"Sorry For Asking" brings together longtime friends and award-winning gay adult film performers, Cole Conner and Adam Ramzi, to ask all the questions (and they mean that literally). From talking shop to sharing stories about their experiences in porn, "Sorry For Asking" podcast will give you a behind-the-scenes look at the life and reflections of queer adult content creators. Between their conversations and the parade of guests that will join them, "Sorry For Asking" will ask all the sexy questions you were too afraid to ask. "Sorry For Asking" will make you not sorry for tuning in! Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support
Working Out the Kinks, Season 2 Finale
This is it, folks! Here we are, at our season 2 finale, rounding out a full year of our amazing collaboration with the Fleshbot x Cybersocket team, featuring illuminating conversations and wonderful guests. In this episode, Cole and Adam cover a lot of ground speaking on their Folsom Street Fair experience, Halloween, and the upcoming holidays. They also have a chat about what a particular night on Folsom weekend inspired for them both, as they got an eyeful (and earful) of some very exciting sexual activities, that they don’t necessarily partake in themselves. What is kink? What is “kink shaming?” Is it fair, or is it kind of dated and unnecessary? The boys round out the episode by sharing their hopes for the holiday season, what they are grateful for during this complicated time in the world, and what they are excited for in the upcoming year. We love you all and we are so thankful for all who have tuned in! See you in 2024!Presented by Fleshbot.com
11/21/2023 • 39 minutes, 34 seconds
Loads on the Roads, featuring Max Adonis
For the past six or so years, the world has been falling in love with Max Adonis, for his sweet smile and demeanor in photos and TikTok videos, his stint as a contestant on OutTV's 'Go Go for the Gold,' as well as his very enthusiastic style of, um... 'delivery' in adult content. Now it's your turn, as you listen to this episode in which Max pays a visit to Adam and Cole in the studio for a fun and frank chat about his path to stardom. Aside from sharing about the content he creates, of which he is a firm believer that a creator should only make the kind of content he would want to watch himself, Max also gets personal about his very unique family history, which was in large part the reason for his hiatus from content creation during the height of Covid, as well as the liberation he's experienced as a nomad living in a van and traveling up and down the continent at his own pace. He also shares with us about his very unique story with the involved process of foreskin restoration. We love Max, and we know you will too!Presented by Fleshbot
11/8/2023 • 57 minutes, 7 seconds
The Twink Destroyer, featuring Jake Jaxx
Gird your loins, listeners. Especially if you’re a twink. This week, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by muscle man Jake Jaxx, who tells his very complex story that led him down into, and out of, the content creation rabbit hole. From moving around the midwest to a lengthy stint in Florida, Jake’s sexual experience began with girls, and didn’t really land him into the wonderful world of homosexuality until his mid-late 20s in Jacksonville, where he discovered his propensity for men of the young, thin, and hairless variety. Jake then slowly began turning that into the very niche adult content market when he started filming himself nailing twinks, moved himself over to Los Angeles to continue this path until a certain video of his went viral and made a huge splash in the twittersphere. And just as things started to really get rolling, Jake pulled out to pursue his real passion - personal training. Jake speaks very openly in this episode about what it’s like to navigate the world of adult films as a person with ADHD, as well as a person with very sensitive emotional triggers. This has allowed him to compartmentalize sex on camera vs personal sex, though not always successfully. Just like when he’s showing off in his videos, Jake holds nothing back in this candid conversation. Sorry not sorry!Presented by Fleshbot
10/25/2023 • 45 minutes, 36 seconds
Gays Love Groups, Don't They?
Grab a coffee, it’s just the boys this time! In this episode, Cole and Adam shoot the shit about a variety of subjects, including recent shoots, travels, and happenings. Cole tells stories about his trip to Hawaii and Adam shares about his wild time at Burning Man, from the sexy boys to the harrowing escape from an unexpected mud storm. They also open a discussion about a very fun category, specific to the gay male experience - GROUP SEX! Yay or nay? Do you like watching group scenes? Do we like filming them? Are groups a regular thing for fellas, or more of a niche sexual adventure? Let’s get into it!Presented by FleshbotHosted by Cole Connor and Adam Ramzi
10/11/2023 • 49 minutes, 27 seconds
For the Moms, Part 2: Adam's Mom
As promised, here is the second installment of For the Moms, this time with Adam's mom, Maral! In this hilarious and revealing conversation, we learn more about the history of Adam's coming of age, and into his adult film career, through Maral's eyes. She shares with the boys her experience witnessing the evolution of gay liberation from when she was young to today, what it was like to receive the news from Adam as he came out, first as a gay man and years later as a porn actor, and gives insight into how to be a supportive and encouraging (while also protective) mom to an adventurous guy like Adam. She also teaches us a very different definition of a Glory Hole. Thanks, Moms!!Presented by Fleshbot
9/27/2023 • 41 minutes, 40 seconds
For the Moms, Part 1: Cole's Mom
Ready to go deep into Cole's history? Who better as a guest than his mom, Paula? She joins us in this episode to discuss what it was like to raise a ham like Cole in Lexington, Kentucky, and what it's been like since to watch him grow into the big gay porn success story he is today. Some laughs, some tears, and many revealing insights into our sweet Cole Connor. Don't worry. Part 2 is coming soon...with Adam's mom.Presented by Fleshbot
9/13/2023 • 40 minutes, 20 seconds
Summer Customs and Dirty Desserts
Summer is wrapping up, and this week it's just the boys! In this hilarious episode, Adam shares with Cole about a very scary health crisis he went through just before a lovely summer trip to Spain, and Cole expresses some excitement for his upcoming getaway to the Market Days festival in Chicago. Then we get into some discussion about when content subscribers start asking for custom videos, and what this could entail. Cole shares about participating in the widely growing phenomenon that is "foot content," Adam tells of folks' desire for "pit and smell" videos, and then the boys touch on the somewhat less popular request to include baked goods in the mix, whether on or off camera. There are some crazy stories up in here, sorry in advance!Presented by Fleshbot
8/30/2023 • 46 minutes, 43 seconds
How To Be A Successful Degenerate featuring Adam Kubatzke
Picture it - Cole Connor goes on a content trip somewhere in Wisconsin, and among the sizable group of studs bouncing around and filming hot scenes together, a hot, blonde blue-eyed muscle man is in the mix. But wait… he’s straight? Fast forward to today, Adam Kubatzke joins Cole and Adam on the cast to share what led him down the path from being a straight-couple-comedy TikTok sensation to feeling at home among his gay buddies enough to have some fun with the boys on camera. Is it gay for pay, or is it gay baiting? Or is it somewhere in between? And as consumers, should we care? Adam tells some funny stories and insightful truths about being an ally to the community, having deep connections with gay men, and peeling the onion layers of open-mindedness and sexual fluidity while capturing it for his very curious fans, regardless of labels, identities, and orientations.Presented by Fleshbot
8/16/2023 • 37 minutes, 27 seconds
The Human Tripod, featuring King Dwarf
We’ve got royalty in the house this time, folks. Content creator, gogo star, and recent contestant on OutTV’s ‘Go Go for the Gold,’ King Dwarf is our special guest this week. In this episode, he joins Adam and Cole in the studio to talk about his experience growing up with dwarfism, the moment he realized he was packin’ some serious heat in his underwear, and all the steps toward international stardom, from his early camming days, to being a creator of his own content, to the liberation of showing his stuff on gogo boxes across the nation, and on global television. But do NOT call him a little person, as there is nothing ‘little’ about King Dwarf!Presented by Fleshbot
8/2/2023 • 49 minutes, 30 seconds
The Titty Bounce
The boys catch up over their latest happenings and cover a random array of topics, successes, blunders, new kinks, old kinks, and other reasons to share regarding the this-and-that relevant to the life of a gay adult content creator, especially as the summer ramps up and things start to get BUSY. Join in our little conversation, sorry in advance!Presented by Fleshbot
7/19/2023 • 40 minutes, 30 seconds
Gay Porn Mamma! feat. Mr. Pam
This week the boys welcome special guest, Mr Pam! Arguably the best-known cis female director of gay male porn, Mr Pam shares her journey to becoming one of the most beloved creative personalities in the industry. From her beginnings in the Bay Area squeaking into the biz almost by accident as an editor, to her creative director position with Michael Lucas, to spending eight years as the lead director of Naked Sword Originals, Mr Pam tells of the many joys and occasional pains of being committed to the world of gay adult films, as well as giving glimpses of what is next in her illustrious career.Presented by Fleshbot
7/5/2023 • 52 minutes, 27 seconds
Home Again, with Küper
This week, Adam and Cole welcome trans performer, activist, and sex goddess, Küper, who shares their very unique perspective having grown up in a repressed environment while straddling the non-binary spectrum, becoming a sex worker and adult film performer in their male form, and eventually coming out as trans at the turn of the pandemic era. They also speak about being an outspoken presence in the twitter sphere during the time of their transition, loudly voicing their concerns about representation in gay adult films, at first being silenced but then kickstarting a movement that would see substantial change in the industry in the time immediately following the BLM movement and thereafter.Presesnted by Fleshbot
6/21/2023 • 52 minutes, 35 seconds
Sundown Cumdown
This week, Adam and Cole catch up about the very busy beginning of summer happenings, work and otherwise, focusing specifically on the ins and outs of shooting studio porn. Sometimes it’s fun, sometimes it’s difficult, sometimes it’s grueling, and sometimes it’s hilarious - the boys share stories of their recent brushes with studio work and compare it to the very different experience of filming for their own content sites. They also open the discussion up to the audience, whether performers or not - how do you *get there*? What are the methods to finish? Does the climax indicate the end of the day, or can you keep going? Lotta questions, sorry for asking!Presented by Fleshbot
6/7/2023 • 45 minutes, 23 seconds
Unlocking Derek Kage
Get your ears ready. This week, Adam and Cole welcome prolific porn stud Derek Kage, who shares candidly about his journey to adult film work, from his mental health struggles early on to finding his footing in the industry and working for all the hottest studios. He also reveals the reason for his name, tells some very funny stories, and delivers it all with arguably the sexiest voice in gay porn. You might need to towel off after this one.Presented by Fleshbot x Cybersocket
5/23/2023 • 49 minutes, 51 seconds
More About Moore, featuring Josh Moore
For nearly ten years, UK sensation Josh Moore has climbed the ranks from novice “demon twink” with Michael Lucas to Falcon Exclusive porn king with over half a million Twitter followers. In this episode, Adam and Cole get the low down on Moore’s beginnings in the industry, his current lifestyle in London, and how being a performer has affected his social and sex lives. They also recount the times they have shared with him over the years, and get a glimpse of Josh’s shining future of continual success as one of gay porn’s absolute greatest.Presented by Fleshbot x Cybersocket
5/10/2023 • 46 minutes
Dating, Mating, and Content Creating
This week, the boys fall deep into a discussion about general dating rituals and how life as erotic content creators has affected their own dating habits. What came first, the chicken or the egg? Has the evolution of their dating habits led to life in the adult film world, or has being adult film stars had an influence on the way they date? Is dating easier or harder? What does ‘dating’ even entail these days, in this age of sex available at the swipe of our tired, calloused thumbs? The one thing they’re sure of is, it feels good to have a laugh about all of it with a friend!Presented by Fleshbot x Cybersocket
4/26/2023 • 44 minutes, 22 seconds
Dick Doctor, featuring Joshua Gonzalez, MD
Our first health segment! Have you ever wondered about penises? Like… what’s really up with penises? Adam and Cole get very lucky this week when they receive a visit from Los Angeles based urologist and CEO/co-founder of Popstar Labs, Dr Josh Gonzalez. In this episode, the boys get real deep with Dr Gonzalez, who shares his extensive knowledge about penile health, anatomy, enhancement and obsession, and all the things they could entail. He also plugs his specialty product, Popstar, which has been formulated to help dudes have bigger, tastier loads. Sorry not sorry!!Presented by Fleshbot x Cybersocket
4/12/2023 • 56 minutes, 6 seconds
Advanced Bottoming, featuring Devin Franco
Strap in, folks. Our special guest this week is the prince of naughty and nice, the sexy and talented Devin Franco. Devin shares with Adam and Cole about his religious upbringing in rural New Mexico, takes them on a tour of the porn that inspired his journey, including an enlightened take on the ins and outs of fisting and bondage, and tells stories about his path from popular performer to budding director. Sorry moms.Presented by Fleshbot x Cybersocket
3/29/2023 • 48 minutes, 38 seconds
Amuse Douche
In this episode, Adam and Cole catch up over the latest adventures in the world of content creation, including Cole’s 20-man excursion to the desert, which prompts the boys to discuss something very important - preparation! Yes everyone, it’s the douching episode. There’s no one way to do it, everybody does it, and we all have stories. How it works, when it doesn’t, and all the nitty and (hopefully not so) gritty. Presented by Fleshbot x Cybersocket