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How Can We Fit Date Night Into Our Very Busy Lives?

Hashem wants marriages to flourish. So why is it so hard?😫 Even the smartest of couples don’t realize how dangerous mistakes are to their marriage. And unfortunately, guidance on shalom bayis is needed today more than ever before. The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is a complete system for creating a successful marriage. Available in Jewish bookstores and on www.TheShmuz.com, it gives both young and experienced couples a new level of understanding of what makes a marriage work ✅ 
1/14/2024 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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Is There Reward When Moshiach Comes?

Rabbi, I know I should want Moshiach to come…but the truth is…I’m not sure. What’s in it for me? Listen now to Rabbi Shafier’s surprising response 
1/5/2024 • 4 minutes, 4 seconds
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Tied to a Peg in the Ground

Scary thought: Many people don’t become a fraction of what they could be 
1/3/2024 • 3 minutes, 53 seconds
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How Much of You Did You Become

Let’s face it…some people just have it easier than others. Why is that? 
1/3/2024 • 3 minutes, 34 seconds
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The Shmuz on the Parsha: Shemos

Emunah and Bitachon: Do You Understand the Difference? Do you believe in Hashem, but sometimes feel that He’s out to get you? Then you have emunah, but lack bitachon. You see, it’s not enough to simply recognize that Hashem runs the world. As frum Jews, we are also meant to internalize that Hashem is directly involved in our own lives and knows what is best for us. Too many of our problems in bitachon stem from the fact that we think we know better than G-d. Too often we assume we know the bigger picture, and feel abandoned by our Creator. In this Shmuz, Rabbi Shafier shares some practical ideas on how to make Hashem real. Pick a method that speaks to you, and transform your life into one of genuine trust and menuchas hanefesh. 
1/2/2024 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 26 seconds
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Playing G-d

Most of our difficulties in emunah stem from this common error.This clip is from *The Shmuz on the Parsha: Parshas Shemos*. You can watch the full version here: https://bit.ly/3yEmDQB  
1/2/2024 • 2 minutes, 23 seconds
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Choosing to be Miserable

Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re 💯% sure that they will live in married bliss forever 🥰 Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong 😭 If only they had read The Ten Dumb Mistakes Very Smart Couples Make. Filled with practical advice and straight-talking techniques, it’s the ultimate must-read for every new home 🏠 The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is available in Jewish bookstores and www.TheShmuz.com 
1/2/2024 • 50 seconds
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Hashem Loves Me More Than I Love Me

‘Hashem Loves Me’ is a nice sentiment…how am I meant to actually believe it when things are tough? This clip is taken from *The Shmuz on the Parsha: Parshas Shemos*. You can watch the full version here: https://bit.ly/3yEmDQB  
1/2/2024 • 1 minute, 41 seconds
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Differences in the World to Come

There’s no protectezia in the world to come. No short cuts, no excuses. There is only one criteria for judgement: how much of YOU did you become? This clip is taken from *The Shmuz on the Parsha: Parshas Vayechi, A Ben Olam Haba*. You can watch the full version here: https://vimeo.com/382927076 Have an amazing Shabbos! 
12/29/2023 • 1 minute, 11 seconds
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The Energy Source of All Creation

This is one of those big-deal concepts that, if you stop to think about it, can straight-up change your life. Prepared to think deeply? Listen to this. 
12/28/2023 • 1 minute, 39 seconds
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Mitzvos That Touch Your Soul

There are many proofs for the Torah…but what does your heart tell you? 
12/27/2023 • 55 seconds
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Judaism 101 Part 4: Appreciating our Wealth

12/26/2023 • 57 minutes, 9 seconds
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We're Not In Control...and That's Ok

This short reminder may be just what you need to hear right now. 
12/26/2023 • 49 seconds
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The Shmuz on the Parsha: Vayechi

Imagine for one moment what life would be like if you had a clear vision of olam haba. Wouldn’t you feel rich? Just picture it. Every mitzvah that you do, every kind word that you say, would appear in front of you, a precious diamond to keep forever. It would certainly change your perspective, wouldn’t it? The topic of what it means to be a ‘ben olam haba’ is discussed in this week’s Shmuz on the Parsha. Listen now and transform your Shabbos. 
12/25/2023 • 43 minutes, 15 seconds
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You and Your Spouse Against the World

Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re 💯% sure that they will live in married bliss forever 🥰 Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong 😭 If only they had read The Ten Dumb Mistakes Very Smart Couples Make. Filled with practical advice and straight-talking techniques, it’s the ultimate must-read for every new home 🏠 The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is available in Jewish bookstores and www.TheShmuz.com  
12/25/2023 • 1 minute, 45 seconds
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A Clear Vision of the World to Come

Imagine for one moment what life would be like if you had a clear vision of olam haba. Wouldn’t you feel rich? This clip is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha: Parshas Vayechi, A Ben Olam Haba. You can watch the full version here: https://vimeo.com/382927076 
12/25/2023 • 1 minute, 12 seconds
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1/7th of Your Life

Aahhh Shabbos…aside from being a day of yom menucha did you ever wonder WHY Hashem wants us to spend 1/7th of our life in this way? Watch now for a beautiful quick vort for your Shabbos table! 
12/22/2023 • 55 seconds
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A Life Without Growth

Imagine if you succeeded in all of your self-development goals…your body, your middos, your thoughts, your actions- completely under control. What would life look like? Rabbi Shafier’s answer may surprise you. 
12/21/2023 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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When Nothing Makes Sense

If you don’t have this single cognition, you will spend your entire life in a state of miserable confusion. 
12/20/2023 • 1 minute, 7 seconds
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Friends Don't Boss Friends Around

If you're looking for a tried-and-tested method to get your marriage back on course, you need The Ten Dumb Mistakes Very Smart Couples Make. It will coach you on the practical techniques you need to bring a new level of intimacy and love into your marriage- without the 💰💰💰 of expensive marriage therapy.Get your copy at www.TheShmuz.com or any Jewish bookstore 👍 
12/19/2023 • 47 seconds
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A World of Pleasure

If Hashem created this world to give, why isn’t it more pleasurable? 
12/18/2023 • 1 minute, 27 seconds
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The Shmuz on the Parsha: Vayigash

In this week’s parsha we learn of Yosef’s impeccable honesty, going above his obligation as viceroy and personally overseeing each and every sale during the years of famine. Although his behavior went above and beyond, as Torah Jews we can certainly use Yosef’s yashrus as an inspiration for our own business dealings. In this shmuz, Rabbi Shafier discusses some common pitfalls that can occur when in the workplace or handling money, and has a sobering message for those that think they could never be guilty of gezel. 
12/17/2023 • 35 minutes, 26 seconds
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Judaism 101: Part 3 - Two Parts Of Man's Soul

12/17/2023 • 44 minutes, 40 seconds
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Everyone Lies

Everyone does it. But that doesn’t make it ok.This video was taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha on Parshas Vayigash. Watch the full Shmuz here: https://vimeo.com/381903080  
12/17/2023 • 1 minute, 15 seconds
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G-d Fights Our Wars

The land of Israel is replete with miracles. In this Chanukah Shmuz, Rabbi Shafier describes in detail the incredible nissim that have occurred for us, both during the times of the Hashmonaim and in modern-day history. You may think you know the Chanukah story. But how familiar are you with the continuation of those miracles? Prepared to be astounded as Rabbi Shafier brings to life some of the little-known events that have happened during the past seventy years.  
12/8/2023 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 9 seconds
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Hashem Doesn't Need You to Save His World

Does Hashem need you to save His world? This clip is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Vayeishiv here: https://vimeo.com/379579384 Chanukah sameach! 
12/7/2023 • 2 minutes, 7 seconds
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The Baal Gaiveh Needs You

Ever noticed how an arrogant person is desperate for your approval? Why is that? 
12/6/2023 • 1 minute, 54 seconds
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Best Friends Who Love One Another

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. OR YOUR SPOUSE. OR THE MATCH BETWEEN YOU. It’s normal to feel frustrated with your spouse It’s normal to think your spouse doesn’t get you It’s normal to wonder if you married the right one... LEARN THE 10 REALLY DUMB MISTAKES THAT SMART COUPLES MAKE AND WATCH THE MAGIC REAPPEAR! ✨Over 20,000 copies sold-makes the perfect Chanukah present! Get it in your local Jewish bookstore or www.TheShmuz.com 
12/5/2023 • 1 minute, 34 seconds
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My Life Stinks

I'd love to be able to thank Hashem- just one small problem. My life stinks! 
12/4/2023 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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Judaism 101- Part 2- Understanding Life Settings

12/3/2023 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 43 seconds
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The Value of Life

Think the World to Come is irrelevant to your life right now? You’re dead wrong. Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Vayeishiv here: https://vimeo.com/379579384 
12/3/2023 • 1 minute, 29 seconds
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The Makom

Wherever you are, Hashem is there. With you. Have a wonderful Shabbos Watch the full shmuz here: https://vimeo.com/378108198 
11/30/2023 • 43 seconds
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You're a Spiritual Entity

You’re a spiritual entity...have you said hello to your neshama today?Watch the full shmuz here: https://vimeo.com/378108198 
11/29/2023 • 1 minute, 34 seconds
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Judaism 101: The Eternal People

11/29/2023 • 38 minutes, 29 seconds
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How to Make Decisions

Terrible at decision making? This is for you 
11/28/2023 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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Can I Ask My Wife to Lose Weight?

😱“Can I Ask My Wife To Lose Weight?”😱 Make sure that your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make! Avoid these ten fundamental errors and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable 😍 The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is available in Jewish bookstores and at www.TheShmuz.com 
11/27/2023 • 2 minutes, 43 seconds
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The Shmuz on the Parsha: Vayishlach

Yaakov walked with Hashem. He achieved an enviable closeness with Ha Kodesh Baruch Hu, understanding that He is present and involved in every aspect of creation. How can we integrate this truth into our own lives? How can we speak to Hashem and really feel that He’s listening, that He’s real and right here with us? In this hands-on shmuz, Rabbi Shafier presents us with an irresistible idea on how we can reach incredible heights in our own avodas Hashem. He also gives us three actionable suggestions on how to improve the quality of our davening and provides plenty of chizuk to get us started. 
11/27/2023 • 43 minutes, 33 seconds
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Closing Your Eyes to See

Your eyes should be closed during Shemoneh Esrei. Want to know why? The answer will transform your davening 🕮 Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Vayishlach here: https://vimeo.com/378108198 
11/26/2023 • 2 minutes, 11 seconds
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The Power of Needs

The Rabbi forgot his drasha and gave the listeners a lesson they’ll never forget... Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on ParshasVayeitzei here: https://vimeo.com/376691736  
11/24/2023 • 2 minutes, 22 seconds
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The Platform of Hashem

There’s only one way to navigate this thing called life, and that’s 100% reliance on Hashem. 
11/23/2023 • 1 minute, 46 seconds
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Why Do I Need Trouble?

When things are difficult, it’s normal to ask the following question- ‘Hashem, what do I need this for?’ Listen now to hear Rabbi Shafier’s perspective.  
11/22/2023 • 1 minute, 13 seconds
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Cutting Through the Haze of Physicality

Hashem I can’t do this...I need You. It’s at that point when you begin to get it.Watch the full Shmuz here: https://vimeo.com/376691736 
11/21/2023 • 1 minute, 43 seconds
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The Shmuz on the Parsha- Vayeitzei

We learn in this week’s parsha that Yaakov Avinu was saved from Lavan’s murderous intentions in the merit of his hard work. Not because of his unfathomable yiras shamayim, not because of his avodas Hashem, not because he was the son of Yitzchak and the grandson of Avraham. Hard work. Something we can all relate to. Something that occupies many, many hours of our time throughout our lives. Why does Hashem see work as such a zechus? Why weren’t we created with our needs easily met, allowing us to focus purely on mitzvos and limud haTorah?In the Merit of Work unravels how the everyday challenges of the workplace are no accident. Those late paychecks, irritating colleagues and daily grind are all designed to test us, strengthen us and move us forward in our ruchnius. This week, discover how your workplace can become the perfect place for spiritual prosperity and growth. Your nine to five will never be the same again. 
11/20/2023 • 48 minutes, 26 seconds
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Everything You Do Matters

Here’s an empowering thought to take you into Shabbos. 
11/16/2023 • 1 minute, 7 seconds
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One Chesed a Day

Married? This is brilliant advice.Find out why The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes has sold over 20,000 copies. Check it out here: https://book.theshmuz.com/first-step1643379519788 
11/15/2023 • 1 minute, 14 seconds
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The Bigger the Gift, the Smaller I Am

The more talented you are, the more humble you should be. 
11/14/2023 • 1 minute, 17 seconds
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Luxuries

Eisav was a lover of luxuries. But what’s that got to do with me? Am I not entitled to spoil myself a little? 
11/13/2023 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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The Shmuz on the Parsha: Toldos

If you don’t appreciate it, you may as well not have it. Isn’t that a disturbing thought? Of course, appreciation is at the core of kibud av v’eim, a mitzvah that Eisav HaRasha excelled in. Think about it. By the age of fifteen, Eisav had already killed a man, lived with a married woman, denied the Torah and renounced mitzvos, techias hameisim and olam haba. Devoid of morality, it seems puzzling that he was so careful to honor his father Yitzchak. In this week’s Shmuz on the Parsha, Rabbi Shafier takes a deeper look as to why kibud av was so instinctual to even a lowlife like Eisav. Ready to gain a golden ticket to happiness and meaning? Listen now  
11/12/2023 • 50 minutes, 47 seconds
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Hashem Wants Your Success

Don’t give up on your dreams. This simple hack will get you focused and ready to succeed 
11/12/2023 • 53 seconds
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The Measure of the Man

If you’re busy comparing your accomplishments to others, you may just be missing out on your mission in this world. 
11/9/2023 • 2 minutes, 34 seconds
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If Life Was Easy, It Wouldn't Be Your Choice

People always wonder- why does life have to be so hard? Why can’t Hashem just let me learn, daven and get closer to Him, without all these difficult distractions?  
11/8/2023 • 1 minute, 56 seconds
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Self-Centered People Aren't Happy

This common syndrome has the potential to ruin your life in this world and the next 
11/7/2023 • 2 minutes, 1 second
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The Shmuz on the Parsha: Chayei Sora

In this week’s Shmuz on the Parsha, Rabbi Shafier delves into the ultimate tafkid of Sara Imeinu. In spite of her incredible accomplishments, we learn that Sara Imeinu’s role was primarily to become the mother of Am Yisroel through Yitzchak Avinu. Let that sink in. It wasn’t until she was ninety years old that she started fulfilling her purpose in this world. For our own lives, this delivers some powerful lessons- the futility of comparing ourselves with others, the fallacy of judging those around us and the freedom to accept the stage of life that Hashem has placed us in. Seize this opportunity to learn something about the Parsha this week- it contains powerful life lessons that we all need reminding of. 
11/6/2023 • 37 minutes, 44 seconds
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The Jigsaw of Life

Does it seem that most of the world lacks clarity, direction and drive? Why is that? Watch now for Rabbi Shafier’s startling response. 
11/6/2023 • 3 minutes, 28 seconds
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Love Blinds

Here’s a mindblowing vort to enhance your table this Shabbos 
11/3/2023 • 2 minutes, 40 seconds
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Understanding Challenge

What is the purpose of pain? Listen now to hear Rabbi Shafier’s comforting perspective. 
11/2/2023 • 1 minute, 37 seconds
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The Precious Commodity Called Life

Want to know the most empowering thought a person can have? Listen to this. 
11/1/2023 • 1 minute, 4 seconds
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The Shmuz on the Parsha: Vayeira: Anatomy of a Nisayon

Akeidas Yitzchak. An event that continues to shape the Jewish People, giving us endless zechuyos and molding our collective character for all time. What sets the Akeidah apart from, l’havdil, some of the death cults of our enemies? What was the purpose of the test? Why was Avraham’s response so mind blowing? Think about it. He got up early in the morning to kill his child. The answers to these questions give us the direction we need in our own challenges. In The Shmuz on the Parsha, Rabbi Shafier offer a practical, three point survival guide that you can use to step up to any difficulty. Entitled ‘The Anatomy of a Nisayon’, this shmuz will give you clarity, chizuk and understanding, no matter what you are going through.
10/31/2023 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 54 seconds
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Transcending Physicality

Transcending Physicality: An important reminder during these challenging times Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Vayeira here: vimeo.com/372264229 
10/31/2023 • 1 minute, 25 seconds
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Accepting out Imperfections

Are you the type of person who does a mitzvah…feels good for about second…and then…’yeah but it wasn’t exactly lismah…you only did it for kavod…it wasn’t really done with kavannah’ If this sounds familiar, you need to listen to this! 
10/26/2023 • 2 minutes, 1 second
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Changing Worlds

Believe in yourself, in your Torah, and in the value of your mitzvos 
10/25/2023 • 1 minute, 27 seconds
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The Shmuz on the Parsha- Lech Lecha

10/24/2023 • 34 minutes, 26 seconds
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Hand Crafted for Growth

Challenges are not just tests to see if we can survive. They’re hand crafted for our growth. Listen now for 51 seconds of pure chizuk
10/24/2023 • 51 seconds
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Tisha B'Av Shmuz #10

7/27/2023 • 49 minutes, 39 seconds
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Tisha B'Av Shmuz #9

7/27/2023 • 44 minutes, 53 seconds
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Tisha B'Av Shmuz #8

7/27/2023 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 42 seconds
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Tisha B'Av Shmuz #7

7/26/2023 • 24 minutes, 32 seconds
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Short Burst of Inspiration for Tisha B'Av #2

7/26/2023 • 10 minutes, 23 seconds
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Short Burst of Inspiration for Tisha B'Av #1

7/26/2023 • 8 minutes, 31 seconds
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Tisha B'Av Shmuz #6

7/25/2023 • 39 minutes, 41 seconds
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Tisha B'Av Shmuz #5

7/24/2023 • 51 minutes, 12 seconds
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Tisha B'Av Shmuz #4

7/23/2023 • 51 minutes, 57 seconds
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The World Doesn't Function

If you’re not sure what life will be like after Moshiach, listen to this for Rabbi Shafier’s reassuring response. 
7/21/2023 • 1 minute, 31 seconds
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Tisha B'Av Shmuz #3

7/21/2023 • 57 minutes, 1 second
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My Life Stinks

Ever wonder WHY you need such trouble in your life? And then the 9 days start and you can’t even take a long hot shower… Listen now for a paradigm shift. You got this! 
7/20/2023 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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Tisha B'Av Shmuz #2

7/20/2023 • 49 minutes, 8 seconds
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Tisha B'Av Shmuz #1

7/19/2023 • 48 minutes, 42 seconds
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Moments Before Moshiach

The Three Weeks can sometimes feel like ‘Uh-oh, better watch out for Hashem’s big stick...get through the Nine Days... then aaaaah go on vacation.’ It doesn’t have to be that way. This short clip will give you a new perspective. 
7/17/2023 • 2 minutes, 13 seconds
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Being at Peace With Your Life Settings

It’s time to stop spinning your wheels, and start focusing on where you want to go in this world. Have a wonderful week! 
7/16/2023 • 1 minute, 34 seconds
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How to Make the Right Decision

You’ve asked daas Torah. You’ve gathered as much information as you can. How can you reassure yourself that you’ve made the right decision?
7/14/2023 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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Life Lessons from Rav Yechezkel Abrambsky ztl

Recognizing your inherent potential doesn’t have to mean compromising your humility. Listen to this powerful clip to learn more.
7/13/2023 • 2 minutes, 18 seconds
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Stop the Stress

If you’re ready to stop playing games with health and your future, listen to this.
7/12/2023 • 1 minute, 17 seconds
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If I Don't Change, This is Me Forever

Are you an addict? No? You sure about that?
7/11/2023 • 1 minute, 59 seconds
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Should a Rich Person Live in Luxury?

Listen now to hear Rabbi Shafier’s grounded response. To ask a q to Rabbi Shafier, please email rebbe@theshmuz.com
7/10/2023 • 1 minute, 38 seconds
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Being At Peace With Yourself

It’s time to stop spinning your wheels, and start focusing on where you want to go in this world. Have a wonderful Shabbos! 
7/7/2023 • 1 minute, 34 seconds
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Moments Before Moshiach

What can you achieve in the moments before Moshiach? Wishing you an easy fast 
7/6/2023 • 2 minutes, 13 seconds
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Why We Want Moshiach

Our life right now is not normal. A long time ago we forgot what life is supposed to be like. We forgot about what living a life of clarity means. Imagine, for a moment, a world without confusion, without doubt. We may not feel this acutely, but Hashem does. He feels our pain and is longing for our return. If you feel that the sorrow of Tisha B’Av is difficult to relate to, take the time now to ponder what we’re living without and just how broken our world is. This Shmuz will bring home the relevance of this moment of reflection and mourning, and show us in practical application what we can do to bring Hashem into our lives once more. 
7/6/2023 • 52 minutes, 15 seconds
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When Will the Suffering Stop?

7/6/2023 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 18 seconds
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What Are We Missing?

The world that we live in isn’t the way it’s supposed to be. Tisha B’Av gives us that moment of reflection, the opportunity to consider what we are missing and how we can begin to rectify what has been lost. Like children born into darkness, we can’t even comprehend what life should look like, how we are meant to enjoy this world and use it as a tool to become closer to Hashem. This Tisha B’Av take the time to reset your perspective. Realize what we are missing, and mourn. 
7/6/2023 • 43 minutes, 56 seconds
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Leaving It Up to Hashem

In shidduchim? Looking for the sign that he’s the right one? This might be it. 
7/5/2023 • 1 minute, 7 seconds
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A Damaged Sense of Self

A damaged sense of self will play havoc with your relationships with others. Want to become a whole person? Catch the full series here: https://theshmuz.com/humility/  
7/4/2023 • 1 minute, 16 seconds
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The Right Perspective

“I just love it when my carefully laid plans go completely haywire” Said no one ever. If you sometimes get frustrated, irritated or down right angry when things don’t go your way, welcome to the club of being human. Want to know what to do about it? Listen to this. 
7/2/2023 • 38 seconds
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The Big Bang

The fact that the Ramban talked about the Big Bang 800 YEARS AGO is pretty astonishing, wouldn’t you say? Want to watch Rabbi Shafier's Wonders of the World Series? Go here: https://theshmuz.com/wonders-of-the-world/ Have a wonderful Shabbos! 
6/30/2023 • 2 minutes, 17 seconds
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Are You Mr. Fix It?

“For many years I thought I was giving my wife good advice. Just one problem- it wasn’t my advice she wanted” New on TorahAnytime.com! The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart *Husbands* Make- And How to Avoid Them!Get started here: https://www.torahanytime.com/#/lectures?v=243891 
6/29/2023 • 1 minute, 25 seconds
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Hashem, Help Me Change!

The magic moment comes when you realize how powerless you are. 
6/28/2023 • 1 minute, 43 seconds
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How Can I Get My Spouse to Appreciate Me?

If you’re married, you’ve probably asked yourself this question. Looking to bring more appreciation to your marriage? Go here: http://bit.ly/40dh09m 
6/27/2023 • 1 minute, 58 seconds
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Rating Hashem

Deep down, you may feel like G-d is making poor choices when it comes to your life. But before you go and rate Hashem, listen to this. 
6/26/2023 • 1 minute, 11 seconds
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Arrogance is Delusional

Here’s one way to live a miserable life: base your sense of self around what others think of you Watch the full class here: https://theshmuz.com/humility/  
6/25/2023 • 1 minute, 36 seconds
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AWE

Listen now to make your Shabbos davening a little more AWEsome 
6/23/2023 • 1 minute, 49 seconds
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A Life Without Growth

Challenges are not just tests to see if we can survive. They’re hand crafted for our growth. Listen now for a shot of pure chizuk 
6/22/2023 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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The Danger of Being Judgmental

DANGER! Being judgemental can seriously damage your spiritual health The audio is not great on this clip. But the message is so important that it’s still worth putting it out there 
6/21/2023 • 1 minute, 13 seconds
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The One Way to Change Your Spouse

If you’re one of the 20,000+ people who have read The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes you know that Rabbi Shafier is very insistent about not trying to change your spouse. Not satisfied with that? He’s the one technique he does recommend. This recording is from The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes Video Book! Check it out on TheShmuz.com! 
6/20/2023 • 3 minutes, 3 seconds
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Hashem Loves Me- How to Make it Real

You’ve told yourself this so many times: “Hashem loves me”“Hashem wants my success” “Hashem is doing this for my good” Just one problem: How can I bridge the gap between knowing… and really feeling it? Listen now for the answer. 
6/19/2023 • 1 minute, 35 seconds
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Beneath My Dignity

Feeling like the post-Shabbos clean up never ends? This idea can help you reframe. Have an amazing week! 
6/18/2023 • 1 minute, 56 seconds
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We're Not in Control

Here’s your erev Shabbos reminder that you’re not in control…and that’s ok. Have a wonderful Shabbos! 
6/16/2023 • 49 seconds
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How Many Shadchanim Should I Call?

Listen to this if you’re dating: How many shadchanim should I call? For practical, helpful advice on the dating process download Rabbi Shafier’s Dating Seminar here: https://theshmuz.com/dating-seminar-part-1/ 
6/15/2023 • 39 seconds
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Hashem Loves Me More Than Me

If you’d like to solve 80% of your philosophical problems, the solution is simple: stop playing G-d. 
6/14/2023 • 1 minute, 41 seconds
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Bitachon is Learned in the Real World

Bitachon isn’t learnt from a book. Sure, you can learn the concepts, the theory. But genuine bitachon? That comes from real life. Think your bitachon leaves a lot to be desired? Watch this. 
6/13/2023 • 1 minute, 22 seconds
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What We Don't Understand

”Rabbi, are you seriously telling me that the entire universe was created just for a bunch of two legged-creatures?! Listen to Rabbi Shafier’s amazing response- especially if you’re in need of a hashkafic deprogramming. 
6/12/2023 • 1 minute, 35 seconds
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Parshas Shlach: Stronger that G-d

In this powerful Shmuz, Rabbi Shafier discusses the spiritual forces that cause cognitive dissonance and shows us how we can have a chance at living a more authentic and truthful existence. If you want to have the clarity to move forward through this thing called life, you need to understand what motivates and drives you. This shmuz will change everything you ever thought about yourself. 
6/11/2023 • 49 minutes, 54 seconds
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Accepting Your Child

Parenting is hard. How can you get your kid to listen?  
6/11/2023 • 1 minute, 3 seconds
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Giving Honor to Your Wife

On behalf of wives everywhere, he’s a little reminder for the husbands Have an amazing Shabbos! 
6/9/2023 • 1 minute, 5 seconds
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How to Change Your Davening

Looking to daven with more kavannah and less blah? This simple technique can help. If you’d like to get serious about improving your conversation with Hashem, check out Rabbi Shafier’s Tefillah Project. It’s a 5 hour investment of your time, divided into 10 actionable chunks. Stream or download for free here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-tefilah-project/ 
6/8/2023 • 43 seconds
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My Life Stinks

I’d be the first to thank Hashem…if I had anything to thank Hashem for. Ever feel like that?  
6/7/2023 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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The American Dream Could Ruin Your Life

Feel like you’re in a never ending cycle of trying to get your hands on bigger, brighter, better? Then it could be that the American Dream is ruining your life. If this video resonates with you, it’s time to make a change. 
6/6/2023 • 2 minutes, 20 seconds
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Awareness Changes Everything

Most middos are incredibly difficult to change. Aside from this one. This one is 100% doable. So why not try it out? 
6/5/2023 • 57 seconds
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A Damaged Sense of Self

Arrogance and lack of confidence both have root in the same issue- a damaged sense of self. Listen now to safeguard your emotional health! Want to learn how to be confident- without being arrogant? Get the full series here: https://theshmuz.com/series/humility-arrogance-and-self-esteem/ 
6/4/2023 • 1 minute, 16 seconds
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Naso: I Never Do Anything Wrong

How fragile is your ego? Do you know someone who will never admit to being wrong? They will stubbornly refuse to acknowledge the facts and stick to their story as if their very lives depend on it. Unfortunately, this quirk is not just limited to hardened criminals and pathological narcissists. Within all of us is the overwhelming desire to protect our ego and soothe our sense of self. It’s very unpleasant to admit you could be wrong. Unpleasant and humbling. Ultimately, your very purpose on this planet is to work on your middos and become the very best version of yourself. And that version includes being truthful. It includes courageously learning humility. And it includes developing the psychological fortitude to be ok with being wrong. Ready to face up to who you really are? Listen now.
5/31/2023 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 59 seconds
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You and Your Spouse Against the World

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. OR YOUR SPOUSE. OR THE MATCH BETWEEN YOU. It’s _normal_ to feel frustrated with your spouse It’s _normal_ to think your spouse doesn’t get you It’s normal to wonder if you married the right one... LEARN THE 10 REALLY DUMB MISTAKES THAT SMART COUPLES MAKE AND WATCH THE MAGIC REAPPEAR! ✨Get your copy of the 10 Really Dumb Mistakes Video Book with free bonuses and free shipping from http://bit.ly/40dh09m 
5/31/2023 • 1 minute, 50 seconds
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The Impressionable Soul

5/30/2023 • 55 minutes, 18 seconds
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Understanding Challenge

One of the hardest parts of a nisayon is trying to wrap your head around the why. Here’s an insight from the Mesilas Yesharim that may help. 
5/29/2023 • 1 minute, 31 seconds
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Hashem Wants Your Success

Hashem wants you to succeed this week. Read that again. Hashem wants YOU to succeed this week. 
5/28/2023 • 53 seconds
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Why Did Rav Chaim ztl Learn So Much?

Your neshama has been waiting all year for Shavuos. Spend a few minutes now to remind yourself what it’s all about. 
5/24/2023 • 1 minute, 10 seconds
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Having Couples Over

Thinking of inviting a couple over for yomtov? Listen to this first… 
5/23/2023 • 2 minutes, 24 seconds
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I Don't Understand My Wife. Does It Matter?

This is taken from the Chosson Chabura. Click this link to join: https://chat.whatsapp.com/C0fTC3Hru0lBnQo0ueZ0jY
5/22/2023 • 1 minute, 30 seconds
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Heroes: Aspiring for Greatness this Shavuos

5/22/2023 • 22 minutes, 15 seconds
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The Guide Book For Happiness Was Written By Our Creator

Short clip for Shavuos: The guidebook for happiness was written by our CreatorGo beyond the cheesecake this year. Listen to Rabbi Shafier’s series on Kabbolas HaTorah here: https://theshmuz.com/series/at-the-foot-of-har-sinai/ 
5/22/2023 • 1 minute, 55 seconds
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12 Million Hours of Torah Learning

Gut chodesh! Thank you to everyone who has donated to The Shmuz team page for the TorahAnytime fundraiser for 12 million hours of Torah learning. If you haven’t yet grabbed this amazing opportunity, now’s the time! The hours are yours to keep for eternity: https://raisethon.com/torahanytime/the-shmuz-team-  
5/21/2023 • 41 seconds
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Serving Yourself

Believing that you're better than someone else feels delicious. Problem is, you’ll be hated for it. Watch this video on arrogance and get that middah under control. 
5/18/2023 • 2 minutes, 14 seconds
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There's Still Time to Partner in this Amazing Zechus!

There’s still time to partner in the AMAZING ZECHUS of 12 million hours of Torah learning!Go GO GO https://raisethon.com/torahanytime/the-shmuz-team-  
5/17/2023 • 32 seconds
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GROWTH!

Feel like you might just fall into Shavuos? It’s not too late to learn some powerful Torah right now! 
5/16/2023 • 55 seconds
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12 Million Hours of Torah Learning

TorahAnytime’s 12 Million RaiseThon Hours are here! Now you have the opportunity to own and keep your very own hours of Torah learning that will be learned on the TorahAnytime site- for just 25 cents per hour!Invest in your spiritual bank account! Join the Shmuz team here and donate now! https://raisethon.com/torahanytime/the-shmuz-team-  
5/15/2023 • 37 seconds
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We Don't Share the Same Values and Were Pushed Into Marriage

‘We don’t have the same outlook or goals on life. We were pushed into marriage without discussing important topics. Does the fact that Hashem allowed them to get married mean the potential is still there?’If you’re looking for a place where you can achieve success in your shalom bayis, have your questions answered and experience a deeper, more loving relationship right off the bat- you need to join the Chosson Chabura. It’s every Monday night at 8pm. Click here to join! https://chat.whatsapp.com/C0fTC3Hru0lBnQo0ueZ0jY 
5/14/2023 • 1 minute, 34 seconds
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Does Money Buy Happiness?

You need stability. There are bills to pay, obligations to meet. But what about the needs of your neshama? If you neglect your soul, do the repercussions scream out?  
5/11/2023 • 2 minutes, 1 second
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Dating- I'm Not Sure

“I’ve been dating someone for a few weeks now. He’s ready to go forward but I’m not. How will I know when it’s the right one?” Listen now if you’re looking for guidance in the dating process. Looking for more? Rabbi Shafier’s dating seminar, *Finding and Keeping Your Soulmate*, is available for free audio download here: https://theshmuz.com/dating-seminar-part-1/ Pass on to anyone in the parsha! 
5/9/2023 • 1 minute, 12 seconds
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A Whole World Created for Me

בשבילי נברא העולם Isn’t just a nice platitude. It’s meant to give you an inherent sense of self-worth and meaning to your life. Listen to this if you need to feel like you matter today. 
5/8/2023 • 2 minutes, 45 seconds
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Understanding Challenge

If you believe it all ends at the grave, there are no answers… Have a wonderful Shabbos 
5/5/2023 • 1 minute, 37 seconds
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How Much is Due to You

There’s one question they will ask you when you leave this world. Curious? Listen to Rabbi Shafier’s life-altering response. 
5/4/2023 • 43 seconds
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How Can I Bring Back the Spark to My Marriage?

“I know people talk about this all the time, but I feel like right when we got married we were so close and it was so much fun, and now with so many more responsibilities in life we’ve lost that passion. How do we bring it back?” If this is a question you’ve sometimes wondered, listen now to hear Rabbi Shafier’s on-point answer. Make sure your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make. Learn how to avoid The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable. Get your copy of Rabbi Shafier’s new Video Book exclusively at www.TheShmuz.com 👍 
5/2/2023 • 2 minutes, 19 seconds
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How to Wreck Your Life

Ever wondered why most of the world is fundamentally unhappy? Listen to this. To hear The Shmuz on the Parsha for Parshas Emor, go here: https://vimeo.com/416973865 
4/30/2023 • 1 minute, 30 seconds
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At the Foot fo Har Sinai

Let them become holy. The command that has echoed throughout our history and enjoins us to be separate and unique, a beloved holy nation that will forever stand apart. But how special can I be, when I’m just one out of seven billion people on this planet? In the third* class of the series, Rabbi Shafier empowers us to recognize our inherent closeness to the Ribbono Shel Olam. When we fully internalize that whatever we experience, Hashem experiences as well, we gain a glimpse into His love for us and His belief in us. Those that stood at Har Sinai saw with complete clarity their unlimited ability to achieve, to grow, to accomplish. We have the same power within us. By tapping into the messages of Shavuos, we too can learn how to unleash our potential and can continue the year with a renewed sense of energy and purpose. *Go to TheShmuz.com for the second class
4/30/2023 • 58 minutes, 24 seconds
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The Third Mistake

Did your spouse do something irritating this past Shabbos? If you’re in the 1% who never finds living with another person difficult, you don’t need to watch this video. For everyone else, this short clip can offer a refreshing perspective Didn’t get your copy of the Ten Really Dumb Mistakes video book yet? You can purchase your copy from http://bit.ly/40dh09m with free extras and added bonuses 
4/27/2023 • 45 seconds
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This World Has a Purpose

Every pleasure has its limit. Why is that? 
4/26/2023 • 1 minute, 46 seconds
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In the Image of Hashem

Here’s a clip in time for Sefira: How to respect anyone 
4/25/2023 • 1 minute, 5 seconds
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Respecting Yourself, Respecting Others

Respect is the basis of every meaningful relationship. How could it be that the choshuve talmidim of Rabbi Akiva fell short on this crucial middah? In this week’s Shmuz on the Parsha, Rabbi Shafier takes an in-depth look at the Torah approach to respect. Where did the talmidim trip up? The answer can stop you making those same mistakes in your own life. Want to deepen your marriage, your friendships and your interactions with others? Listen now
4/24/2023 • 50 minutes, 56 seconds
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At the Foot of Har Sinai- A Monumental Moment for Mankind

We have a mitzvah to remember Har Sinai. In order to do so, we must firstly understand with depth and clarity what happened on that momentous day. At the Foot of Har Sinai will take you through the majesty and awe, giving a fascinating account of the events that transpired. Although it is hard to imagine the miracles the Bnei Yisroel lived with, we can begin to appreciate why they experienced such tremendous joy after contemplating the explanations from our mesorah and discovering the incredible details of kabbolas HaTorah. In this introductory class, join Rabbi Shafier as he guides us through the defining moment of our history, and learn how the experience of Matan Torah continues to shape our own destiny until today. 
4/23/2023 • 1 hour, 21 seconds
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Pleasures are Tools

‘I saw a video from Rabbi Shafier about not being a pleasure seeker…since when does Yiddishkeit ban enjoying life?’ Listen to this for the answer, have a wonderful Shabbos and enjoy the challah! 
4/20/2023 • 1 minute, 18 seconds
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Don't Take Revenge

If you had to deal with a difficult person over yomtov, this clip is for you. 
4/19/2023 • 49 seconds
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Parshas Metzora

4/18/2023 • 48 minutes, 13 seconds
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Parshas Tazria- Mindless Chatter

Shiurim on shmiras haloshon aren’t popular. Like exercise or keeping healthy, most think ‘yep. I know this. Shouldn’t do it. Not sure I need to listen to a whole shiur about it...’ Unfortunately, the parameters of lashon hara are not what you think. Just like eating treif or being mechalel Shabbos, it is one hundred percent forbidden. And it’s easy to see why-we all have stuff in our history that we wouldn’t want ‘out there’. It makes sense that talking about even true events could cause serious damage to another Jew. But there’s more: it’s actually relatively easy to stop talking lashon hara. You see, lashon hara isn’t driven by passion, by desire. It’s mostly due to a lack of awareness. By becoming more attentive of what the Torah demands of us, we can start amassing a serious amount of se’char for ourselves. All it takes is for us to become more mindful and aware of what we’re saying. 
4/17/2023 • 44 minutes, 6 seconds
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My Experience Isn't Reality

If you’re married, you can relate to this. Still haven’t got yourself a copy of Rabbi Shafier’s best selling Video book? Go here to learn what all the hype’s about: http://bit.ly/40dh09m 
4/16/2023 • 1 minute, 22 seconds
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Changing Worlds

So here’s an idea. Pause for a moment and think about all of the many, many mitzvos you did over Pesach. Think about the kedusha you created. The changes that were made in the upper worlds. The impact your actions had. And now consider what you’d like to do next, what gains you would like to make in your avodas Hashem. We’re on the countdown to kabbolas haTorah. Whatever goals you set in ruchnius, are in your reach. Let’s go! 
4/14/2023 • 1 minute, 28 seconds
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Feeling Empty

A gut moed! Hopefully, your yomtov is going beautifully. If it isn’t, this short video can offer some direction and perspective  
4/9/2023 • 1 minute, 41 seconds
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Put Away Your Agenda

Hey, did you ever consider that the Mitzrim saw the exact same miracles as we did? So why did they keep denying Hashem? Listen to this super short clip to get a powerful glimpse into human nature 
4/2/2023 • 59 seconds
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Living Through the Makkos Part 4

Living Through the Makkos A four-part, in depth look at יציאת מצרים through the eyes of our מפרשים Kick off your Seder with confidence, knowing you have a full pocket of dazzling דברי תורה to share Go Deeper with an accessible look at the major מפרשים, you’ll be able to rise above a kindergartener’s knowledge of the מכות Prepare to see your kid’s eyeballs pop when you tell them what really happened in מצרים Your journey out of מצרים begins now! 
4/2/2023 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 13 seconds
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Why Mitzrayim is Pivotal

Gut erev Shabbos hagodol! Here’s a fundamental yesod. The more you think about it, the deeper it gets. Try it out when you’re preparing for yomtov! 
3/31/2023 • 54 seconds
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Learning to Love Hashem

You know that the whole point of Pesach is to strengthen your Emunah and know Hashem loves you, right? If you want to make it real to you this year, this Shmuz will take you step by step on what you need to focus on. 
3/30/2023 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 9 seconds
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Gaining Control of Who You Are

Erev Pesach can be a stressful time. Be nice!Want a copy of Rabbi Shafier’s best-selling marriage book? Go to www.TheShmuz.com to learn how you can snag yourself some life-changing yt reading! 
3/29/2023 • 1 minute, 39 seconds
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Living Through the Makkos Part 3

Living Through the Makkos A four-part, in depth look at יציאת מצרים through the eyes of our מפרשים Kick off your Seder with confidence, knowing you have a full pocket of dazzling דברי תורה to share Go Deeper with an accessible look at the major מפרשים, you’ll be able to rise above a kindergartener’s knowledge of the מכות Prepare to see your kid’s eyeballs pop when you tell them what really happened in מצרים Your journey out of מצרים begins now! 
3/29/2023 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 42 seconds
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Living Through the Makkos Part 2

Living Through the Makkos A four-part, in depth look at יציאת מצרים through the eyes of our מפרשים Kick off your Seder with confidence, knowing you have a full pocket of dazzling דברי תורה to share Go Deeper with an accessible look at the major מפרשים, you’ll be able to rise above a kindergartener’s knowledge of the מכות Prepare to see your kid’s eyeballs pop when you tell them what really happened in מצרים Your journey out of מצרים begins now! 
3/29/2023 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 13 seconds
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Rabbi Shafier on the Kolot Podcast

KOLOT is a project of the Columbus Community Kollel, a full time learning center in Bexley staffed with a dedicated group of rabbis who will learn and teach Torah to men, women, boys and girls of all backgrounds and affiliations. Columbus Jewish News is a Media Sponsor for KOLOT.
3/28/2023 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 12 seconds
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Rabbi Shafier on the Coach Menachem Show

Taking Our Marriage to The Next Level - The Roles and Responsibilities of The Husband & Wife 
3/28/2023 • 2 hours, 18 minutes, 29 seconds
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Praise and Honor Aren't Due to Me

If you’re feeling disconnected from Hashem, this short video can give you a new perspective. Have a wonderful Shabbos! 
3/24/2023 • 1 minute, 13 seconds
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Living Through the Makkos Part 1

Ok, I think even the most relaxed amongst us are starting to think about Pesach now...and you know what’s *just perfect* to have playing while you’re cleaning or packing up? Living Through the Makkos of course! 
3/22/2023 • 55 minutes, 44 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha: Vayikra

The word ‘vayikra’ is written in a sefer Torah with a small aleph. Our mesorah tells us that Moshe Rabbeinu was uncomfortable with the Torah recording that Hashem called out to him, and begged Hashem to alter the wording of the posuk. When Hashem refused, Moshe Rabbeinu wrote ‘vayikra’ with a small aleph instead. The Baal HaTurim comments that this is a sign of Moshe’s incredible level of humility, yet it begs the obvious question: a humble man listens to his Creator and obeys His commands. Against this backdrop, Rabbi Shafier guides us through the often misunderstood middah of anavah, and discusses what it means for our own sense of self and emotional wellbeing. We are all gifted with incredible talents and abilities-how can we utilize our inherent potential whilst still remaining grounded in humility and gratitude?*This is the link to watch*:https://bit.ly/3pMjcnO  
3/22/2023 • 42 minutes, 2 seconds
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Talent on Loan from G-d

It’s easy to fall into the arrogance trap. Don’t be that guy! This is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha, Parshas Vayikra. Watch the full Shmuz here: https://bit.ly/3pMjcnO  
3/20/2023 • 1 minute
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The Greatness Within Me

30sec clip: The Greatness Within Me You know this. But sometimes, we all need a little motivation. 
3/19/2023 • 29 seconds
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The Power of Davening

You get to talk to the Creator of Heaven and Earth. Isn’t that pretty amazing? Have a wonderful Shabbos! 
3/17/2023 • 2 minutes, 16 seconds
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Moments Before Moshiach

If you feel like you’re living moments before Moshiach, remember this: Hashem is the one keeping everything in existence.  
3/16/2023 • 2 minutes, 13 seconds
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Parshas Vayakhel: Men are from Mars

In this week’s parsha, we come to the making of the kiyor, fashioned from the mirrors of the Jewish women. Moshe Rabbeinu was initially reluctant to accept this offering, wary that something that was used for female beautification would be inappropriate in the Mishkan. Hashem replies that these mirrors are actually the most beloved. Why did Moshe think Hashem wouldn’t want the mirrors? What does this week’s parsha teach us about the role of female beauty? Listen now to discover the role of attraction in marriage, some fundamental differences between men and women and how to achieve pure love with your spouse. 
3/14/2023 • 48 minutes, 23 seconds
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We're Not in Control

This is something that requires a constant reminder 
3/13/2023 • 49 seconds
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The Secret to a Successful Relationship

Everyone knows men and women are different. Until they get married. This clip is taken from Shmuz on the Parsha: *Parshas Vayakel: Men are from Mars*. Watch the full shmuz on Parshas Vayakhel here: https://vimeo.com/397772107 
3/12/2023 • 1 minute, 53 seconds
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Your Net Worth

How much do you value yourself? If it’s based on your financial net worth, you could find yourself in trouble. 
3/10/2023 • 1 minute, 35 seconds
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Does Money Bring Happiness?

What brings more happiness- winning the lottery or becoming paraplegic? This clip is a total paradigm shift. 
3/9/2023 • 2 minutes, 1 second
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Ki Sisa: For the Love of Money

In today’s society, you are relentlessly bombarded with two fallacies: One, that money equals happiness and two, that your sense of self should be defined by your net worth. The Torah rejects both of these ideas. Yet we see from this week’s parsha that attraction to money is something inherent in the briah. In this uncomfortably relevant Shmuz, Rabbi Shafier encourages you to take a long hard look at how you judge yourself and others- are your attitudes towards money in line with Torah hashkafa? Or are you constantly pursuing the next best thing, hoping that it will give you the elusive satisfaction for which we all crave? 
3/8/2023 • 50 minutes, 38 seconds
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What Bridge did Dovid HaMelech Jump Off?

Got post-Purim regret? This video can help 
3/8/2023 • 2 minutes, 35 seconds
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Megillas Esther Session Four: On Death and Dinim

In the fourth session on Megillas Esther, Rabbi Shafier brings the conclusion of the Megillah dramatically to life. From Haman’s sudden demise to our own swift salvation, this class will explain the final perakim with additional insight and depth. Discover why Purim is considered to be greater than the kabbola at Har Sinai, how Haman’s unchecked arrogance inevitably led to his downfall and what forced Mordechai to leave the Sanhedrin. If you’re looking to reach a higher madreiga this Purim, having an understanding and appreciation of the words of the Megillah is essential. Tune in here and go beyond the externals this Purim with The Shmuz. 
3/6/2023 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 45 seconds
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How to be Arrogant Proof

This simple technique will stop you from becoming arrogant. Listen now to keep your middos in check! 
3/3/2023 • 1 minute, 17 seconds
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'I Failed' Doesn't Make You a Failure

Reminder: ‘I failed’ doesn’t make you a failure This is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Tizaveh here: https://vimeo.com/394790017 
3/1/2023 • 1 minute, 6 seconds
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Arrogance is a Lie

Know an arrogant person? This clip is for you This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Tizaveh here: https://vimeo.com/394790017 
2/27/2023 • 1 minute, 55 seconds
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Megillas Esther Session Three: Esther’s Big Deal Request

Esther stands at the threshold of the throne room, prepared to forfeit her life in this world and the next. Instead, she is assisted by three melachim, achieves ruach hakodesh and is the catalyst for Klal Yisroel’s eventual salvation. Aside from the obvious message that Hashem can always flip things around in an instant, there are many other life lessons to be learnt. Firstly, Esther’s people skills are exemplary. Want to ask for a raise? Just follow Esther’s three point plan on how to submit a request. Need chizuk in following daas Torah? Use Esther as an example. And if we want a clear warning on how not to behave we need look no further than Haman. His relentless drive for kavod shows us how if a person doesn’t control his middos, he’s destined to be utterly miserable in this world. It’s all here. Genuine, Torah-true hashkafa and timeless messages laid open for you this Purim. 
2/27/2023 • 1 hour, 5 seconds
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The Shmuz on the Parsha: Parshas Terumah- How Much Histadlus Should I Do?

This week's parsha is about the creation of the menorah. The menorah was destined to be made through miracles. So why did Hashem give Moshe instructions on how to make it? What was the purpose of Moshe's effort? Knowing the balance between bitachon and hishtadlus is something we all struggle with. Health, shidduchim, parnassah...how much effort should I do? What if too much histadlus is driving me crazy? Wouldn't a real baal bitachon leave it all to Hashem? In this clarifying shiur, Rabbi Shafier exposes some crucial misconceptions. If you're wondering how to balance your life according to the Torah, this Shmuz is for you. You'll learn how to set goals, make money and pay those bills- without losing sight of the ratzon Hashem. 
2/23/2023 • 54 minutes, 21 seconds
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A World of Pleasure

This dvar Torah will give your Shabbos table plenty to think about. Have a beautiful Shabbos! 
2/23/2023 • 1 minute, 27 seconds
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The One Gemara the Satan Doesn't Want You to Know

The one gemara the satan doesn’t want you to know may just change your life. 
2/22/2023 • 3 minutes, 15 seconds
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What Happens When You Suceed?

It’s easy to believe in Hashem when you’re broke. What choice do you have? It’s when you succeed that things get sticky.This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Terumah here: https://vimeo.com/393308196  
2/20/2023 • 1 minute, 54 seconds
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Megillas Esther Section Two: Mordechai Won’t Wait

Mordechai’s timings were extraordinary. He demanded that Esther risk her life and approach Achashverosh, even though Achasverosh was imminently due to summon her. He refused to delay a national taanis, and instead called for Klal Yisroel to fast from the first day of Pesach, forgoing the zechus and mitzvas aseh of achilas matzah. What was Mordechai’s cheshbon? And what does his reasoning teach us for our own lives? In the second class on Megillas Esther, learn why Mordechai’s rebuke is so on point. Grasp the posukim like never before, gain a heightened awareness of the Megillah and prepare to go into Purim with an elevated sense of joy and gratitude. 
2/20/2023 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 41 seconds
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Megillas Esther Section One: What to do with a Problem Like Vashti?

In the first class on Megillas Esther, Rabbi Shafier explains how the Megillah begins-the history, the context and the background of the story. Learn why Achashverosh was reluctant to kill his queen, the motivations behind Haman’s bizarre marriage advice and how incredible hashgacha pratis was evident from the very beginning. This perek-by-perek series will transform your experience of krias Megillah and give a new depth of knowledge to a familiar tale. 
2/13/2023 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 24 seconds
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The Shmuz on the Parsha: Yisro: Cognitive Restructuring

Live your truth. Love is love. You do you. You’re worth it. Just do it. These are some of the phrases common in today’s culture. The problem is, they are completely at odds with Torah hashkafa.   Lo sachmod beis rayecha. Lo sachmod aishes rayecha. Do not desire your friend’s house. Do not desire your friend’s wife. In fact, don’t desire anything that belongs to him. So says the aseres hadibros in this week’s parsha. But why not? Society cries. ‘How can I deny my feelings? Why should I oppress my love for this person? Why shouldn’t I have the house I want, the car I want? Afterall, I can split the payments, put it on the credit card…’This week's Shmuz on the Parsha invites you to embrace a complete paradigm shift. The Torah tells us we can and must control our thinking, our emotions and our actions. We are held accountable to a high standard. How can we train our brain to become more elevated, more holy and simply nicer people? Catch this week’s shmuz and prepare to become a better version… of yourself. 
2/9/2023 • 55 minutes, 34 seconds
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Straightening Out Your Heart

This may be Judaism 101, but how often do we stop to think about it, and allow it to impact who we really are? Catch the full Shmuz on the Parsha here: https://vimeo.com/390295113 
2/8/2023 • 48 seconds
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Can I Take Credit For My Hard Work?

If everything is determined by Hashem, can I take credit for my hard work? This question bothers many of us. Listen now to hear Rabbi Shafier’s response. 
2/7/2023 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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Are You a Pleasure Seeker?

Are you a hedonist? A pleasure seeker? A foodie? Know how to ‘enjoy the good things in life?’ Rabbi Shafier has a little mussar drasha for you… 
2/6/2023 • 1 minute, 14 seconds
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In Therapy Everyday

Wondering how to increase your bitachon? Cut down on your angry outbursts? Stop feeling so jealous? Have more happiness in your life? There is a simple formula that can shape you into how you want to be. For more, check out the full video on this week’s parsha here: https://vimeo.com/390295113 
2/5/2023 • 1 minute
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Ignoring Reality

This powerful dvar Torah is sure to elevate your Shabbos table. Want to hear the entire Shmuz? Click here: https://vimeo.com/388858703 
2/2/2023 • 2 minutes, 14 seconds
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Things Just Happen...Don't They?

Secular culture wants you to believe that everything is random. They’re dead wrong. 
2/1/2023 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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Put Away Your Agenda

How is it that someone can study the complexities of creation and not be blown away by the greatness of Hashem? The answer? I’m not married to the facts. This clip is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Beshalach here: https://vimeo.com/388858703 
1/31/2023 • 59 seconds
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Why Did Hashem Create Me?

If you’re feeling far from Hashem, this simple cognition can help Have a wonderful Shabbos! 
1/27/2023 • 1 minute, 28 seconds
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Hashem Runs Nature

Couldn’t resist posting two clips on the Rambam on Parshas Bo, because it’s simply mind blowing to think about!
1/26/2023 • 2 minutes, 2 seconds
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The Energy Source of All Creation

This is one of those big-deal concepts that, if you actually stop to think about it, can straight-up change your life. Prepared to think deeply? Listen to this. 
1/25/2023 • 1 minute, 39 seconds
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Nature is a Lie

Sometimes we give power to *things*, like they’re outside of Hashem’s control. And we all do it. Be honest, have you been putting your faith elsewhere? This is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Bo here: https://vimeo.com/387328650 
1/23/2023 • 51 seconds
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The Pursuit of Happiness- Accepting the Master Plan

We know that there are unhappy situations that cannot be changed. Sometimes, there are no easy solutions and we’re forced to live with the reality that Hashem has given us. When we’re confronted with a challenge, we’re given the choice: accept the master plan or cause ourselves endless suffering. How do we make the choice that can lead to more happiness? How can we learn to let go of the hurt and anger we may feel deep inside? In the final class of the Pursuit of Happiness series, Rabbi Shafier offers a fresh direction in strengthening our emunah and bitachon for when we need it most. 
1/23/2023 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 10 seconds
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How Can We Fit Date Night Into Our Extremely Busy Lives?

Hashem wants marriages to flourish. So why is it so hard? 😫 Even the smartest of couples don’t realize how dangerous mistakes are to their marriage. And unfortunately, guidance on shalom bayis is needed today more than ever before. The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is a complete system for creating a successful marriage. Available now in Jewish bookstores and on www.TheShmuz.com, it gives both young and experienced couples a new level of understanding of what makes a marriage work ✅ 
1/22/2023 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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Mitzvos That Touch Your Soul

There are many proofs for the Torah…but what does your heart tell you? 
1/20/2023 • 1 minute
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We're Not In Control...And That's Ok

This short reminder may be just what you need to hear right now. 
1/19/2023 • 54 seconds
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Treat the Malchus With Respect

Why should a rasha like Paroh be deserving of respect? Listen now to hear Rabbi Shafier’s interesting answer! This is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Va’eira here: https://vimeo.com/385869178 
1/18/2023 • 1 minute, 1 second
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Offering Advice

Did you know that making a happy marriage is not intuitive? Most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home 😢 They’re not even aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life! 😫 Make sure your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make. Learn how to avoid The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable.Get your copy now at www.TheShmuz.com or in any Jewish bookstore 👍 
1/16/2023 • 1 minute, 5 seconds
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The Pursuit of Happiness- Your Attitude is Your Reality

Thoughts lead to feelings. But it’s not so easy to change our thoughts. Even if we are leading a life filled with purpose and meaning, negative thought patterns can hold back our happiness. Rabbi Shafier offers practical guidance from a Torah perspective in this indispensable class. 
1/16/2023 • 1 hour, 48 seconds
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Only Fools Pay Taxes

Hey, only fools pay taxes, right? Why should government officials line their pockets at my expense? Listen now for a fundamental lesson on integrity and honesty. This is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Va’eira here: https://vimeo.com/385869178 
1/15/2023 • 1 minute, 17 seconds
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1/7th Of Your Life

Aahhh Shabbos…aside from being a day of yom menucha did you ever wonder WHY Hashem wants us to spend 1/7th of our life in this way? Listen now for a beautiful quick vort for your Shabbos table!  
1/13/2023 • 1 minute
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A Life Without Growth

Imagine if you actually succeeded in all of your self-development goals…your body, your middos, your thoughts, your actions- completely under control. What would life look like? Rabbi Shafier’s answer may surprise you. 
1/12/2023 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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Playing G-d

Most of our difficulties in emunah stem from this common error.This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha: Parshas Shemos. You can watch the full version here: https://bit.ly/3yEmDQB  
1/11/2023 • 2 minutes, 28 seconds
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How to Keep Your Wife Happy

Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re 💯% sure that they will live in married bliss forever 🥰 Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong 😭 If only they had read The Ten Dumb Mistakes Very Smart Couples Make. Filled with practical advice and straight-talking techniques, it’s the ultimate must-read for every new home 🏠 _The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make_ is available in Jewish bookstores and www.TheShmuz.com  
1/10/2023 • 1 minute, 3 seconds
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Hashem Loves Me More Than Me

‘Hashem Loves Me’ is a nice sentiment…how am I meant to actually believe it when things are tough? This video is taken from *The Shmuz on the Parsha: Parshas Shemos*. You can watch the full version here: https://bit.ly/3yEmDQB  
1/9/2023 • 1 minute, 6 seconds
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The Pursuit of Happiness- Learning to Appreciate

It’s easy to focus on the negativity and to overlook the good. We know that we have so many blessings in our lives, but we don’t feel it and it doesn’t make us happy. In this shiur, Rabbi Shafier explains to us how appreciation is a skill-a skill that must be learnt like any other. An essential class that will teach you how to appreciate in an authentic way-and feel happier as a result.  
1/9/2023 • 1 hour, 42 seconds
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Differences in the World to Come

There’s no protectezia in the world to come. No short cuts, no excuses. There is only one criteria for judgement: how much of YOU did you become? This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha: Parshas Vayechi, A Ben Olam Haba. You can watch the full version here: https://vimeo.com/382927076 Have an amazing Shabbos!
1/6/2023 • 1 minute, 16 seconds
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When Nothing Makes Sense

If you don’t have this single cognition, you will spend your entire life in a state of miserable confusion. 
1/5/2023 • 1 minute, 12 seconds
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Who's The Boss in Marriage?

If you're looking for a tried-and-tested method to get your marriage back on course, you need The Ten Dumb Mistakes Very Smart Couples Make. It will coach you on the practical techniques you need to bring a new level of intimacy and love into your marriage- without the 💰💰💰 of expensive marriage therapy. Get your copy at www.TheShmuz.com or any Jewish bookstore 👍 
1/4/2023 • 1 minute, 21 seconds
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A World of Pleasure

If Hashem created this world to give, why isn’t it more pleasurable?
1/3/2023 • 1 minute, 33 seconds
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A Clear Vision of the World to Come

Imagine for one moment what life would be like if you had a clear vision of olam haba. Wouldn’t you feel rich? This video is taken from *The Shmuz on the Parsha: Parshas Vayechi, A Ben Olam Haba*. You can watch the full version here: https://vimeo.com/382927076 
1/2/2023 • 1 minute, 17 seconds
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The Pursuit of Happiness- Loving Money

Give Elsie the cow a field and some grass, and she’s happy. Completely content. But Man doesn’t work that way. No matter what a man has, he is always aspiring for more- looking for a better deal, a bigger house, a more fulfilling career. It seems that man is never satisfied. In this shiur, Rabbi Shafier discusses why it is that Hashem made us crave more, and how we can use this desire to achieve real fulfilment. 
1/2/2023 • 50 minutes, 8 seconds
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Everyone Lies

Everyone does it. But that doesn’t make it ok. This video was taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha on Parshas Vayigash. Watch the full Shmuz here: https://vimeo.com/381903080 Have an amazing Shabbos! 
12/30/2022 • 1 minute, 20 seconds
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The Shmuz on the Parsha: Vayigash

Parshas Vayigash- An Honest Man is Hard to Find In this week’s parsha we learn of Yosef’s impeccable honesty as he personally oversaw each and every sale during the years of famine. Although his behavior went above and beyond, as Torah Jews we can certainly use Yosef’s yashrus as an inspiration for our own business dealings. In this shmuz, Rabbi Shafier discusses some common pitfalls that can occur when in the workplace or handling money, and has a sobering message for those that think they could never be guilty of gezel. 
12/29/2022 • 35 minutes, 21 seconds
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Mastering Relationships (Recorded live at Chazaq)

12/28/2022 • 52 minutes, 29 seconds
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Living Together

Make sure that your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make 😱 Avoid these ten fundamental errors and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable 😍 The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is available in Jewish bookstores and at www.TheShmuz.com  
12/28/2022 • 59 seconds
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How to Change Your Davening

If you’re looking to keep the inspiration of Chanukah going in your life, this simple strategy can help.  
12/27/2022 • 43 seconds
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The Pursuit of Happiness- Think and Be Rich

We’ve become numb to the abundance that surrounds us-and even though we live better than Kings, we’re still unhappy. This shiur will teach you how to really enjoy our modern day luxuries, feel truly rich and lead a life of joy. 
12/26/2022 • 56 minutes, 50 seconds
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The Pursuit of Happiness- Holy Pleasure

If you think that the path to spirituality is upon a mountain top subsisting on only bread and water, you’d be wrong. Hashem has filled this world with enjoyment-He wants us to find satisfaction in His creation. In this shiur, Rabbi Shafier makes the case for experiencing the joys of this world, and shows us how to use those pleasures to become closer to Hashem. 
12/19/2022 • 50 minutes, 58 seconds
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Hashem Doesn't Need You to Save His World

This clip is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Vayeishiv here: https://vimeo.com/379579384  
12/16/2022 • 2 minutes, 7 seconds
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The Baal Gaiveh Needs You

Ever noticed how an arrogant person is desperate for your approval? Why is that? 
12/15/2022 • 1 minute, 54 seconds
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Best Friends Who Love One Another

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. OR YOUR SPOUSE. OR THE MATCH BETWEEN YOU. It’s normal to feel frustrated with your spouse It’s normal to think your spouse doesn’t get you It’s normal to wonder if you married the right one... LEARN THE 10 REALLY DUMB MISTAKES THAT SMART COUPLES MAKE AND WATCH THE MAGIC REAPPEAR! ✨ Over 20,000 copies sold! Get it in your local Jewish bookstore or www.TheShmuz.com  
12/15/2022 • 1 minute, 34 seconds
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My Life Stinks

I'd love to be able to thank Hashem- just one small problem. My life stinks! 
12/13/2022 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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The Value of Life

Think the World to Come is irrelevant to your life right now? You’re dead wrongUncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Vayeishiv here: https://vimeo.com/379579384 
12/12/2022 • 1 minute, 35 seconds
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The Pursuit of Happiness- Running After Pleasure

We run after pleasure-whatever hits the spot for us, we indulge in it, spend money on it and wish for more. But what happens when our normal pleasures can no longer satisfy us? If you’ve ever over-indulged and regretted it, this shiur is for you. Rabbi Shafier clearly explains the role of pleasure in our life, and how to have it without guilt. 
12/12/2022 • 39 minutes, 33 seconds
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The Makom

Wherever you are, Hashem is there. With you. Have a wonderful Shabbos  
12/9/2022 • 49 seconds
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You're a Spiritual Entity

You’re a spiritual entity...have you said hello to your neshama today? Watch the full shmuz here: https://vimeo.com/378108198 
12/8/2022 • 1 minute, 39 seconds
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How to Make the Right Decision

Terrible at decision making? This is for you 
12/7/2022 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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Can I Ask My Wife to Lose Weight?

😱“Can I Ask My Wife To Lose Weight?”😱 Make sure that your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make! Avoid these ten fundamental errors and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable 😍 The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is available in Jewish bookstores and at www.TheShmuz.com  
12/5/2022 • 3 minutes, 45 seconds
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The Pursuit of Happiness- Are You Happy?

Are You Happy? Despite living in the relative luxury of the first world, many people feel as though their life is mediocre at best, and downright miserable at worst. In his introduction to The Pursuit of Happiness, Rabbi Shafier begins by challenging the listener to self-reflect on their own satisfaction with life, and offers some new insights as to what being ‘happy’ really means in our society. 
12/5/2022 • 43 minutes, 12 seconds
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Close Your Eyes to See

Your eyes should be closed during Shemoneh Esrei. Want to know why? The answer will transform your davening 🕮 Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Vayishlach here: https://vimeo.com/378108198 
12/4/2022 • 2 minutes, 20 seconds
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The Power of Needs

The Rabbi forgot his drasha and gave the listeners a lesson they’ll never forget...Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on ParshasVayeitzei here: https://vimeo.com/376691736 
12/2/2022 • 2 minutes, 22 seconds
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I Didn't Know Myself

Disappointed in #BFCM? Here’s something that is guaranteed to add REAL value to your life: The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make with incredible extras! Get yours now from https://marriage.theshmuz.com/marriage-book  
12/1/2022 • 1 minute, 31 seconds
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The Platform of Hashem

There’s only one way to navigate this thing called life, and that’s 100% reliance on Hashem. 
11/30/2022 • 1 minute, 46 seconds
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Why Do I Need Trouble?

When things are difficult, it’s normal to ask the following question- ‘Hashem, what do I need this for?’ Listen now to hear Rabbi Shafier’s perspective.  
11/29/2022 • 1 minute, 13 seconds
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The Pursuit of Happiness- Introduction

The Pursuit of Happiness: A Torah approach to inner contentment - Join Rabbi Shafier as he unveils Chazal’s ancient secrets on how to attain true happiness - Learn how wider society bombards us with messages that bring us down-and what we can do to protect ourselves - Practical strategies and Rabbi Shafier’s insightful advice will give you the tools you need to move past negativity and into fulfilment. 
11/28/2022 • 39 minutes, 27 seconds
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The Sugyah 2 Shiur 1

11/28/2022 • 1 hour, 10 minutes, 28 seconds
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The Sugyah 2 Shiur 2

11/28/2022 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 26 seconds
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Cutting Through the Haze of Physicality

Hashem I can’t do this...I need You. It’s at that point when you begin to get it.Watch the full Shmuz here: https://vimeo.com/376691736 
11/27/2022 • 1 minute, 43 seconds
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Everything you do matters

Here’s an empowering thought to take you into Shabbos. IyH The Owner’s Guide to the Soul will resume next week. Have a good Shabbos and a gut Chodesh! 
11/25/2022 • 1 minute, 7 seconds
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The bigger the gift, the smaller I am

The more talented you are, the more humble you should be. Wishing you a wonderful Rosh Chodesh Kislev! 
11/24/2022 • 1 minute, 17 seconds
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Asking Daas Torah

Married? This is brilliant advice. 
11/23/2022 • 1 minute, 49 seconds
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Luxuries

Eisav was a lover of luxuries. But what’s that got to do with me? Am I not entitled to spoil myself a little? Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Toldos here: https://vimeo.com/375262685 
11/22/2022 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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Hashem Wants Your Success

Don’t give up on your dreams. This simple hack will get you focused and ready to succeed 
11/21/2022 • 44 seconds
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The Measure of the Man

If you’re busy comparing your accomplishments to others, you may just be missing out on your mission in this world. Have a wonderful Shabbos! 
11/18/2022 • 2 minutes, 34 seconds
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If Life Was Easy, It Wouldn't Be Your Choice

People always wonder- why does life have to be so hard? Why can’t Hashem just let me learn, daven and get closer to Him, without all these difficult distractions?  
11/17/2022 • 1 minute, 56 seconds
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A List of Appreciation

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. OR YOUR SPOUSE. OR THE MATCH BETWEEN YOU. It’s normal to feel frustrated with your spouse It’s normal to think your spouse doesn’t get you It’s normal to wonder if you married the right one... *LEARN THE 10 REALLY DUMB MISTAKES THAT SMART COUPLES MAKE AND WATCH THE MAGIC REAPPEAR!* ✨ Available in your local Jewish bookstore or www.TheShmuz.com with free bonuses! 
11/16/2022 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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Self-Centered People Aren't Happy

This common syndrome has the potential to *ruin your life* in this world and the next 
11/15/2022 • 2 minutes, 1 second
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The Jigsaw of Life

Does it seem that most of the world lacks purpose, direction and drive? Why is that? Listen now for Rabbi Shafier’s startling response.Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Chaya Sora here: https://vimeo.com/373772153 
11/14/2022 • 3 minutes, 28 seconds
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Love Blinds

Here’s a mindblowing vort to enhance your table this Shabbos. Enjoy! 
11/11/2022 • 2 minutes, 40 seconds
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The Precious Commodity Called Life

Want to know the most empowering thought a person can have? Listen to this. 
11/10/2022 • 1 minute, 4 seconds
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The Owner's Guide to the Soul: Session 6

11/10/2022 • 42 minutes, 39 seconds
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The Three Rules of Winning a Nisayon

Challenges are a fact of life. Here are the 3 ways to overcome every nisayon Hashem gives you. 
11/8/2022 • 2 minutes
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Unmet Desires

If you find yourself chronically miserable*, the consumer generation may have something to do with it. Want to learn how to break free? Check out The Pursuit of Happiness: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-pursuit-of-happiness/ *This is not a reference or a solution to mental illness 
11/7/2022 • 1 minute, 24 seconds
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This World is an Illusion

Sometimes our hardest challenges are faced alone. Why is that? Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Vayeira here: vimeo.com/372264229 
11/6/2022 • 3 minutes, 16 seconds
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Are You Failing At Life?

Do you consider yourself a FAILURE? Maybe you’re just human. And understanding the difference is what will give you a healthy sense of self, or, chas v’shalom, ruin your emotional wellbeing. This clip is taken from Shmuz on the Parsha, Lech Lecha. You can watch or download the full version here: https://theshmuz.com/series/ted-talk-on-the-parsha/  
11/4/2022 • 2 minutes, 9 seconds
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The Sugyah- Shiur 1, Chamta Meruba

The Sugyah: An in depth, Inyan shiur via Zoom. Learn more here: https://bit.ly/3DZnsYs
11/3/2022 • 1 hour, 4 seconds
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The Owner's Guide to the Soul: Session 5

11/3/2022 • 42 minutes, 55 seconds
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Bio Diversity

There are 5000 types of beetles Ever wonder why that is? If you look at the natural world, say to yourself ‘hey, that’s pretty impressive’ and then stop there- you’ve lost an opportunity for growth. 
11/3/2022 • 58 seconds
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Fight About the Little Things

👍 *2 WONDERFUL PEOPLE* ✖ *10 REALLY DUMB MISTAKES* 😢 *1 MISERABLE MARRIAGE* “My husband has no idea how to meet my basic emotional needs.” “My wife is always looking to start a fight.” “I feel like there’s something missing in our marriage.” What if that _something_ is basic information about what it takes for a marriage to succeed? 📣 *Introducing _The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make_* Rabbi Shafier’s best selling book will give you a deeper understanding of what makes a marriage work. Looking to bring a new level of intimacy and ❤️ into your marriage? You need this! Order now at www.theshmuz.com  
11/2/2022 • 2 minutes, 8 seconds
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Everything You Do Matters

You’re not a physical body having a spiritual experience. You’re a spiritual entity experiencing the physicality of this world. And when you understand that, you view yourself and the world in a totally different way. 
11/1/2022 • 1 minute, 7 seconds
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Hand Crafted For Growth

Challenges are not just tests to see if we can survive. They’re hand crafted for our growth. Listen now for 51 seconds of pure chizuk 
10/31/2022 • 51 seconds
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Accepting Your Imperfections

Are you the type of person who does a mitzvah…feels good for about second…and then…’yeah but it wasn’t exactly lishmah…you only did it for kavod…it wasn’t really done with kavannah’ If this sounds familiar, you need to listen to this! This clip is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha, Parshas Lech Lecha: Watch the full Shmuz here: https://theshmuz.com/series/ted-talk-on-the-parsha/ Starting tonight! The Sugyah- an in depth learning program for guys who want to make serious progress in their learning. It’s not too late to register, go here to sign up: https://shafier.clickfunnels.com/optin1666209677527 
10/30/2022 • 2 minutes, 1 second
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Up to Hashem

I'd love to be able to thank Hashem- just one small problem. Hashem never listens to me! 
10/28/2022 • 50 seconds
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If someone was unable to daven RH/YK do they lose out?

I didn’t daven on Rosh HaShanah. I didn’t say a single al cheit on Yom Kippur. I spent the entire Tishrei looking after other people” Is your year ruined? Listen now for Rabbi Shafier’s response! 
10/27/2022 • 1 minute, 10 seconds
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The Owner's Guide to the Soul

As an honored member of Klal Yisroel you don’t need to spend time groping in the darkness trying to figure out who you are. Baruch Hashem, we have an array of mind-blowing sefarim that give us the answers to life's most challenging questions.  And that’s what this new weekly shiur is focused on. It’s a compilation of the Derech Hashem and the Mesilas Yesharim, along with other seforim that will get you in a good head space for Yomim Noraim and may also just change your life.Just imagine with me for a moment. A life driven by meaning and purpose. The abolition of doubt and second guessing yourself. Ever wondered why talmidei chachamim are happy all the time? It’s because they know life’s answers. Now you can too.  
10/27/2022 • 49 minutes, 41 seconds
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What's Hashems IQ?

Reality check. How much do you really understand? (Ok, so I don’t know a lot of things. So what?) Because it’s only through humility that you have any chance of growth. 
10/26/2022 • 1 minute, 32 seconds
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Changing Worlds

We just had a month of kedusha. Do you know what you did? What you achieved in the Upper Worlds? Do you realize how great you are? 
10/25/2022 • 1 minute, 27 seconds
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Gaining Control of Who You Are

Now here’s a life skill that most of us lack: *How to control the chatter* Watch this and think about it- if you could control your thoughts, how much better would your life be? Didn’t get the book yet? Go here: https://book.theshmuz.com/first-step1643379519788  
10/24/2022 • 1 minute, 44 seconds
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Making it Real

I’m a baal bitachon! I know that every single thing Hashem does is for the best. Until...until the slightest little curve ball has me screaming. Can you relate? This clip is taken from Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch or download the full version here: https://theshmuz.com/series/ted-talk-on-the-parsha/  
10/23/2022 • 3 minutes
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Your Sense of Self

Confused about the whole gadlus ha adam/ anavah dynamic? Not sure whether your sense of self is coming from a healthy place? Rav Aharon Kotler ztl has the answer... Check it out! 
10/21/2022 • 1 minute, 35 seconds
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Your Impact on the Spiritual World

Does Elsie the cow ever wonder what she’s doing with her life, out on that field, chewing the cud? Funny isn’t it, how only humans have these sort of existential questions. You can try and push them away, but your soul wants answers. Do you know how to respond to your neshama’s demands? 
10/20/2022 • 1 minute, 32 seconds
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The Problem With Wealth

“I wish I’d had the money for a luxury succah…designer clothes for the kids…fabulous food like my neighbors did.” If you’re feeling bad about your finances motzei yt, this clip may help. 
10/19/2022 • 1 minute, 11 seconds
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I Am a Creation

At this time of year, there are NO LIMITS The only question is- Are you willing to embrace your unlimited potential? The Owner’s Guide to the Soul will resume after Succos iyH. 
10/6/2022 • 39 seconds
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The Next World is Static

This short clip will show you how to tap into the wonder and opportunity of Yom Kippur. May we all be sealed in the book of life! 
10/4/2022 • 1 minute, 36 seconds
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Sefer Yonah Part 5: The Aftermath

Gain clarity and understanding about Sefer Yonah, as the story of the opens up in front of you!Sefer Yonah brings powerful lessons about teshuvah and about life—lessons that can be enduring, meaningful and serve as a powerful bonding tool between us and Hashem. Gain answers to these fundamental questions: Why was HASHEM so concerned that Ninveh do Teshuvah?What was the real reason that Yonah run away?Why did HASHEM arrange for a huge fish to swallow Yonah?What lessons are we supposed to take from Yonah? This is a 5-part series with in-depth, behind-the-scenes facts, which will allow you to understand the events as they unfold, with crystal clarity. In the words of one listener: “It is unsurpassed in its scope, its simplicity and its depth… more than anything I have heard before.'
10/3/2022 • 47 minutes, 48 seconds
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Teshuvah Shmuz 5783: Hashem Loves You

Do you want to feel inspired, feel prepared and feel connected with Hashem this Yom Kippur?  On Sunday night Rabbi Shafier shared how Hashem is waiting for your teshuva. It’s time to stop being bored in davening, feeling uncomfortably disconnected and waiting for it to be over! 
10/3/2022 • 58 minutes, 2 seconds
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Why Teshuvah is Difficult

Without this single understanding, it’s very difficult to do a real teshuvah. Looking for a full teshuvah Shmuz? Go here: https://vimeo.com/603872242 https://jewishpodcasts.fm/theshmuz/22634 
10/3/2022 • 3 minutes, 14 seconds
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Sefer Yonah Part Four: Going to Nineveh

Gain clarity and understanding about Sefer Yonah, as the story of the opens up in front of you!Sefer Yonah brings powerful lessons about teshuvah and about life—lessons that can be enduring, meaningful and serve as a powerful bonding tool between us and Hashem. Gain answers to these fundamental questions: Why was HASHEM so concerned that Ninveh do Teshuvah?What was the real reason that Yonah run away?Why did HASHEM arrange for a huge fish to swallow Yonah?What lessons are we supposed to take from Yonah? This is a 5-part series with in-depth, behind-the-scenes facts, which will allow you to understand the events as they unfold, with crystal clarity. In the words of one listener: “It is unsurpassed in its scope, its simplicity and its depth… more than anything I have heard before.'
10/2/2022 • 37 minutes, 48 seconds
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What to Say to Hashem on Yom Kippur

Stuck on what to say to Hashem on Yom Kippur? This short clip can help. 
10/2/2022 • 1 minute, 56 seconds
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Sefer Yonah Part Three: Inside the Big Fish

Gain clarity and understanding about Sefer Yonah, as the story of the opens up in front of you!Sefer Yonah brings powerful lessons about teshuvah and about life—lessons that can be enduring, meaningful and serve as a powerful bonding tool between us and Hashem. Gain answers to these fundamental questions: Why was HASHEM so concerned that Ninveh do Teshuvah?What was the real reason that Yonah run away?Why did HASHEM arrange for a huge fish to swallow Yonah?What lessons are we supposed to take from Yonah? This is a 5-part series with in-depth, behind-the-scenes facts, which will allow you to understand the events as they unfold, with crystal clarity. In the words of one listener: “It is unsurpassed in its scope, its simplicity and its depth… more than anything I have heard before.'
9/30/2022 • 38 minutes, 5 seconds
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Understanding Deveikus

Listen now to make your Shabbos Shuva a little more AWEsome 
9/30/2022 • 1 minute, 7 seconds
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Sefer Yonah Part Two: Who Was Yonah?

Gain clarity and understanding about Sefer Yonah, as the story of the opens up in front of you!Sefer Yonah brings powerful lessons about teshuvah and about life—lessons that can be enduring, meaningful and serve as a powerful bonding tool between us and Hashem. Gain answers to these fundamental questions: Why was HASHEM so concerned that Ninveh do Teshuvah?What was the real reason that Yonah run away?Why did HASHEM arrange for a huge fish to swallow Yonah?What lessons are we supposed to take from Yonah? This is a 5-part series with in-depth, behind-the-scenes facts, which will allow you to understand the events as they unfold, with crystal clarity. In the words of one listener: “It is unsurpassed in its scope, its simplicity and its depth… more than anything I have heard before.'
9/29/2022 • 42 minutes, 3 seconds
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Experiencing Hashem

“At this time of year I try to connect…I’m just not sure how.” You’re not the only one who feels that way. If you want more meaning and connection during the Aseres Yemei Teshuvah, listen to this. 
9/29/2022 • 2 minutes, 13 seconds
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Sefer Yonah Part One: Introduction

Gain clarity and understanding about Sefer Yonah, as the story of the opens up in front of you!Sefer Yonah brings powerful lessons about teshuvah and about life—lessons that can be enduring, meaningful and serve as a powerful bonding tool between us and Hashem. Gain answers to these fundamental questions: Why was HASHEM so concerned that Ninveh do Teshuvah?What was the real reason that Yonah run away?Why did HASHEM arrange for a huge fish to swallow Yonah?What lessons are we supposed to take from Yonah? This is a 5-part series with in-depth, behind-the-scenes facts, which will allow you to understand the events as they unfold, with crystal clarity. In the words of one listener: “It is unsurpassed in its scope, its simplicity and its depth… more than anything I have heard before'
9/28/2022 • 14 minutes, 40 seconds
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Cutting Through the Confusion

The highest form of pleasure in this world can be yours. And right now, it’s even easier to access. 
9/28/2022 • 39 seconds
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Rosh Hashanah- A Day of Experiencing Hashem

Wishing you a kesiva v’chasima tova and a gut gebentched yor. Rabbi Shafier and the Shmuz team 
9/25/2022 • 1 minute, 13 seconds
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Feeling Judged

So many issues are decided on Rosh Hashanah: who will live; who will die; who will be healthy; who will be sick; who will be successful; who won’t. . . Since we accept and understand this, one would assume that we would be deeply moved by the davening on Rosh Hashanah. Logically, we should spend the day in reverence and awe. Yet that seems to be very far from what actually happens. Why is it so difficult for us to feel the reality of being judged, and what can we do about it? This Shmuz deals with understanding some of the basic issues that are decided on Rosh Hashanah, and gives us practical advice on how to use it to the utmost. 
9/22/2022 • 47 minutes, 39 seconds
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The Owner's Guide to the Soul Session 3

As an honored member of Klal Yisroel you don’t need to spend time groping in the darkness trying to figure out who you are. Baruch Hashem, we have an array of mind-blowing sefarim that give us the answers to life's most challenging questions.  And that’s what this new weekly shiur is focused on. It’s a compilation of the Derech Hashem and the Mesilas Yesharim, along with other seforim that will get you in a good head space for Yomim Noraim and may also just change your life. Just imagine with me for a moment. A life driven by meaning and purpose. The abolition of doubt and second guessing yourself. Ever wondered why talmidei chachamim are happy all the time? It’s because they know life’s answers. Now you can too. 
9/22/2022 • 43 minutes, 57 seconds
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A Different Kind of Rosh Hashanah

Are you ready to recognize the opportunity called LIFE? 
9/22/2022 • 52 seconds
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Why Hashem Made You

'I know I should be doing teshuvah but thinking about how bad I am isn't good for me' If you’re thinking this way, listen to this. 
9/22/2022 • 2 minutes, 24 seconds
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Rosh Hashanah With My Best Friend

Rosh Hashanah is less than a week away. Are you ready to spend it with your Best Friend? This video was taken from The Owner’s Guide to the Soul. Join Rabbi Shafier live on Wednesdays at 8pm EST on Torahanytime.com  
9/21/2022 • 1 minute, 45 seconds
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One Chesed A Day

If you’re wondering about what to take on this Rosh Hashanah, this might be a good place to start.
9/20/2022 • 1 minute, 14 seconds
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The Litmus Test of Yiddishkeit

Ever wondered where you’re holding in your Yiddishkeit? Rabbi Shafier’s simple test may surprise you. 
9/19/2022 • 1 minute, 3 seconds
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How to Prepare for Rosh Hashanah

“Dip the apple in the honey, have a good sweet new year.” We teach our children that touching song, and that is what we all wish for: a good sweet year with bracha and hatzlacha in all that we do. But that often isn’t the case. If we look back on previous years we see many things that were sweet, but also things that weren’t. Some parts of our lives are downright bitter and we wish they’d never occurred. This Shmuz is a highly focused, mature look at the issues decided on the Day of Judgment and tells us what we can do to change the decree. 
9/18/2022 • 36 minutes, 33 seconds
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The Glorified Coat Rack

Every time I get motivated…it wears off. How can I achieve my goals if inspiration doesn’t last forever? 
9/18/2022 • 3 minutes, 15 seconds
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I got Inspired! Now What??

You heard an amazing speaker. You read a motivational quote. You decide- that’s it! This year is going to be different. Now what? 
9/16/2022 • 1 minute, 16 seconds
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Being Mamlich Hashem

The main focus on Rosh Hashanah is to be Mamlich HASHEM-- To recognize HASHEM as the king. This Shmuz deals with what this concepts in practical terms, and provides the understanding and inspiration to apply it to our lives. 
9/15/2022 • 56 minutes, 38 seconds
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Why Should I Apologize When We're Both Wrong?

You don’t have to be married to gain from this!
9/15/2022 • 2 minutes, 46 seconds
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The Owner's Guide To The Soul Session Two

As an honored member of Klal Yisroel you don’t need to spend time groping in the darkness trying to figure out who you are. Baruch Hashem, we have an array of mind-blowing sefarim that give us the answers to life's most challenging questions.  And that’s what this new weekly shiur is focused on. It’s a compilation of the Derech Hashem and the Mesilas Yesharim, along with other seforim that will get you in a good head space for Yomim Noraim and may also just change your life. Just imagine with me for a moment. A life driven by meaning and purpose. The abolition of doubt and second guessing yourself. Ever wondered why talmidei chachamim are happy all the time? It’s because they know life’s answers. Now you can too. 
9/15/2022 • 59 minutes, 33 seconds
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Showing Up to Work Drunk

The only reason why you think your deeds are insignificant is because you don’t fully appreciate how great you are. Get the full series here: https://theshmuz.com/the-lost-art-of-teshuva/  
9/13/2022 • 2 minutes, 34 seconds
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Are You Normal?

So you got inspired this Elul! Wonderful. How are you going to keep it up until YK? How can you remain realistic? Answer: Starting right now, make one small, lasting change.  
9/12/2022 • 1 minute, 49 seconds
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Knowing Hashem

9/11/2022 • 56 minutes, 47 seconds
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Why Did Hashem Create Me?

It’s easy to get discouraged. It’s normal to get distracted. This Elul, focus on why Hashem created you. Yes, you. Not the other guy, the one you think is doing a better job in this world. Focus on you, and everything YOU can become.
9/11/2022 • 1 minute, 28 seconds
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Finding the Real You

9/8/2022 • 47 minutes, 15 seconds
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Finding Humility in Nature

Every.single.mitzvah that you do changes the upper worlds and changes you. Do you believe that? Do you believe your actions are *important and significant* in this world? It’s time to start recognizing how amazing you are! 
9/8/2022 • 50 seconds
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The Owner's Guide to the Soul- Session 1

As an honored member of Klal Yisroel you don’t need to spend time groping in the darkness trying to figure out who you are. Baruch Hashem, we have an array of mind-blowing sefarim that give us the answers to life's most challenging questions.  And that’s what this new weekly shiur is focused on. It’s a compilation of the Derech Hashem and the Mesilas Yesharim, along with other seforim that will get you in a good head space for Yomim Noraim and may also just change your life. Just imagine with me for a moment. A life driven by meaning and purpose. The abolition of doubt and second guessing yourself. Ever wondered why talmidei chachamim are happy all the time? It’s because they know life’s answers. Now you can too.
9/8/2022 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 4 seconds
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Rosh HaShanah- Step Back

Are you ready to feel Hashem’s presence? Are you ready to experience Hashem in a way that is totally unthinkable any other time of the year? It’s not just for tzadikim- that’s the yetzer hara talking. Listen now if you want to get excited for Rosh Hashanah!  
9/7/2022 • 1 minute, 21 seconds
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The Power of Teshuvah

Using the event of how Eliezer Bar Dudia gained the title of “Rebbe,” we are introduced to one of the greatest acts of tshuvah ever achieved. We witness his rise from the depths of depravity to the heights of spirituality in the course of a few hours. Through the story of his life, we see what a man accomplished in but a day – and we are brought to a new appreciation of the great potential of human beings. 
9/4/2022 • 49 minutes, 8 seconds
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Hashem Loves Me More Than Me

If you’re looking for more motivation to work on your middos this Elul, this is it right here.
9/4/2022 • 1 minute, 41 seconds
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Seeing the Yad Hashem

Listen to this to learn of an effortless and enjoyable way to increase your yiras Hashem! Have an amazing Shabbos! 
9/2/2022 • 1 minute, 22 seconds
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The Teshuvah Shmuz

9/1/2022 • 1 hour, 29 minutes, 17 seconds
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Teshuvah Is Like Removing a Stain

I’m not saying I’m perfect but...isn’t all this teshuvah talk a bit excessive? Elul isn’t about ruining your self-esteem. Listen now to get a healthy perspective on change. Get the full series here: https://theshmuz.com/the-lost-art-of-teshuva/  
9/1/2022 • 2 minutes, 25 seconds
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Why Can't I Just Daven to Find My Bashert?

Why do I need to do so much hishtadlus to find my bashert? Can’t I just daven? Looking for some straight-talking marriage advice? Rabbi Shafier’s Dating Seminar is available for free download here: https://theshmuz.com/dating-seminar-part-1/  
8/31/2022 • 1 minute, 14 seconds
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The Most Dangerous Middah of Them All

What would you say is the most dangerous middah of them all? Anger? Laziness? Jealousy? Listen now for Rabbi Shafier’s chilling response! Wanting to work on your middos this Elul? Check out how to become more shaleim with Rabbi Shafier’s series on Becoming a Whole Person. You can listen or download here: https://theshmuz.com/humility/  
8/30/2022 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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The Gift of Teshuvah

8/29/2022 • 1 hour, 34 minutes, 43 seconds
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Shoftim: The Tiny Giant Called 'I'

I want to be confident...but not arrogant. I want to work on my personal development, but cheshbon hanefesh is demoralizing. I know Hashem gave me my talents and abilities- so can I feel proud of my achievements? There are many contradictions when it comes to working on yourself, your middos and your self esteem. In this incredibly practical and uplifting Shmuz, Rabbi Shafier explains how you can discover the golden middle way within yourself. If you’re ready to accept who you are and move forward towards greatness, this Shmuz is for you. 
8/29/2022 • 53 minutes, 50 seconds
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My Husband Leaves Seder Early And I'm Not Happy

“My husband leaves seder early” What advice would you give this dissatisfied kollel wife?  Buy The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make from www.TheShmuz.com 
8/29/2022 • 4 minutes, 25 seconds
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Hashem is My Magen

Hashem is guiding you and watching over you every second of your day Want more Elul inspiration? Go here: https://theshmuz.com/lets-go-elul/  
8/29/2022 • 1 minute, 55 seconds
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The Formula For Misery

Aren’t you just a little bit curious as to why there are so many unhappy people today? Here’s one explanation right here. Go deeper with your parsha know-how this week. Listen/watch/download the full shmuz here: https://www.torahanytime.com/#/lectures?v=121409 Have a wonderful Shabbos and a gut Chodesh 
8/26/2022 • 1 minute, 55 seconds
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Choosing to be Miserable

If you’d love to know what it takes to have a happy marriage, check out The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make. It answers all the questions you’ve been waiting to ask about what it takes to build a happy, Torah home. It’s never too late to start: https://book.theshmuz.com/first-step1643379519788 
8/25/2022 • 58 seconds
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The Cure For Arrogance

Here’s the single most effective way for curing arrogance. Can’t relate? This video will still give you a refocus on what life’s about. Catch the full series here: https://theshmuz.com/humility/  
8/24/2022 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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Things Just Happen...Don't They??

Maybe you’ve had these thoughts: ✅I feel like so many things make no sense ✅I wish I could feel Hashem in my life more ✅I know nothing’s random but it sure does feel like it sometimes Can you relate? If so, today’s clip will interest you. Don’t miss it! 
8/23/2022 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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I’m Sitting in the Beis Medrash- I Don’t Need to Go Out

“I don’t need to do my hishtadlus. Hashem knows my address. When He’s ready to send the right one, He’ll send it” If you’re ready to stop playing games with yourself and your future, listen to this clip. Looking for some straight-talking marriage advice? Rabbi Shafier’s Dating Seminar is available for free download here: https://theshmuz.com/dating-seminar-part-1/  
8/22/2022 • 1 minute, 14 seconds
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If Hashem Loves Me, Why Am I So Broke?

I say every morning ‘sheasah li kol tzarci’- Hashem, You have provided me with all of my needs. Three times a day I remind myself that You open Your hand and satisfy every living thing with its desire. I know You want me to be happy, to enjoy Your world, to keep mitzvos and do Your will...so if that’s the case, WHY AM I SO BROKE? In this week’s Shmuz on the Parsha, take a closer look at this apparent contradiction. Listen now and learn how to: Free yourself from the unhappiness caused by unfulfilled desires Start really enjoying the good things in life Handle every nisayon like a baal bitachon and get more resilient to life’s challenges . Even if you’re more comfortable than Jeff Bezos, you’re going to find this week's Shmuz very relevant.  
8/21/2022 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 57 seconds
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That's a No

In shidduchim? This is how you know when it’s a ‘no’.If you’re looking for crystal clear dating advice, download this: https://theshmuz.com/dating-seminar-part-1/ 
8/19/2022 • 1 minute, 25 seconds
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We See Finances Differently

For the average frum family, summer can bring a lot of extra expenses. What should you do if you and your spouse see finances differently? 
8/18/2022 • 2 minutes, 9 seconds
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What I Do Matters

Don’t listen to the mean voice inside. It’s the voice of the satan. You are important. What you do matters. 
8/17/2022 • 2 minutes, 51 seconds
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Hi, I'm Ralph Lauren

Do your clothes define you? This powerful short clip will leave you with plenty to think about.Watch the full class here: https://theshmuz.com/humility/  
8/16/2022 • 1 minute, 29 seconds
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Shmuz #273 Don't Trust Your Brain

We tend to think that our brain is our best friend- we rely on our thoughts to tell us right from wrong, good from bad and truth from lies. So what happened with Korach? How could he be driven to stage such a catastrophic rebellion? The answer is that your brain is a handmaiden to your ego. It’s not always your friend. Listen to this Shmuz to protect yourself against making crazy decisions and gain a deeper insight into who you are. 
8/15/2022 • 41 minutes
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Parshas Eikev: Decision making made easy: How to banish regret, indecision and self-doubt from your life

Here's how to live your life without regret. Taken entirely from this week’s parsha and other Torah sources, this Shmuz promises to deliver a complete paradigm shift on how to view the consequences of your choices. Do you find yourself ruminating over times when things didn’t work out as planned? Or are you the type to give yourself a big high-five when you’re successful? Decision Making Made Easy will give you the appropriate Torah hashkafa on how to make choices, how to live with every decision with serenity and ultimately how to recognize Hashem in every aspect of your life. 
8/14/2022 • 31 minutes
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The power within us

What’s your limiting belief? Can you let go of that and start shooting for the stars? Have a wonderful Shabbos! 
8/12/2022 • 1 minute, 21 seconds
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Spoiled brat syndrome

Ok guys, here’s some mussar *you might not want to hear* (even though it’s 100% true) 
8/11/2022 • 1 minute, 53 seconds
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Hand-crafted for growth

Got 51 seconds? That’s all you need to get right perspective on whatever’s bothering you right now 
8/10/2022 • 51 seconds
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How to cope with a painful insult

The summer isn’t always sunshine and rainbows...watch now for Rabbi Shafier’s grounding advice on how to take an insult 
8/9/2022 • 2 minutes, 28 seconds
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Feeling Empty

This time of year can make for a lot of unpleasant comparisons. Listen now to refocus! 
8/8/2022 • 1 minute, 41 seconds
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Tisha B'Av What Are You Waiting For?

8/7/2022 • 1 hour, 36 seconds
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Tisha B'Av: 2000 Years Later, Where Are We?

For almost 2,000 years, the Jewish people have been driven from land to land across the globe. Exiled from our home with the destruction of the Bais Hamikdash, we have been forced from continent to continent and country to country – tortured, oppressed, and banished. For a short while, we find haven in one country, only to be kicked out again and chased to the next place in a never-ending series of tragedies. This reality brings many questions: Why is the Jewish people so oppressed?Why is it that the other nations stand up to destroy us in every generation?Why is it that the one universal law of history is that everyone hates the Jew? But, there are even bigger questions to be asked, and those are about ourselves:What have we learned from this long and bitter exile?Have we become wiser?Have we become better?Do we understand the message of galus? This Shmuz puts two millennia of Jewish history into perspective and deals with the major questions of our belief system. 
8/7/2022 • 53 minutes, 14 seconds
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What We Can Do To Bring Geula

Since the time that we were young children, we were taught,“We want Moshiach now!” And so, we daven for Moshiach.We sing songs about Moshiach. We wait for Moshiach.This Shmuz focuses on what life will be like in the times of Moshiach,why we anxiously await his appearance, and what we can do to hasten his coming.
8/7/2022 • 51 minutes, 57 seconds
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Tisha B'Av: What We Lost

On Tisha B’Av, we are expected to mourn many things: the devastation that happened to our people long ago; the almost two thousand years of expulsions, bloodshed, and torture that we have suffered through since then; and finally, the influence on our mindset and lifestyle picked up by living in exile all of these years. While it takes work to actually feel the pain, the issues aren’t that distant, and most of us can relate to them. There is, however, another aspect of the tragedy that is more difficult to relate to: the loss of the Bais Hamikdash itself and our inability to do the avodah (temple service). The problem is that performing the avodah is something that we have never experienced. How can we recognize what it is? How can we realize what we are lacking? And how can we possibly mourn its loss? This Shmuz brings us closer to relating to what the Bais Hamikdash was and what it was like to experience being inside it. 
8/7/2022 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 55 seconds
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Tisha B'Av: A World Unravelling

8/7/2022 • 49 minutes, 3 seconds
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Tisha B'Av: Perspectives on Exile

Listen now to discover new insights on how our current golus permeates our lives-and what we can do to bring the geulah we so desperately need. 
8/7/2022 • 59 minutes, 47 seconds
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Tisha B'Av: From Hashem's Perspective

Our understanding of Hashem is often based on a limited interpretation of human nature. Can Hashem get angry with me? Is He punitive, lacking rachmonos? It can sometimes feel that way, as we struggle to understand the Holocaust, the Churban and modern-day tradegies. What is the pain of Hashem? That He wants the geula more than you. That He is waiting, with endless patience, for us to get it right. This Tisha B’Av shmuz will straighten out any crooked thinking, show you where you need to improve and give you hope for the future. 
8/7/2022 • 50 minutes, 21 seconds
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Tisha B'Av: What We Are Missing

The world that we live in isn’t the way it’s supposed to be. Tisha B’Av gives you a moment of reflection, the opportunity to consider what you are missing and how you can begin to rectify what has been lost. This Tisha B’Av take the time to reset your perspective.
8/7/2022 • 43 minutes, 45 seconds
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A Cultural War

Tisha B’Av 5782 Here are three meaningful resources for you this Tisha B’Av: 1. Rabbi Shafier has prepared this powerful, 8.5 min recording. It will give you a shot in the arm of focus and yearning- guaranteed! 2. Rabbi Shafier is speaking at around 1pm/chatzos Tisha B’Av day as part of the TorahAnytime/Chazaq livestream. Check out their incredible program on Torahanytime.com 3. There are also plenty of shmuzin on theshmuz.com that are focused around Tisha B’Av and the Three Weeks. May this be the last time Rabbi Shafier ever has to speak about this! Wishing you an easy and meaningful fast, The Shmuz Team 
8/5/2022 • 8 minutes, 26 seconds
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Self-Talk Is the Solution

Here’s a super quick video to offer some straight perspective for erev Shabbos Chazon.  
8/4/2022 • 1 minute, 51 seconds
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My Life Stinks

Ever wonder WHY you need such trouble in your life? And then the 9 days start and you can’t even take a long hot shower… Listen now for a paradigm shift. You got this! 
8/2/2022 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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Moments Before Moshiach

The Three Weeks can sometimes feel like ‘Uh-oh, better watch out for Hashem’s big stick...get through the Nine Days... then aaaaah go on vacation.’ It doesn’t have to be that way. This short clip will give you a new perspective. 
8/1/2022 • 2 minutes, 13 seconds
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Being At Peace With Your Life Settings

It’s time to stop spinning your wheels, and start focusing on where you want to go in this world. Have a wonderful week! 
7/31/2022 • 1 minute, 29 seconds
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Moshiach: What's In It For Me?

Here are the top 5 Shmuzin for the 9 Days and Tisha B’Av: #250 Moshiach: What’s in it for me? https://theshmuz.com/shmuz/18823/ #275 What are we missing? https://theshmuz.com/shmuz/tisha-bav-5779-what-are-we-missing/ #271 It’s not the way it’s supposed to be https://theshmuz.com/shmuz/its-not-the-way-its-supposed-to-be/ #274 Tisha B’Av from Hashem’s perspective https://theshmuz.com/shmuz/tisha-bav-from-hashems-perspective/ #246 A world unraveling https://theshmuz.com/shmuz/tisha-bav-a-world-unravelling/  
7/29/2022 • 1 hour, 42 minutes, 41 seconds
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Just Validate!

“For many years I thought I was giving my wife good advice. Just one problem- it wasn’t my advice she wanted” If you’re not willing to settle for a mediocre marriage, get yourself a copy of Rabbi Shafier’s 10 Really Dumb Mistakes Video Book. It’s over 3 hours of entertaining content that may just change your life: https://shafier.clickfunnels.com/10-really-dumb-mistakes  
7/28/2022 • 2 minutes, 42 seconds
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Hashem, Help Me Change!

Short Parsha video: Hashem, Help Me Change! The magic moment comes when you realize how powerless you are. 
7/27/2022 • 1 minute, 43 seconds
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How Can I Get My Spouse To Appreciate Me?

How Can I Get My Spouse to Appreciate Me? If you’re married, you’ve probably asked yourself this question.Looking to bring more appreciation to your marriage? Go here: https://book.theshmuz.com/first-step1643379519788  
7/26/2022 • 1 minute, 58 seconds
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Rating Hashem

Deep down, you may feel like G-d is making poor choices when it comes to your life. But before you go and rate Hashem, watch this. 
7/25/2022 • 1 minute, 11 seconds
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Arrogance is Delusional

Here’s one way to live a miserable life: base your sense of self around what others think of youWatch the full class here: https://theshmuz.com/humility/  
7/24/2022 • 1 minute, 36 seconds
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Awe

You can tell Hashem how big your problems are. You can also tell your problems how big Hashem is. Have a wonderful Shabbos! 
7/22/2022 • 1 minute, 49 seconds
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Is there reward when Moshiach comes?

What can you achieve in the moments before Moshiach? 
7/21/2022 • 4 minutes, 4 seconds
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The All American Couple

The amazing thing about The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes is that it’s just so relatable. Hands up if you know a Shayna or a Bentzi!The new 10RDM Video Book is selling out fast bH! Not sure what the hype’s about? Learn more here: https://shafier.clickfunnels.com/10-really-dumb-mistakes  
7/20/2022 • 3 minutes, 43 seconds
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Wonders of the World: The Big Bang

If you saw the new images from space last week, you may have found your inner niflaos haBorei. Or maybe you kept scrolling. Either way, the fact that the Ramban talked about the Big Bang 800 YEARS AGO is pretty astonishing, wouldn’t you say? Want to watch Rabbi Shafier's Wonders of the World Series? Go here: https://theshmuz.com/wonders-of-the-world/ 
7/19/2022 • 5 minutes, 33 seconds
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Leaving it up to Hashem

In shidduchim? Looking for the sign that he’s the right one? This might be it. 
7/18/2022 • 1 minute, 7 seconds
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A Damaged Sense of Self

A damaged sense of self will play havoc with your relationships with others. Want to become a whole person? Catch the full series here: https://theshmuz.com/humility/  
7/17/2022 • 1 minute, 16 seconds
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The Guaranteed Way to Change Your Marriage Part 3

If you're looking for plenty of practical, hands on advice on how you can improve your marriage, this three part seminar is for you. Wherever you’re holding (iyH in a good place) these sessions will enhance your marriage- guaranteed!   
7/17/2022 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 32 seconds
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Turn on Your Blinker

Missed Wednesday’s Marriage Seminar? You can still get the replay by registering at theshmuz.com This clip is taken from Rabbi Shafier’s brand new Video Book- limited copies available! Go here to get the marriage of your dreams: https://shafier.clickfunnels.com/10-really-dumb-mistakes  
7/15/2022 • 3 minutes, 3 seconds
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The Guaranteed Way to Change Your Marriage Part 1

If you're looking for plenty of practical, hands on advice on how you can improve your marriage, this three part seminar is for you. Wherever you’re holding (iyH in a good place) these sessions will enhance your marriage- guaranteed!  
7/14/2022 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 27 seconds
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The Guaranteed Way to Change Your Marriage Part 2

If you're looking for plenty of practical, hands on advice on how you can improve your marriage, this three part seminar is for you. Wherever you’re holding (iyH in a good place) these sessions will enhance your marriage- guaranteed!  
7/14/2022 • 1 hour, 15 minutes, 16 seconds
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I Married a Drill Sergeant

You want an amazing marriage… You Know Rabbi Shafier’s Best-Selling Book Would Help.Just One Problem. You’re Not Really A Book Guy (Or Gal)…*Introducing…The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes Video Book!*After a long, tiring day it’s hard to pick up a book and learn. Your brain is craving relaxation and entertainment. Sound familiar?*The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes Video Book* gives you a marriage manual in a set of short, upbeat animations that are fun to share together. Watch on the couch with your spouse or when you’ve got a spare three minutes.Now you can unwind AND learn something worthwhile at the same time. Take that, yetzer hara! Learn more here: https://shafier.clickfunnels.com/10-really-dumb-mistakes  
7/12/2022 • 2 minutes, 45 seconds
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S2 Ep. 15 | Five Habits Of Highly Effective Marriages with Kayla Levin

Deep Meaningful Conversations is a podcast for frum women by Alex Fleksher and Rivki Silver. In this episode they discuss Rabbi Shafier's best selling book, The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make. Mrs Kayla Levin builds upon some of the principles of the book as well as offering some of her own insightful thoughts on shalom bayis.
7/12/2022 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 11 seconds
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Discovering the Bilaam in You

“I just love it when my carefully laid plans go completely haywire” Said no one ever. If you sometimes get frustrated, irritated or down right angry when things don’t go your way, welcome to the club of being human. Want to know what to do about it? Listen to this. 
7/11/2022 • 1 minute, 34 seconds
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A Woman's Need to Talk

Missed Wednesday’s Marriage Seminar? You can still get the replay by registering at theshmuz.com 
7/8/2022 • 3 minutes, 40 seconds
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Session 5: Arrogance and Anger

We are all familiar with the characteristics of the arrogant man. He’s argumentative, obnoxious, judgemental and small minded. In this class, Rabbi Shafier explains another hallmark of someone who is haughty- their deep unhappiness and dissatisfaction with life. You see, a baal gaiveh constantly has sunburn on his ego- he is forever seeing himself as slighted, dishonored disrespected. In contrast, a humble man is free to enjoy this world. He can appreciate simple pleasures, get along with people and maintain happy, fulfilling relationships. Ok, so you know which one you want to be. How do you get there? Whilst removing arrogance from our hearts may be a lifetime job, in this essential shiur, Rabbi Shafier explains where to start. Listen now to get the motivation to attain genuine humility and live a life of meaning and satisfaction. 
7/7/2022 • 50 minutes, 12 seconds
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The One Way to Change Your Spouse

If you’re one of the 15,000 people who have read The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes you know that Rabbi Shafier is very insistent about not trying to change your spouse. Not satisfied with that? He’s the one technique he does recommend. This is from The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes Video Book! Check it out on TheShmuz.com! 
7/5/2022 • 3 minutes, 29 seconds
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Hashem Loves Me- How to Make it Real

You’ve told yourself this so many times: “Hashem loves me” “Hashem wants my success” “Hashem is doing this for my good” Just one problem: How can I bridge the gap between knowing… and really feeling it? Listen now for the answer. 
7/4/2022 • 1 minute, 35 seconds
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Beneath My Dignity

Feeling like the post-Shabbos clean up never ends? This short clip can help you reframe. Have an amazing week! 
7/3/2022 • 1 minute, 56 seconds
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We're Not in Control

Here’s your erev Shabbos reminder that you’re not in control…and that’s ok. Have a wonderful Shabbos!P.S. If you would like to receive the replay of the first part of the Marriage Seminar, go to www.theshmuz.com to register your email. 
7/1/2022 • 54 seconds
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Becoming a Whole Person: Session 4

Session 4: Life Brings Humility In previous classes, we learned how the cornerstone to all middos is humility. In Life Brings Humility, Rabbi Shafier builds upon this fundamental principle by exploring the devastating influence of arrogance. We all agree that arrogance is ugly, but our mesorah goes further: arrogance will inevitably lead a person to forget Hashem. Afterall, when we’re so sure of our own competence and independence, we don’t need a Master. We are in this world to serve Hashem, but when we are consumed by gaaveh, our avoda is ruined, because our intentions define every action. Arrogance will make us hated in this world and empty in the World to Come. It’s the essential work of a lifetime to rid our hearts of it completely, but where do we start? In Life Brings Humility Rabbi Shafier gives us practical tools that are guaranteed to cut through our illusions of grandeur, maintain our sense of self and reconnect to our ultimate Master and Benefactor.  
6/30/2022 • 45 minutes, 16 seconds
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Hashem Loves Me More Than Me

If you’d like to solve 80% of your philosophical problems, the solution is simple: stop playing G-d. 
6/28/2022 • 1 minute, 41 seconds
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Bitachon is Learned in the Real World

Bitachon isn’t learnt from a book. Sure, you can learn the concepts, the theory. But genuine bitachon? That comes from real life. Think your bitachon leaves a lot to be desired? Listen to this. 
6/27/2022 • 1 minute, 22 seconds
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What We Don't Understand

'Rabbi, are you seriously telling me that the entire universe was created just for a bunch of two legged-creatures?!” Listen to Rabbi Shafier’s amazing response- especially if you’re in need of a hashkafic deprogramming. Have an incredible Shabbos! 
6/24/2022 • 1 minute, 35 seconds
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Accepting Your Child

Parenting is hard. How can you get your kid to listen? 
6/23/2022 • 1 minute, 3 seconds
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Becoming a Whole Person: Session 3

Our ego, left unchecked, will run rampant with delusions of grandeur. It’s so soothing to genuinely believe that I am better than others, I am successful, important, incredibly talented and more than that- the way I am now will last forever. In this candid shiur, Rabbi Shafier picks apart the anatomy of arrogance, showing us where our thinking becomes illogical and driven by our need to feel good about ourselves. Does that mean we should negate our abilities and squash our victories? Absolutely not. But as Torah Jews striving to live an authentic life, we have a responsibility to get real about ourselves and start acknowledging that our talents are gifts from Hashem, given to us to fulfill our role in this world. 
6/22/2022 • 44 minutes, 12 seconds
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How to Change Your Davening

Looking to daven with more kavannah and less blah? This simple technique can help. If you’d like to get serious about improving your conversation with Hashem, check out Rabbi Shafier’s Tefillah Project. It’s a 5 hour investment of your time, divided into 10 actionable chunks. Stream or download for free here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-tefilah-project/ 
6/21/2022 • 43 seconds
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How Many Shadchanim Should I Call?

Listen to this if you’re dating: How many shadchanim should I call? For practical, helpful advice on the dating process download Rabbi Shafier’s Dating Seminar here: https://theshmuz.com/dating-seminar-part-1/ 
6/19/2022 • 39 seconds
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My Life Stinks

I’d be the first to thank Hashem…if I had anything to thank Hashem for. Ever feel like that? Have a wonderful Shabbos 
6/16/2022 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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Becoming a Whole Person- Session Two

In the second session of Becoming a Whole Person, Rabbi Shafier deconstructs the middah of arrogance and shows you how to break this distasteful middah once and for all. Listen now to discover:  why some character traits are so difficult to break  what drives you, deep deep down  what you need to do to live a happy and fulfilled life.
6/15/2022 • 46 minutes, 10 seconds
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The American Dream Could Ruin Your Life

Feel like you’re in a never ending cycle of trying to get your hands on bigger, brighter, better? Then it could be that the American Dream is ruining your life. If this clip resonates with you, it’s time to make a change. 
6/15/2022 • 1 minute, 55 seconds
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Info on Nikadesh Kinus for Women

Happening next week: Stand with 40,000 fellow women and reaffirm your commitment in upholding the Kedushah of Klal Yisroel. Listen to this for more information and go to thekinus.org to book your ticket and transportation. 
6/15/2022 • 1 minute, 46 seconds
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Awareness Changes Everything

Most middos are incredibly difficult to change. Aside from this one. This one is 100% doable. So why not try it out? 
6/13/2022 • 57 seconds
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Hollywood Got It Backwards

We don’t marry for love- but love is the glue of a successful marriage. The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is trusted by our Gedolei Yisroel ✔️ as well as hundreds of community Rabbonim ✔️, chosson and kallah teachers ✔️, marriage therapists ✔️, shadchanim ✔️ and dating coaches worldwide ✔️ It’s already sold over 10,000 copies!Go to www.theshmuz.com to get yours now 😀😀😀 
6/12/2022 • 58 seconds
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Understanding Challenge

One of the hardest parts of a nisayon is trying to wrap your head around the why. Here’s an insight from the Mesilas Yesharim that may help. Wishing you a wonderful Shabbos 
6/10/2022 • 1 minute, 37 seconds
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The Laboratory of Growth is Life

These few simple words are the hardest to say. They also lead to the biggest growth. 
6/9/2022 • 55 seconds
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Becoming a Whole Person: Session One

NEW SERIES It's time to begin your journey towards a balanced and healthy sense of self. Listen to session one to learn the Torah's view of humility and learn how to finally embrace your strengths and talents.
6/8/2022 • 45 minutes, 28 seconds
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The Fourth Mistake

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. OR YOUR SPOUSE. OR THE MATCH BETWEEN YOU. It’s normal to feel frustrated with your spouse It’s normal to think your spouse doesn’t get you It’s normal to wonder if you married the right one... LEARN THE 10 REALLY DUMB MISTAKES THAT SMART COUPLES MAKE AND WATCH THE MAGIC REAPPEAR! ✨Get your copy with free bonuses and free shipping from www.TheShmuz.com  
6/7/2022 • 2 minutes, 2 seconds
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Why Did Rav Chaim ztl Learn So Much?

Your neshama has been waiting all year for Shavuos. Spend a few minutes now to remind yourself what it’s all about. 
6/2/2022 • 1 minute, 10 seconds
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The Definition of Arrogance

Believing that you're better than someone else feels delicious. Problem is, you’ll be hated for it. Watch this video on arrogance and get that middah under control. 
6/1/2022 • 3 minutes, 19 seconds
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Heroes: Aspiring for Greatness this Shavuos

 Sometimes we can feel like we’re not cut out for Torah. We’re not smart enough, dedicated enough, focused enough. Shavuos is for talmidei chachamim...those types that actually enjoy losing a night of sleep! But me? I’m just a regular person!   What we need is motivation.  I’ve recorded a mini-Shmuz, entitled ‘Heros- Aspiring forGreatness’’. It’s not just about role models. It’s about being a role model toyourself. On how to become the great person you are destined to be this yomtov. I hope you find it meaningful, Rabbi Shafier  
6/1/2022 • 22 minutes, 14 seconds
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Your Unique Role

Gut chodesh! You have a unique role and purpose in this world. Embrace it! 
5/31/2022 • 3 minutes, 7 seconds
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The Guidebook for Happiness was Written by our Creator

Short clip for Shavuos: The guidebook for happiness was written by our Creator Go beyond the cheesecake this year. Listen to Rabbi Shafier’s series on Kabbolas HaTorah here: https://theshmuz.com/series/at-the-foot-of-har-sinai/ 
5/30/2022 • 1 minute, 56 seconds
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Having Couples Over

Thinking of inviting a couple over for yomtov? Listen to this first… 
5/29/2022 • 2 minutes, 24 seconds
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A Whole World Created For Me

בשבילי נברא העולם Isn’t just a nice platitude. It’s meant to give you an inherent sense of self-worth and meaning to your life. Watch this if you need to feel like you matter today. 
5/18/2022 • 4 minutes, 40 seconds
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I'm Not Sure

“I’ve been dating someone for a few weeks now. He’s ready to go forward but I’m not. How will I know when it’s the right one?” Listen now if you’re looking for guidance in the dating process. Looking for more? Rabbi Shafier’s dating seminar, Finding and Keeping Your Soulmate, is available for free audio download here: https://theshmuz.com/dating-seminar-part-1/ Pass on to anyone in the parsha! 
5/17/2022 • 1 minute, 12 seconds
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This is What You Need

Ever tried to function on less sleep? Less food? Less water? Things start feeling rough very quickly. The guf knows how to make its needs known- loud and clear. What about the needs of your neshama? If you neglect your soul, do the repercussions scream out?  
5/16/2022 • 1 minute, 18 seconds
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Going Beyond V'Ahavta L'Reacha K'Mocha

How to be a mentsh in less than 60 seconds 👆 Join The Shmuz Whatsapp Group! Text ‘add me’ to +1(845) 216-9330 Have an amazing Shabbos! 
5/11/2022 • 42 seconds
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Joe the Crane Operator

*Presenting: Becoming a Whole Person* Over the next few weeks, we will be sharing audio clips that promote self-esteem, confidence and how to achieve a healthy sense of self. Listen to the full series here on The Shmuz site: https://theshmuz.com/series/humility-arrogance-and-self-esteem/  
5/10/2022 • 3 minutes, 3 seconds
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A Tip for Life

New video in time for sefira: How to win any argument!
5/9/2022 • 1 minute, 27 seconds
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How Can I Bring Back the Spark?

“I know people talk about this all the time, but I feel like right when we got married we were so close and it was so much fun, and now with so many more responsibilities in life we’ve lost that passion. How do we bring it back?” If this is a question you’ve sometimes wondered, listen now to hear Rabbi Shafier’s on-point answer. Make sure your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make. Learn how to avoid The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable. Get your copy now at www.TheShmuz.com or in any Jewish bookstore 👍 
5/8/2022 • 2 minutes, 19 seconds
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Giving Honor to Your Wife

On behalf of wives everywhere, he’s a little reminder for the husbands Have an amazing Shabbos! 
5/6/2022 • 55 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 74- Sefirah-The Students of Rebbe Akiva

5/6/2022 • 45 minutes, 42 seconds
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The World Doesn't Function

The footsteps of Moshiach are getting louder and louder. Living at the end of time isn’t easy. This clip will give you plenty of encouragement and hope for the future 
5/2/2022 • 1 minute, 31 seconds
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The Third Mistake

Did your spouse do something irritating this past Shabbos? If you’re in the 1% who never finds living with another person difficult, you don’t need to watch this video. For everyone else, this short clip can offer a refreshing perspective Didn’t get your copy of Ten Really Dumb Mistakes yet? You can purchase your copy from www.theshmuz.com with free extra s and added bonuses 
5/1/2022 • 45 seconds
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Pleasures are tools

‘I heard the podcast you posted earlier about not being a pleasure seeker…since when does Yiddishkeit ban enjoying life?’ Listen now for the answer, have a wonderful Shabbos and enjoy the challah! 
4/29/2022 • 1 minute, 18 seconds
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Don't Take Revenge

If you had to deal with a difficult person over yomtov, this clip is for you. 
4/28/2022 • 49 seconds
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Are You Pleasure Seeker?

Are you a hedonist? A pleasure seeker? A foodie? Know how to ‘enjoy the good things in life?’ Rabbi Shafier has a little mussar drasha for you… This clip is taken from Shmuz on the Parsha: Kedoshim, Holy Pleasures. You can watch or download the full shmuz here: https://vimeo.com/424496144 
4/27/2022 • 1 minute, 14 seconds
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Finding Your Bashert

The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes is essential reading for every marriage couple. But how can you make sure you marry the right one to begin with? Listen to this quick clip on how to find your bashert. If you’d like to hear more dating advice from Rabbi Shafier, go here: https://theshmuz.com/dating-seminar-part-1/  
4/26/2022 • 1 minute, 34 seconds
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Changing Worlds

So here’s an idea. Pause for a moment and think about all of the many, many mitzvos you did over Pesach. Think about the kedusha you created. The changes that were made in the upper worlds. The impact your actions had. And now consider what you’d like to do next, what gains you would like to make in your avodas Hashem. We’re on the countdown to kabbolas haTorah. Whatever goals you set in ruchnius, are in your reach. Let’s go! 
4/24/2022 • 1 minute, 27 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 73 - Learning to Love Hashem

 Learning to Love Hashem  ThisShmuz is the ultimate ‘pick me up’. From the wonders of Creation to Hashem’sintimate involvement in our lives, Rabbi Shafier gives chizuk, inspiration andclarity on our purpose in this world. Listen to this to learn how wonderful itis to be alive. 
4/8/2022 • 48 minutes, 3 seconds
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Why Yetzias Mitzrayim is Pivotal

Gut erev Shabbos hagodol! Here’s a fundamental yesod. The more you think about it, the deeper it gets. Try it out when you’re preparing for yomtov! 
4/7/2022 • 54 seconds
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Derech HASHEM Session 20

4/7/2022 • 49 minutes, 27 seconds
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How Can We Fit Date Night Into Our Extremely Busy Lives?

Working on your marriage is hard. Not working on your marriage is even harder. Over 10,000 copies sold! Get YOUR copy of The Ten Really Dumb Mistakes at theshmuz.com 
4/5/2022 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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Parshas Tazria: Mindless Chatter

 Shiurim on shmiras haloshon aren’t popular. Like exercise orkeeping healthy, most think ‘yep. I know this. Shouldn’t do it. Not sure I needto listen to a whole shiur about it...’ Unfortunately, the parameters of lashonhara are not what you think. Just like eating treif or being mechalelShabbos, it is one hundred percent forbidden. And it’s easy to see why-weall have stuff in our history that we wouldn’t want ‘out there’. It makes sensethat talking about even true events could cause serious damage to another Jew.    But there’s more: it’s actually relatively easy to stop talkinglashon hara. You see, lashon hara isn’t driven by passion, by desire. It’smostly due to a lack of awareness. By becoming more attentive of what the Torahdemands of us, we can start amassing a serious amount of zechar for ourselves.All it takes is for us to become more mindful and aware of what we’re saying. 
4/1/2022 • 44 minutes, 58 seconds
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Derech HASHEM Session 19

3/31/2022 • 46 minutes, 44 seconds
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How to Be a Smarter Couple- How to Glow Podcast

Rabbi Shafier was recently featured on Kayla Levin’s podcast How to Glow. Learn more here: https://kaylalevin.com/how-to-glow-podcast/
3/30/2022 • 38 minutes, 24 seconds
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Why Did Rav Chaim ztl Learn So Much?

You know this. But sometimes, we all need a little motivation. So…here it is 
3/29/2022 • 1 minute, 10 seconds
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My Experience Isn't Reality

If you’re married, you can relate to this.Still haven’t got yourself a copy of Rabbi Shafier’s bestselling book? Go here to learn what all the hype’s about: www.theshmuz.com  
3/28/2022 • 1 minute, 22 seconds
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My Experience Isn't Reality

If you’re married, you can relate to this.Still haven’t got yourself a copy of Rabbi Shafier’s bestselling book? Go here to learn what all the hype’s about: www.theshmuz.com  
3/28/2022 • 1 minute, 22 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 71- Shemini Animal Soul in Man

3/25/2022 • 52 minutes, 3 seconds
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Keeping Kosher to Strengthen Who We Are

Did you over indulge on Purim and now your davening just feels…off? This video is a total ‘aha’ moment. Have a wonderful Shabbos 
3/24/2022 • 1 minute, 55 seconds
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I Want My Husband to Talk More

What should a woman do when her husband comes home…and they have nothing to talk about? 
3/22/2022 • 1 minute, 44 seconds
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Just Keep Learning

In times like these, there’s only one option. Just. Keep. Learning.  
3/21/2022 • 2 minutes, 20 seconds
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Taking Out the Garbage

Still cleaning up from Purim? You have 2 choices. Have an awesome Shabbos! 
3/18/2022 • 2 minutes, 20 seconds
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The Shadchan Insulted Me

This clip is for anyone who’s ever been insulted. It may be a good idea to listen before any potential awkward interactions this Purim… 
3/14/2022 • 46 seconds
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How to Ruin Your Avodas Hashem

Mishloach manos came out perfect? Purim seuda menu out of this world? Pretty sure you're the guy giving the most matonos levyonim? Make sure your mitzvos of Purim stays on course this year. 
3/13/2022 • 1 minute, 7 seconds
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Derech HASHEM Session 18

3/10/2022 • 29 minutes, 21 seconds
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We're Not in Control

This is something that requires a constant reminder 
3/4/2022 • 54 seconds
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Moments Before Moshiach

When you feel like you’re living moments before Moshiach, remember this: Hashem is the one keeping everything in existence.  
3/3/2022 • 2 minutes, 13 seconds
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How to Keep Your Wife Happy

👍 2 WONDERFUL PEOPLE ✖ 10 REALLY DUMB MISTAKES 😢1 MISERABLE MARRIAGE “My husband has no idea how to meet my basic emotional needs.” “My wife is always looking to start a fight.” “I feel like there’s something missing in our marriage.” What if that something is basic information about what it takes for a marriage to succeed? 📣 You need the The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make!  Rabbi Shafier’s best selling book will give you a deeper understanding of what makes a marriage work. Looking to bring a new level of intimacy and ❤️ into your marriage? You need this book. Order now at www.theshmuz.com  
3/2/2022 • 1 minute, 3 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 70- VaYakhel - Tools that Bond

2/25/2022 • 48 minutes, 13 seconds
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The Power of Davening

You get to talk to the Creator of Heaven and Earth. Isn’t that pretty amazing? Have a wonderful Shabbos! 
2/25/2022 • 2 minutes, 16 seconds
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Derech Hashem Session 17

2/24/2022 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 37 seconds
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The Secret to a Successful Relationship

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. OR YOUR SPOUSE. OR THE MATCH BETWEEN YOU. It’s _normal_ to feel frustrated with your spouse It’s _normal_ to think your spouse doesn’t get you It’s _normal_ to wonder if you married the right one... *LEARN THE 10 REALLY DUMB MISTAKES THAT SMART COUPLES MAKE AND WATCH THE MAGIC REAPPEAR!* ✨Now available in your local Jewish bookstore or www.TheShmuz.com  
2/24/2022 • 1 minute, 53 seconds
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Histadlus and Bitachon What Every one needs to know about Dating

2/23/2022 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 6 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 69-For the Love of Money

2/18/2022 • 52 minutes, 1 second
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Derech HASHEM Session 16

2/17/2022 • 39 minutes, 13 seconds
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My Net Worth

How much do you value yourself? If it’s based on your financial net worth, you could find yourself in trouble.  This clip is taken from Shmuz on the Parsha. Which the full shmuz on Ki Sisa here: https://vimeo.com/396295896 
2/17/2022 • 1 minute, 35 seconds
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Does Money Bring Happiness?

What brings more happiness- winning the lottery or becoming paraplegic?  
2/14/2022 • 2 minutes, 1 second
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I failed

Are you able to face your shortcomings and not feel terrible about yourself? Ok awesome! For everyone else, this video can give a lot of chizuk Have an amazing Shabbos! 
2/10/2022 • 1 minute, 1 second
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Hashem Runs Nature

This awe-inspiring video is sure to get your hashkafas right back where they belong 
2/9/2022 • 2 minutes, 2 seconds
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Arrogance is a Lie

Know an arrogant person? This is for you This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Tizaveh here: https://vimeo.com/394790017 
2/8/2022 • 1 minute, 50 seconds
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Does My Husband Find Me Attractive?

“I know my husband is attracted to me but I don’t feel he expresses it enough” Listen now to hear Rabbi Shafier’s grounded response  If you're looking for a tried-and-tested method to get your marriage back on course, you need The Ten Dumb Mistakes Very Smart Couples Make.  It will coach you on the practical techniques you need to bring a new level of intimacy and love into your marriage- without the 💰💰💰 of expensive marriage therapy. Get your copy at www.TheShmuz.com or any Jewish bookstore 👍
2/7/2022 • 1 minute, 30 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 68- Proper Hishtadlus

2/4/2022 • 56 minutes, 1 second
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Derech HASHEM Session 14

2/3/2022 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 48 seconds
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Everyday Miracles

“Because if you don’t appreciate it, you may as well not have it” R.S. Have a beautiful Shabbos!
2/3/2022 • 1 minute, 3 seconds
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A Tricky Balance

This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Terumah here: https://vimeo.com/393308196  
2/2/2022 • 1 minute, 9 seconds
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The Marriage Seminar: Why Couples Fight

Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will live in married bliss forever. Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong. Unfortunately, making a happy marriage is not intuitive, and most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home. They’re not aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life. 
2/1/2022 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 45 seconds
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Klutz!

👍 *2 WONDERFUL PEOPLE* ✖ *10 REALLY DUMB MISTAKES* 😢 *1 MISERABLE MARRIAGE* “My husband has no idea how to meet my basic emotional needs.” “My wife is always looking to start a fight.” “I feel like there’s something missing in our marriage.” What if that _something_ is basic information about what it takes for a marriage to succeed? 📣 *Introducing _The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make_* Rabbi Shafier’s newest book release will give you a deeper understanding of what makes a marriage work. Looking to bring a new level of intimacy and ❤️ into your marriage? You need this book. Order now at www.theshmuz.com  
2/1/2022 • 52 seconds
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bitachon_and hishtadlus_- finding the balance

1/30/2022 • 55 minutes, 14 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 67 A Holy People Slated for Growth

1/28/2022 • 46 minutes, 25 seconds
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The Problem With Wealth

Have you ever come across one of those self-proclaimed coaches on social media, who talk non-stop about how amazing it is to be fabulously wealthy? All you need to do is shift your mindset, pay them a ton of 💰💰💰 and your problems will be over! Wow! There’s just one tiny problem… Wishing you a wonderful Shabbos… filled with *genuine* happiness  
1/27/2022 • 1 minute, 11 seconds
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Derech Hashem Session 13

1/27/2022 • 1 hour, 2 seconds
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The Marriage Seminar: Best Friends Forever

1/25/2022 • 1 hour, 53 seconds
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What Does G-d Want From Man?

Is it my job to fix the world? Does Hashem need help? This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Mishpatim here: https://vimeo.com/391807899 
1/24/2022 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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Irreconcilable Differences

The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is trusted by our Gedolei Yisroel ✔️ as well as hundreds of community Rabbonim ✔️, chosson and kallah teachers ✔️, marriage therapists ✔️, shadchanim ✔️ and dating coaches worldwide ✔️ And now finally, this groundbreaking marriage manual is also available to the wider public through your local Jewish bookstore or The Shmuz. Go to www.theshmuz.com to get your copy now 😀😀😀
1/24/2022 • 59 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 66- Cognitive Restructuring

1/21/2022 • 56 minutes, 27 seconds
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Creation is Impossible

This is one of those big-deal concepts that, if you actually stop to think about it, can straight-up change your life. It’s so important that every single Shabbos, we have a mitzvah to remember this. Are you prepared to think deeply? 
1/20/2022 • 1 minute, 27 seconds
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Derech Hashem Session 12

1/20/2022 • 51 minutes, 13 seconds
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The Marriage Seminar: The Hidden Secret of Appreciation

Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will live in married bliss forever. Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong. Unfortunately, making a happy marriage is not intuitive, and most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home. They’re not aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life. 
1/18/2022 • 59 minutes, 55 seconds
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In Therapy Every Day

Wondering how to increase your bitachon? Cut down on your angry outbursts? Stop feeling so jealous? Have more happiness in your life? There is a simple formula that can shape you into how you want to be. For more, check out the full video on this week’s parsha here: https://vimeo.com/390295113 And The Mussar Vaad here: https://theshmuz.com/the-mussar-vaad/  
1/18/2022 • 1 minute
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Parshas Yisro- Cognitive Restructuring

Live your truth. Love is love. You do you. You’re worth it. Just do it. These are some of the phrases common in today’s culture. The problem is, they are completely at odds with Torah hashkafa.   Lo sachmod beis rayecha. Lo sachmod aishes rayecha. Do not desire your friend’s house. Your friend’s wife. In fact, don’t desire anything that belongs to him. So says the aseres hadibros in this week’s parsha. But why not? Society cries. ‘How can I deny my feelings? Why should I oppress my love for this person? Why can’t I have the house I want, the car I want? Afterall, I can split the payments, put it on the credit card…’ This week's podcast invites you to embrace a complete paradigm shift. The Torah tells us we can and must control our thinking, our emotions and our actions. We are held accountable to a high standard. How can we train our brain to become more elevated, more holy and simply nicer people? Catch this week’s episode and prepare to be empowered to change your basest desires and become a better version of yourself. 
1/17/2022 • 47 minutes, 53 seconds
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The Shopping List

Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re 💯% sure that they will live in married bliss forever 🥰 Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong 😭 If only they had read The Ten Dumb Mistakes Very Smart Couples Make. Filled with practical advice and straight-talking techniques, it’s the ultimate must-read for every new home 🏠 The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is now available in Jewish bookstores and www.TheShmuz.com  
1/17/2022 • 1 minute, 14 seconds
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Ignoring Reality

This astonishing Ramban is guaranteed to elevate your Shabbos. Enjoy! 
1/14/2022 • 2 minutes, 14 seconds
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Derech Hashem Session 11

1/13/2022 • 56 minutes, 5 seconds
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I Didn't Know Myself

Dating? Consider this. Married? Let us know if you agree. Leave a comment on our Instagram page, @the_shmuz 
1/13/2022 • 1 minute, 31 seconds
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The Marriage Seminar: Love Won’t Cure All

 Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the samedreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will livein married bliss forever.  Until they aren’t. 
1/11/2022 • 58 minutes, 50 seconds
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I'm Not Married to the Facts

How is it that someone can study the complexities of creation and not be blown away by the greatness of Hashem? The answer? I’m not married to the facts. This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Beshalach here: https://vimeo.com/388858703 
1/10/2022 • 1 minute, 37 seconds
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The Big Bow

Hashem wants marriages to flourish. So why is it so hard?😫 Even the smartest of couples don’t realize how dangerous mistakes are to their marriage. And unfortunately, guidance on shalom bayis is needed today more than ever before. The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is a complete system for creating a successful marriage. Available now in Jewish bookstores and on www.TheShmuz.com, it gives both young and experienced couples a new level of understanding of what makes a marriage work ✅ 
1/9/2022 • 1 minute, 14 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 65 - The 5th and 6th level of Emunah

1/7/2022 • 58 minutes, 9 seconds
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The Energy Source of All Creation

If you’re feeling far from Hashem, this simple cognition can help Have a wonderful Shabbos! 
1/7/2022 • 1 minute, 39 seconds
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Nature is a Lie

Sometimes we give power to *things*, like they’re outside of Hashem’s control. And we all do it. Be honest, have you been putting your faith elsewhere? This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Bo here: https://vimeo.com/387328650 
1/4/2022 • 51 seconds
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Offering Advice

Did you know that making a happy marriage is not intuitive? Most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home 😢 They’re not even aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life! 😫 Make sure your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make. Learn how to avoid The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable. Get your copy now at www.TheShmuz.com or in any Jewish bookstore 👍 
1/3/2022 • 1 minute, 5 seconds
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The Fifth and Sixth Level of Emunah

 No less than nineteen mitzvos focus on Yetzias Mitzrayim.From Mezuzahs to Tefillin to Shema, we are commanded toremember the events in this week’s parsha. Why does it form the bedrock of ourfaith? As the Ramban explains, Hashem isn’t in the business of making everydaymiracles. There was one moment in history where we clearly saw Hashem as real,present and maintaining every single aspect of existence.      This is deeply relevant to you. By learning how Hashem is incontrol of the big picture you can also come to see His involvement in thesmall details of your own life as well. Discover the fifth and sixth levels ofemunah and be prepared to:       step away from your physical confines  see beyond the limits of nature  begin to view Creation in a dramatic new light  
1/2/2022 • 40 minutes, 20 seconds
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Only Fools Pay Taxes

Hey, only fools pay taxes, right? Why should government officials line their pockets at my expense? Watch now for a fundamental lesson on integrity and honesty. This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Va’eira here: https://vimeo.com/385869178 #purpose #meaning #meaningful #focused #motivation #inspiration #theshmuz #rabbishafier #parsha #jewishwisdom #davening #prayer #jewishprayer
12/27/2021 • 1 minute, 22 seconds
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Listening Skills

Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re 💯% sure that they will live in married bliss forever 🥰 Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong 😭 If only they had read The Ten Dumb Mistakes Very Smart Couples Make. Filled with practical advice and straight-talking techniques, it’s the ultimate must-read for every new home 🏠 The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is now available in Jewish bookstores and www.TheShmuz.com 
12/26/2021 • 56 seconds
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One Seventh of Your Life

Aahhh Shabbos…aside from being a day of yom menucha did you ever wonder WHY Hashem wants us to spend 1/7th of our life in this way? Listen now for a beautiful quick vort for your Shabbos table! 
12/24/2021 • 1 minute, 5 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 64 Shemos Emunah and Bitachon the Difference

12/24/2021 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 18 seconds
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Derech HASHEM Session 10

12/23/2021 • 55 minutes, 34 seconds
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Hashem Loves Me More Than I Love Me

Hashem Loves Me’ is a nice sentiment…how am I meant to actually believe it when things are tough? This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha: Parshas Shemos. You can watch the full version here: https://bit.ly/3yEmDQB
12/20/2021 • 1 minute, 11 seconds
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Who's The Boss?

If you're looking for a tried-and-tested method to get your marriage back on course, you need The Ten Dumb Mistakes Very Smart Couples Make.  It will coach you on the practical techniques you need to bring a new level of intimacy and love into your marriage- without the 💰💰💰 of expensive marriage therapy. Get your copy at www.TheShmuz.com or any Jewish bookstore 👍
12/19/2021 • 55 seconds
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Differences in the World to Come

There’s no protectezia in the world to come. No short cuts, no excuses. There is only one criteria for judgement: how much of YOU did you become? Have an amazing Shabbos!
12/17/2021 • 1 minute, 16 seconds
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A World of Pleasure

If Hashem created this world to give, why isn’t it more pleasurable? Want to receive this clip as a video? Join The Shmuz Whatsapp Group! Text ‘add me’ to +1(845) 216-9330
12/16/2021 • 1 minute, 33 seconds
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A Clear Vision of the World to Come

Imagine for one moment what life would be like if you had a clear vision of olam haba Wouldn’t you feel rich? This video is taken from The Shmuz on the Parsha: Parshas Vayechi, A Ben Olam Haba. You can watch the full version here: https://vimeo.com/382927076
12/16/2021 • 1 minute, 17 seconds
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You Are a Difficult Person to Live With

The straight-talking marriage book that Klal Yisroel has been waiting for is finally here. Order yours at www.TheShmuz.com and get: ✅ Free shipping in the USA ✅ Free audio book ✅ Free e-book ✅ Free Marriage Transformation Course
12/16/2021 • 1 minute, 4 seconds
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Derech HASHEM session 9

12/16/2021 • 54 minutes, 23 seconds
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10 K Batay Yisrael What Married Wished they knew when Single

12/15/2021 • 1 hour, 25 minutes, 11 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 63 An Honest Man

12/12/2021 • 58 minutes, 19 seconds
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How to Change Your Davening

If you’re looking to keep the inspiration of Chanukah going in your life, this simple strategy can help 
12/10/2021 • 43 seconds
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Derech HASHEM Session 8

12/9/2021 • 56 minutes, 50 seconds
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The Marriage Seminar: Respect and Love

Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will live in married bliss forever. Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong. Unfortunately, making a happy marriage is not intuitive, and most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home. They’re not aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life. 
12/8/2021 • 59 minutes, 42 seconds
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I Had Good Middos Before I Got Married

Make sure that your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make 😱 Avoid these ten fundamental errors and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable 😍 The Ten Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make is now available in Jewish bookstores and at www.TheShmuz.com
12/7/2021 • 1 minute, 2 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 62 - Chanukah - G-d Fights Our Wars

12/3/2021 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 38 seconds
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Derech Hashem Session 5 Overview of Creation

12/1/2021 • 49 minutes, 34 seconds
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The Marriage Seminar: Love is the Glue

Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will live in married bliss forever. Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong. Unfortunately, making a happy marriage is not intuitive, and most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home. They’re not aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life. The Marriage Seminar will give you a new level of understanding of what makes a marriage work. It will coach you on the practical techniques you need to bring a new level of intimacy and love into your marriage.Make sure that your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make. Listen to The Marriage Seminar and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable. 
11/30/2021 • 53 minutes, 22 seconds
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My Life Stinks

I'd love to be able to thank Hashem- just one small problem. My life stinks! 
11/30/2021 • 1 minute, 40 seconds
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What Men Know About Women

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. OR YOUR SPOUSE. OR THE MATCH BETWEEN YOU. It’s normal to feel frustrated with your spouse It’s normal to think your spouse doesn’t get you It’s normal to wonder if you married the right one... LEARN THE 10 REALLY DUMB MISTAKES THAT SMART COUPLES MAKE AND WATCH THE MAGIC REAPPEAR! ✨ Now available in your local Jewish bookstore or www.TheShmuz.com A freilichen Chanukah! 
11/30/2021 • 1 minute, 4 seconds
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The Power Within Us

This might be a powerful way to kick off your Chanukah. Picture yourself experiencing every mitzva as if it is changing the world. Because it is. 
11/30/2021 • 1 minute, 21 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 61- Living Like a Rock

11/26/2021 • 57 minutes, 20 seconds
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Derech Hashem Session 7

11/25/2021 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 4 seconds
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The Marriage Seminar: Introduction

The Marriage Seminar: Introduction https://theshmuz.com/series/the-marriage-seminar/ Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will live in married bliss forever. Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong. Unfortunately, making a happy marriage is not intuitive, and most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home. They’re not aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life. The Marriage Seminar will give you a new level of understanding of what makes a marriage work. It will coach you on the practical techniques you need to bring a new level of intimacy and love into your marriage. Make sure that your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make. Listen to The Marriage Seminar and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable. The Marriage Seminar: Love is the Glue https://theshmuz.com/series/the-marriage-seminar/ Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will live in married bliss forever. Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong. Unfortunately, making a happy marriage is not intuitive, and most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home. They’re not aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life. The Marriage Seminar will give you a new level of understanding of what makes a marriage work. It will coach you on the practical techniques you need to bring a new level of intimacy and love into your marriage. Make sure that your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make. Listen to The Marriage Seminar and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable. The Marriage Seminar: Respect and Love https://theshmuz.com/series/the-marriage-seminar/ Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will live in married bliss forever. Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong. Unfortunately, making a happy marriage is not intuitive, and most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home. They’re not aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life. The Marriage Seminar will give you a new level of understanding of what makes a marriage work. It will coach you on the practical techniques you need to bring a new level of intimacy and love into your marriage. Make sure that your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make. Listen to The Marriage Seminar and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable. The Marriage Seminar: Equal Partners, Different Roles https://theshmuz.com/series/the-marriage-seminar/ Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will live in married bliss forever. Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong. Unfortunately, making a happy marriage is not intuitive, and most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home. They’re not aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life. The Marriage Seminar will give you a new level of understanding of what makes a marriage work. It will coach you on the practical techniques you need to bring a new level of intimacy and love into your marriage. Make sure that your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make. Listen to The Marriage Seminar and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable. The Marriage Seminar: Men are from Mars https://theshmuz.com/series/the-marriage-seminar/ Every smart young couple starts their marriage with the same dreams, goals and ideals. They’re one hundred percent sure that they will live in married bliss forever. Until they aren’t. Until the bickering, fighting and loneliness become second nature and they are left wondering where they went wrong. Unfortunately, making a happy marriage is not intuitive, and most couples make the same fatal errors when trying to build their Torah home. They’re not aware that these minor infractions are ruining the most precious relationship of their life. The Marriage Seminar will give you a new level of understanding of what makes a marriage work. It will coach you on the practical techniques you need to bring a new level of intimacy and love into your marriage. Make sure that your marriage doesn’t succumb to the same mistakes that Rabbi Shafier has seen so many others make. Listen to The Marriage Seminar and build the most satisfying relationship imaginable. 
11/25/2021 • 29 minutes, 48 seconds
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Vayeishiv - Living Like a Rock

In this week’s parsha, Rashi explains how the lives of tzadikim, beloved to Hashem, are described in detail in the Torah. This is in contrast to reshaim like Eisav whose lives are not dwelled upon. Rashi compares the reshaim to ‘rocks’, something that is discarded when searching for a gem in the sand. The implication is that a life of evil is as worthless as a rock. What is the value of a human life? Although the chemical composition of man is worth little more than $980, in the Torah’s eyes, a life is invaluable. But are we living our best life? How we can we ensure we’re not ‘living like a rock’, going through the motions of life but not adding anything of lasting value? Our potential in ruchnius is unlimited. We are neshamos with infinite potential. This shmuz gives us the focus we need to ensure our actions are purposeful and our lives are ones of meaning.  
11/21/2021 • 4 minutes, 27 seconds
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The Makom

Wherever you are, Hashem is there. With you.  
11/19/2021 • 48 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 60 - HASHEM Is Here

11/19/2021 • 50 minutes, 50 seconds
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Guard Your Tongue: Session 4

Guard Your Tongue is a practical and engaging guide to the laws of shmiras halashon. Using gripping cases from Chazal and powerful examples from everyday life, this series will inform and inspire you to guard your tongue. 
11/16/2021 • 49 minutes, 23 seconds
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You're a Spiritual Entity Having a Physical Experience

You’re a spiritual entity...have you said hello to your neshama today? Watch the full shmuz here: https://vimeo.com/378108198
11/15/2021 • 1 minute, 39 seconds
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Vayishlach - Hashem is Here

Yaakov walked with Hashem. He achieved an enviable closeness with Ha Kodesh Baruch Hu, understanding that He is present and involved in every aspect of creation. How can we integrate this truth into our own lives? How can we speak to Hashem and really feel that He’s listening, that He’s real and right here with us? In this hands-on shmuz, Rabbi Shafier presents us with an irresistible idea on how we can reach incredible heights in our own avodas Hashem. He also gives us three actionable suggestions on how to improve the quality of our davening and provides plenty of chizuk to get us started. 
11/14/2021 • 4 minutes, 10 seconds
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Closing Your Eyes to See

Your eyes should be closed during Shemoneh Esrei. Want to know why? The answer will transform your davening 🕮 Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Vayishlach here: https://vimeo.com/378108198  
11/14/2021 • 2 minutes, 20 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 59 The Merit of Honest Work

11/12/2021 • 48 minutes, 27 seconds
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Guard Your Tongue: Session 3

Guard Your Tongue is a practical and engaging guide to the laws of shmiras halashon. Using gripping cases from Chazal and powerful examples from everyday life, this series will inform and inspire you to guard your tongue. 
11/9/2021 • 48 minutes, 52 seconds
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The Haze of Physicality

Hashem I can’t do this...I need You. It’s at that point when you begin to get it. Watch the full Shmuz here: https://vimeo.com/376691736
11/9/2021 • 1 minute, 48 seconds
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The Power of Needs

The Rabbi forgot his drasha and gave them a powerful life lesson instead... Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on ParshasVayeitzei here: https://vimeo.com/376691736
11/8/2021 • 1 minute, 41 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha - Vayeitzei

HASHEM said: If i assure him of bread, he will have NOTHING TO ASK FROM ME.
11/7/2021 • 48 minutes, 58 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 58 Kibud Av of Aysav

11/5/2021 • 57 minutes, 5 seconds
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Derech HASHEM Session 4-HASHEM is beyond all Physicality

11/4/2021 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 57 seconds
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Guard Your Tongue: Session 2

Guard Your Tongue is a practical and engaging guide to the laws of shmiras halashon. Using gripping cases from Chazal and powerful examples from everyday life, this series will inform and inspire you to guard your tongue. 
11/3/2021 • 49 minutes, 10 seconds
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Luxuries

Eisav was a lover of luxuries. But what’s that got to do with me? Am I not entitled to spoil myself a little? Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Toldos here: https://vimeo.com/375262685
11/1/2021 • 1 minute, 42 seconds
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Parshas Toldos- Appreciation

By the age of fifteen, Eisav had already killed a man, lived with a married woman, denied the Torah and renounced mitzvos, techias hameisim and olam haba. Devoid of morality, it seems puzzling that he was so careful to honor his father Yitzchak. In this captivating Shmuz, Rabbi Shafier tackles the subject of appreciation, analysing why kibud av was so instinctive to Eisav, how we can get better at it in our own lives and why genuine hakaras hatov is our ticket to a happy and meaningful life. 
10/31/2021 • 50 minutes, 47 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 57 - Finding My Tafkid

10/29/2021 • 51 minutes, 39 seconds
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Derech HASHEM 3- I Think Therefore HASHEM IS

10/28/2021 • 46 minutes, 33 seconds
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Guard Your Tongue: Session 1

Guard Your Tongue is a practical and engaging guide to the laws of shmiras halashon. Using gripping cases from Chazal and powerful examples from everyday life, this series will inform and inspire you to guard your tongue. 
10/27/2021 • 47 minutes, 56 seconds
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Imperfect You

If you’re determined to be perfect, you may just be missing out on your mission in this 🌎.
10/26/2021 • 57 seconds
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Turning Dreams into Reality

Don’t give up on your dreams. This simple hack will get you focused and ready to succeed 💪✨
10/25/2021 • 1 minute, 53 seconds
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Parshas Chayei Sara- Actors on the Stage of Life

In Actors on the Stage of Life Rabbi Shafier delves into the ultimate tafkid of Sara Imeinu. Despite her incredible accomplishments, we can learn from the Chumash that her role was primarily to become the mother of Am Yisroel through Yitzchak Avinu. For our own lives, this delivers some powerful lessons-the futility of comparing ourselves with others, the fallacy of judging those around us and the freedom to accept the stage of life that Hashem has placed us in. 
10/24/2021 • 37 minutes, 39 seconds
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Life is a Jigsaw

Does it seem that most of the world lacks purpose, direction and drive? Why is that? Listen now for Rabbi Shafier’s startling response. Uncover fresh insights and groundbreaking ideas against the backdrop of the weekly parsha. Watch the full Shmuz on Parshas Chaya Sora here or stream the audio: https://vimeo.com/373772153
10/24/2021 • 1 minute, 59 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 56 - Aquiring Olam Habbah The Easy Way

10/22/2021 • 58 minutes, 45 seconds
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Derech HASHEM SESSION 2

10/22/2021 • 57 minutes, 44 seconds
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The Merit of Work

Emunah in the Workplace: The Merit of Work Earning, spending and saving from a Torah perspective 
10/20/2021 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 20 seconds
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The Emunah Tool Series - Part 2

10/18/2021 • 1 hour, 18 seconds
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Parshas Vayeirah- The Anatomy of a Nisayon

Akeidas Yitzchak. An event that continues to shape the Jewish People, giving us endless zechuyos and molding our collective character for all time. What sets the Akeidah apart from, l’havdil, some of the death cults of our enemies? What was the purpose of the test? Why was Avraham’s response so mind blowing? And why is it not considered Yitzchak’s trial as well? The Anatomy of a Nisayon provides the answers to these questions, as well as a thought-provoking analysis of the reasons and purpose of the challenges we face in our own lives. In this Shmuz Rabbi Shafier explains his practical, three point survival guide, giving us much needed clarity, chizuk and understanding to withstand the darkest moments of our lives. 
10/17/2021 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 44 seconds
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Derech Hashem 1 - Introduction

10/17/2021 • 54 minutes, 38 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 55 - A Diamond with a Flaw

10/15/2021 • 46 minutes, 56 seconds
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The Emunah Tool Series - Part 1

10/12/2021 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 9 seconds
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Parshas Lech Lecha- A Diamond With A Flaw

Out of the ten trials of Avraham Avinu, his descent to Mitzrayim is described by the Ramban as a ‘great, unintentional sin’. In fact, throughout the Torah, we see many instances of the Avos and Imahos challenged and even criticized by our Mesorah. What are we to learn from these so-called ‘mistakes’? Why do we value failings more than those that lived completely righteous lives? In contradiction to popular thinking, Rabbi Shafier urges us to face our own faults head on, and shows us how to improve and grow whilst keeping our sense of self intact. It’s an essential shmuz for anyone confused by guilt, unsure of their value or looking to become a better person. 
10/10/2021 • 3 minutes, 34 seconds
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Emunah in the Workplace: Hashem’s Role

Earning, spending and saving from a Torah perspective 
10/5/2021 • 57 minutes, 21 seconds
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Parshas Noach- The Basics of Belief

One hundred and twenty years. That’s how long it took Noach to build the teivah. He grew the trees. He cut the trees. He built the boat. He warned people again and again to do teshuvah, to change, to try and prevent catastrophe.Noach, a perfect tzadik, a Navi...and yet he’s described as lacking emunah. How does this make sense? Is it possible to be busy in avodas Hashem, and for it not to be real? We all know the answer, and it’s painful to admit. We also go through the motions, think one way and act another. In this powerful Shmuz, Rabbi Shafier shows us how to realign the heart and the mind, to make emunah more than lip service, and to recognize the drives that fight within us. 
10/3/2021 • 34 minutes, 49 seconds
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The Lost Art of Teshuvah 9 A Mitzvah to do Teshuvah

The halacha shmuz, this is the fundamental guide to the ins and outs of what exactly teshuva involves and how to make sure we get it right. Includes many practical examples on how to get the most out of this auspicious time. 
9/14/2021 • 50 minutes, 21 seconds
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The Lost Art of Teshuvah 8 Is it Possible to do a Partial Teshuvah?

In this shmuz Rabbi Shafier brings examples from Chazal to show us how even the lowest of people can do a full teshuva-and even get rewarded for their actions. 
9/14/2021 • 56 minutes, 53 seconds
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The Shmuz Live - The Teshuvah Shmuz 5782

9/13/2021 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 12 seconds
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The Lost Art of Teshuvah 7

9/7/2021 • 47 minutes, 36 seconds
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The Lost Art of Teshuvah 6

9/5/2021 • 47 minutes, 56 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 55 - Rosh HaShanah Issues of the Day

9/3/2021 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 36 seconds
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The Lost Art of Teshuvah 5

 Focus. That’s what we need right now, inthe days that are leading us to Yom HaDin. In this shmuz, Rabbi Shafier givesus that clarity to focus on the incredible gift that is teshuva, and thedevastating consequences should we fail to make us of it.  
8/31/2021 • 1 hour, 1 second
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The Lost Art of Teshuvah 4

 What is holding you back? We have the potential to be higher than Melachim, and yet we often arrive in shul thinking about those same old mistakes. In this shmuz Rabbi Shafier will show you how to stop limiting yourself and start actualizing your amazing, unlimited potential. 
8/29/2021 • 1 hour, 4 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 54 - 212 Degrees

8/27/2021 • 49 minutes, 15 seconds
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The Lost Art of Teshuvah 3

This shmuz will show you how it is possible to come through Yom Kippur a vastly different human being-for all eternity. Essential preparation for the Yom HaDin. 
8/24/2021 • 59 minutes, 9 seconds
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Parshas Ki Savo: Maintaining the Motivation: How to make moments of inspiration turn into lasting change

 Ever felt like you wanted to:  Make more time for important relationships  Get healthy  Do real teshuvah…  And then, three months later:  Whaddaya know, date night got pushed off...again  The treadmill became a coat stand  Um kavannah is still a major challenge??  And you wonder, ‘what on earth happened to my resolve? My commitment? My burning desire to change? Is there any hope for me and my ruchnius?’   In this transformative Shmuz, join Rabbi Shafier as he shows you how to convert your dreams into definable goals. You see, motivation isn’t enough. For eternity, it’s what you do with it that counts.  
8/22/2021 • 34 minutes, 7 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 53 - My True Potential

8/20/2021 • 59 minutes, 27 seconds
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The Lost Art of Teshuvah 2

If you’re overwhelmed by fire and brimstone droshos, this shmuz is for you.Full of chizuk and encouragement, it discusses how we are all ‘diamonds’-andwhat we can do to polish up those scratches. 
8/17/2021 • 45 minutes, 33 seconds
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Ki Seitzei - Tuning Into My True Potential

 Now that Elul’s here, there are no more excuses. We need to get real with ourselves about who we are- a powerhouse of unlimited potential and strength, capable of achieving genuine greatness in this world and thenext. Sounds like the other guy? You’re wrong. Listen now and be convinced thatyou really are awesome. 
8/16/2021 • 46 minutes, 47 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 52- The Tiny Giant Called I

8/12/2021 • 53 minutes, 32 seconds
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The Lost Art of Teshuvah 1

In this introduction to teshuva Rabbi Shafier explains how Rosh Hashanah impacts us all-from the largest cosmos in our universe to the smallest news headline. Listen to this first to really get into the spirit of Elul. 
8/11/2021 • 52 minutes, 24 seconds
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Shoftim - Man Dependent on Hashem

 They say that the only guarantees in life are death and taxes. Yet it seems that something else is guaranteed: no matter what, there is always something to pray for. It could be successlearning or davening, finding a spouse, earning a living, getting along with neighbors and coworkers, or living in peace and safety. And once you have children, there is no end of things that seem to go wrong.  
8/9/2021 • 57 minutes, 51 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 51 - The Overspent Generation

8/5/2021 • 1 hour, 14 minutes
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Emunah in the Workplace: Finding the Balance

8/4/2021 • 49 minutes, 41 seconds
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Re’eh If the Torah Wants Me to be Happy, Why Am I So Broke?

 Parshas Re’eh: If Hashem Wants Me to be Happy, Why Am I So Broke?  I say every morning ‘sheasah li kol tzarci’- Hashem, Youhave provided me with all of my needs. Three times a day I remind myselfthat You open Your hand and satisfy every living thing with its desire.I know You want me to be happy, to enjoy Your world, to keep mitzvos anddo Your will...so if that’s the case, WHY AM I SO BROKE? In this week’s Shmuz on the Parsha, we will take a closerlook at this apparent contradiction. Listen now and learn how to:   Free yourself from the unhappiness caused by unfulfilled desires   Start really enjoying the good things in life  Handle every nisayon like a baal bitachon and get more resilient to life’s challenges    Even if you’re more comfortable than Jeff Bezos, you’re going tofind this week's Shmuz very relevant.  
8/2/2021 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 51 seconds
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Emunah in the Workplace: I Need Needs

7/29/2021 • 57 minutes, 21 seconds
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Emunah in the Workplace: I Need Needs

7/28/2021 • 52 minutes, 39 seconds
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# 235 One Small Step for a Man

It was July of 1969, when Neil Armstrong landed on the moon, took his first steps, and announced, “It’s a small step for a man, a giant leap for mankind.” With those words he entered history as the man who walked on the moon. Yet how much of the credit goes to him? Buzz Aldrin stepped down but a few moments later, and no one remembers him. But even more, it took thousands of men, hundreds of year to develop the science and technology to put a man into space. So how much is him and how much is he but a cog in the wheel? 
7/26/2021 • 46 minutes, 1 second
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#249 What Happened to my Bitachon?

Bitachon can’t be learned from a book. We can learn the theory, get a grip on the fundamentals of our hashkafa and think we know that we trust in Hashem. But until we are really tested, we have no idea whether our bitachon is real or not. Being naturally optimistic or anxious isn’t an indication of where we’re holding in bitachon-that’s nothing more than a reflection of our personality. To acquire genuine bitachon is a growth process, an emotional reality that goes beyond an intellectual understanding. In this candid shmuz, Rabbi Shafier explains ‘what happened to my bitachon’ when we find ourselves in a difficult situation and suddenly discover that we don’t have so much menuchas hanefesh afterall. How can we make what we learn a real part of our emotional reality? Listen to this shmuz and get the tools to see Hashem in your life and bring theory into reality. 
7/22/2021 • 49 minutes, 52 seconds
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Understanding Emunah

7/20/2021 • 46 minutes, 30 seconds
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#275 What are we missing?

The world that we live in isn’t the way it’s supposed to be. Tisha B’Av gives us that moment of reflection, the opportunity to consider what we are missing and how we can begin to rectify what has been lost. Like children born into darkness, we can’t even comprehend what life should look like, how we are meant to enjoy this world and use it as a tool to become closer to Hashem. This Tisha B’Av, take the time to reset your perspective. Realize what we are missing, and mourn.
7/18/2021 • 43 minutes, 45 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 50- In preparation for Tisha B’Av: When Will the Suffering Stop?

 Remember when we had to watch a ton ofHolocaust movies to feel any stirring of emotion on Tisha B’Av? Remember whenwe had to drag ourselves out of our pampered comfort zones to think about whatit must have been like to suffer at the hands of the Romans? It wasn’t easy toimagine what a dangerous, frightening, unpredictable world meant.    Is it still hard? I don’t think so. Even thesceptics agree with the Chofetz Chaimztl, who said before Moshiach comes, it will feel like the world is spinningfaster and faster and faster.    When will it stop?  
7/15/2021 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 8 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 49 - The minor flaw that ruins relationships: How to protect your most treasured connections

Have you ever heard the three rules of criticism?  1. Don’t do it  2. Don’t do it  3. Don’t do it  Ok, everyone knows how it feels to be criticized. Everyone agrees that it’s damaging to our most precious relationships. Some people have lived under the shadow of criticism their whole life, and have the arduous task of trying to rebuild their self-esteem and confidence. So if it’s so incredibly obvious as to why we shouldn’t do it- why do we? In this week’s Shmuz Live, I’ll be deconstructing the science behind the scorn, and give some real-life, practical advice on how to overcome this destructive habit.  
7/8/2021 • 56 minutes, 29 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 48 - Pinchas - The Voice Inside

Parshas Pinchas: How To Restore Balance, Focus and Meaning to Your Life In this week’s Parsha, Pinchas is given the bris shalom after defending the honor of Hashem. Four hundred years ago, The Seforno explained that as a result of this gift, Pinchas was granted longevity. By living ‘at peace with himself’ Pinchas was able to live a longer, healthier life. Would you like to live more at peace with yourself? Be less stressed, more grounded? It’s hard to know where to start. How can I restore an equilibrium between my inner conflicts and desires? How can I achieve a healthy work-life balance, when I feel pulled in so many conflicting directions? And how can I stop myself feeling so frazzled, even when I know it damages my immune system and makes me miserable and tired? As always, the lessons of the Parsha offer us all a startling perspective. Want to hear more on how you can make lasting changes to improve your life, get healthy and enjoy your time in this world? This Shmuz is for you.
7/1/2021 • 53 minutes, 1 second
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The Shmuz Live 47- Bilam and the Unbridled Love of HASHEM

The episode of Bilaam and the donkey is often viewed as something comical. Bilaam’s donkey won’t move, Bilaam gets angry and the two of them have a conversation about it. A man arguing with his donkey isn’t exactly an everyday occurrence-why doesn’t he stop and acknowledge the outright miracle that he’s experiencing? And whilst this may be a humorous part of the parsha, if you fail to see beyond the pshat you’d be missing an incredible life lesson. You see, it often happens that we go through stuff, and don’t see the reason. In fact, we might even get upset, annoyed or even angry at Hashem when things don’t turn out the way we want them to. So what’s a better way to cope with the curve balls of life? In this straight-talking shmuz, I’ll be giving clear direction on how to maximize moments of frustration into opportunities for everlasting growth.
6/24/2021 • 44 minutes, 20 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 46 Emunah and Bitachon

Understanding and Integrating the Difference Between Emunah and Bitachon Do you believe in Hashem, but sometimes feel that He’s out to get you? Then you have emunah, but lack bitachon. You see, it’s not enough to simply recognize that Hashem runs the world. As frum Jews, we are also meant to internalize that Hashem is directly involved in our own lives and knows what is best for us. Too many of our problems in bitachon stem from the fact that we think we know better than G-d. Too often we assume we know the bigger picture, and feel abandoned by our Creator. In this week’s Shmuz Live, Rabbi Shafier will be sharing some practical ideas on how to make Hashem real. Pick a method that speaks to you, and transform your life into one of genuine trust and menuchas hanefesh.
6/17/2021 • 53 minutes, 23 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 45 Bitachon and Histadlus

6/11/2021 • 58 minutes, 4 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 44 - Stronger than G-d

How Much Hishtadlus Should I Do?* You know that your year is decreed on Rosh Hashanah. Every aspect of your life is carefully designed by your Creator. You also know that you’re commanded to do your hishtadlus and daven that Hashem rewards your efforts. But how much hishtadlus is too much? How am I meant to tell when Hashem’s answer is ‘no’ or whether He wants me to keep up with the effort and tefillos that I’m investing in? In this incredibly practical Shmuz, I’ll be addressing your common bitachon dilemmas. Make sure to join me on Thursday to learn how to find that elusive balance between genuine hishtadlus and trusting in Hashem.
6/4/2021 • 1 hour, 10 minutes, 6 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 43 -People Skills

5/28/2021 • 54 minutes, 37 seconds
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The Shmuz live 42-I Never Do Anything Wrong

5/21/2021 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 49 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 41-Making Peace with Yourself

5/14/2021 • 56 minutes, 47 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 40 - Only the Good Die Young

5/7/2021 • 57 minutes, 45 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 39-The Students of Rebbe Akiva- Respect

4/30/2021 • 58 minutes, 45 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 38- Holy Pleasures

4/23/2021 • 56 minutes, 51 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Acharei Mot-Kedoshim

4/18/2021 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 43 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 37- Lashon HaRah - Mindless Chatter

4/16/2021 • 52 minutes, 18 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Tazriah-Metzorah

4/11/2021 • 54 minutes, 26 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 36- Man in Conflict

4/9/2021 • 56 minutes, 13 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Shemini

4/4/2021 • 53 minutes, 34 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Tzav

3/21/2021 • 48 minutes, 35 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 35- Towering Humility -

3/19/2021 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 1 second
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Parsha in Depth - Vayikra

3/14/2021 • 45 minutes, 3 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 34 - True Love

3/12/2021 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 3 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Vayakahel

3/7/2021 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 15 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 33 - The Love of Money

3/5/2021 • 1 hour, 24 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Ki Sisa

2/28/2021 • 1 hour, 17 minutes
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The Shmuz Live 32 - Bitachon and Histadlus

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Parsha in Depth - Tizaveh

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Parsha in Depth - Terumah

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The Shmuz Live 31 - Torah Rocket Fuel for the Soul

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Parsha in Depth - Mishpatim

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The Shmuz Live 30 - Cognitive Restructuring

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Parsha in Depth - Yisro

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The Shmuz Live 29 - Belief

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Parsha in Depth - Bishalach

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The Shmuz Live 28 - The sixth Level of Emunah

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Parsha in Depth - Bo

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Listen to The Shmuz Live 27 - America The Beautiful

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Parsha in Depth - VaYeirah

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The Shmuz Live 26 - Emunah and Bitachon

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Parsha in Depth - Shemos

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The Shmuz Live 25 The World to Come

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Parsha in Depth - Vayichi

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The Shmuz Live #24 - An Honest Man

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Parsha in Depth - Vayigash

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Parsha in Depth - Miketz

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The Shmuz Live #23 - Chanukah

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Parsha in Depth - Vayeshev

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12/6/2020 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 59 seconds
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The Shmuz Live #22

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Parsha in Depth - Vayishlach

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Parsha in Depth - Vayeitzei

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11/22/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 14 seconds
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The Shmuz Live #21

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11/20/2020 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 31 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Toldos

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11/18/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 41 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Chayei Sarah

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11/15/2020 • 52 minutes, 1 second
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The Shmuz Live #20

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11/13/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 16 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Vayeira

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11/8/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 49 seconds
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The Shmuz Live #19

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11/6/2020 • 53 minutes, 37 seconds
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The Shmuz Live #18

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10/30/2020 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 31 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Lech Licha

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10/25/2020 • 52 minutes, 29 seconds
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The Shmuz Live #17

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10/23/2020 • 53 minutes, 42 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Noach

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10/18/2020 • 46 minutes, 50 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Bereishis

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10/16/2020 • 1 hour, 26 seconds
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The Shmuz Live #16

Its Not Geneivah See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/16/2020 • 55 minutes, 48 seconds
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The Shmuz Live #15

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10/2/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 7 seconds
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The Shmuz Live #14

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9/28/2020 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 42 seconds
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The Teshuva Shmuz 5781- The Fantastic Gift of Teshuva

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9/27/2020 • 1 hour, 34 minutes, 56 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 13

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9/21/2020 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 6 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 12

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9/13/2020 • 59 minutes, 48 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 11

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9/7/2020 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 18 seconds
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The Shmuz live 10

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8/31/2020 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 37 seconds
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The Shmuz Live #9

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8/16/2020 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 37 seconds
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The Shmuz Live #8

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8/10/2020 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 19 seconds
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Shmuz #283

Who Put That Thought in Your Head See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
8/6/2020 • 30 minutes, 24 seconds
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Shmuz #281

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8/3/2020 • 47 minutes, 1 second
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Shmuz on The Parsha Live 7 - Tisha B'Av

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7/31/2020 • 1 hour, 20 minutes, 13 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 6

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7/20/2020 • 1 hour, 10 minutes, 44 seconds
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The Shmuz Live 5

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7/13/2020 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 12 seconds
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Shmuz on The Parsha Live - Pinchas

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7/9/2020 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 15 seconds
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Shmuz #280

Hashem love you more than you love you See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
7/8/2020 • 43 minutes, 28 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Chukas

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7/5/2020 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 38 seconds
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Perspectives on Covid 19

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6/25/2020 • 53 minutes, 58 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Naso

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6/8/2020 • 47 minutes, 50 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Kedoshim

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5/31/2020 • 37 minutes, 45 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Covid - 19 -Life Settings

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5/18/2020 • 55 minutes, 45 seconds
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Heroes HaKotel

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5/17/2020 • 22 minutes, 35 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Shefirah

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5/10/2020 • 42 minutes, 49 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Tazriah Metzorah

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5/3/2020 • 39 minutes, 32 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Shemini

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4/19/2020 • 40 minutes, 6 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Vayikrah

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4/13/2020 • 42 minutes, 3 seconds
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Shmuz #278 DIN RACAMIM AND COVID-19

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4/7/2020 • 34 minutes, 12 seconds
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Shmuz #279 Perspectives on Covid

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4/6/2020 • 53 minutes, 58 seconds
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Pesach: Living Through the Makos 4

A verse by verse analysis of the Exodus on 4 audio cds with explanations drawn from the Rishonim, Gemarah, Medrash Rabbah, and Medrash TanchumahA verse by verse analysis of the Exodus on 4 audio tapes, with explanations drawn from the Rishonim, Gemarah, Medrash Rabbah, and Medrash TanchumahWith an eye towards understanding the greatness of the miracles of the Makkos brought onto the Mitzrim, this series details many of the actual events that happened during the Makkos, thereby helping us feel what was actually happening in those times, and bringing us to feel the greatest miracle of all times—Yetzias Metzraim.A Great way to prepare for Pesach! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/29/2020 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 14 seconds
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Pesach: Living Through the Makos 3

A verse by verse analysis of the Exodus on 4 audio cds with explanations drawn from the Rishonim, Gemarah, Medrash Rabbah, and Medrash TanchumahA verse by verse analysis of the Exodus on 4 audio tapes, with explanations drawn from the Rishonim, Gemarah, Medrash Rabbah, and Medrash TanchumahWith an eye towards understanding the greatness of the miracles of the Makkos brought onto the Mitzrim, this series details many of the actual events that happened during the Makkos, thereby helping us feel what was actually happening in those times, and bringing us to feel the greatest miracle of all times—Yetzias Metzraim.A Great way to prepare for Pesach! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/22/2020 • 1 hour, 24 minutes, 42 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha YaYakhel

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3/15/2020 • 48 minutes, 11 seconds
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Pesach: Living Through the Makos 2

A verse by verse analysis of the Exodus on 4 audio cds with explanations drawn from the Rishonim, Gemarah, Medrash Rabbah, and Medrash TanchumahA verse by verse analysis of the Exodus on 4 audio tapes, with explanations drawn from the Rishonim, Gemarah, Medrash Rabbah, and Medrash TanchumahWith an eye towards understanding the greatness of the miracles of the Makkos brought onto the Mitzrim, this series details many of the actual events that happened during the Makkos, thereby helping us feel what was actually happening in those times, and bringing us to feel the greatest miracle of all times—Yetzias Metzraim.A Great way to prepare for Pesach! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/15/2020 • 1 hour, 18 minutes, 13 seconds
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Shmuz 277 - Marriage Lessons from the Meggilah

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3/10/2020 • 53 minutes, 3 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Ki Tisa

Parshas Ki Tisah: The Love of MoneyIn today’s society, we are relentlessly bombarded with two fallacies: One, that money equals happiness and two, that our sense of self should be defined by our net worth. The Torah rejects both of these ideas, and yet we see from this week’s parsha that attraction to money is something inherent in the briah. In this uncomfortably relevant Shmuz, Rabbi Shafier encourages us to take a long hard look at how we judge ourselves and others- are our attitudes towards money in line with Torah hashkafa? Or are we constantly pursuing the next best thing, hoping that it will give us the elusive satisfaction for which we all crave? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/8/2020 • 48 minutes, 48 seconds
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Pesach: Living Through the Makos 1

A verse by verse analysis of the Exodus on 4 audio cds with explanations drawn from the Rishonim, Gemarah, Medrash Rabbah, and Medrash TanchumahA verse by verse analysis of the Exodus on 4 audio tapes, with explanations drawn from the Rishonim, Gemarah, Medrash Rabbah, and Medrash TanchumahWith an eye towards understanding the greatness of the miracles of the Makkos brought onto the Mitzrim, this series details many of the actual events that happened during the Makkos, thereby helping us feel what was actually happening in those times, and bringing us to feel the greatest miracle of all times—Yetzias Metzraim.A Great way to prepare for Pesach! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/8/2020 • 55 minutes, 44 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Tizaveh

Parshas Tetzaveh: Learning to ForgiveWe hear plenty on the importance of doing teshuvah, on loving our fellow man and learning how to be mevater. All incredibly important concepts that are essential for a Torah Jew to work on and internalize. But how often do we hear about the importance of forgiving ourselves? We are capable of becoming greater than melachim, the absolute pinnacle of creation on which the entire world rests. And yet, we have faults, and so many failings! How can we possibly achieve our purpose in this world?By recognizing that failing is a part of growth. Failing doesn’t mean we are failures. It means we are human beings. Hashem doesn’t demand perfection, He only wants us to grow, so that we can become the very best versions of ourselves. When we stop blaming ourselves for our nature, we can learn to forgive ourselves, forgive others and walk through life with a healthy sense of self. In this week’s podcast, learn how to let go of your failings and gain the emotional freedom to achieve your tafkid. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/1/2020 • 50 minutes, 37 seconds
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Purim: Story Behind the Story 4

Megillas Esther Session Four: On Death and DinimIn the fourth session on Megillas Esther, Rabbi Shafier brings the conclusion of the Megillah dramatically to life. From Haman’s sudden demise to our own swift salvation, this class will explain the final perakim with additional insight and depth. Discover why Purim is considered to be greater than the kabbola at Har Sinai, how Haman’s unchecked arrogance inevitably led to his downfall and what forced Mordechai to leave the Sanhedrin. If you’re looking to reach a higher madreiga this Purim, having an understanding and appreciation of the words of the Megillah is essential. Tune in here and go beyond the externals this Purim with The Shmuz. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/1/2020 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 46 seconds
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Parshas Terumah: Hashem’s Role/ Man’s Role- Finding the Balance

Parshas Terumah: Hashem’s Role/ Man’s Role- Finding the BalanceIn this week’s parsha, why does Hashem explain to Moshe how to make Menorah when it’s created miraculously? This question underpins one of the fundamental concepts in Torah hashkafa: the delicate balance between bitachon and hishtadlus. Whether it’s health, shidduchim or parnassah, how much effort are we expected to invest, and when should we say that we’re leaving it entirely to G-d? In this clarifying shiur, Rabbi Shafier exposes some crucial misconceptions and brings to light exactly what our attitude should be when it comes to working hard, paying those bills or pursuing our goals. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2/23/2020 • 44 minutes, 42 seconds
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Shmuz 96 Purim Seize the Moment

Before Esther went into Achashverosh, Mordechai commanded the Jewish nation to fast for three days. Rashi tells us that those three days included the first day of Pesach. That means that Mordechai abolished themitzvosof eatingmatzah, drinking the four cups, and eatingmarrorthat year. Since there were more than eleven months until the decree was to take place, what was the sudden need for action? What was the urgency?This Shmuz demonstrates the laser focus that challenging deadlines can give us and what we can accomplish when properly motivated. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2/23/2020 • 48 minutes, 37 seconds
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Purim: Story Behind the Story 3

Megillas Esther Session Three: Esther’s Big Deal RequestEsther stands at the threshold of the throne room, prepared to forfeit her life in this world and the next. Instead, she is assisted by three melachim, achieves ruach hakodesh and is the catalyst for Klal Yisroel’s eventual salvation. Aside from the obvious message that Hashem can always flip things around in an instant, there are many other life lessons to be learnt. Firstly, Esther’s people skills are exemplary. Want to ask for a raise? Just follow Esther’s three point plan on how to submit a request. Need chizuk in following daas Torah? Use Esther as an example. And if we want a clear warning on how not to behave we need look no further than Haman. His relentless drive for kavod shows us how if a person doesn’t control his middos, he’s destined to be utterly miserable in this world. It’s all here. Genuine, Torah-true hashkafa and timeless messages laid open for you this Purim. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2/23/2020 • 1 hour, 5 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha - Mishpatim

Parshas Mishpatim-Torah: Rocket Fuel for the SoulThe Jewish contribution to mankind is astounding. In every industry, in every profession, the Jewish people consistently play a significant role, far surpassing our tiny population. It’s clear that we are the am segula, the messengers for revealed good in the world. Nevertheless, our gan eden isn’t dependent on whether we are chess champions or nuclear physicists. The Torah teaches us that our olam haba will be built upon how much we choose to connect to the Ribbono shel Olam in this world.Our constant, unrelenting challenge of life is that our souls are distracted, pulled by our nefesh habahami to indulge in the here and now. The antidote? Limud HaTorah. Through limud haTorah, we are able to connect with the Eternal and discover the part of us that craves transcendence. In this week’s podcast, learn how to ignite your neshama through the joy of learning and gain a genuine Torah outlook on what ‘tikkun olam’ really means. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2/16/2020 • 44 minutes, 3 seconds
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Purim: Story Behind the Story 2

Megillas Esther Session Two: Mordechai Won’t WaitMordechai’s timings were extraordinary. He demanded that Esther risk her life and approach Achashverosh, even though Achasverosh was imminently due to summon her. He refused to delay a national taanis, and instead called for Klal Yisroel to fast from the first day of Pesach, forgoing the zechus and mitzvas aseh of achilas matzah. What was Mordechai’s cheshbon? And what does his reasoning teach us for our own lives? In the second class on Megillas Esther, learn why Mordechai’s rebuke is so on point. Grasp the posukim like never before, gain a heightened awareness of the Megillah and prepare to go into Purim with an elevated sense of joy and gratitude. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2/16/2020 • 1 hour, 19 minutes, 42 seconds
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267 We Only Fight With Friends

The dor haflaga had an explicit mission to rebel against Hashem and were in many ways worse than the generation of Noach. Why didn’t Hashem destroy them? Rashi tells us it was because they acted towards one another with love and friendship. In fact, it was only when the languages were mixed up that the fighting began. In this shmuz on interpersonal relationships, Rabbi Shafier studies the ingredients of a macklokes and shares some essential tips on how to get along better with those around us. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2/16/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 45 seconds
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269 The 6 Constant Mitzvos

The Six Constant Mitzvos are the six keys that are vital to connecting with Hashem and understanding our role in this world. As the Mishnah Brurah explains, we are created to be ovdei Hashem, and our every thought and action should be a reflection of this awareness. You see if we really believed that Hashem is right here, observing everything we do, we would undoubtedly serve Hashem very differently. This Shmuz explains in clear language how to gain this level of mindfulness and encourages us to see the hand of Hashem throughout our day. It’s fundamental listening for anyone who wants to ensure they are living life for its ultimate purpose and is looking to develop their understanding of Torah-true hashkafa. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2/9/2020 • 56 minutes, 51 seconds
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Purim: Story Behind the Story 1

Megillas Esther Session One: What to do with a Problem Like Vashti?In the first class on Megillas Esther, Rabbi Shafier explains how the Megillah begins-the history, the context and the background of the story. Learn why Achashverosh was reluctant to kill his queen, the motivations behind Haman’s bizarre marriage advice and how incredible hashgacha pratis was evident from the very beginning. This perek-by-perek series will transform your experience of krias Megillah and give a new depth of knowledge to a familiar tale. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2/9/2020 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 24 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Yisro - Cognitive Restructuring

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2/9/2020 • 47 minutes, 21 seconds
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270 Who Makes It In the World to Come

What’s the minimum level that’s required to get into Gan Eden? The Derech Hashem addressed this question three hundred years ago-and says something remarkable. Tune into this shmuz to get an understanding of the possible reasons for wealth, poverty, suffering and reward in this world. It will flip your world view upside down. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2/7/2020 • 41 minutes, 50 seconds
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The Tefillah Project 3 The Power of Prayer

We see in the Torah that tefillah is powerful. Through tefillah,Sara Imeinu is given a child, a miracle comparable to techias hameisim. Yismael cries out to Hashem and is saved in the desert, despite his rishus. What gives davening it’s incredible potency? In the third class of the Tefillah Project, Rabbi Shafier describes how Hashem feels our pain like a father, and can change decrees simply because of His unending love for us. Can prayer have an effect when you’re just a regular person? Absolutely. Every tefillah has an impact. Listen to The Power of Prayer and gain encouragement and direction on how to pour out our hearts and change our lives. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2/5/2020 • 57 minutes, 46 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Beshalach

The Mitzrim endured the makos, witnessed krias yam suf and were prevented from attacking B’nei Yisroel by the impenetrable cloud of glory. These events form the basis of our emunah system, and yet they didn’t seem to have such a profound effect on the people living in Egypt. Until the bitter end they denied Hashem’s existence and control over every facet of physicality.Unfortunately, we can also be guilty of living like a Mitzri. The gift of bechirah means we are capable of denying the nissim in our own lives and often refuse to acknowledge the wonders of creation. Our imaginations tempt us to deny what our neshamas instinctively know to be true, and our egos loath to be wrong. In this electrifying shmuz, Rabbi Shafier urges us to look at the world without an agenda, consider the intricacies inherent in creation and acknowledge Hashem’s hand in every aspect of the universe. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
2/2/2020 • 52 minutes, 13 seconds
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Shmuz 271 It’s Not The Way It’s Supposed to Be

If we really understood the holiness of a neshama, we’d be blown away. Yet our reality is that we don’t appreciate the incredible potential enclosed within each of us-we don’t even appreciate ourselves. It’s not supposed to be this way. We were meant to achieve great spiritual heights during our lifetime, so what holds us back? In this shockingly honest shmuz Rabbi Shafier discusses his own challenges with growth and gives us some insight as to how we can get focused on moving forward. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
1/31/2020 • 49 minutes, 34 seconds
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The Tefillah Project 2 Why Daven?

In the second part of the Tefillah Project, Rabbi Shafier outlines how Hashem is the ultimate energy source of everything, constantly maintaining physicality and keeping everything in existence. Despite the fact that Hashem is outside of our frame of reference, we are commanded to develop a feeling of yirah and ahavas Hashem. How do we achieve this? In this class, discover how to cut through the darkness and see Hashem. Learn how to relate to Hashem through his middos and develop an understanding of the wisdom and beauty that is manifest in the world around us. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
1/27/2020 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 57 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Bo - The 5th and 6th Level of Emunah

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1/26/2020 • 39 minutes, 48 seconds
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Shmuz 272 More Powerful Than G-d

In this powerful Shmuz, Rabbi Shafier discusses the spiritual forces that cause cognitive dissonance and shows us how we can have a chance at living a more authentic and truthful existence. If you want to have the clarity to move forward through this thing called life, you need to understand what motivates and drives you. This shmuz will change everything you ever thought about yourself. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
1/24/2020 • 47 minutes, 30 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 16

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
1/22/2020 • 31 minutes, 26 seconds
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The Tefillah Project 1 Prayer-A Changed Reality

If you do the math, we spend around two hours a day davening. In plain language, by the time someone’s reached twenty years old, that’s ten thousand hours they’ve invested in tefillah. What do we have to show for this dedication of our time? Are we davek with Hashem, baalei emunah? Unfortunately, most of us have difficulty connecting. Our senses deny Hashem, and we struggle to communicate with Something beyond our frame of reference or understanding. How do we bridge this gap? In this introductory class, learn the three indispensable tips to transcending the physical world and turn your davening into an incredibly transformative experience. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
1/20/2020 • 49 minutes, 13 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Vaeirah

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1/19/2020 • 56 minutes, 35 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha - Shemos

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1/16/2020 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 26 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 15

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
1/15/2020 • 32 minutes, 16 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 14

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
1/8/2020 • 32 minutes, 49 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 13

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
1/1/2020 • 32 minutes, 5 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 12

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12/25/2019 • 31 minutes, 39 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 11

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12/18/2019 • 31 minutes, 17 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Vayeshev

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12/16/2019 • 46 minutes, 35 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 10

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12/11/2019 • 35 minutes, 55 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha Men are from Mars

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12/10/2019 • 54 minutes, 47 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha - Vayishlach

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12/8/2019 • 43 minutes, 33 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 9

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12/4/2019 • 32 minutes, 46 seconds
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Parsha-Vayeitzei

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12/2/2019 • 48 minutes, 27 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 8

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11/27/2019 • 31 minutes, 5 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha- Tolodos

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11/24/2019 • 50 minutes, 48 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 7

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11/20/2019 • 29 minutes, 38 seconds
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Shmuz on the Parsha- Chayei Sarah

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11/17/2019 • 37 minutes, 44 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 6

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11/13/2019 • 34 minutes, 10 seconds
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Parsha Vayeirah - Anatomy of a Nisayon

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11/11/2019 • 1 hour, 9 minutes, 54 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 5

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11/6/2019 • 33 minutes, 58 seconds
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Parsha - Lech Lecha

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11/4/2019 • 34 minutes, 16 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 4

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/30/2019 • 32 minutes, 31 seconds
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Parsha - Noach - Basics of Belief

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10/27/2019 • 34 minutes, 54 seconds
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Parsha-Bereishis-The Greatness of Man

Parshas BereishisThis week, we are discussing why the world wasn’t created with the giving of the Torah. Why did everything hinge on one man? What does the creation of Adom HaRishon teach us about our own everyday interactions with others?Join me as I unravel some incredible explanations and give some hard points to ponder. Does gadlus haadom only extend to ourselves? How can we move forward in our bein adam l’chavero in light of Parshas Bereishis? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/24/2019 • 38 minutes, 11 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 3

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/23/2019 • 32 minutes, 9 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 2

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/2/2019 • 29 minutes, 45 seconds
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Life 101 - Part 1

Don’t you wish life came with an instruction manual?It does…Using real life situations, powerful examples, and meaningful observations, it brings basic Torah wisdom to making sense of out why HASHEM made us, what we are doing here, and what we need to be truly happy.It deals with the fundamental issues facing a growing person in our hectic, confusing times.Topics like:· Why is life often so difficult?· Why is there so much suffering in the world?· What is the Torah’s approach to pleasure (This may come as a big surprise)· Why are some mitzvahs so difficult?· How can I stay motivated to grow, when so many things distract me? (It’s not as difficult as you might think)Based on the first perek of the Misillos Yesharim.If you had a chance to read the Shmuz book Stop Surviving, Start Living, you’ll recognize some of the issues that that this series deal with. The Life 101 set expands on those ideas, and digs in more deeply into them.Packaged in an attractive binder, on both CD as well as DVD disks, it comes together with a workbook. It is also available on line to stream or download.The series is divided into 16 sections.Each section is about 30 minute long.16 CDs + 4 DVDs of the Video24 page source book included” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
9/25/2019 • 33 minutes, 33 seconds
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Emunah in the Workplace - Part 8

Earning a living was never easy. Yet, it seems that we work harder then ever today, and still, we barely seem to make ends meet. The strange part is that there was never as much wealth, abundance and opportunity as there is today. By all standards we earn more then any previous generation—yet we continue to struggle. And, while we enjoy a host of technological advances that free mankind from most physical labor—we still have to fight to provide for our families. It almost seems like there’s a plan to keep man working. But why? Why would HASHEM want us to work? What would HASHEM want us to spend so many hours doing things that aren’t really important, and don’t help us grow?This series deals with the many issues associated with working for a living.Why does HASHEM want us to work for a living?How do I know what is the right amount of effort that I should put in?When can I say to HASHEM, “I have done all that I can. Now it’s up to You.”Why is that no matter how much I earn, I always seem to be in debt?Is there an easier way to provide for my family?What things can help guarantee a good parnasah (living)?Why does HASHEM give wealth to certain people?Is there a way to know what I should be doing to earn a living?Is there a way of knowing how hard I should work?When it comes to earning a living: What is HASHEM’s role? What is mine?Is Kollel for Life permitted?Is there an operating principle that I can use to guide the efforts that I put in?If I enjoy a particular type of work, but it doesn’t pay enough, may I still do it, and rely on HASHEM to provide? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
9/18/2019 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 20 seconds
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Emunah in the Workplace - Part 7

Earning a living was never easy. Yet, it seems that we work harder then ever today, and still, we barely seem to make ends meet. The strange part is that there was never as much wealth, abundance and opportunity as there is today. By all standards we earn more then any previous generation—yet we continue to struggle. And, while we enjoy a host of technological advances that free mankind from most physical labor—we still have to fight to provide for our families. It almost seems like there’s a plan to keep man working. But why? Why would HASHEM want us to work? What would HASHEM want us to spend so many hours doing things that aren’t really important, and don’t help us grow?This series deals with the many issues associated with working for a living.Why does HASHEM want us to work for a living?How do I know what is the right amount of effort that I should put in?When can I say to HASHEM, “I have done all that I can. Now it’s up to You.”Why is that no matter how much I earn, I always seem to be in debt?Is there an easier way to provide for my family?What things can help guarantee a good parnasah (living)?Why does HASHEM give wealth to certain people?Is there a way to know what I should be doing to earn a living?Is there a way of knowing how hard I should work?When it comes to earning a living: What is HASHEM’s role? What is mine?Is Kollel for Life permitted?Is there an operating principle that I can use to guide the efforts that I put in?If I enjoy a particular type of work, but it doesn’t pay enough, may I still do it, and rely on HASHEM to provide? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
9/11/2019 • 58 minutes, 54 seconds
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Emunah in the Workplace - Part 6

Earning a living was never easy. Yet, it seems that we work harder then ever today, and still, we barely seem to make ends meet. The strange part is that there was never as much wealth, abundance and opportunity as there is today. By all standards we earn more then any previous generation—yet we continue to struggle. And, while we enjoy a host of technological advances that free mankind from most physical labor—we still have to fight to provide for our families. It almost seems like there’s a plan to keep man working. But why? Why would HASHEM want us to work? What would HASHEM want us to spend so many hours doing things that aren’t really important, and don’t help us grow?This series deals with the many issues associated with working for a living.Why does HASHEM want us to work for a living?How do I know what is the right amount of effort that I should put in?When can I say to HASHEM, “I have done all that I can. Now it’s up to You.”Why is that no matter how much I earn, I always seem to be in debt?Is there an easier way to provide for my family?What things can help guarantee a good parnasah (living)?Why does HASHEM give wealth to certain people?Is there a way to know what I should be doing to earn a living?Is there a way of knowing how hard I should work?When it comes to earning a living: What is HASHEM’s role? What is mine?Is Kollel for Life permitted?Is there an operating principle that I can use to guide the efforts that I put in?If I enjoy a particular type of work, but it doesn’t pay enough, may I still do it, and rely on HASHEM to provide? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
9/4/2019 • 58 minutes, 24 seconds
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Transform Your Marriage! | Sunday, September 1st | 8 PM EST

Reconnect to your spouse and rekindle the passion in your relationshipStop the fighting, bickering, and feeling lonely in your marriageLearn to be EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT and create a harmonious loving marriage See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
8/28/2019 • 1 minute, 12 seconds
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Emunah in the Workplace - Part 5

Earning a living was never easy. Yet, it seems that we work harder then ever today, and still, we barely seem to make ends meet. The strange part is that there was never as much wealth, abundance and opportunity as there is today. By all standards we earn more then any previous generation—yet we continue to struggle. And, while we enjoy a host of technological advances that free mankind from most physical labor—we still have to fight to provide for our families. It almost seems like there’s a plan to keep man working. But why? Why would HASHEM want us to work? What would HASHEM want us to spend so many hours doing things that aren’t really important, and don’t help us grow?This series deals with the many issues associated with working for a living.Why does HASHEM want us to work for a living?How do I know what is the right amount of effort that I should put in?When can I say to HASHEM, “I have done all that I can. Now it’s up to You.”Why is that no matter how much I earn, I always seem to be in debt?Is there an easier way to provide for my family?What things can help guarantee a good parnasah (living)?Why does HASHEM give wealth to certain people?Is there a way to know what I should be doing to earn a living?Is there a way of knowing how hard I should work?When it comes to earning a living: What is HASHEM’s role? What is mine?Is Kollel for Life permitted?Is there an operating principle that I can use to guide the efforts that I put in?If I enjoy a particular type of work, but it doesn’t pay enough, may I still do it, and rely on HASHEM to provide? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
8/28/2019 • 57 minutes, 38 seconds
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Emunah in the Workplace - Part 4

Earning a living was never easy. Yet, it seems that we work harder then ever today, and still, we barely seem to make ends meet. The strange part is that there was never as much wealth, abundance and opportunity as there is today. By all standards we earn more then any previous generation—yet we continue to struggle. And, while we enjoy a host of technological advances that free mankind from most physical labor—we still have to fight to provide for our families. It almost seems like there’s a plan to keep man working. But why? Why would HASHEM want us to work? What would HASHEM want us to spend so many hours doing things that aren’t really important, and don’t help us grow?This series deals with the many issues associated with working for a living.Why does HASHEM want us to work for a living?How do I know what is the right amount of effort that I should put in?When can I say to HASHEM, “I have done all that I can. Now it’s up to You.”Why is that no matter how much I earn, I always seem to be in debt?Is there an easier way to provide for my family?What things can help guarantee a good parnasah (living)?Why does HASHEM give wealth to certain people?Is there a way to know what I should be doing to earn a living?Is there a way of knowing how hard I should work?When it comes to earning a living: What is HASHEM’s role? What is mine?Is Kollel for Life permitted?Is there an operating principle that I can use to guide the efforts that I put in?If I enjoy a particular type of work, but it doesn’t pay enough, may I still do it, and rely on HASHEM to provide? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
8/21/2019 • 49 minutes, 41 seconds
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Emunah in the Workplace - Part 3

Earning a living was never easy. Yet, it seems that we work harder then ever today, and still, we barely seem to make ends meet. The strange part is that there was never as much wealth, abundance and opportunity as there is today. By all standards we earn more then any previous generation—yet we continue to struggle. And, while we enjoy a host of technological advances that free mankind from most physical labor—we still have to fight to provide for our families. It almost seems like there’s a plan to keep man working. But why? Why would HASHEM want us to work? What would HASHEM want us to spend so many hours doing things that aren’t really important, and don’t help us grow?This series deals with the many issues associated with working for a living.Why does HASHEM want us to work for a living?How do I know what is the right amount of effort that I should put in?When can I say to HASHEM, “I have done all that I can. Now it’s up to You.”Why is that no matter how much I earn, I always seem to be in debt?Is there an easier way to provide for my family?What things can help guarantee a good parnasah (living)?Why does HASHEM give wealth to certain people?Is there a way to know what I should be doing to earn a living?Is there a way of knowing how hard I should work?When it comes to earning a living: What is HASHEM’s role? What is mine?Is Kollel for Life permitted?Is there an operating principle that I can use to guide the efforts that I put in?If I enjoy a particular type of work, but it doesn’t pay enough, may I still do it, and rely on HASHEM to provide? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
8/14/2019 • 57 minutes, 22 seconds
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Emunah in the Workplace - Part 2

Earning a living was never easy. Yet, it seems that we work harder then ever today, and still, we barely seem to make ends meet. The strange part is that there was never as much wealth, abundance and opportunity as there is today. By all standards we earn more then any previous generation—yet we continue to struggle. And, while we enjoy a host of technological advances that free mankind from most physical labor—we still have to fight to provide for our families. It almost seems like there’s a plan to keep man working. But why? Why would HASHEM want us to work? What would HASHEM want us to spend so many hours doing things that aren’t really important, and don’t help us grow?This series deals with the many issues associated with working for a living.Why does HASHEM want us to work for a living?How do I know what is the right amount of effort that I should put in?When can I say to HASHEM, “I have done all that I can. Now it’s up to You.”Why is that no matter how much I earn, I always seem to be in debt?Is there an easier way to provide for my family?What things can help guarantee a good parnasah (living)?Why does HASHEM give wealth to certain people?Is there a way to know what I should be doing to earn a living?Is there a way of knowing how hard I should work?When it comes to earning a living: What is HASHEM’s role? What is mine?Is Kollel for Life permitted?Is there an operating principle that I can use to guide the efforts that I put in?If I enjoy a particular type of work, but it doesn’t pay enough, may I still do it, and rely on HASHEM to provide? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
8/7/2019 • 52 minutes, 39 seconds
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Announcing the Marriage Transformation Seminar

CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE About the Marriage Transformation SeminarThe MARRIAGE TRANSFORMATION SEMINAR will:Help you reconnect to your spouse and rekindle the passion in your relationship.Stop the fighting, bickering and feeling lonely in your marriageLearn to be EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT and create a harmonious loving marriage.Rabbi Shafier’s Marriage Transformation Seminar will give you a clear, proven system to improve your marriage. It’s the only marriage program out there that offers the consistent, personal guidance from a trusted Torah authority, endorsed by leading marriage therapists and Rabbonim.This breakthrough Seminar will allow you to rediscover love, connection and friendship-even if your spouse refuses to change. Join other growth-orientated couples who have deepened their bond of love through the Marriage Transformation Seminar and have the marriage you have always dreamed of.Register at: MARRIAGE.THESHMUZ.COM See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
8/5/2019 • 1 minute, 15 seconds
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Emunah in the Workplace - Part 1

Earning a living was never easy. Yet, it seems that we work harder then ever today, and still, we barely seem to make ends meet. The strange part is that there was never as much wealth, abundance and opportunity as there is today. By all standards we earn more then any previous generation—yet we continue to struggle. And, while we enjoy a host of technological advances that free mankind from most physical labor—we still have to fight to provide for our families. It almost seems like there’s a plan to keep man working. But why? Why would HASHEM want us to work? What would HASHEM want us to spend so many hours doing things that aren’t really important, and don’t help us grow?This series deals with the many issues associated with working for a living.Why does HASHEM want us to work for a living?How do I know what is the right amount of effort that I should put in?When can I say to HASHEM, “I have done all that I can. Now it’s up to You.”Why is that no matter how much I earn, I always seem to be in debt?Is there an easier way to provide for my family?What things can help guarantee a good parnasah (living)?Why does HASHEM give wealth to certain people?Is there a way to know what I should be doing to earn a living?Is there a way of knowing how hard I should work?When it comes to earning a living: What is HASHEM’s role? What is mine?Is Kollel for Life permitted?Is there an operating principle that I can use to guide the efforts that I put in?If I enjoy a particular type of work, but it doesn’t pay enough, may I still do it, and rely on HASHEM to provide? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
7/11/2019 • 46 minutes, 31 seconds
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Parshas Chukas--Parsha in Depth

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7/11/2019 • 4 minutes, 52 seconds
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Parshas Korach -- Parsha in Depth

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7/3/2019 • 4 minutes, 40 seconds
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Parshas Shelach--Parsha in Depth

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6/27/2019 • 53 minutes, 9 seconds
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Parshas Beha'aloscha--Parsha in Depth

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6/20/2019 • 55 minutes, 51 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: Internal System and External System (Part 15)

In the final class of the first perek, Rabbi Shafier develops the idea of how important our actions are in both this world and the next. In this incredibly encouraging shiur, we learn the great potential within us and how to maximize our deeds for eternity. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
6/19/2019 • 39 minutes, 1 second
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Shmuz on the Parsha - Bereshis

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6/16/2019 • 3 minutes, 45 seconds
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Parshas Nasoh--Parsha in Depth

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6/13/2019 • 48 minutes, 55 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: The Main Thing (Part 14)

You are a spiritual being having a temporary physical experience in this world. It’s so easy to forget that, and spend our lives entirely focused on the banality of olam hazeh. But if we learn how to ‘keep the main thing the main thing’ we can move beyond our physical existence into an eternal life of contentment. Rabbi Shafier teaches us in Class Fourteen how to keep our focus and forever reap the reward for doing so. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
6/12/2019 • 38 minutes, 55 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: Happiness (Part 13)

Most people aren't happy. Why not? Even when a person can have all of their physical wants and needs met, they can still feel empty inside. Caveat: We’re not talking mental illness here. We’re discussing the pain a soul feels from ignoring it’s potential. It’s a pain familiar to all of us. Tune into this class understand it better and reach a greater level of fulfillment in your life. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
6/5/2019 • 46 minutes, 17 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: Pleasures and Desires (Part 12)

Are you a pleasure seeker, but feel kinda guilty about it because enjoying life isn’t a ‘Jewish’ concept? In this class, Rabbi Shafier addresses misconceptions such as this full on, showing us how to use the pleasures that Hashem has created to become better, more spiritual human beings. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
5/29/2019 • 55 minutes, 52 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: A Hole in my Soul (Part 11)

Why can’t Man just be happy? Always running, always chasing, nothing is ever enough. In this mind blowing class, Rabbi Shafier teaches us how our souls were created for greatness. We are always longing for more because we know we can be more. How to get there? Watch to find out! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
5/22/2019 • 32 minutes, 23 seconds
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Parshas Emor -- Parsha in Depth

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5/16/2019 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 20 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: Suffering in This World (Part 10)

If we accept that Hashem is very good at being Hashem, a thinking person must marvel at the variety and intensity of pain that He has created-and then ask themselves why it must be this way. The question of suffering is discussed at length in the Mesillas Yesharim. In this class Rabbi Shafier brings down the Ramchal’s teachings to show us how suffering cannot make sense without an awareness of Olam HaBa. It’s essential viewing for anyone who wishes to make sense of the darker side of life. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
5/15/2019 • 32 minutes, 27 seconds
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Parshas Kedoshim - Parsha in Depth

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5/9/2019 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 43 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: The Power Given to Man (Part 9)

Get to know the real you. Why do our emotions get hijacked? What stirs our soul? Why do we feel a sense of dissatisfaction when we waste our time? Our neshamas are complex. This class will give you a deeper understanding of what makes us tick-and what holds us back. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
5/8/2019 • 54 minutes, 56 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: Spiritual Machines (Part 8)

There are forces in this world beyond what the eye can see.Even though they may not be obvious to our five senses, we take for granted gravity, radio waves and energy. So too, the world is run by spiritual forces that are influenced by our actions here on earth. This powerful shiur will help you see the significance of even the smallest, seemingly insignificant mitzvah. Prepared to be both inspired and terrified by this fundamental hashkafa. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
5/1/2019 • 49 minutes, 27 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: Changing Currencies (Part 7)

As we move through life, our currencies change, and our values shift. If you want to ensure that your ‘currency’ is in line with the Torah, watch this class. It will show you how to get a clear perspective on what our focus should be; giving us riches in this world and the world to come. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
4/24/2019 • 49 minutes, 29 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: I Never Do Anything Wrong (Part 6)

Why is that we rationalize away our shortcomings? When it comes others, their faults are clear. But ourselves? We find every excuse. This is problematic as it holds back our potential and damages our relationship with Hashem. In this class Rabbi Shafier gives us clear guidance on how to move beyond our ego while keeping our self-esteem intact. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
4/17/2019 • 49 minutes, 29 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: The System of Growth (Part 5)

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4/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 44 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: Overlays (Part 4)

Why doesn’t serving Hashem come easy? If our souls want it, shouldn’t it be second nature? Over three-hundred years ago The Ramchal addressed this very question. By learning more about the tension between the guf and the neshama we can begin to understand our reluctance to grow. By getting real about our character traits we can move beyond our ego and fulfil our purpose in this world. Finally, the imperative to understand how our life settings challenge our personal development is also explained in clear, real-life examples that brings the Mesilas Yesharim right into our everyday experience. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
4/3/2019 • 42 minutes, 24 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: Three Obstacles to the World to Come (Part 3)

When was the last time you spaced out during davening? Spoke loshen hara? Found yourself at the mercy of your drives and instincts? We all have this problem-and the name of that problem is called ‘being human’. The cloak of physicality blinds us to fully recognizing what our souls know to be real and true. Tap into this class for a greater understanding of the obstacles we face in this world-and how they can be overcome. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/27/2019 • 37 minutes, 46 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: The Foundation Of It All (Part 2)

In this captivating class Rabbi Shafier gives a detailed outline as to why our understanding of the World to Come is so central to our Yiddishkeit. The Mesilas Yesharim places great emphasis on the importance of making the World to Come real to us right now- in this essential class Rabbi Shafier gives us practical guidance on how to make this fundamental concept more relevant to our lives. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/20/2019 • 33 minutes, 2 seconds
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Mesilas Yesharim Series: Introduction - Making it Real (Part 1)

Making truth real to us. That is our challenge, knowing how to bridge the gap between the mind and the heart. But why has Hashem set up the world this way? Why is it a constant struggle to internalize what we know to be right? Join Rabbi Shafier as he embarks upon the Mesillas Yesharim and learn how The Ramchal guides us to discovering who we truly are. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/14/2019 • 36 minutes, 21 seconds
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02 - Rosh Hashanah Issues of the Day

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3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 39 seconds
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01 - Eternal People

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3/9/2019 • 45 minutes, 15 seconds
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03 - Yom Kippur The power of Teshuvah

Using the event of Eliezer Bar Dudia gaining the title of Rebbe, we are introduced to one of the greatest acts of teshuvah ever achieved by a human. We witness a human rise from the depths of depravity to the heights of spirituality in the course of a few hours. Through the story of his life, we see what a man accomplished in but a day -- and we are brought to a new appreciation of how great the potential of the human being is. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 8 seconds
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05 - Appreciating Our Wealth

Never in the history of man have so many people enjoyed so much material wealth and possessions. The average tax paying citizen of today enjoys riches and comforts that kings of yesteryear couldnt envision or imagine -- and yet it seems that we dont appreciate what we have. We become so accustomed to the extraordinary wealth we possess that we no longer think of it as riches; we even start asking, How could anyone live without it?This Shmuz focuses on the wealth that we enjoy, and helps us come to a sense of appreciation to our Creator for all that He has given us.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 6 seconds
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04 - Appreciating Olam Hazeh

If a person looks at the features of this world they will quickly see that Hashem invested great wisdom and care in making man 's stay on the planet enjoyable. From the different foods, each one with its unique flavor, aroma and textures; to the colors of flowers and magnificent sea scapes , so much of the beauty of this world was not necessary. It is clear that Hashem put much thought into creating a world that man can enjoy. The question is, Do we in fact enjoy it? This Shmuz focuses on the Torah's attitude towards enjoying the pleasures of this world. This may come as a surprise to some people. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 54 minutes, 18 seconds
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11 - Kibud Av of Eisav - Appreciating Parents

Of course we appreciate our parents. Of course we respect them. Isnt that only natural? Doesnt everyone? And yet we dont. We live in a society that doesnt seem to know the meaning of the word respect. There is no respect for authority, no respect for institutions, no respect for elders, and even no respect for ourselves. Unfortunately, we are affected by this, and this lack of respect goes so far as to shape our relationships, and the way we relate even to people that we love. This Shmuz deals with some of the basic concepts of human relations and introduces us to eye opening insights about respect in general.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 56 minutes, 4 seconds
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#14 - Living like a Rock

What if I just live my life, as any other occupant of this planet? What is so bad about that? Lets say, I am no worse than Joe the UPS driver, or Bob the mechanic, will Hashem really be upset with me? In this Shmuz we are brought to understand how great the human is, and how much he can accomplish. Within the context of this understanding the question of What am I accomplishing with my life?, becomes much more acute -- if I truly have great potential and I am wasting it- if I am living like a rock, will I be held responsible to answer for this?    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 52 minutes, 59 seconds
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#21 - Choosing a Career

It is clear that Hashem wants man to work for a living. But is there a particular profession that I should I be doing to make a living? Does the Torah have a formula for me to figure out exactly what line of work I should pursue? Using the system explained by the Chovos Halevovos we are given clear directions towards finding the right way for me to earn my living. (Essential hashkafa for a person just starting out on their professional path, as well as for an individual who is already well established.)    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 26 seconds
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#18 - The Difference Between Emunah and Bitachon - Four Levels To Emunah

Did you ever notice that no one does anything wrong? It seems that no matter how clear it is to you and me that this person is engaged in self destructive behavior, he doesn't admit that he is doing something wrong or harmful; rather he comes up with an entire rationale why it is good and in fact proper.To allow for Free Will, we humans had to be given this ability to rationalize away our behavior, to view what we do, whatever we do, as right and proper, because otherwise we could never allow ourselves to do something that is "wrong". Using some commonplace examples, we are brought to focus on both our need to explain away what we do as justified, and what we can do to grow beyond this most human failing.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 55 seconds
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08 - Power of Prayer

  We all daven, and on some level we know that Davening works. But do we really understand it? Do we really understand that our prayers have an effect on our lives? Do we really understand that my davening can change the circumstances of my life?This Shmuz helps us understand the profound effect that tefilah can have on situations and settings that directly affect our lives.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 38 minutes, 3 seconds
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06 - It's not Geneivah, It's Shtick

It is very difficult for us human beings to accept that we do things that are wrong, and so we rationalize. We create illusions and fanciful stories that we ourselves dont believe. And so, you will find intelligent, otherwise rational people saying things like, Of course I wouldnt steal, stealing is dishonest, but this isnt stealing .Its shtick. We mach shtick. We mach Shtick with the tickets, mach shtick with the regents. But its O.K because its not stealing; its only shtick.This Shmuz helps us identify something that has become blight in our community, the lack of a true sense of integrity in all of our dealings. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 50 minutes, 9 seconds
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#25 - They Dont Make Anti Semites Like They Used To

Over the course of history, it seems that there has been no shortage of anti-Semites, people who truly hate Jews and would do anything in their power to put an end to the Jewish Problem. Yet it also seems that if you ask the common anti-Semite, why is it that you hate the Jew? Likely, he wouldnt be able to answer. I know that you dream about their demise- but why? What is it about them that bothers you so? Yet there was a time when anti-Semites not only hated Jews, but they could tell you why. And that reason is very important for us as Jews to understand. Using Megillas Esther as the background for the Shmuz, we are introduced to the Torahs understanding of why there is Anti-Semitism in the world.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 15 seconds
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#23 - I willl never die. Not me. No way.

  While this may be philosophys greatest question, isnt it something that any thinking person must answer: What is my purpose in existence? Drawing from The Path of the Just, this Shmuz focuses us on finding the true meaning and purpose of our life.What is my purpose in life?What are my true core values?What does it mean after death I will live on? I will be dead!    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 52 seconds
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#19 - Free will - Part 2: I Never Do Anything Wrong

In this introduction to emunah, we are presented with four basic levels of belief: 1. Hashem created the world. 2. Hashem is involved in the really big picture issues - war, famine, life and death. 3. Hashem knows my inner thoughts. 4. Hashem is intimately involved in my day to day life. After outlining and defining the levels, we are given practical techniques to improve our level of belief in all four categories, so that we can not only know in our minds these understandings, but actually feel them.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 41 seconds
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#17 - Acquiring Olam Habba The Easy Way, (Everyone Needs a Mike)

We spend our life trying to gain Olam Habbah. All of our learning, all of our chessesd, all of our davening, is directed towards creating what I will be forever. Yet sometimes it seems that we work harder and not smarter towards our goal. In this Shmuz, we are introduced to a simple method to dramatically increase our portion in Olam Habbah- a smarter way.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 6 minutes, 36 seconds
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10 - Questioning G-d: Finding and Keeping Your Bashert

The Shadchan says, "So tell me, what are you looking for?" And, out comes the laundry list."I need someone who is extroverted, funny, and outgoing.""I need a woman who is very frum, good, kind, tolerant, and funny.""I need a guy who is tall, a take-charge type, strong but not headstrong."And unwittingly, many people make the first mistake of the dating game - they aren't looking for their Bashert- they have already formed him in their minds, and now are out to find the one that comes the closest to that image.It is almost like the children's toy Mr. Potato Head. You get to design the doll, choose red lips, big ears, small eyes, short legs Before going out most people go through a sort of personal inventory: "Let's see. Since I am., I need" Unconsciously, they put together a wish list of qualities to take out into the market place. Then amazingly, they find themselves frustrated. "I just can't find Mr. Right."This is a must-listen-to Shmuz offering a practical down to earth way to avoid the two most common mistakes made in finding and keeping your Bashert. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 49 seconds
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#22 - Evolution - Does it Make Sense?

To many of us the issue of belief in the Creator boils down to logic against faith. As if from a purely rational, intellectual point of view it would appear that the world evolved, and we who believe have to hold on to our faith against the onslaught of logic and scientific discoveries. In this Shmuz we are asked to look at matters from a very different vantage point, namely: that which passes in the media as popular science, is neither popular nor science. And the reality is that from a dispassionate position of pure logic, the basic premise that the world just occurred on its own, is so implausible as to make it almost untenable. In the end we are brought to the question: Does Evolution make any sense?    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 12 minutes, 1 second
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#13 - Free Will, Part 1: Nefesh Habahami, Nefesh Hasichli

Has there ever been a time when you reacted to something, and you couldnt believe that it was you who was speaking that way? Have you ever said something and had a feeling of, What came over me it was as if I were possessed?In this introduction to the inner workings of the human being, we come face to face with the understanding that I am created from very diverse elements. Within me are different forces pulling in opposite directions. Not only isnt this accidental, it is actually a necessary component of FREE WILL. Free Will means that I could go either way. It is my choice, not something that I was programmed to do that made me choose this way. Yet without this there would be no temptation, and Man would do good - only good, not because he chose to, but because he was programmed for it, hence there would be no Free Will. In this integral introduction to the complexity of the human we are given a glimpse into understanding the forces behind the different behaviors within ourselves.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 50 minutes, 3 seconds
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#15 - Chanukah G-d fights Our Wars

What actually happened in the war to recapture the Bais Hamikdash? How many battles were fought? How long did they last? What was it like living in Yerushlayim at the time?Detailing the story of Chanukah as brought in Megillas Chashmonaim, this Shmuz brings us closer to understanding the events of the time, and appreciating the miracle that unfolded. It then takes us forward in time to some modern miracles that seem to overshadow even those of the Chanukah time period.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 2 seconds
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#26 - Loshon Horah, Squandering our Olam Habbah

Of course loshon horah is forbidden. We know it was the prime cause of the destruction of the Bais HaMikdash, and of course we know that we arent supposed to speak it--yet we do. A big part of the reason is that we dont really see it as wrong, we dont see it as damaging, and we certainly dont see the act of speaking as something that will cost us in the future.This Shmuz is a powerful introduction to the effects that our words have on other peoples lives in this world, and on ours in the World to Come.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 51 seconds
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09 - Akaidas Yitzchak

After all is said and done, what was so great about the Akeidah? Throughout history many people have been called upon and have made great sacrifices. Yet this single act echoes through the millennia. What was so unique about what Avrahom did? What was so special about the way he did it? And more pointedly, what relevance does it have for us some 3,700 years later?    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 53 minutes, 1 second
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#24 - Understanding Life Settings

It almost seems as if some people are born with a silver spoon in their mouth, while others are destined to suffer. Why is it is that some people are born with amazing capacity, and others are created so simple? Why is there autism in the world? Why Down Syndrome? If in fact God is just, why not mete out talents and abilities in an equal manner to all people?Using the backdrop of a famous event brought in the Talmud; this Shmuz focuses us on some of the big picture issues of life, helping us understand life settings, as they apply to each person. Why are some people blessed with success and others not? Is there a reason for suffering in the world? What about pain? What about death?   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 21 seconds
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#16 - Olam Habba: The Greatest Motivator

Alan Dershowitz, in his book The Vanishing Jew, describes that as part of a course he taught in Harvard Law school, one of his co-professors decided to rate G-d. They decided to sit in judgment of Hashem, to determine how good a job He did when He created this world. Their conclusion? They found much good, much wisdom and forethought, but they also found much suffering and pain, needless pain. So on balance they gave G-d a B-. Forgetting about the absurdity of a flesh and blood man judging G-d, the question is valid. If in fact HASHEM is all good, and if in fact HASHEM created this world to give to man, it surely would seem that HASHEM could have done a better job at creating man and this world. This Shmuz brings us to understand some of the most basic issues that a Ben Torah must fully comprehend in terms of why HASHEM created this world and what HASHEM has in mind for man.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 5 seconds
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07 - Noach - Understanding Belief

By all accounts Noach was a Tzadik. Yet he didnt go into the teivah until the water forced him in. Rashi tells us the reason was that Noach Believed and he didnt believe. Whilst he knew that Hashem was going to bring a mabul, he still doubted it. What seems perplexing is that Hashem spoke to Noach telling him there would be a flood. Not only that, but Noach had spent the last 120 years building a teivah for the flood. How was it possible that he didn't believe that Hashem was actually going to bring the flood? Through this Shmuz we are introduced to one of the most fundamental concepts in belief, and why in fact true faith is so difficult for us.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 46 minutes, 29 seconds
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#20 - Davening - Making it Real

Of course we daven. Three times a day. Everyday. The question is how real our davening is, and to whom are we davening. It often seems that our davening is more talking to the walls than talking to Hashem. This Shmuz helps us focus on some of the most basic principles in Judaism, things we always knew, yet take for granted, and are so critical for our growth as religious Jews and thinking people.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 51 minutes, 25 seconds
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#12 - People of Principle

We know the Avos and Imahos were great individuals -- but what made them so great? Where did they get the moral courage to see what was right, and stick to it against all external pressures?Through the famous story of Rochel giving up her husband to her sister Leah so as not to embarrass her, we are introduced to some of the basic ingredients that shape any great persons success the moral strength to be a person of principle.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 1 second
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#35 - Hashem and Man: Master and Servant (Understanding Humility)

We know the Torah gave us a specific mitzvah - to work on our character traits, but how do I change my very basic, underlying emotional makeup? Much like as with any character trait, I didnt wake up in the morning and say, I just want to be a big, fat, arrogant buffoon. I didnt wake up and say, I would like to consider myself the most important human on the planet G-d's gift to humanity. But what can I do? Thats how I feel. Now what? This Shmuz helps us deal with the gaavah, arrogance, as it functions in our lives. How do I recognize if I am affected by this trait? How do I work on this issue?Understanding our relationship with HASHEM is the first line of defense against arrogance, and as it turns out, the sense of humility is central to all of avodas HASHEM.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 19 seconds
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#34 - Isreal: Exalted Nation / Oppressed People (Why Did G-d Allow the Holocaust to Happen?)

Throughout history all things change, the only constant that seems to cross all cultural and time barriers, is that everyone hates the Jew. Is there a Torah perspective that can explain why the Jewish nation is so tortured and oppressed? If we accept that G-D controls what happens on this earth is there a reason why His nation, the Chosen People are so downtrodden? Are there forces involved that control the very destiny of Israel?This Shmuz explores some of the underlying causes of the Jewish Nations state throughout history, including the Why behind the Holocaust.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 58 seconds
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#29 - The Busy Generation

While we boast of more labor saving devices that ever before in history, It seems that we are busier today than we have ever been. In fact, we are so busy that we dont even have the time to ask ourselves what is that we are so busy with.This Shmuz focuses us on attitudes and perspectives that we pick up from the society in which we live attitudes that may be against what the Torah views as ideal, and even against what common sense says is intelligent.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 17 seconds
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#28 - People Believe what they want to Believe

If Hashem would just show me one miracle, then I would really believe. If Hashem would just show me one clear sign -- it would change my life. This premise that seeing a miracle would make a person believe is brought into sharp relief by one central question: Why didnt the ancient Egyptians believe in Hashem? They experienced all of the greatest miracles ever shown. They lived through the greatest manifestation of Hashems hand, and yet they didnt come to believe in Hashem. Through illustrating some of the miracles shown in Mitzraim we come to a new understanding of what causes a person to believe.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 51 seconds
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#45 - WYSIWYG- Developing Willpower

Its true that Im not quite where I hope to be one day. Its even true that there are many thoughts that go through my head that Im not proud of. I am still selfish and self centered, and there are many things that I feel that I would be deeply ashamed of if anyone else knew about them. But its OK, because one day I will change. This Shmuz focuses us on the shocking realization that as I am at the last moment of life, exactly as I am, is how I will be for eternity. The same attitudes, thoughts and desires that course through my mind now will be a part of me forever. When I leave this earth -WYSIWYG- What You See Is What You Get. I will be exactly as I am now, with one difference; you and everyone else will be able to see me, exactly as I am, with all of my positive thoughts and all of my negative ones. This Shmuz also brings us to understand the preciousness of life, -- that as long as there is a breath in my being, I can change -- I can shape myself; mold myself into what I will be for eternity.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 59 minutes, 55 seconds
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#39 - I Need, Needs

It is clear that Hashem is capable -- very capable. It is also clear that Hashem has great wisdom -- enough wisdom and capacity to create the cosmos and all that it contains, with words alone -- from galaxies that stretch over billons of light years, to tiny amoeba that float in a sea of flotsam, all parts of the whole, all harmoniously integrated, all so seemingly perfect. Yet Hashem created man incomplete, with many needs. It seems that Hashem could have created man to be much less needy - yet Hashem didnt. This Shmuz focuses us on the importance of needs in our life. And we come away with the understandings that not only arent these" needs" frivolous things to be rejected; they are actually an essential part of the growth process of life.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 44 seconds
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#33 - Where Was G-D During the Holocaust?

We read about the Holocaust, we study about the holocaust, we memorialize the Holocaust, and yet it seems that this question isnt dealt with. Where was G-d during the Holocaust? Yet, isnt this one of the most basic questions a thinking person must deal with?Tracing the historical rise of Nazism and Adolph Hitler, a strong case is made for seeing the presence of G-d during these horrific times.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 7 seconds
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#38 - Where is Hashem, The Sixth Level of Emunah

We are trained from our school years to say boruch Hashem and im yirtzeh Hashem. Yet it seems that something is lacking. While we mouth the words that Hashem is responsible and we thank Hashem, if we are honest with ourselves we will soon recognize that what is lacking from our sentiments is Hashem. The sense of Hashems presence and involvement in our life that we talk about is what is missing from our understanding. Understanding the sixth and highest level of emunah, we are brought to understand some of the deepest thoughts of which man is capable.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 59 minutes, 25 seconds
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#36 - For the Love of Money

I heard hes worth 10 million dollars, is not so uncommon an expression for us to hear, even within our own community. The reality is that to many people, their self worth is equal to their net worth. While we assume that our values come exclusively from a Torah Perspective and not from the world around us, the reality is that the world we live in has a real effect on our thoughts and attitudes. In our society money has a prominence and significance that affects even bnai Torah.This Shmuz helps us focus on the Torahs view of money and how to shape our attitudes towards it.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 38 seconds
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#40 - Acher, The Importance of Torah, Founding an Organization

Elisha Ben Avuha was one of the greatest Torah scholars who ever lived--He was a tanna, a great Torah teacher, and the rebbe of Rebbe Meir -- until he became Acher, the Heretic. In that state he undid all of the good that he had accomplished, and did things that were purely evil. Yet, when he died, he wasnt allowed into Gehenom, because of the merit of Torah until his student, Rebbe Meir, begged for mercy. Through this gripping story we are introduced to the value of Torah learning, the one act that can never leave a person. A great motivating Shmuz for setting goals and succeeding in learning.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 50 minutes, 48 seconds
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#43 - Soton out of the Box

It seems that it should be easier now to grow than in any previous generation. We have wealth, luxuries, freedom from oppression, and we have time. We enjoy so many time saving devices and conveniences that it would surely seems that we are finally free to sit and learn. And in fact, it seems that we should be able to reach great heights - and yet it is harder than ever to serve Hashem. It seems that somehow in earlier generations it was just easier to sit and learn, but why?This Shmuz focuses on the one area that the Soton was given control over in this generation, that one area he is allowed full control over, the one area he is allowed to go full power...    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 34 seconds
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#47 - Cognitive Restrucing

The last of the Ten Commandments is You shall not covet. Simply stated one should not be desirous of his neighbors property, possessions or any attribute that he may have. On the face of things this seems to be a very difficult mitzvah to observe. If my neighbor has something that is beautiful, he owns a magnificent home, he drives a beautiful car or has a fantastic job, isn't it human nature to feel jealous? How can the Torah ask me to do something that goes against the very nature of man? Granted the Torah can tell me not to take revenge, or not to take out my frustration on my neighbor, but how can the Torah expect me to control that which I feel in my heart-- something, clearly out of my control?In this Shmuz we are introduced to a fundamental concept in personal growth: that our very emotional needs and desires are moldable. Not only can we change what we do, we can change our very attitudes and even the way that we feel about things. The primary system in this process is cognitive restructuring, reshaping the way that we thing about things, what we value, how we feel, and ultimately what we aspire to. This is a fundamental concept for many areas of growth in life.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 59 minutes, 21 seconds
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#41 - Rebbe Akiva and Rochel, Potential of the Individual

At the age of 40, Akiva the shepherd went off to learn and transformed himself into the Torah giant known throughout history. We all know the basic story line, but we may not know that he promptly quit and set back home -- a failure. One event changed his life and gave him the strength and fortitude to turn back and succeed. Detailing the events of Rebbe Akivas struggle, the story of sacrifice, failure and eventual success, we are introduced to some of the most moving events that shaped this great leader of men.An inspiring lesson to all of us who at one time or other felt, Im not cut out for learning.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 45 minutes, 31 seconds
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#44 - Bar Kamtza - Do you really have Free Will?

I accept that each persons life span is set before they are born. I also accept that the question is visited on Rosh Hashanah when Hashem decides who will live and who will die. All that is fine and well, until I pick up a gun and say to myself, cant I decide to end that persons life? Isnt it obvious that whether that person will live or die is now in my hands? Using the Tisha BAv Gemarah as a backdrop we are brought into some of philosophys deepest questions: resolving the issue of how much of life is in HASHEMs control, and how much is in mans.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 54 minutes, 35 seconds
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#30 - Anger Management

We all know that anger is bad and if we have ever gotten into a situation where we lost our temper, we certainly wished that we hadnt --but what can I do? This is the way I react. He said something, I saw red and exploded. That is just my nature. I didnt ask to be born this way, and there is nothing that I can do about it. Right? In this Shmuz we are introduced to the motivation and the mechanics of doing that most difficult of tasks -really changing ourselves.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 25 seconds
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#46 - Greatness of Man- Beyond our Understanding

Chazal teach us that HASHEM would have created the entire world for one man: the sun, the moon and the stars, the planets and constellations, the oceans, the rivers and the birds -- all for one human being. The question is what exactly is so great about man? What is so fantastically meaningful and significant about one man that it was worth creating all of heaven and earth just for him? Using the famous event of Hillels students following him to the bathhouse as a backdrop, we are brought to a new understanding of the significance of Man and what is expected from him a mindset very much missing from Western Thought.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 43 seconds
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#37 - Three Types of Miracles, The Fifth Level of Emunah

Hashem created this world. Hashem orchestrates this world but there is another dimension of Hashems relationship with this world -- Hashem is the maintainer of this world. A very deep Shmuz that deals with the way that HASHEM interacts with this world, and directly deals with some fundamental questions: How I can have free will, when HASHEM knows what I am going to do? How can HASHEM be in so many different places at the same time?   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 52 minutes, 54 seconds
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#42 - Tricks of the Soton

Chazal tell us that Hashem created a malach whose sole job it is to trip up man -- to get us to sin, to get us to fail, to get us to mess up. Where is he? What voice does he speak with? How can I identify him? For most of us, without direct guidance from chazal it is difficult to quantify and identify the soton. Does he speak in my head? Whose voice does he use? How can I tell? This Shmuz brings us face to face with a powerful force that is foreign to western thought, and requires great understanding to recognize.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 17 seconds
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#27 - Respecting the Institution, America the Beautiful

We live in a world of disrespect. Children dont respect parents. Students dont respect teachers, spouses dont respect each other and I certainly cant respect a President or world leader who gives in to his every passion and whim. In this Shmuz we find that Torah has a very different understanding of respect, and who is worthy of respect. We are introduced to the Torahs concept of respecting the institution even if we dont respect the person. And we are brought to focus on the tremendous sense of appreciation we must have for all the good that we experience living in this land.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 44 seconds
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#31 - The Voice Inside

Have you ever heard of something called a guilty conscience? What about a Jewish guilty conscience? While we all recognize that Voice Inside, that seems to moralize and lecture to us when we have stepped over the line, we assume that this is just one of those things that we have to sort of ignore. In this Shmuz we are brought to understand that Voice that HASHEM put inside every human is actually a highly sophisticated tool --almost a moral compass-- that will allow us to find our path amongst the many choices that life brings our way.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 50 minutes, 13 seconds
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#32 - Understanding Nature, Putting the 'WOW' Back Into Nature

Who can look at a sunset and not say Wow, look at the beauty of this world.? Yet, it seems that we rarely do that. It is almost as if we are detached from the natural world -- As if the world of lions and tigers and bears is a place reserved for taking our children to when they are little, but has no connection to our lives.The Rishonim tell us that the surest way to come to understand that there is a creator of the world is to look at the creation and say just that. Wow! Look at the wisdom, look at the vastness; look at the sophistication of this world. But looking at the world with an eye to see its creator requires attention and training. This Shmuz helps us focus on the Wow behind nature thereby allowing us to be moved by the awe inspiring miracles with which HASHEM has created the world in which we live.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 19 seconds
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#55 - Staying Pure In An Impure World

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3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 53 seconds
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#59 - Humility - An Issue of Perspective

HASHEM gave everyone a unique set of talents. Some people are strong, others smart, and others musical. But no matter which talents you have, HASHEM gave them to you to help you accomplish a specific mission in this world.The trouble is, people often lose sight of this. They credit themselves for their talents and even expect praise and honor because of them. Not only does this make them seem obnoxious, it guarantees that they will fail to use their talents as HASHEM intended.This Shmuz teaches us to view ourselves and our abilities with honest humility. Only then can we achieve the greatness HASHEM meant for each of us. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 44 seconds
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#57 - Torah - Creating Worlds

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3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 3 minutes, 5 seconds
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#65 - Davening Part III - Power Prayers-The Impact of Tfilah

A close look at tefilla defies human logic. Simply by saying particular words with kavannah, we can reverse judgments in Heaven. How is it possible? It doesnt make sense!The answer is that it doesnt have to make sense. On one level, davening is a chok. But more than that, davening is a gift. Its an escape hatch we can use to get out of trouble any time.This Shmuz will teach you to treasure the mitzvah of tefilla and help you to tap into its life-changing power. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 42 minutes, 38 seconds
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#54 - Understanding Laziness

Have you ever found it hard to get out of bed in the morning? Lying there after a full nights sleep, is it difficult to get yourself moving? It doesnt take a genius to know thats laziness, but the question is: how do we overcome it?For starters, we need to understand laziness why we have it and why it drags us down. From there, the solution is simple. Dont be lazy. Good middos are like muscles. When you exercise them, they grow stronger.The battle plan in this Shmuz will not only help you beat laziness and make you more productive, it will make your life more fun! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 58 minutes, 23 seconds
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#49 - Yom Kippur- The Capacity of a Human

Nachum Ish Gam Zu, one of the greatest Tanaim who ever lived, was a complete Tzadik. Yet, at one point in his life, he made a minor mistake, and from then on suffered terribly. When he explained to his students that it was because of this minor oversight that he was suffering they said to him, Woe to us, that we have to see you this way. He responded, Woe to me, if you didnt see me this way. Meaning he felt that his pain was worth it. Even more, he felt that his suffering was a good thing, something he welcomed -- something in fact he had wished upon himself. Through this perplexing episode brought in the Gemarah we are presented with a radically different view of punishment in this world, and the extent of accountability that a human is held to. But more than a fire and brimstone concept, we see what is expected of a person, and what he can accomplish during his stay on this planet.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 59 minutes, 25 seconds
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#61 - Heroes!

People have accomplished some extraordinary things. Muhammad Ali fought his way to becoming heavyweight champion of the world. Roger Bannister ran the first four-minute mile. And lehavdil, gedolim like Rav Shimon Shkop, Reb Chaim Brisker, and Rav Gifter became champions in Torah.What is the difference between them and us? Surprisingly, nothing at all. HASHEM gave every human the ability to soar to great heights if only wed believe in ourselves. So dust off those dreams youve put on the shelf. This Shmuz will give you the focus and motivation to turn them into reality. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 43 minutes, 34 seconds
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#58 - Arrogance Misdirected

Nobody in the entire Torah was as arrogant as Pharaoh. He actually believed he was the Creator! But his delusion, though in an extreme form, is common in human beings. Weve seen it in dictators like Hitler and Napoleon. We see it in larger-than-life tycoons like Donald Trump. And sometimes, we see it in ourselves.With a breakdown of why this middah rears its ugly head so often, this Shmuz motivates us to work on its antidote: humility. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 50 minutes, 15 seconds
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#60 - Tidal Waves and Middas HaDin

Middas Ha Din and Middas Ha Rachamim may seem like esoteric Kabbalistic concepts beyond our understanding, but a look at history will give us a clear demonstration of how they operate. Weve seen people die by the millions, not just in wars, but in famines, tidal waves, and other natural disasters. Even the media calls them acts of G-d. The question is: why does G-d make them happen?This Shmuz wakes us up to the awesome power of HASHEM and stirs our hearts toward teshuva. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 54 minutes, 17 seconds
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#50 - Bitachon Part I - Learning to Trust HASHEM

Part one of a three-part series on Bitachon, this Shmuz focuses us on the first stage of Bitachon: learning to trust HASHEM. Amazingly the Chovos Halevovos explains to us that by nature we trust. In fact, without trust we couldnt function. If we didnt trust, then every time we left our home we would fear death by a car crash, an earthquake, or a tornado. Every time we entered into a business transaction we would fear the economy failing or a major international catastrophe. To allow us to function as healthy human beings, HASHEM put into our nature a need to trust. However, that need to trust is typically misplaced. We trust in nature, we trust in the economy, we trust in the Air Force, the police and the emergency medical personnelmore than anything we trust that the ways things have been until now, they will continue to be. And this sense of trust remains with us until the thing we so trusted in fails us, and then we see the futility of that which we trusted in. A good follow-up to Shmuz #18 The Difference Between Emunah and Bitachon.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes
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#66 - Mark of the Man

A popular notion in the secular world is that people are just like animals. Animals live and breathe; we live and breathe. Animals walk on four legs; we walk on two. Whats the big difference?The Torah tells us that the difference is staggering. Its true that humans have an animalistic side, but we also have nishomas. By nurturing the nishoma, we can reach limitless spiritual heights. Thats something no animal can do.The nishoma requires specific nourishment for its growth: Torah. Learning Torah beats back the animalistic desires and propels the nishoma forward. It takes discipline, but the pay-off is enormous. By reminding you of just how much you stand to gain, this Shmuz will not only motivate you to learn, itll help you enjoy learning. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 46 minutes, 31 seconds
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#51 - Bitachon Part II

If you want to know if your bitachon is where it should be, theres a very simple test. Do you go into a panic when you dont know how youre going to pay your next bill? Do you often think that you could have been more successful if only youd done things differently? If your answer was yes, then you, like most of us, need to work on bitachon.But striking the balance between bitachon and hishtadlus is not so simple. What is my part and what is HASHEMs?This Shmuz teaches how honest effort combined with trust in HASHEM is an unbeatable formula for success. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 45 seconds
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#48 - Being a Nice Guy

Most people we meet are nice guys. If you were stuck on the road, or if you needed a place to sleep they would be the first to come forward and offer to help. Yet these very same people do things that really arent nice-- in fact, sometimes downright cruel. The question is why? Why is it that people who are kind and sweet, do things that are so unquestionably mean? Oftentimes the answer is simply because they dont see other people. They go through life too busy to notice that those around them are human beings, with needs and sensitivities just like their own. So while they may be nice people in the sense that they mean well, they do a lot of damage to others because they fail to see that those around them have the same human feelings as they do. Amazingly, it is often you and I who fit this description! Yet, once we come to this recognition our behavior can change dramatically. This Shmuz focuses us on the concept that by becoming sensitive to other people's needs, not only do I become a truly nice guy, I begin that long road to spiritual perfection, by becoming more similar to our Creator, the source of all giving kindness in this world.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 58 minutes, 58 seconds
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#52 - Bitachon Part III

The Torah tells us that when Yosef Ha Tzaddik was in prison and asked Pharaohs wine steward to put in a good word for him, HASHEM punished him for his lack of bitachon. Doesnt that seem a bit extreme? He was in a terrible dungeon, far worse than the prisons of today. What was wrong about making an effort to free himself?The problem lies not in what Yosef did, but how and why he did it. And while HASHEM does not expect us to be on Yosefs level, He does test us with challenges of our own.This Shmuz reveals HASHEMs three intended purposes for giving us parnossah. As long as we keep His priorities straight, we can maximize bracha in our own lives. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 36 seconds
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#56 - The Death of Right and Wrong

According to the modern world, the worst thing we can do is judge others. Im okay, and youre okay. Even murderers are okay, or at least we should try and understand them. They have excuses their upbringing, jealousy, pressures. How can they be responsible for their crimes?This moral relativism is eating away at the very fabric of society. Its even penetrating Jewish society. What can we do about it?This Shmuz weaves together current social politics with the Chanukah story, delivering a timely message about standing up for right and wrong. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 2 seconds
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#62 - Plan Your Life / Live your Plan

Plan your life; live your plan. Set goals for yourself; follow through with them.It sounds like plain common sense, but somehow, most people dont bother. They get sidetracked by the rat race and the pursuit of pleasure. Winging their way through life, they never reach their full potential.The trick to planning your life effectively is in when you plan it. First and foremost, you have to understand yourself.The simple yet powerful teachings in this Shmuz contain everything you need to live the life of your dreams. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 46 minutes, 22 seconds
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#67 - Understanding and Eliminating Jealousy

If theres one thing that makes smart people act dumb, its jealousy. When people are caught in its clutches, they forget every other bracha in their lives. Nothing is as important as what the other guy has, whether it be money, happiness, or kavod.The good news is that jealousy is surprisingly easy to work on. Because its so irrational and illogical, clear thinking is all it takes to neutralize it.This Shmuz will give you the hashkafos you need to quell that green-eyed monster once and for all, put you on the path to conquering jealousy forever, leaving you free to really enjoy your life. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 39 minutes, 28 seconds
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#63 - Davening Part I

Plan your life; live your plan. Set goals for yourself; follow through with them.Davening by rote is nothing less than selling yourself short. HASHEM and only HASHEM has the power to provide you with whatever you want or need. So why rush through davening in one big mumble? The trick to planning your life effectively is in when you plan it. First and foremost, you have to understand yourself.With humor and apt mashalim, this first of a three-part Shmuz is just the thing to put life back into your davening. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 52 minutes, 59 seconds
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#53 - I hate Criticism

Youre always late. Why cant you ever be neat? You bounced another check, whats wrong with you It seems that whether we are dealing with children, parents, siblings, coworkers or employees, there is so much that needs improvement, that we cant help but comment. In fact, these lines slip out of our mouths so easily, that often we dont even know we are saying them! Of course, we only say them in the hope of influencing behavior and affecting change Yet they never seem to work. For some strange reason, not only dont these comments cause people to improve, they seem to backfire. In this Shmuz we are brought to focus on the concept that, not only is criticism counterproductive, it actually eats away at the root of all successful relationships- that sense of trust and approval that we humans so crave. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 14 seconds
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#64 - Davening Part II

Davening is an amazingly powerful tool, and any of us can use it. Hashem loves us so much, its as though He cant resist our prayers. Yet somehow, most of us dont believe it. We think were too small to be noticed or that if we ask for too much, its kvetching. Nothing could be further from the truth.This Shmuz gives us a taste of just how much HASHEM loves us. With that clear in your mind, youll be more enthused about davening than ever before. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 42 minutes, 44 seconds
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#71 - Chesed-Being Like HASHEM

One of the most detailed sections in Torah is the description of Avraham Avinus chesed to the three angels. Posuk after posuk tells us the minutiae of how Avraham served his guests. But of all his spiritual accomplishments, what is so great about this one? Why does the Torah give it so much attention? The answer is that chesed is the closest means we have of emulating HASHEM. HASHEM is the ultimate Giver. He gave us life and all the brachos that come with it. Avraham knew this, so he cherished every opportunity to do chesed. And the Torah wants us to absorb that lesson.Believe it or not, each of us can be like Avraham. Weve got it in our genes. We just have to keep our eyes open for opportunities.This Shmuz will show you how to move away from self-centeredness and into other-centeredness. Not only will you become a better oved HASHEM, your life will be more satisfying, too. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 39 seconds
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#82 - Why Me? Understanding Suffering

Nobody gets through this life without some suffering. Some people suffer tragedies, others just stress and discomfort, but no matter the nature of the pain, it comes with a Divine purpose. Suffering, when viewed correctly, deepens you and makes you a better, more sensitive person. Unfortunately, its possible to completely miss HASHEMs message. A person can suffer pain and not even grow from it. That is the worst kind of suffering - pain without meaning. Its only natural to want to minimize pain, but since some is inevitable, the wise person prepares himself to face it. This Shmuz gives you the mindset you need to extract the Divine lessons in every type of suffering. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 37 minutes, 7 seconds
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#85 - MOTIVATION!

Success may be sweet, but to get there, you need motivation. When things are going swimmingly, motivation comes naturally. But when you hit those inevitable rough spots, you need an extra boost. Where do you get it, especially when youre in a rut? How can you get motivated when you just arent? Motivation works on the positive side and the negative. You can motivate yourself by visualizing your dreams or you can give yourself a little kick by imagining your worst fears. Both ways work; you just need to know when to apply which. This Shmuz will teach you how to be your own cheering committee so youll always be motivated to tackle the big challenges of life. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 43 minutes, 26 seconds
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#83 - The Moon Was Jealous, Understanding the Forces of Nature

The Midrash that tells us that the moon was jealous of the sun is much more than a mashal for kids. It contains deep and spiritual messages about how HASHEM runs the world, but it takes a mature mind to grasp them. The world is far more complex than meets the eye. To really understand it, you need a spiritual microscope. This Shmuz, drawing on the teachings of the Rishonim as well as modern science, provides that spiritual microscope. The stories of your childhood wont seem so childish anymore. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 43 minutes, 43 seconds
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#68 - People Skills

Getting along with people is the single most important of all life skills. Good human relations are the key to running a successful business, having a loving marriage, and above all, to raising happy kids. Because people skills are so essential, this Shmuz offers something unique: a mini-course in social relations. With these basics under your belt, youll become more than just well-liked; youll be more effective in achieving your goals. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 12 seconds
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#75 - The Art of Appreciation

We live in times of unmatched wealth and comfort. People now live in more ease and luxury than at any other time in history. So why is there so much unhappiness? Why do the rich and famous seem to be the least happy of all? The trouble is that we take all this good for granted. And worse, we forget that HASHEM granted it. This Shmuz trains us in the fine art of appreciation. Just by thinking about any single benefit of this world, youll find plenty of reasons to be happy with life. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 30 seconds
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#77 - Man Based Morality

Whenever we follow our own desires, we mess up. Even when we act with the best of intentions, we mess up. High-minded ideologies have failed time and time again. History is chock-full of examples. Theres a very good reason why man-based morality consistently fails. We humans are imperfect. We cant possibly see all the consequences to our actions. This Shmuz reminds us of the one and only way to make sure that your good intentions bring good results: by sticking with the tried and true morality of Torah. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 50 seconds
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#69 - Yitzias Mitzraim- A War of Ideology

When we look at Pharaoh and his pagan beliefs, we usually write him off as primitive. The same goes for all idol worshippers. But surprisingly, they were tuned into spiritual secrets we modern folks tend to ignore. They just made one fatal error.Modern science isnt all that different. Scientists have uncovered some astounding facts of nature. But for all their sophistication, some of their beliefs are downright silly.For Pesach or for all year round, this Shmuz brings home the war of ideas between Pharaoh and Moshe and the war of ideas we face today. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 51 minutes, 51 seconds
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#79 - Reward & Punishment

Reward and punishment is not a matter of HASHEM giving a potch to a rasha and making nice to a tzaddik. Each persons cheshbon is meted out with fine precision, sometimes over generations. Its so complex we cannot begin to fathom it. But theres one thing we can understand: our actions, whether for the good or the bad, have a forceful impact. By giving us a glimpse into the vast orchestrations of reward and punishment, this Shmuz will leave you awed not only by HASHEMs power, but by the power He gives each one of us. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 22 seconds
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#73 - Self Respect - The Basis of it All

Too many of us are familiar with inner chatter, the little voice that constantly says, Youre no good. Youre a failure. Everything you touch turns to mud.If only we could learn to shut that inner chatter off! Its blocking us from reaching our full potential!Shutting it off may not be easy, but its definitely possible. The first success will boost you forward with the speed and strength of a runaway train.No quick fix for self esteem, this Shmuz goes to the core, highlighting the tzelem Elokim in each of us. The tools for reaching great heights are already in your hands. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 45 minutes, 22 seconds
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#74 - D'Vaykus in Our Times

Falling in love is the most pleasurable and powerful experience most of us will have in our lifetimes. And it comes so naturally, too. Just look at any chosson and kallah.Loving Hashem takes more effort, but the reward can be even greater. After all, His love is all-powerful.Lofty as it sounds, we can all achieve dvaykus with HASHEM. This Shmuz shows us how to turn that spiritual goal into practical reality. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 42 minutes, 35 seconds
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#76 - Asking Advice-Second Torah Retreat

Making decisions is a challenge for many of us. Some people stall themselves into inaction. But more often, people just jump into things without thinking them through. The younger you are, the more likely you are to do this. But rushing into things is no way to live your life. Chances are, all youll end up with is regrets. And thats why each of us needs the advice of someone older and wiser a rabbi or mentor. This Shmuz, with its amazing and even eerie stories, proves that seeking daas Torah is the most intelligent decision you can make. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 54 seconds
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#70 - Onah-The Torah's Sensitivity to Another's Pain

Often we think of onaas devorim of not saying cruel things to people as referring to big things, like tearing someone down in public. In reality, its much more subtle. People hurt each other with callous remarks all the time. And usually, they didnt even mean to.Those callous remarks cost. Even when we forget what weve said, our victims dont, and neither does HASHEM. He makes sure well feel the after-effect one way or other.This Shmuz will heighten your sensitivity to your fellow human beings and keep you from stumbling into the ever-present trap of saying the wrong thing. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 46 minutes, 13 seconds
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#80 - Its Never Too Late

We put up many resistances to teshuva. The simplest one is denial. Ive never done anything wrong. But deep down, we know its a lie, so guilt festers, perking up at odd moments to tell us, Who do you think you are doing mitzvos? Youre a slime and a faker. Stop pretending to be holy. With all these obstacles, it could almost seem that teshuva is impossible. But it isnt. You just have to take it in small, steady steps. With inspiring mussar for Elul, the Yomim Noraim, or even an ordinary day, this Shmuz will show you that its never to late to change. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 46 minutes, 25 seconds
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#78 - Kiddush HASHEM

Making a kiddush Hashem isnt just about the big things like sacrificing ones life for the sake of a mitzvah its something we can do every day. Ultimately, every Jew is a billboard for Torah. When we behave properly, we have a ripple effect on the people around us. Our simple mitzvos make the world a better place. Its a heavy responsibility, but also a rewarding challenge. This Shmuz shows how your honesty and courtesy have the power to transform you, your family and friends, and even total strangers. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 43 seconds
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#84- Why Me

Why me? Why now? Its too much. I cant take it anymore! Weve all said it when the going gets rough. The trials of life really can seem unbearable at times. But the moment you think youre down for the count is the moment to turn to HASHEM even if youre angry at Him. This Shmuz gives you the chizuk you need to get through all the rough spots on the roller coaster of life. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 38 minutes, 28 seconds
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#81 - All For My People

Loving our fellow Jews is a beautiful concept, but really feeling one with them often seems far-removed from real life. Its fine in theory, but in practice? Its hard to do in the cold and indifferent 21st century. The story of Yonah is the prime example of ahavas Yisrael. He risked his life and his Olam Habo, all for the love of the Jewish people. And while we cant be on that level, this Shmuz will give us practical applications for that all-important mitzvah, the klal gadol of the Torah. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 42 minutes, 46 seconds
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#72 - Respecting Others - The Students of Rebbe Akiva

Respect is the basis of all good human relations, but do we really give others their due? We know that every human is a tzelem Elokim, but how often do we think about that when were talking to our friends? Do we even remember it with our spouses?With stories of the gedolim, including some to make you laugh, this Shmuz shows how respect can work magic in your relationships. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 52 minutes, 39 seconds
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#86 - To Tell the Truth

Were surrounded by falsehood. We dont believe our leaders, and we know that all the ads bombarding us are lies. Were so used to it, we accept as normal. Tzaddikim dont do that. Lies are anathema to them. They live by their word. Once upon a time, everyone lived that way. Truth and honor meant something, not just to tzaddikim, but to ordinary people. This Shmuz shows how you, an ordinary person in a world full of lies, can rise above it all and live a life of truth. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 40 minutes, 53 seconds
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#96 - Purim III-Seize the Moment

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3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 37 seconds
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#88 - Chanukah - The Effect of Outside Influences

The nisayon in the times of Chanukah was clear: fight for Torah or succumb to Greek culture. During the Spanish Expulsion, the nisayon was also clear: leave Spain as a Jew or convert and remain comfortable. What is the nisayon in our times? Our lives are no longer threatened. We enjoy tremendous wealth and freedom. What could be wrong? Make no mistake. Modern-day culture is insidiously breaking down morality. Each of us must be on our guard. If you ever wondered if there was a Divine purpose for Elvis Presley, the Beatles, and Mick Jagger, then this Shmuz is for you. Beware of the crushing of a few idols. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 50 minutes, 7 seconds
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#97 - Living the Good Life

We all want to live "the good life." Big homes, money in the bank, vacations, and luxury. The trouble is that these things never seem to satisfy. Anyone who spends his life acquiring them finds himself wanting more and more. Perhaps "the good life" isn't so good, after all.So what is "the good life?" It comes from living life in balance, from fulfilling your mission on this planet.By breaking down human nature into its basic components, this Shmuz shows how good, happy, and productive lives are possible for everybody - and that includes you. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 38 minutes, 38 seconds
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#103 Torah Study - The Key To It All

Everyone wants to grow. There isn't a person alive who doesn't want to grow; in fact this drive to grow is natural to the human. The problem is that we often find ourselves stuck. Even if we fully understand the gravity of our actions, even if we truly understand who it is that we can become-- it is difficult to change.Yet the Torah expects us to change, to grow, to become a better person. The question is how? How do I get the strength, the motivation, the push to actually move myself from where I am to where I would like to be? Chazal teach us that the key to personal growth is Torah study -- but not just Torah study, specifically, toiling in Torah. The process of learning Torah in depth, learning Torah with exertion, is the greatest firepower to empower a person to grow. This is a very good Shmuz for reenergizing our personal Torah Study. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 36 seconds
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#100 - Keeping The Dream Alive

Everyone has dreams. It's a healthy part of human nature. Our dreams give meaning to our lives, motivate us to get out of bed in the morning, and keep us going day in and day out. But there's a difference between dreaming of making mega-millions and dreaming of making a difference in the world. This Shmuz teaches us how to fine-tune our dreams so we can transform our lives from the ordinary to the truly extraordinary. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 42 minutes, 7 seconds
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#98 - The Power of Positive Thinking

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3/9/2019 • 47 minutes
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#92 - TACT

How can a different perspective of speech and my actions sometimes so drastically make a difference between success and failure. Tact is a careful consideration of the feelings and values of another so as to create harmonious relationships with a reduced potential for conflict or offense. It is a virtue. It is the ability to induce change or communicate critical and sometimes hurtful information without offending through the use of consideration, compassion, kindness, and reason. A tactful person can tell you something you don't want to hear and you will be thankful for the information when they are finished.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 38 minutes, 55 seconds
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#99 - Men are from Mars

Men and women are inherently different, in the way that they approach issues and concepts and ideas, and in the very way that they think, speak, behave and feel. Even more significantly socially, emotionally, psychologically men and women are worlds apart What they value, aspire for, and need is starkly differentIt is almost as if they are from different planets. Yet they are expected to live together in peace and harmony. A young man and a young woman are expected to meet, total strangers, then after a short courtship, are expected to come to together in the closest of all human bonds, soul mates, sharing their lives.This Shmuz deals with some of the most basic differences between men and women, the systems HASHEM has created to allow couples to bond and live in harmony, and offers some techniques couples can use that are constructive to a harmonious, lasting relationship. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 4 seconds
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#102 - Learning to Love HASHEM

When we speak about Love of HASHEM, we normally think of some sort of elusive, vague concept. Yet not only are we commanded to Love HASHEM, the Torah describes this as something that will be effective in preventing one from taking revenge. How is it possible for a regular person to actually love HASHEM, and feel that emotion so strongly that it will actually change his behaviour? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 29 seconds
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#105 - Understanding Life Settings PART II

We are taught over and over again that HASHEM is merciful and kind. We are taught that many times more that a Mother loves her child, HASHEM loves everyone one of his creations. Yet when we look around the world we live in there are many features that just don't make sense. There is pain and suffering. There are hurricanes and tornadoes. There are diseases and ailments; there are orphans, widows and divorce. If we also accept that HASHEM is all- knowing then we understand that all of these features are part of the design that HASHEM had for this world they weren't by accident- they were part of the plan.How are we to understand all of the suffering and misfortune that seems to be deliberately designed into the world? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 50 seconds
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#89 - Malbin Pnei Chavero

We've all have felt the pain of embarrassment, and we understand the seriousness that the Torah ascribes to not causing a friend pain-- Yet it seems that it happens anyway. Granted we don't intend it, but it happens anyway. In this Shmuz we are introduced to a new understanding of the gravity that the Torah ascribes to not embarrassing a fellow man, and the sensitivity we need to develop to another person's pain. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 42 minutes, 7 seconds
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#104 - Parenting 101

We hear a lot about the importance of good parenting techniques, and while these are essential to learn, it seems that there is more to being a great parent then being able to relate well to child. After all, there are many individuals who have good people skills yet make lousy parents. In this Shmuz we are introduced to the amazing concept that Sarah Imanu wasn't ready to be a parent to Yitzchak until she was 90 years of age-- despite her personal greatness, she wasn't quite there yet. From this we come to understand that the true essence of great parenting is being a great person - the type of person that can guide a child on their path in life. Which then leads us to the critical question: how can I, a regular person, become that great person that my children and grandchildren will want to emulate? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 46 minutes, 37 seconds
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#93 - Shabbos - Foundation of our Emunah

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3/9/2019 • 51 minutes, 44 seconds
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#95 - Time Management

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3/9/2019 • 53 minutes, 6 seconds
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#87 - SELF CONTROL

Most of us are wimps. If you dont believe it, ask yourself what you do when faced with a choice between doing what you want and doing what you should. The nisyonos are different for everybody, but how many of us can claim to be masters over our desires? How many of us have real inner strength, real self-control? Just like a body builder develops his strength in small increments, we develop inner strength step by step. This Shmuz clues you in to the strategies you need to trounce your weaknesses once and for all. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 29 seconds
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#90 - Torah Lishmah

Since the time we began school the importance of Torah study has been something that weve learnt about and come to understand.  But at the end of the day, it seems to be hard to set up meaningful Sedarim that really last. Why is that? And, what can I do about it? In this Shmuz we are brought to see the value of Torah from the Torahs perspective, and given some practical, hands on, advice as to how to set up realistic Torah study goals, actually reach them.    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 53 minutes, 18 seconds
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#101 - Why Pray

When we speak about Love of HASHEM, we normally think of some sort of elusive, vague concept. Yet not only are we commanded to Love HASHEM, the Torah describes this as something that will be effective in preventing one from taking revenge. How is it possible for a regular person to actually love HASHEM, and feel that emotion so strongly that it will actually change his behaviour? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 41 minutes, 10 seconds
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#94 - On Being Judgmental

Why is it so important not to be judgmental of others?How do you not judge other people's words, ideas and actions even when you don't agree with them? The trick is knowing when to be judgmental, and when to reserve it for later, and when to not judge at all. Every situation needs an independent evaluation. This ability is key in many areas in life especially in relationships.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 45 minutes, 29 seconds
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#91 - I Never Forget

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3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 13 seconds
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#106 - The Power of a Tzibbur

There's strength in numbers. Sports fans tap into it when they cheer on their favorite teams, and lehavdil, the Torah recognizes it by commanding men to daven with a minyan. But why should it be that way? Why did HASHEM create the world in such a way that a group can accomplish more than an individual? This Shmuz uncovers the intense power we tap into simply by connecting ourselves with the community at large.Said At The 3rd Annual Torah Retreat. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 30 minutes, 26 seconds
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#107 - CHAZAK!

Everybody wants to succeed. We want successful careers, successful relationships; we want to be winners at the game of life. But winning takes hard work, and hard work takes single-minded drive. That can be hard to maintain, especially when the going gets tough.This Shmuz looks at the amazing success stories of champion athletes and underdogs who beat the odds, teaching us where we can find the inner strength to reach the heights HASHEM set up for us.Said At The 3rd Annual Torah Retreat. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 43 minutes, 12 seconds
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#118 - Daas Torah

When we have medical questions, we go to our doctor. When we have legal questions, we go to our lawyer. When we have financial questions, we go to our accountant. But who do we go to when we have "life questions"? Who do we approach when we have the really big deal questions -- questions that shape our future and the future of our families?  Since the time we were in Yeshiva we have been taught the answer: Da'as Torah -- We consult our Rebbeim.  But the problem is that most of us don't have a Rebbe. Most of us find ourselves davening in one shul maybe another If we had a connection to a Rebbe in our Yeshiva days, we have long since lost contact with him. The Rov of the Shul I daven in, may be a big Talmid Chacham, but I have little to do with him So who do I turn to? This Shmuz address this very real problem in our communities. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 53 minutes, 56 seconds
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#125 - Business Ethics

HASHEM created man with an innate sense of morality and an inborn need to do what is right and proper. One of the difficulties of acting ethically is that in the slippery slope of life that sense of right and wrong becomes dulled. It seems that in the business world this is more clearly felt, where the lines between what is considered honest and moral, and what isn't, quickly get blurred. In the post Enron era, when much of the business community is checking its moral compass, isn't it time for us, The Chosen Nation, to make sure that we are living our lives in accordance with the Torah's standards? In this Shmuz we are introduced to an overview of what the Torah considers the ethical approach for business dealings, and how to conduct our day to day affairs. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 56 minutes, 29 seconds
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#124 - Life is Like a Box of Chocolates

Do you ever get the sense that there is always something going on -- If it's not one thing it's another. Just when you have finally gotten one area of your life under control, from out of nowhere a whole new issue, a whole new problem, or a whole new crisis pops up -- and now a completely different set of difficulties have to be dealt with. Why is this? Why can't life just be simple? Why can't HASHEM just allow me to go about my business, work on myself, and use this life for its intended purpose? In this Shmuz we are introduced to a perspective on the various situations that befall a person, and why in fact they are a necessary, integral, part of life. A highly recommended Shmuz for understanding life, and the point of view necessary to make sense out of the "things" that just seem to keep on happening.  podcast  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 15 seconds
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#115 - Preparing For Yom Kipper

While Yom Kippur is known as the day of forgiveness, there are two other issues a person should be focusing on during this day: Praying for all of their needs in the coming year, and asking themselves that key question: is the life that I am leading, in fact the life I wish to be leading. This Shmuz focuses us on the importance of all three issues, and gives us some powerful motivation to use the day to its fullest. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 14 seconds
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#112 - Chesed - The Essence of Judaism

We know that HASHEM is more kindly that any human being that we can imagine. HASHEM created this entire world with fantastic love and concern strictly to give to man. We also know that HASHEM created many features in this world, specifically to give man more enjoyment. So why don't I see it? Why don't I see the Chessed of HASHEM? Why can't I simply open my eyes and be awed by the fantastic amount of chessed, pure kindliness that HASHEM has invested in this world? In this Shmuz we focus on a concept of projection. That more a person lives a life of doing for others, the more they are can appreciate what others do for them, and the more they are able to sense kindliness. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 38 seconds
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#110 - Becoming a Great Individual

Each individual was created with different strengths and weakness -- One is wise and the other is capable, one has great physical strength, and the other has a strong mental capacity. One is a financial wizard but can't fix his car, the other is a great Talmid Chacham but can't balance his checkbook. Some people can paint, some can speak, some can play the piano, some can create, some can sing and some can write poetry each person has his or her own unique ability. This Shmuz focuses on the concept that each individual was created with the potential for greatness -- but not all individuals have the potential to be great in the same areas. As there are different aptitudes, talents and gifts, there are different expectations from each person. One of the keys to leading a successful life is to find my personal strengths, develop them, and use them to accomplish great things. At the end of my days "They" will ask me if I became a great person, but not a great person as judged by the criteria of you, or any other individual -- the question will be did I use my abilities, gifts and talents to become the great individual that I could have become. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 38 seconds
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#116 - GROWTH

Every human needs to grow -- this is an inborn trait in the species. That trait either manifests itself in real, significant growth or it can be sublimated, channeled into other pursuits. When we watch people chase all types of new plateaus and never being satisfied when they attain them: The man who is constantly seeking to make more money, even though he already has far more than he can spend in his lifetime; the king who goes to war to expand his boundary, even though his monarchy is safe and secure, these are manifestations of the need for growth, incorrectly channeled. This need stems from the Nishoma of man, his soul. Man was placed on this planet exactly for that purpose -- to grow. If man fills his soul's needs, then he is satisfied, and finds peace, if he doesn't, then he has this unmet need and desire within him that plagues and haunts him, demanding its fill. If that fulfillment can't be attained with real growth then it demands its fill with something, anything, as long as it takes away that gnawing sense of "I am wasting my life". This Shmuz introduces us to some of the most basic factors in the functioning of a human being, and helps us understand exactly what it is that man needs to attain happiness. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 43 minutes, 13 seconds
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#123- Chanukah - Whose Side Are You On?

Chanukah centers on the ideological battle of two cultures: The hedonistic Yevanim (Greek / Syrian) Culture waging war against the Torah ideals -- the battle not being fought for the physical survival of the Jewish nation, but rather for its ideology and way of life. We, today, live in very different times. We are no longer downtrodden and subjugated to oppressive regimes -- we are free to choose our lifestyle. And so, not only does Torah learning flourish at unprecedented levels, we have also created our own insular culture, and the Jewish nation even in exile, has fashioned its own way of life. We have our own neighborhoods and schools, we have our own shopping districts and clothing styles, we even have our own novels, music and daily newspapers. So it seems that we have won the cultural war - there are no Yevanim influences in our world -- and as such the message of Chanukah has little to offer us. Unfortunately, this rosy picture is far from reality. This Shmuz explores some of the inroads that "foreign ways" have found even into the finest Torah homes, and identifies the ideological battleground of our time. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 11 seconds
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#109 - MACHLOKES! The Damage of Conflict

The Torah calls us a stiff necked people. It seems to be part of our very nature --put two Jews together and you get three opinions.So how it is possible for us to live in harmony, as individuals, as families and certainly as communities? We certainly understand the damage of conflict, and unfortunately many of us have felt first hand, the powerful downward spiral that occurs when human beings live in a state of strife. The question is on a practical level, what can I do about this? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 37 seconds
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#120 - Thrift

Never before in the history of mankind, has so much been available to so many. Even in recent times the earning power and discretionary income of the average US citizen has increased dramatically. The typical American worker today earns far more than he did back in the 1950's. Yet, the rate of savings has decreased fourfold since that time. Even more troubling, consumer debt has increased exponentially (far outpacing the rate of inflation or cost of living increases) to the point that for many, credit card debt has become a fact of life they never see themselves getting out of it. Why is it that we are earning more and more, yet finding ourselves deeper and deeper in debt?  This Shmuz explores the Torah's approach to personal money matters, and gives us a solid approach to financial stability. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 54 minutes, 21 seconds
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#114 - Creating a Balanced Self Esteem

In todays culture there is great emphasis on Self Esteem. Countless studies and reports claim that the basis of success is a good strong sense of self. Does the Torah agree? Are there exceptions to this rule? Is self esteem really that integral to becoming a great person? And if, in fact, I need to have a high self esteem to reach my potential as an individual, how can that be balanced with the concept of being humble? High self esteem translates into thinking that I am very important; humility manifests itself into thinking that I am not important. Arent these two concepts in utter contradiction? In this Shmuz we are introduced to the correct source of self esteem, its importance in success, and the formula for finding the balance between a good strong sense of self and a healthy sense of humility. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 46 minutes, 19 seconds
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#108 - Servant of HASHEM

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3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 33 seconds
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#121 - EMES - The Whole Truth

Politicians lie, lawyers lie, salesmen lie -- but we are honest, moral people and we don't lie... Unfortunately, the reality is that the world we live in affects us, and lies - sometimes little ones, sometimes bigger ones, tend to seep into and become part of our lives. Reb Yisroel Salanter defines lying as "Saying words with our mouth that our heart knows aren't true". Using this as our gauge of Emes, we may well find that we bend the truth a bit more often than we would care to admit. This Shmuz introduces us to the Torah's definition of Emes, and aids us in becoming more honest in all of our dealings. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 6 seconds
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#113 - Tshuvah - Two Elements of Sin

As we come close to Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, we focus on the idea that Torah expects us to do Teshuva. Yet for most of us, while in a theoretical sense we understand that there are areas in which we could improve, in our real mode of being, we don't seem to feel that we really sin. When we go to Shul on Yom Kippur morning, it is rare to find the person who walks in with this sense of the magnitude of his sins and the fierce determination to get rid of them. For most of us, we come to daven, we try to focus on what we can do to improve, but the idea of heart felt remorse and repentance just doesn't seem to fit in.In this Shmuz we are brought to focus on the severity of a sin and its grave consequences, and our ability to use the system of Teshuva to rid them from our essence. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 45 minutes, 28 seconds
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#119 - Bris Milah

The Jewish contribution to the cultural, scientific, and technological evolution of civilization is nothing short of astounding. Whether in academics, politics, the media, or the professions -- from curing polio to discovering atomic energy, from Hollywood to Wall Street-- Jews have had an extraordinary influence on culture and human progress. Between 1901 and 2006, 23% of all Nobel Prizes worldwide, were awarded to Jews. In the 20th century, 37% of all United States Nobel Prizes were awarded to Jews. (Even though Jews make up less than a quarter of a percent of the world population, and less than 2% of the US population!) The question is why? Why is it that such a miniscule percentage of the population can have such a profound influence - even effecting areas not known to be Jewish, areas like literature, art, theater and music? This Shmuz explores some of what make Jews unique, and allows him to find exceptional success in all of his endeavors. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 34 seconds
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#111 - Sustaining Spiritual Growth

Any level of spiritual growth comes with a lot of hard work and perseverance. Oftentimes it takes months or years to change my outlook on life, and to bring my value system in line with the Torahs values. Now that I have invested the time, energy and effort, and I have reached a certain level of understanding, how do I maintain it? How do I keep up the growth that I have attained? This Shmuz offers us the Torah's system for preserving spiritual growth, and making the changes that we have effected in ourselves permanent. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 39 minutes, 10 seconds
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#117 - OPTIMISM

Optimism is one of the most essential ingredients in a successful life: Without optimism the world is bleak, dreary place - Life stinks then you die. And even if there is some meaning and purpose in my existence, the odds of my succeeding at it are very slim, considering that bad things are far more likely to befall me than good. An Optimist on the other hand, looks upon the world as a positive place. People and events are inherently good, things will work out in the end - They have a positive outlook on life. Yet there is a sense of realism that demands questioning such an outlook. After all, many bad things do happen: businesses go bankrupt, people get sick, and everyone must die at sometime. Doesn't an optimistic outlook on life run counter to intelligence? How can a person maintain a sense of optimism when often times it is counterintuitive? This Shmuz deals with the issue of balancing an objective, calculated view of life with optimism, and some practical techniques towards adopting a more optimistic view point. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 41 minutes, 42 seconds
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#122 - Parenting 102

For thousands of years parenting was a pretty straight forward responsibility. Society offered very structured guidelines for behaviors and expectations: Adult's roles were well defined, children's roles were clearly delineated, and throughout the strata of the community everyone knew his place. In terms of practical parenting, new parents had their own parents as guideposts and role models, and the techniques to use were time tested and proven - to fit that world. However, we live in very different times. We live in an open society. Man has social freedoms that never existed before, in terms of opportunities for education - social advancement - increase in income - where to live and what to do - there are almost no boundaries. Yet,  this new found freedom comes with a cost: gone are the norms of social conduct, gone is the family structure, and gone are the role models for socially acceptable behaviors. And, so, we now find ourselves in uncharted waters in the role of parents, without having a clear and definitive path as to "how to parent". This Shmuz, the second on the topic of parenting, deals with the primary role of the parent, and some practical "how to"s in term of fulfilling that role. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 11 seconds
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#136 - I'm Never Wrong

There is much truth in the adage: There are three sides to every story, your side, my side and the truth. And, even though I fully understand that you might be making a valid point, as soon as we get into an argument, I can no longer even see your side because, of course, I'm right. Why is that? We all make mistakes. That is part of being human. And while I certainly can accept that you make mistakes, it becomes very difficult to accept that I may be wrong. In theory I accept that as a human I err, but when it comes down to real life situations, I just seem never to be wrong. This Shmuz focuses on why it is that we humans have a blind spot when it comes to seeing our own faults, and helps us with some techniques to change that natural propensity. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 4 minutes, 16 seconds
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#131 - Working For A Living

We know that we were put on this planet for a few short years, to shape ourselves into who we will be for eternity. HASHEM has created this world specifically to give us the chance to mold our inner essence. We also know that the Torah and its mitzvahs are the greatest vehicles of self perfection. If so, one of the questions that a thinking person must ask themselves is, why do we need work? HASHEM is quite capable of creating a world where all of man's needs are met. Yet, not only do we labor, it seems that majority of our life is spent earning a living. Why would HASHEM want that to be? If the entire purpose of life is to allow us to grow in spirituality, wouldn't those goals have been better met by putting us in a world where all of our physical needs were met, and then we would have the time and energy to focus on perfecting ourselves? This Shmuz addresses one of the most basic questions a Jew must ask himself: Why does HASHEM want us to work for a living? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 51 seconds
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#133 - ReJEWvinate

One of the tools of highly successful people is the ability to stay focused and motivated over long periods of time. Whether in sports, academics, or business, the effort and consistency needed to accomplish long term goalsrequires a high level of motivation and the ability to renew excitement and enthusiasm. Often the difference between a person who reaches great heights and a person who doesn't is the persons self awareness and ability to marshal the inner resources to stay on top of the game. In religion, , we also need the same set of skills to maintain a high level of enthusiasm and focus to prevent our daily actions from becoming merely robotic. In this Shmuz we are focused on one of the Torah's techniques for staying motivated-- ReJewvinating. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 45 seconds
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#132 - PURIM: Being Human

One of the most difficult character traits to work on is humility. Not only is it considered the most pervasive of the all of the middos, it is the most misunderstood. On one hand, we are obligated to appreciate the greatness of the human, yet on the other, we must remain humble. One technique to help identify the trait and its pathology is to see it in its extreme. Using the story of Megillas Esther as a backdrop, and particularly some of foibles of Haman, we are able to witness arrogance in its extreme, and thereby find its cure: the understanding that I am a human. This is a highly recommended Shmuz for working on the trait of humility, as well as a good preparation for Purim. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 54 minutes, 10 seconds
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#134 - PARENTING 103: Setting Limits

If you were to poll our community, the average parent would admit we probably give our children too much. And while this sentiment may not be clearly spoken out by young parents, once children hit the teen age years, most parents upon reflection would say : I wish we had been more firm with them when they were younger; Weve probably spoiled them; They would have been better off, had they not be given quite so much  We live in permissive times, and parents seem almost afraid to say the word no to their children. Yet intuitively, we understand that we are injuring our children by not being firm, by not setting limits, and following through with consequences when they go past those limits. The challenge for parents is to find the balance between letting our children know that we love them unconditionally and setting limits and educating them in our expectations.  Using the backdrop of some of the most famous personalities in all of history for reference, the Medrash presents to us some of the foundations of effective parenting.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 42 seconds
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#128 - Kiruv: The Message & The Medium

In 1996 Gordon and Horowitz published a study entitled Will your grandchildren be Jewish? Their conclusion: if one were to view the Jewish Nation as a totality, based on ever decreasing birth rates and skyrocketing intermarriage rates, the odds of any Jews being left by the end of the 21 st century are slim to none. However, one category stands out in stark relief -- the Orthodox. Based on their average birth rate of between 4-6 children per family, and their intermarriage rate of less than 3%, they are burgeoning and ever increasing. We should expect that by the end of this century the Jewish Nation will be alive and vibrant, however strictly Orthodox. The only question that remains is of those Jews alive today: How many will make it themselves, and how many of their grandchildren will be Jewish. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 58 minutes, 8 seconds
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#130 - Living With Bitachon

We know that everything is from HASHEM. We also know that we must do our part-- our Hishtadlus. In theory it is easy to find the balance-- I must act in the way of the world, yet knowing all the while that HASHEM runs everything. One of the great challenges of life is actually personifying that tightrope walk between Bitachon and proper Hishtadlus. How hard should I be working? How seriously should I take the medical reports and new findings? When is it appropriate for me to say, "I have done my part, now it is in HASHEM's hands"? Drawing on some very inspiring examples of perfect Bitachon, this Shmuz helps us put our belief system into practice. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 23 seconds
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#135 - Imagination: The Devils Playground

Eleanor Roosevelt has been credited with saying, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." The reality is that most of the battles that we fight are based on complex constructions -- created by us. Whether they be issues of misunderstanding other's motives, or our fight with passions and desire, or understanding our place in the universe - our fights and battles are very real to us. Yet, when you try to explain them to others we often find, many people can't even identify with the challenge nor understand the temptation. This Shmuz focuses on the fight of our generation, and the very powerful psychological forces that help create the fever- pitched battle that it is. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 57 seconds
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#127 - Breaking The Forces of Habits

We are creatures of habit -- we act by habit, we react by habit and, to a large extent, we even think by habit. And, in truth, it has to be that way. If we didn't act based on previously established patterns of behavior, life would be unmanageable. If every time we turned a corner we would have to think through the actions involved, our entire mind's focus would be on navigating the basics of living, with no upper brain room left for thinking. For that reason, HASHEM gave us this ability to put things on auto pilot, doing many activities without even giving them a second thought, thereby leaving us the ability to free our mind for more important things.While this reality is a fact of life, it also brings us face to face with one of the core realities of growth: our habits determine who we are and what we become. Assuming that some of my habits are in my best interest and some aren't, the question then becomes, "How do I change".This Shmuz helps us identify those habits that affect us, and then defines the strategies necessary to change them.            In this Shmuz we are introduced to the vital obligation upon every Jew to be involved in Kiruv, and some practical understandings as to how easy it for everyone, not just the Kiruv professional, to have a profound effect on the people around us. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 25 seconds
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#126 - Dignity of Man

While there is much talk today about the importance of self esteem and its effect on a person's attitudes and accomplishments, there is a corollary benefit of understanding the greatness of man -- If I am obligated to respect myself because I was created in the image of HASHEM, then so too, I must respect you, because you also were created in that same image. In fact, Ben Azzai teaches us that if a person wants to improve his interpersonal relationships, a concept that will help him even more than Loving one's neighbor as oneself, is this understanding that All men are created in the image of HASHEM. This Shmuz focuses us on the Torah's view of the true dignity of man, and the profound effect that this concept has on our lives. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 1 second
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#129 - HaKaras HaTov: Recognizing the Good

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3/9/2019 • 53 minutes, 8 seconds
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#139 - The Power of Speech

We know that the Torah is very exacting in regards to Loshon Horah: there are 17 negative and 14 positive commandments concerning disparaging speech.  In fact, the Rambam paskens like the Gemara, that the sin of Loshon Horah is worse than the sins of Idol worship; illicit relations, and bloodshed. The question is why? Of all of our activities why does the Torah see fit that this one should be dealt with so severely? What is so egregious, so horrific? After all its only words.. ..This Shmuz deals with the Torah's view of the power of the spoken word, and its effect on human relationships. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 51 minutes, 57 seconds
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#140 - The Arabs and The Jews

The Palestinians have aspirations of political freedom as do every people. Their requests are merely of sovereignty and political rights-- and of course, once they have been granted these, they will live in harmony with their neighbors, recognizing Israel's right to peaceful coexistence. Or will they? An opened minded view of the current situation brings grave doubts to the true desires of the Arabs in general and the Palestinians in particular. This Shmuz focuses on some of the underlying causes of the Arab's attitude towards the Jews, and why Western Culture has such difficulty relating to the core issue. WARNING: If your worldview is shaped by CNN you will find this Shmuz disconcerting. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 58 minutes, 29 seconds
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#150 - Being a Religious Atheist

An atheist is someone who doesnt believe in G-d. A religious person is someone who practices a lifestyle that serves G-d. It would therefore seem obvious that being a religious atheist would be a contradiction in terms. Yet not only isnt this correct, the phenomenon of religious atheists is far more prevalent than we realize. This Shmuz focuses us on some of the bedrock foundations of our religion and some of the strange experiences that result from living a life unexamined. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 45 minutes, 49 seconds
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#149 - The System of Tshuvah

We know that Tshuvah works. The Nivim told us it does, Chazal repeat it many, many times, and we even have Yom Kippur, a day created specifically for tshuvah. The question isn't whether Tshuvah works, but why I don't make use of it? Why is it that I don't stand there on Yom Kippur with tears flowing down my face, repenting, improving, ridding myself of a year's worth of iniquities? It isn't that I don't want to. It isn't even that I don't believe in it. It just seems that I don't feel a need to repent. This Shmuz focuses on the motivation to do Tshuvah and the different parts of the Tshuvah process. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 51 minutes, 47 seconds
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#146 - The Impact of One Mitzvah

I do daven with a minyan. I don't. I do a chesed -- I don't. Does it really matter? Does it really make a difference? Very often we find ourselves thinking what is the big deal? Will my actions really change my life? Will they change my world? Yet every once in a while, we come across a single action that does change the world-- a shot heard around the world. Our natural assumption is that these types of acts are relegated to singular people, living in highly unusual times and circumstance. Yet, Chazal have a different appreciation of the value of a single act. From their vantage point a single mitzvah, accomplished by an ordinary person, is so important, that it exceeds anything we could ever imagine. The question is why? What is the big deal? After all said and done, it was only one Mitzvah, it's not like the entire universe: heaven and earth, are dependent upon that one act.Using HASHEM's answer to, why Nevuchadneser merited becoming one of the most powerful kings in history, as a backdrop, this Shmuz helps us enter Chazal's world view of the impact of even one Mitzvah. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 46 minutes, 46 seconds
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#142 - The Power of Laughter

There are certain life lessons that they don't teach you in school. One of them is the importance of maintaining a sense of humor.  Not only is this one of the key elements for maintaining a sense of balance and joy as we travel through the trials of life, in terms of our relationships with others, a light touch often spells the difference between harmony and strife-love and hate. Focusing on the adage that "He who laughs, lasts.. .." this Shmuz underscores the power of laughter -- a force that improperly used, can cause much harm, but properly utilized is one of the keys to leading a successful life. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 43 minutes, 12 seconds
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#141 - Parenting Part IV - Sibling Rivalry

Since the time of Kain and Hevel, it seems a given that brothers fight. Even in the most refined home, where individuals are polite and respectful, siblings take liberties with each other that they wouldn't dare take with outsiders- it is almost as if an unwritten law permits the torture of siblings. What is even more surprising is that individuals we know, good people, who outside the home are so courteous and caring, act very differently when they are amongst their closest family --   What is even more shocking is when those "People", turn out to be you and I. The question is why? Why does the very closeness and attachment we share with family bring out contention, and what can we do about it? This Shmuz explores some of the forces that drive sibling rivalry, and offers strategies to deal with it, whether in the role of parents or sibling. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 14 seconds
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#143- Stages of Change Part I Denial

The Vilna Gaon tells us that the main reason for life is to change our middos -"If not" he says, "Why should a person have life?"  The difficulty with this mandate is that it means: I have to change. While in theory I may be open to grow -- I may even recognize the many advantage to my life, in practice we humans find it very difficult to change.  Ask a person who has smoked for 20 years, "How easy it is to change?" Ask a person who is 40 lbs overweight, "Don't you want to lose weight?" The reality is that even when we recognize the need to change, actually carrying out the process seems to be a daunting task-and it's not just about willpower.  This is part one of a series of Shmuzin, focusing on the dynamics of change.  Whether my aim is to stop: gambling, over eating, drinking, or improving my character traits; by understanding the different stages, techniques and mental states, that are a necessary part of change, we can be more successful at attaining our goals. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 56 seconds
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#151 - Be Bold, Be Brave

All the great leaders and teachers of the Jewish Nation had faults and flaws. The Torah tells us the shortcomings of Avrohom, Dovid, and Shlomo. More amazingly, the Gemarah tells us that the four men who never sinned aren't counted amongst the greatest of our nation. Why? The reason is simple. HASHEM didn't put us on the planet not to sin. HASHEM created us to act - to accomplish, to change ourselves, to change our world. To do this, we need to stand up for what is right, despite the odds, despite what others will say or think. But where does a person get the courageand strength to do just that: to be bold and be brave? This Shmuz introduces us to one of the basic life outlooks necessary for a person to reach his potential. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 46 seconds
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#147 - Finding G-d

On 12 April 1961, Soviet cosmonaut Yuri Gagarin became the first man in space. Upon his return, he made the famous statement, I have proven that G-d doesnt exist I was in heaven, and I didn't see any God up there." While we may find his logic simple minded, in reality, he makes a valid point. How can the Torah expect us to believe in something that all of our senses deny? We relate to the world through our five senses, yet none of them can perceive the presence of HASHEM. How can a person be expected to see HASHEM when everything he experiences clearly denies HASHEM existence? This Shmuz focuses on how we can come to see HASHEM clearly and experience His presence in our lives. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 30 seconds
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#137 - Being Sensitive

Almost all of the people that we deal with are reasonable, well intentioned individuals. And so too, am I. Yet, in the course of life, there is conflict, hurtful words, vengeful acts And, in that rare moment of self honesty, I realize that everything that happens isn't the "other guys fault". I too, am to blame. There have been situations where I acted in a manner that was cold and callous. There have been times when I acted with cruelty and malice.  The question is why? It's not that I am not a nice guy, I know I am. Yet there are times when that's not the way I act. The question is why would a nice, caring individual act in a manner very inconsistent with that image? And more significantly what can I do about it?This Shmuz focuses us on one of the keys to growing in all human relationships: learning to focus on the Inner Condition how people actually feel, and learning to ignore the Outer Condition the show that people put on to hide what is actually going on in their heart. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 45 minutes, 17 seconds
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#148 - Rich, Richer, Richest - How to be Wealthy

Hot, hotter, hottest. Fast, faster, fastest. In the English language we distinguish between the adjective, a descriptive word, and the superlative, an adjective taken to its extreme. Yet when we think about wealth, that distinction somehow gets lost. If I am not as rich as Bill Gates, then I am not rich. While the Torah does not guarantee that any individual will be wealthy, it does offer a tried and true formula for a person to enjoy riches in this world. This Shmuz focuses on the concept of wealth, appreciation and the concept of being rich. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 23 seconds
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#144 - Stages of Change Part II Support Groups

Recent studies show that in 2004,  there were an estimated 44.5 million adult smokers in the United States, and 70% of them want to quit. Each year, 35% do attempt to stop,  yet only 5% succeed -- clearly change isn't easy. Willpower alone isn't enough. A good program for change alone isn't enough. To make change permanent, we need outside help. Support groups are successful for this very reason.  Weight Watchers reports that people who attend meetings lose  three times as much weight as those who don't. Same program, same motivation. The only difference  is the social component of support.  Our goal as the Chosen Nation is not only to change destructive personal habits, but to change our very natures, our character traits, and our approaches to life -- the type of spouses we are, the type of parents we are, the type of human beings we. Clearly it is a formidable challenge- one that we were given a lifetime to tackle. And  provided we have the motivation, systems and knowledge of how to change, we can accomplish it.   In this second  of a three part series on the mechanisms of change, we focus on  how support systems function and how important they are in making change permanent.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 43 minutes, 2 seconds
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#138 - The Potential and The Present

"Considering where I come from and what I've been through, I'm doing pretty well..." While this may be a comforting position to take, the question a person must ask themselves is: is this really all that I can be? What if I were to stop making excuses? What if I was to truly hold myself accountable to live up to my potential? What if I was to go full blast - how great could I be? This question is essential for growth, but it is also one of our greatest pitfalls. If we don't clearly see how much we are capable of, we cannot chart the course toward our potential. However, with a realistic view of where we are now and a clear understanding of what we could become might lead to depression. This Shmuz focuses us on maintaining a balance between the two views needed for steady growth: a clear understanding of where we are now and a vivid image of what we can be, even if we won't reach those levels for many, many years. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 1 second
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#145 - Stages of Change Part III Taking Action

When a person recognizes that he needs to lose weight, it isn't enough for him to read all the latest diet books and find a great plan - the person has to actually "do it." He has to go on that diet and stick to it. But "doing it" requires motivation, not just the initial motivation to begin, but long-lasting motivation that will withstand the tests of life, allowing changes in behavior to become permanent. Why is it that some people are able to maintain that positive focus and other aren't? Are there techniques for "getting motivated", and maintaining that sense of empowerment? This issue is especially relevant to us, the Chosen Nation. Our mandate is not only to change damaging personal habits, but to change our very nature, our character traits, and our approaches to life -- the types of spouses we are, the types of parents we are, the type of human beings we are.  To do this, we must have a constant source of motivation and drive. Changing our very nature is difficult work. Where does this drive come from? How can we stay that motivated throughout life? In this third part of a three-part series on the mechanisms of change, we focus on using moments of inspiration and learn how to lock them in, so that we give ourselves the constant source of inspiration needed for change. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 52 minutes, 5 seconds
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#159 - 212 Degrees - Just One Degree Hotter

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3/9/2019 • 56 minutes, 54 seconds
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#156 - Get Out of Debt

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3/9/2019 • 58 minutes, 50 seconds
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#157 - Learning to Love Learning

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3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 5 seconds
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#164 I Hate Critic

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3/9/2019 • 34 minutes, 14 seconds
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#165 The Art Of

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3/9/2019 • 41 minutes, 30 seconds
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#154 - PART II Marriage: A Work in Progress

Each one of us stands under the chuppah starry-eyed, knowing full well that we have found eternal love and bliss.Yet, something happens between that moment and real life. The reality is that getting married is easy, but staying married isn't . This Shmuz is Part II of a Marriage series that deals with the essential of creating long lasting Shalom Bayis. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 48 seconds
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#163 Only the Good Die Young

Is there an explanation for a woman in her mid-thirties, the mother of four children, to be struck down by cancer? Does it make sense that a forty-year-old should take a jump shot on a basketball court and die in mid-air? It seems that we are witnessing more and more young people dying. The question is: why? This Shmuz focusing on understanding the reason behind all human suffering. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 34 seconds
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#166: Everybody is doing it

We live in times when society at large has lost its moral compass. Particularly in the United States, once a bastion of family values and morality, we now watch daily as new innovations in decadence and promiscuity pour forth. We can't open a newspaper without being exposed to a new depth of moral decay. Ideas, concepts, and images that wouldn't have been accepted in the most base of publications a generation ago are now common place in the most respected ones. We may be tempted to assume that this doesn't affect us. After all, we are different. We don't buy into the culture of the times. And while we may feel self-assured and secure in our position, the reality is that we are human, so it can't help but affect us. The question is: what can we do about it?This Shmuz explores the influence that society has upon us, and offers practical insights to deal with it. . See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 35 minutes, 1 second
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#152 - In G-d's Image

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3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 46 seconds
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#160 - Purim: Sheep to the Slaughter and Concert Bans

When Adar enters we increase Joy. Yet how can we be happy when we live in such troubling times? From rockets falling daily on S'derot, to the brutal massacre of 8 of our Yeshiva Bochurim in Yeshivat Merkas HaRav -- It has been difficult to feel joy. In the midst of it all many are troubled by the recent ban by Gadolim on a concert in America. This Shmuz attempts to make sense of the events we are living through, and offers a perspective on our times.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 56 minutes, 40 seconds
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#158 -Me & My Big Mouth

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3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 10 seconds
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#167 - Sefiras Ha'Omer Countdown to Ka'balas Ha'Torah

We all know the importance of learning, and we certainly value it in our daily lives. Yet, somehow that sense of significance doesn't always translate into reality. there may be many days that we don't learn as much as we can, and if pushed to the wall, all of us would admit that we could be learning more. But we're not. Why is this? If we claim to truly value Torah, if we admit to its vitality in our lives, how is it that we just don't seem to be learning as much as we know we can. This explores the true motivations to learn and offers some insightful perspectives on increasing our involvement in learning Torah. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 36 minutes, 26 seconds
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#155 - Chanuka: Flexi-dox Judaism

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3/9/2019 • 51 minutes, 24 seconds
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#161 - April 15th: The Test of Emunah

To most of us, April 15th is nothing more than a deadline for filing our personal taxes. But when a person begins thinking about life from a broader perspective, they come to recognize that April 15th is a great test -- It is a test of my beliefs in practice. Do I truly believe that HASHEM runs this world and not I? Do I truly believe that HASHEM determines how much money I am to make this year? Do I somehow believe that I will only get that amount if I bend the rules a bit?And the final test comes when I sign on the words:"Under penalties of perjury, I declare that I have examined this return and accompanying schedules and statements, and to the best of my knowledge and belief, they are true, correct, and complete."Then I face the challenge: Do my actions fit my beliefs? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 54 minutes, 34 seconds
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#168 - Emunah

The Rishonim tell us that the most assured way to come to belief in HASHEM is to look out at the world. When a person sees the beauty of the universe; the conformity of every part working together as a unit, everything so orderly and so reliable--the sun rising every morning exactly at the appointed time; the tides always pulling in the pre-described manner; the forces of nature all so seemingly untamed, yet always performing within a predictable, set pattern; all diverse parts conforming to a master plan--the world itself cries out: there is a Master to this house!Yet, many intelligent, educated individuals look at this very phenomenon, study it, discuss it- and don't see HASHEM. Quite the opposite they attribute it all to some lucky roll of some cosmic dice. All of this wisdom just evolved, the entire plan just happened. How can we reconcile the undeniable evidence of a creator with the reality that many, many people just deny it? And how does it affect our own belief system?This Shmuz explores some of the basics of Emunah, and brings us to a deeper understanding of what causes a person to believe or not believe. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 56 seconds
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#153 - Marriage: A Work in Progress

Each one of us stands under the chuppah starry-eyed, knowing full well that we have found eternal love and bliss.Yet, something happens between that moment and real life. The reality is that getting married is easy, but staying married isn't . This Shmuz is Part I of a Marriage series that deals with the essential of creating long lasting Shalom Bayis. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 41 seconds
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#162 Learning to Care

Of course, he's a nice guy. Everyone is a nice guy. Yet how do you explain all of the pettiness and downright nasty things that people do to one another on an ongoing basis? This Shmuz focuses us on one of the most important functions in a human: learning to truly care about another human being and sharing his plight. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 2 seconds
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#179 The Commitments of a Jew

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3/9/2019 • 37 minutes, 53 seconds
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#185 Responsibility

The adult is mature; the child is immature. The hallmark of the immature is to shirk responsibility; the characteristic of the mature is to take responsibility. While we understand that so much of being an effective human being is based on being responsible, the message that comes to us from society at large is "I'm not responsible," and "It's not my fault." It's almost counter-cultural to be responsible. This Shmuz focuses us on the role that responsibility plays in all of our relationships and its significance in allowing us to reach our potential. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 38 minutes, 54 seconds
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#172 Tisha B'Av 2000 Years Later - Where Are We?

For almost 2,000 years, the Jewish people have been driven from land to land across the globe. Exiled from our home with the destruction of the Bais Hamikdash, we have been forced from continent to continent and country to country - tortured, oppressed, and banished. For a short while, we find haven in one country, only to be kicked out again and chased to the next place in a never-ending series of tragedies. This reality brings many questions: Why is the Jewish people so oppressed? Why is it that the other nations stand up to destroy us in every generation? Why is it that the one universal law of history is that everyone hates the Jew? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 53 minutes, 14 seconds
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#170 Sweet Revenge

The Rishonim tell us that nothing is sweeter then revenge. When a person feels he has been wronged, he waits - scheming and dreaming of ways to even up the score. If this is so instinctive a trait in the human, how can the Torah expect us to eliminate it? And even more significantly, revenge by definition is justified; I am only returning to him what he did to me. Why would the Torah demand that we avoid it? This Shmuz deals with a different perspective on revenge and offers us a vantage point for dealing with many life situations. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 41 minutes, 57 seconds
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#183 With Perfect Faith: Bitachon in Turbulent Times.

For those of us paying bills and trying to make ends meet, dealing with the uncertainty in the marketplace today has become a major issue. This Shmuz deals with the attitude and approach with which to view current events. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 30 seconds
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#171 Don't Sweat the Small Stuff

We all have those moments in life: a demanding boss, difficult people, situations that spin out of control. Learning how to effectively deal with trying circumstances goes a long way towards a happy, successful life.If I am easygoing by nature, the secret to handling these situations is straightforward: follow my temperament. But what if that isn't my natural bent? What if I allow things to get to me? Or what if, over and over again, I just seem to lose it? This Shmuz offers a perspective on life that allow us to more easily deal with the trying moments that come our way. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 43 minutes, 47 seconds
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#182 Tolerating Evil: A Perspective on Recent Events

This Shmuz deals with the attitude and approach that we should have in light of recent events. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 45 minutes, 26 seconds
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#178 To One Person You May Be the Whole World

While we may be aware of the influence that our thoughts and attitudes have on the way that we act, we rarely focus on the effect that we have on others. After all, who am I? Am I so important that I can really change other people? Do my actions really sway them? While this may be true for our relationship with most people, for each of us there are a few individuals on whom we have a profound influence. This Shmuz focuses on the concept that to the whole world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the whole world. By focusing on this, we come to a better understanding of the impact that we have on others and how we can use that opportunity for the best possible results. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 43 minutes, 31 seconds
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#175 Rosh Hashana Prep - Yom Ha Din

"Dip the apple in the honey, have a good sweet new year." We teach our children that touching song, and that is what we all wish for: a good sweet year with bracha and hatzlacha in all that we do. But that often isn't the case. If we look back on previous years we see many things that were sweet, but also things that weren't. Some parts of our lives are downright bitter and we wish they'd never occurred. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 36 minutes, 33 seconds
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#169 Anger Taming the Monster Within

We've all had that moment when we lost it and said something we shouldn't have said -- something we later regretted.The intriguing part is that when the heat of the moment has passed, not only do we feel badly about what was said, often, we can't understand what came over us? "It was like I was possessed or something". This Shmuz #169 Anger- Taming the Monster Within, deals with some of the mechanics of anger in the human, and by understanding why we get furious, we gain insight into what we can do about it. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 38 seconds
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#176 A Diamond with a Flaw

The difference in value between a perfect diamond and an almost-perfect diamond can be a king's ransom. With the same cut, clarity, and color, a flawless ten-carat diamond might be worth two hundred dollars, while a diamond with a tiny flaw can be worth hundreds of thousands of dollars. That's right. The flawed diamond is worth more. Why? Because a completely flawless diamond is a fake. Real diamonds have imperfections. They may be small and almost unnoticeable, but they are flaws all the same. In fact, looking for imperfections is one of the methods professionals use to determine whether a diamond is a real gem or just cubic zirconium. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 33 seconds
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#180 Why We Want Mosiach Now

Since the time that we were young children, we were taught, "We want Moshiach now!" This concept is not the exclusive domain of fringe elements of Jewry; rather, it is a basic tenet of our religion. The Rambam counts it as one of the Thirteen Main Principles, and if one denies it, he is considered a heretic with no portion in the World to Come. And so, we daven for Moshiach. We sing songs about Moshiach. We wait for Moshiach. But do we understand why? Do we understand what it is that we're waiting for? This Shmuz focuses on what life will be like in the times of Moshiach, and why in fact we anxiously await his appearance. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 43 minutes, 53 seconds
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#184- The Galus Mentality

He's got money." "They come from a well-to-do family." "He's a man of means." It is often difficult to sense the influence that society has upon our way of thinking until certain events transpire and bring them to light. The recent financial meltdown is one of those events. It's a chance to see how much we have adopted from outside influences. One of the negative values that we have picked up from the society we live in is rating people by their financial success, where money becomes the sole measure of "making it." It has gotten to the point that for many people, their self-worth is directly tied to their net worth. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 42 minutes, 53 seconds
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#174 The illusion of reality

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#177 Being Grateful

This Shmuz deals with a basic concept in our becoming effective human beings: developing the trait of appreciation. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 39 minutes, 22 seconds
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#173 Children of HASHEM

Am I worthy to ask for even more than what I have been given? Why should HASHEM grant my requests? This Shmuz deals with our relationship with HASHEM, and helps us focus on some basic issues of davening and bitachon. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 40 minutes, 32 seconds
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#181 Emunah in Difficult Times

This Shmuz deals with the attitude and approach that we should have in these trying times. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 46 minutes, 7 seconds
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#194 Tisha B'Av- What we can do to bring the Geulah

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3/9/2019 • 51 minutes, 57 seconds
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#197 - Teshuvah Shmuz 5770 - Limiting Beliefs

1. To fear HASHEM 2. To go in all of His ways.3. To love HASHEM.4. To serve Him with all of you heart and your soul. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 59 minutes, 29 seconds
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#201 - Chanukah - The Power given to Man

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#190 My Rebbe

The Chofetz Chaim network consist of high schools, batei medrashim, kollels, kiruv centers, shuls, and rabbonim and teachers across the country from communities as diverse as Milwaukee, Rochester, Los Angeles, the Five Towns, Miami, Cherry Hill, Manalapan, and Yerushalayim - an empire of thousands of talmidim following in the mesorah given to them by their Rebbe. This Shmuz is both a personal tribute and a recognition of the great gaon, Reb Alter Hencoch Hanoch Lebowitz. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 54 minutes, 28 seconds
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#188 Rich Man, Poor Man - The Ferris Wheel of Life

Lehman brothers fell. The market is down. Real estate is down. Many people have lost their jobs. About the only thing that is up these days is sales of anti-depressants. Putting some perspective on the events that we are living through, this Shmuz focuses on some of cycles of life and what our attitude towards them should be. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 10 minutes, 9 seconds
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#195 - Stop Playing G-d!

I know exactly what it is that I need! I need to marry that woman; get that job; my child has to get into that class - and HASHEM just won't listen! I have tried to teach HASHEM. I have tried to speak to him. I even daven. But nothing helps. For some strange reason, HASHEM won't give me what I need. 85% of our Emunah problems come from just such thinking: assuming that I know exactly what it is that I need and then having questions on HASHEM when He doesn't deliver it. Part of being a mature, thinking person is recognizing that I am exactly that - a person made of flesh and blood, here for a few short years. I come into this world while things are in full swing. I leave before I have much of a chance to sort things out. Yet I have the arrogance to think that I truly get it, that I know what is best for me. This Shmuz introduces us to one of the most fundamental concepts in our serving HASHEM: recognizing that HASHEM cares more about me than I do, that He knows far better than I do what I need, and will do what is best for me five years from now, ten years from now, in this world, and in the World to Come. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 44 minutes
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#198 - Life Transforming Moments

Sir Winston Churchill is quoted as saying: Men occasionally stumble over the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing had happened. The reality is that all of us have moments of truth: short lived burst of inspiration and clarity when we truly get it- when we fundamentally understand why we are here and what we are capable of. One of the great secrets of life is to capture those moments and use them to catapult our growth. This Shmuz introduces us to those often missed Life Transforming Moments and shows us the techniques to utilize them effectively. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 52 seconds
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#193 A Clash of Civilizations

On the Voice of the Islamic Republic of Iran Radio on Oct. 20, 2006, the Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad declared: "[America] should understand that the message from the peoples of the region . . . is manifested in a single slogan: "Death to America!"While America's foreign policy is set on appeasement and understanding, Iran is within months of attaining nuclear arms capacity, and so the threats are no longer mere slogans. The West seems to be ignoring the reality that we are not witnessing a war being waged by country against country, but rather a clash of civilizations that threatens to engulf the globe. This is an essential Shmuz for putting some perspective on the volatile times we live in and making sense of a chaotic new world See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 53 minutes, 24 seconds
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#199 - Lashon Harah- Mindless Chatter

Whether we are aware of it or not whether we admit it or not-- We all speak Lashon Harah. And herein lies one of the great mysteries: The Rambam defines Lashon Harah as words that hurt words that damage. Yet, we are nice people. We arent malicious or mean spirited, and we certainly wouldnt do something to intentionally hurt another person. Yet, we regularly speak, words that hurt words that damage the question is why? This Shmuz focuses us on the fact that one of the biggest causes of Lashon Harah is simply not recognizing the effect of our words, and the impact that they have on other people. And therefore the solution is simple: to recognize the gravity of the words that we speak, and almost effortlessly we can remove one of the greatest obstacles to our growth and functionally be much better people. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 35 seconds
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#189 Encounters with G-d

Faith is a sort of vague, hopeful idealism. I have faith that your check won't bounce. I don't know, but I hope. Knowledge is far more concrete. I know that fire burns and that heavy objects fall. And while both faith and knowledge seem commendable, when it comes to relating to HASHEM, both fall short of what a human is capable of. We have the capacity to experience HASHEM. Not only to have faith that He is present, not only to know it with absolute certainty, but to actually experience HASHEM. To reach that level, we must learn to encounter HASHEM. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 35 seconds
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#187 Self Mastery - The Key to Good

I know that middos make the man. I understand that my character traits define every relationship that I am involved in. And I wish I were more generous, humble, and caring. But what can I do about it? I am who I am. This Shmuz focuses on how it is that our gedolim changed their very nature and demonstrates the Torah's system for developing our middos. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 46 seconds
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#192 HASHEM Really Cares

If we could imagine the most kindly, giving, loving person and the take each of those traits and multiply them by 10,000, we still wouldn't begin to illustrate the tremendous loving kindness that HASHEM has towards Creation. That being said, the only question is: why don't I feel it? Why isn't this something that is obvious to me? This Shmuz focuses us on our relationship to HASHEM and what it takes to realize that HASHEM really cares. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 41 minutes, 12 seconds
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#186 G-d for the Perplexed

We are commanded to love G-d. We are commanded to fear G-d. Yet we really don't know that much about G-d. We are certainly aware that HASHEM created the world and all that it contains, but how do we move beyond that to actually fearing and loving HASHEM? First, we must become aware of HASHEM's presence and His involvement in our lives, concepts that, while noble, may seem so far removed from our world that they don't seem attainable. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 5 minutes, 7 seconds
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#191 Combatting Robotic Judaism

We all have bitachon. We all know that HASHEM determines our fate and all the events that will befall us. The problem is that this concept remains so far removed that while we know it on one level, in our day to day lives, it's non-existent. So while we say we trust in HASHEM, we live our lives in contradiction to this. This Shmuz focuses on making our beliefs real and taking our bitachon from the potential to the actual See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 19 seconds
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#196 - I'd be the first to Thank HASHEM if

The Chovos Ha'Levovos explains that one of the most powerful driving forces in our serving HASHEM should be a sense of appreciation. We should be filled with a powerful feeling that I am the recipient of much good; that I am constantly benefiting from all that HASHEM has bestowed upon me. The sense that I am constantly receiving should fill me with a recognition that nothing that I could do would ever pay back for what HASHEM has given me. Yet, often that isn't the sense that we feel-it seems far more common to feel "of course I would be the first to thank HASHEM if there were anything to thank him for-but my life stinks." This Shmuz focuses on a perspective change that allows us to enjoy the great wealth that we possess and our unaware of. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 38 minutes
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#219 - Looking back on a Year Passed

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#212 - Putting Joy Back into LIfe

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#216 - Love the Life You Live

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#211 - Putting G-d Back into the Relgion

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3/9/2019 • 46 minutes, 1 second
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Chumash in Depth - Chayei Sarah

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#206 - Teshuva Shmuz

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Chumash in Depth - Lech Licha

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Chumash in Depth - Bereishis

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Chumash in Depth - Toldos

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#213 - The Tiny Giant Called "I"

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#220 - Difficult Life Situation

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Chumash in Depth - Vayearah

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3/9/2019 • 59 minutes, 26 seconds
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#203 - Disney Land USA, the ADD Generation

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#204 - Listening to your messages

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#209 The Whatever Generation

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#217- The Incredibe Power of Prayer

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Chumash in Depth - Noach

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#202 - Outcomes and Intentions

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3/9/2019 • 43 minutes, 17 seconds
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#218- Understanding Suffering

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#215 - Fleeting Glimpses of the Upper Worlds

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3/9/2019 • 52 minutes, 5 seconds
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Chumash in Dept Introduction

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#205- The Giant Within

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#214 - Hashem Waits for our Teshuvah

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3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 3 seconds
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Chumash in Depth - Shemos

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Chumash in Depth - Mishpatim

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Parsha in Depth - Va'yikrah

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Chumash in Depth - Terumah

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Chumash in Depth - Bishalach

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Chumash in Depth - YIsro

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#223- Reasons and Causes

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Chumash in Depth - Vayeshev

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Chumash in Depth - Miketz

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#224- Ahmadinejad, the Palestinians and the Modern Purim Story

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Chumash in Depth - Bo

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Parsha in Depth - Ki Tisa

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3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 17 minutes, 1 second
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#222- Dealing with Failure

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Parsha in Depth - Tzav

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3/9/2019 • 48 minutes, 35 seconds
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Chumash in Depth - Vayeitzei

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Chumash in Depth - Vayigash

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Chumash in Depth - VaEirah

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Chumash in Depth - Vayishlach

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Chumash in Depth - Vayichi

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#221- Super Hurricanes and Changing Realities

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Parsha in Depth - Va'yakhel/Pekudi

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#238- Teshuvah Shmuz 5774

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#235- One Small Step For a Man

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#232- Tisha BAv What we Lost

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#227- Marriage, A Unit of One, and I am the One

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Parsha in Depth - Emor

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#236- How to Talk so that HASHEM Listens

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3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 17 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Bechokosai

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3/9/2019 • 51 minutes, 37 seconds
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#237- Teshuvah Shmuz 5774 - The Damage of Sin

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3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 54 seconds
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#233- If We Knew What Our Prayers Do

If We Knew What Our Prayers Do See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 58 minutes, 20 seconds
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#234- Man Dependent on HASHEM

Man Dependent on HASHEM See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 51 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Acharei Mot-Kedoshim

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3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 43 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Shemini

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3/9/2019 • 53 minutes, 34 seconds
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#230- Marriage: The Art of the Apology

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3/9/2019 • 53 minutes, 10 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Bamidbar

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3/9/2019 • 54 minutes, 56 seconds
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#229- Marriage: Communication in Marriage

Marriage: Communication in Marriage See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 52 seconds
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#226- Respect, Can a Marriage Survive without it?

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3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 10 minutes, 53 seconds
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#225- Heaven's Judgements

Heaven's Judgements See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 11 minutes, 14 seconds
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#228- Marriage: I Can't Respect Him Her

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3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 14 seconds
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#231- Marriage: Women Are From Venus

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3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 56 seconds
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Parsha in Depth - Tazriah-Metzorah

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3/9/2019 • 54 minutes, 26 seconds
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#255- Teshuva Shmuz 5776

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 50 minutes, 54 seconds
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#259- Whats Wrong with a Rainbow

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 59 minutes, 28 seconds
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#252- If I Were a Rich Man

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 10 minutes, 4 seconds
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#260- Holy Pleasures

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 51 minutes, 10 seconds
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#247 - Teshuvah Shmuz 5775 - Maybe its My Fault

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 44 minutes, 54 seconds
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#240- The Gratitude Principle

The Gratitude Principle See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 50 minutes, 23 seconds
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#241- The Gratitude Attitude

The Gratitude Attitude See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 45 minutes, 2 seconds
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#239- Being Wise to Yourself

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3/9/2019 • 52 minutes, 51 seconds
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#253- Learning to Love Hashem

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 57 minutes, 36 seconds
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#254- Biases and Prejudice

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 51 minutes, 52 seconds
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#248- Stop Playing Gd

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 7 minutes, 32 seconds
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#256- A Mitzvah to Listen to the Rabbis

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3/9/2019 • 51 minutes, 11 seconds
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#246- Tisha Beav A World Unraveling

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 49 minutes, 4 seconds
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#243- Needs of the Soul

Needs of the Soul See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 21 seconds
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#251- Kindliness is Gdliness

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 1 hour, 2 minutes, 16 seconds
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#258- HASHEM Loves Me

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 52 minutes, 18 seconds
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#257- Is it True Love-Dating Shmuz

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 55 minutes, 36 seconds
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#242- Marriage the Second Time Around

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3/9/2019 • 47 minutes, 57 seconds
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#265- Rosh HaShanah 5778

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 56 minutes, 47 seconds
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#264- Tisha BAv 5777

A World Unraveling See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/9/2019 • 59 minutes, 53 seconds
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#266 - Yom Kippur 5778

Appreciating and Achieving Greatness See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
3/8/2019 • 1 hour, 8 minutes, 46 seconds
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#267 - We Only Fight With Friends

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3/7/2019 • 1 hour, 1 minute, 45 seconds
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#268 - 6 constant Mitzvahs

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3/6/2019 • 56 minutes, 51 seconds