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English, Sex education, 1 season, 123 episodes, 4 days, 17 hours, 35 minutes
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Hosted by Davey Wavey and based on the popular erotic website Himeros.tv, this is a fun, juicy version of the gay sex ed class you never had growing up. Join Davey and friends while we talk about gay sex!
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Episode 300: Ancestral Echoes + Aphrodite

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's broken heart, our invisible queer history, and how to access the wisdom held by our gay elders.
2/16/202455 minutes, 36 seconds
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Episode 299: Attention Whore

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the personas we create for ourselves, Daddy energy, and how family trauma is reflected in our sexual preferences.
2/2/202452 minutes, 20 seconds
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Episode 298: Bully Pulpit

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the digestive consequences of Davey's trip to Costa Rica, using the term f*ggot in sex, and how they might benefit from working with a sexual surrogate. 
1/26/202457 minutes, 15 seconds
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Episode 297: Bonking Bonobos

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about animal energies, play-fighting, and using sex as a conflict resolution tool.
1/19/202453 minutes, 52 seconds
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Episode 296: Thrall

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about Davey's first experience with poppers, their unmet childhood needs and how they manifest in their adult lives, and how to cope with the existential anxiety of adulthood.
1/13/202458 minutes, 40 seconds
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Episode 295: Digital Divide

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about sex party logistics, whether their online personas reflect their real selves, code-switching, and how to go from friends to lovers. 
1/5/202453 minutes, 33 seconds
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Episode 294: Black and White

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Taylor Swift's relevance, how our mothers are connected to our sexuality, finding the balance between artistic freedom and popular appeal, and the highs and lows of 2023. 
12/29/202359 minutes, 15 seconds
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Episode 293: Sensation Play

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about unexpected kindness in rural Rhode Island, whether humankind is learning from its past mistakes, and how to tune in to your body by experimenting with new sensations.
12/22/202358 minutes, 53 seconds
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Episode 292: Clownin' Around

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about solstice rituals, why a mumu might be the perfect clothing item, how to feel comfortable taking up space in the world, and eroticizing our fears.
12/15/202359 minutes, 12 seconds
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Episode 291: Edge Me

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss advent calendars, Himeros.tv's 12 Days Of Pleasure, how to get started with poppers, and to answer questions about casting for porn shoots.
12/8/202359 minutes, 52 seconds
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Episode 290: F*** Like Bunnies

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about getting comfortable with being alone, public nudity, and how to feel less shame about our naked bodies.
12/1/20231 hour, 50 seconds
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Episode 289: Open Me

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about how much bad news humans can actually handle, why seeing real couples in porn is sexy, and why Davey keeps being banned from dating apps.
11/24/202356 minutes, 38 seconds
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Episode 288: Stable Hand

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about foreskin regeneration, horse fairs, how our society cultivates shame in children, and why we might want to avoid the terms "open" or "closed" when defining a relationship. 
11/17/202358 minutes, 24 seconds
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Episode 287: Teaching The Tutor

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss the Rhode Island swinger scene, what to do if you're getting attention from someone you don't find attractive, and what advice they would give to older gay men and college boys. 
11/10/20231 hour, 2 seconds
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Episode 286: The Breakdown

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss weed butter recipes, milking, exercising control or surrendering during sex, and why sex parties and slings can be freeing. 
11/3/202358 minutes, 51 seconds
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Episode 285: Aftercum

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about how crucial lighting becomes as you get older, what makes porn authentic, and how formulaic porn has impacted their sex life. 
10/27/202358 minutes, 3 seconds
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Episode 284: Anointing of the Sick

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss why inviting your parents to a gay porn set is a bad idea, what we should do about the rise in STDs, and how sex can be healing. 
10/20/20231 hour, 1 minute, 7 seconds
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Episode 283: Meat Market

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by filmmaker, producer, and intimacy coordinator Clara Ritger in a conversation about the bitter Connecticut cold, Clara's work as an on-set intimacy coordinator, and how labels can both empower and limit us.
10/13/202351 minutes, 8 seconds
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Episode 282: Brat Taming

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about muffing, parents who cross boundaries, the benefits of getting banned on Grindr, and disciplining brats. 
10/6/202355 minutes, 9 seconds
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Episode 281: Artemis

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about transgender athletes, selfish lovers, the thrill of the hunt and more!
9/29/20231 hour, 33 seconds
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Episode 280: Making Daddy Proud

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about facing their own mortality, role playing, consensual non-consent and more!
9/22/202359 minutes, 38 seconds
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Episode 279: White

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by friend (and first Himeros.tv member) John to discuss being gay in their respective generations: Coming out, being gay in the military, the evolution of LGBTQ representation in the media, and how the queer community has changed over their lifetime. 
9/15/202349 minutes, 17 seconds
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Episode 278: Nightmares

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about facing our demons, finding pleasure in our fears, and whether blending gay porn with horror is a good idea. 
9/8/202357 minutes, 2 seconds
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Episode 277: Ecstasy of Letting Go

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about online censorship, accessing pleasure that doesn't depend on a partner, and how it feels to completely let go during sex.
9/1/202356 minutes, 17 seconds
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Episode 276: What I Want

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss the film Red, White & Royal Blue, how to communicate desires and boundaries, figuring out what you want, and how to manage competing desires within a relationship. 
8/25/202357 minutes, 3 seconds
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Episode 275: Missionary Impossible

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about bulge concealment in drag, gooning, and their experiences with religious leaders abusing their power.
8/18/202356 minutes, 29 seconds
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Episode 274: Dy-Nasty

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Matthew Shur in a conversation about Austrian manners, their visit to a chocolate factory, reconnecting with your inner child, and what it means to be a pig. 
8/11/202338 minutes, 56 seconds
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Episode 273: Devil Inside

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about why getting old means wanting to stay away from crowds, the global rise of conservatism, and some occasions when they've taken something too far.
8/4/202356 minutes, 34 seconds
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Episode 272: Tears

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about affirmation in a dom/sub relationship, holding space for big feelings, and how we can normalize crying and expressing emotions for men.
7/28/202356 minutes, 41 seconds
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Episode 271: Ed's Sacred Intimate Session

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about stolen cultural artefacts, male fragility, taking on the role of a sacred intimate, and more!
7/21/202354 minutes, 23 seconds
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Episode 270: I, F*ggot

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by YouTuber and OnlyFans creator Bria Kam to discuss the terms f*ggot and dyke, the healing power of using degrading language during sex, and the differences between gay and lesbian porn. 
7/14/202353 minutes, 3 seconds
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Episode 269: Seen

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about how to make dating fun, feeling seen or unseen, why it's hard to be vulnerable and authentic with your partner, and more!
7/12/202355 minutes, 13 seconds
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Episode 268: Upside Down

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about having sex with women, the benefits of meeting guys IRL, and which commonly-held beliefs they would like to turn upside down. 
6/30/202358 minutes, 10 seconds
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Episode 267: Bathhouse of Mirrors

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's horrific cruise ship experience, the symbolism and prejudice surrounding big dicks, and how their relationship with their penis has changed over time.
6/23/202348 minutes, 5 seconds
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Episode 266: Blue - Ride Me Like Waves

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's Illinois bathroom incident, having sex when feeling blue or depressed, and how different forms of connection have lifted them up during periods of sadness. 
6/16/202348 minutes, 50 seconds
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Episode 265: Not So Innocent

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Davey's snake hole accident, how innocence can be appealing, Tinder bots, and more! 
6/9/20231 hour, 4 seconds
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Episode 264: Pleasure Principle

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Matthew Shur in a conversation about the practice of eye-gazing, ways they find themselves being performative during sex, and how Himeros.tv's models balance performance and authenticity on a porn shoot.
6/2/202348 minutes, 10 seconds
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Episode 263: Pelvic Thrusts

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about pelvic thrusting, the pleasures and pains of ass-eating, their self-pleasure goals and more!
5/26/202353 minutes, 17 seconds
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Episode 262: Avant-Harde

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss whether reusable straws will save the world, Martha Stewart as the latest Sports Illustrated swimsuit model, challenging top/bottom stereotypes, and why Duane hates chatty sex.
5/19/202358 minutes, 58 seconds
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Episode 261: Mirror, Mirror

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about King Charles' coronation, Himeros.tv's upcoming White Lotus remake, self-image, and whether other people can help you see your own beauty.
5/12/20231 hour, 1 minute, 8 seconds
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Episode 260: Smoke & Mirrors

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Paris Hilton's new book, what they see when they look in the mirror, and how difficult it is to see ourselves as we really are.
5/5/202356 minutes, 46 seconds
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Episode 259: Dionysus

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and intimacy and BDSM coach Sir Ezra in a conversation about mindfucking, their relationship with pleasure and pain, and how they balance structure and chaos in their lives.
4/28/202355 minutes, 40 seconds
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Episode 258: Faith Of Our Fathers

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about sex in the army, their relationship with their fathers, and how they've managed to fill the gaps created by unavailable dads.
4/21/202352 minutes, 48 seconds
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Episode 257: Jacob & The Angel

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the mystery ingredients in Herbalife shakes, their Easter holidays, and what they've been wrestling with in sex and in life.
4/14/202356 minutes, 17 seconds
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Episode 256: Masturbation Manifestation

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about AI blow jobs, what they'd like to manifest for themselves and the world, and when they felt the existence of magic.
4/7/202354 minutes, 28 seconds
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Episode 255: Top Down

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss Davey's fight with the postal service, Republicans vs gender identity, how the pandemic has changed them, and why we should devote entire afternoons to sex.
3/31/202350 minutes, 17 seconds
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Episode 254: Bitch, Please

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Mossy's new potential career as a harmonica player, where the economy is going (and whether we need to start doom prepping with poppers), boredom in sex, and which famous men they'd like to dom. 
3/24/202356 minutes, 47 seconds
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Episode 253: The Grand Blow-The-Rest Hotel

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Taylor Swift's songwriting skills, the inevitability of death, their favorite films, and which archetypes they find difficult to embody.
3/17/202353 minutes, 54 seconds
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Episode 252: Yellow

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Republicans and their new obsession with drag queens, Davey's feelings after watching his 2nd grade performance as the Wizard of Oz, which gay tribes they belong to, and how the gay community could be more supportive and inclusive. Read Finn's essay "The Closet Has Teeth" here.
3/10/202356 minutes, 36 seconds
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Episode 251: Stockholm Syndrome

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about taboo fantasies like rape and kidnapping, how to shed our shame around these desires, the appeal of inter-species sex, and the Internal Family Systems therapy framework.
3/3/202352 minutes, 34 seconds
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Episode 250: C*m Pig

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the recent increase in average penis size, why cum is so important to gay men, and what they can do to feel sexier about their bodies. 
2/24/202355 minutes, 7 seconds
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Episode 249: Instant Replay

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about toxic masculinity in the Superbowl, Mossy's new job at Circus of Books, consent and boundaries, and transphobia in the gay community.
2/17/202352 minutes, 50 seconds
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Episode 248: Dixson

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about plastic surgery and self-worth, what they wish they could tell their past closeted selves, and what they would have done differently when coming out. 
2/10/202353 minutes, 28 seconds
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Episode 247: Hades

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by YouTube sensations and OnlyFans creators Bria and Chrissy. They compare primal sex sounds, discuss Chrissy's erotic journey after being the victim of revenge porn, the differences between the way men and women consume porn, and why Davey would be a good porn star.
2/3/202334 minutes, 16 seconds
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Episode 246: When To Heel

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the second season of The White Lotus, why the show resonates with them and other gay men, their experiences with foot play, and what makes feet hot.
1/27/202345 minutes, 40 seconds
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Episode 245: Search Engine Optimization

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and life coach Craig Cullinane to discuss Craig's time as Director of the Body Electric School, how they've visualized and manifested their goals and desires, and their stories about being obsessed with another person.
1/20/202348 minutes, 14 seconds
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Episode 244: The Invitation

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and porn stars Ethan Chase, AJ Sloan, Jordan Starr, Alex Mecum, Leo Louis, Edward Terrant and Cain. On the set of Himeros.tv's "Seventh Circle" shoot in Germany, they talk about working with Himeros's different sex coaches, and the challenges that come with being vulnerable and authentic.
1/16/202341 minutes, 18 seconds
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Episode 243: Morph

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about their ideal day of sex, the positive and negative impacts of porn, embracing "weird" sex, and morph suits.
1/6/202352 minutes, 43 seconds
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Episode 242: Adam & Steve

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about New Year's resolutions, Mossy's journey into polyamory, what they had to unlearn from their religious upbringings and more!
12/30/202255 minutes, 32 seconds
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Episode 241: Wet Dream

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about cuffing season, their experiences with addiction, and how to achieve drug-free ecstatic states during sex.
12/23/202254 minutes, 56 seconds
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Episode 240: Black - Devoured

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the horrors of cold winters, their earliest experiences of sexuality, childhood conflicts over which they're still seeking mastery, furries and more!
12/16/202256 minutes, 49 seconds
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Episode 239: Director Knows Best

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the dangers of tapioca balls, why Lensa AI is problematic, society and porn's emphasis on youth, and under what circumstances they would agree to be featured in a porn scene.
12/9/202258 minutes, 41 seconds
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Episode 238: Closet Case

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about suspicious women on Tinder, their experience of spying and being spied on, and why acting out our fantasies isn't always satisfying.  
12/2/202257 minutes, 18 seconds
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Episode 237: F*ck Like Nobody's Watching

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about unfortunate bowel control incidents, finding a good therapist, breaking the rules to have sex, and what they're thankful for this year.
11/25/202256 minutes, 49 seconds
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Episode 236: Agape

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about stereotypes in mainstream porn, aspects of themselves they don't see represented in porn, and Mossy's journey to becoming The Literate Drag Queen.
11/18/202258 minutes, 36 seconds
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Episode 235: The Windsor Dog Show

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about poppers, pup play, jock straps and other costumes and props they use during sex.
11/11/202252 minutes, 23 seconds
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Episode 234: Hera

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the Hera archetype, manifestations of jealousy, and why straight people are boring.
11/4/202251 minutes, 11 seconds
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Episode 233: Serve Me

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about serving or being served, transformative life experiences, what they're hungry for, and spit during sex.
10/28/202249 minutes, 36 seconds
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Episode 232: Backseat Driver

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Himeros.tv's OnlyFans creator retreat, navigating three-way relationships, compersion, cruising and more.
10/21/202254 minutes, 32 seconds
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Episode 231: Dance With Me

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and tantric coach Matthew Shur in a conversation about Davey's scary spider encounter, their most romantic memories, songs they like to f*ck to, and Matthew's path to tantra.
10/14/202253 minutes, 38 seconds
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Episode 230: Temple Of Sex

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the movie Bros, Davey's crush on Luke Macfarlane, and how to be more open to new sexual experiences.
10/7/202252 minutes, 22 seconds
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Episode 229: Nontoxic Masculinity

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Finn's new boyfriend, Himeros.tv's Sean Cody parody, their first porn experiences, paying for sex and more!
9/30/202257 minutes, 16 seconds
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Episode 228: Anima

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart, writer and journalist Duane Wells and pornographer Ed in a conversation about being told to "man up", playing with gender roles in sex, how porn can change us, and the potential for growth in monogamous relationships.
9/23/20221 hour, 9 seconds
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Episode 227: F*ck Olympics

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about trying to be more masculine, masculinity within the gay community, authenticity on Instagram, and more.
9/16/20221 hour, 1 minute, 20 seconds
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Episode 226: Hung On The Cross

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about their changing relationship with religion, faith and homosexuality, why the Church is obsessed with sex, and how hot Jesus is.
9/13/202254 minutes, 41 seconds
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Episode 225: Ouroboros

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about things they would like everyone to question about sexuality, zeroing in on individual body parts during sex, hairless balls, and more.
9/2/202252 minutes, 32 seconds
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BONUS: Behind The Scenes - Weird Sex

Journalist Duane Wells interviews gay porn stars Leander, Ethan Chase, Ugo Mason, Jake London, Jake Mason, Dillon Diaz and Jonas Jackson on the set of Himeros.tv's "Weird Sex" film shoot. 
8/31/20221 hour, 8 minutes, 13 seconds
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Episode 224: Piss Off

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer Alexander Cheves in a conversation about giving sex advice, taboo fetishes, unfulfillable fantasies, and why fisting can be a religious experience.
8/26/202242 minutes, 39 seconds
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Episode 223: Grand Promise

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart to discuss embarrassing cum stories, being comfortable or uncomfortable with nudity, how we limit ourselves, and more.
8/21/202239 minutes, 30 seconds
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Episode 222: LIVE from London with Leander and Jake London - Trans Body Pleasure

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by porn stars Leander and Jake London in a conversation about faking orgasms, sex with trans men, Jake's first porn shoot and more!  
8/12/202253 minutes, 22 seconds
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Episode 221: Apollo

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the Himeros film shoot in Wales, their go-to sex tactics and routines, watching yourself have sex and more.
8/5/202239 minutes, 33 seconds
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Episode 220: Step Bro'ing

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about incest, requirements for attraction, the controversial nature of tattoos, and Duane and Davey's upcoming trip to Wales (Are they staying in a castle or a manor house? Tune in to learn the difference)
7/29/202250 minutes, 31 seconds
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Episode 219: Orgasmic Firebreath

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about their recurring dreams, sex and creativity, ecstatic sex and common fantasies.
7/22/202250 minutes, 43 seconds
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Episode 218: I'm the One That I Want

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about setting boundaries, being a better lover to yourself, spitting during sex, and Davey's trip to Sweden.
7/15/202255 minutes, 22 seconds
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Episode 217: Spellbound

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about consent, sexual violence, Duane's time in Sweden and more.
7/8/202249 minutes, 41 seconds
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Episode 216: Mass

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by bestselling author Kyle Langan in a conversation about spirituality and sex, religion, sex workers and life in West Hollywood. Kyle is an award-winning blogger, and founder of the lifestyle website, www.HamptonstoHollywood.com. His latest novel, Confessions of a Callboy, became an Amazon bestseller and Amazon's #1 Erotic Thriller in early June 2022.  Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
7/1/202241 minutes, 51 seconds
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Episode 215: Selfcest

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about Finn's road trip, the Minnesota shoot, having sex with one's own self, obstacles to self love and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
6/24/202247 minutes, 58 seconds
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Episode 214: Jonah Wheeler Joins + Transguys in Sweatpants

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by porn star Jonah Wheeler in a conversation about clothes that turn them on, newly discovered kinks that surprised them, the start of Jonah's career and having sex with trans men. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729  
6/17/202251 minutes, 53 seconds
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Episode 213: Rough Oral

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by adult model Pup Gator in a conversation about celebrities that they want to have sex with, masturbation while in a relationship, rough oral sex, being a dom or sub and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
6/10/202244 minutes, 6 seconds
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Episode 212: I See You

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by adult model Pup Gator in a conversation about people being seen, being unseen, furries and more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
6/3/202247 minutes, 7 seconds
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Episode 211: Fame Animals

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about fame, authenticity, persona curation, OnlyFans... and, of course, Downton Abbey. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
5/27/20221 hour, 4 minutes, 13 seconds
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Episode 210: Ares

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about gay TV shows, daddies, internalized homophobia during sex, the Ares archetype and more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
5/20/202253 minutes, 16 seconds
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Episode 209: Multi Orgasmic Lovers

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about relationship loops, multiple orgasms and body hair preferences. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
5/13/202252 minutes, 7 seconds
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Episode 208: Mountain "Top"

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Roe V. Wade, some big moves, sex outside, men who need to get f*cked in the ass and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729  
5/6/202256 minutes, 42 seconds
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Episode 207: Joyfriend Material

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Davey and Duane's trip to Vegas, the importance of having honest and vulnerable conversations, and how shame manifests itself in sex. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
4/29/202258 minutes, 1 second
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Episode 206: Psychic Be Moan'n'

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a very personal and emotional conversation about past lovers, boyfriends that they can't let go of and how to move on. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
4/22/202256 minutes, 32 seconds
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Episode 205: Tantric Twister

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about their recent film shoot in Phoenix, bathroom cruising, recent revelations about love, sex and relationships, transphobia and a new video titled Tantric Twister. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
4/15/20221 hour, 6 seconds
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Episode 204: Holy Orders

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex educator and sexological bodyworker Coach Nic in a conversation about sacred sex, reclaiming the sacrament of Holy Orders, the term gay, gay culture and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
4/8/202258 minutes, 33 seconds
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Episode 203: Underwear Snatcher

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about snatching and sniffing underwear, scents, sexually healing experiences, the five senses and more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
4/1/202258 minutes, 39 seconds
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Episode 202: Electromotives

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about magic mushrooms, penis size, masochism, electro play and more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
3/25/20221 hour, 2 minutes, 25 seconds
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Episode 201: Dog Days

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and adult model Pup Gator in a conversation about people feeling unloved, pup play, having fun during sex, role playing and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
3/18/202254 minutes, 36 seconds
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Episode 200: Zeus

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about healing sexual wounds, toxic productivity, embodying Greek gods and goddesses and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
3/11/202258 minutes, 32 seconds
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Episode 199: Good Dick

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about life-changing good dick, emotions after sex, their first crushes and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
3/4/202259 minutes, 41 seconds
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Episode 198: Sundown

Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about people who changed our lives, our experience with sex education, masturbation and more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
2/25/20221 hour, 2 minutes, 43 seconds
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Episode 197: Ask & It Is Given

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by Sam Garanzini, MFT, and Alapaki Yee, MFT, founders of the Gay Couples Institute, in a conversation about challenges in love, obstacles to self-love, asking for what you want and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
2/18/202252 minutes, 40 seconds
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Episode 196: Happy Ending

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about upcoming Himeros.tv collaborations, unexpected but immediate turn-ons, happy endings, hand jobs and much more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
2/11/20221 hour, 1 minute, 27 seconds
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Episode 195: Parallel Play

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about how their sex has changed in the last ten years, their hopes for the next 10 years, a funny story about the recent Himeros.tv scene, the concept parallel play and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
2/4/202258 minutes, 13 seconds
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Episode 194: Farm Hand

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and Kyle and Mike from Gayish in a conversation about fisting, vulnerability, what they like or dislike about being single or partnered and much more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
1/28/20221 hour, 3 minutes, 1 second
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Episode 193: Matrimony

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about our recent travels, the Himeros.tv film shoot in Greece, strange places to have sex, matrimony, vanilla sex and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
1/21/20221 hour, 3 minutes, 34 seconds
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Episode 192: Sex When Puzzled

LIVE FROM GREECE! Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about Greek gods, archetypes, poppers and more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729  
1/14/202257 minutes, 9 seconds
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Episode 191: Politics of Polarity

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer Casey Hamilton in a conversation about sex icons, moments of sexual evolution, online hook up culture, bareback sex and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
1/7/20221 hour, 2 minutes, 14 seconds
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Episode 190: Intimate Darkness

Davey Wavey, creator of Himeros.tv, is joined by gay porn star Benny Blazin in a conversation about gay culture, his experience as a porn star, the newest Himeros.tv video release and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
12/31/202159 minutes, 22 seconds
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Episode 189: The Whispers

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about New Year's resolutions, things we are letting go of in 2021, how having sex with one person is having sex with all their partners and much more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729  
12/24/202159 minutes, 18 seconds
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Episode 188: Three's Company

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and tantric sex coach Brad Amberheart in a conversation about accepting their bodies, the gaps between fantasies and actions, filming connected porn and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
12/17/202159 minutes, 18 seconds
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Episode 187: Evil Impulse

Davey Wavey, creator of Himeros.tv, is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart, disability awareness consultant and co-founders of Bump'n Andrew Gurza and his sister Heather in a conversation about porn genres, accessibility in sex toys, sadomasochism and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
12/10/202159 minutes, 28 seconds
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Episode 186: Theater of Confession

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerheart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about love at first sight, being seen, fetishes, small dicks and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
12/3/20211 hour, 2 minutes, 45 seconds
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Episode 185: Multiple Orgasms

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerheart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about boundaries, jealousy, multiple orgasms, becoming a porn star and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729  
11/26/202157 minutes, 6 seconds
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Episode 184: Dirty Dancing

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about short term vs. long term relationships, actions that are incompatible with our sexual goals, the latest Himeros.tv shoot in Hawaii, group sex and more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
11/19/20211 hour, 3 minutes, 14 seconds
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Episode 183: Penance

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by bestselling author and psychologist Dr. Alan Downs in a conversation about shame, authenticity and infidelity. Dr. Alan Downs is the author of Velvet Rage, the bestselling LGBT novel of all time. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
11/11/202156 minutes, 32 seconds
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Episode 182: Down The Rabbit Hole

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about going down the figurative rabbit hole, OnlyFans scams, the best places to have sex, peak sexual experiences, internal creampies, creative approaches to porn filmmaking and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
11/5/20211 hour, 2 minutes, 50 seconds
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Episode 181: The Mounting

Davey Wavey, creator of Himeros.tv, is joined by gay porn star Ray Dexter and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Disney, being a gay porn star, normalizing trans men in porn and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
10/29/20211 hour, 1 minute, 56 seconds
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Episode 180: Summer of Love - Part III

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and tantric sex coach Brad Amberheart in a conversation about hook ups, approaches to filming gay sex, the connection between your mind and masturbation and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729  
10/22/20211 hour, 6 minutes, 35 seconds
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Episode 179: Shadow Play

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and singer, songwriter and host of the "The Gay Life Coach" podcast Brian Falduto in a conversation about wedgies, nipple orgasms, shadow play, eye contact and more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729
10/15/20211 hour, 5 minutes, 32 seconds