Here are 3 questions to ask if your wife is talking about a subject you’re not that interested in:-How did you feel about that?-What did you think about that?-Why do you like that/why is that important to you?Try to understand her thoughts and feelings, as that’s what real mental and emotional intimacy is.Try them out today!Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

When your wife starts talking about…-TV shows-Social media-A problem with her friendIt can be easy to check out. You think “I don’t really care about this.”And so, you either PRETEND that you’re interested…Let your mind wander…Or don’t listen at all.But, you can actually use this as an opportunity to create MORE connection and intimacy.Learn how on today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

The day after Valentine’s can be pretty disappointing.But, at the end of the day, we get to choose how we live.And, according to Jesus, the best way to live is to love God, love our neighbors, and love ourselves.So, choose to love well today.Love God by thanking Him. Feel God’s love by remembering what He’s done for you.Love your wife by doing something kind for her.Love your kids by encouraging them.Love yourself by doing something fun today.Love is the secret to life.Learn how to do it well. And start today.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

I don’t often laugh at my own titles, but I have to say, this one was pretty good.Valentine’s Day is tomorrow. It’s a day that we celebrate romantic love.Depending on where your marriage is…That idea may be quite depressing.BUT, you can STILL make Valentine’s Day great.By taking the  EMPOWERING stance of choosing to love well.Learn how to do that in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

When your wife is saying she might want to leave…It’s easy to try to scare her or guilt her into staying.Unfortunately, people don’t really like to be around people who scare or guilt trip them.So, stop doing that!Learn more about how to do that in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena New Links Here After Upload)https://youtube.com/shorts/gvDWKHRslF8Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

If your wife is talking about separation or divorce…You want to make it hard on her to divorce you.Some guys think that means telling your wife all the negative things that will happen if she divorces you.Telling her it will hurt the kids, hurt you, hurt her financially.Telling her God doesn’t want her to do this.Unfortunately, this only makes it more likely she will leave.Instead, you want to make it hard on her to divorce you by becoming a guy that she will actually WANT to be with.Learn more about how to do that in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

Take a minute and answer that.What do you think God thinks about you?Your answer to this question can either lead you to feeling not good enough…Or empower you with incredible self worth.Learn how to let it empower you in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

As a high achieving Christian man, there are a lot of people you might be trying to please.Your wife, your kids, your clients, your church members, your community… and God.That’s a lot of people, with a lot of different opinions.It just won’t be possible to make all of them happy.So, should you just “make yourself happy” and say “screw you” to everyone else?Not quite. There’s a simple 3 step formula that I’ll share on today’s podcast that will show you how to stop caring about what other people think in a way that’s mature, powerful, and blesses you and others.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

Believe it or not, there’s a great app that will help you build your emotional vocabulary, intelligence and strength.That, in turn, will allow you to have more empathy for your wife.When you know what you’re feeling, it will be a lot easier to relate to what your wife is feeling.You’ll be able to share your emotions (be known), and understand your wife’s emotions (know her).That’s what emotional intimacy is!Watch on YouTube here.Download the How We Feel App here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for Dr. Mike? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn.

Maybe your wife has told you that you don’t have much empathy.As a high achieving man, that’s likely true.We have often learned to shut down our emotions in order to “get things done.”While this helps in business, it creates major issues in our marriage.Learn how to stop telling people to “get over it…”And start practicing the empathy that leads to emotional intimacy, deep friendship and love in your marriage…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for Dr. Mike? Reach out on LinkedIn.

You may have tried a lot of things to stop using pornography.Here are the steps that have helped the men I’ve worked with (who have often tried many of the “traditional” programs):-Integrate your sexuality-Learn to manage your thoughts and emotions when you have the urge to view pornography-Reward yourself for having urges and not acting on them-Do that 100 timesThat’s it!Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. This program is INCLUDED as part of the Strong Men Strong Marriages program, which you can apply to below.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn.

I’d say 100% of the men I work with either have struggled or currently struggle with pornography.This definitely breaks your wife’s trust in you…But also breaks your trust in yourself.That leads to low safety in the marriage, which leads to superficial communication and low sexual intimacy.Learn how to restore trust after pornography use in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn.

If you’re struggling to have meaningful communication in your marriage…A list of “what to say” just isn’t going to cut it.There’s a deeper reason why your communication has dried up.Until you address that, your wife won’t WANT to communicate with you.Learn how to fix the deeper issues that have created communication issues in your marriage…So you can start having the fun, laughter and intimate communication you desire…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn.

The Best Love Language For Your MarriageWe all need to feel loved, valued and accepted.The best favor you can do to yourself… and your family…Is to love, value and accept yourself.Learn the tip I’m using now to do that in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn.

The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman is a best selling marriage book.And, it has great concepts that can help you and your wife understand each other better.BUT, used the wrong way, the 5 Love Languages can actually make things WORSE in your marriage.If you’ve been trying to give your wife:-Words of affirmation-Physical touch-Acts of service-Quality time-GiftsBut your marriage isn’t getting better…You need to hear this episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn.

On today’s episode we’ll cover:-How to navigate an in-home separation-How to evaluate whether your behaviors are manipulative or not-What to do if your wife has filed for divorceWatch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn.

Want sex with HER, not just sex. Don’t approach it with “I’m horny and she’s my only moral option.” That’s not attractive to anyone.Cold, warm, hot. Use flirting and touch to bring her into a zone of thinking more about sex.Integrate your full brain. Use your physical desire, your emotional admiration for her, and your choosing her as your life partner as you approach her for sex. Let this shine in your eyes for her.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena see if you can create a video out of the audio, like on Buzzsprout and upload it like this: https://watch.screencastify.com/v/ixjBTiUtuWGlQ5ZWpHSR I didn’t upload anything to YouTube for this yet)https://youtu.be/d_aPeQhn7XUDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn.

Sexual Strength In MarriageSex is what makes a marriage relationship special.But, what we thought our sexual relationship might look like before marriage…And what it looks like once we’re married…Can be very different.Learn how to build your sexual strength so that you can…-Avoid turning to pornography or other negative outlets for sex-Approach sex in ways that are more attractive to your wife than rolling over in bed and saying “how about tonight?”-Learn to flirt and build up sexual tension in your marriageIn today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reach out on LinkedIn.

What is the most important physical thing you can do to be more attractive to your wife?According to 500 Christian wives, it’s just this.Look good, smell good.Get more details on this on today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reach out on LinkedIn.

Strength across all areas is attractive to your wife.As men, we often overly focus on physical and financial strength as the measure of success.And, while women do value physical strength…It’s not quite in the way you might think.Same with financial strength. More money doesn’t necessarily mean more attraction.Learn how to build these strengths in the most attractive ways in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reach out on LinkedIn.

I never liked the word “need” in relationships.In fact, I’ve often taught that “neediness is unattractive.”However, I’ve come to believe a little differently.It’s true that for our internal needs, such as feeling good enough, we can’t rely on our wife. We need to find other resources for that. Because if we do rely on our wife for these internal needs, we wear her out and never feel fulfilled.However, we also have relationship needs.We have needs from our wife. We need her to do certain things so that we can trust her, feel connected, and have intimacy.And it is entirely appropriate to ask for those needs from her.Learn how to distinguish between these in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question? You can reach out on LinkedIn.

Want sex with HER, not just sex. Don’t approach it with “I’m horny and she’s my only moral option.” That’s not attractive to anyone.Cold, warm, hot. Use flirting and touch to bring her into a zone of thinking more about sex.Integrate your full brain. Use your physical desire, your emotional admiration for her, and your choosing her as your life partner as you approach her for sex. Let this shine in your eyes for her.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question for our Friday Q&A? Reach out on LinkedIn.

I used to think of emotional strength as never being overwhelmed by emotion.I didn’t want to be “too emotional.” I thought that was weakness.I wanted to be ruled my reason, not my emotions.However, being unable to really feel emotion is actually emotional weakness. Or numbness. Or deadness.It keeps you from really experiencing life.It also keeps you in a judgmental mindset towards your own emotions and the emotions of others…Which sabotages the relationship with yourself and others.Learn how to be “All Good” with emotions…And experience a much richer life with richer relationships…In today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.P.P.S. Have a question? You can reach out on LinkedIn.

Sign 1 - You blame your wife for how you’re feelingSign 2 - You mix up facts and your interpretation of those factsSign 3 - You are overly influenced by the thinking of others… or overly rigid in your thinkingAll of these lead to you being mentally and emotionally unstable and reactive…Which doesn’t feel good and isn’t attractive.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

How To Build Mental Strength In Marriage“As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he” Proverbs 23:7God has given us amazing brains that have incredible power.What we think affects how we feel, what we do, and the results we get in our lives.Most of us are not aware of this power, or how our thoughts are influencing the results in our lives and marriages.Learn in today’s podcast how to harness this power…And create the love, connection and intimacy you’re looking for in your marriage…Instead of resentment and disconnection.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

When you have real spiritual strength…Neediness disappears.When you feel great self-worth, self-esteem, self-confidence, and a sense of mission and purpose…You step out of needy, codependent behavior and into strong leadership.Get a reminder on how to build these in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

For the next few weeks we’re going to be talking about how to build different strengths in marriage.To me, spiritual strength is:-Strong self-worth based in God-Strong self-esteem (the way you think about and talk to yourself… especially when you make mistakes)-A sense of mission and purpose-Being a man of integrityWhen you can do these three things, you have great spiritual strength.You feel great about who you are… and that is very ATTRACTIVE.Learn how to build these strengths in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.  Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Tip 1 - List Your CommitmentsList out what you’ve promised to do for yourself, your wife, your kids, your community, your church, your work and any other commitments.Tip 2 - Drop Most Of ThemDrop most of these commitments. Let people know you won’t be keeping them, and apologize to yourself and others for not keeping them.Tip 3 - Choose 1-3 And Follow Through. Say “No” To Everything Else.Choose the 1 to 3 most important commitments you will keep, and follow through on those.Then say no to everything else. Your “yes” then becomes more valuable and more trustworthy.This will build your self-confidence (self-trust)...Help you be trustworthy…And allow others to trust you (believe that you will do what you say you’ll do).Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.  Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

I often hear from the men I work with that their wife never apologizes… while he apologizes all the time.Learn why this happens…And what to do about it…In today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Tip 1 - Stop trying to control what you can’t control. Like what your wife does or how she feels. The fastest way to feel disempowered is to try to control something that is impossible to control.Tip 2 - Ask for what you wantYou will feel more empowered when you start getting what you want. But you can’t get what you want if you don’t ask for it.Tip 3 - Start saying “no”If you are always saying “yes,” it’s easy to feel controlled by others. As soon as you start saying “no,” you WILL feel more empowered.Watch on YouTube here.  Happy Thanksgiving!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Many men will tell me that they feel emasculated in their marriage.One literal definition of this is to have your testicles removed.While this (hopefully) is not the reality, these men FEEL one main thing…POWERLESS.Whether it’s with money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or time…These men feel like they are constantly losing while their wife is winning.They say they try to lead… but their wife just won’t let them.And they can’t seem to do anything about it.Fortunately, there’s a way out of this.Learn how to step OUT of powerlessness…And into EMPOWERMENT…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Men try to get their wife’s respect in 3 ways.Only 1 of them works.Learn what it is in today’s short episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

If you’ve looked at dating advice to try to help your marriage, you’ve probably found some advice about being a “tough guy.”This is what I call fake strength.It CAN work to create a girlfriend/wife who is dependent on you and your approval…But it CAN NOT work if you want a truly intimate marriage…The kind that lives true to Christian values and shows your daughters the type of husband they want one day.Learn the difference between fake and real strength… and how to develop real strength…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie is one of the most popular books on human relationships.Learn the biggest 3 principles…And how to apply them to your marriage…In today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

You’ve made mistakes in your marriage.And, you feel bad about them.But, beating yourself up about them won’t change the past…Will have negative effects on your self-esteem…Will make it more likely you make the same mistakes…And will stop you from the changes you want to make.Learn why… and what to do instead… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

I’m finishing up “Deep Work” by Cal Newport.The basic idea is this: The ability to give something focused concentration is a skill.That skill is being whittled away by our focus on “shallow” activities, like social media.We need to rebuild the ability to give things sustained focus by blocking out time to do it.To block out that time, identify the main things you want to accomplish.Identify the main activities that will help you accomplish that.Eliminate the rest.If your marriage is the most important thing to you…And you want a program that will help you do deliberate, focused attention on your marriage in a way that’s been proven to help men Christian create more sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with their wives…Come join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages. CLICK HERE to apply to join.Dr. Mike

When your wife tells you she “doesn’t feel safe…”It can send off alarm bells for you.You want to prove that you ARE a safe person…Which often results in you feeling LESS safe to her.Learn what she ACTUALLY means by not feeling safe…And what you can do about it…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Having one of these goals will lead to frustration and less attraction.The other goal will lead to empowerment and more attraction.Learn which is which and why in today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Creating an intimate marriage requires work.But, it doesn’t have to be hard, tiring work.Learn the secret in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

When you’re trying to change your unattractive habits to attractive habits…It’s hard.But, it’s worth it. To be the man you want to be. To set that example to your kids. And to create the intimacy in your marriage that you’ve been dreaming of.Galatians 6:9 (KJV) And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.Keep planting good seeds and you’ll get a good harvest.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Is your marriage lacking attraction? Are you feeling like roommates… or less?If so, there are 5 steps you need to take to start creating more attraction and intimacy.Learn what they are in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

When you’re arguing about money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time…It can be exhausting.It feels like a tug of war, with both of you digging into your positions.But, there’s a strategy you can use today to end arguments immediately.Learn what it is in today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

It feels good to be right.But, if you focus on who is right and who is wrong in your marriage…You’re headed for trouble.You may end up being “right…”But you probably won’t create the intimacy you want.Learn what to do instead…To be more effective in creating intimacy…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Today I have a special interview with a recent program graduate, Simon.Simon was separated, living in different countries from his wife, and had divorce papers filed.In the course of the 90 day program, he was able to…-Move back in together-Create deeper mental, emotional and physical intimacy than they had ever had-Feel closer to God and stronger in his self worth than everSimon worked very hard and I’m so proud of him and so grateful to see the legacy he will leave for his family.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

You want a marriage with more sexual, mental and emotional intimacy.But, there’s a price to be paid to get that.Are you willing to endure the necessary pains to produce the marriage gains you’re looking for?Learn what it takes… And if you’re up to the challenge… In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

If your wife has been through sexual trauma, she took some negative lessons from that trauma.For one, people will see her as an object to be used for their benefit while hurting her.For another, people will remove choices around her body from her.And, that she is powerless to stop something bad from happening to her.As her husband, you’ll want to demonstrate a new approach around this.That you can approach her physically and sexually in a way that reflects care and love for her.You can respect her choices and boundaries around her body.And you can honor her boundaries.As you do this over time, you can help her see that physical touch and sex can be something positive.Hear a few more tips in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Approximately 1 in every 3 women has experienced sexual trauma in their lifetime.Given those statistics, there’s a good chance that your wife, like mine, has been through this terrible experience.There are many different types of therapy that can help your wife (or you) recover from this kind of trauma. Today we’ll explore a unique approach that could be a good fit for your wife (or you).If your wife is worried about having to tell the story of her trauma… the approach that Dr. Willow Brown and Leah Piper take is different.Learn about their approach today, and find them at sexreimagined.com and drwillowbrown.com Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

A long time ago, a mentor of mine had me make a list of all the qualities I wanted in a wife.I listed things like beautiful, honest, intelligent, connected to God, a hard worker, great with kids, and an expert cook.He complimented my list, and I thought my job was to go find this girl.But, he told me that if I wanted a girl like that, I had to be a guy like that.When it comes to anything you want your wife to be… You can only expect her to be as good as you.So, if you want her to be completely honest with you… you’ll need to be completely honest with her.Honesty is the price of an intimate marriage. Telling the truth even and especially when it’s hard. That’s what lets you be known in the marriage and creates the deep connection and passion that you desire. With some bumps first. But that conflict is what creates real connection.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

If you’re suspicious that your wife may be involved with another man…Or if she’s been unfaithful in the past…The temptation to spy on her can be VERY high.There are pros and cons to spying, and we’ll cover them in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

If your wife turns away from your hugs and kisses…But doesn’t have an issue giving hugs to friends, family and your kids…It can be VERY frustrating.But, there’s a reason for it.You are probably trying to TAKE a hug from her…Instead of GIVING a hug.Learn more in today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

It used to bum me out that my wife would hug and kiss my kids…But not me.They were getting more affection than I was!And my wife would tell me that she just “wasn’t very touchy…”Which I saw with my own eyes just wasn’t true.Learn why this is happening…And what to do about it…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

If you’re at the beach and a wave is coming, you have 3 options.Option 1 - Run away. If you choose this, you will get smashed.This is like trying to avoid emotions.Option 2 - Stand there. If you choose this, you will get smashed. This is like freezing in your emotions or trying to ignore them (or push them away with things like food, pornography, etc.)Option 3 - Jump into the wave.While counterintuitive, this option lets you avoid injury. It allows you to feel a gentle up and down movement that passes quickly.Learn how to “jump into the wave of emotion” in this episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

No matter what, your marriage WILL have ups and downs.You’ll have moments of great connection… then disconnection.Your wife will be happy… then unhappy.How do you handle these ups and downs now?Many men try to fix the downs and make them go away as fast as possible.But, this often just makes the downs last longer and creates more damage.Learn what to do instead…To enjoy the good times and make the bad times opportunities for more intimacy…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Step 1 - Seen. Notice your own emotions. Name them. Feel them.Step 2 - Safe. Remind yourself that you’re OK and in a safe placeStep 3 - Soothe. Deal with your emotions appropriately. Think in terms of body, mind, heart and spirit.Body - exercise, stretching, yoga, etcMind - Music, books, scripturesHeart - Connection with othersSpirit - Prayer, meditation, booksFollowing these 3 steps, you WILL create more security in your relationship with yourself, your wife, your kids and others.Learn more specific skills… and practice them with coaching… in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

This is, I believe, one of my most important episodes so far.We all have the desire to feel seen, safe and soothed in our emotions.Unfortunately, many of us did not get that… or did not get it consistently… from our parents or caregivers.I used to ignore this idea a lot, thinking our upbringing didn’t really matter.But, as I’ve done some of this work on my own, I’ve seen that our childhood has a MASSIVE impact on how we relate to our wife and our children.Learn YOUR attachment style (secure, avoidant, ambivalent or disorganized)...And how to create SECURE attachments with yourself and others…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Today I have the privilege of talking with Monica Tanner, host of the Secrets Of Happily Ever After Podcast.We discuss insights on how to “woo your wife.”What are the things you can do today (and tonight) to make your wife feel “those feelings” again.This episode includes some extra special tips and phrases on how to do just that.Watch on YouTube here.You can find Monica at monicatanner.com http://monicatanner.comDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

Do you feel like your marriage is stagnant?Are you walking on eggshells, avoiding asking for what you want, because you’re afraid your wife might not like it or agree?Are you good teammates in parenting and household management, but lack sexual, mental and emotional intimacy?Then there’s a good chance there’s not enough conflict in your marriage.Just like your body needs stress to become stronger…Your marriage needs conflict to become stronger and more intimate.Learn how to have conflicts in an effective way…That builds more passion and intimacy…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

I’ve had some important insights lately that I have not been the father that I want to be, and feedback from my oldest son that I’m not the type of father he would want to be around once he leaves the house.While hard to hear, it was very important to me and now I’m making changes that will help me be that father.Today I talk with Don Manning from Crazy Cool Family, who has made it his mission to help us“Experience a family where kids love JESUS, love YOU, love EACH OTHER and have a God-inspired PURPOSE in life! That’s the Crazy Cool Family way!”I’m going through his FREE course now, which you can have access to here.https://www.crazycoolfamily.com/Don has also offered for you to be able to reach out to him at his email, Don@CrazyCoolFamily.com.Enjoy this interview on today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/ChcMXTkIvlkDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

When your wife says “I need space…”It’s frightening and often confusing.But, understanding WHY she needs space… And what she needs space FROM…Can help you become the man that she wants to come CLOSER to…Instead of GET AWAY from.Learn WHY she’s asking for space…And what to do to make her become ATTRACTED to you again…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/s-4Nve4PZ6cDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

When you feel yourself going on that “low road” and acting in ways you won’t be proud of…Stop and take a breath.Remind yourself that you’re OK.Start acting how you want to act if you can.If you can’t remove yourself from the situation until you can.Mentally rehearse this so you’re ready to go in the moment.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

This week was a powerful week for me. My son told me directly that he didn’t really feel comfortable talking to me because he was worried I would respond with anger.This was a turning point for me. This moment combined with reading Parenting From The Inside Out by Daniel Siegel https://amzn.to/3KAr8CP helped me see that I was repeating some old patterns from my childhood that I wasn’t aware of.Learn how to find some of your old patterns… and change them… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.

You would think your wife would respect how hard you try to make her happy.That approach MIGHT make her LIKE you…But it WILL NOT lead to her RESPECTING you…Or being ATTRACTED to you.Learn how to earn her respect in today’s episode.It’s probably not what you think.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/6pSGR01K4pYDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we’’ll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves.

I talk to a lot of men who are great leaders at work.Business owners. Professionals. Military leaders and sports professionals.They are great leaders at church. Men’s group leaders, youth group leaders, even leaders of marriage ministries.BUT, they DO NOT feel like leaders with their wife.They walk on eggshells trying to make her happy.Their wives say they want them to lead more…But when they try, they get criticized.It can feel trapped and hopeless.But, there’s a reason for you being able to lead everywhere… except with your wife.Learn what it is… and what to do about it… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/Hle-Eh38qdQDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we’’ll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires as a real leader in the home.

There are 3 simple steps to become the man your wife passionately desires.Step 1 - Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting.If you don’t do this, you’ll continue to push your wife away.And if you don’t get a guide to help you, you won’t be able to identify them. Or at least not all of them and not at a deep level.Step 2 - Replace them with positive, attractive patternsThis is what will help you become the man your wife passionately desires.Step 3 - Repeat the new patterns until you are attractive on defaultWithout this, you WILL go back to your negative, unattractive patterns. Especially under stress.Like when your wife brings up your past mistakes or says “no” to sex.When you do all 3 of these steps, you WILL become the man your wife passionately desires.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps to guide you through these 3 steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

You’re trying to do the right things.You’re trying to make your wife happy.Cooking, cleaning, doing the 5 love languages.But, your wife isn’t turned on by any of it.She doesn’t even appreciate it, while people outside the marriage seem to.The question now is…Do you want to continue to try to create intimacy on your own?Or do you want to follow The Hero’s Journey to become the man your wife passionately desires?Learn how in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we’’ll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires.

Is it possible to be “too nice” to your wife?YES!If you’re not willing to disagree with your wife…Express yourself…Speak up when you feel things aren’t fair…Then you are living in the “happy wife, happy life” mindset.Which creates a sort of happy wife who “loves you but is not in love with you…”A roommate, unbalanced, and walking on eggshells feeling in the marriage…And an emotionally and sexually frustrated husband.It’s time to represent yourself in your marriage.You’re just as important as your wife.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

There are 3 simple steps to become the man your wife passionately desires.Step 1 - Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting.If you don’t do this, you’ll continue to push your wife away.And if you don’t get a guide to help you, you won’t be able to identify them. Or at least not all of them and not at a deep level.Step 2 - Replace them with positive, attractive patternsThis is what will help you become the man your wife passionately desires.Step 3 - Repeat the new patterns until you are attractive on defaultWithout this, you WILL go back to your negative, unattractive patterns. Especially under stress.Like when your wife brings up your past mistakes or says “no” to sex.When you do all 3 of these steps, you WILL become the man your wife passionately desires.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps to guide you through these 3 steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

Do you feel like roommates with your wife?Do you walk on eggshells, worried that your wife might not like what you say or do?Are you constantly trying to make your wife happy?If so, you are likely to be put in the “friend zone.”A marriage with low physical intimacy, or a feeling of “I love you but I’m not in love with you.”Learn what to do to get OUT of the friend zone…And enjoy a marriage with PASSION and INTIMACY…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

The price of an intimate marriage is the courage to make yourself known…Even and ESPECIALLY when your wife might not like it.Courage sounds good… but it doesn’t feel good.It’s facing down your fear. And you CAN do it.It’s a choice. Will you be courageous or a coward?Which one is stronger? Which is more attractive?Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

There’s a price to be paid if you want sexual, mental and emotional intimacy in your marriage.And it’s NOT sacrificing what you want for what she wants.It’s NOT putting her needs before your own.It’s definitely NOT happy wife, happy life.Learn what it is in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

Happy Wife Happy Life is a lie.And the sooner you learn that, the better.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

You do “all the right things.” Make the money. Cook. Clean.But, your wife isn’t giving you attention, appreciation, affection or sex.You feel like other women would appreciate that, and so you think about divorce or maybe even having an affair.But, because of your Christian beliefs, you can’t do that.You want an intimate marriage. But the one person you can be intimate with…Won’t be intimate with you.This trapped feeling sent me to my car SCREAMING.Fortunately, there’s a way out. And you don’t have to get divorced or have an affair to feel free.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

Believe it or not, saying “no” to your wife and others builds trust.You can’t say “yes” to everything. Even “yes” to everything your wife says. It’s not realistic.And your wife knows this.So, if you say “yes” to everything, she’ll be constantly wondering… “does he really mean it?” She’ll remind you a bunch and feel let down when you don’t follow through.But, when you start saying “no…”You show strength. You feel less overwhelmed. You are reflecting reality.And you build trust.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

When you’re trying to rebuild trust after…-Infidelity-Loss of temper-The mosquito cycle-ManipulationOr other bad habits…You can feel like you have to do EVERYTHING right… or else trust will break.This can feel very OVERWHELMING and make you feel ANXIOUS.Fearful that one wrong move will break all trust.Luckily, this isn’t true.Learn how to build trust WITHOUT feeling anxious and overwhelmed in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

It’s time to step into bravery and boldness.Today, do the following.Identify something you want to change (I recommend avoiding asking about sex as that requires you to become more attractive first)Ask for the change with a clear planGive a reason for wanting that changeIt takes bravery and boldness to ask for what you want.Step into it and let me know how it goes!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

There are things that you want to change in your marriage.But, you’re worried about bringing them up.You’re worried that it might make things worse than they already are.And so, you stay stuck in a marriage with low mental, emotional and sexual intimacy.This is giving into fear instead of being brave and bold.To get the relationship you want… you have to risk losing the relationship you have now.In fact, you HAVE TO lose the relationship you have now.Learn how to be brave and bold in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

When your wife won’t work on the marriage, you have 3 options.Option 1 - ComplainOption 2 - Act superior to herOption 3 - Become a great choice. Ask for what you want. Decide if you choose her.Really, it’s a decision between being a leader or a follower. An action taker or a whiner.If you’re ready for option 3…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meDr. Mike

If you feel like you’re putting more work into the marriage than your wife…You probably feel frustrated and resentful.You also feel superior to her. After all, you’re doing more than her.Unfortunately, all of these feelings are unattractive to her.And will make her LESS motivated to work on the marriage.Learn what to do instead in today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

We know that we have to change our OWN thinking if we want to be happy.But, once we understand that, it’s good to know how to ask our wife for what we want.Use the 3 steps in today’s episode.Don’t criticize or complainAppreciateGive a reason whyBut again, even if your wife does what you want, you will NOT be happy until you learn to manage your own thinking expertly.Learn how to do that by joining Strong Men Strong Marriages.CLICK HERE to apply.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meDr. Mike

I’ve seen it happen over and over. In myself and my clients.Your wife does what you’ve been hoping for.She has sex with you. She starts cooking more. She writes you nice notes or texts.But, you’re still not happy.And she feels like whatever she does, it’s not enough for you.Learn EXACTLY why this is happening…And how to fix it…In today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

Sometimes we’re overly sensitive with our wife.We can take a comment as criticism…That isn’t mean that way at all.She may just be giving you information. Or asking for something.Learn how to tell the difference in today’s quick episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

When your wife points out what you’re doing wrong…It doesn’t feel good.Men tend to respond by getting defensive, pointing out her flaws, or desperately trying to earn her approval.None of these work to create a strong, intimate marriage.Instead, we need to:-Calm down-Find the request in the complaint-Decide if we’ll honor that request or notLearn how to do this in today’s episode:Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

High achieving Cristian men use their judgment often.They evaluate ideas and reject some as inferior to others.This can be very helpful in the workplace.But it can drive a wedge in your marriage.Learn what to do instead of judging your wife’s ideas or actions around money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework and how she spends her free time (like being on her phone)...So you can create real connection, intimacy and attraction in your marriage.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

If your wife is on her phone in the evening or in bed…It can be frustrating. You wish she would spend more time talking with you instead of on her phone.Unfortunately, the things you’re doing now are probably making her MORE likely to stay on her phone instead of talking to you.Learn how to approach your wife when she’s on her phone in a way that will make her WANT to pay attention to you more than her phone.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

If you’ve been betrayed…Or if you’ve betrayed your wife…There are certain steps of healing that need to happen.So you can get back on the road to recovery…And create a great relationship again.Today’s interview with Dr. Debi Silber will explain those steps to you.You can learn more about Dr. Debi at her website here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow (even after infidelity)… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

The interactions in your marriage could be considered a dance.Do you like the dance you’re doing?If not, then TAKE THE LEAD and CHANGE IT!And invite your wife to follow.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

Feel like you’re getting run over in your marriage?Or, is your wife complaining that you never listen or don’t respect, appreciate or prioritize her enough?Or maybe both?Learn how to take the lead in an effective, masculine, attractive way in today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

Do you find yourself feeling frustrated and resentful in your marriage?About things like money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time?Has your wife accused you of being passive aggressive?Learn the symptoms… and how to stop being passive aggressive for good… in today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

Nikola Jokic won the NBA’s MVP award two years in a row.How? By not caring about it.You see, winning that award was not in his control. So he spent no time thinking about it.Instead, he focused on practicing and becoming a better player. Things within his control.Which, in turn, made it more likely for him to win the award.What your wife does or doesn’t do is out of your control.And if you spend your time trying to change her mind, win her back, or make her happy…You’ll find yourself anxious and confused because you’re trying to control something out of your control.And you’ll repel your wife.Instead, focus on what you can control.Building up your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.Being aligned with who you want to be as a man. Being a closer follower of Christ.When you do this, you’ll feel stronger and in control.And, it will make it much more likely that your wife will choose you.If you’re ready to focus on building up your internal strength and interpersonal skill as a man…CLICK HERE to apply to join us in  Strong Men Strong Marriages.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meSee you inside.Dr. Mike

Your wife told you “out of the blue” that she wants more space, separation or divorce.Or, you’re making positive changes…But your marriage isn’t changing yet.These can be very distressing… if you don’t understand The Law Of The Harvest in marriage.Once you understand it, it will all make sense.Learn this law on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

If you’re thinking of joining Strong Men Strong Marriages before the deadline (TOMORROW, April 27th at midnight pacific)...You might have a few questions.I answer some of the most common ones in this episode.However, here are the main questions you need to ask yourself to decide to join:Do I want to become a stronger, more attractive man, while living true to Christian principles?Do I want to rewire my brain to eliminate my unattractive habits and replace them with positive, attractive habits, so I can be the man I want to be and set the example for generations to follow?Am I willing to commit an hour a day to do that? (Flexible, based on your schedule)Do I want Dr. Mike and his team to help me do that?Am I willing to make a financial investment to get their help to do this?If it’s yes, let’s do this!CLICK HERE to join now. Your chance to join EXPIRES tomorrow at midnight.Dr. Mike

Strong Men Strong Marriages is open until this Thursday, April 27th at midnight.If you’ve wanted a sneak peek into how the program works…And is helping men like you become stronger, more attractive, more Christ-like men…And create sexual, mental and emotional intimacy in their marriages…While becoming the example for generations to follow…This is your chance.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.(YouTube will let you actually see inside the program, so I’d recommend watching this one).Dr. MikeP.S. Your chance to join ENDS on Thursday, April 27th at midnight. CLICK HERE to watch the training and join now. P.P.S. If you are already a member or a past member, this is a good episode to forward on to friends or family who could benefit!

If you've been wanting to become a stronger, more attractive man...So you can create sexual, mental, and emotional intimacy in your marriage...And set the example for generations to follow...Now is your chance!The Strong Men Strong Marriages program is open NOW through next Thursday, April 27th.CLICK HERE to see the presentation and learn more.

A good friend of mine died in a car accident early Easter morning.None of us know how long we have left.How do you want to be remembered?Here are a few good questions to ask yourself:-What do I want my wife and kids to say at my funeral?-What do I need to stop doing and start doing for them to say that?-If today were my last day with my family, are these the memories I would want them to have?Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you would like some help becoming the type of man who leaves great memories for his wife and kids…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

You’re making good changes. You’re putting in a lot of effort.But, your wife isn’t changing.She’s still bringing up the past. She’s still interested in another guy. She’s still talking about separation or divorce.And that’s frustrating.Because she should be acting differently. Right?Maybe she should. But thinking that way will only cause you frustration.And make you less attractive. And make her less likely to change and more likely to point out your mistakes.Learn how to get rid of frustration and create the attraction and sexual, mental and emotional intimacy you want in your marriage in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

Frustration comes from thinking things should be different from what they are.Your wife should appreciate your changes.Your kids should listen.And maybe they should.But, you're arguing with reality.Instead of whining that "things should be different..."Accept reality and choose your response. Like a strong man.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

Can’t get to agreements about money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time?Feel like you just have the same fights over and over, but don’t get anywhere?Learn how to break out of this cycle once and for all in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/JE2hmr1JCZ0Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

While it's important to understand your wife...You don't have to agree with everything she says.And really, you shouldn't.From my upcoming book:As Stephen Covey puts it, it’s “seek first to understand.” Now, a lot of people mistake understanding for agreement. You don’t have to agree with everything your wife says. And really, you shouldn’t. Winston Churchill said “If two people agree on everything, one of them is unnecessary.” Your differences are important and help you grow.In marriage, you don’t have to agree with your wife’s opinions about money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or how free time is spent. You don’t have to agree about decorations in the house. You don’t even have to agree about politics.But, if you want to get to win-win agreements (coming in the following chapters), you do need to understand her perspective. She needs to have psychological air to feel safe enough to share her opinions and to get to where you can both have a reasonable, calm discussion.If you want to learn the skills to have the win-win discussions to create a marriage full of sexual, mental and emotional intimacy...Apply to join Strong Men Strong Marriages.You'll fill out an application and be guided to your best next steps.Dr. Mike

You’re doing a lot in your marriage. You pay the bills. You help cook. You help clean. You help with the kids.But, your wife rarely seems to notice or say “thank you.”Your kids take what you do for granted.It’s VERY frustrating. And, when you ask for them to appreciate you more…They might for a little while…But then they stop.It makes you want to stop contributing so that they can FEEL what it’s like without you…So that they will REALLY appreciate you.Unfortunately, these strategies don’t work well. They’re not attractive. And they keep you feeling unappreciated. Learn what to do instead in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages programYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

Your wife doesn’t seem interested in having sex with you.She says “no” more often than she says “yes.”Or, you’ve given up asking, fearing yet another rejection.Why is it that she has lost interest in you?At the end of the day, here’s the hard truth:She has lost attraction for you.In this episode, we’ll cover:-The top reasons why your wife has lost attraction to you-The #1 trait that women are attracted to… and how to develop it-How to become the strong, attractive man that creates a strong, passionate marriage-All while living true to Christian valuesLearn how to have the sexual, mental and emotional intimacy you want with your wife.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

You’ve made mistakes in your marriage. Whether those are “mosquito” mistakes, like doing “nice things” for your wife, expecting, attention, appreciation and affection back, getting frustrated when you don’t get it, then exploding in anger or escaping into pornography or other things…Or more serious mistakes like pornography or infidelity.And, it can be tough to forgive yourself for those mistakes.You tend to swing between beating yourself up about them (“I’m the worst. How could I do this to my wife? What kind of example is this to my kids?”)...And saying “Let’s just forget about it and move forward.”And your wife is caught in the crossfire of these swings. If she says “I forgive you,” you tell her that you’ve done too much wrong. If she brings up the past, you say “Let’s just move past this.”There’s a better way. Learn what it is in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!

Michael Jaquith, The Catholic Life Coach For Men and I discuss what it takes to find true confidence in your decisions at home.We also discuss how to grow in your faith, fatherhood, and have more success in your work.If you're a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is wanting more sexual, mental and emotional intimacy in his marriage...Apply to join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

You’re a faithful podcast listener. You read books. You take courses. You learn as much as you can to create sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife.And, you’re making some steps in the right direction.But, you’re not quite where you want to be.Or, you make some progress, then seem to slip back.It’s not that you need to listen to one more podcast or find just the right book.Your brain needs to change.And to do that, you need to do 3 things:#Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns#Replace them with positive, attractive patterns#Repeat those new patterns until you are strong and attractive on defaultWithout those three steps, all the podcasts and books in the world will make no difference.And as much as you learn, you won’t be able to see your own patterns clearly without an outside perspective.Even if that’s what you do for work (like me).I had to get my own coach to see my negative patterns, replace them with new ones, and then create something where I had accountability to practice those new patterns every day.I am accountable to my guys for my practice just like they’re accountable to me for their practice.So, if your marriage isn’t where you want…Let’s get to work.CLICK HERE to apply to join Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. MikeP.S. Watch on YouTube here.

Do you find yourself saying “I forgot” to your wife often?Do you come home and realize that you forgot to pick something up from the store?Does your wife ask you repeatedly if you did something she asked you to do?It may not seem like a big deal. Usually the things you forget are small.But, those small things are slowly eroding trust in your marriage.And, they’re showing your wife that she’s not really your #1 priority.And, it could be one of the reasons that you are not experiencing the mental, emotional and physical intimacy that you are wanting in your marriage.Instead, do what it takes to make SURE you remember to follow through on what you tell your wife you’ll do.That builds trust, shows her that she’s your #1 priority, and creates opportunities for mental, emotional and physical intimacy.Watch or listen to today’s episode to learn tips on how to MAKE SURE you remember, including my personal practice on this.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we’ll schedule a call to discuss your application. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

This bonus episode is actually a module from my program, Strong Men Strong Marriages, that I wanted to share with you.It will help you:-Understand EXACTLY how to build your self confidence-Help you stop beating yourself up to get to the "next level"-Unlock new sources of self esteem and motivation-How to keep your motivation AND be grateful for what you have now (the secret to living in abundance)-How to base your self worth in something BESIDES money, status, or the other "self worth booby traps" that keep you in comparison to others... and therefore make you act arrogant and narcissistic or feeling like a loser-How to get your worth from God and use your gifts to bless the lives of your family and those around youThis is a summary of what I've been on a quest for for MANY years and feel like I've finally found.The secret to living in true abundance and love.Now, just hearing this information will be powerful.But, to really rewire your brain so that this is your new DEFAULT...Come join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.We'll help you:-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns-Repeat those new patterns until you are attractive on default-All while living true to Christian values.CLICK HERE to apply now.I'll see you inside!Dr. Mike

You feel like you’re making good changes. But, your wife keeps bringing up the past. Or she tells you that she’s not sure you’ll keep your changes up. Or she just seems unimpressed by your changes overall. Or she tells you that your changes will be helpful for your next wife.So, you get frustrated. And that frustration proves to her that your changes are not permanent.Instead, you need to shift your goal. You need to STOP focusing on changing her mind about you…And START focusing on being who you want to be and who God wants you to be.Then, you need to follow a specific process to change the way you think, feel and act…So that you become the “new you” on default.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Are you ready to become a stronger, more attractive man that sets an incredible example for generations to follow? And are you ready to create passionate mental, emotional and sexual intimacy in your marriage?If so, then apply to join us in Strong Men Strong MarriagesWe’ll help you:-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns-Repeat them until your brain is rewired to be attractive on default-All while living true to Christian principlesSo that you have the fun, passionate marriage that you’ve been waiting for. And become the example for generations to follow.Let’s get to work! CLICK HERE to apply now. 

You want your wife to like you. You want her to give you attention, appreciation, affection and sex.And, the way you go about that is to try to “make her happy.” You cook. You clean. You help with the kids.But, it doesn’t result in the attraction that you want. She doesn’t seem to respect you. And you end up feeling like you’re losing in your marriage.Here’s the thing. The root of trying to be “liked” is that you don’t have enough self worth, self esteem or self respect.You’re trying to “fill yourself up” from the outside. And while that works in some places, like work or church, it doesn’t work in your marriage.Learn today how you can gain the respect for yourself that will let you finally feel like you’re winning in your marriage.By freeing you from the need to be liked.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Are you ready to become a stronger, more attractive man that sets an incredible example for generations to follow? And are you ready to create passionate mental, emotional and sexual intimacy in your marriage?If so, then apply to join us in Strong Men Strong MarriagesWe’ll help you:-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns-Repeat them until your brain is rewired to be attractive on default-All while living true to Christian principlesSo that you have the fun, passionate marriage that you’ve been waiting for. And become the example for generations to follow.Let’s get to work! CLICK HERE to apply now. 

It’s Valentine’s Day today! How special did you make it for your wife?If you’re like a lot of men, you maybe didn’t have much of a plan for today.You might be running to grab a card and some flowers or chocolate after work.Or, you might not be doing anything. Because you know your wife won’t be having sex with you tonight, so why should you do anything special for her?Unfortunately, last minute plans and spiteful non-action are not very attractive to your wife. And they’re certainly not romantic.Learn how to be more romantic in today’s episode so that you can create the “feeling of excitement and mystery” that leads to the passionate connection you want in your marriage.As a summary:-Make a plan in advance-Use anticipation-Make it meaningful for her-Use erotic (creative) energyWatch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Are you ready to become a stronger, more attractive man that sets an incredible example for generations to follow? And are you ready to create passionate mental, emotional and sexual intimacy in your marriage?If so, then apply to join us in Strong Men Strong MarriagesWe’ll help you:-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns-Repeat them until your brain is rewired to be attractive on default-All while living true to Christian principlesSo that you have the fun, passionate marriage that you’ve been waiting for. And become the example for generations to follow.Let’s get to work! CLICK HERE to apply now. 

You make some good strides. You stop being a mosquito. You handle your wife’s rejection of physical touch well. You control your temper.For a few days. Or maybe even weeks.But then, you fall back into the same old patterns. You feel bad. Your wife loses trust. And you feel stuck. Or maybe even like giving up.But, there’s a reason this happens. It’s just how your brain works.And, there’s a way to interrupt this negative pattern…And create a new one…So that you avoid setbacks and continue on a path of growth towards mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife.Learn how to avoid setbacks and continue to grow your intimacy on today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/EGYp9mwalPcDr. MikeP.S. Are you ready to become a stronger, more attractive man that sets an incredible example for generations to follow? And are you ready to create a stronger, more passionate marriage? The kind that’s full of mental, emotional and physical intimacy, and the kind you would love for your children to have one day?Apply to join us in Strong Men Strong MarriagesWe’ll help you:-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns-Repeat them until your brain is rewired to be attractive on defaultSo that you have the fun, passionate marriage that you’ve been waiting for.Let’s get to work! CLICK HERE to apply now. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me

You’re telling your wife “I love you” in person, in text or in email.But, she’s not saying it back.Or, if she does, she doesn’t seem to mean it.There’s a reason for this.Today you’ll learn:-Why the WAY you say I love you matters most-Why your wife is not attracted to how you’re saying I love you-What to do instead that will make it far more likely that you’ll get and “I love you” back from your wife.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to become a stronger, more attractive man and create a stronger, more passionate marriage? The kind that’s full of mental, emotional and physical intimacy, and the kind you would love for your children to have one day?Apply to join us in Strong Men Strong MarriagesWe’ll help you:-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns-Repeat them until your brain is rewired to be attractive on defaultLet’s get to work! CLICK HERE to apply now. 

Paul is the co-founder of Maniphesto and the podcast As Iron Sharpens Iron, a men's leadership training movement.In his words:I am on a mission to restore manhood. I call men to adventure and support them in finding a deeper sense of direction and purpose.I enjoyed this interview with him very much, and you can learn more about him at Maniphesto.com and Iron Sharpens Iron.

If your wife is asking for space, turning away from your kisses, avoiding your hugs, and saying “no” to sex…It can be VERY frustrating.Especially if you feel like you’re doing “all the right things.” Helping with cooking, cleaning, paying the bills, leading in prayer or scriptures. Can’t she do this ONE thing for you, after all you do for her?It’s easy to get sad in this situation. And resentful. To pull away from her completely. To become passive aggressive.It’s even common to turn to pornography. Some men even turn to other women for a physical connection.Then, they feel guilty. And maybe they try to “make it up” to her. But it still doesn’t result in a good physical connection.In today’s episode, we’ll discover:-Why your wife doesn’t want physical touch (It might not be you. It might be past trauma or “touch overload” from the kids)-If it IS you, why she isn’t interested in physical touchYou haven’t built the 3 Pillars Of A Passionate Marriage. Trust, communication and intimacy.Trust. She needs to feel like you’re a man of your word in all things. That you can manage your own thoughts and emotions. That you won’t lose your temper or act mopey if she says “no” to touch. That you’re not using her physically or emotionally through sex and physical touch. This lets her say “I feel completely safe with my husband.”Communication. She needs to say “I feel so heard and understood by my husband.” You need to be able to get to win-win agreements on money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion and time. You now feel like best friends and teammates in life. You have mental and emotional intimacy.Intimacy. Once you have safety and mental and emotional intimacy, you can add in the fun, flirting and passion that bring physical intimacy. The type you BOTH enjoy and look forward to.Learn more in today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S.  Ready to become a Strong Man who is ATTRACTIVE to his wife...And has the skills to create a Strong, Passionate Marriage?Apply to join Strong Men Strong Marriages today!You'll learn how to build the spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength that help you feel GREAT and become extremely ATTRACTIVE to your wife.And, build the skills to bring communication and intimacy to your marriage, so you have a marriage full of fun, smiles, and mental, emotional and physical intimacy.And set a great example for generations to follow.We'll help you:1. Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting2. Replace them with positive, attractive patterns3. Repeat those new patterns until you can't get them wrong. Until your brain is rewired and you are strong and attractive on default. This helps eliminate the "2 steps forward, 3 steps back" problem that some programs create.The best time to build these strengths and learn these skills was years ago. The second best time is today.In the next few months, your marriage can be full of fun, passion and intimacy.Or, it can be the same as it is now. Or worse.CLICK HERE to join Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Right now, you’re struggling to find love and respect at home.And it’s frustrating, because people at work and church do seem to give you respect. Maybe even love.They value your opinions. They appreciate what you do. They listen to you.But at home, your wife doesn’t do the same.You try to make her happy. You cook. You clean. You make the money for the family.But, it never seems to be enough. She doesn’t like how you do things. Or, she wants you do to more.And it doesn’t lead to the mental, emotional or physical intimacy that you want.This can be VERY frustrating.And, it can lead to you getting upset and “laying down the law.”You hope that will get you respect. And maybe it does. For a little while. While she’s afraid of your emotional outburst.But then, it’s back to the same old problems. And you’re not enjoying mental, emotional or physical intimacy with your wife.Learn what to do in today’s episode to become a truly loved and respected leader in your home.You’ll learn:-The 3 different types of leader… and why two of them will never get you love and respect-How to break out of the negative leadership patterns-How to become the type of leader who is loved and respected… while living true to Christian valuesWatch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S.  Ready to become a strong man who creates a strong marriage? If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE join The Strong Men Strong Marriages System.There are 3 ways that we can work together. Let’s get to work!

Imagine your wife writing down a list of what she wants in a husband. Would she write:I really want a man who:-Is afraid to tell me what he’s thinking and feeling-Bottles up his emotions until they explode-Is passive aggressive-Won’t ask for what he wants from me because he’s worried I might say no-Tries to make me happy while secretly becoming resentful-Won’t do what he believes is right because he thinks I won’t agree-Won’t have important discussions because he’s afraid of my emotional responseOf course not. These are all extremely unattractive qualities. They are cowardly. They are based in fear.And yet, many men do these exact things and hope their wives will be attracted to them.At the end of the day, your wife is attracted to a man who is strong and courageous. Being courageous requires that you do things that you are afraid to do.The definition of courage is: The state or quality of mind or spirit that enables one to face danger, fear, or vicissitudes with self-possession, confidence, and resolution; bravery.Sharing what you actually think and feel with your wife is scary. Do it anyway.Asking for what you want it scary. Your wife might say no. It exposes you mentally and emotionally. Do it anyway.*Caveat. Don’t go straight to asking for more sex. You need to build trust and mental and emotional intimacy first for her to actually WANT to have sex with you.Doing what you believe is right, even when your wife disagrees, is scary. Do it anyway.Choosing courage over cowardice is hard. Do it anyway. You’ll feel stronger for it. And, you’ll be far more attractive to your wife.Learn more in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S.  If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

In today's interview I discuss with John what it means to be a leader in your home.Visit John here:Instagram:  @last_in_line_leadershipYouTubePodcastWebsite Dr. MikeP.S.  If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

When your marriage is suffering, every day seems difficult.You look at your wife and wish things were different.Or, maybe you can’t even look at your wife because she’s not around.You wish that you could laugh and have fun together. That you would enjoy spending time together. And that you could have a great sexual connection.But right now, every day reminds you that you don’t have that.So, you start making some changes. And you start feeling better.But, your wife doesn’t notice. And you dip back into frustration, anger, and hopelessness.Instead of following this cycle, adopt the 1 year mindset.Decide that for the next year, you will focus on making yourself a better, more Christ-like man.That you will build your self-confidence and self-esteem. That you will manage your thoughts and emotions expertly (without losing your temper or indulging in self-pity).That you will reconnect with what brings you joy. That you will increase the strength of your relationship with God.That you will learn to communicate by listening well and asking for what you want.That you will learn how to bring fun, flirting and passion back to your relationship. Or bring it for the first time.When you make this commitment… NO MATTER WHAT your wife’s response…And commit to doing it for 1 year…You focus on what you CAN control. You become stronger and more attractive. And you guarantee that you WILL have an outstanding marriage full of mental, emotional and sexual intimacy.Either with your current wife, or your future wife.Learn more in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S.  If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Interview with Dana Che from Real Relationship Talk (also available here).We'll get a female perspective on what is and is NOT attractive when it comes to showing love to your wife.Dr. MikeP.S.  If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Sometimes marriage just seems too hard. At least to your wife.You feel like whatever you do, it just doesn’t make a difference. Your wife won’t change.You start to think life would be better with someone else.But, you also don’t want to hurt your kids or go against your faith and get divorced.This leads to you feeling trapped. You want to leave the marriage, but feel like you can’t.That feeling is terrible, and it is also very unattractive. So basically, you’re staying in the marriage but feeling awful and repelling your wife.Here’s what to do instead:Give yourself the option to leave, but count the costRealize that you are part of the problem and that you will create the same issues in your next relationship if you don’t fix themGive yourself a time frame to build up your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength and your trust, communication and intimacy skills while still in the marriage. I recommend a year.At the end of the year, determined if you will continue the marriage or notYou attract people to you who are at your same level of spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength. If you are a low level, you will attract someone at a low level.You create a great relationship through trust, communication and intimacy. You will need trust and communication as a co-parent to your kids if you get divorced. And hopefully, as you built trust and mental and emotional intimacy through communication, you can also build sexual intimacy.But if not, you will be able to get to win-win agreements with your wife and be a great example for your kids.So, commit to building your strength and skill in the new year. There’s no downside to becoming a better, stronger, more Christ-like man.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S.  If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Your wife is saying “I just need some space.”This is a hard thing to hear. You’re feeling hurt and scared. Angry too. Especially around Christmas and the holidays.So, you try to tell her why space is a bad idea. That you can’t grow if you have space apart.Which makes her tell you even more than she needs space.Or, you decide to have no contact with her at all. This is better then trying to talk her out of space. But it also doesn’t plant any seeds for a good relationship to grow.Instead, focus on giving her space effectively.The best ways to do this are:Create a “safe space” in the house or somewhere else. This is a place where she knows you will not intrude on her physically or mentally. This allows her to have the time to process her own emotions, relax, and feel safe.Encourage her to have time with her friends, family and therapy if she wantsTake care of yourself and build up your strength mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physicallyFocus on what you CAN control (your own thoughts, feelings and actions) instead of what you CAN NOT control (her thoughts, feelings and actions)Be patient. She wants space because you’ve planted “bad seeds” for years. In your mind, you need to have at least a year of planting consistent “good seeds” to get a good harvest.In today’s episode, you’ll also learn the main reasons she asks for space, and how to plant the “good seeds” that will result in a “good harvest” of connection and her WANTING to spend time with you down the road.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S.  If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Unconditional love is a popular topic these days. And it sounds great. Especially on the receiving end.Be loved no matter what I do? Sign me up!But, as Christians, it can also seem like a commandment. To love others no matter what they do to us.And it’s true. Jesus does ask us to be kind to those who are not kind to us. To bless them that curse us.And it’s important to do that in marriage. To not return evil for evil. If your wife has an affair, to not have one back. If your wife yells at you, to not yell back.But, we also can misunderstand this teaching. We can think that it also means we should be losing every day in our marriage so our wife can win. That we should just listen when she’s yelling at us. That we should just let her spend whatever she wants. That we should just deal with a marriage with no sex for years.Fortunately, this is NOT what Jesus taught. He taught us to love our neighbors AS ourselves. Equally to ourselves.We want to find things that work for BOTH of us with money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework and time.We want to respect our wives, AND respect ourselves.This is what creates a marriage that works long term. One where you BOTH feel like you’re winning every day.Learn more about how to create that in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S.  If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful, Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

What does it mean to be codependent in marriage?For most of the guys I work with, they identify with a few things.They put aside their own wants and needs in favor of what their wife wants and needs.They avoid doing anything that might upset their wife (like going out with friends, disagreeing with her, confronting her about problematic behavior, etc).They are constantly focused on meeting their wife’s wants and needs.They lose themselves in this process, finding it hard to identify what they enjoy doing anymore. Or if they can identify it, they don’t do it (like sports, hobbies, etc).Eventually, they start becoming resentful because they realize they are doing a lot for their wife, but their wife isn’t doing much for them.And, this can build up to an explosion that surprises their wife. Their wife didn’t even know they were frustrated, because they haven’t been able to express the small things they’ve wanted and needed for many years. And they’ve said all along that “things are fine,” when really they weren’t.Fortunately, we can fix this.Codependency comes from not having a strong sense of self worth. It’s also often formed from feeling the need to manage a parents’ emotions (or drug or alcohol problems or emotional distance or abuse). To fix it, we reconnect with a sense of self worth that’s based in God. We let our wife manage her own emotions and needs while we manage our own emotions and needs. We let go of that responsibility. We treat our wife kindly because that’s who we want to be. We ask for what we want effectively. And we create a marriage that feels like we’re winning every day for both you and your wife.Learn more about how to do this in today’s episode:Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S.  If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Do you wish that your wife would appreciate you more?Are you making the money for the family, taking a large amount of child care duties, cooking and cleaning…But your wife doesn’t appreciate all you’re doing? Or does she even become critical of the things you’re doing? Does she ask you do to even more, or give you negative feedback for the way you’re washing the dishes (or whatever the task might be)?This can be very frustrating. Why can’t she just see the good things you’re doing? Everyone else seems to be able to. You might even say things like “Why can’t you once in a while tell me the good things I’m doing!?”Unfortunately, this mindset will not help you get the appreciation you’re looking for.It’s part of the mosquito cycle. You’re doing nice things, but hoping for appreciation from her. When you don’t get it, you get upset. Then, you feel bad about getting upset and start doing nice things again.Instead of following this cycle, find the spiritual, mental and emotional strength to:-Appreciate and value yourself-Share appreciation-Ask for appreciation in a productive way by saying something like “I’m wanting to be a better husband. What am I doing now that you like?” And, if you’re emotionally strong enough, then ask for some positive feedback.Learn more about how to do this on today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S.  If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

If you’ve done something you know is wrong in your marriage, you might be thinking “I shouldn’t tell her because it might hurt her.”And it’s true. Telling her the truth will hurt her.But, continuing a lie will 100% keep you from having a great marriage.Great marriages are built on trust, communication and intimacy.Keeping a big, hurtful secret keeps trust out of the equation.It also limits communication, because you’re constantly on the lookout to make sure that your secret doesn’t come up. That limits mental and emotional intimacy.And when there’s low trust and superficial communication, sexual intimacy suffers.Telling the truth is hard. But there are some effective ways to do it.Give your wife a “warning shot.” Let her know something hard is coming.Tell her the whole truth.Let her have her emotional response.And manage your own thoughts and emotions well as she goes through her initial response and the grieving process as the weight of your mistakes “sinks in.”Learn more in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S.  If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Where are you failing right now in your marriage?Are you breaking promises? Looking at porn or recovering from infidelity?Are you losing your temper?Are you having a hard time listening to your wife (or does she think you don’t listen)?Do you have a hard time expressing yourself, feeling like you’re walking on eggshells?Do you lack the sexual connection that you want in your marriage?Failure is part of every hero’s journey. It’s the failure that makes success even sweeter.The mental, emotional and sexual connection that you want with your wife CAN be yours.But, like Rocky and Apollo Creed, Luke Skywalker and Yoda, and Maverick and Ice Man… A guide can help you stop failing and start succeeding much faster.Learn more about how and when to use a guide in your journey to a better marriage in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

You’re focused on becoming a better husband and father. You’re serving your wife, trying to listen, trying to do the five love languages… all of it.But, your wife still says things like “You’re making it about you.”This can be very frustrating, because you feel like your soul focus is on her!But, here’s the thing.If your goal is to be a better husband… that still is about you.What you want to try instead is to spend time each day getting into your wife’s shoes at a deep level.In particular, you want to try to understand her suffering. You want to have compassion. That’s what compassion is. To “suffer with.”As you do this, you will completely stop making it about you.Because if you are genuinely trying to experience the world as she experiences it…You have removed yourself from the equation. It’s not about you at all.I realized I hadn’t been doing this very well. My wife, however, does it often. And she has great relationships with the kids and her friends because of it.As I’ve implemented a daily practice of getting into her shoes and the kids shoes, and in particular trying to understand and feel their suffering…I’ve felt much closer to them and had inspiration on how to serve them better.It’s been very powerful and I wanted to share that practice with you today.It can’t be “about you” if you are really in your wife’s shoes (or your kids’ shoes).Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

If your wife has called you a narcissist, it can feel very hurtful.And you want to prove her wrong!So you go about telling her why you don’t really meet all the criteria.Which makes her even more sure that you are a narcissist.Instead, you need to:-Understand what narcissists are (get full criteria here)-Identify places where you ARE being narcissistic-Understand how those patterns of thinking, feeling and acting impact her (show empathy)-Change your patterns of thinking, feeling and acting to create REAL trust, communication and intimacy in your marriage-Get help to make those changes (a real narcissist thinks he can do it all on his own without help because he’s just that smart)Learn more in today’s episode:Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Today I have a bonus episode for you.I’m talking with Chris Grainger about how we have the fruits of the Spirit in our marriage.We talk about Galatians 5:22-23, which reads:But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.We discuss how to develop these traits, and how to access God’s grace to be able to demonstrate them in marriage.Chris is the founder of The Lion Within. He has a podcast and community of Christian men who are working to build each other while following Christ.Enjoy this bonus episode!Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

I used to feel like I couldn’t speak my mind around my wife.I was worried that she might get upset with me. Or that she might not agree and we would never reach an agreement. This spanned across all the major issues in marriage for us. Money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework and how we spent our time.I would say “well, I guess I’m sacrificing for my wife,” then resent the “sacrifices” I was making.For various reasons, men often feel they can’t speak their minds around their wife. And it gets even worse if they have done something truly wrong, like been unfaithful.But, here’s the truth.Walking on eggshells, is, at its core, lying to your wife.You’re hiding what you are truly thinking and feeling.And because of that, you can’t have trust, real communication, or deep intimacy.To stop walking on eggshells, you really need to commit to one thing:Doing what you believe is right and good, even if your wife doesn’t agree or like itThis is called having courage, or strength, or in a more vulgar expression, balls. It’s called having balls because it is masculine and courageous to do what’s right when others don’t agree. And, while your wife may not like it at first, she will respect it later.To do what you believe is right and good even if your wife doesn’t agree or like it, it requires that you believe a few things:Your opinion is just as important as your wife’sShe’s in charge or her emotions, not youYou also need to develop communication skills so that you can ask for what you want clearly and effectively. You need to know how to understand her perspective, express yours, and get to win-wins.And, you need to figure out what you’ll do if those requests are not granted.These are the skills required to stop walking on eggshells and create a marriage of trust, communication and intimacy.Learn about them in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to stop walking on eggshells once and for all? If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

A lot of men worry that it’s too late to change their marriage.Maybe they’ve tried couples counseling and it hasn’t worked.Maybe they’ve been married 20, 30, or even 40 years and it just seems like the old patterns are too set to change.Maybe they think that “it takes two to tango” and if their wife isn’t willing to change, then it’s hopeless.I can understand all of these thoughts.But, none of them will get you a better marriage.There are a lot of reasons that couples therapy doesn’t work. Up to 80% of couples are the same or worse off after couples counseling.Mainly, it doesn’t address the primary problem. Taking responsibility for changing your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting and changing them.As far as being married 20, 30 or 40 years, the truth is that as long as you can think you can change your marriage. And couples married 30+ years are seeing major changes in a few short weeks by applying the right principles.And finally, if you’re waiting for your wife to change, you are paralyzing yourself and guaranteeing that you will not change anything.You need to take the LEAD to create a new marriage. Your wife will likely follow.Learn more in today’s episode.Listen to the full episode on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

I used to think that it didn’t.  At least not for me. A guy who had an overall good upbringing.But, I recently did a hypnotherapy session with AJ Yager that changed my mind about this.And now, I’m implementing that learning with my clients with powerful results.Most high achieving me learned a certain lesson at some point:I need to take care of myself emotionally. No one else is going to. And, I have to take care of the emotions of people around me.And, I should stuff my emotions and get to work.Sometimes that lesson is learned through neglect as a child, sometimes through abuse, or drug or alcohol abuse by parents.Sometimes, that lesson is learned just by high expectations by parents or church or community, where you learn the lesson that to be loved and valued, you needed to achieve and be happy (or at least look happy).So, you learned to suck it up and get stuff done. And you have excelled at work because of this.But, at home, you are subconsciously reliant on your wife for the attention, appreciation and affection you wanted as a kid. The unconditional love that you wanted.So you’re needy with her. And you’re hard on your kids, because you are trying to enforce the same lesson of “just deal with it.”Fortunately, there’s a better way. You can mentally travel back in time and take care of that younger you. You can thank him for his service, and then let him be a kid and take care of him.You can access God’s power and Jesus’s power to let him know he’s OK and loved as he is.You can create a team that cares for that younger you. So now, you feel strong and solid at a very deep level. And you’re not as needy with your wife. And you’re a better father.Learn more in today’s episode, including details of my journey through this experience with AJ.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. To check out AJ’s work click here. Let him know you heard about him from me!P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

It’s easy to get discouraged when you’re trying to change your marriage.You put in a lot of effort. You feel the changes. But, your wife just doesn’t seem to see them.How long is it going to take? How long do you have to keep this up?Today we’ll talk about the #1 internal shift that you need to make.It’s about committing to change for “the long haul” instead of putting a timeframe on it.As soon as you put a timeframe, even if it’s subconscious, you start becoming impatient.You also can become hopeless if it doesn’t happen on your timeframe.Impatient and hopeless are not attractive emotional states.Instead, commit to change and improvement “for the long haul.”And not for her, but for you, for God, for your kids.Learn more about how to do this and why it works so well in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

What do you do when your wife says she would be fine if she never had sex again?You are certainly not fine with that idea. Why would she say such a thing?Today I’m joined by Amanda Louder at Amanda Louder Coaching and host of the Sex for Saints podcast.Her mission is to help Christian women embrace their sexuality and love their sex life.We discuss what your wife might be thinking when she says “I wouldn’t mind if we never had sex again…”How you can respond…And why it’s not as hopeless as it sounds.We also talk about how you might bring up working with Amanda to your wife if you think your wife might benefit from working with Amanda.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeIf you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

My wife and I are experiencing some disconnection right now.This happens at times in any marriage.But, what do you do to overcome it?Step 1 - Express your feelings, even when it might upset the other person. This isn’t just losing your temper, but explaining what you’re frustrated about. This requires spiritual, mental,  and emotional strength.Step 2 - Figure out what you actually want from the other person. This requires thought and effort.Step 3 - Ask for what you want. This requires courage and communication skills. Step 4 - Listen to what your wife wants. This requires mental and emotional strength and communication skills.Step 5 - Follow through on what you commit to do for your wife. This requires integrity.Finally, have faith that as you do good, good will come. This is the strategy my wife and I have used many times to overcome times of disconnection, and it’s what will work again this time.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. These are the skills that I teach high achieving Christian men in my program, Love, Intimacy And Legacy. You’ll learn how to get through times of minor and major disconnection to create love and connection and leave a great legacy for your children to follow.  CLICK HERE to apply to join Love, Intimacy And Legacy.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

This is one of the most common problems I see in the men I work with.It can be VERY frustrating to feel like you’re changing, but have your wife keep bringing up your past mistakes.What you have to understand about this is that your wife is HURT.And YOU are the one who hurt her.And over time, the wound you have caused her has become infected.And so, when you tell her to “get over it” or “move forward” or “trust you,” you’re basically trying to put a band aid on an infection.Instead, you need to:Deeply understand her pain. This is like letting the wound drain.Make permanent changes. This is what helps the wound heal.Learn about these principles in today’s episode:Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. To make permanent changes, you need to:Identify and eliminate negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and actingReplace those with positive, attractive patternsRepeat those new patterns over and over until you can’t get them wrongThese are the three steps we follow in my program, Love, Intimacy and Legacy.If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!P.P.S. Weekly wins from men in the program (anonymized for privacy):-Mental, emotional and sexual infidelity… even after infidelity-Fun at in-laws, where before it was always a pain-Turning old conflicts about parenting into more connection-Turning a bad mood from work into a good mood and enjoying a great evening with family

This is LONG overdue, but today you get to meet my wonderful wife Elizabeth!We had the chance to be interviewed by Chris and Suzanne Vester from the Faith. Family. Fulfillment podcast.Today you’ll hear from both of us about:-The negative patterns we had in our marriage-What it took to finally recognize them-What we did to overcome them-Her experience of me as a husband-How my owning my negatives changed our marriage for the betterYou’ll get a sense of just how amazing she is, and you will definitely be hearing more from her in the future on the podcast.Hear the full interview on today’s podcast on Strong Men Strong Marriages.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

After reading hundreds of books on marriage, dating and relationships, here are the books that have most shaped my thinking on how to help men with their marriages:-The Bible (In particular: Love your neighbor as yourself)-The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey-Leadership And Self-Deception by The Arbinger Institute-Passionate Marriage by David SchnarchAs an honorable mention:-How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale CarnegieEach of these books give powerful tools and ideas that can help you be a better man and have a better marriage.Learn more about this in today’s podcast on Strong Men Strong Marriages.Watch on YouTube here. But, books and podcasts are not enough to really transform your marriage.You have patterns of thoughts, feelings and actions that are deep in your brain.Learning something new from a book feels good, and maybe you make a few changes… but they don’t last. Because your brain hasn’t been rewired from unattractive to attractive.To really transform your life… so that you consistently act in Christlike ways towards your wife… even in difficult situations (turning you down for sex, spending too much money, criticizing you, etc)...You need to:-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns-Repeat those new patterns until you can’t get them wrongNow you “win” every interaction with your wife. Because you’re prepared for it. You win by acting in a Christlike way.That’s what I do as a coach. Help men prepare to “win” in their interactions with their wives by being Christlike men.When you do that, you feel amazing. You are far more attractive. And you set an example for your children and a legacy to follow.CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy and Legacy program.Rewire your brain so that you become the man that God, you, your wife and your kids want you to be.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to:-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Create new, attractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting-Repeat those new patterns until you can’t get them wrong So you can build yourself in to the man that God wants you to be, create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Anger is a God-given emotion.But, it can also be used for evil.The purpose of anger is to injure and destroy something.It can be used to instill fear in others so that they’ll do what we want. While it can work in the short term (like scaring our kids into doing their chores)...That is an evil use of anger, and one that will not create positive long term relationships.But, Jesus got angry sometimes. Like driving out the money changers or facing down the scribes and pharisees.So what was Jesus trying to destroy with his anger?Evil. His anger was paired with love for the people. He wanted evil destroyed so that people could rise to their full potential as sons and daughters of God.And we can use anger in the same way. Direct it towards evil. But start with yourself. Get your intentions in the right place. Then, move on to others. Help them recognize and defeat the evil that is lying to them and keeping them from feeling God’s love and reaching their potential.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…And get the coaching and accountability to help you get there much FASTER…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Whether you’re trying to improve your sex life, recover from infidelity, or stop a separation or divorce…It can be easy to get discouraged. You understand that you need to make some changes.And, maybe you’ve already made some and you’re feeling good about them.But, your wife isn’t responding how you would like. Or at least not as quickly as you would like.Today you’ll learn how to approach this common problem.It has to do with the Law Of The Harvest.What you sow is what you reap.How long it takes to change your marriage depends on 3 things:-How bad your negative “seeds” have been-How many of those seeds you have placed-Your wife’s disposition and temperamentThe thing is, you have no control over the third thing, although most men will focus there.Instead, focus on the one thing you can control: Getting rid of the bad seeds and placing only good seeds from now on.When you place good seeds… The type of thoughts, feelings and actions that are Christlike…And commit to doing that NO MATTER WHAT your wife does…A good harvest WILL come. It’s inevitable.And the sooner you take that approach, the faster your marriage will change.It’s a paradox, but the less you focus on speeding up the process…And the more you commit to making the changes no matter how long it takes…The faster the process will happen.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/8OzotJI4we8Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…And get the coaching and accountability to help you get there much FASTER…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Most men ask me “What should I do?”What should I do so my wife has sex with me more?What should I do to win my wife’s trust back after infidelity?What should I do to end my separation and win my wife back?Unfortunately, this is the wrong question. You see, it’s not really what you DO that matters.You can DO the right things, like buy your wife flowers.But, if you’re feeling anxious and needy…And have the intention of getting her to have sex with you when you give them to her…Your wife will NOT be attracted to you.It takes 3 steps to genuinely change into a man who is permanently irresistible to his wife:Step 1 - Identify and eliminate all negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and actingStep 2 - Replace them with positive, attractive patterns of thinking, feeling and actingStep 3 - Repeat those new patterns of thinking, feeling and acting until you can’t get them wrongThis simple process rewires your brain on a permanent level, so you go from unattractive to your wife…To irresistible. Permanently.Learn more about these steps in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create a marriage full of love, laughter and passion by rewiring his brain to become permanently attractive to his wife…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call.I look forward to speaking with you!

According to famous marriage researcher John Gottman, what’s the #1 thing that women want from a man?Trustworthiness.And what do women want to trust you to do?To protect them. Physically and emotionally.They want to know that you will keep them safe.The main complaints women have about men are:“He’s never there for me” and “there’s not enough intimacy and connection.”These complaints both speak to the idea that their man is not physically protecting them by being present and he’s not emotionally protecting them by genuinely listening and valuing her.Learn how to be the “tender defender” that keeps her body and her heart protected…So she can feel safe with you and be extremely attracted to you…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create a marriage full of love, laughter an passion by building up his spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call.I look forward to speaking with you!

Last week we talked about how to recover if you had an emotional affair.This week we’re talking about what to do if your wife had an emotional affair.This is a very difficult time for you. You feel betrayed, angry, and depressed.You’re not sure if you should try to stay, try to win her back, or leave her.You don’t know what you should do about this other guy.You can feel frozen as far as what to do.In this episode you’ll discover:-How to process the emotions that you’re feeling effectively-How to take a look at what you can improve in your marriage-How to talk to your wife about the affair-How to bring back trust, communication and intimacy-How to decide what to do about your wife’s affair (stay, leave, or in between)We'll cover emotional affair definition, emotional affair signs, emotional affair stages and emotional affair recovery.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is looking to rebuild his marriage after an emotional affair…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.https://mikefraziermd.com/love-connection-and-intimacy-program/You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. You can get through this. I look forward to speaking with you.

An emotional affair does major damage to a marriage. Your wife feels angry, depressed and betrayed.You feel guilty, but are not sure what to do to fix it.You’ve broken off the relationship, but your wife still brings it up often.Fortunately, there are steps you can take to recover after an emotional affair.You need to:-Identify and change the reasons why you had the emotional affair-Rebuild trust-Improve communication-Restore intimacyLearn how to take positive steps forward after you had an emotional affair in today’s episode.We'll cover emotional affair definition, emotional affair signs, emotional affair stages and emotional affair recovery.In next week’s episode we’ll be talking about what to do if your wife had an emotional affair.You’ll want to listen to that one as well because it will help you understand her perspective much better.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is looking to rebuild his marriage after an emotional affair…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. 

Justin felt like he needed to change or he was going to lose all connection with his wife and end up as roommates.Nikki felt like she “didn’t need Justin” and “couldn’t count on him to do anything.”Their relationship felt co-dependent and strained, and their physical connection was not where either one wanted it to be.Justin decided to join the program (without telling Nikki at first).Nikki was surprised by how fast and how extensive Justin’s changes were.Justin feels more confident, honest, and closer to God than ever.Nikki feels she can trust Justin and feels more loved, admired and valued by Justin than she ever has before.Their physical connection is “exponentially better” according to Nikki.Tune in to hear their story today. I recommend watching the video to see how loving their interaction is.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you want yours to be the next success story… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

Infidelity breaks the main foundation of a great marriage: trust.So, how do you rebuild trust after infidelity?Some men think that it’s by apologizing, moving forward, and having her decide to trust you again.But it’s actually the opposite.You need to really dig into her pain for as long as it takes.You need to understand it completely before you can move forward.And you have to understand that she can’t trust you. It’s not something she can give. It’s something that you have to build.Learn more in today’s episode.You absolutely can rebuild trust after infidelity.But you have to avoid the common mistakes and take the right steps to do it.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife (even after infidelity)...CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

If you’re not having the amount or type of sex you would like with your wife…You are doing things that are turning her off.As I’ve worked with high achieving Christian men, there are three main ways that men turn their wife off.Being an emotional terrorist.Acting like a baby.And being a parasite.Learn what these mean…How to stop doing them…And what to do instead…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants a better sex life with his wife…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

Right now you want your marriage to change.You want more attention, appreciation, affection and sex for your wife.You feel like you’ve tried lots of things, and maybe they’ve helped some.But, you’re still not where you want to be.Here’s the problem.You’re not using the 3 keys to transform your marriage.You need to commit to changing yourself NO MATTER WHAT your wife does.You need to commit to getting outside help to see your blind spots and treat the “personality cancer” that is destroying your relationships.And, you need accountability to make sure that your changes are consistent over time.Without these three keys, you will:-Fall into the mosquito cycle and try to change so that your wife changes. This will lead to you being anxious and manipulative, which will drive her away.-Miss your blind spots, so you will continue to do problematic things that you don’t even realize you’re doing-Make changes for a while, then stop doing them because you don’t have the accountability to keep them upLearn more about these ideas on today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you are a high achieving Christian man and are ready to commit to: -Changing NO MATTER WHAT-Getting coaching to see your blind spots and treat your “personality cancer”-Having accountability to make sure your changes are consistent and permanentCLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

You’re trying to get your wife’s attention, appreciation and affection.You’re cooking, cleaning, making the money, and helping with the kids.You’re shutting down activities that you enjoy to spend more time with her.And despite all your sacrifices…It’s not working!You don’t have the mental, emotional and sexual intimacy you want with your wife.There’s good news.You’re a guy who puts in the effort.You’re just directing that effort incorrectly.A passionate marriage is built on 3 pillars:TrustCommunicationAnd Intimacy.Learn how to build all three in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…And get the coaching and accountability to help you get there much FASTER…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

You’re working hard to change your marriage.You’re listening to podcasts, reading books, and learning as much as you can.And you’re seeing some changes.But you’re not where you want to be.Why is that?When it comes to changing your behavior in relationships…You have blind spots.Just like everyone else.And you can either humble yourself enough to get the help to see them…And make changes in days or weeks that would take you years on your own…Or you can keep chasing your tail, making little steps…But never quite getting the results you want.I know this first hand.I tried “do it myself” for YEARS.Until I finally humbled myself enough to get coaching.And made monumental shifts in just a few weeks.And you’ll hear my story… and how it turned out…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…And get the coaching and accountability to help you get there much FASTER…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

What does your dream marriage look like?For most of the guys I talk to, it involves being great friends, aligned on big goals, supporting each other, having fun together, and enjoying a great sex life.Being connected spiritually, mentally, emotionally and sexually connected.But, you’re probably not spending much time envisioning that marriage.Probably because you think it’s just not possible.That with your situation, with your wife, it’s just not going to happen.So you start escaping into pornography or fantasizing about other women… Or turning to food or work or alcohol or social media to numb your disappointment.What I’ve learned recently is the power of our dreams.That sounds cheesy, but there’s actual research behind it.Right now you’re picturing (dreaming of) a negative future for yourself. So subconsciously, you’re CREATING that negative future.Instead, you need to actively create the future relationship that you want in your mind…And spend time there each day.Then ask yourself… What kind of husband do I need to be to create that kind of relationship?Then picture yourself becoming that man.That vision will pull you towards it, helping you become the man that creates an amazing marriage.Learn more about these ideas in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to working with you!

This weekend was powerful for me.As I went through significant struggles recently, a workshop I attended reminded me of my main job.To align myself with God and do His work.To use my skills in alignment with how God wants me to use them.For myself. With my wife. With my kids. And in my business.As a simple and powerful exercise, ask yourself:What’s God’s message for me today?Then write that down. And share it as appropriate.The message and podcast today I feel are the message God wanted me to share.And that feels great.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to build a strong relationship with God so you can be a strong, attractive leader and create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.If this calls to you, CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.We’ll talk soon.

What is vulnerability?The dictionary describes it as being easily hurt, influenced or attacked.That doesn’t sound very sexy.But, Brene Brown and others have redefined vulnerability in a way that IS attractive.That is being courageous enough to risk emotional exposure.This week was a hard week for me, and I exposed myself (emotionally) to my wife at a deeper level than I ever have.It took courage, but resulted in more intimacy, more commitment, and a lot of growth from me.Learn the right and wrong ways to be vulnerable with your wife…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube (with me on camera for the first time!) here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to become the strong, attractive man that God wants you to be.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.Let’s get to work my friend!

If you’re not having the passionate sex that you want in your marriage…You’re probably making some of the common mistakes that high achieving Christian men make.There are common, unattractive ways of thinking, feeling and acting towards sex…That IMMEDIATELY turn your wife OFF.Learn what these are…And how to replace them with ATTRACTIVE ways of thinking, feeling and acting…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to become the strong, attractive man that God wants you to be.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.Let’s get to work my friend!

Many men I talk to are surprised by the problems in their marriage.They just don’t understand why their wife doesn’t want to have sex with them.Why she had an emotional or sexual affair.Why she wants a separation or divorce.This episode will help you know EXACTLY why these things happen…And how to fix the underlying problems.So that you can create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife and have the marriage that God wants for you.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to become the strong, attractive man that God wants you to be.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.Let's get to work!

You’re trying to win your wife back.Whether that’s wanting to have sex more often, avoid or end a separation, or avoid a divorce.And, maybe you’re starting to make positive changes.The changes your wife has asked for from you for a long time.You’re listening more. Prioritizing her. Getting her gifts.But, she’s not impressed.She doesn’t get excited. She doesn’t say thank you. She barely even notices the effort you’re putting in.Or, she’s even negative about these changes.Saying things like “well, I hope it lasts” or “too little too late.”She is TESTING you through these reactions.And, it’s the RIGHT thing for her to do.You’ll NEED to pass these tests if you want to create a strong marriage.Learn how to pass ALL of these tests…Without even trying…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual intimacy you want with your wife.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Let’s get to work my friend!

Most high achieving Christian men think that to have a more intimate marriage…They need to DO something different.Communicate better.Buy more gifts. Spend more time. Do the right service for their wife.And if that were the case, then marriage counseling would always work.Because that’s what most marriage counselors focus on.Doing. Action. Skills.But, often, DOING a good thing…Like using marriage communication skills…Actually leads to MORE problems.Find out why in today’s episode.And, find out how to get out of this trap and create consistent and deep mental, emotional and sexual connection with your wife… and a legacy of love for generations.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to improve your relationship 10x faster TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual connection you want with your wife.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.

What does it mean to “be a man?”Today, there’s more confusion than ever about this.There’s even a term, “toxic masculinity,” that makes it seem like it’s toxic to have male character traits.Fortunately, there is a perfect example of manhood that we can follow…Jesus.Learn how to use your God-given male gender and character traits to create the powerful life and intimate marriage that you want in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to improve your relationship 10x faster TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual connection you want with your wife.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.

As you start to make positive changes in your life and marriage, it’s exciting.You feel better and your wife starts to build some hope.But then, a setback happens.You go back to old patterns.You break her trust.And now it seems that all is lost.But, there’s a way out of this.And actually, these setbacks can be used to create MORE connection with your wife.Learn how in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to improve your relationship 10x faster TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual connection you want with your wife.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.

Do you feel like your marriage is unfair?That you’re doing so much, but not getting attention, appreciation or affection from your wife?Do other people seem to notice all the work you’re putting in, but your wife doesn’t?If you’re thinking this way…You’re in the martyr mindset.And, you’re viewing your wife or your marriage as an affliction.As a thorn in your side.As arthritis that you have to deal with.Do you think your wife likes to be compared to arthritis?Learn how to get out of this mindset…So you can create REAL mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.And, if you’re ready to improve your relationship 10x faster TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual connection you want with your wife.Dr. MikeP.S. How long do you want to wait before creating an amazing relationship with your wife? Make today the day you start the journey. If you could have done it on your own, you already would have. Get the coaching and accountability you need to get the marriage of your dreams… fast.CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.

You want a better mental, emotional and sexual connection with your wife.You’re listening to podcasts, watching videos, reading books.And maybe you’re seeing some changes… but they’re not quite what you want.Or, they’re not happening as fast as you would want.That’s because you’re missing the two key drivers that accelerate improvement by AT LEAST 10x:Accountability and coaching.Learning what to do is important.But following through is more important.And most people (including me and probably you) are much better at follow through when someone is watching and checking.And, once you do follow through, you need coaching to show you what worked, what didn’t work, and what you need to do differently.This is the formula to improve your marriage AT LEAST 10x faster.Learn more in today’s episode.(Watch on YouTube here.) And, if you’re ready to improve your relationship 10x faster TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual connection you want with your wife.Dr. MikeP.S. How long do you want to wait before creating an amazing relationship with your wife? Make today the day you start the journey. If you could have done it on your own, you already would have. Get the coaching and accountability you need to get the marriage of your dreams… fast.CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.

You want your wife to love you more.You want to feel a powerful mental, emotional and sexual connection with your wife.But, there are some obstacles in the way of that connection.Some may be obvious, like an affair or pornography.Some might not be as obvious. Like neglecting your wife over time.Either way, these obstacles need to be removed.And, you may be working to remove them and feel good about that.But, your wife usually responds to your changes with indifference, or even with anger.What’s going on here?And what do you do about it?How do you remove the obstacles to her loving you, and become much easier to love?Find out in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

My date night started off bad.But, I was able to use the skills that I’ve learned to turn it around.Learn how at the beginning of the episode.As part of our date night, we took a personality test.I found that I have a “powerful choleric” personality (and you probably have some of it too).This personality is driven, productive and gets a lot done.But, they are also prone to being proud and judgmental.Learn what Jesus taught about this…And how to use the positive elements of your personality, while controlling the negatives…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Next week I’m opening up the Love, Intimacy And Legacy program. It’s for you if you are a Christian man who wants to create a loving, intimate connection with his wife so you can leave a legacy of Christ-like love and leadership for your children, grandchildren and future generations. It can start with you. CLICK HERE to apply. I’ll review your application and contact you with next steps.

Do you feel like you’re doing everything you can to have a great marriage…But it’s just not happening?You’re making the changes your wife wants you to make, but she still doesn’t want to have sex with you?Or she isn’t forgiving you for your mistakes, isn’t willing to end a separation or divorce?You may be caught in what Stephen Karpman called “The Karpman Drama Triangle.”Learn how to step out of this so that you can…-Feel loved and confident in your marriage-Communicate to get a deep mental and emotional connection with your wife-Create incredible intimacy in your marriageFind out what to start and stop doing in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Are you a self-motivated, goal-oriented man (or couple) with Christian values who wants to create love, connection and intimacy in your marriage? CLICK HERE to apply to work with me. I’ll review your answers and reach out for next steps.P.P.S. Want more love, connection and intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/more-intimate-marriage

What will make you happy in your marriage?If your wife has sex with you more?If she forgives you and comes back?If she stops the divorce?Most men think this way. That they will be happy when their wife does something different.But, what if she didn’t have to do anything for you to be truly happy?And what if your happiness is what led to her opening up to you and connecting with you emotionally and sexually?Fortunately, you CAN be happy in your marriage BEFORE your wife changes anything.And your happiness is exactly what will lead to the changes you’re hoping for.Find out how this works in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Interested in working together to improve your relationship with God, yourself and your wife? Schedule a marriage assessment call with me here. P.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/more-intimate-marriage

Would you like to know how to have loving relationships for the rest of your life?I recently realized that my main goal in life is to have loving relationships with God, myself, my wife, and each of my kids.If I can do that, then I will have lived a great life.I was reminded this week of a secret that can help me reach that goal.And that, in fact, puts that goal 100% within my reach.Learn the secret that makes this possible in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/BP6C7uZy9UcDr. MikeP.S. In the next few weeks, I’ll be opening up my program for new members. It’s going to be the best and most effective version of the program yet.P.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/more-intimate-marriage

This week I got upset with my kids again for beating me in a game.This time, though, I took the time to really sit with my emotions and understand why this has been such a problem for me.What I uncovered was a deep issue with my identity.That identity was: I am the best.While this may seem like the kind of affirmation that would get you everything you want in life…For me it caused a lot of problems. With myself, my wife, my kids and my business.Learn why focusing on “being the best” can be a problem…And a more freeing, but still motivating, identity and purpose you can use instead…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. In the next few weeks, I’ll be opening up my program for new members. It’s going to be the best and most effective version of the program yet.P.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. 

If you’ve been following along with the intimacy intensive series, you’ve learned that women are attracted to strength.So, you may be wanting to build your strength.But, that strength needs to be built on a solid foundation.If you want to build strength mainly so that you can save your marriage or have more sex with your wife…You are built on a sandy foundation.At its core, this reason is still manipulative and controlling. You’re changing to change her behavior.And, therefore, building strength for her is very unattractive.And, if your wife has already separated from you, she knows that if she comes back, you’ll be back to your old self. Because your motivation to change (getting her back) is now gone.On the other hand, deciding to build strengths because that’s who you want to be as a man is strong and attractive.You have control over this outcome, where you have no control over the other (your wife’s decisions).And, if you anchor who you want to be as a man and husband to who God wants you to be, you are building on the ultimate strong foundation (in my Chrisitan beliefs and opinion).You feel good about your decision and who you are, and that feels strong and is attractive.Learn more about building strength and making changes for attractive vs unattractive reasons in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. In the next few weeks, I’ll be launching the updated version of The Strong Man System. It’s going to be the best and most effective version yet.P.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/more-intimate-marriage

Last week I attended a writing workshop through Scribe. It was an amazing experience, but one of the most meaningful parts was getting clear on who I can help best.In this episode, I describe clearly the type of person with the type of problem I feel especially able to help with.I call him John.John is a professionally successful Christian man who has a good marriage… except for the sex.But, if you dig a little deeper, you’ll see that it’s really a deep sense of feeling trapped.He tries so hard to make his wife happy, but it never translates to sex.He feels he’s getting all the responsibilities of marriage with none of the benefits.He wants to be committed to his wife sexually, but since she won’t have sex with him, what is he supposed to do?He sometimes turns to pornography, then feels guilty about this. He sometimes thinks he’d be better off with another woman (like maybe women at work or even at church who admire him), then feels guilty about those thoughts.He’s asked his wife to have more sex, but it never results in lasting change.What is John to do? He wants to be a good man, and he feels like he’s being a good husband. Checking off the boxes of what should result in him having a great marriage and a great sex life.But it’s not working. And leaving his wife or turning to pornography or another women don’t line up with his Christian values.He feels extremely frustrated and trapped.Learn more about John’s struggles in today’s episode.If John sounds like you, then I can help you.If he doesn’t, you’re probably better off finding another coach who can help you better.Watch on YouTube here. Fortunately, there’s a way out of this. You can feel free and have an amazing sex life with your wife.That’s what I help men do and we’ll talk more details in the next episode.Dr. MikeP.S. In the next few weeks, I’ll be launching the updated version of The Strong Man System. It’s going to be more fun and better than ever.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. 

Last week we learned about the common mistakes men make when trying to have more intimacy with their wife.The main problem is that these methods are NEEDY, WEAK and SELFISH.Women always have been and always will be attracted to…STRENGTH.In old times, physical or financial strength was enough.But, now that women can provide for themselves financially, they are looking for men who are strong in ALL areas.Physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and sexual.Today we’ll talk about what I believe is the MOST important strength…And how you can start developing it TODAY to have more intimacy with your wife.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

Over the next few weeks we’ll be doing a short “intimacy intensive” course.This will help you to start the new year with improved intimacy with your wife.Today we’re going to talk about the 3 problematic approaches that men take when they want more intimacy with their wife.-The Mosquito Method-The Pout Method-The “You Owe Me” MethodAll three of these are based on neediness and weakness, and will eventually lead to LESS passion and intimacy in your marriage.Learn what these methods are, and how to stop them, in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

I’ve been sick in bed with COVID all this week, so today I’m going to refer you to a different podcast.The Joe Rogan Experience - #1747 - Dr. Peter A McCullough Dr. McCullough is a renowned physician and has testified in congress regarding COVID treatment.In this episode, you’ll hear Dr. McCullough’s concern about the glaring lack of treatment for COVID-19.You’ll also hear why he believes masks don’t really make sense, and how you can not get COVID twice.His solution to beat the pandemic is focusing on natural immunity and treatment for the virus to avoid hospitalization and death.If you want to hear me say basically this in a sick voice, Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/H6CVWbAZm9wDr. MikeP.S. Want a better, more intimate marriage with your wife? Come join The Strong Man System. It will be worth your $2500, or you get your $2500 back. CLICK HERE to join. P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. 

You’re probably setting some goals for the new year right now.But, before you do, listen to this episode.You may be setting goals for all the WRONG reasons…Which will SABOTAGE your success…Or make your success less sweet.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Want a better, more intimate marriage with your wife? Come join The Strong Man System. It will be worth your $2500, or you get your $2500 back. CLICK HERE to join. P.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. 

It’s Christmas this week and a great time to get to know Jesus better.Over the past few months, I feel like I’ve finally started to understand Jesus better.Instead of trying to EARN my salvation and “try to be like Jesus,”I’ve started to focus on letting Him into my life.I feel more free, easy and abundant than I ever have.And that’s available to you too.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Want a better, more intimate marriage with your wife? Come join The Strong Man System. It will be worth your $2500, or you get your $2500 back. CLICK HERE to join. P.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. 

When I ran track in middle school, my coach told me…“Imagine there’s a big dog chasing you.”That DID motivate me to run faster (especially since I had been attacked by a dog a few years earlier).For high achieving men, the “dog” motivating them to “run faster” is often the feeling of not being good enough.They reach for higher and higher levels of financial and professional success, hoping to finally feel they have “arrived.”And this strategy DOES work to achieve high levels of financial and other success (though it eventually gets frustrating).But it fails MISERABLY in marriage.You try everything you can to “make your wife happy…”But that’s not your REAL motivation.You’re doing nice things for her so that she can give you attention, appreciation and affection.So you can finally feel like a strong, sexually attractive man.In other words, you are USING her to feel good about YOURSELF.And that is EXTREMELY unattractive.Learn the solution to all of this in today’s episode.How to get rid of the dog, but still be motivated to be the type of man you were meant to be.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. Want a better, more intimate marriage with your wife? Come join The Strong Man System. It will be worth your $2500, or you get your $2500 back. CLICK HERE to join. 

If you’re a human male, you’re going to get mad sometimes.But, how you handle that anger will have a BIG impact on how attractive you are to your wife... And how you’re viewed by everyone else.Learn how to stop the “volcano method”(Acting like everything is fine and then exploding over something small)And the “coping method”(Escaping anger and other negative emotions with alcohol, drugs, pornography, or food)In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you want to learn my best tools to build your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength, come join The Strong Man System. It will be worth your $2500, or you get your $2500 back. CLICK HERE to join. P.P.S. Trying to save your marriage? Watch my free training, The 3 Fatal Mistakes High Achieving Men Make When Trying To Save Their Marriage… And What To Do Instead. CLICK HERE to watch now. 

About 1 in 10 women suffer from depression.About 1 in 4 suffer from anxietyAbout 1 in 4 have been through sexual trauma.If your wife is suffering from depression, anxiety or PTSD, she’s not alone.And neither are you.Supporting a wife who is struggling with depression, anxiety or PTSD can be very difficult.Today I’ll share the most helpful tips that have helped me and my wife as she has dealt with all three of these issues.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY… (even if she's struggling with depression, anxiety or PTSD)...CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to become the strong, attractive man that God wants you to be.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.Let’s get to work my friend!

For some people, the holidays are a time of joy.For others, they are very difficult.If you’re struggling in your marriage, you may be separated from your wife or children.It can be easy to slip into sadness, anger and resentment… or into bad habits to try to get rid of these feelings.But, there is an antidote that can help.And that’s gratitude.And that’s not just “counting your blessings.”It’s finding gratitude and meaning in your SUFFERING as well.Learn how to do that in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to join The Strong Man System? CLICK HERE to join.  It will be worth the $2500, or you get your $2500 back. Or, if you’d like to ask a few questions first, CLICK HERE to schedule a 20 minute consultation with my team. 

Many of us try to avoid conflict.It’s uncomfortable to disagree with someone (to their face).But, KNOWING what is important to you…And STANDING UP for that…Even and ESPECIALLY when others disagree with you…Is what having a backbone is all about.In marriage, you need to have the backbone to stand up FOR your wife (by protecting her).You also need to have the backbone to stand up TO your wife.To be willing to disagree with her… while STILL having her best interests at heart.Learn how to do this in a skillful, mature and attractive way in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to join The Strong Man System to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself… giving yourself the BEST chance of saving your marriage and enjoying a great sex life with your wife? CLICK HERE to join.  It will be worth the $2500, or you get your $2500 back. Or, if you’d like to ask a few questions first, CLICK HERE to schedule a 20 minute consultation with my team. 

Many men are sexually frustrated in their marriage.They tell their wife they want to have more sex, but she just doesn’t seem interested.She says that she doesn’t want to feel “pressured” or “obligated” to have sex.So, men will back off and not bring up sex at all, hoping it will relieve the pressure…While their own sexual frustration builds higher and higher.What’s the solution?As a husband, you need to learn to seduce your wife.You need to understand what takes a woman from not thinking about sex…To WANTING to have sex with you.If you waited to have sex until marriage (which I believe in), you may have never learned this skill.Seducing your wife is a process…And one you can learn…And have FUN learning on today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

Jesus said:“"I am the true vine...Remain in me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:1-5In The Strong Man System, we are trying to build strength across these areas:Spiritual (self-worth, mission, purpose and integrity)MentalEmotionalPhysical andSexualThe changes or good works we do in these areas are the “fruit” of the program.And, the tools you learn in the program will help you bear some fruit.But, you’ll be able to do much MORE…And avoid the inevitable burnout of trying to make these changes on your own…If you attach yourself to the “true vine” through this process.See how Jesus can help you with building these areas of strength, ESPECIALLY your sense of self-worth, in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to join The Strong Man System to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself (ideally by deciding to connect with Jesus)… giving yourself the BEST chance of saving your marriage? CLICK HERE to join.  It will be worth the $2500, or you get your $2500 back. Or, if you’d like to ask a few questions first, CLICK HERE to schedule a 20 minute consultation with my team. 

Men come to me in very difficult situations.They are in a separation or in the divorce process.Their wife has been unfaithful to them.They have been unfaithful to their wife and feel terrible about it.These are MAJOR issues and VERY difficult.They are the equivalent of being hit by an emotional bus.And when this happens, we ARE in a younger emotional state.In a way, we are babies.But how do high achieving men respond?They tell themselves to “just deal with it.”They “just keep moving forward.”But unfortunately, by not acknowledging and taking care of the “baby…”They start acting in negative and self-destructive ways…And become MORE reliant on others to care for them emotionally.Learn how to respond APPROPRIATELY to your emotional “baby” when hard things happen…So you can trust yourself and become LESS reliant on others to care for you.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to join The Strong Man System to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself… giving yourself the BEST chance of saving your marriage? CLICK HERE to join.  It will be worth the $2500, or you get your $2500 back. 

We all have things we would like our wife to do for us.We want more attention, appreciation or affection.We want to have sex more often.We want our wife to spend less money, cook more, clean more, or spend more time with our family (or less time with hers).Why isn’t our wife doing the things we want?Often it’s because we’re not ASKING for what we want in an EFFECTIVE way.We either don’t ask at all... Try mosquito mode (doing nice things for her and HOPING she returns the favor)...Or we COMPLAIN about what we DON’T like.All of these are immature and unattractive…And not EFFECTIVE in getting what we want.Instead, use the pattern established by Aristotle to create an effective, persuasive request.Ethos, pathos, logos.Learn how to do this in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to join The Strong Man System to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself… giving yourself the BEST chance of saving your marriage? CLICK HERE to join. It will be worth the $2500, or you get your $2500 back. Or, if you’d like to ask a few questions first, CLICK HERE to schedule a 20 minute consultation with my team.

Most men come to The Strong Man System wanting to change their outside situation.They want their wife to come back.They want to stop a separation or divorce.They want to restore trust after infidelity.They want a better sex life.And, The Strong Man System CAN help them do this.Just not in the way they think at first.Here’s what a few graduates of the program have said:The Strong Man System is a “revamp of your heart and brain.”It teaches you to become the “best version of yourself.”It teaches you to “have the best communication you’ve ever had.”Through the program, you’ll build up your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.You’ll develop excellent communication skills.And you’ll learn how to create passion, fun, and intimacy.You’ll learn to live in a world where, in your important relationships, you BOTH feel like you’re winning.Once you experience it, you’ll never accept anything less.Today is the LAST CHANCE for 2021 to join The Strong Man System for $2500 and get 90 days of support included.That includes my help with your apology letter, 90 days of access to my hand-picked mentor, 90 days of unlimited Q&A with me, and 90 days of access to office hours with me.CLICK HERE to join The Strong Man System.And to learn more about what the program includes and does…Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/3_s3s-eHnz8Dr. MikeP.S. If you wait to join until after today, you’ll pay $4000 or more for the program plus 90 days of support and help with your apology letter. CLICK HERE to join The Strong Man System now. 

Counseling and coaching are often confused.When would you choose a marriage counselor vs a marriage coach?For the most part, it’s about choosing an approach that fits with your beliefs, values and preferences.In this episode, we cover some of the main marriage counseling schools of thought…As well as the coaching method…And finally my personal approach to marriage coaching.Watch on YouTube here.To me, it’s about learning a particular set of skills that allows you to have an outstanding marriage.My job is to teach you what those skills are, have you practice them, and then coach you to improve those skills.I’m a good fit for high achievers who want to learn a skill, are ready to work 1.5 to 2 hours per day to learn it, and are looking for expert feedback to speed up their progress.If that’s you, for this week only I’m making a special offer to podcast listeners and email subscribers.Normally you get 90 days access to The Strong Man System for $2500, with the option to add additional services (apology letter help, Q&A, mentors, and office hours) for $500 per month.But, from now until next Tuesday, October 12th at midnight Pacific time, for your $2500 investment, you’ll get LIFETIME access to the online materials, my help with your apology letter, PLUS 90 days of access to my hand-picked mentors, UNLIMITED Q&A with me, and access to my office hours to talk and coach 1 on 1.You will pay $1500-$2500 for these bonuses if you wait until after the deadline.So, CLICK HERE to join now.I’m looking forward to working with you.Dr. MikeP.S. For more information, visit http://mikefraziermd.com

Most people say the biggest problem in their marriage is communication.But, most people can’t figure out how to FIND and FIX their marriage communication problems.Today I’m going to share with you my favorite tool to fix marriage communication…And share a real life example so you can see how to use this tool.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to join The Strong Man System? Restore trust, improve communication, and ignite intimacy… in just 30 days. It’s the best $2500 you’ll ever spend. CLICK HERE to join, or if you’d like to ask my team a few questions about the program first, CLICK HERE.P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. 

What do you want to accomplish in your marriage?In your career?With your money?As a high achieving man, you’re used to setting goals and reaching them.But why is it that when you reach them, you STILL don’t feel fulfilled?Why do you immediately start seeking the NEXT big goal?Why do you tend to spend money or pick a fight with your wife or get mad at your kids…Right when things seem to be going well?You’ll find answers to these questions in today’s episode, which is a summary of some of the concepts from the book Driven by Douglas Brackmann.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/savemymarriage

Have you ever asked your wife… “What do you do for me?”So have I. And so have most of my clients.How did it go for you?Did your wife become more loving and connected?Or angry, hurt or guilty?Learn why this question is terrible…And what to do instead to have your wife start doing more for you…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Interested in joining The Strong Man System but want to chat first to see if it’s a fit? Schedule a 20 minute Marriage Assessment here. We’ll talk about where you are in your marriage, where you want to go, and if we’re a fit to work together. Whether we work together after or not, I want this to be the best 20 minutes you’ve spent on your marriage. CLICK HERE to schedule your Marriage Assessment.P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/savemymarriage

My wife and I were both born and raised members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.A few years back, my wife started to have some questions about the Church.This was VERY hard on me… to the point that I thought if she wasn’t going to be a member of the Church, it would be better if we got divorced.Fast forward to now, we have both evolved in our faith and belief in God…And have a STRONGER marriage because of our “faith crisis.”This is more of a personal episode, sharing what helped us get through it and build MORE intimacy because of our LDS faith crisis.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. Interested in joining The Strong Man System but want to chat first to see if it’s a fit? Schedule a 20 minute Marriage Assessment here. We’ll talk about where you are in your marriage, where you want to go, and if we’re a fit to work together. Whether we work together after or not, I want this to be the best 20 minutes you’ve spent on your marriage. CLICK HERE to schedule your Marriage Assessment.P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. 

When you lift weights, you create small tears in your muscles.If you keep lifting weights without resting, these tears just get bigger, making you WEAKER over time.That’s why it’s IMPERATIVE that you REST and eat well if you’re trying to build muscle.The muscle REGROWS bigger and stronger while you REST.The same is true of building spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength…And the interpersonal skills of trust, communication, and intimacy.You need to work to build the strengths and skills.But you ALSO need to let yourself REST and RECOVER for optimal results.Learn some of my favorite tools to rest and recover in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. 

Men WAIT to apologize to their wife.They FEAR that bringing up all their flaws will make things WORSE.Or, they’re too PRIDEFUL to see their mistakes (or how bad the mistakes are).Both of these responses REPEL your wife instead of attracting her.Instead:OWN your mistakes COMPLETELY and HONESTLY (requires you to set aside your pride)TELL your wife your mistakes and understand the PAIN they caused (trust me, you’re not going to surprise her. She already KNOWS your flaws. That’s why she’s lost attraction to you).GET TO WORK every day DELIBERATELY working on your flawsThis is the pattern to becoming the STRONG and ATTRACTIVE man that becomes BEST FRIENDS and INTIMATE LOVERS with his wife.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. 

When your dog is hungry, do you…A. Tell your dog it’s not time to eat yet and why he shouldn’t be hungryB. Tell your dog you’re hungry too and he should be more considerateC. Tell your dog that you have needs too and he shouldn’t be so selfishD. Try to talk your dog out of wanting foodE. Get the dog some foodUnfortunately, we often use A-D when our wife needs something from us.When your wife is upset with you, what she is HUNGRY for is UNDERSTANDING.Learn HOW to RECOGNIZE that need and GIVE that understanding in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. 

When it comes to ATTRACTING your wife to you, it’s more about who you ARE than what you DO.That’s why I could give you all the “right lines” to say, but it would still “not work” to win your wife back.She would (correctly) say: Don’t tell me. SHOW ME!There are 5 MAIN TRAITS that are ATTRACTIVE to your wife…And that make you feel AMAZING as a man.And, they’re based on the Biblical traits that God embodies in Exodus 34:6-7.Whether you’re a Christian or not, these are traits that build STRONG men…And the traits that all GREAT women are looking for in a man.Learn what they are… and how to develop them… in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

What does it take to make a marriage work?Really just 3 things.Trust. Communication. And Intimacy.You need to diagnose which of these is broken…And then figure out how to repair it.You’ll learn tips to repair broken trust, poor communication and low intimacy in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you want to learn EXACTLY how to rebuild trust (even after infidelity), have expert communication, and passionate intimacy in YOUR marriage, and you're a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

Your wife is telling you she doesn’t love you anymore.What does that mean?She doesn’t want to share a life with you.She’s not sexually attracted to you.She doesn’t feel safe with you.In response, you’re trying to prove to her that she SHOULD love you…Which ALWAYS backfires.Learn how to start to REGAIN that love in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

These days it’s popular to say “I’m working on myself.”Your wife might even be saying “You need to work on yourself.”But what does that even mean?To me, it’s about building up your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.It’s also about building up your communication skills so you know how to get to win-win with your wife (and others).And, with your wife, learning how to create fun, flirting and passion.But what’s the fastest way to do that?Learn how to accelerate your progress and results in this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man who is looking to save his marriage, join us in The Strong Man System. You’ll learn EXACTLY how to become the strongest and most attractive version of yourself, which is the MOST LIKELY thing to win your wife back. CLICK HERE to join now. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me

“Don’t tell me, SHOW me!”This is what your wife says when you tell her that you are going to change.Most men go about this the wrong way.They try to show their wife they are changing by doing more dishes, buying more gifts, or sending lots of text messages saying they’re sorry.NONE OF THESE WORK.Because they’re not addressing the CORE issues that drove your wife away.Learn what those core issues are…How to change them…And how to SHOW your wife those changes…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself… which is the MOST LIKELY thing to win your wife back… join us in The Strong Man System. It will be the best $2500 you’ve ever invested.

A member of The Strong Man System recently asked what to do when your wife ignores your text messages.It is VERY difficult when this happens.But, it's also an OPPORTUNITY.Your response will show your TRUE COLORS as a man and a husband.Will you respond with ANGER? With DESPERATION?This will show her that she is RIGHT in creating more distance from you.That you are emotionally IMMATURE and UNSAFE.Or, will you respond with UNDERSTANDING and CALM?This will show her that you are an ATTRACTIVE man who is emotionally SAFE.Learn how to do this in today's episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. To learn the 3 FATAL MISTAKES high achieving men make when trying to save their marriage… and what to do instead… click here. P.P.S. If you're ready to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself... which is the MOST LIKELY thing to win your wife back.... enroll in The Strong Man System here. 

As a man, you think about sex a lot.But, the WAY you’re thinking about it is causing problems.Often men think that they can “earn” sex from their wife.They try to earn sex “helping out” around the house. Cooking, cleaning, taking care of kids.They try to earn sex by doing the love languages. Spending time with her, saying nice things to her, buying her gifts.Basically, they try to create a sort of “debt” for their wife.They think “I’ve done so much for you, now you should  have sex with me.”This sense of OBLIGATION is COMMON… but NOT attractive.Your wife might have sex with you out of obligation…But it’s not the passionate, connected sex you want.Learn what to do instead in today’s episode.So you can bring FUN, FLIRTING and PASSION to your marriage…And make sex something that you BOTH look forward to.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. Today is the LAST DAY to get all the bonuses of The Strong Man System. If you enroll today, you’ll get:-LIFETIME access to the program materials (90 day access after today)-30 day access to mentors to help you through the process-30 day Unlimited Q&A with me so you’ll know EXACTLY how to apply the materials-30 day access to my 1 on 1 office hours to ask questions and practice difficult conversationsCLICK HERE to enroll today.

You’re a high achieving man who is used to success in his life.But now, your marriage is on the brink of failure.Infidelity. Separation. Faith crisis. “I love you but I’m not in love with you.” Divorce talks or filing. Your wife’s interest in another man.You want to FIX this and WIN HER BACK!Unfortunately, this “get after it” approach... That has worked so well in many areas of your life…Does NOT work when it comes to winning your wife back.Learn why in this presentation.If you feel like you’re not making any progress on winning her back…You’re making at least 1, if not all 3, of the common mistakes high achieving men make.We’ll cover all 3 of those mistakes…And what to do instead…In this presentation.CLICK HERE to watch now. CLICK HERE to enroll in The Strong Man System.Dr. MikeP.S. There are 2,046 divorces EVERY DAY in the United States. That’s about 80 EVERY HOUR. And 80% of those are filed by the wife. Take the time NOW to start watching this training. You don’t have time to waste.  CLICK HERE to watch now.  CLICK HERE to enroll in The Strong Man System.

As high achieving men, we’re used to fixing problems. And we’re good at it.So, when our wife comes to us to talk about a problem, we naturally want to try and fix it.Unfortunately, this often backfires.She feels like we don’t really understand her.And we’re frustrated because she doesn’t want to hear our (expert) advice.Today you’ll learn what to do INSTEAD of trying to fix her problem.So that when she comes to you feeling frustrated or upset, you’ll know EXACTLY how to turn that frustration into MORE connection and attraction.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System officially opens next week. It’s the best it’s ever been and will help you learn EXACTLY how to become the strongest, most attractive version of yourself to give you the best shot of saving your marriage. Watch for it next week, and if you haven’t joined my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join now.

In the book "The Noble Art of Seducing Women" by Kezia Noble, she identifies 3 types of men.The nice guy.The bad boy.And the good man.For us, we'll call the third the Strong Man.These same guys show up in marriages.The nice guy puts his wife above himself in ALL ways, hoping that someday she will return the favor with attention, appreciation and affection (sex).The nice guy gets walked on. And hopes someday he will be appreciated for it.The bad boy puts himself first in ALL ways. He knows what he wants, and he does what he wants. His wife or girlfriend doesn’t matter that much.The bad boy walks on his wife. It’s his way or the highway.The strong man, on the other hand, puts what he wants EQUALLY to what his wife wants. He works for solutions that are wins for BOTH him AND his wife.The strong man walks TOGETHER with his wife, in a marriage that feels amazing to both of them.Learn more about these three men, and how to become the strong man, in this episode.Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System will be coming out very soon. It’s new and improved with more and better benefits than ever before, including times to work with me 1 on 1. Watch for it in the next week or two, and if you’re not on my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join the list.P.P.S. If you don’t want to wait and want to join The Strong Man System RIGHT NOW, you can CLICK HERE to join. The finishing touches are still being applied, but the meat is there and if you are ready to act NOW, let’s get to work.

Women typically want two things in a marriage: security and romance.Being an emotionally safe person provides security.It lets her know that you value her. That you will be there for her. That she matters to you.Learn how to provide this emotional safety and sense of security in today’s episode.Also, see why you can’t wait for your spouse to be perfectly “emotionally safe” before you bring up difficult issues.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System will be coming out very soon. It’s new and improved with more and better benefits than ever before, including times to work with me 1 on 1. Watch for it in the next few days, and if you’re not on my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join the list.

Right now you’re worried about the future of your marriage.Will you get divorced?Will you get separated?Will your wife have another affair?You think your life will basically be over if these things happen.And that makes you try to STOP these things from happening… using EXTREME measures.Changing yourself. Doing the 5 love languages. Spying on her. However, these actions are motivated by FEAR. And FEAR is not ATTRACTIVE to your wife.It drives her AWAY. And makes all these negative outcomes MORE likely.Learn what to do INSTEAD in today’s episode.So you can approach these situations with CALM and CONFIDENCE… which are ATTRACTIVE to your wife.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. The Strong Man System is being updated and will available very soon! In the meantime, I do have a few 1 on 1 spots available. You can schedule a consultation here.

When your wife says she “needs space,” what does that actually mean?It means she needs space from your NEGATIVE and UNATTRACTIVE thoughts and behaviors.Learn the top 3 negative things she needs space from…And how to CHANGE them…In this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary-DO NOT use the “no contact” rule, as this will create MORE distance between you and your wife-Be friendly and cordial-STOP one-up thinking and behaviors and realize how damaging they are-Stop being NEEDY and start being CONFIDENT -Stop PRESSURING her and start being a great CHOICE and understanding she has the FREEDOM to choose you or notDr. MikeP.S. Next week I’ll be opening my 30 day program to Win Your Wife Back. It’s a high intensity program for men who are ready to work hard to save their marriage. Watch for it next week. And if you’re interested in 1 on 1 work as an individual or couple, CLICK HERE to schedule a consult. 

You want to show your wife you’re changing.But you’re going about it all wrong.It’s not about maximizing the good and minimizing the bad.It’s not about making the “pros” outweigh the “cons.”It’s about DIAGNOSING your problems and TREATING them.It’s about being BRUTALLY HONEST about your shortcomings to yourself and your wife.ONLY then can she start to trust you…And have ANY belief or hope that things can change.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Which used car salesman do you trust more? The one who minimizes all the car defects, or the one who brings them to your attention… including the ones you didn’t notice yourself?-If you’re just about proving you’re a good choice, you’re showing you don’t really care about your wife. You just want to “make the sale.”-Instead, get CLEAR on your faults and why you are NOT a good choice for her-Then go about fixing them-Join The Strong Man System or work with me 1 on 1 to learn how to diagnose and fix those problems, so you can be a great choice and create an amazing marriage… no matter how bad things are right now.Dr. MikeP.S. Visit this page http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me to work with me to help save your marriage.

Women want two things in a marriage.Security and romance.If you’re hearing “I love you but I’m not in love with you,” she’s missing one or both of these things.Learn how to provide BOTH security AND romance in this episode.So you and your wife can both feel “in love” with each other again.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Security is provided by having a strong sense of self, being a man of your word, a man on a mission,  being willing to stand up to and for your wife, and having the mental and emotional maturity to get to win-win-Romance is provided by owning your sexuality, and directing it towards your wife in a fun, playful and attractive way-You can learn how to do BOTH of these things-I can teach you how to do them in my courses and 1 on 1 workDr. MikeP.S. If you’d like to work with me to save your marriage, as an individual or a couple, schedule a 20 minute consultation. We’ll see where you are in your marriage, where you want to go, and whether I can help you get there. CLICK HERE to schedule.

The movies, church, and society teach us to “be one” in a marriage.But, we often misunderstand what this means.We become TOO blended with our wife.We become overly focused on “making her happy” and winning her approval (attention, appreciation and affection).A good marriage is like a good meal.Pasta and shrimp taste GREAT together.But if you put them in a blender and drink it…It doesn’t taste that great any more.Learn how to be TOGETHER in your marriage WITHOUT becoming overly blended in this episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/jprZYcdipl4Summary:-We become overly blended when our wife’s opinion becomes TOO important to us-Or when we seek TOO much for her approval (attention, appreciation, affection, sex)-Instead, we need to be our OWN man-AND learn how to work together with our wife-In ways that work for BOTH of us-You need the skills of confidence, communication, collaboration and intimacy to make that happen-You can learn ALL those skills in Marriage Basic TrainingCLICK HERE to join Marriage Basic Training.It CLOSES Friday, April 30th at Midnight pacific time.I’ll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. Marriage Basic Training will teach you EXACTLY how to have the confidence you need to have difficult conversations with your wife. You’ll learn how to get to where you are BOTH winning in money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, household work, and more. And I stand by my course. Do the work. If it’s not worth your investment, you get your investment back. CLICK HERE to join now.

Resentment is a COMMON feeling in marriage.But, most people don’t know where it comes from or what to do about it.Overall, it comes from feeling like you are LOSING in your marriage…While your wife is WINNING.If you feel like you’re doing more than your fair share…Doing things you don’t really want to do…Or denying yourself things you really want…Resentment is sure to follow.Luckily, there’s a SIMPLE solution to completely ELIMINATE resentment in your marriage.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-If you’re feeling resentful in your marriage, you are either:--Doing things you don’t want to do--Denying yourself things you want to do--Doing things for your wife expecting her to do the same for you (without asking her clearly)-Overall, it feels like you’re losing and she’s winning-Instead, decide what’s a win for you-Understand what’s a win for your wife-And find a win for BOTH of youDr. MikeP.S. If you listen to the podcast, write a review on Apple Podcasts or wherever you’re listening. Let’s get to 100 reviews!P.P.S. If you’re ready to learn EXACTLY how to have a fun, happy and intimate marriage, let’s work together to get you there. Visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me to learn how.

A lot of men complain that their wife can’t seem to move past their mistakes.They just keep bringing up the past.Whether they’ve made big mistakes like an affair, or smaller mistakes like not listening to their wife…They just want to forget about it and move forward.They get frustrated when they make the changes their wife wants to see…But their wife doesn’t seem to appreciate those changes.This lack of appreciation can cause them to stop trying, which just makes things worse.Learn how to break out of this cycle once and for all in this episode…And put the past in the past once and for all.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Asking for forgiveness MINIMIZES the damage you’ve done-Stop trying to “dig yourself out of the hole” with good behavior-Instead, decide who YOU want to be as a man-And ask for your wife’s FEEDBACK to tell you when you’re not being that man-Asking for and being open to feedback shows EXTREME emotional strength-Which is very ATTRACTIVE to your wifeDr. MikeP.S. Want to work together in depth to build up your strength and create a happy, long-lasting and passionate marriage? Apply to join The Strong Man System here.

Satan is attacking men, marriages and families CONSTANTLY.Every day, 130 people commit suicide. Of those, 90 are men.50% of marriages end in divorce. 40-80% of married people are unhappy in their marriage.42% of Americans are obese.The average savings for people age 20-40 is $2,000.Satan’s goal is to make us WEAK and MISERABLE.God wants us to be STRONG,JOYFUL and INDEPENDENT.We defend ourselves and defeat Satan by putting on the armor of God.Learn how to do that in practical, tactical ways in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Align yourself with God by being in integrity-Use your sexuality in ways that are consistent with who YOU want to be-Recognize there is right and wrong, and align yourself with right-Identify your purpose and mission and move towards that-Have the faith to do what is right and let the consequence follow (exposing your errors, fighting for win-win in your life and marriage)-Fill your thoughts with light and truth-Be in line with God’s Spirit and speak His words to influence othersDr. MikeP.S. Are you ready to be a leader in our army of principled men and build your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical, financial and sexual strength in practical, measurable ways?  Visit MikeFrazierMD.com to apply to join us in The Strong Man System.Dr. Mike

You want a happy marriage. One where you wake up feeling like the luckiest man alive.Where you go to work feeling strong and confident, because you know your wife has your back.Where you come home to a wife who smiles and jumps into your arms when you come home.Where you sit down to a dinner of laughter and connection with your family.After dinner, you sit and talk with your wife about your hopes, dreams and fears, feeling more connected than ever.You head to bed for a night of passion and connection.You go to bed thinking “I can’t believe this is my life.”You CAN have this kind of marriage.You just have to master 5 skills to get there.In this episode I’ll show you what they are.And, how you can learn them in just 6 weeks through my Marriage Basic Training program.Dr. MikeP.S. Enrollment for Marriage Basic Training CLOSES Thursday, April 1st at Midnight Pacific Time. CLICK HERE to join us.

Remember, Satan’s goal is to make us miserable.If you’re feeling miserable in your marriage right now, Satan is winning!Satan is on a mission to destroy your marriage, and he uses certain tactics to do it.The more we are aware of these tactics, the better we can combat them.Learn what some of them are, and how to counteract them, in this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-If you’re feeling guilty or resentful in your marriage… it’s a clue that you need to be more honest-If you are upset you’re not getting enough attention, appreciation or affection… you need to see if you’re becoming codependent-If you often feel like you don’t understand your wife or that her opinions are dumb… you are likely becoming prideful and possibly narcissistic or sadistic-If you feel you don’t have time for your marriage… you need to get your priorities straight-If sex isn’t how you want it… you need to look at how you’re approaching it and whether you’re integrating it in a useful wayDr. MikeP.S. Watch for my new program, Basic Marriage Training: Essential Skills For A Happy Marriage, opening next week. Having a happy marriage isn’t a matter of chance, or even finding “the one.” It’s about learning to build trust, have fun, communicate clearly and enjoy great intimacy. And you’ll learn EXACTLY how to do that in this course. Take this survey to make sure you get YOUR questions answered in my free training next week. https://forms.gle/8QRiAHKHdUKTtk8GA.

This is a big question for many members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.But, it's the wrong question.Today I'm joined by Daniel Burgess, DanielABurgess.com, a Marriage and Family Therapist and member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.We review some of the Church's teachings about sexuality and masturbation over time, which Daniel has studied extensively and reported about on his website.But, in our personal work and work with clients, we've discovered that the question "is masturbation a sin" leads you down the wrong path.Learn the better questions to ask in today's episode.Summary:-The question “is masturbation a sin” reflects rigid, black or white and somewhat immature thinking-The better questions to ask are “how do I want to use my sexuality?” and “is this thinking and behavior drawing me closer to God and my wife, or pulling me away?”-The law of chastity and scriptures do not specifically mention masturbation-Use personal revelation to see how masturbation fits (or doesn’t fit) into your life and marriageDr. MikeP.S. Watch for my new program, Essential Skills For A Happy Marriage, opening at the end of this month. Having a happy marriage isn’t a matter of chance, or even finding “the one.” It’s about learning to build trust, have fun, communicate clearly and enjoy great intimacy. And you’ll learn EXACTLY how to do that in this course. Watch for the course in 2 weeks. If you haven’t joined my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join so you can be notified when it opens.

Most men think apologizing means saying “I’m sorry” and moving on.But that’s a big mistake.And it’s that attitude that will keep you “in the doghouse” and keep you from regaining your wife’s love and trust.Learn what an apology is, and the common mistakes men make when trying to apologize, in this episode.Watch on YouTube here.Summary:-An apology includes seeing what you did that hurt your wife, acknowledging her hurt, and doing deep work to change yourself from someone who would hurt his wife-Men will often not apologize at all, or get defensive-They will minimize what they did (that was a long time ago, it could have been worse)-They will get impatient and encourage their wife to “get over it” and “move forward”-They will ask their wife to trust them -They will make it about them instead of the hurt they caused their wifeIf you have done any of these, this episode will help you see why these are problems and how to change them.Dr. MikeP.S. Watch for my new program, Essential Skills For A Happy Marriage, opening at the end of this month. Having a happy marriage isn’t a matter of chance, or even finding “the one.” It’s about learning to build trust, have fun, communicate clearly and enjoy great intimacy. And you’ll learn EXACTLY how to do that in this course. Watch for the course in 2 weeks. If you haven’t joined my email list yet, visit http://mikefraziermd.com to join so you can be notified when it opens.

Flirting can be one of the most fun things you can do in a relationship.But often, we forget to do it after we’ve been married a while.Or, we may have never been very good at it.In this episode, you’ll learn the principles and techniques of flirting with your wife.So you can bring fun, excitement and romance into your marriage.At the end of the day, flirting is about bringing PLAY back into your marriage.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-An easy way to start is by giving sincere compliments and appreciation to your wife, especially in public-Communicate love and attraction through eye contact-Touch her and kiss her… WITHOUT groping her-Challenge each other to contests, add bets to make it extra fun-Accuse her of being too forward… playfully-Use artistic, creative activities to increase eros energyMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you!

Communication is the #1 problem that men, women and couples complain about.In working with people, I’ve discovered the top 5 communication mistakes that lead to poor communication (and poor connection) in marriage.If you can avoid these mistakes…And learn the #1 communication skill…You’ll be on your way to a happier, more passionate and more intimate marriage.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/o6v30cuJ8HcSummary:-The #1 goal to have in your communication is to DEEPLY understand your wife-If your goal is anything except that (at least to start), you WILL have communication problems-Common things that get in the way of understanding are assuming you know what the other person means, deciding they can’t be understood, deciding their opinion is stupid and trying to prove your point, stopping short of your goal, and losing your coolMikeP.S. At the end of this month, I’ll be opening up an 8 week course that will teach you all the Marriage Skills you need to create a happier, more passionate and more intimate marriage. The course will start on April 1st, and you’ll learn and implement 1 new marriage skill each week. Watch your email for more information, or join my email list here.

The reason you’re not as connected to your wife as you’d like to be is because you’ve hurt her in some way.That might be an obvious way, like an affair.Or it may be a more subtle way, like neglecting her over time or serving her with “strings attached” (mosquito behaviors).Either way, you have created disconnection by hurting her.Most men try to fix this by trying to tell their wife they’re sorry and to move forward.But that doesn’t work.Learn what DOES work in this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-After you hurt your wife, she is asking “can I trust him?” and “will he hurt me again?”-She draws closer as the starts to believe she can trust you, then pulls away when she’s afraid you might hurt her again-Your job is to be consistent, trustworthy, manage your emotions, and communicate clearly (including the hard stuff)-If you were hurt, remember you can’t rush trust. It has to be earned. Be patient with yourself. Make appropriate requests and set appropriate boundaries-Consider coaching to help you through the processMikeP.S.  If you’re looking for marriage coaching, as an individual or a couple, I’d love to see if we’d be a good fit to work together. CLICK HERE to schedule a free 20 minute consult. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage, where you want to be, if I can help you get there, and about how long it will take to get there. CLICK HERE to schedule and we’ll talk soon!

Are you married to a narcissist or a sadist?Probably.But so is your spouse!In this episode, you’ll learn what narcissism and sadism REALLY are…How YOU most likely have BOTH of these traits…And what to do about it.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Narcissism is needing to be “one up” on your spouse-It’s also understanding the emotions of others, but not really caring about them-Sadism is enjoying inflicting pain or suffering on other people-Usually takes the form of enjoying your spouse’s failures, or enjoying denying them what they want-Learn to see these traits in yourself, admit them and get feedback on them-As you notice them in others, call them out and act in a more useful wayMikeP.S. I hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you did, please write a review on iTunes or wherever you are listening, and share this podcast with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you’re ready to take your marriage to the next level, visit CLICK HERE to schedule a free 20 minute consult. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage, where you want to be, if I can help you get there and about how long it will take to get there.Whether you’re wanting to do the work on your own, or as a couple… if you’re ready to work hard and have fun doing it, I’d love to be your coach. CLICK HERE to schedule your consult and I’ll see you there.

Love. A word that can mean SO many different things.And confusion about what kind of love belongs in marriage causes LOTS of marriage problems.In this episode we’ll discuss the 3 most valuable types of love in marriage…And how to develop them.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strong-men-strong-marriages/id1513290707Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/mlqgP2r9XTkSummary:-Agape, or unconditional love, belongs in marriage. BUT, your spouse can’t give it to you, and you can’t give it to your spouse. You need to get it from an infinite source.-Philia, or companionship love. This is essential for a great marriage. Committing to being great partners for each other for life.-Eros, or romantic, sexual love. What distinguishes marriage from other close, philia, relationships. -If you’re not getting the kind of love you want, make sure you’re offering it in an attractive way, then ask for what you want effectively, and choose what YOU will do if your request is not granted (set a boundary).MikeP.S. The Strong Man System as it currently exists, with lifetime access to support from me, will be offered for the LAST TIME this week. If a lifetime of Q&A with me and lifetime upgrades to the program are something you’re interested in, you’ll want to make sure to join by midnight on Saturday, February 13th (just in time for Valentine’s Day). CLICK HERE to join.

Is your married sex life not quite what you’re hoping for?Is it happening less often than you’d like, or does it just seem the same all the time?If so, there are three simple steps that you can use to create better sex in your marriage.Learn about them in this week’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Take ownership of your own sexuality-Anticipation is your friend-Connect minds and bodies-Focus on pleasure and connection instead of orgasm (especially if either of you has difficulty with orgasm)MikeP.S. If you are ready to take your life and marriage to greater joy and intimacy, I’d love to be your coach to help you get there. You can join us in The Strong Man System, or we can work together 1 on 1 (as an individual or as a couple). CLICK HERE to find out how. 

“Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” Matthew 6:21What is most important to you?You might say it’s God or your family…But what do you spend the most time THINKING about?When I looked closely, I didn’t like what I found.I spent most of my time thinking about:Making moneyMyselfBut, I found that I could CHOOSE where my treasure was.And I decided to make that treasure my relationships with others.I even created a Google Drive folder called “My Treasure” where I am keeping important information about the people in my life, and taking hours to really talk with them and fill out the “maps” of them.These “maps” are going to be my treasure from here on out. And it feels great.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Step 1: Find your treasure. What are you spending the most time thinking about?-Step 2: Choose your treasure. What do you want to value most?-Step 3: Spend time building up that treasureMikeP.S. If you are ready to take your life and marriage to greater joy and intimacy, I’d love to be your coach to help you get there. You can join us in The Strong Man System, or we can work together 1 on 1 (as an individual or as a couple). CLICK HERE to find out how.

We are always manipulating the people around us.We want something FROM them…Or FOR them.We want to “move” them into certain positions.Emotional dependence on us or emotional resilience.Sexual obligation or sexual choice.Religious obligation or religious choice.This week I got an in-depth view of how I manipulate my wife, kids and friends… and I didn’t like what I saw.I took the time to INTENTIONALLY decide how I was going to try to move (manipulate) the people around me.And the results are already SO much better.Watch on YouTube here.Summary:-An outside perspective is INVALUABLE to finding your negative patterns-Find your “old moves” and intentionally choose “new moves” for the important people in your life-Use mapping as a way to more deeply understand and connect with the important people in your life-The book Brain Talk by David Schnarch can help you through this process. You can get it on Amazon here.MikeP.S. If you are ready to create an incredibly intimate marriage… whether your wife is wanting to work on the marriage or not… come join us in The Strong Man System. You’ll have the best relationship you have EVER had with your wife… in 90 days or less… or you’ll get your investment back. Make today one of the best days of your life. CLICK HERE to join.

If your answer is an immediate “my wife…” you might be missing something important.At the end of the day, if you are relying on the opinion of others to tell you if you’re good enough…You are on unstable ground.The truth is that YOU get to decide:What a good husband (and a good man) isWhether you will live up to that or notOf course your wife can give you feedback on how you’re doing. And that feedback is extremely valuable as you are on your mission to become the best version of yourself.The difference is, a strong man seeks that feedback as a way to improve himself.A mosquito seeks that validation as a way to finally feel good about himself.You don’t want to put your self-worth in your wife’s hands.Especially if you’ve done something to lose her trust. Because she will be seeing the negative for a while.YOU get to decide who you want to be.AND whether you will live up to that or not.Watch on YouTube here. MikeP.S. If you want to take your spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength to extraordinary levels... and create an incredibly intimate marriage as a result... Come join us in The Strong Man System. If you do the work, you’ll feel stronger and more attractive than you EVER have. Guaranteed. CLICK HERE for more details and make today one of the best days of your life.

This title was hard for me to write.Being a husband and father are two of the most important roles that I have as a man.But, those roles are not ALL of who I am.And, even if I do poorly in those roles...Or walk away from them all together...(Gulp)I still have value.This was a BIG breakthrough for me and I'd love to share it with you.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-God STILL cares about me (and you) even if I don't do a good job as a husband and father-Even if I walk away completely from my family, God will STILL care for me and send people to help me-This actually gives me MORE motivation and LESS pressure to be a good husband and fatherMikeP.S. Will today be the day YOU decide to build up your strength and create a stronger, more joyful, and more intimate marriage... no matter how bad (or good) it is right now? CLICK HERE to join The Strong Man System. And I'll see you inside. 

What are your New Year’s resolutions?A better marriage?To lose weight?Make more money?Stop a bad habit?We’ll get into why these goals may NOT get you what you’re looking for…And how to find an infinite source of power to achieve your goals.Summary:-WHY do you want to achieve your goals?-If it’s because you think THERE is better than HERE… you’re heading for disappointment-Instead, set goals from a place of LOVE for yourself and those around you… and SERVICE towards yourself and others-This is an INFINITE source of strength and motivation for your goals… and will unleash your true potentialMikeP.S. The Strong Man System is open NOW! If you’re ready to create the marriage and life that you’ve been waiting for, from a place of true acceptance of yourself, we’d love for you to join us. CLICK HERE to join now.

Merry Christmas my friends!Sometimes we forget that we're celebrating a birthday on Christmas... Jesus's birthday!And, it's customary to give someone a gift on their birthday.But what do you give the Man who LITERALLY has everything?We'll talk about that today.Watch on YouTube here.Summary:-As far as I can tell, Jesus mainly asked for one thing: If ye love me, keep my commandments (John 14:15)-The 2 great commandments are “love God” and “love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:37-39)-So, if we want to give Jesus a great gift, it will be a gift of loving God, ourselves, or others-For me personally, I’ll be focusing on the gift of serving the people around me with joy instead of comparing and seeking the spotlight-I’ll remember that the greatest among you shall be the servant (Matthew 23:11)MikeP.S. The Strong Man System opens up next week. I’m looking forward to having those who are ready join us in becoming stronger men, husbands, fathers and leaders in the world. See more details here.

As we strive to become better men, our ultimate example is Jesus Christ.I’ve spent the last few weeks studying and trying to understand the character of Jesus, and I’d like to share what I’ve learned.I also invite you to use these next few weeks to study Jesus as your example of manhood, and see where you can become more like Jesus, The Ultimate Man.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Jesus was a great leader by being a great follower of His Father. I can follow God, Jesus and other good men.-Jesus was confrontational. I can stand up for myself and what’s right even when it’s unpopular.-Jesus had an extremely strong sense of self. I am a son of God, and have infinite worth and potential. I am enough as I am, no matter how much money I make.-Jesus wasn’t worried about social standing, but about serving others. If I want to be a great leader, I will be a great servant.MikeP.S. The Strong Man System opens up again on December 28-31. Make 2021 the year that you become the strongest version of yourself... and create the best marriage you've ever had in the process. Visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com for more details.

Gift giving at Christmas can be stressful... but it doesn't have to be.Use these strategies to give your wife a meaningful and thoughtful gift.One that will be remembered and cherished... instead of forgotten next year.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strong-men-strong-marriages/id1513290707Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/9KwC4qAnL7cSummary:-Ask her directly-Ask her friends-Think body, mind, heart, spirit-What's a hassle that I can take away or make easier for her? A pain I can help remove?-If you're going to offer a spa day, girls' trip, house cleaning, make sure it's SCHEDULED and PAID FOR and child care ARRANGED-Consider the 5 love languages (gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch, acts of service)-If you're separated, focus on gifts that encourage her personal growth and friendships. Avoid gifts like words of affirmation that can easily become needy. You want the message to be "I want you to be the best version of yourself, whether we stay together or not."MikeP.S. The Strong Man System opens up again on December 28-31. Make 2021 the year that you become the strongest version of yourself... and create the best marriage you've ever had in the process.

As men we sometimes think that emotional strength means rarely feeling emotion.We push negative emotions down until we explode with anger.Or we try to numb negative emotions with food, pornography, video games, alcohol or other things.Fortunately, there are three simple steps that you can use to become TRULY emotionally strong…Feel in complete CONTROL of your emotions…And stop trying to “fix” the negative emotions of your wife or others.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-Emotional strength is the ABILITY and WILLINGNESS to feel ANY feeling… without acting destructively-There are 3 simple steps to follow-NAME the emotion you are feeling-FEEL the emotion in your body (location, color, temperature, movement, character)-DEAL with the emotion appropriately (body, mind, heart, spirit)MikeP.S. The Strong Man System is closed until the end of December. But, if you are interested in 1 on 1 coaching, you can set up a 20 minute call with me here. 

Right now your sex life isn't where you'd like it to be.You've tried the usual things. Helping more around the house, buying her gifts, trying to speak her love language, spending less time with friends and work and more time at home.You’re getting frustrated that all your efforts are not being recognized.You’re barely getting a “thank you,” much less a wife who is eager to go to bed with you.And telling her you’re frustrated hasn’t been helping.But, you're missing what ACTUALLY works to create a great sex life.And that is STRENGTH.This presentation will help you understand what kind of strength to build...And how to show it in a way that creates PASSION and INTIMACY in your marriage.CLICK HERE to watch.MikeP.S. For a complete system on how to build your strength and create incredible intimacy in your marriage...And LIFETIME coaching to guide you along the way…Join The Strong Man System. You can get the details here. November registration CLOSES on Monday, November 30th at Midnight Pacific Time.

What To Do When Your Wife Is Depressed And AnxiousWhen your wife is depressed and/or anxious, it can be hard to know what to do to help her.Today I have a special guest, Lizzie Langston.She is an LDS postpartum coach, helping women overcome depression and anxiety that often follows having a baby.We discuss how we as husbands can help our wives as they struggle with depression and anxiety.Watch you YouTube here. You can find Lizzie on her website or her instagram, @LizzieLangston.Highlights:-Don’t take responsibility for your wife’s depression or anxiety-Don’t try to “fix” her depression or anxiety-Physically being there, even without saying anything, is very helpful to her-Make sure to be managing your own self-care well-Make getting help not a big deal, as she likely feels like a burden and doesn’t want to be a financial burden-Model getting help by getting help or coaching for yourselfMikeP.S. The Strong Man System opens up again on Friday, November 27th - Monday, November 30th. Give your family the gift of a strong and loving leader in their home. There’s nothing more meaningful you could do for them. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me

To be a strong and loving leader of your home, you need to be confident.Confidence feels great, feels strong, and is ATTRACTIVE to your wife and others.But, how do you become more confident?There are 3 main steps:1. Be someone who can be relied on. A man of your word. Keep the promises you make.This includes saying "no" more than you say "yes" so that your "yes" is more valuable.2. Realize your INHERENT value that does NOT change as a son of God.3. Recognize and build up your gifts and abilities, and use them in SERVICE of others... instead of COMPARING yourself to others.Watch you YouTube here.MikeP.S. If you're ready to build up your spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength to create a better marriage than you ever thought possible, join us in The Strong Man System. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me.

What does it mean to be a real man?I've been trying to answer that question my whole life.This week, we'll look at two examples.One is the type of man we want to be (Nephi)...The other is the type of man we do NOT want to be (Laman and Lemuel)Watch you YouTube here. Summary:-Faith vs Fear. COMMITTING to a result BEFORE knowing all the "how."-Persistence vs Giving Up-Asking For Help vs Not-Gratitude vs Complaining-Trying to change your situation vs Trying to change yourselfMikeP.S. For a complete system to build yourself up as a man so you can have a strong, joyful and intimate marriage, visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me

When it comes to creating a strong, joyful and intimate marriage, there are 3 relationships that need to be built.1. God's relationship with you/your relationship with God2. Your relationship with yourself3. Your relationship with your wifeToday we're going to examine God's relationship with you... meaning...What are God's thoughts and feelings about you?If you feel like you're trying to earn God's approval (and the approval of others)...And avoid His disapproval (or disapproval of others)...This episode will be LIFE CHANGING for you.MikeP.S. For a complete system to rebuild your relationship with God, yourself and your wife... so you can have a strong, joyful and intimate marriage... visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me

Do you wish you had a better sex life with your wife?Do you have a hard time bringing up sex with your wife…Or does she often say “no” or “I’m too tired” when you do finally ask?In this episode, you’ll learn WHY your sexual advances are unattractive to your wife…And how to make them much MORE attractive…And likely to get a “yes.”Summary:-There are 3 levels of sex in marriage-Physical - orgasm-focused-Emotional - validation-focused-Rational - knowledge-focused-When you are on level 1 or 2, your wife knows you are trying to USE her through sex (which is why she says “no”)-When you are on level 3, your wife and you know that it’s about deep CONNECTION (which is why she will say “yes”)MikeP.S. If you're ready to have more intimacy than you have EVER had in your marriage... guaranteed... come join us in The Strong Man System. 

Did you know what your wife WANTS you to call her out?Maybe not consciously, but unconsciously, she wants you to show STRENGTH and LEADERSHIP in your marriage.And that means, when it's appropriate, calling out her inappropriate behavior (in a strong and loving way)...DISAGREEING with her at times (in a strong and loving way)...And passing other "strength tests" she throws your way.(You’ll learn what a few of more of them are in this episode).Like any strength building, it's uncomfortable at first...But leads to BIG benefits later.You’ll have to ABANDON the mantra “happy wife happy life…”Because it requires DISCOMFORT for her and you to set boundaries in this way.And start to believe the mantra “strong is sexy.”Watch you YouTube here. MikeP.S. If you're ready to feel STRONGER and create more INTIMACY in your marriage than you've EVER experienced, come join us in The Strong Man System.You'll have more physical, mental, emotional and spiritual intimacy in your marriage than you have EVER had... in 90 days or less... or your money back.CLICK HERE to join.

If you and your wife have different religious beliefs, it can be SCARY.A lot of experts will tell you that this can be a big cause for PROBLEMS in marriage.BUT, it can also be an incredible OPPORTUNITY.For MORE intimacy and connection.In fact, you may find that discussing and understanding these differences brings MORE intimacy than almost anything else.Learn how this can happen in this episode.And, if you're ready to have the BEST relationships you have EVER had with God (if you believe in God), yourself, your wife and your kids... in 90 days or less... visit http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me and join us in The Strong Man System.I’ll see you there!Mike

In part 1 of the workshop, we learned that the main problem is that your wife is not ATTRACTED to you right now.That’s why she wants a divorce or separation, “loves you but is not in love with you,” or is interested in someone else.We learned that STRENGTH is what ATTRACTS women.Spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.We started learning HOW to build that up.And how to become an EXPERT at communication, conflict management and intimacy.This week you’ll learn the FINAL steps to TRANSFORM your marriage…And create the BEST relationships you have EVER had.With God, yourself, your wife and your kids…In 90 days or less…Guaranteed.You can SIGN UP for The Strong Man System here.It’s a ONE TIME investment of $2,000 with a LIFETIME of benefits.-LIFETIME access to online materials-LIFETIME access to ask me questions ANY time… as often as you WANT-LIFETIME access to our member’s only Facebook group for support-LIFETIME access to a weekly group call for LIVE coachingAnd…If you complete ALL the materials…And follow through on ALL the habits…For 90 days straight…And don’t feel like you have the BEST relationships you have EVER had with God (if you believe in God), yourself, your wife and your kids…You get your investment BACK.There’s nothing to lose and a lifetime of health and happiness to gain (According to the 80-year long Harvard Study of Adult Development).CLICK HERE to sign up now. See you inside!Mike

For many of you listening to this podcast, your marriage is NOT where you want it to be right now.You may be…-Recovering from infidelity (yours or hers)-Hearing “I love you but I’m not in love with you”-Facing potential divorce or separation (or are already in that process)-Having little to no sex in your marriage-Having BIG trouble with communicationNo matter WHAT is going on in your marriage right now…The MAIN problem is that you are no longer ATTRACTIVE to your wife.This workshop will help you see EXACTLY how to build that attraction back up…So you can GUARANTEE yourself a strong, joyful and intimate marriage…And AVOID a lifetime of a loveless marriage or a messy divorce.Part 1 is today and part 2 is next week.To watch the workshop, visit this link: https://winyourwifeback2020.pages.ontraport.net/See you inside!Mike

How do you get your wife to pay more attention to you?Appreciate you more?Kiss, hug and have sex with you more?Some couples therapists will say "just ask for it."This seems like it would work... BUT IT DOESN'T.You know because you're already trying this.Learn what to do INSTEAD... that ALWAYS works... in this episode.Watch on YouTube hereMikeP.S. For your COMPLETE system to build up your internal strength and interpersonal skill… so you get the strong, joyful and intimate marriage you’ve always wanted… in 90 days or less… join us in The Strong Man System. The first module opens September 21st. Sign up here.

Experts say up to 93% of communication is non-verbal.That's why "saying the right words" or focusing on "communication skills" in marriage almost always FAILS.Instead, what will make the most IMPACT in your communication is evaluating your INTENTIONS in what you are saying.And, a great way to find these is to ask yourself..."What is the sentence AFTER?"For example, when you say to your wife "I'm trying to understand you..."Is the sentence after in your head..."But I can't because that idea is stupid."Or is it..."Because I want to really understand where you're at so we can find something that works for both of us."Because your wife (and you) WILL pick up on this sentence after.You just have to do the work to FIND it and WORK on it.And you CAN do it!Watch on YouTube here.MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

You think it’s…Good sex. Being appreciated. Being valued. Being loved.And, a successful marriage does include ALL of those things.BUT…Your wife CAN NOT give those to you.These things MUST come from something DEEPER and more SOLID than your wife’s words and actions.And you CAN feel those things… even WITHOUT your wife.You can feel full, valued, loved and appreciated.Learn how in this episode.Watch on YouTube MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

A lot of the men I work with are looking for VALIDATION from their wives.Now, they will call it different things.They will say "I just want my wife to care" or "I just want my wife to have sex with me" or "I just want my wife to reach out to me when she doesn't need something."But, when it comes down to it, they are asking for their wife to VALIDATE their sense of self-worth.I did this for YEARS in my marriage.Unfortunately, it doesn't work.Your wife can NOT be responsible for your sense of self-worth.She can try for a while, but eventually she'll get tired of it.Instead, you need to KNOW for YOURSELF that you have INFINITE worth and potential.That you are WORTH choosing.Then, you can go out and serve your wife WITHOUT expecting her attention, appreciation or affection...Which is when you are MOST LIKELY to get it from her.Because she knows there really are "no strings attached."Watch on YouTube here.MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

As I’ve thought about how to help my clients better, I realized that I neglected something VERY important…Developing your physical strength and fitness.Find out why in this week’s episode:Watch on YouTube here.Summary:When you work on a physical goal, MANY good things happen…-Your overall health and energy improve-Your mind works more easily and quickly-You are able to find purpose and meaning-You have TOTAL control over it, which is powerful… especially when you’re feeling powerless-You develop consistency and the ability to fail, both of which are necessary in to succeed in ALL areas of lifeMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!P.P.S. Want proof I dunked? Visit this page.

In case you thought a great marriage is always perfect...You're wrong!In this episode I share a negative pattern that has plagued our marriage for YEARS...And what I did to FINALLY start breaking free from it.Hint: It has to do with me feeling like a MARTYR in my marriage.Watch on YouTube here.Summary:-When I feel like a martyr in my marriage, my WIFE is probably struggling-Instead of COMPLAINING, use my strengths-Spiritual strength - Be the strong and loving husband I want to be-Emotional strength - Seek to UNDERSTAND her and manage my OWN emotions-Mental strength - Use STFAIR to look at my thoughts-Sexual strength - Approach sex in a way I can be PROUD ofMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

"Your wife can prop up your ego or your penis, but not both."Today I have a VERY special treat for you all!Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife!If you're not familiar with her work, she is a licensed therapist who specializes in relationships and sexuality.She is one of the people I respect and admire very much and who has helped me understand why focusing on STRENGTH is SO IMPORTANT when it comes to sexual attraction.In this interview you will learn:-How the female sexual response works... and why being a good CHOICE for her is so important-Why you need to STOP being "pathetic" when it comes to sex... and what to do instead-How to approach sex with your wife in a way that's ATTRACTIVE... instead of just saying "do you want to have sex?"-My own personal breakthrough at the end of the interview about the feeling of "taking" sex from my wife... and how I can approach it in a way I can be PROUD of... even though my wife has a history of serious sexual abuseYou can find Dr. Finlayson-Fife's excellent courses and retreats here: http://finlayson-fife.comDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Most people come to me because they’re not happy in their marriage.They’re not getting enough of what they want from their wife.BUT, they usually are NOT doing the MOST EFFECTIVE things to get their wife (or others) to do more of what they want.Learn the BEST and MOST EFFECTIVE ways to influence others to do more of what you want in this episode.Watch on YouTube here. Summary:-COMPLAINING will NOT get you more of what you want-Figure out EXACTLY what you want your wife to do-Ask for that, giving a REASON why you want it-If she says “no…”-Try to understand WHY-Feel the hard emotions that come up-Decide what YOU will do if she says “no”-Follow through on what you said you would doMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

We just celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary at an amazing party with family and friends that are also family.You’ll hear a few tips on how to throw a great party…And  5 of the biggest lessons that I’ve learned through these 15 years.Watch on YouTube here Summary:1 - Decide and then get spiritual confirmation2 - Have faith and let people help3 - Happy wife happy life is a lie4 - Intimacy requires bravery5 - You have to know the bitter to know the sweetMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Do you feel like you're trying hard in your marriage...But it's making NO difference?Is your wife INDIFFERENT about your changes...Or even HOSTILE about them?In this episode, we'll discuss how you can use FAITH to continue to "do good to them that hate you."Watch on YouTube hereSummary:-Doing good is like planting a seed-Continuing to do good is like watering that seed-It can take YEARS to see that seed grow into a plant-BUT, every day of watering counts.-You are building up the roots. Becoming that better man.-And good WILL return to you for it. Guaranteed.-Keep watering. Have patience. Have faith.MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

How To Fight In Marriage… And Come Out Stronger For ItDo you have conflicts in marriage that leave you feeling STUCK?Do you have the same arguments about sex, money, parenting, religion, in-laws or cleaning over and over?Would you like to break FREE of that cycle?You'll learn how in this episode.Watch on YouTube here Summary:-Feeling DISTANT from your spouse activates your lower, "crocodile" brain-Puts you into FIGHT or FLIGHT mode-Common for one spouse to want to fight (talk about things) and one to want to "drop it" (flight)-To get through this...-CALM your crocodile brain-Seek FIRST to understand, then to be understood-Find the HIGHER way. Win win. Enthusiastic agreement-Turn CONFLICT into more CONNECTION and INTIMACYMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Are you struggling with communication in your marriage?Do you feel like you just don't understand your wife, or that she just doesn't understand you?In this episode, you'll find out EXACTLY how to reach the DEEPEST levels of communication.This type of communication brings the PASSION and INTIMACY back into your marriage...Even if that spark has been missing for YEARS.Summary:-There are 3 levels of communication in marriage...-Level 1: Superficial communication (business items)-Level 2: Emotional communication (sharing of feelings, hopes, dreams, fears, getting to know each other at a deep level)-Most marriages stop here (or get stuck at superficial level)-Level 3: Intimate communication-This is COURAGEOUS communication that is TRUE to you, but that your wife probably WILL NOT LIKE-This type of communication is what can make your marriage EXPLODE to new levels of intimacy and passionIf you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and share it with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.If you are ready to take your communication and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

If you are using pornography more than you would like, there is a perfectly logical explanation.And, if you would like to STOP or CUT BACK on your pornography use, there is a simple 3 step solution that you can follow.If you are interested in working through a program to implement these skills and ELIMINATE pornography from your life, contact me.Watch here: https://youtu.be/_ALjaYZOldQSummary:-Your brain has learned to use pornography and masturbation as a way to deal with sexual urges and negative emotions-You can CHOOSE how you want to use your sexuality. Your true FILTER.-In the moment, ALLOW the urge-Name, feel and deal with your emotion-Use STFAIR and your FILTER-Track your progress. Target 100 urges processed WITHOUT acting on them.-Learn from each urge. What worked, what didn't work, what will you do differently.MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!(The program also includes a program to overcome pornography)

A lot of men come to work with me when they are very near divorce.They may already be separated, their wife may be threatening divorce, or they may be in the divorce process.The men I work with want their wife back. They have seen the error of their ways.But, sometimes, despite their best efforts and strength building, their wife chooses to divorce.This can be extremely difficult. It can feel like all their work was in vain.BUT, fortunately, divorce is NOT the end.Life goes on.And, if you put your effort into building up your strength...If you have become strong and learned how to be attractive...You WILL eventually create the marriage of your dreams.It may just be with someone new.Jeff shares his journey with us in this interview. From the hope of reconciliation, to the heartbreak of divorce, to thinking he would never get married again, to having a wife that "he couldn't have dreamed up better."I greatly appreciate his honesty and openness.Summary:-If you put everything you can into building yourself up and saving your marriage, you can look back with your head held high and look your kids in the eye and tell the you did EVERYTHING you could to make the marriage work-Create fun times AND routines and structure for your children after divorce-Developing the skill of learning from your mistakes and seeing things from your wife's perspective will serve you well in your continued relationship with your ex-wife and in future relationshipsIf you are looking at a possible divorce, take the time and make the effort to learn the skills that will help you feel STRONG and CONFIDENT, no matter what your wife chooses.And, the skills that will help you create AMAZING relationships now and in the future.Visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Sometimes it can seem like you have 2 options in your marriage:Stay married and miserable or…Get divorced and finally be free.Luckily, there is a third option.That is to feel FREE AND stay married.There are 3 marriage traps that make us feel stuck.You’ll learn what they are and how to break out of all 3 in this episode.Summary:-Trap 1 - Trying to control your wife’s feelings and thoughts-How to escape: Know your own worth, choosing to be the husband you WANT to be-Trap 2 - Service and compromise. Rejecting and denying your own desires and agency.-How to escape: Make requests, set boundaries, own your decisions-Trap 3 - Thinking marriage HAS to work -How to escape: Realize you DO have the option to leave, then DECIDE whether to stay or not. Also let your wife choose whether to stay or not and know you WILL be ok either way if you build the necessary strengths and skills to get strong, get attractive, and get the marriage of your dreams.If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to leave a review and share with a friend so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

As men, we have sexual urges MANY times throughout the day.For some of us, we have used pornography as a way to deal with negative emotion… which brings on more negative emotion… which makes us want to use pornography even more.This cycle could accurately be called a sexual addiction.Is there a way to break out of it?And are there ways to use our sexuality for good?The answer is: YES!Find out how in this episode.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5CvofGW33xASummary:-Your sexuality is an important part of you-Ask yourself “how do I want to use my sexuality?”-Use the answer to guide your sexual behaviors-Sex addiction stems from an inability to tolerate negative emotion-Learn to name, feel and deal with the emotions, instead of running from themMikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

When your wife tells you she wants to leave, it can be DEVASTATING.Luckily, there are specific strategies that you can use to get through this…AND feel STRONG and CONFIDENT again.These same things are also the things MOST LIKELY to win her back.MikeSummary-Allow yourself to FEEL the negative emotions-Realize that you CAN feel strong and confident… no matter what she’s doing-Try to UNDERSTAND her deeply-Let her know you choose her, but you understand if she doesn’t choose you or if it’s too late-KNOW YOU WILL BE OK NO MATTER WHAT SHE CHOOSES-Build up your STRENGTH (spiritual, mental, emotional, physical)-Have FAITH that good WILL come as you focus on becoming the BEST version of yourself. Because it WILL!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

No matter WHAT is happening in your marriage, whether it’s..-Infidelity-I love you but I’m not in love with you-Poor communication-Conflicts about sex-”I’m not sure why I feel the way I feel…” This tool will help you know EXACTLY...1. What is CAUSING the problem in your marriage2. What you can do to solve itThis is the #1 tool I use with my clients (and on myself).Summary:-STFAIR Model-Situation (facts only)-Thought (what you tell yourself about what happened)-Feeling-Action (what you do)-Intention (why you do it)-Result (what happens)If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

If you have lost your wife's trust or love...Either by something BIG (like an affair)...Or by not doing the "little things" over time...There is a PROVEN strategy to win back that trust and love.And, there is ONE phrase that can SPEED UP that process.Summary:-Trust and love are LOST by breaking promises, big or small-Trust cannot be GIVEN-You have to EARN it by making and keeping small promises over time. Like building a house brick by brick-You must COMMIT to becoming a man of your word, and acting as the best version of yourself, EVEN and ESPECIALLY when you are not getting what you are hoping for from your wife.If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife (even after infidelity)...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

We are in unique times with the Coronavirus pandemic.Many people are losing jobs or having their hours reduced.It has even affected the most stable jobs... including my work as a psychiatrist.Here is my journey through my thoughts and fears about losing work... and how I got to a place of peace.If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Is your wife EXCITED to see you every day?Does she tell her friends how great you are?Does she tell your boys to be just like you, and your daughters to marry someone just like you?If not, you may be acting like a DICTATOR or MOSQUITO… and not even know it.See how you might be REPELLING your wife… and how to fix it in this episode.Summary:-When you don’t have a strong sense of self-worth, you tend to try to borrow it from your wife-You can do that by putting her down (dictator), or by constantly trying to get her attention, appreciation and affection (mosquito)-Often we switch between mosquito (bending over backwards for our wife) to dictator when our mosquito ways aren’t getting enough attention-The solution is finding love and respect for yourself that is EQUAL to your wife-Ask just right, listen just right, give just rightIf you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Can you do something nice for your wife… but STILL cause problems in your marriage?YES!See how doing the dishes (or other “nice” things) can either HELP or HURT your marriage.It all depends on how you SEE your wife.Summary:-Concepts from the book Leadership and Self-Deception from The Arbinger Institute-When you see your wife as a PERSON, you see her as HER OWN PERSON and someone you can serve-When you see her as an OBJECT, you see her as a vehicle, an obstacle, or irrelevant-You can still do “nice things” (like the dishes)  but to GET something from her. This leads to PROBLEMS in the marriage.-When you don’t get the attention, appreciation or affection you want, you tend to see her as an OBSTACLE and start getting upset, disengaged, etc.-The solution: Choose to SERVE because you want to GIVE. Because you want to be that guy. Not because you want to GET or want her to ACT or FEEL a certain way.-This is also the MOST LIKELY way you will get attention, appreciation and affection FREELY GIVEN.If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

Why You Must STOP Trying to Make Your Wife HappyYou’ve heard “Happy Wife, Happy Life.”Trying to live that phrase sent me to my car SCREAMING.Learn from this video why you must STOP trying to make your wife happy… And what to do instead.Summary:-You can’t control other people’s emotions… even their good ones-When you try, you are doomed to fail… AND you are being “manipulative,” which is unattractive-The solution is NOT to say “screw you, I’ll do what I want.”-It’s about sharing your TRUE self, serving because you want to be that guy, and finding solutions that are a win for BOTH of you… not a SACRIFICE that benefits one person and not the otherIf you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.You can also watch on YouTube here.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit MikeFrazierMD.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!

If you find yourself saying "if my wife would just..."Appreciate me moreRespect me moreHave sex with me more, etc.You are falling victim to the common MYTH that your wife has to act certain ways for you to be happy.Find out how this belief is driving your wife AWAY and is REMOVING your power and strength... and what to do instead so you can feel STRONG and POWERFUL and ATTRACT your wife to you.If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!