I'm Dr Nikki, a financial empowerment coach, with a mission to help women from all over the world build more abundance of wealth into their lives.
This podcast is a series of 10-minute takeaways of nuggets of information on how you can feel more happy and confident with money.
I'm not a financial adviser, so anything I say is for educational purposes and not meant to be construed as individual financial advice. Make sure you do your own research and seek professional help if you need to.
Dr Nikki x
Episode 120: What's Your Partner's Money Love Language?
Hello!
Have you heard of love languages? The book by Gary Chapman goes into a theory that we express love in 5 different ways:
Words of affirmation;
Quality time;
Physical touch;
Acts of service;
Receiving gifts.
Now if your partner is an "acts of service" kind of person, and you're a "words of affirmation" kind of person, you may get into situations where your partner is doing all these great things for you to help around the house etc, but they don't land as "love" to you because you need to hear the words being said.
It's the same for money!
We all have blocks and blindspots about money, and often this comes from how we were brought up.
When getting into a relationship, you're combining the net sum of both couple's money issues, and when you don't communicate about it, that's where trouble can begin.
I hope this helps.
Nikki x
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2/11/2022 • 18 minutes, 49 seconds
Episode 96: The Emotional Ladder and How It Can Help You With Your Money
Hello!
The concepts of The Emotional Ladder and the Choose Again method come from the book Super Attractor, written by New York Times Bestselling author Gabrielle Bernstein. In this book, Gabrielle openly refers to the Emotional Guidance Scale by Abraham-Hicks, where you can consciously lift yourself from a low mood to one where you feel a lot more positive.
It’s a great way to help you to feel better when you believe there’s no reason for your funny mood, but you just can’t seem to shake it off. You know, when everything feels oppressive, or is annoying you? When you find that you’re snapping, and you’re having “one of those days”.
What I really liked about the book is how it combines both methods to help elevate your mood so that you’re no longer stuck in a bad energy zone, where you might previously have struggled to feel good about what’s going on around you.
Enjoy!
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