In this revealing episode of SiblingsToo, Nancy Morris shines a light on the impacts of sibling sexual abuse on others in the family. Joined by Anais Van Vliet, a driven PhD candidate, they dissect the complexities surrounding non-abused, non-abuser siblings in environments marred by such trauma. Anais, blending her personal history and academic prowess, explores how these siblings navigate the tumultuous aftermath of abuse.   Anais reveals that siblings, while not direct victims or perpetrators, also endure profound psychological impacts from the abuse occurring within their family unit. With meticulous research on behalf of these often silent witnesses, Anais strives to advocate for more inclusive services that address their unique healing journeys. Their work emphasizes the critical nature of the sibling bond throughout life and its potential role in fostering early disclosure, supporting survivors, and facilitating healing.   Join us for the entirety of this powerful episode to uncover more about the unseen struggles and necessities of non-abused, non-abuser siblings in the wake of sexual abuse within families. Stay tuned to #SiblingsToo for more compelling discussions that bring to light crucial aspects of sibling sexual abuse and its impact on family dynamics.   Key Takeaways: Sibling sexual abuse has far-reaching impacts, not only on the direct victims and perpetrators but also on other siblings within the family unit. Non-abused, non-abuser siblings may experience similar psychological outcomes to direct survivors, including guilt, shame, and trauma responses. These siblings exhibit unique support needs that are currently underserved by existing family-focused interventions in the wake of sexual abuse. The sibling relationship can play a protective role in the context of abuse, as siblings may contribute to early disclosure, interruption of abuse, or ongoing emotional support. There is a pressing need for research and advocacy to address the gaps in services for non-abused, non-abuser siblings and to ensure they are seen and heard within therapeutic environments.   About Anais: Anais Van Vliet is a dedicated PhD candidate at McGill University with a focus on social work. They have a substantial background in clinical support, providing assistance for various life challenges. Anais underscores their professional expertise with personal motivation, being a sibling of intrafamilial child sexual abuse survivors. Their research delves into the experiences of non-abused, non-abuser siblings within these households. Complementing their personal insight, Anais' professional journey includes advocacy for often overlooked communities impacted by sexual violence, policy-oriented research, and the provision of clinical support and services.   Professional bio and contact info Anaïs Van Vliet is a PhD candidate in Social Work at McGill university. Their doctoral research focuses on siblings of child sexual abuse survivors; their experiences and support needs surrounding sexual abuse in their family. This research is funded by the SSHRC Doctoral scholarship. More broadly, Van Vliet's academic research and social work practice centers on the voices of often forgotten victims of sexual and gender-based violence.  They are currently looking for research and advocacy collaborations and can be reached at anais.cadieuxvanvliet@mcgill.ca.   References: Link to Carmit Katz's bio Prof. Carmit Katz | The Bob Shapell School of Social Work (tau.ac.il)  (https://en-socialwork.tau.ac.il/profile/carmitkatz)     Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story  

In this episode, Nancy Morris expresses her gratitude to the individuals who have contributed their stories to the #SiblingsToo story database. She emphasizes the importance of these stories in conducting research, informing policymakers, and reducing the stigma surrounding sibling sexual abuse. Nancy explains the process of compiling and analyzing the stories, highlighting the themes that emerge and the impact they have on professionals and society as a whole. She also discusses her ongoing collaborations and the upcoming book she is working on to share the realities of sibling sexual abuse with society.   The #SiblingsToo Project collects anonymous stories from survivors, perpetrators, and other family members affected by sibling sexual abuse. The stories are used for research, informing policymakers, and reducing the stigma surrounding sibling sexual abuse. Narrative analysis is conducted to identify themes and provide a deeper understanding of the experiences of those affected by sibling sexual abuse. Sharing stories can be a healing process for individuals and contributes to the broader conversation about sibling sexual abuse. The #SiblingsToo Project aims to ensure that the topic of sibling sexual abuse remains in the public consciousness and leads to meaningful changes in policies and societal attitudes.     Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story  

In this episode Nancy is joined by Dr. Sophie King-Hill to discuss her creation of a mapping tool that is used to aid thinking for professionals while they plan for what interventions will be necessary for the families they are working with. Dr. Sophie King-Hill is an academic in the Health Services Management Centre at the University of Birmingham in the UK. Her research specialism encompasses sibling sexual abuse as well as sexual behaviours and first point assessment in children and young people. Sophie also has an interest in policy implementation, transfer and success frameworks and evaluation strategies.   In this episode: The voice that is missing from the SSA conversation A mapping tool for Practitioners that need support Getting a deeper look at many levels Future goals for the mapping tool Upcoming research A shift is coming         Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story  

So, what's been happening since the last episode? And what's coming in the new season of the #SiblingsToo podcast. In this episode, Nancy reflects on the progress made since the #SiblingsToo International Awareness Day and discusses the increasing conversation and energy getting the word out about sibling sexual abuse. She emphasize the importance of driving awareness and educating parents, family members, and those who have caused harm. Nancy also mentions upcoming changes to the podcast, including new guests such as various academics, professionals and survivors of sibling sexual abuse. She plans to explore solutions and interventions for families enduring SSA and address the language issue that seems to be difficult for everyone to get comfortable with. The new season of the #SiblingsToo Podcast will be released in late October. Quotes: "The awareness day added energy into the conversation on an international basis." "Sibling sexual abuse is very different from other types of child sexual abuse...one of the key differences is the impact it has on the whole family." "The new season of The Siblings Two Podcast is going to be distributed on a more regular basis." "One of the subjects we're going to dive into is the whole conversation about what do we call this thing?"    

In this episode Nancy is joined by John. John is in his fifties, lives in the United Kingdom and has recently reported incidents of sibling sexual abuse to the police where he lives. John is in the legal process so his voice and name has been altered to protect his anonymity.   In this episode: Contacting the local police Off to a bad start but seeing progress The family dynamic growing up What happens if I speak out? The signs of abuse Having a safe space The next steps for John     Have you registered for the #SiblingsToo Day event yet? What Every Parent Needs To Know About Sibling Sexual Abuse is on Saturday, 15 April 2023, across the globe  www.SiblingsToo.com/events   Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story  

In today's episode, Nancy shares her views on the 2022 movie, The Wonder, starring Florence Pugh, Tom Burke, and Kila Lord Cassidy. Though very well acted, an apparently gratuitous backstory of sibling sexual abuse once again demonstrates a lack of understanding in media of what SSA really is and its true impacts. When advocates are trying to right the wrongs of misinformation and myths associated with SSA, this film certainly doesn't help that effort. Have you registered for the #SiblingsToo Day event yet? What Every Parent Needs To Know About Sibling Sexual Abuse is on Saturday, 15 April 2023, across the globe  www.SiblingsToo.com/events Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story  

The plans and video recordings for the upcoming #SiblingsToo day on 15 April are coming together. In this episode, Nancy shares further details of the event, the speakers, and some of the information every parent needs to know about sibling sexual abuse. For more information and to register, just go to www.SiblingsToo.com/events Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story  

In this episode Nancy is joined by Gloria Masters, author and advocate for adults who have experienced child sexual abuse.   She speaks from sixteen years of lived experience and has managed to turn the corner of healing into giving back. She does this through highlighting the issue of child sexual abuse to help other survivors. She has published her second book Flightpath to Healing – A Guide for CSA Survivors, and is also the Founder and CEO of Handing the Shame Back Foundation.   In this episode: Gloria's childhood experience Commonalities among SSA survivors The Book: On Angels Wings, My Flight From Trauma to Grace Writing and releasing The Book: Flightpath to Healing, A Guide for Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) Survivors Do not compare Handing the shame back Advocating for others     Connect with Gloria: https://gloriamasters.com Podcast: https://handingtheshameback.buzzsprout.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ Linkedin:https://www.linkedin.com/in/gloriamasters16handingtheshameback16nonprofit/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/HandinShameBack Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback   Foundation: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/      Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story  

In this episode Nancy is joined by Steve to give his perspective on what it is like to be the partner of a sibling sexual abuse survivor. Steve's partner is Jane Epstein. Jane is an SSA survivor, speaker, author, and advocate for the prevention of sibling and child-on-child sexual abuse and trauma.   In this episode: Feeling disconnected Hearing the news that your wife was abused by her brother Working through the issues Riding the waves of emotions Growing as a partner and an individual Sometimes it can be a lot  Having empathy Supporting a survivor     Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story  

In this episode Nancy is joined by Brandy Black. Brandy is the Founder of the siblingsexualtrauma.com website and one of the founding members of 5WAVES.org   In this episode: The origin of the sibling sexual trauma website Searching for information and support Developing the website, becoming a resource and support for others Finding the right words Brandy's family journey The formation of 5WAVES   Resources: https://www.siblingsexualtrauma.com https://www.5waves.org https://www.mosac.net https://www.taalk.org https://www.rainn.org https://www.stopitnow.org https://www.whatsok.org       Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story  

In this episode Nancy is joined by Maria Socolof. Maria is a chronic pain researcher, author and a sibling sexual trauma survivor.   In this episode: The onset of Maria's pain Say "I let go..." Learning about trauma and pain Feeling the mind-body connection Remembering the past Validation and knowing your truth The words we use are important   Resources: https://healingfromchronicpain.com   Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story  

In this episode Nancy comments on three PEOPLE Magazine articles related to Sibling Sexual Abuse that were published on Oct 19th 2022.   In this episode: A brief overview of the articles featuring the stories of Jane Epstein, Brad Watts and Hope Sittler. Raising awareness of the facts and data No villains, but many heroes The impact on society An ask to share     Resources: #SiblingsToo – www.siblingstoo.com to leave your anonymous story of SSA   Jane Epstein, Sexually Abused by Her Brother as a Child, Is Voice for Other Survivors of Sibling Sexual Abuse - https://people.com/health/jane-epstein-sexually-abused-by-brother-as-child-survivors-sibling-sexual-abuse/   When a Sibling Sexually Abuses a Sibling: What to know - https://people.com/health/when-a-sibling-sexually-abuses-a-sibling-what-to-know/   When a Child Sexually Abuses a Sibling: A Mother’s Story - https://people.com/health/when-a-child-sexually-abuses-a-sibling-a-mothers-story/   5WAVES – www.5waves.org   Sibling Sexual Trauma resource site – www.siblingsexualtrauma.com Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo    

In this episode Nancy is joined by Carole Brooks. Carole is a Sibling Sexual Abuse Specialist, Lived Experience Consultant, Advisory Board Member & CSA Spokesperson.   In this episode: Survivor and advocate  Opening Door documentary The importance of speaking out Carole's story Disconnecting from feelings and needing a sense of control Confrontations Taking legal action Getting well The life-changing turning point Living an authentic life What needs to happen next     Resources: Opening Doors – Speaking Out About Sibling Sexual Abuse https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HD_ac_WwDO8    Getting It Right – the professional response to adult disclosures of childhood sexual abuse https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vn-p2dJbVAk&t=138s   Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story  

In this episode Nancy is joined by Jane Epstein. Jane Epstein is a speaker, author, and advocate for the prevention of sibling and child-on-child sexual abuse and trauma. 5WAVES is a collective voice promoting Worldwide Awareness, Voice, Education and Support around Sibling Sexual Trauma   In this episode: Jane's TEDx experience Coming out of dark places Breaking the silence Jane's family dynamic So what do we do? The effects ripple throughout the family What is coming up next for Jane Jane's personal growth     Jane's TEDx talk - Giving Voice to Sibling Sexual Abuse: https://youtu.be/0X5TvYrHxTA Connect with Jane: https://www.complicatedcourage.com Other Resources: https://www.5waves.org   Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

In this episode Nancy is joined by Hope Sittler. Hope Sittler is a Mom coping with Sibling Sexual Trauma and an advocate for parents of Sibling Sexual Trauma. She is also a Founding Member of 5WAVES. 5WAVES is a collective voice promoting Worldwide Awareness, Voice, Education and Support around Sibling Sexual Trauma   In this episode: Part 1 (Episode 34) A mothers intuition Getting each family member the help they need Working with Child Protective Services   Part 2  Feeling alone Finding support The voice is getting louder   Connect with Hope: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hope-sittler-2176a1231/   Other Resources: https://www.5waves.org https://www.siblingsexualtrauma.com     Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

In this episode Nancy is joined by Hope Sittler. Hope Sittler is a Mom coping with Sibling Sexual Trauma and an advocate for parents of Sibling Sexual Trauma. She is also a Founding Member of 5WAVES. 5WAVES is a collective voice promoting Worldwide Awareness, Voice, Education and Support around Sibling Sexual Trauma   In this episode: Part 1 A mothers intuition Getting each family member the help they need Working with Child Protective Services   Part 2 (Episode 35) Feeling alone Finding support The voice is getting louder   Connect with Hope: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hope-sittler-2176a1231/   Other Resources: https://www.5waves.org https://www.siblingsexualtrauma.com     Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

* This episode is currently unavailable *   On this episode Nancy is joined by Jane, a parent that has the personal experience of dealing with Sibling Sexual Abuse in her own family. Jane shares about the effect this has had on the kids, her partner and herself as parents and the family as a whole.   In this episode:  Sharing at a professional conference The fear around full disclosure Being mindful of the survivor and the one who caused harm When parents are unsure about contacting social services Growing a thick skin Talking to youth about sibling sexual abuse     Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Peter Yates.  Peter a qualified social worker with over ten years’ experience of child protection and holds a PhD from the University of Edinburgh. His ESRC-funded PhD research project looked at social worker decision making in cases involving sexual behaviour between siblings. His interest in this subject grew from four years’ work with Lighthouse, a specialist Barnardo’s service working with children who display harmful sexual behaviour. He has published several articles on the subject of victim crossover and risk assessment and on the subject of sibling sexual abuse. Peter is the co-author of Allardyce, S. and Yates, P. (2018) Working with children and young people who have displayed harmful sexual behaviour, Edinburgh, Dunedin Academic Press, which has been receiving some very positive reviews. Peter has presented at national and international conferences and seminars on the subject of children who have displayed harmful sexual behaviour and sibling sexual abuse. He had extensive experience of programme development, and his current role is Programme Lead for Social Work at Edinburgh Napier University.   In this episode: Part 1: Peter's professional experience The difficulty of defining Sibling Sexual Abuse Harmful vs. Abusive Could the definition of harm belong to the victim? Engaging Social Services Understanding social workers The person, the behaviour Part 2: Prevention The grey area Frames that influence parents and social workers   Connect with Peter: https://www.linkedin.com/in/peter-yates-95541ab7/   Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Peter Yates.  Peter a qualified social worker with over ten years’ experience of child protection and holds a PhD from the University of Edinburgh. His ESRC-funded PhD research project looked at social worker decision making in cases involving sexual behaviour between siblings. His interest in this subject grew from four years’ work with Lighthouse, a specialist Barnardo’s service working with children who display harmful sexual behaviour. He has published several articles on the subject of victim crossover and risk assessment and on the subject of sibling sexual abuse. Peter is the co-author of Allardyce, S. and Yates, P. (2018) Working with children and young people who have displayed harmful sexual behaviour, Edinburgh, Dunedin Academic Press, which has been receiving some very possitive reviews. He has presented at national and international conferences and seminars on the subject of children who have displayed harmful sexual behaviour and sibling sexual abuse. He had extensive experience of programme development, and his current role is Programme Lead for Social Work at Edinburgh Napier University.   In this episode: Peter's professional experience The difficulty of defining Sibling Sexual Abuse Harmful vs. Abusive Could the definition of harm belong to the victim? Engaging Social Services Understanding social workers The person, the behaviour   Connect with Peter: https://www.linkedin.com/in/peter-yates-95541ab7/   Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Fleur Strong. National Project Manager, RCEW National Project on Sibling Sexual Abuse. Fleur has experience working with children who have been sexually exploited and has also worked in a rape crisis centre.   In this episode: It's a vast problem, and everyone is silent Why sibling sexual abuse is not acknowledged Front line professionals know there is a problem It's nuanced and multi-layered Networks are building It's not your shame to carry The power of the data     Additional Information UK National Sibling Sexual Abuse Conference for Frontline Sectors 2022 Post-conference information pack https://www.sarsas.org.uk/conference-information-pack/ Pack includes: Full recordings of all seven conference sessions – individually packaged and on YouTube Three *new* information/training films developed by our project (one for adult survivors, two for professionals) and now on YouTube Information and links on working with children harmed by sibling sexual abuse; children who have harmed their siblings; affected families; and, adult survivors of sibling sexual abuse Information on further training on sibling sexual abuse and Harmful Sexualised Behaviour     Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Brad Watts. Brad is a Licensed Professional Counsellor and Certified Sex Offender Treatment Provider, who primarily works with  sex offenders, sexual abuse survivors and their families.   In this episode: The silent epidemic Defining Sibling Sexual Abuse When sibling sexual abuse occurs and it is not addressed Long term impacts on the offender Silence exacerbates the trauma for all family members Myths of Sibling Sexual Abuse Why the lack of disclosure?  What needs to happen in society?   Connect with Brad: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brad-watts-47407618b/ Get the book: https://bradwattslpc.com     Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Kami Cotler. Kami is best known for playing Elizabeth Walton on the iconic TV series, "The Waltons". Kami is now an educator with over twenty years of experience working at different levels of the education system.  In this episode: Part 1 (Ep.27) Kami’s path as an educator Differentiating sibling sexual abuse from natural curiosity Shame in the survivor and the perpetrator Feeling empowered and having a voice  What role can schools play? Part 2 (Ep.28) What needs to change so teachers can have the tools they need? What if sibling sexual abuse “hit the media”?   Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story .

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Kami Cotler. Kami is best known for playing Elizabeth Walton on the iconic TV series, "The Waltons". Kami is now an educator with over twenty years of experience working at different levels of the education system.  In this episode: Part 1 (Ep.27) Kami’s path as an educator Differentiating sibling sexual abuse from natural curiosity Shame in the survivor and the perpetrator Feeling empowered and having a voice  What role can schools play? Part 2 (Ep.28) What needs to change so teachers can have the tools they need? What if sibling sexual abuse “hit the media”?   Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story .

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Brad Watts. Brad is a licensed professional counsellor, certified sex offender treatment provider at Hallmark Youthcare. Nancy and Brad have a great discussion about the journey of healing as a family and as individuals after abuse has been discovered.  In this episode: The family's journey after the abuse has been discovered The process of healing - what therapy looks like Reacting to the discovery of abuse Conflicting stories, who to believe? The abuser has damage as well Helping to facilitate open discussions Re-building trust The importance of the family dynamic in moving forward Coping strategies What healing looks like for the parent(s) & family An abusers path of healing  Why is sibling sexual abuse not talked about more? Normal curiosity or abuse? There is hope   Connect with Brad: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brad-watts-47407618b/   Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy shares an update regarding where she, and the podcast have been over the last few months. Nancy also shares some warning signs regarding sibling interactions and behaviour to be aware of during this time.    Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy shares about an experience she had after leaving a comment on a post of a 'meme' regarding sexual abuse and the effect it has on survivors.    Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy is joined by Chris. Chris is a survivor of sibling abuse behaviour and shares her story of how the behaviour has impacted her life, how healing is a work in progress and what the future looks like moving forward.   In this episode The terminology surrounding sibling abuse behaviour and its impact Its not always good guy, bad guy like the movies The harm of her abuse A work in progress Injury is injury regardless of intent A normal response to an abnormal situation Where does the narrative around sibling sexual abuse need to go?   * The name and voice of the guest has been altered to protect her identity and respect her privacy.    Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy has a quick update on the scheduling of the podcast as well as an easy way to support the podcast and the #SiblingsToo project.  Nancy would also like to recognize and thank all the people who have shared their story on the website. Thank you for contributing, you are seen, heard and believed!    Would you like to support the #SiblingsToo Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy talks about what parents need to know about sibling sexual abuse and some of the unfortunate facts that support the current statistics. This episode highlights the importance of being educated about sibling abuse and sibling sexual abuse. In this Episode:  The definition of sibling sexual abuse Sibling abuse or violence 2.2 million children being abused by a sibling Frequency and type of abuse  Long-term consequences Parents often normalize sibling abuse The risks of not reporting abuse  A guide for parents   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy looks back over the past couple of months to review what she has learned, expectations for the future as well as an invitation for listeners to join Nancy on the podcast for an interview. Survivors, perpetrators or family members who have experienced SSA   play an important role in helping us to get the word out further and let others know that they are not alone.  Other great potential guest would be professionals in the medical field, psychology, social services, criminal law and mental health fields that work with people who experience SSA.  If you are a host, or know a host of a podcast that has a show that is  complimentary to the subject matter discussed here, reach out to Nancy to discuss possible collaborations.     🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

The #SiblingsToo project exists because it is time for people to be able to share there story and bring light to sibling sexual abuse. On this episode it is time for Nancy to share her story. She shares what she recalls happened years ago, as well as how some of those events may have impacted her life. Nancy also shares what she has come to understand through her own work with her psychologist and what her hopes and aspirations are for the future for herself and the #SiblingsToo project.    🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode (Part 2 of 2) Nancy is joined by Patricia Downing - Integrative Psychotherapist.    Nancy and Patricia discuss mindfulness and how it can be used to support individuals.    Patricia Downing is a Integrative Psychotherapist and Mindful Practitioner who has worked with therapy clients since 2005 and is accredited by the British Association of Councillors and Psychotherapists. In 2012 she earned her certificate in Mindfulness based Cognitive Therapy.  Patricias has experience working with a range of services that includes: primary care counselling student counselling trauma services  sexual assault and abuse disordered eating      🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story    

On this episode (Part 1 of 2) Nancy is joined by Patricia Downing - Integrative Psychotherapist.  Nancy and Patricia discuss therapies and how they can be supportive in exploring sibling sexual abuse and its impact on an individual or a family.   Patricia Downing is a Integrative Psychotherapist and Mindful Practitioner who has worked with therapy clients since 2005 and is accredited by the British Association of Councillors and Psychotherapists. In 2012 she earned her certificate in Mindfulness based Cognitive Therapy.  Patricias has experience working with a range of services that includes: primary care counselling student counselling trauma services  sexual assault and abuse disordered eating    🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy answers some questions she has received regarding #SiblingsToo and sibling sexual abuse.  If it is such a predominant issue, why don't we hear about it more? How can i begin the healing process? What can I do to help?      🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy talks about how there have been a number of people who have reached out to ask how they can support the #SiblingsToo project even though they have not been directly effected by sibling sexual abuse. A great way to support is to be a guest on the show or refer someone who you know who will tell their story and allow others to learn from their experiences. We would love to hear from you if you are a: survivor perpetrator member of a family where abuse has been present  social worker psychologist professional researcher law enforcement member lawyer addictions councillor  media representative    🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy talks about the importance of the use of our words. The words we use and the story we share determine our life experience. The stories we create with our words are fundamental to our sense of identity which impacts our emotions and behaviours.    🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy talks about the emotions, feelings and thoughts associated with shame that adult survivors of sibling sexual abuse feel and the factors that make those feeling worse.      🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy shares about what forgiveness is, what it is not, and some steps you can take to possibly get closer to forgiving those who have done harm or abused you. Forgiveness is not about giving someone a pass, or condoning the behaviour, it is about giving yourself freedom from the emotional pain.      🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode Nancy talks about the importance of how the behaviour of a family contributes to the occurrence of SSA and their response to SSA occurring contributes to the long-term impacts on both victim and perpetrator.  There are many family factors that seem to impact the likelihood of SSA occurring. Understanding these factors within your own family may create opportunities for your intervention.    🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

This episode does not feature any experts, or people who have had  personal experience with sibling sexual abuse. This is a conversation between two members of the #SiblingsToo production team to give you the outsiders perspective and to shine a light on how important raising awareness for this project is.   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

One of the primary objectives of #SiblingsToo is to normalize the conversation of Sibling Sexual Abuse so that survivors and even perpetrators can come out from the shadows and speak their truth. On this recent media interview Nancy shares about the SiblingsToo project, how important it is to start having this conversation and the impact it can have.      🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On Part 2 of episode 8 Nancy and Carmen discuss more specifically the laws in relations to Defamation.  Carmen Baru is a Civil Litigation Lawyer in Ottawa, Ontario, Canada. On part one of this episode Nancy and Carmen discuss the Criminal and Civil Law as it relates to Sibling Sexual Abuse.    🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

Joining Nancy is Carmen Baru, a Civil Litigation Lawyer in Ottawa, Ontario, Canada. On Part 1 of this episode Nancy and Carmen discuss the Criminal and Civil Law as it relates to Sibling Sexual Abuse.    🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

On this episode, Nancy and Nancy Currie explore the relationship between being an abuse survivor and addictions to substances and processes. They speak about abuse in general, as well as sibling sexual abuse specifically.  They also share some updated research and give valuable tools and resources that you can use if you are in need.  Nancy Currie is an Internationally Certified Alcohol and Drug Councillor with 30 years of experiences working in treatment centres all over the world.     🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story .

In this episode Nancy shares some quotes and talks about the themes that she is seeing in the anonymous stories that have been submitted on the Siblingstoo website. This is a unique insight into how the survivors were feeling at the time of the abuse and how they feel now. "I didn't know what was happening..." "I would tell my parents and they wouldn't believe me..."   🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story .

Sibling Sexual Abuse is rarely heard of, we do not read about it in the newspaper, hear about it on the radio or hear people talking about it in public. When we begin to talk about something that has been hidden, we can begin to create positive change. In this episode Nancy highlights what happens when we continue to keep subjects like Sibling Sexual Abuse swept under the rug.       🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story .

What is the difference between Sibling Sexual Abuse and human curiosity? Is the motivation of both people involved important to take into question?  On this episode of #SiblingsToo, Nancy talks about how to define Sibling Sexual Abuse and peels back layers on the many factors that play a role in applying this definition.  - - - - - - - - There have been dozens of anonymous stories submitted via the #Siblingstoo website, thank you to everyone for sharing and getting involved!      🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story .

On this episode Nancy discusses the question that is often heard by victims of any kind of sexual assault, "Why didn't you tell anyone?..." Nancy breaks down some of the factors of consideration of being a victim of sexual assault, why they may choose to not report it and  especially when it is a child who is abused by a sibling.      🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story .

What does a conversation between siblings about Sibling Sexual Abuse actually sound like?  In this episode, we have the very rare opportunity to listen in on a phone conversation between a sister and her two brothers. Margaret recalls incidents from her youth where her older brother Dennis assaulted her. This is the first time the siblings have come together to have this discussion. *Please Note* To protect the innocent, actors have been used to replicate the transcript of the actual phone conversation.     🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story .

Welcome to SiblingsToo, the podcast about Sibling Sexual Abuse, the hidden taboo, hidden in society and in families. Your Host is Nancy Morris, a psychology researcher and sibling sexual abuse survivor. SiblingsToo creates a voice for sibling sexual abuse and brings research and information to surivors and their families.    🖥 To connect with #SiblingsToo go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story .