Two university students trying to figure out this thing called life and taking you along on the crazy journey. Talking about everything, from being international students to navigating the dating scene in this generation, feminism, our faith and so much more. It’s honestly a mouthful.
2023 Wrapped
Welcome to the season finale of A Mouthful Podcast! We're breaking down Queen Bey's Renaissance film and chatting about the effects of stan culture on media consumption. We show some appreciation for the labor that goes into the creation of such mega shows at that level of artistry. "Sandwich gate" the wild twitter story about friendship; boundaries and some bombastic side eye behaviours. we answer a question for Would you ever go through your partner's phone? We're breaking down the pros, cons, and all the messy stuff in between. Get ready for some real talk!As we wrap up this season, we gotta shout out to all you amazing folks for the constant support. Wishing you the happiest of holiday seasons and an epic new year! We're signing off with laughter, thoughts, and a promise – we'll be back with even better chats in the new year. Until then, keep it real, stay curious, and don't forget to hit play on our previous episodes for some gems. It's Honestly A Mouthful!
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12/9/2023 • 56 minutes, 49 seconds
Our Roman Empire
In this episode, we chat about being in our "Gratitude-era", Charity's brand new pink IPhone and the transformative power of perspective. Small joys, beautiful moments, and the ability to find happiness amidst life's trials. We talk about the complexities of single-hood, loving it, hating it and the pressure to 'fix' ourselves before being considered worthy of it.Diving further into gratitude; we talk about how out of touch billionaires, like Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos, and Kim Kardashian; and ask whether their wealth truly brings them contentment, and fulfillment.Lastly, we take you beyond the glossy facade of "representation" and why we will no longer be applauding fish for swimming. From the messaging in the barbie movie, the controversial Victoria's Secret show and the body shaming that permeates our society as plus sized women to performative DEI initiatives that do more harm at work. It's Honestly A Mouthful!Submit your dilemmas for us to answer: HereFollow us on Instagram: @amouthfulpodcast Get in touch and share your thoughts with us: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.comChapters00:08 Our Gratitude Era05:18 A new perspective on Single-hood08:23 Billionaires, Happiness and First world Problems19:42 Representation and Beauty Standards in Media28:00 Body Shaming and our experiences35:50 Our Roman Empire44:33 All the things wrong with DEI
11/22/2023 • 54 minutes, 25 seconds
Tylenol for a broken heart
We're taking a trip down memory lane and reminiscing about those carefree college days when we used to live on campus; the days when the only thing we worried about was making it in time for class and our parents took care of everything else. God's hand in our academic and personal journeys and making room for serendipity in our lives. We get into the topic of some women's delusional expectations and the complex dynamics of relationships and asking men for money chile! We aren't shy about discussing the struggle of being valued primarily for your appearance, being labelled a gold digger, and how women are capitalizing on the male gaze. As we near the end of our chat, we talk about tough love versus gentle care in friendships, and the value of allowing each other the space to grow and make mistakes. Lastly, we couldn't resist discussing the "Married Men Rizz" thread that had twitter up in arms this week and the embarrassing but all too real pain of your first heartbreak (Sorry Lupita) It's always A Mouthful! over here. (0:06:45) - Reminiscing on Uni Days and God's Role in Our Journeys (0:18:45) - Delusional Expectations and Asking Men for Money (0:32:00) - Gold Diggers and Capitalizing on the Male Gaze (0:45:00) - Nurturing Friendships: Tough Love vs Gentle Care (0:57:00) - Twitter Case Study: "Married Men Rizz" (1:08:25) - Reflecting on First Heartbreaks (1:15:30) - A random game of Song Association Submit your dilemmas for us to answer: HereFollow us on Instagram: @amouthfulpodcast Get in touch and share your thoughts with us: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.com
11/8/2023 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 58 seconds
Imma stick beside her
In this episode,We talk about about sobriety and the impact its having on our mental clarity and happiness. we unpack why birthdays hold such significance for women, especially within the black community -the birthday outfit debacle and dealing with jealousy and comparison in friendships. THEN, We unpack all the parasocial celebrity drama of the past week: From Jamie Vs Nikki , DDG and Halle's maybe baby to the potential end of the receipts podcast, the fabulous pod that sparked the idea for this very show. It's honestly A Mouthful! (05:41 - 06:50) Embracing Sadness to Appreciate Happiness(16:35 - 17:52) The birthday outfit, competition and girl friendship dynamics (20:56 - 22:13) Why do birthdays hold such significance for Women (23:04 - 33:55) The Receipts Podcast broke up and Charity is not well (34:07 - 58:10) Jamie VS Nicki, the challenges of internet relationships and DARVO(01:02:57 - 01:03:52) DDG and Halle, Parasocial Relationships With Social Media Influencers and reaching It's honestly A Mouthful! Submit your dilemmas for us to answer: HereFollow us on Instagram: @amouthfulpodcast Get in touch and share your thoughts with us: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.com
10/28/2023 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 25 seconds
The Kardashian Konundrum
In this episode...(0:00:03) - Reflecting on life after graduation and surviving the new Job Market(0:07:56) - Soccer Vs Tennis and the Kardashian konundrum(0:13:43) - Sibling Drama, Loyalty and Being the First-Born in An African household(0:27:57) - Resentment and Parental Expectations(1:00:58) - Boy Math and The Pleasure Gap!It's honestly A Mouthful! Send us your dilemmas Follow us on Instagram: @amouthfulpodcast Get in touch and share your thoughts with us: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.com
10/11/2023 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 51 seconds
Pick up a book baby
In this episode, we spill the tea on our toxic traits and how we cope, giggle about that one TikToker who's always "broke," but keeps buying fancy stuff, dive into the Miss Zimbabwe controversy and get real about race, history and our own naivety when it comes to racism. We explore the toxicity lurking behind the screens, Twitter fingers , getting dragged and get vulnerable about the struggles of online visibility, and why it's so intimidating to share your thoughts online. Things get spicy as we tackle the internet's newest dilemma, the "credit card saga" and the age-old debate of splitting bills and money etiquette. #It'sHonestlyAMouthful Toxic Traits and Coping MechanismsVoxx's sister's matric dance and missing homeSpending when you're sadFall is back bring the coats outMisunderstandings and Naivety on RacismThe Miss Zimbabwe controversy Underrepresentation of Black women in the beauty industry The need for education and content to broaden our world views.Miss Zimbabwe, Colonization and Getting dragged on twitterThe elephant in the room: Race and body representation in beauty pageantsGetting dragged on twitterColonization's effects on indigenous populations land acknowledgements in Canada are awkward and not enough Another Social Media Rant Social media is fun but also toxic The blessings and curses of online visibilityBe kind, read books, and avoid negative online interactions.Splitting Bills and Money EtiquetteMoney Pet PeevesWe debate the pros and cons of paying for individual orders, and discuss the complexities of money and friendship, as well as the recent "credit card saga" on social media.Money beliefs and upbringingSend us your dilemmas! Follow us on Instagram: @amouthfulpodcastGet in touch and share your thoughts with us: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.com
9/27/2023 • 57 minutes, 37 seconds
Chit Chat Hour
We're back! with a casual chitchat , we're catching up on the end of summer and venting! about the crazy expensive lives of women who have to braid our hair, skyrocketing rental prices in Canada and double standards and identity issues with examples from our favourite source, Twitter. We get into "The brick" incident - a Black woman hit with a brick for turning down a mans advances and compare it to another viral video of a white woman celebrated for her violent behavior at a music festival. Last but certainly not least, we tackle some AITAs from Reddit and a dilemma submitted by one of our lovely annonies. From boundary-crossing in relationships, the pain of ghosting, societal pressures on women's appearances and wedding planner drama #ItsAMouthful !Have an opinion or want to be featured on an upcoming episode? Send us an email to: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.comLeave a review or send us a DM on social media @amouthfulpodcast
9/13/2023 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 6 seconds
Therapy for your therapy
Ever felt like you're tiptoeing through a relationship minefield, dodging boundary bombs left and right? Or got caught up in the tangled web of therapy-speak, where your words seem lost in translation? Licensed therapists might be dropping wisdom on social media, but watch out for the therapy buzzwords like 'boundaries' and 'triggers' and 'trauma' – that could be building walls where you need bridges. We get into how guarding your boundaries can lead to ending up solo with the viral story of a Bridezilla vs her bridesmaids in a real life boundary showdown. The spiritual realm's got power, but we ask the question, is the devil really the n And Last but not least we're tackling your personal dilemmas too! #ItsAMouthfulMisusing Boundaries and Gaslighting Conversations Buckle up, because we're diving into how 'boundaries' and 'therapy jargon' can be sneaky tools for manipulation.Ever wondered about platonic friendships with the opposite sex? We're decoding the wordplay that can twist them.Hold on tight for a story where boundaries went MIA, reminding us why setting them from day one is crucial.Balancing Self-Care and Community Get ready for a rollercoaster ride on the self-care express – but are we forgetting to punch a ticket for community?Unmasking the not-so-pretty side of 'boundary' and 'self-care' misuse, turning self-focus into a one-person show.Let's chat about the perks of solitude, but spoiler alert: it can get pretty darn lonely.Community and Boundaries in RelationshipsCommunity's in the spotlight, and we're pondering whether being a boundary boss can sometimes lead to relationship dropout.Plot twist: differing opinions in friendships could be the glue that holds 'em together. Sexual liberation's got our attention too, and we're decoding how it's a bit like getting a reminder on your phone.Sexual Liberation and Boundaries Buzzword alert! 'Boundaries,' 'trigger warning,' and 'trigger trauma' – are we tossing these around like confetti without a clue?Hold onto your hats for the story of a bride-to-be and how one bridesmaid dropped the mic on her big day.Answering your Dilemmas What's the deal with partners who ghost on convo initiation?Is age just a number? We're breaking down high school vs. university romances, and how to dodge the loneliness trap.Witchcraft and Ouija – is dabbling dangerous or just a spiritual game?Have an opinion or want to be featured on an upcoming episode? Send us an email to: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.comLeave a review or send us a DM on social media @amouthfulpodcast
8/16/2023 • 51 minutes, 59 seconds
The Purity Paradox
This week, Charity and Voxx explore Ariana Grande's rollercoaster of toxic relationships and dive into the concept of purity culture; discussing its effects on self-esteem and relationships, they challenge the double standards in Christian relationships and navigating it all with some grace and self-awareness and individuality huny. It's honestly a mouthful!Show notes:Ariana Grande's Toxic Past and PresentThe "Break up with your boyfriend" singer's drama-filled history of toxic relationshipsSocial media, Original thoughts and negativityNavigating Christian Relationships and the pressure to marry quick!The Culture of early marriage and parenting in Christian communitiesImpact on individual growth and happinessHasty decisions and implicationsThe "one and done" mentality and its drawbacksNavigating purity culture's double standardsReflections on Relationships and Sex and GodUnraveling the Purity ParadoxFlaws in purity culture and societal pressureImpact on self-esteem and relationshipsHarmful effects on women's sexualityDouble standards in purity cultureNavigating Relationship Labels and Societal ExpectationsThe Purity Paradox and Women's LiberationHarmful effects of purity culture on women's sexualitySensitivity around sex within marriage and pressure on womenEmphasizing the importance of choice, grace and self-acceptanceFollow us on Instagram: @amouthfulpodcastGet in touch and share your thoughts with us: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.com
8/4/2023 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 20 seconds
What in the men is going on!?
This week we're talking nicknames, Fragile male egos, single dad superheroes, and breaking down biases and racial microaggressions are also on the agenda.In this episode, We share stories about the origins of our own nicknames and spill the tea on how social media trends are shaping names like never before.Darius ,Keke, and Usher to Halle Bailey and DDG; We couldn't shy away from discussing the underlying power dynamics and boundaries in relationships, especially when it comes to clothing preferences, the insecurities that often plague men when their partners outshine them.And last but not least, we talk bout our girls trip to Kelowna and confront karens, biases and racial microaggressions head-on Trust us, #It'sAMouthful Follow us on Instagram: @amouthfulpodcastGet in touch and share your thoughts with us at: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.com
7/19/2023 • 54 minutes, 23 seconds
Snitches Get Stitches
Are billionaires pushing boundaries because they feel invincible, or are they just wired differently? Charity and Voxx venture into the realm of conspiracy theories, Oceangate, TransLink and the alleged! death of Tupac. We promise to challenge your perception of reality, stimulate your mind, and maybe even provoke a little laughter in this short and sweet one. Ever found yourself in a moral dilemma where doing the right thing could potentially shatter relationships? We've all been there, and today, we get real about these tough decisions. and explore the controversial idea of being a snitch, the weight it carries, and how it tests our morals shifts our loyalties. Lastly, we continue last episode's discussion on the dynamics of friendships and romance, and give you a taste of the realest advice on maintaining friendships during the seismic shifts a new romantic relationship can bring. Its honestly a mouthful!SHOW NOTES: 1. Translink, Navigation and Conspiracy TheoriesI helped a lost bus driver, reflecting on economic issues and advocating for people of colour.2.Conspiracy Theories and BillionairesWe explore the mystery of the billionaire's submarine, our own conspiracy theories, and the value of a billion dollars. 3.Morality and Snitching in CrimeWe discuss morality, tough decisions, implications of not snitching, and a put each other to the test in a fun scenario.4. Navigating my friend's new relationshipMaintaining strong friendships while in a relationship, understanding and supporting friends in relationships, and keeping the same energy in friendships. Follow us on Instagram: @amouthfulpodcastGet in touch and share your thoughts with us: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.co
6/30/2023 • 37 minutes, 56 seconds
The one about friendship
In this episode of A Mouthful Podcast, we dive deep into the world of female/ adult friendship. Drawing from our personal experiences, we get real about the surprising gap between our assumptions about life as grown-ups versus the actual ride, the joys, and struggles that come with building meaningful relationships that stand the test of time, and we celebrate all the friendship warriors out there working on their friendships like we are, we're proud of you!Episode Notes:Over-romanticizing romance and expecting perfection without communication:The Importance of communication and setting expectations in adult relationshipsFriendships vs romantic relationships:Giving friendships more graceProjection of romantic relationship issues onto friendshipsSociety's emphasis on the value of having a romantic partnerFriendships being viewed as replaceable compared to romantic relationshipsPersonal value and investment in friendships:Learning to forgive and grow in friendshipsOvercoming insecurities and valuing friendships moreTreating friendships as valuable and addressing issues openly.Follow us on Instagram: @amouthfulpodcastGet in touch and share your thoughts with us: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.com
6/9/2023 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 59 seconds
God did it!
Personal Experiences:Voxx shares her frustrating encounter with a draining manager at work.Charity discusses her struggle with anemia and getting back into a regular workout routine.Navigating Cultural Expectations:The complexities of cultural expectations and setting boundaries in relationships.Balancing respect for traditions and asserting personal values.Idolized Couples:Exploring the stories of Savannah James and the intriguing Skepta.Discussing the pressures and challenges couples face in the spotlight and social media."Difficult Makoti"Examining the concept of being a "difficult Makoti" (daughter-in-law).Reluctance to participate in certain cultural activities, such as traditional ceremonies involving animal sacrifice.Thoughtful Reflection on the challenges of work, health, cultural identity, and modern relationships.Follow us on Instagram: @amouthfulpodcastGet in touch and share your thoughts with us: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.com
5/26/2023 • 58 minutes, 56 seconds
We've had it!
Charity and Asante reflect on life's ups and downs, and societal pressures surrounding aging in this episode.They express frustration with the Love is Blind reunion's lack of transparency in production and toxic behaviour of some cast members, and compare it to the interrogation style of Real Housewives.They discuss the double standards that society uses regarding body shaming for overweight and underweight individuals, like Ariana Grande, Lizzo, and Tabria MajorsLatly, the girls express frustration with tipping culture in Canadian restaurants and all the mental gymnastics that come with navigating money in this economy. Follow us on Instagram: @amouthfulpodcastGet in touch and share your thoughs with us: amouthfulpodcast@gmail.com