EF Dodd dated a guy from a distance in pre-FaceTime days. Jenay had a relationship that started in Idaho and ended with him overseas. And both women found ways to keep things spicy, challenges and all. (And yes, dirty talk played an important role!) This episode also features Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who feels uncomfortable, yet curious, about dirty talk, and August’s favorite tip. To learn more about EF and her latest novel, Almost Perfect, visit efdoddwrites.com.    For more from Jenay, check out her podcast, My Naked Mindset.    Register for Afternoon Delight here! Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Women’s sexuality educator Jordan D'Nelle went from not realizing orgasms were a thing or possible with a partner to finding orgasmic bliss in incredible ways and places. Her steamiest experiences taught her a ton about sex, pleasure and her body – lessons she pays forward.   Learn more from Jordan: https://jordandnelle.com   Register for Afternoon Delight here! Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Can an orgasm change your life? Is it ever too late to invite a sexual awakening? As a special wrap up to the year, August shares a conversation she had with colleague and friend, Lynn Brown Rosenberg, at the Residence 11 Desire Summit in Los Angeles.   Register for Afternoon Delight (with early bird pricing) here! Order Lynn's memoir, My Sexual Awakening at 70 on Amazon. Explore The Pleasure Chest holiday gift guides!    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner    augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner     patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Intimacy coach Lee Noto didn’t realize she’d been longing for surrender until a crush turned into far more. Author Liz Asch fell away from her queer expression, then gradually reclaimed it. And that growth led to more than squirting. Yes, this week’s Girl Boner replay is a juicy one…   You’ll also hear about Afternoon Delight – a live, interactive podcast event August is co-hosting with three wonderful colleagues in February. Register (with early bird pricing) here! Learn more about Lee Noto: leenoto.com   Becomethehighpriestess.com Learn more about Liz Asch and Your Salt on My Lips: lizasch.com/salt-lips Explore The Pleasure Chest holiday gift guides!    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner    augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner      patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

When Jennifer Silva Redmond asked her fiancé, Russel, “What would you do if you could do anything?,” his response and the decision that followed changed the course of their lives. Since then, she’s learned a great deal about intimacy, sex, her body and herself while living and loving at sea.   You’ll also learn:   How Jennifer’s hippy-like upbringing made bodies okay (at first) The impact LA’s acting culture had on her body image How she moved past faking orgasms Benefits of trying a sex toy or position you don’t love Jennifer’s advice for choosing an ideal partner and bolstering the relationship   Check out Jennifer’s memoir, Honeymoon at Sea, on Amazon.   Find more of her writing on her substack.   Build your bedroom collection at The Pleasure Chest! And get free toy cleaner with any Le Wand purchase by 11/30.   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Jenay Leger and Court Vox have had different sexual self-discovery journeys with powerful common threads — including an illuminating ho-phase. Learn what their spicy escapades revealed about their desires and kinks, plus tips for making the most of your own sexual exploration.    You'll also learn a simple way to play with power dynamics in a  relationship, how Dominant and Submissive (D&S) experiences can vary from media depictions and how a crying kink can play out.    Learn more from Jenay by listening to My Naked Mindset. Find her Self-Love Journal on Amazon.   Learn more from Court or sign up for his SACRED retreat or workshops at bodyvox.com. Or follow along at @thebodyvox on Instagram and Facebook.   Build your pleasure collection at The Pleasure Chest!   IG: @GirlBonerMedia   TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin

Yuval Mann is an erotic intelligence mentor who helps people use their sexual expression as “a vehicle of individual and collective evolution.” Early on, though, he was barely allowed to interact with girls, much less embrace his sexual desires. His journey from the Israeli army to the global fetish and kink scene taught him about pleasure, intimacy and so much more.   You’ll hear about:   His sexual awakening, after growing up as an Orthodox Jew A relationship that helped heal some of his sex-related shame What he discovered at his first sex party A hot triad relationship on Paradise Island Tips for exploring in your own sex life   Learn more from Yuval here, and check out his Sensual Alchemy community on Telescope.   Explore The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials! And their special Bondage and Restraints Collection.   Note: This episode features a man who grew up in Israel. It was finalized before the Israel-Hamas war broke out, bringing profound tragedy. Like so many, I’m thinking of those who are most affected with deep heartache and care. Credible aid organizations you can donate to: https://www.npr.org/2023/10/13/1205235922/help-israel-gaza-humanitarian-organizations IG: @GirlBonerMedia   TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Long before Dr. Joy became a groundbreaking relationship expert, she gleaned harmful messages about sëxuality. Her journey into ethical non-monogamy and polyamory shed light on important truths, while invited lesson-rich challenges and benefits she continues to cherish.   Today Joy helps others cultivate authentic, pleasure-rich lives and relationships, no matter the style. And her work continues to reveal myths so many of us learn about intimacy, ways they damage (supposedly) ethical non-monogamous relationships, and the wonderfulness that can unfold when we unlearn them.    In addition to Joy’s personal journey into non-traditional partnerships, you’ll learn:   Myths about ENM, involving cheating and jealousy How new relationship energy (NRE) can play out for poly folks A practice she recommends for determining your own best relationships style   Learn more from Dr. Joy: joyberkheimer.com   Explore The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    More Girl Boner fun:  IG: @GirlBonerMedia   TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Treva Brandon Scharf was in her early 40s when she set her sights on becoming a single mother. Little could she have anticipated what would unfold in her fertility journey, from spicy escapades to frustrating challenges – much less the major love life shift that would follow.    After CK Love learned of a partner’s betrayal, she set out on a journey to connect with her sensual self — something she hadn’t realized needed more healing. And both women have found their way to a deeper sense of self, fulfilling relationships and sexy sparks we can all learn from.    (CK’s story was originally released in February,  2022.)   Learn more from Treva here and from CK here.   Explore The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    More Girl Boner fun:  IG: @GirlBonerMedia   TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Alana McKenzie Page was stunned when a surprise, supposed-to-be-sexy date turned out to be...very much not. Krystal Casey realized that the very thing she strove to protect her kids had entered her home. Both women found their way from blindsiding challenges to immense pleasure and fulfillment – in and outside of the bedroom.   This episode touches on a few difficult topics, with mentions of abuse, addiction and death (in the second story). It’s also rich with light, encouragement, sex lessons learned…and a few laughs! As always, please take care while listening.   Check out Alana’s book, The Art of Feminine Seduction: How To Reclaim Power In Dating, Sex, and Love, and download Krystal’s Ignite Your Spark toolkit.   National Domestic Abuse Hotline: 800-799-7233   National Sexual Abuse Hotline: 1-800-656-4673   If you’re concerned about your sexual thoughts or behaviors, click here for resources via Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health.    Explore The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    Save 25% at Beducated here. More Girl Boner fun:    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Mariah Freya grew up feeling pretty comfortable about bodies. Then her teens brought rockiness that stood in the way of her sexual empowerment. After years of off-and-on low libido in adulthood, she encountered a workshop that changed…everything. Mariah's sexual awakening set her on a path of spicy exploration and eventually to co-founding Beducated. Save 25% at Beducated here. Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials! And their Anal August top picks here.   More Girl Boner fun:    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Arielle Greenberg realized very early on that her sexuality didn’t match up with the masses. Her story sheds light on what it means to be a fetishist, the erotic potential of roleplaying, what a “stability fetish” involves, myths about kinky folks and more!  You’ll also hear about Arielle’s new book, Superfreaks: Kink Pleasure and The Pursuit of Happiness.  Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    More Girl Boner fun:    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

A seemingly perfect date gone very wrong, powerful sex that involved no nakedness or penetration and a listener question on hands-free orgasms!  A few things you’ll learn about in the episode: Why we need to take care of ourselves after breakups The importance of feeling, rather than ignoring, our feelings The importance of feeling in your body, aka embodiment A simple breathing/energetic sex exercise A throw-back “think-gasm” story Hands-free orgasms tips Learn more about Samantha Skelly’s breath work and download the Pause Breathwork app at pausebreathwork.com/app. Learn more about GS Youngblood at gsyoungblood.com.  Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    More Girl Boner fun:    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Imagine being raised by a father who was nicknamed the “king of porn.” Now imagine that it's the 1970s, and your dad attracts attention from the FBI because of his renowned and very spicy filmmaking.    Perhaps too much for many of us to imagine… But for Gerard Damiano Jr., it’s a walk down memory lane.   Gerard Damiano Sr’s film, Deep Throat, is the most famous adult film of all time – one known for bringing triple-X films into the mainstream and gleaning a ton of controversy. And this year marks the film’s 50th anniversary.   During the filming, abuse played out in the personal life of the film’s star, Linda Lovelace, so you’ll hear about that in this episode, too.   You’ll also hear:   Gerard’s take on the film as far as female sexuality and sex-positivity Why Gerard and his sister remain proactivity sensitive about Lovelace’s experiences Why the clitoris and female orgasm focus in Deep Throat were especially revolutionary How you can see or support the film   Learn more: https://damianofilms.com https://throatvote.org @deepthroatmovie   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    More Girl Boner fun:    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Joe was in his mid-30s when he had sex for the first time, while working through his fears with a surrogate partner. That healing work opened the door to not only sexual pleasure and romance, but to surprising benefits throughout his life.   This episode touches on eating disorders. Please take care while listening. Interested in appearing in Joe's upcoming podcast, Pan Talk? Send an email to:  pantalkpod@gmail.com   More stories about sex/love addiction, including different takes on the terminology:   Hooked on Love and Lust or Dating Apps: How Two Women Moved Forward https://augustmclaughlin.com/love-sex-dating-apps/   Sex Addiction and Self-Acceptance: An Interview with Erica Garza https://augustmclaughlin.com/women-sex-addiction-girl-boner/   Resources Joe recommends (Find more in the blog post/transcript!)   Sex Surrogate Partner Therapy by Vena Blanchard DHS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CIc70zBY3SY International Professional Surrogates Association: surrogatetherapy.org   Ecstatic Sex: A guide to the pleasures of Tantra by Ma Ananda Sarita   Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century by Barbara Carrellas   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    More Girl Boner fun:    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

What if you’re not sure what gender identity or label suits you? Or you’re cisgender want to date someone who’s trans or nonbinary? How can cisgender folks become better allies?   In this bonus episode, you’ll hear August's conversation with Rae McDaniel, sex therapist, speaker, DEI consultant and author of Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy, & Step into Your Most Authentic Self. You’ll learn about the book, related themes and Rae’s answers to thoughtful listener questions!   Follow Rae on Instagram: @theraemcdaniel   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner  @GirlBonerMedia    Produced by August McLaughlin  

Author Elisa Magagna (E.C. Stilson) was once exorcised for having premarital sex, admid a spree of harmful messages. Since then, she’s learned to embrace her sexuality and pleasure of many kinds – through a journey that’s involved time as a homeless street musician, having five kids, finding true love and, a most recently, navigating a terminal illness.    Elisa's story sheds light on ways to manage during difficult times, the importance of keeping sexy sparks ignited when life gets tough and more. While you'll hear about some difficult topics in this episode, it also includes a lot of joy and laughter.    Learn more about Elisa’s work + order her books: ecwrites.net Follow her on Facebook: @realecstilson   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

When Mischa Byruck went to Burning Man in 2017, for the first time he felt as though “he wanted to be seen, naked, exhibitionistically, sexually.” He couldn’t have imagined just how that would play out…or where his dip into a particular sexy public display would lead.    Topics touched on in his story include rope bondage, a surprising and welcomed orgasm, homoerotic play and more!   You’ll also learn why exhibitionism is often considered part of female sexuality, reasons many people (of any gender) enjoy it and what Mischa most hopes to accomplish with his work as a men’s sexual integrity coach.   Learn more about Mischa’s work and sign up for his (all gender) group and individual offerings:  evolve.men  Beyond Consent   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Big Os that blew our minds! And then some... As shared with August at an event co-hosted by Sex-Positive Los Angeles called Donuts and Orgasm Stories – featuring Erin, Joe, Heidi, Norma, AP, Rachel and Kelsey, plus one of August’s own.   Highlights include:   A brussels sprouts-gasm Before and after menopause climaxes A first orgasm after years of sex-phobia The sexiness of “messiness” and safe exploration Leaning into your intuition for more pleasure What donuts and orgasms have in common   SPLA on Instagram: @SexPosLA   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin Event recordings featured in this episode were engineered by Makenzie Mizell.

Elizabeth Anne Wood’s mother, Judy, had been enjoying her sexual prime (that started in her 50s) when she was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Elizabeth’s memoir, Bound: A Daughter, a Domme, and an End-Of-Life Story, explores the last eight months of Judy’s life and highlights the importance of sex-positivity.    In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you’ll hear:   A few of Elizabeth’s childhood memories, including the “pecker head story” How Judy began to embrace kink, BDSM and Domme life How BDSM helped Judy navigate aspects of her cancer treatment What was missing, sexuality-wise, from Judy’s care How Elizabeth and Judy found moments of pleasure amid hardship Elizabeth’s relationship with Judy (and her ashes) since her death   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Sex advice from three awesome sex workers, including the personal experiences behind them! Inspired by a listener email and dedicated to LL’s mom.   Daisy Ducati @daisyducati    NatsHoney @natshoney   Steph Sia @strippedbysia   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio     This episode was produced by August McLaughlin and Makenzie Mizelle @sidneylaneishere  

Edwina started running sex toy parties nearly 30 years ago – and she’s seen a lot of change in the toys and people’s opinions about them. In this week's episode, she shares some of her wildest and most meaningful memories – basically a fun walk down Sex Toy Memory Lane! Plus tips for choosing the right toy for your needs or desires.   You’ll also hear:   Tips for getting started with sex toys A dildo story that put tears in August’s eyes Toy recommendations for clitoris bliss and longer-lasting erections Why Edwina “bought” her daughters their first orgasms Advice for raising pleasure-aware kids   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    Are you ready to feel more energized, focused, and supported? Go to lairdsuperfood.com/girlboner and add nourishing, plant-based foods to fuel you from sunrise to sunset.    More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio    

Vulnerability coach Rina Trevi grew up in Russia, with a lot of sexual repression. A journey into sky-diving, sex work, BDSM and Tantric massage in the U.S. and Thailand helped her reclaim her sexual self and inspired her to help others find similar pleasure and healing.   You’ll also learn: How BDSM may help heal trauma (and IRL examples) The role fantasies can play in fetishes and sexual healing How acting on a fantasy helped Rina heal a childhood wound How to safely and intentionally use vulnerability for better sex  Speaking with Rina brought August’s 2018 conversation with Kasia Urbaniak, who teaches women to reclaim their power, to her mind. So this episode also includes a throwback segment featuring “best of” highlights – and tips for feeling a greater sense of agency in tricky situations. Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    Are you ready to feel more energized, focused, and supported? Go to lairdsuperfood.com/girlboner and add nourishing, plant-based foods to fuel you from sunrise to sunset.        IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  

Can orgasms make or break a relationship? Learning to make sex pleasurable (for her) helped save Susan Bratton’s marriage and sex life. A toxic relationship led Emmi Fortin to her lengthiest climax, and kept her stuck on a poor-fit partner.    You’ll also learn:   How to experience hot, breakup-level sex without the heartache Clitoris tips for maximum bliss Why Emmi decided to openly write about her intimate experiences How Susan shifted from dissociation to presence during sex Ways to bridge an orgasm gap  (which are common for women and vulva owners in relationships with cis-men)  Tips for experiencing “female orgasms” from PIV sex Susan's expanded orgasm experience (which she teaches) A Tantric exercise that helped ease body shame How a photoshoot spurred intense self-pleasure   Check out Emmi’s memoir + watch the trailer: Who is Your Red Dress?  Download Susan’s Sex Life Bucket List    Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio    

Some spicy escapades are wilder than fiction! Have you ever had sex with a stranger, sex in a surprising place or and discovered a kink in public? Romance authors Karina Kennedy, Nana Malone and Sky Warren have, respectively. Hear about their experiences, some related advice and what to expect from their steamy books.    Get a bonus clip with more tips: patreon.com/girlboner   The erotic story, written by Sky Warren, was performed by voice over artist Rosa Delgado: rosamdelgado6@gmail.com   This episode is slightly updated from the original, which was released in August, 2021.   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin  girlboner  

https://augustmclaughlin.com/ashleigh-swing/Ashleigh Renard met her husband at 21 and, for years, thought she had an ideal life and marriage. When the pair decided to spice things up through sex parties and the swinging lifestyle, she faced ongoing problems for the first time.    Today, Ashleigh helps other couples keep monogamy hot, no parties or partner swapping required. So in addition to her personal journey, you’ll hear a few smart ways to accomplish just that.   Learn more about Ashley and order her memoir, Swing: a Memoir of Doing it All: ashleighrenard.com/links   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s latest specials!    More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin  girlboner  

Emily Gindlesparger was eight years into a relationship when her partner admitted having a crush on someone else. Her responsive tailspin of anxiety, jealousy and self-doubt led to curiosities about her own true desires and gradually stepping into them.    You’ll also learn:   How she and her partner navigated aspects of ethical non-monogamy, such as new relationship energy (NRE)  How embracing her queerness helped her feel more connected to her femininity Takeaways from one of her standout sexual experiences How (and why) she decided to come out to her parents about her polyamory Her advice on pursuing desires   Learn more about Emily: emilygindlesparger.com   Order her memoir, Please Make Me Love Me   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s Rookie Gift Guide!   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin  

Princessa Natasha Strange grew up on a farm in Oregon in the 70s, with no access to pop culture. Early on, she learned how to respond to schoolyard bullies in ways that foretold her future.   Her turbulent road to becoming a professional Dominatrix and femme-centric BDSM coach has been well worth it. And she has a lot to say about embracing your desires and cultivating confidence.    You’ll also learn:   Common motivations for cross-dressing When Natasha felt she was “selling herself” (hint: it wasn’t during sex work) How she became trauma-informed and why she’s passionate about working with femmes  How Natasha makes “anti-aging” decisions around things like Botox Why she has a “fear boner” around her upcoming offerings A recent time when August felt embarrassed, then realized she was just being herself A smart way to build confidence — can roleplaying help? An announcement about show changes, from August   Learn about Natasha and power exchange here and check out  her book, coaching and courses here.   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s Rookie Gift Guide!   More #GirlBoner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin

https://augustmclaughlin.com/mara-pup/Domina Mara, Professional Dominant and filmmaker, and her pup join August for another round of Sex Questions With…! Learn about Mara’s career, the pair’s Dominant/pup relationship and the group’s answers to steamy questions from listeners and the boardgame, “You Don’t Know My Life.”   Highlights include the “birds and the bees,” a squirting and multiple orgasm experience, extraordinary sex toys, lessons learned the hard way and more!   Explore Miss Mara’s work: DominaMara.com YouTube.com/DominaMara  Instagram.com/MaraDomina Twitter.com/MaraDomina   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s Pleasure Personality Gift Guides! thepleasurechest.com    Makenzie Mizell engineered the recording session for this episode.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio

Gwendolyn J. Bean had only dated women when her dating desires shifted. Amber Cantorna grew up in a conservative Christian home then fell in love with her female college roommate.    You’ll hear:   Gwendolyn and Amber’s coming out stories Their contrasting experiences regarding loved ones’ acceptance Advice for managing loneliness around your sexual orientation or desires  Who to come out to and when Rewards of sexuality/self-acceptance you can look forward to    You’ll also learn about Gwendolyn’s erotica story in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2, and what Amber most hopes readers will glean from her latest nonfiction book, Unashamed: A Coming Out Guide for LGBTQ Christians.   The interview with Amber Cantorna featured in this episode was released in full in May, 2019.   SPECIAL OFFERS:   Save 35% on the Vesper 2, elegant vibrator necklace and support Girl Boner at the same time (via a commission) here.   Check out The Pleasure Chest’s Pleasure Personality Gift Guides! thepleasurechest.com    Save 15% on awesome goodies  + support a great cause at musamasala.com.   MORE GIRL BONER FUN:    augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio

August is joined by friend and colleague, Makenzie Mizell, to discuss times they made sex or dating experiences awkward. You’ll also hear about listeners’ “OMG” dates and Makenzie’s latest (and spicy!) ventures.   Topics touched on include bodily functions, a gay ‘ol pickup line, a myth about female sexuality and male desires and more! You'll also hear about sexy gift ideas, available at The Pleasure Chest.   Learn more about Makenzie’s latest + support their work: periodpodcastnetwork.com onlyfans.com/sidneylane   Save 15% on awesome goodies  + support a great cause at musamasala.com!   Save 35% on the Vesper 2, elegant vibrator necklace and support Girl Boner at the same time (via a commission) here.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  August on Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin

Ever felt like you should be sex-ready when you're not? Or self-conscious about performing well in bed? Dr. Alison Ash is no stranger to pressure around sex and helps many folks find their way to more fun and fulfilling experiences. She also recently married her partner, Sebastian, and their love story is one for the books.   You’ll learn:   How the couple met and got engaged How they figured out their non-monogamy/monogamy styles during lockdowns Ways pressure has cropped up in their own relationship Dr. Aly’s advice about scheduling sex (and a better alternative) How sex-related pressure crops up in long-term relationships Ways to reduce pressure for more fun, pleasure and connection! . For info on Dr. Aly’s Sexual and Emotional Initmacy Skills Mastercourse, visit www.TurnON.love/intimacy  Instagram: @TurnON.love   Save 15% on awesome goodies  + support a great cause at musamasala.com!   This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/GIRLBONER and get on your way to being your best self.   Save 35% on the Vesper 2, elegant vibrator necklace and support Girl Boner at the same time (via a commission) here.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  August on Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Midway into their first dinner together, EF Dodd’s date pulled out something shocking. Kelly Reynolds got way more than she bargained for on a first date – and less than she deserved for a second.   You’ll also learn about the importance of creating sexy stories, in real life and fiction, and Kelly and EF’s new, spicy books!    Save 40% on the new Crave Vesper (elegant vibrator necklace) and support Girl Boner at the same time here. August will get a small commission if you use that link.   Sponsor specials:   Explore Prostate Toys for Movember at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com    More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  August on Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Niba went on a creepy date that could have gone far worse. Erik recalls being sexually assaulted by a ghost, and shares info about spectrophilia: sexual encounters with ghosts. Back by popular demand, in honor of Halloween! This episode mentions sexual assault and trauma. Please take care of yourself, first and foremost. Sponsor specials:   Explore Kinktober goodies at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com    Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER   Please seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  August on Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0  

Ask Girl Boner! It’s been a while since August fielded your sex questions, so she asked Ashley Cobb, sex-pert, writer and “your favorite friend in filth,” to help her answer a few of your steamiest.   You’ll learn about:   Toy alternatives when vibrators feel too intense Toys for clitoris and G-spot play Why some people enjoy being choked during sex Tips for a safe choking experience  Ashley’s “try it once” experience with choking What to do if you aren’t comfortable with a partner’s fetish Surprising and underrated kinks   Check out Ashley’s 30 Day Sex Challenge:  sexwithashley.com/product-page/the-30-day-sex-challenge   Sponsor specials:   This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. When you want to be a better problem solver, therapy can get you there. Visit BetterHelp.com/GIRLBONER today to get 10% off your first month.   Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER   Please seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  August on Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

When Tia Lynn found herself judging her dance instructor’s sexy moves, she knew she wanted to dig deeper. Investigating her beliefs helped her recognize the sexual expression she truly desired.    In this episode, you’ll learn:   What Tia learned about sex while growing up in Utah The basics of shadow work  What it was like for her to explore threesomes, sex parties and non-monogamy Different variations of ethical non-monogamy Tips for boosting your sexual confidence What Tia loves most about coaching women Throwback clips on confidence, featuring Skirt Club’s CEO Genevieve LeJeune and entrepreneur, Rubi Skilton Tia’s top pleasure tip that you can implement today!   Tia Lynn on Instagram: @sexybizbabe   Download Tia’s free workshop, “5 Steps to Mind-blowing Sex”   Sponsor specials:   Explore Kinktober goodies at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com    Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER Please seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0  

Jade Chang Sheppard was nearing 40 when she started wondering if she was living life to the fullest, including sexually. Was monogamy really her best option? Was she actually bi? Or kinky? What was group sex like?    Rather than seeing the exploration and life changes that followed as a crisis or breakdown, she’s embraced it all as a revolution.   You’ll also learn:   Ways ideas about female sexuality vs male sexuality can get in the way of exploring your kinks or fantasies (and what to do about that)   How to invite a sexual or mid-life awakening of your own   Why Jade started her company, Scarlet Society   Sponsor special:    Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER   Seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

John Kim and Vanessa Bennett are therapists and coauthors of, It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better. They’re also a couple, who met at a time when neither was anticipating life changing love.  Learn how they came together, what made the start of their relationship rocky, how they navigate sexual desire and flirting differences and what they want us all to know about relationships. Instagram: @theangrytherapist @vanessasbennett     Sponsor offers:   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Free, discreet shipping through September: thepleasurechest.com Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER   Seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

To celebrate With Pleasure’s release anniversary, August shares her behind-the-scenes conversation with coauthor Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT from last year. You’ll also hear pleasure practices of people featured in the book in their own voices - from solo play and feeling present during sex to relaxing ways to ease into intimate time. Keep listening after the episode for a special bonus from the archive! Learn more about the interviewees’ work: Jamila on Instagram: @jamila.thesextherapist Jazz: jazzgoldman.com Taylor: taylorliannechandler.com Kimleigh: kimleighsmith.com Jean: seeksafely.org   This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. When you want to be a better problem solver, therapy can get you there. Visit BetterHelp.com/GIRLBONER today to get 10% off your first month.   Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER   Please seek approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting a supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Lynn Sally was always a bit of a wild child, but she also went to a Catholic high school where sex education was virtually MIA. Today she’s an author, scholar and burlesque performer, known as Dr. Lucky. Learn about her journey into the artform that celebrates and explores female sexuality, examines gender roles and more – plus empowering ways to benefit from stripping in your own life.   Neo-Burlesque: Striptease as Transformation by Lynn Sally   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Free, discreet shipping through September: thepleasurechest.com This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. When you want to be a better problem solver, therapy can get you there. Visit BetterHelp.com/GIRLBONER today to get 10% off your first month.   Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER   August recommends seeking approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting any supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  

Tika Thorton grew up in S. Los Angeles, where she was swept into a world of sex trafficking and manipulation. Today she’s an advocate who helps fellow survivors and fights to end the human trafficking crisis. Hear Tika’s story, as well as insights for a listener who wanted to support his girlfriend as she manages her own sexual trauma.   Tika’s TEDx Talk   Human trafficking resource guide   Domestic Violence Support + hotline: 800.799.SAFE (7233)   The interview featured in this episode was recorded in 2017. Hear the full, unedited version and August and Dr. Megan’s thoughts for listener, Jeff, via patreon.com/girlboner   Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER   August recommends seeking approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting any supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Eleanor grew up learning that sexual pleasure is intended only for marriage. Now in her late 40s and peri-menopausal, she’s experienced surprising changes in her sexual desires. Meanwhile, she’s making way for body confidence and empowerment for her daughters – with hopes that they won’t experience the shame or related difficulties she did earlier on.   Explore the latest Pleasure Chest specials: thepleasurechest.com   Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER   August recommends seeking approval from your doctor or dietitian before starting any supplement, especially if you have a medical condition or take other supplements.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   Support the show + get  fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Pretty often, disinterest in sex has little to do with actual sex. August shares five ways to boost your desire, guiding with excerpts from past interviews and an excerpt from her Girl Boner book.   This episode features insights from: JoEllen Notte Robyn Goldberg, RD Pamela Joy Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT   Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Just visit: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER   Visit magicspoon.com/GIRLBONER  to grab a variety pack of Magic Spoon, and use the promo code GIRLBONER at checkout to save $5.   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   Support the show + get  fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

A woman who invented a product to make oral play more fun, an almost psychedelic oral sex experience, why some folks aren’t comfortable with oral and tips for upping the ante if you enjoy it! August shares highlights from past interviews on all-things-oral, plus related tips and excerpts from her Girl Boner book.   This episode features Melanie Cristol, founder and CEO of Lorals, authors Lauren Emily and Beverly Diehl and Dr. Megan Fleming.   Support Beverly as she navigates breast cancer treatment: caringbridge.org/visit/bevscancerbattle2022   Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Just visit: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER   Visit magicspoon.com/GIRLBONER  to grab a variety pack of Magic Spoon, and use the promo code GIRLBONER at checkout to save $5.   Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   Support the show + get  fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Amanda had dated more than 100 men before acknowledging her addiction to longing for unavailable mates. With the help of therapy, she was able to break-up with longing and end the virgin identity that had defined much of her adulthood.   Today the accomplished writer has a lot to say about “saving sex” – or different parts of it – including potential benefits of her own path, one thing she wishes she could change and why voluntarily celibate folks are worthy of respect.   Follow Amanda on Instagram @amandajmccracken and check out her podcast, The Longing Lab.   Athletic Greens is offering you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Just visit: athleticgreens.com/GIRLBONER   Visit magicspoon.com/GIRLBONER  to grab a variety pack of Magic Spoon, and use the promo code GIRLBONER at checkout to save $5.   Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   Support the show + get  fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Did you know that horniness is one of hundreds of reasons folks feel motivated to have sex? It’s not even the most common. Understanding your own desire and creating what sex and relationship therapist Cyndi Darnell calls your erotic template can help you cultivate an erotically charged sex life, whether you’re single or partnered.    Learn about common libido myths, the difference between responsive and spontaneous desire, the role somatics can play in desire challenges and more.   Save 30% on your copy of Sex When You Don’t Feel Like It: The Truth About Mismatched Libido and Rediscovering Desire at cyndidarnell.com/books.   Visit magicspoon.com/GIRLBONER  to grab a variety pack of Magic Spoon, and use the promo code GIRLBONER at checkout to save $5.   Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   Support the show + get  fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0  

Brooke Hazen struggled with porn-induced erectile dysfunction and a misdiagnosis after decades of unhealthy porn use. Erica Garza recalls being equally addicted to porn and shame, starting at age 12. Both folks are in a far better place now and hope their stories encourage others to feel less alone.   Learn more:  brookehazen.com   ericagarza.com For the next 10 days, you can get 40% off your subscription Simply go to magicmind.co/boner and enter the code boner at checkout. After 10 days, you can still save 20% on your first purchase! Get a soothing dose of nature by ordering Ontario Wildlife Photography by Noah Cole!  More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   Support the show + get  fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Edging, faking it, sexy stories, toys! August shares highlights from her March 2020 studio session with author Autumn Bardot and listener, Kate, plus bonus tips.    You’ll hear about:   A myth involving orgasms and having a baby Reasons some people fake orgasms (they’re not all bad!)  How to edge your way to stronger orgasms How to get there more efficiently when sex feels “too long” How fantasies we don’t act on can be helpful Problems with aging-related sex myths - and strengthening alternatives A disability-related orgasm myth, thanks to Sammy Rei Schwarz    Check out Ontario Wildlife Photography by Noah Cole    Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest and the We-Vibe Date Night Special Edition Couple's Vibrator Set!   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio   Support the show + get  fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0  

Elizabeth Ruzzo, PhD thought her depression symptoms had to do with grad school stress, especially when her doctor seemed unconcerned. Going off of her birth control paired with her ongoing genetic studies led to a lightbulb moment: what if scientific data could help prevent birth control side effects?    Now, as the CEO and founder of adyn, Elizabeth and her team strive to make getting the birth control you need—without the hassle of side effects—more accessible.    Listen to past income reports on Cubicle to CEO and receive free access to “your first $10K month” masterclass and a bonus workbook here: zen.ai/girlbonerceo Learn more about “Ontario Wildlife Photography” and order your copy at greenravenphotography.com More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner    Support the show + get  fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Writer, performer and producer, Judy Calabrese took a chance on being a switch and ended up gaining far more pleasure than she’d anticipated. Certified sex educator and sex worker, Elle Stanger, learned something new about her body during an impromptu experience in a gay bar bathroom.    Topics you’ll hear about:   Dominatrix work and BDSM, as a newbie Erotic spanking  Squirting, aka “she-jaculation” or “female ejaculation” Sex work, including an important myth set straight   Check out Judy and Elle’s stories in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2: 69 Sexy Stories: https://bit.ly/3bgQG9k - edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel   Listen to past income reports on Cubicle to CEO and receive free access to “your first $10K month” masterclass and a bonus workbook here: zen.ai/girlbonerceo   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner    Support the show + get  fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

What changed sex for you for good? What’s your favorite sex story to tell? Or most embarrassing mishap? Comedians and hosts of Trailer Park Diaries, Vicki Barbolak (America’s Got Talent) and Shawn Pelofsky (The Comedy Store), join August to explore these questions and more—with the help of a popular sex toy and Esther Perel’s game, Where Should We Begin.    Listen to past income reports on Cubicle to CEO and receive free access to “your first $10K month” masterclass and a bonus workbook here: zen.ai/girlbonerceo   Check out the latest specials (and LeWand) at The Pleasure Chest!   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner    Support the show + get  fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Makenzie Mizell engineered the recording session for this episode at the Period studio.    Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

In this Girl Boner quickie, August explores skin-gasms then shares five smart and spicy ways to pleasure your biggest organ.   Listen to past income reports on Cubicle to CEO and  receive free access to “your first $10K month” masterclass and a bonus workbook here:  zen.ai/girlbonerceo   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Work with voice artist, Rosa Delgado: rosamdelgado6@gmail.com   Support the show + get a skin bliss Yes, No, Maybe list: patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner 

When Lucie Fielding was growing up, she didn’t have a word for queer, much less trans. While studying sexuality, they started to feel free to explore their gender in earnest, with empowering, pleasure-rich and life shifting results.   Today Lucie is a therapist and author of the award-winning book, Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments. And she has important advice for discovering more erotic possibilities in our lives.   Follow Lucie on Instagram: @sexbeyondbinaries   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner    Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Reina grew up on on the Bible Belt, where her abstinence-only sex ed left her with more questions than answers—especially once she developed crushes on girls. Farming helped her heal from an eating disorder, and becoming an adult content creator has helped far more than her financial woes.   In this episode, you’ll learn:   One of Reina’s most perplexing sex ed memories How she worked past body image challenges What (and who) inspired her to cam for the first time What she loves most about her work Her top advice for moving past sexual shame   Explore Reina’s work and join her community: linktr.ee/Make_it_reina   Save 20% on Magic Mind: magicmind.co/boner   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest: thepleasurechest.com   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner    Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0  

Jessie Fresh was in her early 20s when she realized that silence was her main sex educator. After a mid-coital wakeup call and two relationships—one with sexual chemistry, one with only emotional sparks—she sought ways to cultivate the richer relationships and sexual experiences she desired.     Discovering the Erotic Blueprints changed everything for her. (And they may do the same for you!) Today, as a sex and intimacy coach, Jessie helps others find similar pleasure, self-embracement and empowerment.   In this #GirlBoner episode, you’ll learn about:   Jessie’s personal journey to richer sex and intimacy What the 5 Erotic Blueprints are Hot versus buzzkill ways to start sex for each type   Learn more and take the Erotic Blueprint Quiz at jessiefresh.com.    Jessie on Instagram: @jessiefresh   Save 20% on Magic Mind: magicmind.co/boner   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner    Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Phone sex operator Amberly Rothfield had just gone through a several-month sex hiatus when she experienced an orgasm that changed her life. Author Dr. Samantha Allen had started to think orgasms were no longer a part of her life when, two years after sex-reassignment surgery, one surprised her. Therapist Vanessa Marin experienced her first orgasm as a child, only to struggle in the climax department years later. You'll also hear: A few ways what we learn about female sexuality and women's orgasms can impact pleasure Why the "watch pot never boils" stance could stand in the way of your Os A common myth about gender and sexuality The original version of this episode was released in October, 2020.  Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0

Do socks play a role in sex? Does size matter with pegging? How can we invite more pleasure? Hear some of the worst and best sex advice several experts have ever heard, plus a few of August’s favorite sex tips from previous interviews and episodes.   Learn more about the experts featured in this episode: augustmclaughlin.com/sexadvice    Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Save 15% at Lumisque Skincare with code girlboner: https://co2lift.com/   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner 

Fiona Dawson grew up in a semi-sex-positive home, and didn’t question her orientation until she fell in love with a woman. Coming out as gay felt fairly easy to her. Coming out as bi was another story…    Now an Emmy-nominated, award-winning filmmaker and author of the forthcoming book, “Are Bisexuals Just Greedy?,” Fiona aims to un-f*ck gender and sexuality for a more harmonious world.    You’ll also learn about:   Fiona’s sexual “firsts” and a few from listeners The difference between bisexual and pansexual What Fiona’s female gender identity means to her Fiona’s “blow job learning curve” (and her related book dedication) Why it’s pretty common for people assigned female at birth not to enjoy going down on a penis   Learn about Fiona Dawson’s work: freelionproductions.com   Fiona on IG: fionajdawson and @nowwithfiona   Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner    Makenzie Mizell engineered the interview session for this episode at the Period studio: periodpodcastnetwork.com    Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

When award-winning journalist Rachel Krantz started dating non-monogamous Adam, she thought she might finally break her pattern of short-lived, suffocating relationships. Once gaslighting ensued, she found herself stuck in a new set of problems. Rachel finally found healing and liberation and shared her story in the memoir, Open.    You’ll also learn:   How non-monogamy helped Rachel explore her queerness Her advice on relationship/sexual desires versus societal “shoulds” How her reporter’s mind led to a unique exploration of gaslighting What’s most help her find healing   Learn more about Rachel: racheljkrantz.com    Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner 

August shares the experience that helped inspire all-things-Girl Boner and why she no longer considers herself a “late bloomer.”   Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner

Allison Hope made a bet with a friend to see who could orgasm first, explored her sexuality in New York City’s queer community and realized her sex limits during a salacious week on Fire Island—all before meeting her now wife. In the past few years, they’ve navigated very different libidos.    You’ll also learn:   Two ways perimenopause can impact sexual desire How Allison’s journey and erotica writing interplay What inspired Allison to write “The Phallacy”    Allison’s articles and essays: urbaninbreeding.com   Read Allison’s story in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel: https://bit.ly/3CAQJqg   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   More GirlBoner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner/  

Rose Caraway had just launched her erotica podcast when she received an email from a listener with a compelling request: Would she share a story about cuckolding? That question, paired with a book she considers a “cuckolding bible,” led her down a spicy and loving path—after some mixed feelings.    You’ll also learn about:   Cuckolding basics Cuckolding tips for beginners How you can engage in it while staying sexually monogamous Important perks of erotica The parts of Rose’s story in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 that were inspired by IRL experience   The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel: https://bit.ly/3CAQJqg   Kiss Me Quick’s Erotica Podcast   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Check out August’s books, including Girl Boner, Girl Boner Journal and her latest, co-written by Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships: augustmclaughlin.com/books IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner

Suzannah Weiss was already writing about sex and relationships when she began a mission to experience orgasm during partnered sex. Judy Calabrese never expected to go down a lust-filled path with her doula—but sometimes, things…happen.   Suzannah Weiss: suzannahweiss.com   Judy Calabrese: judycalabrese.com   The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel: https://bit.ly/3CAQJqg   Explore the Pleasure Chest’s Wanderful World collection!   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Check out August’s books, including Girl Boner, Girl Boner Journal and her latest, co-written by Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships: augustmclaughlin.com/books   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner   

Veronica Grant had her sights set on lasting love from early on. After a spree of mismatches and breakups, she learned what real emotional availability looks like—which made way for deep love.    Today she’s a life and love coach, and the author of the new book, You Are Meant For Love: A No-Nonsense Guide To Help Smart, Successful Women Attract High Quality Partners and Real Love.   This episode explores Veronica’s personal journey, from what she learned about sex and romance early on to ways she later used sex to save relationships and the heartache that finally prompted her to seek healing. Plus, what one relationship taught her about her sexuality, which brought her a lot of comfort and confidence.   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Check out August’s books, including Girl Boner, Girl Boner Journal and her latest, co-written by Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships: augustmclaughlin.com/books

If you’ve used sex toys, you probably have memorable sex toy stories. Hear several from listeners, as well as Andrew Gurza and Heather Morrison of Bump’n—plus how these two siblings ended up launching an accessible sex toy company, with a mission that goes beyond the toy itself.   Learn all about Bump’n and preorder the Joystick: getbumpn.com   Check out the “Picture This” documentary on Prime.   Explore the Pleasure Chest’s Spring Fling collections!   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest:  zen.ai/girlbonerradio   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   This episode features voice artists Rosa Delgado and Loquiverba! Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc.

Beverly Diehl felt somewhat relieved when she was diagnosed with breast cancer, a disease she expected to develop at some point. What she didn’t anticipate was the profound impact a boudoir photoshoot would have on her body image and sense of sexiness.    In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you’ll hear excerpts from August’s 2019 conversation with Beverly, plus tips for planning your own sensual shoot.    A transcript and a few photos from Beverly’s shoot: augustmclaughlin.com/blog   Beverly’s Great Sluts of History series on Medium: writerbeverly.medium.com   Beverly’s memoir: Sex, Drugs, Rock ‘n Roll & a Tiara   Nick Holmes’ photography   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest: zen.ai/girlbonerradio   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner  

Rebekah Buege was once shamed for her inability to orgasm with a particular partner. That relationship brought body image issues to the surface. Navigating the challenges led her to more pleasure and confidence, as well as her career.    A few things you’ll learn:   How Rebekah dealt with orgasm challenges and her partner’s shaming—and how she’d dealt with a similar occurrence more recently   A common myth about the female orgasm and vulva owner / women's sexuality   Her top advice for starting to cultivate body confidence   Ways body fixation can take away from sexual pleasure   Some of August’s tips for reducing negative body thoughts, and the role sex might play (including a little excerpt from her Girl Boner book)   Explore the Pleasure Chest’s Best Couples Vibe collection!   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest:  zen.ai/girlbonerradio   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Learn more: augustmclaughlin.com 

CK Love thought she was finally “fully open” in her sensuality when a breakup prompted her to dig deeper. Babe West has flourished since entering the porn industry for work that varies greatly from her survival sex work earlier on.   Learn more about this episode’s guests: CK Love: restlessspiritproductions.com Babe West: thebabewest.com   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest:  zen.ai/girlbonerradio   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc. Learn more: augustmclaughlin.com  IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin

Pleasure, connection, mindblowing sex! Frank Wiegers grew up during World War II, in a sexually repressive environment. Today, the former fighter pilot and Vietnam War veteran embraces “magical sex,” and teaches others how to invite and make the most of the same.   In addition to Frank’s personal journey, you’ll learn:   What “magical sex” is, including 4 stages Activities that can deepen pleasure and connection How (and why) to apply sex magick after sex A ritual Frank and Judith practice to keep the spark alive   Learn more about Frank’s work: themagicalsexbook.com   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or “girlbonerradio” at checkout)   Join August’s community: patreon.com/girlboner     IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc.  

After a difficult pregnancy, traumatic childbirth and near death experience, Renée Schuls-Jacobson endured “next level insomnia.” Little did she know the dark places her attempts to feel better would lead.    For seven years she took medications as prescribed, not realizing the drug was intended for short-term use or that she’d grown dependent. Meanwhile, she tried to make her marriage, which lacked sexual chemistry, work. Renée's story is also one of hope, healing and vibrancy—including re: her Girl Boners. ;)   This episode contains mentions of traumatic events and suicidal ideation. If you’re struggling with such thoughts, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255   Explore or purchase Renée artwork: rasjacobson.store   Order Psychiatrized: Waking up after a Decade of Bad Medicine   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here or here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3    Join August’s community: patreon.com/girlboner     Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia  Facebook: @MyGirlBoner  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

Emotional connection before sexual chemistry, love without the heirarchy and more! August shares highlights from her 2019 conversation with Carolina Hoyos, an Afro-Indigenous (Quechua-Kichwa) actor, playwright, director, songwriter and voice artist.    You’ll learn about:   Carolina’s sexual empowerment journey Common myths about demisexuality Common myths about bisexuality Carolina’s coming out (to family) story The importance of queer represention in films and TV   Check out Carolina’s film and festival: Indigiqueer Identity: Reclaiming Past, Present, and Future   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here or here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3   Join August’s community: patreon.com/girlboner     Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Facebook: @MyGirlBoner Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

Author Kandi Steiner was leaning toward no more casual sex when an experience with a friend bolstered that decision. She now creates female characters who voice their desires. Adult star turned author, Logan Pierce, learned similar lessons the hard way. And erotic fiction can help inspire steamier experiences. Take it from writer and editor, Rachel Kramer Bussel.   A few more things you’ll learn about:   Communicating your desires Accepting sex-related feedback (with a throwback clip featuring Logan PIerce) Spicy and empowering perks of erotica    Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here!    Books by Kandi Steiner   Between the Sheets: Rise of a Working Stiff    Best Women's Erotica of the Year, Volume 7    The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2: 69 Sexy Stories   Join August’s community: patreon.com/girlboner     Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Facebook: @MyGirlBoner Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

After using dating apps for 10 years, author Shani Silver gave them up and gained surprising, life-shifting rewards. Therapist Kerry Cohen has learned to navigate life and relationships while managing sex and love addiction, terms that remain common and controversial.    A few things you’ll learn about:   What finally prompted Shani to give up dating apps Her advice for anyone feeling miserably dependent on them A perspective shift she recommends for embracing single-hood When Kerry’s struggles with sex and love emerged A few reasons “sex and love addiction” termonology is controversial, and why Kerry believes that’s a good thing  How messaging around sex, love and romance make romantic and sexual compulsions trickier, and how those messages affect us all   Check out A Single Revolution, by Shani Silver, and Crazy for You, by Kerry Cohen   Save 30% on your first three of Zencastr here!    Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Join August’s community: patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Dr. Heather Bartos was well into her career when her husband stopped desiring sex. Navigating a sexless marriage opened up old wounds and led her to look deeply at her sex-related beliefs.    A few more things you’ll learn about:   What Dr. Bartos learned about sex growing up in the ‘80s in Texas The most common sex-related challenge she hears about in her office 5 factors that fuel low sexual desire in anyone, men and penis-havers included Benefits of embracing your sexuality as your own—plus an important way to do so    Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here! (Open in Chrome.)   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Sign up for occasional email updates from August   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.   

Why resolve to something diminishing when you can set your sights on something spicier? Dr. Sakshi Tickoo, a queer, Brown, chronically disabled occupational therapist and a sexuality counselor who's based in Mumbai, India, joined August to explore smart sexuality aspirations to consider as we move toward 2022.    A few things you’ll learn about:   How (and why) to create a pleasure toolkit Sex goals set by listeners Benefits of exploring a new sexual practice, such as rope play or BDSM An exercise for building body confidence A toy you might LOVE, from The Pleasure Chest   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   Sign up for (very) occasional email updates from August   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Dr. Jordin Wiggins grew up in a small Canadian town where her sex education involved, “don’t do it.” Later on, after setting her sights on a fulfilling sex life, she lost her libido twice. She found her way back and now teaches other women and vulva owners to never settle for bad sex and to value their pleasure and desires.    You’ll learn about:   The importance of understanding your (or a partner’s) menstrual cycle  Cycle awareness as part of non-hormonal birth control Why some folks end up making to-do lists during sex Common barriers around female sexuality Benefits of shifting sex from a “should” to personal pleasure August’s top tips for better connecting with your sexuality Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Picks - sexy gift ideas!

Nadia North grew up in Wisconsin and considers herself a late bloomer in the sex department. When she met and entered a relationship with porn legend, Peter, she had no idea how abusive he would become.    Seth S. grew up as a highly sensitive kid in California, where he endured a sexual assault from an older boy. For years, that abuse affected his beliefs about male sexuality.   Nadia is early in her healing journey and Seth is well into his. Both are speaking out in hopes that their stories and the lessons they’ve learned will have a positive impact on others.    A few more things you’ll learn about:   What “love bombing” entails How being a highly sensitive person (HSP) has impacted Seth’s PTSD and how how’s grown to embrace his sensitivity What’s most helped Nadia and Seth manage trauma while cultivating pleasure A grounding exercise from With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships Follow Nadia North on Twitter Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Sign up for (very) occasional email updates from August    

Lisa and Mike attended an upscale sex party at the Bocanegra Club that challenged beliefs they had about such parties and taught them important lessons. Journalist Ryn Pfeiffer took a Bodysex workshop that led to an orgasmic retreat and weekly self-pleasure circles.   Learn more about Bocanegra Club.   Follow Ryn on Instagram (@Ryn_says) or work with via Sextpanther.    Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Explore Dr. Megan’s Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks    Find safer sex tips during COVID here.   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Sign up for (very) occasional email updates from August: augustmclaughlin.com/  

Eroticism, pleasure, growth! Rae McDaniel, a non-binary gender and sex therapist-turned-coach, went from growing up in a conservative Christian community to embracing their queerness and finding erotic bliss in an unexpected place. They now support others on similar journeys.   A few more things you’ll learn about:   Rae’s journey through painful sex Gender stereotypes that stand in the way of sexual pleasure Ways to unlock your erotic mind  Common pleasure barriers folks in the LGBTQIA+ community face Problems with talking about “feminine/masculine energy”  An exercise for feeling more connected with your intimate self   Check out the November specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Explore GenderFck resources   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner    

Kristopher Lovestone grew up learning a lot about menstruation, later earned his “red wings” and now has strong feelings about period sex. Makenzie Mizell has had many ups and downs with her periods, including a form of sexual freedom and relationship (red and green) flags.   A few more things you’ll learn about:   How folks August surveyed about period sex feel about it Valid reasons folks avoid or embrace period sex Hematolagnia, or blood play Info for anyone concerned about going down on someone who’s menstruating A few ways to make period sex more fun What conversations about period sex can tell you about a relationship Why Kristopher wrote his book, The Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual for Men Why Makenzie named her podcast network, Period, and why you should check out Tinsel Town Tea!   Pay What You Want for the Netflix of P*rn, aka Bellesa Plus: bplus.co/girlboner    Support the show + get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner     SIgn up for (very) occasional email updates: augustmclaughlin.com   

Niba went on a creepy date that could have gone far worse. Erik recalls being sexually assaulted by a ghost, and knows a lot about spectrophilia: sexual encounters with ghosts.    To hear August's full, unedited conversation with Erik and takeaways from Niba’s over 200 first dates, join the Girl Boner community on Patreon, where you’ll get exclusive access to archived interviews, bonus segments, Ask Me Anything chances and more! patreon.com/girlboner     Celebrate Kinktober with The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com/   SIgn up for (very) occasional email updates: augustmclaughlin.com   

Guiding with excerpts from Girl Boners gone by (past interviews), August explores important facts, common myths and pervasive challenges involving the Big O.    A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   An orgasm issue that's frequently discussed in sex therapy The fluidity of orgasms Orgasms as an active versus passive process Accessories that can bolster orgasmic bliss   Learn more about the featured guests:   Deborah Kagan:  Books, masterclass and more: https://www.deborah-kagan.com/   Shadeen Francis: Live Q&A sessions: shadeenfrancis.doyoumined.com Newsletter signup for special content, events and resources: shadeenfrancis.com    Vanessa Marin: E-courses and more: https://vmtherapy.com   Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ   Support the show and get fun extras!  patreon.com/girlboner     Order Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment: augustmclaughlin.com/books  

Author Sarah Fader was perplexed about sex early on, but she now finds solace and confidence in her sexuality. She also manages multiple mental health conditions and writes books and articles aimed at helping others better thrive.    A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   How sex can be nourishing when you’re stressed, anxious or depressed (and not wanting sex is just fine and common, too!) How focusing on someone else’s pleasure helps Sarah in the orgasm department 3 ways mental health can interplay with sex and sexuality Sarah’s top sex tips Her advice for anyone struggling with their mental health Dr. Megan Fleming’s Pleasure Pick for October!   Follow us on Twitter: @TheSarahFader  @AugstMcLaughlin  @MeganFlemingPhD Save 30% on the Coral app: trycoral.app/new-coralers   Celebrate Kinktober with The Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com/  

Frances, aka “Captain Awkward,” and content creator, Andrew Gurza, journeyed into careers involving sex and other stigmatized topics. Learn how Dripstick, which went viral on TikTok, came to be and what it’s like to speak openly and perform in porn as a queer, disabled person.    Follow us on Instagram: @awkwardessentials @andrewgurza_ @girlbonermedia    Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ   Support the show and get fun extras!  patreon.com/girlboner     Sign up for (very) occasional email updates from August:  Augustmclaughlin.com    

Solo play, spicy bits, releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and Niba of The Feminist Book Club community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story.   Follow us on Instagram: @feministbookclubbox @notesbyniba @girlbonermedia    Shop at The Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com/   Support the show and get fun extras!  patreon.com/girlboner     Sign up for occasional email updates from August:  Augustmclaughlin.com   Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ  

Alicia Davon was studying psychology when she met Erwan, a man who was teaching workshops about the “extended orgasm.” She’s since become a relationship coach who teaches others all about this sensual practice.   A few things you’ll learn about:   Alicia’s first experience with extended orgasm How extended orgasms differ from traditional orgasms How Alicia and Erwan became more than acquaintances The stages of sexual arousal, according to Masters and Johnson Tips for getting started with extended orgasms Alicia’s biggest takeaway from the practice   Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ   Intro to Extended Orgasm online class Oct 23rd:   https://www.eventbrite.com/e/154293964401   Free Love Life Consultation:  Text 415 308 9580 or here!    Support the show and get fun extras!  patreon.com/girlboner     Explore the blog:  augustmclaughlin.com Follow along on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter. 

A few things you’ll learn about:   How submission and powerfulness aren’t mutually exclusive! The pitfalls and pleasures of hers-and-hers squirting What it was like for Liz to pass as straight Ways sexual self-discovery and embodiment can enhance your life   Learn more about Lee Noto:  https://www.leenoto.com  Becomethehighpriestess.com   Learn more about Liz Asch and Your Salt on My Lips: https://lizasch.com/salt-lips   Shop at The Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com/   Support the show and get fun extras!  patreon.com/girlboner     Check out With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships:  augustmclaughlin.com/with-pleasure   Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ  

A few things you’ll learn about:   How With Pleasure came together, and turned into a “very meta” experience How Jamila came up with the title that stuck Why pleasure practices are important during difficult times  What “bodily divergence” means, in terms of sex and pleasure The importance of community while managing trauma Real pleasure practices, from several survivors featured in the book!   Order With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships   Follow Jamila on Instagram: @jamila.thesextherapist Learn about her therapy practice: fireandflowtherapy.com Learn more about the featured interviewees’ work:   Jazz: https://jazzgoldman.com Taylor: https://www.taylorliannechandler.com Kimleigh: http://kimleighsmith.com Jean: https://www.seeksafely.org   Check out books that Robert and Hannah found helpful for healing: The Courage to Heal, by Ellen Bass The Dance of Anger, by Harriet Lerner I Thought We’d Never Speak Again: The Road from Estrangement to Reconciliation, by Laura Davis   Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ  

A few things you’ll learn about:   What the Clit Talk gals learned about sex early on The difference clitoris type and size make in pleasure How to give or receive more clitoral pleasure What you can expect from the Clit Talk crew’s sexual empowerment course Empowering sex tips from Lindsey, Katie and Sugar   Shop at The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com/   Support the show and get fun extras!  patreon.com/girlboner     Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ  

A few things you’ll learn about:   A condition that can be a natural part of aging What makes penile symptoms signs of a “disorder” The basics of Balanitis, Priapism, Paraphimosis, Peyronie’s disease, premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction  How porn use fueled Gabe Deem’s ED  How Peyronie’s disease impacted Don Cummings’ relationship with his partner and sense of self What inspired Dr. Gabal to become a urologist    Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ   Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner    

Anal sex can be awesome with some smart planning. In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you’ll learn:   Differences between anal sex in porn and in real life Ways to ensure cleanliness, especially if you're nervous about poo Painful mistakes to avoid Tips for maximizing pleasure and choosing an ideal toy More!   Check out the featured guests’ work:   https://www.instagram.com/therealvickichase/ https://lunamatatas.com https://www.twogirlsonemic.com/   Shop the Anal Toy collection at The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com/anal-toys Support the show and get fun extras, including access to August’s full, unedited conversation with Vicki Chase: patreon.com/girlboner     Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ  

Some sexual escapades are wilder than fiction! In this “OMG” sex stories edition, August shares the voices and stories of three accomplished romance authors.   In addition to the titillating stories, you’ll learn:    Tips for dating or hooking up while traveling Potential benefits of angry sex An erotic excerpt by Skye Warren, tied in to her IRL experience   This episode features the talents and work of voice over artist Rosa Delgado: rosamdelgado6@gmail.com   Check out the guests’ books:   https://www.karinakennedybooks.com https://nanamaloneromance.net https://www.skyewarren.com   Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner    

Do you ever find yourself thinking more about your appearance  than your own pleasure during sex? Or feel increasing pressure as time ticks by, wondering when you’ll finally reach orgasm?   If disruptive thoughts stand in the way of your or a partner’s pleasure, you’re not alone.  Learn more from Kara Loewentheil + join her community:  https://unfuckyourbrain.com/   Check out Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks    Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com   Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner  

This Girl Boner Radio episode celebrates some of Dr. Megan’s most popular and beloved advice and sex tips (aka “Megan-isms”) including ways to turn up the heat in a monogamous relationship, many of which can apply to other relationship styles as well.   You’ll also learn about:   Signs that it’s time to spice things up Scientific proof that many folks stay in love long-term Megan’s goal for her own relationship with her husband  A common belief that can interfere with relationship happiness The toughest part (plus good news!) about changing things up   To start better prioritizing your own pleasure, check out Dr. Megan’s FREE 9-day pleasure challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/desire/   Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ   Support the show and get fun extras, including a bonus segment (featuring a body-love activity) from Dr. Megan! patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com   

Sex is supposed to be noisy, unless silence is part of the fun or something you need for privacy. But what if a particular sound or bodily function makes you feel beyond embarrassed? Or if a partner hasn’t exactly welcomed your sounds?   This Girl Boner Radio episode features:   An “OMG” sex story from Olivia, a professional dancer and Co-Creative Director for Colors Only erotica books Ways to degasify beans, with August’s mom A throwback clip on sex sounds with Passion by Kait founder, Kait Scalisi, MPH Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who’s been feeling blah and disinterested in sex since shifting away from pandemic lockdowns    Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com   Check out Dr. Megan’s Rekindle Desire program: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/desire/   Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order: https://bit.ly/33z44hQ   Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com 

The clitoris is only “mysterious” because it’s been culturally ignored for so long. This week’s stories illustrate how mighty the clit truly is and how impactful it can be to discover and embrace it! You’ll also learn about ways to bring more pleasure to sex, two sex toys you may want to consider trying and some spicy game recommendations from Dr. Megan Fleming. A few things you'll learn about in the episode: Some clitoris and female sexuality history An author and educator's experience growing up with a gynecologist father, whose medical books were missing something important! The life change clitoral pleasure led to for a comedian August's orgasm MRI experience What intersex means and a common related myth Ways an author and intersex activist has benefited from not being non-consensually operated on - and important takeaways for us all How a media personality shifted from envying penis-havers to embracing her body more fully  The lube August is loving! Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order: https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Tracy’s Dog: https://tracysdog.com (This toy review was sponsored and honest!) Check out Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks Womanizer Eco at The Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com/womanizer-premium-eco-vibrator Learn more about this episode’s featured guests: Joan Price: https://joanprice.com Emma Arnold: https://www.emmaarnoldcomedy.com Jean Franzblau: http://www.jeanfranzblau.com Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com

A seemingly perfect date gone very wrong, powerful sex that involved no nakedness or penetration and a listener question on hands-free orgasms.   A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   Why we need to take care of ourselves after breakups The importance of feeling, rather than ignoring, our feelings The importance of feeling in your body, aka embodiment A simple breathing/energetic sex exercise A throw-back “think-gasm” story Hands-free orgasms tips Updated on 10-11-21: The original version of Dr. Megan’s clip in this episode included three paragraphs from an article, without credit. Find that article, written by science writer, Benjamin Taub, here: https://www.iflscience.com/brain/give-yourself-orgasm-using-only-mind/all/   Learn more about breathwork app and download the Pause Breathwork app at pausebreathwork.com/app.    Learn more about GS Youngblood at gsyoungblood.com.    Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com   Check out Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks    Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com   

Have you ever felt frustrated, alone, anxious or depressed while using dating apps? Or wondered why swiping has led to a lot more swiping than actual dates? If so, you’re far from alone and there are reasons (that have nothing to do with you!) for all of that.    While some people do find healthy, happy experiences and relationships through the apps, Nancy Jo Sales asserts that the big corporations running them are more interested in getting you hooked than finding lasting romance or love—and that using these apps is actually nothing like meeting someone in a bar (as many folks suggest), unless that bar were racist, transphobic and dangerous.   In her new memoir, Nothing Personal: My Secret Life in the Dating App Inferno, Nancy Jo shares her own experience using the apps starting at age 49 and investigates the impact of Big Dating. And she recently joined August to discuss its themes and happenings.   A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   A few of Nancy Jo’s sex and dating via app experiences, from funny, sicy and fun to dark and terrifying The harm these apps can do if you keep on swiping How “technoference” impacts intimacy and relationships The impact of sexualization of girls from a young age Why Nancy Jo decided to write such an open, honest book and what she hopes readers will glean from it   Learn more about Nancy Jo Sales: nancyjosales.com   Check out Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks    Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner     Sign up for occasional email updates or submit a question: augustmclaughlin.com   

If you’ve experienced unwanted pain during sex, you’re far from alone. Take it from psychologist Dr. Nazanin, who knows a great deal about it from personal and professional experience.   A few things you’ll learn in the episode:   What Dr. Moali learned about sex growing up in Iran  How sexual pain started impacting her life and relationship How she found her way to more pleasurable, adventurous sex How sex therapy changed her life  Common causes of sex-related pain Her advice for anyone going through similar sexual challenges   Learn more about Dr. Moali: https://sexologypodcast.com   Check out Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks    Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner     Sign up for occasional email updates or submit a question: augustmclaughlin.com   

Amy Baldwin and April Lampert weigh in on genital praising! A few things you’ll learn in the episode:   What Amy and April learned about sex early on How their paths met (Hint: it involved April spanking herself in a kitchen!) What genital/pussy/penis praising is  Benefits of this type of "dirty talk"/sexy talk Simple ways to get started  What to do if you feel pressured or obligated to have sex routinely, despite your health issues and lower libido   Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order here: https://bit.ly/33z44hQ   Check out Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks    Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner     Sign up for occasional email updates or submit a question: augustmclaughlin.com 

Did you know the first fairy tales were written by women as feminist critiques? Fairy tales of all kinds can influence what we believe and experience around sex and relationships. Take it from August, a power dynamics expert/former dominatrix and a giantess dominatrix with over 20 years of experience.     A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   The original fairy tales, which were written as feminist critiques of patriarchy  The storyline of the first fairy tale, by Baroness Marie Catherine d’Aulnoy How “Sleeping Beauty” parallels power struggles many women face today, with thoughts from Kashia Urbaniak How a Mother Goose story brought out kinky curiosity in Goddess Severa early on How Goddess Severa went from broke in NYC to a thriving dominatrix career, how her first session went down and what she loves about her work   Explore the Pride Month specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com   Checked out Dr. Megan’s Pleasure Picks! greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks    Support the show and get fun extras, including bonus content for this episode! patreon.com/girlboner    

Are you having the sex you desire, or has sex lost something over time - or perhaps seemed lacking to begin with? Ever wonder what actually happens in sex therapy?   Whether you’re having sex with a long-time partner(s) or having hookups, you have what Ian Kerner, PhD LFMT calls a sex script, both your own and one you co-create with your partner(s). And gaining awareness about your scripts can go a long way.   A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   Why Ian says to all of his sex therapy patients, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex (which is also the title of his new book!) What a sex scripts entails How David and Kate, a couple in their mid-30s, found their way to pleasurable sex by unpacking their personal histories How Jonathan and Chris, a couple in their 40s, saved their relationship and sex life by cultivating a “rec-relational” style Dr. Megan Fleming’s tips for finding an ideal therapist Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order here: https://bit.ly/33z44hQ   Check out Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks    Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner     Submit a question for August or Dr. Megan: augustmclaughlin.com/contact   Preorder With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, by Jamila Dawson and August McLaughlin https://www.chicagoreviewpress.com/with-pleasure-products-9781641605038.php?page_id=21  

Sophie Saint Thomas, journalist and author of Sex Witch: Magickal Spells for Love, Lust, and Self-Protection, grew up in a sex-positive household and now embraces witchcraft and science. And she has a lot to say about cultivating the sex and love life you desire. A few things you'll learn about in the episode: How a penis candle spell she performed panned out What "love spells" in general are really about A powerful way to use tarot cards (that doesn't involve fortune-telling) Why monogamy and polyamory aren't your only relationship choices and how to choose your best format Sophie's take on post-breakup revenge Dr. Megan and August's thoughts for a listener whose demisexual boyfriend doesn’t desire sex very often   Follow Sophie on social media: Twitter: @TheBowieCat  Instagram: @TheBowieCat   Celebrate Masturbation May with a new toy from The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com   Support the show and get fun extras, including bonus content for this episode! patreon.com/girlboner     Have you checked out Dr. Megan’s Pleasure Picks for May yet? greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks   

Interested in starting a self-pleasure practice or getting more out of your single or dating life? Dr. Megan Stubbs’, author of Playing without a Partner: A Singles’ Guide to Sex, Dating, and Happiness, has so much to say about all of this!   A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   What Dr. Megan Stubbs was surprised to learn about sex early on Beginner’s masturbation tips Why large dildos are so popular Casual sex tips and whether it’s smart to add your COVID vaccine status to your dating profile, with thoughts from Dr. Megan Fleming   Save 15%  at Promescent automatically at checkout by clicking this link: https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Support the show and get fun extras, including bonus content for this episode! patreon.com/girlboner 

“Claiming space is living your life unapologetically and bravely. And it sounds so much easier than it is.”  So says Eliza VanCort, and for good reason! The author, mentor and speaker speaks about her personal journey to claiming space and practical tips, particularly for women and anyone reared as a girl.   A few things you’ll learn in the episode:   Childhood experiences that made Eliza especially passionate about claiming space The role posture can play in self-confidence and perception A few wonky messages we learn about gender  How to claim space during sex Masturbation tips and products worth embracing   Learn more about Eliza VanCourt and her book: https://www.elizavancort.com   Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks    Celebrate Masturbation May with a new toy from The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Support the show and get fun extras, including bonus content for this episode! patreon.com/girlboner 

If you’ve struggled to ask for what you want sexually or aren’t even sure what to aim for, you are far from alone. Kait Scalisi, MPH, founder of Passion by Kait, grew up in a household where no conversation topics were taboo, but conflict was. She now helps others find freedom in pleasure.   A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:   Positive versus negative messages about sex and conflict Kait absorbed growing up Kait’s advice for figuring out what you actually want in bed Kait’s thoughts on listeners’ desires and how to bring them up A sex communication tip Kait feels is super impactful and underexplored  Why slipping out during sex happens and what to do about it   Learn more from Kait and her team and get awesome related resources at passionbykait.com!   Save 15% on your first order of lube, arousal gel, delay spray and more at Promescent with promo code august15! Delayspray.com   Check out Dr. Megan’s FREE pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure   Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Jordan Power discovered a family secret that changed the course of his life. Shana James realized she was bringing more to the bedroom than her body and desires. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener who’s curious about “dirty talk.” How can you get started, years into a relationship? Learn more about Jordan on Instagram: @jpowercomedy   Watch Shana’s TEDx Talk: shanajamescoaching.com "Get sprung" with spring specials at The Pleasure Chest!  thepleasurechest.com Check out Dr. Megan’s FREE pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Promescent CEO Jeff Abraham speaks about his sexual empowerment journey, benefits of delay spray and his top sex tips for men and couples!    A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   What Jeff learned about sex, growing up in the 1960s and ‘70s What led him from small town life to bigger pastures A few ways to keep sex exciting long term! How delay spray can help penis owners and their partners, whether they’re dealing with premature ejaculation (PE) or not Promescent’s mission and the tragedy that fuels Jeff’s work   Save 15% on your first Promescent automatically here!   Save $50 on Yarlap with promo code GB50! Learn more at greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks or yarlap.com.    For more Girl Boner fun, join August on Patreon: patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Desiree has lived with incontinence for about two decades, since age 6. She wanted to share her story with August because her symptoms have played a big role in her life, including her sexuality, relationships and self-esteem.    A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   Desiree’s experience with urinary incontinence, including challenges and ways she’s learned to manage How she navigates sexual intimacy amid her symptoms Facts about urinary incontinence, including the 4 types and how prevalent it is Awesome accessible toys/accessories, available at The Pleasure Chest Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Pick, Yarlap. Save $50 at checkout with the code GB50! greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks This episode features voice over artist Rosa Delgado: rosamdelgado6 at gmail dot com   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

Have you ever felt as though you’ve lost yourself or your confidence after a relationship? Or wondered how a romantic relationship that started out like a fairytale spiraled into lies, gaslighting and pain? If so, you may be one of the many people who’ve grappled with narcissistic abuse syndrome.    August has been there, as have numerous of her past guests. For this week’s episode, she explores the impact of narcissistic abuse with Dr. Kate Balestrieri, a sex therapist and psychologist who specializes in treating people on both sides of the equation.   A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   What Kate learned about sex and sexuality growing up Common signs of narcissistic abuse syndrome How gaslighting can impact sex and intimacy Kate’s thoughts for a listener whose controlling ex restricted sex and affection Dr. Megan’s thoughts for a listener who’s haunted by her ex’s “porn addiction” How trauma can impact sex and pleasure Important truths about healing from trauma A few powerful things healing can bring to our lives   Save 15% on your first order of lube, arousal gel, delay spray and more at Promescent with promo code august 15: delayspray.com   Check out Dr. Megan’s FREE pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure   Join August on Patreon to get an upcoming bonus episode on this topic and more!: patreon.com/girlboner     Instagram:  @themodernintimacy @drkatebalestrieri @GirlBonerMedia  @dr.megan.fleming   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber. Learn more and find lightly edited transcripts at augustmclaughlin.com.   

Self-love plays an important role in everything from pleasure and intimacy to our everyday interactions. But how do you cultivate it, especially when things feel difficult?    In this Girl Boner Radio episode, Mike Johnson, author of Making the Love You Want, speaks about his childhood, how he’s cultivated self-love and the impact self-love has had on his life. He also answers Girl Boner listeners’ questions, reflects on how he was depicted on The Bachelorette, and shares his top tips for sexual empowerment!   A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   Why Mike describes his mom as a shining star of resiliency, determination and persistence Gender roles Mike feels we should do away with, including personal examples from his life How Mike felt revealing the sexual assault he endured during childhood in Making the Love You Want The difficult breakup that brought Mike lengthy grief and how he found healing How he feels about how he was depicted on The Bachelorette Mike’s answers to listeners’ questions! Why he prefers the term “rising action” over “foreplay,” and how he defines it How self-love can enhance pleasure + tips for cultivating it from Dr. Megan Fleming   LEARN MORE:   Order a signed copy of Mike’s book at mikejohnsonsmile.com. Follow him on Instagram at @Mike_Johnson.   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com   Check out Dr. Megan’s FREE pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure   Join August on Patreon: patreon.com/girlboner  Show IG: @GirlBonerMedia    Read a lightly edited episode transcript: girlboner.org/mike-johnson   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

If you’ve ever had a one night stand and then felt like you shouldn’t talk about it, worried that you cared too much about sex outside of a relationship or acquired an STI from an abusive partner, you’re not alone. Ella Dawson experienced all of these issues and writes about them, both so she can process it all and to help others who relate.   A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:   Why Ella believes “casual sex” is a misnomer A few experiences from her life that illustrate major gaps in what we’re taught about physical intimacy outside of relationships The link between intimate partner abuse and STIs What you can get by joining Ella’s Patreon community! What to do when you start falling for your “friends with benefits” pal, with Dr. Megan Fleming   Join August on Patreon for GirlBoner extras: patreon.com/girlboner.    Join us on Instagram: @brosandprose  @GirlBonerMedia  @dr.megan.fleming    Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Ever wondered why sex used to feel easy and pleasurable and gradually, or suddenly, that stopped? Or wished you could experience orgasms or great sex in the first place?    Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, sex therapist and author of SEX POINTS, believes everyone who wishes to can have “rockin’ sex” and that all related challenges are surmountable. She spoke with August about her personal journey and lessons we can all learn from challenges she’s encountered in the lives of her clients, as well as her own.   A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:   Unforgettable sex-talk stories from Dr. Marcus’s childhood Why it’s important to consider sexual arousal, desire and functional challenges beyond the psychological Ways birth control can influence sexual desire and orgasms What many of us get wrong about fantasizing  The myth that women do better with monogamy than men Common factors that can lower what Dr. Marcus calls “sex points” What led her to “lose her orgasms” twice, and how she found her way back to that pleasure Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who wants to experience orgasm (and for her partner to, too) during intercourse, versus only through masturbation   Stream an exclusive bonus segment, and get more rewards, by joining August’s Patreon community: patreon.com/girlboner.    Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Free, discreet shipping over $75.   Join us on Instagram:   @drbatsheva  @GirlBonerMedia  @dr.megan.fleming @pleasurecheststores   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Does great sex start at 50? It sure can, according to Tracey Cox, a renowned bestselling author and expert about sex and relationships.    A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   What leads to sexlessness in relationships When to accept or change that dynamic Myths about sexless marriages How to talk about low sexual desire or frequency, even if years have passed without sex The truth about “lesbian bed death” How to fuel female sexual desire The role body image can play in pleasure and desire How Tracey went from high to low libido, then to some of the best sex of her life Her top advice for anyone struggling in these areas What struck Tracey most while completing Great Sex Starts at Fifty Dr. Megan Fleming’s Pleasure Pick of the Month! And how you can enter a very special giveaway.   Join August on Patreon at patreon.com/girlboner.    IG: @GirlBonerMedia   @traceycoxsexauthor   @dr.megan.fleming   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Curious about threesomes? Or ways to make your next one better?    Stella Harris, a Certified Intimacy Educator, Sex Coach and author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, is expert at ways to effectively become “a threesome person,” benefits of thoughtful threesomes and how to decide whether or not to bring this type of play into an existing relationship or your life in the first place.   A few things you’ll learn in the episode:   What many folks get wrong about threesomes Questions to consider before deciding on a threesome Why jealousy isn’t the worst thing (or unusual)  How intoxication can impact threesome play Ways to more comfortably ease into your first one Where to meet people for a threesome Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who’s struggling after a threesome didn’t go as she had hoped   Register for Stella’s book launch party with SheBop here!   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Free, discreet shipping over $75.   Join August on Patreon at patreon.com/girlboner.    Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.

Have you ever wondered if you orgasm “weird?” August hears about that a lot. The truth is, there are many ways of experiencing orgasm and all of those Os are valid.   A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:   First orgasm stories of Lynn Anderton, Dr. Lanae St. John and Jayne Renault, all of which took them by surprise 7 types of “female orgasms,” including sleep-gasms, back-gasms, cervical orgasm and more What we tend to get wrong when talking about “clitoral” and “vaginal” orgasms 3 types of orgasm penis owners may experience Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who wonders if using a vibrator consistently can make it difficult to climax without one   To support the show and get fun extras, join August on Patreon! patreon.com/girlboner.  

Have you ever felt let down because your partner doesn’t meet your expectations? Or wondered if you’re having enough sex?    Dr. Gary Lewandowski, psychologist and author of Stronger Than You Think: The 10 Blind Spots That Undermine Your Relationship...and How to See Past Them, has been studying relationships for years through his Relationship Science Lab. He’s also been featured by The New York Times, NPR, The Atlantic and Cosmopolitan. His empowering TEDx Talk, “Break-Ups Don’t Have to Leave You Broken,” has been viewed nearly 2 million times.   Dr. Lewandowski joined August recently to explore several common relationship myths that can really cause problems, if you buy into them—which is easy to do! He also shared his own love story, including how he met his wife, some of the challenges they’ve faced and signs they’re on the right track.   A few things you’ll learn in the episode:   The difference a maximizer and a satisficer in terms of relationships, and which is a better aim Why a “sex challenge” isn’t usually helpful What’s most important about your sex life for boosting relationship satisfaction A common misbelief about breakups  5 ways to heal and move on after a break up, with tips from Dr. Megan Fleming    Support the show and/or sponsors + have more fun:   Join August on Patreon! patreon.com/girlboner.    To up your sexual novelty game or invite more pleasure to your life, explore the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com.   Save 25% on Dr. Megan’s Rekindle Desire audio and workbook program at greatlifegreatsex.com/desire.  

Have you felt a more or less sex-inclined lately? Or wished you could have more spicy fun and pleasure during these zany times? If your answers are yes or yes, this episode is for you.   A few things you’ll learn:   Ways the pandemic and social distancing are impacting sexuality, including thoughts from listeners Awesome sex toys for clitoris, penis and couple’s play How to set the stage for spicier scheduled sex A sensual way to spend Valentine’s Day at home Some of Dr. Megan Fleming’s top sex advice  More!   Check out Dr. Megan’s recommendations: greatlifegreatsex.com/resources Support Girl Boner Radio + get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to talk to strangers about their sexual experiences? Julia Rothman and Shaina Feinberg did just that, and more, for their new book, Every Body: An Honest and Open Look at Sex from Every Angle.    A few things you’ll hear in this episode:   An excerpt from August’s first time hitting the streets to ask people, “What’s a Girl Boner?” What Julia and Shaina recall learning about sex early on What struck them most about the books’ stories about masturbation, Shaina’s Betty Dodson interview, body acceptance and religion What takeaways they want you to embrace from their experience creating Every Body  What numerous listeners wish others knew about sex or their sexuality The role attention can play in arousal, pleasure and desire   Check out Sex Hacks with Kenneth Play and the replay Dr. Megan mentioned: greatlifegreatsex.com/sexhacks Join August on Patreon to support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Learn more: girlboner.org

S and C are scientists and foodies who share a deep love. One thing they don’t share is an equal desire for sex. While S is pretty much always “ready to go,” her partner C desires sex less often. And when he does desire it, his wants aren’t always those that S can fulfill.    Shan is a virtual assistant and mother of two homeschooled teens who consistently desired sex less often than her beloved late husband, Jim. Navigating these differences well came in waves, she said, as they learned what did and didn’t help over the years.   For this Girl Boner Radio episode, August spoke with S and C and with Shan about their journeys and ways to manage mismatched libido in a loving relationship.   Content note: This episode includes mentions of abuse, miscarriage and death. Correction: Shan is a "widowed mother of two teens who never went to school," meaning she homeschools them. Shan did go to traditional school. Find Valentine’s Day gifts for you or a parter at The Pleasure Chest!   Save 25% on Dr. Megan’s Rekindle Desire program! Through Valentine’s Day, 2021.   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   Produced and edited by August McLaughlin Transcript support from KM Huber

Have you sent intentions for 2021? How about sexual intentions? As we make our way into a new year and reflect on what hasn’t worked so well in the past, we shan't forget our sex lives!   A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:   A common lube mistake to avoid A type of harmful self-talk that’s super easy to fall into What to do when you feel uncomfortable during sex Which fantasies to speak up about (and ways to do so) Ways to feel more sex-inclined, if or when you wish to More!   Check out the Sexy Self-Care collection at The Pleasure Chest!   Save 25% on Dr. Megan’s Rekindle Desire program!   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   Brought to you a day early, in light of Inauguration Day on 1/20! Produced and edited by August McLaughlin  

Sex-Positive Parenting, Fetish Play and Sexual Liberation with Jet Setting Jasmine   As a trauma-informed clinical therapist, sex worker, parent of three and woman of color, Jet Setting Jasmine knows a great deal about these topics, from personal and professional experience.    A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   What Jasmine learned about sex early on and ways she challenged the negative messages early on Benefits of sex-positive parenting and ways implement it How kink and fetish play can support healing from trauma What the hashtag #pornandparenting is all about Ways racism and racist stereotypes harm folks in the BIPOC community Jasmine’s top advice for sexual liberation Dr. Megan’s thoughts for a listener who wonders what to do when a couple is compatible in every way, except sexually   Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner   Download a free gift from Dr. Megan Fleming: greatlifegreatsex.com Produced and edited by August McLaughlin  

Ever considered putting a ring on it? On a penis, that is... Or wondered about reaching climax in "perfect time" with a partner? (Hint: simultaneous Os are pretty rare, but that doesn't mean you can't invite or embrace them.) A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   Sexual trends during the pandemic A bit of cock ring history The best cock rings for beginners How cock rings can help in the erection + pleasure departments Facts about simultaneous orgasms August and Dr. Megan's tips for a listener who wants to experience simultaneous orgasms with her husband The role edging, aka orgasm control, can play   Peruse popular cock rings at The Pleasure Chest! Join August on Patreon + get your handy cock ring guide! patreon.com/girlboner Sign up for occasional Girl Boner updates by email: girlboner.org Learn more from Dr. Megan Fleming: greatlifegreatsex.com Produced and edited by August McLaughlin  

They aren’t all holidays-themed, but some fun distraction may be just what 2020 ordered! August wraps up the Girl Boner Radio year by sharing the voices and stories of librarian Jess Witkins, publicist Will Armstrong, sex educator Angelique Luna and #open's Maile Manliguis. A few things you’ll hear about this episode:   Some intense improv (and okay, lies) that fueled romance Attraction that was finally acted on, after a date with someone else A play date that turned into a lengthy therapy session An odd kind of handsy-ness at the end of sex Wild animals on a wild night Why "green flags" are important in relationships How to navigate sexual dysfunction or low desire after an ex’s infidelity (and then some), with Dr. Megan A fun and spicy gift to consider for you and/or a partner   The show will return on January 6th. Wishing you meaningful holidays!   Shop holiday specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Get the replay of Kenneth Play’s top 3 sex hacks! greatlifegreatsex.com/sexhacks/ Edited and produced by August McLaughlin Transcript support from KM Huber

Long-time sex therapist Tara Galeano, speaks about her a journey to rediscover her body after difficulties in her personal life and health served as a major wakeup call. She now approaches her life and her work very differently.  A few things you’ll learn in this episode: How Catholic messaging early on impacted Tara’s ideas about sex and marriage How she (and her body) responded to learning about her then husband’s deceptions Body mapping basics and how it plays out in group therapy How you can try body mapping at home Benefits of body mapping, from stronger intimacy to kinkier sex The basics of touch starvation (“skin hunger”) and 6 ways to manage it with Dr. Megan Fleming About Tara’s new book, Rediscovering My Body Join the Girl Boner Radio Patreon community! patreon.com/girlboner Join us on Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Narrated and produced by August McLaughlin Transcript support from KM Huber

Thien-Kim Lam, founder of Bawdy Bookworms, and Nhakia Outland, founder of Prevention Meets Fashion, run sex-positive businesses that stem from personal experience, as well as passion for cultivating needed change.  A few things you'll hear in this episode: About Thien-Kim and Nhakia's sexual empowerment journeys Thien-Kim's top sex toy tip for newbies, plus pleasure advice for us all Nhakia's thoughts on fashion as a powerful form of self care, activism and personal identity Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener who’s struggling with anxiety around anal sex and penis size Join the Girl Boner Radio Patreon community: patreon.com/girlboner Shop holiday specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Sign up for Sex Hacks with Kenneth Play, hosted by Dr. Megan: greatlifegreatsex.com/sexhacks/  Join us on Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Edited and produced by August McLaughlin Transcript support from KM Huber

There are not easy times, especially for anyone who was struggling with mental health issues before the pandemic. Whatever you’re feeling is valid and all of us at Girl Boner Central hope this special pre-holiday episode brings you some comfort and light.    In this episode:   Ellen Kahn, Senior Director of Programs and Partnerships for the Human Rights Campaign, speaks about her background and work with the Human Rights Campaign, and ways COVID-19 is impacting the LGBTQIA+ community, especially trans and queer people of color.   Thomas Davis, Founder/Artistic Director & Project Lead for The Creative Remedy & Education Workshop, speaks about his personal journey, from growing up as one of the only Black kids in his school and learning perplexing information about sex and sexuality to realizing he was HIV positive and becoming an outspoken advocate. He shares how the pandemic has been impacting his own mental health, as well as what’s been helping.    Dr. Amelia Burke-Garcia, program area director at NORC at the University of Chicago and director of How Right Now, talks about the research behind the initiative, its aims and ways we can all benefit from it. The guests also share messages of hope for anyone really struggling and what they’re most grateful for lately.   Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose primary relationship is strained by pressures to attend group holiday gatherings. How can she smoothen things out with her wife, protect both of their health and ensure special holidays?     A few things you’ll learn:   Ways COVID-19 is impacting mental health, wellbeing, coping and resilience Unique challenges folks in the LGBTQIA+, BIPoC and poly communities are facing How to talk to a partner about tense pandemic-related challenges COVID-19 safety tips related to gatherings What it’s like to use the How Right Now website  More! Get the support you need: howrightnow.org Holiday Celebrations and Gathering Tips: cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/daily-life-coping/holidays Sign up for Dr. Megan’s free 9-day pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure Join the exclusive Girl Boner community: patreon.com/girlboner

Have you ever wondered what it’s like to live with bipolar disorder or wished that you didn’t feel alone in your mental health journey? Or wondered what it’s really like to make out with a fellow actor on camera? If so, pull up a chair! In addition to being an established actress, Alessandra Toressani speaks about her journey with bipolar publicly and advocates for mental health awareness on her podcast, Emotional Support. And she had so much wisdom to share for listeners.   A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   How bipolar presents in Alessandra and the surprising way she was diagnosed How bipolar has impacted her sex life and relationships Her thoughts on three listener questions on mental health, sex and dating How she feels about kissing and make out scenes Dr. Megan’s thoughts on the importance of explicit sex advice A spicy clitoral play activity for big time pleasure About a FREE upcoming workshop for more sex hacks, featuring Dr. Megan and Kenneth Play Alessandra Torresani on IG: @alessandratorresani + @emotionalsupportpod Join Girl Boner Radio on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/girlboner Sign up for Sex Hacks with Kenneth Play, hosted by Dr. Megan: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/sexhacks/   Shop holiday specials at The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com Girl Boner: https://augustmclaughlin.com/   IG: @GirlBonerMedia

August launched an exclusive Girl Boner community on Patreon! Learn more in this quickie announcement episode. Check out the reward and sign up here: http://patreon.com/girlboner

Interested in pegging a partner or being pegged? How about pegging the patriarchy? Canada-based sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas receives a LOT of questions about sex, and butt play, with or without a strap-on, is among the most common themes.    In this episode you’ll learn:   Where the term “pegging” came from and what it means What led Luna to become passionate about pleasure-based sex education What pegging-curious people want to know more than anything! Tips for choosing the proper pegging gear Benefits of being the pegger How to up your pegging receiving skills for more mutual fun and pleasure Why anal training is important Dr. Megan’s tips for bringing up new, sexy activities to a partner   Luna Matatas: https://lunamatatas.com IG: @LunaMatatas   Girl Boner: https://augustmclaughlin.com/   IG: @GirlBonerMedia Dr. Megan: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/  IG: @Dr.Megan.Fleming

You can “come of age” sex and relationship-wise at any stage of life. Take it from sex therapist Cyndi Darnell, disability advocate Andrew Gurza and industrial designer Ti Chang.    A few things you’ll learn in the episode:   What erotic embodiment entails Benefits of erotic embodiment Common myths about hiring sex workers Benefits of hiring a sex worker, whether you’re disabled or not Andrew and Dr. Megan’s advice for meeting accepting partners   Learn more:   http://cyndidarnell.com http://www.andrewgurza.com https://www.lovecrave.com/about/   E-Book: The Handi Book of Love, Lust & Disability: https://thatshandi.co/collections/pre-order/products/e-book-the-handi-book-of-love-lust-disability   Shop at The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com   Get FREE engraving on a Crave Vesper vibrator necklace with the code girlboner!  https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper/   Girl Boner: https://augustmclaughlin.com/    Dr. Megan: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/

Kristen J. Sollée is an author, educator and second-generation witch whose latest book, Witch Hunt: A Traveler’s Guide to the Power and Persecution of the Witch, explores the witch as a figure of female power and persecution—covering everything from the dark realities of witch trials and dangerous misperceptions that echo today, to love spells, fascinating uses of menstrual blood and sex magic. She also happens to make chats about witchy role-play ideas incredibly fun! A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:   Kristen’s experience with long-haul COVID-19   What Kristen means by the “magic of place” and how writing her latest book, Witch Hunt, became a deeply personal experience and ultimately changed her   Witches throughout history and how they became linked with sex positivity and sex-positive feminism How the sex magic practice Kristen talked about during her last Girl Boner appearance played out in August’s life (Authors, take note!) 8 witchy role playing accessories + 3 sexy scenes to consider! Spicy ideas for celebrating Halloween and any time there’s a full moon Dr. Megan Fleming’s top beginner’s tips for role playing   Learn more:   Kristen J. Sollée - order a signed copy of Witch Hunt! http://kristensollee.com/books   Order Witch Hunt from a wonderful indie bookstore:https://www.esowonbookstore.com/book/9781578636990   More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/ (Click “blog” for episode transcripts.)   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/   To receive Clitoral Play: 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan Fleming, text 'desire" to 66866. Or sign up here: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/ 

Dr. Tim Seelig, Emmy Award-winning­ director and San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus conductor, spent the first 35 years of his life closeted about his gayness in a traditional Southern Baptist community.    A few things you’ll learn in the episode:   How Tim was outed to his entire community and lost everything What he gained by coming out How his Baptist Christian family reacted and how those relationships evolved How encountering a man with AIDS changed him Highlights from an incredible forthcoming documentary Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who wants to support her friend who recently came out as lesbian and has sex toy questions A food-themed bonus clip after the outro music   Dr. Tim Seelig: http://www.timseelig.com   More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/ (Click “blog” for episode transcripts.)   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/   To receive Clitoral Play: 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan Fleming, text 'desire" to 66866. Or sign up here: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/    Edited and produced by August McLaughlin

If you or a partner has ADHD, you know that brain styles can impact sex and relatioships in all sorts of ways.    A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   Common challenges related to sex and ADHD, from “time blindness” (for lack of a better term) to distractability    How this type of neurodivergence can enhance relationships and intimacy   Some related funny-in-hindsight experiences, from August and Rachael Rose   What to do if you’re struggling with sex or intimacy   Take the neurodiversity, sex, love and relationships survey created by Rachael Rose and Dr. Liz Powell here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeDLmfeX_XARHASs1RMLhURGZCaxIZWlf_t5e8wn8_h7iBZYg/viewform   Learn more about Rachael’s work:  http://hedonish.com   To receive Clitoral Play: 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan Fleming, text 'desire" to 66866. Or sign up here: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/    More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/   Edited and produced by August McLaughlin  

Phone sex operator Amberly Rothfield had just gone through a several-month sex hiatus when she experienced an orgasm that changed her life. Dr. Samantha Allen had started to think orgasms were no longer in her future when, two years after sex reassignment surgery, she was surprised by one. Sex therapist Vanessa Marin had her first orgasm on the playground as a child. only to struggle in the climax department years later.   A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   A common myth about gender, being transgender and what sex-reassignment surgery actually entails   A few ways to invite your first orgasm alone or with a partner   How (and why) to create and continue expanding what Dr. Megan calls your “erotic menu”    Learn more and support this episode’s guests:   https://amberlyrothfield.com http://samanthaleighallen.com https://vmtherapy.com/how-to-orgasm M to (WT)F: Twenty-Six of the Funniest Moments from My Transgender Journey by Samantha Allen: https://www.audible.com/pd/M-to-WTF-Audiobook/B08FTJJHHP To receive Clitoral Play: 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan Fleming, text 'desire" to 66866. Or sign up here: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/    More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/   Edited and produced by August McLaughlin

Vibrators were originally created to treat “hysteria” in women. Thankfully, they’re now broadly embraced for personal pleasure. But not all sex toys are created equally or as beautifully.   A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   What Ti Chang learned about sex growing up and takeaways from her first vibrator experience   Why the aesthetics of sex toys, especially those marketed toward femmes, matter   Common myths about vibrators that can really stand in our way How to bring up toy use to a partner   Ways to make orgasms stronger through sex toy play, with or without a partner   Get FREE engraving on a Crave Vesper vibrator necklace with the code girlboner!  https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper/   INSTAGRAM:   @DesignerTi https://www.instagram.com/designerti/   @Dr.Megan.Fleming https://www.instagram.com/dr.megan.fleming/   @GirlBonerMedia https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/   To receive Clitoral Play: 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan Fleming, text 'desire" to 66866. Or sign up here: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/    More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/  

Eager to get turned on or enjoy more pleasure? There are many ways to do so, and the benefits can go far beyond the bedroom. Take it from 6 authors or spicy books, as well as August and Dr. Megan! If you’re concerned about a lack of sexual desire lately, on the other hand, you’re not alone and that’s nothing to be ashamed of. Keep the fun going:   Autumn Bardot’s YouTube page for writers: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC001T98zlVVjqrutPCRPEsQ   Lauren Emily on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/laurenemilywrites/   Rebecca Grace Allen: https://rebeccagraceallen.com   Logan Pierce: http://www.whoislogan.com   Kitt Crescendo’s books: https://www.amazon.com/Kitt-Crescendo/e/B00HIV96CW   The Big Book of Orgasms: 69 Sexy Stories, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07H457569/   Shop at the Pleasure Chest:  https://thepleasurechest.com   To receive Clitoral Play: 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan Fleming, text 'desire" to 66866. Or sign up here: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/    More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/

Have you ever used a non-sexual object for sexy play? If so, you’re far from alone. Sometimes these “pervertables” can bring fun and adventure. Other times, they land folks in the emergency room. Thankfully, there’s a lot you can do to have creative fun and stay safe at the same time. Take it from Dr. Megan Stubbs.   A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   What objects got lodged in folks’ vaginas and rectums last year   What this kind of report reflects about sex and sexuality   How to more safely use pervertables Vaginal douching risks and anal douching tips The best way to wash genitals   How to make sure your sex toys are as body-safe as possible   How do deal with negative comparison comments, about penis size specifically   Learn more:    What Did We Get Stuck in Our Rectums Last Year? https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/v74mgb/what-did-we-get-stuck-in-our-rectums-last-year   Dr. Megan Stubbshttps://www.sexologistmegan.com   More Girl Boner funhttps://girlboner.org/ To receive Clitoral Play 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan Fleming, text 'desire" to 66866. Or sign up here: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/

“What about Girl Boners?” August first wondered about this in grade school. While she didn’t realize it then, that curiosity set the stage for her eventual career. Throughout that work, she’s learned a great deal about obstacles in the realm of femme sexuality. She’s also heard many questions about arousal, a topic Dr. Megan has a lot to say about, given her nearly two decades as a sex therapist.   A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   What “Girl Boner” means   A few common obstacles around “female sexuality”   Repercussions of these obstacles that hurt folks of all genders Tips for exploring your personal turn-ons   Explore Girl Boner: https://girlboner.org/ Shop for toys: https://thepleasurechest.com    To receive Clitoral Play 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan, text 'desire" to 66866. Or sign up here: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/    Connect with Makenzie Mizell for podcasting services: https://www.periodnetwork.com

Porn. How do you feel about it? August has heard from folks who love watching porn and feel it strengthens their lives and relationships, people who feel better off without it, folks who are frustrated by what’s portrayed on mainstream porn screens and those who are irked by the myths surrounding the medium. All of these feelings are valid. One thing’s for darn sure. We need more conversations and education about it. In this episode you’ll learn: Filmmaker Angie Rowntree’s decision to create porn geared toward female viewers A bunch of ways sex on the screen varies from sex in porn What can happen when we aren’t clear on these differences (including a true story) How performer and creator June Ann navigates pirating of her content How penis pumps work, what they’re for and whether they’re safe More! Learn more: June Ann: jadextraextra.com Sssh: Sssh.com Girl Boner: https://augustmclaughlin.com/  Dr. Megan: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ The Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com

Cheryl Hunter talks to August about the harrowing tale of the kidnapping and sexual assault she endured in her late teens, when she traveled from rural Colorado to France in hopes of launching a modeling career. She’s now a bestselling author, news commentator and resilience expert with a great deal to say about navigating difficult times, forgiveness, owning your story and learning to thrive—including during and after the pandemic.   Cheryl Hunter: https://www.instagram.com/huntercheryl/ http://cherylhunter.com/masterclass   Erin Tillman: https://thedatingadvicegirl.com   More Girl Boner fun: https://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner

Holly, Lena Corazon, Shannon K. and Kirsten share their favorite solo play techniques, from fingers-only to a nipple-stimulating toy!   A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   1 Tips for up-leveling or starting a masturbation practice 2 Ways a piercing might enhance sexual pleasure 3 What some people use instead of a vibrator in a pinch 4 Benefits of natural oils as lube 5 How to deal with shame around solo play 6 Awesome perks of “Jill-ing” off  6 When to reveal your sexual desires and orientation to someone you’re dating   Erin Tillman’s book + podcast: https://thedatingadvicegirl.com The Pleasure Chest specials: https://thepleasurechest.com Followup blog post: https://girlboner.org/blog  Girl Boner books: https://augustmclaughlin.com/books/

Grief impacts sexuality, yet the topic too often goes unaddressed. In this episode, Joan Price speaks to this interplay and ways to best navigate intimacy during difficult times, drawing on from personal and professional experience.  1 A gift Joan’s beloved gave her before he died (that we should all consider doing)  2 How Joan reconnected with sexual pleasure after losing him 3 Practical ways to deal with insecurities that impact sex and dating 4 Joan’s decision to cocreate an explicit sex ed film for seniors 5 Spectacular aspects of creating the film 6 Takeaways from the film that can enhance our sex lives at any age   Explore Joan Price’s books, blogs, webinars and film: https://joanprice.com Check out Erin Tillman’s book and podcast: https://thedatingadvicegirl.com Shop at the Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras: https://girlboner.org/ 

What’s your wildest sex or dating memory? This week on Girl Boner Radio, August shares OMG stories from fellow Period podcasters, including Makenzie Mizell, AM Davies and Sara, plus dating empowerment coach, Erin Tillman. August starts with one of her own stories and wraps up with stories submitted by listeners.    Work with Erin: https://thedatingadvicegirl.com Celebrate Anal August! https://thepleasurechest.com More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/    Period: https://www.periodnetwork.com Comadres y Comics: https://www.periodnetwork.com/comadres-y-comics Yes, a Stripper Podcast: https://www.thequeenofsexy.com/yes-a-stripper-podcast/

Mollie Birney, MA knows how challenging self-destructive behaviors are, thanks to personal and professional experience. She spoke with August about her journey, including messages she learned about femininity from her abusive father and her toxic relationship with boxing, plus her top advice for addressing compulsive behaviors and cultivating self-compassion. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who feels powerless to risky sexual urges and wants to save his relationship with his girlfriend.   Mollie on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mbclinicalcoaching/   “Things I Learned Getting Punched in the Face”: https://humanparts.medium.com/things-i-learned-getting-punched-in-the-face-b92faed76124 Shop summer vibes! https://thepleasurechest.com Pleasure challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/ More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/ 

In loving memory of Lora Somoza, August shares highlights from their 2017 studio time when they talked about sex games and what to keep out of your onling dating profile, then played The F’ing Truth (like Truth or Dare Bingo without the dares). Dr. Megan Fleming shares tips for a listener whose partner experiences multiple orgasms and she would like to, too.    Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza: https://apple.co/3j8pQj7  Pleasure challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/ More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/  The F’ing Truth: http://www.thefingtruth.com   Apple Podcasts summary:   In loving memory of Lora Somoza, August shares the time they played a game (like Truth or Dare without dares), covering everything from booty calls and masturbation memories to true intimacy. Dr. Megan weighs in on multiple orgasms.

After an unhealthy relationship, Steph Auteri became afraid of sex and fell into a sex writing career as an attempt to fix her perceived "female sexual dysfunction." The journalist and author of the reported memoir, A Dirty Word, explored her journey with August for this narrated episode. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who experiences severe anxiety when things get physical, sometimes to the point of vomiting.   Steph Auteri’s book: https://www.stephauteri.com/a-dirty-word/ Summer vibes: https://thepleasurechest.com Free challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ Girl Boner fun: http://girlboner.org   Dating Advice Girl Podcast: https://apple.co/2CBC5DU Bedpost Podcast: http://thesonarnetwork.com/the-bed-post/

Yes, a Stripper Podcast host AM Davies joins August to explore her sexual empowerment journey and how an accident helped solidify her purpose. Learn how her teenage dream of professional stripping came true, changes she’d like to see in the industry, her advice for cultivating sexual freedom and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who misses her pre-pandemic masturbation practice.   Yes, a Stripper Podcast: https://www.thequeenofsexy.com/yes-a-stripper-podcast/ Soldiers of Pole: https://soldiersofpole.com Earn It app petition: https://actionnetwork.org/petitions/dont-let-congress-kill-encryption Free challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ More Girl Boner fun: http://girlboner.org

Dr. Claretha Yeager, DACM joins August to explore 6 practical ways to be more present, which can enhance our emotional wellbeing, relationships and whole lives. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who feels distracted during sex.    Get Claretha’s free 5-minute meditation: https://mailchi.mp/jadepathacupuncture/groundingmeditation Sign up for Dr. Megan’s free pleasure challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ Shop for toys and more! https://thepleasurechest.com More Girl Boner fun: http://girlboner.org

Meet Hayley, Natalie and Meagan, three women who had nightmarish birth control experiences we can all learn from. They spoke with August about the pill, IUDs, mental health and sexual side effects of hormonal birth control methods and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who fears her chronic pain, that interferes with sex, will damage future relationships.    https://www.plannedparenthood.org/online-tools/what-right-birth-control-me https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ http://girlboner.org

Laura Zam, author of THE PLEASURE PLAN, joins August to explore her sexual healing journey, her experience in Betty Dodson’s group masturbation/vulva exploration class and ways to attract stronger orgasms - or your very first! Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts on emotional aspects of orgasm difficulties.   More about Laura: http://laurazam.com Shop with Pride: https://thepleasurechest.com (free shipping in June!) Free challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ More Girl Boner fun: http://girlboner.org

August shares highlights from her “Fight Like a Girl” interview with filmmaker Jill Morley, including ways boxing helped her manage childhood trauma. Then they reconnect to explore sexual self-discovery, unlearning damaging messages, supporting people of color and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who wants to feel more connected to her body and her boners.   75 Things White People Can Do for Racial Justice: https://bit.ly/3hfgDED Box with Jill: http://www.jillmorley.com/flag-boxing/ Shop with Pride: https://thepleasurechest.com (free shipping in June!) Sex drive article: https://bit.ly/2XzbkrP Free challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ More: http://girlboner.org

August talks about anti-racism and shares artist A’Driane Nieves’ thoughts from 2014 on raising black sons and #BlackLivesMatter. Dr. Megan discusses talking to kids about racism. Amber B Coleman sings part of “Blackness.” Through 6/5:15% of thepleasurechest.com sales will be donated to Black Visions Collective. http://www.addyeb.com  https://www.instagram.com/iamamberbcoleman Learn, donate, register to vote:https://blacklivesmatter.com https://www.vote.org Teaching kids about racism: https://bit.ly/2XqMcUh http://www.raceconscious.org/ https://mattdelapena.com/books/last-stop-on-market-street/

Where is she now? August shares the best parts of her chat with adult star and sex worker Sarah Vandella from Oct. 2014. Then she catches up with Sarah to find out how she’s doing personally, professionally and amid the pandemic. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who wants to do away with their small penis fetish. https://onlyfans.com/sarahvandella Twitter: @MsSarahVandala IG: @theonlySarahVandela_ https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure  Free challenge https://augustmclaughlin.com/ Nominate past guests!

Lauren Colletti, author of Trauma, Tears & Triumph, shares her story of sexual self-discovery, healing from sexual assault and narcissist abuse and ways yoga can enhance our sex lives. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose boyfriend lies compulsively. https://www.laurencolletti.com/ https://amzn.to/2Z8euEl Lauren’s poetry! https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure  Free 9-day challenge https://augustmclaughlin.com/ Sign up for monthly extras!

In honor of National Masturbation Month, August delves into solo play’s complicated history then shares a throwback interview with Dr. Martha Tara Lee about orgasmic yoga: how it changed her life and ways to benefit. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener who wonders if it’s okay to fantasize about friends while masturbating.   https://www.eroscoaching.com    https://www.facebook.com/groups/oyoga/ https://www.instagram.com/pleasurecheststores/ - support sex educators! https://thepleasurechest.com - coupon: PleasureME  http://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ - FREE challenge http://girlboner.org

Your body is rad! And if you’re struggling, we see you. August reads from her Girl Boner book and chats with Robyn Goldberg, RDN. Chaya Milchtein of Mechanic Shop Femme reads from her essay, “Are You Worried About Getting Fat Like Me?” Dr. Megan Fleming shares a pleasure exercise.   https://mechanicshopfemme.com/worried-about-getting-fat-like-me/  www.askaboutfood.com   https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ https://girlboner.org/books IG: @GirlBonerMedia @mechanicshopfemme  @robyngoldbergrdn @dr.megan.fleming

Deborah Kagan joins August to explore her sexual self-discovery journey, ways to “rock your mojo” (life force or sexual energy) and receive pleasure and how finding her G-spot changed her life. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who misses G-spot play now that penetration feels triggering.    Rock Your Mojo Live: https://rockyourmojolive.com Pleasure challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure    “Pay what you can afford” therapy: https://jamiladawson.com More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/ 

Gratitude, orgasms, self-care! Dr. Megan Fleming joins August to explore the importance of pleasure in difficult times, simple ways to cultivate it and ways to manage COVID-19 related challenges, such as missing physical touch and domestic violence concerns. Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/help/ Pleasure challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure  Building Your Sensual Life: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/sensual Transcripts + more: https://girlboner.org/blog

Author Pamela Foster shares her experience with sexual pain related to menopause and vaginal atrophy, sexual self-discovery and finding her way to self-love. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who wants to know how often to schedule sex. https://thepleasurechest.com https://greatlifegreatsex.com/ https://pamelafosterspeakerwriter.wordpress.com https://augustmclaughlin.com/ 

Orgasm fakery, kinky surprises, blue balls and more! August shares incredible sex and dating stories from several authors, a stylist, a narrator and a game creator. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener wondering if she can salvage her relationship. Check out the books and offerings mentioned here:  https://girlboner.org/sex-dating-stories

JoEllen Notte, author of The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having, joins August to explore her personal journey and research regarding sex and depression, related myths and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener struggling with orgasms since starting antidepressants.   http://redheadheadbedhead.com/monster https://thepleasurechest.com https://greatlifegreatsex.com/rx  https://augustmclaughlin.com/ 

Squirting, edging, arousal and more! Historical erotica author Autumn Bardot joins August to explore her personal journey and messages from SHEBA QUEEN. With listener Kate’s help, they discuss common orgasm myths. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener seeking mightier orgasms. http://www.autumnbardot.com https://greatlifegreatsex.com/rx  https://augustmclaughlin.com/  https://sammyreischwarz.com

Author and former bra fitter, Natalee Woods, joins August to explore her sexual self-discovery journey and themes from her new memoir, Full Support: Lessons Learned in the Dressing Room. With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener who’s struggling to feel sexy as she approaches middle age.   https://www.nataleewoods.com @nataleewoods https://thepleasurechest.com @pleasurecheststores https://greatlifegreatsex.com/rx  @dr.megan.fleming https://augustmclaughlin.com @girlbonermedia

Feeling more like roommates than lovers, sabotaging romance and sex secrets! Marriage and relationship coach, Laurie Gerber, joins August to explore common issues and ways to address them. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener. Girl Boner extras: http://girlboner.org Dr. Megan’s program: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/product/pleasure-rx/ Gottman video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AKTyPgwfPgg&feature=youtu.be Until 3/15, get Inner.U LOVE for $500 (reg. price $650).  Save with GIRLBONERRADIO75 coupon: http://bit.ly/girlboner0226-iu Talk to a human and see if Handel Group coaching options are right for you: http://bit.ly/girlboner0226-con

Vibrators, dildos, clitoral suction, more! Kim Airs, a sex educator and writer who founded New England’s first female and couples friendly sex toy store joins August to gab about sex toys, orgasm fun and cultivating sexual comfort. Period network founder Makenzie Mizell shares a spicy and healing toy experience. Dr. Megan weighs shares her favorite non-vibrating toy. https://thepleasurechest.com @pleasurecheststores http://kimairs.com  @kimairs https://greatlifegreatsex.com/rx  @dr.megan.fleming https://www.periodnetwork.com @periodnetwork https://augustmclaughlin.com @girlbonermedia

Dr. Alexandra Solomon joins August live at Diesel Bookstore in LA to explore themes from her new book, Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships You Want. With Dr. Megan’s help, they discuss questions on low desire, turn-ons, honeymoon expectations and disordered eating.    http://www.dralexandrasolomon.com @dr.alexandra.solomon https://beducated.com/all-access/   @beducated_com https://greatlifegreatsex.com/sensual  @dr.megan.fleming https://augustmclaughlin.com  @GirlBonerMedia

Author Lauren Emily joins August to explore reading and writing erotica, its role in empowerment and the importance of bisexuality representation. With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they share tips for hotter, more pleasurable oral sex. https://www.facebook.com/laurenemilywrites/ https://www.bweoftheyear.com/call-for-submissions https://greatlifegreatsex.com/sensual   https://girlboner.org   IG: @GirlBonerMedia 

Dr. Alexandra Katehakis joins August to explore the ABCs of consent, boundary-setting for stronger intimacy, what to do when betrayal feels like assault, discussing vulnerable sex topics, sex addiction / compulsivities and more! With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener who says sex with his wife feels like she’s doing him a favor.    Follow @GirlBonerMedia on Instagram! Video extras, coming soon. https://beducated.com/all-access/ FREE trial!  https://centerforhealthysex.com https://greatlifegreatsex.com/sensual   https://girlboner.org  

Ethan Lipsitz, host of Love Extremist Radio, joins August to explore his personal journey, illness and sexuality, love as activism and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who’s curious about supporting a partner who struggles to have erections or orgasms. https://www.extremist.love  IG: @ethanlipsitz @GirBonerMedia @DrMeganFleminghttps://augustmclaughlin.com/ https://thepleasurechest.comhttps://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/

Bree Mills, an award-winning adult filmmaker and Chief Creative Officer of Adult Time, joins August to explore her career, the porn industry, empowering performers as creators and more. Dr. Megan Fleming shares healthy relationship habits worth embracing. https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/  FB Live on 1/30, 5pm PST! http://beducate.me/nty19 Promo code: GIRLBONER https://members.adulttime.com/ https://augustmclaughlin.com/

CBD, THC, cannabis. What’s the difference? How might they impact your emotional wellbeing and sex life? August is joined by Ashley Manta, sex educator and creator of CannaSexual®. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who only experiences orgasm solo and it’s impacting her libido and relationship.   Ashley’s free Dirty Talk guide: lovedirtytalk.com http://www.ashleymanta.com https://thepleasurechest.com https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ https://augustmclaughlin.com

Cats, sex magic, empowerment! August is joined by Kristen J. Sollee, author of Cat Call: Reclaiming the Feral Feminine, to explore witches, kitty themes around female sexuality, solo play for manifesting dreams and more. Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts on sensual rituals and her upcoming pleasure challenge.   http://beducate.me/nty19 Promo code: GIRLBONER https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ Sign up for free! http://kristensollee.com https://augustmclaughlin.com/ 

August is joined by Jimanekia Eborn, a queer media consultant, sex educator and sexual assault and trauma expert, and Blossom C. Brown, an actress, producer and activist who’s been featured in I Am Cait and the Ellen Degeneres show, to talk about trans rights, healing from trauma, a space for femmes of color to heal, being an ally vs. an accomplice and more.    Learn more + donate: https://www.tendingthegarden.love/ IG: @BlossomCBrown @Jimanekia https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/  https://thepleasurechest.com https://augustmclaughlin.com/

Mistress Justine Cross joins August to explore her career, BDSM and what we can all learn from its tenants, even if you're more “vanilla” than kinky. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who’s curious about bondange: can it spice up your sex life? Shop: http://beducate.me/xy29z https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure  https://thepleasurechest.com  Learn more: https://linktr.ee/thejustinecross https://augustmclaughlin.com/

August is joined by previous guests, engineer/producer Makenzie Mizell, stylist Rayne Parvis, dating coach Erin Tillman and author Vanessa McGrady, to play “You Don’t Know My Life”—hosted by the game’s co-creator, Dennis Hensley. Hear touching and hilarious true stories about crushes, dating, sex and more. Dr. Megan shares one, too! https://augustmclaughlin.com/podcast https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure  https://thepleasurechest.com  https://www.youdontknowmylifegame.com

Sex toys, gifting tips, pleasure! August is joined by Heidi Mastrogiovanni, author of the Lala Pettibone comedic novel series and co-host of the Movies Not Movies podcast, to explore spicy and romantic gift ideas. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who’d like to resume sex, post-car accident. Find special bonus content below. https://augustmclaughlin.com/sexygifts-2019/  https://beducated.com Orgasm course discount code: GIRLBONER https://heidimastrogiovanni.com https://greatlifegreatsex.com/contact/

Sexologist Cyndi Darnell joins August to explore sexual desire, including related myths, how to make improvements and The Desire Series. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who’s concerned about the low frequency of sex in their relationship. https://cyndidarnell.com/the-desire-series-2/ https://greatlifegreatsex.com/contact/  https://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner  https://beducated.com

Alice Vaughn and Yvette d’Entremont, cohosts of Two Girls One Mic: The Porncast, join August to explore their early memories about sex, why some people rely on alcohol for arousal, pheromones, anal toys, humor, pubic hair and more. https://www.twogirlsonemic.com      https://www.offensivecrayons.com (Code GIRLBONER, 10% off!) https://greatlifegreatsex.com/contact/ https://thepleasurechest.com https://augustmclaughlin.com

Libido, arousal, desire! Susan Bratton joins August to explore her thoughts on the differences between these things, why she believes everyone in cisgender, heterosexual relationships can enjoy PIV intercourse, ways to make sex hotter and many types of orgasms. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who wishes her fiance would initiate more often. girlboner.orggreatlifegreatsex.com http://susanbratton.com Free Gift: https://bit.ly/32JaZT0thepleasurechest.com

Master coach and evocateur Amber J Lawson joins August to explore manifesting your heart’s desires for stronger intimacy and relationships plus her mission to help women connect with the “divine feminine.” Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose sex drive has dropped due to work stress. Save 40% on Amber J’s Goddess Process intensive: https://bit.ly/2C7D23A Sign up for extras from August and Dr. Megan: girlboner.org  greatlifegreatsex.com 

Healing, pleasure, self-love! August is joined by Kimleigh Smith, an author, speaker, life coach and performer who was gang-raped during college and has since become a powerful advocate for survivors. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on rekindling desire after trauma.   Kimleigh’s LA show: https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/155690 http://kimleighsmith.com https://augustmclaughlin.com/ https://greatlifegreatsex.com

Candace Bushnell, author of Sex and the City and more celebrated books, joins August to explore her professional journey, “cougars” and “cubs,” dating in the digital age, her latest book and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who’s nervous about menopause.   Learn more: https://www.candacebushnell.com https://augustmclaughlin.com/sex-menopause/ https://greatlifegreatsex.com

Sexy desires, dating, solo play! August is joined by Christie Federico, a relationship and sexual empowerment coach, to explore her personal journey to sexual empowerment and self-embracement, wonky sex and dating rules (plus smart alternatives) and more! Dr. Megan Fleming shares tips for asking for and getting what you want in bed.   girlboner.org christiefederico.comgreatlifegreatsex.com  thepleasurechest.com

Exhibitionism, fetishes, growth! Andy Espinoza Long, aka Andy the Gypsy, author of the memoir, Tales From the Strip, joins August to explore his stripping career. WIth Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener who’s concerned about the decline of sex in his relationship and his partner’s take on his nylon fetish.   Learn more: girlboner.orggreatlifegreatsex.com  talesfromthestrip.blog thepleasurechest.com

Diet myths, disordered eating, body image! Robyn L. Goldberg, a registered dietitian who specializes in eating disorders, joins August to explore common food rules, restrictive eating and binge eating and how they impact sexuality and relationships. With Dr. Megan’s help, they weigh in for a listener feeling self-conscious about her weight and lower libido since starting antidepressants.    Learn more: https://askaboutfood.com http://www.eddietitians.com https://augustmclaughlin.com https://greatlifegreatsex.com https://thepleasurechest.com  

Shan Boodram, author of The Game of Desire: 5 Surprising Secrets to Dating with Dominance, joins August to explore findings from a self-pleasure survey, masturbation stigma and dating advice that works. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on painful sex after menopause.   Tenga survey: www.feelmore.global/ August’s favorite stat: Pizza and chocolate turn lots of people on! Shan: www.thegameofdesire.com/  www.shanboodram.com/August: augustmclaughlin.comDr. Megan: greatlifegreatsex.com

Dildo art? Oh, yes! Jen Stein, founder of Adult Arts and Crafts, joins August to chat about her unique artwork, sex-positivity and more. Dr. Megan Fleming debunks myths about sex toys. Learn more: https://www.etsy.com/shop/adultartsandcrafts https://augustmclaughlin.com/ https://greatlifegreatsex.com

Sexual exploration, more pleasure, undoing shame! Dr. Shannon Chavez joins August to explore masturbation tips for beginners, reaching orgasm when you feel blocked, creating relationships that suit your values and more. Dr. Megan Fleming shares her favorite self-pleasure tip.    Learn more: drshannonchavez.com girlboner.org greatlifegreatsex.com thepleasurechest.com

Social psychologist Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh joins August to explore genital practices around the world, shifting from the term “genital mutilation” to “genital cutting,” arranging your own marriage, her philosophies about love, dating advice and more! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who has different parenting goals than her partner.  Dr. Sara’s questionnaire: www.sara-Nasserzadeh.com  (under Private Practice) Contact Dr. Megan: greatlifegreatsex.com Sign up for Girl Boner extras: girlboner.org

In this Girl Boner quickie, August shares thoughts from Drs. Megan Fleming and Lanae St. John for a listener whose daughter thinks making out is sex, shares what some Girl Boner fans learned about ways someone can get pregnant and explores a starting stastistics about U.S. sex education policies.   Learn more: Guttmacher report State policies READ ME: A PARENTAL PRIMER ON “THE TALK” by Dr. Lanae St. John  GIRL BONER books

Solo play, sexuality myths, “the talk!” Dr. Lanae St. John, aka “the Mama Sutra,” joins August to explore their journeys as “good girls” in the realms of sex, pleasure and self-confidence, sex-positive parenting, “slut”-shaming, talking about sex at any age and more.   Learn more: themamasutra.net girlboner.org Lanae’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Read-Me-Parental-Primer-Talk/dp/1732414505/

Mismatched libido, distracting thoughts, sleep! Dr. Jennifer Gunsaullus, author of From Madness to Mindfulness: Reinventing Sex for Women, joins August to explore common intimacy challenges and powerful ways to manage them. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on distracting self-criticism during sex.    Learn more: drjennsden.com girlboner.org greatlifegreatsex.com.  thepleasurechest.com

Dr. Gaby Gutierrez, a marriage and family therapist specializing in onco-sexology, joins August to explore sex therapy for people dealing with cancer and navigating intimacy during chronic illness and other difficult times. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who’s uncomfortable with her breast augmentation results.   Check out August’s books: girlboner.org Follow Dr. Gutierrez on Instagram: @sexpert_gaby Join Dr. Megan’s email list: greatlifegreatsex.com

Clairvoyant readings in Anal August! Elena Servidio-Schwinn, a proud single mother and clairvoyant who speaks with spirits, gives flash psychic readings for August, Makenzie, studio friend, Judith, and listener, Briana. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who dreams about her ex. Sign up for monthly extras: girlboner.org Connect with Elena: oneheartonespirit.com and Dr. Megan: grealifegreatsex.com  Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia  @elenaservidioschwinn  Shop: thepleasurechest.com

Sexual identities, orientations and artistry! August is joined by actor-musician Carolina Hoyos to explore her personal journey, demisexuality and bisexuality myths and more. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener who wonders if she’s become asexual.    Learn more: Carolinahoyos.com “A Girl I Know” single: awal.lnk.to/MiHombreelDiablo  augustmclaughlin.com greatlifegreatsex.com

More comfort and pleasure! Melanie Cristol, CEO of Lorals, joins August to explore her mission to bring more pleasure to more folks, the oral sex panties she created to do just that and oral sex tips for any genitalia. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose partner loves oral and she’d rather skip it. Learn more: augustmclaughlin.com mylorals.com greatlifegreatsex.com

Body image, dating, self-love! August is joined by Rubi Skilton, a “one (and a half) arm podcast-loving, confidence-forward, self-loving weirdo on a mission to help everybody feel comfortable in their own skin,” to explore ways limb difference has impacted her journey and how to live more fully and authentically. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a 30-year old virgin.   Learn more:  augustmclaughlin.com ladiescodeblog.com greatlifegreatsex.com

Turning points, self care, polyamory, body-confidence! Megan Ashley and Sex Coach Leigh of Queers Next Door join August to explore their sexual empowerment journeys, from Megan’s decision to pursue sex work full time to Leigh’s experience with PMDD. The interview streamed live on Facebook (@MyGirlBoner) in May. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on jealousy.   Girl Boner Journal: amzn.to/2Jdnvn9  Queers Next Door: queersnextdoor.com  IG: @GirlBonerMedia @QueersNextDoor @dr.megan.fleming

Body image, sex “taking too long,” pleasure priorities! Kara Loewentheil chats with August about orgasm blockers that stand in the way of many women’s sex lives and ways to work around them.  Learn more at unfuckyourbrain.com and girlboner.org! 

Sexual self-discovery, creativity, eroticism! Therapist Jamila M. Dawson joins August to explore her journey, what she learned working in an adult store, trauma management, creativity and eroticism and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who’s nervous about sex after her partner’s heart surgery.   Learn more at jamiladawson.com, girlboner.org and greatlifegreatsex.com.   

“She-jaculation,” sweating during sex, approaching sensitive topics and more! Pallavi Gunalan joins August to discuss sexual science facts, dos and don’t for sex talk and her journey as a biomedical engineer and standup comedian. With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener whose friend’s husband tried to kiss her.   Learn more at pallavigunalan.com and girlboner.org. Big thanks to The Pleasure Chest! Get free shipping for Pride Month through June.

Orgasms, masturbation, self-love! In this special bonus episode recorded live at a Skirt Club event, August reads from Girl Boner. Then sex therapist Dr. Shannon Chavez interviews her about Girl Boners, sexual empowerment, her first solo play experience, sex tips and journaling for sexual self-discovery.   Learn more at skirtclub.co.uk/ and drshannonchavez.com. Order Girl Boner and Girl Boner Journal: girlboner.org/books

Spicy photoshoots, polyamory, kink for self-discovery! Author Beverly Diehl joins August to explore her breast cancer diagnosis, a daring boudoir photoshoot, being polyamorous and kinky, herpes stigma, oral sex, consent and sex-positivity. With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener whose poly-identifying partner is choosing monogamy for her sake.  Learn more about Beverly Diehl: beverlydiehl.com Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras: girlboner.org Download a freebie from Dr. Megan: greatlifegreatsex.com

Mismatched libido, orgasm difficulty and more fun! Sex therapist and couples’ counselor Jessa Zimmerman joins August to explore common issues that lead to sex avoidance, from low sexual desire to erectile dysfunction, plus ways to take the pressure off for stronger intimacy. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener wants to plan a spicy adventure for her 25th wedding anniversary. Learn more at girlboner.org, sexwithoutstress.com and greatlifegreatsex.com.

August is joined by Ellen Snortland, lawyer, author, filmmaker and creator of “Beauty Bites Beast,” to explore the event that prompted her self-defense training and advocacy, how self-defense skills can enhance your sex life and damaging myths about female strength—such as mace or a key between your fingers can keep you safe. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who feels his girlfriend’s sex-positive fervor has gone too far. Learn more about Ellen Snortland at beautybitesbeast.com. Read more about self-defense and empowerment in Chapter 20 of Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment. (augustmclaughlin.com/books) Download a freebie from Dr. Megan at greatlifegreatsex.com.

Sex sounds, bloating, faking orgasms and more! Most everyone feels embarrassed during sex at some point. Thankfully, it doesn't have to be a buzzkill. August is joined by Kait Scalisi, MPH of Passion by Kait to explore listeners’ embarrassing sex problems and ways to move past shame and into pleasure. Then August Dr. Megan Fleming weigh in for a listener who’s been faking orgasms, in part because she hasn’t yet learned how to orgasm with someone with a small penis. Check out “Girl Boner” and “Girl Boner Journal” at augustmclaughlin.com/books! Shop for fun sex toys via this episode's sponsor, The Pleasure Chest.

Comedian Von Decarlo joins August to chat about her personal journey, what she loves most about stand-up and how to really know your purpose. They also play a spicy, Girl Boner-style round of “Never Have I Ever.” Play along as they cover everything from researching exes on social media to dating adventures, period sex, sex toys and squirting.     If you’re in the NYC area, check out Coach Von’s Corner live at Sid’s Gold Room starting Wednesday, May 22nd!   Learn more at vondecarlo.com and girlboner.org.

August is joined by Christina Hoag, author of Girl on the Brink, to discuss common signs of emotional abuse and violence in a relationships, her personal experience with intimate partner abuse from a man with borderline personality disorder and ways to safely breakup with an abuser. Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts for a listener who survived sexual assault 10 years ago and has recently been triggered by kissing.   Learn more about Christina Hoag’s work at christinahoag.com. Find more Girl Boner content at augustmclaughlin.com.

Amber Cantorna, author of “Unashamed: A Coming-Out Guide for LGBTQ Christians,” joins August to explore her journey coming out as gay to her conservative Christian family— including her father, a Focus on the Family executive. Amber also shares thoughts on when to come out as LGBTQIA+, ways to do so safely, addressing internalized homophobia, moving past shame, embracing your faith and your identity simultaneously and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who has a mighty crush on her therapist.   Learn more about Amber Cantorna’s work at ambercantorna.com. Sign up for free, monthly Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Andrew Gurza, creator of #DisabledPeopleAreHot and host of the Disability After Dark podcast, joins August to explore topics missing from conversations around sex, pleasure and disability, a porn scene he consulted for involving Pierce Paris and new quadriplegic porn star, Kenneth Conan (who wanted to be face-fucked), the value of sex workers for people with physical disabilities, tips for having sex with a disabled person, and his advice for any disabled person who isn’t feeling especially hot.   Learn more about Andrew Gurza’s work at andrewgurza.com. Sign up for Girl Boner extras by email at augustmclaughlin.com.

August is joined by Cory Martin, author of the award-winning memoir Love Sick, to explore dating, sex and learning to thrive when you have a chronic disease. Cory was 28 when she was diagnosed with MS and now sees her journey with chronic illness, which also includes lupus, as a gift. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who has a rare form of arthritis and fears chronic pain will hinder sexual pleasure and intimacy with her newfound love. Thankfully, there are workarounds and orgasms can bring pain relief! (Science proves it.)   Learn more about Cory Martin’s work at corymartinwrites.com.   Check out Girl Boner Journal and sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.   Download a free gift from Dr. Megan at greatlifegreatsex.com.   Shop for sex toys and more at The Pleasure Chest.

This Girl Boner Quickie features five fabulous benefits of masturbation! In honor of National Masturbation Month, coming up in May, learn how solo play can enhance your body image and overall well-being. For more about solo play and self-love, check out the Girl Boner book series.

Aideen T. Finnola grew up in a religious cult, then spent two decades married to a closeted and abusive gay man. She's now an "unapologetic and empowered survivor," a Martha Beck-certified life coach and author of the memoir, My Exquisite Purple Life. She chats with August about her healing journey, her mixed orientation marriage, ways purity culture impacts female sexuality, healing benefits of masturbation, "straight spouse" support, and more. August weighs in on sleep-gasms then discusses persistent genital arousal disorder (aka PGAD) and pleasure when you have a chronic pain condition with Dr. Megan Fleming. Learn more about Aideen: aideentfinnola.com Sign up for Girl Boner extras: augustmclaughlin.com Download a free gift form Dr. Megan: greatlifegreatsex.com Shop for fun toys: thepleasurechest.com

In this Girl Boner quickie, August debunks common myths about the clitoris and shares a few sexual pleasure tips, including ways to tantalize the inner-clit and a sex position that makes orgasm during penis-in-vagina sex more likely. Learn more in August’s Girl Boner book series: augustmclaughlin.com/books/

Writer/director Michael K. Feinstein and actress Nikki SooHoo join August to discuss digital dating trends, dating slang and their new film, The Browsing Effect. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who wants to date and find love again after an online affair with a high school fling led to a breakup. The Browsing Effect is available on-demand via Amazon, iTunes and Vimeo. For more Girl Boner fun, visit girlboner.org.

From the difference between vaginas and vulvas to how to clean (or not clean) your vulva, August explores important facts about what are considered female sexual parts in this Girl Boner Quickie. Learn more at augustmclaughlin.com/blog.

Don Cummings, author of the memoir Bent But Not Broken, joins August to discuss Peyronie’s disease, a common condition that causes bent and painful erections. They discuss Don’s own experience, including his treatment involving injections and the Andropenis (aka penis stretcher), and the impact the condition has had on his psyche and relationship. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who has interstitial cystitis and would like to feel less anxiety and more desire around sex.   Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras by email at augustmclaughlin.com. Learn more about Don Cummings’ work at doncummings.net.

In this Girl Boner Quickie, August responds to one of her most frequently asked questions: How do you know if a woman is turned on? Talking to Your Partner About Sex Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment

Dr. Julie Albright, digital sociologist and author of Left to Their Own Devices: How Digital Natives are Reshaping the American Dream, joins August to explore the impact of social media on mental health, sex, dating and relationships. Dr. Megan Fleming shares signs digital technology is damaging a relationship.

Ever cry after orgasm? Or during sex? Do you consider yourself a highly sensitive person (HSP)? If so, or your partner is an HSI, this Girl Boner Quickie is for you! Learn ways high sensitivity can influence your sex life, from your turn ons to your fantasies. To read the blog post this episode is based on and click on useful related resources, visit augustmclaughlin.com/turned-on-tears-the-highly-sensitives-sex-life/.

Spicy humor, small penis humiliation and more! Dr. Victoria Reuveni joins August to explore sex-positive content online, the Gillette video on masculinity and ways to benefit from orgasmic yoga, whether in a class or the comfort of your own home. With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for listeners curious about humiliation as a fetish.   Sign up for Dr. Megan’s THRIVE course: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/thrive For more empowering sex tips, visit: https://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner/

In this Girl Boner Quickie episode, August shares five sexual signs that your partner may be on the sociopath or narcissist spectrum. Learn more by streaming the full episode she pulled quotes from here: augustmclaughlin.com/sex-sociopath/.

Can cuddling change the world? Find out in August’s conversation with Dr. Yoni Alkan, a sex educator, professional cuddler and author of “The Book of Cuddles.” They explore ways cuddling skills can help you better connect with others while navigating consent and the dating scene, getting your physical touch needs versus sex needs met (and how they can get confused) and more. With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener who’d love to get things moving faster in the sexual arousal and orgasm department. Learn more + sign up for occasional email extras at girlboner.org. Sign up for Dr. Megan’s free webinar at greatlifegreatsex.com/thrive.

In this Girl Boner Quickie, August shares a story she wrote about her experience with emotional abuse while dating someone on the sociopath spectrum. To stream the Girl Boner Radio “Dating a Sociopath” series she mentions and find additional resources, visit these links: augustmclaughlin.com/dating-a-sociopath/ augustmclaughlin.com/dating-sociopath-healing/

August is joined by Amber B Coleman, dancer, singer, writer and entrepreneur, to explore including black women in feminism, ways she started living more joyfully and authentically, her decision to save sex for marriage and black women we should all know more about. Enjoy a snippet from Amber's single, "Pieces," during the outro. Learn more + sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com/blog. Purchase any Le Wand massager from The Pleasure Chest and receive attachments and special edition tote bag online/in store while supplies last. 

Dr. Megan Fleming chats with August about benefits and myths about couples therapy, why millennials are flocking to it and five of the most common concerns couples bring in. Sign up for Dr. Megan’s free webinar at greatlifegreatsex.com/thrive. Learn more about all-things-Girl Boner at girlboner.org.

Professional cuddlers Jean Franzblau and Fei Wyatt join August to explore health and empowerment benefits of human touch, tips for improving your cuddling skills and how doing so can make you a better lover. Dr. Megan Fleming shares tips for inviting more physical affection to your dating and long-term relationships.   Sign up for free cuddling lessons at cuddlesanctuary.com. Enroll in Dr. Megan’s free workshop at greatlifegreatsex.com/thrive/. Sign up for monthly Girl Boner extras by email at augustmclughlin.com. 

Mona Darling takes August and Girl Boner listeners on a quickie tour of Sub Rosa, Oregon’s only female-run fetish space, which offers kink education, BDSM coaching, sexual empowerment retreats, boudoir photography, intimate play parties, and more. Learn more at subrosapdx.com or augustmclaughlin.com/blog.

August is joined by Becky Heintz, Paul Heintz and Shleigh Pasini, the collective force behind Show Your Courage to explore their mission to support sexual assault survivors: To remind survivors of sexual assault that they are not alone, they have support and they are believed. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who feels ready to date and have sex again after assault and wants to know how to navigate potential triggers. Learn more at augustmclaughlin.com, showyourcourage.com and greatlifegreatsex.com.      

In this Girl Boner quickie episode, August shares her (not-so-popular) thoughts on Gary Chapman’s “The 5 Love Languages.” Can they really enhance dating and relationships? Sign up for occasional email extras at augustmclaughlin.com or girlboner.org.

What does chocolate cake have to do with porn consumption? Is the clitoris in the Bible? Can you embrace Christian faith and sex-positivity at the same time? Bestselling author Nadia Bolz-Weber and actress Amy Brenneman join August to explore healing from sexual shame, talking to kids about sex, positive versus negative first sexual experiences and Nadia’s groundbreaking new book, Shameless: A Sexual Reformation. Learn more and sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at girlboner.org. Get a free gift from Dr. Megan at greatlifegreatsex.com. 

August introduces her new Girl Boner Quickies series with tips for hotter sex that lasts only minutes, yet still brings plentiful benefits. Sign up for occasional extras by email at augustmclaughlin.com or girlboner.org.

Vanessa McGrady joins August to explore her journey to becoming a parent, the adoption process and her new release, “Rock Need River: A Memoir of a Very Open Adoption.” She also shares thoughts on her decision to write the book and what it was like narrating the audiobook version. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who hasn’t desired sex since having a baby three years ago. Learn more and sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin joins August to explore common orgasm myths, ways to experience your first orgasm and how to infuse your sex life with more fun and pleasure. August also shares highlights from her chat with researcher Nicole Prause, PhD, about her research on female sexual arousal, sex toys and orgasm. Dr. Megan Fleming invites listeners to a fun, free online event! Learn more and sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras by email at augustmclaughlin.com/blog.

Dr. Lauren, psychologist and author of Lesbian Love Addiction, joins August to explore her personal experience with love addiction, anxious versus avoidant attachment styles and ways homophobia can impact healing. With Dr. Megan Fleming's help, they weigh in for a listener who's struggling to vocalize her sexual desires. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. Register for A League of Extraordinary Couples for FREE at https://amyelizabethgordon.com/a-league-of-extraordinary-couples-drmeganfleming    

Linda Kay Klein, author of “Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free,” joins August to discuss evangelical Christianity’s purity culture, long-term effects of its messages (such as women are “stumbling blocks” and responsible for men’s sexual urges) and what healing can look like and bring. August and Dr. Megan Fleming weigh in for a listener who grew up Catholic and learning that masturbation is a sin. Can he move past the shame and feel happier in his otherwise sexless marriage? Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras by email at augustmclaughlin.com. For the follow up blog with links mentioned in this episode, visit augustmclaughlin.com/blog.

Lora Dicarlo won the CES Innovation Award for Osé, a hands-free sex toy for vulva owners that stimulates the clitoris and G-spot at the same time. But then, the award was rescinded. August interviews the company's CEO, Lora Haddock, and its marketing director, Sarah Brown, about the toy, blended orgasms and their desire to raise awareness around gender bias in tech. The pair also wants to encourage people who long for something that doesn't exist to take the leap and create it. Dr. Megan Fleming introduces an exciting new class she's put together for Girl Boner listeners! Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

August looks back on memorable moments from five years and 250 episodes of Girl Boner Radio. This extra special episode features unique sex ed stories, female sexual arousal and squirting 101, inspiring interview excerpts, a creepy in-studio happening, tips for inviting more pleasurable sex and more. Sign up for Girl Boner extras by email at augustmclaughlin.com.

Isabelle Kohn, a journalist, educator, and consultant who works at a sex store, joins August to explore media portrayals of sexuality, ways BDSM transports people "into a flow" and more. With Dr. Megan Fleming's help, they weigh in for a listener who's frustrated that women express interest in dating him then don't follow through. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Lina Bembe and Pandora of The Ersties Podcast join August to explore their sexual self-discovery journeys, working in the adult industry and the sex-positive culture in Berlin, Germany. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who is new to sexting. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras by email at augustmclaughlin.com.

August is joined by Makenzie Mizell, cofounder of the Period podcast network and Girl Boner’s audio engineer and tech producer, for a chat about sexual discoveries, dealing with criticism and competition versus non-competition among women and femmes. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who is struggling to advocate for her own sexual pleasure. Then August and Makenzie delve unexpectedly into navigating body image challenges and wrap up with a few podcasting and writing tips for beginners. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. Find “Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment” in audiobook, hardcover and ebook formats on Amazon. Learn more about Period at periodnetwork.com.           

August is joined by her mom, Caroline, who shares about her upbringing in India, the sexual abuse she endured and how she found healing after memories she had repressed surfaced. Caroline literally wove her life back together, finding healing through art, and wants people to know how important it is to believe survivors. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who received an apology note from someone who assaulted her. Sign up for occasional extras by email at augustmclaughlin.com. Learn more about healing from trauma in August's book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment, available on Amazon and most anywhere books are sold.

CalExotics’ resident sexologist Dr. Jill McDevitt joins August to talk about giving sex toys as gifts, including when doing so is appropriate and hot new picks when it is. She also shares tips for prioritizing sexual intimacy and self-care during the holidays and other hectic times. Sign up for occasional email extras and learn about August's books at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Girl Boner Radio LIVE at The Pleasure Chest! August is joined by Erica Garza, author of Getting Off, and Amy Dresner, author of My Fair Junkie, for readings from their latest works and conversation about turning points, addiction myths, sexual shame and recovery. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose boyfriend revealed he’s a recovering sex and love addict. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

In celebration of her new book, August took Girl Boner Radio to NYC! This episode features a panel with Dr. Megan Fleming and The V. Club cofounder Courtney Clemen on ways to deepen connection in your sex life and relationships. You'll also hear from two surprise returning guests and a spicy excerpt from August's book. Sign up for occasional email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. Outro music: In Between the Sides by Gaston Beltran, featuring Bria Jene. 

Sex addiction, love addiction and self-love. August is joined by Charlene deGuzman to explore her personal journey, healthy dating and her new movie, "Unloveable." Named one of the "funniest people on Twitter" by Rolling Stone and creator of numerous celebrated short films, Charlene wrote and stars in "Unlovable," along with John Hawkes and Melissa Leo. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose long-distance relationship is strained due to mismatched sexual desires. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Carol and David of The Sexy Lifestyle join August to chat about their unique love story (which includes marrying each other's exes), what they appreciate most about the swinging lifestyle and related myths. With Dr. Megan Fleming's help, they weigh in for a listener whose recent job loss is causing rifts in her marriage. In a bonus quickie segment, August shares Life on the Swingset co-host Dylan Thomas's thoughts on gender equality in swinger communities. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Multi award-winning porn star Rob Piper joins August to chat about music that turns people on, common turn-ons and turn-offs and what it’s like to blend Southern charm and values with work in the adult film industry. With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener who gets aroused most everywhere except in bed. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

How often do you think about your financial future? If you feel a bit clueless about "money stuff," you're far from alone. In this episode, August is joined by Elaine Low, a financial journalist and video producer for Investor's Business Daily, to explore gender gaps around investing, pressures on women to spend money but not discuss it and simple ways to start cultivating financial security. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who fears women won't date him because of his modest income. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com!

August is joined by Artemis Film Festival founder Melanie Wise, social media maven Megan Hubbell and recording artist/publisher Kaylene Peoples to explore representations of women's strength and sexuality in films and more. With Dr. Megan Fleming's help, they weigh in for a listener who's noticed sex drive changes since adopting a workout routine. Enjoy the special outro music, courtesy of Kaylene! From her forthcoming album, "Romantic Bossa Nova," the song features Kaylene on vocals and Bunny Brunel on bass. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Anne Hodder, ACS joins August to explore emotional intelligence and relationships, ways to cope when you're feeling triggered, dreamwork as a healing tool and the mighty vulva! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who was recently diagnosed with vulvodynia. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Bruna Nessif, founder of The Problem with Dating and author of "Let That Shit Go," joins August to discuss takeaways from her book and dating journey. Learn why millennials, in particular, tend to "ghost" people, the rewards and challenges of sharing vulnerable stories and ways to get unstuck when you fall into harmful dating patterns. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener who found violent hardcore porn on her boyfriend's computer. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com!

Heather Jeffcoat DPT joins August to discuss the pelvic floor, sexual pain conditions and ways physical therapy can help transgender individuals before and after genital reconstruction surgery. With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener who wonders if urinating during sex is normal. You'll also learn a toe-curling orgasm tip! Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com and find August’s Girl Boner book on Amazon.

Comedian Shawn Pelofsky, creator and star of the new one-hour special Stretch It Out, joins August to discuss her career, her efforts to find love (including hypnosis and a love potion) and how she finally met “the one.” With Dr. Megan Fleming’s help, they weigh in for a listener dealing with sexual desire differences during her period. Sign up for occasional extras at augustmclaughlin.com. Find Girl Boner, the book, on Amazon! 

Nicoletta Heidegger, a registered Marriage and Family Therapy Associate and cohost of Sluts and Scholars, joins August to discuss her work and minor attraction (being attracted to children). How is it different from pedophilia? Are healing, management and preventing harm to children possible? With the help of Dr. Megan Fleming, they weigh in for a listener whose wife of eight years recently revealed that she's polyamorous and in love with a coworker. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. Find "Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment" on Amazon.

August is joined by Brianna Rader, founder of Juicebox, an app that pairs people with professional sex and relationship coaches. Learn about Brianna’s journey, from queer Tennessee teen to launching her business, unique challenges sex-positive businesses face, people’s most common and surprising sexual concerns and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose boyfriend wants to do away with the body hair she adores. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. Find August’s new Girl Boner book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2MnjwYn

Pickup artistry gets a bad rap, but are some PUAs decent guys? August chats with Drew Schroeder, a pickup artist who goes against the industry grain. Then Sexual Intuitive® Susanna Brisk joins August to explore the whys behind incels, dating dos and don’ts and the worst dating advice listeners have ever heard. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. Find August’s new book, GIRL BONER, on Amazon!

Dating, sex and animals - oh my! Comedic author Heidi Mastrogiovanni joins August to explore pros and cons of adding a pet to your relationship and the release of their new books: "Lala Pettibone: Standing Room Only" and "Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment." With the help of Dr. Megan Fleming, they weigh in for a listener whose new dog is making spontaneous sex with her boyfriend difficult. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augugstmclaughlin.com.   Purchase August’s new book, “Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment” here: http://bit.ly/GirlBoner 

Jimanekia Eborn, an expert in mental health, sex education and sexual trauma support, joins August to explore ways eating disorders and trauma intersect, forgiveness, consent, Me Too and more! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who’s boyfriend revealed he was abused as a child. MaryEllen Reider, cofounder of Yarlap, shares facts about kegels, pelvic health and pleasure.  Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

August is joined by Amberly Rothfield, a 13-year veteran of the phone sex industry, to explore her personal journey, career and more. With Dr. Megan Fleming's help, they weigh in for a listener who's healing from an abusive relationship. Sign up for Girl Boner extras and learn about August's new books at augustmclaughlin.com. (Our apologies for the subtle AC sound off and on through the episode! It was an issue at the studio and won't be a problem again.)          

Marni, a dating coach for men, joins August to explore common dating mistakes, communicating in the romance realm and letting a partner down easy. With Dr. Megan Fleming's help, they weigh in for a listener who's falling for an asexual man. Can she make it work without sex? Enter the first ever #GirlBoner sweepstakes at https://woobox.com/qwfryy! Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Kimberly Ann Johnson, a sexological bodyworker, birth doula and author of “The Fourth Trimester: A Postpartum Guide to Healing Your Body, Balancing Your Emotions and Restoring Your Vitality,” joins August to explore ways postpartum time provides an opportunity for better sex, female arousal and more! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener experiencing vaginal itchiness after masturbating. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com and pre-order “Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment” on Amazon. 

Kasia Urbaniak, founder and CEO of The Academy who made her living as one of the world’s most successful dominatrixes, joins August to explore standing in your power, the role sex and sexuality play in leading an empowered life and more. Learn ways to navigate uncomfortable conversations, the orgasmic potential of difficult emotions and Dr. Megan Fleming’s take on preparing a teenager for college dating life. For more Girl Boner fun, sign up for occasional extras at augustmclaughlin.com and pre-order “Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment” on Amazon.

Natasha Chandel of the Kinda Dating podcast joins August to explore unusual places people have sex! With Dr. Megan Fleming's help, they discuss nonconsensual arousal and moving on after experiencing it. Learn more and sign up for occasional extras at augustmclaughlin.com. For more Girl Boner fun, pre-order "Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment" on Amazon.

Actress, producer and trans health advocate Blossom Brown joins August to explore the importance of trans rights within feminism, issues unique to trans women of color, supporting trans men and how appearing on Ellen Degeneres’s show and in Caitlyn Jenner’s documentary series, I AM CAIT, influenced her life. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who wonders why vibrators don’t do much for her. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com!

August is joined by Stevie Boebi, a YouTuber who specializes in queer sex, to chat about lesbian sex myths, sex toys and jealousy. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who feels uncomfortable with her partner’s flirting with others behavior. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. Enter The Pleasure Chest’s Womanizer 2Go giveaway on Instagram @pleasurecheststores June 16 - 17! 

The "mysterious" clitoris, sexual revolutions and more! Joan Price joins August to explore her journey from gynecologist's daughter in the 50s to becoming a celebrated sex educator and finding true love in her golden years. Learn what feminism brought to sexuality, how ageism impacts dating and good news about intimacy later in life. Dr. Megan Fleming, August and Joan weigh in for a listener who wants to know if casual dating makes sense and whether she's approaching it well post-divorce. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. While you're there, click BOOKS to preorder "Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment."    NOTE: This episode was pre-released last week with glitches, and a few people downloaded it before we noticed and took it down. If you received it twice, this one's the keeper! Email a screenshot of your feed showing both episodes and your snail mail address to august@augustmclaughlin.com and we'll send you a free gift.

Clitoris adventures, lesbian characters and more! August is joined by Ji Strangeway, a poet, author and film director about her personal journey, sex ed, teen pleasure and her hybrid graphic novel, Red as Blue. Victor Tobar of The Pleasure Chest shares tips for queering your sex. Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts for a listener who wants to enjoy penis play but his new partner doesn't enjoy anal. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Adult star Ginger Banks joins August to discuss SESTA and FOSFA, controversial bills touted as a way to minimize sex trafficking. But sex work and sex trafficking aren't the same thing. Learn how these bills and other myths about sex work affect sex workers, highlights from Ginger's personal journey and career and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who wants to date for the first time after years of bullying about her appearance. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com!

Super gonorrhea—what??? Scientist Sean Buono joins August to discuss STDs/STIs, ways body-positivity plays into sex education, issues particularly important for LGBTQ individuals and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who acquired chlamydia while on a break from her relationship. Now that they're back together, should she tell him? Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Childbirth, medical conditions, shame and anxiety can all make sex more "ouch" than "ahhh!" Estrella Jaramillo, cofounder of B-wom, joins August to explore her sexual empowerment journey, sexual pain versus pleasure and women's pelvic health as an equality issue. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who's experienced painful intercourse since having a baby. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com!   Thanks and see you soon!  

Logan Pierce joins August to discuss his adult film career and his telling memoir, Between The Sheets: Rise of a Working Stiff. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who feels conflicted about a guy she's dating. She supports sex workers, so why can't she accept his work in adult films? Sign up for monthly Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Yashi Brown joins August to explore her Jehova's Witness upbringing, living with bipolar I disorder and ways both have influenced her sexuality. They discuss everything from depression, psychosis and hyper-sexuality to sexual side effects of medication and ways to better cope when you're struggling. Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a listener whose boyfriend wants to save sex for marriage. For more Girl Boner fun, sign up for extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

August chats with Genevieve Lejeune of Skirt Club about her personal journey, cultivating sexual confidence, cultural approaches to sexuality, open relationships and more. Dr. Megan Fleming and August weigh in for a listener who's worried about a group of friends, and wonders if they'll judge her for being "not open enough." Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

August is joined by adult star Raven Hart to explore her career, ways to act on fantasies when you're feeling shy and common STI myths. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who wants to make her dominatrix dreams come true within her relationship. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com!

Comedian Emma Arnold joins August at Storyfort fest in Boise, Idaho to discuss her personal journey, including her struggles with porn and sex addiction, her life as a comic, blue balls versus blue clits and more! Play along with some fun and hilarious sex ed trivia and hear Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener who can't stop passing gas during orgasms. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at girlboner.org.

Ghosting, mixed signals, "rape fantasies" and more. Erin Tillman, inclusive dating coach and author of The Consent Guidebook, joins August to discuss the ins and outs of consent, address listeners' questions and talk about films that get consent right or wrong. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who has violent sexual fantasies and wonders if they derive from her history of abuse. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Cassie Brighter, a speaker and author, joins August for a Girl Boner Radio chat on intersectionality in womanhood, whether pussy hats are transphobic, her personal journey as a transgender woman, raising trans children, and more! August also addresses the most common topic she hears about from cis men with the help of Dr. Megan Fleming. (Hint: It involves penises!) Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Activist, writer and researcher Winnie M. Lee joins August to discuss the effects of sexual violence, leading a fulfilling life after surviving sexual trauma and ways consent and feminism play into all of this. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener who feels lost in her relationship. August shares bravery experiences from listeners. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

"Thinking off," tapping into your true desires and more! Sexual Intuitive® Susanna Brisk joins August to discuss takeaways from her new book, “How to Get Laid Using Your Intuition,” which she wrote in the context of the #metoo and #timesup movements. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who suspects her partner is cheating but has no tangible proof. Sign up for Girl Boner® extras at augustmclaughlin.com.  

Joanna Angel, named "one of the most powerful feminist icons in the adult industry," joins August to explore her novel, Night Shift: A Choose-Your-Own Erotic Fantasy, women directors in porn and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who discovered that his girlfriend writes kinky erotica. Does that mean she's unhappy with their "vanilla" sex life? Sign up for occasional Girl Boner® extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Sexual compulsions can affect all genders, yet women's struggles are seldom discussed. Erica Garza, author of Getting Off: One Woman's Journey Through Sex and Porn Addiction, joins August to explore her personal journey, taboos around female sexuality, healing from shame and more. Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a listener who found child porn on her husband's computer. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Sex-positive feminist and YouTuber Cristina Royale joins August for a chat about her choice to be single, Cristina's most notable booty call experiences, sex drive changes, yoni eggs, porn and more! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who wonders if she’s become asexual in her 30s but still wants to date. For Girl Boner® extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com.

We’ve all heard “you are what you eat.” But how does our dietary lifestyle influence romance and intimacy? Victoria Moran, multi-published author and host of Main Street Vegan, joins August to explore what plant-based eating has to do with great sex, navigating different-eater relationships and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose marriage is suffering due to different political views. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner® extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Matchmaker Marla Martenson joins August to discuss soul mates, ways to attract one, dating mistakes and more! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who's dating for the first time in years and can't seem to find guys who desire more than casual sex. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Nipples: are they sexy or sexualized? What can cuddling teach us about consent? And what can you do if your partner isn't as affectionate as you'd like? Jean Franzblau, sex educator and founder of The Cuddle Sanctuary, joins August explore all of this and more! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on expressing your desires without criticizing your partner. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras by email at augustmclaughlin.com.

From consent and vibrator necklaces to fabulous fashion goals, this episode is chock-full of practical tips, funny stories and adult slumber party game fun. Stylist Rayne Parvis and dating coach Erin Tillman join August for the last episode of the year! Dr. Megan Fleming shares "2 truths and a lie" about sex therapy clients. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

LGBTQI advocate, counselor and openly intersex comedian 7 joins August to discuss their journey to self-acceptance, non-binary gender idendities and ways to heal from addiction. Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts for a listener who finds sex less enticing without alcohol. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Bigger isn't necessarily better, especially when entering a small penis pageant! But smaller penises can bring other perks, too. August interviews Rip Van Dinkle, a contestant in the Smallest Penis in Brooklyn pageant. Learn about Rip's experience, small penis humiliation as a fetish and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on ways to embrace any body part you're not thrilled about. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com.

Hungry for hotter sex? The secret may have little to do with actual sex. Kait Scalisi, MPH of PassionbyKait.com joins August to explore contextual keys to better sex, coping with emotional triggers, potential perks of anal play, sexy gifts and more! Dr. Megan Fleming replies to a listener whose partner’s BDSM style reminds her of her abusive ex, triggering embodied trauma. For occasional Girl Boner® extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Vibrators, cock rings, erotica and more! August chats with Adam & Eve's Katy Zvolerin and sexologist Dr. Victoria Reuveni. Get the scoop on popular sex toys, orgasmic yoga, solo play for stress reduction and why so many toys marketed toward women are shaped like animals. Light up your holidays Girl Boner style with special discounts! You'll also hear about the sexiest gifts several listeners have given or received, plus Dr. Megan's advice for a listener who wants to gift her boyfriend a toy and address erectile dysfunction at the same time. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. To save $30 at TalkSpace, sign up at talkspace.com/boner.

VR webcam girl, activist and entrepreneur Ela Darling joins August for a chat about sex and VR! What are the potential pros and cons? And can sex robots replace humans in the bedroom? Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who made a sex tape with her boyfriend and has been judging herself harshly ever since. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Do parts of the brain shut off during orgasm? Sex therapist and scientist Dr. Nan Wise joins August to explore her latest findings, orgasm fMRI studies, sexual pleasure and more. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener: is using your vibrator every day risky for managing chronic pain? For Girl Boner® extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Does size matter? What if your partner's penis is so large, penetration is painful? Or smaller than you're used to? London Keyes, an award-nominated porn star, joins August to discuss her career, why she's leaving the adult industry and all-things-penis, from blow job tips and pleasure myths to the potential perks of double penetration. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in a for a listener whose partner's large penis has her reaching for ibuprofen. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for monthly email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. To save $30 at TalkSpace visit talkspace.com/boner.    

If you struggle to experience orgasm or wonder how you can repair your relationship after a betrayal, you're not alone. Shadeen Francis, MFT joins August to discuss common sexual and relationship challenges and ways to address them. Megan Fleming, PhD weighs in for a listener who's about to start couples therapy, but her husband is far from enthusiastic. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for monthly email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. To save $30 at TalkSpace, visit talkspace.com/boner.  

Difficulty becoming pregnant is common and not often discussed. TV producer and co-creator of Bubblesandbumps.com Simone Tai has been out to change this, ever since enduring her own challenges with infertility, miscarriages and in vitro fertilization. Simone chats with August about her journey, how the challenges affected her marriage and sex life and more. Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts for a listener whose sex life with her husband has slowed to a halt since their IVF treatments and birth of their daughter. For Girl Boner extras, visit augustmclaughlin.com. To save $30 off your first month at TalkSpace, sign up at talkspace.com/boner. 

Sexy party games, swinger cruises and more! August is joined by noted sex columnist and host of Between the Sheets, Lora Somoza, to play The F’ing Truth, a spicy, inclusive card game for “anyone who fs.” Dr. Megan Fleming and Carol and David of The Sexy Lifestyle weigh in for a listener who wants to take her husband on a swinging cruise but feels intimidated. How can they dip in? Also, how crazy are the Girl Boner connections in the latest Grey’s Anatomy episode??? Learn more and find related links at augustmclaughlin.com/sex-game.

Making moves, healing your heart and more! August chats with Brett McGinn of Love Fucking Sucks, a self-proclaimed hopeless romantic who guides people through heartache. Brett weighs in on dating, relationships and heartbreak and speaks openly about his past battle with anorexia. Along with Dr. Megan Fleming's help, they respond to a listener who wants to get a guy's attention who seems out of her league. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for monthly email updates at augustmclaughlin.com.

Sexy cinema, gal pals and more! August chats with Heidi Mastrogiovanni, author of Lala Pettibone's Act Two, about erotic and romantic films worth savoring. Teri Emory, author of Second Acts, joins in to explore the term "women's fiction," the power of female friendships and the joy of working with women across the generations. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. To save $30 off your first month at TalkSpace, sign up at talkspace.com/boner.

Erotic photographer Holly Randall returns for a chat on sexting, sensual photo shoots, vibrators and more! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose boyfriend isn't hip on her sexy photo shoot plans. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Blind dates, benefits of mid-life sex, male cheating myths and more! August chats with Arlene Schindler, a relationship expert and writer who has been on over 400 blind dates -- one man died before their date. What happened next? And are older men automatically more attracted to younger women, or cheaters? (Spoiler: no.) Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener concerned that her husband's desires will sway toward younger women due to memories of her "player" father. Sign up for monthly email updates and Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Erotic filmmaker Erika Lust chats with August about sex education in Sweden, ethical porn and why we need more women filmmakers. Multitalented musician Michelle Mangione and rock n’ roll icon Grace Slick of Jefferson Airplane join in to discuss Writers for the Storm, which supports victims of hurricanes Harvey, Irma and Jose. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who found hardcore porn on her boyfriend’s computer. To get $30 off your first month of therapy through TalkSpace and support Girl Boner Radio at the same time, visit talkspace.com/boner. For more Girl Boner fun, visit augustmclaughlin.com.

Breakups aren't often simple. What do you do with items that remind you of the relationship once it's ended? Should you keep them or let them go? Would you donate them to a museum? In this Girl Boner Radio episode, August interviews Alexis Hyde, director of the Museum of Broken Relationships in Los Angeles, then takes listeners on an audio tour of select items on display at the museum -- including silicone breast implants, pubic hair and a confession booth, where visitors fess up anonymously in a journal. You'll also hear from August's friends (Karina, Rayne and Erin), who weigh in on keeping gifts from exes, and August and Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener working to heal from relationship trauma. For occasional Girl Boner extras, sign up for email updates: augustmclaughlin.com. 

Clara Henry, Swedish YouTube star and author of "I've Got My Period. So What?," joins August for a chat about menstruation, PMS, common related myths, why periods are a feminist issue and more. 

Orgasm myths, privacy while online dating, loving your (already) "bikini body" and more! Dr. Megan Stubbs joins August to gab about challenges of being a sex expert while dating, frequently asked sex questions, masturbation myths and ways to cultivate positive body image. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose reputation as an erotic dancer is making romance tricky in her small town. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner updates at augustmclaughlin.com!

Sexy play shouldn't hurt (unless that's your kink!). August explores painful sexual dysfunction in women with Heather Jeffcoat, a Doctor of Physical Therapy and owner of Femina Physical Therapy in Los Angeles. You'll also learn about penis fractures and Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener who broke her boyfriend's penis and can't seem to move past the shame. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Sex toys, Girl Boners and more! August chats with Meg Ross, founder of The Nooky Box, on benefits of vibrators, ways adult toys can enhance intimacy with your partner, plus anal vibrators. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who wonders if her vibrating dildo is "too big" and may have caused her UTI. 

Lea Grover joins August to explore her experience with an unwanted, high-risk pregnancy scare, thoughts on the senate healthcare bill and her wish to change the face of who "deserves" an abortion. Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts for a listener with diabetes whose doctor recommended no sex due to her high risk pregnancy. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner news and updates here: augustmclaughlin.com.

Sexologist and author Dr. Nikki Goldstein joins August to discuss sexual exploration as a woman in the digital age, casual sex, masturbation, thinking with your vulva versus logic and perks of a sex and dating bucket list. You'll also hear Dr. Nikki's and Dr. Megan's thoughts for a listener whose boyfriend wants to see other people, but she wants to stay monogamous. Learn more and sign up for occasional news/updates at augustmclaughlin.com

Queer, Latinx writer and activist Hida Viloria chats with August about her journey to recognizing s/he was born intersex and how her life evolved thereafter. The outspoken advocate for intersex and non-binary gender equality, who shared her story in the powerful memoir, BORN BOTH, shares benefits of being born intersex, what “political correctness” really means, a poignant message for anyone struggling with a toxic parental relationship and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose husband's ADHD seems to have tanked his sex drive. To sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras, visit augustmclaughlin.com.  

Transsexual adult film star and activist Venus Lux joins August for a Girl Boner chat on inclusivity, how working in porn has influenced her sex life, differences between real physical intimacy and porn and more! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose teen daughter watched porn at a slumber party and found it “painful and scary.” Learn more and sign up for occasional news/updates at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Masturbation, sleep-gasms and more! Dating expert Bruna joins August to discuss her year and a half without sex, pubic hair disagreements, vulnerability and all sorts of 'gasms. Learn more and sign up for occasional Girl Boner updates here: http://www.augustmclaughlin.com

Desire, guybrators, fantasies! August shares highlights from her NYC chat with sex therapist Dr. Megan Fleming and sex educator Kait Scalisi, MPH. Learn practical and surprising ways to feel sexier, simple ways to cultivate emotional intimacy with your partner on a daily basis, the most important reason to reignite your Girl Boner and what some sex-perts fantasize about. You'll also hear about the PULSE III Duo, a vibrator for penis masturbation and couple play! For episode extras, including a discount code for the toy, visit augustmclaughlin.com.

Sex positions, vibrators and mindfulness! Elle Chase and Cyndi Darnell join August for a chat on body acceptance, maximizing pleasure, ways to be more present during sex and navigating libido differences. Also, can intentionally slowing arousal down while using sex toys bring Girl Boner perks? Both experts weigh in!

Actress and Girl Unfiltered founder Helena Grace Donald joins August for a chat on eating disorder survival, body image, dealing with fear and self-criticism and forgiving yourself. Dr. Megan weighs in on forgiveness -- tips for doing so, how to know if you've done it and more! 

From "love bombing" and withholding sex to being the best lovers ever. August interviews Jenni J.V. Wilson and Dr. Wendy O'Connor about narcissism, sociopathy and ways these personality types can influence romance and intimacy. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who broke up with her seemingly sociopath boyfriend, but keeps going back for sexual pleasure. Does she have to choose between happiness and great sex?

Pleasure, oral sex and more! August interviews Dr. Alison Ash on how to be a feminist in the bedroom, ways to eat pussy like a pro and her journey from rape survivor to empowerment coach. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who recently came out as bisexual and wants to feel confident going down on a fellow woman. 

Porn star Kendra Sunderland joins August for a chat about her career, the power of fantasizing for arousal and pleasure, and more! Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener who feels ashamed of her fantasies, but wants to embrace them. When can our turn-ons help or hurt?

Erotic films that empower women? Heck yes! August interviews Michelle Shnaidman, founder and CEO of Bellesa, on her personal journey, the benefits of feminist porn, the arousal potential of erotic stories and more. Dr. Megan answers a Q for a listener, whose boyfriend gave up all porn after being turned on by violent scenes. Can they still enjoy other adult films together?

TV producer, journalist and author Kathy Eldon joins August to explore love and loss, the sexual revolution, how life in Africa changed her life and Creative Visions, the nonprofit inspired by her son Dan Eldon, an artist and activist who was killed while on-assignment in Somalia. In a fun AskDrMegan segment, August and Dr. Fleming share thoughts on claiming pleasure, for a 40-something listener who wants to learn how to orgasm.

Desire, bondage and more! August chats with pro-dom Goddess Severa about her personal journey and career plus BDSM myths. Dr. Megan shares why vanilla sex gets a bad rap and ways to spice it up.

Musician Michelle Mangione joins August to explore her dynamic career and personal journey, coming out as gay in her 20s and breakup sex: why is it so hot? Dr. Megan Fleming answers listener Qs: Should a woman reveal her stepdaughter's secret to her other parents? What are the pros and cons of sex with an ex? Dominatrix Sandra LaMorgese and Nasty Woman Project contributor KMHuber share coming out experiences.

International aid worker and social entrepreneur Linda Cruse joins August to explore her incredible journey after sudden blindness led her to sell her belongings and begin assisting in some of the world’s most catastrophic natural disasters. Learn about her life on the front lines, a near-death experience, her encounter with the Dalai Lama and ways we can all make a difference. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener who will be apart from her fiancé for a year.

Pubic hair, waxing, steaming and more! August explores things women commonly do to their vulvas and vaginas with author Rachel Khona. You'll also learn about Rachel's feminist memoir, what's "normal" versus change-worthy and empowering "down there" and Dr. Megan Fleming's advice for a listener whose girlfriend wants cosmetic vaginoplasty.

Feeling "not good enough," recovering from childhood challenges and more! August interviews author and professor Dr. Barbara Jaffe on moving past replacement child syndrome, ways it affected her life and universal takeaways. Dr. Megan weighs in on addressing children's sexual curiosities. Special guest: August's mom.

August interviews Heidi Mastrogiovanni, author of Lala Pettibone’s Act Two. Learn how she found joy after loss, ways to attract love, tips for aspiring writers and more! Dr. Megan weighs in for a woman who wants to incorporate kinky sex into her longtime marriage.

Stuntwoman/actress Melanie Wise discusses perks of physical strength conditioning, its role in gender equality and more! August shares fellatio facts and tips. Dr. Megan Fleming shares advice for a listener who isn't experienced or confident with oral sex but wants to be.

Mona Darling returns to Girl Boner to chat about reentering sex work in her 40s, orgasm control and sassy getaways with your girlfriends! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who prefers quickies, while her boyfriend prefers slow sex.

Kouros Alaee has moved past childhood abuse and binge eating disorder, embraced herself as an empowered transgender woman and now teaches others to cultivate wellness and self-love. Learn about her journey, her top tips for living authentically, ways to feel sexy and more!

Laura Corn, NYT bestselling author of 101 Nights of Great Sex, joins August for a chat on spicing up your bedroom life, common sexual complaints, the importance or romance and more! Dr. Megan responds to a listener who wishes her husband were more enthused about sex.

Erotic careers can be rewarding and demanding. Take it from Lola Davina, who joins August to explore her journey as a sex worker and why self-care is crucial in the industry. Dr. Megan weighs in enjoying sex when depression stands in the way. August reviews the L’amourose Prism vibrator, thanks to The Pleasure Chest!

Our "flaws" often aren't negative at all -- but that doesn't mean every quirk or change is easy to accept. Cancer survivor Elle the Author joins August for a chat on self and body acceptance. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on embracing scars, managing anxiety and more. August shares highlights from the Pasadena Women's Rally/Women's March, featuring congresswoman Judy Chu and Planned Parenthood's Sheri Bonner.

Dr. Sheila Loanzon joins August to discuss her personal journey with herpes, how the STD can affect sex and intimacy, talking to partners about STDs and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who is scared to tell her new partner about her diagnosis.

"She Comes First" author and psychotherapist Ian Kerner PhD weighs in on PE and oral pleasure. Megan Fleming PhD responds to a listener whose boyfriend orgasms too quickly. Courtney Black joins August for a chat on comedy, racism and dating.

Nude photo shoots, body acceptance and more! August interviews Ricardo Scipio of Sex Goddess Project and adult film star, Alison Tyler. Dr. Megan explores ways to feel sexy.

Masturbation, meditation and self-care make awesome alternatives to typical pass/fail New Year's resolutions. Hear empowering tips from previous Girl Boner® guests and more as August interviews renowned comic Shawn Pelofsky.

Sexual education can be fun, erotic and even life-saving. August interviews Jessica Holter, who created The Punany Poets after rapper Eazy-E died of AIDS complications, in anticipation of rapid spread of the disease among Black/African American women. Dr. Megan weighs in on erectile dysfunction.

Ralph Sutton of the SDR Show joins August for a chat on relationships gone wrong and why you may want to wait a bit before committing! Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener, who discovered her boyfriend has been lying about his age and name.

Painful sex is relatively common and treatable. Therapist Kayna Cassard joins August for a chat on the causes, common myths, solutions and more! Dr. Megan answers a Q from a listener who loves a bit of kinky/BDSM pain, but wants to move past vaginal strain during intercourse.

Comedian Sandra Valls joins August to discuss her work, dating, phone sex and more! Plus, learn spicy date and gift ideas for the holidays.

Trump won, so now what? August responds to the presidential election, explores intimacy after sexual assault with Catriona McHardy, and shares messages from allies of marginalized groups. Dr. Megan weighs in for a rape survivor who’s felt triggered by the election.

Breathe, stretch, climax! Dr. Victoria Reuveni joins August for a chat on the orgasmic yoga circles she leads and mighty potential perks of the practice. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on sexual compulsivity.

Good lovemaking and intuition can go hand-in-hand. August interviews intuitive and healer Sophia Wise One on maximizing your intuitive skills for better sex and intimacy, healing from trauma and boosted safety. Dr. Megan answers a listener's Q: should a married woman stop fantasizing about her coworker?

LAPD veteran Paul Bishop joins August for a chat on stalking, from common myths and personal safety to what to do if it happens. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener whose girlfriend, a stalking survivor, is experiencing its traumatic effects.

Masturbation, queerness, sex before marriage and even pleasure are shunned by many religious denominations. August chats with Lana Fox, erotica author and cult survivor, on her own experience and how she cultivated healing and empowerment. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a Q on moving past sexual shame without giving up your church.

Lauren Jankowski returns for a chat on asexuality, ways (and why) to be a strong ally, Asexual Artists and more. Dr. Megan answers a listener's Q: Can you become asexual after trauma?

Dave Booda of Dude Panel Radio joins August for a chat about sex education, masturbation, dating and more! Dr. Megan shares what she feels boys should learn in sex ed.

Dave Booda of Dude Panel Radio joins August for a chat about sex education, masturbation, dating and more! Dr. Megan shares what she feels boys should learn in sex ed.

Masturbation with toys can be awesome, but can vibrators be too much? August interviews Trish Causey, a writer, activist and musician, on her journey to really experiencing pleasure, surviving sexual trauma and more. Dr. Megan weighs in on a listener's troubled marriage.

UTIs, squirting, urinary incontinence and more! Learn about common bladder-related health issues and how they interplay with sexuality with August and Missy Lavender, of the Women's Health Foundation. Dr. Megan replies to a listener who experiences pain when she attempts to place anything in her vagina.

Women's sexuality, and sexuality as a whole, are deeply influenced by cultural beliefs, religion and upbringing. August chats with coach and author Lauren Brim about her journey from a costly search for "the one," to a whole new view of sex and relationships. Learn the real meaning of "sodomy," facts about anal play, why you should love flaccid penises and sex-positive parenting. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener, whose boyfriend can't maintain an erection without porn.

Nakedness, self-acceptance and more! August chats with Sandra La Morgese, PhD about comfort with nudity, her recent dominatrix photos and her new memoir. Joanna Harcourt-Smith, author of "Tripping the Bardo with Timothy Leary," joins in to explore living with poignancy and tenderness. Dr. Megan answers a Q on jealousy: how do you move on when your partner kissed someone else and confessed?

Back-gasms, body image, mismatched libido and more! August chats with Dr. Shannon Chavez about her holistic approach to sex therapy and education. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q about orgasming during massages.

Dr. Laurie Bennett-Cook shares her journey from law student to sex worker to sex educator. This dynamic chat touches on unconventional marriages, jealousy in any kind of relationship, myths about working in brothels and more. Dr. Megan Fleming discusses what to do about discomfort over a partner's bisexuality.

Spicy pleasure should carry on! Learn simple ways to keep a monogamous relationship hot, plus thoughts on "normal" sex frequency and circumcision, as August chats with sex educator Kait Scalisi, MPH. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q on sexless marriage.

Angels, ouija boards, and sex! Can you attract a soulmate using spiritual "magic"? August gabs about it all w/matchmaker and author Marla Martenson. Dr. Megan weighs in on initiating sex.

August chats with sex and relationship coach Pam Costa about mismatched libido, masturbation classes, penis polishing, and more. Dr. Megan answers a Q for a listener who hasn't had sex in years: Will her Girl Boner ever return?

August interviews Natalie Dale, founder of Style PB, about the pelvic floor and empowering benefits of exercise. Nick Mahler, the owner of Dallas Novelty, highlights toys for people who are disabled. Dr. Megan shares advice for listener experiencing pelvic pain during sex.

August interviews Dr. Megan and Dr. Barb DePree, a gynecologist and menopause specialist, on the potential challenges and benefits of menopause. Learn how it can affect sex and intimacy, how to manage common symptoms and more.

August interviews adult film star and practicing Muslim, Nadia Ali, and answers a listener's question on feminist porn.

Learn how to rock your Girl Boner with recommended sex toys, alone or with a partner, as August interviews Sarah Tomchesson of The Pleasure Chest. Sarah and Dr. Megan also weigh in with important facts about female/estrogen-based-body sexual pleasure.

August chats with Nicole LaBonde, a dancer, actor and Pilates instructor, about eating disorder recovery, dance as a healing tool, her recent experience with cancer and how all of this has affected her intimate life. A listener asks how to help her daughter, who has bulimia and is having unprotected sex with a controlling boyfriend. You'll also hear a special tribute to Orlando shooting victims, featuring singer Arielle.

August explores common misperceptions about "slut"-shaming with Emily Lindin of the UnSlut Project. Dr. Megan Fleming shares advice for a woman whose boyfriend is disturbed by the number of sex partners she's had.

Elle the Author returns to discuss breast cancer recurrence. Learn how her journey with cancer has changed her and her hopes moving forward. Dr. Megan shares advice for anyone enduring difficult times.

August interviews Lachrista Greco, a writer, speaker, activist and founder/CEO of Guerrilla Feminism, on her experience with learning disabilities. Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts for the wife of a wounded war veteran.

August interviews Angela Featherstone, an actress, writer and lecturer who was sex trafficked as a teen. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on sexual trauma and PTSD that interfere with physical intimacy.

August interviews Tiffany Bailey, a singer who has opted for a double mastectomy and hysterectomy, after losing several family members to breast cancer and learning that she has the BRCA-1 mutated gene.

August talks periods, socially conscious entrepreneurship and more with THINX creator Miki Agrawal. Dr. Megan Fleming shares what to do when you crave sex with others, but no longer your partner.

August interviews clinical sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee on orgasmic yoga and bringing yourself to climax, in celebration of National Masturbation Month. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who orgasms with ease solo, but not with her partner.

August chats with Sarah J. Swofford, MPH, an author and sex educator for moms, on sexual changes and after childbirth and ways to boost moms' self-esteem. Then Dr. Megan weighs in on Girl Boner® blog readers' FAQ on sex drive differences, timing sex and more.

August interviews Christina Weber of Undergound Unattached about dating dos and don'ts when you desire a serious relationship. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q: What if your partner wants children, but you don't?

August interviews exotic porn star Jayden Lee on the differences between sex in pornography and reality and Dr. Megan answers a listener's Q on oral sex: what if you don't enjoy going down on your partner?

August interviews Missy Lavendar, Founder and Executive Director of the Women's Health Foundation and coauthor of Below Your Belt: How To Be Queen of Your Pelvic Region. Dr. Megan weighs in for a single dad whose 5-YO daughter has sex questions. August shares a special gift for all listeners!

August interviews writer Casey Brown on bathroom discrimination against trans people, then explores cuddling with Jean Franzblau, founder of Cuddle Sanctuary. Learn about cuddle parties, finding a cuddle partner and more! Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q about PDA: she loves it, her guy detests it.

August chats with feminist, cannabis-friendly sex educator Ashley Manta. Learn about her personal journey, how smoking weed affects sex and orgasm and effective ways to talk "dirty." Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q: what if your partner is a lot more sexually adventurous than you are?

August interviews Melissa Toler, a body image coach who healed from decades of compulsive dieting. Learn about self-compassion, getting off the dieting train, body-positivity myths and more. Then August and Dr. Megan Fleming answer questions from listeners. Can a "lifestyle plan" damage sex drive? And what sex positions are ideal for women with a retroflexed uterus?

August addresses menstrual shame and shares funny period stories from listeners' and her own life. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in about period sex, talking to girls about menstruation and more.

August interviews Lauren Marie Fleming, creator of #BawdyLove, on her journey to self and body acceptance, how grief affected her sexuality and the link between body image and money views. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's Q: How can a woman regain her sex drive after sudden heartbreak?

August interviews nutritionist Tye Riviera Handley about eating disorders in men, then explores sexuality, eating disorders and Christianity with Kendra Tanner of The True You Project. August and Dr. Megan Fleming reply to a listener's question about bulimia and sex drive.

August interviews porn-star Dillion Harper about her personal journey, career, common sex questions she hears and more. Then Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on multiple orgasms.

August interviews Sandra LaMorgese, PhD, a holistic sexuality expert and author who became a dominatrix later in life, on sex and creativity. Then Dr. Megan Fleming calls in to discuss sexy self-care and how to cultivate it even when you're stressed or depressed.

August interviews Orien Mcneill, artist and creator of the Clitoring, a ring shaped like an anatomically correct clitorises, then explores frequently asked questions about clitoral climaxes. Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a question from a listener: how can she make her "sleep-gasms" --aka orgasms during the night-- stop? Get more sex tips at girlboner.org.

August chats with life and love coach Hayley Quinn about slut-shaming, harmful dating strategies and how to find your dream relationship. Then Dr. Megan Fleming joins in with tips for improving lost libido.

August interviews Dawn Serra, sex educator and cohost of the Sex Gets Real podcast, on her sex-positive childhood, how she's healed from sexual assault and her thoughts on consent and fat acceptance. Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a listener struggling with clitoral pain and missing orgasms.

August interviews Victoria Moran, a bestselling author, longtime vegan and wellness advocate about her journey from obesity and binge-eating to thriving and how to eat a compassionate diet for a sexier life. Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a listener whose husband is struggling with erectile dysfunction.

August interviews Nicole Minsk, author of I Know How You Feel: The Sensate, and shares thoughts from two erotica writers, Ceclia Tan and Annabeth Leong: What can sci-fi teach us about sexuality? Plus, Dr. Megan Fleming shares ways to use erotic stories to e

August and former guest, stylist Rayne Parvis, turn the tables! Rayne interviews August about her new book, EMBRACEABLE, Girl Boner® Radio and more. Plus, learn about sexy New Year's Resolutions with Dr. Megan Fleming.

The holidays can be extremely difficult time for people prone to depression. August interviews Jema, a writer, full-time traveler and photographer, about her struggle with the illness -- including postpartum depression -- then chats with Dr. Megan Fleming about depression, sex and relationships.

August interviews award-winning author, editor and blogger Rachel Kramer Bussel on her career path, erotica writing tips and more. Then Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in with thoughts for a listener: What if you love kink and BDSM, but your partner doesn't?

August interviews Jennifer Elliot, a professional Dominant and hypnotherapist, who healed from a relationship with a sociopath turned stalker and now teaches others to incorporate kink (and its potential healing properties) into their lives and relationships. You'll also learn about sexy holiday gifts, with help from Dr. Megan Fleming -- plus a sweet deal for Girl Boner® fans!

Host August McLaughlin interviews model and "Celebrity Big Brother" star Jasmine Waltz on her career path, sexual turn-ons and more, then chats with Dr. Megan Fleming about sex tapes and erotic photos.

Host August McLaughlin interviews sex and dating columnist Ashley Papa and addresses an email from a listener concerned about masturbation stigmas with Dr. Megan Fleming.

August interviews Rachel Hills, author of "The Sex Myth," then explores sexual aversion after childbirth on behalf of a listener.

August McLaughlin interviews Elle, an author who recently finished treatment for breast cancer, then dives into a sex, love and dating Q&A with comedian Troy Rawlings.

August interviews Pauline Campos, author of "BabyFat: Adventures in Motherhood, MuffinTops, & Trying to Stay Sane," and Katie Cleary, model and creator of Peace4Animals. Dr. Megan Fleming shares tips for making time for intimacy -- and why it's important for mothers. You'll also get a sneak peek at Girl Boner's next Twitter party, with sex trivia from blogger Jess Witkins and a prize from Good Clean Love!

There may be as many myths about "cheating" as there are people who cheat. August covers some of the most common misconceptions and interviews Katie Paul, a writer who isn't ashamed of an affair she had while married. Dr. Megan Fleming explores ways to heal from a partner's affair when you stay together.

August chats with porn-star Moe "The Monster" Johnson about his provocative career path, interracial dating, his biggest turn-on and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in two common concerns about pornography.

Suzy Favor Hamilton is a three-time Olympian for women’s middle distance running, yoga instructor and sought after public speaker. Her newly released memoir, FAST GIRL, details her longtime struggle with bipolar disorder, which remained hidden for decades and led her to create a secret life as an escort. August interviews her on her journey--what her illness has taught her and more. Plus, learn how to differentiate between high libido and an emotional red flag from Dr. Megan Fleming, as well as ways to support a partner with mental illness.

August interviews Katarina Van Derham founder/CEO of VIVA GLAM Magazine. Having graced over 50 magazine covers worldwide and voted one of the 100 sexiest women in the world by numerous magazines, Katarina has much to say about beautifying tips that lift women up. You'll also hear insight from Dr. Megan Fleming: How do women orgasm without realizing it?

August interviews author Emmie Mears on her experience as a bisexual/pan-sexual woman. Learn common myths about bisexuality, how the orientation affects health, sex, relationships and more. Then Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a listener who asks: how can she date a bisexual man without fearing she won't fulfill his needs and desires? #BiWeek #GirlBoner

Tantra and kink may seem like polar opposites, but they aren't, say sex educators Gerard Gatz and Dawn Beck. Learn how the two methodologies can benefit each other and your relationship. Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a listener's concerns about vaginismus.

August interviews psychologist and breakup coach Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, and shares a breakup-gone-wrong story of her own. Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's question: how can she help her boyfriend see that arousal takes more than a simple glance or touch? Then August shares 10 ways to send her Girl Boner reeling.

August interviews Shannon Hammer, an author and body image advocate, and Rayne Parvis of Style by Rayne, on ways to look and feel sexy at any size. Learn tips for dealing with emotional eating, myths about thinness, how to choose stylish #HeelFree shoes and more. Plus, Dr. Megan Fleming returns with tips for making a woman feel more comfortable naked in the bedroom.. 

August explores sexy perks of a plant-based diet and interviews Lynn Brown Rosenberg, author of the memoir My Sexual Awakening at 70. Sexiness doesn't have to fade with age! 

August interviews Dr. Brandy Engler, a sex and relationship therapist. Her book, The Women on My Couch, features stories about women and the questions and challenges they commonly raise in sex therapy. 

August McLaughlin interviews actress Sophie Ullett on healing from sexual abuse and slut-shaming—why it happens and how we can stop it. Sex educator Kait Scalisi, MPH answers a question from a listener who loves sexting, but whose boyfriend is feels it's risky. You'll also hear a teaser from UnSlut: A Documentary Film, directed by Emily Linden. #GirlBoner #UnSlut

Many people believe that disability ends a person's sex life, but that's far from the case. August interviews Robin Wilson-Beattie, a nationally recognized disability advocate on her experience, common related myths and more. Then Coco Brown, the first adult star turned astronaut, calls in. Her bravery is literally out of this world. 

August interviews Jack Spade and Ariana Marie, adult industry professionals and a devoted couple who've embraced the swinging lifestyle. As the owner of adult agencies and a former performer, Spade has strong views on the Netflix documentary produced by Rashida Jones, "Hot Girls Wanted." The couple shares their take on the film, what aspiring adult performers should consider and debunks common myths about swingers. Plus, Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener's question on slut-shaming.

Learn five sex drive myths and Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts on a listener's concerns about her partner's lower-than-hers libido. Then August chats with Chloe Jeffries, a labor and delivery nurse and blogger, about vaginal atrophy, estrogen loss and libido boosters. Do Viagra-like drugs miss the point? Plus, learn about sex educator Natalie Hatjes' Intimacy After Illness online course—she's providing a discount for #GirlBoner fans!

August interviews Liz Miele, a Brooklyn-based comedian who's Feminist Sex Positions video went viral. Learn how Liz began her career at age 16, how "bombing everywhere" has helped her and her advice for anyone working to cultivate creative success. Liz helps August answer the wackiest sex questions from Girl Boner® fans, then Dr. Megan Fleming shares the best sex positions for ultimate female pleasure! 

August interviews award-winning filmmaker Jill Morley on her documentary, Fight Like a Girl. The film features women who use boxing to fight their demons, heal from abuse and manage depression. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in ways depression affects intimacy and four ways to cope. 

August interviews Rachel Thompson, an award-winning author, social media consultant and sexual abuse survivor who publicly advocates for abuse victims. She shares takeaways from her healing process, the Duggar case and more. Dr. Megan Fleming shares ways to cultivate healthy intimacy after sexual trauma. 

Body image and attitudes about sexuality are tightly linked. August interviews Emily Nolan, award-winning blogger, yoga enthusiast and founder of the nonprofit Topless, a self confidence tour founded on vulnerability and radical honesty. Emily shares takeaways from her decade of struggling with eating disorders. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on body image and sexuality, and how to embrace both.   **Please be aware of some technical issues in the first half of this episode. We received some interferance through our Skype connection during the first interview.

August shares celebrity interviews from a recent performance of The Vagina Monologues, directed by Sheena Metal, then explores common ways women alter their genitals, including waxing, douching, vazazzling and surgery. Why are they so popular? What are the risks? She also introduces her #HeelFree campaign—a year without high heels, inspired by the women turned away from Cannes for wearing flats.

August interviews celebrated artist Aaron Johnson (who also happens to be her brother), then talks sex and dating humor with Aaron and matchmaker Marla Martenson. Five authors share funny stories, which may be Fact or Fiction. Guess right to win Girl Boner swag! Plus, tips on talking to kids about sex from Dr. Megan Fleming. 

August explores intimate relationships with narcissists and dating a sociopath with Dr. Wendy O'Connor, a marriage and family therapist. What are the common signs? Why are abusive sociopaths so difficult to leave? How can survivors heal? Then Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on how to initiate sex (when doing so feels awkward) and how to know when you're ready for a new relationship after a rocky breakup. 

About 4% of the population are sociopaths—narcissists who lack empathy and remorse. August interviews two women who were romantically involved with and abused by sociopaths. Learn how what "sociopath" means, the warning signs of sociopath abuse and how these women found healing after dating a sociopath. 

August interviews India Dupre, an actress and musician who's family was among the "Forgotten Australians." She was taken from her mother at age four, along with her brother, and sent to work in a camp. In order to reclaim her children, India's mother worked hard, becoming a stripper and, eventually, a nationally recognized sex symbol. August also celebrates National Masturbation Month with self-pleasure facts and tips, plus expert insight from Dr. Megan Fleming.

Since overcoming severe shyness and a severe eating disorder, Marni Kinrys has become an esteemed dating coach, TV and radio personality and author. Her Wing Girl Method gives "good guys the edge." Learn about her personal journey, the myth that all women go for jerks, how to deal with common dating concerns and more. (Dating series, part two!)

Recent research reveals that black and asian folks have the toughest time landing dates. August discusses these findings and race-related sexual stereotypes with dating expert and radio host Erin Tillman. Should men pay for women on dates? How do porn myths affect dating? Part one of a 2-segment series on dating!

August interviews the legendary photographer and host of Playboy TV's "Adult Film School" on her career and how we can all release our sexiness and shares an original tune by gifted songstress, India Dupre.

Porn has become the main source of sex ed, which presents problems. In some cases, excessive porn use wreaks havoc on people's lives and relationships. August explores myths perpetuated by adult films then interviews Gabe Deem, a former porn addict turned counselor, on a controversial new study that claims that porn-related dysfunction isn't legit.

August interviews Stephanie Berman, creator of a novelty toy that allows LGBT couples to get pregnant more affordably and intimately than conventional IVF, then answers questions about nocturnal orgasms from listeners. 

August interviews Venus Lux on her career as an Asian transexual porn-star then explores slut-shaming and empowerment with writer Lara Michelle.

August interviews Garren James, owner of world's largest straight male escort agency, then discusses "Shades of Grey" with sex educator and BDSM expert Jean Franzblau.

August interviews adult film star Jenny Ivory, of XXX Orange is the New Black, and Ralph Sutton, host of the nationally syndicated podcast, The SDR Show.

August debunks myths about asexuality with writer Lauren Jankowski, then discusses nudity and body-embracement with #BOAW2015 prize winner, Shan Jeniah. 

August discusses natural libido-boosters for women then interviews Dr. Brian Christine, a penile implant specialist, and Melanie Wise, founder of the Artemis Film Festival. http://www.artemisfilmfestival.com

A writers' conference was booted from its venue of 30 years last week, because August is a keynote speaker and another woman is leading a workshop on writing about sex. In light of these controversies, August interviews Ozarks Writers' League president Casey Cowan and Jann Robbins, writer and wife of the late Harold Robbins -- one of the most celebrated banned authors in U.S. history. #WomensRightToWrite

August interviews film/TV star and activist Alexandra Paul on her prolific career and efforts to save animals and the planet. Plus, learn how to cultivate "organic orgasms" with tips from Wendy Strgar of @GoodCleanLove.

In a 1-year anniversary special, August interviews comedian Margaret Cho on her new TV show and #BeRobin campaign—plus, guest appearances by Alia Janine, Millana Snow and August's mom.

August shares highlights from the 2015 Sexual Health Expo, then interviews renowned relationship expert and therapist Dr. Jane Greer on celebrity relationships and ways to keep selfishness from damaging your love life.

August interviews Layton Benton on what it’s like being a woman of color in the adult entertainment industry and explores powerful ways to boost your sexual self-confidence.

August interviews Erica Garza, a journalist who overcame pornography addiction, then explores sex-positive goals worth setting.

August shares highlights from her first Huffington Post article then interviews Flash Brown on his career, myths about porn and the sex toys that replicate his penis.

These seemingly unrelated topics merge in one of Girl Boner’s most important topics yet: hate crime and its role in whether we lead empowered lives. August interviews celebrity dentist, Dr. Nicholas Toscano, who provided free care for porn star Christy Mack after she was attacked by her ex-boyfriend, and A’drienne Nieves, a writer, artist and social good activist who knows firsthand the importance of #BlackLivesMatter.

Michael Phelps’ intersexed "cougar” girlfriend shares her story of coming out, her sudden worldwide media attention and the issues amidst it all that matter.

August interviews M, a woman who's learned to thrive after her ex-husband's sex addiction turned her life upside-down.

August interviews award-winning adult performer, sex educator and creator of Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex--an empowering how-to DVD series for women and men. Learn about anal play, sexy solo fun, how to feel sexier naked and more!

August shares takeaways from Oprah's The Life You Want Weekend and a personal story about overcoming an eating disorder. #LifeYouWant

Nearly 1 in 5 women and 1 in 71 men report being raped and 1 in 20 adults experience other types of sexual trauma at some point. August interviews Andrew Ross Long, a speaker and coach who runs a nonprofit organization aimed at ending domestic violence and sexual assault, and Elle the Author, who's written a novel inspired by her personal experience with dating abuse, on ways to overcome sexual trauma and cultivate healthier, happier lives.

August interviews award-winning adult star Sarah Vandella on her career, beliefs about sexuality and ways all women can cultivate sexual empowerment..

Have you ever been turned on by something seemingly obscure, or been asked to do something odd to entice a partner? August explores some of women's wildest turn-ons with Mona Darling, a mommy blogger and empowerment coach who spent close to 20 years as a professional dominatrix.

Why do people engage in bondage, dominance/submission, role-playing, restraint and sadomasochism in the bedroom? If you're interested, how can do you do so safely? August discusses kink and BDSM with sexologist and sex-positive blogger, Dr. Victoria Reuveni—the basics, dos and don'ts and what to understand about consent.

August shares highlights from her trip to NYC, where she hosted N. America’s World Sexual Health Day celebration and participated in an orgasm study, then talks orgasms with adult star-turned comedian Alia Janine and Dr. Barry R. Komisaruk, the professor and researcher who led the fMRI study.

If you're not turned on routinely, it's time to make some changes. August shares 8 vital steps for passion-filled, orgasmic living then interviews Andra Liemandt, drummer of The Mrs. The all-female band's #imEnough song and campaign are set on convincing women that indeed they are.

What did your parents teach you about sex? If you're like many U.S. kids, the little you learned was negative. After sharing recollections from Girl Boner fans, August interviews Lea Grover of Becoming SuperMommy on what sex-positive parenting is and why it matters.

Sex work is an over $100 billion global industry, yet it remains criminalized in many countries, including the U.S. August chats with renowned sociologist Chauntelle Tibbals, Ph.D on the World Health Organization's recent report that recommends changing these laws.

August interviews Thomas Maier, author and producer of "Masters of Sex." The hit book and Showtime series chronicle the lives and work of William Masters and Virginia Johnson, researchers who taught the world about sexual science and the power of female sexuality.

The female sex drive is powerful, but myths and confusion often interfere. August explores common misperceptions about female sexual arousal and surefire ways to rev our engines and keep them going strong.

August interviews award-winning porn star Siri about her spicy career, how feminism and porn fit together, her stance against digital piracy and more.

August interviews recovering porn addict and counselor Gabe Deem on porn addiction, related erectile dysfunction and how to "reboot" your system once addiction sets in.

Author Emily Southwood considered herself sexually openminded until her fiancé took a job filming porn, an experience that challenged her beliefs and eventually brought rewards. August remembers Maya Angelou and her bulldog, Zoe, then interviews Emily about her witty memoir, PRUDE, and important questions it raises.

Porn isn't only prevalent in our culture, but addictive. August chats with Rachel Khona, a writer whose ex-boyfriend's porn addiction pushed them apart and her to speak up about this very real and growing problem.

August interviews Addie Vincent, the Chapman University senior who became the first trans* contestant in an all-female pageant, and Mia Isabella, transsexual voice over artist and porn star, on body image, sexual empowerment and more.

August talks with her spunky Minnesotan mother who grew up in the mission fields of India about sex education, marital success and what it’s like to be “Girl Boner’s mom.”

August explains why she considers Steve Harvey's 90 Day Rule a load of potentially harmful hooey.

The clitoris is many women’s primary sensual pleasure powerhouse. Women with high clitoral sensitivity may see things somewhat differently... August discusses the highly sensitive clitoris, drawing on personal experience and research, then interviews writer and kink-expert Jean Franzblau.

August explores the physiological basics of female sexual arousal and shares insight from activist and playwright, Jean Franzblau.

Girl Boner Beginnings: August shares the personal story that inspired her titillating series and outreach and asks folks on the street: What is a Girl Boner? Note: This show has evolved a lot since the beginning! For a deeper dive into true sexuality stories in the updated, narrative style, check out episodes from 2021 on.  You can also find more raw interviews from the first few years archived on Patreon.