Welcome to Swinger University! In this episode, hosts Ed and Phoebe dive into the world of vulvas, challenging societal norms and embracing the diversity of colors and shapes. As vulvas gain more visibility, the Ed & Phoebe discuss the influence of media, including porn and social media, on shaping unrealistic standards. Join the conversation as they explore the reasons behind the pink vulva stereotype and the impact it has on individuals' confidence and self-perception.Discover the variety of colors that vulvas come in and the factors, from genetics to hormones, influencing their appearance. Ed, a seasoned swinger, shares insights on the diversity he has encountered in the lifestyle. The hosts address common concerns and insecurities, providing information on why labia may appear darker and the potential risks associated with attempting to alter their natural color.Uncover the truth about beauty standards and learn to love your body as it is. Ed and Phoebe discuss the importance of embracing uniqueness, challenging societal expectations, and appreciating the beauty of all vulvas, regardless of color or shape.Highlights:The Pink Standard: Explore the origins of the pink vulva standard and its prevalence in media, from porn to magazines.Diversity in the Lifestyle: Ed shares his experiences as a swinger, highlighting the range of vulva colors and shapes he has encountered.Factors Influencing Color: Learn about the various factors, including genetics, hormones, and age, that contribute to the coloration of the vulva.Insecurities and Social Media: Discuss the impact of social media on body image and the pressure to conform to unrealistic standards.Risks of Altering Appearance: Delve into the potential risks and dangers associated with using creams, chemicals, and surgeries to change vulva appearance.Natural Solutions: Explore safer alternatives, such as lifestyle changes and laser treatments, for those who wish to address concerns about vulva color.Self-Love and Acceptance: Emphasize the importance of loving and accepting your body as it is, challenging societal norms, and celebrating the uniqueness of every vulva. #LoveYourVulva #BodyPositivity #SwingerUniversity #EmbraceDiversity #SelfLove #swingerpodcast #Podcast #SexualHealth #EthicalNonMonogamy Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

🌙✨ Welcome to Swinger University, the Slumber Party edition! Join Ed and Phoebe as they unravel the secrets of female sleep orgasms, taking you on a dreamy adventure that'll leave you wondering, "Did that just happen in my sleep?" 🌙✨🛌 In this episode, the hosts of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe, dive into the exciting world of ethical non-monogamy, sexual health, and sex education with an intellectual and sexy twist. Grab your pillows and join the conversation as they explore the intriguing topic of female sleep orgasms.💭 Discover the unique experiences of nocturnal pleasures, the causes behind them, and how they vary from person to person. From hormone fluctuations to relaxation during REM sleep, Ed and Phoebe leave no aspect untouched.📈 Key Topics Discussed:Definition of Female Sleep OrgasmsCauses and TriggersFrequency and NormalcySigns and IndicatorsInfluence of Sexual ActivityTips for Enhancing Nocturnal Orgasms🕐 Timestamps for Important Moments:05:42: Exploring the uniqueness of female sleep orgasms12:18: Factors influencing the frequency and experiences22:36: Understanding signs and indicators of nocturnal pleasures31:09: The role of sexual activity in enhancing sleep orgasms40:15: Tips for those wanting to experience or enhance their nocturnal delights🌟 Call-to-Action:Ready to explore the world of slumber sensations? Hit the like button, subscribe for more intriguing discussions, and share this episode with your friends. Don't forget to leave your thoughts in the comments below. Sweet dreams, pleasure seekers! 🌙💤✨🔗 Connect with Swinger University:Leave a voicemail at 916-538-0482 or visit swingernuniversity.com to stay connected with our community. Keep learning, growing, and keeping it sexy.#MidnightDelights #SleepOrgasms #SwingerUniversity #SexualHealth #EthicalNonMonogamy #DreamyAdventure #NocturnalPleasures #SexEducation #LikeSubscribeShareSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Dive into the complexities of the swinging lifestyle as we explore the controversial topic of "Taking one for the team". How do you solve the four-way connection problem? In this eye-opening episode, we share personal experiences and survey insights from a wide spectrum of lifestylers, unraveling the intricacies of consent, boundaries, and the art of saying 'no' or 'yes' in the swinging community. Key Topics:Team 'No': Unyielding standards, the evolution of preferences, and the power of saying 'no' confidently.Team 'Yes': Embracing enthusiastic and lukewarm yeses, the beauty of diverse experiences, and the flexibility of boundaries.Keeping Score: The controversial practice of tallying encounters, the potential pitfalls, and ways to navigate this delicate territory.IOUs and Obligations: Exploring the thin line between consent and obligation, the impact on relationships, and the importance of open communication.Respect and Guilt: Unpacking feelings of resentment, guilt, and the role of respect in the self, relationships, and with play partners. Call-to-Action:Explore the nuances of the swinging lifestyle with us! Like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below. What are your experiences with Team 'No' and Team 'Yes'? Let's continue this conversation and build a community where open communication and respect thrive. #SwingingLifestyle #ConsentInSwinging #OpenCommunication #RelationshipAgreements #PodcastDiscussionSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

There's a less than glamorous side of the Swinger lifestyle. We explore 10 common challenges Swingers face, from juggling everyday life to dealing with rude people. Discover practical solutions to enhance your Swinger journey and ensure a smoother, more enjoyable experience.Highlights: Balancing "vanilla life" with Swinger adventures.Coping with career demands and unconventional work schedules.Managing hormonal fluctuations and periods in the Swinger world.Unprogramming social conditioning to embrace non-monogamous relationships.Adapting to changing desires and boundaries in your Swinger journey.Escaping the endless cycle of online profiles and connecting in real life.Handling disrespectful behavior and setting boundaries during play.Recognizing when it's time to take a break and reassess your Swinger journey. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode to spread the knowledge and join our Patreon community for exclusive content. For questions or comments, leave us a voicemail at 916-538-0482 or visit our website at SwingerUniversity.com to connect with us. Explore the world of ethical non-monogamy with Swinger University and get ready to conquer the challenges of the Swinger lifestyle!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Welcome to our latest podcast episode where we delve into the intriguing world of Locktober, a unique and captivating chastity challenge! In this episode, we discuss this self-initiated kink with Mr. Red an author of erotic stories, and an active participant in Locktober. We discuss its fascinating impact on his relationship and his personal experiences. Join us as we explore the following topics: How Mr. Red got started in chastity and swingingStories from some of his experiences with the challengeThe mental and emotional aspects of chastityThe effect on intimacy and relationshipsExpert insights into the world of Locktober Whether you're a seasoned Locktober participant or merely curious about the concept, this episode promises to provide valuable insights and ignite engaging conversations. Our special guest, Mr. Red, shares his own experiences and valuable perspective on the Locktober challenge. If you're looking to gain a deeper understanding of this captivating journey or simply interested in hearing some intriguing tales, don't miss this episode of Swinger University! Like, subscribe, and hit that notification bell to stay updated with our latest content. Join us on this enlightening and exciting exploration of Locktober and discover what it truly means to embrace the challenge. Your key to unlocking this unique episode is just a click away!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

🌟 Step into the exhilarating world of the Folsom Street Fair with Swinger University. Join hosts Ed and Phoebe as they take you on a journey through this celebration of sexual liberation and openness, where self-expression knows no bounds. From public displays of affection to kink demonstrations, this episode dives deep into the heart of one of the world's most unique events. Explore the no-judgment atmosphere, connect with fellow attendees, and learn how this experience can empower individuals to embrace their sexuality.📢 Discover personal accounts, witness extraordinary kinks, and gain insights from the diverse individuals Ed and Phoebe encounter. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode sheds light on the power of sexual freedom and self-discovery.Highlights:👉 00:00 - Introduction to Folsom Street Fair and hosts Ed and Phoebe.👉 05:45 - The unique and liberating atmosphere of Folsom Street Fair.👉 11:20 - Observing the spectrum of kinks and self-expression.👉 18:12 - Interviews with attendees sharing their thoughts on the fair.👉 25:36 - A look at public sex and its acceptance at the event.👉 30:55 - Meeting sex therapist Yub Kim and discussing shame and stigma.👉 36:40 - Listener questions on introducing swinging to a partner.👉 43:20 - Tips for starting a conversation about swinging with your partner.👉 49:10 - Exploring the Swinger University YouTube channel for more resources.Join Swinger University's open-minded community, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode. Your support helps us continue breaking down stigmas and promoting sexual positivity. Share your thoughts and experiences with us at swingeruniversity.com or by leaving a voicemail at 916-538-0482. Keep learning, growing, and embracing your sexual journey with Swinger University.👍 Like, ✅ Subscribe, and 📣 Share this eye-opening episode to celebrate sexual liberation and promote open conversation!Sourceshttps://www.folsomstreet.org/https://www.thechaingang.com/blog/effective-ball-stretching-guide-for-beginners/https://getmegiddy.com/scrotum-stretchinghttps://www.powerexchange.com/Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Join Ed and Phoebe in this enlightening episode as they delve into the intriguing world of ethical non-monogamy, exploring the depths of gossip in the swinger lifestyle. Learn about the nuances of good and bad gossip, how to handle negativity and bullying, and discover the power of effective communication within the community.🔍 Key Topics & Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction: Ethical Non-Monogamy & Gossip1:34 - What is Gossip, and Why Do We Do It?7:12 - The Historical Significance of Gossip10:58 - Gossip as a Tool for Building Trust15:20 - The Importance of Social Skills19:03 - Strategies to Combat Negative Gossip22:41 - Real-Life Examples & Impact of Gossip27:09 - Speaking Up & Addressing Conflicts29:58 - Event Organizers' Role in Maintaining a Safe Community🗣️ Listener Engagement:Have you encountered good gossip or bullying in the lifestyle community? Share your experiences, thoughts, and insights in the comments below!Remember to like, subscribe, and share this episode to help us spread knowledge and foster a respectful and inclusive swinger community.✨ Join our Patreon community for exclusive behind-the-scenes content and extra insights.📞 Leave us a voicemail at 916-538-0482 with your questions, comments, or suggestions.🌐 Visit our website at swingeryuniversity.com for more resources and contact information.Thank you for being a part of our community at Swinger University. Keep learning, growing, and keeping it sexy!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

As we've matured our body chemistry has changed. Do men need testosterone replacement therapy? Phoebe discussed some women's issues in a previous episode about hormone replacement for Women. Gentlemen, today it's your turn to get the low down on low Testosterone. OUTLINE:   I. Reasons:   I. Symptoms/Benefits:    I. Libido, body fat, muscle, mood, energy, bone density, and quality of erections   II. Testosterone's purpose    I. Hypogonadism    II. Less indication for "healthy" men    III. "May" prevent issues as we get older     II. Methods:   I. Pellets - painful, less fat, scars   II. Injections - less painful    I. 2 weeks - big dose, taper off over time, intramuscular    II. 1 week - less highs/lows, easier to remember, traditionally intramuscular    III. Daily - It's a routine, less painful, subcutaneous  III. Testing   I. If you have symptoms   II. Before for baseline   III. After a month or so to see your levels   IV. Annual testing once the dose is sorted out   V. It's complicated…  IV. Side effects   I. Acne, hair growth, sleep apnea   II. Increased risk of Heart attacks, stroke   III. Reduced sperm production   IV. Estrogen,     I. 0.3% converted    II. resulting in breast tissue, and prostate enlargement    III. Testing for estrogen    IV. Estrogen blocker - aromatase inhibitors (some doctors disagree with this approach)  V. Cautions   I. No long term testing - benefits / Risks   II. "For those who have low testosterone levels but no symptoms, treatment isn't recommended. It's also not recommended for those whose levels are low because of aging."Sources:https://youtu.be/GNCpG1fkMBA?t=5514 Testosterone calculator https://www.issam.ch/freetesto.htm  https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/sexual-health/in-depth/testosterone-therapy/art-20045728  https://www.webmd.com/men/guide/testosterone-replacement-therapy-is-it-right-for-youSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In recent years, testosterone therapy for women has gained popularity, fueled by self-styled menopause specialists on social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram, as well as celebrity endorsements. The claims associated with this therapy are numerous, ranging from transforming libido to reducing brain fog, improving energy and mood, staving off dementia, enhancing bone strength, and maintaining muscle mass. However, it is essential to scrutinize these claims and evaluate the available scientific studies before considering testosterone therapy for women. OUTLINE: Media DominanceBenefit Claims: fog, mood, energy, dementia, bones, muscle Medical Studies on Claims  Women Exploited? Risks & Side Effects Testosterone Over A Woman’s Lifespan  Where does Testosterone Come from? - Conversion Ovary Function - Menopause Reasons to Prescribe Clinical Trial Results 'T' Levels Don't Always Correlate With SymptomsReasons To Promote - Profit FOMO All our links: https://SwingLinks.club SOURCES:Full sources are available on our website...Is the Male Sex Hormone Putting Mid-Life Women at Risk?Testosterone for peri- and postmenopausal womenYen & Jaffe's Reproductive Endocrinology - Physiology, Pathophysiology, and Clinical ManagementAndrogen levels in adult females: changes with age, menopause, and oophorectomyGlobal Consensus Position Statement on the Use of Testosterone Therapy for WomenInternational Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health Clinical Practice Guideline for the Use of Systemic Testosterone for Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder in WomenSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Menopause is a phase in a woman's life that brings about hormonal changes with potential effects on various aspects of health. These changes can impact skin tone, muscle mass, fat distribution, libido, mood swings, cholesterol levels, and the risk of heart disease. However, the historical narrative surrounding Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) has created misconceptions and fear, largely influenced by the miscommunication of the findings from the WHI study in 2002, which reported an increased risk of breast cancer among HRT users. This misrepresentation has persisted, limiting women's access to potentially beneficial treatment options. It is important to be cautious of false narratives propagated through social media and celebrities, seeking reliable information sources instead. Consulting healthcare professionals specializing in menopause, such as endocrinologists, is crucial when considering relief options. Additionally, careful research should be conducted before using vitamins and supplements marketed for menopause management. Hormone therapy is not a quick fix, requiring patience and informed guidance from knowledgeable healthcare providers. By navigating menopause with the right information and support, women can improve their overall well-being.ALL OUR LINKS: https://SwingLinks.club SOURCES:Check SwingerUniversity.com for all the links and sources.Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Have you ever been playing with a new sexual partner and the condom slips off?  How was it communicated to you?  What was your reaction?  Can you come back from this?Instead of brushing it off as no big deal, we are going to reveal my process and outline it in our blog so it may help you address a similar situation or any situation that involves consent and violations of consent.  We are proof that you can preserve the relationship and friendship if you so desire.OUTLINE: What do you do when the condom slips off during play? Brush it off? Address it? Ghost the person?Who is at fault?User?Recipient?How does it happen?Dark roomSex positionOur story: Type of friendshipLength of friendshipThe situationLack of disclosureHow to have the conversation:Tell them what happened ahead of timeDon't blindside themExpress you aren't ready to talk about itSet a dateGives them time to process also Use the Consent Academy Process when Consent is BrokenSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

We discovered some surprising reactions to the "NO Kissing" Rule from Swingers. Since kissing can make or break a swinging encounter find out how the "NO Kissing" rule is a hot-button in the swinger lifestyle.To shed light on the matter, we combed through a survey involving 386 individuals, and the results were nothing short of intriguing. We discovered a wide range of opinions, showcasing both the positive and negative aspects of kissing. So, if you'd like to understand more and have an inclusive attitude towards swingers who have this rule, we take you through the psychology, biology, cultural influences, and personal experiences surrounding kissing. Whether you're a passionate pucker-upper or someone who prefers to express affection through alternative means, join us on this hilarious and informative journey as we navigate the world of kissing with compassion, understanding, and a healthy dose of humor.Warning: Listening to this podcast may cause an irresistible urge to lock lips with someone nearby….or NOT! Kiss responsibly!"NO Kissing" Rule:Reasons and perspectives.Psychological factors, personal experiences, and misconceptions.Balancing boundaries and intimacy.The Impact of Kissing on Emotional Connection and Relationship Satisfaction:Emotional bonding and attachment.Oxytocin and neurochemical effects.Correlation and communication.Navigating Diverse Preferences and Negotiating Consent:Personal Boundaries and PreferencesNegotiating ConsentRespecting Others' Choices:Non-judgmental attitude and empathy.Conclusion Embracing Diversity and Personal FreedomNo universal approach.Respecting desires and choices.Nurturing Healthy Connections:Consent, communication, and respect.Emotional satisfaction. Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, hosts Ed and Phoebe recap the past few days of their vacation. They discuss their excursions to the waterfall and the fun they had taking sexy photos near the banyan trees. They also talk about the pole dance night at the resort, where they participated in a competition and Ed ended up winning. They share details about the routines and costumes, including Phoebe's revealing outfit. The hosts also mention the body shot roulette and their time in the hot tub with other couples. They emphasize the intimate and friendly atmosphere of the vacation, where they've had the chance to connect with everyone. The episode ends with their relaxing free day and a dinner outing with friends in town.Highlights:Excursion to the waterfall and sexy photos near the banyan treesPole dance night competition and Ed winningPhoebe's revealing outfit and fun routinesBody shot roulette and time in the hot tub with other couplesIntimate and friendly atmosphere of the vacationRelaxing free day and dinner outing with friendsSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Welcome to day four of Ed and Phoebe's trip to Costa Rica. They are currently at Hotel Jaco in Jako, sitting outside the bar on a picnic table with a view of the ocean. They're enjoying their vacation and feeling relaxed. They talk about the previous day, which was a free day for the guests to do their own excursions. Many people went on a chocolate tour, where they learned about the process of making chocolate from cacao beans. Ed and Phoebe found it more interesting than expected. After the tour, they enjoyed some pool time, and things got frisky with great conversations and bonding among the guests. They mention the strip blackjack night and a flogging demonstration by a couple who brought their toys and implements. Some people participated while others relaxed in the pool. The day ended with poolside action and connections made between couples. Highlights:Ed and Phoebe are enjoying their vacation in Costa Rica at Hotel Jaco.Guests had a free day and went on a chocolate tour, which was more interesting than expected.Pool time was filled with great conversations and bonding among the guests.There was a strip blackjack night and a flogging demonstration by a couple with a fully equipped playroom.The day ended with poolside action and connections made between couples.Guests have the freedom to choose their level of participation during the trip.Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, hosts Ed and Phoebe give a recap of their activities on Day 2 of their Costa Rica trip. They talk about their pool time, including pool games like a unique ring toss game involving a catcher and a gentleman throwing rings. They discuss the poolside pasties theme and the importance of consent, sharing insights on how to make consent sexy and navigate its nuances. They mention the evening's fancy, not formal theme and the lingerie party with a toy demo, including various types of toys and a Sybian demonstration. They end the episode by mentioning their plans for the following day, which include a chocolate factory tour and various excursions.Highlights:Pool time with socializing, friskiness, and pool gamesUnique ring toss game with a catcher and a gentleman throwing ringsPoolside pasties theme and the importance of consentFancy, not formal theme for the evening with a lingerie party and toy demoExcursions planned for the following day, including a chocolate factory tour and crocodile toursSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, Ed and Phoebe share their experiences on day 1 of their Costa Rica Takeover. They talk about the orientation day, a unique speed dating event where participants match nuts and bolts, and their delicious dinner. They also discuss their bar-hopping adventure in town, including visits to the Own Bar and the Black Marlin. The hosts mention the lively atmosphere, dancing, and even their encounter with the local sex work industry. They conclude with a mention of pool time, including the inflatable bull ride competition. Highlights:Orientation day and speed dating with nuts and bolts matchingDelicious dinner with fish, rice, beans, and plantainsBar-hopping in town, including visits to the Own Bar and the Black MarlinLively atmosphere, dancing, and TikTok videosObserving the local sex work industry and the unique dynamics in Costa RicaPool time, including the inflatable bull ride competitionSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Ed and Phoebe, the hosts of the Swinger University podcast, are in Costa Rica to celebrate their anniversary. They talk about their experiences in Costa Rica, including their visit to Arenal Volcano and the hot springs, excursions to waterfalls, and exploring the town of Jaco. They mention the affordable prices, family-friendly resorts, and the fun they had with a group of friends. They also tease some spicy details from a card game they played but mention that those details can only be found on their Patreon episode.Highlights:Ed and Phoebe celebrate their anniversary in Costa Rica.They explore Arenal Volcano and enjoy the hot springs.They visit waterfalls and take excursions with a tour guide.They have fun in Jaco, enjoying seafood restaurants and beach views.Ed and Phoebe's group hijacks a taxi and has an adventurous ride home.They play a card game involving truth or dare, leading to some spicy moments.They mention the upcoming activities, including a meet and greet, dinner, and a tour of the town.Prostitution is legal in Costa Rica, and they talk about the Cocal hotel.They express excitement about the upcoming playroom activities and the expectations of the group. #swingerpodcast #resorttakeover #swingervacation #costaricaSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In my 20’s I was nervous about getting tattoos so I decided to get piercings instead. At the time getting a Prince Albert Piercing sounded like it would feel really good, so I went for it! Do I still stand by my decision?OUTLINE: What is a Prince Alert or PA?Genital piercingsDescribe the PAOrigin - Urban legends (chastity, hygiene) Most popular originBenefitsStimulation for both partnersCertain position work betterReverse PA for other positionsMileage may varyVisually appealing, if your into itRings and bent barbells for interesting looksWands - for sounding! Party trick - Happy to showPhoebe’s experienceHealingPretty quick 2-4 weeks Sometimes longer (6-8)No sex while healingClean and care - talk to piercerI started with a 10 gauge, stretched to a 6 gaugeThicker jewelry usually migrates lessDownsidesSome partners don’t even notice, or worse, it annoys themTeeth and jewelry painfulPainful to getNerve damageIncreased risk of infectionsCondom breakageIrritation of urethra and piercing siteUTIsRejectionJewelry collisions (ouch) and entanglementsEd’s #1 - peeing is weirdAsk Your PiercerInterview them how long in businessReputation onlineShop conditions - cleanlinessGet their run down on CostHealingAfter careSize of jewelry to start withRecommended final sizeREFERENCES: How Does A Prince Albert Work?Prince Albert PiercingsSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

We explore two intriguing topics: why the heck "cunt" is so controversial, and why women feel the need to shave their pubic hair to look like children down there!  So get ready for a deep dive as we shed some light on their history and cultural significance. SOURCESA Brief History Of The C-WordCultural History of Pubic HairHow Hair Removal Becam A Beauty StandardHistory of Sex & SexualityWhat's So Bad About the C-Word?When Did Women Start Shaving?The History of Female Hair RemovalSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In this episode, we explore the benefits of moaning during sex and foreplay. Moaning is a natural sound that can create a sense of intimacy and vulnerability between partners, transport us to a place of heightened sensory pleasure, and drop us into our core sexual energy. It's also a form of communication that tells your partner what feels good and what doesn't, resulting in a more pleasurable experience for both partners. However, faking a moan can set up miscommunication in the bedroom, so it's essential to own your moans and express your pleasure authentically. If you're feeling self-conscious about moaning, we provide some tips to help you gain confidence in your self-expression, including starting off with some mood lighting, talking to your partner ahead of time, incorporating different elements during foreplay, and practicing in front of the mirror. Tune in to discover how moaning can create a more pleasurable experience for both you and your partner.Sound = Important Role in LifeForm of communicationFaking = wrong road map!Tips for those feeling self-consciousSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Do you want to know how to turn your sex life around in 10 days?!  We talk to our very sexy guest, Layla London, from The Curious Girl Diaries who invites you as a voyeur into her diary of sexual encounters.  Layla also opens up about her past experiences with crappy encounters and offers valuable insights on how to turn things around and create great sexual experiences through a vetting process. You will also want to hear how we discuss shame in the lifestyle and the importance of addressing it a social setting.  Be sure to check out the time stamps below:Layla's Sex Party Experience [0:32:37]Phoebe Fingered it Out with a Woman [1:03:03]How to Address Being Shamed in a Social Setting [0:44:34] TAGS (Episode):  sexualfreedom sexpositive saynotoshame sexualconfidence swingeruniversity curiousdiaries sexualpotential normalizingsexuality enm cnm openrelationship GUEST LINKS:https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.comhttps://www.instagram.com/the_curiousgirldiaries/https://www.facebook.com/TheCuriousGirlLaylahttps://www.tumblr.com/blog/thecuriousgirl1https://twitter.com/thecurious_girl Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Compersion is learning to grow through other feelings, in order to get to that one. Join us as we speak with the actors and play writes from "Compersion". Nik and Mik use their autobiographical stories to create an intimate and steamy theatrical experience. "Compersion" is an adult-only play that celebrates a healthy lifestyle in ethical nonmonogamy, where the characters explore real-life scenarios and participate in erotic intimacy scenes. The guests get to enjoy a meet and greet with the cast and crew, and the  opportunity to participate in the play, making it a truly interactive and immersive experience. For those who are curious about swinging, "Compersion" provides a real-life look into what one might expect in a swinger event or encounter. GUEST BIO:Nikki began her performing career with a dance-in-education company touring Australia before further training at Broadway Dance Studios, New York. On her return she ran the company for another 10 years whilst appearing in theatre, film and television. She works as a youth theatre director, specializing in disability arts and ASD, and is a social advocate for cultural diversity and recidivism projects with theatre companies and local government organizations. Mik is a Doctor of cultural anthropology, an actor, award-winning director, published playwright, and has toured in the UK, USA and Australia. In 2016 he broadcast the first ‘livestream performance’ from an Adelaide Fringe, based on his MPhil about an autistic theatre company for which he has presented findings at the Royal Anthropological Institute (UK). He is a freelance Creative Director for governments, commercial enterprises, and arts festivals, creating large-scale immersive art events.SHOW NOTES: About The Play The Concept - How it Began20 year Marriage - Getting Started - ExperiencesDeciding on ContentReal Sex? - Yes!Audience Participation/EngagementReciting Lines from the PlayTour DatesHow to Support - Patreon LINKS:Website:  www.steamyromantics.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SteamyRomanticsIG: @steamyromantics  https://www.instagram.com/steamyromantics/TW: @steamyromantics  https://twitter.com/steamyromantics Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the world of BDSM and Dominance and Submission (DS) relationships with Dr. Tiffany "K". We explore the basics of BDSM and the different practices that fall under this umbrella term, including kink and fetish.You will find out how to get started in BDSM and hear us emphasize the need for open and honest communication (even if it's uncomfortable) when discovering new things together. Join us in this episode as we learn and explore more about the world of BDSM, Dominance and Submission relationships, and hear some sexy experiences from your favorite hot couple, Ed and Phoebe.  Sex nerds unite!SHOW NOTES:  00:00:24:23        Who is Dr. Tiffany "K"?00:02:43:20        What is BDSM? 00:06:59:10        Dominance and Submission A Relationship Practice00:10:59:18        50 Shades of Grey - How bad was it?00:15:53:08        DS Maintaining Balance in a Relationship00:21:12:07        Establishing Healthy Dynamics00:23:14:07        Kink, BDSM, Fetish... the Venn Diagram of it all00:24:21:01        Is the Swing Lifestyle a Fetish?00:25:25:23        Safety and Consent00:30:30:17        Scene Dynamics - How Does it Work?00:32:54:19        How Often Do Playtimes Happen?00:34:26:10        Jealousy in DS00:35:46:15        Communication is so Important00:37:07:12        Rituals00:39:58:09        Flogging Rituals, and a Hot Couple Ed & Phoebe Watched00:42:26:11        Communication in the Lifestyle00:44:58:09        Drinking and Partying in Both Lifestyles00:47:39:03        BDSM, Psychology, Knife Play00:50:45:05        Practice and Progression in DS and Fetish play00:51:17:06        Uncomfortable Communication...or is it?00:53:39:01        Discovering New Things Together00:54:13:16     Ideas on How to Get Started in DS01:00:11:22        Sex Nerds Unite01:00:37:20        How Can Dr. K help You?01:02:53:09        Wrap Up Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Welcome to this episode of our podcast where we have the pleasure of interviewing Jackie Golob, a sex therapist, coach, and holistic healer. Jackie is the proud owner of Shameless Therapy & Consulting Services, LLC, a practice that incorporates sexual self-care into therapy and coaching sessions with individuals and couples. During our conversation, we delve into the world of sex therapy and explore the stigma surrounding therapy for couples. Jackie provides us with insights into the common anxiety and shame that couples may experience around sex and how they can overcome these issues. She also shares tips on how to deal with jealousy in relationships, emphasizing that comprehension is key. We discuss the party vs. connection lifestyle and how shame can affect a person's playtime. Jackie provides tips on how to overcome body image issues and encourages self-discovery through compassion for oneself. We also explore ways that couples can improve their communication and how emotional maturity plays a role in one's lifestyle. As a sex therapist, Jackie places importance on understanding pleasure zones and encourages exploring oneself and trying kink. She has also created a sexual self-help deck of cards with questions to enhance one's sexual self-care. Don't forget to check out Jackie's website, http://shamelesstherapy.org, where you can sign up for her newsletter and receive freebies. Follow her on YouTube @shamelessjackie and Instagram @sextherapistjackie for more insightful content. Jackie also made a  sexual self-care deck with questions to be able to use as a reflection tool to enhance your sexual self-care! Join us in this fascinating conversation and discover how to live your best, shameless, and sexy life! Show Notes:IntroWho is Jackie Golob?Which Couples Are Seeking Sex TherapyStigma Around TherapyCouples CoachingAnxiety and Shame Around SexJealousyJackie's Tips for Jealousy, Comprehension is Key!Lifestyle: Party vs. ConnectionHow Shame Can Affect Your Play TimeShame Around SexTips for Overcoming Body Image IssuesCompassion for Self, and Self-discoveryHow Can Couples Be Better CommunicatorsLifestyle and Emotional MaturityPleasure Zones!Exploring yourself, and trying KinkSexual Self-Help CardsWrap Up Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Many people aren't experiencing the pleasure they want in the bedroom, simply because they don't know how to ask for it.  Do you ask for pleasure?  How do you ask for it?  You might be surprised by some of the simple techniques we discovered from Renée Yvonne, a Sex Therapy Coach from www.thegensexologist.comSHOW NOTES:00:00 - Start00:02 - Introduction - Renee Yvonne01:15 - Renée's Work01:36 - How to ask for what you want in bed03:06 - Having a voice in the bedroom04:48 - Asking for what you want05:36 - When to have the conversation06:09 - Yes, No... Maybe07:30 - Pick a playtime out of a bowl08:41 - Planning a "date" night10:10 - Why do women feel like they can't ask for what they want?13:18 - Orgasm gap and porn14:43 - How can men support women better?17:40 - Women explore your sexual zones20:49 - Quiet quitting22:00 - Great workshops for couples26:46 - Wrap upRenée's Links:Renée Yvonne:  www.thegensexologist.comGenexypodcast:  https://anchor.fm/gensexypodcastRenée Yvonne IG:  @thegensexologistHow to Tell Them What You Want When in Bed…Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Have you ever thought about separate room play?  Your partner is in one room and you are in the other, each playing with your new partners.  We openly discuss the possibility of this new adventure and whether this applies to all couples or just a few. SHOW NOTES: Have you ever experienced a sexual couple that play at different sexual speeds?  We did!  Our female friend is more DTF and her male counterpart is slow and sensual.  The difference between the two has made us consider separate room play; a surprising revelation for us!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Phoebe and I did a full swap with Toronto Unicorn and had a great time! We filmed it, and recorded audio too… Oh not THAT kind of full swap, but we did have about as much fun as you can recording a podcast. Listen in as we get to know each other a little better, learn about the Toronto lifestyle and their clubs, plus a few secrets for hunting unicorns. We also discuss safety, relationship risks, and Phoebe's early insecurities and deprogramming.  It's a wild ride and we think you'll like listening in.Swinging is more than sexEvangelizing swingingSwinger CruisesFluidity of sexToronto sex clubsSex positivity and body imageSingle malesDesires and fantasiesDominant unicornBait and switchArgument for clubsSafety in the lifestyleRisks for your relationshipPhoebe's insecurities & deprogramming https://twitter.com/toronto_unicornhttps://torontounicorn.com/https://www.youtube.com/TorontoUnicorn Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Do you have a love hate relationship with condoms?  You love the safety it provides to yourself and your partner but hate the insulating feel.  The size of the condom, the material it’s made of, and how thin it is; all play an important role for safety, comfort, and increased pleasure for both sexual partners.Show NotesWhen picking a condom that feels good and doesn't slip off, you want to know the following 4 important details:The 2 different measurements are critical to a good fit. The 3 different materials provide varying comfort and feel.  The difference between thick and thin.  The safety of a .001mm condom!For more information check out the following:How to Measure Your PenisCondom Size Chart: Find Your Best FitCondom Size Chart - A Guide for Calculating the Right Size CondomCondom Size by ThicknessEurope’s Condom King - Thinner Condoms Not Available in US16 Types of Condoms: Pros and ConsMore Condom Brands, Description, and SizesCondoms are Medical DevicesWhat is A Polyurethane Condom?@thotsandpodcast - Episode 10 - The Condom EpisodeSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Swinger University gets interviewed by the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Come listen in as we talk about how we got started, how we like to play, and some of the fun things we have going on in our swinging lifestyle. It was a lot of fun being on the other side of the microphone.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fJW1cpp9GCY Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Have you ever had a condom slip off when having sex with other partners?  We cover what you need to do when you discover you have an STI.  Your, your partner, and your sexual partner's health is important!Mental emotional aspectsPhysical aspectsKnow what it isGet testedSocial aspectsSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

It's time for our recap on the November 2022 Bliss Cruise.  Every time we go on a Swinger Cruise the experience is different.  It's a choose-your-own-adventure swing-cation; whatever you want, you will find it! SHIPCabin Options and Benefits!WIFI Dark Ages Food Quality & Variety Bars were Busy Photo Memories Shot! ENTERTAINMENT Comedy - DirectorsBurlesque - LaLa'sConcert - King's of QueenComedy Bomb!Comedy Relief & Encore - Jason BlanchardSWINGER EXPERIENCEPlaytime ExperienceBrown-Chicken-Brown Cow on the Balcony!Workshops & PresentationsPool Time Parties: Car Wash, Ring Around the Eggplant!Sexual Health BV Episodes: 49, 70, 80Swinger Definitions: Connectors v. Collectors / Window Shoppers v. Daters v. DTFers@peter_fitzwell14@iamnaomifoxxx@2hotwivespodcast@sapphicswingers@thotsandpodcastSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Our second day on the Bliss Swinger Cruise. Due to internet issues in the ship, we could not deliver on our promise to get you the dirty details. Phoebe and I are sitting in the airport waiting for our flight and able to upload. Hope you enjoy. • Pool Party Nude🕺Dancing• The benefits of eating….😈together • Entertained by the sexiest🔥women on the planet🌎• Dancing💃, playroom shenanigans🔥Late night snack🍪 and the Aussies🦘Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

We tried. We really did. The internet in the ship is sooooo bad. Just a note about why we failed to deliver. Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

What a great start to our week-long adventure aboard the  Bliss Cruise   Pre-cruise Party at an estate🏠with: @SapphicSwingers, @AverageSwingers, @2HotWives, and 10 of their closest friends. An all female body candy🍬orgy! Morning after-erotic photo📸shoot. Martini🍸Bar meet and mingle with Dr.Valerie and Mr.Knight. Birthstone💎Color Theme Party, a conversation with @4OurPlayPodcast.Elevator six-some💋gonewild!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Swinger University is about to hit the seven seas, or at least the Caribbean Ocean, for their third Bliss Cruise. Want to know why we keep coming back, and what we have planned for this trip?Setting the SceneFull ship takeoverVanilla layer of servicesSwinger ActivitiesMeet and greetsEducationPlayshopsMultiple play roomsClothing - lack ofClothing - theme nightsSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

This is our coming out episode. We've been pondering coming out since day one of the podcast. And today is that day!  It's not every day that this happens, it's a once in a lifetime event. SHOW NOTES: We're OUT!10 Years reflecting on AnonymityThe PodcastRisks for Coming OutRewardsWish Us Luck!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

We examine five types of swingers in this episode: vanilla swinger, hobby swinger, celestial swinger, friends-only swinger, and DTFer (Down to F*ck swinger). We define each type and discuss their motivations and expectations in the lifestyle. We emphasize the importance of definitions in the lifestyle and how they can help avoid frustration and misunderstandings. We also provide tips on how to navigate the swinging community and find like-minded individuals who share your interests and boundaries. Join us in this episode as we explore the different types of swingers and the categories of swinging. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode has something for everyone.SHOW NOTES: Two Categories of Swinging: RandomSwingerVanilla SwingerHobby SwingerCelestial SwingerFriends Only SwingerLifestylerDTFerDefinitions MatterHow to Avoid FrustrationSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Ed and Phoebe reveal how they have grown in the swinging lifestyle as individuals and as a couple.  Over the past 10 years, their lives have become richer, more satisfying, and deeply connected.Show NotesConfidenceComfortAdaptingBiWatching EdOne and DoneFWBSoft SwapSeparationCostumesSex StyleOld FucksKiss-n-tellSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Men are pretty easy creatures, at least when it comes to sex. We have strong opinions about many things…but when it comes to sex, we enjoy it, however we can get it.  We are here to set the record straight from our experience. SHOW NOTES: Sounds you makeLooking silly"Unattractive" featuresNot looking sexyBonus: Types of sexSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 If you have ever wondered if women prefer bigger cocks then you might be surprised when they prefer it.  Swinging provides novelty to swinger's sex lives and dick size tends to stand erect.  SHOW NOTES: Women's PreferenceCertain FactorsBig Dick AdvantagesBig Dick DisadvantagesBig Dick Kink? or Novelty?Relationship FactorSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

People tend to overestimate themselves in all things and penis size is no different.  Then you start swinging and now everything gets accentuated!  Swinging makes us vulnerable in different ways.  We want to look good to our new sex partners, perform well, and satisfy them.  All this gets tested in the swinger environment each time you encounter different people.  SHOW NOTES: Are You Satisfied with Your Penis?Big Dick KinkThe 70 Year MythBig Dick - Advantages & DisadvantagesHow to MeasureAverage Penis SizePenis Size by CountryWhat Affects Penis SizeHow to Make Your Dick BiggerHow to Give Your Children a Big Dick  SHOUT OUTS:They beat us to the topic, but we did it a little different…@SwingDownUnder @casualswinger @SoloSwinginhttps://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder/status/1546495768663556098 Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Being manscaped for swinging is the least we can do for our potential play partners. Make a good first impression by looking sharp, smelling nice, and not choking her with your hairy balls... Ed walks through his routine and throws in a few tips for getting that close enough to fuck shave as well as some great products he recommends for your routine. SHOW NOTES: Why Manscape?Ed's Routine and tipsTrim, pluck, and shaveShaving the balls - Risks!Fournier's gangrenePut a bow on it Manscaping Products:Norelco MultigroomFoot FilePedeggDermasuri MittMan Made Wash Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Join us for our podcast resort takeover in Cost Rica from June 3rd - 10th, 2023!  It's an all-inclusive, clothing-optional, jungle resort takeover with a playroom suite, spa, pool, hot tub, mouthwatering cuisine, and some included excursions!  SHOW NOTES: https://swingeruniversity.com/costarica2023/Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Getting together with swingers is so much fun we almost forget why we go to lifestyle swinger resorts and hotel events.  Most of us are there to experience sex with other people.  It's a challenge living our best life with our secret sexual freedom and partying like a rock star in our 20's.  We figured out the factors keeping you from that party between the sheets!   SHOW NOTES: Sun is sappy!Dehydration killsDehydration AcceleratorsPhysical ActivityFoods that say night-nightTime of DayNew Strategy SHOUT OUTS:https://www.swingingdownunder.comREFERENCES:https://www.sleep.org/sleep-questions/sun-makes-you-tired/https://www.self.com/story/sunshine-fatiguehttps://www.menshealth.com/health/a19531253/why-the-sun-makes-you-tired/Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

This podcast talks about swinger cliques and how to break into one, get consent from someone, and how our comfort level in the lifestyle has changed. SHOW NOTES:  Obstacle 1: Cliques Do they exist? How to break throughA New Comfort LevelHey, where's Phoebe?Obstacle 2: ConsentWhen someone speaks for youDom v. Sub? Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Nipple and areola play is fun, and for some women, it is critical to their clitoral and vaginal orgasm.  Some women can have "nipple-gasms" from nipple play alone!  An estimated 82% of women report having sexual arousal from nipple stimulation. SHOW NOTES: Nipple/Areola Fun FactsMen and their NipplesHow to Have a Nipple OrgasmSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Porn!  Soon as we had the technology to produce moving pictures, pornos were born. Moving visual stimulus of real people having sex is about as close as most vanilla folks get to what swingers get to see at any party. Porn has had some pretty low times in terms of quality and writing, but there has been a renaissance in the porn industry over the last few years. There is a larger selection than ever, and the quality is better than it's ever been. SHOW NOTES: Statistics and FactsReal Amateur pornArtsy PornAlternative PornClassy PornREFERENCES:https://makelovenotporn.tv/https://mashable.com/article/frolicme-erotic-porn-anna-richards-interviewhttps://lustery.com/https://erikalust.com/filmshttps://www.x-art.com/https://www.wowgirls.xxx/http://Abbywinters.comhttp://girlsoutwest.com https://www.statista.com/chart/16959/share-of-the-internet-that-is-porn/ Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Erotica is incredibly important in the female world since 90% of women use their imagination to get aroused.  Cum with us to discover May is Masturbation Month and learn about Audio and Literature Erotica for Women.   SHOW NOTES: A review on erotic apps and websites.REFERENCES:  https://www.tryquinn.com/https://www.girlonthenet.com/https://soundsofpleasure.tumblr.com/https://www.reddit.com/r/pillowtalkaudio/https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildaudio/https://soundsofpleasure.tumblr.com/https://www.dipseastories.com/https://apps.apple.com/gb/app/emjoy-womens-sexy-self-care/id1467274919https://lustery.com/pov/category/eroticahttps://lustery.com/pov/category/podcasthttps://sugarcuntwrites.com/https://lustery.com/pov/category/eroticahttps://lustery.com/pov/category/podcastSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

May is National Masturbation Month!  Its cumming out day was May 7, 2015, and since then has taken over the entire month.  Join us for information on health reasons, techniques, setting the mood, erotic fiction, and stories!   SHOW NOTES: Health Benefits of MasturbatingGetting Out of the RutTechniques, Diagrams, VideosErotic AudioErotic LiteratureSetting the Mood Techniques:https://www.omgyes.com/en/?hv=2https://celebsroulette.com/videos/6073/alba-masturbation-techniques/?play=true Erotic Fiction/Stories:https://www.literotica.com/https://lustery.com/pov/category/eroticaSetting the Mood and Oils:Massage OilsGood Clean Love Sex Playlist on Spotify Death Grip Syndrome:https://www.forhims.com/blog/death-grip-syndrome Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) is an important topic that seems to affect many women in the lifestyle.  We have more research and better information on BV and the swinging lifestyle.  This episode will:  define BV, identify who gets BV, describe how people get it, cover BV as an STI, discuss vaginal pH, and provide a list of 32 items to limit your chances of getting BV. SHOW NOTES: What is Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)Is Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) considered an STI?How do I get Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)Vaginal pH BalanceVaginal MicrobiotaActions I can take to reduce chances of getting Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)For detailed show notes with links and our list of actions to reduce your risk of BV, visit  SwingerUniversity.com. Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

If your end game in swinging is always full swap, you might be missing out!  We discuss the expansive creativity, and FUN, that occurs when full swap is off the table. Come listen to all the juicy details.Join us at #PCAP2022  Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 We provide our final review of the Costa Rica Hotel Takeover for the week of  April 2-9, 2022.  It had it's pros but if you actually wanted to have sex with other people…find out if it was worth the Swinger Tax!SHOW NOTES:Perspective - CaliforniaCostVenueClassesEntertainmentPercentage of Actual SwingersWrap upSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Sadly our last daily recap because we head home tomorrow. We'll do a round-up once we're home and settled in... It's the white night theme. We have some more sexy conversations and get to know our new sexy friends a bit better. We meet a few new couples, and so e full contact swinging in the playroom. Phoebe and I have two different experiences at the same time. Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Recapping the fifth day here in Costa Rica. Fetish night, getting out of our slump, and some of the ups and downs of the trip.Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Phoebe and I recall the day's journey with some serious introspection and some thought and questions for all our listeners. Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Catching up on all the adventures of the day. Jungle night, searching for the "right" couple (as in right now), pool sex with Phoebe.  Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Another day in Costa Rica at a fabulous adults-only, all-swinger takeover.  More fun, friends, and frolicking in the sun, and on the dance floor. Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 Recording live from the event here in Costa Rica!Our first night of fun and meeting fun new people.Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Is the swinging lifestyle all Sport Fucking?  Can you make love to someone who isn't your primary partner?  This episode breaks down the difference between the two styles of sex and what our lovemaking session was like with one of our favorite couples.   SHOW NOTES:Lovemaking in the LifestyleFucking in the LifestyleSexy Encounter with Mr. & Mrs. RedDefining my Sexual ExperienceSexual PreferencesSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Many STIs and Trichomoniasis can be spread through oral sex. We talk about how to detect it, avoid it, and treat it. Plus, the emotional shame, anger, and resentment that can impact your quality of life.Join us at Podcast-A-Palooza!  https://podcast-a-palooza.com/SUPSHOW NOTES:How common is Trichomoniasis?How did I get Trichomoniasis?Who can get Trichomoniasis?Symptoms of TrichomoniasisTreating TrichomoniasisDo I tell others I have Trichomoniasis?Emotional impact of TrichomoniasisPrevention for TrichomoniasisResources and Links (see below):RESOURCES https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/trichomoniasis/symptoms-causes/syc-20378609https://www.cdc.gov/std/trichomonas/stdfact-trichomoniasis.htm https://www.emedicinehealth.com/can_a_man_give_a_woman_trichomoniasis/article_em.htm https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/stds-hiv-safer-sex/trichomoniasishttps://www.cdc.gov/std/treatment-guidelines/trichomoniasis.htm https://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/stdfact-stdriskandoralsex.htm#anchor_1638992941914 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/286165338_The_impact_of_sexually_transmitted_diseases_on_quality_of_life_Application_of_three_validated_measuresCONDOMS https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a25922204/cosmopolitan-condom-power-to-decide-survey/FEMALE CONDOM https://fc2.us.com/how-to-use/fc2-female-condom-step-by-step-instructions-english/HOW TO USE A DENTAL DAMhttps://www.cdc.gov/condSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Join us for….all the feels: rejection, jealousy, mind fucking, hokey pokey and zombie feelings.  We also share some of our early perceptions of swinging and personal growth. SHOW NOTES:A Little About UsJealousyAll the feels!Zombie FeelingsMind FuckingRejectionHokey Pokey Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Is your playground missing a swing?  There are many things that that can jeopardize your swinging experience; anxiety about physical attributes, personality quirks, lack of networking, poor teamwork, sensitive topics, participation and kinks.SHOW NOTES:Physical Appearance - Hygiene - Image - AgeNetworking - Teamwork - FlexibilitySensitive Topics - Too Much of EverythingParticipation - Fetishes Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Your swinger fantasy most often will not match reality.  There is an exciting plethora of orgasms and orgies you can have while swinging with different types of people in many situations. SHOW NOTES:Sexual ExperiencesOrgasmsOrgiesTypes of PeopleSituationsSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

2021 got better half way through the year band the last few months have allowed us a few opportunities to relax in the company of like minded people. New Years Eve this year was one of those opportunities. We spent two nights with friends old and new to ring in the new year as well as say goodbye to the last.   SHOW NOTES: Allures Hotel Takeover: 2 Nights - NYE &  PJ PartyNYE - Formal Fun Dancing and Sonoma SexiesProwling the halls4:30 AM!PJ Party and lingerie Phoebe Strip Tease!Great conversationWhat no penetration?VenueLessons Learned Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Explore with us more swinger dynamics, the NO condom incident, a gallant introduction, the fabulous 4 a.m. 4-some, and the effects of inappropriate touching during Halloween's House Party and 2-night Hotel Takeover.  Plus, how to have an electrifying swinger orgy with a tens unit!   SHOW NOTES:Halloween House Party Hair PullingSwinger OrgyTens UnitWhoops..No Condom!Allures Hotel 2-Night Party PJ Party Pre-party PJSwinger ConnectionsHalloween Party Gallant IntroductionSingle Male DebacleFabulous 4 a.m. 4-some!The Reason To Swing Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Network, network, network.  Every opportunity to connect with other swingers is critical to finding the parties not posted on swinger sites. Networking is fun and connects you with couples and their list of invitees.Over the years our connections to couples in the lifestyle have opened up all kinds of doors for us. These lifestyle friendships provided us invitations to parties, connections to other couples, and a richer experience. This connection also relieves the anxiety that can come with meeting new people, or attending parties that you've never been to before. Knowing at least one person can really free your mind of worry about "not knowing" anyone there.We had met this couple at an after party at a hotel takeover. This initial interaction got us invited back for more fun at their house, and a new group of people. This party expanded our circle of friends even more. Each new group brings more opportunity, and better connections.SHOW NOTES:Make the connectionExchange contact informationFollow upGo anyway if you can't play Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Sometimes while swinging, your direct communication goes sideways!  We get nude with two couples and reveal the TRUTH about what happened and some tips about how you can avoid this experience yourselves.SHOW NOTES:CommunicationCultureDrinkingPlay PartnersCommunication FAILRiskFrustrationFeelingsNext Time?Lessons LearnedSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

It is with heavy hear that we wrap up this fantastic week. Our last day at Coco Cay turned out to not be such a perfect day, but we made the best of it.Show Notes:Tropical StormyCabana FriendsConference PlayDinner and MassagesPurple Promenade PlayFinal MealDisembarkAxel HotelWrap up - Contrast with 2019Thanks to our fellow podcasters, for making us feel welcome!@swingerdiaries, @SaphicSwingers, @2hotwives, @mixxednutzz, @4ourplay, @TorridSouls Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Its almost the last  day of the Bliss Cruise… So sad to go, but vacations can't last forever. Enough of that what about the fun?Show Notes:Pool Day X3Where can I sit… ;)Games and frolickingFetish NightMore Friends!Sexy Time!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Another day in paradise. Its all about getting your glow on and taking in the sights of St Thomas. We spend some down  time and Up time with our friends in another tropical getaway location. Show Notes:French FoodGlow Night Hype!Wet BalconiesSt ThomasSushiAnimal Night - almost…Pool Parties and O-Shots!Stay tuned for Fetish NightSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Day 3 of the our Bliss Cruise November 2021 Daily series. We're finally hitting our stride on this cruise. We've met more sexy people and had some new experiences.Show Notes:Pool Time and piercingsLadies OnlyLovely Lady Visitor... LLVDinner and learning about repressed statesSexy PhotosMore LLV fun...Play Time!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Another fabulous day at sea. In today's episode we talk about Mardi Trois and all the fabulous people that came out to play.Show Notes:Amazing peopleCostumesFellow podcasters: Saphic swingersTwo Hot WivesTorrid Souls4PlaySwinger DiariesPlay Room FULL HouseBreaking into "Cliques"Pool TimeGirls Only FunSharing Swingers  and a Coast Guard RescueSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

This is our second episode in our onboard episodes where we discuss the adventures on our first day back on the Bliss Cruise!Show Notes:BoardingThis thing is HUGEFoodBalconies serve one purpose onlyEntertainmentA few bumpsFriends and FirstsSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

This is our pre-cruise episode, kicking the tires with our mobile setup. Recording in our hotel room in Miami... So far so good.We'll be heading out on the Oasis of the seas tomorrow and we can't wait. We've all been cooped up for a year and we're rearing to go.Give us a listen, and stay tuned for all the fun, facts, and friends as we head out on our second lifestyle cruise.Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Glitter + Clitoris = Glitoris! The BEST pool party in 2021! In this episode we talk about our 2nd house party after vaccination and our 1st party in the bay area. This party was off the hook!SHOW NOTES:Always Fuck the HostGet Contacts - Ho CardsBe Extroverted!Boobs as Glitter ApplicatorsDrinking, Awareness, SafetyRespectful of SurroundingsSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Swinging during a vanilla vacation can be challenging.  We lay out your best options for swinger hook-ups in Colorado.  Pre-planning, follow up and a back up plan are key!    SHOW NOTES:Hot Swinger DatesSwing SitesSwinging Backup PlansSwinger House PartiesPreplan Your SwingingSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 Thinking of having a swinger party? This podcast covers how and why to have a swinger house party, neighbors, security, safety, supplies, food, drinks, cleanup, setting the mood, and having a good time! SHOW NOTES: Types of House PartiesWhy do it?The NeighborsThe MoneyYum YumsSecurity/SafetySupplies & ToysClosing Time Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Are you a single female and are thinking about swinging?  This podcast covers what it's like to be a Unicorn in the swinging lifestyle.  We address bi-sexuality, dating, safety, perceptions and more in this episode of the, "Life of a Unicorn."SHOW NOTES:The life of a UnicornPerception in the LifestyleAssumptions / Expectations of a UnicornPlaying with CouplesSafety w/ SistercornHow to Meet Play Partners Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Swingers aren't any different then any other social group of humans. There's always people that stand out, some good, some bad. This episode we talk through some highlights and lowlights of our experiences at our first event after vaccinations!  Join us for our tell-all of the Allure's Glow Party!SHOW NOTES:First Swinger Party after VaccineSlow StartDungeon and PlayroomHotel after party-PARTY!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 We all go through periods of time where we feel like we don't look our best, or that we won't be accepted for how we look. Society doesn't help with our body image issues. Both men and women struggle with their appearance and self image. These feeling can affect your sex life, and your swinging fun. In this episode we share some stories and examples of these struggles as well as tip on how to get of our heads and get on with the fun.  SHOW NOTES: PerceptionComparingWhy it Doesn't MatterCreating ConfidenceSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

BV or Bacterial Vaginosis.  It's a highly transmittable vaginal infection that you don't want to get while swinging.  This episode covers: how to perform the "whiff" test, BV risks, why it occurs, contributing factors, things that help and how to get rid of it.  SHOW NOTES:Whiff TestWhat is Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)BV FactsWhy Does it OccurThings that Contribute to BVItems that Help your pHHow to Get Rid of BVGet Out of a Play SituationBacterial Vaginosis: https://www.womenshealth.gov/a-z-topics/bacterial-vaginosisBacterial Vaginosis: https://www.cdc.gov/std/tg2015/bv.htm5 Fall Foods That Support Vaginal Health:  https://goodcleanlove.com/blogs/good-clean-love/5-fall-foods-that-support-vaginal-healthProbiotics For Women's pH Balance:  https://goodcleanlove.com/blogs/good-clean-love/probiotics-for-women-s-ph-balanceHow To Maintain A Healthy Vaginal pH:   https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/vaginal-ph-balance#maintaining-vaginal-healthProbiotics for Vaginal Health: https://www.todaysdietitian.com/newarchives/0519p30.shtmlEffect of a Yoghurt Drink Containing Lactobacillus Strains on Bacterial Vaginosis in women: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29065710/Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In this episode we talk about "those" couples you want to avoid having sex with for the first time ...or ever again.  We reveal some "red flags" that may pop up while getting to know them or even after you had sex with them. Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Looking to boost your profile on any dating site? Take better pictures for your spouse? Get more Instagram followers? We have some tips for you!SHOW NOTES:Look natural, but composed Fun is sexySmileEnthusiasmFlirty not SluttyTechniques LightingTripodGet relaxedPosesDemonstrateSetting the moodAnonymityNO… Not that! These are things you should avoid References:https://www.brit.co/how-to-pose-for-photos/https://expertphotography.com/boudoir-poses/https://www.shootproof.com/blog/boudoir-photo-poses/ - Some great posesBoudoir Photography: Flow PosingHow to get a good bed photo  Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Interview with Certified Sex Therapist and Sexuality Coach, Rhoda Lipscomb!  We talk about the unspoken Issue of erections challenges in men and orgasming with your swing partner.  Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 Follow us down the rabbit hole as we expose scam dating sites. Whether you're single or a swinger this episode may just save you a lot of suffering and time on the phone with your credit card company. Listen in as we walk through some great techniques for checking to see if the dating site you're about to sign up with may in fact be a scam. Show Notes:Rabbit hole of deceit!100 Sites of doom...What looks good may be really bad...Right clicky thing - "Search Google for image"Scam tracking siteshttps://datingspot24.com/tag/scam/Be aware of these companies:VodFunPayCintiletBlue Mouse LimitedDesdemona LimitedHubPeopleAugustine LimitedNetFanPix LimitedSOL Networks Limited Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 In this episode we respond to a listener email about loud orgasms and squirting at swinger events. Along with some of our tips, pros and cons we threw in a few stories. We want all our listeners to become more comfortable if you're a little vocal in the orgasm department, or you like it when sex gets wetter.Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

The 3 C's of Swinging: Connecting/Courting, Communicating, and Courtesy. These 3 social elements play a large part in your swinger game whether you are hosting or attending a party.SHOW NOTES:Connecting / CourtingHomeSwinger PartyHotel - Planned v. SpontaneousRules / PreferencesCommunicatingCourtesySupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 Well, ladies, this is your episode. Phoebe challenged me to put my money where my mouth is so here it is… The Swinger University guide to Oral Sex for the ladies. Gentleman, get out your pencils and notebooks, it's time to brush up on your licking technique. SHOW NOTES: Why Have Oral Sex? Risks of Oral Sex Basics of Cunnilingus Vulva Anatomy Cunnilingus Communication Cunnilingus Positions Cunnilingus Techniques Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In this episode we discuss some of the pros and cons to the two approaches of finding play partners: FWB and DTF. Friends With Benefits (FWB)Down To Fuck (DTF)The Nirvana of the LifestylePros and Cons of FWB v. DTFSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 In this episode we discuss a few questions sent to us by a listener about stamina expectations in the lifestyle. It can be a tricky situation, but we've got a few tips to keep your "head" in the game…We address stamina expectations in the lifestyle, how to lengthen your stamina and how to take a break without disrupting the mood.What are the expectations for stamina while playing?How do you deal with recuperation time?What if I literally need to take a break?How can I lengthen my stamina? Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

How do you come back from an experience where one partner feels the other crossed the line in the lifestyle? We share a personal story, why it can occur and how you come back together after. SHOW NOTES: Why Does It Happen? Uninhibited: chemical, libations, hormones Miscommunication: verbal, non-verbal, codes Not on the same page: conservative, enthusiastic Temptations by another Unconsidered situation Innocent reason Nefarious reason Unknown reaction How Do You Come Back? Growing Opportunity Compassion Communication Responsibility Appreciation Re-establish trust: understanding, step-back, reconnect, communicate, patience, needs, new rules, clarity, prioritiesSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

How do you get a second swinger date with a couple?  We talk about how to reach out to that other couple without sounding desperate or creepy, yet confident!SHOW NOTES:Post Game Wrap-UpTimingFormula: Texting & IRLExamples:  IRL, Cruise, Hotel TakeoverFollow UpSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Not all condoms are safe for every BODY.  We discuss how condoms are different in regards to: additives, chemicals, latex sensitivities, lubricants, flavors, colors, and sharing!  Condoms in the lifestyle tend to be plentiful, and sometimes free, but are they right for you!SHOW NOTES:Types of CondomsFemaleMaleSpermicidesLatex vs. Non-LatexSizesLubricationSharing Sustain Natural Ultra-ThinLOLA Ultra-Thin LubricatedDurex Real Feel Avanti Bare Polyisoprene NonlatexLifeStyles SKYN Original Nonlatex CondomLifeStyles SKYN Extra Lubricated Nonlatex CondomsTrojan Natural Lamb skin to Skin Latex-Free CondomFC2 Internal CondomGLYDE Ultra Thin PremiumLovability CondomsUnique Plus Latex-FreeTop Rated Condoms Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Everyone likes to rave about single life, especially after getting out of a long-term relationship. We decided to flip this around and offer 15 reasons why staying together, but swinging is better than a single life. Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

A review on Swinger Resorts: Temptations, Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl.  This review compares and contrasts the differences between the resorts by: demographic, food, entertainment, cost, resort size and percentage of swinger opportunity.SHOW NOTES:TemptationsDesire - Riviera MayaDesire - Pearl Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Masturbation is normal, natural and integral to our health and well-being.  This episode covers the importance of masturbation, sharing it with your partner and addressing some of the negative perspectives in society.  We also share some interesting stories of masturbation while swinging and historical facts you will find fascinating!SHOW NOTESWhy Do It?Who Does It?Negative Perspectives in SocietyInteresting FactsMasturbation While Swinging Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Clothes make the swinger... Swingers love to dress up and dress sexy!  We discuss the why swingers love it,  where to get it, and how to get comfortable wearing nothing but tape or paint!SHOW NOTES:Sexy Outfits Are NecessaryComfort LevelWhere to Shop https://www.venus.com/default.aspxhttps://www.yandy.com/https://warriorwithindesigns.com/collections/new-arrivalshttps://badstarlove.bigcartel.com/https://www.electriqueboutique.com/https://www.lingeriediva.com/http://seductionextreme.com/https://www.3wishes.com/sexy-costumes/https://www.hunkemoller.co.uk/https://www.milanoo.com/https://www.fashionnova.com/https://www.aliexpress.comhttps://www.wickedweasel.comSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Learning how to perform fellatio that both people enjoy depends on good communication with your partner, body comfort, education, techniques, an open mind, and enthusiasm!  We have combined years of experience, notes, books, research, blogs and chatroom information here for your listening pleasure.  Just remember…. A blow job is so much more than just putting it in your mouth. SHOW NOTESBlowjob?  Why?Do What Feels Good To YouCommunication Set the MoodCleanlinessFlavor of Cum = DietManscapingGag ReflexPreparation PositionTeasingTechniquesGetting Started  Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

How to keep the secret you are a swinger from your co-workers, friends and family. Lying is impossible to maintain, you're bound to trip up, and there's a better way. We help you come up with an alibi and share our 5 tips on talking about your adventures in swinging without outing yourself.SHOW NOTES:People IN your businessQuestions from co-workers/friends/familyExamples for each scenarioOur 5 TipsTIPS Take vanilla photos to share with friends and family.Schedule some vanilla activities.Stay close to the truth - fine line.Get your story straight (Think about your alibi ahead of time.)Know your connection. (Person/couple you are talking about.) Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

The benefits of kissing…not only is it good for your health, increase connection with your partner, kick things off in the bedroom, it may also help you pick your next swing partner!  We cover fun facts, why people kiss and 5 kissing techniques.SHOW NOTESFun FactsHealth AspectsTechniquesReasons We KissBook: The Art of Kissing by William CaneInterview: NPR with William Cane and Alex Chadwick where William talks about the Liposuction Kiss.  https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=1484903Bonus! Here are the results of our kissing survey: Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Swinging can be defined as non-monogamy, specifically "ethical" or "consensual" non-monogamy.  We define all types of non-monogamy and explore the mental hurdles and judgements in the swinging lifestyle due to this label.  In addition, we will cover four things you can practice to be successful as a swinger couple in the lifestyle.What is Non-Monogamy?Forms of Non-MonogamyUpside/DownsideMental Hurdles/JudgementsFour Critical Things You Need To KnowSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Swinging can bring up all kinds of feelings and jealousy and envy are definitely two of them.  What is Jealousy?  What is Envy?  You may find yourself experiencing these emotions in the lifestyle and not know how to interpret or resolve them.  Both emotions have positive and negative effects with jealousy having some biological reasons too!  Introspection and open, honest communication is key when swinging with your partner in the lifestyle.SHOW NOTES:Jealousy Defined Negative AttributesPositive AttributesEnvy Defined Negative AttributesPositive AttributesJealousy in SocietyEnvy in SocietyJealousy As BiologyListener Email  Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Lubes, Lubes, Lubes.  Women….which one do you choose?  We review all the base type of lubes for your safe swinging pleasure: water, glycerin, silicone, petroleum, and oil.  You will learn about the ingredients, pH, and how this plays a VERY important role for the female vagina.  Quality ingredients will reduce your STI risk and bacterial vaginosis (BV)!  This review should be shared with everyone, not just with your swinger friends!SHOW NOTES:Is Your Lube Expired?Lube pH Matters!Osmolality - Oh Yeah.Vaginal Epithelium LayerIngredients Water, Glycerin, Silicone, Petroleum, OilTypes of Lube Pros v. ConsReferenced Articles:42 Different Lube's pH Value and Osmolality (National Center for Biotechnology Information):   https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3161103/table/T1/#tf20Are parabens safe?:   https://sexualityresources.com/ask-dr-myrtle/sexual-health-events-3-menopause-womens-urologic-issues/are-parabens-safeCervical & Vaginal Mucosal Epithelia:  Blaskewicz CD, Pudney J, Anderson DJ (July 2011). "Structure and function of intercellular junctions in human cervical and vaginal mucosal epithelia". Biology of Reproduction. 85 (1): 97–104. doi:10.1095/biolreprod.110.090423. PMC 3123383. PMID 21471299.Cute Little Bunnies No Longer Have To Die For Your Lube:   https://www.vocativ.com/news/437121/fda-personal-lubricant-bunnies/index.htmlHyperosmolal vaginal lubricants markedly reduce epithelial barrier properties in a three-dimensional vaginal epithelium model – ScienceDirect:   https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S221475001730118XVaginalLactobacilli Dominance and Vaginal pH: Why Is the Human Vaginal Microbiome Unique?:  Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Practicing safe sex may not be something you have done for awhile but if you are starting out in the swinger lifestyle, or are little rusty on your facts, this is definitely the podcast to listen to.  We are covering STIs, HIV, oral sex, and testing.  Swingers tend to be big on testing and we are going to break that down for you too.Show NotesSafe Sex In The Swinger LifestyleIs Oral Sex Safer?STI Types & TimelinesHIV Testing & How It WorksHow Do You Know If You Are Really Safe?ResourcesResourcesSTIs Types, Timelines, and Symptoms:Chlamydia: 1-3 weeks, 50% Men & 70% women = no symptoms.Genital Herpes: 4-7 days, most people don't have any symptoms when first infected.Genital Warts: 2-3 months, most people with the virus don't develop obvious warts.Gonorrhea: 10 days, 10% Men & 50% Women = no symptoms.Pubic Lice & Scabies: 5 days - 5 weeksSyphilis: 2-3 weeks, symptoms not obvious and may come and go.Trichomoniasis: 4 weeks, 50% Men & Women = no symptoms.HIV: 2-6 weeks, some get symptoms, some don’t.VIP Testing Serviceshttps://viptestingservices.com/services/std-testing-services/How soon can I take an HIV test?http://i-base.info/guides/testing/how-soon-can-i-take-a-testThe Aids Institute https://www.theaidsinstitute.org/education/aids-101/how-do-hiv-tests-work-0CDC Fact Sheetshttps://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/fact_sheets.htmSEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE SURVEILLANCE 2017https://www.cdc.gov/std/stats17/default.htmHOW DO HIV TESTS WORK? https://www.theaidsinstitute.org/education/aids-101/how-do-hiv-tests-work-0HOW SOON CAN I TAKE AN HIV TEST?http://i-base.info/guides/testing/how-soon-can-i-take-a-testHIV TRANSMISSIONhttps://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/transmission.htmlORAL STD FACTS & RISKShttps://www.cdc.gSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Finding the right fit in the swinging lifestyle can be challenging. Swinging with others involves compatibility, attraction, confidence and preferences.  It is very much like dating but waaaaay more complicated.  You may have found that the swinging lifestyle can get very challenging to coordinate all four interests at the same time and we hope to provide a bit of insight on the "right fit". SHOW NOTES:Compatibility TurtleBase JumperTrue FoursomeIntellectConfidencePhysicalAttractivenessKissing 4 DummiesWomen Are GatekeepersPreferences & Stereotypes Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 We share our adventure in Reno with some new friends we met at the 2019 New Years event. We also discuss how important communication , and expectation can be in making any Swinger connection successful. Hope you enjoy… We sure did. SHOW NOTES:Communication Keep The Fire Burnin'!Don't Burn The ForestHonestyExpectations To Have or Not To HaveSomewhere In BetweenFlexibility Be Flexible With Intent!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Are you ready to go when you get the call for fun?  A little pre-planning can make the evening go more smoothly. We discuss what's in our "Ho" bag, some extras, and the bare necessities for all swingers.Show Notes Ed & Phoebe's Ho BagEssentials For Your Ho BagFull Ho or Semi-Ho!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Overindulging on your drug of choice can have an impact on your interactions while swinging. We recall some of our experiences, and provide examples of how moderation is an important strategy for navigating social, and sexual interactions at lifestyle events.If you are looking for a guide on how to use drugs in the lifestyle, this is not your episode.  There are resources on the internet for this information, but we’re not one of them.Note: We're re-listening to this episode after receiving some constructive criticism from a listener. We intended this episode to be a reflection of our personal experiences with drugs and alcohol in the lifestyle. We acknowledge that drugs and their use are complex and nuanced issues. We are NOT scientists or pharmacists. We have personal experiences with drugs: Our use and the use of others amongst our families, and friends. This still doesn't make us experts for all people or experiences. We're just people who have had experiences and passing them on to the community.We will try to address these criticisms... Stay tuned!SHOW NOTES:Ed & Phoebe's storyEffects of drugs and alcohol in the lifestyleRemember me, not remember mePros v. Cons: alcohol, cannabis, cocaine, MDMA, Special KResources:The Center for substance Abuse Treatment - 24 hour hotline 1-800-662-HELPSunrise House - American Addiction Centers https://sunrisehouse.com/club-drugs/molly/DrugRehab.com www.drugrehab.comThe Fresh toast  www.thefreshtoast.comSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Join Ed and Phoebe for New Year's 2019 at the largest Northern California Swinger Party, AlluresLifestyle.  Swing into 2020 with the lows and highs of each night.  We met some sexy friends then rang their bell and set the tone for 2020!Show NotesNYE PreParty BluesNYE Glam, Clits and Tits NYE Blues 2NY DAY Post Party Panned Out!Take Away & Lessons Learned Planning & Backup PlansGracious & Respectful Behavior"Drama" v. Normal Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Another elective course reviewing a local house party! This party was hosted by one of the local unicorns, and it was fabulous... Join us to hear all the delectable details.Show NotesSexy House Party & Buffet!More Than Just an Appetizer - Oh My!Mystery MealMain Course - Sloppy but Not Seconds!Dessert Review House Party Perfection: Scene, Food, PeopleSingle Guy A+: What WorkedObservation Tips on CouplesSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

We interview Alexa (because she does what she's told...), a lifestyle Unicorn.  She will be sharing how she got started swinging, provide advice for the lifestyle, sharing her experiences and advice as well as some funny stories! SHOW NOTES:Frisky Unicorn – How to Get Started The Glitter Life of a Unicorn Regulars v. One-timersHow to Find a Couple Caged v. FreeRules of the Unicorn HornThe Dark Side of the Horn SafetyUnicorn Advice Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 Ed and Phoebe document their first trip together out of the country and to a clothing optional, swinger resort! Come join the sexy swinger fun with Swinger University and Allures Lifestyle at a swinger resort takeover in Jaco, Costa Rica.  www.Allureslifestyle.comShow NotesPreparation and PackingTravel Day - Oh My!Naked Swinger ResortThe JungleFabulous FoodPlayroom and the Toys!Sex at the PoolIncluded ExcursionsPool GamesHot Fun! Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

An interview of long time swingers in the lifestyle, with a combined experience of 50 years, documenting the history of swinging in the Northern California area, the fun, the challenges and the long term rewards. Show NotesHistory of swinging in the Northern California area over the past 40 years. TrendsChangesHow Gino & Ginger got started in the lifestyle.Stories: challenges and rewards.Advice Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

A review on a fabulous time at the Allures swinger Halloween Party in Northern California with DJ Black Ice. Two nights of on-premise play with 800 sexy swingers having fun!  Join us for dancing, swinging, sexy and sensual swinger lifestyle experiences.  www.Allureslifestyle.comSHOW NOTES:Allures Halloween Swinger PartyTwo Nights of Fun Pajama PartyHalloween PartyUnpredictable Play DatesSexy TimesSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Dating couples in the swing lifestyle has advantages and disadvantages.  Some couples prefer to hit and quit.  Depending on your swing style, dating as a couple is more challenging than dating as a single person, because the dynamics are four times as complex.  Getting four people to agree on a date, show up, experience a great vibe all around, and be on the same page…well, it gets complicated!  Whether you put in the time or not, couple dating can be rewarding and so can hit and quit depending on your swinging taste.SHOW NOTESAdvantages to DatingBetter SexTips for SuccessTime ConsumingFirst Date - Never at you houseDisadvantages to Dating Off NightNo VibeHit and Miss One Night StandCheck ListHall PassHit and QuitGratitude and Thanks Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

An interview of long time swingers in the lifestyle since 2009 sharing how they started swinging, their funny stories about the lifestyle, advice and changes they have seen over time.Show NotesHow Adam & Belle got started in the lifestyle.Play style, boundaries, and how it changed over time.Funny storiesAdviceChanges seen in the lifestyle over time.Straight men comfortable with bi experiences.Trends: drug use, singles, culture, respect, diversity, taboo. Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Have you communicated about how you are communicating for an event?  We will cover pre-event communication, pep talk, non-verbal and verbal communication and signals.  We share some of our favorite exit phrases we have heard over time and talk about how important it is to have a post-event conversation.Show Notes Pre-event Preparation CommunicationPre-event Pep TalkNon-Verbal SignalsVerbal PhrasesMissed Communication SignalsNon-verbal CommunicationPost-event Wrap-upSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

A review of one of the fabulous swinger events in Northern California produced by Allures with DJ Black Ice.  A unique, sexy and sensual swing lifestyle experience that draws new and long-time swingers for dancing, and on-premise play.  www.Allureslifestyle.comGetting Ready:  "The first part about getting ready for any event whether a drink date or party, is to primp, prune and pluck." Setting the Scene: The Hotel and Event description Fun & Sexy Things: How our night went and some of the fun we had#allureslifestyle Show NotesABC Party (Allures): Hotel EventHandsome and Beautiful: Days in Advance! Get to Know Your NeighborsStaycation: Arrive EarlySetting the Scene: Dance, Boom Boom Room, S&M AreaSecurity/Safety/PrivacySexy Fun People Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In today's course we are going to talk about dipping in to your first swinger event.  We will cover: cost, boundaries, intent, goals, reconnecting, and the afterglow.  Attending your first swing event can be terrifying, exciting and fun.  You will learn more about yourself and each other with each swinger event.  So, cum inside….it's class time!Show NotesCost of Swinger Events: Clubs, House Parties, HotelThe Cost of Looking Good: Hair, Nails, Waxing, Tanning, Gym MembershipSitters, Uber and Hotel Our First Event: Yay Orgy!Expectations v. Reality: Going with the FlowSpontaneous v. PlannedSet BoundariesHave A PlanWork the Room!Language and RulesReconnectingAfterglow Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

A sexy review on a swinger house party in Sonoma with a few close friends.  We begin with how we met, stayed in contact and drove 2 hours to share a bed…a couch…and another bed with some of our favorite sexy, swinger friends!  We will describe the environment and re-create the mood to bring you into this fabulous swinger party!Show NotesHow We Met: Ken, Barbie, Greg and MarshaHouse Party InviteFun In The BedroomFun On The CouchesCoffee and Morning Sausage!Beers & Brats! Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In this episode we talk about communication tools for connecting with other swingers.  We are going to describe how in-site email works, chat rooms, Kik, MeWe and a handful of swinger dating apps.  These technologies, some of them geared specifically to swingers, offer a great way to get in-touch and stay connected with other people in the swing lifestyle.  However, they do have their share of hiccups, and we share some stories about our adventures with virtual people.SHOW NOTESSwinger Site Email: Pros v. ConsSwinger Site Chat Rooms: Pros v. ConsSwinger Chat Apps: Kik, MeWe, etc.Swinger Dating Apps: Bumble, 3-Fun, etc.Text MessagingGoogle Images & PicFind Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Communication with other swingers is just as fluid as sex, which is why you need to have good communication and follow through in the swinging lifestyle.  How should you handle communications? Do you have a primary communicator? What is too much, or not enough? How do you switch from being a passive communicator to active?Swinging, just like dating is an approach game, knowing how to approach another couple and close the deal. This episode will help with those awkward swinger moments where you don't know how to turn someone down. Or more importantly how to pick someone up. We cover communication styles and etiquette, letting someone down, and how to close the deal.SHOW NOTESPrimary Communicator v. Group CommunicationGroup Fun!A lot v. A little Communication GhostingPassive CommunicationActive CommunicationAcknowledgeDeclineCounterFollow ThroughClosing The Deal! Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

 Communication is a key ingredient in any relationship. With swingers it's critical, not only for your success in the lifestyle, but also for the success of your relationship. We talk about rules, topics, insecurities and fears in the communication process.SHOW NOTESThe Ideal ConversationRules of CommunicationLet's Talk About SexFears & Insecurities Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Your swinger profile, or your dating profile, will either make or break your chances with prospective play partners. .  We have some tips for putting together a first-class profile that should make a great first impression. So sharpen your pencils, sit back, take some notes... It's class time!SHOW NOTESPurpose Of An Online PresenceThe Right Swinger Site For YouTo Swinger App Or Not Detailed DescriptionPreferencesPhotos - CurrentUpdate OftenProfiles, Profiles, ProfilesSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Today’s elective course is about the April 2019 Bliss Swinger Cruise. We’ll talk about what to expect, what to bring, and some sexy stories. Grab your sunscreen cause its a hot one. Let’s get sailing...SHOW NOTESBliss Swinger CruiseWhat to Bring Other Than ClothesWhat to ExpectMeet and GreetsDemonstrationsPool Parties and GamesPlayrooms: Types, Mood, Cleanliness, ProvisionsDining with Others Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

This episode discusses some of the benefits and downsides of the swinging lifestyle to help you figure out your reasons for joining in the fun. SHOW NOTESPleasures of Swinging: communicationmore sextechniquesbondingfunsex positionsconfidenceexperiencesexplorationemotional challenges.Pitfalls of Swinging flakesover indulgencedrugsemotional challengesanonymitydisappointmentexpectationsbad sex Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

We take some time to break down some common swinger lingo and terminology to help you navigate this exciting world of swinging. Of course we throw in a few stories to help spice up this lesson.While you could go searching across the internet for the definitions to these, we bring them to you in a nice delicious package.Here are just a few of the terms we cover:Vanilla Hunting UnicornCuckoldCuckqueenBi-curiousPlaySoft SwapFull SwapDTFKissing RuleSame RoomHall PassVoyeurismBarebacking Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

In this podcast episode, we will be discussing the big shock that can come with having the first conversation about swinging with your partner. We'll dive into ways to bring up the topic and the importance of good communication to ensure that this discussion has a positive impact on your relationship. Ideally, a good foundation of communication, a healthy sex life, and a desire to spice things up are necessary. We'll also explore various ways to initiate the conversation such as using porn, hints, turn-ons/kinks, or even podcasts 😉. We emphasize that this conversation will test the strength of your relationship, challenge personal fears and insecurities, and require mental and emotional fortitude. It's important to be empathetic, reassuring, and to listen to your partner's response, whether it's a yes or a no. Ultimately, this conversation will be the start of many conversations and hopefully lead to a deeper understanding between you and your partner. If you're not ready to start this conversation, how will you have harder conversations in the future?Show NotesHow Do You Have That First Conversation?I'm Afraid To Say What I Am ThinkingWhat's Your "In"?Communicate, Communicate, CommunicateListening Skills Are CriticalBeing Okay With "No"Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

If you’ve ever thought about swinging and nonmonogamy you’re not alone. In this episode we discuss some of the many reasons couples begin their journey into this alternative lifestyle or hobby. Whether you’re just starting to think about swinging, or have been in the lifestyle for a while we hope that everyone will learn something new.  SHOW NOTESHow Do People Get Into the Lifestyle? 20+ year relationship v. new relationshipSpicing it up – kids goneNo other sexual partners – desire for moreBeing bi:  women/men – filling in the gapFix the marriage – not recommendedSexually adventurous peopleNon-Monogamy Feels NormalPleasing Others is ThrillingFlirtingLearning New TechniquesSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok

Welcome to the Swinger University! Ready to learn? We're eager to pass on our experience and help you get a head start!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok