The questions about sex are endless, the learning about pleasure is endless. In this show we look at some of them on a journey from squirting to strap-ons and more.

Many men struggle with the full expression of their sexuality, the problems and the power. We examine some of the beliefs men have about their pleasure and look at how we can overcome them.

There are so many mysteries, myths and misinformation about women's sexual pleasure. We explore some of these and offer some possibilities for greater authenticity and freedom. Brought to you by REBR Pharmaceutics. REBR Pharmaceutics

Sex and sensuality in relationships... what do you get from being in a relationship and going within to give more to your partner? This episode of SexTalk is brought to you by Zebras Crossing very private game lodge. Zebras Crossing

The elements of intimacy, learning about what intimacy is for you, and what it means to your partner. Change is a part of intimacy, how do we manage change in a relationship and be authentic? This episode of SexTalk is brought to you by Zebras Crossing very private game lodge. Zebras Crossing

Making your lover important - one of the vital elements in a relationship, and part of the question, can you protect your relationship? This episode of SexTalk is brought to you by Zebras Crossing very private game lodge. Zebras Crossing

The problems of relationships, understanding the patterns we live with, and that we have no education for relationships. How can we create happy and fulfilling relationships? This episode of SexTalk is brought to you by Zebras Crossing very private game lodge. Zebras Crossing

Sex and relationships in the holidays - games, tips, adventures and so much pleasure.

It's intimate, emotional, deeply pleasurable... and shows the possibilities within our sexuality.

Learn what an Expanded Orgasm is, what the benefits are, and how to give your lover this incredible experience.

Going deep into pleasure, changing patterns, and creating intimacy.

Creating fulfillment and growth. What are the issues we face in relationships and how can we change them?

The impact of infertility on relationships, on our self-definition, and our sexuality is deep. What causes this and how can we change it?

The team delves into the emotional connection men have to their bodies and sexuality. We need a different story, a heart story.

Movement, touch, sensuality and creativity - the place where we are able to be in greater coherence with our hearts, with life.

What do we fear about pleasure and what do we do to become freer within our sexuality? Finding the place where sex, life, and the heart meet.

Fantasies and intimacy, creating excitement in your relationship from the heart.

What really happens at Ladies Nights? Are they as naughty as you think? Plus the sensuality of dance.

Freeing yourself into pleasure expectations, patterns, conditioning, limitations and inhibitions - the effect they have on pleasure and what releasing them does.

Be comfortable in your body, love your body, accept yourself, don’t buy into any bullshit about how you should look, and know it has nothing to do with the pleasure you experience.

An intimate look at the incredible choice and the journey to get to who you are.

The H-Spot, your biggest pleasure centre, the G/P/A spots, an oral sex secret, and much more.

Jonti and Tamar talk about patterns and conditioning, expectations, lack of knowledge, beliefs, inhibitions, embarrassment, past experiences and more.

Women's journeys of healing, growth, empowerment, expansion and exploration. What they’ve learnt about freedom, pleasure, relationships, life etc. A beautiful sharing of intimate stories.

Painful sex is a silent suffering for many women, and often misunderstood. Let's talk about your body, your mind, your heart, and letting go.

Puppy Play and all sorts of sexual expressions. It’s an endless world of discovery.

How much of our sexuality comes from our parents? From family? These are the things we don’t talk about. Sonja Simak, a Constellation Facilitator, joins the team to talk about the patterns, where they come from, and how we change them.

What can you learn from sex that will expand your business? Jonti, Tamar and their special guest, York have tips that will pleasantly surprise you and make you look at your work differently.

Jonti is joined by special guests to talk fantasy and role-playing… the costumes, the masks & the scenarios to help spice up your sex life.

Jonti chats to Eric Jansen and Candice Coulsen about how millennials view sex. Is Millennial sex any different from how Gen X perceives it? Are young people more care-free and exploratory when it comes to intimacy.

A fascinating look into a society coming to terms with a changing world.

Should you take your partner shopping? Dating and relationship advice with Amy Searll - a father and daughter discussion.

How do black women in South Africa experience sex? Can you have the difficult conversations about sex and own your own pleasure? Are you willing to take the steps toward sexual freedom?

So you want to be an amazing lover, a sub or a dom? Training for pleasure... are you willing?

May is Masturbation Month so the team presents a masterclass on self-pleasuring. How to have more pleasure from self-play, using your sexual energy for meditation and creativity, the power of breathing, edging, anatomy and more.

What excites you? Are you ashamed of it? Do you allow it to emerge, or do you deny it? Jonti and the team delve into the world of erotic exploration.

The team discuss conscious sexuality, conscious kink, and being in your body for deeper pleasure and greater authenticity.

Help get Rayne to the World Pole Dancing Championship, female desire, and keeping relationships alive and exciting.

Learning to be a good lover is a vital part of life, and a big part of that is sexual skills. Learn the art of giving a mind-blowing blow job, and how to make this an act of pleasure and power for the giver. These techniques will give your partner incredible pleasure, and might also change the way you view oral sex forever.

It can be healing, it can be meditative, it can be creative and it can be so sexy and arousing... Jonti investigates the world of rope bondage.

Bisexuality... a fascinating world of sexual and emotional choices.

Exploring your sexuality... your mind, your body, your heart, your fantasies, with others, same sex, kink, finding your pleasure being and setting it free.

Creating a brave new world of pleasure, with a little bit of sex robots.

Sex in the garden, sex outdoors - games, tips, have more fun, explore, make it exciting.

What are the principles and practices that make a good lover? The team discuss all the intricacies of this vast topic.

Mambaonline is one of the longest running gay media platforms. We’ll hear their story and talk about how issues in the community have changed.

What the yoni pleasure spots are, where they are, how to find them, how to touch them, what stops you having orgasms... it's a different perspective on pleasure.

A couple's journey of sexual healing, growth and exploration. An open conversation about the possibilities we can create in our pleasure and relationships.

Bondassage is the meeting of sensuality and bondage... it's exciting, it's healing, it's about sexual energy and deep experiences.

How to change the patterns and limitations we live with and create the experiences, lives and relationships we'd like.

How to have more pleasure and fun... and not get sand in places it doesn't come out from.

It’s so much more than food... and the greatest aphrodisiac ever, the heart.

The things we don’t talk about in sex and relationships, and the impact they have.

It’s different every day, it changes, we change... how do we create sexual fulfilment?

We tend to think that when it comes to sex men are simple. The truth is that male sexuality is incredibly complex, deeply emotional and often very scary. We’ll look at some of the problems men face and how to solve them.

The team investigate all the different swingers' clubs, fetish venues and spaces for adults to play and explore their sensuality and sexuality.

Jonti speaks to some members of the BDSM community about the dark side of fetish play.

Some of the CliffCentral team's questions about sex answered! Can one be allergic to sperm? Can you tell if someone is good in bed just by looking at them? We can never stop learning in our quest for pleasure.

The team celebrates the rainbow spectrum of human sexual expression.

There is a world of endless pleasure and possibilities... to get there we need to go beyond what we know, beyond our patterns, to a place of greater freedom.

The team chats to Elise Carr, a teacher of sacred sexuality in Australia. They discuss heart-yoni connection and sacred sex, healing the feminine.

We’re talking about bisexuality... are more people expressing this within themselves, does it give you a fuller experience of pleasure, what does bi-curious mean, is it emotional as well as physical, and how does it change your self-definition?

There is much that we believe that limits our pleasure possibilities. Free yourself from the myths you've accepted and open yourself to more fun and excitement.

Celibacy is a journey of depth, it takes you deep into yourself. And it may change... allow yourself the gift of your heart.

Sexually empowered women - what does that mean, how do you get there, and does that excite or scare men?

Gay men, straight men, kinky men... and maybe a little bit about love as well.

Sex and tech, virtual porn… how real is it, what’s new in the world of technology, does it give us more opportunity to explore our sexuality, and does it help create better relationships or does it separate us? Clare Petra is back in the studio.

A Women’s Day event of nude yoga, healing and Yoni drawing. There is such mystery about the female body, and so many women have such deep body issues. This process is a beautiful way to get in touch with yourself, heal and free your beauty.

Bringing the magic of the feminine sacred into the reality of Orgasm Day with Jonti, Tamar and Goddess L of Minxxx Magic.

Male orgasms are not as simple as we might think... the importance of entering through the heart, what stops you getting help, and the beautiful power of soft sex.

Why do so many women struggle to have orgasms and how can we start changing it? Jonti and Tamar investigate...

Sexy Smarts is sex education for young people that’s providing a forum for learning and discussion. Their focus is responding to the sexual questions of young people.

In South Africa’s conservative society, it’s quite taboo to talk about anything related to vaginas and to even say 'the v-word' out loud. The result is that women neglect to learn about everyday vaginal care and this results in embarrassment, shame, myths and even healthcare problems that women then feel too shy to discuss with anyone. With this in mind, the ‘world’s first’ Vagina Varsity was created - an online platform where women (young and old) can learn about their bodies in a private, safe setting... guided by professionals.

Bodhi is a Shibari practitioner using it for healing and Sacred Sexual practices. Jonti and Tamar discover more...

The team look at the principles and practices for deep pleasure and fulfilment.

Gay issues and health, trans issues and health, sexual differences, gender differences, fun and laughter.

Some people play in this world, and for some people it’s a lifestyle. Jonti and Tamar speak to a lifestyle BDSM slave.

How the patterns of pain get locked in the body, the connection between the body and the brain, and how we can release them.

Join the team for a masterclass on how to have more pleasure with your own beautiful body... deeper orgasms, and how to use your sexual energy for meditation, healing and creation.

Slavery in all its ugliness is rife in South Africa, well hidden from us. Let’s bring it to light and learn about what’s happening with people as commodities.

To be sexually free is to be free, creatively, emotionally and spiritually free. What stops us, how do we get there, are we brave enough?

The team explores the mind of an erotic photographer... how this can make your relationship and pleasure more exciting. Photographer Charles Heiman is the special guest.

From dancer to a brand... a life of sexual exploration and discovery, with Jonti's friend Chippy. Chantal also joins the conversation.

Live from #Sexpo! Jonti chats to a variety of people about all aspects of sex and sexuality - ranging from toys and swinging, to human trafficking and more.

Jonti and Tamar explore sexual healing, growth, exploration and possibilities - why bodywork is so important, and using sexuality as a tool for personal enquiry.

Sexual possibilities and sexual patterning, the pressure the expectations create, and the freedom the possibilities hold. This is a mini-workshop in sexual freedom!

Man Parties - they’re happening, and they’re consensual! Are they wild, are they safe, who goes, what happens, is this an underground world of secrets? Join us if you dare…

Who is buying sex toys... what are they buying, are we expanding in our sexual exploration, are we becoming more open? The team also talks to a rabbi about sexuality and toys, in the context of Judaism.

Sex and substances, chemsex, plants and naturals, They are so widely used by people across the sexual spectrum. Jonti and Tamar explore what people are using, what they do to the body, and how they enhance our sexual experiences.

Jonti and Tamar speak about jealousy, touch on fantasies, chat about communication, mention butt plugs, and delve into the heart.

Poet Vangi Gantsho shares her thoughts on sexuality with Jonti and Tamar.

Comedians David Levinsohn and Eric Jansen join for sex and funny as the team looks at the absurdity of sex, how we can laugh at ourselves during sex, and whatever else comes up!

Abortion is a deeply emotional topic. We hear a some story from a woman who has had the experience. What’s really happening in South Africa, openly and in the scary back streets of confusion and misinformation?

Mia Malan from Bhekisisa, The Mail & Guardian health feature is the special guest. They've developed an app to help report rape in Diepsloot. The discussion expands into rape in South Africa, what the stats are, resources, police response, medical response and more.

Cristos Daskalakos, a Biodanza facilitator, joins the team to explore movement, freedom, Eros as life-force and how we can become more sensual in our lives.

The team enters the mysterious world of massage parlours. Are they sexy, are they seedy and sleazy? Who visits massage parlours, who works in them, and what’s the difference between a massage parlour and a brothel? All is revealed!

The team has an open chat about sex, love, relationships, and having fun!

Sex tips, games and adventures for the holidays... some cool games you can play with your phone, how to have sex on the beach without getting sand in places you’ll feel it scratching for weeks afterwards, and more!

Learning to communicate is a skill, and one of the most important aspects of a relationship. We get very little, if any, education for relationships, and so many issues can be solved through effective communication. It’s also a powerful way to build intimacy and connect with your partner. The team shares a live communication workshop and looks at sexual communication as well. This is a master-class in relationship skills!

HIV can be managed as easily as diabetes nowadays, if treated correctly. There are even people now who have begun to fetishise the virus, and will actively go out and gamble with getting infected in a game of sexual Russian roulette. In honour of World AIDS Day on 1 December, the team explores some of the stranger and more unusual topics around HIV and Aids, and share some tips to how to prevent it and protect yourself.

Exploration, erotica, fetishes, strap-on lessons, q&a, what would you like to know, what is kinky sex, how many types of orgasms can a woman have... all questions answered!

It's ancient stuff with new expressions. Does it connect you to a tribe or make you more of an individual? And can you guess what's under the clothes of your colleagues?

To paraphrase from the Tao Te Ching, ’The love that can be named is not love.’ Jonti asks how important sex is in a relationship, and have we set relationships up to fail?

Skydancing is a mystical Tantric practice for women - possibly the most authentic. It embraces the natural Sexual Flow in the body as a tool for realisation. It compenetrates Physical and Spiritual, Masculine and Feminine, Form and Formless, in what appears to be a dance of Existence vibrating the body of woman and expressing as bliss. Jonti speaks to Valentina Mrs. Love to learn more.

It's a live broadcast from SEXPO! Jonti talks to some of the performers from the shows, people visiting SEXPO, some of the exhibitors... to find out what they’re doing there.

It’s SEXPO time, and this year it’s huge, and different! Why should you go to SEXPO, what will you see there, can you go alone as a woman, who does go and why is it so important to make talking about sex normal?

Jonti and Tamar look at opening the door to exploring kink. How do you start the conversation with your partner? Learn about the keys to being sexually authentic, and the practical steps to begin exploring sexuality in your relationship.

Can the world of erotic exploration and spiritual exploration be brought together? Jonti Searll and the team discuss if there is a link between them, what makes sex spiritual?, the power of intention and the role of consciousness.

What’s happening in the world of technology... how does technology help us have more pleasure, what’s the impact on relationships, does it create more intimacy and excitement, or separate us from each other?

It’s an all male show... Rayne, South African Pole Dancing Champion and Silk Dancer, Kyle from Magic Mike are in studio. Their stories, what do women really get up to on Ladies' Nights, and can we take these dancers seriously as an expression of art?

The team is talking about Conscious Sexuality... how our sexual energy and our creative energy are the same, how our sensuality and sexual energy can be used for more than just sex, and the power of pleasure as a transformational force.

The webcam industry currently tops 1 billion dollars and it’s growing. It covers every body type, every kink you can think of. They’re amateurs, they’re pros, they’re gay, straight, young, old... you name it, they're out there! And someone wants to watch them.

Jonti chats to a group of film students who made an LGBTQI documentary. He also looks at Jo’burg Pride... when did it start, how has it developed, what’s the purpose, who goes to Pride? Plus the usual fun features.

How can you share your erotica with your partner and make your relationship more exciting? Jonti asks some of his friends to share a piece of erotica that turns them on and why? He also asks them about the difference between porn and erotica, and the first piece of porn they encountered.

Male sexuality... where does the power lie? In a great interview with Caroline Carrington, a Tantra teacher of great wisdom, Jonti explores male sexuality. How important are their feelings, how do they express sexual energy, and what are their sexual wounds?

A workshop on pleasuring a woman... where is the G-Spot, the A-Spot and the P-Spot, how many kinds of orgasms can a woman have, the best position for G-Spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation, oral sex secrets and more.

This week's guest is Derick Sol - male porn star and stripper. What do women do on Girls Night Out? How does a male stripper have a relationship? Is performance ever an issue. The team goes under the covers into the adult entertainment industry.

Kerry Weavind is a yoga teacher offering - for what we think is the first time in Joburg - a nude women’s yoga class on Woman’s Day. She joins the show to talk about yoga and sexual energy, freeing your sexual energy, getting in touch with your body and more.

Who knows what will happen when Candice Mama from #WeeklyMashup joins SexTalk this week? What will come up, who will go down and what can we get up to?

Monique Pretorius is a stripper, adult model, porn actress - the team chat to her AND her mother! How did she get into the business, her experiences, how did she tell her mother, and what does she think about it? What would you say if your daughter told you that’s what she wants to do or is doing?

How widely spread is kink across different groups in South Africa, and how do traditional beliefs and attitudes influence this? The team speak to a black dominatrix and submissive.

Why do we call it naughty, when it’s beautiful and fun and a celebration of our vitality? This week we’re having fun with sexuality, sex positions, tips, adventures, what’s new in the world of sexuality and more! Jaco, Lisa and Erika join the show… plus Chris Tokalon does sound effects.

In Tantra, sex is not just about our genitals, it’s the interplay of energies, the dance of love. The entire cosmos is making love all the time in this movement. Chris Tokalon is one of the most talented musicians in South Africa. He joins us as we look at sound healing, the juxtaposition of sound and silence, what a sound journey is, and some of the most amazing and fun things you can do with sound and voice.

Marie Stopes is working on a digital storytelling project which aims to address abortion stigma as the root of all the challenges faced in delivering safe, accessible abortion care. Jonti chats to Whitney Chinogwenya and Elna McIntosh about this important issue.

What happens at a sexual workshop? Jonti chats to Erika and Courtney, who were at the Waves of Pleasure retreat in Mozambique. Also, grab a mirror and learn how to get in touch with your genitals, and listen to their stories.

Sexual Choice - what does that really mean? Where are we making choices from, fear or love, consciousness or pattern, what are we choosing, and what do those choices say about us?

Jonti and team delve into 'Sex in the Arts' as they chat to Lerato Bereng from the Stevenson Gallery about their sex exhibition.

"Jessica" shares her healing journey, the impact it’s had on her life, what sexual healing means, the experiences she’s had, and how she’s come to see herself and relationships differently.

On this edition, the Sextalk team speak all things masturbation. Where did it come from, how did it start? How can you have more pleasure with your own body, masturbation for meditation and healing, and can masturbation be sacred?

What is Tantra and Conscious Sexuality? Where does it come from and what are the different streams of Tantra? Sexual energy is a force that can be used for healing, creativity, meditation, being present... as well as it being a spiritual connection. Jonti Searll and special guest Valentina Love share some simple ideas on how to have a Tantric experience.

Jonti Searll gives you a mini-master class in the art of making love to a woman. Together we discover exactly what love making is, where sensuality comes into play, the different aspects of sex and most importantly, we find out what it is that women really want!

South Africa’s premier improv. group Jittery Citizens along with comedian Dusty Rich join Jonti Searll and his team for some comedy, rap, slam poetry and sexy fun. The sexy panel of personalities are also joined by some people from “down under”.

Is swinging better than having an affair? Listen in to get viewpoints from both sides!

Let’s have some fun with sex toys! Candace from Bella Rouge brings lots of interesting contraptions to spice up your sex life...

Does romance keep a relationship alive more than sex? Has technology somehow played a role in this? Have we become lazy and complacent? So many questions! Get the answers on this edition...

Regular show contributor Claudine Ullman and her fiance Dan Herman join Jonti and Tamar to discuss the Power of Curiosity and Vulnerability in Relationships, Sex and Life.

Did you know that there is no correlation between penis size and shoe size? Did you also know that circumcision has zero influence on sexual satisfaction? This edition of SexTalk is all about dispelling sexual myths that have held us back for generations.

It’s all about body retreats for women as Jonti Searll and the team chat with Pamela Madsen from America. Pamela is a veteran advocate, activist and educator who has worked with hundreds of women from age 22 to 75 to transform their relationship with their bodies and their understanding of sexuality.

Described as relational meditation, “circling” is a deep and powerful practice that brings the essence of meditation to interpersonal communication and contact. The team talks to Amy Silverman who’s here from New York to teach the practice of circling.

It's fingering Friday! Learn to do it right and make her squeal with delight… And if you want more nookie, make sure you know how to play with her cookie.

Talking about anal stimulation, anal penetration, anal toys, meditation through anal massage and more! Also don’t miss the regular Dirty Dictionary and Real Sex Story features.

Inspired by the current openness of racial conversations and looking at our own beliefs and prejudices, Jonti Searll asks – “Why are we not having the same discussions about sexual and gender issues?” He and the team look at how important these conversations are to have, how all of this is linked to social transformation and what issues arise from not having these conversations. Joining them for this discussion is Christopher Smith.

The sexuality of dolphins can be as interesting and complex as that of humans. Courtney Ward joins the team and tells you all about it, along with Claudine Ullman from Jittery Citizens Improv. It’s definitely an interesting edition!

Male underwear is a billion Dollar business, with new styles and fabric constantly emerging. We pay so much attention to lingerie, why is male underwear not sexy? Can men buy underwear to turn women on? Find out!

The sex talk team explores Self-Pleasuring and why it's so important. They share tips on how to expand the way you pleasure yourself and have more intense orgasms.

Looking at the medical aspects, women coming into wisdom, the sexual power, the role of the G-Spot etc. Joining Jonti Searll for this discussion is Dr Tlaleng Mofokeng, a GP working in sexual and reproductive health.

It's the first edition of SexTalk for 2016! Join the team as they share tips and advice on how you can have more sex and pleasure in 2016? They also touch on sex in reality versus sex in porn, as well as the realities of dating sites.

This edition of SexTalk is an extended holiday special. Expect some comedy with Claudine Ullman from Jittery Citizens Improv, a chat with Paige Nick, an interview with a swinging couple and so much more...

What does sexual healing mean, what does it involve, how does it connect to the rest of our lives? Jonti Searll and the rest of the SexTalk team discuss these issues and so much more...

The team chats about exploring and appreciating your partner's body. Find out which toys for sexy time are easy to pack for your next holiday. They also share tips, advice and adventures to make your holiday hot, exciting and sexy.