Whether you're planning your own wedding or just curious about the trends that real couples are adopting, this episode is a fun exploration of what's hot in the wedding scene this year. Join us as we peel back the curtain on 2024's wedding trends — because weddings are not just about dreams; they're about creating memorable moments that reflect who you are. –––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

In a world obsessed with the perfect Instagram moment, hosts Dan and Danielle break down the reality behind creating a wedding that's genuinely enjoyable. Tune in for tips on balancing social media aspirations with the essential elements that make your wedding day truly special.  –––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

What's the purpose of a first look, and why do some couples choose to break tradition? Settle in for a candid conversation about the emotional and logistical aspects of first looks. From the tap-on-the-shoulder moment to creative alternatives, this episode unravels the layers of the first look dilemma. Discover how this decision impacts your wedding timeline, emotions, and overall experience. –––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

Drawing from their experiences as a wedding planner and photographer, Dan and Danielle explore the differences between venue coordinators and wedding planners. Listen in as they discuss the vital role of a wedding planner in future-proofing the big day, providing insights on why couples might need more than they initially think. Discover the distinct responsibilities of planners and coordinators, gaining valuable insights into navigating the complexities of wedding planning.–––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

Join us as we discuss the unique challenges and rewarding experiences of planning and hosting a DIY backyard wedding. From muddy escapades to weathering unexpected storms, we explore the highs and lows of turning blank spaces into wedding venues.Want more about planning a backyard wedding? Check out Ep. 17, "Planning a Backyard Wedding": https://putaringonitpodcast.com/episodes/017-2 –––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

Dan found an interesting article sharing the "21 Rude Things People Will Do at Your Wedding".  In this episode, we talk through each one, sharing our stories, what we've seen, why it's not ok to do these things, and hopefully bring some brevity to these potential pitfalls. Also, Danielle says "UGH" a lot. HGTV article: https://www.hgtv.com/lifestyle/entertaining/10-rude-things-people-do-at-weddings-pictures–––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

Planning a wedding involves a myriad of communications, and it's essential to strike the right balance between expectations and etiquette when interacting with wedding professionals. In this episode, we dive into the delicate art of conversation with your wedding vendors. From those initial inquiries and consultations to the ongoing exchange of information and managing evolving expectations. We offer valuable insights to help you build positive, productive relationships with your wedding pros.–––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

We delve into the heart of wedding budgeting, uncovering the key factors that wield the greatest influence on your financial planning. Get ready to make informed choices and strike the perfect balance between splurging and saving, ensuring that every dollar invested creates a lasting impression.–––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

When it's the final week before your wedding, your task list should really about 98% completed (or more). But there's still some things you can do in those final days leading up to the big day to set yourself up for a GREAT day – physically, mentally, and emotionally.–––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

We're taking the "ick" out of talking about money. Specifically, when it comes to showing your gratitude to your wedding pros. We talk through which vendors SHOULD be tipped, MIGHT be tipped, and what to consider when making the determination.–––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

Planning a wedding involves about .1% eating cake and 99.9% making decisions (so unfair). In this episode, we talk about how to navigate the MANY decisions involved in planning a wedding. Danielle talks about checklists (shocker) and Dan dives into the stuff from the heart. –––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

Did you miss us?!?! Because we missed YOU!! We're coming back with all new episodes starting September 5, 2023 – and can't wait!Find out where we've been, why we took a break, and the changes you can expect for the next "season". 😳–––Follow us on Instagram: @putaringonitpodcast @dpnak@danielmoyerphotoSnag helpful resources and wedding planning templates at the Shop at DPNAK.

It’s our final episode of Season 9 and we’ve compiled some of our favorite listener-submitted questions for our traditional, end-of-season Q&A. In this episode, we talked about Save the Dates, wedding party gifts, including pups in your wedding, organizing wedding emails, alcohol, and more. Thank you to our Ringer Club members for their support through another great season! We talked about:Whether Save the Dates are necessary Can you not have a cocktail hour?Do you need a table menu for buffet dinner?When you should give your wedding party their giftsLogistics and concerns when including pups in your wedding dayHow and when to get your marriage licenseOrganizing wedding emailsPros/cons of providing your own alcohol vs. using the catererA great resource for building your timeline Links mentioned:Dear Dans Bonus Episode (Season 4, 2018): How do we include our dogs in our wedding day? Alcohol Calculator in Shop at DPNAKEpisode 031: Let’s Talk About Booze Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Buckle up, Ringers. We’re sharing some major behind-the-scenes transparency as we recognize how COVID has affected the wedding industry and begin to look to the future. This episode is all about sharing what you might not realize is going on behind the scenes of the wedding industry, plus how and why it’s affecting you. It might be rough for now, but if we all come from a place of understanding, compassion, and grace - it will help everyone in the long run. We talked about:Some of the effects COVID has had on the wedding and event industry, both short-term and long-termHow vendors have specifically been affected and why that matters for you nowWhat it means for the future of weddingsWhat we can all do as we work to help find our balance again Links mentioned:Berlyn Events - Ohio wedding planner, Berlyn Martin (who you may remember from Episode 77 on Setting Boundaries)Eventful - Wisconsin wedding planner, Sarah WelchSocial Maven - New York wedding planner, Syrie RomanYour Inspired Event - California wedding planner, Savannah Gryskiewicz Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

There are a lot of things on any wedding planning list you can find on Google. In this episode, we cover the items that are often forgotten about and WHY you should make sure to plan for them. This is a great episode to jot down some notes and do your future selves a solid. We talked about:What to check before booking your dateThe best time to check out your wedding venueSomething you don’t want to forget in the budgetThe best thing you can do for your timelineWhat it means to get the “weird one” out of the waySomething you can do to put Mother Nature on your sideBeing a good host to your vendors, tooThe thing you absolutely MUST do before your wedding invites go outPacking for the wedding day and the honeymoonAnd wayyyy more! Links mentioned:Tipping Guide Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

In episode 105, special guest Carrie-Ann Kloda of Kith & Kin joins us to talk about finding your wedding mantra. We talk through why wedding planning is as stressful as it is and what you, as the couple, can do to find your focus and set healthy boundaries through the wedding planning process. Because the wedding is one day. The marriage that comes after is meant to last a lifetime. We talked about:Meet Carrie-Ann KlodaWhy wedding planning can be so stressfulWhy you should have a “wedding mantra”How to find your wedding mantraSome mantra examples to get your wheels turningWhy setting boundaries now sets you up for a healthy marriage Links mentioned:Kith & Kin Weddings Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

In this episode, Dan really spreads his wings to share his wealth of knowledge about all-things wedding photography. We talk through every step of the process with logistics, helpful tips, and of course, with Dan at the wheel, you know there’s lots of feels. We talked about:What to look for in a photographer’s websiteWhat to mention when reaching outThe most important items to look for in your photographer’s package listReal and meaningful questions to ask your photographer during the meetingWhat to expect after you hire themShould you send a shot list?What to expect after the wedding Links mentioned:Episode 057: Why You Should Print Your Wedding PhotosEpisode 034: Engagement Sessionsmpix Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

Episode 103 is all about microweddings. What they are, why we think we’re going to see more of them in future years, and what makes them so incredibly special and wonderful. Danielle stepped away from her “tips” on this episode and got deep in the feels with Dan as they shared their experiences and opinions. Whether you’re going big or going small, this is still a great episode to enjoy and listen to with your SO. We talked about:What makes a wedding a “microwedding”How they differ from big weddings and elopementsAmazing moments from past microweddingsHow microweddings are similar to big weddingsWhat your first steps should be in planning one Links mentioned:Episode 62: Microweddings with Alisa TonggEpisode 85: Going Small, Elopements, Mini-monies, and Microweddings Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We’re halfway through Season 9 which means it’s time for another Q&A episode. In this episode, we’re picking some of our favorite listener-submitted questions and sharing our tips, advice, and encouragement. We talked about:Is your wedding planner included in your budget?What to do when vendors aren’t living up to your expectationsWhen to book which vendors, especially in the very beginning of planningGift ideas for the GroomIncluding teenaged nieces and nephews in the wedding dayAffordable wedding headpiece ideasBridal shower etiquetteShould you save money on a DJ and just do a Spotify playlist?Personally written vows vs. repeated standard vows Links mentioned:Episode 63: How to Build Your Team of Wedding VendorsEpisode 83: Involving Kids In Your Wedding DayEtsy Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Who you choose to be in your Wedding Party – and who you DON’T choose - is a very big decision for your wedding. In this episode, we share some trends on how couples are tweaking this age-old tradition to better reflect the people that matter most to them. This includes using more inclusive terminology, focusing less on someone’s gender or having “even” sides, and potentially forgoing having a wedding party altogether. We talked about:Modern and inclusive terminologyTraditions of the pastIs it ok to have uneven sides?Mixed-gender wedding partiesVIPs that are supportive of both partnersOpting not to have a wedding partySome tips to keep in mind when deciding who you do (and don’t) want to include Links mentioned:Episode 6: Reinterpreting Weddings with Kathryn HammEpisode 83: Involving Kids In Your Wedding Plans Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

EPISODE 100!!! 🎉 Cue all the air horns and the confetti cannons! We’re celebrating episode 100 by going back in the archives and sharing some of our favorite moments over the years. We’re 100 episodes wiser and could not have done it without our amazing Ringer family! Thank you for cheering us on to this point and for being along for this wild ride! We talked about:Some of our favorite moments from the past 99 episodes Links mentioned:Season 1, Episode 2: It’s your party for everyone elseSeason 5, Episode 49: It’s Your Party For Everyone Else, Part 2Season 4 episode 38: Four Fundamentals to Hosting a Great EventSeason 4: Episode 42: 10 Tips for Making the Most of Your Wedding PhotosSeason 4, Bonus Dear Dans episode: Is It Rude Not To Give A Plus One?Season 7, Episode 77: How to Set Boundaries with Berlyn MartinSeason 7 Episode 80: Hindsight is 20/20Season 5, Episode 53: The Truth About Venue CoordinatorsSeason 7, Episode 73: Planning for a Marriage More Beautiful Than Your Wedding with Amber AndersonSeason 2: Episode 15: Post Wedding Blues Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

In episode 99, we’re talking about how you can build your wedding budget around your priorities of the day. Because very few of us have a truly “unlimited” budget and that means that we can’t necessarily get #allthethings we want. So, starting with a budget and a conversation about your priorities makes navigating the world of wedding planning much less stressful and confusing. We talked about:Who should have a wedding budgetHow to know what to budgetWhat makes a great eventGetting granular on what makes an event “great” to youWhat your priorities have to do with your budgetWhy it’s important to track your budgetA simple and beautiful way to keep track of your wedding budget Links mentioned:Episode 38: Four Fundamentals To Hosting A Great EventWedding Budget Tracker Spreadsheet Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

It’s certainly an episode title that we never imagined having back in 2016. But in 2021, we’re now over a year into the COVID-19 global pandemic. In this episode, we’re discussing how it’s affected so many couples as they plan their weddings and what it means for those that are newly engaged. We talked about:How all areas and couples are experiencing this pandemic differently regarding restrictions around their weddingsWhy we encourage everyone to follow your local, state, and CDC guidelines for the safety of everyonePostponing a wedding and the ups and downs of thatLessons learned from postponing MANY weddingsDealing with wedding shaming as a coupleSome advice for those that are getting married in the upcoming monthsOur official welcome to those that are newly engaged and hopping onto this wild rideTwo important tips for planning a wedding in 2022 and beyond Links mentioned:Brides: Wedding Shaming Is Real: What It Is and How to Handle ItCDC Guidance for Organizing Large Events and Gatherings Join the "Ringer Club" on Patreon to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto 

We’re back for Season 9 and coming at you with some REAL TALK, Ringers. In this episode, we chat with comedian, author, and former bride, Jamie Lee, as she shares her story of wedding planning and the parts of it that aren’t as “warm and fuzzy”. Jamie also gives us a peek at her upcoming show, “The Wedding Coach” which drops on Netflix on April 7th, 2021. (We had the chance to preview it and you do NOT want to miss it!) We talked about:Meet Jamie Lee, author, comedian, former bride-to-be, and host of the “The Wedding Coach”Jamie’s book: Weddiculous (a super-funny and must-read book for any couple, especially brides)How planning a wedding can feel super isolating (and why)Why the term “Bridezilla” is an insanely unfair label to place on anyoneHow every couple has SOMEONE who is just tough to deal with when wedding planningHer opinion on the most important aspects of a weddingSome incredibly candid advice to couples who are feeling a little lostSome of her favorite moments from the show and behind-the-scenes Links mentioned:Weddiculous: An Unfiltered Guide to Being a Bride“The Wedding Show” on NetflixSupport the Show Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto 

Episode NotesIt’s our last episode of Season 8! While it’s been anything but a traditional year, we still wanted to wrap up this season with our favorite Q&A episode. Patreon supporters and Instagram listeners submitted their (excellent) questions and we answered them. We’ll be on a short break to recharge our batteries and plan out Season 9. During that time, feel free to go back and enjoy over 90 episodes of wedding planning advice. And you can always hit us up on Instagram (@putaringonitpodcast) and Patreon. We talked about:Alternative options if you don’t want to have dancing at your weddingWhat to do once all of your vendors are bookedDealing with family drama when you need to cut the guest list due to COVID restrictionsOur thoughts on venues that include EVERYTHING, like photography and DJ servicesWhether custom signage is worth itHow far in advance you should book your vendorsWays to incorporate your grandparents into your wedding dayHow to get your fiancé “excited” about wedding planning Links mentioned:Support the ShowWedding Planning Checklist in the Shop at DPNAKEpisode 93: Involving Family In Your Wedding DayEpisode 91: How To Be A Great GroomDPNAK Weddings   Daniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Getting engaged is so exciting! But it can also be insanely overwhelming as you start Googling what to do next. In this episode, we take you step-by-step through the first five steps you should take after you get engaged and you’re ready to dive into wedding planning. We talked about:It’s ok to just daydream a bit and brainstorm before diving in head firstWhat to do if people start asking you a million questionsWhy priorities are important and the foundation of where to startThe dreaded B-word: BudgetBuilding your guest list and how it affects, like, everythingWhy a wedding planner should be one of your first stopsTips for choosing your venueAnd much more! Links mentioned:Support the ShowEpisode 77: How to Set Boundaries While Planning Your Wedding with Berlyn MartinEpisode 34: Questions to Ask Your VenueEpisode 79: Details to Pay Attention To When Looking at a VenueDPNAK Weddings   Daniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We always talk about how your wedding is your party for everyone else and the guest experience is SUPER important. But this episode is all about YOU. We dive into ways you can set yourself up, both individually and as a couple, for a day where you feel and act your best. We talked about:Why a wedding day goes by so fastWhy it’s important to make time for you as an individualStarting your day as close to your regular routine as possibleThe importance of FOOD on the wedding dayWhy it’s just as important to make time for you as a coupleFirst looks and why they might be the right thing for youWhere the tradition of not seeing one another the night of the wedding or before you walk down the aisle came fromThe post-ceremony “time out”Pros and cons of a Sweetheart Table (and what it even is)The BEST way to achieve what you want: PLAN FOR IT Links mentioned:Support the ShowBrides article written by Jaimie MackeyDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Whether you love them to bits or they drive you a bit crazy, there are some traditional and untraditional ways of including family in your wedding day. In this episode, we break down what it could look like to include them in your wedding party. We also dive into some creative alternatives if you opt not to have them in your wedding party (which is TOTALLY ok and allowed). Finally, we talked about what you can do if YOU have kiddos and want to include them in your way. We talked about:The obvious: Put them in your wedding partyUntraditional and non-gender specific wedding party rolesThe only rule when it comes to what “age” someone can be to be in your wedding partyWhat to do if you don’t want someone in your wedding partyCreative ways to involve family without making them part of your wedding partyCreating intentional moments on your wedding day to specifically include someoneWhat to do if you have kids yourself that you want to include on the wedding day (and should you include them) Links mentioned:Support the ShowAlisa Tongg’s Wedding Ceremony Masterclass for Friend OfficiantsDPNAK Weddings   Daniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We stuck our toes slightly outside of our lane in this episode. But, here’s the thing: Our goal is to give you the tools to plan a wedding that feels really good to you. But in all reality, we want to set you up for a happy, healthy marriage. This episode includes some of our favorite bits of “marriage advice” we’ve heard and why it matters. Grab your partner, snuggle up, and give this one a listen. We talked about:There’s no such thing as “the perfect marriage”, but the goal is a “healthy” marriageWhy we don’t necessarily agree with the common advice of “Don’t go to bed angry”What lawn care has to do with a good relationshipThe importance of love languages AND the languages of apologyThe reason why we have two ears and one mouthWhat’s more important: being kind or being right?“The River Jordan Concept”Creating a path back to one anotherThe idea of “50/50”Sex (Don’t worry, we’ll give you a heads up if you’ve got young ears listening in, but we kept it short and PG-13)The importance of communication Links mentioned:Support the Show“The Five Languages of Apology” by Gary Chapman and Jennifer ThomasDPNAK Weddings   Daniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Throughout the entire wedding industry, there is a LOT of talk about bride, bride, bride. But this episode is specifically for the grooms (though there are great tips for ALL MARRIERS and partners). We share some tips and tricks for navigating the wedding planning process. We also dive into some things you can plan for the wedding day itself. This is a great episode to share or listen to together with your partner. We talked about:What step #1 should always be (even if the planning has already started)The five areas that really should involve BOTH partners in planningWhy “I’m good with whatever you want” doesn’t always flyThink the wedding registry needs to be all about dishes and bath towels? Think again.Ways to fill your partner’s love tank the morning of your weddingThe importance of showing gratitudeThe talk you should have about indulging in libationsTips for once the wedding is over Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK Weddings   Daniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

You asked and we answered! This is a grab bag episode of questions submitted by YOU! We cover wedding favor alternatives, some tough COVID questions, creative ways to still have fun, New Years Eve weddings, and more! Thank you to everyone who submitted questions via Instagram (@putaringonitpodcast) and, of course, our fantastic Ringer Club members! (P.S. Have you joined yet??) We talked about:Wedding favor alternativesIs it wrong to have a smaller ceremony now and a big celebration later on? (And how can you navigate that with minimal drama?)Honoring the death of someone close to you without it feeling a memorial for themA creative take on a wedding reception alternativeWhat to expect if you’re planning a NYE weddingWhether you “need” to have your siblings in your wedding party — and what they can do instead to still feel special Links mentioned:Support the ShowEpisode 77: How to Set Boundaries While Planning Your Wedding with Berlyn MartinDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Finding a good work life balance is essential to everyone’s mental health. Planning a wedding can throw that balance out of whack. This can easily add stress to anyone — especially during a global pandemic. In this episode, we have some real talk about trying to balance all the things and why it’s so important right now.  We talked about:The DPNAK Shop is now open! (Ringer Club members get a special discount!)Being realistic vs trying to be superhumanHow getting organized saves you time in the long run– which you need now more than everSome quick tips for getting organizedWhy it’s important to give yourself permission to not focus on all of the things at onceTake a break Long – you’ll be better for itDelegate – even if it’s hardDon’t forget to celebrate the little (and big) wins Links mentioned:Support the ShowBook: “Manage Your Day-to-Day: Build Your Routine, Find Your Focus, and Sharpen Your Creative Mind” by 99UNerd FitnessDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

If you still need to book your wedding entertainment (specifically your DJ or Band), be sure to listen to this episode first. We share some questions to ask and WHY it’s important to ask them. If you’ve already hired your DJ or band, give this episode a listen and make sure you’ve got everything covered. We talked about:The DPNAK Shop is now open! (Ringer Club members get a special discount!)Tips on asking your vendors questionsWhere you snag more helpful questions to ask your vendorsSome of the best questions you can ask your DJ or Band before or after you’ve hired themWhy these questions are helpful to askWhat to consider based on their answers Links mentioned:Support the ShowShop at DPNAK – “Questions to Ask” bundleDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Having a food truck at your wedding can be such a GREAT guest experience. But in order to do it successfully, there are some MAJOR things you need to prepare and plan for. This wedding planning podcast episode covers some reasons why it’s so much fun to have a Food Truck wedding, but also some “very important things to consider”. Join us as we discuss this trendy style of wedding and learn a ton of info to plan a unique wedding your guests are going to RAVE about. We talked about:Why Food Trucks might be a safe alternative in a COVID worldPros of having a food truck at your weddingSeven “important things to know” with solutions to common problems of having a food truck at your weddingA great resource for finding a wedding-friendly food truck in your areaAlternatives to consider to still achieve a unique “food truck” vibe Links mentioned:Support the ShowRoaming HungerDPNAK Weddings   Daniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Do you know where the term “Bridezilla” came from? We didn’t. So, we did some digging and discovered quite a few interesting details about it. More importantly, we discussed WHY it’s time we stop using the word “Bridezilla”. Because planning a wedding is stressful. We don’t need to add name-calling into the mix. We talked about:Where the word “Bridezilla” originated and why that mattersThere is a ton of pressure surrounding couples, brides in particular, to be “perfect” — and that’s BULLYou’re allowed to make mistakes and not show up perfectly every timeWhat often leads to someone being called a “Bridezilla” and why that isn’t okWhy it’s time to remove the word from our vocabularyWhat someone can do instead of calling someone a “Bridezilla” Links mentioned:Support the ShowGrammarist: Bridezilla“Tacky Trips Down The Aisle” by Diane WhiteDPNAK Weddings   Daniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Episode 85 is all about going small on size and big on intention. Your wedding may be affected by COVID-19 and you’re considering an adjustment to your original plans. Maybe you’re downsizing your entire event. OR you might be choosing to postpone the big celebration for another time. But you still want to do something small on your original date. And just because something is “small” it does not need to be any LESS SPECIAL. This episode breaks down all things small: Mini-monies (WTF?), microweddings, and elopements. We cover it all and we’re here to talk through it with you. We talked about:Our new “Ringer Club” membershipThe differences between an elopement, minimony, and microweddingWhy going small does NOT equal a less special or less “real” weddingThe first step in planning a small/intimate microweddingWhy it’s still important to focus on the guest experienceYou’re still allowed to splurge on whatever you’d likeThe ONE vendor you should still have — no matter what Links mentioned:Support the ShowDrive-In Theater WeddingEpisode 062: Microweddings with Alisa TonggDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It’s been awhile since we introduced ourselves on this wedding planning podcast. Over four years in fact. And a LOT has happened in the past four years. In this bonus episode, we share more about who we are, what we’ve been up to, and some fun facts about our friendship. We also breakdown our new Patreon membership tiers for Season 8!Many of you long-time Ringers have been hanging with us for a while and know SOME of this stuff already. If you’re a newer listener, we’re so happy to “meet” you and honored you’re choosing to spend your time with us. We talked about:What Dan and Danielle do in the wedding industryDanielle gives an update on her wedding planning with fiancé, MichaelDan loves on his wife, Rachel, their kiddos, and two cats (with names inspired by Harry Potter)Danielle shares her hometown, which you may be familiar withWhich Hogwarts house we’re both inWhat Danielle does and doesn’t drinkWhere this wedding planning podcast beganA fun fact about our MomsWho’s older vs. who’s tallerOur new Patreon membership tiersJoin us on Instagram @putaringonitpodcast Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK Weddings   Daniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

When we initially recorded episode 82 on COVID-19, it was maybe a week (!!) after our quarantine began. We could not have predicted all that has happened since. In fact, you would’ve called us crazy if we did. Now that some time has passed and we’re starting to see a glimpse of what our new normal might start to look like. As things open back up, we wanted to have another chat but we didn’t want you to have to wait until Season 8 to hear it. Enjoy this bonus episode and we’ll see you soon. We talked about:We stand in support of Black Lives MatterWhere we’re currently at with re-opening here in PAWhat we’ve seen for the weddings we’re currently working onWhat our predictions might be for the upcoming months (based on a TON of learning, but we still don’t have full clarity just yet)What to consider if you’re getting married in 2020Some tips if you’re thinking about postponing your weddingWhat to do if you’re getting married in 2021Ways to re-focus and reframe the planning process to find the JOY again Links mentioned:Support the ShowJoin us on InstagramSelf Coaching ModelVIDEO: GOOD by Jocko WillinkDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography   Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We wrap up the roller coaster ride that was Season 7 with a Q&A episode. We chose some of our favorite questions submitted from our Patreon and Instagram followers and answered them here for you. Give it a listen and we’ll be back for Season 8 in no time! Stay safe, Ringers. We talked about:Ideas for kids activities at the receptionDealing with in-laws that don’t approve of your “vision”How to convince your partner to go with a higher-priced DJHow to plan an event where your cocktail hour and reception are all in the same spaceWhen to send out your invitations in a COVID worldOur take on microweddings Links mentioned:Support the ShowJoin us on InstagramEpisode 77: How to Set Boundaries While Planning Your Wedding with Berlyn MartinEpisode 062: Microweddings with Alisa TonggDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We know that our world is still on its head. But we want to continue bringing you episodes to help you with your wedding planning journey.Today, we’re talking about KIDS. Sweet, wonderful, sticky, unpredictable kids. You might be considering having children in your wedding party. Or you might want to keep things “adult-only”. Either way, we walk through different scenarios to consider and options depending on what route you plan to take. We talked about:Including children in your wedding partyTraditional roles of kids in a wedding party (and “appropriate” age ranges)Whether you should invite kids to your weddingWhat to do if you plan on inviting kidsWhat to do if you don’t plan on inviting kids Links mentioned:Support the ShowJoin us on InstagramEpisode 77: How to Set Boundaries While Planning Your Wedding with Berlyn MartinDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Ringers, we know it’s been a crazy and rocky time right now. We hope you’re staying safe and healthy throughout all that is going on in our world at the moment. While there are so many unknowns right and we can’t tell you what to do about your upcoming wedding, we want you to know that we’re here for you. Hopefully, this episode provides some comfort and, as always, some tips to help you through it all. We love you, Ringers.Full disclaimer: We are here to support you and talk you through your wedding planning journey. We are not health experts, legal experts, medical experts, economic experts, or really anything other than two wedding professionals. We have truly no idea what the future holds. Now more than ever.Finally, we get something VERY VERY wrong in this episode. For those of you that are Marvel/DC fans, we make a huge “oopsie” when talking about which characters are from which universe. Our apologies friends. We know Wolverine is from Marvel. What can we say? It’s been a rough week. We talked about:An update about future episodesYou have our permission to feel however you need to feelSome mindset shifts to help you process all of thisWhat to do if you need to postpone your weddingWedding InsuranceCanceling your wedding vs. postponing itAlternative options to consider, depending on what the restrictions are in your areaA reminder to take care of yourself, now more than everWhat we’re doing to stay positive (as much as possible) throughout this experienceHow and what to be communicating with your guests about your upcoming weddingAlso, a wildly incorrect side-tangent about the Marvel/DC universe (oops) Here is the letter that our patron, Alex Rogers, let us share with you:Dear friends and family,We hope you are all well and safe in these uncertain times!Given the COVID-19 outbreak, we wanted to reach out regarding our DATE wedding in CITY (or at VENUE if more applicable).As of today, we are still planning on having our wedding as scheduled. However, we’re closely monitoring the situation. We’d much prefer to stay the course, but our utmost importance is everyone’s health and safety, so we will postpone the wedding if travel restrictions don’t lift, people are required to be quarantined due to travel, or if it’s simply too unsafe for large gatherings.We realize some of you have already booked travel and accommodation, so if we do postpone, we will do everything in our power to help you sweet talk airlines and hotels into providing refunds/waiving change fees (though given the circumstances, we believe people will be very accommodating).Please bear with us as we wait for more news! We imagine we should be able to make the decision in about a month’s time, and will let you know as soon as we do.In the meantime, stay safe, read, play, breathe, and watch Frozen 2.Love,Name and Name Links mentioned:Support us on PatreonCDCEpisode 062: Microweddings with Alisa TonggDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We talk often about what to expect on your wedding day, but in this episode, we focus on the final days leading up to your wedding day. What to expect, what to plan for, what to consider, and some interesting ideas to extend the fun! We talked about:Why it’s important to spend time together before the weddingAn important conversation about HOW MUCH time you want to spend together pre-weddingThe two most common pre-wedding eventsFun group activities to consider planningWhy it’s important not to overextend yourselfThe final odds and ends you may need to wrap upThe dreaded WEATHER forecastSome good health tips to keep in mind that final weekAnd a reminder to ENJOY THE PROCESS Links mentioned:Support the ShowEpisode 026: Wedding Rehearsals and Rehearsal DinnersEpisode 054: How To Run A Ceremony RehearsalDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We firmly believe you should do whatever makes sense to YOU for your wedding. But there is always something we can learn from those who’ve gone before us. In this episode, we share common regrets couples have after their wedding is said and done. We share things they’d do differently and how you can use these regrets to plan a killer wedding.p.s. DAN IS BACK! We talked about:How fast a wedding day actually flies byHow much time to give yourself before going on your honeymoonThe #1 most common regret amongst most couplesRegrets with regard to photographyWhat couples wished they did more of on the wedding dayHow a lot of couples will feel pressured into doing something or settle for something they didn’t wantAn important thing to remember when opting have a friend or family member help you with something Links mentioned:Support the ShowPabridalshow.com Episode 32: Top 15 Wedding RegretsEpisode 70: First Look PhotosEpisode 77: How To Set Boundaries While Planning Your Wedding with Berlyn MartinEpisode 38: Four Fundamentals to Hosting a Great EventEpisode 66: Ten Things Your Guests Won’t Care AboutDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Colorado venue owner, Kinsey Roberts of Vista View Events at Open Heart Ranch, joins Danielle to discuss the details you should pay attention to when looking at a venue. If you’re currently looking for your venue, stop everything and give this episode a listen. If you’ve already selected your venue, this is still a good one to listen to and see how your venue ranks and see if there’s something you didn’t catch. We talked about:The top three things couple’s should be mindful of when choosing their venueLittle things you can do that will make your guest experience even more awesomeRed flags to keep an eye out forVenue coordinators vs. wedding plannersOdd requests that Kinsey has gotten before as a venue ownerSome of Kinsey’s favorite things that she’s seen at weddings Links mentioned:Support the ShowFreebie download from Kinsey: Venue Tour Planner > bit.ly/welovedanielleVista View Events on InstaShe Creates Business: A Podcast for Wedding Pros on InstaDPNAK Weddings   Daniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

This episode is all about the decor! Richmond wedding florist and designer, Bron Hansboro (The Flower Guy Bron) joins Danielle to discuss florals, decor, and trends for the upcoming year. We talked about:At what point in the planning process you should start thinking about your floral decorWhat you should do BEFORE reaching out to a floristTips for using Pinterest for good vs. evilWhy it’s important to maintain consistency throughout your wedding designMyths about “ways to save money” with floralsWhat you should and shouldn’t DIY when it comes to floral decorNew and fabulous trends for 2020 and 2021 (including some trends we’d both be ok with not seeing ever again) Links mentioned:Support the ShowThe Flower Guy BronBron on InstaDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Wonderful friend and wedding planner, Berlyn Martin of Berlyn Events and Design shares her tips on how to set boundaries while planning your wedding. We discuss how to establish boundaries, practical tips on navigating questions from friends and family, add how to enlist the help of others. This is a great episode if you’ve got someone (or a few someones) in your life that might be adding to your stress levels in an unhealthy way. We talked about:Why it’s important to set boundaries as you plan your weddingWhere it all startsHow to establish boundaries with your immediate familyHow to navigate tricky questions from friends and family membersWhen and how to enlist the help of othersWays you can establish some boundaries with your wedding vendor teamWhat to do when someone crosses a line and breaks that boundary with you Links mentioned:Support the ShowBerlyn Events and DesignBerlyn on InstaEpisode 072: Some of the Craziest and Most Amazing Things We’ve Ever Seen At WeddingsDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Hanna Sender of Bride and Bliss is today’s guest co-host and we’re talking all about how to feel better in your body. There is a lot of pressure when you get engaged to “look” your best, but we talk about how you can use your wedding at a great catalyst to make some healthy lifestyle shifts and what those shifts might look like. We talked about:How much of getting healthy is nutrition and how much is exerciseWhy there aren’t many “one size fits all” tips when it comes to what to eatHow to deal with stress eatingHow much time to give yourself to see a positive change from your new choicesHow to maintain a healthy diet while also attending your shower, engagement party, and so onWhat to do when you fall off the wagon and make a not-so-great choiceAnd our favorite apps for at-home yoga Links mentioned:Support the ShowBride and BlissBride and Bliss on InstaDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Tony Hoffer of Hoffer Photography steps in to co-host today and chat about all things wedding photography. He brings up some great points that we haven’t covered before and shares how photography has changed over the years. We talked about:How to find the right photographer for youThe ways that wedding photography has changed throughout the years and why it mattersWhat to do if you’re a little nervous about being in front of the cameraA really great reason why it’s important to hire a professional photographer for your day Links mentioned:Support the ShowHoffer PhotographyHoffer on InstaDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

The holidays are fast approaching and we’ve got some tips on how to survive this season as an engaged couple. Wedding blogger, Lauren Grove of Every Last Detail joins Danielle to discuss traditions, questions, and even inexpensive gift ideas! We talked about:Why it’s so important to stay united as a team throughout the holiday seasonHow to deal with questions about your engagement/weddingRemembering not to compete with fellow engaged couples or newlywedsNavigating FOOD and all the guilty pleasures that come with the holiday seasonDealing with the EXPENSE that the holidays can bring (and ways to get around it)Respecting old traditions while creating and building your own new traditionsWhat to expect from your wedding vendors during the holiday season Links mentioned:Support the ShowEvery Last Detail BlogEvery Last Detail on InstaDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We’re back for Season 7 and we kick off this season with guest co-host, Amber Anderson. Amber is a wedding planner based out of Austin, Texas and shares some real, hit-you-in-the-gut tips for couples to help plan for a marriage more beautiful than their wedding day (so, so important). We talked about:What SYMBIS is and why it can be really helpful for a lot of couplesWhy it’s important for couples to have this mindsetCommon things we see as planners that easily derail couples throughout the wedding planning processTips for couples who are struggling at the momentWhat you can do RIGHT NOW to better prepare yourselves for a successful first year of marriage (possibly one of the hardest years) Links mentioned:Support the ShowHeavenly Day EventsThe Refine for Wedding Planners Facebook GroupEpisode 15: Post-Wedding BluesDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

From Weddings For Real:If you’re a member of the Rising Tide Society Facebook Group, you might have seen a post (since deleted) a few months ago from a photographer who said that when a wedding planner is involved, it makes other wedding vendors’ jobs more difficult and it messes up the flow of a wedding day. From his perspective, it’s better to have a wedding WITHOUT a planner.  Well as you either saw or can imagine, this sparked a lot of debate, and shockingly, many people agreed with his perspective.  Danielle Pasternak, wedding planner at DPNAK and co-host of the Put A Ring On It Podcast, has some thoughts, and she shares them on the show today!Listen to the full episode here!

It’s the final episode of season six and we’re sharing some of the craziest and most amazing things we’ve ever seen at weddings. It’s a lot of feel-good moments. Danielle definitely cries and even shares what happened when the church started the wedding before the bride arrived! We talked about:Both of our favorite “end-of-night” moments that have stuck with us from years agoA super-fun thing that a couple did right after they tied the knotThe time Danielle turned a clothing store into a reception in under 2.5 hoursA private moment Dan witnessed that will absolutely touch your heartsSomething that made Danielle cry (not that that’s hard to do)The time that Dan was the first one to join the bride on a dance floorOur plans for Season 7 when we come back on November 19th! Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We never believe in the “cheap” approach. But we do believe there are tried-and-true ways to save in some big ways as you plan your wedding. Many of these are beneficial if you’re in the early stages of planning a wedding, but we packed tips in to help couples at all stages. We talked about:The BIGGEST and #1 factor that affects your total budgetWhy your budget is important and how to use your priorities to make decisionsThe best vendor to hire to save yourself moneyWhat to consider when choosing your venueOpting to get married any day but SaturdayWhy where your lodging is matters so muchWhat having an “off-season” date could mean for your budget AND your guest experienceSome specific areas where we DON’T recommend trying to save money Links mentioned:Support the ShowEpisode 062: Microweddings with Alisa TonggEpisode 011: Owning Your Wedding BudgetEpisode 021: The Wedding Budget, Part IIEpisode 017: Planning a Backyard WeddingDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

In this episode, we’re talking ALL about First Look photos. We break down what exactly they even are, some pros and cons to doing them or not doing them, how to plan for them and even some great alternatives you may want to consider. We talked about:What exactly are First Look photos, or “First Looks”Pros and Cons of taking (or not taking) First LooksWhether we’ve heard people regret doing them or not doing themHow to plan for First LooksThe best location to have your First Look momentThings to consider with timing, travel and logisticsA sample timeline if you plan on doing First Looks and how much time each of us recommendOpting to do First Looks with your family membersSome alternatives to doing a First Look that are super, super sweet Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Being eco-friendly isn’t an “all or nothing” idea. It’s about making a few small changes that add up to make a big impact. Today’s episode shares ten sustainable wedding ideas to inspire you and get your wheels turning. We talked about:Renting vs. buyingWays you can be sustainable with your attire choicesWhat to do with your flowers after the weddingHow to avoid receiving unnecessary giftsSustainable paper product alternativesStraws!!Our honest-to-goodness opinion on favorsFinding charitable vendorsRepurposing your decorRecycling what you can Links mentioned:Support the ShowStillwhite.comRent the RunwayShow me your mumuBlack TuxMenguinGeneration TuxMen’s WearhouseCharity WaterAmerican Red CrossDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!)

We’ve got an amazing videographer and good friend joining us on today’s episode to talk about VIDEOGRAPHY! Opting not to have a wedding video is always on the top of couple’s regret lists after their wedding. If you’re on the fence, this is a good one to listen to. We talked about:Why you should consider hiring a videographerThe benefits of having a videographer for your weddingWhat a “great” wedding film includesTrends in wedding videographyWhat to look for when choosing a videographerA good question to ask when searching for your videographer Links mentioned:Support the ShowFonash StudiosDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

You asked and we listened. Then we researched and shared. This episode is all about wedding registries (which is actually really hard to say for some of us). We dive into all the tips, some unique ideas and share some do’s and don’ts. We talked about:Traditional and untraditional wedding registry optionsWhen you should register for itemsWhat types of items you may want to register forHow to tell your guests where you’re registered (and how NOT to)What to do when you just want cashWhat happens when you receive something you didn’t wantAnd the deal with sending “thank you” cards Links mentioned:Support the ShowZolaHoneyfundJustGivingBlueprint RegistryDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

REAL TALK: There are a lot of details that come together on a wedding day. Some details are worth it and some might not be. In this episode, we share the Top 10 Things Your Wedding Guests Won’t Care About. You officially have our permission to skip these things entirely, unless of course, they mean a great deal to you. We talked about:What to consider with your centerpiecesSome “popular” formalities to skipWhat decor isn’t the best use of your moneyThe type of seating to avoidOur thoughts on CAKEAttire and what you’re wearingHow to structure your receptionReceiving linesPlus, some things we think your guests will ALWAYS care about Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Hiring a wedding planner can be a daunting task and when you add to it the fact that wedding planners all have their different packages and services to offer, it can really be overwhelming. In this episode, Danielle and Dan (well, mostly Danielle) talk about what to ask, what to look for you, what to consider when it comes to hiring your wedding planner, coordinator or event manager for your wedding day. We talked about:Different ways you can work with a planner/coordinator and how it’s often not an apples-to-apples comparisonKnowing the right questions to ask (and what questions won’t be very helpful if you ask them)Finding out a planner’s strengths and weaknessesHow vendor recommendations workWhat to do after your first meeting with a potential planner Links mentioned:Support the ShowHuffPost Article: What to (Really) Ask Your Potential Wedding PlannerDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It’s easy to go down your wedding checklist of things and make sure you’ve got all your BIG details in place. Some small wedding details can rarely be found on a list but while they might be tiny, they can have a big impact to your day (in the best way possible). We took eight small (ish) things and shared why you might want to consider them to take your day to whole other level. We talked about:Making a “Getting Ready” playlist including some fun ideas and what not to forgetSignage and why it helps with your guest experienceThe many, many ways to show your appreciation (big AND small) to the many people involved in your dayFun ideas to keep any children attending your wedding entertained on their levelAn extra touch for your guests to enjoy before your ceremony beginsPacking a day-of “emergency” bag and what to includeClothing that ISN’T your official wedding attire, but will still need for before and afterMaking a plan for what happens when your wedding is over Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK’s Bathroom Basket ListDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

For episode 63, we’re doing a “refresh” of one of our first episodes we’ve ever done about picking your wedding pros. We break down a good hierarchy of when you should hire which vendors, where to find awesome people, and a ton more. It’s a doozy, so buckle up and get ready to take some notes. We talked about:A good hierarchy of which vendors should be hired before othersWhere to find reputable vendorsWhat to look for when reading reviewsWhat happens when you only ask for pricing and things to keep in mind when comparing pricing amongst vendorsSome tips on making the initial contactHow to “interview” potential vendors for your wedding dayWhat to do once you’ve selected the best vendor and why GHOSTING is truly a bummer Links mentioned:Support us on PatreonDanielle’s Shop with a full bundle of worksheets for “Questions to Ask…”Ep. 003: How To Pick Your ProsEp. 024: Questions to ask your Photographer, Videographer, Band and DJEp. 047: How To Choose Your Wedding PhotographerEp. 034: Questions to ask your Wedding VenueDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We’ve got a very exciting guest for you in today’s episode! Meet Alisa Tongg, celebrant and intimate wedding venue owner, who shared her stories and thoughts with us about microweddings, a newer trend in the world of weddings. We also talked about intentionalism and ways to incorporate more meaning into your wedding day. We talked about:What exactly is a microweddingHow a microwedding is different from eloping and a traditional weddingWhy we think microweddings are becoming so popularWhat a microwedding can or can’t includeSome things to consider before deciding to have a microweddingWhat personalities microweddings are best suited forHow you can still incorporate intentionalism into your traditional wedding plans Links mentioned:Support the ShowAlisa Tongg, CelebrantDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We're back for Season Six and starting with an exciting episode about WEDDING TRENDS we expect to see more of (and less of) in 2019 and 2020. We talk through trends with regard to the guest experience, colors and decor - including one up and coming trend that we both HATE! We talked about:Upcoming wedding trends with regard to the guest experience including minimalism, intentionalism, sustainability and moreTrends we're expecting to see with wedding color palettesWedding trends for decor including balloon arches, non-traditional floral decor, and a major shift towards lighting Links mentioned:Support the ShowEp. 049 – It’s Your Party For Everyone Else (Part 2)Ep. 038 – Four Fundamentals To Hosting A Great EventDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Season six is going to be launching on April 2, 2019. We’ve got some exciting news as we head toward that date and share some ideas for episodes we have in the works. To join our Ringer Patreon community, visit patreon.com/paroi. And don’t forget, if you’re a supporter by April 2nd, you’ll be getting that SPECIAL OFFER and access before anyone else! If you’re already a member, THANK YOU SO MUCH! We truly could not do this without you. Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

The final episode of season five where we answer six tricky (and GREAT) questions we received from Ringers this season. Sticky topics like parents, money, not wanting guests to come to your wedding, and how close is too close to plan a wedding to your siblings? Questions asked:“What do you do when you and your partner want completely different kinds of weddings?”“Do we have to send ‘save the dates’ if we don’t actually want people to save the date?“How close is too close to have a wedding to a siblings wedding?”“Do I have to invite my Mom’s new boyfriend to my wedding?”“At what point should you consider firing one of your wedding professionals, and how do you do it as politely as possible?”“None of my family or wedding party is local. Is it rude to ask my friends for help with the wedding planning?” Links mentioned:Episode 002: It’s Your Party for Everyone ElseEpisode 032: Top 15 Wedding RegretsEpisode 035: Wedding Planning StressEpisode 058: Dealing with ParentsEpisode 027: ContractsSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

For the second-to-last episode of Season 5, we’ve got stand-up comedian and ghostwriter, Beth Sherman, on the show to share some practical and hilarious tips for giving toasts and speeches at weddings. About Beth Sherman:Beth Sherman is a stand-up comedian and writer who has won SEVEN daytime Emmy Awards. You’ve very likely seen Beth’s work on shows like Ellen, The Tonight Show, David Letterman, and more. She is absolutely hilarious and has recently fallen into a little sideline writing, adding comedy to all kinds of speeches, especially wedding speeches.She has ghostwritten nearly a hundred best man speeches, grooms’ speeches, father-of-the-bride speeches, toasts for the rehearsal dinner, speeches for friends and family acting as officiants — she’s even ghostwritten the vows themselves.We are SO glad to have her on the show today and we have a feeling that everyone out there is going to have a great time listening to this episode. We talked about:What exactly is ghostwriting and how does the ghostwriting process workWhat makes for a "good" toast or speechOur thoughts on roastingSome of the best and most memorable speeches we've seenTips for delivering a great toastHow you should print your toast or speechWhere you should stand when giving your toastHow to make sure everyone can hear you (It's easier than you think!)Where to put your best jokeWhether you should try to memorize your speechWhere to put your drinkWhether the couple should give a speech at their reception Links mentioned:Beth ShermanSupport the ShowWarby ParkerDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

When parents are contributing to the wedding planning process, it can be a blessing or a curse. In this episode, we talk through some differences in generations and ways to navigate the planning process when your parents are involved. We talked about:The differences in generationsWhat a wedding in 1984 cost, adjusted for inflation (and why that matters)What happens when parents are contributing financiallyWays to work with your parents when you feel they’re being overbearingCommon disagreements we see between parents and couples (with specific examples and ways to compromise and work through it) Links mentioned:Support the ShowWarby ParkerDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Once your wedding is over, aside from the memories, there are very few things that you'll be left with. While it's natural to want all of the digitals from your big day, Dan breaks down why it's also important to print your wedding photos. We talked about:The difference in today’s wedding photography scene vs. previous generationsPrint is NOT “dead”How printed photos survive vs. digitalWhere to start when it comes to printing your photosWhere to print yourself if going through your photographer isn’t an option Links mentioned:MpixSupport the ShowWarby ParkerDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Planning a wedding is a daunting undertaking and one that will be full of its own ups and downs. This is why it's so important to keep a healthy wedding mindset throughout the planning process and on your wedding day. We talked about:The buzzword that is “mindset”The reminder that your wedding is a luxury and you get to make the rules, so there is no wrong decisionGo big or go home vs. keeping things smallBeing present on your wedding dayDan’s awesome analogy about “being on top of your mountain” Links mentioned:Episode 002: It’s Your Party For Everyone ElseThe Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life (Before 8AM), by Hal ElrodAtomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones, by James ClearManage Your Day-to-Day: Build Your Routine, Find Your Focus, and Sharpen Your Creative Mind, by 99UHarry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, by J.K. Rowling   😉Support the ShowWarby ParkerDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We are so excited to have Irina Vishnevskaya of Alle Travel on today’s episode to talk all about honeymoon planning. Alle Travel is a custom travel planning agency who plans extraordinary adventures for their clients and Irina was so gracious to share with us some amazing tips and honeymoon advice for our amazing listeners. We talked about:Why it’s important to plan a honeymoonWhen and where couples should start when planning their honeymoonWhat you should know before you start honeymoon planningHow much you should plan to invest in a honeymoonPlaces of the earth where you need a LOT of dough to travel and places where your money will go a LONG wayOur thoughts on honeymoon funds and mini-moonsWhen you should plan to leave for your honeymoon (or more specifically, when you SHOULDN’T plan to leave)Common mistakes to avoid when honeymoon planningMaintaining balance while ON your honeymoon (sooo important)Some super-popular destinations for honeymoons (that may not be on your radar) Links mentioned:Alle TravelHoneyfundGlamping HubSupport the ShowWarby ParkerDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

In this episode, we talk through the details of your ceremony rehearsal. Everything from why you should have one, who you should invite, where and when it should take place, and of course, HOW it should be run. This is an episode PACKED with good tips to be as prepared as possible for your ceremony rehearsal. We talked about:Why you should have a ceremony rehearsal and why it’s importantWho you should invite to your ceremony rehearsalWhere you want to plan to have your rehearsal and some alternatives if you can’t have it in the same space as your ceremonyWhen you should try to schedule your ceremony rehearsalHow you should run your rehearsal including a full explanation of Danielle’s “3 Acts” tip Links mentioned:Support the ShowWarby ParkerDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Everyone should play a very important role on your wedding day, but some titles can be confusing as to what you should expect from them. In today's episode, we break down the role of a "venue coordinator" and share what their responsibilities typically are along with why their job is often much different than that of an independent wedding planner. We talked about:What is a venue coordinator and what are their responsibilities?What does it mean to have a venue coordinator?Some pros of having a venue coordinator through your wedding venueHow venue coordinators are different from wedding planners/coordinatorsSome stories and behind-the-scenes from experiences Dan and Danielle have had with venue coordinators Links mentioned:Support the ShowWarby ParkerDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Cheryl Bailey of Yellow Umbrella Travel joins us on today’s episode to talk about and answer all of our questions on hotel room blocks for your wedding guests. From the different types of blocks you can make to the extras you can negotiate with, this is a must-listen episode with TONS of great tips and advice! We talked about:What a hotel room block is and why you should consider one for your out-of-town wedding guestsDifferent types of hotel room blocksWTF is “Attrition”?When you should set up your blockHow many rooms you should reserveWhy check-in time is important to consider when planning your dayHow many hotels you should set up a room block atWhat to negotiate and how to get the best dealsWhat to look out for with the “hotel shuttle” and why it’s never worth itAdditional fees you should look out forHow to let your guests know about the room blockAnd, of course, what services you can use to make a room block for your wedding Links mentioned:Support the ShowStillwhiteDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer PhotographyYellow Umbrella TravelYellow Umbrella Events (Cheryl’s Instagram)Hotel PlannerKleinfeld Hotel BlocksWhere Will They Stay Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Today’s episode was inspired by questions from our amazing listeners about FOOD. So, we broke down just about every wedding food aspect of the day to create this Definitive Guide to Wedding Food. Bon Appetit!Lovingly sponsored by Stillwhite. We talked about:Hors d’oeuvres and Appetizers, including different options for serviceThe three main styles of dinner service and what you should know about each oneDessert: From wedding cake options to non-cake treatsLate-night and pre-ceremony snacksThe one meal you should NOT forget to plan for Links mentioned:Support the ShowStillwhiteDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We’re sure you’ve seen some viral wedding videos that always seem to be floating around the interwebs. For today’s episode, we specifically picked out four of our favorites to comment on, share our thoughts and note what you can take away from them.Lovingly sponsored by Stillwhite We talked about:Viral vidoes and why they matterWhat we can learn from watching these videosVideo one: JK Wedding Entrance DanceVideo two: “Bride Puts A Spell On Her Magician Groom During First Dance”Video three: My Clumsy Best Man Ruins My WeddingVideo four: 4-Year-Old Boy Cries as Stepmom Reads Wedding Vows She Wrote For Him Links mentioned:Support the ShowVideo one: JK Wedding Entrance DanceVideo two: “Bride Puts A Spell On Her Magician Groom During First Dance”Video three: My Clumsy Best Man Ruins My WeddingVideo four: 4-Year-Old Boy Cries as Stepmom Reads Wedding Vows She Wrote For HimHonorable mention: “This Groom’s Emotional Reaction To His Bride Will Make You Teary-Eyed, Too”Honorable mention: Isaac’s Live Lip-Dub Proposal(A favorite of Danielle’s)StillwhiteDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

One of our first episodes in Season One started to unpack our core concept of "It's Your Party for Everyone Else". For Season Five, we decided to revisit this topic and really dig in to what it means and how it affects your wedding.Lovingly sponsored by Stillwhite. We talked about:Why we’re re-doing this episode from Season 1What “It’s Your Party For Everyone Else” meansFocusing on your “WHY”Battling the need to “top” or outdo other wedding’s you’ve been to or seenWhy it’s important to know your guests and make things easy for themIt’s ultimately about being a GREAT host Links mentioned:Episode 002: It’s Your Party For Everyone ElseSupport the ShowStillwhiteDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Season 5 is launching on Tuesday, September 4, 2018! In the meantime, we've got two pretty big announcements to share with you! We talked about:Season 5 is launching Tuesday, September 4, 2018Philly area meetup: Wednesday, October 3, 2018, 6pm-8pmDanielle is….. ENGAGED!!! She shares some thoughts about being on this side of the fence and of course, the proposal story Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

For the last episode of Season 4, we talk about Prince Harry and Meghan's Royal Wedding. Things we can learn from it, some things we liked, some (very few) things we didn't, and some things that we found to be really interesting and relatable. We talked about:Our thoughts on Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s Royal WeddingSome of our personal favorite momentsThe comparison monster to Prince William and Kate’s weddingFamily drama leading up to the wedding (same as everyone else)Decisions, traditions, and design elements that can inspire us (or uninspire)  Links mentioned:Support the ShowWikipedia’s page on the Royal WeddingBad Lip Reading – The Royal WeddingDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer PhotographyCasper Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It's episode 47 (whoa) and Dan is dropping some major knowledge and thoughts on how to choose your wedding photographer. We cover topics like where to start your search, how to reach out and important tips as you go through the process. We talked about:What inspired this episodeWhere to start your search for wedding photographersWhat to do once you think you’ve found a photographer you likeWhat to look for and some questions to askThoughts on having a second photographerWhat to consider when looking at and comparing pricingOne of the most important things to ask for when picking your photographer Links mentioned:Support the ShowThe KnotWeddingWireFearless PhotographersInternational Society of Professional Wedding Photograpers (ISPWP)Episode 024: Questions to ask your Photographer, Videographer, Band and DJEpisode 042: 10 Tips For Making The Most Of Your Wedding PhotosDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer PhotographyCasper Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Award-winning stationery designer, painter, and stylist Kristy Rice of Momental Designs joins the Dans to discuss wedding invites, inspiration, and design. Momental Designs has garnered attention from wedding publications and celebrity couples worldwide - and she is sharing some AMAZING thoughts and tips in this episode. We talked about:Common questions about wedding stationery and custom designThe process of doing custom stationery and invitationsKristy’s thoughts on paper invitations in a digital worldIs the “matchy-matchy” trend dead?Where couples can go for their wedding inspiration Links mentioned:Support the ShowThe Painter’s Wedding: Inspired Celebrations with an Artistic Edgeby Kristy RiceMomental DesignsDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer PhotographyCasper Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

You're likely putting a lot of thought into your ceremony and reception events, but it's easy to forget about the MORNING of your wedding. What will you be doing? What will you be wearing? What should the guys do? How much time should you budget for everything? In this episode, we'll talk you through it. We talked about:Hair and makeup for the galsRemembering to eat and plan for breakfast/lunchSome ideas for the gents to do in the morningGetting dressedWhen should your bouquets and boutonnieres be delivered?First Looks with your partnerPre-Ceremony Photos with your Wedding Party and families Links mentioned:Support the ShowDanielle’s Free Wedding Planning Chat about Timelines (REPLAY)What To Wear: The Morning Of Your Wedding (DPNAK blog)DPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer PhotographyCasper Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

While self-care is important throughout all stages of our life, we believe it can be very easy to put yourself (and your relationship) on the backburner when you're planning a wedding. And since planning a wedding can be so emotionally stressful and taxing, there's never been a better time to start making time for "you". We talked about:Planning Non-Wedding TimePost-Wedding BluesMaintaining personal hygiene and routinesLooking “your best” for your weddingRewards for accomplishing your goals Links mentioned:Support the ShowJoin Danielle for a Free Wedding Planning Chat on Wednesday, April 18 at 6:30pm (EST)Episode 015: Post-Wedding BluesDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer PhotographyCasper Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

There are a lot of emotions you may expect to feel once you get engaged and start planning your wedding, but guilt may not be top of mind. Yet, it's so easy to feel guilt in MANY areas as you go through the process. In this episode, we discuss some areas you may be feeling guilt and some ways to help you through it.Brought to you by Casper: Save $50 off your mattress purchase at caspertrial.com/ring We talked about:Asking for help with planning the weddingWho you should and shouldn’t invite to your wedding (If you invite one Aunt/Uncle, do you have to invite ALL of them?)Whether someone SHOULD be in your wedding party (Especially if YOU were in their wedding party)Receiving gifts and being “showered”Being the center of attention (Whether you enjoy it or hate it)  Links mentioned:Support the ShowDear Dans: Is It Rude Not To Give a +1?DPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer PhotographyCasper Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It's another bonus episode of Dear Dans, where we take your questions and answer them in five minutes or less. Today's listener asks "How do we include our dogs in our wedding day?" and Danielle shares her thoughts. This week's question:How do we include our dogs in our wedding day?“I was wondering if you had any advice on incorporating pups into the wedding day?Our ceremony will be in a church so unfortunately we won’t have any doggie ring bearers, but our reception will be in a tent at my parents’ home, so the dogs will be staying in the home and hopefully we will incorporate them primarily by having them in photos.If you have experience working with pets, I would love to hear any general advice you have, especially with logistics and photography.Thank you for your help and for the great podcast!All the best,Emily” Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Investing in a great wedding photographer is a great start to achieving amazing photos of your wedding day, but we're sharing ten tips that you can do to get the MOST out of your wedding photography investment. We talked about:Thinking about what you’re wearing when you’re getting readyFirst LooksPlanning enough time for portraitsMaking a Family Formal list and discussing it with your photographerPermitsDetermining your outdoor ceremony timeAllowing for creative portrait timeBe present with the people around youLighting at your receptionEmbracing the weather Links mentioned:Support the ShowThe best spot to snag wedding votivesEpisode 004: Preparing for Bad Weather On Your Wedding DayDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer PhotographyBarkbox Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It's another bonus episode of Dear Dans, where we take your questions and answer them in five minutes or less. Today's listener asks "Is it appropriate to ask for discounts from vendors? If so, how?" and Danielle shares her thoughts. This week's question:Is it appropriate to ask for discounts from vendors?“Is it appropriate to ask for discounts from vendors? If so, how? (ie. free advertising, testimonials, etc)” Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Planning a wedding can obviously add a lot of stress and overwhelming emotions to your already full plate. But when you add the feeling of PRESSURE from your friends, family, loved ones and vendors, it can take that stress to a whole other level. Join us as we chat about some pressures to expect and maybe how to work through them. We talked about:Pressures to have a “big” weddingPressures to have a “traditional” weddingWhy it’s important to talk about your priorities early onKnowing your budget and what you can/can’t affordWhat to say to someone you can’t/don’t want to invite to your weddingWhat the “average cost of a wedding” should mean to youHow to work through situations where family is helping financiallyOur thoughts on eloping Links mentioned:Support the ShowDear Dans Episode: Is It Rude Not To Give A Plus One?Manly BandsDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We're so excited to have the fantastic and wonderful celebrant, Lois Heckman, on today's episode to chat with us about wedding ceremonies, ceremony ideas, religious and non-religious traditions, incorporating children, programs and more.Thanks to our sponsor for today's episode: Manly Bands - use code RINGONIT to save 15% at checkout. We talked about:How to choose your officiantCertain legalities to keep in mind when planning your ceremonyThings to consider if you’re having a friend officiate your ceremonyPersonalizing your ceremony with and without family and religious/non-religious traditionsMeaningful ways of incorporating your children into your wedding ceremonyLois’s thoughts on ceremony programsSome favorite moments and ideas from past wedding ceremonies Links mentioned:Support the ShowDear Dans Episode: Is It Rude Not To Give A Plus One?Manly BandsDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It's another bonus episode of Dear Dans, where we take your questions and answer them in five minutes or less. Today's listener asks "Is it rude not to give a plus one?" and Danielle breaks it down. For bonus points, we also included a handy response if you opt NOT to invite someone and they ask you about it. This week's question:Is It Rude Not To Give A Plus One?“My fiancé and I are getting married this September and we’re making our guest list. We are planning on having a very small wedding of around 60 people. We wanted your advice on plus ones. Most of our close friends have significant others, and we will be inviting both because we are friends with both of them. However, some of our friends who we don’t get to see as often we are not planning on giving a plus one because we either don’t know their significant other or they are friends with many other people who will be there. Is it rude not to give a plus one? One of our friends said everyone expects a plus one. Is this true? How do we word it on an invitation if we decide to not give a plus one?” Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

In today's episode, we talk through some common wedding myths and bust them WIDE open. We talk about guest lists, personalities, attire, budget and more.Thank you to our sponsor, Manly Bands! Save 15% off your order when you use the code 'RINGONIT' at checkout. We talked about:How the “average cost” of a wedding should affect youThe pressure of your wedding day being the BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFEHaving friends provide helpThe concept of “It’s Your Day”Will 30% of your guest list decline your invitation?The perfect number of people to have in your wedding partyAs a bride, must you wear white?A common misconception on DJsWho you should and shouldn’t invite to your wedding (and EXACTLY what to say to those that you’re not able to extend an invitation to)What to do if you don’t have (or don’t WANT to have) that wedding “glow”? Links mentioned:Support the ShowEpisode 002: It’s Your Party For Everyone ElseManly BandsDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Surprise! We're popping into your feeds totally off-schedule to bring you a new segment of the podcast we're calling "Dear Dans". Where we take the questions you send to us and answer them in a bonus, mini-episode of five minutes or less. This week's question is "How Do I Tell A Vendor 'No'?" and Dan passes along some great advice that anyone can benefit from!This week's question:How do I tell a vendor "no"?“I recently met with 2 different photographers – and after meeting with them it was a clear decision for my fiance and I on who we wanted to go with. I have a really hard time letting people down and feel bad after someone spends the time to meet with me and answer questions through email. I also like to have options and want to meet with more than one vendor. With the planning just starting I know this will come up again with florists, rental items etc. I know this is part of their job but I’m having a hard time with it.” Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

This may be a shorter episode but it is PACKED with some easy-to-digest and easy-to-apply knowledge for hosting a great event. If you are feeling stuck or overwhelmed, this is a perfect way to break it all down and re-focus your planning. We talked about:The Four Fundamentals to Hosting a Great EventTips on getting creative and thinking outside the box with each “fundamental” Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We are BACK for Season 4 and really, really excited to share some helpful tips on Engagement Sessions. We discuss what they are, when they should be done, some benefits and misconceptions, and of course, tips for making the most of your engagement session! We talked about:What are Engagement SessionsWhen should you have your engagement sessionSome benefits of doing an engagement sessionCommon misconceptionsTips on making the most of your engagement session including locations, clothing and being yourself Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Holy moly, it's the end of Season Three and we've got another AWESOME Q&A episode coming your way! Thank you to everyone who sent in your questions and for bringing such killer questions to the table. We also have a fun announcement and give the launch date for SEASON FOUR! We talked about:What to do if you’re not having a sit-down dinnerWhat to do if your partner does/doesn’t want a wedding when you don’t/doWhether RSVPs can be mailed or digital and who to send “Thank You” notes toFun ideas for multi-cultural wedding ceremoniesHow far is “too far” of a distance between your ceremony and reception venuesWhat to do if you’re worried that your ceremony is going to be too “cheesy”Seating charts and fake cakes- oh my!When toasts should be givenDan’s only real “regret” from his wedding Links mentioned:Support the ShowKnotty Tie Co.DPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

This is the second-to-last episode of Season Three and it's a doozy! We're talking about wedding planning stress. What the common causes of wedding planning stress are, ways to work through it and some ideas on being proactive to avoid it.We talked about:How money contributes to stress of planning a weddingWorrying about pleasing everyoneDanielle's Four Keys to a "Successful" EventWhat to do if you don't like the spotlightDealing with the pressures of having a "perfect" daySome tried-and-true ways of dealing with stress Links mentioned:Episode 002: It’s Your Party For Everyone ElseEpisode 011: Wedding Budget, Part 1Episode 021: Wedding Budget, Part 2Episode 031: Let’s talk about BoozeEpisode 004: Bad WeatherEpisode 015: Post-Wedding BluesMinimalism: The DocumentaryThe Minimalists podcast episodes on Stress and the feeling of being OverwhelmedThe 5 Love Languages by Gary ChapmanSupport the ShowKnotty Tie Co.DPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto Special thanks to our sponsor, The Knotty Tie. Co. (www.knottytie.com/ring)!

It's episode 034 and we're talking about some TOUGH questions and conversations that you should have with your venue. Whether you're just starting to search for the perfect location, or if you're just weeks away from the big day, you'll want to give this episode a listen and make sure you are asking ALLLL the right questions!Special thanks to our sponsor for this episode: The Knotty Tie Co. (www.knottytie.com/ring) We talked about:How many weddings do they take in one weekend and WHY that might matter to youGuest list minimums and maximumsTalking through things rain plans, setup and timingKnowing what you’re responsible for and what the venue is responsible forWhat is and isn’t included when it comes to tables, chairs, linens, bathrooms, staffing, food, drink, etc.Using a venue’s “preferred vendor” listBeing ready for the CLEAN UP of thingsThe dreaded Cancellation Policy… no, but reallyAnd much more! Links mentioned:Episode 031: Let’s talk about BoozeEpisode 005: Day-Of Coordination with Bree RybackEpisode 032: Top 15 Wedding RegretsWedSafe: Wedding Cancellation InsuranceEpisode 004: Bad WeatherSupport the ShowKnotty Tie Co.DPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

In episode 33, we talk about some popular American wedding traditions and why you should or shouldn't consider them for your wedding. We obviously talk about WHY we like or dislike certain traditions and go through some alternatives that may be better suited for you. We talked about:Should your Dad walk you down the aisle?Some alternatives to Parents DancesThe Garter and Bouquet toss – and why you should probably NOT do thisCake, cake and cake – To smash or not to smash? To have or not to have?Our (disagreeing) thoughts on the couple seeing each other before the ceremonyModern twists on having a “Wedding Party”Avoiding sexist phrases like “Who gives this woman to be married” (and the proper term for a “group” of goats)Seating friends and family at your ceremony and receptionIntroductions: Who and How Links mentioned:Support the ShowKnotty Tie Co.DPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We are NEVER ones to say what you "must" do for your wedding, but there are some common things that couples look back on and wish they'd done differently. In episode 32, we talk through the top 15 wedding regrets couples have and discuss why you may or may not want to do them for your wedding.We talked about:The vendors that couples wish they had hiredWoes on wedding budgets and prioritiesThe common mistakes couples make when building their wedding timelineWhat a Wedding Day "Time Out" is and when to take it (and WHY you should plan for one)Not putting enough thought or energy into the two least thought about aspects of your wedding weekendWhat many couples wish they didn't do on their wedding day - or did less ofAlso, what many couples wish they did MORE of on their wedding dayThe people you should plan to thankWhether you should tackle any DIY projectsAnd much more!Links mentioned:Episode 003: How to Pick Your Wedding ProsEpisode 004: Preparing for Bad Weather on Your Wedding DaySupport the ShowKnotty Tie Co.DPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphotoSpecial thanks to our season sponsor, The Knotty Tie Co. (www.knottytie.com/ring)

Whether you're tasked with providing every drop of alcohol for your wedding, or just need to decipher between doing a cash bar or open bar, this episode dives into the world of booze when it comes to wedding planning.Special thanks to our season sponsor, Knotty Tie Co. (www.knottytie.com/ring). We talked about:Cash Bars vs. Open BarsFull Bars vs. Limited BarsSignature DrinksBeer/Wine Only optionsThe best way for serving beer (according to Danielle)Wine serviceChampagneNon-Alcoholic drinksIce, ice, baby Links mentioned:Snag your Alcohol List PDF here!Support the ShowKnotty Tie Co.DPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We've all heard of a "shotgun" wedding, but are there benefits to having a longer or shorter engagement? We talk through the pros and cons of each in this episode of Put A Ring On It.Special thanks to our sponsor Knotty Tie Co (http://www.knottytie.com/ring)!! We talked about:The pros and cons of having a long or short engagementHow your personality might be better for one or the otherHelpful tools to keep planning organized and on trackBONUS: A helpful tip when communicating with your wedding pros! Links mentioned:ToDoIstGoogle DriveEvernoteAsanaTrelloSupport the ShowKnotty Tie Co.DPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We're so excited to have travel expert, Jennifer Doncsecz of VIP Vacations (http://www.vacationsbyvip.com/) on today's episode to talk all about Destination Weddings. We discuss some good travel spots, what it's like working with a travel agency and some super-smart tips that you do NOT want to miss.Special thanks to our sponsor for this episode: Knotty Tie Co! (https://www.knottytie.com/ring) We talked about:What you should have decided on before going to a travel agencyWhether a destination wedding is right for youNon-tropical destination weddingsWhat it’s like working with a travel agencyHow long most couples spend planning a destination weddingWhat type of budget you should haveProper guest etiquette when it comes to planning destination weddingsLegalities with destination weddingsSome awesome tips for those planning a destination wedding Links mentioned:VIP VacationsWhatsAppSupport the ShowKnotty Tie Co.DPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

In this week's episode, we're talking about location. Specifically venues and whether it's better for you to have your wedding all in one location, or if you should spread it out over a few different places. We talk about pros and cons and some tips to help with it all.Special thanks to our sponsor: Knotty Tie Co (www.knottytie.com/ring) and don't forget to join us on Facebook (www.facebook.com/putaringonitpodcast)! We talked about:Having your wedding at one locationHaving your wedding at multiple locationsPros, cons and timeline thoughts Links mentioned:Google MapsSupport the ShowKnotty Tie Co.DPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Ok, guys. This episode might not seem like a "hoot", but we promise it's FULL of helpful info when it comes to signing on the dotted line. We talk about the purpose of vendor contracts, what to look for, how to negotiate and what to do if things just don't work out.Special thanks to our sponsors for this episode: Tacboard (www.tacboard.com/ring) and Knotty Tie Co. (www.knottytie.com/ring).Disclaimer: We are NOT lawyers and this episode is meant to help guide you based on our own experiences. It does not constitute or serve in place of specific legal advice and does not create any attorney-client relationship. The law changes very rapidly, differs from jurisdiction to jurisdiction, and is subject to interpretation by the courts. Legal advice must be tailored to the specific circumstances of each case, and this episode should not be used as a substitute for the advice of competent legal counsel. We talked about:Purpose of contractsWho you should have contracts withWhat type of contract is idealWhy you should ALWAYS read your contractsWho should sign your contractWhat items are negotiable and how to negotiateRed Flags when dealing with vendor contractsTips on what to do when you just don’t agreeLinks mentioned:WedSafe (Wedding Cancelation Insurance)WedSure (Wedding Cancelation Insurance)Support the ShowKnotty Tie Co.TacboardDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

In this episode we talk about the purpose of your wedding rehearsal, how to run one efficiently and with ease, as well as different options for having a fun rehearsal dinner to kick off your wedding festivities.We also talk about how long you should factor for your rehearsal, and one of the BIGGEST reasons why rehearsals go longer than expected (so you can avoid it).Special thanks to our sponsors for this episode: www.knottytie.com/ring and www.tacboard.com/ringCheck them out for great savings and to add a unique twist to your wedding day! We talked about:Purpose of wedding rehearsalsHow to structure your rehearsal (if you’re in charge of that)Assigning someone to run your rehearsalWhat to go over and what NOT to go over during your rehearsalHow long you should factor for your rehearsal, and one of the BIGGEST reasons why rehearsals go longer than expected (so you can avoid it)Purpose of the rehearsal dinnerIdeas for a fun, laidback rehearsal dinnerSome things you should consider doing at your rehearsal dinner (vs. on the wedding day)Whether or not you should have your photographer join you for the wedding rehearsal and rehearsal dinner Links mentioned:Support the ShowKnotty Tie Co.TacboardDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We're back for Season Three of the Put A Ring On It podcast and we're kicking off the season talking about all the wedding trends we're seeing come (and go) for 2017 and 2018 weddings.Special thanks to our sponsors Knotty Tie Co. (www.knottytie.com/ring) and TacBoard (www.tacboard.com/ring)! We talked about:Guest list sizesNon-Gender-Specific Wedding PartyTraditions and New TraditionsDecor, Colors and ThemesFashion and AttireSocial MediaDRONES!First LooksReceiving LinesLimited vs. Full BarsDessertsFood Trucks and Late-Night Snacks Links mentioned:Episode 006: Reinterpreting your Wedding with Kathryn HammSuper pretty vow books from BHLDNKnotty Tie Co.TacboardSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!)  Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It’s the last episode of Season Two and we’re talking about the BEST questions to ask your photographer, videographer, band and/or DJ for your wedding. Don’t forget to sign up for our newsletter to get the full list of these questions – broken down by vendor – written out for you! We talked about:General questions to ask your vendors as you decide who you want to work with for your weddingSpecific questions to ask your Photographer, Videographer, Band and DJ Links mentioned:Episode 002: It’s Your Party For Everyone ElseEpisode 012: Season One Q&AEpisode 020: What We Can’t Always Tell YouMinisode: Feeding Your Vendors On Your Wedding DayEpisode 010: What It Means to “Unplug” Your WeddingSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Danielle Wen of Lace and Liberty joins Put A Ring On It to talk about her mix-and-match wedding separates and Try-At-Home system for busy brides who want a custom experience. About Lace and Liberty: Lace & Liberty was conceived for women who want to feel stunning on their wedding day in a dress that truly reflects her beauty, confidence and personal style. They offer an experience like no other, that focuses on quality, detail and an exquisite variety of choice. They’ve taken great care in handling the technical aspects of each piece, from each layer of tulle, placement of boning, to using the most beautiful and comfortable material. Lace & Liberty wants you to feel amazing and very you on this special day.At Lace & Liberty, they want to bring you the luxury of a bespoke bridal wear experience at an accessible price point. Their process: Design the dress yourself, mix & match any two pieces together to create your perfect dress. Brides who want two looks on the day, simply remove or swap out your bridal separate skirt after the ceremony for a fun, easy-to-dance-in second look! Made just for you in your own measurements to ensure a better fit. Reduce hefty alterations costs by having the perfect dress and skirt length.Fast turnaround of 8-10 weeks. Have even less time on hand? Don’t despair and settle for off the rack, contact us! Links mentioned:Shop Lace and LibertyLace and Liberty on InstagramEpisode 007: Focusing on Joy with Liz from Catalyst Wedding Co.Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Bridezilla: A person who was a “completely normal” human being until they became a bride/groom and suddenly lost their dang mind. In today’s episode, we talk about why these Bridezilla feelings tend to surface and some ways to work through them, based on your personality. We talked about:What is a BridezillaWhat to do when things don’t go right with pros/vendorsWhat to do when things don’t go right with your family and friendsDealing with Guest List dramaWe can’t forget the guys… Groomzillas are a thing, tooWays to be proactive and avoid those inner ‘zilla feelings Links mentioned:Episode 004: Bad Weather on Your Wedding DayWeddiculous: An Unfiltered Guide to Being A BrideSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Last season, we dedicated an entire episode to “Owning Your Wedding Budget” and this season, we wanted to dive into it a bit further. We dive into what a “budget wedding” means and break down some tips to save some major dough. We talked about:Who should and shouldn’t have a “wedding budget”The term “budget wedding”What happens when your budget is lower than the average in your areaUnique ways to save money when planning your weddingBONUS: We also talked about Danielle’s first Laser Tag experience… Links mentioned:Episode 011: Owning Your Wedding BudgetEpisode 019: Green Weddings are the Not-So-New-BlackBorrowed and BlueSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto 

It's the twentieth episode of Put A Ring On It and with the holidays around the corner, we're in a sharing mood. Join us as we tell some of our deepest secrets about the wedding industry and our roles on your wedding day. We talked about:What we won’t do for you on the wedding dayHow much you’ll hear about after the weddingThe whole point of Engagement SessionsHow we feel about your wedding being the “best day ever”What we’re doing the morning of your weddingWhat we dream about before your weddingWhat type of shot list you should REALLY provide your photographer (and what you shouldn’t)How to set yourself up for killer “getting ready” photosThe fact that it’s your party for everyone elseWhat happens when you hire a friend to be on your wedding vendor teamWhat happens if you don’t spend “$30,000” on your wedding Links mentioned:Episode 002: It’s Your Party For Everyone ElseEpisode 015: Post-Wedding BluesSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

In this episode, we're talking about "green" weddings. Not so much the color GREEN, but finding ways to reduce or eliminate your footprint while planning your wedding. Also, Dan has found the male equivalent of yoga pants, folks. We talked about:What is a “green” wedding?Why you should consider having a green weddingReducing your guest listSourcing local goods and servicesPaper product alternativesFavors that will do more than sit on your guests’ shelvesEco-friendly wedding dress optionsJewelry that doesn’t kill our EarthLighting that saves on electricityWhat can be donated after the wedding and repurposed throughout the day Links mentioned:Celia Grace(eco wedding dresses)The Cotton Bride (NYC designer of eco-friendly wedding dresses)Amy Kuschel (San Fran designer of eco-friendly wedding dresses) Deborah Lindquist (LA designer of eco-friendly wedding dresses) Simply Wood Rings(for a cool alternative to a traditional ring)Brilliant Earth(for eco-friendly ring options)Etsy(for untraditional weddings rings)Moissanite(as an alternative to diamonds)Wish Upon A Wedding(to donate your gown)Brides Across America(to donate your gown to military brides)The Angel Gown Program(to donate your gown to be turned into a burial gown for infants who pass during their hospital stay)Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Weddings can bring out the good, the bad and the ugly in people. And when it comes to family, there's usually no holding back. Dan and Danielle talk about dealing with parents, in-laws, siblings, best friends and more - and the key takeaway is: You are NOT alone. We talked about:Dealing with ParentsParents that are not supportive or refuse to be a part of your weddingIn-LawsJealous siblings, cousins, BFFs Links mentioned:Episode 016: Using Social Media For Your WeddingA Practical Wedding Blog > > a great resource with very “practical” advice… go figure?Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Much like getting a Brazilian wax, planning a backyard wedding is not for the faint of heart. Get some priceless tips and ways to prepare for your backyard wedding on this week's episode of Put A Ring On It, the wedding planning podcast with Daniel Moyer and Danielle Pasternak. We talked about:Questions to ask yourself before agreeing to have a “Backyard Wedding”Where you should start when planning a backyard weddingHow to prepare for bad weather like rain and floodingCrazy-important that you do NOT want to forget, but just mightCleaning up your backyard wedding Links mentioned:Episode 004: Preparing for Bad Weather on Your Wedding Day (If you’re planning an outdoor event, this is a MUST-LISTEN!)Wedding insurance: WedSafeWedding insurance: WedSureDPNAK’s Top 8 Most Forgotten Items for Your Backyard WeddingSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

In this sixteenth episode of Put A Ring On It, we talk about the pros and cons of using social media when it comes to your wedding. What to do, what not to do, and some unique trends for you to think about for your nuptials. We talked about:To hashtag or not to hashtagWhere your hashtag should go, if you have oneUsing social media tools to organize your guest experienceA new trend in weddings: Livestreaming (WTF?)Something to look for when booking your prosAs a guest, what you should and shouldn’t doHow NOT to use social media when planning your wedding Links mentioned:Put A Ring On It on FacebookHashtag generator: WeddingWireHashtag generator: WeddingHashtagWallHashtag generator: eWeddingSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

The "post-wedding blues" are something that Dan and Danielle are incredibly passionate about discussing. So many couples and individuals experience these feelings following their wedding and they decided to have an open, honest and transparent conversation about what to expect and how to avoid it. We want you to know:We’re not psychiatrists or psychologists. We’re sharing this information just as two wedding pros who care deeply about the well-being of our couples. This advice is not meant as a substitution for seeing a licensed mental health care provider. If you’re struggling with depression or a funk that you just can’t get out of, take the time to talk to a professional and get real help. You’re worth it. Links mentioned:ABC News Article: “Post-Wedding Depression is a Real Thing”HuffPost article by the Bitchless BrideSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

This episode is inspired by a recent segment on The Today Show. Reporter Jeff Rossen opens the segment by telling its listeners that “experts” say there’s a secret wedding tax that vendors are applying to markup the cost of their products and/or services. Dan and Danielle talk through this concept and break down why it’s pretty much “bull”. Links mentioned:Rossen Reports: “Is the Wedding Markup Real?” on The Today ShowSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Season Two of Put A Ring On It is officially launching next Tuesday, September 13th. In the meantime, we wanted to share some Fun Facts from Season One including snippets from each of our favorite episodes, as well as some topics and stories that we'll bring to you for Season Two. Links mentioned:Danielle’s favorite episode: Q&A (#012)Dan’s favorite episode: How To Be A Great Groom (#009)Send us your story!Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Wah wah... it's the final episode of Season one! Dan and Danielle are bringing you the Top 15 Wedding Planning questions that they received from listeners throughout the season. They cover everything from the best tools to use, how many guests you should invite, dealing with +1's and more. We talked about:How many guests you should invite if your venue has a “max”Should you feed your pros at your wedding?Some good (and mostly free) tools to help you stay organizedHow to tell your guests that they don’t get a +1 or that kids aren’t invitedWhich pros you should tipWhat to do if you find a photographer, or something/one else, that you can’t affordUsing social media to find your prosIf you need a day-of coordinator when your venue provides it’s own Maître D’ or venue coordinatorWhat to register for if you already have the fine china and bedsheets (and a sneaky trick from Danielle!)Should you hire your photographer for more than just your wedding day?Truth or myth: mineral makeup and sunscreen are big no-no’sGreat gift resources for wedding party, family and each otherWhat you should pay for when it comes to your wedding partyRSVP dates and guidelinesAsking pros to hold a wedding date or basing your wedding off of their availability Links mentioned:Mini-sode 002: Feeding Your ProsEvernoteTrelloGoogle Docs/DrivePinterestPostableUncommon GoodsEtsyNewlywish $25 to spend at Newlywish!Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It's the second to last episode of season one of Put A Ring On It and in this show we're talking about your wedding budget. We share our personal experiences, how to budget, how to negotiate with your pros, and much more.  We talked about:Our personal experiences with setting a budget and what happensThe extra amount you should plan for for any miscellaneous items of your budget and what those miscellaneous items might beHow much you should budget (HINT: It’s not what The Knot tells you to budget)Ways to negotiate with your pros to better fit your REALISTIC budgetHow to avoid relative terms and figure out your own level of what’s “affordable”The best conversation to have when planning your wedding and what NOT to assumeWorking through your due dates of payments and some ideas to make it easier on the checking account Links mentioned:Google SpreadsheetsSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We have hit DOUBLE DIGITS for season one of the Put A Ring On It podcast!! In this week’s episode, we talked about having an unplugged wedding. We broke down WHAT an unplugged wedding is, WHY you should or shouldn't have one and HOW to have one. We talked about:First, we’re not saying that all weddings should be unplugged, and we’re especially not saying that yours should beWe broke down what it means to have an unplugged weddingWhy you should or shouldn’t have one – pros and cons, if you willSome ideas to communicate with your guests that your wedding will be unpluggedAlternatives and “happy mediums” to a full day of asking your guests to unplug Links mentioned:Offbeat Bride’s Article with templates!Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It’s episode 009 of Put A Ring On It Podcast with Daniel Moyer and Danielle Pasternak. This episode is one focusing on “Great Grooms” – from ways to get involved in the planning process to the wedding day, we talk about specific and general ideas to help you kick some Groom-butt. We talked about:Be a TEAM playerSpeak up about what matters to youConcede what’s important but still have an opinionCome together on things you should BOTH be involved in, for example: Who you’re marrying (lol), the date, the venue, the registry, ceremony details, music, honeymoon and more.Make sure to thank your wedding partyBe present and stay soberBe a de-stresser. Period.Look for ways to create meaningful momentsGo a classy route and give a “Thank You” toast to your guests Links mentioned:“The 5 Love Languages” by Dr. Gary ChapmanSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Welcome to episode 008 of Put A Ring On It Podcast with Daniel Moyer and Danielle Pasternak. This episode is an action-packed one focused on using Pinterest to plan your wedding. We talked about having secret vs. public boards (and which is better) plus what it means to have a shared board. We also dove in to talk more about using Pinterest for good vs. evil including what NOT to pin, copying things you see and the truth behind most wedding pins. We talked about: Tips for organizing your wedding boards:Danielle recommends avoiding ONE BIG “Wedding” board and, instead, breaking it down into a few categories based on what you need and what your priorities are for YOUR wedding. Here are some examples:Florals and Decor (bouquets, boutonnieres, centerpieces, arrangements)Attire (yourself, wedding party, kids)Hair and MakeupFood and Drink (cake, signature drinks)Cool Details (signs, photo booth ideas, guest book ideas, bathroom baskets, lego cake topper)Paper (save-the-dates, invitations, menus, ceremony programs, place cards)Vibe/Theme (Harry Potter themed, modern black and gold)Must-reads (Danielle’s personal favorite: A board to save all of the helpful wedding planning articles you find for future reference)Catch-all/Miscellaneous (anything that doesn’t fit in your other boards) Links mentioned:Create a Pinterest AccountDanielle’s Pinterest BoardDaniel’s Pinterest BoardDanielle’s “Killer, Helpful and Must-Read Bits of Wedding Goodness” Pinterest boardDan’s Tip: Headspace AppSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Welcome to episode 007 of Put A Ring On It Podcast. Today's episode dives right in with Liz Susong, of Catalyst Wedding Co., a community for wedding disrupters, creators, and critics alike. During our chat, Liz talks about some of her pet-peeves in traditional wedding magazines and blogs, some distractions she sees couples face, styled shoots and more. Also, Danielle tears up a bit in this one."The industry and just the simple fact of being the spotlight - the center of attention - can take so much away from you and can create so much stress. You really have to be ready to be present and start cultivating that intentionality and mindfulness ahead of time." - Liz Susong About Liz:Liz Susong is the editor-in-chief of Catalyst Wedding Co.Catalyst is the first-ever print wedding magazine with a feminist consciousness, and they also host a traveling workshop, {un}convention, for progressive vendors who are passionate about working with diverse, down-to-earth, crazy-in-love couples.A wedding magazine unlike any other, Catalyst Wedding Magazine features diverse couples’ love stories and explores the intersections of community, creativity, and feminist values.Volume Two: Intentions takes a step back and asks what it means to choose love, weddings, and marriage in this moment in time. We talked about:Liz saw that many blogs and magazines focused on “straight, white and rich couples” and many couples don’t fit in that boxWhat a wedding is about to LizLiz’s pet peeves in the wedding industry and the biggest example of sexism in the industrySome big distractions that couples face when planning a weddingThe truth behind styled shoots and what you see in traditional blogs and magazinesWhether there were mason jars at Liz’s OWN weddingYour wedding should be focused on Joy vs. creating the next best photo on PinterestLiz shares a unique couple’s wedding story that makes Danielle cry Links mentioned:Catalyst Wedding Co.’s WebsiteCatalyst Wedding Magazine – expecting to ship March 15, 2016!Dive in on Instagram with @CatalystWedCoSupport Catalyst on Facebook with a LIKEFollow @CatalystWedCo on Twitter“Is It Possible To Have A Feminist Wedding?” on Offbeat Bride by Liz SusongA Practical Wedding (alternative wedding blog)Offbeat Bride (alternative wedding blog)H&H Weddings (same-sex couple blog blog)MunaLuchi Bride (Brides of color blog)Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It’s the sixth full episode of Put A Ring On It Podcast. We are BEYOND humbled to have Kathryn Hamm, publisher of GayWeddings.com, talking with us about same-sex weddings and reinterpreting what you see in the blogs and magazines in the wedding world. She helps to break down the core of wedding planning, ways you can personalize your wedding day, and how to be more inclusive of all communities.“When it comes to ‘capturing love,’ especially when a same-sex couple is the subject, rules were also made to be broken. Reassembled. Reinterpreted. Revised. Repurposed. This is the gift that same-sex couples have introduced into the wedding trends of today.” - The New Art of Capturing Love, by Thea Dodds and Kathryn Hamm About Kathryn:Kathryn Hamm is the publisher of GayWeddings.com, which is not only an interactive planning resource but also offers community forums, free planning articles and the most comprehensive wedding vendor directory available to same-sex couples.Kathryn also writes, speaks and consults on why same-sex weddings are meaningful and WHY MARRIAGE MATTERS. She’s written articles for the Huffington Post and she is considered a valuable resource for media outlets such as the New York Times, the Washington Post, CNN and CNBC.Kathryn also recently co-authored a book with photographer Thea Dodds titled The New Art of Capturing Love. We talked about:There are over 120,000 LGBTQ-friendly wedding pros currently listed on GayWeddings.com for couples in planning modeThe results of a Spring 2015 survey showed that 96% of pros were ready to work with same-sex couplesTalk to your pros, whether you’re a same-sex or straight couple, about being more inclusive of ALL couples in their language, contracts, questionnaires, website, ads, etc.Be open with your wedding photographer. If they’re posing you in positions that don’t reflect you, or you find yourself putting YOURSELF in weird poses, say something. Show your authentic relationship how it feels comfortable to you.To many straight couples, the marriage license isn’t much of a big deal or just a “check” off the list. For many same-sex couples, the license is the WHOLE deal.We should all be more inclusive of both partners and not just speak to the stereotypical “Bride”Talk with your partner about your “non-negotiable” and your mission statement for your weddingMixed-gender wedding parties are a great new “trend” that will last far beyond 2016In 2014, 71% of straight weddings were dividing their wedding parties based on gender. In comparison, 86% of same-sex couples were NOT dividing their wedding parties based on genderCouples are starting to include their pets more in their wedding parties, too – 1-in-10 actually!!!Don’t be afraid to break the “rules” of wedding traditions to fit your style and personalities Links mentioned:GayWeddings.comKathryn’s Book: “The New Art Of Capturing Love”“What Straight Couples Can Learn from Gay Weddings” via the Washington PostShare with Kathryn on FacebookFollow @MadeByKathryn on TwitterSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

For our second mini-episode of Put A Ring On It, we’re talking about feeding your vendors. And we’re specifically talking more about the highly controversial article recently seen (and since removed) on Brides.com, called “Which Vendors Do You Have to Feed at Your Wedding?”.  It’s a piece written by wedding planner, Sandy Malone, and it really gives some misleading information. We decided to talk through this article and give our own thoughts on the matter including WHO you should feed on your wedding day, WHY you should feed them and WHEN. We talked about:We talked about what it means when we say “feeding your vendors”We talked about the three different categories of vendors and which of those categories you should extend the food invite toAnd we talked about the WHY. Why you should feed the vendors and why it’s different than a traditional 9-5 job. Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Welcome to the fifth episode of Put A Ring On It Podcast. In today’s episode, Bree Ryback of Capitol Romance talks all about wedding planning, specifically day-of coordination, and why every couple REALLY and TRULY deserves it. There is also a brief interlude that involves some major geeking out on Harry Potter. About Bree:Bree Ryback is the editor and founder of the DC wedding blog Capitol Romance. Not only has she achieved Danielle’s lifelong dream of having her house featured on Houzz, but this gal is also one stand-up wedding coordinator. Bree just celebrated her five-year anniversary to her main squeeze, Andy, and they have one pumpkin of a little girl who is just positively adorable.So we’re talking with Bree today because Danielle is one of her several thousand followers on Twitter and has had the pleasure of getting to know her throughout the years and absolutely LOVES her approach to wedding days. We thought she would bring something extra special and unique and we’re truly honored to have her here! We talked about:Bree got hitched back in 2010 and started her blog, Capitol Romance, to help rad couples meet equally rad wedding pros, and then evolved into a practical wedding coordinator.Bree identifies more as a “wedding coordinator”, “wedding consultant” or “wedding concierge” vs. a wedding planner. (Which is very similar to Danielle)A venue coordinator’s job is to focus on the needs of the venue, first and foremost. Not all venue coordinators are the same, but most don’t cover all of the items an independent planner/consultant does. They act more as sales managers or catering managers, and some aren’t present on your wedding day. They don’t traditionally oversee any events of the day that do not take place on-site (like getting ready, photos, or even your ceremony).Day-Of Coordinators give couples the support to make the day and/or weekend go smoothly. This includes giving advice, creating and driving a timeline, talking with your pros, and making sure all of your details are covered.Day-Of Coordination starts WAY before the actual wedding day – often weeks or even months in advance.Bree’s favorite part of the day: VOWS!!!Don’t worry about incorporatingBree’s advice for couples: hire professional vendors.Bree had the best wedding day ever, but will never forget the one hiccup that happened… Links mentioned:Bree’s Wedding Blog: Capitol RomanceCapitol Romance Wedding CoordinationA Practical Wedding BlogSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

For our first mini-episode of Put A Ring On It, we’re talking about breaking wedding rules. And we’re specifically talking more about the highly controversial article recently seen on Vogue.com, called “The 10 Wedding Rules To Break”.  It’s a piece written by Molly Guy and while it’s caused quite the stir in the wedding industry, we decided to take a pragmatic approach and break down the article a bit further.We talked about:A wedding is a luxury, not a necessity. The only pieces you technically “need” to officially tie the knot is a marriage license and someone who can legally marry you. Everything else is a bonus and completely up to you.Want a fun alternative to the awkward garter and bouquet toss? Wrap a $20 bill around your bouquet and have your Band or DJ announce everyone to get on the dance floor and toss it. Watch your guests scramble and have a ball!Make sure you PLAN time for the two of you to spend together on your day. Don’t let it be an afterthought.If you want quality photos, hire a professional photographer. Don’t expect the same result from drunken guests with disposable cameras and uncharged iPhones.You get what you pay for.What you do with that day is up to you as a couple and the most important aspects of your day are also your choice. Links mentioned:The original article on Vogue.com: “The 10 Wedding Rules To Break”An alternative wedding registry: Zola.comSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It’s episode four of the first season of the Put A Ring On It Podcast and we’re talking about bad weather on your wedding day. This episode features three guests who got married during two MAJOR weather events in 2011… and lived to tell the tale. First up, Amanda talks about her wedding in the middle of Hurricane Irene. In the second half, Kristen and Joe talk about the freak snowstorm that caused their venue to lose total power. We talked about:Have a Plan B – and make sure you’re “ok” with it as an optionTalk with your venue about WHEN you need to make the call as to whether or not you’ll be using your Plan B – most venues need HOURS or even a few days notice to make the adjustment.Hire great pros that you feel comfortable with and that you trustYour guests will take cues from you and your partner: If you freak out, they likely will, too; if you stay calm, they will probably follow suit. Links mentioned:Wedding insurance: WedSafeWedding insurance: WedSureSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!)Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Welcome to the first episode of Put A Ring On It, the anti-boring wedding planning podcast from wedding photographer, Daniel Moyer and wedding coordinator, Danielle Pasternak. In this first episode, we introduce ourselves and what the podcast is all about. Consider it our first handshake to you.Meet Daniel:His business, Daniel Moyer Photography, and where it all startedHow much he loves his wife, RachelTheir amazing wedding almost two years agoTheir favorite place to eatHis love for all-things Harry Potter Meet Danielle:Where the name “DPNAK” comes from (and how to say it)Her business, DPNAK Weddings, and how it all beganWhy she isn’t really a “wedding planner”Her best friend and partner, Michael and their favorite thingsAn equal obsession/love for Harry Potter Links Mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!)Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It’s the first “official” podcast of Put A Ring On It and in this podcast, we’re talking about why your wedding is “your party for everyone else”. We unpack just what that means and show you five areas that you can really ensure your guests have an amazing time at your wedding.We talked about:It’s absolutely your wedding, but at the end of the day you only make up 1-2% (or less) of your guest list. The decisions you make should be focused on the 100% of your guest list.When else will all of your friends and family be together under one roof again for a joyful reason?Your wedding should not be about outdoing anyone or doing something because of pressure to do it.Every decision you make during the planning process should be based around this overall theme of creating an amazing experience for your guests.5 tips to make your wedding day amazing for your guests (and you!) Links mentioned:Support the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

It’s episode three of the first season of the Put A Ring On It Podcast. This episode is all about picking your wedding pros. Where to find them, how to reach out and how to get a great conversation going.We talked about:Ask your married friends for referrals and feedbackCheck with your venue or other wedding pros to see who they recommendDo some searching on Google, as well as wedding-focused search engines like WeddingWire or local wedding sites like LehighValleyWedding.comPick up a local or national bridal magazineHit up some of your wedding area’s bridal shows (just remember: not ALL wedding pros showcase at bridal shows, but they’re GREAT for finding your florist and baker, just to name a few)Custom contact forms vs. general inquiry formsIf the pro you’re looking at is asking some unique questions to start, it’s for a REASONIf you’re filling out a general inquiry form, be sure to include the “must-haves”: Name, Partner’s Name, Email, Phone Number, Wedding Date (if possible), Wedding Location (if possible)For bonus points, you can also include: Best way and time to contact you, Something you liked about their work/website/adWhen to call vs. email. vs. stop in (Hint: ALWAYS start with an email unless their website or ad says otherwise)Setting an appointment is KEY!Just how many pros you should reach out to to make an educated decisionYou want their style to match the theme/style/overall vibe of your wedding and personalityIt’s important not to try and change the style of the pro to match youThings to check for clues about how good of a fit you might be for one anotherLook for the “CONNECTION” and for the “warm and fuzzies”Obviously, budget is a factor but learn how to move things around when you need to Links mentioned:WeddingWireLehighValleyWedding.comSupport the ShowDPNAK WeddingsDaniel Moyer Photography Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto