Do you feel like you have no hope for your marriage? Has an affair completely taken any hope from you of reconciling?If you feel…👉 Completely overwhelmed…👉 Hopeless that your marriage can be saved…👉 Like no one in your life understands what you’re going through…We have a training just for you.This Tuesday, January 30th, Kimberly will host a free webinar to answer this question...Is there HOPE after an Affair?Sign up today!

While limerence has three very distinct stages, the lines between them can be somewhat blurred. Stage one creates an infatuation with your new limerent object, while stage two crystallizes the feelings you have for each other. Stage three is called deterioration because the infatuation can start to wear off, and you can finally see the flaws.Stage three of limerence can often lead to regret and remorse for the relationship. But does this mean that your significant other will come running back to you? Can your relationship be healed? Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes talk about how limerence ends and give advice on the best way to get through it on this episode of Relationship Radio.Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications to hear more helpful episodes and unique stories from other people going through the same situations you're in right now. We exercise compassion and understanding to all couples and individuals we meet. We know no one is perfect, and people make mistakes. The best thing you can do is become better for yourself and the people who care. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

While stage one of limerence is about infatuation, stage two is about crystallizing those feelings and knowing that the other person feels the same way you do. The highs and lows continue to an extent, but the feelings turn more toward vilifying their current significant other and pushing them away.Stage two of limerence is when most spouses discover that the affair is taking place. This can be a confusing and challenging time that puts them through an emotional roller coaster of their own. However, there is light at the end of the tunnel, even if you can’t currently see it. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes will discuss the signs to look for and the underlying principles that can help you get through this phase in this episode of Relationship Radio.Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications to hear more helpful episodes and unique stories of reconciliation from other people going through the same situations you're in right now. We exercise compassion and understanding to all couples and individuals we meet. We know no one is perfect, and people make mistakes. The best thing you can do is become better for yourself and the people who care. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

When people talk about falling madly in love, they’re describing what we in the social sciences call limerence. There are three distinct stages of limerence. We’ll be going through them all, but we’re starting with stage one of limerence on this episode of Relationship Radio.Stage one of limerence is an infatuation, a longing for your emotional connection to be reciprocated. What was once a close friendship can quickly evolve into something much more and supplants your spouse for emotional and even sexual needs. Join Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes as they take you through some of the signs to look for to determine if your spouse is in limerence and how to handle what comes next.Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications to hear more helpful episodes and unique stories of reconciliation from other people going through the same situations you're in right now. We exercise compassion and understanding to all couples and individuals we meet. We know no one is perfect, and people make mistakes. The best thing you can do is become better for yourself and the people who care. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

You’ve worked hard at trying to save your marriage, but that doesn’t always make it work. So how do you decide if it’s time to file for divorce?Everyone’s tolerance for pain is different, and understanding how much pain you can stand is an important part of deciding on divorce. Using the P.I.E.S. method that we teach at Marriage Helper can guide you to knowing your threshold.It’s important to ask questions like, is it hurting the kids? Am I hurting myself or my partner? Take time to understand your feelings, and don’t make a snap judgment based on a single event.Please leave a comment below, give us your feedback and opinion, and share this episode with someone you believe needs it. Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications to hear more helpful episdodes and unique stories of reconciliation from other people going through the same situations you're in right now. We exercise compassion and understanding to all couples and individuals we meet. We know no one is perfect, and people make mistakes. The best thing you can do is become better for yourself and the people who care. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

Can taking your time getting a divorce actually help save your marriage? If your partner is in limerence, the state of being “madly in love” with someone new, waiting out the newness of that relationship could help.There are ways to do this without becoming someone mean or evil in your partner's eyes. The key takeaways, in this case, are to be firm but fair and don’t let them walk all over you. Your lawyer is trained to handle these situations if your spouse gets agitated in the short term, so listen to their advice.Please leave a comment below, give us your feedback and opinion, and share this video with someone you believe needs it. Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications to hear more helpful videos and unique stories of reconciliation from other people going through the same situations you're in right now. We exercise compassion and understanding to all couples and individuals we meet. We know no one is perfect, and people make mistakes. The best thing you can do is become better for yourself and the people who care. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

Watch this video if you are going through a divorce and want to save your marriage. People file for divorce for numerous reasons. They lose compatibility with their partner; there is a lack of intimacy, or they no longer feel liked, loved, or understood by their partner. People don’t leave what they have unless they believe what they’re going is better. This is the underlying motive for separation and the real reason why people file for divorce. Your spouse believes being out of the marriage is better than being in it. That’s something to keep in mind, especially if your spouse wants a divorce and you don’t know what to do. There are many benefits to marriage. According to research at Marriage Helper, married couples live longer, have better financial stability, better mental health, and live happier lives together than divorced couples. Of course, there are exceptions to this claim, like being married to someone abusive or dependent on drugs, but overall, marriage has its benefits, and marriage is worth it. Learn more about why people file for divorce and apply these tips to save your marriage. In this video, we cover:-Common reasons for divorce -How divorce may stem from your spouse’s past -How susceptibility leads to vulnerability-Suffering adult traumas-Free resources to stop your divorce Reconciliation is complex, but understanding the part you played in your marriage offers self-reflection and positive changes in you your spouse will notice over time. Our couples workshop demonstrates ways to communicate with your spouse, build back intimacy, stop anger, and work together to strengthen your connection. We base our programs on psychology, neuroscience, emotional attraction, and social sciences. From our positive testimonials and success rates, we confidently believe if anything works, this will. Please leave a comment below, give us your feedback and opinion, and share this video with someone you believe needs it. Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications to hear more helpful videos and unique stories of reconciliation from other people going through the same situations you're in right now. We exercise compassion and understanding to all couples and individuals we meet. We know no one is perfect, and people make mistakes. The best thing you can do is become better for yourself and the people who care. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

Our culture over the years has changed dramatically. The number of people willing to participate in an affair continues to grow. More men and women are willing to participate in unfaithfulness because the thought is, "This makes us both happy. And even though I know that you're married to someone else, this was meant to be because it makes us feel good at the moment." And when you live in a culture where it's acceptable to be unfaithful to your spouse, the temptation to do so becomes much, much stronger. Not every single person is like that. But some single people feel so lonely and abandoned that if someone came along, that appears to fulfill their needs, they will choose to engage, even if it isn't healthy to do so. Marriage doesn't solve this problem. Even if a person is married, they might believe at the moment, "This person is just right for me." So it becomes irrelevant that either person is married. And, if the spouse involved in this wants to be involved, they're likely to lie. In this episode, we cover: The three different types of affairs What limerence is and how long it lastsWhy do some people have affairs Free Resources to save your marriage At Marriage Helper, we believe in helping marriages last a lifetime. Let's face it: nothing is perfect, especially not marriage. Unfortunately, 1 out of 3 marriages fails because couples wait an average of six years before seeking marriage help. We have helped save thousands of marriages, and we believe that if anything works, this will.Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications to hear more helpful videos and unique stories of reconciliation from other people going through the same situations you're in right now. We exercise compassion and understanding to all couples and individuals we meet. We know no one is perfect, and people make mistakes. The best thing you can do is become better for yourself and the people who care. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

It never feels good to suspect your spouse is cheating on you. Cheating is a form of betrayal to your marriage and your family life. It's such a severe accusation it could disrupt the trust and foundation of your marriage, so it's essential to be 100% sure before you start raising suspicions toward your spouse. If you believe your spouse is cheating on you, pay attention to the signs before you start snooping around their things. There are signs and ways to expose infidelity without incriminating yourself to turn everything around on you. Cheating is frightening and frustrating, but if you pay attention to the changes in your relationship, it may help you determine where your marriage stands. In this video, we cover:-The roadmaps to cheating-Gaslighting-The missing signs-Reasons for cheating-Behavior changes to watch out for -Hard conversations-Free resources to save your marriage Cheating is never okay, but there may be a deeper issue involved. At Marriage Helper, we have a strong support system of coaches, ebooks, workshops, and free resources like our mini-course to point out signs and offer advice in a broken or troubled marriage. Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications to hear more helpful videos and unique stories of reconciliation from other people going through the same situations you're in right now. At Marriage Helper, we exercise compassion and understanding to all couples and individuals we meet. We know no one is perfect, and people make mistakes. The best thing you can do is learn to become better for yourself and the people who care. Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications to hear more helpful videos and unique stories of reconciliation from other people going through the same situations you're in right now.   Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

Learning that your spouse had an affair is an earth-shattering feeling. It leaves open-ended questions like, "where did we go wrong?" Or "What could I have done differently?" Infidelity happens for numerous reasons, and we all play a part in our marriages. Sometimes cheating happens because of internal traumas, resentment, fading feelings, and more. There's no way to go back in time and figure out what went wrong, so forget about trying to change the past. Reflection is essential, but dwelling on your spouse's actions worsens the feeling and leads you down a rabbit hole. If your marriage feels torn apart by an affair, there are ways to heal and even better ways to forgive your spouse for the pain they've caused. We believe that forgiveness is a process, so even if you don't feel ready yet to forgive your spouse, we offer advice on slowly climbing the stairway to reconciliation and ultimately making your marriage stronger than before. In this episode, we cover: -How to forgive a cheater-Vengeance Vs. Justice -The three steps to Decision-Based Forgiveness-Expressing empathy -Learning to move past the hurt -The reconciliation process-What to do if your spouse doesn't understand your pain-Free resources to help you heal your marriageAn Affair can make or break your relationship. It takes two people to mend a marriage and a lot of effort to rebuild trust. If you desire to work things out with your partner and fall back in love again, the Marriage Helper team is here to support you. Good people make bad decisions, and despite what our friends and family tell us, cheating isn't always black and white. We have worked with couples on the verge of divorce and ones who came back to each other after years of being apart. Our methods work, and we want to share our experiences with you. From our coaches to how-to articles, workshops, and more, we believe if anything works, this will. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

If you have divorced your spouse or want to file for divorce, watch this video today. Going through a divorce is hard, but it doesn’t have to be the end of your marriage. Couples separate mainly because one person no longer feels liked, loved, or respected in their relationship. We are here to help you figure out where your marriage went wrong and how you can win your spouse back. Divorce is common due to infidelity, losing interest, or lack of communication with your spouse. We offer insight into why you feel this way, the part you played in your marriage, and ways to minimize the actions that hurt your relationship. In this episode, we discuss:-Steps to Better Your Relationship-Behaviors that lead to divorce-How to avoid pushing your spouse further away from you -Using consistency to win your spouse back-Actions you should avoid to save your marriage-How to become more attractive for your spouse and yourself -Free resources to help you save your marriageAt Marriage Helper, we believe in the light at the end of the tunnel. If you feel like you’re in this alone. We got you. We have worked with thousands of couples just like you. Couples ready to divorce, those who fell out of love, and even teams left their spouses years ago. Hope is always there if you are prepared to accept it. We have the tools to help you succeed and find the happiness you deserve. From our coaches to how-to articles, workshops, and more, we believe if anything works, this will. 

Should you walk away if your spouse cheated on you? We have the answers here for you in this video. We understand the hurt and frustration you’re feeling right now, and no matter how hard you try, you can’t seem to forgive your spouse for hurting you. At Marriage Helper, we are pro-marriage and believe that long-term marriage is worth it, yet, everyone has their breaking points. Some circumstances call for one person to walk away from the marriage forever, and today we break down the key factors. This episode will help you decide when you should walk away if you’ve caught your spouse in an affair. In this episode, we cover: -Questions to ask yourself before making your decision-Conditions where you should walk away from your marriage-The 10,10,10 rule-How to avoid making impulsive decisions -Ways to boost your mental health -Resources if you wish to save your marriageWhen it comes to marriage, every situation is different. Some are more complex than others, but our experts will guide you .based on scientific-based principles and foundational research relating to all couples no matter the issue. We are here to help you heal and find the happiness you deserve. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

The worst thing about losing your marriage is also losing yourself. Sometimes we've been married for so long that we lose a sense of identity and don't know who we are without our spouse. Today we interview Amanda, a member of our Marriage Helper Community that went through a six-year-long battle with her husband. They were on the edge of divorce, they stopped communicating with each other, and over time things just went from bad to worse. Amanda tells us how she stopped focusing on her marriage and instead concentrated on herself. Through her self-reflective efforts to prioritize her happiness and figure herself out, she became a better person not only for her but for her husband, her children, and her future relationships with friends and family. In the fight for your marriage, you are never alone. There are people just like you who want to stand for their marriage and fight for the one they love. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

Can You Repair A Marriage After Your Spouse Had An Affair?The answer to this burning question is yes. You can repair a marriage after an affair for a lasting and even stronger relationship than when you were dating.According to research at Marriage Helper, 2 out of 3 couples seek marriage counseling services due to their spouse having an affair, teetering on the edge of divorce, or their final attempt to salvage their relationship. If your spouse cheated on you with someone else, you might feel hurt, betrayed, untrusting, suspicious, and maybe even shocked that your marriage has led to this point. If you're asking yourself the question, can you repair a marriage after an affair? We have the answers. In today's article, we uncover reasons for an experience, understand what people or things might draw your spouse away from your marriage, and ways of understanding and rebuilding trust. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

How can you make your marriage better and stronger? Research shows that 33% of married couples want to seek help for their relationship. However, Gottman's research shows that couples wait an average of six years after problems begin to occur in their marriage before they get help. One of the biggest reasons people want out of a relationship is that they feel disrespected. The way you communicate with your spouse, the tone, the facial expressions, and the volume demonstrates the respect you have. Dr. Beam says if you're going to work on anything, work on communication in a way that the other person will most likely hear; that you do communicate respectfully, that you do love them, that you don't like them, and then it'll go a whole lot better if you can do that. Listen to It Starts With Attraction episode with Dr. John Gottman here. Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

It's a fact. Not every marriage is going to make it. However, we wish every marriage would because we are very pro-marriage. In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes provide points about when it may be the right time to divorce and when it's not the right time. Divorce isn't a decision to take lightly. On the contrary, it's a weighty decision that you don't want to make when other people are persuading you, who are saying things to you like:"You'd be better off alone."" Why don't you just go on and divorce." "It sounds like this can't ever work." "I think you just need to go ahead and file the papers."Those are people who are probably very well-meaning but should not and do not get to make that decision for you. It is your life. It is your decision, and you should be the one who makes it because you are the one who has to deal with the outcome.  It is your decision.  This episode will give you great insight and get you to think about some things before making a decision too rashly that you may end up regretting later.Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini-Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseSchedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connectLearn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/

In this episode, Gemma from the Marriage Helper leadership team has a conversation with  Stephen and he shares his brave testimonial about having multiple affairs and still wanting to save his marriage. This testimonial is about betrayal, heartbreak, self-improvement, and hope.  You'll hear Stephen's truth over the years, where he is at today, and the tools he has used to help move forward. If you have had an affair or maybe your spouse did, please see the list of resources below and reach out to us. Affair Toolkit - For The Hurt Spousehttps://marriagehelper.com/product/af...Affair Toolkit - For Help In Deciding To End An Affairhttps://marriagehelper.com/product/af...Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/Get our FREE Mini Course "How To Get Your Spouse Back"https://marriagehelper.com/how-to-get...Schedule a FREE Call with one of our Team Members:https://your.marriagehelper.com/meeti...Learn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/sa...

How can you overcome the emotions of an affair? You can't change emotions just by sheer willpower. Understand that time changes emotions. So the intensity of what you're feeling toward other people will evolve with time. So whatever you or your spouse are feeling towards somebody else right now will not be the same thing you feel three years from now. The actions you take and the behaviors you put into your life working with time will change how quickly your emotions evolve. So we hope that you take from this not that we're trying to discourage you but that we're trying to give you hope. The hope is not in control; the hope is in understanding human nature and that people continue to change.Learn more about our Save My Marriage Course:https://marriagehelper.com/product/sa...Learn more about our Reconciliation Toolkit:https://marriagehelper.com/product/ex...Learn more about our Marriage Saving Workshops:https://marriagehelper.com/workshops/

Let's talk about emotional affairs. Where do they come from? How do they happen? What stages does a person go through when they're having an emotional affair? Typically, an emotional affair will begin with somebody who's not looking for one. Understand that an emotional affair has to involve a deeper, emotional connection with another person. The only way we can develop a deep, emotional connection with another person that's reciprocal, between two people communicating with each other, but not just about mundane, ordinary things.  Typically, an emotional affair will begin with somebody who's not looking for one. Any positive interaction you have with another person can be the beginning of an emotional affair because the first thing that happens after that vulnerability is that you start having interactions with each other to the point that they gradually begin to cross boundaries. There are multiple stages to an emotional affair, so let's talk about them in today's episode.RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Affair Toolkit - For The Hurt Spousehttps://marriagehelper.com/product/af...Affair Toolkit - For Help In Deciding To End An Affairhttps://marriagehelper.com/product/af...Information about our 3-day intensive workshopshttps://marriagehelper.com/workshops/

Do you know the difference between a physical affair and an emotional affair? Typically people refer to an emotional affair with no physical interaction between the two people, or if some physical interaction; it's not regular sex. In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam explains the differences between physical affairs, emotional affairs, and limerence. You'll learn what to do if you or your spouse have had an affair and what you can do to start repairing your marriage. This is a three-part series so make sure you tune in each week as Dr. Joe talks about the stages of affairs.If your marriage needs help, please visit marriagehelper.com for more information.

In this week's episode, Gemma from the Marriage Helper leadership team, interviews Shane, a recent workshop graduate. Shane shares his story of fighting for his marriage by using Marriage Helper resources while his wife stood her ground on wanting a divorce. This is a beautiful story of Shane using the PIES of attraction to work on himself and his relationships. Shane's growth and knowledge are inspiring, and he still hopes to reconcile with his wife and rebuild what they once had. If your marriage needs help, or if any, what Shane has shared, resonates with you, please visit marriagehelper.com for more information.

Did you cheat on your spouse, get caught, and now you don't know what to do?Your mistake doesn't have to last a lifetime and it doesn't have to define you. No matter how you feel right now, this isn't how you will feel forever.Consider all the years you've put into this marriage. Look at all that you have invested into it. Look at who you were before you committed this particular act of cheating and think, which person do I want to be? The person I was before, who was faithful to my spouse, or the person I was when I did that thing which was unfaithful to my spouse.Your marriage can be saved. This doesn't have to be the end. Start by being honest with yourself and your spouse.Join us as we discuss what to do when you've been caught cheating.We have a free mini-course we are offering to all our listeners of this podcast. It's called the How To Fall In Love Again mini-course.  Another way that we have termed it is the How To Get Your Spouse Back mini-course. https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-course

What do you do if your spouse says they don't love you anymore? We know it hurts, but it's not time to panic. We can teach you a way to bring love back to life. We call it the LovePath.Over decades, we have worked with so many couples where that very statement was made and these couples are now very much in love.Love can be built.Love can also be rebuilt.We know that when people follow this process, they can fall in love, and fall back in love even after a crisis.Join us as we discuss what to do when you are in a loveless marriage with your spouse.

You're in marriage counseling with your spouse, but maybe it's not going exactly as you expected. Maybe it seems to be making things worse instead of better.I believe that there are great things that can come from marriage counseling. Still, the number one thing that people need to understand is that marriage and family therapists; licensed professional counselors, are humans.You're not going to get the same experience from one counselor to the next. One person has a different goal for why they're in counseling, and that becomes an ethical issue for the counselor because the counselor has to decide who the client is. Is it you, your spouse, or the marriage?Remember and realize that when you're looking at getting marriage counseling, it is great, number one, that you have decided to get help with something. There is no shame in that.Number two, you can quit a therapist. You do not have to stay with them. Instead, you can find someone you feel is good at what they do that will approve and encourage your spouse and your marriage.And, no matter what happens with counseling, if your spouse is going to a counselor, if counseling is or isn't working, you can continuously work on being the best that you can be.

If you’re married to a self centered spouse, you may be wondering if it’s possible for them to change. Listen to this episode of Relationship Radio  where CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, shares the answer society has been searching for: Can a narcissist change?

This video was created in response to our episode: “Married But In Love With Someone Else?” Listeners commented on the first video wondering if Dr. Beam would have different views on marriage if his lover hadn’t left him and they ended up together. In this Relationship Radio episode, Dr. Beam explains what really happened once his lover left, how his feelings changed, and how he changed. He went from idealizing the situation with his lover, to viewing it more realistically. Dr. Beam wants to encourage us to reach beyond feelings we have at the moment in order to make the right decision.

Is your marriage in trouble? We know how difficult it is: the pain, helplessness, and hurt all seem overwhelming.We not only know this pain, we UNDERSTAND it. We've had the privilege of helping thousands figure a way past this marital mess (and to find a path to being in love with each other again!)YES - even those who said they were not in love with their spouses any longer.YES - even those who wanted OUT because they felt they were deeply in love with someone else.In today’s Relationship Radio episode, Dr. Joe beam explains how you can be the person who doesn't give up on your spouse. How YOU can be a person that will FIGHT for your marriage, and we'll stand alongside you and help in every way we can.

Does your spouse say, “You aren’t fulfilling me sexually.” Or, “If you really loved me, you would want to make love with me.”If so, you probably have a reason why you are refusing sex. Are you refusing sex because you aren’t interested in doing what they want to do sexually- or you aren’t interested in having it as often as they would like? Whatever the reason may be, if you want to make love, that is your right. And, if you don’t want to make love, that is also your right. However,If your spouse is truly, sexually unfulfilled, and you refuse to be a vital part of their sex life, this could be harmful to your marriage.In this Quick Tips Relationship Radio episode, Dr. Joe Beam provides 3 suggestions for how to best approach the situation.

Choosing between lover or spouse – You have a decision to make.It may be that somebody has told you that you’re really not in love with this other person; that it’s a fantasy, that it’s infatuation, or that it will go away. You're trying to make a choice between whether to leave to be with your lover, or stay with your spouse. In other words, you’re married, but you’re thinking:“Maybe I should end the marriage and go to be with this other person because I’ve never felt love like this.”If you are in a situation where you're torn between a lover and your spouse, listen to this 20 minute episode where Dr. Joe Beam shares key things to consider when making this life changing decision.

There are some MAJOR misconceptions about what attraction is and why it matters.Often, attraction is seen as a physical connection or draw to someone...but it’s actually so much more than that. With the thousands of couples we’ve worked with, our principle about attraction helped them transform themselves AND their marriage.What is the principle? We have to first start at the beginning- the process of falling in love. Once you fall in love, continuing in this process leads you to fall deeper in love. However, if you do not continue the process, you can fall out of love. (And, it all starts with attraction.)What is attraction? We know it as the “PIES.” The four pieces of attraction are physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual.In this Quick Tips Relationship Radio episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes, shares how to attract your spouse back using these 4 key principles.

So you’ve heard of this word called “limerence.” (It sounds like some kind of disease, doesn’t it!) Maybe somebody told you, “You’re not in love. What you’re feeling is limerence.” And you’re thinking… “What’s the difference between love and limerence?” I'm here to help. In this Quick Tips episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam, explains the difference between love and limerence. Plus, he'll show you how limerence is this amazing sensation some people feel, but it’s a kind of love that won’t turn out like you expect it to… 

It is one of the most painful things you can experience. You probably think, “What happened to love...to trust?” You may feel anger, even rage. You may be questioning who you thought you married. You may even question yourself.Every day at Marriage Helper, we work with people in these EXACT situations. (And we’ve been doing so for over 20 years.) We understand that people may not want to get back together with their spouse. But since you have decided to listen to this episode, we ask, is there something inside you that – even in your hurt or anger – wants to know if there is a way to put your marriage back together?…or are you wanting to know if it even makes sense to try to do so?In today’s Quick Tips Relationship Radio episode, Dr. Joe Beam presents crucial points to consider when you’re trying to decide if you want to save your marriage. 

You probably never meant for it to happen. It’s not as if you went looking for a lover. However, once you fell in love with someone else other than your spouse, things got rather intense.It may be difficult for you to know exactly how you got into this situation.But no matter how you got here, there are 4 options you have moving forward.Listen to this Quick Tips episode by Dr. Joe Beam to learn  what to do if you're married but in love with someone else.

When you and your spouse are separated, it's hard to know what to do, what to say, how to act, and when to act.Don't worry, though! We are going to give you 5 key things to do when you are in a marriage separation that will help you starting NOW.Tune into this 14 minute Quick Tips Relationship Radio episode to learn how to save your marriage while separated.

Has your spouse had an affair and you want to get back at them?Can we be frank with you? You can’t “get back” at your spouse for having an affair… Whatever you may try to “get back” at them, it can never really satisfy your hurt and pain. Revenge doesn’t work and it can make things much WORSE.So what CAN you do? Is there anything that actually works? YES.Listen to this Quick Tips episode of Relationship Radio to find out what works better than revenge. 

This well-known saying is used a lot in reference to relationships, but is it actually true or helpful in any way?In this Quick Tips Relationship Radio episode, Dr. Joe Beam explains why this saying does NOT reflect true love, and what you should do to save the marriage if you truly love your spouse.

The first season of Relationship Radio has come to an end. In this episode, we share highlights from our most popular episodes including lessons about limerence, reconciliation, sexless marriages, how to save a failing marriage, and more. Learn research based principles that you can implement immediately to start growing or saving your marriage. What we teach will not only make your relationships better but will also help you become the best version of yourself along the wayIf you hear something in these episodes that sparks an interest, check out our full length episodes from this season. We can't wait to continue sharing more relationship content with you in the next season of Relationship Radio.Links:Get our FREE Mini Course “How To Get Your Spouse Back”Schedule a FREE Call with one of our Team MembersLearn more about our Save My Marriage CourseLearn more about our Reconciliation ToolkitLearn more about our Marriage Saving WorkshopsVisit our WebsiteLike us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramBecome The Best Version Of Yourself

Is your spouse madly in love with someone else?If so, you may be asking yourself, "Does this mean my marriage is over?"The short answer is: No!In the last 25 years, we've worked with thousands of couples who have a spouse in "limerence."Through years of research and experience, we know that limerence is considered to be a kind of love, but we know that it has a shelf-life. In this 42 minute episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes share everything you need to know about limerence including how it starts, how it ends, and what to do in the meantime. Mentions:Read free articles and watch free videos hereLearn more about the Marriage Helper Couples Workshop hereFind out more information about our Solo Spouse Workshop hereAsk us your questions about marriageLearn how one spouse can save the marriage with our Save My Marriage Course

In this episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam talks to a couple who have overcome a controlling relationship and build a stronger marriage than ever before.At some point, you learn that no marriage is ever perfect. Vanessa believed that marriage would be like a fairy tale, and when she and Ryan got married, it would be happily ever after and all their problems would vanish. In his teens, Ryan struggled with his "raging male hormones" and pornography addiction. He thought marriage would be a sexual buffet and that he would be in control of his home. Listen to how they found Marriage Helper in a moment of desperation and how they survived the controlling relationship that was dooming them both to a future neither wanted. Mentions:Schedule a call with a Client Representative hereSubmit your marriage question here!Watch our free videos on YouTube hereRead free marriage articles on our websiteRequest to join our Save My Marriage Facebook Community GroupLearn more about our Save My Marriage CourseGet more information about our Turnaround Workshops here It Starts With Attraction Podcast

If your spouse has left you and you’ve been working on becoming the best version of yourself, you may wonder, “What can I do to show my spouse that I have changed?”“How do I get them to see I’ve changed and come back home?”You want to change the trajectory of where your marriage is headed and bring your spouse back. But here’s the thing: Marriage difficulties typically do not occur overnight. And saving your marriage doesn’t either.If you want to solve your marriage issues, you must remember two key words: CONSISTENCY and TIME.Tune into this episode of Relationship Radio where Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes share three key tips to drawing your spouse back and rebuilding love in your relationship.Mentions:Marriage Helper CoachingAsk Us Your Marriage Questions Here

Has your spouse had an affair? Do you feel like all hope for saving your marriage is lost?Jordan also felt like his marriage was over after he found out his wife, Priscilla, was having an affair. After years of sweeping marriage problems under the rug, Jordan and Priscilla found themselves at a point of crisis. Listen to this episode to learn how Jordan and Priscilla were able to overcome a limerent affair and achieve a marriage stronger than ever before.No matter what has happened in your marriage, there is hope. There is a way forward. We will show you how.Mentions:Learn more about our Online Couples Workshop here: https://marriagehelper.com/couples-workshop/Access our PIES course & SMART Contact Toolkit here: https://marriagehelper.com/product/smart-contact-toolkit-product/You can also find out more about PIES in "It Start with Attraction Podcast": https://piesuniversity.com/piescast/

Do you feel sexually rejected by your spouse?Maybe you've been feeling unhappy with your sex life for a long-period of time, or maybe you've just started feeling rejected...Your spouse seems uninterested in having sex and you don't know why. Here's the thing... Men and women are different when it comes to sex. But THIS is true for both spouses:Everything that happens outside the bedroom affects what happens inside the bedroom. And everything that happens inside the bedroom affects what happens outside the bedroom.Even if your sex life isn't where you want it to be right now, the spark in your marriage CAN be re-lit.In this episode of Relationship Radio, marriage experts Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes share how to achieve marital satisfaction through sexual satisfaction. Links Mentioned:The Spark CourseCouples WorkshopSave My Marriage Course

Are you feeling stuck in your marriage? Do you feel like you cannot overcome the struggles that started the day you said "I Do"? In today's episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam interviews Karson and Ashley, a couple who overcame years of communication obstacles as well as an affair. If you're feeling like there is no hope for your marriage, listen to this testimony from a couple who experienced marriage troubles first-hand.Marriage CAN be brought back to life after years of hopelessness. Tune into this episode to learn how. Mentions:Learn more about our Save My Marriage Course here: https://marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/Find our PIES Bootcamp here: https://marriagehelper.com/product/pies-bootcamp/"Three Prayers About Love That God Won't Answer" Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationship-radio-marriage-sex-limerence-avoiding/id978519992?i=1000376905577Request to join our Save My Marriage Community Facebook Group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/783603618395431Find more information about our Marriage Helper Workshop here: https://marriagehelper.com/couples-workshop/Subscribe to our YouTube Channel here: http://youtube.com/marriagehelperLearn more about Marriage Helper Coaching here: https://marriagehelper.com/coaching/

Are you struggling to trust your spouse after they were unfaithful to you? They broke your trust by having an affair, but they want to make your marriage work now. They are telling you that they've changed, but you're worried they might hurt you all over again.You may be asking yourself..."Is it possible to ever trust my spouse again?" "How can I make sure they don't hurt me this time?"The good news is... Trust CAN be rebuilt. It's not easy.  But it IS possible. There is a path and a way to move forward.+ AND it is worth it.Listen to this 1 hour episode of Relationship Radio where Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes share specific steps for how to rebuild trust after an affair.Links Mentioned:Submit Your Marriage Question HereSchedule a Call With a Client RepresentativeMarriage Helper's YouTube ChannelPIES University: It Starts With AttractionThe Art of Falling In Love BookFree Mini CourseXXX Church Sex Help Sexaholics Anonymous Samson Society & Samson and the Pirate Monks Book

Sometimes you may wonder, "What's the story of real people that you guys at Marriage Helper help?" We've given countless illustrations of marriages saved, but in this episode, you can hear from a couple first-hand about how they were able to save their marriage.In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam interviews Ren & Adelé, a couple whose marriage was impacted by multiple affairs as well as addictions. Listen to this episode for an incredible testimony of reconciliation and redemption filled with lessons of communication, forgiveness, hope, and more.Mentions:Access our SMART Contact and PIES courses here: https://marriagehelper.com/product/smart-contact-toolkit-product/You can also find out more about PIES in "It Start with Attraction Podcast": https://piesuniversity.com/piescast/Learn more about our Online Couples Workshop here: https://marriagehelper.com/couples-workshop/Find our question topic of the week and submit your question here: https://marriagehelper.com/ask-your-marriage-questions/“Can One Spouse Save a Marriage” Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSUw6JP3tf4&t=38s

You want to save your marriage, but your spouse has made it clear that he/she wants out. Maybe they’ve already filed for divorce.Maybe you are separated and living in separate places. Maybe they’re still living with you but are saying they’re done.But you want the marriage to work. So what do you do?You may be asking yourself…“Is it even possible to save a marriage when my spouse wants out?” “Can a failing marriage be saved? If so, how?” “Can it be saved even if there’s been an affair?”On this episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes talk about how to save a marriage in turmoil. Even if your spouse has already made up their mind about wanting to separate, there IS hope. One spouse CAN save the marriage. We will show you how in today’s episode of Relationship Radio.Links Mentioned:Save My Marriage CourseIntervention ToolsPIES University: It Starts With Attraction"What Is Love?" EpisodeFree Mini Course

We hear from people who say things like, "My spouse is involved with another person, but also seems interested in me. Is this something other people face?"The answer is... Absolutely. As a matter of fact, we have a name for it. We call it "The Valley."Your spouse is having a good relationship with the affair partner as well as with the spouse that is being abandoned. This double life has pros and cons. The pro can be that he or she is spending time with you, and if it appears to be working well. As long as you can tolerate this, it may well be to your advantage. It can with time bring him home. The con is that he is still with the other woman or man, and that relationship may be going well also. If so, he won’t feel any need to change anything.If your spouse is in The Valley, you may be feeling confused.Your spouse is doing things that lead you to believe your marriage is going to end. Yet, at the same time, they may be showing signs they don't want to let go of you. The Valley is about your spouse being in-between two things and not having to make a choice right now. People may say they are getting the best of both worlds.You may be asking yourself, "Should I allow my spouse to be in the valley?" Or, "Should I set a boundary for myself and  force my spouse to make a choice?"If you want your spouse to finally make a choice, ultimatums typically do NOT yield the results people are hoping for.Instead, we will share with you practical steps to bring you the sense of peace you are searching for.If you are ready to learn what TO DO and what NOT TO DO when your spouse is in The Valley, listen to this 50 minute episode where Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes share what has worked best in the thousands of marriages that have been saved.Links Mentioned:Should I Have Sex With My Husband During His Affair VideoFree How To Get Your Spouse Back Mini Course

All the time people come to us saying, "We tried to reconcile, but it's just impossible. We got back together thinking we can do it, then it didn't work.”You know why? Because they didn't know how.Think about it like this… Imagine you want to replace the spark plugs in your car. You can have every intention of doing it. But if you don’t know how or where the spark plugs even are... You’re gonna fail.People are blindsided because they think they’re reconciling when they're not. So how can you know if you’re actually reconciling or not? Or how to make it happen?These people struggled but figured it out with our help:“We had been to three different marriage counselors in the first 10 years of our marriage. We got like one decent takeaway. There was just so much pain, so much hurt. It just seemed impossible.”“We're sitting here seven years later, and it is a daily impact on our marriage, on our children, regardless  of how lost, how broken, how hopeless you believe the circumstances. If you're just willing to invest a little bit of time, it's incredible the long-lasting impact that it can have.”“At the end of the day, he chose not to even show me the divorce papers. He took them with him and he  chose to continue talking. So for the first time, in a long time, I face the future of our marriage with hope.”Do you want to know how to have a complete breakthrough right away? No years of counseling necessary. In fact, bringing up the past is the worst way to fix a marriage.Instead, there’s a MUCH better way to reconcile… Even when it seems impossible, and like your marriage is still falling apart despite your best efforts. If you want to know how, listen to this 41 minute podcast where Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes share how to get back the marriage you first had when you said “I do."

If you are looking to fall in love, grow in love, or fall in love again with your spouse, then this is the podcast for you.This is Relationship Radio. It is an interactive podcast where relationship expert, Dr. Joe Beam, and Kimberly Holmes, will answer your questions  about how to make your marriage even better.No matter what stage of life your marriage is in, this is the show for you.Every week, we take callers' questions and answer those questions with real, actionable tips that you can take away and begin to implement in your own life.Be sure to subscribe to be updated every week when  a brand new show drops. Also, leave a review because we love to hear from you!

If you think your spouse is cheating, but you're not sure, this podcast is for you. You may be thinking, "Is there any way to determine if my spouse is cheating on me?" In this episode, Dr. Beam shares 5 things to consider when assessing whether or not your spouse is cheating.*Dr. Joe Beam will be taking a temporary break from the live call show as he and the MH team are working on some new (and exciting!) endeavors.

If you are married to someone who has fallen “madly in love” with another, this program is for you. If you wish to save your marriage but think it impossible because your husband or wife is in limerence with another, Dr. Beam’s explanations of limerence, especially understanding the three phases, can guide you in the process of saving your marriage. As he says, “If anything works, this will work.” In today's podcast, we will be talking about the final stage of limerence: Deterioration. *Dr. Joe Beam will be taking a temporary break from the live call show as he and the MH team are working on some new (and exciting!) endeavors.

In today's podcast, we are going to be talking about the second phase of limerence. If you are madly in love with someone else or your spouse is madly in love with someone else, tune into this podcast. Dr. Joe Beam is going to help you understand limerence to a deep degree.*Dr. Joe Beam will be taking a temporary break from the live call show as he and the MH team are working on some new (and exciting!) endeavors.

Have you found out that your spouse is madly in love with someone else? You may be wondering, "Why?!" In today's podcast, learn all about the first stage of limerence: Infatuation. If you want to know why limerence occurs, how long it lasts, and how to identify it, tune into this episode.

You accept responsibility for what you did. You're sorry that you hurt your spouse. You want to put things back together. Not just like it was before but better. The hurt you see in their eyes hurts you. At times their pain explodes in anger. Sometimes toward you; sometimes toward other things. You asked your spouse to forgive you. You told them how sorry you are that it happened. Yet your mate isn't reacting as you had hoped. Maybe they said that they can't forgive what you did. Maybe they haven't made a decision but their actions lead you to believe that when they do it isn't going to be good.Is there something you can do? Are there magic words? Actions? Will you have to live like this for years to come? Or are you already thinking that if they can't forgive, you can't stay because the pain you feel is too great? You don't want to live with a person in perpetual misery. Or everlasting anger. You accept that there are consequences to what you did but you don't feel that you can stay in the marriage only to be punished day after day.If you want your spouse to forgive you and move past where you are now, in this program Dr. Joe Beam explains what to do and what NOT to do. Dr. Beam also takes live calls about other relationship issues or advice you wish to ask about.This program begins at 12:30 p.m. Central Time on Monday, August 3, here on BlogTalkRadio. You can also find it live (as well as recorded previous programs and hundreds more marriage and relationship videos) at YouTube.com/MarriageHelper. Call the program live at 657-383-0812. When you hear an answer, press 1 to be put in the queue to speak with Dr. Beam. Be sure to check out more videos, audios, articles, and other resources for relationships at www.MarriageHelper.com.

Your spouse left you for another person.But now the affair partner is gone. You thought that they were the problem. You expected your spouse to try to make amends with you. To come back sorry for what they had done. Instead, your mate has indicated little to no interest in restoring a relationship with you or trying to rescue your marriage. Why?Is it you? Are you so unlovely and unlovable that they have no desire to be with you ever again?Is it your mate? Have they become so selfish or hardened toward you that they won't ever care about you again?It's quite a blow to your self-esteem. The hope you had for reconciliation is fading quickly into cynical resignation that what was will never be again.Is there hope? Can someone explain what's happening? Give you direction for maybe making it work?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains why spouses don't come back right away. He gives you an understanding of what's happening and how to use that knowledge to your advantage. He gives you the pathway to overcome the problem and eventually rebuild the marriage.Dr. Beam also takes live calls about other relationship issues or advice you wish to ask about.This program begins at 12:30 p.m. Central Time on Monday, July 27 here on BlogTalkRadio. You can also find it live (as well as recorded previous programs and hundreds more marriage and relationship videos) at YouTube.com/MarriageHelper. Call the program live at 657-383-0812. When you hear an answer, press 1 to be put in the queue to speak with Dr. Beam. Be sure to check out more videos, audios, articles, and other resources for relationships at www.MarriageHelper.com.

Your spouse cheated on you.Now they're back. Say they want to make the marriage work.You want to get beyond the pain, to have a better marriage than it was before. At times you think you're well on your way. Sometimes you think you'll never heal.Although you're trying to get past it and make your marriage good again, you hurt. Some days more than others. You find yourself reliving the lies, the devastating sense of loss, the violation of your trust. What do you do?End it and go your own way? Swallow the pain and do the best you can? Or find a way to heal your relationship and your heart.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains a pathway to healing from the deep hurt caused by your spouse's infidelity and deception. It takes time but you can find peace during the progress. If you don't progress, you'll live in pain much longer. That pain may lead to some very poor decisions or actions. Dr. Beam also takes live calls about dealing with healing from the pain your spouse's actions caused you, as well as other relationship issues or advice you wish to ask about.This program begins at 12:30 p.m. Central Time on Monday, July 20 here on BlogTalkRadio. You can also find it live (as well as recorded previous programs and hundreds more marriage and relationship videos) at YouTube.com/MarriageHelper. Call the program live at 657-383-0812. When you hear an answer, press 1 to be put in the queue to speak with Dr. Beam. Be sure to check out more videos, audios, articles, and other resources for relationships at www.MarriageHelper.com. 

Having in-law problems?Some in-laws are awesome. Loved. Respected. Helpful.Some are not. WAY not!Difficult in-laws can cause major trouble. They can be very critical, demeaning you if you say or do anything they don't like. Not just to you but to others about you including your spouse and your children. They can influence your spouse's other relatives against you. They may even try to convince your spouse to divorce you. In short, they can make your life miserable.If you have in-laws like that, what do you do? Grin and bear it? Complain bitterly to your spouse? Fight back? Move to a different country?It's time to stop living in misery because of problem relatives. In this live call-in program, Dr. Joe Beam gives practical advice about how to deal with terrible in-laws, explaining what TO DO and what NOT to do.Dr. Beam also takes live calls about dealing with in-laws as well as other relationship issues or advice you wish to ask about.This program begins at 12:30 p.m. Central Time on Monday, July 13 here on BlogTalkRadio. You can also find it live (as well as recorded previous programs and hundreds more marriage and relationship videos) at YouTube.com/MarriageHelper. Call the program live at 657-383-0812. When you hear an answer, press 1 to be put in the queue to speak with Dr. Beam. Be sure to check out more videos, audios, articles, and other resources for relationships at www.MarriageHelper.com.

Marriage in trouble? Love your spouse? Looking for solutions to save your marriage?If so, do NOT do the wrong thing that so many people do. The very things they do to salvage the relationship become the very things that help destroy it.In this live call-in program, Relationship Radio host Dr. Joe Beam explains which efforts to rescue your marriage work and, more importantly, which ones DON'T work. Our organization hears these words regularly, "I knew what I was doing was pushing my spouse away, but didn't understand why or how."In his work with couples in crisis over the last 26 years, Dr. Beam has guided thousands to understand why focusing on saving their marriage was the wrong thing to do and what they should be doing instead. In this program, he spends the first section explaining what you shouldn't do and what to do instead if you desire restoring your marriage and having a loving home again. Then, he takes live callers for the remainder of the program to answer your questions about your marriage.This program begins at 12:30 p.m. Central Time on Monday, July 6 here on BlogTalkRadio. You can also find it live (as well as recorded previous programs and hundreds more marriage and relationship videos) at YouTube.com/MarriageHelper. Call the program live at 657-383-0812. When you hear an answer, press 1 to be put in the queue to speak with Dr. Beam. Be sure to check out more videos, audios, articles, and other resources for relationships at www.MarriageHelper.com.

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That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!!Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question!During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it!**Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"**Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio!We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

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When you are going through the middle of a marriage struggle, it can be hard to believe that there is any hope for your marriage. You are wondering: "Is there really any hope for my situation?" "What if I do all of this work, and it still doesn't work?" "Can my marriage actually be saved?" At Marriage Helper, we believe that there IS hope. We have seen thousands of marriages saved and worked with every situation that you can imagine. And on Monday, we want to highlight those stories. We want to highlight stories of hope in our show today. Stories of reconciliation, redemption, and recovery. Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our 📞live caller system📞 and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! **Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes talk about how depression can affect your relationship. If you would like to ask your question about a marriage difficulty you are going through, simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Today at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our live caller system and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!!Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question!During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! 

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our ??live caller system?? and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!!Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question!During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it!**Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"**Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio!We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our ??live caller system?? and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!!Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question!During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it!**Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"**Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio!We can’t wait to speak with you!

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Today at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our ??live caller system?? and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! 

Do you want to know what love is?Or are you happy experiencing whatever comes your way? If so, prepare for disappointment.The basis for love beyond the ordinary isn't in finding the right person. Nor is it a technique, formula, or secret hidden from all but the initiated.Exquisite, extraordinary love begins in the most logical place...the only place...that deeply satisfying love can begin.If you hear only the short explanation, you'll miss the power and dismiss it as unimportant. If you listen carefully, probe deeply, and learn wisely, you will unlock the deepest love within you. Love for yourself. For the person worthy of sharing your life. For life itself and anyone in it important to you.Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes, M.A., discuss this extraordinary and exquisite love that you can have in their special LIVE program Monday, January 6, beginning at 12:30 p.m. Central Time. Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question about our topic.

Can One Spouse Save a Marriage? It seems impossible...especially if you are in the middle of it. You want to make your marriage work, but your spouse wants out.Is it even worth trying? Should you give up and move on? Is it true that if you love someone, you should let them go?Even though it is hard, you can save your marriage...- Even if your spouse wants out- Even if your spouse is gone- Even if your spouse is disengagedBut there is the RIGHT way to save your marriage when your spouse wants out......and there is the WRONG way.Today, we are going to talk about the right things that you should focus on in to save your marriage...even if right now, you're the only one wanting to make it work.Additionally, we have a BIG ANNOUNCEMENT on today's show... so tune in to learn what it is!After we discuss this, imply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Monday at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our ??live caller system?? and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!!Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question!During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it!**Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook Or Youtube) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"**We can’t wait to speak with you!

When you are going through the middle of a marriage struggle, it can be hard to believe that there is any hope for your marriage. You are wondering:"Is there really any hope for my situation?""What if I do all of this work, and it still doesn't work?""Can my marriage actually be saved?"At Marriage Helper, we believe that there IS hope. We have seen thousands of marriages saved and worked with every situation that you can imagine. And today, we want to highlight those stories. We want to highlight stories of hope in our show today. Stories of reconciliation, redpemption, and recovery. Afterwards, we will take live calls to answer your specific questions. It airs live on BlogTalkRadio, and on at www.YouTube.com/MarriageHelper on Monday, December 16, from 12:30 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. Central Time. You can watch or listen later to the recorded version, of course.To ask Dr. Beam your question, call 657-383-0812 during the live show. When you hear the answer, press the number 1 on your phone to get into the queue.For more about relationships, subscribe free to our YouTube channel mentioned above. Also, go to our website at www.MarriageHelper.com.

Some misguided people claim that the best tactic for rescuing a lost relationship is to practice NO contact.We strongly disagree.No contact is a manipulative method. IF you were somehow to get your ex back by manipulation, how would you keep them in the relationship? More manipulation?The much better method is what we call SMART contact.SMART contact does NOT badger the other person with communication they don't want. NOR does it play the game of NO contact in hopes that somehow that will trigger their missing you. After all, if they want away from you, wouldn't NO contact be exactly what they want. Why, then, would it be the strategy for trying to restore the relationship?SMART contact is just that -- SMART!You may find yourself feeling a strong desire to continually contact your ex during this holiday season. NO contact makes that desire overwhelming. SMART contact guides you to know when and how to contact.In this program, Dr. Beam explains three quick principles of SMART contact that you can use immediately. Then he takes live calls to answer your specific questions. It airs live on BlogTalkRadio, and on at www.YouTube.com/MarriageHelper on Monday, December 16, from 12:30 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. Central Time. You can watch or listen later to the recorded version, of course.To ask Dr. Beam your question, call 657-383-0812 during the live show. When you hear the answer, press the number 1 on your phone to get into the queue.For more about relationships, subscribe free to our YouTube channel mentioned above. Also, go to our website at www.MarriageHelper.com. *SMART Contact™ is a registered trademark of Marriage Helper. 

You've heard it phrased in various ways. "If you love someone, let them go. If they come back to you, they are yours forever. If they don't come back, they never were yours."What a ridiculous idea!Maybe it originated with someone trying to help a friend feel better after her lover left her. Or perhaps it started with some guy trying to find a way to feel that it wasn't his fault that his relationship ended.It's wrong. No matter where it began or who says it.We've worked with thousands of couples where one wanted away from the other, denied loving their spouse (or used the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" bomb), or even were convinced that they love someone else. Even when it appeared all hope was gone, we've witnessed the majority of these couples who asked us to help turn things around be in love with each other again.Of course, no one seeks help if they follow that dumb idea of "let them go so that maybe they'll come back." Think like that and it IS over.In this program, Dr. Beam takes the first few minutes to explain WHY you should stand for your marriage rather than passively allowing it to end. He also explains WHAT to do that has the best likelihood of rescuing your lost love. For the remainder of the program, he answers questions from those who call in during the live show. It airs live on BlogTalkRadio, and on at www.YouTube.com/MarriageHelper on Monday, December 9, from 12:30 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. Central Time. You can watch or listen later to the recorded version, of course.To ask Dr. Beam your question, call 657-383-0812 during the live show. When you hear the answer, press the number 1 on your phone to get into the queue.For more about relationships, subscribe free to our YouTube channel mentioned above. Also, go to our website at www.MarriageHelper.com.

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Today at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our ??live caller system?? and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it! 

That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Today at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our ??live caller system?? and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!!Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows, we may just give away a few FREE resources that could dramatically change your marriage as you now know it!Also, if you want to listen to the show more privately (off of Facebook Or Youtube) feel free to call the phone number and listen in without pressing "1"** Be sure to click the button that says “GET REMINDER” so that you are notified once we go live in the Marriage Helper studio! We can’t wait to speak with you!

Men are NOT from Mars nor women from Venus.It's not planets that keep them from deeply connecting; it's the way they misread each other.Ever wonder why your wife is so sensitive while she's wondering why you're so dense?The answer lies in what psychologists call emotional intelligence. We call it a relationship survival.If you're ready to WOW her, we can tell you how.In this program, Dr. Beam gives you three simple steps that can immediately bring you and your wife closer together. You'll understand her and she'll love you for it. This episode of Marriage Helper Live airs live from 12:30 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. (central) on Monday, November 18, 2019.If you wish to speak to Dr. Beam about your situation, call 657-383-0812 during the program.  Watch live or at later convenience at www.YouTube.com/MarriageHelper. Go there now to subscribe so that you will know when each episode airs, as well as gaining access to many videos about marriage relationships.

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions:"Should I keep the gifts from his affair partner?""How can I show him I'm changing while separated?""How can I rebuild our relationship after lying for 4 years?""How do I know if there's a chance for reconciliation?""Should I keep pushing her to get help?" 

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: "Husband conflicted about his 10 year affair and our marriage?""Family having a hard time interacting after husband's affair.""How can I help hold my friend accountable to stop affair?""How can I win back my husband through long-distance?""How do I get out of my affair?"

You’re in an affair. Part of you wants to continue. Another part of you feels that you should end it.  You tried to end it before, but it wasn’t long until you were back in it again. Either your affair partner knew how to pull you back…or the emotions you feel while with that partner compelled you to return. If you want to end the affair…or if you’re wavering about whether you should…Dr. Joe Beam explains three things to do to end the affair. These three actions work even if you feel that you’re madly in love with your affair partner. Join us for the program to discover what they are and how to use them well. If you can’t watch the program live, see the link below to watch the program later. This episode of Marriage Helper Live airs live from 12:30 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. (central) on Monday, November 11, 2019. If you wish to speak to Dr. Beam about your situation, call 657-383-0812 during the program.  Watch live or at later convenience at www.YouTube.com/MarriageHelper. Go there now to subscribe so that you will know when each episode airs, as well as gaining access to many videos about marriage relationships.

Maybe you’re having an affair because you’re madly in love with the Affair Partner. Or maybe it’s because you’re getting some sexual or emotional need filled that you weren’t getting in your marriage or other relationship.Yet, you clicked on this title – Three Reasons to End an Affair – for a reason. A part of you, even if it’s only a small part of you, wonders or worries whether you should end it. Go back to your marriage, or perhaps allow your lover to go back to his or her marriage. If you ask your friends, their advice is biased by their own experiences – good or bad – and their love for you. That’s why you don’t completely trust what they think.Would you like a professional, unbiased viewpoint?In this episode of Marriage Helper Live, Dr. Joe Beam explains three things to consider before you decide either to continue or to end your affair. It’s your decision, not anyone else’s. If you want to make it with both eyes open to the things you need to know, join Dr. Beam live from 12:30 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. (central) on Monday, November 4, 2019. If you can’t join live, the link below will lead you to it at your later convenience.if you wish to speak to Dr. Beam about your situation, call 657-383-0812 during the program. Watch it live at www.YouTube.com/MarriageHelper or watch it later at that same address. Go there now to subscribe so that you will know when each episode airs, as well as gaining access to many videos about marriage relationships. 

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: "My husband denies an affair. Should he have to admit it?""My husband left to be with 22 year old affair partner. What now?""How do I keep myself from being hurt again emotionally?""Should I keep havign sex with him during his affair?""Husband said he's only around for the kids. What do I do?""Why should I leave my affair partner?"

You’ve never felt this way before. Anger, pain, fear, doubt, and helplessness are holding you hostage. Your spouse broke your trust. Is forgiveness possible? Can the marriage be rebuilt?  You want to work towards reconciling your relationship but have no idea where to start. Can trust be repaired once it’s been destroyed? In this episode of Marriage Helper Live, Dr. Joe Beam explains how spouses can learn to trust again and three crucial principles that can open the door to healing.  This program airs live from 12:30 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. (central) on Monday, October 28, 2019.if you wish to speak to Dr. Beam about your situation, call 657-383-0812 during the program or watch live at https://www.facebook.com/MarriageHelper/.

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: "My wife is going through a mid-life crisis. What can I do?""He keeps talking with her even though he says it's over!?""He's watched for 11 years. How can I build back trust?""Our open marriage turned affair. How do we reconcile?""Do I set an ultimatum when he's in limbo with his affair?""How do I make her feel loved while using SMART Contact?" 

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: "How do I trust my husband again after his affair?""Should I drag out the divorce or try to attend the workshop?""Do I allow her to come home for the kids?""How do I know if the affair will last?""I had multiple affairs. Is there any hope for our marriage?""He told me to move on. I did. Now he wants me back?"

You fear that you will end up alone...without ever truly understanding what went wrong. Your mate's infidelity takes an unbearable toll on your heart. How did it start? Does it end?You want to understand what’s happening and how your marriage can survive this affair.In this episode of Marriage Helper Live, Dr. Joe Beam explains why spouses cheat. He also shares the one essential thing you must do if you wish to save your marriage.This program airs live from 12:30 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. (central) on Monday, October 21, 2019.if you wish to speak to Dr. Beam about your situation, call 657-383-0812 during the program or watch live https://www.facebook.com/MarriageHelper/.

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: "Why did my husband close his eyes when he saw me naked?""Could conseling during his affair make things worse for us?""Am I wasting my time now that we're divorced?""Should I still be intimate with my husband during affair?""Is it a good idea for my wife to move out?""How do I show my husband I will trust him again?""How can I prevent myself from cheating on my husband?"  

Sometimes you think you've lost your mind. Other times you know in your heart that it's true. The one you love is abandoning you. Slowly, yet surely, leaving you for someone else.Are you insane in thinking this? Or are your fears evolving into a horrible reality?How can you tell? How can you know for sure?Part of you doesn't want to know because when you do you may have to face a reality that you don't want. But part of you has to know...to end this torture.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam gives you five questions to find the truth. He also shares what you can do if your spouse is cheating. Dr. Beam also takes your questions. To speak with him directly about your situation, call 657-383-0812 during the program.This program airs live from 12:30 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. (Central) on Monday, October 14, 2019.Watch live at YouTube.com/MarriageHelper. SUBSCRIBE NOW TO THIS YOUTUBE CHANNEL FOR MANY MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP VIDEOS.

Your spouse loves someone else.Why? Is it that they no longer love you? Has the other person somehow lured them away? Why does your spouse want them? The answer may surprise you. Do you want to understand why this happened to you...what your spouse is going through...why they've changed so much?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam answers these questions and explains how you can have hope to rescue your marriage even if it appears there is no hope.After explaining infidelity, Dr. Beam takes your questions. To speak with him directly about your situation, call 657-383-0812 during the program. This program airs live from 12:30 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. (Central) on Monday, September 30, 2019.Watch live at YouTube.com/MarriageHelper. 

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: "Am I devaluing myself while he continues to talk to her?""My wife had an emotional affair and moved out. What now?""How do you stop infidelity when you've done all you can?""We only have contact once per week. What do we talk about?""My daughters refuse to speak to father. How do I handle it?"

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: "How do I know what he says is what he means?""How do I move deeper into our relationship?""She filed for divorce during reconciliation. What now?""My husband wants to move in with affair partner. What now?""Is separation a good option?""Could working on my PIES push my husband to affair partner?"

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On today's live show, Kimberly Holmes and Jim Porteau speak with callers about the following questions: "How can I be a safe place without pushing?""Is my wife still in limerence?""If I don't say anything, does it make me a doormat?""My wife wants to move out all of the sudden. What do I do?""How do I place boundaries when it comes to finances?""My counselor said to end the marriage. What do I do?"

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “How do I make my marriage work when husband wants divorce?”“Should we keep having sex while he’s in an affair?”“How does a career change affect working on my PIES?”“Husband won’t make changes that I requested. What do I do?”“How do I leave a 15 year-long love affair?”

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On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: “What do I do if she says it’s too late to save the marriage?”“Husband’s affair partner is moving to be near us. What do I do?”“How do I maintain healthy communication with my spouse?”“Husband can’t get over his affair partner. What can I do?”“Is asking my wife to go to counseling a PUSH behavior?

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On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: “Is a letter a good idea to bring reconciliation?”“How can I try to save my long-distance marriage?”“My wife is having an affair with another woman. What do I do?”“Should I request a CORE/STOP for my husband to communicate?”“How do I respond when my husband says sex is just physical?”“Husband wants polygamous marriage. How do I leave?”

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On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: “Is SMART Contact & PIES working for me in my marriage?”“When do I ask about reconciling with my wife?”“To reconcile, should I force my wife to end her affair?”“I’ve cheated on my husband several times. Can it be saved?”“My wife wants counseling but no intentions to reconcile?”

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: “My wife is angry because I requested child support. How can I respond in the best way?""Can my spouse revert to a previous stage of limerence?""My husband lost his job, became depressed, and got in an emotional affair. What can I do while my husband is 'figuring it out'?""My husband won't speak to me. How can I create conversations with him in a productive way without pushing?""Is my marriage worth saving?""Do positive changes in my behavior push him away even more?""How do I tell my cheating husband how I feel?"

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “What do I do when my husband doesn't know what he wants?""What can I do to win my wife back? Is NO contact good?""Should I let my wife go or fight to save her?""What do I do when my wife is emotionally 'gone'? What can I do to let her know I'm here for her?""Is it a good idea for us to be romantic during her affair?""I've done all the wrong things. What do I do now?""We tried to reconcile, but he keeps going back to her.""How do I get my wife to trust me again?"

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On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: “How can I save my marriage after we separated?""I feel like my husband is just coming to the workshop to appease me. Should I still come to the workshop?""How do I reconnect with my wife once I move closer to her?""How do I use SMART contact without business items?""How do you let go of a marraige when you have been divorced for a year?""Should we avoid family while trying to work on our marriage?""Is the workshop the best tool to help us save our marriage?""Is it necessary to talk about my husband's affair partner?""How can I respond when he says I'm controlling?""I'm changing by doing my PIES. Could that backfire?"

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: “I've been doing SMART contact for two weeks. When should I contact my spouse about non-business items?""I feel distant from my spouse during our separation. How do I use SMART contact with an introverted spouse?""My wife is unaware of her limerence. How can I bring it up?""How do I bring my spouse back when they'd rather be alone?""We've been separated for a year. Is intimacy during separation a good idea?""My son attempted suicide because of father's affair.""Wife now with a controlling affair partner. What can I do?"*SMART Contact™ is a registered trademark of Marriage Helper. 

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: “If my wife moves back but is still involved with her affair partner, what kind of boundaries should I set?""Will intervention stop limerence from continuing?""No contact for a year. How can I start the conversation?""How can I get my wife to talk to me?""My husband separated from me so he can 'miss me and fall in love with me' again. How do we fix things?""My husband is still having an affair, but he is still intimate with me. He says he cannot connect emotionally with me. What can I do?""Husband has more in common with his affair partner than with me. I want to save the marriage, but he does not want to. How can I save the marriage?""Husband is seeking group sex. Is this normal behavior for a person in limerence?"

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “Is asking for child support a PUSH behavior?”“How can my children help get my husband to the workshop?”“How do I respond to a husband hesitant about reconciling?”“My wife responded negatively to me hiring an attorney!”“How do I move back AND be a safe place to my husband?”“Should I speak up about my wife’s damaging relationship?”“Am I in denial, or is my husband in limerence?”

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On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: “Should I tell my wife I lover her and want to make it work before our court hearing date?""Now that my husband is home, what do I do?""Do I keep trying to save our marriage or give up?""Is it possible to reconcile after 5 years of reconciliation?""Can limerence happen with the same person more than once?""What can I do to get my wife to come back?""How do I control my emotions to be who she needs me to be?"

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “How do I keep standing for my marriage when I want to give up?""When should I ask my spouse to come to the workshop?""Can I save the marriage when my wife doesn't want to?""My husband is contemplating divorce. How do I talk to him?""How can I avoid PUSH behaviors while living with my spouse?""Husband got affair partner pregnant, but he still loves me. What do I do?""How can my husband and I move past our previous affairs?"

Live Caller Q&A With Kimberly Holmes & Amber NickleIn this podcast, Kimberly Holmes & Amber Nickle address these questions:"How do I talk to my wife while avoiding PUSH behaviors?""How do I set boundaries to make our marriage better?""How do I voice my concerns without sounding controlling?""Should I pursue answers ro wait for my wife to bring it up?""How do I get my husband to talk about our marriage?""Is my husband having an affair and not telling me?

Live Caller Q&A With Kimberly Holmes & Jim Pourteau. In this podcast, Kimberly Holmes & Jim Pourteau address these questions:"My wife is sending mixed signals. Should I start no contact?""When should I stop trying to save my marriage?""How do I ask my reluctant spouse to come to the workshop?""How do I start reconciliation the right way?""Should I tell my teenage son about our marriage situation?""Wife diagnosed me as a narcissist. What do I do?""How do I handle my husband's vacillation?"

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Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes. In this podcast, Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes address these questions:"How do I stand for my marriage as the wayward spouse?""My spouse and I are separated. What are some things to talk about to help foster communication between us?""How can I be honest about my affair when I'm being villified?""Am I am fool for wanting to be with my cheating spouse?""Is starting the divorce process a PUSH behavior?""My wife wants to live with us and her affair partner! What should I do?""How do I make healthy boundaries?""How long do I wait for my husband to leave his affair partner after we just divorced?"

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “My husband told me he has an emotional block against me, and he does not have interest in saving the marriage and wants a divorce. I just found out I have cancer, and I want him to leave the house while I deal with getting better. Is there anything I can do to help him overcome the emotional block? If I ask him to leave, am I giving up any chance of saving the marriage?”“My wife is considering coming back, but she does not want to just come back because it is comfortable. How can I be patient while waiting for her to decide?”“My wife told me she is done. I am making trip to visit her for my son’s graduation (which is also her birthday and our anniversary). I am wanting to give her a gift. Is it ok to give her a present?”“My wife has had two affairs in the past three years. We have four children together. How can I save the marriage?”

Marriage Helper LIVE

Marriage Helper LIVE

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “Married for 41 years. ography use throughout marriage. Wife left unexpectedly. How do I save my marriage?”“My husband and I have been married for 6 years. Husband ‘can’t live this way anymore.’ I have confidence our relationship work, but he is not sure that he wants it to. How do I get past the strong emotions to do the things I need to do?”“I found out a year ago my wife had been in an affair for 18 months. We still live together. She has filed for divorce, but she is not actively moving forward with it. Is it smart for me to require coaching as criteria if we are going to stay together?”“My husband is having an affair with his coworker. He agreed he would not introduce children to affair partner. He wants our kids to meet her kids at work picnic. How do I talk to him about this without pushing?”“Wife had affair. I am moving 800 miles away for a job. What can I do from that far away to show her I still want her to be a part of my life?”“Wife recently moved out, and she took kids with her. She doesn’t love me anymore. I did too many push behaviors. How  will she notice me working on my PIES when she only focuses on the kids?”You’ll also hear about:Affair addictionPIESHow to pick a good counselor

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “My wife left me for our children’s music teacher. She is in another country. She is vilifying me. How do I save my marriage?”“Coming out of the end of a midlife crisis with limerence involved. How do I save my marriage?”“My husband of 25 years left me. He filed for legal separation. Is intervention a good option to bring him to talk?”“My husband had an affair after being married for 28 years. We haven’t talked in a long time. I want to share my heart. What do I do?”“My wife left me for my best friend after 8 years of marriage. Would you suggest that I stay in SMART contact or interfere with SMART contact to try to get her to attend the workshop?”“My husband is having an emotional affair with a coworker. He is confused on what to do. What should I do?”You’ll also hear about:SMART ContactPush behaviors

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On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “What is the success rate for the workshop?”“How do I navigate SMART contact with my husband and know when it is time to talk about our relationship?”“How can I increase my communication with my husband as he does not talk to me? He just wants the marriage to be over.”“I have been separated from my wife for about two months. Since we’ve been separated, she says I haven’t showed her any reasons to fight for the marriage. How do I show her I want to save the marriage?”“Separated for a year. I feel like all hope is lost. 9 year old child is involved. I don’t know what to do anymore.”“Problematic marriage. Go through periods of being separated and being together. We have a lack of intimacy and connection. How do I break down that wall?”“Basically roommates with my spouse. I am sleeping in the living room. I’m working on my PIES. How do I put my marriage back together?” 

Marriage Helper Live

Marriage Helper LIVE

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “My husband had an affair, but wants to end it and come back home. He is afraid that his affair partner will harm herself if he leaves her. How do I help him navigate that?”“His family invited me to celebrate Easter with them, but other people are telling me I shouldn’t go. What should I do?”“My wife and I got in an argument, and she told me she is done. We’re still living in the same house. I don’t know what to do.”“I found my wife texting another man, and I told her to get out. She told me she wants a divorce. She says she misses me, but she is dating other men. She wants us to sell our house. What can I do to have her take a second to think about her decision?”“My wife is with another person, and he is trying to make himself a father figure to our children after only two months. Should I expect this to be a temporary phase, or should I be concerned that this person is going to be the step-father of my children?”“My husband and his affair partner had a baby. He is also the father of my child. I still love him, but he has cut off contact with me. At the least, how can I make him co-parent my child instead of having no contact?”“Since my husband began his affair, could it have evolved into love instead of limerence? How do I do SMART contact when he is so hostile and mean to me?”

On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: “My husband wants to move back in part time, but he doesn’t seem committed. If he’s not committed, I don’t know if I show let him move back in. Do you think I should let him move back in part time?”“My wife said she was adamant about wanting a divorce, but it has been 6 months without her acting on it. I want to give her a timeline of when she needs to make a decision by. How long should I give her to decide?”“My wife and I are separated, but we are starting to hang out a lot. She recently told me she never sees us getting back together. What can I do to positively influence my situation?”“My wife agreed to work on our relationship, but a week later she told me she wants a divorce. She keeps changing her mind. I’m really confused, and I don’t know what to do.”“I jumped into the relationship with my current husband quickly after ending my relationship with my ex-husband. He treats me well, but I don’t have the feelings for him that I should.”“How can I show my wife unconditional love while separated without seeming too pushy?”“My husband said he regrets his affair, but he has a vacation scheduled with his affair partner. It is always so back and forth. Why should I try to save my marriage when he keeps going deeper in his relationship with the other woman?”“My daughter is in limerence with a man who left his wife to be with her. The relationship has changed her completely. We do not support her relationship, but we love her very much. My friends are telling me that we should tell her we accept the relationship so that she should come back home. I don’t know what to do.”

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On today's episode of Marriage Helper Live, Dr. Joe Beam responds to:"My wife filed for divorce. What I've learned through Marriage Helper is to try to extend the divorce time to give it time to calm down, so I responded that 'I didn't think the marriage was broken' and it infuriated her. How do I respond now?""My family friend has had an on and off affair with my husband for 7 years. Is this limerence?""How do I reconnect with my wife to get her to see that there's hope & change that can happen?"" You'll also hear:When we suggest dragging out the divorce is when the other person feels like they are "madly-in-love" with someone else. And if dragging out the divorce makes things worse- we may not suggest it if you're viewed as controlling.Demonstrate without pointing out/telling what you're doing and how you're changingThe valley

On today's episode of Marriage Helper Live, Dr. Joe Beam responds to:"My wife filed for divorce. What I've learned through Marriage Helper is to try to extend the divorce time to give it time to calm down, so I responded that 'I didn't think the marriage was broken' and it infuriated her. How do I respond now?""My family friend has had an on and off affair with my husband for 7 years. Is this limerence?""How do I reconnect with my wife to get her to see that there's hope & change that can happen?""My wife and I are separated because she is having an affair. She is vilifying me, and telling me we have nothing in common. I don’t know what to do.”“My husband and I have been divorced for 8 months. Our relationship has gotten better, but his relationship with the other woman is still ongoing. He wants the other woman to be part of our children’s lives, but he has not told them the truth about what happened. Is it wrong for me to set a boundary and not allow her to have a relationship with my children?”“How do I proceed in trying to save my marriage now that we are divorced?” You'll also hear:When we suggest dragging out the divorce is when the other person feels like they are "madly-in-love" with someone else. And if dragging out the divorce makes things worse- we may not suggest it if you're viewed as controlling.Demonstrate without pointing out/telling what you're doing and how you're changingThe valley

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On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions: "My husband had an affair and says he's in love with the other woman. Does he have a "love addiction" or is it limerence?""Have you worked with couples who have dealt with abusive behavior? Especially if the abuser won't take responsibility for his actions?""My mother-in-law contacted me saying that my husband wants her to be my point of contact with him. Should I use this as an opportunity to minister to her- or should I keep my boundaries up?" "What Marriage Helper information do you recommend sharing with my attorney?""Is there a strategy to speaking with my wife about the Workshop?""How do I not fall back into old patterns/habits I had previously?""I get more anxious, emotional, and physical in bed the evening and it puts pressure on my wife. Would it be helpful for me to sleep in another bed at night to bring about positive communication and SMART Contact?""When my husband got out of prison, our relationship has been a downward spiral. How do I get through his 'hardened wall' when he doesn't seem to make an effort?"You'll also hear about:The caution of misdiagnosing your spouse based on research/information you've gathered about your relationship. How to consider the risks involved in taking a specific action.

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On today's show, Dr. Joe Beam along with Client Representative, Marc Highland discuss the following: "I had an affair and I would like to work with my wife on our marriage. How is it possible to move past my emotional connection to the affair partner?" "My husband wants to work on the marriage, but he's still in deep, emotional limerence with someone across the world. How do I ask him about attending the Workshop without pressuring/manipulating him?""Did I do the wrong thing by confronting my wife about her past affair partner?" You'll also hear aboutThings a person can do in order to get past an affair. The best way to approach your spouse about the workshop.  

Join us for Marriage Helper LIVE! Dr. Joe Beam & co-host Amber Nickle will be speaking with you today!

On this episode of Marriage Helper Live, you’ll hear Dr. Joe Beam along with one of our Client Representatives respond to the following:“How does the valley work? How long does it last?”Signs of movement in the valley“Does the valley apply to other circumstances?”Dr. Joe Beam & Amber Nickle discuss a common question: “Is my spouse’s affair partner who they were actually meant to be with?”“I asked my husband if I could stay at his home while I wait to move into my apartment. He’s staying at his parent’s house until I move out. How can I initiate S.M.A.R.T. contact with him for him to stay at the house with me?”“We just filed for divorce. Should I still fight if I’m unsure?”“My wife feels like it’s too late to save our marriage, and she thinks I will never change. What should I do?”“How can I prove that she can trust me again after I’ve lied to her?”Other topics include:LimerenceThe Role of Client Representatives at Marriage HelperThe #1 reason behind why you work on your PIESThe grief process in relationshipsSelf-esteem & the influence of others

On this episode of Marriage Helper live, you'll hear Dr. Joe Beam and live callers speak about:The difference between reconciliation & forgivenessWhat it means when a spouse says, "I'm done."How to (patiently) implement S.M.A.R.T. ContactMental disorders & how they affect reconciliation/repairing a marriageYou'll also learn how to build trust over time with consistency in your actions (not perfection) and how to understand your spouse's emotions. Dr. Joe Beam explains "logic cannot overpower emtions...but you can overcome emotions with time and consistency in your actions."

Today's show focuses on your marriage questions! Call in and ask Dr. Joe Beam a question about your marriage!

On this episode of Marriage Helper Live, Dr. Joe Beam responds to:"My wife reacted negatively to this one situation where I did something that appeared controlling. How do I proceed? We've been separated 5 months, and this just happened one week ago." "My husband is hesitant to return home because he doesn't want things to go back to how they were. How can I work on this issue? We've both had affairs." "Is my wife experiencing cognitive dissonance while she's in her affair? She has become mean toward me, and removed herself from our grown children." "My husband seemed to have positive interactions with me, and now all of the sudden, he still wants to go through with mediation- what do I do?" And MORE! You'll also hear about:How to renew your focus, especially with SMART ContactWhat "Vengeance Affairs" areCompartmentalized thinking within Cognitive Dissonance (and the 2 potential paths/outcomes)How to think and what to think when it seems like your marriage is about to end

Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam. Call in and ask a question about your marriage!

In this episode you'll hear Dr. Joe Beam respond to live callers from our Marriage Helper Live Broadcast.Featured on this episode:"My wife is in a limerent affair. She's getting the best of both worlds by seeing her partner and then seeing me at home. Will she continue this affair if she doesn't know what consequences may happen? Should I tell her what the consequences are?" "My husband has been in a 6 year affair. He's never filed for divorce. What is making the affair last so long? Are the PIES helping/hurting?" "My husband and I are starting the reconciliation process. What does it look like? He keeps pushing back and isn't engaged." "My husband moved back without any accountability in place (he had an affair before) was this the right thing to do?" "My wife loves, but isn't in love with me. I'm getting accused of trying to force a relationship, but she's sending mixed signals. Can you give me direction on what to do?" You'll also hear:How to manage the expectations you have for your spouseThe purpose of using the PIES

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This episode opens with a story of HOPE alongside a story of familial reconciliation! Additionally, Dr. Joe Beam & Jim Pourteau respond to the following:"Is there less of a chance of a wandering spouse who is a woman to come back to the marriage?""Is long-term vilification normal?" "How can I be a "safe place" without being a doormat?" "How can I communicate with my wife when she doesn't want to talk? How do I deal w/anxiety that things may not get better?""I broke SMART contact with my husband- and we just started reconciling...what do I do now?""How do I establish trust with my Husband? He keeps snooping when I'm not doing anything wrong."You'll also learn... How Marriage Helper defines vilificationWhat reconciliation looks like in real life and how to not overthink each daily interaction

This episode opens with a story of HOPE alongside a story of familial reconciliation! Additionally, Dr. Joe Beam & Jim Pourteau respond to the following:"Is there less of a chance of a wandering spouse who is a woman to come back to the marriage?""Is long-term vilification normal?" "How can I be a "safe place" without being a doormat?" "How can I communicate with my wife when she doesn't want to talk? How do I deal w/anxiety that things may not get better?""I broke SMART contact with my husband- and we just started reconciling...what do I do now?""How do I establish trust with my Husband? He keeps snooping when I'm not doing anything wrong."You'll also learn... How Marriage Helper defines vilificationWhat reconciliation looks like in real life and how to not overthink each daily interaction

Live Caller Q&A With Jim Pourteau. Call in and ask us a question about your marriage!

Live Caller Q&A With Jim Pourteau. Call in and ask us a question about your marriage!In this Episode, Jim Pourteau speaks about how to build positive emotions and have positive communication with your spouse. He also explains how to approach SMART contact and being a "Safe Place" correctly. Throughout this episode, Jim speaks with spouses who are "standing" for their marriages and gives helpful insight for their specific situations- which can help you too!How to go about SMART contact"How do I interact with my husband who is in limerence?"" I feel "stuck" in where my marriage is at with my husband. How do we move forward?""How can I be a "safe place" without endorsing my wife's behavior?""I learned I'm controlling. I've changed and want to save my marriage...but my husband doesn't want much to do with me. What do I do?"

*SMART Contact™ is a registered trademark of Marriage Helper. 

Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes. Call in and ask us a question about your marriage!

On this episode of Marriage Helper Live, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes respond to calls from Canada & New Zealand & MORE!"We're divorced, but still best friends. At what length of time do you give up?""I just learned that my wife spent the weekend with my friend, and my son was there. How do I tell my wife that it isn't acceptable for her to do this with my son? She doesn't know that I know...""If you suspect your spouse is having an affair, at what point do you approach them about it?"It’s important to know whether your spouse is having an affair versus other problematic behaviors. i.e.: Thinking it's an affair, when it's actually a ography addiction."My husband is in an affair with an old high school girlfriend. When he's drunk, he exposes the issues with his affair partner, and gets mad at her. Should I attempt this intervention? Or should I put up with his drinking."Drinking is a dangerous habit. We do not advise that she lets it continue. “My wife denies her emotional affair. How can I get her to confess it?”“Why does my husband reach out to me and then back off?”On this episode, you'll also hear:If your spouse is in a limerent/emotional affair, logic is the last thing that will work. Every time you try to combat emotion w/logic, logic will win every time.If you made a decision you regret- know that what you did is what you did. Looking back at "should haves" doesn't benefit you in any way.And, what if you're divorced? Don't let your status define what you believe in/what your hope is.  

Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes. In this podcast, Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes address these topics:Stops (Safegaurds That Offer Protection)Cores (Continuing Our Relaitonship Essentials)What to do when your huband leaves with no warningWhat is the Save My Marriage Course?How to move forward after caught in limerent affairHow to communicate while separated in different countries

Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes. In this podcast, Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes address these topics:“Can my husband be in limerence if he doesn’t vilify me?”“I pushed my husband away thinking that he would show me more love because he would be afraid to lose me, and he left instead. How can I save my marriage?”“My husband and I have connected physically and intellectually since his affair, but he will not open up to me emotionally at all. I’ve been working on myself. I just don’t know what to do now.”“Is there any point coming to the workshop if my husband only agrees to come once the divorce is final?”“My husband got his affair partner pregnant. Now he wants to come back home and reconcile with me. In order for him to end the relationship with his AP, it is suggested to cut off all contact, but he cannot do that because of the baby. How do we handle that?”“How long am I supposed to allow my husband to have a relationship with his co-worker?”“My husband has been battling with a ography addiction. He wanted to seek help, and his counselor laughed at him and told him to leave the marriage. We are like best friends, but I just want to know if our relationship is healable?”

Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes. Call in and ask us a question about your marriage!

Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Erin Hood. Call in and ask us a question about your marriage!

Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Erin Hood. In this podcast, Dr. Joe Beam & Erin Hood address these topics:“My husband and I are no longer on the same spiritual note. My husband wants to be intimate. Previously when we have not been intimate, there is no contact. When should I draw the line?”“My wife wants to move out and doesn’t want to be in our marriage anymore. She wants me to sell her engagement ring, and I respect her wishes, but I do not feel right about it. What should I do?”“Everyone keeps telling me I need to start the divorce proceedings. I’m not sure that is the best thing to do. I want more than anything to save my marriage.”“My husband came back home three weeks ago. I feel a little awkward, and I’m not sure to act around him now.”“My husband said he wants to leave because of the way I’ve been treating him. He is seeing someone else. How can I create interaction between us?”“Do I continue holding on to our marriage if he continues holding on to his relationship with his affair partner?”

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Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes. Call in and ask us a question about your marriage!

Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly HolmesIn this podcast, Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes address these topics:“I’m struggling with trying to study every single detail that happens between me and my husband. I want to put my marriage back together, but everything I do seems to pull it further apart. How do I change my negative behaviors and do positive things instead?”“My wife and I have struggled with intimacy for the last 12 years. How do I rekindle intimacy between us?”“My husband and I are trying to reconcile. Does the workshop help with reconciliation?”“My wife and I are struggling financially through our divorce process. I do not feel like selling our house is a good option, but it would alleviate our financial stress. What do you advise on that?”“My wife is struggling to forgive me. I want her to go to the workshop, but how do I get her to attend without her feeling controlled?”“When my daughter left home my husband completely changed and then had an affair. He keeps blaming me for everything. I don’t know what to do.”

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Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly HolmesIn this podcast, Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Holmes address these topics:“If my husband has rejected going to the Marriage Helper workshop once how do I bring it back up to him again and suggest that we attend?”“My wife asked me for a divorce. I need to set boundaries. How do I do that without driving her away?”“Our divorce was finalized last month. He is living with the other woman. What can I do other than PIES to reconcile the marriage because we do not live near each other?”“How do I help from being controlled if I feel codependent?”“How do I handle when my husband says he is praying for the other woman that broke up with him to come back? He believes that God has spoken to him and is going to bring her back to him even though he knows that God does not break up marriages to start new relationships.”“I have a job offer in the city where my separated spouse is staying. If I take the job and move there will that be a PUSH behavior?”“My husbands keeps vacillating between wanting me and his affair partner. He has chosen me in the past, but then he went back to her. How do I get him back on my side again?”

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Live Caller Q&A With Dr. Joe Beam & Amber NickleIn this podcast, Dr. Joe Beam & Amber Nickle address these topics:“Would you recommend me letting my husband stay at our house through the holidays (as long as he wants) if he commits to go to the workshop. Would you recommend using that as leverage?”“How can I use my coaching sessions most effectively?”“Should I be intimate with my wife during her third trimester?”“My husband will not contact me if I do not contact him first. Every time we see each other, we end up in bed with each other, but he tells me that he is done with our marriage. I don’t know what to do.”“Should I keep waiting for my husband to want to save our marriage or should I walk away?”“My husband had an online affair, and now we are trying to rekindle our relationship. I’m trying to move forward, but I don’t know how to do that.”“My husband wants to give up his parental right for our son. If I let him do that then he won’t be able to see me work on my PIES. I don’t know what is best to do.”

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Dr. Joe Beam has said many times that if your spouse is leaving you for another person that s/he "madly loves" it may be to your benefit to slow the divorce down.Why?Because those states of being "madly in love" (also known as limerence) have a shelf-life. That euphoria doesn't last a lifetime. By slowing down the divorce you may be able to rescue your marriage because the limerence wears off before the divorce is final.Now Dr. Beam is modifying that statement. He still believes that limerence will erode and that there can be value in slowing the divorce. However, in an effort to slow the divorce, some have done things that provoke their abandoning spouses in ways that aren't beneficial.Yes, Dr. Beam strongly believes that in a divorce you should get an attorney and fight for everything that you need, even if that thwarts your spouse's plans. If your spouse becomes angry, say something such as "I'm not the one wanting this divorce. I'm happy to work on the marriage if you are. In the meantime, I will follow my attorney's advice and take care of myself and my children. I'm sorry if that upsets you or doesn't give you everything you want, but I must do what I must do if you continue with the divorce."There is value in your spouse having to face the consequences of his behavior.However, being unreasonable, mean, or vindictive works against you rather than for you. It antagonizes your spouse without any correlating benefit to your mate or you.So where is the balance?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam and special guest Jim Pourteau talk about protecting yourself during a divorce while not being unfair or unreasonable in ways that only bring about negative consequences.We are www.MarriageHelper.com are for marriages. Our success rate in helping crisis marriages solve their problems and save the marriage is three out of four. For our free resources ranging from articles, eBooks, and podcasts, see our website. If you wish to know more about our marriage coaching, call 615-472-1161.

Who To Listen To When Your Marriage Is In Trouble - The Dr. Joe ShowThe moment people hear that your marriage is in trouble, you get deluged with every sort of opinion, recommendation, and idea that people can come up with.Most of it is bad.Some of it is motivated by good intentions. However, if the ones who give the advice love you, they most likely aren't very happy with your spouse. Therefore, their viewpoint is skewed against him/her and very much toward protecting you (and maybe toward damaging your spouse). Others who aren't so close think their advice valid because of something they personally experienced or that they witnessed in another. That's enough for them to make judgments about you, your spouse, and your situation even when they know only a little of what's actually happening. These folks typically are adamant that you heed their counsel, although in reality their advice often is the OPPOSITE of what you should be doing. If you doubt that, post a problem on Facebook telling only the barest of information and watch how many people will tell you EXACTLY what you should do...It's scary...Even professional counselors may lead you astray IF:1) Your situation strikes one of their own emotional chords2) They decide to diagnose your spouse even though they've never met him/her (or had only limited exposure)3) They feel the easiest route to your "happiness" is to end the marriage rather than to fight for itSo, who do you listen to?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam and special guest Jim Pourteau discuss an actual occurrence on Facebook. Using it as the example, they explain why people tend to think their advice is valid and why you should be very careful about which advice you take. They guide you to sources that truly can help rather than leading you astray.If you're not looking only for people to verify what you WANT to do, but actually seeking help for your marriage problems, listen to this program.Also, check out free resources ranging from articles, eBooks, Podcasts, and more on www.MarriageHelper.com.

Your spouse strayed. Maybe it was another person. Maybe you threw him/her out because of their behavior. Whatever the cause, you're now trying to make it work again.But...You expect total honesty. You demand that s/he talk about the problem. You want to be understood and you want to understand why s/he did the things s/he did. You thought that reconciling would automatically bring about deep conversations, transparency, accountability, and finally a marriage better than it was before.Are those reasonable expectations? Yes.No.You see, it's all about timing. In this program Dr. Joe Beam and special guest Jim Pourteau discuss that when a couple think they are in reconciliation, many times they are actually in a step before that. No wonder they get frustrated; they're expectations don't match their reality.If you and your spouse are wanting to reconcile - even thinking that you are reconciling - this program will give you insight into what to expect, what NOT to expect, what is okay to demand and which demands may be a deal breaker IF they are made too early.If you wish more information about marriage that you can use, check out the free resources on www.MarriageHelper.com. If you wish to know more about the personal coaching that Dr. Beam and Jim discuss, call 615-472-1161.

Do those who fight for marriages ever think that a couple should divorce?Yes.At www.MarriageHelper.com we fight for marriages. Since 1999 we've been able to help three out of four married couples in crisis resolve their seemingly insurmountable problems and save their marriages. It's known around the world that we do all we can to help marriages survive.Unfortunately, we know that not all marriages will.So when should one give up? Find the attorney and file for divorce? Is it when your marriage counselor says you should? Our experience says no. Good marriage counselors are worth their weight in gold. Others...well, let's just say sometimes it appears that some take the easy route and suggest divorce when there are still viable options for saving the marriage and making it good again.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam and special guest Jim Pourteau discuss how to know when it's time to call it quits. Both are experienced marriage helpers with a great deal of experience working with couples in crisis. Although they find tremendous fulfillment in helping couples who have no hope find hope, they each realize that sometimes a marriage will end.To learn the principles about when to end a marriage - if ever - listen to this program. Additionally, there are many free resources - articles, eBooks, podcasts, and more - for your marriage on www.MarriageHelper.com.

He had an affair that nearly ended the marriage. He told her he was sorry. He said he wanted them to try to work things out, but he's not quite ready to reconcile.Then he was offered a job in another city. It's lucrative and he accepted. He comes home every weekend to live with his wife and children. They have a great time. He's attentive. The kids love his being there. But then the weekend is over and he heads back.Workable? Maybe. However, there's a catch. During the week, he doesn't call, doesn't take calls, and has no contact whatsoever with his wife or children. They have great weekends. She wonders and worries about what he's doing during the week. It's driving her mad. Is he having another affair? Does he live with some woman over there? What is he doing that prevents him from calling, checking in...or being checked on?She offered an ultimatum of sorts. "I'll be gone when you come on the weekends. You and the kids have a great time but I can't live with not knowing." He told her that if she did that, he would feel pushed away and would give up on the idea of reconciliation.Is he manipulating her? Is there something else going on? What should she do? When should she do it?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam plays the recording of her question and then answers in detail. He suggests the things she needs to consider. He explains how to approach her husband in the way most likely to get him to understand and to start communicating during the week. He helps her think about the consequences if he refuses.If you or someone you know is in a similar situation - in a sort of limbo where the spouse seems to want to save the marriage but also seems not to - this program will help you understand what to do and the possible outcome of various ways of doing it.If your marriage is in trouble, take advantage of the free resources on www.MarriageHelper.com. If you need to talk with someone, call 615-472-1161 and ask about Marriage Helper's Certified Marriage Coaches. If you would like to record a question for Dr. Beam to answer in a podcast, go to https://www.speakpipe.com/joebeam.

Her husband left her after thirty years of marriage. She feels lost. She wonders if her life is over. She doesn't know if she can ever be happy again.In the first podcast in this two-part series, Dr. Joe Beam brought in his special guest David Mathews, Director of SparkOfLife.Org. David is an expert in helping people deal with loss - any kind of loss, including the death of a loved one. The principles he provided in that podcast "Life Feels Hopeless After My Spouse Left" laid the foundation for this program. In this broadcast, David and Dr. Beam discuss practical, doable processes to help her - and you - deal with the loss and find healing for her life.That doesn't mean that she has to give up on her marriage. As Dr. Beam teaches in many podcasts, there is a process that can work to bring back the abandoning spouse and make the marriage good again. Even better than it was. Yet...it isn't a guarantee. It is an amazing process. If anything works, this will work. Three out of four couples who attend Marriage Helper's intensive three-day workshop salvage their marriages and develop them to be better than they were before.Three out of four. But that's not four out of four. The practical information you will hear in this podcast will help you find healing and grow on to a meaningful and fulfilling life whether your spouse comes back or not. It's not magic. It takes work. But the result is again having a life of happiness.If you haven't listened to part one "Life Feels Hopeless After My Spouse Left," we suggest you find that podcast and listen to it first. As you listen to this one, take notes, think through the power of the process you will learn, and then put it into action.If your marriage is in trouble, take advantage of the free resources on www.MarriageHelper.com. If you need to talk with someone, call 615-472-1161 and ask about Marriage Helper's Certified Marriage Coaches. If you would like to record a question for Dr. Beam to answer in a podcast, go to https://www.speakpipe.com/joebeam.

She met him when she was 16. They became childhood sweethearts through high school and married soon afterward. After thirty years of marriage, he left. Walked out stating that it was over and he wasn't coming back.She still loves him. Her heart is broken. She feels that her life as she has known it will never be again...that she'll never be happy...that she'll never get past the pain.Can she? Should she? Will she?In the program, Dr. Joe Beam interviews David Mathews, Director of SparkOfLife.Org. David is an expert on the pain of loss, the emotions one feels, and the path to healing.He and Dr. Beam discuss in detail why it is natural - and quite okay - for her to feel the pain she feels. However, the go beyond that. They provide an understanding of what she is going through. Then they explain the process she can choose to follow if she wants to heal her hurt and have a meaningful and fulfilled life.It isn't easy...pain never is...but it can be done and life can again have joy and happiness. Does that mean she gives up on trying to save her marriage? No. But it does mean there are processes she needs to embrace...processes to heal her hurt if he comes back...or if he doesn't come back.The principles David shares work for all types of loss, including the death of a loved one, but even to the pain of losing anything or anyone that is important to you.In the next podcast, David gives more information that is practical and doable. In this first installment, he lays the foundation that makes the healing possible.If your marriage is in trouble, take advantage of the free resources on www.MarriageHelper.com. If you need to talk with someone, call 615-472-1161 and ask about Marriage Helper's Certified Marriage Coaches. If you would like to record a question for Dr. Beam to answer in a podcast, go to https://www.speakpipe.com/joebeam.

You spouse is involved with someone else. You love your mate and want to save your marriage. You heard about the amazingly effective system taught by Marriage Helper that works powerfully in helping people save their marriages. You went to www.MarriageHelper.com and found the information. You paid close attention when Dr. Beam explained how to be a safe place for your straying spouse and you have tried to be that person in hopes of salvaging your marriage. You grasped that to allow your spouse to be open and transparent - even about his/her affair partner - can lead in time to the restoration of your marriage...But...You've discovered that being a safe p;lace isn't always easy. Allowing, even encouraging, your husband or wife to be open about the affair partner is painful to hear. As a matter of fact, you wonder if it might be doing more harm than good...especially for your own mental, emotional, and physical health. Should you stop? Is there another way?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam gives a brief overview of the section of the Marriage Helper system about being a safe place. He explains why "If anything will work, this system will." BUT, he also explains when it is time to stop being a safe place...to understand why sometimes you can't continue to be the safe place...and how NOT to feel guilty if you stop being the safe place for your spouse.If you prefer to know more about the system before listening, you can find a tremendous amount of information on www.MarriageHelper.com. You can also find Marriage Radio podcasts on www.MarriageRadio.com, on iTunes or Google Play by subscribing free to Marriage Radio, or on our online host Spreaker.com. On the Marraige Helper.com website, you'll also find articles, eBooks, and more podcasts.If you need personal help to understand what, when, or how to do things that can save your marriage, call 615-472-1161 and ask about Marriage Coaching with Marriage Helper's Certified Marriage Coaches.If you'd like to leave a voice message for Dr. Beam to answer on these podcasts, you may do so at www.speakpipe.com/joebeam.

He claimed that God told him to leave his marriage. Later he said that he felt guilt for leaving.He said "I love you but am not in love with you." Later he said, "I don't know how to live my life without you."Then, almost out of the blue, he says "I am in love with you" but he continues to live with the other woman.What do you do? Do you wait for him to evolve back to wanting to be with you over her? Do you go ahead and divorce him and get on with your life?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam, along with his special guest, relationship expert Jim Pourteau, answers the woman's question. You'll hear her describe the situation and ask what she should do. You'll hear the expert explanation of what is going on with her husband, You may be surprised when you hear the answer to her question about whether to divorce or to wait.For more free resources for your marriage go to www.MarriageHelper.com. You can also find more free podcasts by subscribing to Marriage Radio on iTunes or Google Play. You can find all of Dr. Beam's podcasts free on www.MarriageRadio.com.If you would like to speak to one of Dr. Beam's associates about your marriage, call 615-472-1161. Would you like to ask Dr. Beam a question about your marriage or relationship? You can record your question for Dr. Beam to reply in a future podcast at https://www.speakpipe.com/joebeam.

Your spouse wants out of the marriage. You don't. You love your husband/wife and can't understand why s/he no longer loves you. Is there hope?Yes. Unfortunately, most people in your situation do the wrong things...things that in reality make it less likely you can put the marriage back together. In a previous podcast, Dr. Joe Beam and his special guest Jim Pourteau explained three things NOT to do if you want to save your marriage. In this program, they explain three things that you MUST do if you wish to keep your marriage alive.These are not three magic steps that guarantee your marriage will survive. They are three crucial things to understand and put into practice that will help you save your marriage if anything will. The odds? Excellent. Workshops for marriages in crisis that Dr. Beam developed have a 75% success rate even if one spouse wants out of the marriage and has absolutely no desire for it to continue.Join Dr. Beam and his special guest, relationship expert Jim Pourteau, for this eye-opening program that will equip you with the knowledge you need as well as direct you to the right help if you need help to save your marriage. For more resources, go to www.MarriageHelper.com for free articles, eBooks, podcasts and more. You can also find over 100 podcasts by Dr Beam on iTunes and in Google Play. Subscribe free on those to Marriage RadioIf you wish to ask a question for Dr. Beam to answer in future podcasts, record your question at https://www.speakpipe.com/joebeam.

You just found out your spouse wants out of your marriage. You love your spouse. You don't want the marriage to end. WHAT SHOULD YOU DO?!Before knowing the 3 things you should do, it's very important to understand 3 key things you should NOT do if you are to have any hope for salvaging your marriage.Unfortunately, most people do one or more of these three and put their marriage into greater jeopardy. It's extremely important to know what they are, understand why they cause more problems, and why you should not do them...or stop doing them. In this program, Dr. Joe Beam and his special guest, relationship expert Jim Pourteau, discuss three key things to avoid. They explain what they are, why people do them, and why they have greater negative effect than positive. If you love your spouse but s/he does or says any of the following:- wants out of your marriage- says s/he no longer loves you...or that s/he never did- is involved with someone else- claims s/he just wants to be alone- is cold and distant- seems like a different person- is harsh and angryThen you need to hear this program...AND the next podcast in the series "3 Things To Do If You Want to Save Your Marriage." (available beginning Sep 11, 2017)For more marriage and relationship resources, go to www.MarriageHelper.com or call 615-472-1161. To ask Dr. Beam a question to be answered in a future podcast, go to https://www.speakpipe.com/joebeam.

Want to truly communicate? Be Understood? Understand?If so, there is one thing you MUST STOP from occurring in your conversations that matter AND USE a simple yet powerful system that will make it so much easier to understand and be understood. In this program Dr. Joe Beam explains why writing (especially texting and emails) don't work when you need to talk about things that matter. He also explains why phone calls usually don't work well either. Then how do you communicate?Dr. Beam shares his simple, yet powerful, "Triple A Engine" that turns frustrating conversations into unique interactions that meld two people together. He explains it and illustrates it so you can use it when discussing everything from money...hurt emotions...and even sexual disagreements when one partner wants something the other doesn't want to do.This same "Triple A Engine" works with your friends, children, parents, or anyone else with whom you need to communicate on more than a casual level.It is an especially important communication system for romantic love and marriage. If you are in love, want to be in love, or trying to rescue lost love, this system can lead you to levels of understanding, closeness, and intimacy that few people ever reach.For more information about relationships, go to www.MarriageHelper.com. If you have a relationship question that you would like Dr. Beam to answer in his podcasts, leave a recorded message at https://www.speakpipe.com/joebeam.

"Why don't churches talk about sexual refusal?" he asked.He explained that his wife of 28 years quit being sexual with him some six years ago. She said she wasn't interested. He asked her to seek help; she replied that it was his problem.Now he's had enough. He's divorcing her. She's telling the folks at church that she has no idea why he's divorcing her and that he's a bad husband. He wants to go to those folks and tell them what's really going on.What should he do? Is there a solution?In this program Dr. Joe Beam relies not just on his PhD earned while researching marital and sexual satisfaction, but also on his Bachelor's degree and many hours of graduate courses in Bible. He explains what the Bible says about sexuality in marriage and points out a specific section that addresses directly the subject of sexual refusal in marriage.Dr. Beam points out to the caller that there may be an underlying problem that led to her not wanting to have sex with him...but that the man is correct that the Bible teaches sexually fulfilling each other. How does a couple resolve those issues? In this program, you'll learn the basic principles as well as how to find further help for making the sexual aspects of your marriage more fulfilling. For more information about marriage - especially marriage problems - check out the many free articles, podcasts, eBooks, and more on www.MarriageHelper.com.To ask Dr. Beam your question, you may record it at www.SpeakPipe.com/JoeBeam. Then listen to these podcasts to hear Dr. Beam's answers and suggestions.

The caller says that her husband came back home after ending the affair. He's nicer, kinder, and more understanding than he was before the affair happened. His children love the change in him...his son now views his dad as his best friend.But...He won't change his cell phone number. He won't make any changes to his social media. His wife asks. He doesn't comply.Now she's worried that he's still involved with the other woman. Her friends aren't helping with their advice. As a result, she's pulling away from him. She asks what she should do.In this program Dr. Joe Beam answers her questions about what she should do to get her husband to do what she needs to help her feel more secure. He also explains what might be to her advantage to tolerate and what to do if she can't live with the fear of his continued involvement with the other woman.If you wish to leave a question for Dr. Beam to answer in these podcasts, you may record it at www.SpeakPipe.com/JoeBeam. For articles, podcasts, and valuable information about marriages (especially problem marriages) go to www.MarriageHelper.com.

They were together for a decade before they decided to marry. It was wonderful; he told her how happy he was that she is his wife. They laughed. Had fun. Enjoyed life.Until the night he told her that he had found his "soul mate" and wanted his wife's permission to date this amazing new woman in his life.The wife, of course, was devastated. She still loves him. She's trying to find what suddenly went wrong...what she did...what happened...how he could love her so intensely and then, without warning, be "madly in love" with another.Listen to her story. Hear her pain. Understand her self-doubt. Then hear Dr. Joe Beam explain to her what limerence is. He addresses her concern that she was the problem. He helps her think through what likely happened. Most importantly, he gives her specific suggestions about what she should NOT do if she wants to salvage her marriage and what she MUST do if there is a chance of reconciliation.If you have a question for Dr. Beam, go to https://www.speakpipe.com/JoeBeam. After you record your question or comment. We NEVER sell your information to anyone. We ask for your email in case Dr. Beam decides to respond directly to you.

Military marriages have the highest rate of divorce in America. Couple that with lots of anger, addiction, and separation...and there's plenty of reasons to divorce.Kimberly Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, and her husband Rob married while Rob was in the military. In the first year of marriage, they moved halfway around the world. In their second year of marriage, they separated for a year. In their third year of marriage, anger and addiction split them even further apart and their marriage was headed for divorce. Not the "newlywed years" that others had told them about. However, Rob and Kimberly overcame the odds and fought for their marriage. But not at the same time. Hear their story in this podcast and learn how they learned how to deal with anger, addiction, and being separated.Learn more about Marriage Helper at www.marriagehelper.comOr call 615.472.1161 or 866.903.0990

Is your spouse emotionally disengaged? Physically gone? Have you relentlessly tried searching, trying to figure out what you can do to bring your spouse back or make your spouse want to be in the marriage at all, only to find yourself completely overwhelmed?I understand.If you go to Google and type in "what to do to save a marriage" or "what to do to bring a spouse back", the information is insane. A lot of it contradicts the other, and if you try to implement some from here and some from there, then you'll find yourself frustrated and back at square one.We want to help make this easy for you. We have laid it out, and figured out the FIRST thing that you should do when trying to bring your spouse back.We teach you how in this episode.Be sure to listen, subscribe, and review to help us help more couples!Contact us to learn how we can help you save your marriage:www.marriagehelper.com 615.472.1161 or 866.903.0990

She's married to one but in love with another. She said she was Christian and spoke of her great love for God and amazing relationship with Jesus. She mentioned that she had prayed about what she was to do and in response God "told" her to divorce her husband and be with her lover...that He had sent her this lover and wanted her to be with him.She talked about how she had quit interacting with Christian people because they were mean and judgmental about her leaving her husband for another. She feels complete confidence that God answered her prayer for a wonderful marriage by providing the right man for a new marriage.Yes, she had slept with her lover, but God was fine with that also. "God is love. I feel love for him. Therefore, this is of God."Is it?In this program Dr. Joe Beam discusses whether God sends people lovers to replace their spouses. Dr. Beam usually approaches relationship questions from his educational and social science background. When he speaks, he refers to solid research as he gives relevant examples and replies to specific questions. However, because of this topic (and the questions he continues to receive about it) in this program he refers to Scripture. (Dr. Beam's Bachelor's degree is in Bible. He has more than 30 graduate hours in Bible.) He does give relevant examples, but he also reads verses and ask the listener to consider what they really say.If you are a Christian and in love with someone other than your spouse...or your Christian spouse is in love with someone other than you, this program will be a fascinating Bible study for you that can bring you peace.

Has your spouse cheated?Are your friends and family urging you to kick your mate out? Punish him or her? Get on with your life?But you find yourself wondering if that is what you should do. If your spouse wants to come back, should you allow it? If you do, can you have a good marriage again or will you always have problems with trust...hurt...maybe even self doubt?If your spouse is "in love" with someone else and doesn't want to come back, is your marriage over? Is there a way to put it back together? Even if there is, do you have the desire or the strength to go through your pain and make your marriage good again?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam provides the pros and cons of saving a marriage after infidelity. He explains the three types of extramarital affairs. He gives you the primary points to consider in deciding whether to take back a spouse who strayed...or to win back the spouse who is still straying.Find more information about why people stray, why they sometimes feel that they are "madly in love" with another, why it can be the best thing for your own life to salvage the marriage, and how it can be done when your spouse is sorry and wants to come back...and how it can be done when your spouse is convinced s/he's in love with someone else and doesn't want to come back.

Having trouble getting your spouse to talk? Maybe you are separated. Maybe you are living in the same house but your spouse doesn't want to talk to you and has completely shut down. This podcast will teach you the 3 things to get to encourage your spouse to talk.

You've prayed. Others have prayed with you...for you. Your children pour out their hearts. Yet, your marriage continues to spiral downward.Someone on TV said that if only you have enough faith, God will do whatever you ask. (Then s/he asks you for a check to prove your faith...)Well-meaning friends tell you God is faithful if only you will continue to be...that He will bring about healing for your marriage...and that you should not doubt.However, time passes, your prayers change from petition to aggravation. Why isn't God listening? Why isn't He doing what you ask? As one lady recently said, "I'm done with God. I've given Him plenty of opportunity to change my husband and He's done nothing."Can God answer prayers about marriage? Does He? Does He care? Will He intervene in the situations of life in which we find ourselves? Will He change your spouse so that they stop doing the things hurting you, your children, your marriage...and even to themselves?To answer those questions Dr. Beam welcomes Leighann McCoy. Leighann knows about REAL life. She survived cancer. She fought through major difficulties with her family. Leighann also knows God. She is a prayer warrior. She writes books about prayer, spiritual warfare, especially concerning families (http://amzn.to/2okIEzG). She offers prayer courses on her website http://www.leighannmccoy.com. During this program, she joins Dr. Beam to discuss how people in crisis marriages should pray, what they should expect from God in return, and how to deal with God's answers.To speak with Leighann and Dr. Beam during the program, call 646.378.0424. The program airs live at 9 p.m. central time, Tuesday, April 11, 2017 at http://www.marriageradio.com/why-wont-god-answer-prayers-for-my-marriage/. 

You've prayed. Others have prayed with you...for you. Your children pour out their hearts. Yet, your marriage continues to spiral downward.Someone on TV tells you that if only you have enough faith, God will do whatever you ask. (Then s/he asks you for a check to prove your faith...)Well-meaning friends tell you that God is faithful if only you will continue to be...that He will bring about healing for your marriage...and that you should not doubt.However, time passes, your prayers change from petition to aggravation. Why isn't God listening? Why isn't He doing what you ask? As one lady recently said, "I'm done with God. I've given Him plenty of opportunity to change my husband and He's done nothing."Can God answer prayers about marriage? Does He? Does He care about your pain? Will He intervene in the messy situations of life in which we find ourselves? Will He change your husband or wife so that they stop doing the things hurting you, your children, your marriage...and even to themselves?Is God there???To answer those questions and more, Dr. Joe Beam welcomes special guest Leighann McCoy. Leighann knows about REAL life. She survived cancer. She fought through major difficulties with her family. Leighann also knows God. She is a prayer warrior. She writes great books about prayer, spiritual warfare, especially spiritual warfare and families, and similar topics. (http://amzn.to/2okIEzG) She offers prayer courses - including three new free courses - on her website http://www.leighannmccoy.com. During this program, she joins Dr. Beam to discuss how people in crisis marriages should pray, what they should expect from God in return, and how to deal with God's answers.To speak with Leighann and Dr. Beam during the program, call 646.378.0424. The program airs live beginning at 9 p.m. Central time, Tuesday, April 11, 2017.

Are you controlling? Really?Or is your spouse trying to manipulate you? S/he claims you're controlling because you're an obstacle to him or her doing whatever they wish.Maybe there's a combination. You have been controlling and now your spouse is using that to manipulate you into inaction by accusing you of being controlling now.If you are controlling, eventually that behavior will destroy your marriage.If you're being manipulated, backing off on a matter could make a clear path for your spouse to hurt you.If you have been controlling, but now you feel you must take a stand to stop your spouse from doing things detrimental to your marriage, stopping your stand might be the worst thing you can do.So...how do you know? What do you do?When do you back off and when do you take your stand?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains what control in a relationship is. He discusses why people control and how they can stop controlling. He also points out that sometimes there needs to be control...even if in the past your controlling behavior led to a current unpleasant situation. Finally, Dr. Beam explains step by step how a person who has damaged his or her relationship with a spouse (or children) by controlling can overcome that and renew relationship...even save a marriage.For all those who listen to the program (and even if you skip the program!), Dr. Beam offers a free eBook about control that includes a thirty-question questionnaire to help you evaluate whether you're controlling or not. It is available at http://your.marriagehelper.com/Control.Listen at http://www.marriageradio.com/my-spouse-says-im-controlling/

Are you controlling? Really?Or is your spouse trying to manipulate you? S/he claims you're controlling because you're an obstacle to him or her doing whatever they wish.Maybe there's a combination. You have been controlling and now your spouse is using that to manipulate you into inaction by accusing you of being controlling now.If you are controlling, eventually that behavior will destroy your marriage.If you're being manipulated, backing off on a matter could make a clear path for your spouse to hurt you.If you have been controlling, but now you feel you must take a stand to stop your spouse from doing things detrimental to your marriage, stopping your stand might be the worst thing you can do.So...how do you know? What do you do?When do you back off and when do you take your stand?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains what control in a relationship is. He discusses why people control and how they can stop controlling. He also points out that sometimes there needs to be control...even if in the past your controlling behavior led to a current unpleasant situation. Finally, Dr. Beam explains step by step how a person who has damaged his or her relationship with a spouse (or children) by controlling can overcome that and renew relationship...even save a marriage.For all those who listen to the program (and even if you skip the program!), Dr. Beam offers a free eBook about control that includes a thirty-question questionnaire to help you evaluate whether you're controlling or not. It is available at http://your.marriagehelper.com/Control.Listen at http://www.marriageradio.com/my-spouse-says-im-controlling/

Are you controlling? Really?Or is your spouse trying to manipulate you? S/he claims you're controlling because you're an obstacle to him or her doing whatever they wish.Maybe there's a combination. You have been controlling and now your spouse is using that to manipulate you into inaction by accusing you of being controlling now.If you are controlling, eventually that behavior will destroy your marriage.If you're being manipulated, backing off on a matter could make a clear path for your spouse to hurt you.If you have been controlling, but now you feel you must take a stand to stop your spouse from doing things detrimental to your marriage, stopping your stand might be the worst thing you can do.So...how do you know? What do you do?When do you back off and when do you take your stand?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains what control in a relationship is. He discusses why people control and how they can stop controlling. He also points out that sometimes there needs to be control...even if in the past your controlling behavior led to a current unpleasant situation. Finally, Dr. Beam explains step by step how a person who has damaged his or her relationship with a spouse (or children) by controlling can overcome that and renew relationship...even save a marriage.For all those who listen to the program (and even if you skip the program!), Dr. Beam offers a free eBook about control that includes a thirty-question questionnaire to help you evaluate whether you're controlling or not. It is available at http://your.marriagehelper.com/Control.Listen at http://www.marriageradio.com/my-spouse-says-im-controlling/

No one wants to be treated as a child...especially by the person that is supposed to be our partner...our equal...our mate.We don't appreciate being told what to think, how to act, what to feel, or what to believe. Each of us craves being accepted and appreciated for who we are...as we are. When we were children, we understood the need for an authority figure to guide us, teach us, and, sometimes, to command us. But we aren't children and we don't want our husbands or wives telling us what we must do, think, say, or feel to keep from being chastised or punished...or abandoned.I want...and deserve...a partner with whom I can have union based on love, NOT a relationship based on making him or her happy by yielding to nearly every way s/he thinks things should be done.In our work with marriages, we found that one of the most common reasons for major marital discord is a spouse who feels controlled, disrespected, or dominated by the other. Interestingly, often the dominating spouse doesn't believe s/he is being controlling.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, explain why people control others and how they do it. More importantly, they explain how a person being controlled can put an end to that WITHOUT putting an end to the marriage. It won't stop on its own, but it can be stopped when the controlled spouse knows what to do.During the program Dr. Beam and Ms. Holmes offer free access to this free eBook about control. You may receive that free eBook whether you listen to the program or not by going to this link. Your.MarriageHelper.com/ControlThe program is available now on www.MarriageRadio.com, and www.BlogTalkRadio.com.

No one wants to be treated as a child...especially by the person that is supposed to be our partner...our equal...our mate.We don't appreciate being told what to think, how to act, what to feel, or what to believe. Each of us craves being accepted and appreciated for who we are...as we are. When we were children, we understood the need for an authority figure to guide us, teach us, and, sometimes, to command us. But we aren't children and we don't want our husbands or wives telling us what we must do, think, say, or feel to keep from being chastised or punished...or abandoned.I want...and deserve...a partner with whom I can have union based on love, NOT a relationship based on making him or her happy by yielding to nearly every way s/he thinks things should be done.In our work with marriages, we found that one of the most common reasons for major marital discord is a spouse who feels controlled, disrespected, or dominated by the other. Interestingly, often the dominating spouse doesn't believe s/he is being controlling.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, explain why people control others and how they do it. More importantly, they explain how a person being controlled can put an end to that WITHOUT putting an end to the marriage. It won't stop on its own, but it can be stopped when the controlled spouse knows what to do.During the program Dr. Beam and Ms. Holmes offer free access to this free eBook about control. You may receive that free eBook whether you listen to the program or not by going to this link. Your.MarriageHelper.com/ControlThe program is available now on www.MarriageRadio.com, and www.BlogTalkRadio.com.

No one wants to be treated as a child...especially by the person that is supposed to be our partner...our equal...our mate.We don't appreciate being told what to think, how to act, what to feel, or what to believe. Each of us craves being accepted and appreciated for who we are...as we are. When we were children, we understood the need for an authority figure to guide us, teach us, and, sometimes, to command us. But we aren't children and we don't want our husbands or wives telling us what we must do, think, say, or feel to keep from being chastised or punished...or abandoned.I want...and deserve...a partner with whom I can have union based on love, NOT a relationship based on making him or her happy by yielding to nearly every way s/he thinks things should be done.In our work with marriages, we found that one of the most common reasons for major marital discord is a spouse who feels controlled, disrespected, or dominated by the other. Interestingly, often the dominating spouse doesn't believe s/he is being controlling.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, explain why people control others and how they do it. More importantly, they explain how a person being controlled can put an end to that WITHOUT putting an end to the marriage. It won't stop on its own, but it can be stopped when the controlled spouse knows what to do.During the program Dr. Beam and Ms. Holmes offer free access to this free eBook about control. You may receive that free eBook whether you listen to the program or not by going to this link. Your.MarriageHelper.com/ControlThe program is available now on www.MarriageRadio.com, and www.BlogTalkRadio.com.

Love. Lots of people think they know what it is...until they realize that they don't.Think of the hit songs from your lifetime. How many were about wanting to be loved, enjoying amazing love, or longing for lost love? Why those topics? Because most adults fit into one of those three categories. Some wonder where their lover may come from...if at all. Others hope the one they secretly love will finally come to realize it and respond with passion. Many bask in the deep emotions of shared love...and think it will be like this forever. And way too many still love the person who once loved them but now is gone...So what is love really?Is it the ecstatic emotion of new romance? Is it the security of trusting the person you love to always love you in return? Is it something that really does last a lifetime or is it fleeting...lasting a few years at best?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam responds to your questions about love. What it is. How to know if you really are in love. How long it lasts. When it ends. Why it ends. Can it last a lifetime?And, maybe most important to many, if it has ended can it be rekindled?The program begins at 9 p.m. (Central), March 22, 2016. You may speak with Dr. Beam by calling 646.378.0424 during the program. 

Love. Lots of people think they know what it is...until they realize that they don't.Think of the hit songs from your lifetime. How many were about wanting to be loved, enjoying amazing love, or longing for lost love? Why those topics? Because most adults fit into one of those three categories. Some wonder where their lover may come from...if at all. Others hope the one they secretly love will finally come to realize it and respond with passion. Many bask in the deep emotions of shared love...and think it will be like this forever. And way too many still love the person who once loved them but now is gone...So what is love really?Is it the ecstatic emotion of new romance? Is it the security of trusting the person you love to always love you in return? Is it something that really does last a lifetime or is it fleeting...lasting a few years at best?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam responds to your questions about love. What it is. How to know if you really are in love. How long it lasts. When it ends. Why it ends. Can it last a lifetime?And, maybe most important to many, if it has ended can it be rekindled?The program begins at 9 p.m. (Central), March 22, 2016. You may speak with Dr. Beam by calling 646.378.0424 during the program. 

Love. Lots of people think they know what it is...until they realize that they don't.Think of the hit songs from your lifetime. How many were about wanting to be loved, enjoying amazing love, or longing for lost love? Why those topics? Because most adults fit into one of those three categories. Some wonder where their lover may come from...if at all. Others hope the one they secretly love will finally come to realize it and respond with passion. Many bask in the deep emotions of shared love...and think it will be like this forever. And way too many still love the person who once loved them but now is gone...So what is love really?Is it the ecstatic emotion of new romance? Is it the security of trusting the person you love to always love you in return? Is it something that really does last a lifetime or is it fleeting...lasting a few years at best?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam responds to your questions about love. What it is. How to know if you really are in love. How long it lasts. When it ends. Why it ends. Can it last a lifetime?And, maybe most important to many, if it has ended can it be rekindled?The program begins at 9 p.m. (Central), March 22, 2016. You may speak with Dr. Beam by calling 646.378.0424 during the program. 

[Episode brought to you by WhatAboutMe.Org - a division of Marriage Helper that helps children navigate through how to deal with their parents' divorce. Donate to the mission at whataboutme.org/donate]We hear it all the time, "Kids are resilient!"But is it true? If I fall down the stairs and break my leg, will my leg heal?Actually, no it won't heal. If I don't do anything to help my leg heal, then it will only get worse.If I go to the doctor, get a cast, go to physical therapy, and do all the things necessary for my leg to heal, then yes, it will heal. Otherwise...you get the picture.We understand this for every other area of health and wellness in life. But when it comes to thinking about how children are affected during divorce or separation, all of a sudden we expect the children to know exactly what to do to help themselves heal.And that's not how it happens.Can children be resilient? YES. Absolutely.Will they be resilient on their own? Highly unlikely.It is up to parents, friends, and family members to help children become resilient.In this episode, we discuss the 3 must-do's in helping your child become resilient. [REMEMBER: Now through the end of the month, Marriage Helper is offering a $500 travel credit when you register for the Marriage Helper workshop. We'd love to see you there! - your.marriagehelper.com/marriage-workshop]

[Episode brought to you by WhatAboutMe.Org - a division of Marriage Helper that helps children navigate through how to deal with their parents' divorce. Donate to the mission at whataboutme.org/donate]We hear it all the time, "Kids are resilient!"But is it true? If I fall down the stairs and break my leg, will my leg heal?Actually, no it won't heal. If I don't do anything to help my leg heal, then it will only get worse.If I go to the doctor, get a cast, go to physical therapy, and do all the things necessary for my leg to heal, then yes, it will heal. Otherwise...you get the picture.We understand this for every other area of health and wellness in life. But when it comes to thinking about how children are affected during divorce or separation, all of a sudden we expect the children to know exactly what to do to help themselves heal.And that's not how it happens.Can children be resilient? YES. Absolutely.Will they be resilient on their own? Highly unlikely.It is up to parents, friends, and family members to help children become resilient.In this episode, we discuss the 3 must-do's in helping your child become resilient. [REMEMBER: Now through the end of the month, Marriage Helper is offering a $500 travel credit when you register for the Marriage Helper workshop. We'd love to see you there! - your.marriagehelper.com/marriage-workshop]Listen at http://www.marriageradio.com/the-3-things-kids-must-have-to-be-resilient-during-separation-and-divorce/

It was a slow decline. 7 years ago is when Brandon and Carrie’s marriage started experiencing troubles, but they didn’t realize it yet. Over the years, they grew apart. Even though they were living in the same house. Work, kids, and the daily occurrences of life started tearing them apart from each other until one day, it seemed like everything came crashing down all at once. What did they do next and where are they now?That’s what we are going to explore in this week’s episode of Marriage Radio.At Marriage Helper, we believe in saving marriages and strengthening families. The main ways we do that are through our live workshops and online courses. Visit marriagehelper.com for more information, or call us at 615.472.1161 or 866.903.0990. 

It was a slow decline. 7 years ago is when Brandon and Carrie’s marriage started experiencing troubles, but they didn’t realize it yet. Over the years, they grew apart. Even though they were living in the same house. Work, kids, and the daily occurrences of life started tearing them apart from each other until one day, it seemed like everything came crashing down all at once. What did they do next and where are they now?That’s what we are going to explore in this week’s episode of Marriage Radio.At Marriage Helper, we believe in saving marriages and strengthening families. The main ways we do that are through our live workshops and online courses. Visit marriagehelper.com for more information, or call us at 615.472.1161 or 866.903.0990. 

Many times we have people asking us to hear stories of people who have been through our online course and attended our Marriage Helper workshops. In this podcast, we interview an online course member and a recent Marriage Helper 911 workshop graduate to find out: What her marriage was like before getting helpWhy she decided to get helpWhat she learned that made major differences in her marriageHow she got her spouse to agree to go to the workshop with herWhat she learned at the workshop that made all the difference in the worldHow her marriage is doing nowHer HONEST OPINION of what you should do in your situationPlus - THIS MONTH ONLY (March 2017) special $500 travel credit towards the workshop! Call 615.472.1161 for details. Visit us at marriagehelper.com

Many times we have people asking us to hear stories of people who have been through our online course and attended our Marriage Helper workshops. In this podcast, we interview an online course member and a recent Marriage Helper 911 workshop graduate to find out: What her marriage was like before getting helpWhy she decided to get helpWhat she learned that made major differences in her marriageHow she got her spouse to agree to go to the workshop with herWhat she learned at the workshop that made all the difference in the worldHow her marriage is doing nowHer HONEST OPINION of what you should do in your situationPlus - THIS MONTH ONLY (March 2017) special $500 travel credit towards the workshop! Call 615.472.1161 for details. Visit us at marriagehelper.com

Want to work on becoming more attractive, but you feel like there are so many obstacles in your way? Kids, spouse living at home, job, and more? Here's the question that we received:"My situation is unique in the sense that my husband and I are not separated. We are in the same house. When it comes to working on my PIES, it's hard at times because we have kids, my husband's hours are all over the place, and I am so busy with our daughter. It's also hard because there's no intimacy...so I'm not very motivated to work on my PIES. How do I do the PIES when are are other obstacles?"We'll talk about how to overcome these in this episode.  

Want to work on becoming more attractive, but you feel like there are so many obstacles in your way? Kids, spouse living at home, job, and more? Here's the question that we received:"My situation is unique in the sense that my husband and I are not separated. We are in the same house. When it comes to working on my PIES, it's hard at times because we have kids, my husband's hours are all over the place, and I am so busy with our daughter. It's also hard because there's no intimacy...so I'm not very motivated to work on my PIES. How do I do the PIES when are are other obstacles?"We'll talk about how to overcome these in this episode.  

We fight for marriages. All marriages. No matter what has happened. BUT sometimes they end.Actually, sometimes they should end.We realize that sounds as if it is in opposition to our mission. In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains when it is not.We offer many resources on MarriageHelper.com to help save marriages. We provide online courses for the spouse who wishes to save the marriage when the other doesn't. We post many podcasts that address relationship problems and provide valuable, life-altering information.Our weekend intensive, Marriage Helper 911, has an amazing success rate. Even though the vast majority of couples who attend have one spouse who has NO desire to save the marriage (usually they come to get a deal in the divorce), three out of four couples who go through the workshop actually turn their crisis marriages around and make it good again.Yet...Some marriages end. If you suffer in a marriage - whether you are the one who wants out or the one who wishes to save it - you've asked yourself countless times..."When is enough, enough?""When do I stop trying?" "How can I know when it's best to end it?"Dr. Joe Beam gives you the points to consider when making those decisions. What's important. What's selfish. How to find the peace you need in your heart.Although Dr. Beam cannot tell you the exact moment...actually he won't tell you what you must do; instead he teaches the principles, makes them clear, and then leaves it to you to decide...in this program you can find the answer as to whether to fight for your marriage or end it.And if the decision is to fight, where to find the right help.

We fight for marriages. All marriages. No matter what has happened. BUT sometimes they end.Actually, sometimes they should end.We realize that sounds as if it is in opposition to our mission. In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains when it is not.We offer many resources on MarriageHelper.com to help save marriages. We provide online courses for the spouse who wishes to save the marriage when the other doesn't. We post many podcasts that address relationship problems and provide valuable, life-altering information.Our weekend intensive, Marriage Helper 911, has an amazing success rate. Even though the vast majority of couples who attend have one spouse who has NO desire to save the marriage (usually they come to get a deal in the divorce), three out of four couples who go through the workshop actually turn their crisis marriages around and make it good again.Yet...Some marriages end. If you suffer in a marriage - whether you are the one who wants out or the one who wishes to save it - you've asked yourself countless times..."When is enough, enough?""When do I stop trying?" "How can I know when it's best to end it?"Dr. Joe Beam gives you the points to consider when making those decisions. What's important. What's selfish. How to find the peace you need in your heart.Although Dr. Beam cannot tell you the exact moment...actually he won't tell you what you must do; instead he teaches the principles, makes them clear, and then leaves it to you to decide...in this program you can find the answer as to whether to fight for your marriage or end it.And if the decision is to fight, where to find the right help.

We receive so many questions ranging over so many aspects of marriage, relationships, love, sex, and more that we can't get to them all. This show helps alleviate that problem.Ask anything you wish about any of the topics in the paragraph above. Or other topics about relationships or marriage if there is something you would like to discuss.There will be a time limit to each call. Therefore, if you take too much time to tell your story, Dr. Beam won't have time to respond. Be succinct so that he can answer and you have time for clarifying questions or to disagree. At the end of the allotted time per caller, Dr. Beam will have to move to the next caller.It's live, February 23, beginning at 7 p.m. Central time. Listen at www.MarriageRadio.com, BlogTalkRadio or on your smart phone. Call 646-378-0424 during the program and press 1 when you hear the menu if you wish to speak with Dr. Beam.REMEMBER that for the sake of fairness, there will be a mandatory time limit to each caller.

We receive so many questions ranging over so many aspects of marriage, relationships, love, sex, and more that we can't get to them all. This show helps alleviate that problem.Ask anything you wish about any of the topics in the paragraph above. Or other topics about relationships or marriage if there is something you would like to discuss.There will be a time limit to each call. Therefore, if you take too much time to tell your story, Dr. Beam won't have time to respond. Be succinct so that he can answer and you have time for clarifying questions or to disagree. At the end of the allotted time per caller, Dr. Beam will have to move to the next caller.It's live, February 23, beginning at 7 p.m. Central time. Listen at www.MarriageRadio.com, BlogTalkRadio or on your smart phone. Call 646-378-0424 during the program and press 1 when you hear the menu if you wish to speak with Dr. Beam.REMEMBER that for the sake of fairness, there will be a mandatory time limit to each caller.

We receive so many questions ranging over so many aspects of marriage, relationships, love, sex, and more that we can't get to them all. This show helps alleviate that problem.Ask anything you wish about any of the topics in the paragraph above. Or other topics about relationships or marriage if there is something you would like to discuss.There will be a time limit to each call. Therefore, if you take too much time to tell your story, Dr. Beam won't have time to respond. Be succinct so that he can answer and you have time for clarifying questions or to disagree. At the end of the allotted time per caller, Dr. Beam will have to move to the next caller.It's live, February 23, beginning at 7 p.m. Central time. Listen at www.MarriageRadio.com, BlogTalkRadio or on your smart phone. Call 646-378-0424 during the program and press 1 when you hear the menu if you wish to speak with Dr. Beam.REMEMBER that for the sake of fairness, there will be a mandatory time limit to each caller. 

How does sexually explicit material affect relationships? With your spouse or with your children? What can you do about it? In this podcast, we interview Clay Olsen, co-founder of Fight The New Drug, a global movement focused on spreading the word on how this type of media affects relationships.As Fight The New Drug puts it, "it kills love.In this podcast, we talk about how sexually explicit material affects marriages, what to do if you have a spouse who is addicted and how to respond.We also talk about how to parent children in today's society, how to bring up the issue of sexually explicit material, and how to continue those conversations.For more about Fight the New Drug, visit fightthenewdrug.org. 

How does sexually explicit material affect relationships? With your spouse or with your children? What can you do about it? In this podcast, we interview Clay Olsen, co-founder of Fight The New Drug, a global movement focused on spreading the word on how this type of media affects relationships.As Fight The New Drug puts it, "it kills love.In this podcast, we talk about how sexually explicit material affects marriages, what to do if you have a spouse who is addicted and how to respond.We also talk about how to parent children in today's society, how to bring up the issue of sexually explicit material, and how to continue those conversations.For more about Fight the New Drug, visit fightthenewdrug.org. 

Not every relationship or marriage has a major meltdown...But when it happens, how do you put things back together?How do you get past the hurt? The broken trust? The fear that something else is coming...especially when one partner developed a deep emotional relationship with someone else, but has decided to try to make your relationship work again...How does the straying partner get over the emotional connection with that other person?How can s/he learn to love you again...and you learn to love him/her again with the security that your relationship will last a lifetime?There are things to do when reconciling a relationship. There are things NOT to do. There are also "gray" areas where you have to use your wisdom. (Knowing the right principles helps tremendously with this.)In this program Dr. Joe Beam explains why relationships fail and how they can be put back together again. He explains the principles of reconciliation and the specific do's and don'ts that can make or break the process. He addresses both the straying spouse and the standing spouse.

No matter the age, we hurt deeply when we feel abandoned by someone we thought loved us...or that should have loved us.The information in this program can be used effectively by an adult dealing with lost love, such as a divorce. It also gives effective directions for helping a spouse...or a potential spouse...risk loving you when deep inside they feel that they cannot trust anyone to always love them.In this program Dr. Joe Beam and Justin Prince, Program Director for the amazing service to kids What About Me, discuss seven stages kids go through when their parents fight and/or divorce. (Adults often go through the same seven...)This program gives specific steps and illustrates clearly that path that a parent can take to help his or her children risk loving again. Or help you risk loving again. And show you how to help someone you love trust you enough to love you.If you have children who have been affected by divorce, parental fighting, or death of a parent, this program is for you.If you went through these kinds of losses as a child, this program is for you.If a person you love has trouble loving you because of those kinds of losses, this program is for you.

No matter the age, we hurt deeply when we feel abandoned by someone we thought loved us...or that should have loved us.The information in this program can be used effectively by an adult dealing with lost love, such as a divorce. It also gives effective directions for helping a spouse...or a potential spouse...risk loving you when deep inside they feel that they cannot trust anyone to always love them.In this program Dr. Joe Beam and Justin Prince, Program Director for the amazing service to kids What About Me, discuss seven stages kids go through when their parents fight and/or divorce. (Adults often go through the same seven...)This program gives specific steps and illustrates clearly that path that a parent can take to help his or her children risk loving again. Or help you risk loving again. And show you how to help someone you love trust you enough to love you.If you have children who have been affected by divorce, parental fighting, or death of a parent, this program is for you.If you went through these kinds of losses as a child, this program is for you.If a person you love has trouble loving you because of those kinds of losses, this program is for you.

When Dr. Tennov introduced the concept in the 1970s, it was mostly rejected. We encounter marriage counselors who have never heard of it. But the research is solid. PhD's including anthropologists and biologists and more study it, even having brain scans that teach us much about it.It's called limerence. It is a state of being "madly in love' to the point that it becomes obsessive and affects the way a person feels, acts, and thinks. It is powerful. It can be beautiful. It often is destructive.If you search the internet for the word, you'll find many sites discussing it. Unfortunately, some of those are by people who read an article or two - maybe even Tennov's book from back in the day - and think themselves knowledgeable. Some confidently cite things about limerence that Tennov said that we now know by further research not to be the case. Therefore, be careful with what you read on the internet about it. It may lead you to some very wrong conclusions...and those to very wrong actions.Our knowledge of limerence comes not only from continuing to examine scholarly research, but from the hundreds of thousands of people who have been through workshops, courses, and seminars developed by Dr. Joe Beam. We carefully observe people in our 911 workshops for marriages in crisis who are in limerence. We have done before and after scientific profiles on many. We have in-depth dialogue with others. We have found that limerence has three phases......and that limerence ends......always.In this program, Dr. Beam discusses the three phases of limerence. He explains what happens within the limerent during each. He explains shy some who end limerence don't go back to their lives as before...and how to help overcome limerence. 

When Dr. Tennov introduced the concept in the 1970s, it was mostly rejected. We encounter marriage counselors who have never heard of it. But the research is solid. PhD's including anthropologists and biologists and more study it, even having brain scans that teach us much about it.It's called limerence. It is a state of being "madly in love' to the point that it becomes obsessive and affects the way a person feels, acts, and thinks. It is powerful. It can be beautiful. It often is destructive.If you search the internet for the word, you'll find many sites discussing it. Unfortunately, some of those are by people who read an article or two - maybe even Tennov's book from back in the day - and think themselves knowledgeable. Some confidently cite things about limerence that Tennov said that we now know by further research not to be the case. Therefore, be careful with what you read on the internet about it. It may lead you to some very wrong conclusions...and those to very wrong actions.Our knowledge of limerence comes not only from continuing to examine scholarly research, but from the hundreds of thousands of people who have been through workshops, courses, and seminars developed by Dr. Joe Beam. We carefully observe people in our 911 workshops for marriages in crisis who are in limerence. We have done before and after scientific profiles on many. We have in-depth dialogue with others. We have found that limerence has three phases......and that limerence ends......always.In this program, Dr. Beam discusses the three phases of limerence. He explains what happens within the limerent during each. He explains shy some who end limerence don't go back to their lives as before...and how to help overcome limerence. 

Maybe your marriage is wonderful. Maybe not. Either way, you're surrounded by friends or relatives whose marriages are in trouble.Most of our programs speak directly to those whose marriages need help. However, in this program, Dr. Joe Beam shares basic but valid knowledge with you so that when you encounter someone in marital distress, you can offer more than a kind word. No, it won't make you a counselor or therapist. It will help you know practical things to do or say that can offer help.If you're thinking that you shouldn't reach out to others if your marriage is in distress, think again. Not only will it help them, it can help you with your marriage. If you're happy with life as it is and don't want to get involved in the problems of others, please reconsider. Ignoring or avoiding hurting people now may come back at you later when you need help. We are all in this together.Dr. Beam and Kimberly Holmes (CEO of Marriage Helper) will guide you in how to help. They will also offer free access to more information that will equip you even further. If you wish to call during the program and ask questions about how to help a specific situation, or to clarify the information shared, please do so at 646-378-0424 during the live airing Tuesday night, January 24, beginning 9 p.m. Central time. According to the CDC, the divorce rate in America is 3.1 per 1,000 population. That comes to more than a million divorces per year. (Of the 45 states that report marriage/divorce stats, there were 800,909 divorces in 2015. California, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, and Minnesota do not report marital stats. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/dvs/national_marriage_divorce_rates_00-15.pdf)Isn't it time for all of us to do something about this. You can help. We'll show you how.

Maybe your marriage is wonderful. Maybe not. Either way, you're surrounded by friends or relatives whose marriages are in trouble.Most of our programs speak directly to those whose marriages need help. However, in this program, Dr. Joe Beam shares basic but valid knowledge with you so that when you encounter someone in marital distress, you can offer more than a kind word. No, it won't make you a counselor or therapist. It will help you know practical things to do or say that can offer help.If you're thinking that you shouldn't reach out to others if your marriage is in distress, think again. Not only will it help them, it can help you with your marriage. If you're happy with life as it is and don't want to get involved in the problems of others, please reconsider. Ignoring or avoiding hurting people now may come back at you later when you need help. We are all in this together.Dr. Beam and Kimberly Holmes (CEO of Marriage Helper) will guide you in how to help. They will also offer free access to more information that will equip you even further. If you wish to call during the program and ask questions about how to help a specific situation, or to clarify the information shared, please do so at 646-378-0424 during the live airing Tuesday night, January 24, beginning 9 p.m. Central time. According to the CDC, the divorce rate in America is 3.1 per 1,000 population. That comes to more than a million divorces per year. (Of the 45 states that report marriage/divorce stats, there were 800,909 divorces in 2015. California, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, and Minnesota do not report marital stats. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/dvs/national_marriage_divorce_rates_00-15.pdf)Isn't it time for all of us to do something about this. You can help. We'll show you how.

We hear it often, "How can I forgive myself for what I've done?"In this program, you will find the answer.If you wonder if guilt a good thing or a bad thing, it's both.People who never feel guilt are scary. Think sociopaths or psychopaths. People who feel overwhelming guilt are miserable. They can't function well in life.Sometimes a person involved in something that violates his/her beliefs and values feels guilt for a while...then goes through a period of feeling little to no guilt...and finally feels strong self-recrimination, sadness, and a compulsion to avoid those s/he hurt.If you struggle with guilt, or if someone you love struggles with guilt, this program is for you.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam discusses why we feel guilty, why that is a good thing...but also how guilt can become a cage that makes life miserable. He will explain how to deal with guilt in effective ways. He will show you the path to find peace again and to resume life in its fullness. He will show you how to forgive yourself. And how to find forgiveness from others.If you wish, you may call during the program to ask questions, make comments, or even disagree. Call during the live program beginning at 9 p.m. Central time, Tuesday, January 17. The number is (646) 378-0424.

We hear it often, "How can I forgive myself for what I've done?"In this program, you will find the answer.If you wonder if guilt a good thing or a bad thing, it's both.People who never feel guilt are scary. Think sociopaths or psychopaths. People who feel overwhelming guilt are miserable. They can't function well in life.Sometimes a person involved in something that violates his/her beliefs and values feels guilt for a while...then goes through a period of feeling little to no guilt...and finally feels strong self-recrimination, sadness, and a compulsion to avoid those s/he hurt.If you struggle with guilt, or if someone you love struggles with guilt, this program is for you.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam discusses why we feel guilty, why that is a good thing...but also how guilt can become a cage that makes life miserable. He will explain how to deal with guilt in effective ways. He will show you the path to find peace again and to resume life in its fullness. He will show you how to forgive yourself. And how to find forgiveness from others.If you wish, you may call during the program to ask questions, make comments, or even disagree. Call during the live program beginning at 9 p.m. Central time, Tuesday, January 17. The number is (646) 378-0424.

Usually more divorces are filed in January than any other month?Why?And...since we're asking...why does anyone file for divorce?In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam explains the underlying reason for wanting out of a marriage. He shares how various situations and circumstances generally all come back to this one reason. By understanding the reason, the spouse who doesn't want the divorce has a better chance of changing things so that the divorce doesn't happen.Oh...and Dr. Beam will also explain why January typically is the month most divorces are filed.You may call during the program to speak with Dr. Beam to ask questions, make comments, or to disagree. All callers are welcome - 646) 378-0424The program begins at 9 p.m. Central time, January 10, 2017. 

Usually more divorces are filed in January than any other month?Why?And...since we're asking...why does anyone file for divorce?In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam explains the underlying reason for wanting out of a marriage. He shares how various situations and circumstances generally all come back to this one reason. By understanding the reason, the spouse who doesn't want the divorce has a better chance of changing things so that the divorce doesn't happen.Oh...and Dr. Beam will also explain why January typically is the month most divorces are filed.You may call during the program to speak with Dr. Beam to ask questions, make comments, or to disagree. All callers are welcome - 646) 378-0424The program begins at 9 p.m. Central time, January 10, 2017. 

Great marriages have great sex.Not just sex.Not just good sex.Great sex!As Dr. Beam earned his PhD through the University of Sydney (rated one of the top 50 universities in the world), he concentrated his research on the correlations between sexual satisfaction and marital satisfaction. Many scholarly studies agree that they rise or fall together. Want a great relationship, have great sex. Want great sex, have a great relationship.In this program Dr. Beam focuses on research about the difference between good sex and great sex. Very interesting research identified eight factors of great sex. Dr. Beam will explain each of them. He teaches this methodology for great sex every semester in his human sexuality class at one of Nashville's leading universities. Now he shares them with you.Dr. Beam invites your calls during the program to ask questions, make comments, seek clarification, or disagree. You may even ask questions about sex or sexual matters that are not specifically addressed in the 8 Factors of Great Sex. You won't have to reveal your identity if talking about sex makes you uneasy. During the program call in at 646-378-0424.The program begins at 9 p.m. Central time.

Great marriages have great sex.Not just sex.Not just good sex.Great sex!As Dr. Beam earned his PhD through the University of Sydney (rated one of the top 50 universities in the world), he concentrated his research on the correlations between sexual satisfaction and marital satisfaction. Many scholarly studies agree that they rise or fall together. Want a great relationship, have great sex. Want great sex, have a great relationship.In this program Dr. Beam focuses on research about the difference between good sex and great sex. Very interesting research identified eight factors of great sex. Dr. Beam will explain each of them. He teaches this methodology for great sex every semester in his human sexuality class at one of Nashville's leading universities. Now he shares them with you.Dr. Beam invites your calls during the program to ask questions, make comments, seek clarification, or disagree. You may even ask questions about sex or sexual matters that are not specifically addressed in the 8 Factors of Great Sex. You won't have to reveal your identity if talking about sex makes you uneasy. During the program call in at 646-378-0424.The program begins at 9 p.m. Central time.

As we end 2016 and move into 2017, it's time to look forward into what the future holds. Just because things have been a certain way in the past does not mean that they have to be that way in the future. In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam and CEO of Marriage Helper Kimberly Holmes will teach you how YOU can change your future, no matter what your past has been, and no matter what your situation is. Believe it or not, you have the power to change a lot of things by focusing solely on yourself. We will teach you how to create goals and 4 different areas of life to set goals in: Physically, Intellectually, Emotionally and Spiritually. We will explain what each of those areas means and what kind of goals to set in each areas.Ultimately, this will help you become more attractive and create stronger, long-lasting relationships.

As we end 2016 and move into 2017, it's time to look forward into what the future holds. Just because things have been a certain way in the past does not mean that they have to be that way in the future. In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam and CEO of Marriage Helper Kimberly Holmes will teach you how YOU can change your future, no matter what your past has been, and no matter what your situation is. Believe it or not, you have the power to change a lot of things by focusing solely on yourself. We will teach you how to create goals and 4 different areas of life to set goals in: Physically, Intellectually, Emotionally and Spiritually. We will explain what each of those areas means and what kind of goals to set in each areas.Ultimately, this will help you become more attractive and create stronger, long-lasting relationships.

What is a mid-life crisis? What age does a mid-life crisis happen? What are the signs and symptoms of a mid-life crisis?If your spouse is going through a big change in life, these are probably things that you have searched for answers.Do you think that your spouse is going through a mid-life crisis? What should you do? Can you keep your marriage from falling apart?In this podcast we discuss how to understand what is really happening with your spouse (hint: it's NOT a mid-life crisis), and how you can respond in a way that will actually bring your marriage back together instead of tearing it apart.For more information on the Save My Marriage course, click here: your.marriagehelper.com/savemymarriageFor more information on the MH 911 Workshop, click here: your.marriagehelper.com/marriage-workshopFor more free articles and resources, see www.marriagehelper.com

What is a mid-life crisis? What age does a mid-life crisis happen? What are the signs and symptoms of a mid-life crisis?If your spouse is going through a big change in life, these are probably things that you have searched for answers.Do you think that your spouse is going through a mid-life crisis? What should you do? Can you keep your marriage from falling apart?In this podcast we discuss how to understand what is really happening with your spouse (hint: it's NOT a mid-life crisis), and how you can respond in a way that will actually bring your marriage back together instead of tearing it apart.For more information on the Save My Marriage course, click here: your.marriagehelper.com/savemymarriageFor more information on the MH 911 Workshop, click here: your.marriagehelper.com/marriage-workshopFor more free articles and resources, see www.marriagehelper.com

Married? Separated? Divorced? This podcast is ESSENTIAL for getting through the holidays without going crazy.Justin Prince, program director of What About Me (a site for children and parents experiencing divorce), joins us to reveal THREE KEY THINGS to do to avoid having a stressful, terrible holiday season filled with fighting, disagreements and hurt feelings.This is especially crucial if you have kids...and even more crucial if you are separated or divorced.You'll be surprised at just how easy it is to implement these three steps to have a better holiday season.

Married? Separated? Divorced? This podcast is ESSENTIAL for getting through the holidays without going crazy.Justin Prince, program director of What About Me (a site for children and parents experiencing divorce), joins us to reveal THREE KEY THINGS to do to avoid having a stressful, terrible holiday season filled with fighting, disagreements and hurt feelings.This is especially crucial if you have kids...and even more crucial if you are separated or divorced.You'll be surprised at just how easy it is to implement these three steps to have a better holiday season.

There are a ton of "what ifs" that go through someone's mind when their spouse is in love with someone else.What if the affair doesn't end? What if the affair does end, but my spouse still doesn't come home? Can I trust again? Can we make it work?On this show, Kimberly Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper will interview Richard and Petra. Richard and Petra saved their marriage after his affair, but it wasn't easy. Some days it looked like it wasn't ever going to be saved.But it happened.Learn more about their story and get hope from this awesome couple on this show.

There are a ton of "what ifs" that go through someone's mind when their spouse is in love with someone else.What if the affair doesn't end? What if the affair does end, but my spouse still doesn't come home? Can I trust again? Can we make it work?On this show, Kimberly Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper will interview Richard and Petra. Richard and Petra saved their marriage after his affair, but it wasn't easy. Some days it looked like it wasn't ever going to be saved.But it happened.Learn more about their story and get hope from this awesome couple on this show.

When you love deeply, it hurts to lose that love. Whether the person you love dies, abandons you, cheats on you, turns on you, or continues to live in the same house but with no love shown, you will find yourself in the powerful grasp of grief.We see it with people whose spouses fall in love with another. We witness it in a straying spouse who decides to come home but now has to deal with the loss of the other relationship. We feel our hearts break when it is a child struggling to understand why a parent isn't there any longer. We hurt for the parent who loses a child to death.Is there hope? Can life be good again?Yes. There is a process. It works.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam brings on special guest David Matthews. Along with his wife Debbie, he founded Spark of Life (www.sparkoflife.org) in 2008. Spark of Life exists to instill hope that, though life can never be the same after loss, life can be rich and fulfilling. Among other resources, they offer Grief Recovery Retreats to those who have experienced loss.David and Debbie are also certified leaders of Dr. Beam's intensive weekends for marriages in trouble.During this live call-in program, David will explain the process for dealing with loss of love so that life can again be full. He and Dr. Beam will also take callers who are dealing with the loss of love...from losing a spouse, to losing a parent, to losing a child, to losing a lover...or whatever loss you are experiencing or have experienced. Call live beginning at 9 p.m. Central time, Tuesday, November 15 by dialing 646-378-0424.If your children are suffering loss just as you are - (for example, the other parent has left) - invite them to listen to the program with you. After the program, you can find the recording on iTunes by subscribing free to Marriage Radio. Share the recording link with anyone you believe will benefit from this.

When you love deeply, it hurts to lose that love. Whether the person you love dies, abandons you, cheats on you, turns on you, or continues to live in the same house but with no love shown, you will find yourself in the powerful grasp of grief.We see it with people whose spouses fall in love with another. We witness it in a straying spouse who decides to come home but now has to deal with the loss of the other relationship. We feel our hearts break when it is a child struggling to understand why a parent isn't there any longer. We hurt for the parent who loses a child to death.Is there hope? Can life be good again?Yes. There is a process. It works.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam brings on special guest David Matthews. Along with his wife Debbie, he founded Spark of Life (www.sparkoflife.org) in 2008. Spark of Life exists to instill hope that, though life can never be the same after loss, life can be rich and fulfilling. Among other resources, they offer Grief Recovery Retreats to those who have experienced loss.David and Debbie are also certified leaders of Dr. Beam's intensive weekends for marriages in trouble.During this live call-in program, David will explain the process for dealing with loss of love so that life can again be full. He and Dr. Beam will also take callers who are dealing with the loss of love...from losing a spouse, to losing a parent, to losing a child, to losing a lover...or whatever loss you are experiencing or have experienced. Call live beginning at 9 p.m. Central time, Tuesday, November 15 by dialing 646-378-0424.If your children are suffering loss just as you are - (for example, the other parent has left) - invite them to listen to the program with you. After the program, you can find the recording on iTunes by subscribing free to Marriage Radio. Share the recording link with anyone you believe will benefit from this.

You know they're thinking it, even if they don't say it out loud."What about me? Does anyone care about my hurt? My fear? My future?"You can help these kids. The first step is easy. Tell us your story if you lost a parent to divorce or death. We'll use it to help kids.How?To help parents realize the hurt. To inform those in positions to help if only they understand the deep pain. One of the greatest fears of any child is losing a parent. Not just to death, but by the family splitting up. We are starting a new department within our nonprofit just to help kids (and their parents) when the family is no longer intact. Kids whose Dad or Mom left. Kids whose parent died. Kids raised by others than their parents.We need your personal experiences so that we can use your words to help children whose parents are fighting, divorcing, or divorced. In the program, Dr. Beam asks that anyone who has lived through their parents' divorce (or is living through it now) to call and tell how it affected you then and affects you now.Please note that we will record your quotes and use them to help our new project to help kids. We won't use your name unless you tell us we can.If you are under 18, please call with your parent with you so that s/he can give us verbal permission to record you and use your quotes.If you are married and seeing the effect on your children by your spouse's wanting out of the marriage, please call and tell us about it.If when you were a child your parents divorced - or even if they stayed together and fought constantly - please call and tell us about your experiences.Even if you called when we had a similar program a few weeks ago, please call again. (We didn't get your permission to use your voice during that program.)Call beginning at 9 p.m. Central time at 646-378-0424.

You know they're thinking it, even if they don't say it out loud."What about me? Does anyone care about my hurt? My fear? My future?"You can help these kids. The first step is easy. Tell us your story if you lost a parent to divorce or death. We'll use it to help kids.How?To help parents realize the hurt. To inform those in positions to help if only they understand the deep pain. One of the greatest fears of any child is losing a parent. Not just to death, but by the family splitting up. We are starting a new department within our nonprofit just to help kids (and their parents) when the family is no longer intact. Kids whose Dad or Mom left. Kids whose parent died. Kids raised by others than their parents.We need your personal experiences so that we can use your words to help children whose parents are fighting, divorcing, or divorced. In the program, Dr. Beam asks that anyone who has lived through their parents' divorce (or is living through it now) to call and tell how it affected you then and affects you now.Please note that we will record your quotes and use them to help our new project to help kids. We won't use your name unless you tell us we can.If you are under 18, please call with your parent with you so that s/he can give us verbal permission to record you and use your quotes.If you are married and seeing the effect on your children by your spouse's wanting out of the marriage, please call and tell us about it.If when you were a child your parents divorced - or even if they stayed together and fought constantly - please call and tell us about your experiences.Even if you called when we had a similar program a few weeks ago, please call again. (We didn't get your permission to use your voice during that program.)Call beginning at 9 p.m. Central time at 646-378-0424.

Can every troubled marriage be saved? We believe nearly all can. However, not all will. Sometimes one spouse does all s/he can to save the marriage. They learn, put into practice the right things, make right the things they did wrong, demonstrate remarkable love, patience, and...forgiveness. Yet, the other mate doesn't respond. Maybe it's another person. Maybe a different lifestyle they want to pursue. Is there a time when the spouse striving to save the marriage should stop trying and accept that no matter what s/he does the marriage will end?Yes.When s/he makes that decision, are their things s/he should understand and do to build a new life that can be fulfilling and happy?Yes.Don't misunderstand, Dr. Beam fights for marriages. He encourages people not to give up easily. He and the amazing team at www.MarriageHelper.com offer many resources to help save marriages...even those that everyone else has given up on...and make those marriages good again.But, sadly, the team knows that some marriages will end.In this program, Dr. Beam shares thoughts about when it's time to move on. To accept that the mate isn't coming back. As an important part of that, he also shares what to understand and put into action that will help heal the heart and open new opportunities for love, fulfillment, and happiness.During the program, you may talk with Dr. Beam by calling 646-378-0424. The program airs live beginning at 9 p.m. Central time on Tuesday, November 1. 

Can every troubled marriage be saved? We believe nearly all can. However, not all will. Sometimes one spouse does all s/he can to save the marriage. They learn, put into practice the right things, make right the things they did wrong, demonstrate remarkable love, patience, and...forgiveness. Yet, the other mate doesn't respond. Maybe it's another person. Maybe a different lifestyle they want to pursue. Is there a time when the spouse striving to save the marriage should stop trying and accept that no matter what s/he does the marriage will end?Yes.When s/he makes that decision, are their things s/he should understand and do to build a new life that can be fulfilling and happy?Yes.Don't misunderstand, Dr. Beam fights for marriages. He encourages people not to give up easily. He and the amazing team at www.MarriageHelper.com offer many resources to help save marriages...even those that everyone else has given up on...and make those marriages good again.But, sadly, the team knows that some marriages will end.In this program, Dr. Beam shares thoughts about when it's time to move on. To accept that the mate isn't coming back. As an important part of that, he also shares what to understand and put into action that will help heal the heart and open new opportunities for love, fulfillment, and happiness.During the program, you may talk with Dr. Beam by calling 646-378-0424. The program airs live beginning at 9 p.m. Central time on Tuesday, November 1. 

You've heard about the Save My Marriage Course that Marriage Helper offers...but is it right for you? How does it really work? Listen to this for some great insight.We talk about how the course came to be, what kind of marital situations it works best for (and what situations it DOESN'T work for!), and how the course works.Hint: you get lifetime access ;)Join the course by October 31, 2016 and get 50% off with code MH50. Go to www.marriagehelper.com/savemymarriage for more info.

You've heard about the Save My Marriage Course that Marriage Helper offers...but is it right for you? How does it really work? Listen to this for some great insight.We talk about how the course came to be, what kind of marital situations it works best for (and what situations it DOESN'T work for!), and how the course works.Hint: you get lifetime access ;)Join the course by October 31, 2016 and get 50% off with code MH50. Go to www.marriagehelper.com/savemymarriage for more info.

Rather than starting with a theme or subject as he usually does, in this program Dr. Joe Beam opens the mic for callers on any subject or area of relationships.Love, sex, dating, rescuing lost love, salvaging a troubled marriage, parenting, or any other subject that you wish to discuss.If you are a regular caller to this program, we ask that you allow new callers first chance to ask their questions or make their comments.The program begins 9 p.m. Central time tonight, October 25, 2016. You can call during the program at 646-378-0424. You may listen on your phone or press 1 to signal that you wish to speak with Dr. Beam. You may also listen on www.MarriageRadio.com.

Rather than starting with a theme or subject as he usually does, in this program Dr. Joe Beam opens the mic for callers on any subject or area of relationships.Love, sex, dating, rescuing lost love, salvaging a troubled marriage, parenting, or any other subject that you wish to discuss.If you are a regular caller to this program, we ask that you allow new callers first chance to ask their questions or make their comments.The program begins 9 p.m. Central time tonight, October 25, 2016. You can call during the program at 646-378-0424. You may listen on your phone or press 1 to signal that you wish to speak with Dr. Beam. You may also listen on www.MarriageRadio.com.

Dr. Beam explained it when a guest on the Montel Williams Show. Falling in love is a process. If you follow the process, you fall in love whether you intend to or not. If you vacate or violate the process, you fall out of love whether you intend to or not.So what's the process?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains the LovePath, the process people go through as they fall in love with another. It has four steps or phases. He will explain each and how they lead to love......and how going down the LovePath the wrong way causes love to fail.Understanding the LovePath can help you fall in love, grow in love, or, if necessary, rescue lost loveDuring the program you may talk with Dr. Beam or ask questions by calling 646-378-0424. The program begins at 9 p.m. Central time on Tuesday, October 18, 2016.

Dr. Beam explained it when a guest on the Montel Williams Show. Falling in love is a process. If you follow the process, you fall in love whether you intend to or not. If you vacate or violate the process, you fall out of love whether you intend to or not.So what's the process?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains the LovePath, the process people go through as they fall in love with another. It has four steps or phases. He will explain each and how they lead to love......and how going down the LovePath the wrong way causes love to fail.Understanding the LovePath can help you fall in love, grow in love, or, if necessary, rescue lost loveDuring the program you may talk with Dr. Beam or ask questions by calling 646-378-0424. The program begins at 9 p.m. Central time on Tuesday, October 18, 2016.

What does it mean - and what do you do - if your spouse has had more than one affair? Does that indicate there is no hope? That you should end it and get away as fast as you can? Or is it possible to save your marriage...and save your spouse from any further infidelity?What do the affairs say about your spouse? Is s/he a sex addict? Serial adulterer? Maybe. But perhaps there is something else going on that can be addressed and, if you spouse has a conscience, it can be fixed.In this program Dr. Joe Beam discusses what he has learned by working with straying spouses over the years. The ones who strayed once and never again. The ones who strayed more than once. The ones who strayed many times.Rather than taking questions as he normally does, Dr. Beam encourages anyone who is in an affair or has had an affair - especially those who have had more than one affair - to call him during the program. If you call, you will be treated with respect and dignity. Dr. Beam would like to hear your story. He would also appreciate the opportunity to ask you questions...not to make you feel guilty or chastise you...but to learn from you and just maybe help you learn something about yourself. Call live during the program at 646-378-0424. It begins at 9 p.m. Central time.Whether you have strayed...or your spouse has strayed...this will be a program that will give insight and understanding to the causes...and, if you desire, to the cures.

What does it mean - and what do you do - if your spouse has had more than one affair? Does that indicate there is no hope? That you should end it and get away as fast as you can? Or is it possible to save your marriage...and save your spouse from any further infidelity?What do the affairs say about your spouse? Is s/he a sex addict? Serial adulterer? Maybe. But perhaps there is something else going on that can be addressed and, if you spouse has a conscience, it can be fixed.In this program Dr. Joe Beam discusses what he has learned by working with straying spouses over the years. The ones who strayed once and never again. The ones who strayed more than once. The ones who strayed many times.Rather than taking questions as he normally does, Dr. Beam encourages anyone who is in an affair or has had an affair - especially those who have had more than one affair - to call him during the program. If you call, you will be treated with respect and dignity. Dr. Beam would like to hear your story. He would also appreciate the opportunity to ask you questions...not to make you feel guilty or chastise you...but to learn from you and just maybe help you learn something about yourself. Call live during the program at 646-378-0424. It begins at 9 p.m. Central time.Whether you have strayed...or your spouse has strayed...this will be a program that will give insight and understanding to the causes...and, if you desire, to the cures.

Sometimes, marriage hurts. Sometimes that pain lasts longer than seems bearable. What can you do when marriage hurts? How can you overcome the pain? We'll teach you in this episode.Joined by Tina Coleman, a Marriage Helper Save My Marriage course member, a volunteer community manager for the Marriage Helper online communities, and an all around amazing person. Tina will share her amazing attitude and spirit. We will hear what happened in her marriage, how she handled it, and what made all the difference in the world.The information in this podcast is the difference between a strong, bright future or giving up all hope...in the end, the choice is yours. But we want to teach you how to make the choices to have a BETTER future. Listen live on Tuesday nights at 9 pm, or subscribe on iTunes. 

Sometimes, marriage hurts. Sometimes that pain lasts longer than seems bearable. What can you do when marriage hurts? How can you overcome the pain? We'll teach you in this episode.Joined by Tina Coleman, a Marriage Helper Save My Marriage course member, a volunteer community manager for the Marriage Helper online communities, and an all around amazing person. Tina will share her amazing attitude and spirit. We will hear what happened in her marriage, how she handled it, and what made all the difference in the world.The information in this podcast is the difference between a strong, bright future or giving up all hope...in the end, the choice is yours. But we want to teach you how to make the choices to have a BETTER future. Listen live on Tuesday nights at 9 pm, or subscribe on iTunes. 

If you have an extramarital affair, you can ruin your child's chances for having happy love when s/he is grown. No matter what age the child is when you have the affair...even if your "child" is now old enough to be in college.Having an affair doesn't only deceiving your spouse, it often involves deceiving yourself...especially about the effect your actions have on your children now and in their future.Even if the marriage doesn't end in divorce, infidelity negatively affects kids. They often view their parent's cheating to be against them. Their security is threatened. Their trust is broken. They experience humiliation and shame. As adults they often fear their own spouse being unfaithful and live jealous lives. Sometimes their fear is strong enough to prevent their having loving relationships. And, sometimes, they themselves become more likely to cheat on their partners.If divorce occurs, it gets worse. Some people say "kids are resilient; they'll be fine." The evidence is quite to the contrary. Ample research exists about the long-term effect of divorce on children including things such as poorer physical health than children from intact families, persistent problems with fears of betrayal and abandonment, increased anxiety in late teens and early 20s, resentment and anger, and low life satisfaction. Additionally, they may participate in sexual intercourse earlier, have a reduced ability to develop and maintain relationships, have a greater likelihood to demonstrate delinquent behaviors, and be more likely to go through a divorce themselves. (All documented in valid research.)In this program Dr. Joe Beam discusses how affairs affect children, whether divorce or not. He will take calls during the program from those whose parents divorced. Call 646-378-0424 during the program to speak to Dr. Beam.

If you have an extramarital affair, you can ruin your child's chances for having happy love when s/he is grown. No matter what age the child is when you have the affair...even if your "child" is now old enough to be in college.Having an affair doesn't only deceiving your spouse, it often involves deceiving yourself...especially about the effect your actions have on your children now and in their future.Even if the marriage doesn't end in divorce, infidelity negatively affects kids. They often view their parent's cheating to be against them. Their security is threatened. Their trust is broken. They experience humiliation and shame. As adults they often fear their own spouse being unfaithful and live jealous lives. Sometimes their fear is strong enough to prevent their having loving relationships. And, sometimes, they themselves become more likely to cheat on their partners.If divorce occurs, it gets worse. Some people say "kids are resilient; they'll be fine." The evidence is quite to the contrary. Ample research exists about the long-term effect of divorce on children including things such as poorer physical health than children from intact families, persistent problems with fears of betrayal and abandonment, increased anxiety in late teens and early 20s, resentment and anger, and low life satisfaction. Additionally, they may participate in sexual intercourse earlier, have a reduced ability to develop and maintain relationships, have a greater likelihood to demonstrate delinquent behaviors, and be more likely to go through a divorce themselves. (All documented in valid research.)In this program Dr. Joe Beam discusses how affairs affect children, whether divorce or not. He will take calls during the program from those whose parents divorced. Call 646-378-0424 during the program to speak to Dr. Beam.

Good marriage counselors are worth their weight in gold.The others...let's just say they aren't. (If you've had a bad experience with a marriage counselor, you likely already inserted your own negative sentence.)We hear from thousands of people every year about their marriages. From those who convinced their spouses to go to marriage counseling, we very often hear how the experience hurt their marriage rather than helped.Is that the fault of the couple or at least one of the spouses? Obviously, it could be. But could it be the fault of the counselor? Yes.We hear people say their counselor told them they should divorce because their problems aren't solvable. Others say that the counselor told them that s/he will help them figure out how to divorce amicably but there is no need to try to save the marriage because one of them doesn't want that. One woman told us that her counselor very early in their sessions told the husband he should divorce her. When the woman confronted the counselor about that advice in a private session, the counselor said that she thought it was the best way to make the husband realize how much he would lose and that maybe then he would come back to the marriage.Really? How could she think THAT will make things better?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes, Executive Director of Marriage Helper, discuss what to do when marriage counseling doesn't work or if counseling did more harm to your marriage than good. Also, they give suggestions on how to find the right counselor to help you with your marriage. They also explain the difference in a turn-around intensive and traditional counseling.For those whose spouses won't go to marriage counseling, they share how to convince your spouse to go with you for marriage help. During the program you may ask your questions or share your comments by calling 646-378-0424. 

Good marriage counselors are worth their weight in gold.The others...let's just say they aren't. (If you've had a bad experience with a marriage counselor, you likely already inserted your own negative sentence.)We hear from thousands of people every year about their marriages. From those who convinced their spouses to go to marriage counseling, we very often hear how the experience hurt their marriage rather than helped.Is that the fault of the couple or at least one of the spouses? Obviously, it could be. But could it be the fault of the counselor? Yes.We hear people say their counselor told them they should divorce because their problems aren't solvable. Others say that the counselor told them that s/he will help them figure out how to divorce amicably but there is no need to try to save the marriage because one of them doesn't want that. One woman told us that her counselor very early in their sessions told the husband he should divorce her. When the woman confronted the counselor about that advice in a private session, the counselor said that she thought it was the best way to make the husband realize how much he would lose and that maybe then he would come back to the marriage.Really? How could she think THAT will make things better?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes, Executive Director of Marriage Helper, discuss what to do when marriage counseling doesn't work or if counseling did more harm to your marriage than good. Also, they give suggestions on how to find the right counselor to help you with your marriage. They also explain the difference in a turn-around intensive and traditional counseling.For those whose spouses won't go to marriage counseling, they share how to convince your spouse to go with you for marriage help. During the program you may ask your questions or share your comments by calling 646-378-0424. 

Not every relationship or marriage has a major meltdown...But when it happens, how do you put things back together?How do you get past the hurt? The broken trust? The fear that something else is coming...especially when one partner developed a deep emotional relationship with someone else, but has decided to try to make your relationship work again...How does the straying partner get over the emotional connection with that other person?How can s/he learn to love you again...and you learn to love him/her again with the security that your relationship will last a lifetime?There are things to do when reconciling a relationship. There are things NOT to do. There are also "gray" areas where you have to use your wisdom. (Knowing the right principles helps tremendously with this.)In this program Dr. Joe Beam explains why relationships fail and how they can be put back together again. He explains the principles of reconciliation and the specific do's and don'ts that can make or break the process. He addresses both the straying spouse and the standing spouse.Call during the live broadcast if you wish to ask questions or make comments. (Please make your questions or comments about this subject...but Dr. Beam will take other relationship questions as well.) Call 646-378-0424 during the program to listen via your phone. If you wish to speak to Dr. Beam press 1 when you hear the menu. Of course you can listen via your computer or tablet at www.MarriageRadio.com or on BlogTalkRadio.

Not every relationship or marriage has a major meltdown...But when it happens, how do you put things back together?How do you get past the hurt? The broken trust? The fear that something else is coming...especially when one partner developed a deep emotional relationship with someone else, but has decided to try to make your relationship work again...How does the straying partner get over the emotional connection with that other person?How can s/he learn to love you again...and you learn to love him/her again with the security that your relationship will last a lifetime?There are things to do when reconciling a relationship. There are things NOT to do. There are also "gray" areas where you have to use your wisdom. (Knowing the right principles helps tremendously with this.)In this program Dr. Joe Beam explains why relationships fail and how they can be put back together again. He explains the principles of reconciliation and the specific do's and don'ts that can make or break the process. He addresses both the straying spouse and the standing spouse.Call during the live broadcast if you wish to ask questions or make comments. (Please make your questions or comments about this subject...but Dr. Beam will take other relationship questions as well.) Call 646-378-0424 during the program to listen via your phone. If you wish to speak to Dr. Beam press 1 when you hear the menu. Of course you can listen via your computer or tablet at www.MarriageRadio.com or on BlogTalkRadio.

Have you ever prayed about love? Perhaps something that you wanted to happen. Maybe something you didn't want to happen.It might have been about a specific person, either someone you already have a relationship or marriage with or that you want a relationship or marriage with. It might have been about a specific situation...something that you have a strong desire to have...or to avoid.From a multitude of postings found on Facebook to thousands of conversations over the years, Dr. Joe Beam has chosen three of the prayers people mention that - no matter how much they believe they will be - are not going to be answered by God.Although his PhD is not in any religious area of study - his graduate work is about the psychology and emotions of love, sex, and marriage - he has a degree in Bible. That doesn't make him a theologian, but it does make him a student of the teachings of God.No, Dr. Beam doesn't claim to speak for God. Yet, he's convinced that some of what is claimed about how God intervenes in the love and relationships of people leads only to false hope...and, eventually, disappointment.If you're curious, he's a believer. He prays. He believes God answers prayers...but not all prayers. Especially some that people pray about love and relationships.Is this a program to take away hope?No.It is a program about how to have hope that is real; that is possible. To live by genuine faith if you have faith. To face reality. To know what to do rather than expecting God to do it for you.It airs live August 30 beginning at 9 p.m. Central. You can call in your questions or comments during the live program at 646-378-0424. 

Have you ever prayed about love? Perhaps something that you wanted to happen. Maybe something you didn't want to happen.It might have been about a specific person, either someone you already have a relationship or marriage with or that you want a relationship or marriage with. It might have been about a specific situation...something that you have a strong desire to have...or to avoid.From a multitude of postings found on Facebook to thousands of conversations over the years, Dr. Joe Beam has chosen three of the prayers people mention that - no matter how much they believe they will be - are not going to be answered by God.Although his PhD is not in any religious area of study - his graduate work is about the psychology and emotions of love, sex, and marriage - he has a degree in Bible. That doesn't make him a theologian, but it does make him a student of the teachings of God.No, Dr. Beam doesn't claim to speak for God. Yet, he's convinced that some of what is claimed about how God intervenes in the love and relationships of people leads only to false hope...and, eventually, disappointment.If you're curious, he's a believer. He prays. He believes God answers prayers...but not all prayers. Especially some that people pray about love and relationships.Is this a program to take away hope?No.It is a program about how to have hope that is real; that is possible. To live by genuine faith if you have faith. To face reality. To know what to do rather than expecting God to do it for you.It airs live August 30 beginning at 9 p.m. Central. You can call in your questions or comments during the live program at 646-378-0424. 

What does it feel like? How does a person get into this situation? Why does she love a man other than her husband?In this program, a brave woman who is with her husband but still "deeply in love" with another man tells her story. She is willing to answer questions and talk about her situation.She wrote, "I have been madly in love with a man I work for four years now and even though I ended things in March and asked my husband to move back, I still feel as much in love as ever. Not a single day has gone by in four months that I haven't cried missing him and then feel overwhelming grief...I wouldn't wish this feeling of helplessness on my worst enemy!"Because of the sensitivity of this program - and to protect her from callers who may not be kind - no calls will be taken during this program. Instead, you can ask your question or make your comment by emailing AskJoe@MarriageHelper.com before the show airs. (Make sure your comments or questions are emailed at least one hour before the program begins at 9 p.m. Central time.)If you are a regular listener to this program, you've hear Dr. Beam discuss limerence. In this program you will hear from someone in limerence with another person than her husband about how it feels, how it begins, and how strong an impact it has.Listen live at 9 p.m. Central time on www.MarriageRadio.com or on your phone by calling 646-378-0424.

What does it feel like? How does a person get into this situation? Why does she love a man other than her husband?In this program, a brave woman who is with her husband but still "deeply in love" with another man tells her story. She is willing to answer questions and talk about her situation.She wrote, "I have been madly in love with a man I work for four years now and even though I ended things in March and asked my husband to move back, I still feel as much in love as ever. Not a single day has gone by in four months that I haven't cried missing him and then feel overwhelming grief...I wouldn't wish this feeling of helplessness on my worst enemy!"Because of the sensitivity of this program - and to protect her from callers who may not be kind - no calls will be taken during this program. Instead, you can ask your question or make your comment by emailing AskJoe@MarriageHelper.com before the show airs. (Make sure your comments or questions are emailed at least one hour before the program begins at 9 p.m. Central time.)If you are a regular listener to this program, you've hear Dr. Beam discuss limerence. In this program you will hear from someone in limerence with another person than her husband about how it feels, how it begins, and how strong an impact it has.Listen live at 9 p.m. Central time on www.MarriageRadio.com or on your phone by calling 646-378-0424.

There is a difference between that feeling of love and being "madly in love." If you long for that magically amazing love that is the focus of so many  movies, TV shows, and novels, you may indeed experience it...but not forever. Love that is deep and long-lasting isn't an overwhelming ecstasy but something much deeper...something with roots that dig deeply into your heart, your mind, your soul.Yet that "madly in love" feeling is truly amazing when experienced. In the social sciences we have a word for it; limerence. More than just identifying it, researchers dig into it to understand it better...including how long it lasts...and factors that either prevent it, diminish it, or end it.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains what he has witnessed in thousands of people "madly in love" and discusses the three phases of limerence he has identified.  If you are "madly in love" this program is for you. You may feel that the intensity of your current emotion for the other person will last forever just as it is now. Dr. Beam explains how it will change, and how understanding that change can help prevent consequences that you don't yet see coming.If you are married to someone who has fallen "madly in love" with another, this program is for you. If you wish to save your marriage but think it impossible because your husband or wife is in limerence with another, Dr. Beam's explanations of limerence, especially understanding the three phases, can guide you in the process of saving your marriage. As he says, "If anything works, this will work."If you wish to speak with Dr. Beam during the program, call 646-378-0424. When you hear the menu, press one to get into the queue.Whether you listen live or later, don't miss this program.

There is a difference between that feeling of love and being "madly in love." If you long for that magically amazing love that is the focus of so many  movies, TV shows, and novels, you may indeed experience it...but not forever. Love that is deep and long-lasting isn't an overwhelming ecstasy but something much deeper...something with roots that dig deeply into your heart, your mind, your soul.Yet that "madly in love" feeling is truly amazing when experienced. In the social sciences we have a word for it; limerence. More than just identifying it, researchers dig into it to understand it better...including how long it lasts...and factors that either prevent it, diminish it, or end it.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam explains what he has witnessed in thousands of people "madly in love" and discusses the three phases of limerence he has identified.  If you are "madly in love" this program is for you. You may feel that the intensity of your current emotion for the other person will last forever just as it is now. Dr. Beam explains how it will change, and how understanding that change can help prevent consequences that you don't yet see coming.If you are married to someone who has fallen "madly in love" with another, this program is for you. If you wish to save your marriage but think it impossible because your husband or wife is in limerence with another, Dr. Beam's explanations of limerence, especially understanding the three phases, can guide you in the process of saving your marriage. As he says, "If anything works, this will work."If you wish to speak with Dr. Beam during the program, call 646-378-0424. When you hear the menu, press one to get into the queue.Whether you listen live or later, don't miss this program.

Do you feel abandoned by God? Do you wonder why He isn't intervening in your marriage?If you feel this way, you are not alone. But that doesn't mean that it has to stay that way. There's a reason for these trials and tribulations, even though it is hard to go through right now. How can you strengthen your faith instead of lose it? Or can you? Should you? We'll discuss all these questions, and more, in this real heart to heart conversation. We care about you and your marriage. 

Do you feel abandoned by God? Do you wonder why He isn't intervening in your marriage?If you feel this way, you are not alone. But that doesn't mean that it has to stay that way. There's a reason for these trials and tribulations, even though it is hard to go through right now. How can you strengthen your faith instead of lose it? Or can you? Should you? We'll discuss all these questions, and more, in this real heart to heart conversation. We care about you and your marriage. 

Sometimes it makes no difference if you don't agree with the person you love. Sometimes it does. Especially when your disagreement pulls you apart. Maybe you disagree about where you live, occupations, religion, money, children, or anything else that matters to you.On some things you are willing to yield. Not this. It is important to you. So important that you feel your loved one is being selfish, or doesn't understand you. Important enough that it might destroy the relationship.Is there a way to find a compromise that satisfies both of you...a solution where neither feels s/he loses...where you each get what you want and no one dominates?Yes.In this program Dr. Joe Beam teaches a method that the two of you can use to solve almost any seemingly insolvable disagreement. The principle isn't difficult to understand. You can apply it with great effect. To make it even clearer, Dr. Beam gives several examples of how people have used it to find a valid solution to their major disagreements. You can call Dr. Beam during the program to ask questions about how this principle might be applied to your situation. The number to call during the program is (646) 378-0424.

Sometimes it makes no difference if you don't agree with the person you love. Sometimes it does. Especially when your disagreement pulls you apart. Maybe you disagree about where you live, occupations, religion, money, children, or anything else that matters to you.On some things you are willing to yield. Not this. It is important to you. So important that you feel your loved one is being selfish, or doesn't understand you. Important enough that it might destroy the relationship.Is there a way to find a compromise that satisfies both of you...a solution where neither feels s/he loses...where you each get what you want and no one dominates?Yes.In this program Dr. Joe Beam teaches a method that the two of you can use to solve almost any seemingly insolvable disagreement. The principle isn't difficult to understand. You can apply it with great effect. To make it even clearer, Dr. Beam gives several examples of how people have used it to find a valid solution to their major disagreements. You can call Dr. Beam during the program to ask questions about how this principle might be applied to your situation. The number to call during the program is (646) 378-0424.

Whether it's done by your best friend, your child, or your spouse, it hurts when we discover that we've been lied to, doesn't it?No one that I know of likes being deceived. Even in affairs, I often hear the spouse who was cheated on say something such as "As much as the affair hurt, it hurt me even more that s/he lied to me!"Would it surprise you to know that sometimes the person who lied to you did so because you taught him/her to lie to you?Yes. It happens.No, not every lie a person tells you is in response to your actions. Sometimes people lie. Sometimes they lie with those huge life-altering falsehoods that devastate you. Even so, sometimes the lies start because of your own actions. Then the lies escalate. They can become ultimately destructive.This program isn't about "beating you up" and saying that the wrong things done by people you love are your fault. Every person is responsible for his/her own decisions and actions. Yet, this program is about learning the things you do that may be teaching someone you care about to lie to you. It doesn't justify their lies...but learning how to evoke the truth from others is FAR better than doing things that may provoke their lying to you.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam discusses briefly why people lie. Then he explains how your actions may be facilitating or provoking those lies. Finally, he teaches how to interact with people in a manner most likely to promote their telling you the truth.If you wish to talk with Dr. Beam during the program to make comments or ask questions, you may do so by calling 646.378.0424. It airs live beginning at 9 p.m. Central time, Tuesday, July 26, 2016.

Whether it's done by your best friend, your child, or your spouse, it hurts when we discover that we've been lied to, doesn't it?No one that I know of likes being deceived. Even in affairs, I often hear the spouse who was cheated on say something such as "As much as the affair hurt, it hurt me even more that s/he lied to me!"Would it surprise you to know that sometimes the person who lied to you did so because you taught him/her to lie to you?Yes. It happens.No, not every lie a person tells you is in response to your actions. Sometimes people lie. Sometimes they lie with those huge life-altering falsehoods that devastate you. Even so, sometimes the lies start because of your own actions. Then the lies escalate. They can become ultimately destructive.This program isn't about "beating you up" and saying that the wrong things done by people you love are your fault. Every person is responsible for his/her own decisions and actions. Yet, this program is about learning the things you do that may be teaching someone you care about to lie to you. It doesn't justify their lies...but learning how to evoke the truth from others is FAR better than doing things that may provoke their lying to you.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam discusses briefly why people lie. Then he explains how your actions may be facilitating or provoking those lies. Finally, he teaches how to interact with people in a manner most likely to promote their telling you the truth.If you wish to talk with Dr. Beam during the program to make comments or ask questions, you may do so by calling 646.378.0424. It airs live beginning at 9 p.m. Central time, Tuesday, July 26, 2016.

It may be guilt you feel. It may guilt felt by someone you love. Either way, it affects everyone. The person who feels guilt has little to no peace. The ones who love the guilt-ridden are pushed away...or feel helpless to help.Guilt isn't a bad thing. We actually need it. If we never felt it, we'd have no conscience...we'd fake feeling remorse and true emotions about how we affect others, but that's all it would be...fake.But guilt can also work against us. It can lead us to make poor decisions, remove ourselves from others, cause us to lash out at others, or even do things to punish ourselves (whether we realize that we're doing it or not).When should a person feel guilty? What is the best way to deal with guilt?How can we get past guilt, especially when there seems to be nothing we can do to stop it?How can we find true forgiveness from others...from ourselves...from our God.How does gulit affect relationships?How can we help those who are captured by guilt find the way out of the darkness and pain?In this program Dr. Joe Beam, author of Getting Past Guilt, discusses the subject of guilt...what it is...when it's good...when it's bad...how to use it for good results...how to remove it when it's causing harm...how to help others who feel guilt. Dr. Beam will also take your calls about your own guilt or about someone you care about that you wish to help with his/her guilt. Call (646) 378-0424  live during the program that begins at 9 p.m. Central on July 12. 

It may be guilt you feel. It may guilt felt by someone you love. Either way, it affects everyone. The person who feels guilt has little to no peace. The ones who love the guilt-ridden are pushed away...or feel helpless to help.Guilt isn't a bad thing. We actually need it. If we never felt it, we'd have no conscience...we'd fake feeling remorse and true emotions about how we affect others, but that's all it would be...fake.But guilt can also work against us. It can lead us to make poor decisions, remove ourselves from others, cause us to lash out at others, or even do things to punish ourselves (whether we realize that we're doing it or not).When should a person feel guilty? What is the best way to deal with guilt?How can we get past guilt, especially when there seems to be nothing we can do to stop it?How can we find true forgiveness from others...from ourselves...from our God.How does gulit affect relationships?How can we help those who are captured by guilt find the way out of the darkness and pain?In this program Dr. Joe Beam, author of Getting Past Guilt, discusses the subject of guilt...what it is...when it's good...when it's bad...how to use it for good results...how to remove it when it's causing harm...how to help others who feel guilt. Dr. Beam will also take your calls about your own guilt or about someone you care about that you wish to help with his/her guilt. Call (646) 378-0424  live during the program that begins at 9 p.m. Central on July 12. 

You've done something that you know will hurt your spouse if s/he knew about it. Maybe it was recent? Maybe years ago? Maybe even before you met, but you have worry that s/he will react badly if it came out.Do you tell? Do you keep it a secret?If you do tell, will it end your marriage...or at the very least cause hard and angry feelings that will last for a long time?If you don't tell, will it erode your marriage from within because of how it affects you to keep it secret?And if you were to tell, WHAT should you tell and what should you leave OUT?In this program, Dr. Beam gives clear and understandable guidelines for deciding whether to tell or not to tell. That's right; in some situations it is far better NOT to tell. For others, the marriage is in jeopardy UNTIL you tell. The principles and guidelines presented in this program will help you decide. And if you decide you should tell, Dr. Beam gives principles of what TO tell and what NOT to tell.If you wish to ask Dr. Beam about a specific situation, call during the program to (646) 378-0424 to speak with him live.Don't live in miserable hesitation any longer about whether to tell your spouse. Find peace by knowing whether to tell and, if so, what to tell. Don't miss this episode of Marriage Radio with Joe Beam...the Dr. Joe Show.

You've done something that you know will hurt your spouse if s/he knew about it. Maybe it was recent? Maybe years ago? Maybe even before you met, but you have worry that s/he will react badly if it came out.Do you tell? Do you keep it a secret?If you do tell, will it end your marriage...or at the very least cause hard and angry feelings that will last for a long time?If you don't tell, will it erode your marriage from within because of how it affects you to keep it secret?And if you were to tell, WHAT should you tell and what should you leave OUT?In this program, Dr. Beam gives clear and understandable guidelines for deciding whether to tell or not to tell. That's right; in some situations it is far better NOT to tell. For others, the marriage is in jeopardy UNTIL you tell. The principles and guidelines presented in this program will help you decide. And if you decide you should tell, Dr. Beam gives principles of what TO tell and what NOT to tell.If you wish to ask Dr. Beam about a specific situation, call during the program to (646) 378-0424 to speak with him live.Don't live in miserable hesitation any longer about whether to tell your spouse. Find peace by knowing whether to tell and, if so, what to tell. Don't miss this episode of Marriage Radio with Joe Beam...the Dr. Joe Show.

He was "madly in love" with another woman. She wanted to save their marriage. They tried a couple intense potential solutions and then, by agreement, she moved thousands of miles back to her former home leaving him with his lover.It appeared to be hopeless. They informed their kids. They made their plans for separate lives. But things changed.Against apparently impossible odds, he called her and asked if she would consider working things out. She agreed.It wasn't all easy. There was work to do. She understood his need to grieve losing the other relationship. He understood her need to work through their issues. Together, they did it. Today they have a good, solid loving marriage.During this program, Dr. Joe Beam will ask them questions to lead them through their story...but not just the story. He will ask how the wife could be strong enough to understand her husband's grieving losing what he had with the other woman. He will ask them how their children reacted to being told their marriage was going to end...and how they reacted when they realized their parents were going to make their marriage work. There will be several questions that the couple will answer honestly and forthrightly. However, you, too, can ask specific questions. During the program, you can call in to speak with the couple at (646) 378-0424.The program airs live on June 28 beginning at 9 p.m. Central time on www.MarriageRadio.com as well as on BlogTalkRadio. You can also hear it later on iTunes by subscribing free to Marriage Radio with Joe Beam. You don't want to miss this episode!

He was "madly in love" with another woman. She wanted to save their marriage. They tried a couple intense potential solutions and then, by agreement, she moved thousands of miles back to her former home leaving him with his lover.It appeared to be hopeless. They informed their kids. They made their plans for separate lives. But things changed.Against apparently impossible odds, he called her and asked if she would consider working things out. She agreed.It wasn't all easy. There was work to do. She understood his need to grieve losing the other relationship. He understood her need to work through their issues. Together, they did it. Today they have a good, solid loving marriage.During this program, Dr. Joe Beam will ask them questions to lead them through their story...but not just the story. He will ask how the wife could be strong enough to understand her husband's grieving losing what he had with the other woman. He will ask them how their children reacted to being told their marriage was going to end...and how they reacted when they realized their parents were going to make their marriage work. There will be several questions that the couple will answer honestly and forthrightly. However, you, too, can ask specific questions. During the program, you can call in to speak with the couple at (646) 378-0424.The program airs live on June 28 beginning at 9 p.m. Central time on www.MarriageRadio.com as well as on BlogTalkRadio. You can also hear it later on iTunes by subscribing free to Marriage Radio with Joe Beam. You don't want to miss this episode!

Questions continue to come in about limerence. (Limerence is the state of feeling "madly in love" with another.) Millions of marriages are in crisis because either husband or wife has fallen into a state of limerence with someone else. Sometimes it is only emotional. Most of the time it also becomes sexual. Although Dr. Beam regularly explains limerence on the program, the questions continue to come in droves. In this program he answers more of those questions. He also takes calls live from those who wish to ask about their specific situation. Call during the program to (646) 378-0424. (The program airs live beginning at 9 p.m. Central time, June 21, 2016.)Dr. Beam will cover some of the basic information such as:- What is limerence?- How does it happen?- How does it affect the person who is in it?- Why does it lead people to leave their spouses?As well as more specific questions such as:- When will it end?- Is there a way to know whether my spouse is starting to come out of limerence with someone else?- Is there anything I can do to help my spouse come out of limerence?And even for those who are in limerence:- Is there any way I can take control of my emotions again?- Why shouldn't I leave my marriage for the person that I'm in love with?PLUS specific questions from callers as well as those who have posted questions in the Facebook Group "Save My Marriage."

Questions continue to come in about limerence. (Limerence is the state of feeling "madly in love" with another.) Millions of marriages are in crisis because either husband or wife has fallen into a state of limerence with someone else. Sometimes it is only emotional. Most of the time it also becomes sexual. Although Dr. Beam regularly explains limerence on the program, the questions continue to come in droves. In this program he answers more of those questions. He also takes calls live from those who wish to ask about their specific situation. Call during the program to (646) 378-0424. (The program airs live beginning at 9 p.m. Central time, June 21, 2016.)Dr. Beam will cover some of the basic information such as:- What is limerence?- How does it happen?- How does it affect the person who is in it?- Why does it lead people to leave their spouses?As well as more specific questions such as:- When will it end?- Is there a way to know whether my spouse is starting to come out of limerence with someone else?- Is there anything I can do to help my spouse come out of limerence?And even for those who are in limerence:- Is there any way I can take control of my emotions again?- Why shouldn't I leave my marriage for the person that I'm in love with?PLUS specific questions from callers as well as those who have posted questions in the Facebook Group "Save My Marriage."

Several crucial questions have come in about how to deal with spouses doing destructive things. In this program, we will deal with questions such as:What do I do if my spouse keeps lying? Are all lies the same? Do I react to all of them the same way? Should I set traps to catch him / her in the lies?How do I know s/he's telling the truth now? S/he claims that all lies are over but I have my doubts.What do I do if my cheating spouse is lying to my kids about what's going on with us? Do I tell them the truth?My mate still lives at home though s/he is involved emotionally with someone else. I'm trying to save the marriage and s/he tells me that if I'll just be patient and let this run its course, everything will be fine? Am I a fool to believe that? Is s/he using me? What do I do?I think my spouse is going through mid-life crisis. S/he is moody, depressed, doesn't communicate. How do I deal with this?My mate says if I stop talking about hour problesm s/he will stay but if I keep bringing things up, s/he's out of here. Yet I can't live with things like they are. Do I shut up? Do I press for answers?When is it time to give an ultimatum? How do I know when it's time to press things or if I'm better off to give a little more space?Dr. Joe Beam will answer these and any other questions that you wish to call live during the program at (646) 378-0424. It will be a lively and informative conversation with real people dealing with real problems.

Several crucial questions have come in about how to deal with spouses doing destructive things. In this program, we will deal with questions such as:What do I do if my spouse keeps lying? Are all lies the same? Do I react to all of them the same way? Should I set traps to catch him / her in the lies?How do I know s/he's telling the truth now? S/he claims that all lies are over but I have my doubts.What do I do if my cheating spouse is lying to my kids about what's going on with us? Do I tell them the truth?My mate still lives at home though s/he is involved emotionally with someone else. I'm trying to save the marriage and s/he tells me that if I'll just be patient and let this run its course, everything will be fine? Am I a fool to believe that? Is s/he using me? What do I do?I think my spouse is going through mid-life crisis. S/he is moody, depressed, doesn't communicate. How do I deal with this?My mate says if I stop talking about hour problesm s/he will stay but if I keep bringing things up, s/he's out of here. Yet I can't live with things like they are. Do I shut up? Do I press for answers?When is it time to give an ultimatum? How do I know when it's time to press things or if I'm better off to give a little more space?Dr. Joe Beam will answer these and any other questions that you wish to call live during the program at (646) 378-0424. It will be a lively and informative conversation with real people dealing with real problems.

What is going on in the head/heart of someone "madly in love" with another? Why do they do the things they do? Say the things they say? Make the decisions they make?What if a person is married to one and falls "madly in love" with another? How does that happen? Is it the fault of the spouse they wish to leave? Is there hope to save the marriage? Will s/he divorce the one, marry the other, and live happily ever after?That's that the person believes will happen. However, it's not what's going to happen. They love they believe that no one can understand because no one could ever have felt this way before...is quite common. And, unfortunately for the person in it, it only SEEMS that it will last forever. It won't. It always ends.There's a name for it. It's called limerence. The word was coined by Dorothy Tennov, PhD, in the 1970s. At that time it received little acceptance by counselors. Even today, we find that many marriage counselors and therapists either do not know about it or know very little about it.Current research on it has been done by Helen Fisher, PhD, and her colleagues. (Tennov has passed on.) Their findings are fascinating.So are ours.We have worked with myriads of married people who are in limerence with someone other than their spouses. We've heard the stories...we've witnessed the actions and decisions...and we've seen the consequences.Not good consequences, though the person leaving his / her spouse for another with whom s/he is "madly in love" always fully anticipates that life with the lover will be amazing, fulfilling, and last a lifetime.Nearly all end within 3 years...even the ones that believe it will last forever.In this program Dr. Joe Beam discusses limerence in detail. He also takes your calls live at 646.378.0424

What is going on in the head/heart of someone "madly in love" with another? Why do they do the things they do? Say the things they say? Make the decisions they make?What if a person is married to one and falls "madly in love" with another? How does that happen? Is it the fault of the spouse they wish to leave? Is there hope to save the marriage? Will s/he divorce the one, marry the other, and live happily ever after?That's that the person believes will happen. However, it's not what's going to happen. They love they believe that no one can understand because no one could ever have felt this way before...is quite common. And, unfortunately for the person in it, it only SEEMS that it will last forever. It won't. It always ends.There's a name for it. It's called limerence. The word was coined by Dorothy Tennov, PhD, in the 1970s. At that time it received little acceptance by counselors. Even today, we find that many marriage counselors and therapists either do not know about it or know very little about it.Current research on it has been done by Helen Fisher, PhD, and her colleagues. (Tennov has passed on.) Their findings are fascinating.So are ours.We have worked with myriads of married people who are in limerence with someone other than their spouses. We've heard the stories...we've witnessed the actions and decisions...and we've seen the consequences.Not good consequences, though the person leaving his / her spouse for another with whom s/he is "madly in love" always fully anticipates that life with the lover will be amazing, fulfilling, and last a lifetime.Nearly all end within 3 years...even the ones that believe it will last forever.In this program Dr. Joe Beam discusses limerence in detail. He also takes your calls live at 646.378.0424

In this program a couple tell their poignant story. Both had difficult childhoods that led to complications in their marriage, including ography and affairs. The future seemed dim for their marriage. However, they overcame.Hear their story. Ask them questions. Interact with Dr. Joe Beam as he interviews them and also responds to your questions about your own relationship.Sexually Explicit Materials (SEM) - often simply called - is widely available, affordable, and can be accessed anonymously. Both men and women by the millions visit Internet SEM sites every day. Some say it makes their marriage better. Some don't. This couple will share with you the devastating effect it had on their marriage.You may call in during the program at 646.378.0424. This is a program you don't want to miss. 

In this program a couple tell their poignant story. Both had difficult childhoods that led to complications in their marriage, including ography and affairs. The future seemed dim for their marriage. However, they overcame.Hear their story. Ask them questions. Interact with Dr. Joe Beam as he interviews them and also responds to your questions about your own relationship.Sexually Explicit Materials (SEM) - often simply called - is widely available, affordable, and can be accessed anonymously. Both men and women by the millions visit Internet SEM sites every day. Some say it makes their marriage better. Some don't. This couple will share with you the devastating effect it had on their marriage.You may call in during the program at 646.378.0424. This is a program you don't want to miss. 

Divorce affects children...even grown children...emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually.Some say that you should never stay married just for the sake of your kids. Others say that kids are reslient and that divorce has little long-lasting effect.The research indicates somethig far different.In this program, we present the findings of some of these research projects and discuss how divorce truly does affect kids....even adults whose parents split up.Additionally, we will explain a new powerful resoure for kids of divorce. Joining Dr. Joe Beam on this program are Kimberly Holmes, Executive Director and CEO of Marriage Helper, and Justin Prince, Project Director of Divorce Help For Kids.During the program call 646-378-0424 to share your comments or ask your questions, including questions about how to help your kids if your marriage is in difficulty.

Divorce affects children...even grown children...emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually.Some say that you should never stay married just for the sake of your kids. Others say that kids are reslient and that divorce has little long-lasting effect.The research indicates somethig far different.In this program, we present the findings of some of these research projects and discuss how divorce truly does affect kids....even adults whose parents split up.Additionally, we will explain a new powerful resoure for kids of divorce. Joining Dr. Joe Beam on this program are Kimberly Holmes, Executive Director and CEO of Marriage Helper, and Justin Prince, Project Director of Divorce Help For Kids.During the program call 646-378-0424 to share your comments or ask your questions, including questions about how to help your kids if your marriage is in difficulty.

In this episode of the Dr. Joe Show, Dr. Beam will talk with callers from around the world, hearing their comments and answering their questions about relationships.Often Dr. Beam's program ends with callers waiting. In this program, he will take every call possible in a two-hour special episode. Whether married or single, be sure to hear this program. Call in to ask about anything concerning relationships including:- Communication- Straying Spouse- Love- Sex- Parenting- Trust- Forgiveness...or whatever relationship topic is on your mind. Be sure to call early to get in the queue so that Dr. Beam can get to you.Call in live beginning at 9 p.m. Central at 646-378-0424 either to listen or to interact live with Dr. Beam.You can also hear the program live (or recorded for the next six days) on www.MarriageRadio.com. All of Dr. Beam's programs are archived on iTunes; you can access them free by subscribing free on iTunes to Marriage Radio with Joe Beam.

In this episode of the Dr. Joe Show, Dr. Beam will talk with callers from around the world, hearing their comments and answering their questions about relationships.Often Dr. Beam's program ends with callers waiting. In this program, he will take every call possible in a two-hour special episode. Whether married or single, be sure to hear this program. Call in to ask about anything concerning relationships including:- Communication- Straying Spouse- Love- Sex- Parenting- Trust- Forgiveness...or whatever relationship topic is on your mind. Be sure to call early to get in the queue so that Dr. Beam can get to you.Call in live beginning at 9 p.m. Central at 646-378-0424 either to listen or to interact live with Dr. Beam.You can also hear the program live (or recorded for the next six days) on www.MarriageRadio.com. All of Dr. Beam's programs are archived on iTunes; you can access them free by subscribing free on iTunes to Marriage Radio with Joe Beam.

Ever wonder why your spouse is so weird? Whys/he doesn’t think like you, act like you, want the same things you want?Maybe one of you is spontaneous and the other is cautious. Maybe one is an introvert and the other an extrovert. You have different ideas, wants, or needs when it comes to how you handle money, discipline the kids, how to spend your time together. Maybe your differences are even evident in the bedroom.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam shares basic principles of how to understand your own style and the style of your spouse in ways that help you in all these ways:FinancesParentingSocial settingsEmotionsSex….and much more.It begins at 9 p.m. Central. Call 646-378-0424 during the program to talk live with Dr. Beam about your relationship.

Ever wonder why your spouse is so weird? Whys/he doesn’t think like you, act like you, want the same things you want?Maybe one of you is spontaneous and the other is cautious. Maybe one is an introvert and the other an extrovert. You have different ideas, wants, or needs when it comes to how you handle money, discipline the kids, how to spend your time together. Maybe your differences are even evident in the bedroom.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam shares basic principles of how to understand your own style and the style of your spouse in ways that help you in all these ways:FinancesParentingSocial settingsEmotionsSex….and much more.It begins at 9 p.m. Central. Call 646-378-0424 during the program to talk live with Dr. Beam about your relationship.

Your spouse wants out of the marriage...but you don't.In the process of trying to end the marriage, your spouse is trying to do things that you want no part of. Maybe s/he's spending time with the "lover" while still living at home. Perhaps s/he's demanding things from you that you don't want to give about finances, custody, selling your home, or more.Your friends / family want you to punish your spouse for such egregious behavior and such arrogantly selfish demands. Your attorney counsels going for everything you can get. Your own hurt and anger tempt you to make this divorce a most miserable experience for your spouse.BUT your spouse says you're selfish, that your standing strong is just another example of you trying to control him/her, and that everything you are doing is definitive proof that s/he can't live with you and that divorce is the best thing that can happen.You find yourself worrying whether you should give in to most of his/her demands. You wonder if your standing strong and fighting for your marriage is building such anger and resentment in your spouse that never will there ever be a chance for reconciliation. You even have doubts about your own motives and fear that s/he is right and that you are a mean, selfish person and that the way you're standing strong actually proves that to be true.Would you like to know? Truly know if you are doing the right thing...if you are controlling or mean? In this program Dr. Joe Beam discusses this in depth. You can also call in your questions or comments on this topic live at 646-378-0424 during the program. It airs Tuesday, April 26, beginning at 9 p.m. Central. 

Your spouse wants out of the marriage...but you don't.In the process of trying to end the marriage, your spouse is trying to do things that you want no part of. Maybe s/he's spending time with the "lover" while still living at home. Perhaps s/he's demanding things from you that you don't want to give about finances, custody, selling your home, or more.Your friends / family want you to punish your spouse for such egregious behavior and such arrogantly selfish demands. Your attorney counsels going for everything you can get. Your own hurt and anger tempt you to make this divorce a most miserable experience for your spouse.BUT your spouse says you're selfish, that your standing strong is just another example of you trying to control him/her, and that everything you are doing is definitive proof that s/he can't live with you and that divorce is the best thing that can happen.You find yourself worrying whether you should give in to most of his/her demands. You wonder if your standing strong and fighting for your marriage is building such anger and resentment in your spouse that never will there ever be a chance for reconciliation. You even have doubts about your own motives and fear that s/he is right and that you are a mean, selfish person and that the way you're standing strong actually proves that to be true.Would you like to know? Truly know if you are doing the right thing...if you are controlling or mean? In this program Dr. Joe Beam discusses this in depth. You can also call in your questions or comments on this topic live at 646-378-0424 during the program. It airs Tuesday, April 26, beginning at 9 p.m. Central. 

It can be completely overwhelming to know where to start when trying to save your marriage. Where do you start? What is the most important thing you can do? What should you do FIRST?Join Kimberly Holmes, the CEO of Marriage Helper, shares how she stopped her marriage from ending in crisis...and teaches you a step by step plan on how to do that in your own marriage.You will leave this podcast with real, implementable steps that you can use when moving forward on how to save your marriage.

It can be completely overwhelming to know where to start when trying to save your marriage. Where do you start? What is the most important thing you can do? What should you do FIRST?Join Kimberly Holmes, the CEO of Marriage Helper, shares how she stopped her marriage from ending in crisis...and teaches you a step by step plan on how to do that in your own marriage.You will leave this podcast with real, implementable steps that you can use when moving forward on how to save your marriage.

Ever wish you could really understand what your spouse is saying...you hear the words, you respond, and s/he reacts in a completely different way than you expected. You know you aren't communicating clearly with each other but it doesn't make sense to you why you aren't. It's like he speaks one language and she another. You speak the same language but apparently the words don't mean the same to each of you.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam and special guest Terry Cheatham explain things NOT to do when communicating with another person, things you should ALWAYS do, as well as how to understand what the other person is actually trying to tell you and how to clearly get across what YOU want to communicate.No, it's not rocket science, but it's amazing how many people mess it up. Maybe you've been one of those people. Maybe the person you care about is. Maybe both of you.The program begins at 9 p.m. Central time Tuesday night, April 12. If you would like to call in your questions or comments, do so live at 646-378-0424.

Ever wish you could really understand what your spouse is saying...you hear the words, you respond, and s/he reacts in a completely different way than you expected. You know you aren't communicating clearly with each other but it doesn't make sense to you why you aren't. It's like he speaks one language and she another. You speak the same language but apparently the words don't mean the same to each of you.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam and special guest Terry Cheatham explain things NOT to do when communicating with another person, things you should ALWAYS do, as well as how to understand what the other person is actually trying to tell you and how to clearly get across what YOU want to communicate.No, it's not rocket science, but it's amazing how many people mess it up. Maybe you've been one of those people. Maybe the person you care about is. Maybe both of you.The program begins at 9 p.m. Central time Tuesday night, April 12. If you would like to call in your questions or comments, do so live at 646-378-0424.

What do you do when you've had major problems in your marriage and now want to try to reconcile?It's tougher to accomplish than most people think.It's great when a couple decides to put a marriage back together. However, without a valid understanding of what caused the trouble (and that usually means MUCH more than the final issue that became the focus of the marriage problems), many couples who try to reconcile run headlong into a wall of pain and frustration.For example, if the marriage hit crisis because of an affair, ending the affair doesn't necessarily mean that the underlying issues have been healed. What led to the affair? What weaknesses exist in either spouse? What relationship dynamics helped create the vulnerability? (This isn't to justify something such as an affair; it's to point out that some people think things are now fine because the affair ended BUT THERE ARE STILL ISSUES that haven't been dealt with.)That same principle applies to much more than affairs...it applies to control and domination, selfishness, in-law problems, sexual problems, and much, much more.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam guides you through a process of discovering and dealing with the real issues and then following a proven plan to make reconciliation actually work so that the marriage becomes better after the problem than it was ever before. Dr. Beam will also take calls with specific questions about reconciliation. The program airs beginning at 9 p.m. Tuesday, April 5. If you wish to Dr. Beam during the program call 646-378-0424.

What do you do when you've had major problems in your marriage and now want to try to reconcile?It's tougher to accomplish than most people think.It's great when a couple decides to put a marriage back together. However, without a valid understanding of what caused the trouble (and that usually means MUCH more than the final issue that became the focus of the marriage problems), many couples who try to reconcile run headlong into a wall of pain and frustration.For example, if the marriage hit crisis because of an affair, ending the affair doesn't necessarily mean that the underlying issues have been healed. What led to the affair? What weaknesses exist in either spouse? What relationship dynamics helped create the vulnerability? (This isn't to justify something such as an affair; it's to point out that some people think things are now fine because the affair ended BUT THERE ARE STILL ISSUES that haven't been dealt with.)That same principle applies to much more than affairs...it applies to control and domination, selfishness, in-law problems, sexual problems, and much, much more.In this program, Dr. Joe Beam guides you through a process of discovering and dealing with the real issues and then following a proven plan to make reconciliation actually work so that the marriage becomes better after the problem than it was ever before. Dr. Beam will also take calls with specific questions about reconciliation. The program airs beginning at 9 p.m. Tuesday, April 5. If you wish to Dr. Beam during the program call 646-378-0424.

Are you being controlled in your relationship?Has your partner accused you of being controlling?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam introduces a new way to understand control. He will explain and demonstrate WHY one person tries to control another and HOW that control manifests itself. He clarifies three different motivations that cause a person to control and exposes the methods they use.To help you evaluate whether you are being controlled...or if you are the one who is controlling...Dr. Beam introduces an acronym that you can use immediately to identify controlling motivations and behaviors. With that knowledge you can stop being controlled...or stop controlling.PLUS: Because Dr. Beam works with many marriages in crisis, he will explain how control works when one spouse wants to end a marriage and the other tries to save it. If your partner wants out and has accused you of controlling because you are trying to save your relationship, Dr. Beam will help you determine whether that is accurate.- Could your partner be right? Are you trying to control? If so, what do you change?- Could your partner be trying to manipulate you to stop you from standing for your marriage? If so, what do you NOT change?During this program, Dr. Beam will help you evaluate your actions and your spouse's actions. If you're brave enough to hear his honest opinion, call in live at 646-378-0424 to tell him what you're doing and ask if he thinks you are controlling...It begins at 9 p.m Central, Tuesday March 29, on www.MarriageRadio.com.

Are you being controlled in your relationship?Has your partner accused you of being controlling?In this program, Dr. Joe Beam introduces a new way to understand control. He will explain and demonstrate WHY one person tries to control another and HOW that control manifests itself. He clarifies three different motivations that cause a person to control and exposes the methods they use.To help you evaluate whether you are being controlled...or if you are the one who is controlling...Dr. Beam introduces an acronym that you can use immediately to identify controlling motivations and behaviors. With that knowledge you can stop being controlled...or stop controlling.PLUS: Because Dr. Beam works with many marriages in crisis, he will explain how control works when one spouse wants to end a marriage and the other tries to save it. If your partner wants out and has accused you of controlling because you are trying to save your relationship, Dr. Beam will help you determine whether that is accurate.- Could your partner be right? Are you trying to control? If so, what do you change?- Could your partner be trying to manipulate you to stop you from standing for your marriage? If so, what do you NOT change?During this program, Dr. Beam will help you evaluate your actions and your spouse's actions. If you're brave enough to hear his honest opinion, call in live at 646-378-0424 to tell him what you're doing and ask if he thinks you are controlling...It begins at 9 p.m Central, Tuesday March 29, on www.MarriageRadio.com.

For many years we've been helping people salvage marriages that appeared absolutely hopeless...not only salvage their marriages but make them good again...most better than they were before.That is why Marriage Helper exists (www.MarriageHelper.com). Our purpose is to help couples in trouble find a new way, see each other in a different light, discover a path to love again. We call it the LovePath. Most of the couples who come to our intensive three-day workshops have one spouse who wishes to save the marriage and one who wants out. Nevertheless, we witness three out of four marriages turn around and not only stay together but learn to love each other again.However, that means that some marriages don't make it. It breaks our hearts for the spouse who wants to save the marriage...for the children who are affected...for the friends and family of both husband and wife.We believe that any marriage can be saved. We encourage people to stand strong when their spouses stray, or are angry, mean, indifferent, cold, or any other of the hosts of hurtful behaviors. But we know that there comes a time to yield to the inevitable, to stop standing and move on with one's life. The question is: When? How do you know whether to let go or continue to fight for the marriage? In this program we provide guidelines to consider for all those who think it may be time to stop standing for their marriages. No, there aren't hard and fast rules. However, there are principles and things to consider that can help you make that decision. This program may give you the strength and motivation to keep on. It may give you the path to peace as you let go. We don't make that decision for you. We show you how to make it for yourself.Call in your comments or questions live during the program at 646-378-0424.

For many years we've been helping people salvage marriages that appeared absolutely hopeless...not only salvage their marriages but make them good again...most better than they were before.That is why Marriage Helper exists (www.MarriageHelper.com). Our purpose is to help couples in trouble find a new way, see each other in a different light, discover a path to love again. We call it the LovePath. Most of the couples who come to our intensive three-day workshops have one spouse who wishes to save the marriage and one who wants out. Nevertheless, we witness three out of four marriages turn around and not only stay together but learn to love each other again.However, that means that some marriages don't make it. It breaks our hearts for the spouse who wants to save the marriage...for the children who are affected...for the friends and family of both husband and wife.We believe that any marriage can be saved. We encourage people to stand strong when their spouses stray, or are angry, mean, indifferent, cold, or any other of the hosts of hurtful behaviors. But we know that there comes a time to yield to the inevitable, to stop standing and move on with one's life. The question is: When? How do you know whether to let go or continue to fight for the marriage? In this program we provide guidelines to consider for all those who think it may be time to stop standing for their marriages. No, there aren't hard and fast rules. However, there are principles and things to consider that can help you make that decision. This program may give you the strength and motivation to keep on. It may give you the path to peace as you let go. We don't make that decision for you. We show you how to make it for yourself.Call in your comments or questions live during the program at 646-378-0424.

Their marriage appeared hopeless. The trouble - a MAJOR problem - had been going on for four years. Only one person thought it could be saved....her name is Petra.She stood strong. She did the right things. It wasn't always easy. Sometimes it seemed it was time to give up. She didn't.Hear Petra and Richard tell their story. What went wrong? Why did it last so long? How did Petra continue to stand? Why did Richard come back? How did they heal their marriage?Host Joe Beam and Marriage Coach Terry Cheatham interview Petra and Richard, as well as adding insight throughout. They will also take your calls live during the program. To participate, call 646-378-0424.

Their marriage appeared hopeless. The trouble - a MAJOR problem - had been going on for four years. Only one person thought it could be saved....her name is Petra.She stood strong. She did the right things. It wasn't always easy. Sometimes it seemed it was time to give up. She didn't.Hear Petra and Richard tell their story. What went wrong? Why did it last so long? How did Petra continue to stand? Why did Richard come back? How did they heal their marriage?Host Joe Beam and Marriage Coach Terry Cheatham interview Petra and Richard, as well as adding insight throughout. They will also take your calls live during the program. To participate, call 646-378-0424.

  Everyone had an opinion about marriage. What you should do, what you should not do, and how you should do it.Unfortunately not everyone has the best advice when it comes to marriage. And even worse, some of the advice is actually more destructive to marriage than helpful.

  Everyone had an opinion about marriage. What you should do, what you should not do, and how you should do it.Unfortunately not everyone has the best advice when it comes to marriage. And even worse, some of the advice is actually more destructive to marriage than helpful.

There are countless philosophical, religious, business, and self-help books that all point to one age-old wisdom: If you believe something can happen, it will. If you doubt success, it won't come. You hear many well meaning Christians say, "Have faith. Believe God will save your marriage and He will." But...is that really how it works? Well, kind of... ...however, there is a whole lot more to it than that.  Join us this Tuesday night at 9 pm CST for this often asked about and controversial topic.  Are you letting faith guide you, or is your fear prohibiting you from saving your marriage? Listen in at marriageradio.com or by calling in at 646-378-0424.  Talk to you tonight!

There are countless philosophical, religious, business, and self-help books that all point to one age-old wisdom: If you believe something can happen, it will. If you doubt success, it won't come. You hear many well meaning Christians say, "Have faith. Believe God will save your marriage and He will." But...is that really how it works? Well, kind of... ...however, there is a whole lot more to it than that.  Join us this Tuesday night at 9 pm CST for this often asked about and controversial topic.  Are you letting faith guide you, or is your fear prohibiting you from saving your marriage? Listen in at marriageradio.com or by calling in at 646-378-0424.  Talk to you tonight!

It's called the LovePath. It's the process people go through as they fall in love.If you are in love or have ever been in love, you went through it. If your spouse is in love with you, s/he went through it as well.When people follow the LovePath, they fall in love whether they mean to or not. When they vacate or violate the LovePath, they fall out of love whether they mean to or not.Is there a way to keep on the LovePath? To keep falling in love over a lifetime? Yes.In this program Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes explain the first step on the LovePath...the step that many people forget over time and, as a result, either start falling out of love with their spouses OR their spouses start falling out of love with them. Some have gone further than that. They are not at the "starting" point of falling out of love. Love is dead. (Either their's or their spouse's love.)By understanding this first phase of falling in love...and how to use it over your entire lifetime...you can stay in love...and even RENEW LOST LOVE.As we discuss this first phase of the LovePath, we will take your calls to demonstrate how the LovePath works in your life by answering your real-life questions. During the program, you can call 616-378-0424 to speak with us live.The program begins at 9 p.m. Central. 

It's called the LovePath. It's the process people go through as they fall in love.If you are in love or have ever been in love, you went through it. If your spouse is in love with you, s/he went through it as well.When people follow the LovePath, they fall in love whether they mean to or not. When they vacate or violate the LovePath, they fall out of love whether they mean to or not.Is there a way to keep on the LovePath? To keep falling in love over a lifetime? Yes.In this program Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes explain the first step on the LovePath...the step that many people forget over time and, as a result, either start falling out of love with their spouses OR their spouses start falling out of love with them. Some have gone further than that. They are not at the "starting" point of falling out of love. Love is dead. (Either their's or their spouse's love.)By understanding this first phase of falling in love...and how to use it over your entire lifetime...you can stay in love...and even RENEW LOST LOVE.As we discuss this first phase of the LovePath, we will take your calls to demonstrate how the LovePath works in your life by answering your real-life questions. During the program, you can call 616-378-0424 to speak with us live.The program begins at 9 p.m. Central. 

You may have seen the statistics. One in five marriages are in the "no sex" category. That means they have sex with each other ten times a year or less. Another 15% are in the "low sex" category, which means they have sex with each other 11 to 25 times per year. That means 35% (or we can just round that to one out of three) married American couples between the ages of 18 and 59 make love to each other twice a month or less, and the majority of those are once a month or less.Notice that these aren't folks in the nursing home.Does making love this little have an effect on a marriage? On sexual health? On potential affairs? On use?Yes to all of the above.In this program, Joe Beam discusses how sex in a marriage is directly affected by the relationship the couple have. More than that, he discusses how to increase both the frequency of lovemaking and the enjoyment that both husband and wife can gain from it.For those couples where one spouse wants to do something sexually that the other is resistant to do, he offers practical advice about how to solve that problem to the satisfaction (emotionally and sexually) of both spouses.He also reveals the secret to changing bad sex (or even good sex) to GREAT sex.Call in to talk with Joe about specific questions you have about lovemaking, anatomy, or anything you wish to learn. No questions are taboo. (Proper language is required.) If you wish, feel free to use pseudonym to hide your identity. Use a fake British accent if you want, but be sure that Joe talks about what you wish to know by calling to talk with him during the program at 646-378-0424. The program airs live beginning at 9 p.m. Central on February 9, 2016.

You may have seen the statistics. One in five marriages are in the "no sex" category. That means they have sex with each other ten times a year or less. Another 15% are in the "low sex" category, which means they have sex with each other 11 to 25 times per year. That means 35% (or we can just round that to one out of three) married American couples between the ages of 18 and 59 make love to each other twice a month or less, and the majority of those are once a month or less.Notice that these aren't folks in the nursing home.Does making love this little have an effect on a marriage? On sexual health? On potential affairs? On use?Yes to all of the above.In this program, Joe Beam discusses how sex in a marriage is directly affected by the relationship the couple have. More than that, he discusses how to increase both the frequency of lovemaking and the enjoyment that both husband and wife can gain from it.For those couples where one spouse wants to do something sexually that the other is resistant to do, he offers practical advice about how to solve that problem to the satisfaction (emotionally and sexually) of both spouses.He also reveals the secret to changing bad sex (or even good sex) to GREAT sex.Call in to talk with Joe about specific questions you have about lovemaking, anatomy, or anything you wish to learn. No questions are taboo. (Proper language is required.) If you wish, feel free to use pseudonym to hide your identity. Use a fake British accent if you want, but be sure that Joe talks about what you wish to know by calling to talk with him during the program at 646-378-0424. The program airs live beginning at 9 p.m. Central on February 9, 2016.

Dr. Joe Beam will be joined by his wife, Alice, for this special program as they discuss How to Become the Hero of Your Marriage, and how Alice was the hero of their marriage when she took Joe back after their 3 year divorce. (Watch the video above for some special insight totonight's show...)What led to the divorce? What happened while they were divorced? And more importantly...why did she take him back? There's sure to be some laughs, some tears, and some exciting surprises! Don't miss tonight's special one year anniversary show. We look forward to talking to you.Plus...we're celebrating our one-year anniversary tonight! 

Dr. Joe Beam will be joined by his wife, Alice, for this special program as they discuss How to Become the Hero of Your Marriage, and how Alice was the hero of their marriage when she took Joe back after their 3 year divorce. (Watch the video above for some special insight totonight's show...)What led to the divorce? What happened while they were divorced? And more importantly...why did she take him back? There's sure to be some laughs, some tears, and some exciting surprises! Don't miss tonight's special one year anniversary show. We look forward to talking to you.Plus...we're celebrating our one-year anniversary tonight! 

Many times people exhibit controlling behaviors without realizing it. Other times people are controlled, and don't know how to handle it in their marriage. We'll talk about both sides.In this show, we'll discuss control in three different ways: 1. How to know if you're controlling (you may not realize it!)2. What to do if you are controlling (it's not too late to change things)3. How to handle being controlled by your spouseAs always, call in and press the number 1 to speak with us! Everyone who calls in will be entered in to the drawing for 50% off the911 workshop.

If you are the spouse who has been hurt - or the spouse who did the hurting - there are key principles for building trust again in your relationship.The hurt spouse often feels anger, pain, fear, doubt, anxiety, and helplessness.The spouse who did the hurt often feels remorse, guilt, fear, desire, and helplessness.Sometimes the spouse who did the hurt wants the other spouse to forgive and forget rapidly...let's just get beyond this as fast as we can.Often the hurt spouse needs to talk about the pain, the fear of what might happen again, and to be reassured in many ways.Are there ways to rebuild the trust? Yes. Does it require work? Yes. Will there be questions that must be answered? Absolutely. Are there some questions which should not be answered? Absolutely.In this program we'll guide you through a process to know what do do, which questions to ask and answer, which ones to avoid, and how to overcome the fear that the hurt will happen again.You may call in your questions or comments during the program (646-378-0424) or email in advance to AskJoe@MarriageHelper.com

If you are the spouse who has been hurt - or the spouse who did the hurting - there are key principles for building trust again in your relationship.The hurt spouse often feels anger, pain, fear, doubt, anxiety, and helplessness.The spouse who did the hurt often feels remorse, guilt, fear, desire, and helplessness.Sometimes the spouse who did the hurt wants the other spouse to forgive and forget rapidly...let's just get beyond this as fast as we can.Often the hurt spouse needs to talk about the pain, the fear of what might happen again, and to be reassured in many ways.Are there ways to rebuild the trust? Yes. Does it require work? Yes. Will there be questions that must be answered? Absolutely. Are there some questions which should not be answered? Absolutely.In this program we'll guide you through a process to know what do do, which questions to ask and answer, which ones to avoid, and how to overcome the fear that the hurt will happen again.You may call in your questions or comments during the program (646-378-0424) or email in advance to AskJoe@MarriageHelper.com

We hear the stories all to often."We went to a counselor about our marriage and it was the biggest mistake every. She helped alright; helped destroy our marriage!""As soon as the therapist discovered my husband was involved with someone else, he told us that he couldn't help us. That was it. Session over. My husband said, 'See, there's no help for us' and went to the other woman. Are there any counselors out there who actually help people in our situation?""Turns out our counselor had the philosophy that each of us should be happy and if that wasn't together, we should follow our own individual paths to happiness. What a load of crap from a so-called marriage counselor."Are there good marriage counselors out there? Yes. Are they always easy to find? No.In this program Joe Beam offers suggestions on how to tell a good marriage counselor from one who is useless and from those who are destructive to your marriage. Be sure to have something ready to take notes. Of course, you can listen to the program again later to pick up the nuances you may have missed.All who call in to talk with Joe on the program are entered into the monthly drawing for half-off the Marriage Helper 911 workshop for marriages in crisis. Many good marriage counselors from across America refer people to this three-day marriage intensive. The couple then returns home to complete their work on either salvaging or making their marriage good again with the counselor who referred them. Those who are not referred by counselors can either work with a Marriage Helper Certified Marriage Coach or use the principles Joe shares in this program to find a good marriage therapist where they live.Whether you have a counselor that you aren't thrilled with or are looking for a marriage counselor for the first time, this program will give you specific suggestions to help find the right one.

We hear the stories all to often."We went to a counselor about our marriage and it was the biggest mistake every. She helped alright; helped destroy our marriage!""As soon as the therapist discovered my husband was involved with someone else, he told us that he couldn't help us. That was it. Session over. My husband said, 'See, there's no help for us' and went to the other woman. Are there any counselors out there who actually help people in our situation?""Turns out our counselor had the philosophy that each of us should be happy and if that wasn't together, we should follow our own individual paths to happiness. What a load of crap from a so-called marriage counselor."Are there good marriage counselors out there? Yes. Are they always easy to find? No.In this program Joe Beam offers suggestions on how to tell a good marriage counselor from one who is useless and from those who are destructive to your marriage. Be sure to have something ready to take notes. Of course, you can listen to the program again later to pick up the nuances you may have missed.All who call in to talk with Joe on the program are entered into the monthly drawing for half-off the Marriage Helper 911 workshop for marriages in crisis. Many good marriage counselors from across America refer people to this three-day marriage intensive. The couple then returns home to complete their work on either salvaging or making their marriage good again with the counselor who referred them. Those who are not referred by counselors can either work with a Marriage Helper Certified Marriage Coach or use the principles Joe shares in this program to find a good marriage therapist where they live.Whether you have a counselor that you aren't thrilled with or are looking for a marriage counselor for the first time, this program will give you specific suggestions to help find the right one.

Getting through the holidays while in marriage crisis can be hard. In this program Joe Beam offers several specific suggestions of things to do...and not to do...to get through the holidays without depression and with enjoyment.No, it's not magic. It takes work. But you can do it. Joe also takes your calls on any subject about relationships or marriage. 

Getting through the holidays while in marriage crisis can be hard. In this program Joe Beam offers several specific suggestions of things to do...and not to do...to get through the holidays without depression and with enjoyment.No, it's not magic. It takes work. But you can do it. Joe also takes your calls on any subject about relationships or marriage. 

What do you do when you've tried everything but your spouse still doesn't want to save your marriage?We have several suggestions, but in this program we offer even more. We have a special guest whose husband does not want to salvage their marriage. She's done all the right things but he still wants no part of it. Yet she is the most positive person we've ever worked with.How does she stay positive?What effect does that have on her?What effect may it have on him?You can can call to ask her questions. Of course, as always, you can call in your question or comment about anything to do with relationships and Joe Beam will be there to answer.

What do you do when you've tried everything but your spouse still doesn't want to save your marriage?We have several suggestions, but in this program we offer even more. We have a special guest whose husband does not want to salvage their marriage. She's done all the right things but he still wants no part of it. Yet she is the most positive person we've ever worked with.How does she stay positive?What effect does that have on her?What effect may it have on him?You can can call to ask her questions. Of course, as always, you can call in your question or comment about anything to do with relationships and Joe Beam will be there to answer.

Divorce isn't something to  be thrown around lightly. Know what you're doing before you do it.It's one of the hardest questions you'll ever struggle with answering. "How do I know when I should file for divorce?"You definitely don't want to file before you need to, but you also don't know how to respond if your spouse threatens divorce. How should you react? What should you do? Can you put off a looming threat of divorce? And when should you use it as a "wake-up call"? We will discuss all of this tonight, as well as your questions, on Marriage Radio. Listen in live at 9 pm CST at marriageradio.com or blogtalkradio.com/marriageradio. If you have a question, press 1 to speak live on air. Everyone we talk to on air will be entered into our monthly 50% off drawing for the Marriage Helper 911 workshop. Talk to you tonight! 

Divorce isn't something to  be thrown around lightly. Know what you're doing before you do it.It's one of the hardest questions you'll ever struggle with answering. "How do I know when I should file for divorce?"You definitely don't want to file before you need to, but you also don't know how to respond if your spouse threatens divorce. How should you react? What should you do? Can you put off a looming threat of divorce? And when should you use it as a "wake-up call"? We will discuss all of this tonight, as well as your questions, on Marriage Radio. Listen in live at 9 pm CST at marriageradio.com or blogtalkradio.com/marriageradio. If you have a question, press 1 to speak live on air. Everyone we talk to on air will be entered into our monthly 50% off drawing for the Marriage Helper 911 workshop. Talk to you tonight! 

Falling in love starts at the beginning of one path. We call it the LovePath. And there's actually a process that happens when people fall in love. It begins with attraction, but it's not what you think. There are actually four parts to attraction, and all of them combined lead to how attractive you are to others. This is not only crucial in saving your marriage - but it's crucial in all relationships. Listen in tonight.   

Falling in love starts at the beginning of one path. We call it the LovePath. And there's actually a process that happens when people fall in love. It begins with attraction, but it's not what you think. There are actually four parts to attraction, and all of them combined lead to how attractive you are to others. This is not only crucial in saving your marriage - but it's crucial in all relationships. Listen in tonight.   

Tonight we will be discussing why to forgive and how to forgive. It is a choice...not a feeling. Harboring resentment? Struggling with anger? It's possible that while you may say you have forgiven, you haven't truly done so yet.It might be a parent, a spouse, or a friend that needs to be forgiven so you can move on with life.Or maybe that person you need to forgive is yourself.We'll be entering all names into our contest for 50% off our Marriage Helper 911 workshop to everyone we speak with live on air. We might be giving away some other goodies as well...

Tonight we will be discussing why to forgive and how to forgive. It is a choice...not a feeling. Harboring resentment? Struggling with anger? It's possible that while you may say you have forgiven, you haven't truly done so yet.It might be a parent, a spouse, or a friend that needs to be forgiven so you can move on with life.Or maybe that person you need to forgive is yourself.We'll be entering all names into our contest for 50% off our Marriage Helper 911 workshop to everyone we speak with live on air. We might be giving away some other goodies as well...

People often ask if there is a method for establishing boundaries about negative or harmful behavior from a spouse.Yes, there is.One of the most effective is to write a contract that clearly identifies the unacceptable behavior and firmly establishes consequences if that behavior occurs.As simple as that sounds, we've discovered that many people have a number of questions about the why's, how's, what's, who's, and more.I've asked my friend and co-teacher at our workshop for marriages in crisis to join me for this important program. His name is Jeff King. He earned his doctorate at Lipscomb University. More importantly, he has years of experience helping people with marriage problems. Jeff is rather direct and goes rapidly to the bottom line. He won't waste your time.Join Jeff and me for this in-depth conversation that will give you the details you need to write a contract for your marriage that can have tremendous results.

People often ask if there is a method for establishing boundaries about negative or harmful behavior from a spouse.Yes, there is.One of the most effective is to write a contract that clearly identifies the unacceptable behavior and firmly establishes consequences if that behavior occurs.As simple as that sounds, we've discovered that many people have a number of questions about the why's, how's, what's, who's, and more.I've asked my friend and co-teacher at our workshop for marriages in crisis to join me for this important program. His name is Jeff King. He earned his doctorate at Lipscomb University. More importantly, he has years of experience helping people with marriage problems. Jeff is rather direct and goes rapidly to the bottom line. He won't waste your time.Join Jeff and me for this in-depth conversation that will give you the details you need to write a contract for your marriage that can have tremendous results.

If your relationship has been harmed by infidelity, lying, or any other destructive behavior, how do you learn to trust again? How does the person who did the hurt earn back trust? Can it be done? If so, how?How does the person who was hurt learn to trust again? Are there limitations? Is it worth the risk? How can it be done with being hurt again?

Part 2: You were "madly in love" but now it's over. At least it seems to be over. Whether you ended it or the other person did, you continue to struggle with intense emotions. Why are they still there? How long will they last? How can you get past them? When will you stop hurting? Love, Sex, & Relationship expert Joe Beam answers these questions with real life stories as well as the latest scientific findings.

Part 2: You were "madly in love" but now it's over. At least it seems to be over. Whether you ended it or the other person did, you continue to struggle with intense emotions. Why are they still there? How long will they last? How can you get past them? When will you stop hurting? Love, Sex, & Relationship expert Joe Beam answers these questions with real life stories as well as the latest scientific findings.

You were "madly in love" but now it's over. At least it seems to be over. Whether you ended it or the other person did, you continue to struggle with intense emotions. Why are they still there? How long will they last? How can you get past them? When will you stop hurting? Love, Sex, & Relationship expert Joe Beam answers these questions with real life stories as well as the latest scientific findings.

You were "madly in love" but now it's over. At least it seems to be over. Whether you ended it or the other person did, you continue to struggle with intense emotions. Why are they still there? How long will they last? How can you get past them? When will you stop hurting? Love, Sex, & Relationship expert Joe Beam answers these questions with real life stories as well as the latest scientific findings.