We are Mr & Mrs Record! We are newly married, We Love God and WE LOVE LOVE. We have both grown up in single parent households, we didn't get the chance to see healthy love/relationships up close. We want to help change the narrative. On this podcast we will be honest, raw and honest on the things that have helped us transition from friendship to marriage (as we were best friends before we started dating) and we also want to encourage and inspire others to know love exists and healthy love is possible. We will be interviewing and sitting down with people from all walks of life, learning and discussing all things love and relationships. We are not the experts, but we are students of love together - we look forward to learning about how to love deeply
What’s Love Got To Do With It?
In this episode we discuss how Love has healed us. Sometimes we underestimate how much healing Love brings. What would you do if you acknowledged how loved you truly are? Hope you enjoy x Don’t forget to leave a review! If you want a special discount for our card game, sign up to the mailing list here! https://forms.gle/zpLmxmCUzQK6gNWm6 Join our Patreon family! : https://www.patreon.com/ANEWRECORD Use #ForTheRecord on social media if you want to discuss the podcast episodes!
5/29/2023 • 41 minutes, 13 seconds
Handling Mental Health in Marriage
In this episode we discuss mental health and the impact it has on marriage/relationships. You can hide your tough seasons from most, but not your partner. That's the person who's there everyday and sees every season that you navigate. With that comes up and down, times of joy and times of sadness. The way we process these emotions can have a big big impact on the relationship as a whole. We share some personal stuff like how we both deal with seasons when we feel low mentally, but also ways we've found that will help you get through the low moments. Individually and as a couple. Hope you enjoy :) Don’t forget to leave a review :) If you want a special discount for our card game : sign up to the mailing list here! https://forms.gle/zpLmxmCUzQK6gNWm6 Join our Patreon family!: https://www.patreon.com/ANEWRECORD Use #ForTheRecord on social media if you want to discuss the podcast episodes!
5/22/2023 • 51 minutes
Don’t Rush Your Singleness
In this episode we talk about the importance behind being single. A lot of people rush through their season of being single and that does more damage than good! Don’t forget to leave us a review :) If you want a special discount for our card game: sign up to the mailing list here! https://forms.gle/zpLmxmCUzQK6gNWm6 Join our Patreon family!: https://www.patreon.com/ANEWRECORD Use #ForTheRecord on social media if you want to discuss the podcast episodes!
5/15/2023 • 42 minutes, 9 seconds
Has The Western World Made Us Selfish? | Lessons From Uganda
This episode is all about the effects of collectivism and the lack of it in the western world!
5/8/2023 • 47 minutes, 8 seconds
Recovering from Emotional Infidelity with The Ramsays
5/1/2023 • 42 minutes, 21 seconds
What 25 Years of Marriage Looks Like ft. The Ramsays
This episode is a VERY special episode! We sit down with our marriage counsellors who have married for 25 years! YES.. twenty five years! You don’t want to miss this episode! This episode will cover so many topics From marriage, to infidelity, to forgiveness, to resentment, to heartbreak and healing! We were speechless at the end of this episode, so make sure you really take this episode in! (PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW AND TURN NOTIFICATIONS ON) If you want a special discount for our card game : sign up to the mailing list here! https://forms.gle/zpLmxmCUzQK6gNWm6 Join our Patreon family! : https://www.patreon.com/ANEWRECORD Use #ForTheRecord on social media if you want to discuss the podcast episodes!
4/24/2023 • 47 minutes, 9 seconds
I Was Scared To Be Married
This episode is all about Hayley sharing the different things she had to overcome on her journey to becoming a wife. This episode will answer questions like: What if you're attached to toxic men? What If you can't see yourself being a good wife or life partner? I'm a business woman, can I still be married? What should a woman do to help prepare for marriage? We hope you find something you can take away and that it inspires you to go deeper in your faith!
4/17/2023 • 52 minutes, 8 seconds
How Did I Know I Was Ready To Propose?
This episode is all about Sterling sharing what made him propose & when did he know he was ready to get married This episode will answer questions like : What might make a man propose? What might make a man commit? What signs should a woman look for when looking to settle down? We hope you find something you can take away and that it inspires you to go deeper in your faith! Don’t forget to give us a 5* review! It helps more than you know. If you want a special discount for our card game : sign up to the mailing list here! https://forms.gle/zpLmxmCUzQK6gNWm6 Join our Patreon family! : https://www.patreon.com/ANEWRECORD Use #ForTheRecord on social media if you want to discuss the podcast episodes!
4/10/2023 • 56 minutes, 3 seconds
The Perks of A Godly Spouse/Relationship
The episode as a whole focuses on Faith and Relationships! Answering questions like: How should I to navigate negative comments online? What are the perks of having a Godly Spouse? Why is my personal relationship with God important? How do I overcome masturbation? (using our own personal experiences) We hope you find something you can take away! If you want a special discount for our card game : sign up to the mailing list here! https://forms.gle/zpLmxmCUzQK6gNWm6 Join our Patreon family! : https://www.patreon.com/ANEWRECORD Use #ForTheRecord on social media if you want to discuss the podcast episodes!
4/3/2023 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 37 seconds
The Journey From Celibacy to Being Sexually Active
This episode is all about Sex, Abstinence & Celibacy - Part 3 (Due to Popular Demand!) In this episode we delve into how we transitioned from celibacy and abstinence to now being sexually active! We hope this helps you and if you have any tips, please feel free to share below!! We hope these episodes can help and inspire you in the area of celibacy/abstinence. blog page on sex : https://hayleymulenda.medium.com/sex-is-worship-66b6ea57c028 Don’t forget to like, comment & subscribe!! If you want a special discount for our card came - sign up up to the mailing list here! https://forms.gle/zpLmxmCUzQK6gNWm6 or would like to join our Patreon community - Visit the YouTube description for all the information: https://youtu.be/BWJwg3mcaPo Use #ForTheRecord on social media if you want to discuss the podcast episodes!
3/27/2023 • 1 hour, 32 seconds
Practical Tips On How To Stay Celibate
We are Mr & Mrs Record! We are newly married, We Love God and WE LOVE LOVE. This episode is all about Sex, Abstinence & Celibacy (Due to Popular Demand!) In this episode we delve into how we abstained from sex before marriage. We share practical tips on what helped us on our celibacy journey. We hope these episodes can help and inspire you to heal! Please rate our podcast 5* - it really helps us a lot and tell a friend to also check us out too! Make sure to grab a copy of the book by To My Sister, here's the link: https://tinyurl.com/yvwmfpz7 Check out the Patreon information here: https://www.patreon.com/ANEWRECORD Use #ForTheRecord on social media if you want to discuss the podcast episodes! If you would like to get in touch with us for any questions, collaborations or features/speaking enquiries - please email info@anewrecord.io God bless x
3/20/2023 • 55 minutes, 41 seconds
We Didn't Kiss For Two Years (Celibacy Episode)
We are Mr & Mrs Record! We are newly married, We Love God and WE LOVE LOVE. This episode is all about Sex, Abstinence & Celibacy (Due to Popular Demand!) We think this may have to be a whole series! In this episode we delve into the reasons why we believe abstaining from sex before marriage is beneficial and the reason as to why we didn't kiss for two years. We hope these episodes can help and inspire you to heal! Please rate our podcast 5* - it really helps us a lot and tell a friend to also check us out too! If you would like to get in touch with us for any questions, collaborations or features/speaking enquiries - please email info@anewrecord.io God bless x
3/13/2023 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 12 seconds
Daddy Issues Part 2 - I met my dad at 15, here's how it's going
We are Mr & Mrs Record! We are newly married, We Love God and WE LOVE LOVE. This episode is all about Daddy Issues.. This one is close to our hearts and quite emotional! This is part two so please go back and listen to part one if you haven't already! In this episode, we talk about how growing up without a dad has impacted us in marriage! We are still healing through it and we hope this can inspire you to heal too. Please rate our podcast 5* - it really helps us a lot and tell a friend to also check us out too! If you would like to get in touch with us for any questions, collaborations or features/speaking enquiries - please email info@anewrecord.io God bless x
3/6/2023 • 50 minutes, 28 seconds
Daddy Issues Part 1 - From Independent Black Woman to Wife
Welcome To The For The Record Podcast! We are Mr & Mrs Record! We are newly married, We Love God and WE LOVE LOVE. This episode is all about Daddy Issues.. This one is close to our hearts and quite emotional! This is a two part episode, as we just couldn’t cover everything in one episode! In this episode, we talk about how growing up without a dad has impacted us in marriage! We are still healing through it and we hope this can inspire you to heal too. Please rate our podcast 5* - it really helps us a lot and tell a friend to also check us out too! If you would like to get in touch with us for any questions, collaborations or features/speaking enquiries - please email info@anewrecord.io God bless x
2/27/2023 • 51 minutes, 27 seconds
Does The One Exist?
Welcome To The For The Record Podcast! We are Mr & Mrs Record! We are newly married, We Love God and WE LOVE LOVE. This episode is all about THE ONE - does it exist? does God pre-ordain who we are going to be with? do we have a choice in who our life partner actually is? Well.. Hayley shares a story on how she was having dreams that Sterling was her husband in 2016 and Sterling's ex girlfriend kept hearing voices saying he needs to marry someone called Hayley... tune in to find out more! Please rate our podcast 5* - it really helps us a lot and tell a friend to also check us out too! If you would like to get in touch with us for any questions, collaborations or features/speaking enquiries - please email info@anewrecord.io God bless x
2/20/2023 • 37 minutes, 51 seconds
Using Overdraft For Valentines
Welcome To The For The Record Podcast! We are Mr & Mrs Record! We are newly married, We Love God and WE LOVE LOVE. This episode is all about Valentines! We will be discussing as to whether valentines is important? should we celebrate it? Is it a deal breaker? Sterling also shares how for one valentines, he went into overdraft/minus because he felt the pressure to keep up/perform. Please rate our podcast 5* - it really helps us a lot and tell a friend to also check us out too! If you would like to get in touch with us for any questions, collaborations or features/speaking enquiries - please email info@anewrecord.io God bless x
2/13/2023 • 41 minutes, 50 seconds
Introduction - Why Are We Doing This Podcast?
We are Mr & Mrs Record! We are newly married, We Love God and WE LOVE LOVE. We have both grown up in single parent households, we didn't get the chance to see healthy love/relationships up close. We want to help change the narrative. On this podcast we will be honest, raw and honest on the things that have helped us transition from friendship to marriage (as we were best friends before we started dating) and we also want to encourage and inspire others to know love exists and healthy love is possible. We are not the experts, but we are students of love together - we look forward to learning about how to love deeply. In this episode explain the things we have learned in marriage so far, and the real reason as to why we started this podcast in the first place
