Today, we're talking about a new technique to raise our game. If you could hear some of the stories I hear from women about men out in these dating streets. If you wonder why women listen to these guys talking to them about dating on social media, it's because you're coming to the game unprepared.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Women will tell you that within their confident man, they need a man with integrity, values, ambition and one really important trait that we overlook, fellas. Passion.I’m going to share how passion is impactful and how it serves us to build stronger lives, careers, get to the bag faster, make us more fulfilled, more loving, more caring and just simply a better dudeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Breaking up with someone you care about is the ultimate test of your confidence and strength. Let's be straight up from the get go…it's sucks. It's painful, it can be life changing and to make matters worse, sometimes it's through no fault of your own. You're just left to pick up the pieces and figure it out.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Have you ever noticed some guys walk in a room and it's like their aura takes over. It just feels different when they're in the presence of others.It would be great if you could have presence like those guys, right?It would be life-altering to dominate the room. We're going to get you on that path today.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Seduction is a comprehensive approach to making her want you, not finding ways for you to continue to chase her. Let's discuss...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

We have to weed out things that are not good for us and don't make us better as men, fathers, leaders in our relationships, homes and communities.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

One of the biggest complaints I get from women is, "He's cool, I guess, but he's boring." We can change this narrative.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Whatever you've heard before around confidence and whatever you hear going forward is all based on one simple concept, literally one word. One thing will guarantee confidence in every situation...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

One of the things we struggle with the most, yet talk about the least as men, is our self-esteem. It's one of the real reasons you can't get out of your own way. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

We're talking about how confidence is important to become a successful entrepreneur. We're bringing back Fariyal Hosein, the owner and founder of E7 Men's Grooming's in Atlanta, GA. Fariyal is dropping some nuggets on how to develop a successful business and what it looks like to have the confidence to step out out faith to make it happen.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

I'm going to show you how inflation could work to your benefit in a way no one is talking about. This inflation strategy will change your life, if you follow the process.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Let's talk about how to develop a self care routine, for men. It's like putting on your oxygen mask on the plane first. Men, you have to make sure you are cared for, physically, spiritually and psychologically and then you are your best self to care for others.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

I've been looking forward to discussing style and we are finally here! Gentlemen, much of what we discuss here is what you do internally to build your confidence and enhance you charisma. Now, we're going to get to some of the external work when it comes to developing confidence. When it comes to the clothes you wear, think about this question, what is your style?Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Every young male child has at some point or another tried to tease a girl, because he liked her, whether it was consciously or subconsciously. As we get older, some of us grow and change and we are much more serious with women, some of us mature quicker and it's not really our style anymore, and some of us simply lose the innate ability to connect with a girl through banter. Banter is an art form.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

One of the biggest challenges to confidence, self-worth and self-esteem is listening to other people who don't live your life, dream your dreams or walk in your shoes. People are living in your head and you're not getting paid for it. You're not pursuing dreams, losing out on money, missing out on opportunity costs and allowing negative talk from someone else to influence what you're doing right now.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Have you ever started dating someone and just randomly wondered one day, what are we doing here? You almost feel like you're in an episode of the twilight zone and you don't know how you got here or what happened to get you to this point. This happens often. We have to start dating with purpose.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

The reality is, if you're a nice guy, I hate to break it to you…you finish last. It's really unfortunate…not. It's not unfortunate at all! Let's dig in to get claritySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Gentlemen, we have all heard the expression, "How can I get with her?" It could be in reference to dating an actress, dating a model, dating a singer or celebrity, or simply someone that's attractive to you. The fact is, we often stumble when we consider how to date someone we think is gorgeous, and to make things more difficult, we feel we don't have access to them. Even when we have access, sometimes we don't know what to say, we get nervous, and we just don't know how to take next steps. Let's assume you get the number, then what?! How do we move forward with the "model-type?" I needed to get to the source, so I asked my friend (who happens to be a model), Fariyal to come through and talk about her journey.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Ok, if you're out in these dating streets, this mindset is killing you, bro.  I mean, literally, it's killing your dating life. Stop trying to compete with other men for women. This is an exercise in futility.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

You know, one of the saddest parts of my job as a relationship coach is when I talk to women and they read me the texts a guy sent them. The text game out there is really bad, fellas…I mean, really…really bad. That's ok…because we're changing that. The same confidence that is one display when you talk to a woman in person is the same confidence you have to exude when you're talking women in texts.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

People are comparing themselves to others. If you're a guy, you're sometimes comparing yourself to the other guy you know that has women all around him, he's got a great job and he's in the physical shape you would like to be in. Women are comparing situations. One woman thinks married life is a lot better than single life and the same married woman she's alluding to…man, she's wishing she was still single. We're always looking at how we compare to the competition.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

One of the hardest things to accept is when you have talked to a woman, you're attracted to her and definitely interested, but she's just not feeling you. She's not necessarily friend zoning you, but she's not dating you either. What can you do to change someone's mind that isn't really looking for you to change her mind?Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

So, at this point, this is approximately my 21st video. As my team and I are learning the YouTube life, so to speak, we're learning what it's like to be fully committed to something you love, that doesn't pay immediately and we don't know when it will pay. Also, important to note, there's no guarantee to how it all turns out.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Ok, so here's the deal…I talk a lot about attraction because, well…people think attraction is important…and it is…to a certain extent. But guess what fellas, I'm going to show you that attraction has its place, but if you learn how to develop your Charisma, you can make her attraction to you more of a bonus than a necessity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Welcome to my channel, The Confident Charismatic, where we talk about Charisma, Confidence and Winning at Life. I have been in roles where people didn't want to pay or they would actually try to pay me less than others in my role and not even try to hide it. Pay increases are important and your confidence and charisma will help you get these raises, but you're going to need other tips to take you across the finish line.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

One day, someone said these famous words "bro, she's out of your league" and it stuck. If we're being honest with ourselves, most of us have ran into a woman who was absolutely stunning and we thought, wow…she's out of my league. Don't sweat it, it happens to the best of us. Sometimes, we're so awestruck with a woman's beauty, we don't know what to do with ourselves.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

What's up, leaders? I'm Jay Hurt, relationship coach. Welcome to my channel, The Confident Charismatic, where we talk about Charisma, Confidence and Winning at Life. It's probably easy to believe that people get lucky to become leaders. We look at people and sometimes we think "how in the world did they get that position?" Every leader may not be the perfect fit for their position.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

One of the things that will work against you is a negative mindset. It's a battle for control. Your mind is your ultimate guide to everything you need, everything you want and everything you desire.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

The most powerful weapon in charismatic arsenal is being funny. As a matter of fact, let's call it confident and funny. You have to learn how to relax and show your sense of humor. Single guys, send this to your boys. Let's learn to not take ourselves so seriously...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

How can you command respect? Everyone wants it, but do we really know how to get people to respect us? Fellas, there's no question...we need to be respected. Let's work through five ways to command respect. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Every good charismatic is not necessarily a leader, but the best leaders are most often charismatic. How do you develop the skills to make people want to follow you? Is this even a skill that can be developed or are you born with it? Is leadership something everyone can accomplish? Let's dive in...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

When you are learning how to be more engaging, more charismatic, one of the easiest ways to do so is to learn how to connect. Some use the power of persuasion, others are great at mirroring, yet other charismatic cats have a way of connecting with metaphors and parables. Yep, those parables we hear about in the bible and those wack metaphors your manager uses to try to get you to do more at work--we can refine those and make metaphors and parables our friends. Building relationships and connecting is all about relating. When you relate, you connect. Let's get into how to connect in this episode.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Fellas, this is the weapon that will make you unstoppable. What if I told you that the fastest path to the life you want, the thriving business you want, the woman you desire or the career accomplishments is not being safe at all? This unstoppable weapon is how confident, visionary leaders lose some battles, but achieve their goals--and ultimately success! Let's learn how this weapon makes you unstoppable. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Most things you learn require learning a skill, refining the skill and applying it. Not this time, this is the one trait that makes you magnetic. No refining necessary. If you make a decision that you want to do something different, have something more and you want the woman you have been dreaming about, this is a must watch. If you don't have this trait, make up your mind today to make it happen--watch your life begin to change instantly!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

This is the age old question fellas, how do you make her fall in love? It's a process, but it's not complicated. It's more than just charisma. Listen close to catch the formula on how to make her fall in love. Definitely catch the last two tips!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

It's kind of interesting…people talk to me about having more friends or winning friends, yet this is something I never considered in my own life. Not even for a second. Why? Come closer…closer…right there…you know why? Here's the secret: Winning friends is an oxymoron. Let me explain:There are a few elements in becoming friends. In this episode, let's look at five things you can do to win friendsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Most of us strive each day to figure out how to be attractive. Not in a vain or conceited sense. We want to dress well, look clean shaven, get the fresh haircut, make sure our clothes fit, etc. There are lots of reasons to show up looking good. One study suggest that people who are attractive make more money...that sounds like a good reason to look good! There are other important traits in learning how to be attractive to find the woman you want or make the money you deserve. We're going to touch on those in this video.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

One of the most important things to understand is how to make everyone like you. When we learn to do a few simple things, people want to be in our space. People want to hang out with you and enjoy time with you when you learn how to make them like you. Check out these five tips. Number one is the most important! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Guys, if you haven't listened to part 1, go back and check out part 1! When you are approaching a woman, remember this episode. Use some of these tips and you will get faster and farther with your woman you are pursuing. Let us know in the comments some things you use to approach a beautiful woman!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Everyone would like to find a way to influence people. Whether you are a leader within your organization, you lead another group or you simply want to influence a woman you are interested in to go on a date with you! I want to share five ways to influence people. Let us know in the comments what has worked for you when it comes to becoming influential. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations

Guys, when you're developing confidence, one of the challenges is how to approach a beautiful woman. Let's keep it real, no one likes rejection. We're going to talk about how to approach a beautiful woman and NOT get rejected. Let's learn some key soft skills on how to talk to a woman and get to the first date.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-confident-charismatic/donations