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That Sexciting

English, Sex education, 1 season, 29 episodes, 13 hours, 16 minutes
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Dive into intimate, honest and at times explicit conversations about intimacy, relationships and sexuality with bi-monthly guests. With a dash of sauce and sass, let’s challenge some monolithic views on intimacy, sex and related topics!
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Announcement: WE'RE BACK!

Super (s)exciting news... The podcast is back! It feels so good to get back into it! Today's episode is a check-in to fill you in on what happened in the behind the scenes, what is in the works for the podcast and more.🍉🇵🇸 Yancy discusses what is happening in Gaza and breaks down key points relating to her field - sexuality. CEASE FIRE NOW!Sources mentionedMama Doctor Jones Youtube Video [3m30-3m53]: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dxxn0SdbVWk WHO Report Cited: https://www.who.int/news/item/03-11-2023-women-and-newborns-bearing-the-brunt-of-the-conflict-in-gaza-un-agencies-warn Queering The Map: https://www.queeringthemap.com/ Sound credit:Dreamland by Øneheart. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Instagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting
1/10/202422 minutes, 53 seconds
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Ep 25: Why Sex Ed Needs it’s Own Class (ft. Mariah @sexedfiles)

Let’s talk about Sex Education! Yancy virtually sits down with Mariah from the @sexedfiles to discuss what comprehensive sex education is, school curriculums and answer a popular sexedfile question!Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow today's guestInstagram: @sexedfilesTikTok: @sexedfilesFollow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingResources mentioned:Sex check-list by Scarleteenhttps://bit.ly/44qkWWgMattxiv’s Instagram Post: “There’s no such thing as an LGBTQ child” https://bit.ly/411GLIV
3/28/202333 minutes, 24 seconds
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Ep 24: Intimacy & Friendship? (ft. Naika Champaigne)

On this episode, Yancy sits down with old crush (now good friend) Naika to discuss types of intimacy, and check in on their friendship. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow today's guestInstagram: @naikachampaigneSolo Album "Painted Imageries": https://linktr.ee/NaikaChampaigneFollow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingArticle mentioned: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-intimacy-in-a-relationship-5199766
2/28/202336 minutes
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Ep 23: RECAP OF 2022

That Sexciting is a year old! Dive with Yancy into the top moments of 2022.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow Liv’s author journey!Instagram: @oliviapreyaauthorhttps://bit.ly/cuspofdarkness
1/3/202343 minutes, 23 seconds
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Ep 22: Accountability in Dating? NO (ft. Rome Green Jr.)

What's the current dating pool like today? This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Rome Green Jr. to discuss the current dating market. Rome opens up about his dating experiences, the difference between relationships and connections, the lack of accountability and self-awareness of prospects and how his views on relationships evolved after his trip to Africa. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guestInstagram: @iromealotPodcast: @cthpodcastwww.shadysideup.comBook MentionedGame of Desire by Shan Boodyhttps://www.thegameofdesire.com/workbook
12/6/202230 minutes, 41 seconds
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Ep 21: So... who's like the man? (ft. bae)

So… who’s the man? This week, Yancy sits down with her partner to discuss what feminine and masculine energy are for them. They explore how they view their partnership, why Yancy views herself as more masculine and how they grew in love.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting
11/2/202235 minutes, 24 seconds
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Ep 20: Sexual shame and healing (Ft. Kaci Mial)

SHAME! It all affects us in unique ways in our sexuality. Navigating and unlearning these beliefs is a journey. This week, Eleanor Gershman, social work and sexual health scholar, shares her knowledge of purity culture. Yancy is joined by Kaci Mial to discuss what sexual shame is, how it is experienced and how one can start the healing journey.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Instagram: @sexcoachkaciWebsite: www.sexcoachkaci.com.comInformation mentioned:Sex Positive FamiliesInstagram: @sexpositive_familiesWebsite: www.sexpositivefamilies.com
10/19/202238 minutes, 19 seconds
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Ep 19: Shedding shame (Check in)

In our society, navigating sexuality can be one tricky experience… Exploring how sexual shame may have been internalized is one step towards shedding shame and approaching YOUR ideal sexuality.This week, Yancy models how to explore your internalized sexual shame through 5 questions. Grab your pen and paper, reflect and connect the dots looking backwards.This episode does not substitute seeking mental health services. If you need support, we encourage you to reach out to a professional or a recognized community group in your area.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coGoFundMe: GoFundMe Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting
10/4/202214 minutes, 43 seconds
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Ep 18: Sex, Art & Feminism (ft. Miss Me)

When did you understand that patriarchy was the problem and not your body? This week, Yancy sits down with one of her favourite visual artists Miss Me Art. They talk about meeting our own patriarchal mindset, the sexual shame for people with vulvas, Miss Me’s art as therapy and she shares the emotional story of how she discovered that her body is not the problem. Furthermore, Yancy explores with Andrea Cooks the power and benefits of art therapy.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coGoFundMe: thatsexciting.co/gofundme Support & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guests Miss MeInstagram: @miss_me_artInstagram backup: @missmeart2 Twitter: @TheArtfulVandalwww.miss-me-art.com/shopAndrea CookInstagram: @intimagetherapieFacebook: @INTIMAGEtherapieClinique Intimage la thérapie par les Arts
9/20/202229 minutes, 40 seconds
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Ep 17: Sexual Assault & Healing (ft. Jimanekia Eborn)

This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Jimanekia Eborn, a queer Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. They talk about the power of self-identifying, navigating sexuality as a survivor, how we can show up for ourselves and how we can support our peers. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Website: www.traumaqueen.love Instagram: @jimanekiaTwitter: @jimanekia Ressources mentioned: Books:The Tao of Trauma by Alaine D. Duncan, Kathy L. Kainshorturl.at/qrUX2What Happened to You? By Oprah Winfrey & Bruce D. Perryshorturl.at/kmPX8 The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.shorturl.at/dNRS3TRE stretching exercices:Vagus Nerve Reset To Release Trauma Stored In The Body (Polyvagal Exercises) - YouTubeTRE, Trauma Releasing Exercises - YouTubeTRE® : Tension and Trauma Releasing Exercises, an Introduction with Jessica Schaffer - YouTube
9/13/202239 minutes, 53 seconds
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Announcement: We're back!

Miss me yet? Yancy gives a little update on the... GoFundMe! But, don't worry. We're coming back next week with our regular long format/check-in program. GoFundMe: To this date, the podcast is funded, curated, produced, edited and marketed by your truly, one-woman-band Yancy. It goes without saying that podcast production is expensive, especially for a solopreneur... Help the project and our mission to create more discussions and content around intimacy, relationships and sexuality.The podcast is raising fundshttps://gofund.me/a762f582Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.co
9/6/20222 minutes, 50 seconds
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Ep 16: How are you doing, really? (Check in)

We missed you! Yancy’s popping in for a check in episode and letting you know what she’s been up to for the last month. We’ll pick up the long format episodes later this year → follow us on Instagram to stay up to dateBe featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingThings mentioned:Listening line in Quebechttps://www.211qc.ca/en/psychosocial-support/helplines-talklines List of emotionshttps://www.courts.ca.gov/partners/documents/2011SRL3gNVC.pdf The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ckhttps://www.amazon.ca/dp/0062641549/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4VXM33RP60ZBM9778DYR
6/21/202226 minutes, 41 seconds
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Announcement: We're on a break

The podcast is starting the summer break sooner than announced. Stay tuned and follow us on Instagram to know when we’ll be coming back with the summer program (a.k.a check-in episodes).Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Email: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingMusic:Only 1 from Mel PacificoProduced by Caulder Nashhttps://open.spotify.com/track/12FXn1PkW0M6UqTfilF5i3?si=281126847f4049bf
5/12/20221 minute, 4 seconds
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Ep 15: Vulnerability and photography (ft. Sara Hini)

This week, Yancy sits down with Sara Hini, a Queer Algerian-Amazigh Photographer. They discuss Sara’s journey as a photographer, what is intimacy and have a raw conversation about fears and love. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Instagram: @sara_hiniPatreon: www.patreon.com/sarahiniMentions:The Four Horsemen:https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/Esther Perelhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P964sIANSWI&t=3s
5/3/202228 minutes, 5 seconds
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Ep 14: Ethically produced porn (Ft. Mickey Mod)

Do you know what Ethically produced porn is? This week, Yancy virtually sit down with adult performer Mickey Mod. They explore the question of what is ethically produced pornography, the history of porn and the impact of porn on Mickey’s intimacy.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancy.cheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Instagram: @themickeymodTwitter: @themickeymodOnlyFans: @themickeymodSource mentioned: Your Guide To Ethical Porn: What Makes It Different & Where To Find Ithttps://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn **Correction: Cinematographic images dates from the late 1800s. Not early 1900s :-)!
4/19/202230 minutes, 44 seconds
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Ep 13: Exploration session: sexual desires (Ft. Maya Glenn • Check in)

When was the last time you reflected on your sexual desires? Specifically about the different pathways to sexual arousal? This week, Yancy passes the mic to Maya Glenn for a check-in episode. Maya invites you to ponder on what makes you feel turned on and to do so in an explorative and mind-expanding way.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Instagram: @intimacywithmayaTwitter: @mayac_glenn
4/12/202211 minutes, 7 seconds
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Ep 12: Dad, you did this to mom? (Ft. Preach)

What did your caregivers tell you about sex? Did you ever have a sex talk at home?This week, Yancy and Preach talk about the Sex talk he had at home, his relationship with his sibling and how the sex talk goes down in his men group. Yancy was also joined by her cousin Mike Martial that shared his sex talk growing up, the one he had with his son and pornography.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Instagram: @kingpreachthepettyYouTube: @abaandpreachPodcast: @abavspreach & @lesfallopes
4/5/202229 minutes, 13 seconds
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Ep 11: Jealousy, Healing & Polyamory (Ft. Carole)

What relationship structure do you adhere to? Monogamy? Open relationships? Polyamory? This week Yancy is joined by Carole to discuss Ethical Non-Monogamy. They explore what is Carole’s ideal relationship structure, how jealousy plays out and the importance of taking ownership of one’s emotions and healing.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest CaroleInstagram: @blackartbymeBooks mentioned:The Ethical Sluthttps://www.amazon.ca/Ethical-Slut-Second-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379 Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamyhttps://www.amazon.ca/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987 Ethical Non-Monogamous structures definitions.  https://shrimpteeth.com/structures
3/29/202234 minutes, 59 seconds
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Ep 10: Is flirting selfish? (Ft. Jared Brady)

Is flirting selfish? This week, Yancy is joined with Jared Brady for an explicit discussion on flirting. Tune in to this raw and honest conversation on what is Jared’s definition of flirting, our flirting types as well as relationship styles and how to keep the spark alive in a marriage.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest @enjoyjaredbrady@enjoythepodcastofficialEnjoy The Podcast on YouTubewww.youtube.com/c/Enjoy248
3/22/202239 minutes, 58 seconds
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Ep 9: U-Haul lesbian move (Ft. Nookie)

This week on That Sexciting, join Yancy and one of her role models, her cousin Nookie, for a raw and intimate conversation about coming out and exploring one’s sexual orientation. Listen to cousins of different generations speak about their online dating experiences, their coming out stories and the importance of having a community and a chosen family.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting
3/15/202235 minutes, 57 seconds
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Ep 8: No… You’re not “clean” (Ft. Dr. Ina Park)

This week, Yancy is discussing STDs and STIs with sex-positive STI and STD researcher and physician, Dr. Ina Parks. Awareness is key! While the stigma behind STDs and STIs might make you want to run away, Yancy and Dr. Park's discussion is the reason you should stay. They break down the misinformation and negative ideologies surrounding the topic, how often one should get tested, and how to have the “I got tested” conversation. Bonus, they play a game of True of False near the end of the episode. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest @inaparkmdWebsite: www.inapark.netBooks mentioned:Strange Bedfellows: Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDshttps://www.amazon.ca/Strange-Bedfellows-Adventures-Science-Surprising/dp/1250206626
3/8/202235 minutes, 19 seconds
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Ep 7: Erotica Literature (Ft. Olivia Preya)

This week on That Sexciting Yancy discusses erotic literature with romance author Olivia Preya. Together they define the literary genre and discuss the elements that make erotic literature so different from other means of sexual expression and representation. Yancy and Olivia also delve into Tumblr’s significant role in the growth and exploration of the literary genre. In that spirit of exploration, we also placed an auditory surprise just for you in this episode! NSFW you've been advised!Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWDon’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Instagram: @olivia_preyaBooks mentioned:Princess Trap by Talia HibbertErotica Authors mentioned:Talia HibbertKatee RobertNaima Simone
3/1/202235 minutes, 17 seconds
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Ep 6: Wait, what about you? (Check in)

How often do you think about sex? Specifically about how you define it, what you like, what you desire, etc? This week, Yancy invites you to reflect on your sexual journey. A guided meditation to explore 5 questions from the game Sex Talk ©.Please note that it is not a sponsor. Yancy just LOOOOOVES this game!Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWDon’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingDuring sex, I want to feel…https://www.instagram.com/p/CNlPgAeFBtc/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
2/15/20228 minutes, 36 seconds
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Ep 5: Where’s the Clitoris? (Ft. Dr. Laurie Mintz)

Did you know that 67% of women have faked an orgasm at least once in their lifetime?This week, Yancy is joined by Professor Dr. Laurie Mintz. Together they discuss the orgasm gap’s origin, how the current sex education system is failing us and tips on how to improve communication in the bedroom!Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWDon’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Dr. Laurie Mintz!Instagram: @drlauriemintzWebsite: www.drlauriemintz.comDr. Laurie Mintz’s Bookhttps://www.drlauriemintz.com/books-about-sexualityBecoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get ItFour Techniques Women Use To Enhance Pleasure During Intercoursehttps://www.drlauriemintz.com/post/sexuallyARTICLE CITED:Sexual Revolution | Orgasm Gap | How to Pleasure a Womanhttps://www.drlauriemintz.com/post/sexual-revolution-orgasm-gap-how-to-pleasure-a-woman
2/8/202229 minutes, 41 seconds
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Ep 4: Gender vs. Sex (Ft. Maya Glenn)

Can you remember the first time that you heard gender and sex are distinct? This week, Yancy is joined with Maya who breaks down what Gender Essentialism is. The theory suggests that a person’s essence is either feminine/female or masculine/male. Maya expands on how this concept is flawed and brings nuance to sexuality, gender and sex through a sociological lens. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Maya!Instagram: @intimacywithmayaSexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Mayahttps://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/ Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D.https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/Gender Essentialism Is Flawed — Here’s Whyhttps://www.healthline.com/health/gender-essentialismInformation mentioned:Becoming a Gendered Body: Practices of Preschoolshttps://observatorio.campus-virtual.org/uploads/21717_Martin_ASR1998_Becoming-gendered.pdf The Egg and the Sperm: How Science Has Constructed a Romance Based on Stereotypical Male-Female Roleshttps://web.stanford.edu/~eckert/PDF/Martin1991.pdf LGBT+ Statisticshttps://news.gallup.com/poll/329708/lgbt-identification-rises-latest-estimate.aspxThe future of sex and gender in psychology: Five challenges to the gender binaryhttps://psycnet.apa.org/record/2018-32185-001 Bilingual Glossary on Gender Identityhttps://www.jurisource.ca/prj/phpnfzuAL1522955217.pdf
2/1/202236 minutes, 17 seconds
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Ep 3: Dating patterns: Is this self-sabotage? (Ft. Ariella Serur)

This week Yancy is joined by queer dating coach Ariella Serur. Together they discuss dating in a fulfilling and healthy way, with a focus on the queer community. Join us for a vulnerable conversation where Yancy opens up about her self-discovery, dating journey and engages in a conversation that forces one to examine their own boundaries, dating expectations and inner saboteur! Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Ariella Serur!Instagram: @queerdatingcoachWebsite: www.queerdatingcoach.comSexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Mayahttps://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D.https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/Books mentioned: Deeper dating - Ken Page The Ethical Slut - Janet W. HardyMating In Captivity - Esther PerelUnlonely planet - Jillian RichardsonStay curious cause That Sexciting!
1/25/202238 minutes, 36 seconds
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Ep 2: Anchor, island & waves: Attachment Theory (Ft. Lucille Shackleton)

Do you know what’s your attachment style? In this week’s episode, Yancy explores and deconstructs Attachment theory with behavioural scientist and counsellor, Lucille Shackelton. Attachment theory is founded on the idea that our caregiver-child relationship dynamics shape how we hold close intimate connections as adults. In essence: “your attachment style is a blueprint of your basic assumptions about safety and trust*.” Yancy and Lucille discuss the theory’s history, its four distinct attachment styles, and the sometimes uncomfortable questions it invokes!Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Lucille Shackelton!Instagram: @centredselftherapyWebsite: www.centredselftherapy.comHer Upcoming Podcast: Relationship Realities Turn on trigger quiz by Shan Boodram https://www.thegameofdesire.com/quizSexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Mayahttps://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D.https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/Books mentioned: Wired for Love by Stan TatkinWired for Dating by Stan TatkinYour brain on love by Stan TatkinAttached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller-*Annie Chem LMFT, The Attachment Theory Working
1/18/202239 minutes, 31 seconds
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Ep 1: Bonjour, hi!

Intimacy, relationships and sexuality: so many conversations to be had and topics to explore, yet so little space to talk about it in our society! By that, I mean curiously, openly and shamelessly.Join in every Tuesday as your host Yancy, intimacy enthusiast and content creator, opens the conversation on these topics. Every week, you will hear from experts, professionals and people from different walks of life.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Be featured in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingInstrumentals and loops: https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/
1/11/20226 minutes, 54 seconds