In this episode Cat shares stories from a reader caught with her knickers down on a train and shares her own humiliating experience with her midwife. Plus, Cat admits she's addicted to noise cancelling the world, discusses why women are obsessed with True Crime and asks the question, 'Are women guilty of feeling too guilty or do men not feel guilty enough?'Follow Cat on Instagram and TikTok and head to her website to buy a signed copy of her book The First Time You Smiled (or was it just wind?)Buy The First Time You Smiled (or was it just wind?) Read the full article by Olga Khazan in The Atlantic: What Happens When You Always Wear Headphones?Read the full article in the Wall Street Journal.You're Never The Only One is written and hosted by Cat Sims, founder of Not So Smug Now, an online platform for people just trying to get through the day with some credit in the karma bank. The podcast is edited by Lucy Lucraft and executive producers are Bonnie Barry & Parami Kodikara.