How did I, as an overweight 41-year-old, see more success in learning jiu-jitsu than I did as a super fit 21-year-old?The answers will surprise you, while also revealing powerful insights about improving your game.Notes00:00 - My path back to jiu-jitsu12:30 - My "why" (you NEED this!)20:00 - Trials and tribulations...29:20 - Massive improvement?35:00 - Your ego is not your amigo!42:00 - Mind, attitude, and coaching.48:00 - You might just get hooked...One of the biggest secrets of game is a simple one:Learn game from someone massively better than you.https://toddvmentoring.com/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to questions@toddvdating.comAsk questions on the Ask Todd V & Todd V Dating Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

HighlightsJames' journey in game will inspire youThe best way to see results, FASTLearn what to AVOID DOING in gameNotes00:00 - Intro00:48 - How James discovered game and how it changed his life012:50 - When James REALLY started seeing PROGRESSION26:30 - How James became advanced35:00 - Major lessons James has learned in gameOne of the biggest secrets of game is a simple one:Learn game from someone massively better than you.https://toddvmentoring.com/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to questions@toddvdating.comAsk questions on the Ask Todd V & Todd V Dating Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDating

VERBAL GAME ACADEMY IS LIVE! Everything you need to know about what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. www.verbalgameacademy.com.HighlightsGaming girls who speak another languageHow to master your non-verbalsClosing despite the language barrierNotes00:00 - Intro00:18 - How should you alter your verbal game when the girl doesn’t speak your language fluently?01:00 - Think strategically02:00 - “The shoe is on the other foot”04:25 - Todd in Japan06:00 - A winning vibe07:20 - Non-verbal verbal game09:11 - Animal flirtation10:50 - Crush itConnect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to questions@toddvdating.comAsk questions on the Ask Todd V & Todd V Dating Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDating

VERBAL GAME ACADEMY IS LIVE! Everything you need to know about what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. www.verbalgameacademy.com.HighlightsStorytelling: A crucial game skillDisplaying value subtlyBelieving your own storyNotes00:00 - Intro00:25 - DHV without being tryhard?01:26 - What specific values?02:15 - Stop bragging.04:50 - You need to believe07:30 - Setting, interruption, change10:33 - Weave these inConnect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to questions@toddvdating.comAsk questions on the Ask Todd V & Todd V Dating Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDating

HighlightsDo insults work in game?How to use push-pullsHow to use negsHow to use disqualifiersNotes00:00 - Intro01:15 - Question: Compare and contrast negs, push-pulls, and insults03:00 - Push-pull 10105:15 - How to show interest the RIGHT WAY06:40 - Disqualifiers: BREAKING rapport?08:50 - The Art of the NegCheck out my program on EVERYTHING verbal game. What to say, when to say it, and how to say it. Verbalgameacademy.comJoin Todd V Insiders on Facebook, email questions to questions@toddvdating.com, ask questions on the Ask Todd V Youtube channel

HighlightsDo you REALLY have to HIDE your agenda?How women view sexBeing directNotes00:00 - Intro00:14 - Question: Why do guys hide their agenda? Isn't sex a win for her?01:10 - Women like sex MORE than men, but...03:55 - You need to be INTERESTED6:20 - Todd's thoughts on direct approach8:30 - Direct approach framesCheck out my program on EVERYTHING verbal game. What to say, when to say it, and how to say it. Verbalgameacademy.comJoin Todd V Insiders on Facebook, email questions to questions@toddvdating.com, ask questions on the Ask Todd V Youtube channel

HighlightsHow to succeed in a CORRUPT SYSTEMTurn CRISIS to OPPORTUNITYManaging time in a world of DISTRACTIONSNotes00:00 - Intro01:10 - Question: “How do I improve in a society with a corrupt system, nepotism, and bigotry?”01:34 - How to make the BEST out of dire situations04:05 - It could be WORSE05:18 - Turn CRISIS to OPPORTUNITY08:35 - Question: How do you manage time? What are your strategies?11:18 - Manage your ACTIVITIES, not your TIME 14:27 - Eliminating TIME-WASTERS

HighlightsHow to establish REAL value in your profileThe RIGHT WAY to have a sexual profile What NOT to send as a first messageNotes0:00 - Intro00:49 - Bio #1 breakdown10:56 - Bio #2 breakdown18:56 - Messaging sequence breakdown

FREE Text GuideHighlightsOnline game vs. cold approachOnline game vs. social circle gameQuality, quantity, & passive results onlineNotes00:00 - Intro00:27 - Question: Which is better: online game or cold approach?01:28 - How Todd got into game04:15 - Online Game vs. Social Circle Game08:00 - Pros & cons of online game14:00 - Quality vs Quantity online16:45 - Which method of game is best based on skill level21:05 - Having threesomes: online vs. live22:40 - Get passive results

Online Dating Bootcamp: www.toddvonline.com/HighlightsThe single most important game skillProfiles that lead to datesOnline game cheat codesNotes0:00 - Intro01:08 - Todd's personal INNER GAME philosophy09:48 - The PROCESS of creating a winning profile20:10 - Recognize your online game STICKING POINTS23:38 - Online game CHEAT CODES24:49 - Creating POSITIVE FEEDBACK LOOPS

Online Dating Bootcamp: toddvonline.comHere's the audio version of a recent YouTube live Ask Me Anything (AMA) I recorded on online dating. Enjoy!

FREE Text GuideHighlightsHow to be FUNNY on online gameWIN online game with blueprintsGoofy Game VS Funny GameNotes00:00 - Intro01:06 - Question: Can you convey high status in your bio while being goofy or does goofy equal low status?02:03 - Goofy Game vs. Funny Game 06:12 - How to be FUNNY on online dating sites14:37 - The pros and cons of being cocky-funny21:12 - A PERFECT example of high-value humor24:52 - Intentional vs. Unintentional Goofiness26:06 - Question: What are some ways to get to know a girl's blueprint through online messaging (as opposed to in-person where it's way easier?)26:34 - Figuring out Blueprints: Online vs. Real Life27:40 - How to win online game with profile blueprints31:38 - Using messages to understand blueprint & escalate

Read show notesHighlightsTexting girls during QUARANTINETurnings messages into DATESHow to NOT get catfished Notes00:00 - Intro01:03 - Question: How do I keep text conversations going for an extended period of time?02:03 - Issues with long-term convos03:04 - What your goal SHOULD BE06:52 - How to escalate from TEXTS TO PLANS09:50 - Todd’s “Phone Time” strategy12:40 - Long-distance relationship checklist13:38 - Question: How do I avoid getting catfished?13:47 - Todd’s experience with catfishing14:55 - How to NOT get catfished17:18 - Beware of PERSONALITY CATFISHING22:10 - Tips on meeting up with a girl from online FREE Text Guide

FREE Text GuideHighlightsGaming hot influencers & Tinder top picksYou need a POLARIZING bioWhy premium accounts WORKNotes00:00 - Intro00:40 - Question: How do I game high-value online women?02:23 - Customizing your profile to your TYPE06:25 - POLARIZE for hotter matches12:20 - Polarizing online dating bios17:33 - Question: Is Tinder Gold worth it?19:38 - Why premium accounts ACTUALLY WORK29:29 - Always TEST new things in game

Read Show NotesHighlightsSexting: High-risk, high-rewardRECOVER from bad textsCreating a HIGH-VALUE PROFILE Notes00:00 - Intro01:05 - Question: How do I convey sexuality over text without seeming creepy? I wanted to start sexting a girl but she refused. How do I regain my value and eventually sext with her?01:55 - SEXUAL texting05:30 - Sexting changes how she RESPONDS to you10:00 - Todd's sexting method14:15 - RECOVER from bad texts16:45 - Question: How do I build comfort and trust online so girls will actually meet up with me?18:15 - Establish value & comfort ONLINE23:00 - Build online comfort without being BORING29:25 - Creating a HIGH-VALUE PROFILE32:40 - Takeaways

Read Show NotesHighlightsWhat you need to STOP saying ASAPWhy smart girls are the EASIEST to gameGo-to openers that HIT HOMENotes00:00 - Intro01:38 - Question: What words can bring my game to the next level?05:58 - Words to AVOID13:28 - Todd's game vocabulary15:40 - Talking Dirty 10122:19 - Question: How do I game smart girls? How do I calibrate my game based on her age?24:07 - Why smart girls are EASIER to game29:51- Verbally gaming a model34:43 - Gaming older girls37:28 - Matching her age blueprintLinkshttps://verbalgameacademy.com

Black Friday Sale Linkssystembytodd.comtoddvmasterclass.comHighlightsHow to MASTER the art of shit-testingLearn FUNNY teasingSTAND OUT in front of the hottest girlsNotes00:00 - Intro01:32 - Question: In The System, you talk about giving girls shit tests. What are the best ways to shit test a girl?02:18 - Shit-testing 10107:09 - Use shit tests to CONTROL the frame11:00 - Making her laugh14:42 - Standing out to 8s, 9s, and 10s18:45 - Disqualifying, a game cheat code23:20 - RecapYoutube Videohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iK912W7Ax4I&t=59s

FULL SHOW NOTESHighlightsWhy perfectionism is killing your gameSTOP using the best game linesGo-to openers that HIT HOMENotes00:00 - Intro02:33 - Question: How do I eliminate negative beliefs about my value?03:15 - Dealing with lukewarm reactions06:25 - Reliable ways to get a killer response11:15 - SYMBOLISM of accomplishments > accomplishments14:50 - Question: Should I use canned lines?17:10 - Canned lines for approach anxiety21:07 - Todd's go-to openers24:45 - How to force predictable responses27:40 - Opening for beginners vs advanced29:53 - DON'T use the best lines32:15 - Ideal opener template35:55 - Questions to ask yourself before you open

YOU MUST LISTEN IF YOU WANT TOLearn how to improve your verbal gameUnderstand how to use your verbals to frame interactions with hired gunsKnow how best to communicate with your girlfriend or wife in difficult situations SHOW NOTES2:00 Having the “what are we?” conversation4:40 What are the best ways to verbally communicate your true inner feelings about your partner?7:05 How to express a desire for a change in your partner’s behavior without offending them or starting a fight7:40 The concept of the “feedback sandwich” 13:30 Addressing habits and setting precedents with women14:00 How to deal with being flaked on20:20 How do I verbally game hired guns?22:15 Quick note on immersions and live programs going forward31:00 How to take advantage of the situation to have a smooth opener33:45 Todd’s strip club results throughout his game career and how to establish frames with hired guns39:10 A warning about gaming strippers42:00 How to close hired guns44:30 An early-college story from Todd's game career47:55 How to change your game based on the venue and situationQUOTES“I do believe in having an open discussion about the relationship. I do believe having an agreed-upon idea of what the rules are and what the contract of the relationship is is actually not only important but actually of primary importance - actually central to what a relationship is.” (3:30)“If you address things early enough before they’re a big deal you don’t have to address them later when they are a big deal.” (12:55)“Opening and closing are the two least favorable parts of game because they’re the two parts where you need to be mildly needy.” (27:45)“Get rid of this idea that you have a standard opener you must say in all situations, that’s not the case.” (31:23) "It doesn't matter so much if they've decided if they like you romantically, you just want them to have decided they like hanging out with you and that they would like to continue it." (40:22)CONNECT WITH TODD…Verbal Game Academy: https://verbalgameacademy.com/WEBSITE: toddvdating.comYOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDatingYOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddVFACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsidersINSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdatingSubmit a question for the podcast: Questions@toddvdating.com

YOU MUST LISTEN IF YOU WANT TOLearn how to avoid neediness and scarcityUnderstand how to show premise without seeming needyKnow how to deal with disrespect from women you dateSHOW NOTES0:43 How to access Todd’s new program, Value MasterClass1:35 How do you call women on their inconsistent behavior without seeming needy?3:25 The consequences of being too nice and accommodating5:20 Todd’s logistical dating strategies for maintaining value8:50 How to deal with disrespect from women you date11:40 The concept some guys have that they need to put women “in their place”14:06 Create value organically, not through force, fear, and mandate15:25 Does talking about going on dates early in an interaction show high-value due to courage or low-value due to neediness?17:23 Subtle, flirty ways to tell a girl you want to take her on a date19:10 A story from Todd’s early days of learning game that demonstrates what value and abundance are22:20 Don’t get your value from scarcityQUOTES“Scarcity and neediness are two of the biggest value-killers. You want to avoid those in virtually all situations.” (6:03)“On a first date, she doesn’t owe you shit and you don’t her shit.” (6:44)“It’s not that she’s not respecting your time and not respecting you as a person. It’s that she’s not respecting the random guy she barely knows’ time and the random guy she barely knows as a person.” (7:20)“The fact that she flaked one time is not an indication that she’s going to flake over and over and over again.” (12:23)“Maybe instead of ‘tell her,’ it’s ‘indicate to her.’ You want to indicate to her that it’s a possibility or indicate to her that it’s on the table yet maintain a little bit of mystery and be a little bit less obvious.” (16:45)CONNECT WITH TODD…Value Master Class:toddvdating.com/valueWEBSITE: toddvdating.comYOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDatingYOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddVFACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsidersINSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdatingSubmit a question for the podcast: Questions@toddvdating.com

YOU MUST LISTEN IF YOU WANT TOLearn how to be GENUINE onlineUnderstand WHEN and HOW to send value textsSee how to portray honest signals on your online dating profileSHOW NOTES1:50 How do I attract women online by expressing my genuine persona?6:35 Todd’s religious friend held off on sex until marriage leading women to see him as a highly-desired forbidden fruit9:45 The story-telling tactic of “show, don’t tell”12:45 CONGRUENCE in online game18:10 After you get a girl’s number online, do you go straight to asking them out or continue to build value?19:50 The importance of NOT going backward in game22:45 When things are going well in an online game conversation, every text you send should do THESE 2 ½ things…28:45 What are some honest signals that girls look for in online dating profiles?29:10 Definition of honest signals34:00 The best way to show honest signals on your profile35:15 How to know the core traits of a valuable manQUOTES“Bad-boy is one form of attractive archetype or one form of a profile that can be useful in attracting women, but it’s certainly not the only one.” (8:35)“Most guys are too nice and so if you want to stand out, one easy way to do it is to not be nice.” (11:25)“Is bad-boy necessary? No, but do you need to achieve in whatever you do those same things that are being achieved by being bad-boy? Yes, you do.” (18:00)“If the girl gave you her phone number, you should be assuming it’s good.” (24:45)“There are girls that no matter how hot they are - if it’s just that awful talking to them, you just want to bail and find a different girl.” (27:15)“A lot of what guys put in profiles are relatively dishonest signals.” (33:45)CONNECT WITH TODD…WEBSITE: toddvdating.comYOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDatingYOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddVFACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsidersINSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdatingTodd’s digital course on value: www.toddvdating.com/value/To apply for online dating coaching: https://www.toddvdating.com/online/Submit a question for the podcast: Questions@toddvdating.com

You MUST listen if you want to:Conceptualize how to build your earning and investing potentialLearn to manage your finances and make safe, smart investmentsUnderstand important financial concepts like inflation and indexingSHOW NOTES3:05 Why should you listen to Todd’s advice on personal finance?4:45 This podcast will teach the fundamentals of finance, not how to dedicate your life to it6:00 Why this is NOT advice on how to get rich quickly and is instead about building long-term wealth8:00 What does it mean to “invest in yourself”?13:45 How to make the most of your hours in the day to optimize your earning potential16:00 The power of compound interest19:15 Methods of acquiring money to invest with (DISCIPLINE REQUIRED!)19:45 The “grandma’s envelope” method of budgeting26:15 How to use no-interest, no-payment credit cards to acquire “free money” with which to invest in safe assets29:00 Why losing money hurts more than making money helps30:30 Bankroll management & the Kelly Criterion: The importance of not over-betting33:50 The difference between investing and speculating41:25 What is inflation and why must you consider it in your investment strategy?44:30 Why sticking your money under your mattress is a financial disaster47:30 What is indexing and why is it typically a successful investment strategy?50:15 Todd’s idea of the “Hippocratic oath of investing”51:45 How to gauge the strength of an investment based on your portfolio53:15 The concept of related rates: how to operate as a bank56:00 Credit cards: Hugely advantageous or a financial plague?QUOTES“Acquiring wealth means buying assets or acquiring (building assets) and then having those assets make you more money.” (6:45)“The first way to acquire a surplus and start building wealth is by investing in your earning potential.” (16:55)“You don’t get to invest the money you make, you get to invest the money you save and put toward investing.” (17:55)“Whatever amount of money you’re making, I promise you someone is making 90% as much as you that is still surviving.” (21:55)“If you are in debt to your credit card, make that a priority, pay those off first.” (25:25)“[Warren Buffet] is not relying on tomorrow’s market quotation to make him money, he’s relying on the underlying economics of the business to make him money.” (38:10)“The reason [indexing] is safe… is you own so many different businesses that if one business has a major problem, it’s only a small portion of your portfolio…” (48:55)“You want to be investing in stuff that is somewhat secure and that you could take the losses on if you had to and then acquiring your capital for less than what you’re putting out.” (54:30)CONNECT WITH TODD…WEBSITE: toddvdating.comYOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDatingYOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddVFACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsidersINSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdatingTodd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.comSubmit a question for the podcast: Questions@toddvdating.com

You MUST listen if you want to:Learn how to generate valueUnderstand how to pursue women while maintaining your overall purpose as a manLearn if there is such a thing as offering too much valueSHOW NOTES1:10 Request to join our Facebook group, Todd V Insiders!1:40 How do I generate instant value and validation?3:10 How women respond differently to low-value guys vs. high-value guys4:00 How building value is like winning a game of chess7:30 Exact ways to garner attention and value at the start and through the course of an interaction10:10 How to build value off of a mistake a girl makes12:10 How to be a man of purpose while chasing women17:00 Why being on the path toward high-value is valuable in and of itself18:00 The important  difference between chasing WOMEN and chasing A WOMAN19:50 Why working on yourself is a method of achieving freedom20:35 Is there such a thing as offering too much value?22:30 The pitfalls of offering unearned valueQUOTES“Every single bit of value you have opens up more possibilities for you to create more value.” (1:25)“Don’t undermine yourself. Don’t do any of those things that sabotage you and make you immediately lose the game” (7:10)“You want to come from the position that you are a high-value man offering something to the girl.” (14:00)“It’s okay to be a work in progress and it’s okay to be on your way to being more high-value than you are.” (17:50)“Working on yourself with women does not mean you are supplicating to the world of women.” (19:40)“Offering too readily, being too nice actually can backfire and lose you value.” (24:00)CONNECT WITH TODD…Take advantage of a limited time offer on Todd's upcoming live online event, Value Master Class: https://bit.ly/2M8xESAWEBSITE: toddvdating.comYOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDatingYOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddVFACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsidersINSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdatingTodd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.comSubmit a question for the podcast: Questions@toddvdating.com

You MUST listen if you want to:Learn how to find a girl’s blueprintUnderstand why and how different women value different behaviorsBecome the most ATTRACTIVE and HIGH-VALUE version of yourselfSHOW NOTES3:40 What is blueprint?6:10 What is supplication and why do women find it unattractive?9:35 An example of how to determine a girl’s blueprint on the fly14:00 What are the specific details about a girl that determines her blueprint?20:30 Means values vs. ends values24:45 Why women’s views on value change based on the situation26:30 Using blueprint to recognize patterns in game29:15 How to use a girl’s blueprint to have the best interaction/relationship possible33:45 How to use a girl’s blueprint to help her qualifyQUOTES“Just having information for information’s sake, just theory, isn’t actually technically of value. You need to be able to put it into practice in some way.” (1:25)“You’re going to do a better job of finding out a girl’s blueprint the more you can understand her, relate to her, and sympathize with her.” (3:15)“For most men, the problem they make is caring too much about what girls think about them and also bending over backward for girls too much already.” (6:00)“...but you can tell certain things about blueprint just from a glance oftentimes.” (9:30)“You’re going to go in with your best possible guess and then as new information arises you’re going to continually adjust your guess to that new information and that’s how you’re going to have an idea of what the girl’s blueprint is.” (13:50)“So if you were a smaller guy but you were able to give her that feeling of safety and social status, you would get that same emotional response that she would think would typically be reserved for a tall guy.” (21:35)“I’ll be talking to a girl and she’ll say or do something or a few things and it just clicks in my head that this is the exact blueprint of a girl I’ve dated before.” (27:10)“So there are different ways that I may convey what I do to different girls but fundamentally I’m still conveying to them the same job and the same life.” (32:15)"Blueprint should be used in a win-win way rather than in a win-lose way." (36:15)CONNECT WITH TODD…WEBSITE: toddvdating.comYOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDatingYOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddVFACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsidersINSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdatingTodd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.comSubmit a question for the podcast: Questions@toddvdating.com

You MUST listen if you want to:Have successful casual relationshipsKnow why women love bad boysConvey high value the right wayShow Notes:What is value in a CASUAL (sex-only) relationship? [1:08]Why would a woman sleep with a drug dealer? [9:55]Why peacocking works [11:57]Flawed assumptions about the Lover vs Provider [16:29]How to convey high-value without upending your life [24:55]The Paradox of Value—how it can destroy your Game [31:40]Quotes:“The sex itself and the genetic exchange itself is the primary value that a woman is getting from sex on a lot of levels.” [9:16]“In taking a risk, as long as you haven’t been punished for it, it actually makes you more attractive.” [13:30]“If the guy who she can get to stick around is also an incredibly high-value guy, that’s like winning the lottery for her.” [20:10]You do not have to be 21st century ‘high-risk’ in order to be 10th century BC attractive. [24:50]“Women don’t care that you’re flexing your muscles all the time. They care that you have the muscle.” [30:17]“Faking value only works to a point.” [36:42]Connect with Todd:WEBSITE: toddvdating.comYOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDatingYOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddVFACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsidersINSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdatingTodd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.comSubmit a question for the podcast: Questions@toddvdating.com

You MUST listen if you want to:Know what good Game is and why it worksUnderstand why certain behaviors are high-valueDeliver on the promise you make to a girl when you enter a relationship with herShow Notes:How your words and behaviors reveal your value [2:20] Why do people tease in the first place? [7:50] The key behind high-value behaviors [12:40] Deliver your lines with EMOTIONAL IMPACT [18:36] What is value and how do you convey it? [20:16] A flawed assumption about relationships after learning Game [22:08] The Sunk Cost Effect and her fear of losing you [25:01] STOP losing value in your relationships [27:47] Why conveying value can only take you so far…[30:07] These high-value traits will make you UNIVERSALLY ATTRACTIVE [31:37] Can I just fake it till I make it? [33:33] Quotes:"Any Game that is recognized as Game is Bad Game." [5:45]"Game is essentially you having an interaction the way a high-value guy would." [6:31]Teasing is meant to make the interaction fun. It's meant to give you a way to express ideas without them being taken too seriously. [10:18] "Every single time you open your mouth, you are saying a lot of things about yourself." [11:25]"It's very easy to lie with your words. It's a lot harder to lie with your actions." [13:21]"The initial interaction is about conveying value. The relationship is about delivering value." [30:18] "Competence, being good at what you do and being capable at what you do, is almost universally a high-value trait." [32:02] Connect with Todd:WEBSITE: toddvdating.comYOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDatingYOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddVFACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsidersINSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdatingTodd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.comSubmit a question for the podcast: Questions@toddvdating.com

Todd is back to answer your listener questions. He breaks down the role of sexual language in verbal escalation, how to establish an open relationship and the application of game to business. You MUST listen if you want to:Sexualize your conversationsCreate and sustain open relationshipsLeverage Game to succeed in businessShow Notes:Listener Question: Is explicitly talking about sex necessary? [1:48]Do you need to kiss the girl in Game? [3:05] Why you need to take more risks [5:00]The best strategy to sexualize the interaction [7:27] How to create your ideal relationship [13:00]  Listener Question: How to propose an open relationship? [15:07] The key to maintaining an open relationship [19:00] How men and women view infidelity differently--evolutionary psychology explanation [23:54] Why an open relationship is GOOD for the girl [28:22] Listener Question: How can I apply game principles to business? [33:27] What is the foundation of any healthy relationship? [37:20]The secret to successful negotiation [40:10] A Game Theory model for business and personal relationships [42:32] Quotes:“Always and never shouldn’t occur often in your discussion of Game.” [3:00] “Almost any particular element of Game can be left out.” [4:40] “The optimal [sexualization technique] is leading the conversation in a more sexual direction, and she’ll take up the reins and lead it further.” [11:48] “The best way to have a particular type of relationship is to just start having it.” [14:00] “A relationship is a contract of expectations.” [19:43] “Typically she’s going to care a lot more about you spending your time, attention, and resources on a girl, than she would about you having a random hookup.” [27:02]“As soon as you’re in a relationship for the rules of the relationship, rather than the experience of the relationship, that tends to be a less healthy relationship.”[32:24] “All relationships revolve around an exchange of value.” [34:50]“You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.” -Zig Ziglar [45:20]Connect With Todd:WEBSITE: toddvdating.comYOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDatingYOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddVFACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsidersINSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdatingTodd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.comSubmit a question for the podcast: Questions@toddvdating.comResources Mentioned: The System – systembytodd.com“The Moral Animal” by Robert Wright – amzn.to/MoralAnimal“The Red Queen” by Matt Ridley – amzn.to/RedQueenBook“Sperm Wars” by Robin Baker – amzn.to/SpermWarsBook

On Todd’s first podcast episode, he breaks down Verbal Game—clarifying what it is, explaining why it’s critical to success with women, and showing how to implement it immediately in your Game.SHOW NOTES:[01:05] What is Verbal Game?[02:00] Why Todd likes Verbal Game[02:21] The most uncontroversial controversial question you’ll ever hear[04:05] “The Pickup Arts”[04:35] Why men have trouble talking to women[06:05] The best way to communicate with women[07:04] The power of stories and humor with women[08:57] Grey’s Anatomy shows the importance of emotional communication[11:05] One of Todd’s all-time favorite quotes[12:00] Why scripting can be effective[13:02] The secret to effective, genuine Game[16:07] What Verbal Game should be[16:53] How to have excellent Verbal Game[19:18] The core idea in Verbal Game[21:07] Why make a Verbal Game program?QUOTES:[04:05] “The Pickup Arts is a performing art.” -Mystery [5:04] “Men tend to communicate more logically while women tend to communicate more emotionally.”[6:50] “Almost anything you say can be communicated in a logical or an emotional way.”[11:05] “The difference between the almost right word and the right word is really a large matter - 'tis the difference between the lightning-bug and the lightning.” -Mark Twain[19:15] “Your core idea in Verbal Game is to do whatever you know and are comfortable with, and then try some tiny little bit [of Game] on top of it.”[19:40] “These lines and formats are so powerful, even adding one of them into your Game, done the right way and at the right time, fundamentally changes the interaction.”[22:00] “There is a system for each and every part of Game.”[23:27] “While Verbal Game is simple, even easy once you get it, it’s not obvious.”RESOURCES MENTIONED:Verbal Game Academy verbalgameacademy.com/Submit a question: questions@toddvdating.com“Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus” by John Gray https://bit.ly/MarsVenusBookCONNECT WITH TODD:WEBSITE: toddvdating.comYOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDatingYOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddVFACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/ToddVInsidersINSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdatingTodd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.comSubmit a question for the podcast: Questions@toddvdating.com