We're live-streaming a variety show, WHGS STYLE, complete with games, guests, audience questions and stories, and more! Maddie Wiener joins us this month, along with some other special guests from your favorite episodes! Exclusively live-streamed here: https://www.moment.co/whgs You can watch it live, or up to 7 days later! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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We're live-streaming a variety show WHGS style, with games, guests, audience questions and stories, and more! Maddie Wiener & Kate Sisk join us this month, along with some other special guests. Exclusively live-streamed here: https://www.moment.co/whgs Watch live or up to 7 days later Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Listen to my new podcast, “Chosen Family,” on all platforms: ▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww ▶ https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/chosen-family/id1652942569  ▶ https://open.spotify.com/show/0yc257UifuN47iTWAmqAZn  Emma Willmann is an actor/writer, one of NY’s best stand-up comedians, and one of Ashley’s dear friends, but today she is in the apartment to talk some smack to the gang! We discuss learning dirty talk via Craigslist, how to improve your poops, and the best ways to tell your ex that the government is tracking them. Ashley gets spicy with her speech. Maddie gets some niche content. You can find Emma on IG:@emmawillmann, Tiktok and Twitter: @iamemmawillmann, And you can see her live near you! Check out her tour dates on her website: ▶ https://www.iamemmawillmann.com  Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates,     or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Check out our merch: ▶ https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin  Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win,      or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates ——— Maddie Wiener’s Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/?hl=en  TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener  Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/maddietwiener  ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/yR3EukPMA-w  ______________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Manscaped: ▶ Get ready for the holidays with Manscaped, get 20% off plus free shipping at https://www.manscaped.com/gay20 Parade: ▶ Join the Parade and get up to 70% off plus a free gift with purchase when you use code “BFGAY” at checkout. https://yourparade.com/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

https://bit.ly/whgsLive Have you wondered what it would be like if WHGS had its own hour long special or tv show? Well this is going to be it! Saturday at 2pm (est) and it's exclusively available online (or live at The Bell House if you're in Brooklyn) . We are pulling you on stage, reading your advice, questions, doing dating games, stand up comedy and more with your favorite guests (like Maddie and Jake Cornell) and some new ones! Patrons get discounts: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS This is a great way to support the podcast, and if it goes well, it will be a regular event each season. Let the chaos begin! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Calvin Cato is a wonderful stand-up comedian who was named one of Time Out NY’s “Queer Comics of Color to Watch Out For,” but today he’s in the apartment to be named the gay sex king! We discuss having sex with van-lifers, banging in international waters, and the best methods to pitch your screenplay to celebrities that don’t want to hear it. Ashley double-dips her dates. Maddie has a break through with daddy.   You can find Calvin on IG and Tiktok: @calvinscato, Twitter: @catocalvin, And you can see him live near you! Check out his schedule on his website: ▶ https://calvincato.com/schedule  Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates,     or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 Check out our merch: ▶ https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin  Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win,      or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates ——— Maddie Wiener’s Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/?hl=en  TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener  Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/maddietwiener  ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/qXaxuTLL69o  ______________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Athletic Greens: ▶ Pick up the ultimate daily nutritional insurance at https://www.athleticgreens.com/whgs to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D and 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase Foria: ▶ Treat yourself to fuller pleasure at https://www.foriawellness.com/ASHLEY or use code ASHLEY at checkout to get 20% off your first order Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Bailey Pope is an absolutely killer comedian and trans woman who performs across the US, but today she’s in the apartment to perform some oral on the crew! In addition, gay virgin Maddie Wiener joins us once again, this time as our PERMANANT co-host. We discuss coming out as trans mid-marriage, attending sex parties in your free time, and the complexities of hunting gay ghosts. Ashley has an apartment retrospective. Maddie might be demi-sexual.  You can find Bailey on IG and Tiktok: @theactualbaileypope, Twitter: @theactualbailey, And join her mailing list to see her amazing comedy live: ▶ https://www.baileypopecomedy.com/newsletter  Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more: ▶ https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Ashley is coming to your city! Join her mailing list for ticket drops: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates,     or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441 NEW!!! Check out our merch: ▶ https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin  Win a dinner with Ashley in your city! ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/win,      or text “notadate” to +1 (877) 497-0441 ______________________________________________ – CONNECT WITH US! – Newsletter: ▶ https://mailchi.mp/6de0153eb9c8/whgs Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/ashgavs Ashley Gavin’s Tour Dates: ▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates ——— Maddie Wiener’s Instagram: ▶ https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/?hl=en  TikTok: ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener  Twitter: ▶ https://twitter.com/maddietwiener  ——— Watch this on YouTube! ▶ https://youtu.be/srWHl5LNuqs  ______________________________________________ – SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! – Foria: ▶ https://www.foriawellness.com/ashley, or use code ASHLEY Athletic Greens ▶ https://athleticgreens.com/whgs  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Legally, it's not a date. Yes, anywhere in the continental United States, must be 18+ to enter. Text NOTADATE to 877 497 0441 (or click here) Or submit via my website @ ashleygavin.com/win Full Rules Here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You've been asking for it and it's finally here. We've started a Patreon exclusive series reading YOUR gay sex stories! Each month we will release full bonus episodes with your favorite guests on our Patreon where we read your raunchiest stories. patreon.com/whgs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Queer Sex Educator Eva Bloom (@whatsmybodydoing on all platforms) is here to answer all your questions about queer sex ed, having a sl*t phase, and also that time she had an insane threesome in front of her colleagues at a sex conference. Ashley goes on a date with horse girl. Kate has an unexpected dirty talk experience.  Eva can be found @whatsmybodydoing everywhere.  We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ian Fidance (Bi Guys Pod) is hands down one of the best comedians in New York City and the first openly bi guy at the world famous Comedy Cellar. We dive into breaking his post-break up celibacy, and how to politely ask for a hand job. Ashley has phone sex with a stranger. Kate wants to get pegged. Ian Fidance can be found @ianimal69 everywhere, including twitch where he streams video gaming. Listen to his podcast Bi Guys Pod We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You all have been begging for some sexual health experts and Anna Lee will not disappoint! Anna is the co-founder of Lioness health, a sex toy company that actually uses data to track your orgasms. And she is committed to her craft. We get into how she discovered her own sexuality through building the viral tiktok sex toy, different types of orgasms, and DP (yes, *that* dp) Ashley does a data driven sexual experiment of her own. Kate is validated by a p0rn advertisement. Anna Lee can be found @annaisaverage on ig and @annatheaverage on tiktok. Lioness Health is https://lioness.io/ We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You asked for big undercut energy and now you got it: it's NBC News anchor Megan Mitchell! Megan Mitchell gets into her relationship, who's the big spoon, and how cuddling changes throughout her cycle. Ashley sends the worst flirty text of her life. Kate needs a rabies shot. Megan can be found on tiktok and ig @megan.mitchell and @megan1mitchell on twitter! We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jaclyn Moore (Netflix "Dear White People") gives us the full story on being a queer sex worker, sex while transitioning, and her pre-transition hook ups with lesbians. Ashley shares a kiss in public at camp. Gara gets their butt poked in a gay bar. Jaclyn can be found @jaclynpmoore on ig and twitter Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Finally some L-Word representation on the show! Leo Sheng hops on the mic today to discuss meet cutes and his moms (yes plural) watching him hook up on the L-World. We talk about intimacy coordinators, meet cutes, and red flags. Ashley gets jealous visiting her college girlfriend during study abroad. Gara has an on stage kiss. Leo can be found @ileosheng on Twitter and Instagram. You can watch him on season 2 of the L-Word reboot starting this August Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's an heart-wrenching break up episode and who better to come and provide emotional support than Ashley's closest friend, Breanne Williamson (@breannewilliamson on all platforms, peep her YouTube). Ashley explains the break up and what might be in store for the future, while Bre admits to Gara that she had a sex dream about them. Gara finally loosens up for their partner for the first time in 2 years. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Courtney Revolution (Netflix's The Circle) joins the pod to discuss gooches and his high school sweetheart. We get into knowing when you're in love vs. when you're just comfortable, what he did when the internet came after his partner, and the great wolf lodge. Ashley bombs in bed. Gara abandons a date. Courtney can be found all platforms and youtube @courtneyrevolution Courtney's podcast "Overheard in the Pantry" can be found at: Podcast: https://anchor.fm/overheardinthepantry We are funded by YOU! Patreon.com/WHGS Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

HOLY CRAP IT'S SHANNON BEVERIDGE! You've been requesting her for a year and now she's here. We talk about dating someone who won't come out, why it's sexy to almost get caught, and the origin story behind her YouTube channel. Ashley has sex in the dark. Gara makes a tinder profile for their threesome.  Shannon can be found everywhere @nowthisisliving Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Michaela Okland (She Rates Dogs) joins the podcast and we delve into her queer cat-fishing roots on club penguin. We discuss the origins of her podcast, which turn out to be the gay agenda, and talking to women on the apps for the first time. Ashley enters the threesome zone. Gara plans a big summer blowout (yoohoo!) Michaela can be found on ig @michaelaokland and tw @michaelaokla. Her podcast is She Rates Dogs and you can find her memes @sheratesdogs on ig.  Trigger Warning at 46:45 through 47:15 (not graphic, references a past sexual assault)  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Marth Woertman (@marthwatermelon on ig and @marthwubbles on tiktok) brings the heat on this episode and we both melted. She discusses being a queer model, being bi and having masc energy, and her goth phase. Ashley gets revenge on her ex girlfriends parents. Gara relives their first queer kiss.    Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kate Willett (Netflix, Colbert, Comedy Central, & Reply Guys podcast) relives the drama of losing her dream girl, and then attempting to join Scientology to get her back. We also cover bi-curiosity and "experimenting". Ashley tells the third and final installment of the cat girl saga. Gara stars in Gara-lox and the 3 twinks.  Kate can be found on twitter @katewillett and on ig @kate.willett . Her podcast is called Reply Guys.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Evan Ross Katz (Shut Up Evan podcast) is totally un-cancel-able in this episode, no matter how hard Ashley tries to trick him.  We get into sexting, how a relationship can start in a beautiful slow burn, and meeting your not-yet-partner's parents before you define the relationship. Ashley and Jen finally successfully sext. Gara does foreplay via sext in an Uber.  Evan can be found on ig & tw @evanrosskatz.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Youngmi Mayer (Feeling Asian podcast) bros out with us on the podcast this week and we talk about chaotic bottom-ing, fire sign energy, and the complexities of dating someone who is cis "passing". Ashley discusses meeting her first serious girlfriend. Gara is desired by two people in the same night.  Youngmi can be found on ig & tw @ymmayer, and tiktok @youngmimayer Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Alyx Weiss (YouTube @ayydubs) gives us some age gap loving lessons on this very steamy episodes. We talk hot moms, our celebrity crushes when we were kids, but also ostriches. Ashley gets f*cked in her sleep. Gara attends a King Princess concert. Alyx can be found on all platforms @ayydubs, besides tiktok where she is @alyxweiss Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ellie Desautels (NBC's Rise, Disclosure) gives us the deets about they meet their partner on Tumblr, asexuality and non-genital sex. We also dive deep into the merits of regular back rubs and soft tickling from your significant other. Ashley is the girl in a girl on top 69. Gara dates a very, very bad boy.  Ellie can be found everywhere @ohyouknowellie (check out their IG and TikTok) Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Chrissy Chlapecka (@chrissychlapecka on TikTok and IG, @chrissyschlapp on twitter) reflects on her very gay days of denial, what it means to be a bimbo, and does some very sexy ASMR. Ashley gets fingered on a beach. Gara has a sex competition.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sammie Cimarelli (The Circle on Netflix) does not take shit from anyone, especially when it comes to bi-phobia, coming out, and poultry. We talk boundary setting, and realizing you're in love at Wawa. Ashley has an epically long not-love story. Gara is shark boy.  Sammie can be found on instagram @sammiee and everywhere else @itsssammie.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week Violet Benson (Too Tired To Be Crazy podcast, Daddy Issues on IG) schools us on zodiac signs, rebounding, and general self awareness. We get into how she discovered she was pan, hooking up with Francesca, and whether her gay friend has a crush on her. Ashley has a run in with "2 cats equals 1 kid". Gara is in a dry spell.  Violet can be found on instagram @violetbenson and their meme account is @daddyissues_ . Listen to her podcast "Too Tired To Be Crazy" anywhere you pod.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Remy Kassimir (Netflix, How Cum podcast) is BACK and they are GONNA CRY. No seriously we get to some really deep shit on this episode, and we are so honored that Remy came back. Ashley shares her epic break up story. Gara needs plan b.  Remy can be found on instagram and twitter at @RemyKassimir. Their podcast is called How Cum.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kevin McHale (Glee & The Office), if you are reading this, honestly, why did you do our podcast? We didn't deserve you. Kevin shares discovering fanfic about himself and his co-stars on Glee, getting feelings for someone during his open relationship, and coming out via AIM. Ashley recalls the last time she tried to hook up with a man (gross). Gara comes out as non-binary at Pride.  Kevin can be found on instagram @kevinmchale or on twitter at @druidDUDE Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Shea Diamond (Spotify "I am Her", "American Pie", "I am America", "Good Pressure")  blesses us by breaking into song on this episode. Shea recounts her tale of running away from home so that she could come out of the closet. But don't worry, it gets better, and the happy ending includes Sam Smith and The Buttigieg family. Ashley gets an angry email from her aunt after a TikTok goes viral. Gara is a chamber of secrets.  Shea can be found at @iamsheadiamond on IG and Twitter.  She is Shia Diamond on Spotify.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Francesca Farago (Netflix Too Hot To Handle, Farago The Label) made our dreams come true on the podcast this week. We talk about her budding love story with her new girlfriend Demi Sims (Towie), hooking up with girls while dating Harry Jowsey, and feeling like her whole self after coming out. Ashley may or may not have fingered in a car which is something no one should ever do and she probably didn't even do it. Gara bangs to Fixer Upper Francesca can be found at @francescafarago on IG and Tiktok.  Her swimwear line is called Farago The Label.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode we do a deep dive w/ actual radio royalty Taylor Strecker! We cover her entire coming out process from divorcing her husband, wondering if she was asexual (and might still be a little), to meeting her fiancé and coming out to her parents. If you are worried about your labels, defining your sexuality, or feeling generally confused, this is a GREAT episode for you.  Taylor is @taylorstrecker on IG and you can listen to her on Wake Up w/ Taylor and Taste of Taylor.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp  from "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for the first time. Gara calls someone daddy for the first time. Watch their podcast Watt's The Safe Word on YouTube (or listen anywhere) Mr Kristofer can be found @mrkristoferweston on IG and @kristoferweston on Twitter.  Pup Amp can be found @pupamp on IG and Twitter Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mila Myles (New York State of Mindfulness podcast) is on the podcast this week and they finally answer your most burning sex questions: What is knuckling? Can everyone squirt? And is sex better on shrooms? Ashley catches a woman she once hooked up with in a lie, and we debate whether and what to text her. Gara bangs in front of the empire state building.  Mila Myles can be found on IG @MilaMiles & on twitter @mila_doesit Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Georgia Bridgers (YouTube, ok anyway podcast) guests on the pod this week and brings *major* star power and leo energy. We discuss the first time she *did it*, coming out on YouTube, and being bi but losing her gay virginity first. Ashley's ex fights with her new girlfriend. Gara needs chapstick. Georgia Bridgers can be found on IG and Twitter @georgiabridgers, Georgia Bridgers on YouTube, and @georgialynnrose on TikTok Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

HOLY SH*T DEMI BURNETT IS ON THE PODCAST!!!! On this episode we talk about coming out on national TV (Demi is a Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise alum) her big top energy and the people who can top her, meatloaf, and that time Ruby Rose slid into her DMs. Ashley thinks she's using lube, but turns out, it was not lube. Gara tries to find agent 0069.  Demi Burnett can be found on IG @demi_not_lovato , @demi_burnett on twitter, and @demlia on TikTok Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Chris Sapphire (Netflix's The Circle) brings all the energy on this episode and we're here for it. We talk about why hook up life wasn't right for him, being gay *and* spiritual, and loving yourself while single. Ashley has a weird connection with a girl on a cruise. Gara comes out to a gay friend in church at 3 am. Chris Sapphire is a treasure so go check out his work on IG (mrchrissapphire) and Twitter (chrissapphire) Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lorelei Ramirez (Los Espookys on HBO, and the New York Times) joins us for an incredibly avant garde, poignant episode where we get into codependency and boundaries to keep relationships healthy. Ashley sustains a sexual injury to her jaw. Gara reviews Happiest Season.  Lorelei is not only a comedian but works in many other mediums. Follow their instagram @pileoftears, their twitch show https://www.twitch.tv/lramirez8095, and their art ig account @pileoftears_art. They have a full special on YouTube as well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3uDEg_gwoY&feature=youtu.be Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jared Freid (JTrain Podcast & U Up? Podcast) might be our first ever straight male guest, but his official title is the ambassador of male ass play. We talk toxic masculinity, and the differences between dating queer and dating straight. Ashley takes a finger up her butt. Gara enjoys some morning wood.  Jared is a podcasting king. Follow JTrain and U Up? He's also a BRILLIANT comedian so go follow him on IG and watch his "live screams" of the bachelor. @jaredfreid Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Breanne Williamson (I Can Explain Podcast) is back for a BRE-peat episode and it's even better than the first. Breanne talks about the time she nearly died using ice cubes in bed. Jen (@jenparkerdavis on ig and tiktok) makes a cameo to talk with Ashley about fake orgasms. Gara talks about sex music and what happens when you reach the end of your sex playlist. Breanne has a fabulous YouTube channel under her name and can be found on ig @breannewilliamson and tiktok @breannewilliamson_ Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Queen of all Drag Queens Brooke Lynn Hytes (RuPaul's Drag Race, Drag Race Canada) joins the podcast this week to discuss her love of pimple popping, dislike of anal, her desire to be alone and why traditional relationships don't work for everyone! Ashley gets her butt pinched (and she likes it). Gara does poppers for the first time.  Brooke Lynn can be found @bhytes on ig and @bhytes1 on twitter.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mat George (She Rates Dogs) tells us about how he is faking straight for Love Island casting and going viral twitter. He also discusses how he lost his virginity story and how he was outed. Ashley talks about how she was outed in 9th grade and her girlfriend turned bully. Gara gets high and has sex.  Mat can be found @matchu_chutrain on twitter and ig. His podcast is She Rates Dogs. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Alayna Joy (1 billion YouTube followers) not only tells us about her first time giving and receiving oral sex, but it was also her first ever experience as a fully out gay woman. We also cover compulsive heterosexuality and the struggles of being bisexual. Alayna reads Ashley's birthday tarot. Gara hooks up with the cool(er) barista.  Alayna can be found @missfenderr on all platforms, except for YouTube where she is Alayna Joy. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Rayna Greenberg is BACK (Girls Gotta Eat) and she's here to evaluate whether or not Mayor Pete has B.D.E. and tells us about a time she accidentally went on a date with a woman. Ashley may or may not have had sex w/ 3 people in one day (she's worried you'll judge her). Gara goes on another date with KittyKitty44. Girls Gotta Eat podcast is available everywhere (Ashley's on it!). Rayna's IG is @rayna.greenberg Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Carolyn Bergier & Melody Kamali (Dyking Out Podcast) join the podcast to discuss CBD lube, sex on a bunk bed, and hate banging on a Trump supporter's bed. Ashley laments not being able to eat more butt. Gara shares the story of their first date with Jacob.  Dyking Out podcast is available everywhere (Ashley and Gara are both on it!). Their IG is @dykingout and their TikTok is @dykingoutpodcast. Carolyn is @tgicarolyn & Melody is @melodykamali everywhere.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Medinah Monroe (Cocktales Podcast, Temptation Island, Dipsea) lends us her very sexy voice on this sensual episode. We talk about bringing a dildo into your hetero sex experiences and sexy authority figures. Ashley gets scammed on on a date. Gara's vagina blows up 5 times its size.  Mediah's Podcast is called Cocktales: Dirty Discussions (cocktalespodcast on ig). Medinah can also be found on ig @coffeebeandean Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Cosplay Icon Emery Pan (OnlyFans) curses this episode and gets our soundboard possessed. She discusses growing up in a religious cult and escaping to sexually experiment in a graveyard. Ashley has a confrontation with a cottage core ghost gay / tiktok lesbian. Gara has a 3 way make-out in a barn.  Emery's work can be found everywhere under @emerypan Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show and the new host of TruTV's Top Secret Videos) drops in to debate whether or not she is a lesbian or bisexual. No one wins. We also get into quarantine break ups, and Ali promotes herself from guest of the show to host. Ashley talks about how she met Jen and tells the full story. Gara meets up with KittyKitty44, but was it a date? Ali's Work: @alikolbert on all platforms Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian and composer Dylan Adler not only sings on this episode, but he also burps twice. We talk about his random threesome in a gay bar bathroom, getting strep twice from the same person, and not having sex to get over trauma. Ashley licks a foot. Gara gives someone notes on their bad kissing.  Dylans's Work: @dylanadler_ on ig. dylanadler6 on twitter. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The queen sex of podcasts Krystyna Hutchinson (Guys We F*****d, The Voices In Our Heads) joins the podcast to discuss her bi-curiosity, first time going down on a woman, and milking prostates. Ashley gets negged by one of Krystyna's fans. Gara has another run in with Denise.  Krystyna's Work: @krystynahutch on ig. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

WILDLY successful YouTube Comedian Mac Kahey loosens us up for a conversation about poppers, poopers, morning sex, and also his farm boy boyfriend. Ashley gets rejected. Gara dates a robot alien.  Mac Kahey is @macdoesit on all platforms Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian Matteo Lane (Netflix, Colbert, Inside The Closet Podcast) drops some seriously hilarious opinions on the pod this week. We get his thoughts on horses and horse girls, Alice in Wonderland, and Avril Lavigne. Most importantly, we discuss what coming out is really about. Ashley has a date with a horse girl (Trigger Warning: horse girls get ROASTED). Gara gets off to hearing about their partner's past hook ups. To our horse girl fans: we love you Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian Joe Dombrowski (Ellen) tells us his horrifying, manekin-filled story of nearly getting murdered via Grindr. We also dive into his experiences with Ellen (yes, Ellen of Ellen), being a gay teacher, and crushes on non-binary people. Ashley fists like a classy lady. Gara bumps into their instagram crush in real life. Joe's Work: YouTube, TikTok, ig TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Robin Tran (Comedy Central Roast Battle) joins us on the gay sex couch to discuss why she thinks sex with your clothes on is the hottest thing ever. Ashley has sex w/ Jen while her parents are home. Gara has the craziest sex dream ever. We also discuss why Robin calls herself the worst trans woman, and Gara and Robin realize they've seen the same porn video.  Robin's Work: YouTube, TikTok, ig, Twitter TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Breanne Williamson (YouTube) dishes on her favorite dirty talk and sexting techniques, and re-tells the story of how she met her girlfriend of 5 years. We also get into the perks of being in an "opposite hand" lesbian relationship. Ashley has phone sex and gets vulnerable. Gara goes too hard with baby talk and accidentally cancels themself. Breanne's Work: YouTube, TikTok, ig TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Amber Martinez (MTV's Are You The One) blesses the podcast with her witchy knowledge on this possibly hexed episode. We discuss witches and the queer community, being cheated on, and handcuffs in bed. Ashley gets sex-cursed by a witch on Twitter. Gara talks about their BDSM phase.  10% off MixedByNasrin w/ code "WHGS" Amber's Work Amber's IG Spilll YouTube Amber's TikTok TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is temporarily offline. We apologize for the inconvenience and if you are following us or on our mailing lists we will let you know when it is back up! TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jaye McBride (Pride Parade of Stand Up on iTunes & more) talks about her first sexual experience with a man, her boob job, and tells one of the hottest sex stories we've had on the pod (it involves a greasy mechanic). Ashley meditates in a stranger's bed to cure a post-sex anxiety attack. Gara gets walked in on while getting railed.   Trigger Warning: minutes 11:45-15:30 we discuss details of dating that might trigger those who've had not so great experiences in relation to their identity and their body parts, as well as transphobia within the queer community.   Buy Jaye's album here  Jaye's twitter and ig    TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sarah Schauer (of internet fame and irl talent) blesses us with her presence. We discuss making jokes while banging and covertly masturbating in public spaces. We also discuss growing up queer in religious homes. Ashley cries from an orgasm. Gara tries to hook up with their childhood love. Please bear with the audio on this episode, it is worth it :)   Sarah's stuff: TikTok: @sarahschauer YouTube: Sarah Schauer ig: @sarahschauer Twitter: @sarahschauer   TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Carlene Purcell opens up about learning to orgasm again after her spinal cord injury. We discuss her incredible psychosexual therapist, Michelle Donald, stimulating all different parts of your anatomy, her first time squirting, and disability pride month. Ashley and Gara deep dive into sex and hygiene: we discuss what smells we love and what smells we hate. This episode was really special to me, and I extend a huge thanks to Carlene for lending me her time Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jeff Perla, famous for taking pictures of asses around the world (you can see them on @thetravelinbum), sits down with us to talk all things BUTTS. We also discuss his hook up with a 27-year-old baby gay and whether our sex noises are authentic. Ashley gets an unexpected nude. Gara nearly has a threesome.  TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kai Wes (MTV's Are You The One) talks about getting on Grindr for the first time, taking testosterone, and androgynous privilege. Ashley last minute hook up decision. Gara gets kicked out of their date's room... more than once.  You can find Kai's work at: @kai__wes on instagram. TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Corinne Fisher (Guys We F****d) tells the WHGS duo about the traumatizing time she got fingered in a nightclub by a woman with acrylics on. Ashley breaks her rule and has sex with a straight girl (again). Gara talks about role play and choosing their gender for sex.  You can find Corinne's work at: @philanthropygal on instagram TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Izzy McCalla (star of Aladdin and The Prom on Broadway) dishes on all the times she's had sex in public. Ashley "swallows" for a squirter. Gara comes for the first time on the floor of their community theatre costume shop. We also discuss why we, as a society, don't know more about women's sexual health, and Ashley simps for Izzy.  You can find Izzy's work at: @izzymccalla on instagram TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Rita Brent (Comedy Central, TruTV) joins WHGS to discuss female wet dreams, the differences between scissoring, hunching, and tribbing, and what it was like to marry a man despite knowing she was gay. Ashley professes on the origins of scissoring in porn. Gara has the best gay night of their entire life.  You can find Rita's work at: @ritabrentcomedy on all platforms TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dida Ritz (RuPaul's Drag Race, Queer Table) joins Ashley and Gara to discuss how preparing for gay sex is a lot like playing Candy Land. Ashley swears she did not put her teeth on the clit of her first love. Gara travels into the Iowa country side for their first gay sex on a waterbed. Finally, Dida answers all your basic questions about drag. You can find Dida's work at: @didaswag @therealdidswag and on @queertable TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Featuring Jourdain Fisher (Comedy Central, The Tonight Show), Jay Jurden (HBO, Comedy Central, The Tonight Show) and Alysia Brown (Vulture). This week we are highlighting the work of black artists and encouraging our listeners to listen, read, and otherwise consume black narratives. Please consider making a donation to Reclaim The Block, and following these amazing black comedians. Black lives matter.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian Brian Bahe (Sketchfest) opens up about his fight against the fear of eating ass, while Ashley repeatedly gets strep throat from eating too much of it. Gara has sex with their twin (figurative, not literal) and the gang discusses the ethical consequences of having sex with your clone.  TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Comedian Emma Willmann (Netflix, Colbert, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend) recalls the first time she went into a sex store (to purchase a strap-on). Ashley has sex with a strap-on for the first time. Gara hookups with a girl in a public bathroom who will not stop saying namaste. We also discuss age-gap relationships and whether you can go down on someone while chewing gum.   TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Paige Cole (MTV 's Are You The One) dives deep into her intense break up with her boyfriend from the show, getting off while living w/ your parents during quarantine, and the best and worst behind the scenes tea. Ashley deep dives into period finger banging. Gara has the best sex of their entire life. TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

As Ashley battles a ban on her TikTok account (@ashgavscomedy is the new one) the WHGS gang decides to dedicate a special episode to the youths from TikTok that made the podcast go viral. On this episode we discuss coming out, our first loves and heartbreaks, what it's like to be young and queer, and the objects we masturbated on and/or with. @queerdancebaby @jenparkerdavis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Milo Alosi (Aladdin on Broadway) joins the podcast to discuss his horrible track record with Canadian men and his coming out story as a cis-male pansexual. Ashley has a fling with a single mom from Texas. Gara lectures on panda porn. Trigger warning 52:00 - 54:00, Ashley asks a not-so-thoughtful question about sexual orientation. @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Remy Kassimir (Netflix, How Cum Podcast) has a poorly configured threesome. Ashley picks up a straight stranger on the subway. Gara fights with a girl about who is the top. We discuss what goes into making a good threesome, what it's like to come out as pan while in a straight relationship, and moving your relationship from monogamous to poly. Trigger Warning: insensitive joke 45:00 to 45:20 @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We discuss all things quarantine/online sex with thirst trap expert Jay Jurden (Tonight Show, Comedy Central, HBO). From gay alter-identities on twitter, to nudes, to thirst traps, we cover it all. Ashley sends her first nude. Gara tells us the best way to angle your phone for FaceTime sex. Follow us and send some questions! @ashgavs @garararararara      Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We sit down with Hannah Berner (Bravo’s Summer House, Berning In Hell Podcast) to discuss her BDE, being a “butchy” straight girl, and watching solo female porn. Ashley accidentally says “I love you” during sex. Gara has to deal with two women feuding for their attention. We get deep and discuss moving forward from bad sexual experiences. Trigger Warning: discussion of sexual assault takes place from 46:45 to 51:45. @ashgavs @garararararara Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ashley prepares for gay sex the hottest woman she's ever seen. A stranger slides into Gara's DMs for the very first time. Comedian Jes Tom has the best sex of their life with a gynecologist. We also discuss the correct way to fist and altering your gender presentation and energy to satisfy your partner.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ashley has sex with someone in the witness protection program. Gara eats pussy for the very first time. Rayna Greenberg (Girls Gotta Eat) hooks up with a ballet bear. We also discuss how to thoughtfully experiment sexually for the first time and whether or not you can have a gay phase.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ashley and Gara are surprised by unexpected bodily fluids inside their sexual partners. Chris Burns AKA Fat Carrie Bradshaw (Betches, Middle Children) gets kicked off Grindr. We also discuss what it's like to hook up with closeted people.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Enjoy a preview of what's to come on WE'RE HAVING GAY SEX, and yes, straight people are welcome too.  After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer encounters in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her snowflake-sidekick Gara, a non-binary, pansexual, 23-year-old “youth in the soundbooth”, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices