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A Weekly Podcast hosted by four black gay men discussing their lives, love life, what affects them & the Black LGBTQIA Community, against the backdrop of New York City.
HIM.
English, Cultural, 6 seasons, 166 episodes, 2 hours, 48 minutes
HIM.
English, Cultural, 6 seasons, 166 episodes, 2 hours, 48 minutes
S6E54 | U 2 Cute 2 Be Gay.
On this week's episode the guys discuss transparency with a confession from Stevie. We congratulate Saucy Santana's rise to fame & get into the tweets he made about Blue Ivy Carter. We also dive into women's harsh comments about bisexual/gay men & it plays into relationships.
6/17/2022 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 45 seconds
S6E53 | A Chat With MOBI.
On this week’s episode, the men of HIM chat with the MOBI team about the importance of safe spaces for queer folx, MOBiFest 2022, & their favorite moments at Pride. MOBI is a series of curated social connectivity events for gay and queer people of color to see their holistic self while promoting community, wellness, and personal development.We achieve this through our signature programming: MOBItalks, a personal and professional development series for Black gay men and MOBIfest, an interactive wellness experience that celebrates Black queer voices in fashion, music, visual arts and media. With a focus on wellness, MOBI connects individuals to opportunities to better themselves before, during, and after our events.You can find MOBI at:https://mobi-nyc.comhttps://www.instagram.com/mobinyc/https://twitter.com/Mobi_NYC
6/10/2022 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 45 seconds
S6E52 | Innocent Babies.
On this week's episode the men of HIM discuss the qualities that make a good friend. We tackle the topic the heartbreaking mass shooting, in Uvalde Texas. Lastly, we finally got some ask HIM questions, and we get into two of them!
5/27/2022 • 1 hour, 18 minutes
S6E51 | I Clocks In.
On this week’s episode the guys discuss the last time they were too hard on themselves, the new season of “Legendary”, & the mass shooting in Buffalo.
5/20/2022 • 1 hour, 54 minutes, 43 seconds
S6E50 | Pronoun Research.
On this week’s episode the guys discuss the kindest compliment they’ve received this week, Kehlani’s radio interview + respecting pronouns, and supporting your partner during challenging times.
5/13/2022 • 1 hour, 36 minutes, 53 seconds
S6E49 | The Check-In.
On this week’s episode the guys have an extensive check-in session, discuss friends that flake,the supreme court trying to overturn the Roe v. Wade case, and this year’s Met Gala.
5/6/2022 • 1 hour, 47 minutes
S6E48 | oh HAPPY day.
On this episode, the guys discuss what’s currently bringing them happiness, the best advice their therapist has given them, how essential rest is, the Grammys, + Chloe Bailey’s new song “Treat Me”.
4/8/2022 • 1 hour, 16 minutes, 26 seconds
S6E47 | This What It Look Like.
Updated caption: On this week’s episode the guys discuss if they would have sex with themselves if they could, Will Smith slapping Chris Rock at the Oscars, and their thoughts on the “Don’t Say Gay” bill that affects LGBTQ+ youth.
4/1/2022 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 59 seconds
S6E46 | Givin' or Receivin'
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys talk unusual habits, dating people in between jobs, and splitting rent and utilities with roommates and live in boyfriends/girlfriends.
3/25/2022 • 1 hour, 36 minutes
S6E45 | What Are You Waiting For?
On this week’s episode the guys have a conversation about code switching in the work place, friend’s dating friend’s exes, dating people something with a huge social media following, and insecurities in relationships.
3/11/2022 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 11 seconds
S6E44 | How Would You Feel If...
On this week’s episode the guys have a conversation about their thoughts on stealing, the war with Ukraine & Russia + how racism is occurring, + speak on how mask mandates are coming to an end.
3/5/2022 • 50 minutes
S6E43 | Overall Supreme.
On this week’s episode the guys discuss highlights from the Coldest Winter Ever Ball, businesses denying LGBTQ+ service, + the new “Don’t Say Gay” bill that will affect LGBTQ+ youth.
2/25/2022 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 41 seconds
S6E42 | Do We Have A Problem?
On this week’s episode the guys have a lengthy check-in discussing the difference of setting boundaries with friend vs the workplace,handling rejection, + the importance of showing friends affection.
2/4/2022 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 26 seconds
S6E41 | A Time To Revisit.
On this week’s episode the guys discuss a year or age in their lives they wish they could revisit, if homophobia existed in their household as children, + talk about a few highlights in their week.
1/28/2022 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 32 seconds
S6E40 | Get Your Life (Insurance)!
On this week’s episode the guys discuss lies they’ve told, identifying personal growth + supporting one another, the importance of life insurance, and Steve Harvey’s comments about art being silenced.
1/21/2022 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 22 seconds
S6E39 | Save Sum For Yourself.
On This Week’s Episode, the guys discuss their self-love, self-care tips, the importance of body image, and MJ Rodriguez’s Golden Globe win.
1/14/2022 • 1 hour, 42 minutes
S6E38 | The Year of Resolutions
On This Week’s Episode the guys discuss their holiday plans + personal goals for the New Year, and tackle a quote from Will Smith’s new memoir.
1/7/2022 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 41 seconds
S6E37 | And Just Like That
On This Week’s Episode the guys discuss their holiday plans, give some advice to the listeners from two ASK HIM questions, and give their opinions on the whole Jussie Smollett trial + the final verdict.
12/10/2021 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 3 seconds
S6E36 | No Call, No Show.
On This Week’s Episode Of HIM Podcast, the guys talk about growth for the new year, DaBaby failing to keep his word on donating to LGBTQ+ organizations, and their thoughts on the new film B-Boy Blues.
12/3/2021 • 1 hour, 16 minutes, 20 seconds
S6E35 | Miss Bossy Bottom.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss what new shows they’re watching, sex with friends and the possibility of leading friends on, hookups overstaying their welcome + their Thanksgiving plans.
11/19/2021 • 1 hour, 10 minutes, 1 second
S6E34 | Here We Go Again.
On this week’s HIM Podcast the guys discuss their Halloween weekend, TS Madison’s interview on The Breakfast Club, and how they disagree with LGBTQ+ Ceo who stated the community has forgiven Da Baby.
11/5/2021 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 56 seconds
S6E33 | Movin’ On Up.
On this week’s episode of HIM podcast the guys answer some ASKHIM questions, give advice on how to make friends, dealing with social anxiety + cutting off friends who aren’t good for you.
10/29/2021 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 16 seconds
S6E32 | Filling Up The Cup.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the boys talk mental health and the importance of therapy, accountability with friends, and read Dave Chappelle for his transphobic commentary.
10/22/2021 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 59 seconds
S6E31 | Sneaky Links.
On this week’s episode of Him Podcast the guys answer a ASKHIM question geared towards a sneaky link gone wrong,how do their parents self-care influence them, and breaking generational curses.
10/8/2021 • 59 minutes, 30 seconds
S6E30 | Price Is Goin' Up.
On this week's episode of HIM Podcast, your favorite Butchqueens talk about their "get ready" process. Malik shares a huge secret with the group, and later on they get into the concept of SHAME & how shows up in their lives.
10/1/2021 • 55 minutes, 26 seconds
S6E29 | Y'all B!tches is PLAYIN'
On this week’s episode the guys give Lil Nas X his flowers on the birth of his new album, what skill they’ve mastered this month, and discuss the allegations against Nicki Minaj + her husband.
9/24/2021 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 49 seconds
S6E28 | Have We Met Yet?
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the fellas give a recap of the Met Gala looks, the MTV Awards performances, and offer their opinions on Nicki Minaj’s social media rant regarding the vaccine.
9/17/2021 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 50 seconds
S6E27 | Body Control.
On this week’s episode, the guys discuss the latest hot topics, what fictional television family would they be apart of, and the new abortion ban in Texas.
9/10/2021 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 47 seconds
S6E26 | It's Givin' Passionate.
On this week’s episode, the guys express feelings about the new variants of Covid, DaBaby’s sit down w/ LGBTQ corporations,+ speak on how some gays try to separate themselves from the community.
9/3/2021 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 28 seconds
S6E25 | A Sad Universe w/ Sadboy.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys are joined by special guest SadBoy, and get into who he is as an artist, producer, choreographer,his upcoming project “Planéte Des Larmes” + the meaning behind the title.
8/13/2021 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 30 seconds
S6E24 | Musical Glitter W/ Wuhryn Dumas.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys are joined by special guest Wuhryn Dumas, “ and we get into his musical influences, the creation of his EP “Glitter On Fire” + what he looks for in a his dream guy.
8/6/2021 • 1 hour, 26 minutes, 31 seconds
S6E23 | GIRL shut the FU*K UP! W/ AntzInYoPants.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys are joined by special guest Antwaun Wright, "AntzInYoPants", as they weigh in on the controversy surrounding Lil Nas X and discuss homophobia and transphobia within the Black Community.
7/30/2021 • 1 hour, 28 minutes, 1 second
S6E22 | N!gg@s be BROKE!
On this week’s episode the guys discuss splitting the bill + being honest about your finances, deleting photos of your ex off social media + one thing they’d change if they could date themselves.
7/23/2021 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 39 seconds
S6E21 | This is for MJ.
On this week’s episode the guys give MJ Rodriguez for “flowers” for her Emmy nomination, the importance of having more trans-representation in television, and a break down on the craziest story from riding the train in NYC.
7/16/2021 • 1 hour, 15 minutes, 36 seconds
S6E20 | Summer Tings.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the fellas talk Pride Month, Miami, the Durand Bernarr concert, and LEGENDARY. #HappyPrideMonth
6/25/2021 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 19 seconds
S6E19 | Bittersweet Pose.
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!! On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys give a recap of their favorite moments of MOBI Fest, the Pose finale, and LEGENDARY.
6/11/2021 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 2 seconds
S6E18 | Listen Up
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the fellas address the fake woke, talk Pose, and celebrate Aaron’s (Niece) graduation.
5/28/2021 • 59 minutes, 5 seconds
S6E17 | Word 2 Janet.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the boys talk what they would do with only 6 months to live, more feedback on the current season of Pose, and Billy Porter’s HIV announcement.
5/21/2021 • 1 hour, 14 minutes, 27 seconds
S6E16 | Legendary Mix.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys talk new CDC guidelines, Porsha Williams, new Nicki Minaj, and season two of Legendary.
5/14/2021 • 1 hour, 14 minutes
S6E15 |Pose The Conversation.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the boys talk POSE, highlight mental health awareness month, and share their love for their mothers!
5/7/2021 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 39 seconds
S6E14 | N!gg@s Don’t Be Listenin’
On this week’s episode the guys discuss first date questions, cutting off toxic friends, fuck boys ways, and a small check in.
4/23/2021 • 59 minutes
S6E13 | Ready To Grow.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss personal growth, accountability, and respond to an ASK HIM listener question.
4/9/2021 • 1 hour, 7 minutes
S6E12 | X Marks The Spot.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys chat about hot topics such as Saweetie + Quavo, bills passed against trans youth, Donnie McClurkin, and Lil Nas X.
4/2/2021 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 58 seconds
S6E11 | A Helping Hand.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss cheating, substance abuse, and mental illness.
3/26/2021 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 10 seconds
S6E10 | No More Public Fun.
On this week’s episode of the HIM Podcast, the guys discuss the most embarrassing text/email they have sent out. Onlyfans placing a ban on users posting public-sex content, the impact “Pose” has had on the world and the hits and misses during this year's Grammys.
3/19/2021 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 17 seconds
S6E09 | Daddy's Lessons.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys reflect on lessons learned, open up about their fathers, and respond to an Ask HIM listener question.
3/12/2021 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 2 seconds
S6E08 | Expected Apologies.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss apologies, accountability, and interracial dating.
3/5/2021 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 18 seconds
S6E07 | Eliminate Threads.
On this week’s episode of HIM podcast, the guys talk about creating healthy friendship, posting private text threads on social media, respecting boundaries, and sexual harassment.
2/26/2021 • 1 hour, 13 minutes, 13 seconds
S6E06 | the DL agenda.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys celebrate Aaron & LaQuann's first year anniversary on the podcast. We do a check-in, and tackle the question "Are DL Men apart of the LGBTQ+ community?"
2/12/2021 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 59 seconds
S6E05 | ask THEM.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys offer up their advice for questions from listeners.
2/5/2021 • 1 hour, 23 minutes, 51 seconds
S6E04 | Respectful D!ck.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the guys discuss hot topics, consent, and sexual harassment.
1/29/2021 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 50 seconds
S6E03 | Inauguration Cunt.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the boys tackle the funniest Break Down, talk sex and the Inauguration.
1/22/2021 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 57 seconds
S6E02 | It's Givin' Challenge.
On this week’s episode of HIM Podcast the boys talk comfort food and drinks, viral online challenges, and have a Covid-19 check in.
1/15/2021 • 48 minutes, 49 seconds
S6E01 | I'm Still Here.
On this week’s episode the men of HIM Podcast talk prosperity, forgiveness, and accountability for their first episode of 2021. Happy New Year!
1/8/2021 • 1 hour, 22 minutes, 1 second