Ruining Sex, Shanti and Antoinette deep dive into the relationship between capitalism and sex. Join us!Boston Review Article:https://bostonreview.net/articles/nine-ways-that-capitalism-is-ruining-sex/ This is the link for the Spotify Episode on The Daily. The episode is titled Pregnant at 16.https://open.spotify.com/episode/2oOu467KC9eE6HdiJpQsZK?si=9ad9429c79e94193USES OF THE EROTIC: THE EROTIC AS POWER BY AUDRE LORDE: https://fredandfar.com/blogs/ff-blog/the-erotic-as-power-by-audre-lorde Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: The High by Kelela
1/2/2023 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 26 seconds
Reprise: Ep 181. Blame the Voices in Our Heads
This episode aired on 6/16/22 and due to some unpopular opinions caused quite a stir. In episode 181, Antoinette fills us in on her tragic love life while Shanti shares that she is no longer trusting herself. Together, we dive into current events and share unpopular opinions on the Black cultural phenomenon that is "The Wiz" & the social media celebration of Loving vs Virginia. Finally, we have a temperature check and share what the voices are saying in their heads. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: Believe in Yourself Diana Ross version from The Wiz
12/29/2022 • 2 hours, 13 minutes, 36 seconds
Reprise: Ep 110. An Around The Way Christmas
This episode first aired 12/24/2021 and we unraveled near the end. In episode 110 after a week of being apart, we catch up. Shanti discusses biracial privilege and its relationship to eco-styler gel. Antoinette realizes X-MEN (the movies) are subpar when it comes to white people saving the world. Finally, we rejoice in his name and tell our version of the birth of Black Jesus. Join us. Happy holidays yall. Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comThis Christmas by Patti Labelle can not be beaten. It is also not for sale. We don't own it either. Relax.
12/26/2022 • 1 hour, 46 minutes, 13 seconds
Ep 228. That's All Folks
In the final episode of 2022, the ladies reflect on 2022 and reveal some interesting plans for 2023. May the new year be filled with more possibility, creativity, and play. Live urgently. - Ant & ShantiDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit Brave Bird by Amel Larrieux
12/22/2022 • 49 minutes, 46 seconds
Ep 227. Free Speech, Polyamory, Identity: Who Makes the Rules?
In this week's episode, we get lost in the quicksand of nuance. We consider the absurdity of free speech laws being debated in U.S. politics, and question if Caresha and Diddy are in polyamory heaven or hell? After being tempted to judge Meghan Markle's recent documentary, we journey together to find empathy around Meghan's Black identity (or lack thereof). We also both took an edible during this episode so maybe we were far-reaching in all our pondering. Who knows? Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: 08 Cuff It x Wetter Esentrik Blend
12/19/2022 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 9 seconds
Ep 226. Is Jonathan Majors Tearing Us Apart?
In this week's episode, we fight! In our updates, we get into it over our delusions around Jonathan Majors!! For our main topic, we dive into the most recent NPR interview with Michelle Obama where she discusses the fallacy of 50/50 in a marriage. Can we tolerate years of discomfort if we trust that the other partner will do it for us? Is marriage a dedication to the long game with guaranteed fruits at the end or are we denying ourselves the pleasures of the here and now? Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: SOS SZA
12/15/2022 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 22 seconds
Ep 225. This Is A Civil Rights Issue
In this episode, the girls recap their weekend together in Brooklyn. Antoinette, frustrated by Dr. Umar, questions civil rights activism and activists' inability to recognize LGBTQIA+ rights and civil rights while Shanti expressed relief that Hershel Walker lost the runoff election in Georgia. Together, the girls discuss Bali making premarital sex illegal, Brittney Griner being back home, the Supreme Court doing more f*cK sh*t, and Trevor Noah replacing Jesse Williams as the new biracial poster boy. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Kehlani's Everything
12/12/2022 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 16 seconds
Ep 224. What is This We Are Performing?
In this week's episode, we are giving range! We begin with Shanti's birthday plans and Antoinette battling fruit flies and move into a caller giving us a detailed tutorial on how to ride like a professional athlete. We then move into robocops, Jerry Jones's racist history, and bring it full circle by returning to how enjoying anal pleasures has nothing to do with sexual preference. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: God is On Your Side by Sault
12/8/2022 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 13 seconds
Ep 223. Did an Edible Change My Life?
In this episode, Shanti discusses the wonderful world of micro-dosing (shoutout to @Kimbology) while Antoinette explores the idea of having a sponsor. Together, the ladies discuss Spotify-wrapped reveals, World Cup controversies, the Defense for Marriage Act shortcomings, the delusion of Jennifer Lyn Lopez Affleck, and how men will embarrass you unprovoked. Lastly, Antoinette may or may not have had an edible during this episode. Join us. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: God is On Your Side by Sault
12/5/2022 • 57 minutes, 28 seconds
Ep 222. She Did That ft. Renae Bluitt
Today, we sit down with special guest Renae Bluitt and discuss her unique journey as an entrepreneur. Renae takes us from her beginnings as a blog content creator to producing her film, "She Did That" which landed a spot on Netflix. Rich with nuggets of inspiration and insight, this is an important episode for anyone beginning their own entrepreneurial start. Follow Renae: Website: https://www.renaebluitt.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamrenaebluitt/ Holiday Bazaar: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/she-did-that-holiday-bazaar-2022-tickets-451783114457 Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/honoring-the-profound-and-the-profane/id1556261212?i=1000582145072
12/1/2022 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 42 seconds
Ep 221. Time: The Most Valuable Currency ft. Black
In this episode, Shanti is away and Antoinette is joined by one of her nearest and dearest friends...photographer, musician, multimedia artist extraordinaire, and overall brilliant being "Black" aka @thnwblk_ on IG. Together, they weigh in on a few interesting listener calls (of which both have gripes to pick with Antoinette) and discuss the concept of time. How do we utilize it? What is its value? Is it even real? What role does it play in how we govern and navigate our lives? Join us.Follow BlackIG: @THNWBLK_Website: https://thnwblk.com/ Follow Renae Bluitt & come hang at the Holiday Baazar!IG: @iamrenaebluitt https://www.instagram.com/accounts/login/?next=%2Fiamrenaebluitt%2F&source=omni_redirect Holiday Bazaar: shedidthatholidaynyc.eventbrite.comWebsite: https://www.renaebluitt.com/Song credit: Only Time by Enya
11/28/2022 • 1 hour, 33 minutes, 17 seconds
Ep 220. Practicing Gratitude
Today is Thanksgiving and after weeks of dealing with a recent health scare concerning Antoinette's mother, it only seems right the girls discuss the power of gratitude. We all know what it is but do we intentionally practice it? Do we even know how to? Join us. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: My Light by Sault
11/24/2022 • 53 minutes, 23 seconds
Ep 219. Projection Is a Thing
In episode 219, Shanti discusses her preparation for The Sable Collective's busy season while Antoinette fills us in on an unexpected stay in Philly. Shanti reveals another white crush and questions whether or not she is projecting on Jonathan Majors. Together, they discuss Hershel Walker's senate run, Trump's 2024 presidential campaign, impending WWIII, Dave Chappelle's SNL monologue, & the constant disrespect Kelly Rowland endures due to her proximity to Beyonce. Join UsDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Motivation by Kelly Rowland ft. Lil Wayne
11/21/2022 • 1 hour, 26 minutes, 22 seconds
Ep 218. Anxious Parenting ft. Dr. Isha Metzger
In the first half of the episode, Antoinette and Shanti listen to Around The Way Curl community voicemails. Topics span from rape allegations, the continued spotlight on Antisemitism, and projecting insecurities onto Antoinette. For our main topic, Shanti sits with expert Dr. Isha Metzger. Together they discuss parenting anxious children and the ways in which we can disrupt patterns of anxiety and harm. Join us.To learn more about our guest Dr. Isha Metzger, go to https://www.drishametzger.com/ and to explore greater resources on Black children and anxiety go to https://www.drishametzger.com/care-package-for-racial-healingDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: God in Disguise by Sault
11/17/2022 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 11 seconds
Ep 217. In Love, Single & Dating
In this episode, Shanti shares her recent adventures in Atlanta while Antoinette wonders if she should lean into being more of a cougar. Together we talk about the elections results, what's gonna happen to middle America, the decline of men, the mediocrity of Drake, and if Caresha is in danger with Puff Daddy as they explore being "single but dating" together. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: Must Be Love by Cassie ft. Puff Daddy
11/14/2022 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 10 seconds
Ep 216. A Word From Our Listeners
In this week's episode, Shanti gets direct encouragement from her past self while Antoinette continues to hold on as the pressure of work + life build up. For our main topic, we turn to our listeners as they share their thoughts, reactions, and questions around issues like the politics of politeness, the importance of saving memories, and real-life encounters of Florida's raggedy election processes. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
11/10/2022 • 58 minutes, 19 seconds
Ep 215. Who is Actually Right?
In this episode, Shanti discovers Tik Tok while Antoinette salutes Trevor Noah's take on men and sex. Together they discuss the new album by Sault and Babyface not including Jazmine Sullivan on his new R&B girls album. Finally, they discuss how affirmative action is finna be overturned, Dwayne Wade's handling of Zaya, and the passing of Takeoff. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
11/7/2022 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 36 seconds
Ep 214. Do I Still Know How To Ride?
In this episode, Shanti shares her newest kink while Antoinette shares a recent night of solo riding to make sure she ain't lose her capabilities. We enjoy listener call-ins about recovering from abuse, doing hard things, and general kikis. For our main topic, Antoinette realizes that radical honesty may be required in all areas of life including the bedroom. Join us as we navigate how to talk about unfulfilling sex, unrequited love, and loving up on small penises. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: Rodeo by City Girls
11/3/2022 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 5 seconds
Ep 213. Wake Up Mr. West
In episode 213, Shanti manages self-doubt and ponders what scary movies are appropriate for Jolie, while Antoinette has a new admirer at work. Together, the ladies discuss responsible ejaculation, Beyonce's upcoming tour, and the light that was Leslie Jordan. Finally, as much as they have tried to avoid discussing Kanye West, his recent "cancelation" due to anti-Semitism almost demands it. Join usDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: Lost in the World by Kanye West
10/31/2022 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 54 seconds
Ep 212. Cannabis 101 ft. Kimbology
In episode 212, Shanti sets off to become a world traveler by booking a trip to, you guessed it, Atlanta while Antoinette revisits Yrsa Daley-Ward's The How. Together, we respond to listener voicemails that range from touch deprivation to pretty privilege within the Me Too movement. Finally, we are joined by the incredible Kim of the Kimbology podcast who ushers us through a cannabis 101 class for dummies. Connect with Kim: IG Buisness- @kimbologypodcast IG Personal- kimbo_ishhttps://linktr.ee/Kimbology#Meditate #Masterbate #MedicateDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: D'evils by Sir
10/27/2022 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 17 seconds
Ep 211. Catching Eyes from White Guys
In this week's episode Shanti disrupts her routine with walks in the woods while catching eyes from white guys. Antoinette shares she is seeking out both adventure and rest for the coming New Year while also clarifying her position to a concerned listener over Antoinette's recent comments about Lizzo. Together we talk politics and who is really responsible for inflation and the recent controversial defacing of Van Gogh's "Sunflower" by Environmental Activists in London. Was it worth it? Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: "Snow (Hey Oh) by Red Hot Chili Peppers
10/24/2022 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 13 seconds
Ep 210. Personal New Year
In this week's episode, we comment on listener voicemails that range from seeking pleasure from porn to unconventional marriages. After, we discuss Antoinette's recent birthday celebration and explore how she feels now that the festivities have passed. For our main topic, Shanti composed a list of "Birthday Reflections" for Antoinette to ponder as she closes a chapter and enters a Personal New Year. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: "Closer" by Goapele
10/20/2022 • 51 minutes, 22 seconds
Ep 209. Blink Twice If You Need Help
In this episode, Shanti and Antoinette reflect on their weekend together. We big up Black Fathers, and share multiple hot takes on Sade, Lizzo, and Jennifer Hudson. Antoinette deep dives into the women-led uprising in Iran and more politics as usual while Shanti laments on the current state of women in hip hop. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: "Cause I Love You" by Lizzo
10/18/2022 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 48 seconds
Ep 208. The Business of Marriage ft. Dani Baughan
In this week's episode, we are joined by facilitator, coach, and creator of "Conveaux" - Dani Baughan. Together we explore the business of marriage. Is marriage a business contract or a declaration of love? When do we begin to discuss finances with our potential partners? Are we obligated to pay for bonus children? Do we split everything 50/50? Does love conquer all including poor credit? Join us.Follow Dani @dani_beaux_ and @conveaux Learn about coming events at https://conveauxandbuild.go.studio/o you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: "Int'l Player's Anthem" by UGK
10/13/2022 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 33 seconds
Ep 207. A Snake is a Snake
In episode 207, Antoinette reveals her revelations after having her first panic attack and it brings her to a new level of honesty. Shanti is prepping for the holidays and is pissed because no one sent her the name of the brown lip Erykah Badu is wearing. Together, they discuss resenting motherhood, the decriminalization of marijuana, "White Lives Matter" - ing, and why we should congratulate couples when they get divorced. Join us. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: River by IBEYI
10/10/2022 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 53 seconds
Ep 206. Help Me Help Myself
In this week's episode we talk about our relationship with giving and receiving help. How has society taught us to engage with people who need help? When do we decide we can't help someone and they are a "lost cause"? And most importantly how do we ask for help from others? How often is asking for our needs to be met attached to shame and feelings of failure? Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother by Donny Hathaway
10/6/2022 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 33 seconds
Ep 205. Rachel Dolezal Got a Body Ody
In this episode, Shanti laments after the realization that Philly is wildly segregated while Antoinette's plants teach her yet another life lesson. Together, they examine the authenticity of governments like Cuba's uplifting LGBTQIA families and brands such as M&Ms deep diving into DE&I work. Finally, we discuss Netflix's ethical or unethical approach to the new Jeffrey Dahmer show, transracial pioneer Rachel Dolezal seemingly being forced into Only Fans and Shanti capes for City's Girls' Caresha, and her dreams of becoming the next "Black Oprah" (which makes no sense). Join Us. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: Act Up by City Girls
10/3/2022 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 11 seconds
Ep 204. Everyone Needs Touch
In this episode, Shanti commits herself to a white woman regimen while Antoinette shares the tragic aftermath of appearing on "The Pineapple Show". Together, we respond to a caller who thinks Shanti's "brown privilege card" should be revoked, while another caller accuses us of aging ourselves. For our main topic, we discuss touch deprivation, our personal experience with it, & the general effects it has on the human brain and psyche. How do we cope? How do we reconnect? How do we ask for touch? Once again we have more questions than answers. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: Touch by Omarion
9/29/2022 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 49 seconds
Ep 203. Desirability Won't Save Us.
In this week's episode, Shanti asks the community to rally around a dear friend in need while Antoinette tires from hearing herself talk after recording 3 podcasts in 1 week! Together, we kiki about Atlanta, GOT, and A Different World. For politics we offer resources for Puerto Rico, discuss the crisis in Iran and beg the question: Is there such thing as an equitable billionaire? For pop culture, we dive into the Ime Udoka scandal and highlight some talking points we feel are getting lost in the conversation. Join us.Ways to support Shanti's friend in need:Venmo = BkindGZ Cashapp = bkindfamilyservicesPaypal = bkindfamilyservices@gmailResources to support Puerto Rico:@mujersdeislapreldepartamentodelafoodDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Jay Z 4:44
9/26/2022 • 1 hour, 27 minutes, 4 seconds
Ep 202. Listener Love
We realized we didn't properly celebrate our 200th episode and we thought what better way to do that than with you? So, listen in as we play and respond to a TON of voicemails. You MAY just hear yourself. Love yall and thank you for rocking with us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Solange's Down With The Clique
9/22/2022 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 17 seconds
Ep 201. Back Like We Never Left!
We return from our brief break with some Kiki energy! We catch up on our separate break activities and dive into all things pop culture + politics. We talk about the Mississippi water crisis, Joe Biden helping strike a deal for the railroads, well deserved (and not so well deserved) Emmy wins, Kim K being the "victim and the villain" and new music from both Ari Lennox + Jazmine Sullivan. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: WH0A - SN0H AALEGRA X S4DE (HASAN INSANE REMIX)
9/19/2022 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 45 seconds
Reprise: Red Lip Theology ft. Candice Marie Benbow
This week, we are joined by theologian and essayist, Candace Marie Benbow. whose work lies at the intersections of beauty, faith, feminism, and culture. Together, we deep dive into Candace's book, Red Lip Theology, where she invites us to pave our own unique pathways to righteousness through activism, feminism, radical authenticity, and freedom. Join us.Follow Candice: IG & Twitter: @candicebenbowPurchase her book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/665375/red-lip-theology-by-candice-marie-benbow-foreword-by-melissa-harris-perry/ `Wesbite: https://candicebenbow.com Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Song credit: Hold Me As I Land https://music.apple.com/us/album/hold-me-as-i-land/1424924009?i=1424924528
9/15/2022 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 13 seconds
Reprise: Beautifully Broken
So, we are finally doing it. Shanti and I took last week off. We will be recording some new and exciting content this week so stay tuned. But in the meantime, please enjoy this oldie but goody. In episode 151, we discuss the ancient Japanese art form Kintsugi, where imperfections are highlighted and celebrated rather than hidden. Together, we relate this to our own lives and examine how we can be both beautiful and broken. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsBuy Two Fish and An Elephant by Khruangbin here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/dreams/1454595364?i=1454595379
9/12/2022 • 44 minutes, 10 seconds
Ep 200. Some Toxicity is Necessary?
We made it to episode 200 yall! AND to celebrate, we did another throwback music episode where we explore the R&B we grew up with and you may be surprised by what we discovered. Join us... Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
9/8/2022 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 15 seconds
Ep 199. Pray for the Babies
We are still taking a break from our norm and avoiding heavy/loaded/triggering topics like the plague. Enjoy our attempt at having a lighter conversation while we shoot the sh*t, talk Serena Williams, Stacey Dash, DMX, and how we do NOT envy children growing up in today's world. Join us...Keep in mind, this episode was recorded before the allegations were made against Tiffany Haddish and Aries Spears. You know we talk a lot about the grooming of our young people so we will discuss at a later date.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit DMX Slippin
9/5/2022 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 58 seconds
Ep 198. Do You Even Like Her?
We need a break from our "More Questions Than Answers" weekly drop because self-work is hard. We'll bring the soul work back this week. Until then, tune into another 'Ki-Ki' episode where Shanti talks about her first sex club experience and Antoinette reveals the official pronunciation of the Gawd, Maryam Hasnaa's name. Together, we discuss Shein's latest failure when it comes to business ethics, ponder whether some men date women but don't like them, and answer some caller's questions. Join usDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit Kate Nash: Play
9/1/2022 • 1 hour, 29 minutes, 2 seconds
Ep 197. KIKI-ing: Hot Takes and Hot Ish ft. Areeayl Goodwin
In this KiKi episode, we uplift the genius that is Areeayl Goodwin of Home by Areeayl for our hot shit segment. She talks about her journey of getting her jewelry on Beyonce and having her collections released by Macy's. Together, we carry on about the death of R+B, quiet quitting, AI black face and the recent student loan forgiveness by Joe Biden. Join us.Follow Areeayl at IG: @homebyareeaylShop: https://www.macys.com/s/icons-of-style/home-by-areeayl/Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
8/29/2022 • 1 hour, 50 minutes, 36 seconds
Ep 196. Sex Sucks Because of Capitalism?
We are back for another 'More Questions Than Answers" episode! Inspired by the Boston Review article, Nine Ways That Capitalism Is Ruining Sex, Shanti and Antoinette deep dive into the relationship between capitalism and sex. Join us!Boston Review Article:https://bostonreview.net/articles/nine-ways-that-capitalism-is-ruining-sex/ This is the link for the Spotify Episode on The Daily. The episode is titled Pregnant at 16.https://open.spotify.com/episode/2oOu467KC9eE6HdiJpQsZK?si=9ad9429c79e94193USES OF THE EROTIC: THE EROTIC AS POWER BY AUDRE LORDE: https://fredandfar.com/blogs/ff-blog/the-erotic-as-power-by-audre-lorde Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: The High by Kelela
8/25/2022 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 26 seconds
Ep 195. Disrupting the Culture ft. Amira and Joshua
In episode 195, Shanti and Antoinette are joined by fellow Philly podcasters Amirah and Joshua of Disruptors of the Culture podcast. Together, we explore folks who are currently making their mark on the culture and question whether or not we should be preserving or disrupting it. Join us. Follow Disruptors of the Culture here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disruptors-in-the-culture/id1501224339 Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Disruption by Jade Blue
8/22/2022 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 15 seconds
Ep 194. Full Moon Rituals
In this "More Questions Than Answers" episode we tap into the world of the "woo woo" and practice a self-reflection full moon ritual together guided by these questions. These are monthly reflections that we can all participate in and reflect on! Join us.Prompts to consider + share: What did I welcome into my life in these past 2 weeks? What change do I want to see in my life?I am proud of stepping into my power when…This month I surrender to…What 3 limiting beliefs do I want to let go of? As you name + move towards your dream. Share how it makes you feel…Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Moon River by Frank Ocean
8/18/2022 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 58 seconds
Ep 193. Do We Want To Vibrate Higher?
In this "Kiki" episode Antoinette anticipates the arrival of her mom for the weekend while Shanti sits with the fact that she now has a 12 year old. Together we discuss the upsurge of lonely men, the hurt inner child of Irv Gotti, and our concern for Chrisean. For politics, Antoinette defends her boo Biden and all his recent accomplishments in the White House. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: RIng The Alarm by Tenor Saw
8/15/2022 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 24 seconds
Ep 192. Little White Lies
In another "more questions than answers' episode, we discuss what it means to be meticulously honest in our relationships. Do you find yourself telling little white lies? Do you withhold how you really feel in the name of "protecting others' feelings? What's the root cause? What may be the consequence of that? Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: No Lie by 2 Chainz
8/11/2022 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 44 seconds
Ep 191. Can't Handle Carnival
In this week's "kiki" episode, Shanti shares an unpopular opinion while Antoinette explains her new beef with Apple. They get into pop culture and may or may not think the flood is coming sooner rather than later. They are also joined by Jamesa Bailey, Director of Black Campaigns for Planned Parenthood. Join us for another episode of Around the Way Curls.Get Activated in Women's Reproductive Rights: Support local abortion clinics, abortion funds, RJ groups, and PP health centers. Help people find access to care at www.abortionfinder.org OR www.ineedana.orgVisit www.BansOff.org to join the fight to push back against abortion bans at all levels of government by visiting and lifting up www.BansOff.org. Share your stories on social media with the hashtag #WhateverTheReason.Center the work and voices of Black, Indigenous, and Latinx activists, people who have fought for abortion rights for decades. Help people pay for their legal expenses: @ifwhenhow’s legal defense fund. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: The Fog by Michael Montano
8/8/2022 • 1 hour, 26 minutes, 17 seconds
Ep 190. Staying Small & Safe
In this points-to-ponder episode, we have more questions than answers per usual. Join us as we divulge whether or not we dim our light to make others feel comfortable or if it is to make ourselves feel comfortable. We ask, why do we go through life, as hard as it is, to simply shrink & become invisible? Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: 20 Feet Tall by Erykah Badu
8/4/2022 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 9 seconds
Ep 189. Renaissance
In this ki-ki episode, we of course talk all things Beyonce and discuss whether or not she's a villain or the second coming of Christ. We also talk Ne-Yo lying to Antoinette (& his wife), Will Smith's arch, Jonathan Majors cheating on Shanti and white women. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Plastic Off The Sofa by Beyonce
8/1/2022 • 1 hour, 34 minutes, 37 seconds
Ep 188. Everything is Pink Sauce
In this episode, Shanti prepares for JOJO to go back to school while Antoinette weighs her influencing options. Together, we catapult into pop culture - discussing Monique reuniting with both Lee Daniels and Netflix, Antoinette shares another unpopular opinion regarding the church, & Shanti has empathy for the infamous "Pink Sauce lady". Finally, we land on climate change and the end of the world. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Earth Song by Michael Jackson
7/28/2022 • 1 hour, 37 minutes, 30 seconds
Ep 187. Are You In A Co-Dependent Friendship?
In this "meat and potatoes" episode Shanti brings to the table her recent inspirations from the book "Conscious Loving - The Journey to Co-Commitment". In learning the difference between co-commitment and codependency, Antoinette and Shanti discuss the co-dependent patterns in their friendship and re-commit to creating a more dynamic, honest relationship. Join us.Book Reference = Conscious Loving - The Journey to Co-Commitment by Gay Hendricks, Ph.D and Kathlyn Hendricks, Ph.D Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Co-dependency by Orla Gartland
7/25/2022 • 58 minutes, 52 seconds
Ep 186. Catching Up
In this week's episode, Shanti gives her updates about feeling old as hell and finally liking Blue (Ant's cat), while Antoinette shares her recent guest podcasting spots interviewing famous folks while disliking certain well-intentioned but seemingly backhanded compliments. Together, we share our takes on the most recent happenings in pop culture and politics such as Kevin Hart's interview with Jay Z, the erasure of Wendy Willams, Desus + Mero's split, child support at contraception, and the infamous interview between Caresha and Kevin Gates. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Ne-Yo "Because of You"
7/21/2022 • 1 hour, 31 minutes, 23 seconds
Ep 185. Raising Biracial Babies
In this episode, we get straight to the main topic! We respond to a listener's DM who is currently raising biracial children and looking for insight into how better help them interface with society and feel grounded in their identities.Together, we share our experiences within our own family dynamics of being raised by Black fathers and White mothers and what tools and practices we wished our parents had to help us in our own exploration of our racial identities. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Biracial by Sean Fury
7/18/2022 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 37 seconds
Ep 185. Rooting for Everyone White?
In episode 185, Shanti discusses her love for murder mysteries & her disdain for Ant's cat Blue, while Antoinette fills us in on her brief trip to LA. We unintentionally showcase white excellence while discussing Rory's new album/single, the brilliant podcast, "Dissect" and while weighing in on this year's Emmy nominations. Together, we dissect the newest executive order concerning reproductive health & consider the idea that Joesph Robinette Biden is actually a robot being controlled by the government. Finally, we deep dive into 3 excellent listener voicemails & do our best to provide some around-the-way insight. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Theme from HBO's Succession
7/14/2022 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 42 seconds
Ep 184. Be My Distraction
In episode 184 Shanti decides to begin her search for a new location to live as Philly loses its hold on her, while Antoinette explores the west coast on vacation in L.A. Together, we discuss the recent BET Awards, the mass shootings spread across America during Independence Day, and another death of a Black man by police. For our main topic, take inventory of our distractions and our priorities. What do we focus our energy on the most? Does it support our priorities? Are we distracted from what we really want? Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong Credit: Distractions by Kehlani
7/7/2022 • 2 hours, 11 minutes, 45 seconds
Ep 183. Justin vs Usher, Jay vs Michael, Roe vs Wade
Somehow the theme of this episode was verzuz. The girls discuss the train wreck that was Ray J, Bobby V, Pleasure P, Sammie, Omarion, and Mario & Shanti masterfully explain why there are the way they are. Antoinette is full of unpopular opinions on who would win between Usher and JT. Shanti then tries to misconstrue Ant's words during her attempt to praise the consistent brilliance that is Jay-Z by comparing him to Michael Jackson. Finally, we discuss the overturning of Roe V. Wade & Antoniette walks us through a political science course for dummies, from dummies. Join us. Link to Ant's Justin Timberlake playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/63IvK40AnNV4m0LMA03LpA?si=AFOUv84AR9CeN_5rd3kBLg Link to Ant's Jay Z's playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7s1xyD5yU8qACLiE4myY4a?si=FpqOzOK-R0WfSu5oLnr6FwLink to Ant's Michael Jackson playlist:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1ciCt3CbbyrjCJRkI89Jek?si=WXFPL51wTbqAiVWid9Kq2gHotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsMusic credit Jay-Z Politics As Usual
6/30/2022 • 2 hours, 5 minutes, 57 seconds
Rise: A Story About Shooting Your Shot ft. Dayo, Ral & Uche
* This bonus episode was prerecorded in May. Please be sure to tune in this Thursday for our reactions to Roe vs. Wade being overturned. In this episode, Antoinette is joined by the stars of the new film, Rise based on the life story of NBA giant, Giannis Antetokounmpo. Experienced actor Dayo Okeni, and newcomer real-life brothers, Uche and Ral Agada share their varying approaches to the movie industry and their unique journies to starring in the film. Uche teaches us a valuable lesson in shooting your shot, while Ral shows us the value of curiosity and commitment. And finally, Dayo gives us a masterclass on mentorship, self-determination, and discipline. Join usWatch "Rise" Featuring Dayo Okeniyi as Charles Antetokounmpo, Uche Agada as Giannis Antetokounmpo, and Ral Agada as Athanasios "Thanasis" Antetokounmpo.https://disneyplusoriginals.disney.com/movie/rise Follow Dayo on IG @DayoOkeniFollow Uche on IG @UcheAgadaFollow Ral on IG @Ral.AgadaHotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsMusic credit Jazmine Sulllivan: Dream Big
6/27/2022 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 16 seconds
Ep 182. Pray For Your Enemies
In this week's episode Shanti finally calms down from her Juneteenth weekend in which Philly made her proud while questioning the supportive white folks during the celebration. Antoinette shares her Juneteenth weekend as well as the existential angst that is pulling her to redirect how she is perceiving her life. We share our takes on Drake and Beyonce's recent releases and talk gas prices, weak gun laws, and possible food shortages. For our main topic we explore empathy, the lack there seems to be in the world, and how we can put it into practice in our own personal lives. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: Forgive Them Father by Lauryn Hill
6/23/2022 • 1 hour, 55 minutes, 33 seconds
Ep 181. Blame the Voices in Our Heads
In episode 181, Antoinette fills us in on her tragic love life while Shanti shares that she is no longer trusting herself. Together, we dive into current events and share unpopular opinions on the Black cultural phenomenon that is "The Wiz" & the social media celebration of Loving vs Virginia. Finally, we have a temperature check and share what the voices are saying in their heads. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: Believe in Yourself Diana Ross version from The Wiz
6/16/2022 • 2 hours, 13 minutes, 36 seconds
Ep 180. Everything, Everywhere, All At Once ft. Assante
In this week's episode, we are graced with podcast royalty - Assante of "The Friend Zone". Assante talks about his identity outside of being a famous "podcaster" and together we dive into an esoteric abyss as we discuss the movie "Everything, Everywhere, All at Once". Lastly, we explore and give our reactions to Kendrick Lamar's 'Mr Morale and the Big Steppers" and this season 4 Atlanta. Join us!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: Count Me Out by Kendrick Lamar from "Mr Morale + the Big Steppers".
6/9/2022 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 5 seconds
Ep 179. Blacks Only, Biracial Baes + 21 Questions
This week Shanti and Antoinette are back in the studio. The girls lament over their white moms never tasting the wonder that is oxtail and gravy. Antoinette invites white to try while Shanti feels they should miss out. They acknowledge the importance of having an older Black woman in your life & who, if anyone, could be their biracial baes. Finally, in true Libra fashion, Antoinette wants to get vulnerable, so they answer invasive questions posed by Esther Perel's card game, "Where Should We Begin". As they answer, they reveal parts of themselves they should break up with, a fantasy of theirs they are conflicted about, and everything in between. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsListen to Esther Perel's podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/where-should-we-begin-with-esther-perel/id1237931798 Audio Credit: Getting To Know You from "The King & I".
6/2/2022 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 36 seconds
Ep 178. Softness + Big P*ssy Energy ft. KIRBY
For episode 178, we are in studio and joined by the creative powerhouse/singer/songwriter/activist and all-around dope Being, Kirby. Kirby shares her story of making a song a day on YouTube to reaching incredible career milestones such as songwriting for the likes of: Beyonce, Ariana Grande, Kanye West, Monica, John Legend + Rihanna (just to name a few) & releasing 2 of her own solo albums in the last 2 years! Having worked relentlessly hard, Kirby is ready for more rest, friendship and love in her life. She invites us to explore the idea of living "the soft life" and what Big P*ssy energy means to her. Join us. To learn more about Kirby go to her website at www.singkirbysing.com and follow her on social media @singKirbysing. You can listen to her amazing catalog on all streaming platforms.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: KIRBY "Velvet"
5/26/2022 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 47 seconds
Ep 177. Amanda's Tale Part II ft. Amanda Henderson
This week we are together and in-studio with our long-time BFF, singer/songwriter Amanda Henderson aka "Amanda's Tale" from Heaux Tales. Together, we relive memories of busting out windows, pawning engagement rings, setting boxes full of memories on fire, and leaning on each other as we learned the hard way. For our main topic, we discuss when it is appropriate to "fight" for a relationship vs when it's time to walk away. Amanda gives us a fire a$$ affirmation and song. Join us. Follow Amanda on IG @lady_lrea https://instagram.com/lady_lrae?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Follow Amanda's music page: www.soundcloud.com/ladylraeHotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: Mariah Carey's Anytime You Need A Friend
5/19/2022 • 1 hour, 49 minutes, 26 seconds
Ep 176. The House is Burning
In this week's episode, our thirst is on full display when talking Pardi & Jesse. Shanti talks Mother's Day and Antoinette has another unpopular opinion regarding Mariah Carey. For our main topic, we cover the country's current threat to abortion rights and we heatedly debate the best way to distinguish the fire of America's burning house. Join us for the full gamut of our relationship.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: Childish Gambino, This Is America
5/12/2022 • 2 hours, 11 minutes, 52 seconds
Ep 175. Friends with Exes
In episode 175, Shanti and Antoinette reconnect after nearly a week and some change of no contact. Shanti argues Black Chyna is a true (new-age) revolutionary, while Antoinette argues Pamala Anderson was Kim K before Kim K. Oh, we also talk China's inhumane covid protocols, Joey's quest for student loan forgiveness, performance artist, Marina Abramovic, and how to approach being friends with an ex. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: Deborah Cox, We Can't Be Friends https://music.apple.com/us/album/we-cant-be-friends/258619627?i=258619852
5/4/2022 • 1 hour, 52 minutes, 33 seconds
Reprise: The Best of ATWC
Antoinette is still pulling all nighters at work. Ep 175 will drop next week. In the meantime, now is a good time to revisit The Best of ATWC. Join us as we look back on 150 episodes and recall our favorite moments
4/29/2022 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 59 seconds
Ep 174. Tight Grip
In this week's episode, Shanti recovers from being sick after a weekend running these streets, while Antoinette reflects on the best and worst of being bi-racial during Easter dinner. Together we recap our weekend celebrations, ASAP Rocky's recent arrest, white folks restricting math books, and the unreasonable desire to learn money won't make us happen the hard way - by having lots of money. For our main topic, Shanti is inspired by the parental choices of Dwayne Wade + Gabrielle Union and asks us if we have a tight grip on the many relationships we have in our lives. What happens when we let go? Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: Let it Flow Toni Braxton
4/21/2022 • 1 hour, 39 minutes, 2 seconds
Ep 173. God, Are You There?
In this week's episode, Shanti shares why she loves humans while Antoinette braces for a hard work week filled with late nights and unreasonable deadlines. Together, we share our take on Donald Glover's recent interview conducted by himself, churches taking a fast from whiteness and the growing state battles around education and gender politics. For our topic, we call on the Good Lord. How do we know when we are allowing ourselves to be instruments of God? What is purpose? And how does one align with one's purpose? Pray for us and join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: Let God Use You by Walter E.L Scrutchings and Co
4/14/2022 • 1 hour, 34 minutes, 57 seconds
Ep. 172. Eating A** May Kill You
This week Shanti reflects on sometimes having low self-esteem while Antoinette is shocked by her revelation. Together, they discuss the Grammys and celebrate Jazmine's wins. For our main topic, we dive into our most wild, inappropriate, and unpopular opinions. Join usHotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit "Bodies" by Jazmine Sullivan
4/7/2022 • 1 hour, 42 minutes, 45 seconds
Ep 171. I Too, Will Smack You
In this week's episode, Shanti deals with dehydration while deciding her newly appointed spiritual Guru will be Mike Tyson. Antoinette inadvertently begins her journey of exclusively drinking expensive water and admitting she has the handwriting of a middle schooler. Together, we talk Biden talking off script, Mase's diss track, Beyonce's performance and the many Oscar wins. For our main topic, we talk about the slap that was heard across the world. Was Will Smith wrong for defending his wife Jada against Chris Rock's callous joke? Do we support violence? When is violence necessary? When isn't it? When do we have the green light to smack a b*tch? Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit "Philly" by Eve featuring Beanie Sigel.
3/31/2022 • 1 hour, 59 minutes
Ep 170. Do You Really Have the Best P*ssy in the World?
For episode 170, Shanti & Antoinette reflect on Jazmine's show, feeling like hell after staying out passed a certain hour & having a case of the "uglies". For pop culture, Shanti says goodbye to Maury while Antoinette reveals she didn't watch his show much but Ricky Lake was her girl, and together they discuss the unfortunate rise & fall of Wendy Williams. Shanti leads us through, "Politics as Usual" offering an interesting comparison to Ukraine and Palestine. And finally, for our main topic, we talk about whether or not it is even possible to have "the best p*ssy in the world." What are the qualifiers? Who do we think has it? What percentile do we think we are in? Mathematically, is this even possible? Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit "BPW" by Jazmine Sullivan.
3/24/2022 • 1 hour, 32 minutes, 34 seconds
Ep 169. Navigating Issues in Friendships
In this week's episode, Shanti talks failing forward in business while Antoinettes admits to feeling guilty in daily life while there is war waging in the world. We also talk about the ridiculous styling of lashes and baby hair that seem to have the culture in a chokehold. For our main topic, we discuss common issues that come up in friendships like new babies, new pay grades, jealousy, and how we have managed. Join us...Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit "What About Your Friends?" by TLC.
3/17/2022 • 1 hour, 46 minutes, 14 seconds
Ep 168. You Weren't Fast, You Were Groomed ft. Eryn Amel
While Antoinette takes a week of rest, Shanti is joined by Eryn of ErynAmelism. We talk what to do with overzealous friends, the erroneous arrest of Ryan Coogler and going back to the office after the pandemic. For our main topic, Eryn shares her experience as a young 13 year old groomed by an abuser and the inner transformation she is learning to surrender to in order to heal from it. Join us...Follow Eryn Amel Youtube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCT0Ad3zBbP4H125pQuMABQwEryn Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/erynamelism/?hl=enHotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit Eve "Love is Blind" from 1999 album "Let There Be Eve"
3/10/2022 • 2 hours, 18 minutes, 53 seconds
167. Sex, Drugs & Kids ft. Good Moms Bad Choices
For episode 167, we are joined by the lovely ladies of Good Moms, Bad Choices. Together, we discuss parenting in the age of Euphoria. What discussions did we have with our parents around sex and drugs? What discussions do we wish we would have had? How do our socioeconomic backgrounds affect our "coming of age" experiences? Where is the line between over/early exposure and honesty? Join us. Follow Good Moms Bad Choices: IG @GoodMoms_BadChoices ATWC Info:Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
3/3/2022 • 59 minutes, 23 seconds
Ep 166. Not All Black Art Slaps ft. Jade + X.D.
Chile, we needed a break from publicly deep-diving into soul work and decided to chop it up with our faves Jade and XD because Black joy is also an act of resistance and self-preservation. We talk about our dislike for a certain mahogany art, the "L' in Salmon being anti-Black, and much more. Join us. Follow Jade + X.D. IG @jadeandxdSubscribe to their pod: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jade-x-d/id1578749770Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy "Glory" (from the Motion Picture Selma" by John Legend & Common here https://music.apple.com/us/album/glory-from-the-motion-picture-selma/951104551?i=951104561
2/25/2022 • 1 hour, 33 minutes, 59 seconds
Even The Rich: Janet vs The Halftime Show
From Wondery, Even The Rich pulls back the curtain on the lives of the rich and famous, and takes a peek at the wild world of celebrity. Hosted by Brooke Sifrinn and Aricia Skidmore-Williams, their latest season tells the story of Janet Jackson's historic music career and the infamous halftime performance that almost derailed it. Janet’s pop dreams began as the baby sister to The Jackson 5 and their pop-music juggernaut. But Janet had her own vision for her pop superstardom. As soon as she went solo, she wasted no time breaking boundaries and finding her own sound. By the early 90’s Janet was influencing the likes of Madonna, Mariah Carey and even her brother, Michael. She was on top of the pop world. But in a fateful, split-second moment at the 2004 halftime show, Janet’s life and career took a dramatic turn. From Wondery, Even The Rich: Janet vs. The Halftime Show looks back at her iconic career and the wardrobe malfunction that changed everything. Listen to the rest of this episode at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1500477470.
2/21/2022 • 7 minutes, 43 seconds
Ep 165. Single & In Love ft. Sio
This week we are joined by the dope human being Sio. We chat about dating apps, Tinder Swindler, Verzuz, Heaux Tales, and Kanye's harassment of Kim. For our main topic, we discuss where we are at this juncture of our lives when it comes to love or whateva, Join us. Follow Sio @justcallmesioRead Sio's blog: https://www.justcallmesio.com/blog/softest-place-on-earthhttps://www.justcallmesio.com/blog/softest-place-on-earth Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio credit: Musiq Soulchild "Love" from the album entitled "Aijuswanaseing"
2/17/2022 • 2 hours, 6 minutes, 57 seconds
Ep164. Should Biracial Folks Just Hush? Ft. Celestine Rae
In episode 164, we are joined by Antoinette's sister, Celestine Rae where we discuss Kierra Sheard's stance on not allowing female friends to stay in her home when her man is present, the never-ending saga that is Joe Rogan & Spotify, censorship, corporate integrity, and no-knock warrants. For our main topic, we examine Thandiwe Netwon's recent public penance and question if there is space to discuss racial trauma through a mixed lens. Join us. Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio credit: Son Little "Mad About You" https://music.apple.com/us/album/mad-about-you/1485069274?i=1485069789
2/10/2022 • 2 hours, 4 minutes, 24 seconds
Ep 163. Shame! Shame! Shame!
Shanti begins smoking CBD joints while Antoinette swoons over her deepening love affair with her chiropractor. Together, we talk RiRi's lucky baby, Janet Jackson's new doc, and Biden's intention of selecting a Black woman Supreme Court Justice nominee. For our main topic, we discuss our relationship with shame and what we need in order to rid ourselves of it. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio credit: Game of Thrones "Cersei's Walk Of Shame" Season 5 Episode 10
2/3/2022 • 2 hours, 2 minutes, 10 seconds
Ep 162. Red Lip Theology ft. Candice Marie Benbow
* This is one of our favorite episodes*This week, we are joined by theologian and essayist, Candace Marie Benbow. whose work lies at the intersections of beauty, faith, feminism, and culture. Together, we discuss Black luxury, the danger Kevin Samuels poses to the community, and question if women's sexual liberation is being packaged for male consumption. For our main topic, we deep dive into Candace's book, Red Lip Theology, where she invites us to pave our own unique pathways to righteousness through activism, feminism, radical authenticity, and freedom. Join us.Follow Candice: IG & Twitter: @candicebenbowPurchase her book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/665375/red-lip-theology-by-candice-marie-benbow-foreword-by-melissa-harris-perry/ `Wesbite: https://candicebenbow.com Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: Hold Me As I Land https://music.apple.com/us/album/hold-me-as-i-land/1424924009?i=1424924528
1/27/2022 • 2 hours, 1 minute, 42 seconds
Ep 161. We're Back & Saying No
We're back from our two-week hiatus & in true ATWC fashion, we are asking more questions! We discuss Kanye, Lisa Bonet & Jason Mamoa, and the wild wild west/LA train robberies. For our main topic, we discuss "The How" by Yrsa Daley-Ward and explore our use (or lack thereof) of the word, "No". Are we saying, "No" enough? Do we feel guilty when we do? Join us...Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: Destiny's Child "No, No, No Part 1" https://music.apple.com/us/album/no-no-no-pt-1/153425563?i=153425872
1/20/2022 • 1 hour, 41 minutes, 22 seconds
Ep 160. 2020 TOO
As we prepare for a Holiday break, we keep this episode short and sweet! 2022 is quickly approaching. Together we reflect upon 2021. What was the most challenging part of the year? What did we enjoy the most? What do we look forward to for the next year?Happy New Year to all our lovely, loyal followers. Talk to you next year!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSong credit: Ella Fitzgerald "What Are You Doing New Year's Eve?"
12/30/2021 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 11 seconds
Ep 159. Solitude is Central to the Art of Loving
In episode 159, Antoinette has a pain in her neck. Shanti laments over Omicron and the girls discuss love from the point of view of the Gawd, Bell Hooks. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
12/23/2021 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 23 seconds
Ep 158. Sex Club Clarity & Conclusions
In this week's episode, Shanti prepares for her birthday while Antoinette reveals she went to a sex club and apparently left spiritually awakened and full of wisdom. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy "The Panties" by Mos Def here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-panties/1442817434?i=1442818189
12/16/2021 • 1 hour, 46 minutes, 2 seconds
Ep 157. Holla, 'We Want Prenup!"
In Episode 157, Shanti is excited about buying grills while Antoinette struggles to find work-life balance. Together, they discuss Netflix's "Explained" and the strange world of Hollywood focusing on the Jessie Smolet trial & Chris Cuomo's firing. For our main topic and inspired by Stevie J requesting spousal support from Faith Evans, we discuss and disagree on how to split assets after a breakup. Join us. Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections
12/9/2021 • 1 hour, 38 minutes, 5 seconds
Ep 156. Length Ain't Everything
In this week's episode we talk everything Jazmine Sullivan, Omicron, the Ahmaud Arbery verdict and of course - Rihanna's titties. For our main topic we explore longevity. Just because it's been going on for a long time, does it make it right? Can we walk away from longtime friendships? Careers? Relationships? What's holding up back? What's keeping us there? Time? Fear? Comfort? Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Beyonce Start Over here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/down-bottom-feat-drag-on-juvenile/1443595526?i=1443595533
12/2/2021 • 1 hour, 41 minutes, 51 seconds
Ep 155. Do Yall N_____ Bust Ya Guns?
In episode 155, we catch up, discuss the AMAs, Da Baby, & Adele. For our main topic, we dive into the Kyle Rittenhouse trial, self-defense, and open carry gun laws. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy & Down Bottom by Ruff Ryders here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/down-bottom-feat-drag-on-juvenile/1443595526?i=1443595533
11/24/2021 • 1 hour, 45 minutes, 38 seconds
Reprise Ep 6. Busting Windows With Jazmine Sullivan
Shanti is sick. Ant just moved. We couldn't record. But here's one you probably never heard because you joined us later on down the line. * This episode was aired Nov 29. 2018* In Episode 6, we are joined by grammy-nominated recording artist and fellow Philadelphian, Jazmine Sullivan. Join in as the girls reminiscence over their 17-year friendship and talk inspiration, music, past relationships, and who is really responsible for busting windows out of cars.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy & streamm all of Jazmine's ish. Thank you
11/18/2021 • 1 hour, 21 minutes, 21 seconds
Reintroducing For Colored Nerds
Each week, BFFs Brittany and Eric humorously deep-dive into the uncool topic of theirchoice while testing the outer limits of their friendship.Listen to and follow For Colored Nerds right now on Stitcher, Apple Podcasts, AmazonMusic, or wherever you get your podcasts.
11/16/2021 • 9 minutes, 18 seconds
Ep 154. The Erotic Blueprint
This week Shanti goes from feeling like an egg to winter ground while Antoinette admits to enjoying an unsolicited d*ck pick. Together, they discuss Summer Walker's "Still Over It" album, the tragedy at Astroworld, NYC Gun Laws, and Insecure. For our main jawn, we explore our Erotic Blueprints and deep dive into our secret pleasures and fantasies. Join us. Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsThe Erotic Blueprint Quiz: https://theblueprintbreakthrough.com/?cookieUUID=fc34ccdd-b9e4-46cd-9d20-122a197122c1 Purchase Summer Walker's Girls Need Love here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/girls-need-love/1438765128?i=1438765134
11/11/2021 • 1 hour, 44 minutes, 51 seconds
Ep 153. My Man, My Business.
In this week's episode, Shanti prepares for the pressures of the holidays while feeling like a fragile egg, while Antoinette recaps her many misadventures in D.C. over the weekend ranging from bed bugs to a very unfulfilling encounter. For our main topic, we use the very public discourse of Will and Jada Smith to pose the question, how much is too much to share with other folks about your relationship? Is less more? If we are too private are we actually hiding something? Is sharing empowering? Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsThe Erotic Blueprint Quiz: https://theblueprintbreakthrough.com/?cookieUUID=fc34ccdd-b9e4-46cd-9d20-122a197122c1 Song Credit belongs to Hank Williams "Mind Your Business."
11/4/2021 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 35 seconds
Ep 152. Beating Breast Cancer ft. Katina Mackey
This week we skip all the fluff and get straight into the meat and potatoes. We are joined by the incredible, Katina Mackey who is a beautiful BEing, mother of three, artist, teacher, and breast cancer survivor. Katina generously shares her story and gives us insight into how to be victorious in the battle. Katina is the embodiment of "bend, don't brake". Join us. Also, F*CK Cancer. Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Lupe Fiasco's Mission here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/mission/875770091?i=875770098
10/28/2021 • 1 hour, 29 minutes, 23 seconds
Ep 151. Beautifully Broken
This week Antoinette learns to let people do nice things for her while she celebrated her bday weekend, while Shanti continues to sling Sable goods in these streets. Together, they argue about how to correctly pronounce Colin Powel's name (RIP) and discuss blow holes in ignorant negros' arguments that R Kellly is "the greatest the ever did it" (ew). For our main topic, we discuss the ancient Japanese art form Kintsugi, where imperfections are highlighted and celebrated rather than hidden. Together, we relate this to our own lives and examine how we can be both beautiful and broken. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Two Fish and An Elephant by Khruangbin here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/dreams/1454595364?i=1454595379
10/21/2021 • 1 hour, 48 minutes, 37 seconds
Ep 150. The Best of ATWC
Yall we apologize for this episode being late. Shanti was traveling, and Antoinette took time to celebrate her birthday. Join us as we look back on 150 episodes and talk about of favorite moments.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsBuy Koffee's Toast ehre: https://music.apple.com/us/album/toast/1450313908?i=1450313910
10/18/2021 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 59 seconds
Ep 149. I Gave Up
Inspired by Will Smith's recent GQ interview, we talk polyamory and whether or not it would work for us. Shanti tries to break down the plotline of Insecure while Antoinette celebrates the thespian that is Ice T. We explore the bottomless pits that are FB & IG and finally, talk giving up on your dreams when they make you miserable. Join usHotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Dreams by Solange here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/dreams/1454595364?i=1454595379
10/7/2021 • 1 hour, 34 minutes, 5 seconds
Ep 148. Failing Forward
Shanti had audio issues for the first 9 mins, but then we get it together. This week Ant talks about the Fugees concert, Shanti deactivates IG. Together, we discuss the R. Kelly verdict, Nicki Minaj's strange connection to men accused of sexual assault, and the US debt ceiling. Finally, for our main jawn, inspired by Gabrielle Union sharing she would have never stayed with D Wade if she were the woman she is today back when he fathered a love child, we talk about learning from experience & failing forward. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Forward by Beyonce & James Blake here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/forward-feat-james-blake/1460473526?i=1460473540
9/30/2021 • 1 hour, 53 minutes, 3 seconds
Ep 147. Reimagining Masculinity ft. Jason Rosario
This week we are joined by thought-leader, self-actualizer, father, brother, son & overall dope human, Jason Rosario. Together, we discuss Shanti's desire to get weird & retreat to a cave, while Antoinette exposes vegans for the liars they truly are. We go on to celebrate Ja Rule's resilience and triumph during last week's Verzuz and salute Gabriel Union's vulnerability in her new book, "You Got Anything Stronger?". For our main jawn, Jason talks about matters of the heart and explains how he is redefining and shaping modern masculinity both for himself and the community. Join us. Follow JasonIG: @jason__rosarioIG: @thelivesofmenWebsite: www.thelivesofmen.comHotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy I Cry by Ja Rule ft Lil Mo here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/i-cry-feat-lil-mo/1440921926?i=1440922169
9/23/2021 • 1 hour, 57 minutes, 11 seconds
Ep 146. How To Be A Baddie with Naana
* Technology hated on us again and we had to use zoom audio* Antoinette is more upset than she probably should be. Pray for her and her type A perfectionist personality. This week we are joined by our girl Naana of @workbaepod. Together, we talk the Chloe and whether or not there is an underlying desperation in her performances, colorism and the role it plays in pop culture, and Nikki's anti vax stance. For our main jawn, we ask Naana (who is the ultimate bad bih) to help us step our game up and own into our divine feminine energy with style and grace. Because with her, fashion is much more than looking good. Join us. Follow Naana here: Her personal page: @_resiliently.meHer business page: @iamyirenkyiWebsite: www.iamyirenkyi.com Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/work-bae/id1460551260 Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Joro by Wizkid here https://music.apple.com/us/album/joro/1471034859?i=1471034860
9/17/2021 • 2 hours, 7 minutes, 26 seconds
Ep 145. Beautiful Liar
This week Antoinette talks about her battle with covid & Shanti grapples with the idea of spending money on a new car. Together, we reflect on Micheal K. Williams's greatness and discuss what a great loss his death is. We are unimpressed by Drake, we miss Andree 3000 and we LOVE Beyonce. For our main jawn, we deep dive into the following quote "honesty without compassion is brutality, and compassion without honesty is enabling". Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsMusic: Beyonce and Shakira Beautiful Liar
9/9/2021 • 1 hour, 54 minutes, 54 seconds
Ep 144. Just Our Imaginations...
*Unfortunately we had issue and had to use our zoom audio*In this episode we talk Kanye and "Music Royalty" according to Lizzo. For our topic we imagine the closing of this year.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsMusic: Temptations's Just My Imagination
9/2/2021 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 50 seconds
Ep 143. Flirting in Your 30s
In this episode, we recap our weekend of joy & debauchery and discuss Shanti being the queen of flirting (until she starts getting on people's nerves that is). Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsMusic: Aaliyah's Are You That Somebody
8/26/2021 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 29 seconds
Ep 142. Are Weddings for Attention or Intention?
In this episode, we talk 2 types of men in this world, the world being on fire literally and weddings. We talk about what kind of wedding each of us would want if we believed in the construct of ownership and property or whateva (unless of course he does).General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Justin TImberlake's Mirror
8/19/2021 • 1 hour, 47 minutes, 51 seconds
Ep 141. Girl's Trip
In episode 141, we just got back from vacation and we are back talking our ish. We talk no condom Nick Cannon, DaBaby wildin, Nas's new album, and the earth being all effed up from humans. Then we talk about our trip. Join us for tips and tricks.General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Aaliyah's Rock the Boat
8/12/2021 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 5 seconds
Ep 140. Hoe + Tell ft Ashely & Crystal
In episode 140, Shanti is on vacation so Antoinette is joined by the women of the Hoe and Tell podcast Ashley and Crystal. Follow Ashely @sexwithashleyFollow Crystal @crystaltheoracle Listen to their pod @hoeandtellpodcastGeneral Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Sex with Me by Rihanna here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/grown-woman/1440755899?i=1440756683
7/29/2021 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 47 seconds
Ep 139. Inner Chile
* Sorry. We experienced technical difficulties and had to use zoom audio*For this week's episode, we talk about White women smiling and walking versus Black women smiling and walking, the surge of Covid-19, and react to Normani and Cardi's Wild Side. For the main jawn, we tap into our inner BéBés kids. Inspired by Mary J Blige, we question the needs, and conditioning of our inner children and how we carry them into our adult lives. Join us.General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Beyonce's Grown Woman here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/grown-woman/1440755899?i=1440756683
7/22/2021 • 1 hour, 33 minutes, 24 seconds
Ep 138. The Return of the O.G: Curly Nikki
We are super excited and honored to sit down with natural hair icon, viral blogger, best selling author and producer of a #1 spiritual podcast Nikki Walton AKA Curly Nikki. Together, we recount our early blogging days, the mirage of success and money, and Nikki's spiritual journey towards finding her real life's purpose by learning to let go of it all. Join us.Follow Nikki on all social platforms @curlynikkiListen to her pod every day here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/go-o-d-mornings-with-curlynikki/id1570144628 General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Lonnie Liston's Peaceful Ones here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/peaceful-ones/1440755899?i=1440756683
7/15/2021 • 1 hour, 30 minutes, 25 seconds
Ep 137. Time's a Wastin'
This week we talk colonics, Bill Cosby, Sisqo teaching women how to orgasm, men needing to give their lady a solid 60 minutes of thoughtful time per month, and of course, which Disney Princess was the baddest bish. For our main jawn, we discuss time & whether or not we truly understand its value. Join us.General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Erykah Badu's, Time's A Wastin here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/times-a-wastin/1440755899?i=1440756683
7/8/2021 • 1 hour, 40 minutes, 43 seconds
Ep 136. Learning to Accept What Is
This week we are on cloud nine from Jazmine Sullivan's recent wins. Together, we talk the B.E.T awards and question if Nina Simone was tolerating "tragic D*ck". For our main jawn, Shanti is inspired after finishing "The Wire" series. In the spirit of duality, she takes a good hard look at her own life and tries to accept the good and the bad with no judgement - it just is. Join us...General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Frank Ocean's Pink Matter here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/da-baddest-b-h/80807829?i=80807291
7/1/2021 • 1 hour, 32 minutes, 9 seconds
Ep 135. Short & Sweet
We are in the middle of shipping orders and Antoinette has to handle some personal matters. So, this one is short and sweet. It's all current events and pop-culture. Still us. Still a good time. Join us. General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy We Gonna Make It by Jadakiss here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/we-gonna-make-it-feat-styles-of-the-lox/1452803044?i=1452803541
6/24/2021 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 15 seconds
Ep 134. Boys Boundaries & Business ft. Mandii B
Shanti is away at the moment so my boo @fullcourtpumps pulled up! Join us as we talk pop culture: Doja Cat, Megan, and Eve Verzuz Trina. Then we dip our toes into a little politics talking Hunter Biden's alleged racist texts & Bruce still being alive & well in Kaitlin Jenner. For our main jawn, we deep dive into Mandii's experience being a public figure, business with friends, and much more. Join us. Follow & Support Mandii: IG @fullcourtpumpsThe Offical Box Owner: https://www.officialboxowner.com/Period, Sis Pod: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/period-sis-podcast/id1526394112See The Things Is: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/?hl=enWhoreable Decisions: https://www.instagram.com/whoreible_decisions/?hl=enGeneral Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsBuy Trina's Da Baddest B****here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/da-baddest-b-h/80807829?i=80807291
6/14/2021 • 1 hour, 51 minutes, 19 seconds
Ep 133. Who Are You Performing For?
Shanti finally watched season 4 of The Wire. As a result, she is questioning all things related to life. Antoinette was riding around and getting it in NYC & feeling free. Together, they talk politics (Shanti leads on this!), Tessa Thompson's polyamory/love triangle, who JLo should date next, and whether or not we are all in a constant state of performance because the world is our stage. Join us.Shop Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsGeneral Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsBuy Kanye West's Flashing Lights here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/flashing-lights/1440765161?i=1440765185
6/10/2021 • 1 hour, 38 minutes, 46 seconds
Ep 132. God is Tricky ft. Jade & Keia of Gettin Grown
We are joined by the ladies of Gettin Grown pod. We talk Bill Cosby, Monqiue, bonnets, tricky Lord and saviors, and much more. Join us. Shop Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsGeneral Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurls
6/3/2021 • 1 hour, 57 minutes, 3 seconds
Ep 131. When "Let Me Cater To You" Goes Wrong
In ep 13, we celebrate or merch release! Antoinette is coming to Philly while Shanti is headed to the school of "unschooling". Shanti doesn't really know Drake, respect J Cole, or watch verzuz & Antoinette is appalled. For our main, topic we go full-on problematic & discuss how our most toxic relationships brought out the domestic diva in both of us. Sidebar* Antoinette apparently washes her man's feet among other things... What happens when "catering to you" goes wrong? Join Us.Shop Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsGeneral Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Cater 2 U by Destiny's Child here : https://music.apple.com/us/album/cater-2-u/207341054?i=207341080
5/27/2021 • 1 hour, 38 minutes, 22 seconds
Ep 130.Comparison is the Thief of Joy
Shanti has a major meltdown & JoJo calls her dramatic while Antoinette calls her a hater. Antoinette also grapples with the notion she may or may not be a peasant. Chrissy Teigan is wildin. We don't care about Nicki Minaj. Merch finally drops next week. Capitalism is ruining the world but cash still rules everything around us. Join us.General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Cardi B's Up Here : https://music.apple.com/us/album/up/1552255107?i=1552255281
5/20/2021 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 7 seconds
Ep 129. Love is Just a Feeling
Shanti walked into a glass door. Antoinette prepares for vax #2. They argue over Allen Iverson (again) and interestingly enough, Adam Levine. Shanti apparently hates Adam Levine. Lists of "white boy who could get it" were made. Can you guess Shanti's top-pick? And finally, we talk Xscape and SWV, politics as usual, and whether or not love is just a feeling. Join us.General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Marron 5's Love Somebody here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/love-somebody/1440808308?i=1440808321
5/13/2021 • 1 hour, 46 minutes, 37 seconds
Ep 128. Big Pimpin'/Should Men Pay for Everything?
Jay Z regrets Big Pimpin. We don't. Game of Thrones is getting really real. Does Khloe Kardashian deserve empathy and grace? Should men be paying for everything just because they are men? How committed are we to gender roles when it comes to finances? Questions that need answers. Join us.General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Jay Z' Big Pimpin' here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/whoa/80969514?i=80968940
5/6/2021 • 1 hour, 52 minutes, 9 seconds
Ep 127. Are You Satisfiable?
In this episode, Shanti grieves the loss of a friend while Antoinette realizes she lives in a social bubble. Together, we single handily disprove Dr. Umar's theory that White women marry up in interracial marriages, discuss genetically modified mosquitoes and some pop culture. For our main topic, we are inspired by a conversation between Adrienne Maree Brown + Jocelyn K. Glei, we ask: Are you satsifiable? Do you know what it is like to have enough? Join us....General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Rolling Stone's Satisfaction here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/whoa/80969514?i=80968940
4/29/2021 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 22 seconds
Ep 126. The High Life (420 Edition)
In this week's episode, we record on the 420 Holiday! Shanti falls deeper into languish over dinosaurs' existence and Game of Thrones while Antoinette serenades us with a song and increasingly loses focus once the edible kicks in. Together, we talk about the Derek Chauvin verdict, family legacy & mounting Jason Momoa. Join us!General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Black Rob's Whoa! here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/whoa/80969514?i=80968940
4/22/2021 • 1 hour, 30 minutes, 7 seconds
Ep 125. AmeriKKKa, Nick Cannon, Usher & the Revoking of Black Cards
In this episode we are joined by the dope hosts of The Oprah Rose Show. We discuss, America still Americkkka-ing, Nick Cannon’s seed being strong AF, Usher might needing to be locked up, & the revoking of Black cards. Join us. Follow The Oprah Rose Show @TheOprahRoseShowGeneral Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Kendrick Lamar's For Sale? Interlude here:https://music.apple.com/us/album/for-sale-interlude/1440828886?i=1440829470
4/15/2021 • 1 hour, 37 minutes, 44 seconds
Ep 124. Lil Nas X, Easter Sunday + Teaching Kids How To Love You
In this episode we react to Lil Nas X's newest viral release "Montero" while Antoinette shares her interpretation of Easter Sunday. Inspired by an Instagram video by @Tanyadf we discuss the need for reciprocity in parent/children relationships. We love our children but are we teaching our children how to love us? Join us.General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsTo listen to the video follow Tanya on Instagram: @tanyadfPurchase Lil Nas X Montero here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/montero-call-me-by-your-name-satans-extended-version/1560577954?i=1560578325
4/1/2021 • 1 hour, 32 minutes, 39 seconds
Ep123. Derrick Jaxn, Saweetie, & Body Dysmorphia
We cover all things in this episode. What's happening at the border? Are our social justice activities stealing from us? Why is Derrick Jaxn so nutty? Is his wife okay? Why didn't Saweetie's body save her? Do we even see our bodies for what they are? Should we all just go buy a booty and star in a movie? Join usGeneral Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase TLC's Unpretty here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/unpretty/298575243?i=298575252
3/25/2021 • 1 hour, 45 minutes, 38 seconds
Ep 122. A Candid Convo with CEO Maori Holmes
For women's history month we wanted to highlight some women in our lives that inspire us. We sit down with Maori Holmes: curator, film maker, writer and CEO of BlackStar Film Festival. Maori shares with us her relationship with work, the necessity of critiquing Black films, Black folks having the freedom to be mediocre, and how she doesn't watch anything that we watch. Join us.General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Drake's Nonstop here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/loyalty-feat-rihanna/1440881047?i=1440881570
3/18/2021 • 1 hour, 44 minutes, 26 seconds
Ep 121. Your Beef is My Beef
In this episode, Shanti and Antoinette talk Meghan and Harry, Cuomo and cancel culture, & loyalty loyalty loyalty. Join UsGeneral Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Rihanna & Kendrick's Loyalty here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/loyalty-feat-rihanna/1440881047?i=1440881570
3/11/2021 • 1 hour, 40 minutes, 26 seconds
Ep 120. The Black Messiah
In this episode, we break down compound vs simple interest. We talk D'Angelo, Method Man giving out filthy sex. And then get into capitalism, socialism, communisim, marxism, Fred Hampton & the Black Panther Party. Join us. General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls
3/4/2021 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 47 seconds
Ep 119. One Drop ft. Dr. @YabaBlay
We are joined by the great Dr. MamaYaba. Dr. Yaba Blay is a scholar-activist, public speaker, and cultural consultant whose scholarship, work and practice centers on the lived experiences of Black women and girls, with a particular focus on identity/body politics and beauty practices. We discuss her AMAZING book, One Drop & deep dive into the politics of race and colorism. Join us. Buy One Drop https://bookshop.org/books?keywords=one+dropContact Yaba: https://www.yabablay.com/Follow Yaba: @yabablayGeneral Inquiries:Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPurchase Four Women by Nina Simone here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/four-women/1426021626?i=1426021739
2/25/2021 • 1 hour, 46 minutes, 20 seconds
Ep 118. Valentine's Day Happened ft. Jade of All Jades
Shanti is sick! Or maybe she was just sick of me.... but Jade, of the great @jadeofalljades , Jade&XD & Gettin Grown filled in and we had a good ol' time. Follow Jade : @jadeofalljadesGeneral Inquiries:Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comStream Heaux Tales all day every day.
2/18/2021 • 1 hour, 37 minutes, 7 seconds
Ep. 117 Joyful Solitude or Whateva...
In this week's episode, we share our reviews of the highly anticipated Netflix movie Malcolm and Marie, our concern over the Gorilla Glue lady, and our admiration of Trey Songz' anatomy. For our main topic, we struggle with what it means to be alone? Can we find joy in our solitude? Does partnership guarantee not feeling alone? Should it? Join us...General Inquiries:Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPurchase Hiiijack by SZA purchase it here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/hiiijack/852343474?i=852343827
2/11/2021 • 1 hour, 27 minutes, 55 seconds
Ep 116. Happy Hood Music ft. Armani White
Join us as we kick the first week of Black History month off with recording artist and Philly Native Armani White. Together we talk the stock market, Hot Girl ish, growing up in Philly, music + male rompers. Join us...Follow Armani @armaniblanco on IG. Stream & buy his shit yall.https://open.spotify.com/artist/2qAwMsiIjTzlmfAkXKvhVA?si=X38F5XEORSKzUT6EBHX1Mg https://music.apple.com/us/album/keep-in-touch/1484564941General Inquiries:Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comWatch Jazmine Sullivan's Our Story To Tell Set here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9lQXZkNRgQ&t=656s
2/4/2021 • 1 hour, 52 minutes, 11 seconds
Bonus- Black History Trivia- What's Freedom To You? ft Armani White
*Bonus Episode* We are joined by Philly's own, Armani White. Artist, Rapper, Creator, Musician who went from writing bars about Disney movies to being on billboards in Times Square. After interviewing him for Thursday's upcoming episode, we stayed on the call to chop it up. This is that call. We shoot the shit, talk Kanye & get into some Black History trivia. In the end, Armani drops some gems on what it is to live your most free life. Get to know him on this episode, and get to know his music on the next one. Join us. Follow Armani @armaniblanco on IG. Stream & buy his shit yall.https://open.spotify.com/artist/2qAwMsiIjTzlmfAkXKvhVA?si=X38F5XEORSKzUT6EBHX1Mg https://music.apple.com/us/album/keep-in-touch/1484564941Video Content - Join Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsGeneral Inquiries:Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com
2/2/2021 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 30 seconds
Ep 115. I Feel Most In Love With Myself When....
This week Shanti reminisces on jumping rope and addresses her poverty mindset, while Antoinette shares her dismay with everyone looking the same and her new discovery that healthy skin is life. We also clarify the rules + intent of our coming V-day speed dating event. For our main topic, we attempt to answer the prompt posed by Warsan Shire: "Document the moments you feel most in love with yourself - what you're wearing, who you're around, what you're doing. Recreate + repeat." Join us. To participate in Speed Dating with Antoinette email aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com subject “V DAY”For social media inquires please send a short + sweet proposal to aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com subject “Level up”. Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsGeneral Inquiries:Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comSong Featured "I am" Yung Baby Tate (featuring Flo Milli) Purchase Herehttps://music.apple.com/us/album/i-am-feat-flo-milli/1541224134?i=1541224138
1/28/2021 • 1 hour, 30 minutes, 51 seconds
Ep 114. Lovecraft Country SPOILER ALERT!!
In this week's episode, to Shanti's annoyance, Antoinette discovers Jonathan Majors. We spend a healthy amount of time discussing sex with him and how he is the prototype. We also announce Antoinette has agreed to participate in virtual speed dating moderated by Shanti. We also invite listeners looking for an opportunity to flex their social media skills to hit us up. For our main topic, we enter into an in-depth discussion and share our reactions to the HBO series, "Love Craft Country". Join usSPOILER ALERT: If you have not watched Lovecraft Country stop listening after the break. To participate in Speed Dating with Antoinette email aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com subject “V DAY”For social media inquires please send a short + sweet proposal to aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com subject “Level up”. General Inquiries:Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPurchase "Catch the Fire" by Sonia Sanchez here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/catch-the-fire-for-bill-cosby/46709853?i=46709739
1/21/2021 • 1 hour, 54 minutes, 59 seconds
EP 113. Heaux Tales
In Episode 113 Antoinette considers bussin' it, while Shanti experiences her second childhood. Together, we dive into art of spitting on it and Jazmine Sullivan's newest release "Heaux Tales". We share our love of the new project, its impact on the culture, and some of our favorite oldest songs from her catalog. Join us...Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comBuy Jazmine Sullivan "Put It Down" here :https://music.apple.com/us/album/put-it-down/1547280994?i=1547281270/1373858456?i=1373858938
1/14/2021 • 1 hour, 32 minutes, 7 seconds
Ep 112. F*ck Them Goals
On our first episode of 2021 Antoinette's SD card fails her, so we have to resort to using audio from Zoom. (It's so upsetting). We get back into the swing of things by discussing Antoinette's money habits, Shanti believing she is British and the Pixar movie "Soul". For our main topic, we discuss Goals vs Systems and which is more important while trying to achieve some of these New year resolutions. Join us. Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comBuy J Cole's Motiv8 here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/motiv8/1373858456?i=1373858938
1/7/2021 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 54 seconds
Ep 111. Happy New Year
Shanti and I discuss what we are bringing into the new year and also what we are leaving behind. Happy new year yall. We hope you are safe, socially distant, and healthy. Ashe, Namaste, Aye, Bay Bay. Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comBuy Ella Fitzgerald's What Are You Doing New Year's Eve here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/what-are-you-doing-new-years-eve/1434902284?i=1434902623
12/31/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 38 seconds
Ep 110. An Around The Way Christmas
In episode 110 after a week of being apart, we catch up. Shanti discusses biracial privilege and its relationship to eco-styler gel. Antoinette realizes X MEN (the movies) are subpar when it comes to white people saving the world. Finally, we rejoice in his name and tell our version of the birth of Black Jesus. Join us. Happy holidays yall. Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comThis Christmas by Patti Labelle can not be beaten. It is also not for sale. We don't own it either. Relax.
12/24/2020 • 1 hour, 46 minutes, 13 seconds
Ep 109. Dealing with Addiction ft. Ben Jadaka
In episode 109. Shanti wasn't able to join us this week but guest favorite, Ben Jadaka filled in for her. Together, we discuss Antoinette reconnecting with her former lover and why Shanti is great. Finally, we talk about our experiences dealing with loved ones who suffer from addiction. Join us. Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsBuy God's Property's More than I Can Bear here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/more-than-i-can-bear/423931465?i=4239314779
12/17/2020 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 6 seconds
Ep 108. Are You Betraying Yourself?
In this episode, Antoinette & Shanti discuss oral hygiene, All About the Benjamins being one of the greatest songs of all time, a potential Lil Kim vs Foxy Brown verzuz, and weight in on propaganda meets fear re: vaccinations. For our main topic, Shanti discusses her recent revelation after she ignored her gut feeling and betrayed herself. Join us.Follow @asiliglamcooks Purchase Brown Girl Spice here: https://shopbrowngirlspice.com Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsBuy Lil Kim's Queen B@#$H here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/queen-b-%24h/321976585?i=321976619
12/10/2020 • 1 hour, 38 minutes, 6 seconds
Ep 107. Age Aint Nuthin But A Number
In this week's episode, Shanti makes trash macaroni and cheese (again) while Antoinette reflects on being quarantine ugly, and together we stan over Jazmine Sullivan's Soul Train performance. For our main topic, we talk about our personal experiences with aging. How do we make sense of the aches and pains, the expectations of our past selves, and the hope for our future selves? Join us.Follow @asiliglamcooks Purchase Brown Girl Spice here: https://shopbrowngirlspice.com Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls
12/3/2020 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 17 seconds
Ep 106. Gratitude During Difficult Times
This week we talk about finding gratitude even when things are rough. Join us. Shop Love Lavender Shea & use code: Around for 25% off!https://www.lovelavendershea.com/shopFollow @asiliglamcooks on IGContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Jazmine Sullivan's Pick Up Your Feelings here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/pick-up-your-feelings/1540645636?i=1540645640
11/26/2020 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 51 seconds
Ep. 105 Random Around The Way "Q + A"
In this week's episode Shanti commits to surfing, a new slow T.V series and staying in the house while Antoinette is manifesting, feeling her hair cut and more deeply in love with an E.R. Together, we don't talk about anything in particular. Taking our cue from our audience, we answer your questions from how we are impacted by missed opportunities, being honest about Joe Biden + Kamala, and the accusation that Black men are unable to commit. Join us.Shop Love Lavender Shea & use code: Around for 25% off!https://www.lovelavendershea.com/shopContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Cosmic Funk by Lonnie Liston Smith here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/cosmic-funk/872619596?i=872619747
11/19/2020 • 1 hour, 37 minutes, 3 seconds
104. A Year Without Sex ft. Ben Jadaka
In episode 104 Antoinette goes dark for the winter, while Shanti falls into a rabbit hole of Ancient Egypt. We are joined by special guest and loyal listener, Ben Jadaka. He shares his commitment to celibacy and to himself which begs the question, does sexual discipline lead you to the one? How do we find pleasure and excitement without sex? Join us...Shop Love Lavender Shea & use code: AROUND for 25% off!https://www.lovelavendershea.com/shopContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Let's Wait Awhile by Janet Jackson here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/lets-wait-awhile/1440831636?i=1440831866
11/12/2020 • 1 hour, 48 minutes, 40 seconds
Ep 103. Power to the MF People
We are talking about the election yall. How could we not? POWER TO THE MF PEOPLE. Shop Love Lavender Shea & use code: Around for 15% off!https://www.lovelavendershea.com/shopContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Brand New Day from The Wiz here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-wiz-original-motion-picture-soundtrack/1440874038
11/8/2020 • 1 hour, 14 minutes, 59 seconds
Ep 102. Why You Want To See A Good Man with A Broken Heart?
In this week's episode, Antoinette shares the difficulty of setting boundaries, and future haircuts + shares a new list of rapid-fire questions. While Shanti levels up with homeschooling and demands that folks back off her man Mr. Majors. Together, we dive into an inspiring and heart-achingly beautiful recent interview between Mike Tyson and rapper Boosie. Our convo leads into a broader discussion of how we cope with pain as individuals and a country. Join us...Shop Love Lavender Shea & use code: Around for 15% off!https://www.lovelavendershea.com/shopContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsDonate to the family of recently killed Philadelphia resident Walter Wallace Jr by Philadelphia police here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/92wvm-funding-for-familyPurchase "Untitled 05" by Kendrick Lamar here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/untitled-05-l-09-21-2014/1440844834?i=1440844979
10/29/2020 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 10 seconds
Ep 101. What Happened to Men Begging? ft. Clint Coley
And we're back with our 101st episode. We are joined by the one and only Clint Coley who is no stranger to the podcast. Together, we discuss Ayesha Curry being the symbol of light-skin privilege, 50 Cent being a jackass, Ice Cube being naive, and what happened to the golden age of R&B. Join us.Shop Love Lavender Shea & use code: Around for 15% off!https://www.lovelavendershea.com/shopFollow Clint @Clintcoley @AdvicefromafuckboyWatch the World Series of Spades here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B08H7YSMR3/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_rContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase "Cry For You" by Jodeci here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/cry-for-you/1440647972?i=1440648688
10/22/2020 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 51 seconds
Ep 100. Keeping It 100 ft. Renita + Ravon
It's our 100th episode! Together, we share our journey of creating the ATWC's podcast. Why we started, what it takes to keep it going, & what hopes we have for the future? We wouldn't be here were it not for yall, so we are joined by two faithful listeners - (Renita and Ravon). They help us celebrate by sharing their favorite episodes/guests & even ask us their own rapid-fire questions. Thank you so much to all who continue to listen and support us in all our raggedy, creative, vulnerable, nebulous expression. You know who you are. You are appreciated. Join us...Shop Love Lavender Shea & use code: Around for 15% off!https://www.lovelavendershea.com/shopContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase "Celebration" by Kanye West here: "https://music.apple.com/us/album/celebration/1440668749?i=1440669593
10/15/2020 • 1 hour, 39 minutes, 8 seconds
Ep 99. The Reformed F*ck Boy ft. Dennis Allen
For updates this week, Antoinette shares her most recent injury + the revelations that came with it, while Shanti makes plans to head to the country after her trip to Ithaca NY. Together, we sit down with Antoinette's Brother in Law & special guest Dennis Allen to discuss his evolution from being a former fuck boy to a more conscious, loving, and intentional man in addition to the ways in which he is choosing to redefine his manhood as a Black man and husband daily. Join us.Shop Love Lavender Shea & use code: Around for 15% off!https://www.lovelavendershea.com/shopContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase the song "Runaway" by Kanye West here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/runaway-feat-pusha-t/1440742903?i=1440742918
10/8/2020 • 1 hour, 53 minutes, 49 seconds
Ep 98. Sexual Exploration ft Aja of ChokesnGags
In Episode 98, we sit down with special guest Aja of Chokes and Gags. Antoinette shares her preparation for her new job, Shanti talks waves of sadness, while Aja embarks on a new baking business. Together, we discuss the weight of how polarized the US has become with fear of civil war and the protection (or lack there of) of Black women. For our main topic, Aja shares her journey of exploring sex + pleasure on her terms regardless of a history abuse and ridicule. Join us...To learn more about Aja follow her on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/chokesngags/Follow Aja: IG: @Chokesngags & @ChokingHazardKitchen Website: https://www.tumblr.com/tagged/chokesngags Twitter: https://twitter.com/chokesngags Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ask-aja/id1181318401Interested in sexual exploration? Visit Fetlife.comContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Summer Walker's "Girls Need Love" here https://music.apple.com/us/album/girls-need-love/1438765128?i=1438765134
10/1/2020 • 1 hour, 55 minutes, 9 seconds
Ep 97. The Social Dilemma
In this week's episode Shanti shares important news about her business while Antoinette considers a new job offer. Together we discuss, The Emmys, who Beyonce would battle in a Verzuz and the legend and duality of the late Ruth Bader Ginsberg. For our main topic we share our reactions to the foreboding documentary "The Social Dilemma". We question our personal relationships with social media + technology and question "What is even real?" Join us...Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comTo watch the documentary "The Social Dilemma" https://www.netflix.com/browseTo buy the song "Watching Me" by Jill Scott https://music.apple.com/us/album/watching-me-remastered/1525410560?i=1525410689
9/24/2020 • 1 hour, 46 minutes, 41 seconds
Ep 96. Dating: Securing the Bag vs Gold Digging ft. Rene & Joy
In episode 96, since last week was all politics, we decided to lighten it up a bit. This week we are joined by the fabulous, entrepreneurial, & gorgeous Rene @ownbyfemme and Joy @jyotisha_ for some good old fashioned girl talk. We cover all things dating... from the politics of dating a man with money to the distress of dating a man with a little peen. Join us.Follow Joy on IG @JYOTISHA_Follow Rene on IG @OwnbyfemmeContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com
9/17/2020 • 1 hour, 50 minutes, 6 seconds
Ep 95. The Ballot or The Bullet? ft. Salaah Muhammed
In Ep. 95. it's all politics as usual! This week we sit down with activist and content creator Salaah Muhammad of Salaah's Corner. As we all prepare for the 2020 election in November, we take some time out to break down the interworkings of our government, what's at stake in this year's elections, how we all can become more civically engaged, and why it is important to vote even if your heart may not be in it. Join us...Love Lavender Shea free shipping code: AROUND https://www.lovelavendershea.com/shop Follow Salaah:Website: https://salaahscorner.com/IG: @salaahscornerPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/salaahs-corner/id1444976518 Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comLook up your ballot and do research beforehand: https://ballotpedia.org/Sample_Ballot_LookupBook Recommendation: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/freedom-is-a-constant-struggle-angela-davis/1121758436 Listen to the Ballot or the Bullet: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRNciryImqg&t=6s
9/10/2020 • 1 hour, 52 minutes, 50 seconds
Bonus Ep. Fellas, Do Better at Foreplay (Advice from a F*ck Boy Collab)
In this episode, Clint and Lou bring on the Around The Way Curls Shanti and Antoinette and they are discussing warming up the oven before you go to work fellas. Why is foreplay only just to get the woman wet? Why isn't a shared experience for both of you guys? Let's discuss this...Go watch the World Series of SpadesTHE WORLD SERIES OF SPADES https://linktr.ee/worldseriesofspades Use Promo Code F*ck Boy for 10% Off Adam & Eve promo code "FBOY" FOR 50% OFF https://www.adameve.com/ Follow Advice from a F*uck Boy @advicefromafuckboy here https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/advice-from-a-f-ck-boy/id1449228819For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com
9/4/2020 • 1 hour, 40 minutes, 40 seconds
Ep. 94 Unashamed with Eryn Amel
In Episode 94, we sit down with writer and entrepreneur Eryn Amel of Erynamelism. Together, we discuss Jazmine Sullivan's new single, Lost One, the passing of the great Chadwick Boseman, and of course the epic Brandy verzuz Monica battle. For our topic, we dive into the values and experiences of Eryn's life around motherhood, spirituality, business, and being an unashamed woman. Join us...Purchase "Lost One " Here https://music.apple.com/us/album/lost-one/1529200606?i=1529200609Learn more about Eryn @Erynamelism https://www.instagram.com/erynamelism/ and @erynamelshopee https://www.instagram.com/erynamelshopee/Shop her collection https://erynamelshopee.bigcartel.com/For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com*RATE AND SUBSCRIBE*
9/3/2020 • 2 hours, 10 minutes, 28 seconds
Ep 93. Ain't Nobody Praying for Me
In this episode, Shanti feels less terrified of homeschooling while Antoinette revisits the "Blueprint" album and feels it on a deeper level. Together, we sing American songbook classics and list how we can protect Black women on a daily basis. For our main topic, we share our relationship with prayer. Where did we learn to pray? To what? And why? Join us...For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com*RATE AND SUBSCRIBE*Purchase the song FEEL here https://music.apple.com/us/album/feel/1440881047?i=1440881374
8/27/2020 • 1 hour, 40 minutes, 56 seconds
Ep 92. Security vs Growth
In episode 92, Shanti correlates mask-wearing to condom usage while Antoinette learns love isn't transactional. We discuss Justin Timberlake offering up his fortune in order to convince his wife, Jessica that he'll never be caught in a compromising position again, and of course, we both share our disdain for Common and Tiffany Haddish's new relationship. For our main topic, we discuss three approaches to life: security, happiness, and growth. And we ask ourselves, "Which one is the right one"? Join us.For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com*RATE AND SUBSCRIBE*Purchase A Tribe Called Quest's Ego here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/ego/1173106678?i=1173107018
8/20/2020 • 1 hour, 40 minutes, 21 seconds
Ep 91. WAP WAP WAP
* Forgive us. The audio quality is not the greatest because we had to use a zoom meeting to record. We have fixed our equipment and will have it together next week. *In this week's episode, Shanti blames her depression on her period while Antoinette is shocked that even our beloved FLOTUS Michelle Obama gets depressed. Together, we agree that penises we can't feel don't count. And for our main topic we learn music has always been and will continue to be, profane, raggedy, and a hot mess. So everyone should relax and get over WAP BUT Kylie Jenner had no business being in the video. Join us for another episode of money and dicks and love and light.For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com*RATE AND SUBSCRIBE*Purchase Cardi B ft Megan The Stallion's WAP here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/wap-feat-megan-thee-stallion/1526746980?i=1526746984
8/13/2020 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 50 seconds
Bonus Ep. Don't Have Sex If You Not Staying the Night ft. Clint and Lou
We were fortunate to collaborate with the hella dope Clint and Lou of the hella dope podcast, Advice from a F*ck Boy. We are talking thot bags, phantom penises, and why negros aren't kissing anymore. Join us. Follow Advice from a F*uck Boy @advicefromafuckboy here https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/advice-from-a-f-ck-boy/id1449228819For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com
8/11/2020 • 1 hour, 14 minutes, 5 seconds
Ep 90. Black A$$ Beyonce is King
In episode 90, we offer a light-hearted episode filled with: prayers by the water, delicious salad dressing recipes, claiming our whoop-ass teams, questioning if we will ever care about Brandy, and being shocked to learn that mad men be drooling on folk's heads. For our main topic, we praise the release of "Black is King" while naming the elephants: capitalism, colorism, and creative claim that are always in the room when talking about King Bey. Join us...For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comThe problem With Cancel Culture with Ayishat Akanbihttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N3ZjTg1OpIEHow to Understand Your Intuitive Nature with Caroline Mysshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQuTGQbB15MPurchase Beyonce's Black Parade here:https://music.apple.com/us/album/black-parade-extended-version/1525559064?i=1525559273
8/6/2020 • 2 hours, 7 minutes, 5 seconds
Ep 89. Critiquing Cancel Culture
In episode 89, Shanti laments over the uncertainty of school openings while Antoinette may be creating a new hobby called "protest + chill". Together, we talk about raggedy Meek Mill, protecting Megan, and relish in small wins for Philly. For our main topic, we discuss cancel culture: who decides who gets canceled and where is the room for change? Join us.For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comThe problem With Cancel Culture with Ayishat Akanbihttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N3ZjTg1OpIEHow to Understand Your Intuitive Nature with Caroline Mysshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQuTGQbB15M"Bye Baby" by Nas can be purchased here on iTunes Bye Babyhttps://music.apple.com/us/album/bye-baby/1444151054?i=1444151411
7/30/2020 • 2 hours, 14 minutes, 31 seconds
Ep 88. There Will Be Blood ft. Rosco Spears
In episode 88, Shanti vaguely describes how she is going through them changes like a young Octavia Butler in her prime, while Antoinette intentionally enjoys a carefree day after dodging F-boys and ruining traditional Nigerian dishes. In honor of Fibroid Awareness Month and for our main topic, we are joined by artist, teacher, and creative boss lady, Rosco Spears who shares her experiences of living and loving with fibroids. Join us… For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls Follow Rosco on IG @roscospearsContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comAMH Testing Info https://rmanetwork.com/blog/anti-mullerian-hormone-amh-testing-of-ovarian-reserve/#:~:text=AMH%20or%20anti%2Dmullerian%20hormone,a%20marker%20of%20oocyte%20quantity.Purchase Just One of Them Days by Monica here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/dont-take-it-personal-just-one-of-dem-days/298425958?i=298426043
7/23/2020 • 1 hour, 50 minutes, 3 seconds
Ep 87. Entanglement
We return after a series of unfortunate events but still we rise! Antoinette navigates her new reality as she manages being laid off, white girls sliding into her dms calling her fat, and having her laptop and purse stolen. Shanti (again) considers dropping everything and starting over somewhere else. We catch up on Politics as Usual aka Pelosi inf Kente, Trump comparing himself to the Lone Ranger, and dare to imagine a world with Kanye as president. Inspired by the recent Smith scandal, our main topic is all about honesty and vulnerability in relationships and we ask ourselves if we really want love like Will + Jada? Join us….For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comBuy Kendrick Lamar’s Bitch Don’t Kill My Vibe here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/bitch-dont-kill-my-vibe/1440818890?i=1440818959
7/16/2020 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 27 seconds
Ep 86. We're Back
In episode 86, return after a one-week hiatus to talk about everything under the sun including Antoinette feeling fragmented and slightly canceled in some internet circles while Shanti gives us classic, supportive, hilarious, & problematic Shanti but also works through some challenging relationship and business matters with Antoinette. Join us. For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comBuy Jadakiss's We Gonna Make It ft. Styles P here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/we-gonna-make-it-feat-styles-p/1035588763?i=1035589191
7/2/2020 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 9 seconds
Ep 85. Liberation Without Our LGBTQ+ Family is NOT Liberation
In episode 85 we are joined by special guests Nico, Desiree and Ilya. Together we describe our collective imaginings of liberation through the recognition, care and protection of queer and trans lives. Join us...Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comJoin Patreon for video of this episode and other exclusive content: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsBuy Solange's Rise here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/rise/1159507212?i=1159507235
6/18/2020 • 2 hours, 15 minutes, 30 seconds
Ep 84. The Work within "The Work"
In episode 84, we explore the ways in which we personally internalize patriarchy, homophobia, and the projection of whiteness. Inspired by a close friend's recent critique of the platform as well as "A Conversation" between Nikki Giovanni and James Baldwin, we reckon with the work within "The Work" that we have to do towards personally towards our collective liberation. Join us...Listen to "A Conversation" between Nikki Giovanni + James Baldwin https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eZmBy7C9gHQFor 50% off your first Care/of order, go to www.TakeCareOf.com and enter code atwc50.Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comJoin Patreon for video of this episode and other exclusive content: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Outré Lux (feat. Madison McFerrin) https://music.apple.com/us/album/outr%C3%A9-lux-feat-madison-mcferrin/1254524399?i=1254524923
6/11/2020 • 1 hour, 40 minutes, 16 seconds
Ep 83. Being a Black Man in America ft Nas, Rich & Salaah
In episode 83, we decided to halt our regularly scheduled program out of respect for the life of George Floyd. Currently, global protests demanding justice for George and countless others are underway. As a result, we thought it important to have 3 Black men, Nas, Rich & Salaah join us to see how they are feeling at this moment... How they’re processing their grief and fear...How we can continue to support them... And in what ways we can we begin to recover and become empowered politically, physically, and emotionally. Join us. Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comJoin Patreon for the video of this episode and other exclusive content: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsFollow our guests!Salaah Muhammed of Salaah's Corner https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/salaahs-corner/id1444976518Nas Nworu of PVOGlobal (Positive Vibes Only) @pvoglobal PVO Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-pvo-podcast/id1514268603Richard Stokes of The Conversation Pit https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-conversation-pit/id1446381492Purchase Jay Electronica’s Ghost of Soulja Slim: https://music.apple.com/us/album/ghost-of-soulja-slim/1502677867?i=1502677874
6/4/2020 • 1 hour, 45 minutes, 24 seconds
Bonus Ep. Pass the Aux Part 2: Old School Soul Battle Ft. Chi
We're back for part 2! Get into it. Check out the PVO Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-pvo-podcast/id1514268603 Follow Chi on IG: @Chi_eo@PVOGlobalFull Playlist: Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/70s-and-80s-verzus-antoinette-vs-chi/pl.u-zPyLm15I84eDJbSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3jOfS8ztlqeKkSF7EodtlT?si=Gy8_ETmTTVeLgiNX1nDBFA*We don't own ANY of this music* so... relax and go BUY IT.
6/1/2020 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 39 seconds
Ep 82. Disassociation Is A Thing
In episode 81, Shanti takes on Politics as Usual and admits she may need herbs to control her crazy. Antoinette shares new love for the trampoline and why music is her ultimate healer. Together, we explore a fictitious world where Malcolm X is alive and well. Lastly, Shanti stresses over HBO’s Euphoria and Antoinette acknowledges either one of them could have ended up as crackheads. Join us.Join Patreon for exclusive content here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsNext Pleasure Activism Chapter is: Part 2 of Pleasure After Childhood Sexual Abuse page 297Purchase Bobby Womack's Fly Me To The Moon here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/fly-me-to-the-moon-in-other-words/721299070?i=721299187
5/28/2020 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 16 seconds
Bonus Ep. Pass the Aux Part 1: Old School Soul Battle Ft. Chi
This is strictly for the crate-digging, playlist-making, music heads. Antoinette and homie, Chi of PVO Global bring you Part One of an epic "Pass the Aux Chord" battle that spans everywhere from the disco to the sheets. Yes, Covid may have our Memorial Day socially distant, but it doesn't also have to be a drag. Get into it. Follow Chi on IG: @Chi_eo@PVOGlobalBe sure to be on the lookout for PVO's upcoming podcast. Full playlist come soon on both Apple Music and Spotify.*We don't own ANY of this music* so... relax and go BUY IT.
5/25/2020 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 1 second
Ep 81. Rethinking Infidelity
In Ep. 81 Shanti shares a new pet peeve and Antoinette breaks her vegan fast. Together, we react to Tracey Ellis’s new song (chile…) and dive into a new chapter of Pleasure Activism. For our main topic, we are inspired by our second favoritest white woman - Esther Perel. After listening to her TED talk, we rethink infidelity, partnership, and the unrealistic expectations we create. Do we set ourselves up to cheat and be cheated on? Join us…Join Patreon for exclusive content here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsNext Pleasure Activism Chapter is: Pleasure After Childhood Sexual Abuse page 293Watch Esther Perel’s Rethinking Infidelity here:https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved?language=en#t-397379Purchase TLC’s Creep here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/creep/270246704?i=270246711
5/21/2020 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 15 seconds
Ep 80. Mama Said Knock You Out
In episode 80, we recount our Mother's Day weekends and share our thoughts on the Jill Scott and Erykah Badu Verzuz battle. We also discuss the many highlights of Girltrek's interview with our elite aunties, Angela Davis and Nikki Giovanni. Finally, Antoinette's white mom drops some gems on us while Shanti threatens to beat her inner child. Join us.For exclusive content and video join our Patreon:www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comNext Pleasure Activism Chapter is: I Want You But I’m Triggered page 211Watch Angela Davis and Nikki Giovanni Live with GirlTrekhttps://www.facebook.com/watch/live/?v=549964385668765&ref=watch_permalinkPurchase LL Cool J's Mama Said Knock You Out here:https://music.apple.com/us/album/mama-said-knock-you-out-edited/1443811286?i=1443811550
5/14/2020 • 1 hour, 29 minutes, 23 seconds
Bonus Ep. Exclusive Jill Scott vs. Erykah Badu
For exclusive content and video join our Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com*Disclaimer*We own none of this music but we think y'all should go buy it cause it's fire.
5/9/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 3 seconds
Ep 79. White People Won’t Save You (Neither Will Squirting)
In episode 79. we return with many realizations: Shanti is an Instagram shoe hoe, Antoinette realizes we are all entitled S.O.Bs, Karen will remain as the go-to identifier for white women and neither squirting, the government (Barack Obama specifically in Shanti's opinion) nor white people will save you. But we know what will… Join us for another episode.White People Won’t Save You is from Terrance Nance's work of art. Check it out here. http://www.whitepeoplewontsaveyou.org/Book Club:Next week’s Pleasure Activism Chapter: From #MeToo to #WeConsentedReclaiming the Pleasure of Consent Page 195 Contact UsIG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com
5/7/2020 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 33 seconds
Ep 78. Waiting To Exhale ft. Jade & XD
Episode 78 is a special one! After a long controversy and a lot of shaming, Shanti has finally watched the movie “Waiting to Exhale”. There is no better duo to help Around The Way Curls dissect the classic than Jade and XD. Join this mashup of podcasts as we revel in the 90’s Black fashion, friendship, terracotta makeup, thirsty women, raggedy men, and the timeless soundtrack that makes “Waiting to Exhale” a classic for the culture. Book Club:Next week’s Pleasure Activism Chapter: A Timeline/Tutorial On Squirting page 189.Contact UsIG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comFollow Jade & XDJade- @jadeofalljades on all platformsXD- @xavier.dleau on IG @xavierDLeau on twitter@JadeandXD on IGBuy Chante Moore’s Wey U here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/wey-u/216124789?i=216125457
5/1/2020 • 1 hour, 50 minutes, 36 seconds
Ep 77. Brown Sugar vs Voodoo
In episode 77, Antoinette shares how she danced away the sadness this week while Shanti shares her disdain for Marvel’s “End Game”. Together, we recap the comedic IG battles featuring our beloved uncles, Teddy Riley and Kenneth Babyface Edmonds. Finally, we end with our own battle deciding once and for all which D’Angelo album is better: Brown Sugar or Voodoo. Join us..Teddy Riley vs Babyface playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6vg1XtBJ1Hh24t9y5BNxQp Link to the vibrator we discussed https://shevibe.com/fantasy-for-her-her-ultimate-pleasure-dual-oral-sex-simulator-g-spot-vibrator/Next week’s Pleasure Activism Chapter: A Timeline/Tutorial On Squirting page 189.IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPurchase D'Angelo's Betray My Heart Count On Me herehttps://music.apple.com/us/album/betray-my-heart/950764300?i=950764330
4/23/2020 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 21 seconds
Ep 76. Questions To Ask To Fall In Love
In episode 76, we aim to fall deeper in love by asking each other the “36 Questions That Lead to Love” when things don’t go as planned. Shanti also dives into Politics as Usual to give her opinion of Bernie Sanders dropping out of the race, while Antoinette updates us on her quarantine dates and demands we watch Babyface battle versus Teddy Riley on IG this Saturday. NY Times Original Article and Questions https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/style/36-questions-that-lead-to-love.htmlIG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPurchase Whitney Houston & CeCe Winans’ Count On Me herehttps://music.apple.com/us/album/count-on-me/216124789?i=216125880
4/16/2020 • 2 hours, 26 seconds
Ep 75. Shooting The Shit
In this episode we mark a full month in quarantine! Have we gone crazy yet?! Together, we shoot the sh*t. We catch up on our routines, movies we are watching, new music and current reads. We also imagine a world with ourselves as Marvel characters. What would be our powers? Which of the Marvel characters can get it? Join us as we try to keep our sanity...IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comAntoinette's 70s and 80s Spotify Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5KgYnsvvzB7esvizzM8CxA?si=SfXtiuo5SeyUDHhSRXLbngPurchase Arrested Development’s Children With Earthhttps://music.apple.com/us/album/children-play-with-earth/715906160?i=715906464
4/9/2020 • 1 hour, 31 minutes, 50 seconds
Ep 74. Tiger the KANG
As we go into our 3rd week of quarantine with nothing but uncertainty ahead, we share our most recent revelations. Shanti considers turning to psychedelic drugs and defends her opposition to light skin or light skin love, while Antoinette considers becoming a DJ and feels at home with her new #DarkWhite Tribe. For this week’s topic, our greatest escape from reality comes from savior Joe Exotic of Netflix’s newest series “Tiger King”. Join us as we dive into the wild, wild world of white middle America….IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comSubscribe and Rate! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/around-the-way-curls-podcast/id1440112847Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power read by Audre Lorde https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWmq9gw4Rq0&t=161sBuy Beyonce's "Kitty Kat" here https://music.apple.com/us/album/kitty-kat/261707051?i=261707108
4/2/2020 • 1 hour, 31 minutes, 28 seconds
Ep 73. Capitalism-This Sh*t Aint Sustainable
It’s day 11 of social distancing/ the quarantine and we begin to investigate the harder questions of life: Is Shanti really in love with Regina and Zoe Kravitz? Is she really a lesbian? How exactly did Dnice DJ for 8 hours straight? What’s up with the name Whoopi Goldberg? And most importantly why is this sh*t not sustainable? Is capitalism to blame? What do we want to do once we are out of this COVID-19 tunnel? Who will we choose to be? Join us….IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comSubscribe and Rate! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/around-the-way-curls-podcast/id1440112847 Shanti's Spotify Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0bLoLKqXtnp4R8lI9LKGnZ?si=QcmfnDuIRO2I1ikFwDJR3w Purchase Outkast ft Erykah Badu, Cee-lo and Big Rube here:https://music.apple.com/us/album/liberation/266365274?i=266365542
3/26/2020 • 1 hour, 49 minutes, 13 seconds
Ep 72. Corona Virus Sh*t is Getting Real
In this week's episode, we hunker down, discuss Covid-19 and share our quarantine updates. Shanti thinks this is it, while Antoinette trusts that humanity will prevail. We begin our book club with chapter one of Pleasure Activism and share who taught us to feel good. Join us…IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comSubscribe and Rate! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/around-the-way-curls-podcast/id1440112847 Music:Purchase Asa's Eyin Mummy here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/eyin-mummy/927578844?i=927580914Purchase Nasty C's King ft. A$AP Ferg here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/king-feat-a%24ap-ferg/1402614726?i=1402615050 Purchase Kendrick Lamar's "Alright" here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/alright/1440828886?i=1440829463
3/19/2020 • 1 hour, 33 minutes, 13 seconds
Ep 71. Positive Vibes Only ft. Chi & Nas
In episode 71, we are joined by half of the men that make up PVO Global (Positive Vibes Only Global). After Antoinette had the time of her life at their NYE Party in Ghana, she was hyped they were down to link up for an episode. Tune in while the Nigerian homies, Nas & Chi candidly discuss how PVO Global came to be, what positivity means to them, who has the best Jollof, and whether or not they're make-love f*&%in or f*&%in f*&%in. Join us. Contact PVO Global : IG: @pvoglobalNas IG: @nasboogie Chi IG: @chi_eo Website: https://www.pvoglobal.com/home Tickets to DC Event: https://www.pvoglobal.com/events/pvo-dc-3 ATWC ContactIG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comSubscribe and Rate! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/around-the-way-curls-podcast/id1440112847 Purchase Frankie Beverly & Maze's Happy Fellin's here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/happy-feelins/724665117?i=724665418
3/12/2020 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 39 seconds
Ep 70. Exploring the Erotic
In episode 70, we begin with Shanti tapping into her inner Larry David while Antoinette may have found some answers to her recent health mysteries. In honor of March as "Women's History Month", we dive deeper into our pleasure activism with help from the brilliant Black minds of Audre Lorde and Adrienne Maree Brown confronting our own processing of pleasure and codings of the erotic. Join us….Call us: (215) 948-2780Subscribe and Rate! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/around-the-way-curls-podcast/id1440112847 Buy My Power by Beyonce here https://music.apple.com/us/album/my-power/1473486502?i=1473487844Listen to Neil Satton's 200: Pleasure Activism - Change that Nourishes You - with Adrienne Maree Brown here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QSP6s2ZEJJs
3/5/2020 • 1 hour, 27 minutes, 47 seconds
Ep 69. Pleasure Principals
In this week’s episode, Antoinette shares a recent health scare (hold her in prayer) while Shanti focuses on far more shallow matters such as new hair products (hold her in prayer). The topic this week was inspired by “Pleasure Activism” a book written by Adrienne Maree Brown. We talk about where we create pleasure in our lives and the complicated ways pleasure is often entangled with shame and perfectionism. Join us for another heavy hitter...Call us: (215) 948-2780Subscribe and Rate on Apple Podcasts!Purchase Janet Jackson's "The Pleasure Principal" here https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-pleasure-principle-edit/1413924909?i=1413926120
2/27/2020 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 27 seconds
Ep 68. Being Alone vs. Being Lonely
In this week's episode, Shanti asks us to imagine a world where men (and their penises) ovulate, while Antoinette shares her dismay around the design of the new OneUnited debit Card that features Harriet Tubman throwing up the “Wakanda forever” salute. For our main topic, we discuss the difference between being alone and being lonely and the importance of differentiating the two. Join us….Call us: (215) 948-2780Subscribe and Rate on Apple Podcasts!Purchase Marquis Hill's "Beautiful Us" here https://music.apple.com/us/album/beautiful-us/1477429756?i=1477429761
2/20/2020 • 1 hour, 23 minutes, 8 seconds
Ep 67. F*ck That Valentine
In this week’s episode, we announce our first live show at The Roots Picnic May 30! Shanti talks about her fetish with lace front weaves while Antoinette keeps her peace with YouTube meditations. For our main topic, we discuss our Galentine’s day festivities with the girls, judge celebrity couples’ sex lives, and end with a Valentine's special of F*&%, Marry, Kill. Join us. Call us: (215) 948-2780Subscribe and Rate on Apple Podcasts!Buy Happy Valentine's Day by Outkast here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/happy-valentines-day/281430653?i=281430710
2/13/2020 • 1 hour, 30 minutes, 41 seconds
Ep 66. Dear Kobe...
In episode 66, we share our NYC artsy jawn activities and share our opinions on Jlo & Shakira’s Super Bowl halftime show. For our main topic, we remember the life & legacy of Kobe Bryant and reflect on how his death has deepened our yearning to live life fully and grapple with grief as a community. Join us. Call us: (215) 948-2780Subscribe and Rate!"The Black Mamba was equal parts man and myth. As accessible as he was to several generations of sports fans, to Black men in particular, he was a flesh and blood reminder of what they could achieve and evolve into, even after making potentially life-damaging mistakes." -Blue Telusma Source: https://thegrio.com/2020/01/29/what-kobe-bryants-death-has-taught-me-about-how-black-men-mourn/?fbclid=IwAR1Lzq1NT9dVIjeX-5uZMsMez_T6unGAcspxQ14dvt_M96-3aebDAXAWT7E in Kobe Bryant Mamba Mentality Motivational Video audio can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gi9y3sTrXE
2/6/2020 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 27 seconds
Ep 65. What Are Your Intentions?
In episode 65, Shanti & Antoinette are reunited at last. Join us as we discuss long-term goals versus daily intention settings, what ours are, and how we plan on putting them to practice in 2020.Get in touch. Call us! 215-948-2780Buy Nicki Minaj's Feeling Myself here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/feeling-myself-feat-beyonc%C3%A9/1440851747?i=1440851762
1/30/2020 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 51 seconds
Ep 64. Latinx Identity ft. Dashira Harri
In this episode, Shanti sits with Dashira Harris who is a Peabody-award-winning multi-media journalist and entrepreneur based in Panama. Join us as we discuss AfroDiasporic Identity, colonization, and the historical and present-day class and color complex and hierarchy among Latinxs throughout the Americas.Follow Dash:https://www.instagram.com/diasporadash/https://twitter.com/InADashFollow her travel business: https://www.instagram.com/afrolatinotravel/https://www.instagram.com/radio_cana_negra/NEGRO: A docu-series about Latino Identity: www.NegroDoc.comAfroLatino Travel: www.AfroLatinxTravel.comRadio Caña Negra: https://www.facebook.com/RadioCanaNegra/ Casta article: http://www.50shadesofblack.com/blog/843#.Xic52-nQi8U=Purchase Asi es La Negra by Arianna Puello here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/asi-es-la-negra/408682359?i=408682425
1/23/2020 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 44 seconds
Ep 63. Surviving "Survivor's Guilt" ft. Julia Mallory
This week Shanti is joined by poet and author Julia Mallory. Together, we talk about her journey with grief after losing her father unexpectedly at the age of 13 followed by the murder of her 17-year-old son in 2017. Join us as we navigate how despite being gripped by grief, Julia deliberately seeks joy and pleasure through her self care practices and writing. You can purchase Julia's book here: https://www.blackmermaids.com/books and learn more about Black Mermaids here: https://www.blackmermaids.com/Purchase Umi Says by Mos Def here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/black-on-both-sides/1444213589
1/16/2020 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 6 seconds
Ep 62. Ghana Year of the Return Recap
We're back! In episode 62 Shanti and Antoinette catch up on each other's lives since their two-week hiatus. Shanti talks about ringing in the new year content and crying in the tub while Antoinette recaps her recent trip to Morocco and Ghana for The Year Of The Return. Duality is a thing right? Join us. Remember to rate and subscribe here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/around-the-way-curls-podcast/id1440112847Buy Shenseea ft Tyga's Blessed here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/blessed/1463440877?i=1463441136
1/9/2020 • 1 hour, 32 minutes, 44 seconds
Happy Holidays
Happy holidays y'all. We are taking a break but will be back with brand new content January 9th. Tune in then : )
12/26/2019 • 8 minutes, 33 seconds
Ep 61. Black Capitalism
In this week’s episode, Shanti shares her birthday celebrations while Antoinette battles the flu and prepares for her trip to Ghana. Tis the season for gift giving and shopping so for our topic this week we dive into the values of “Buying Black” and Black wealth. Is Black wealth the way to our collective liberation? Will the revolution be monetized? Join us.Saul Williams Interview is from The Breakfast ClubBuy Arrested Development's Revolution here https://music.apple.com/us/album/revolution/724391667?i=724392157
12/19/2019 • 1 hour, 16 minutes, 13 seconds
Ep 60. Arguing Over Queen & Slim
In episode 60, Antoinette returns from Bronchitis with a new perspective on life while Shanti celebrates her upcoming Jesus year. For our main topic, we discuss the newly released, highly anticipated, “Queen and Slim”. One of us left feeling inspired and touched, while the other left wanting her money back. Who is who? Join us for another episode from around the way...Be sure to rate and subscribe!Buy "Collide" by Tiana Major9 and EARTHGANG from the Queen and Slim Soundtrack here https://music.apple.com/us/album/collide/1484416236?i=1484416259
12/12/2019 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 8 seconds
Ep 59. When They Go Ghost Ft. Tsehaitu
In episode 59, Shanti is joined by Tsehaitu while Antoinette recovers from bronchitis. Shanti shares how she ruined the mac and cheese for Thanksgiving and together they bring life to the act of Ghosting. Is ghosting wrong? Is it just a sign of the times? What are the consequences of ghosting? How do we stop ghosting and being ghosted? Join us for another episode...Buy Prince's How Come U Don't Call Me Anymore here https://music.apple.com/us/album/how-come-u-dont-call-me-anymore/212972881?i=212976426
12/5/2019 • 1 hour, 45 minutes, 39 seconds
Ep 58. Thanksgiving Break
Happy Thanksgiving to all the curls from around the way. We'll be back with a full episode next week.
11/28/2019 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 27 seconds
Ep 57. How Did You Learn To Love
In episode 57, Antoinette prepares herself for a white Thanksgiving while Shanti's only update is a new winter jacket. Together we share our love for Ryan Gosling and dive head-first into Shanti's recent disagreement with her mother about love. Provoked by the incident and inspired by Esther, we share our answers to Dr. Perel's questions about love beginning with "How did you learn to love"...Listen to Esther Perel's "Where Should We Begin?" here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/where-should-we-begin-with-esther-perel/id1237931798Buy Mary J Blige here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/therapy/1440851006?i=1440851216
11/21/2019 • 1 hour, 48 minutes, 35 seconds
Ep 56. The Ex Files
In episode 56 your girls are together sharing updates on our holiday plans, our opinions on T.I's most recent parental failure, & discussing our sheer confusion over Issa Rae's newest project. The main topic of the week is "when you leave, make sure you go". How do we truly break emotional, physical, and spiritual ties with partners when we leave relationships? This topic is super relevant to one of us being as though she had a random encounter with an ex that brings up feelings she thought she was done with. Join us...Sigh the Free Rodney Reed Petition: https://www.freerodneyreed.com/ Buy Aretha Franklin's My Song here https://music.apple.com/us/album/my-song/266602438?i=266603585
11/14/2019 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 44 seconds
Ep 55. An Ode to Love Jones
In episode 55, we talk about Holiday woes, Popeye's chicken sandwiches that taste like Shwarma, and being emotionally imbalanced. We dedicated the topic of the week to our all-time favorite love story - Love Jones. We dive into this 90's cult classic and talk about the music, art, actors, cinematography, and plot line about the complexity and simplicity of love. Join us!
11/7/2019 • 1 hour, 40 minutes, 26 seconds
Ep 54. Don't Be Scurred Ft. Jade Of All Jades
In episode 54, Antoinette is joined by the great Jade of All Jades. They discuss being conflicted about Tyler Perry, ignoring Kanye West despite knowing that Jesus is King & in honor of Halloween all the things that scare them (no matter how small or large). It's a light convo for a change. Enjoy while you can cause you know how we do : ) Follow Jade of All Jades on IG @jadeofalljades and visit her website at https://www.jadeofalljades.com/ Buy Jazmine Sullivan's Fear here https://music.apple.com/us/album/bust-your-windows/290555287?i=290555300
10/31/2019 • 1 hour, 26 minutes, 45 seconds
Ep 53. We Gettin Married Or Nah?
In episode 53, we cover the union we didn't know we needed of Drake's dad and reality star Queen Tiffany Pollard. We also discuss Gina Rodriguez's recent usage of the N-word in pop culture and ask the ever-present question, "who is allowed to use the N-word?". And we top it off with this week's main topic: marriage. Do we want it? Are we ready? Is it even necessary? What are our views of a healthy relationship? Join us and join in the conversation!Ester Perel Videohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wE4QQMyTrC0Sliding Versus Decidinghttp://slidingvsdeciding.blogspot.com/Buy UGK's Int'l Player's Anthem here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/intl-players-anthem-i-choose-you-feat-outkast/1352138891?i=1352139622
10/24/2019 • 1 hour, 58 minutes, 24 seconds
Ep 52. One Year Down
Mama, we made it! It’s our 52nd episode! Our baby podcast is officially a year old! In the mood of celebration, we recap Antoinette’s birthday weekend and Shanti’s surprise party and are quickly sobered by yet another recent murder of a beautiful black body, Atatiana K. Jefferson by the hands of the police.We reminisce on our favorite episodes of the past, dream up what is more to come from Around The Way Curls, and end with another ATWC Affirmation. Join us for another episode, ripe with the duality of sorrow and joy that is Around The Way Curls. Buy Toni! Tony! Tone! 's Anniversary herehttps://music.apple.com/us/album/anniversary/1443099999?i=1443100922
10/17/2019 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 5 seconds
Ep 51. Guess Who's Back?
Guess who's back?! Shanti returns from her hiatus and jumps back in the ring with Antoinette. In this week's episode, we discuss how to have difficult conversations around social issues and politics after Antoinette was confronted with criticism for her support of Dave Chapelle's newest stand-up. We discuss cancel culture and end up arguing and canceling each other for our opposing views about Amber Guyger getting 10 years for MURDER! Always with the sh*$! Join us...Buy Scarface's Guess Who's Back here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/guess-whos-back/713222941?i=713223265
10/10/2019 • 1 hour, 42 minutes, 29 seconds
Ep 50. Body Image Ft. Naana And Obie
In episode 50, Antoinette is once again joined by the good folks at @workbaepod to discuss all things body image. It's really just that simple. Join us as we peel back the layers and discuss. Buy Lizzo's Tempo: https://music.apple.com/us/album/tempo-feat-missy-elliott/1452318774?i=1452320177
10/3/2019 • 1 hour, 26 minutes, 30 seconds
Ep 49. Forgiving Even When They Aren't Sorry ft. Naana & Obie
In episode 49, Antoinette is again joined by Nanaa and Obie from WorkBaePod where they discuss forgiveness. Antoinette talks about how her view on forgiveness has shifted after coming home from Bali and being tested, while Obie grapples with timelines for forgiveness and Nanaa admits forgiveness is something she has given out of pure obligation. Join us. Music: Buy Beyonce's All Night here https://music.apple.com/us/album/all-night/1460473526?i=1460473542
9/26/2019 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 52 seconds
Ep 48. In Defense Of Dave Chappelle ft Naana & Obie
In episode 48, we are joined by special guest hosts, Naana & Obie from the "WorkBae" podcast. After some pleasantries, we dive into dissecting cancel culture discussing Kanye and his upcoming gospel album, Jay and his new NFL partnership, and of course Dave Chappelle's new special on Netflix, "Sticks and Stones". Join Us.Follow WorkBae podcast at @workbaepod on IG & https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/work-bae/id1460551260Donate to The Bahama Relief Fund: https://www.npr.org/2019/09/11/759780932/how-to-help-hurricane-dorian-survivors-in-the-bahamasMusic is "Zealots" by The Fugees buy here https://music.apple.com/us/album/zealots/281701670?i=281701719
9/19/2019 • 1 hour, 14 minutes, 34 seconds
Ep 47. Shanti & Sable Step Out On Faith
In episode 47 Shanti talks all things Sable. She discusses her new role as sole owner of The Sable Collective and how she is channeling some of her gangster energy from her past a result She also shares her top business practices for entrepreneurs, what it's like to step out on faith, and how she is choosing to define "failure and success". Join us and be sure to #ShopSable !The Sable Collective is a boutique curated for women of color to explore our own narratives of joy, beauty, and wellness. Sable Address: 1101 Market Street Philadelphia Pa 19170Music: Buy Michael Jackson's Workin Day and Night here https://music.apple.com/us/album/workin-day-and-night/186166282?i=186166410
9/12/2019 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 14 seconds
Ep 46. Bali Recap!
In episode 46, Antoinette recaps her recent trip to Bali. She fills us in on how to prepare for a 33-hour long flight, all the must-see spots, must-do tours, and the question of Airbnb or hotel. She also shares live audio from her energy healing session that had her shaken to her core. Join us to get a glimpse into Balinese life and the richness of its unique culture. Also, be sure to listen to the end for another Around the Way Curl Affirmation.Bali Airbnb: https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/33257776?source_impression_id=p3_1567467395_6xbJOTix7um%2FOINlBali Photographer: https://www.airbnb.com/trips/v1/5c15529f-779a-416e-a8a4-c2bf028aad01/2019-08-07Bali Tour: https://www.airbnb.com/trips/v1/5c15529f-779a-416e-a8a4-c2bf028aad01/2019-08-06Music: Buy Earth Wind and Fire's Gratitude here https://music.apple.com/us/album/gratitude/1456444801?i=1456444977
9/5/2019 • 2 hours, 4 minutes, 7 seconds
Ep 45. You've Got The Green Light
We all know what our reg flags are, right? We're ALWAYS talking about what we don't want and how saying "No" is a thing. But we almost never talk about what we DO want. So, in episode 45, we decided to switch it up from negative to positive by focusing on our "green lights" which are all the things that make us say "YES". Join us and be sure to stay tuned to the end to catch some exclusive Around the Way Curls Affirmations. Praise Jah Rastafari Selassie.Music: "Green Light" by our Queen Beyonce. Buy Green Light herehttps://music.apple.com/us/album/green-light/296790269?i=296790881
8/29/2019 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 55 seconds
Ep 44. Etiquette Of Dating
In episode 44, Antoinette shares her recent intimate time with Dave Chapelle and Shanti confesses her obsession with Stranger Things. As we jump into this week's episode we talk about the etiquette of dating. How do we do this?! Where should the first date take place? Who pays? How do you get out of a terrible date? What does it mean to be a good person and be a horrible date? Is there a dating rubric to follow? Join us and weigh in!
8/22/2019 • 1 hour, 47 minutes, 24 seconds
Ep 43. Red Light Special
In episode 43, Shanti shares her excitement for the debut of Melina Matsouskas first film "Queen and Slim" and Antoinette implores us to put the q-tips down due to a hearing scare. For our main topic, we focus on menstruation! We share our first periods, and some vital information about the science of our bodies and explore the ways in which we have been taught to shame and celebrate our bodies' ability to birth and bleed. Join us!
8/15/2019 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 18 seconds
Ep 42. Petty Peeves
In episode 42, we start with Antoinette talking about starving herself in healthy increments and Shanti updates us all on The Sable Collective opening. Our main topic is focused on our petty peeves not just in relationship to these raggedy love interests but also to the general public. Finally, Antoinette and Shanti touch on a seemingly sensitive topic in their relationship that begs us to question "are we really friends"? Weigh in.
8/8/2019 • 1 hour, 35 minutes, 57 seconds
Ep 41. Show Love Sis
In episode 41, we start off with Shanti's plead for help from our listeners, Antoinette leaving the country, and Philly's finest film festival. The main topic we discuss what "women supporting women" means to us. After a weekend spent vending at Curlfest, we talk about the dismissive responses from attendees after a hiccup with the event. Joins us as we talk about the importance of women supporting women in our personal lives and its extension into the collective. Buy Beyonce's Don't Jealous Me ft Tekno, Yemi Alade & Mr. Eazi here https://music.apple.com/us/album/dont-jealous-me/1473486502?i=1473487230
8/1/2019 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 8 seconds
Ep 40. The Music Of Our Lives
Join us as we talk all things music! We take a journey down memory lane and share the music of our lives from our early childhoods to the first albums we ever bought, the first songs we learned the entire lyrics to and the soundtracks that played while falling in love and enduring heart ache. We answer who we think the top 5 female MC's of all time are and our favorite albums of all time. Weigh in! Music:Buy Teddy Pendergrass Feel The Fire https://music.apple.com/us/album/feel-the-fire/316075611?i=316075708Buy Roberta Flack’s Killing Me Softly https://music.apple.com/us/album/killing-me-softly-with-his-song/355038498?i=355038523Buy Judy Garland’s Over the Rainbow https://music.apple.com/us/album/over-the-rainbow/1423343729?i=1423344617 Buy Fela Kuti’s Water Get No Enemy https://music.apple.com/us/album/water-no-get-enemy-edit/682960548?i=682961325Buy Tito Puente’s A Gozar Timbero https://music.apple.com/us/album/a-gozar-timbero-son-montuno-outtake/304746406?i=304746422Buy Bob Marley’s Exodus https://music.apple.com/us/album/exodus/1422676686?i=1422677357Buy Spice Girls’ Wannabe https://music.apple.com/us/album/wannabe-radio-edit/723398173?i=723398294Buy Missy Elliott’s Can’t Stand The Rain https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-rain-supa-dupa-fly/302943429?i=302943466Buy DMX’s Ruff Ryders’ Anthem https://music.apple.com/us/album/ruff-ryders-anthem/1444533207?i=1444533214Buy Ruff Ryders feat. Jay Z Jigga My N*%$$@ https://music.apple.com/us/album/jigga-my-n-a-feat-jay-z/1035602470?i=1035603591Buy Eve’s Love is Blind https://music.apple.com/us/album/love-is-blind/1443800666?i=1443801385Buy Nas’s Hate Me Now https://music.apple.com/us/album/hate-me-now-feat-puff-daddy/170439443?i=170439491Buy Diamon K’s Put Ya Leg Up https://music.apple.com/us/album/put-ya-leg-up-b-more-club-remix/419008589?i=419008594Buy Theo’s Shorty You Phat https://music.apple.com/us/album/shorty-you-phat-feat-dukeyman/1449502226?i=1449502227Buy Luke’ s Sheila https://music.apple.com/us/album/lukes-sheila-feat-choclatt-frank-delour-remix/1443211812?i=1443212555Buy Jill Scott’s Long Walk https://music.apple.com/us/album/a-long-walk/1416153023?i=1416159855Buy Erykah Badu’s Bag Lady https://music.apple.com/us/album/bag-lady-feat-roy-ayres/1440755899?i=1440756610Buy Musiq Soul Child’s Love https://music.apple.com/us/album/love/1440921030?i=1440921200Buy Sade’s Somebody Already Broke My Heart https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-sweetest-gift/193532145?i=193532726Buy D’Angelo’s Send It On https://music.apple.com/us/album/send-it-on/1440841365?i=1440841746Buy Roberta Flack’s The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-first-time-ever-i-saw-your-face/120198739?i=120198397Buy Erick Sermon's Music Feat Marvin Gaye https://music.apple.com/us/album/music-feat-marvin-gaye/298321651?i=298321904
7/25/2019 • 1 hour, 42 minutes, 50 seconds
Ep 39. PorNo?
In episode 39,we get it poppin' with porn! We reflect on our relationship with pornography and consider the good and bad of America's favorite entertainment industry. We also discuss how mercury in retrograde may be responsible for your life falling apart, Antoinette's DDD/E,F woes, white men calling wolf, and how the world may be going to hell in a handbag because China stopped buying our plastic. Join us for another uplifting episode of Around The Way Curls!Buy Oops (Oh My) by Tweet Feat. Missy Elliot here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/oops-oh-my-feat-missy-elliott/399591421?i=399591731
7/18/2019 • 1 hour, 34 minutes, 56 seconds
Ep 38. My Ariel Is Black
In episode 38, we begin with Shanti discussing her spiritual link to Beyonce, Antoinette asks for prayers for her passport, and for the first time both Shanti and Antoinette's mothers make their debut in the newest segment "Ask Our White Moms". For the main topic, we dive under the sea and rescue Ariel from the waves of racism and white rage after Disney debuts a Black "Little Mermaid". Join us as we call Disney out for its years of racism and inappropriateness.Music: "Revolution" by Arrested Development
7/11/2019 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 12 seconds
Ep 37. Beauty Is Her Name
In episode 37, we take it back to our roots...literally. As requested by our listeners, we rehash the good ol' days of bloggin' and beauty which ATWC's was originally founded upon. Join us as we share our thoughts on the beauty "influencer world" and how we keep our hair did, skin clear and teeth white. Just trying to hear what applies to you? Skip ahead with the list below: ATWC’s Beginnings in Beauty : 14:47Black Beauty Internet Trail Blazers You Should All Know 17:15 How we feel about being considered “Beauty Influencers” 22:00How We Approach Beauty 26:30Hair Regimens 27:30Shanti’s Combination Skin Care Regimen 36:27Antoinette’s Acne Prone Dry Skin Care Regimen 38:10Body/Eczema Care 49:32Face Rollers 51:15 Shanti’s Makeup Regimen 53:06 Sun Block 55:20 Finding your Right Foundation 57:49 Antoinette’s Makeup Regimen 58:46Combating Acne 1:06:36Nails 1:11:08Natural Teeth Whitening 1:14:31Vitamins and Supplements 1:18:32Music- Dru Hill's "Beauty" buy here https://music.apple.com/us/album/beauty/1440918034?i=1440918999
7/3/2019 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 56 seconds
Ep 36. Oh! You're Dating Her Too?
In episode 36, we talk about dating and whether or not we're doing it wrong. Single Antoinette discusses her current dating situation while Shanti reflects on her own dating patterns. Together we explore whether or not it's cool to date more than one person at a time and if so, how to navigate that while being intentional and protective of your heart. Join us. Article- Why You're Always the One Who Prepares Him For His Wife: https://www.xonecole.com/why-youre-always-the-one-who-prepares-a-man-for-his-wife/Buy Ludacris's Pimpin' All Over The World ft Bobby V here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/pimpin-all-over-the-world-feat-bobby-v/1443063770?i=1443064387
6/27/2019 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 41 seconds
Ep 35. Daddies & Zaddies
In episode 35, we celebrate Father’s Day! We explore the role our father’s played in our lives, discuss the difference between Daddies and Zaddies, and choose who we’d rather have as a father. James Earl Jones? or Ossie Davis? Join Us.Music by Usher Buy Hey Daddy here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/hey-daddy-daddys-home-feat-plies/344673511?i=344673600
6/20/2019 • 1 hour, 37 minutes, 37 seconds
Ep 34. Family Feud Ft. Celestine Henry - Allen
In ep 34, Antoinette is joined by her older sister @celestinerae where they discuss the complexities of their complicated relationship and offer advice on how to build strong sibling bonds. Individually, they unpack their hurt, self-sacrifice, insecurity, and trauma that drove a wedge between them. However difficult and complex their pasts may have been, they offer gems on how to get to the root of the hurt and move forward toward the path of forgiveness. Join us.TRIGGER WARNING: This episode touches on topics of sexual abuse and rape. Skip 28:10 - 38:50 to bypass this topic. Music: Family Feud by Jay Z Purchase here https://music.apple.com/us/album/family-feud-feat-beyonc%C3%A9/1440935425?i=1440935869
6/13/2019 • 1 hour, 51 minutes, 2 seconds
Ep 33. Hey Girl Hey
In episode 33, after weeks of special guests, we reconnect just one on one. In "hey girl hey" fashion, we share updates on our work, bumping into exes, future travel plans, and recent spiritual revelations. We reminisce about how Antoinette attempted to steal Allen Iverson from Shanti and how we most recently thought we were going to lose our lives in Philly at The Roots Picnic. Join us!Music by The Roots Purchase "The Seed 2.0" https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-seed-2-0-feat-cody-chestnutt/1440794598?i=1440795223
6/6/2019 • 1 hour, 15 minutes, 6 seconds
Ep 32. Do It With Fear - Entrepreneurship ft. Chris Talley
In episode 32, we sit down with our childhood friend Chris Talley. Chris Talley is a young black business owner, business consultant and generational wealth advisor. Chris shares his journey of leaving corporate America and diving head first into entrepreneurship. He offers gems about the importance of self-investment, self-growth, and how to move forward in fear. To Contact: ChrisWebsite: cptconsultingservices.comSocial Media Handle: cptconsultingEmail: cptconsulting3@gmail.comPhilly Kids Transit: @phillykidstransitMusic: “Legacy” by Jay Z Buy here https://music.apple.com/us/album/legacy/1440935425?i=1440935880
5/30/2019 • 1 hour, 58 minutes, 3 seconds
Ep 31. You Don't Own Me ft. Hey Fran Hey
In episode 31, we are joined by our homegirl, the amazing Francheska Medina aka Hey Fran Fran. We talk about the new wave of "heartbeat bills" and the looming republican challenge of Roe vs. Wade while examining the ever-present Pro Life/Pro Choice argument. From there, we explore the idea of the self-possessed woman. We ask ourselves if it is possible, as women, to achieve true agency over ourselves, our thoughts, and our bodies in a man's world. And if so, how? Join us.Follow Hey Fran Hey on all platforms @heyfranhey Listen to her podcast The Friend Zone https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-friend-zone/id1031936205Purchase You Don't Own Me by Leslie Gore https://music.apple.com/us/album/you-dont-own-me/1360824969?i=1360825322
5/23/2019 • 1 hour, 37 minutes, 48 seconds
Ep 30. Non - Monogamy 101 Ft. Christina Jackson
In episode 30, we talk with educator, mother, and activist Christina Jackson. Christina blows our minds and schools us on non-monogamy, the practice of valuing different kinds of relationships outside of the traditional monogamous arrangement."Follow Christina @honeybeec7Learn more about polyamory: The Ethical Slut: The Guide to Non-Monogamy https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Practical-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379Music by Janet Jackson purchase "Nasty" here: https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/nasty/1043321686?i=1043321704
5/16/2019 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 27 seconds
Ep 29. "The New Normal" Redefining Motherhood & Partnership ft. Beth Lewis
In episode 29, we interview our high school friend, doula, artist, and long-time inspiration - Beth Lewis. Beth shares with us her journey as a young 19-year-old mother and the hard yet necessary growing pains of her womanhood. Independent and strong AF, Beth shares how when the ideals of a nuclear family don't work out, you can create a new normal that works for you and yours. Doula Services in Philadelphia: contact Beth at beth.nlewis@gmail.comArt Inquiries: http://www.bethnaomilewis.com/Music by Oshun ft Jorja Smith Purchase My World here https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/my-world-feat-jorja-smith/1360347816?i=1360348047
5/9/2019 • 1 hour, 32 minutes, 42 seconds
Ep 28. Can't See Em Comin Down My Eyes Ft. Hakim Pitts
In episode 28, we talk with Hakim Pitts. Hakim is a life coach, cultural worker, and spiritualist. He helps folks to dream of ways to freedom, liberation, and living their best lives. Hakim shares with us his personal journey of learning how to center his wellness over the status quo. Hakim also helps us dissect how toxic masculinity is perpetuated within our society and how men are responsible for leading the ways toward real change and healing in our Patriarchal world. Join us.Follow Hakim at @keemhasthedreamMusic by Kendrick Lamar purchase Black Boy Fly here https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/black-boy-fly-bonus-track/622710488?i=622711135
5/2/2019 • 1 hour, 21 minutes, 28 seconds
Ep 27. Homecoming
In this episode, we talk about Easter shenanigans and our confusion with the movie US by Jordan Peele. Antoinette talks about the recent CNN town hall with our democratic presidential candidates but most importantly, we talk about the Netflix documentary, "Homecoming" from the most iconic artist of our time, Beyonce. We share why Shanti resisted watching it at first, our favorite parts of the documentary and how it made us feel as black women. Join us in the revelry of King Bey.Music: Freedom from Homecoming Live https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/homecoming-the-live-album/1459930448Follow Us : Instagram: @aroundthewaycurlsTwitter: @atwcurls
4/25/2019 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 38 seconds
Ep 26. 420 with The Black Dragon Breakfast Club
In episode 26, we are joined by cannabis enthusiasts and activists Tsehaitu Abye and Chantelle Bateman who are the forming members of The Black Dragon Breakfast Club in Philadelphia. We talk about our individual experiences with marijuana, we confront the stigmas around cannabis consumption, and how we can all be included in the ethos of cannabis whether we consume or not. Join us. Music: Backwoods byTsehaitu AbyeFollow The Black Dragon Breakfast Club on IG @blackdragonbreakfastclub
4/18/2019 • 1 hour, 21 minutes, 29 seconds
Ep 25. A Dedication to the Life Of Nipsey Hussle Ft. Tristan Verette
In episode 25, we honor the life and legacy of Nipsey Hussle. Who better to discuss the contributions that Nipsey has made to this world than from the mouths of his loyal fans? We pass the mic to Tristan Verette: educator, father, husband, and long-time Nipsey Hussle enthusiast. Together we cover the journey of Nipsey from his rough LA beginnings to his incredible career and community contributions to his unexpected death. Join us as we remember Nipsey and navigate how we all can collectively continue his work toward freedom and Black Excellence. The marathon continues...Nipsey Hussle Interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5NndeiDIctMMusic: Bigger Than Life by Nipsey Hussle https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/bigger-than-life/720403143?i=720404014
4/11/2019 • 1 hour, 43 minutes, 59 seconds
Ep 24. Hustle And Flow
In this episode, we mourn the senseless and untimely death of Nipsey Hussle, send love to the refugees suffering at our country’s border, marvel at the influence of the #Metoo movement’s upcoming HBCU tour and recap a hard but necessary discussion about our ATWC business partnership. As a result, we explore our differing work styles and how they not only affect our working relationship but also our own mental health. Join in.Me too HBCU Tour:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-me-too-hbcu-tour-registration-58770925420Morning Refresh at the Sable Collective:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/mommy-we-need-a-routine-tickets-58881508176Leadership Compass: https://www.nationalservice.gov/sites/default/files/resource/leadershipcompass.pdfMusic by Cassidy "I'm a Hustla"https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/im-a-hustla-street-mix/251039224?i=251039329
4/4/2019 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 48 seconds
Ep 23. Murderous Cops, The Mueller Report & Sliding into DM's
This week join us as we discuss the latest acquittal of a murderous police officer in Pittsburgh and the death of young Antwon Rose. We then discuss the anti-climactic Mueller report that has Antoinette beside herself and Shanti's gives us the scoop on her DM slide that landed her the man she will neither confirm nor deny. Music: Yo Gotti Do in the DM https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/down-in-the-dm/1080829420?i=1080829753
3/28/2019 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 40 seconds
Ep 22. White Folks, Solange, Leaving Neverland & Tax Returns
In this episode, we talk about white folks just now realizing water is wet, our reactions to Solange's When I Get Home, white terrorists, Michael Jackson, Leaving Neverland, and how not to act a rank-ass fool when your tax return comes through. Join us as we fight, judge other people, and put you on to our Around the Way financial literacy game. Join Us.Slide through in the DMs and help us name Antoinette's inner white woman. Music: Mo Money Mo Problems by the Notorious BIG https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/mo-money-mo-problems-feat-the-notorious-b-i-g-mase-puff-daddy/80969514?i=80969355
3/21/2019 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 8 seconds
Ep 21. Popping Our Therapy Cherries
In episode 21, we talk all about getting our therapy cherries popped. Shanti recently started therapy and shares her reason for starting as well as what she has learned about herself while Antoinette shares her past experiences with therapy throughout her life. This topic is ever-changing and we wish to have an ongoing discussion about mental health and removing the stigmas attached to "getting help". Join us as we share our first steps to mental health.Resources: Online Therapy- https://www.talkspace.com/Find a Therapist- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapistsTherapy Center Philadelphia- http://therapycenterofphila.org/Music:Mary J Blige "Therapy" from The London Sessions Buy Here https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/the-london-sessions/919753327
3/14/2019 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 17 seconds
Ep 20. For Women Who Love Too Much
In episode 20, we ask ourselves and our listeners: Are you a woman who loves too much? Recently inspired by a group discussion amongst friends as well as reflecting on her own past choices, Antoinette digs up an old book that details the symptoms of co-dependency and why we stay in toxic relationships. This is an incredibly important subject in a world full of F*@c boys, un-checked male privilege, and our never-ending hunger for validation. Is it really them to blame or is it us? Book- Women Who Love Too Much (Who Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change by Robin Norwood https://www.amazon.com/Women-Who-Love-Too-Much-ebook/dp/B003YL44FY
3/7/2019 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 23 seconds
Ep 19. The Imposter Syndrome & God Complex
In episode 19, we talk about how we all need to abandon our imposter syndromes and embrace The God Complex. In a rare act of vulnerability, Shanti shares how she secretly feels since everything is "going right in her life" then something has to be gravely wrong, while Antoinette admits she feels comfortable and confident in her workspace but like an imposter in other areas of her life.Join us as we seek to quiet our inner critics through the brilliance of Michelle Obama and the holy mantra's of Kanye West because duality is a thing...
2/28/2019 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 24 seconds
Ep 18. Phuckery & Fake News
In episode 18, we focus on the fuckery of our nation. There is so much stupid stuff happening in the U.S right now we can't help but bring attention to it all and beg the question why?! Antoinette laments over poor work etiquette and US politics. Shanti dives into the unfolding drama of Jussie Smollet. Together, we investigate Kamala Harris's alleged pump faking and the sad series of Black face foolery in high fashion. Listen as we question it all and contemplate moving to Canada. Who's coming with us?Music by Mos Def - Life is Real
2/21/2019 • 1 hour, 34 minutes, 53 seconds
Ep 17. Let's Talk About Sex
It's Valentine's Day and we are talking about the birds and bees honey! Not only are we answering questions from our Around the Way Curls listeners but we are giving you the inside scoop into our intimate lives. Find out what gets us going! Shanti dishes on why missionary is all that and Antoinette discusses how her "single" status has led her to become a master of sexual self-care. Join us and listen with headphones... this ain't for the babies. Music by Genuwine. "Pony" https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/ginuwine/648992
2/14/2019 • 1 hour, 30 minutes, 14 seconds
Ep 16. The Genius Of Martin Lawrence
In episode 16, we are bringing in the first week of Black History month with an episode dedicated to the legacy of our hero, Martin and we ain't talkin about Martin Luther the King! We are instead exalting the magic of the one and only Martin Lawrence. Join us as we revisit his mainstream masterpiece, "Martin", explore his journey as an artist, and discuss the incredible impact he has made on Black culture and our lives.
2/7/2019 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 21 seconds
Ep 15. Keep That Same Energy. Or Not...
In episode 15, Shanti sits with Reiki and energy worker Desiree of Nana Catherine’s Apothecary. We dive into alternative practices of healing. We answer questions like what the fuck is Reiki? What the fuck is energy work and what does it mean when our bodies talk to us? Desiree explains her practices and why she centers her work on Black womyn and queer and transgender folks and how she provides access to tools towards their self care. Join us. Desiree’s Infohttps://nanacatherinesapothecary.comhttps://www.instagram.com/nana.catherines.apothecary/ MusicVibrate Higher by Outkast
1/31/2019 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 45 seconds
Ep 14. Molly, You In Danger Girl
In episode 14, we talk about confronting the ones you love even when it "ain't none of your business". We identify our 4 love languages of accountability: “The Judge”, “The Mute” “Iyanla” and “ The Enabler”. Through our own personal experiences, Antoinette learns that she may need to soften her approach, while Shanti learns that she may need to be more active in her style when confronting the ones she loves. Join us and explore how you hold others accountable and the ways in which you prefer to be held accountable. Check out the article on the zodiac signs here: https://thoughtcatalog.com/natalia-vela/2018/10/this-is-exactly-what-makes-you-so-damn-annoying-based-on-your-zodiac-sign/
1/24/2019 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 24 seconds
Ep 13. For All the Baby's Mamas, Mamas Mamas, Mamas, Baby Mamas, Mamas
In this episode, we talk about motherhood. Antoinette explores the idea of becoming a mother and discusses what her ideal family looks like, and simultaneously comes to terms with the possibility that she may, ten years from now find herself childless and everybody’s favorite Aunt. Shanti shares her experience with an unplanned pregnancy, discusses how she manages single motherhood, and opens up about the beauty and pain she birthed from choosing to be a mother. Join us.
1/17/2019 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 4 seconds
Ep 12. Exploring South Africa Ft. Kara Bhatti
In episode 12, Antoinette is joined by her roommate, Kara Bhatti as they discuss their recent trip to South Africa. In it, they discuss the many lessons they learned, the shenanigans they got into, and their "must-do" activities and "must-see" sights. Join us as we explore the Motherland.
1/10/2019 • 1 hour, 59 minutes, 44 seconds
Ep 11. Ringing in the New Year Right Ft. Rene Daniella
Antoinette is joined by multi-media influencer Rene’ Daniella of Ownbyfemme. In a candidly intimate conversation, Rene shares her core values and practices that have sustained her mind, body, and soul throughout her years and tells us the three mantras she lives by. This new year's episode is perfect for those ready to embrace their self-worth, manifest their dreams, and uphold their accountability. New year, new you boo!
1/2/2019 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 45 seconds
Ep 10. For Us By Us
In episode 10, we expand on the popular term, “Safe spaces”. After attending Afropunk in Brooklyn, we discuss the drama that occurred there, but most importantly we discuss the festival’s cultural and community impact. We analyze what spaces feel the safest and are the most freeing to us, as well as invite listeners to consider creating their own spaces where self-expression and community can be built. Join us.
12/27/2018 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 57 seconds
Ep 9. Offset's Trippin & R. Kelly Isn't The King Of Anything ft. Jade of All Jades
In Episode 9, we are joined by Jade of All Jades. Together, we discuss Offset's “apology” to Cardi, argue about the current King of R&B, and cancel the hell out of R. Kelly. As a result, we open up about our own personal experiences of molestation and abuse, in an effort to empower survivors, and expose the often manipulative and dangerous tactics of abusers. Join us.
12/20/2018 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 38 seconds
Ep 8. Being Biracial
In episode 8, we share our experiences as biracial women. We explore our early conditionings about race, check our privilege, question our claim to “blackness”, and attempt to accept the very origin of our mixed-up makings... black men wifing white women. Join us.
12/13/2018 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 45 seconds
Ep 7. Part 2 of Busting Windows with Jazmine Sullivan
In this episode, we talk Jazmine's sudden and hella dramatic exit from the music industry, her and Antoinette's friendship falling out, and advice we would give to our younger selves.
12/6/2018 • 34 minutes, 26 seconds
Ep 6. Busting Windows ft. Jazmine Sullivan
In Episode 6, we are joined by grammy nominated recording artist and fellow Philadelphian, Jazmine Sullivan. Join in as the girls reminiscence over their 15 year friendship and talk inspiration, music, past relationships and who is really responsible for busting windows out of cars.
11/29/2018 • 51 minutes, 12 seconds
Ep 5. White Thanksgiving. Black Thanksgiving.
In the 5th Episode of Around The Way Curls, Antoinette & Shanti discuss their Thanksgiving experiences, the differences between “White Thanksgiving” & “Black Thanksgiving” and whether or not we should just throw the whole holiday away. Join Us.
11/22/2018 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 29 seconds
Ep 4. Beyonce: Friend or Foe?
Join Antoinette & Shanti in episode 4 as they argue about Beyonce. Is she simply a money making machine? Is she an authentic artist? A feminist? A human rights advocate? Can she be all of those things? Does the Flawless Queen have room to be flawed? And does it even matter?
11/15/2018 • 59 minutes, 18 seconds
Ep 3. Oh Hell Nah - The Non Negotiables Of Relationships
In the 3rd Episode of Around The Way Curls, Antoinette & Shanti share their lists of non-negotiables as they pertain to partnerships (both petty & in-depth) as well as speak a new boo into existence for Antoinette. Join us.
11/8/2018 • 46 minutes, 8 seconds
Ep 2. Vote or Die or The System's a Lie
Join the ladies of Around The Way Curls as they explore their different opinions on voting, the history behind the black vote, and whether they will vote this midterm election. Who do you agree with? Are you team #voteordie or team #thesystemisalie?
11/1/2018 • 54 minutes, 19 seconds
Ep 1. Sisterhood
Welcome to the wonderful world of Around The Way Curls! In our first episode, meet Shanti and Antoinette. Learn about the beginnings of their friendship, the importance of sister friends, and how you may be f*$#ing up if you can’t settle into sisterhood.