Dali and Jackie, two highly opinionated latina childhood friends who have grown up to realize they have not grown up. Come listen every week to see how these two goal driven, determined and honest females discuss various topics nobody prepared them for going into adulthood such as; mental health, sex, marriage, divorce, kids, death and other subjects that assure us all that we are not alone.
EP 90: We're slowing it down and we're also upper middle class now.
Welcome back familia!!This week we discuss some changes that are being made in our lives and also on the show. We have a lot of new ideas brewing and we want to keep you guys in the loop as much as possible. We also discuss the new adult purchase Dali recently made that has all of us feeling like we've finally made it in life. It's funny how one basic Amazon buy as an adult can change our whole mood and outlook on life. It's the little things that mean the most sometimes. Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/Don't forget to tag #awaypodcast or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
5/10/2022 • 32 minutes, 4 seconds
EP 89: Coparenting challenges.
Welcome back familia!This week we dive deep into the topic of coparenting. The struggles, the patience needed, the communication. There are so many different aspects that come into play when two people decide not to be together but still have to come together to help raise a child. Unfortunately, coparenting has a bad reputation (for good reason), but the older we get, the more we have to learn to grow and make unwanted situations work to better our kids future. Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/Don't forget to tag #awaypodcast or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
4/26/2022 • 42 minutes, 48 seconds
EP 88: Parenting a parent, the power of repetition, and finding the time.
Welcome back familia! It's your two favorite girls, Dali and JQ. This week we dive deep into the topic of parenting, but not just any type of parenting. We discuss the pros and cons of reverse parenting. Reverse parenting occurs when the normal parent-child roles are reversed. the The parent looks to the child for nurture, protection and affirmation, and the child, either consciously or unconsciously, sacrifices his or her needs to provide for the needs of the parent.During our grown folk business, we discuss the importance of repetition. Repeating good habits and healthy mindsets. Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/Don't forget to tag #awaypodcast or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
4/19/2022 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 54 seconds
EP 87: "ARE WE OVERSHARING ON SOCIAL MEDIA? WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LINE?"
Welcome back familia to another episode! This week we dive deep into the conversation of social media and how easy it is to over share nowadays. It’s easy to find a community online and want to connect and share with others, but how much is too much? It can easily become difficult to find a balance between vulnerability and privacy, and a lot of us realize that after it’s too late. There is beauty in mystery but also in sharing. How can we find the balance between the two? For our grown folk business this week, Dali and JQ discuss The importance of April being Sexual Assault Awareness Month. If you or someone you know Is or has dealt with sexual assault, please know it is ok to ask for help. Nobody should have to deal with a bad situation on their own, no matter how grown we are. April is also National Poetry Month. We want to bring awareness to all of the talented writers out there as well. And we ask that you try digging deep and expressing yourself on paper. Poetry can be a beautiful form of therapy. Give it a try. National Sexual Assault Website : https://www.google.com/search?q=sexual+assault+hotline&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-us&client=safari#National Sexual Assault Hotline :1-800-656-4673Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/Don't forget to tag #awaypodcast or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
4/12/2022 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 50 seconds
EP 86: "IS CELIBACY THE NEW TREND?"
Welcome back AWAY family!This week we dive into the topic of celibacy. We've been hearing more and more of our single adult friends choosing to stay celibate and honestly, it doesn't seem like a bad idea. We are grown now, and sometimes we have to force ourselves to make grown decisions on and what kind of energy we allow into our lives. Celibacy can be a healthy way to determine that for us. Even though this seems like a very difficult lifestyle to lead, it can be very rewarding. For most people, it is an empowering experience and that is why it is slowly becoming a new trend in our society. More and more people are choosing to hold off on sex to focus on themselves more. Would you be able to do it? If you are someone who has practiced celibacy before, we'd love to hear about your experience in the comments below. Grown folk this week is a great time. JQ and Dali decided to go out before recording this episode so they start off the show with very hyped up attitudes, to say the least. Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/Don't forget to tag #awaypodcast or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
4/5/2022 • 1 hour, 10 minutes, 20 seconds
EP 85: "HEALING CAN BE WEIRD. PARENTING IS HARD. AND LET'S BE REAL, WOULD YOU MARRY YOU?
Welcome back adult family!Thank you for joining us on another episode Are We Adulting Yet. This week we dive deep into marriage. However, this isn't your average marriage talk. Instead of discussing a relationship with another person, we decided to ask each other if we would marry ourselves. It's so easy to grow up and form relationships with others to see if they are marriage material. But do we ever ask ourselves if we would be a good person to marry? Do we believe we possess the qualities we wish to find in a husband or wife? Even if you are already married, this is a good question to continue to ask yourself to cultivate and keep healthy relationships growing. There is beauty in being able to reflect on your behaviors and habits as we grown. Is this something we should focus more on as we get older? Let us know in the comments below. For our grown folk segment, Dali discusses her healing journey and how messy it is becoming for her. Healing ourselves as we get older isn't always just bubble baths and face masks. It can become very messy and scary when we have to face our traumas, and Dali is experiencing this now more than ever. Jackie talks about her struggles with balancing her everyday life. Parenting is hard and it's a lot easier than one may think to lose yourself while trying to juggle so many tasks with children. It helps to talk about it. Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/Don't forget to tag #awaypodcast or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
3/28/2022 • 53 minutes, 27 seconds
EP 84: "JACKIE & DALI DEBATE ON IF THE WORLD IS GETTING BETTER OR WORSE. ALSO, LOTS OF OTHER CONVOS FROM HOMELESSNESS, TO WAR, ALL THE WAY TO COFFEE"
Welcome back AWAY family!This week we dive deep into a few different conversations. The main topic though is if we believe the world is getting better or worse. Or could it just be that because we are getting older, the more life we are experiencing and that is making it seem as if our surroundings are worsening. Could the media play a role into our perspective of the way the world is? Throughout the episode, we also touch on deep interesting topics such as homelessness, drug addiction, war, racism, the environment, and coffee. Like we said, this week we're having multiple different conversations. When we sit. down to think and analyze the world to form an opinion on whether or not the world is getting better or worse, it's easy to get into so many aspects the world has to offer us. We feel like it's important to explore and discuss all of these aspects constantly. Is there a viewpoint you have on life that you believe is getting better or getting worse?Also, Dali has some exciting news she has decided to share with us! And if you're like us and many others interested in starting a podcast, we highly suggest you consider Buzzsprout as your hosting site. Sign up now with our link below now and you will receive a $20 Amazon gift card!https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=540820Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/Don't forget to tag #awaypodcast or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
3/21/2022 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 9 seconds
EP 83: "DOES APPEARANCE MATTER IN OUR ADULT LIFE? SHOULD WE STRIVE FOR GOOD LOOKS OR CONFIDENCE? WHY CAN'T REAL LIFE BE LIKE FESTIVAL LIFE?"
Welcome back fam!This week we dive deep into the topic of appearance and how important it is for us as adults to look good in our society. By now, it's pretty known that if you look good then you probably feel good (to an extent). However, it seems like the older we get the more we begin to, unknowingly, over obsess with our appearance. It becomes the forefront of our society and it's easy to get lost in trying to look good for other people. This is not to say that it's bad to want to look great. After all, studies have shown that the better you present yourself, the more likely you are to land better jobs, better looking partners, and better opportunities in life. But we all know appearance eventually fades, and the older we get we tend to look for deeper meaning within ourselves and others. So does appearance really matter? Or does our perception of appearance simply change over time? We also share our recent music festival experience and shed a little tear or two because real life is just not the same. Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/Don't forget to tag #awaypodcast or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
3/14/2022 • 1 hour, 21 minutes, 57 seconds
EP 82: The stigma around not having kids, not wanting kids, and the pressures of being a good parent.
Welcome back fam!This week we dive deep into a topic that we're sure many of us have had to deal with. It seems like the older we get, the societal pressures of finding a mate, getting married, and having kids becomes greater and greater. Especially the having kids part. And if you're a women, the pressure is instantly doubled. The is instantly a stigma around adults who choose not to have kids. We are told we are allowed to make our own decisions when we become older, however, when it comes to our reproductive decisions our decisions are judged, warped and looked down upon at times. Have you ever felt the weight of everyone else's opinion on your life? If you have, it's totally normal. But that doesn't make it right. And if you're like us and many others interested in starting a podcast, we highly suggest you consider Buzzsprout as your hosting site. Sign up now with our link below now and you will receive a $20 Amazon gift card!https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=540820Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/Don't forget to tag #awaypodcast or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
2/28/2022 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 57 seconds
EP 81: Vulnerability with Men in our Society (Ft. Jose Quinones)
Welcome back fam! This week we dive deep with a very special guest on a topic that, we believe, is not talked about enough. We have Jose, host of the You Mean Now Podcast and our brother, join us to discuss the difficulties with men expressing their vulnerability in today's society. It seems like the older we get, the more closed off we become to our emotions. Why is it so difficult to become so exposed? Are women ready for men to be more vulnerable? Is society ready for it? It's always great to hear the perspective of others to gain more awareness and understanding. These are the type of conversations we want to continue having in our adult life to achieve growth. A big shoutout to our guest today! We loved having him on the show. Follow this weeks guest:Instagram: Jose @thejosequinones and @youmeannowFacebook: Jose Quinones Podcast: You Mean Now Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/Don't forget to tag #awaypodcast or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
2/20/2022 • 1 hour, 54 minutes, 46 seconds
EP 80: Are adults addicted to sex?
Welcome back to an all new episode! This week we dive deep into why adults love porn, sex, and being pleasured. It comes to no surprise that the the older we get, the more we begin to realize the massive influence sex has on our culture. With the rise and growth of the Internet we've also experienced a significant rise in the porn and sex work industry. Why is it such a succesful technique to use to grab our attention? Sex sells and we all grow up and become consumers to it, whether we realize it or not. Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
2/13/2022 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 16 seconds
EP 79: Cheating, being cheated on, and open relationships.
Welcome back fam! This week we dive deep into a topic that a lot of us are familiar with. Cheating within a relationship. Whether you have cheated or have been cheated on, we all grow up and realize that infidelity is a lot more common than we thought it was when we were younger. There is an extremely high percentage of us that find ourselves in these types of situations and it's difficult to accept at times. As children we were all, in some way, served this fantasy that relationships and romance are like a Disney movie. We fall in love and live happily ever after. Unfortunately, that is not the way the real world works. Relationships are always going to get messy, so it's important that we know what we are and are not willing to accept from ourselves and others. We then go into the topic of open relationships. Did you know that millennials are ranked the highest in experimenting with open relationships? Maybe we're realizing there is more than just a monogamous type of relationship? Maybe our generation is accepting the idea that a relationship can look completely opposite from a Disney movie and still thrive? Or is the reality of how common cheating is finally setting in and we are coming to a compromise? Conversations like this are so important to us as we get older. We invest so much of our time into our personal relationships so it feels only right to explore the issues that may arise. And most importantly, learn to have the hard conversations and open mind.Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
2/7/2022 • 1 hour, 32 minutes, 38 seconds
EP 78: The pros and cons from the millennials who grew up with technology.
Welcome back, fam!This week we're talking all about technology. As millennials, we have been fortunate enough to really grow with technology and the boom of the internet, but we also experienced life before all of that. Because of this, we are considered to be a rare breed of adults, but how do we continue to grow and keep up with the rapid, fast-paced expansion of technology? It feels like the older we get, the easier it is to not accept or want change, however, is that a good choice to make when it comes to something that is so heavily taking over our new way of living?We also take a little trip down memory lane and remember all of the "new" technology that was introduced to us in the 90's. Ya know, vintage talk. Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
1/30/2022 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 35 seconds
EP 77: Let's channel our inner child. Homegirl needs some help!
We are back with an all new episode of Are We Adulting Yet! This week, we covered a topic that we're sure a lot of us adults face as we get older. Exploring our inner child is not only beneficial for the relationships we create with others, It's most beneficial for the relationship we have with ourselves. Our inner child is an expression of not just your child self, but your lived experience of all life stages. You may channel your inner child through play or by doing something you've always enjoyed doing. Like many of us though, that inner child may be wounded due to passed traumas or neglect. As we dive deeper into adulthood, we realize that a lot of our internal problems and struggles are because we are living with a wounded inner child. We may see that a lot of our fears, anxiety or doubt stems from this. And when we dig deep to understand this, we then allow space in our lives to reparent that inner child and create a healthier and happier life for ourselves. A part of adulting means we are now responsible for every aspect of our lives, including healing from our past. Tune in to hear what helps us and others during this healing journey. Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
1/24/2022 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 2 seconds
EP 76: God's Plan!
Welcome back everyone to another episode of Are We Adulting Yet! The show that discusses all of the adult obstacles, drama, and struggles we all face in our day to day lives. This week we start off with our Grown Folk Business. The segment where we vent about all of the adult tasks that have consumed our lives lately. We all need a moment to decompress and let it all out. We then came together to discuss the juicy story that we're sure has been flooding everybody's timeline. Drake and his hot sauce story is definitely getting people talking so you know we had to put our two cents in on the topic. Unfortunately, these types of incidences happen all of the time, and not just with celebrities. Statistics show that tricking your partner into getting pregnant is mostly common in normal everyday relationships and sexual encounters among both men and women. Why are so many of us ok with deceiving others in such a life changing way. Could it be because of money? Love? Our ego? Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
1/17/2022 • 54 minutes, 45 seconds
EP 75: Welcome back!...Let's play catch up!
Welcome back everyone to another episode of Are We Adulting Yet! The learning to grow podcast that we all need to navigate life in our own way all while doing it alongside the ones we love. We're happy to announce that after a much needed break, we are finally back and bringing you more stories, tips, and laughs. This week we are playing a much needed game of catch up. We've been absent for a while and we want you guys to know why. A lot has happened!Adulting tip of the week: Sometimes we need breaks and that's ok! Question of the week: Are we back yet? Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
1/10/2022 • 45 minutes, 14 seconds
EP 74, SERIES 2: The adults who wear the robes!
Welcome back to a brand new episode of Are We Adulting Yet Podcast! If you don’t know, your two favorite girls are switching it up! We are introducing series to the show. Each series will be based on a specific topic, and each episode within the series will be used to go a bit more in depth of that topic. We are excited to announce that our second season will be dedicated to culty adults! That’s right...CULTS! Each episode will be focused on a specific cult that we just have to talk about.This week we dive deep into a cult that isn't really known as a cult. We're talking about the KKK. The adults who come together in the name of God and hate on every other race that isn't there own. These groups of people are really known as a terrorist group but they way they come together and allow themselves to believe in what they do has cult written all over it. One of the crappiest cults in history if you ask us. Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
6/16/2021 • 53 minutes, 52 seconds
EP 73, SERIES 2: The adults who were convinced into committing murder!
Welcome back to a brand new episode of Are We Adulting Yet Podcast! If you don’t know, your two favorite girls are switching it up! We are introducing series to the show. Each series will be based on a specific topic, and each episode within the series will be used to go a bit more in depth of that topic. We are excited to announce that our second season will be dedicated to culty adults! That’s right...CULTS! Each episode will be focused on a specific cult that we just have to talk about.This week we dive deep into the infamous Manson Family Cult. The adults who took a whole bunch of LSD and murdered numerous people. All it took was for one man named Charles Manson. After serving a 10 year prison sentence, this man was able to get out and gather a group of people who would follow everything he said. He would eventually lead them to kill several innocent humans without him even setting foot at the crime scene. What a wild story! Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
5/24/2021 • 51 minutes, 53 seconds
EP 72, SERIES 2: The adults who drank the kool-aid
Welcome back to a brand new episode of Are We Adulting Yet Podcast! If you don’t know, your two favorite girls are switching it up! We are introducing series to the show. Each series will be based on a specific topic, and each episode within the series will be used to go a bit more in depth of that topic. We are excited to announce that our second season will be dedicated to culty adults! That’s right...CULTS! Each episode will be focused on a specific cult that we just have to talk about.This week we dive deep into the infamous People’s Temple Cult. The adults who really just wanted equality and worship. All it took was for one man named Jim Jones to come in and proclaim he was a miracle worker. This resulted in the largest mass suicide America has ever seen. Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
5/17/2021 • 56 minutes, 7 seconds
EP 71, SERIES 2: The adults who hopped on the U.F.O.
Welcome back to a brand new episode of Are We Adulting Yet Podcast! If you don’t know, your two favorite girls are switching it up! We are introducing series to the show. Each series will be based on a specific topic, and each episode within the series will be used to go a bit more in depth of that topic. We are excited to announce that our second season will be dedicated to culty adults! That’s right...CULTS! Each episode will be focused on a specific cult that we just have to talk about. This week we dive deep into the infamous Heaven’s Gate Cult. The adults who believed in God, aliens, and...mass suicide?? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
5/10/2021 • 52 minutes, 57 seconds
EP 71, SERIES 1: Not so cute parts of self care.
Welcome back to a brand new episode of Are We Adulting Yet Podcast! If you don’t know, your two favorite girls are switching it up! We are introducing series to the show. Each series will be based on a specific topic, and each episode within the series will be used to go a bit more in depth of that topic. We are excited to announce that our first season will be dedicated to self care! Each episode will be focused on a specific form of self care and ways we can incorporate each form into our every day adult lives.This weeks episode is all about the dark parts of our self care journey. Learning how to bring those past traumas or problems we hold onto subconsciously to light. We talk about what shadow work is and how we can use that to heal our lives. Adulting question of the week: Are we unveiling yet?!Adulting tip of the week: You have the power to bring light to your darkness. Take advantage of that. Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
4/26/2021 • 57 minutes, 33 seconds
EP 70: Spiritual Self Care!
Welcome back to a brand new episode of Are We Adulting Yet Podcast! If you don’t know, your two favorite girls are switching it up! We are introducing series to the show. Each series will be based on a specific topic, and each episode within the series will be used to go a bit more in depth of that topic. We are excited to announce that our first season will be dedicated to self care! Each episode will be focused on a specific form of self care and ways we can incorporate each form into our every day adult lives.This week we dive deep into spiritual self care. Adulting tip of the week: “Understanding your existence in the spiritual sense is a crucial component of self-care that is easily overlooked”Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
4/19/2021 • 48 minutes, 56 seconds
EP 69, SERIES 1: Practical self care
Welcome back to a brand new episode of Are We Adulting Yet Podcast! If you don’t know, your two favorite girls are switching it up! We are introducing series to the show. Each series will be based on a specific topic, and each episode within the series will be used to go a bit more in depth of that topic. We are excited to announce that our first season will be dedicated to self care! Each episode will be focused on a specific form of self care and ways we can incorporate each form into our every day adult lives.This week we are focusing on practical self care. All of those things you do to ensure success in your future. It can be creating a budget, ironing your clothes the night before work, or even brushing your teeth. It may seem simple but these things are truly essential to our everyday lives. Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
4/5/2021 • 52 minutes, 23 seconds
EP 68, Series 1: Mental self care, video games, and trusting your gut!
Welcome back to a brand new episode of Are We Adulting Yet Podcast! If you don’t know, your two favorite girls are switching it up! We are introducing series to the show. Each series will be based on a specific topic, and each episode within the series will be used to go a bit more in depth of that topic. We are excited to announce that our first season will be dedicated to self care! Each episode will be focused on a specific form of self care and ways we can incorporate each form into our every day adult lives.This week we are focusing on mental self care. We know what you’re probably thinking. Practicing mental self care means going to a therapist or thinking positive thoughts or something along those lines. We thought the same thing. But it’s actually a lot simpler than that. Tune in to find out. We also talk about some of the adulting we’ve been dealing with lately. The good, the bad, and the ugly. Question of the week: Are we mental yet? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
3/29/2021 • 47 minutes, 18 seconds
EP 67, Series 1: Social self care!....Oh yea, and co-parenting.
Welcome back to a brand new episode of Are We Adulting Yet Podcast! This week your two favorite girls are switching it up! We are introducing series to the show. Each series will be based on a specific topic, and each episode within the series will be used to go a bit more in depth of that topic. We are excited to announce that our first season will be dedicated to self care! Each episode will be focused on a specific form of self care and ways we can incorporate each form into our every day adult lives.Our second form of self care is all about being social. We talk about why being social and keeping up with those important people in your lives is so important. You know which people we're talking about. Those special humans that just make your soul happy. We've also realized, while recording this episode, that as adults there come times where you have to practice social self care towards people that don't make your soul very happy at all. And that's ok too. Question of the week: Are we social yet? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
3/24/2021 • 45 minutes, 47 seconds
EP 66, Series 1: Physical self care!
Welcome back to a brand new episode of Are We Adulting Yet Podcast! This week your two favorite girls are switching it up! We are introducing series to the show. Each series will be based on a specific topic, and each episode within the series will be used to go a bit more in depth of that topic. We are excited to announce that our first season will be dedicated to self care! Each episode will be focused on a specific form of self care and ways we can incorporate each form into our every day adult lives. Our first form of self care is all physical baby. We talk about why moving our bodies and staying active is so important to our well-being as a whole. Question of the week: Are we fit yet? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
3/15/2021 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 15 seconds
EP 65: So much SOUL!
Welcome back everyone to another episode of Are We Adulting Yet! The podcast that talks about all of the growing up we have to do and how to deal. This week your two favorite girls start the show off right with some grown folk business. This is the segment where we catch up on all of the adulting we’ve had to do this past week. The good, the bad, and the ugly. After all of that is said and done, we go right into our topic of the week. We have have a soul. But what does it mean to have a soul? Why is it important? As we get older we become more aware of who we truly are, and wow is it beautiful!Adulting tip of the week: Keep calm and keep that soul beautiful! Question of the week: Are we soulful yet? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
3/8/2021 • 1 hour, 15 minutes, 20 seconds
EP 64: Daddy Issues!
Welcome back everyone! Your two favorite girls are back at it again bringing you an all new episode of the show that leaves us all asking the same confusing question. Are we adulting yet?! This week we start off right with our first segment. Grown folk business is the time we catch you guys up on all of the adulting we've been going through. It's also a great time for a promo. So make sure to check out this weeks special offer.After all of that is said and done, we then dive deep into our topic of the week. Unfortunately, having "daddy issues" is something a lot of us have had to endure. For women, the term has been used more frequently to excuse our behavior, whether we're acting clingy, distant, provocative, or just plain crazy. But truth is, a lot of us women and men act according to the way out parental figures treated us growing up. Now that we're adults, we get to be in charge. And that includes being in charge of our traumas and issues that circle around our mothers and father. Remember, they're trying to figure this shit out too. Promo of the week (7:05): Make sure to go online and check out https://www.aimeemarche.com/ to create your very own personalized face mask & much more! And don't forget to use the PROMO CODE: AWAY to receive 15% off your total purchase! If you love her work as much as we do, you can also follow her on Facebook, Instagram, and pinterest. Just click on the links below.Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aimeemarcheInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/aimeemarche/Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/aimeemarche/_created/ Adulting tip of the week (43.10): At the end of the day, we all have our different issues, so just be patient with each other. Question of the week (42.25): Are we dealing yet? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
2/28/2021 • 52 minutes, 36 seconds
EP 63: But for real, are we Adulting yet?!
Welcome back fam! You’re two favorite girls are at it again bringing you an all new episode of are we Adulting yet. We start off right with our grown folk business. We chat about all of the adulting we had to endure the past week. The good, the bad, and the ugly! Then we go right into our topic. When did we start feeling like we made it as adults? When was it ok to watch an R rated movie with our parents? When did we graduate from the kids table to the grown up table? All of these little milestones we’ve endured has made us feel like we are constantly one step closer to adulthood, but is there really ever a finish line? Question of the day: Are we ADULTING yet? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
2/22/2021 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 45 seconds
EP 63: Tampa won! We’re tired, hot, and talking about secrets!
Welcome back familia! You’re two favorite girls are back at it again with an all new episode. We start off right with our grown folk business where we talk about how our past week of adulthood has been. We then discuss the Tampa Bay Buccaneers big Super Bowl win and how great it’s been for our city. After that is all said and done, we dive right into our topic of the week. Secrets are something we all carry with us throughout life. Some are small and some we take with us to the grave. But why? Why do we hold in so much or feel like we can only tell one or two people certain things about our life. Do they protect us or do they close us off to more experiences? Question of the day: Are we just private yet? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
2/15/2021 • 36 minutes, 32 seconds
EP 62: Friends with benefits! Oh yea, and Tampa is WILD!
Welcome familia! You’re two favorite girls are back at it again bringing you an all new episode. As always, we start the show off right with some grown folk business. And let us tell you, the grown folks in Tampa are lit this Super Bowl weekend! It’s such an exciting time for the city. But unfortunately some of our Tampa adults are being a little too wild. Then we go right into our topic of the week. FWB’s. If you’ve been single in your adulthood, chances are you’ve been in a friends with benefits situation. Someone who you’ve found to be sexual with but not romantically involved. Sometimes these situations work out great and sometimes they are an absolute disaster. So how do you know if you’re ready to pursue something like this? And what precautions can you take to make sure the relationship runs a smooth course? Adulting tip of the day: If you find yourself in a friends with benefits situation, make sure you and the other person are clear about what it is and keep communication alive at all times! Question of the day: Are we just friends yet? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
2/8/2021 • 43 minutes, 59 seconds
EP 61: JQ moves in, the Bucs are going to the superbowl, and domestic violence.
Welcome back family and friends! It’s your two favorite girls bringing you another fresh episode of Are We Adulting Yet. This week we share some new and exciting news in our grown folk business. We then go on to talk about the NFL. Yup, football. First of all, our hometown is going to the Super Bowl...in our hometown! Yes, Tampa is making history this year and we are all here for it! After receiving that great news, we then heard the horrible story of former Seattle Seahawks offensive tackle, Chad Wheeler, who was arrested for beating his girlfriend and leaving her unconscious twice. After hearing this, we decided it was only right to talk about the very common problem many of us face as adults, and in some cases as children too. Abusive relationships are never ok, no matter what kind of abuse it is. We want every single one of you all to know the warning signs, what to do if you need help, and how to be safe! Adulting tip of the day: If you are or ever find yourself in an abusive relationship, know that there are ways to get out of it. Nobody should be treated badly, including yourself. Domestic violence hotline: 1-800-799-7233Domestic violence website: www.thehotline.orgQuestion of the day: Are we survivors yet? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
2/1/2021 • 45 minutes, 55 seconds
EP 60: What's happening when we dream?!
Welcome back fam! Your two favorite girls are back at it again to bring you an all new episode as we're here on our journey through adulthood. This week we talk about sleeping. Actually, we talk about what happens while we sleep. Humans have been trying to make sense of why we dream for as long as we've been around, and though we've gotten pretty close to understanding, there are still so many questions we all have about why we dream and what we dream about. Maybe we're not even meant to fully understand it all. But it sure is pretty dope to talk about. Adulting tip of the day: Try investing in a dream journal and keeping it by your bed so you can jot down your dreams as soon as you wake up. You might be inspired by what comes out.Question of the day: Are we dreaming yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
1/25/2021 • 56 minutes, 22 seconds
EP 59: Creative ways to save, becoming successful, & being a goal-setter!
Welcome back adult family!! You're two favorite girls are at it again bringing you an all new episode. And this week, we're talking all about saving money and making sacrifices in order to become successful in adulthood. Truth is, we aren't taught in schools on how to invest and save our money, and unless you were raised with educating parents or mentors, chances are you weren't given the awareness of how important it is to make goals for your future and how to save in order to achieve those goals. That is exactly why we wanted to discuss and share different ways that could aid in helping each and every one of us become more fortunate. Helpful Apps to help save & make money: The Fetch AppPinecone Research Survey Junkie Swagbucks Adulting tip of the day: Budget, Budget, Budget!Question of the day: Are we saving yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
1/18/2021 • 57 minutes, 17 seconds
EP 58: Are we patriotic yet?! Featuring: Madison
We are back fam! You’re two favorite girls are at it again bringing you a brand new episode of are we Adulting yet podcast. This week we start the show off right with some grown folk business. We talk about how our adulting is going and how we’re handling it all. Oh, and we have a special guest! Madison is back on the show to bring her thoughts and opinions on a very heartbreaking topic for all of America right now. On January 6th, a group of Trump supporters protested and rioted into the US capitol after President Trump tweeted to go protest because Joe Biden was officially announced the next President of the United States . These rioters broke through windows, damaged property, some took selfies while contributing to the madness. It was a sad day for America and we don’t know if this was the last of it. This episode is devoted solely on our opinions of what happened that day. It’s a moment that will go down in history as the day the adults didn’t get what they wanted. As citizens of this country it’s embarrassing, scary, and absolutely mind blowing. But we’re here for it. You know we love to talk so tune in to hear all we have to say. Adulting tip of the day: It's all good to have your own thoughts and opinions, but make sure you're smart about the way you move.Question of the day: Are we patriotic yet?Special Guest: https://www.instagram.com/madsween_/Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
1/11/2021 • 1 hour, 3 seconds
EP 57: Stop being the go-to person for people you can't go to!
We’re back fam! Bringing you the very first episode of the new year, your two favorite girls are here to talk about all of the experiences we have that leave us all asking the same question. Are we Adulting yet? This week we start off as usual with our grown folk business. Where we talk about all of the adulting we’ve had to do throughout our week. Then we dive right into our topic. Being a go-to person for people you can’t go to. If you’re always a go-to person for people, chances are you might be a little bit of a people pleaser. After looking more into this topic, we realized how much we could relate to all of this. And, how to change it. Adulting tip of the day: Make sure to take care of yourself first.Question of the day: Are we egocentric yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
1/4/2021 • 50 minutes, 33 seconds
EP 56: New year, same pandemic!
Your two favorite girls are back at it again bringing you the very last episode of 2020. Oh what a year it has been. While there has been lots of downs, this year has brought lots of positive changes as well. In times like these, it’s important to remember and reflect on all of the good times too. So join us as we go through all of our podcast ups & downs this wild year has given us. We go through some of our favorite episodes and give you all a bit of behind the scenes stories of what we went through when the mic was off. 2020 definitely was the curveball none of us saw coming, but we still managed to have some amazing memories, and the best one was growing the AWAY fam with all of you. Happy new year y’all! Adulting tip of the day: This life is a mutha-fuckin' movie! So go out & create your own script & be kind!Question of the day: Are we ready yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
12/28/2020 • 49 minutes, 20 seconds
EP 55: Adulting & Christmas
We’re back adult family! This week we start off our episode right with some grown folk business. We talk about all of the crazy adulting we’ve had to experience this past week. Then we go right into our topic. Christmas is right around the corner. And as adults, we want to know how this all began. Who really is Santa Clause? Are Christmas trees even real?! We’re here to talk about it all!Adulting tip of the day: If there's one thing childhood has taught us, it should be to question everything! Question of the day: Are we merry yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
12/21/2020 • 50 minutes, 37 seconds
EP 54: Let's talk about new beginnings!!
We’re back fam! Your two favorite girls are here again bringing you an all new episode that leaves us all asking the same question. Are we Adulting yet?! This week we talk about new beginnings we’ve been experiencing and how great it feels to see your hard work pay off. We’ve been doing lots of adulting lately and, while it’s been a rollercoaster of events, we’re finally seeing some light at the end of the tunnel. It’s times like these when you realize that all of the hard work truly does pay off and we really wanted to share it all with you all. Adulting tip of the day: Give yourself a pat on the back every once in a while!Question of the day: Are we growing yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
12/14/2020 • 38 minutes, 2 seconds
EP 53: Keeping the creative juices flowin'...well, we're trying!
We’re back at it again fam! This week you’re two favorite girls are at it again and starting the show off right, as always, with some grown folk business. We talk about how our thanksgiving went and a little of what we’ve been up to. Then we dive right into our topic of the week. How do we as adults find ways to be creative, when we’re just not feeling very creative? Adulting tip of the day: Allow yourself time to express your ideas and thoughts.Question of the day: Are we creative yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
11/30/2020 • 48 minutes, 28 seconds
EP 52: Are we being sensitive or are we standing our ground?!
Your two favorite girls are back at it again! This week JQ and Dali start off the episode with some grown folk business, of course. Dali asks for an opinion on a conversation she had pertaining to men and women dating people with kids. Then chit chat about that for awhile and then go right into the topic of the week. Is this generation being too sensitive or are we standing up for ourselves?? We’re living in a time where it seems like everyone’s feelings are always getting hurt about something. But we’re also living in a time where we as a society are becoming more “woke” to our feelings and the reality around us. So are we being soft or are we standing our ground? Maybe a bit of both??Adulting tip of the day: Stop giving a fuck about what other people think. Also, go out and get yourself a filing folder if you don't already have one!Question of the day: What are we?? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
11/23/2020 • 44 minutes, 39 seconds
EP 51: Realistic Positivity!
Welcome back to another great episode of Are We Adulting Yet! Your two favorite girls are at it again talking about all of the situations that adults really have to deal with. This week is all about being realistic. We are always told to think positive and to send out good vibes all of the time. Which is a great habit to have. But we also need to think realistically right?? How do we keep a realistic positive mindset as we get older? Question of the day: Are we realistic yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
11/16/2020 • 41 minutes, 36 seconds
EP 50: Please don't stop the music!
Another week into adulthood, and your two favorite girls are back at it again with another episode! This week we start off with a little bit of grown folk business where we talk about the adulting we’ve been doing lately. Then there’s a bit of chit chat on the elections and Biden’s victory. But the real topic of conversation this week is music. Music has a way of connecting us and making us feel everything all at once. As we get older our music interests may expand and some may even use music as therapy to get through hard times. Notice how even the music we play in the background of this episode may alter your mood and make you feel a certain way? Adulting tip of the day: Turn your radio up a little bit louder today and let those tunes make you feel alive!Question of the day: Are we jammin' yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
11/9/2020 • 48 minutes, 50 seconds
EP 49: Vote or die!
Welcome back everyone to another episode! Your two favorite girls are back at it again to talk and leave us all asking the same confusing question. Are we Adulting yet?? This week we talk about one of the most important things you can do as an adult. And just in time for one of the most important days of 2020. Yup, we’re talking about voting. We’ve realized a lot growing up and especially this year. And one of the main things is the importance of voting and how critical it is to know who is running your country. So we’ve decided to talk a bit on our perspective on politics. Adulting tip of the day: We don’t know if you will be listening to this before or after the election, but no matter what results we get the adulting tip will always stay the same...VOTE!!Question of the day: Are we voting yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
11/2/2020 • 50 minutes, 45 seconds
EP 48: PERIOD! featuring Cindy & Drew from Menstrual Mates!
We’re back fam! Another week in the world of adulting with your two favorite girls, Dali & JQ. This week is super exciting for us because we have two very special guests. And they’re here to give us all the inside scoop of what it really means to be a menstruator. Yup, this week we’re talking about periods. Cindy and Drew are the founder and co-founder of Menstrual Mates, an organization focused and dedicated to bringing a full circle approach on periods, education and awareness. Tune in while we try to break the stigma around menstruation and make not talking about it a thing of the past! Adulting tip of the day: Go with the flow!Question of the day: Are we bleeding yet?!Follow our new AWAY sisters everywhere by clicking the links below:WEBSITE: https://www.menstrualmates.com/INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/menstrualmates/FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/menstrualmatesTWITTER: https://twitter.com/MenstrualMatesWanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
10/26/2020 • 45 minutes, 22 seconds
EP 47: Drugs R' Us!
Welcome back AWAY family! Your two favorite girls are back at it again with a brand new episode that leaves us all asking the same question. Are we Adulting yet?! We start the episode off right just like we always do with some grown folk business. We catch you guys up on all the adulting we’ve been up to and how hectic (or not hectic), our lives have been. Then we go right into discussion. This week we’re talking about big pharma and the massive effect it has on all of our lives. Pharmaceutical companies are banking off of us and at the expense of our health. Then we have the opioid crisis that has become the most dangerous thing for the human species. Addiction is real and just because a drug is considered “legal” and a doctor prescribes it to you doesn’t mean your life isn’t in danger. Adulting tip of the day: Medicine is important and it is definitely useful. But make sure you really know what it is you’re putting inside your body before you take something. Awareness is key. Question of the day: Are we addicted yet?! Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
10/19/2020 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 16 seconds
EP 46: teachers, abortions, and COVID life!
We’re back at it again fam! Another week and a brand new episode of Are We Adulting Yet! This week we brought back a very special guest and a long time friend. Madison is back in the studio with us and we bring a lot to the table. From teachers not getting paid enough, to abortions, and some talk about how much fun we used to have before all of this COVID hit our lives. But the main thing we chat about is how Coronavirus is STILL happening and how much it’s changed our Ives. 2020 has been the craziest adjustment we’ve had to normalize to, but having great friends and the AWAY family makes it so much easier to get through! Adulting tip of the day: Live your life and tell the people you love that you love the shit out of them. Be nice to strangers. And make sure to buy a vacuum when you move into a new apartment. Lives too short. Today's guest: https://www.instagram.com/madsween_/?hl=enWanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
10/12/2020 • 49 minutes, 44 seconds
EP 45: Thank you for being a friend!
Welcome back fam! Your two favorite girls are back at it again with a brand new episode that leaves us all asking the same question. Are we Adulting yet? This week we have a very special guest and lifelong friend join us on the mic. We switch things up a bit and decide to go down memory lane and talk about how much we’ve grown not only as adults, but as friends. There’s nothing like good friendship and this episode proves that. Today's guest: https://www.instagram.com/madsween_/?hl=enWanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
10/5/2020 • 47 minutes, 9 seconds
EP 44: The Universe, the Priests, And wth is going on with the Boy Scouts?!
We’re back! Your two favorite girls have survived another week of adulting and oh what a week it’s been! We start this episode off right with some grown folk business, where JQ talks about her job hunting struggles and Dali talks about how the Universe is speaking to her through numbers and doughnuts. After all of that crazy talk, we dive right into our topic of the week. This topic is something that is hard to talk about but so important to be aware of. As we grow up we begin to realize that not a lot of people have good intentions. And for some of us, that realization begins young with the adults they’ve learned to look up to. We’re living in a time where so many adults are beginning to come out about the sexual assault they’ve dealt with as kids and this is just a tiny glimpse into that. We know this topic is heavy but we need to talk about it. We need to learn how to be adults that can teach kids that this stuff is in no way normal or ok. Adulting tip of the Day: Hope for the best and allow the Universe to bring you to what you need!Question of the day: Are we Sucios yet?!Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
9/28/2020 • 54 minutes, 8 seconds
EP 43: Fire and ICE!
Welcome back AWAY family! Your two favorite girls are back at it again with another episode that leaves us all asking the same question. Are we Adulting yet? As always, we start off with our episode right with some grown folk business. We catch the fam up on all of the adult things they’ve been up to. Then they get right to business. This week they dive into a very serious issue America is facing at the moment and not just for adults. Kids are being affected by this as well. Dali and JQ want to understand the choices adults make and especially the choices the adults in charge make, simply because these choices can really determine the outcome of our lives. As you all may already know, one of the biggest choices we are dealing with right now is immigration and the ICE detention centers immigrants are being held in. This episode allowed us to really dig deep into the problem and try to understand and we still don’t fully understand. But trust us, we definitely still have our opinions on the issue.Adulting tip of the day: Try to put yourself in somebody else’s shoes. Perspective is a powerful and beautiful skill to be able to achieve as we get older. Question of the day: Are we understanding yet??Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
9/21/2020 • 45 minutes, 55 seconds
EP 42: Are We Coping Yet?!
Hello again fam! It's a brand new week which means you're two favorite girls are back again asking the most important question we find ourselves all asking. Are we adulting yet?? As always we start off the show right with some Grown Folk Business and this week the girls catch up on some adulting they've been trying to accomplish. Then they share the answers to a question Dali asked some of the AWAY family members, which just so happens to be related to our topic of discussion today. Coping mechanisms. We all have them. But why is it important to understand the way you cope? Most likely there are a lot more of us that have developed unhealthy coping mechanisms than we think. Like maybe having a whole bottle of wine every night because work is annoying the crap out of you is probably not the best way to cope. Even though a bottle of wine does sound great. OH YEAH! And what's a fans only page?!?!Adulting Tip of the Day: It's helpful to learn about the things that cause you stress and the traumas you have so you can understand more about the way you cope. Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
9/13/2020 • 51 minutes, 8 seconds
EP 41: Normalizing failure, accepting criticism & asking for help!
Welcome back AWAY family! Your two favorite girls are at it again this week to leave us asking one important question....are we adulting yet?! This episode we're talking about how normal it is to fail. How failure is the only way to get ahead and why it should be normalized in our adult lives. Along with failure comes criticism which is always so hard to take, and sometimes even harder to give. Then there's asking for help. And that can be extremely difficult when you feel like you're an "adult" who should have their shit together already. These things are hard simply because we make it that way. So we want to help change the stigma and normalize these behaviors. Adulthood is a struggle so let's try to make this kind of stuff a bit easier. And we just can't believe we've been here with you all for 41 weeks already! This podcast has changed our lives and we couldn't be more grateful. Especially grateful for the family we've created with you guys! We love you, and thank you for tuning in! Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/A
9/5/2020 • 41 minutes, 32 seconds
EP 40: Fat Phobia
Hey fam! Thanks for tuning in again to another episode of Are We Adulting Yet! This week you're two favorite girls start the week off right and talk about some Adulting they’ve been up to. Then they are coming together to talk about an issue a lot of us adults face and something we absolutely have to normalize. The fat shaming is getting old and tiring. We’re here to normalize all body shapes in our adult lives. Are We Confident Yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
8/31/2020 • 45 minutes, 28 seconds
EP 39: Are we scared to grow up?!
We're back at it again AWAY fam! And this week we're talking about the fear of getting older. We know we know, we ALL have to do it. But why do we have to grow up into this "adult" role of living. Wouldn't it be great to to just be forever young?! In this episode we talk about the growing pains we all feel as we transition from being a kid to a grownup. And ways to make the process a little easier. Grown Folk Business: The girls talk about some difficult adulting they've had to deal with lately. And why they believe they're struggling so much. Adulting tip of the day: Don't grow up!Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
8/24/2020 • 39 minutes, 12 seconds
EP 38: Incarceration Nation!
Hey fam! We're back! Thanks for tuning into another episode that asks us all the same confusing question. Are we adulting yet?! This week Dali and JQ dive into a topic that they feel all adults should be having. Growing up means learning from your mistakes and to keep being better than we were before. But for some of us, our mistakes stay with us for the rest of our lives. The prison system is a place that is definitely needed, but it is also a place with many flaws. And people are dramatically negatively impacted by these flaws. Becoming more aware of the problems that these institutions face will hopefully spark change. And talking about the issues is always a good first step to getting there. Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
8/15/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 27 seconds
EP 37: Can we be friends with our exes?!
We're back!! Dali and JQ are at it again and this week they are talking about friendships. But not just any friendships. They want to know if it's possible to have friendships with our exes. Is it easy to just forgive and still be cool? Or should our romantic relationships be left in the past once they no longer serve a purpose for us. JQ and Dali seem to have a difference of opinions about this topic, so the conversation definitely gets interesting. But we want to hear from you. Do you think it's possible to stay friends with your ex?? Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
8/10/2020 • 45 minutes, 50 seconds
EP 36: Grown and Confident!
We're back once again fam! And this week your two favorite adults are here to speak up about a secret life hack we can all use as we get older. Confidence is the one thing us "grown ups" can use to get through anything life throws at us. The more confident we are in ourselves, the easier it is to believe that we can handle anything. So why is it so difficult to become so confident in ourselves? Of course like with anything else, this is something we must all practice. But practicing things like this together can definitely make it more fun and simpler to achieve. Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
8/3/2020 • 31 minutes, 24 seconds
EP 35: Imposter syndrome, the imposter experience and becoming worthy!
Welcome back AWAY family! On this weeks episode the girls go right into their first topic where they ask a very important question. Are we worthy yet? Which ties right into their topic of discussion. An issue many of us have never heard of, but have all probably experienced. They discuss the importance of becoming aware of imposter syndrome, what it is and how to tell if you are or ever have experienced it. And they make sure to leave you with a helpful adulting tip of the day. They also finally announce the winner of the giveaway they’ve been advertising on their Instagram and Facebook! Make sure to follow on social media to be a part of the next one!Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
7/27/2020 • 37 minutes, 53 seconds
EP 34: Diverse relationships, coronavirus & Breonna Taylor!
We're back AWAY family! On this weeks episode of Are We Adulting Yet, the girls dive right into their first segment where they speak up about how high the coronavirus numbers are rising in the country, especially in their state. After that they go into their grown folk business and discuss the engagement party that Daniel Cameron, Kentucky's attorney general, hosted even though the cops who killed Breonna Taylor still roam free. And after that is all said and done, they dive right into their topic of the week, which is about the importance of different relationships we encounter as we get older. And how these relationships may be responsible for the way we create our reality whether it be from a friendship, family or romantic affair. Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!Are We Adulting Yet: https://www.instagram.com/areweadultingyetpodcast/Dali: https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/JQ: https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
7/12/2020 • 51 minutes, 23 seconds
EP 33: Black Lives STILL Matter!
Welcome back AWAY family! We wanted to dedicated more than just one episode in light of the recent events that took place to spark the protests and the fight to end police brutality. Especially because this is a time where we are continually learning something new everyday. Bringing awareness to the issues that come to light as we enter adulthood is our mission for this show. And as two latina women, it is important for us to make sure we are fully aware of the systemic racism that is constantly occurring around us. As we become more and more aware of the Black Lives Matter movement, we're learning a lot! This topic can go on forever. And it should. But for now here is just a piece of the puzzle we are attempting to create in our minds. Movie recommendation: 13th - NetflixAre We Aware Yet??Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
7/6/2020 • 58 minutes, 36 seconds
EP 32: Flirting with dominance, flirting with life and how to be seductive!
You’re two favorite girls are back this week to discuss the art of flirting. But not just flirting. Flirting with dominance. Actually, how to do everything with dominance. This week we talk about ways we can take common flirting tactics and turn them into powerful habits we can practice in our everyday lives. Wouldn't it be great to be able to finesse every situation that comes your way with seduction and confidence? We think so too. And we're hoping we'll only get better at it with age!Grown Folk Business:Dali asked a few of her Instagram friends what kind of flirting qualities they think they possess. Come to find out, there a few people that don’t believe they are good flirts. Or maybe too good of flirts? Adulting tip of the day:We have two tips for you this week! 1. Flirting is definitely a thrill. But if we're flirting just for fun, let’s make sure we’re being clear about our intentions. The ball is always in your court. 2. Flirt with life and watch the magic happen!Are We ___ Yet?The big question this week is are we dominant yet? Do we think we're mastered the skill of dominating not only our love life, but just our life in general? Or maybe we need to work on that more? Book references: -The Game of Desire by Shan Boodram https://www.thegameofdesire.com/-Sacred Seduction by Kitty Cavalier https://www.amazon.com/Sacred-Seduction-Guidebook-Memoir-Tribute-ebook/dp/B071RRD195Flirting style quiz: https://www.playbuzz.com/stephanielee10/what-kind-of-flirt-are-youWanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
6/27/2020 • 48 minutes, 4 seconds
EP 31: Black Lives Matter!
We’re back!! We want to start this new week off with a topic that has had us all talking lately. The killing of George Floyd was the tip of the iceberg for many people worldwide that have been fighting and feeling the effects of police brutality and systemic racism. The Black Lives Matter Movement has opened our eyes to a lot that has been going on around us. And though we will never know exactly how black people have and continue to be mistreated, we know the world can be unfair. And we have to come together to create a better tomorrow. This episode is not only to inform, but to help us understand a little more too. In times like these, knowledge is power. So let’s continue to educate ourselves and have uncomfortable but necessary conversations! We are in this together!If you are interested in finding out more about the movement visit:https://blacklivesmatter.com/Grown Folk Business:Dali discusses the pickle she got herself into when she applied for a job position as a correctional officer before the George Floyd incident happened. And now, after the protests have started and her passion for the movement has grown, she gets called in for an interview. Let's hear how she's feeling about it now.Adulting tip of the Day:We are living in a time right now where some people may disagree with some things you believe in. Instead of going off and speaking from a place of anger (which is what all of us want to do, i'm sure.), let's try to hear them out and respond from a place of love and respect. We understand this may be hard as hell for us, but hate and animosity isn't going to change the world. Are We ___ Yet?!This week the big question we're asking is are we aware yet? Are we educating ourselves and listening enough to allow us into more of a deeper understanding? Ways you can help:If your'e not much of a protestor but you still want to support the cause. There are a few things you can do. The link below will give you a list of options to choose from.https://time.com/5849721/how-to-help-black-lives-matter-protests/Political App: https://politiscope.io/Documentary Reference: Age of RageWanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
6/22/2020 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 49 seconds
EP 30: Reinventing, Rebirth and Staying True to Yourself During it ALL
We're back!! We took a little break but your two favorite girls are officially back and on a new day! Mondays are now the new Thursdays! You wanna know why we love Mondays? It's a fresh start to a new week. A chance to start over sometimes. And that's just what today's episode is all about. This week Dali & JQ talk about the power of reinventing your life at any given moment. 2020 feels crazy right now but maybe it's the perfect time for a rebirth and an awakening of some sort.During our Grown Folk Business JQ talks about her own reinvention of her life right now. And Dali reminds us to be patient in times like these when so much information is being brought to us all at once.Adulting Tip of the DayRemember things take time. Change can be good. We have to modify our identities as we go through life. Are We ___ Yet?This week we want to ask you all if we are being assholes yet. Dali expresses her frustration about the shoppers at the grocery store and JQ talks about her doctor visit gone bad. So let us know...are we assholes yet?Wanna listen to us on YouTube? You can subscribe with the below:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChovZaNUbsZRVsp0oVttWYw/videosAlso, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!https://www.instagram.com/daliconpique/https://www.instagram.com/jayyyquuu/
6/15/2020 • 40 minutes, 20 seconds
Death!....Oh yea, we're going there!
The girls are back at it again! Season 3 is dedicated to all of the big changes we face as we get older, and how to handle it all like an "adult", whatever that means. This weeks episode is surrounded around the biggest change of all. Yup, we're talking about death. Now, we know the idea of death can immediately instill fear in some of us. Fear of the unknown is real. But lets face it, death is a change we all have to go through and experience no matter what. So why not talk about it and turn it into something positive? Turn it into a constant mindset we have so we can live more in the moment. To help us achieve this, we go into different aspects of death. We discuss our traditional ways and opinions on how we prepare for death. We look up a few ways other cultures deal with death. The ideas we have on what happens after pass. And we even share some stories from people who have technically died for a quick period of time and then came back to life. What they saw and how they felt. It gets super interesting! We also talk about the theory that thinking about death at least 5 times a day promotes happiness, according to Bhutan culture. And if you feel like contemplating this thought will help you live a more exciting life, the app Dali shared is called WeCroak. Check it out! And remember to live like you're dying! (Cause you are).Also, we know we promised you a 5 min wine down this week and we're so sorry we couldn't give you one. But blame COVID-19 not us! Corona doesn't want us to be great! Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!@daliconpique@quuujayyy
5/7/2020 • 50 minutes, 43 seconds
New relationships!
Dali and JQ are back at it again with a new episode to help us all adult a little better. Season 3 has been dedicated change and different events that tend to take place in our lives that force a change to happen. This weeks episode is targeted around the adjustments that occur when we start new romantic relationships. We talk about the pros and cons, the honeymoon phase, the after honeymoon phase, and so much more that comes with building a new life with a new romantic partner. I think we even constructed a new honeymoon phase within the same relationship! And as always we go into our segments and answer a few questions our listeners had. Whether the idea of having a new romantic partner ignites a thrill or a concern (or maybe both!) in you, creating a bond with someone new is always a major change we have to overcome no matter how many times we've gone through it. It's part of growing up, right? Also, we weren't able to give y'all a 5 min wine down this week thanks to COVID-19. But tune in next week because we're definitely coming back with one. And trust us, you don't want to miss it. Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!@daliconpique@quuujayyy
4/30/2020 • 39 minutes, 45 seconds
Dating culture and all that comes with it!
We're back fam! And this week the topic is all about the big D! Yup, you got it right, DATING! Thanks to the help of some of our Instagram friends, we're attempting to dig a little deep into the pros and cons of the dating culture and why most of us are just straight up over it. We make sure to touch base on online dating, serial dating, ghosting, catcalling, soulmates, and how dating can mean something to one person and another to someone else. After researching all of this, it's clear to see why dating can get tiring and discouraging after a few failed attempts. But something we really want to point out is how much fun this experience can be. There's a certain thrill that comes with dating and it's important to keep that in mind. Meeting new people and gaining new perspectives through these interactions will ultimately help us understand who we are and what we want out of any relationship. The more we talked about this, the more we came to an ultimate conclusion on our opinion for dating. Date yourself first. Take yourself out, dress up, enjoy your own company. Pretty much, fall in love with yourself so you can become aware of what you deserve. Also, we weren't able to give y'all a 5 min wine down this week thanks to COVID-19. But we do talk about how JQ is going to be the Are We Adulting Yet guinea pig for dating. Since she's officially single, we are going to put her on a few dating sites and see what happens. And once all of this is over, we're going SPEED DATING! So stay tuned to hear how it all goes! We're super excited to share it with you. Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!@daliconpique@quuujayyy
4/22/2020 • 48 minutes, 56 seconds
Changes we face after a divorce or breakup!
We're back! If you don't know by now, we're dedicating season 3 on big changes we most likely have to face as adults. As we get older it feels like things in our life tend to change drastically and most of the time we are not as prepared as we think we are. This week the big change we want to focus on is the adjustment after a break up or divorce. Because of the coronavirus, we're seeing a rise in divorce rates. It's difficult when a separation happens and your reality gets shaken up to the point where nothing feels normal anymore. Creating a new healthy norm for yourself is a crucial next step for growth but why is it so hard to get there? Why don't we realize the drastic changes going into a relationship, but after a breakup we see and feel it all?!Communication is said to be the main reason for a separation, but is it really just communication? Could it also be a lack of respect? Or a lack of understanding? There are so many reasons why a relationship could shatter but instead of looking at the negatives, we should start taking these things that happen to us and find ways to grow from them. Reflect on any divorce or breakup you've been through and see where you both went wrong, so you can recognize the habits you don't want to bring with you in the future. Life can get messy, but let's not let these situations make us resentful or bitter, let's use our experiences as an aid in becoming our true selves. And make sure to tune in after the show for our 5 min wine down to hear how the coronavirus is taking over our lives! We're super excited to share it with the fam!!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!@daliconpique@quuujayyy
4/16/2020 • 46 minutes, 5 seconds
Money Changes!
Welcome back fam! We want to use this season to talk about different major changes we have or possibly could face as we get older and more settled into adulthood. Right now the world is facing one of the biggest changes yet. The pandemic that Coronavirus has started is a lot to take in right now. And if that isn't crazy enough, it's also causing other major changes as well. The biggest change right now, and I guess a change we are always going to face, are money changes. What happens when our job security is no longer as secure as we thought? And why is it so important to secure your finances and have that "rainy day fund" all the grownups keep talking about? We also answer some questions our guests had for us regarding the future of unemployment and what we think is to come for our economy. It seems like everything is so up in the air right now and we're all worried about what's to come. But in these times of uncertainty, one should stay constant. Set yourself up for success no matter what situation you're in. And we know we didn't give you a 5 minute wine down this week, but we'll be back at it next week so stay tuned! Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!@daliconpique@quuujayyy
4/9/2020 • 42 minutes, 56 seconds
CHANGE!
It is officially season 3 guys! And this season we want to focus on the most constant thing in this world. Change is always going to happen. And the older we get, we tend to become more and more uncomfortable with it. Why is change so scary for us? Why do we try to avoid it like the plague? When we should really be embracing it for what it is. Right now we are living through a time of extreme change. The coranavirus has come and completely flipped our lives upside down. And the fear of what's to come after it's done its job and disappears is even scarier. Change is inevitable. And it's important to learn the best way to deal with changes, especially these kind of changes, because the reality is that it's going to keep happening weather we like it or not. Now more than ever is a time to focus on that. Which is why we want to dedicate season 3 solely to changes us adults have to face, and ways we can accept them for what they are and still have control over our lives. We also touch base on how much the pandemic has been affecting us and the world. This is something we are also going to keep updating the fam with during this season. Remember guys, it has to get worse before it gets better. So lets all pour ourselves a glass of wine, press play on the show and social distance the right way. We're glad to be here with you all. And make sure to tune in after the show for our 5 min wine down to hear how the coronavirus is taking over our lives! We're super excited to share it with the fam!!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!@daliconpique@quuujayyy
4/2/2020 • 35 minutes, 51 seconds
Minimalism!
Welcome back fam!! We're back, and this week we're talking about minimalism. This concept that more and more people have been adapting to recently where one works to get rid of the things they don't need so the can live with less, and in return, become happier. We learned that this practice doesn't necessarily mean throwing out everything possible, but rather making room for more of what matters. But why is it so difficult for some people to part with their items? Holding onto memories plays a big part in this. We tend to hold value with a lot of our things whether we use them or not. But essentially what this is doing is blocking out space to make new memories. This minimalistic idea has also been proven to help with depression and other mental illnesses. It's true when you declutter your life, you also declutter your mind. And that is probably why so many of us our hopping onto this bandwagon. If you're someone who feels like maybe you have too many things for no reason (like we do), then this is the perfect time to grab some trash bags, pour some wine, and part with all of those things that no longer serve a purpose for you. And we're here to help you get through it. So tune in! And make sure to tune in after the show for our 5 min wine down to hear how the coronavirus is taking over our lives! We're super excited to share it with the fam!!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!@daliconpique@quuujayyy
3/26/2020 • 35 minutes, 59 seconds
Corona Que?!
Hey fam!!! You're two favorite girls are back at it again, bringing you another crazy episode. Thanks for tuning into our shit show! And if you're new to our little adult world, WELCOME!I'm sure you have all heard by now about the pandemic the world is going through. We are literally making history right now! So it's only right that we come together and speak about it. The coronavirus (or COVID-19) is a new illness that can affect your lungs and airways. So new that there's no cure for it yet. Which is why it is affecting and killing so many people at once. When something like this happens, it's easy to freak out and fear the unknown. Because why wouldn't we? The unknown is scary, not knowing what's going to happen is scary. But what's important to remember during times like these is how crucial it is to have faith and hope. This is why we wanted to come and bring you our thoughts and perspectives on this issue. A reminder that we're all dealing with this unknown together. And we're going to come out stronger because of it. We also want to utilize this time to bring you some helpful tips on what you can do in case a quarantine were to take place. This week we want to teach you how to make your own hand sanitizer (since the stores are literally all sold out!). So here's that link to our YouTube tutorial for you to follow along:https://youtu.be/xtIA3VgwoUcRemember guys, this too shall pass. We just have to be patient & kind to one another. And please don't be that guy and just wash your hands & start practicing social distancing please. Thanks! Stay safe y'all! And make sure to tune in after the show for our 5 min wine down to hear how our chaotic week has been! We're super excited to share it with the fam!!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?!@daliconpique@quuujayyy
3/19/2020 • 44 minutes, 52 seconds
What in the hack?!
Guess who's back!! It's your two favorite girls back at it again bringing you another episode, still trying to figure all of this shit out. Thanks for joining us on this crazy journey. And if you're new to the show, welcome!This week we're diving into a topic that we feel is something we've all had to deal with one way or another, especially with todays technology on such a rise. Hacking is something we don't really talk about. It's just kind of a thing that happens all of the time and we're all just forced to deal with it, cause how do you track a hacker?? We've both had our fair share of information being hacked into, ESPECIALLY JQ, and it's only going to continue. So we want to have this conversation in hopes it brings a bit of awareness to us and our listeners. We hope you tune in and hear these crazy stories, and can maybe relate a bit to these struggles. And make sure to tune in after the show for our 5 min wine down to hear how Dali's music festival went! We're super excited to share it with the fam!!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!Also, we are currently taking any suggestions for any future guest appearances on the show. So if you feel like you or someone you know may be a good fit for the show, HIT US UP!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
3/12/2020 • 47 minutes, 1 second
Hangin W/Negativity
Welcome back fam! Your two favorite girls are here again with another episode to help us all how to adult a little more...hopefully. This week we’re diving into our vibes. How hanging out with negativity can really take a toll on our lives and on our outlook on life. And as we grow up we can either get sucked in with that kind of crowd, or we just start to realize we don’t want to live like that. We get it, it’s impossible to be happy and positive all of the time, but practicing the art of being optimistic really can change your outlook and your mood overall. And surrounding yourself around those kind of vibes will help tremendously. Adulting can be hard, that’s why we want to create a feel good tribe to make it easier and more fun of course. Sorry we couldn’t give you a 5 minute wine down this week. But Dali has a music festival to go too so just make sure to tune in to next weeks episode so you can hear all about it!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
3/5/2020 • 33 minutes, 2 seconds
Boundaries!!
You're two favorite adults are back at it again with another episode And this week we're talking about boundaries. If you've heard any of our prior episodes, you'll know that we love to talk about this. So it was only right that we make it a task of the week. Whether you're in a relationship or single as a pringle, this is something you can always benefit from. Boundaries help us determine how we want people to treat us. And how we should treat others. And this is something that we learn how to do with time and through experiences. It can be explained, but nobody can really teach you what your boundaries are, you kind of have to teach yourself, right? One thing we know for sure is the boundaries we've set for ourselves and why they are so important. Join us as we try, once again, how to figure this shit out!And make sure to tune in after the show for our 5 min wine down to hear about all of the exciting things your two favorite girls have coming up! And for an update on how DaliConPique is doing without drinking! We're super excited to share it with the fam!!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
2/27/2020 • 43 minutes, 35 seconds
Sex Talk!!
Welcome back familia! Whether you’re new to the show or a veteran, we’re happy to have you here listening. Especially today’s episode! Because today is our sex talk!! Who doesn’t love sex talk?! So make sure to relax, pour yourself a drank & tune in.Sex is something we all do right? So we might as well be open and talk about it. It feels like the older we get the more we realize how sacred and important that exchange of energy can be. And you start to understand a bit why most adults tell you to wait to lose your virginity. At least that’s how we feel. Don’t get us wrong, we love to do the good deed! And life is all about exploring new things. But what we’ve learned is to be mindful and confident of who you are as an individual. Because letting other people’s energy in can In turn mess with yours. Your body is a temple. We also want to share a few STD statistics with you guys because we want y’all to keep your temples clean too! But we don’t want to make this episode just about the statistics and the STD’s, so listen in for some juicy stories and opinions about the good good. Make sure to tune in after the show to our 5 min wine down to find out how bad DaliConPique is struggling this week! And to hear our topnotch british accents. We're super excited to share it with the fam!!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
2/20/2020 • 41 minutes, 54 seconds
Are we ready for marriage?!
We're back family! Thank you for joining us yet again on another episode of Are We Adulting Yet! And if you're new to the show, welcome to the show! Pour yourselves a nice big glass of wine and tune in.This week you're two favorite girls talk about the big M word....MARRIAGE! Are we ready for it? Do we believe in it? Why do we get divorced? What does marriage really mean? These are questions we find ourselves asking a lot, especially as we get older and start to create serious relationships for ourselves. But no matter what, the most important marriage you should have is the one with yourself. Which brings us to our adulting 101 tip of the week: to make sure you still keep some of your independence in any relationship you find yourself in. They say marriage is when two become one, but we disagree. Marriage should be two wholes coming together in partnership. Of course our opinions about this topic may be different from others, but talking about this really did help us grasp an understanding on what we want. And if you're single, in a relationship, engaged or married, we hope this helped you too. If it did, we hope you join us in the task of the week to improve our adulthood, and that is to take a step back to observe and think about what really goes into a marriage. Even if you're already married, it's a good reminder. Also, a big shout out to all of the couples and weddings Dali will be attending soon! We're so happy for all of you!Make sure to tune in after the show for our 5 min wine down to hear how our first official live show went! We're super excited to share it with the fam!!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
2/10/2020 • 40 minutes, 28 seconds
Can we afford to live in 2020?!
We're back!!! Welcome to season two guys! We are beyond excited to be back here again with the fam! If you're new to the show, welcome and thank you for joining us. We're starting off this new season with a very interesting episode that left us asking one necessary question. Can we afford to live in 2020?We quickly come to realize that it's pretty pricey to live. We decided to look up the cost of living in Florida (which is where we live), and try to compare it to other places. Some states were higher and some were lower, but one thing that was the same was the fact that the minimum wage was always a lot lower than the average cost of living. Which is crazy! That's why we want the first official task of the week for this new season is to really budget and learn what the cost of living is in your city or maybe a city you're interested in moving to. Analyze that and really try to figure out if you can afford to live in this day and time. We know it's not easy, trust us...WE KNOW! But maybe this knowledge will inspire us to invest in ourselves and in our future a bit more. Thanks again for joining your crazy sisters in trying to figure this shit out! We can't wait to continue this journey with you guys!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
2/2/2020 • 38 minutes, 59 seconds
Season 2 Preview
Hey fam!! We've officially made it through season 1! Season 2 is quickly approaching, and before it hits we want to give you guys a brief update on what's to come. We're super excited to start this new journey with you guys & we hope you are too! See you in season two y'all! Also, big thank you to those who have been with us since day one and to those who've joined us along the way. We absolutely love this adult family we've created! Cheers to season 1 fam!! See you all in season 2. Stay Tuned!! And let us know if you have any suggestions about what you’d like to hear next. Or if you feel like you’d be a good guest on the show. We’ll try to squeeze you into the closet with us. Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
1/24/2020 • 5 minutes, 41 seconds
New Year Same Shit!
Welcome back everyone!! It’s the last Thursday of 2019, which means we are at the LAST episode of the year!! Which also means we are at the end of season 1 of Are We Adulting Yet!! What a journey it has been. And yet, it still feels like we just started this yesterday. If you’re new to the show, thank you for joining us! We’re glad to have you as part of our adult family! And if you’re not new to this, then you know the drill. Welcome back!As the year comes to an end, we want to talk a little bit about what this past year has brought us and some resolutions and goals we are setting for ourselves in 2020.For example, DaliConPique makes it a point to not drink any alcohol for the month of January. A nice cleanse after the holidays is a goal she sets for herself every year. But what makes a goal different from a resolution? A resolution is defined as a firm decision to do or not do something. Whereas a goal is the object of a person’s ambition or effort. It always seems like the end of the year brings this “new year new me” mentality and we’re filled with resolutions we want to accomplish and then they just start to fizzle out. We decided to share some sticky situation statistics with you from Forbes.com about how many people actually follow through with their new years resolutions (it’s not cute). This year lets set goals for ourselves! Goals that’ll keep us motivated all year long! And that will help us to keep growing and evolving into happier, more successful adults. We share some of our goals for ourselves and for the show. How we want to keep growing and staying consistent with the things we want to achieve. Consistency is key! Can you tell we’re really into our self care too? Something else we’re trying to bring with us too. We’d love to hear some of your goals as well! So feel free to share them with us no matter what time of the year it is! TASK OF THE WEEK: Look at the past year, see what we want to take with us in the future, and figure out what we should leave in the past & in the trash!Oh, if you were interested in getting some dope ass nails and you’re in the Tampa Bay area, here is the instagram link to the nail lady we told you about!! She’s decently priced and amazing at what she does! @nailsbyrubyy_Cheers to season 1 fam!! See you all in season 2. Stay Tuned!! And let us know if you have any suggestions about what you’d like to hear next. Or if you feel like you’d be a good guest on the show. We’ll try to squeeze you into the closet with us. Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
12/26/2019 • 34 minutes, 10 seconds
Adult Christmas List!
Hey everyone!! It’s finally Thursday! Which means JQ & DaliConPique are back at it again with another great episode of Are We Adulting Yet!! If you’re a returning listener, you know the routine, make yourselves right at home, we’re happy to have you back. If you’re new to the show, thanks for listening, feel free to pour yourselves a glass of wine and join the adult family we’ve created here. Are you guys ready for Christmas? With the holidays approaching, we wanted to talk this week about the different things we want others to give us as adults. Of course there are always some materialistic things we wouldn’t mind receiving. Presents are always great no matter what age. And we definitely voice our materialisric wants. For example, we’ll always be good with wine! But let’s be real, as we get older we do start to view the holidays in a different way. It starts to become more about the memories you create and the traditions pass along and less about the gifts you get and give. And when you think about it, it kind of has been more about the memories all along. Looking back, we remember the feeling of the holidays more than anything else. Getting older can be great simply because of the different things you come to realize and be grateful for. Another thing we come to realize as adults is that we need to start making the hard decisions in life, nobody can make them for us. DaliConPique is currently realizing that judging by her sticky situation. She has a big decision to make and no one can make it for her but herself. Even though all she wants is for Santa to tell her what to do!We want to give you guys a good christmas tip too to help you guys be great! Our adulting 101 this episode is a little tip for us too to be honest. We attempt to try and explain the perfect way to wrap the perfect present. Not going to lie, it was hard trying to explain that! So we’re going to leave this link here to the video if you rather watch it get done. We won’t be offended, don’t worry. https://www.businessinsider.com.au/best-way-to-wrap-a-present-2014-12As we wrap everything up, we also want to remind everyone to give back and remember that not everyone has the means to celebrate the way others can. This is a time for giving, so stop being childish & give back to some strangers too. You never know what others are going through. Be kind to everyone. If you’re new to this, we like to assign the fam with a task of the week. Something we can focus on for the following week and try to achieve. Something that will help us all adult just a little bit better. So here it is…Task of the week: Think back on the holidays you’ve celebrated in the past and what made them so special. Bring that with you into these next few holidays. Or try to come up with some new traditions for you and the family. Feel free to let us know what you come up with!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM, or email us!areweadultingyet@gmail.comWanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
12/19/2019 • 35 minutes, 14 seconds
Hospitality Ever After!
Hey familia!!! Guess who's back?!?!?! That's right, JQ & DaliConPique are back at it once again to give you another dope ass episode to make us ask the ultimate question...are we adulting yet?! If you're a returning listener, thanks for coming back and hearing all of our crazy talk. If your'e new to the show, WELCOME! We hope you like it here. If you do, feel free to join the adult family we've created. Everyone is welcome. Even if you don't feel like much of an adult most of the time don't worry, we don't either. This week we came together to chat about how our Thanksgivings went. While Dali had her first thanksgiving off in over 2 years, JQ had to work and help people enjoy the holiday. Which brought us into our topic of discussion. Because we work as servers, we know all of the ups and downs that come with hospitality. From meeting and engaging with amazing people from all over to having to working holidays and sometimes being so overwhelmed that you need to go to the bathroom for two minutes just to cry, these jobs are not for the weak. There is a lot that service industry workers have to deal with and we felt like it would be cool to shed some light on it all. Since we ourselves are servers, we bring you some of our personal experiences too. And tips on how to tip properly. Because trust us, THAT'S IMPORTANT in adulthood!!! Task of the week: Take care of the people taking care of you! Leave them a little extra & show a little more love. Be kind. Thanks for tuning in guys!! BTW, did you hear Jillie the family dog in the background? She wanted to remind you guys to always tip as well. Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM us!Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
12/12/2019 • 31 minutes, 30 seconds
Different Adulting!
Welcome back our fellow adults!! If you're new to our show, thank you for joining us. And if you're not, thank you for coming back! This week we decided to dive right into our sticky situation. We discuss the drama that two celebrity adults are currently going through. This quickly makes us realize how grateful we are for never being put in any problems like theirs. But it also makes us aware of how different everyones life and problems really are. And especially how different OUR lives are compared to each others. So we thought it would be cool to talk about how much we differ as adults. JQ's adulting is completely opposite from Dali"s adulting. We have very different lifestyles, and that's the beauty of our friendship. And becoming humble about the fact that all of us grown ups have completely distinct lives and we all go down different paths is essential for every successful adult. We're all trying to grow up successfully, whether it's by going to college full-time or working 3 jobs to earn enough money. So let's make the task of the week a real chore and work hard to take advantage of all of the hours in our day so we can become the happy, fruitful adults we all wish to become. No matter what kind of adult that is. Thank you again for tuning in!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM us!Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
12/5/2019 • 33 minutes, 42 seconds
Letters to our Ex part 2!
We’re back!!! It’s part two of our letters to our exes and if you’ve made it this far, thank you for tuning in to all of our crazy stories we want to share with you! Especially these stories. We sat down with our wine and really explained all of the things these people put us through and we came to realize one very important thing. It's easy to look back and be upset about how these men treated us, but it takes a lot of growing up and maturing to realize that what we really should be doing is saying thank you to them. Thank you for all of the lessons you've taught us and showing us what a relationship should and shouldn't look like. And thank you for allowing us into your lives even though we may have been the problem sometimes too. Did DaliConPique and JQ really grow up and do the adult thing? Did they really forgive and forget. Maybe they've forgave but they definitely didn't forget!! We really enjoyed recording this episode for you guys and we really hope you did too! If you want to join in on all of this fun, feel free to email us so we can have you on the show! Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment, DM, or email us at areweadultingyet@gmail.com !Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
11/28/2019 • 31 minutes, 3 seconds
Letters to our Ex part 1.
Hey guys! Welcome back to another episode of Are We Adulting Yet! And if you're new to the show, welcome to the family! So we got a lot of positive feedback from our toxic relationship episode that we released a while back. And because of that, we wanted to come back and bring you all something similar but with a twist. So this week we're bringing you our in depth stories from our past relationships. And we discuss the lessons they've taught us. And we want to verbally say thank you to all of those exes that molded us into the women we are today. So if you haven't figured it out yet, our task of the week is to sit down and write a letter to all of your exes. Get everything you want to say to them out and then just throw that shit away. Or maybe grab a close friend and a glass of wine and let all of the shit out. That's what we did and let me tell you, it took WAY longer than 30 minutes. That's why this week is just part 1 of a two part episode. So you can only imagine how juicy it gets! So join in and let us know what you think. Or if you have something you want to chit chat over a glass of wine with, feel free to hit us up so we can have you on the show! Thanks again for tuning in, friends! Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM us!Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
11/21/2019 • 29 minutes, 46 seconds
Vision Boards!
Welcome back familia to another episode of Are We Adulting Yet!! This week the girls come together and catch up a little bit about how our week of adulthood went. We explain what happened on halloween and our perspective on the idea of dressing up and being someone you’re not. And then we go right into what’s really important. On this episode, we decided to discuss the benefits of creating a vision board. I know, this kind of sounds lame. But let’s be real, as we get older, it’s very easy to lose focus on our goals and dreams. And making a vision board is definitely a good way to get back in touch with all of that. We get caught up in this idea that we have to have it all, but we don’t realize the obstacles it takes to get there. We felt that the best way to do that was to sit back and really think about what it is that we want for ourselves. So we want the task of the week to be to relax and envision all of the things you want for yourself. Manifest all of that into your life, and come to terms with the fact that in order to get to where you want to be, it’s important to embrace the journey to getting there. Because you deserve it! We all do!And in case you heard, we apologize for the way the sound is in this episode. We're still learning so please be patient with us. Or shit, hit us up and teach us a thing or two.Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM us!Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
11/17/2019 • 30 minutes, 44 seconds
Toxic Relationships!
Welcome back our fellow grown ups to another fabulous episode of Are We Adulting Yet! Have any of you guys ever been in a relationship that was just straight up unhealthy for your wellbeing?? Or maybe you've come to realize that you may have been the harmful one?? It kind of feels like the older we get, the more we begin to understand the toxic relationships we've gotten ourselves involved in. JQ and Dali Con Pique have most definitely been in their fair share of toxic situations and they want to go in with you all about a few of their experiences. Along with that, the chicas also share a few tips and warning signs to look out for, just in case you find yourself in any type of unstable situation. We're only getting older, let's not bring these childish attitudes on our journey of growth y'all. Therefore, the task of the week is to try become more aware of what triggers you when it comes to the relationships you have with others. And to SET BOUNDARIES for yourself! Boundaries are your friend!! Put yourself first fam!! We love you!! Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM us!Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
11/7/2019 • 30 minutes, 39 seconds
I'm not crazy, you're crazy!
Welcome back beautiful family to another episode of Are We Adulting Yet! And Happy Halloween!! This week your favorite Puerto Ricans come together to talk about something that should be on everybody's mind. Mental health. And the stigmas that come with seeming "crazy". We know that, unfortunately, many people try to deny or keep their mental issues a secret because they don't want people to view them a certain way. But just like you exercise your muscles to stay strong, we all need to exercise our brain muscle as well. We want to normalize these issues and make it ok to seek help. In order to establish a safe place for this, we also have to be reminded to be patient and understanding with others. We want our adult family to come together and break all of these stereotypes that come with mental health and make it ok to not be ok sometimes. Therefore, we are going to make the task of the week something simple and easy to remember so we can remember it anytime. Let's be kind and take care of our minds! And if you feel like things are getting too much to handle, don't be scared to get help! Here is the national suicide prevention hotline for anyone that needs it. Call 1-800-273-8255. We love you!Dali Con Pique also shares a sticky situation with you that she's been holding in especially for this episode. Let us know what you think about it and if she was messed up for what she did! lol. Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM us!Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
10/31/2019 • 31 minutes, 54 seconds
Our Culture
Welcome back family to another episode of Are We Adulting Yet! Sit back and grab yourself some café con leche because this week JQ and Dali Con Pique want to tell you a little more about who we are and where we come from. Culture is something we've always held dear to our hearts. From being little kids in a folklórico dance group and going to festivals, to visiting the island and finally understanding why our people wave their flag wherever they go; being Puerto Rican is a whole vibe and we LOVE it! We truly believe that growing up and learning about where you came from is extremely beneficial for the journey of self discovery. With that being said, we want you all to go back in time for the task of the week and try to learn about where you came from. We'd LOVE to hear about it! Comment where you're from or your flag down below to rep where you're from proudly!Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM us!Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
10/24/2019 • 28 minutes, 28 seconds
Opinionated or Judgmental?!
We're back at it again! Another week trying to figure out if we are adulting yet. This week your favorite duo comes together to discuss the similarities and differences between being judgmental and opinionated. By now, it's pretty obvious that Dali Con Pique & JQ are strongly opinionated. And we want our tribe to be the same way! Creating ideas and having a mind of your own is extremely beneficial in the adult world. And we are all entitled to our own opinions, but when do our point of views cross a line and become harsh judgments towards others? And why do we feel the need to judge people in the first place? Living in this day and age, it's just as easy to critique what everyone else is doing as it is to get offended by what others are saying about you. We want the task if the week to be something we can master and take with us wherever our life leads. Lets focus on becoming more aware when our opinions are starting to be a little more on the judgy side. We're all trying to figure this life out. Lets be patient with our fellow adults. Also, what do you think of JQ's new alter ego name?! Yay or Nay? Let us know! Oh hey! And don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to join our Adult Family!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM us!Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
10/17/2019 • 29 minutes, 25 seconds
Pussy Power!
This week, we chit chat about the importance us women hold. We want to unleash all of that raw feminine energy and strength us chicas possess. So we are starting off with this episode, hopefully the first of many, to talk about what "pussy power" means to us. With social media being at an all time high, women have had even more of a platform to speak about their views on the topic and situations within their lives. This has been major because we now, more than ever, have a way to support each other! Having a cooch doesn't make you anything less, if anything it makes you more! We hold a lot of power within us and we're living in a day and age where all of that is finally being embraced, so it's time we hop on the bandwagon and encourage you all to start welcoming your capabilities as well! Yup, the task of the week is to dig deep and discover that fresh femininity that makes you the queen you are. And if you're not a woman, we encourage you to think of the ladies in your life and take a moment to tell them how much you appreciate them. Trust us, they'll love it! Women can legit be superhero's! Embrace the cooch and respect the cooch!Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, or think you'll be a great adult to talk to on the show, feel free to comment or DM us!Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@jayyyquuu
10/10/2019 • 21 minutes, 10 seconds
In competition with who?!
Do you guys ever feel like growing up is a race and we're all competing to get to this ultimate level of adulthood that doesn't even exist?! Whether we're in an office or playing a sport, competition is always a natural instinct we learn at an early age, and it can be a hard habit to fall out of when it starts interfering with your everyday life. This week Dali Con Pique and JQ bring their opinions to the table on why we all feel like we need to compare our lives to one another, and ways we can turn all of that around and put all of that energy into ourselves instead. Life can be a competition, but it doesn't have to be a race against other people. So tune in and join us while we attempt to change the act of competing with yourself into the most significant task yet! Oh and btw, we apologize for the minor technical difficulties you hear during this episode. We're still trying to figure this shit out. DM us if you have any helpful tips. Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM us!Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
10/3/2019 • 32 minutes, 50 seconds
Put some RESPEK on my name!
On this weeks episode your favorite BFF's meet up and talk about being grateful and having respect for others in all aspects of life. Join us as we try to conquer a task that is important and beneficial to all of us "adults". How do we gain respect? How do we keep respect? How do we recognize and eliminate the people who have no regard to our lives? JQ and Dali Con Pique share some of their stories and experiences so you can see what R.E.S.P.E.C.T means to them (R.I.P Aretha). Hopefully they can lend you some knowledge to help you understand and learn your limitations when it comes to appreciation and consideration for yourself and others around you.Follow us on Instagram and Twitter @areweadultingyetpodcast and use the hashtag #TASKAWAY to let us know what you think. Or if you have suggestions of any future tasks you want us to try to wipe off the map, feel free to comment or DM us!Wanna follow the hosts on IG?! @daliconpique@quuujayyy
9/19/2019 • 33 minutes, 23 seconds
Adulting VS. Us
This weeks episode is about what adulting means to us and how we were completely wrong as kids! We talk about how our lives as adults changed as we grew. We give examples from our own lives to express how nobody really knows what adulting means,including us. We may think we know the meaning but life throws us curveballs and teaches us something different everyday. Adult wisely guys!