How do you navigate the conversation around family rules and boundaries with your child when "everyone else is doing it"? In this episode: "Fairness antennae" Mobile phones, social media, sleepovers, curfews, M-rated shows and more! How to respond to "but everyone else is doing it"? Avoiding judgement of others Empathy and compassion Explain, explore, empower Resentment Autonomy-supportive parenting Find us on Facebook or TikTok Email your questions and comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If daycare drop-off is causing distress, there are three things you can do to help your little one feel secure and adjust well to the environment. In this episode: Jay Belsky research Structures, transitions, and predictability Communication Slowing down Parent/carer partnerships Distressed child Find us on Facebook or TikTok Email your questions and comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What is the best way forward when your child asks for a day off from school? In this episode: School refusal Being at school matters The challenge of chronic student absenteeism for teachers Scheduling mental health days Understanding the root cause Explain, explore, empower Find us on Facebook or TikTok Email your questions and comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Help your child discover the joy and magic of books, letting shared experiences and connections with stories weave the narrative of your family's literary journey. In this episode: A love of reading starts with you: "Readers are leaders, and leaders are readers"  Role modeling Resistant (or unwilling) readers Read aloud to your children Books, books, and more books! Letting go of expectations To bribe, or not to bribe Find us on Facebook or TikTok Email your questions and comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Reduce parental and societal pressure, as well as any self-imposed pressure your child may be experiencing, with these relationship-building, autonomy-supporting tips. In this episode: Parental pressure Perfectionism and anxiety in children/adolescents School attendance Covid lockdowns and the price our children have had to pay Reaching goals, achieving potential Criticism reduces resilience - 9 Ways to a Resilient Child The 3 basic psychological needs of our children Autonomy supportive parenting School friendships Find us on Facebook or TikTok Email your questions and comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Heading back to school can be difficult, but there are ways to make your mornings positive, productive, and peaceful.  In this episode: Morning begins the night before  Create margin More connection, less correction and direction Creating anticipation and optimism about school Coming soon - The Quest Find us on Facebook or TikTok Email your questions and comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Try these 6 easy lunchbox ideas to get your child eating their school lunch rather than binning it or bringing it back home. In this episode: Back to school Finding lunches suitable for hot summers  Extending tastebuds Filling tummies Lunchbox menu plan Bento boxes Reducing the cognitive load Find us on Facebook or TikTok Email your questions and comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Pop culture and parenting: we've got you covered, making sure you don't miss the important, the funny, or the plain ridiculous stories making waves in the world of parenting.  This week in parenting: Barbie Dreamhouse controversy  Close-ended vs open-ended play Chris Hemsworth  Societal norms and expectations in regard to what children call their parents Saltburn on Amazon Prime - A review by Madison, 17 years Common Sense Media: Age-Based Media Reviews for Families Meta announces new policy for teenager users Join the waitlist for The Quest Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A conversation about finding balance in 2024, and how to put systems in place for your family (so that things go right more often).  In this episode: holidays the tightrope analogy routines, structure, and habits true recreation  building resilience Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

5 parenting trends set to be huge in 2024 are placed under the Happy Families microscope. Will they build strong, solid families, or are they fads destined to flop over time?   In today's episode: Celebrating small wins, on top of the big achievements "Sharenting" - putting your children online places them at risk of harm or exploitation Leah Plunkard, author of Sharenthood: Why We Should Think before We Talk about Our Kids Online Listen to my conversation with Madonna King, author of Saving Our Kids Parental benign neglect Helicopter parenting 21 Days to a Happier Family by Dr Justin Coulson Trust in organismic development, autonomy support, and adaptation among mothers and their children - research by Renee Landry and co Gentle parenting and choosing baby names Thrifting vs buying new Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Starting 2024 with a shock announcement from Justin as he reveals the big parenting issue he has gotten wrong!  Topics in today's episode: holidays homeschooling the magic of Christmas Santa Letters from Father Christmas by J.R.R. Tolkien exciting changes to the podcast our words for 2024, and some words from our listeners Join the waitlist for The Quest Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have the most wonderful Christmas with your loved ones. We look forward to joining you again on The Happy Families Podcast in late January.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is the full interview with Dr Ross Greene, as heard in episodes #721 and #722. Topics discussed in today's episode: The Explosive Child, by Dr Ross Greene an associate clinical professor at Harvard Medical School Kids do well if they can Flexibility & adaptability Problem solving High emotions, low intelligence Lagging skills research Motivation vs ability How to work with intensely rigid children Problem solving Explore, Explain, Empower CPS model Inflexibility + inflexibility = Meltdown Problem solving proactively The truth about consequences Punishment vs problem solving Lives In The Balance Purchase the 2023 Webinar Bundle for $199 and get instant access to $1087 worth of parenting resources!  Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Solutions for managing parental fatigue - perfect timing as we head into the busiest and most exhausting time of the year!  Topics included in this episode - Holidays - a time for rejuvenation or just more exhaustion? Physical and mental fatigue Exhaustion with little kids Causes of parental fatigue Tightrope walker metaphor - a constant balancing act Sleep is not a luxury Diet - eat well, make healthy food accessible Attention management    Purchase the 2023 Webinar Bundle for $199 and get instant access to $1087 worth of parenting resources!  Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why forming positive habits, especially those with our kids and in our families is so important. Purchase the 2023 Webinar Bundle for $199 and get instant access to $1087 worth of parenting resources!  Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode - Ideas on how to motivate your kids and set goals as a family. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does Dr Mona think about gentle parenting? Topics included in this episode - Justin speaks with Dr Mona Delahooke Brain-Body Parenting Responsive parenting Permissive parenting Reading your child's cues Bottom-up behaviours are instinctual Behavioural biomarkers What to do instead Red & green zones Being responsive with time constraints Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does Dr Mona think about gentle parenting? Topics included in this episode - Justin speaks with Dr Mona Delahooke Brain-Body Parenting Responsive parenting Permissive parenting Reading your child's cues Bottom-up behaviours are instinctual Behavioural biomarkers What to do instead Red & green zones Being responsive with time constraints Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you ready for summer swimming and surf? Dr Anthea Rhodes, a paediatrician, researcher and child health advocate from The Royal Children's Hospital Melbourne shares some water safety tips. [Replay] Topics included in this episode - Justin shares a very personal story related to water safety Drowning can take 20 seconds Drowning is often silent Swimming lessons RCH National Child Health Poll NATIONAL DROWNING REPORTS Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share their favourite Christmas movies. [Replay] G-rated options: The Polar Express Klaus Arthur Christmas Elf Home Alone Santa Clause Honourable (grown up) mentions: Christmas Chronicles Bad Santa The Holiday Nativity movies: The Nativity Story (2006) Chasing The Star (2017) VeggieTales: The Little Drummer Boy (2011) Watch The Star | Netflix (2017) Journey to Bethlehem - Teaser Trailer | IMDb (2023) Purchase Tis the Season to be Cranky or How to Unspoil your Kids this Christmas Check out the 2023 Webinar Bundle - Happy Families - $199 (valued at $1087) Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Rebecca Dredge is the Founder and Director of Kiddo, and she shares some tips on surviving the holidays. [Replay] Topics included in this episode - Why are Aussie parents feeling anxious about the holidays? Getting the balance right in long school holidays The power of 'No' Happy Families Podcast Episode #655 Grandparents Gone Wild How Kiddo can help your family Feeling burnt out? Watch our FREE Happy Families Webinar - The Resilient Parent Learn more about Kiddo or find them on Facebook Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kylie's "year in review" was a difficult but worthwhile process, enabling her to see how much personal growth and progress was made in 2023.   What has gone well?  What hasn't gone so well? Lessons learnt in 2023 What can be done better, moving forward? "Joy is the ability to see beauty."  "Give yourself permission to make ugly art."   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Help your kids have a great Summer! 7 tips for parents who want to see their children experience more independent play in a way that is both safe and fun. In today's episode: Healthy kids need to be playing, taking risks, and involved in independent activity Peter Gray - Children today are suffering a severe deficit of play | Aeon Essays Decline in mental health  Resilience and happiness Kylie and Justin share childhood experience of independent play and activities - risk, adventure, danger, exciting, noise, freedom, fun Learning risk assessment Helicopter parenting Kids need to feel capable, competent, and a sense of autonomy Exploring boundaries   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The inconvenience you can feel when a child asks to play a boring game or upon finding their clothes on the floor (again) is real. In these moments of frustration, dig deep and have compassion for your child, seeing life from their perspective. THIS is the real game-changer for a happier family. Topics in this episode: Playing board games when you hate them Should we let our children win? Teaching through play, verbalising strategy Nagging The importance of having compassion for our children Our children want us to listen to them!  7-day Miss-connection challenge - a Happy Families online program (free!)   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our website.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The books that have meant the most to Justin and Kylie this year.  Kylie's top 3 books of 2023: The One Hundred Years of Lenni and Margot by Marianne Cronin "A beautiful story about friendship." Homecoming by Kate Morton "Riveting!" Better Than Happy - Jodi Moore "Enlightening and powerful" Justin's 5 star reads of 2023: Silas Marner by George Eliot "The perfect story - sublime, utterly absorbing" The Case Against the Sexual Revolution by Louise Perry Testosterone: The Story of the Hormone that Dominates and Divides Us | Carole Hooven "Brilliant" Everyone In My Family Has Killed Someone by Benjamin Stevenson "A rip-roaring read." The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel Siegel & Tina Payne-Bryson Saving our kids - Madonna King "Vitally important"  Generations by Jean M. Twenge "Compelling." Winners Take All by Anand Giridharadas Guns, Germs and Steel by Jared Diamond Happier Hour by Cassie Holmes Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski "Gives people info that really matters." The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents by Lisa Damour "Solid book, easy to read."   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin looks at how 2023 has been for him, both personally and professionally, and shares insights and ideas that will inspire you to improve family living in your own home. It will be Kylie's turn for reflection next Tuesday! What has gone well? What hasn't gone so well? Lessons learned in 2023. What can be done better, moving forward? You Don't Just Lose Someone Once – Donna Ashworth “You are precisely as big as what you love and precisely as small as what you allow to annoy you.” ― Robert Anton Wilson Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our website.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's almost the end of the year so we thought we'd look back at the top 5 Happy Families episodes that you listened to in 2023. Here's how it played out: #721 - Defusing Explosive Children #679 - Managing Fatigue as a Parent #674 - The Power of Habit #673 - Family Goal Setting #706 - Gentle Parenting: Is It a Fad or Fabulous? We're so glad that so many people are listening to the podcast and finding value in the information that's being provided! Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member at our website.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Controversial parenting, a growing problem with school attendance (or lack thereof!), a video game the whole family can get excited about, and why every new dad should be taking parental leave. In this episode: Story 1: 60 Minutes Australia: Hidden anxiety epidemic jeopardising ‘a generation’ of Australian schoolchildren School refusal/anxiety - also referred to as "school can't" THE LITTLE BOY By Helen E. Buckley Story 2: ‘I put coal in my kids’ Christmas stockings to teach them a lesson’ | Townsville Bulletin Controversial parenting techniques Punishing kids at Christmas "Every child needs..." (Bronfenbrenner quote) Happy Families | Facebook Be your child's safe place and provide them with unconditional love Story 3: How Paternity Leave Helps Dads’ Brains Adapt to Parenting Paternity leave is a gift to families. Improving father-baby bonding, baby development, relationship between parents Story 4: The creators of Bluey: The Videogame on making a kids’ game that’s also about parenting | The Guardian Playing video games as a family The right kind of screen time (Connecting and/or Creating vs Consuming) Story 5: Four in five parents turn to social media for parenting advice    Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Whether family life feels messy and hard right now or you are in a season of smooth sailing, there's one thing that matters more than anything: loving your kids - and making sure they know it! In this episode we cover: Struggles and challenges with food Picky eating Autonomy, structure, and competence Conversations to have with children about what they eat Supporting and loving our kids - No Matter What Wet towels, empty fridge, dirty dishes, messy rooms Empty nesters and change in family dynamics Connection - a Happy Families article Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Problematic screen-use spans from toddlers through to teenagers (especially when love is in the air!) and can affect mental health, sleep, wellbeing and behaviour. There are some simple steps parents can take to ensure your child lives a healthy, balanced life - without having to confiscate the screen! Topics from 'The Doctor's Desk': The effects of screens on teenagers Teens as consumers of content Mental health and mental illness are two different things - see "dual continuum of mental wellbeing" diagram Boredom  The importance of strong parent-child relationship Toddlers and screens Screen limits and being intentional Love in the teenage years Delaying romantic relationships Study 1: How Parenting and Self-control Mediate the Link Between Social Media Use and Youth Mental Health Study 2: Toddlers and Tablets: Being Purposeful About Your Child’s Technology Use Study 3: Romantic relationships linked to disturbed sleep patterns in adolescents Helping your child through their first big breakup - a Happy Families article 3 Simple Tips for Managing Screen Time for the Whole Family - a Happy Families article   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kristen Jenson (founder of Defend Young Minds) shares how, when and why to talk to your child about pornography. [Replay]   Topics in this episode: Educating children to reject pornography The ways that pornography harms children 3 basic steps to having this conversation: 1. Define 2. Warn 3. Plan Advice for parents who have found their child viewing pornography Love your child No Matter What Good Pictures Bad Pictures | Books | Defend Young Minds™️ Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr. | Books | Defend Young Minds™️ Defend Young Minds - free guide "How to Talk to Kids About Pornography" Curriculum for children aged 8-12 - Brain Defense Digital Safety Step-by-step SMART plan- "My Kid Saw Porn - Now What?" Bringing Up Boys Summit - Happy Families   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Navigating the complexities of tween and teen friendships can be challenging, especially in the age of social media. Here are some insights and tips to help your child run towards wonderful friendships rather than living in fear of exclusion. Topics in this episode: Sleepovers Bulling and teasing Snapchat and social media Structured activities and finite time for teenage get-togethers Miss Connection: Why your teenage daughter "hates" you, expects the world, and needs to talk by Dr Justin Coulson What teenage girls worry about most Conversations to have with your child BMX - Be More Exceptional Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's that time of year when school awards nights are in full swing, celebrating academic and sporting prowess. But are awards nights actually helpful?  And how can you help your child cope with the disappointment of missing out on recognition? Some of the things discussed in this episode: Awards by their nature are exclusive, so they can be a punishment for the majority. Relationships between kids, parents and teachers being damaged. Rewards and awards are ignoring reasons. Is it OK to acknowledge excellence? Should parents care more about grades or character?  Teaching your kids to sit with disappointment. Reminding kids that everyone has different talents, and schools recognise only a few of those talents. Status and recognition. Check out the Happy Families Mega Sale | Black Friday to Cyber Monday Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Build stronger and lasting connections with those you love. Three game-changing ideas to help you focus on what really matters most in life.  Topics in this episode: William Martin - 'The Wonders of an Ordinary Life' Household chaos in a time of grief and upheaval Expecting immediate compliance from children Force creates resistance Autonomy  The Parenting Revolution by Dr Justin Coulson (currently 25% off + free course!) People vs 'stuff' Investing in extended family relationships Black Friday Sales start today - Happy Families Mega Sale | Black Friday to Cyber Monday Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Three conversations you really need to be having with your teens BEFORE they head off to Schoolies.  Topics in this episode: Parents - it's ok to say no to Schoolies Creative and healthier alternatives Rite of passages Peer pressure, drugs and alcohol, fights, unsafe/risky behaviour Safe and healthy beats right and wrong Understanding consent Ensure your kids know you will always have their back #886 Get Set for Schoolies with Paul Dillon - a Happy Families podcast Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dive into the enchanting land of 'Mine!' and the intricate world of kiddie diplomacy. Justin and Kylie unpack the challenges of sharing, with some big ideas to unlock the magic of cooperation - one shared toy at a time! Topics in today's episode: Special toys Sharing with siblings Learning cooperation, negotiation, and fairness through sharing Scarcity mentality vs abundance mentality Three basic psychological needs Self-determination / regulation Theory of Mind Power dynamics Developmental Milestones - a Happy Families article     Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Part 2 of a conversation on perfectionism with Professor Thomas Curran from the London School of Economics. Rather than expecting perfection from your child try modelling making mistakes - embrace failure and setbacks when they arise. This (not perfectionism) is what leads to success! Topics in this episode: Feeling that you are not enough The rise of perfectionism – and the harm it’s doing us all | Mental health | The Guardian Link between perfectionism and psychological distress Parental/societal expectations Increased competition and excessive pressure "Doing your best" - is this helpful? Self-sabotage, procrastination and avoidance of failure  What is success? The Perfection Trap Thomas Curran's new book   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Professor Thomas Curran is (among many impressive titles) a 'perfectionist expert'. He unpacks the 'what, why, where, who, and how' of perfectionism in part 1 of this compelling discussion with Dr Justin Coulson. Part 2 will continue in tomorrow's episode. Today's conversation covers: What is perfectionism? The link between mental health challenges and perfectionism Perfectionism in children - genetics or environmental? The 3 types of perfectionism Intergenerational transmission of perfectionistic tendencies The challenging cycle of self-defeat The Perfection Trap Thomas Curran's new book TEDMED - Our dangerous obsession with perfectionism is getting worse   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There are some simple yet profound ways to let your family know that they are loved, irreversibly and unconditionally.  "How do you feel loved?" Being together as a family The power of names Joy and gratitude Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning: mature themes - listener discretion advised* How do you talk to your kids when they are touched by the profound loss of a loved one through a suicide? These hard conversations must be had openly with your children - with kindness, compassion, and empathy. Your job is NOT to tell them everything, but to answer their questions honestly, in an age-appropriate way.  Topics in this episode: Protecting children from pain Limited evidence for how to have these conversations Keep your reactions level National Centre for Childhood Grief Keep the conversation age/developmentally appropriate Young Children and Middle Childhood: Keep it simple Operate on the principle of 'the fire hose' Answer questions honestly (to the degree with which they are curious) - the more general you can be, the more protected your child will be Offer empathy Talking helps to dispel misinformation and stigma and creates a safe space to ask questions Encourage questions about anything, and at any time Ensure they understand what "dead" means. Give concrete answers, not idioms or euphemisms Expect and accept a range of emotions (and behaviours!) from your child, which will change daily. Let them feel safe to let it all out Picture Books for Helping Children Navigate Grief Elergy for an Elephant by Ryan Abramowitz Death Is Stupid by Anastasia Higginbotham Luna's Red Hat by Emmi Smid Red Chocolate Elephants by Diana C. Sands Forever Connected by Jessica Correnti For help: Lifeline: 13 11 14 Suicide Callback Service: 1300 659 467 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 987 Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 Standby - Support After Suicide 1300 727 247 In Memory of Logan - Happy Families Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning: mature themes - listener discretion advised* When someone is grieving the death of a loved one, it can be difficult to know how to approach them and what to say. How do you convey your compassion, your awareness of their enormous loss? What words and actions are helpful to the person grieving, and what is unhelpful or perhaps even harmful? Colin Campbell, author of 'Finding the words', shares a practical and helpful approach to supporting someone in their grief, how to move through sorrow and profound loss with hope and purpose, and why there is a vital need for community during the grieving process. Topics in this episode: The loss of a child Suicide How to support someone in their deep sorrow - what to say, what not to say "I have no words" ends any chance of a dialogue about grief. Find the words. The evolution of grief, and of the grieving person's identity within that sorrow The importance of engaging with and accepting grief, rather than avoiding it Grief as a sensitive, taboo subject further isolates those in mourning Why trying to comfort a grieving person is not helpful Different societal/religious responses to grief, traditional mourning processes, and cultural tools and rules for managing grief in community. Of particular note:   Jewish mourning traditions: Mourning Kaddish, Shiva ,and Ending Shiva Māori mourning ceremony - Tangihanga What Losing My Two Children Taught Me About Grief - The Atlantic  Viktor Frankl 'Mans Search for Meaning' Adoption (and the trauma and grief that can accompany it) In Memory of Logan For help: Lifeline: 13 11 14 Suicide Callback Service: 1300 659 467 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 987 Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 Standby - Support After Suicide 1300 727 247   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As many of you would be aware, Justin's nephew Logan died at the age of 20 after taking his own life. Craig Bruce is the executive producer of the Happy Families Podcast, and provides a quick update on Justin and Kylie and what the podcast will look like over the next few days. Justin and Kylie will be taking a break to spend time with family, before we return on Wednesday, November 15th with a timely conversation with Colin Campbell. After the death of his two teenage children in a car accident, Colin wrote the book 'Finding the Words', a powerful account of how he navigated through unimaginable grief. From everyone at Happy Families, thank you so much for all of your comments, thoughts and messages at this difficult time, If you or anyone you know needs help, reach out to the following services: Lifeline on 13 11 14, Suicide Callback Service on 1300 659 467, Mensline Australia on 1300 789 987or Kids Helpline on 1800 55 1800.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - parental discretion advised* Detective Superintendent Jayne Crossling from ACCCE outlines the critical role parents and carers play in keeping children safe online. Learn how to have important conversations with your children - education is the key to prevention!  Topics in this episode: What is capping? The work of ACCCE  Teenagers at risk How in-game chat functions move to encrypted environments or video chat Red flags that are often missed The role of parents and carers in keeping children safe online Supervision and rules for screens Teaching children how to respond  Laws regarding child self-generated material Advice for parents   Some previous interviews with Detective Superintendent Jayne Crossling from ACCCE: #699 Jayne Crossling on Safe Photo Sharing #731 Kids and Grooming - What You Need to Know #748 Are Paedophiles Really Looking at Your Kids Online? Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin speaks to Paul Dillon from Drug and Alcohol Research Training Australia about getting ready for the schoolies season. Find out more about Paul Dillon at the Drug and Alcohol Research Training Australia website. Topics discussed in this episode: The cons of letting your kids celebrate schoolies abroad How safe are organised schoolies events? Why schoolies is the last opportunity for parents to talk safety with their kids before they are legally adults   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

With the silly season just around the corner we share some simple tips to help navigate (or avoid entirely!) a meaty "Christmas Conundrum" - when disappointed children and disgruntled gift-givers collide.  Topics in this episode: Justin's history of dodgy gift giving Being disappointed AND grateful The thought is important Having conversations before Christmas events How to do difficult conversations with extended family Forewarned is forearmed    If you have a Christmas Conundrum you would like Justin and Kylie to solve, you can email your question to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie share their personal stories of "nailing it and failing it" to help you be more intentional with your family.  Topics in this episode: Connection before direction Flexible intention Homeschooling Worm farming Justin has a no good, very bad, terrible day and gets HANGRY Filling relationship buckets "People matter, things don't"   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

With only 54 days left until Christmas are you beginning to feel a little anxious about expenses? After all, the cost of living is going up, and gifts aren't getting any cheaper! You can have honest conversations with your children about budgets and presents - and still keep the Magic of Christmas alive! Topics in this episode: The joys and stress of shopping for gifts Materialism  Giving and receiving Anxiety over money Expectations and values Wants or needs? Santa Three E's of Effective Discipline Giving in fantasy what they can't have in reality Easing parental guilt at Christmas Some Happy Families Christmas Articles: Take Back Christmas 10 Easy Traditions That Can Make Christmas Meaningful For Your Family 16 Gifts our Children Need For Christmas Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Raising teenagers can be hard even at the best of times. Trying to support our teens when they are struggling can feel like a dead-end street. Dr Jo Prendergast shares the most important thing you can do that will make a difference for your teen when life just sucks. Topics in this episode: When Life Sucks - Jo's new book Parents and self-regulation Emotions are contagious Deep breathing Being self-aware of your own triggers 'Ghosts in the nursery' Neurodiversity When does life suck for teens? 'The Three Rs of Great Parenting' Connected interactions Learn more about The Teenage Brain in our FREE Happy Families Article. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Worried that your low-achieving, school-hating, stressed and struggling child is ruining every chance of future success? Upon reflection of last week's interviews (successful people with less-than-ordinary school experiences) Justin and Kylie find that the key ingredient of future success in life is not good grades but rather, a lifelong love of learning! Learn how to kindle the flame of curiosity in your child - and hear Justin share a poet's definition of success that will encourage and inspire any concerned parent. Topics in this episode: Curiosity Flaws of our educational system Lifelong learning Exams and stress Living up to expectations Anxiety and perfectionism in our kids Resilience External vs internal worth "Success is..." by Anonymous    Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every young person needs to have a close, significant adult to talk to when they experience challenges in life. Sadly, new research has revealed that far too many adolescents do not feel listened to and aren’t speaking to anyone when they’re worried. If you are a parent who has tried to talk with your teen, only to have them close down or shut you out, you are not alone! Dr Katrina Lines (CEO of Act for Kids, and registered psychologist) shares some simple ways to connect with your child that will encourage them to share their problems with you. Topics in this episode: Speaking to a professional Act for Kids Campaign "Get Comfy Switching ON by Switching OFF"  - all the research stats, tip sheets and an animation Incidental conversation or "small talk" Being present Connection  Pressures of school, friendships, social media 3 basic psychological needs Mental health issues - anxiety, depression, poor sleep Fear of parental criticism or dismissal, or not being listened to   Enough: Overcoming Anxiety, Perfectionism, & Self Loathing - a Happy Families article Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Education is important. Completing high school is important. And yes, final exams are also important. But they are not MORE important than other things - like connection, resilience, hope, and wellbeing. Nigel Howard is a Research associate at Flinders University, a former Secondary Principal, and currently studying for his PhD. As someone who sees the importance of education and knows the terrain of senior school/final exams both practically and academically, Nigel gives some terrific advice to parents and students currently facing the pressure of HSC exams. Topics in this episode: Gap in school completion rates between city/country and high/low socioeconomic backgrounds Entry-level jobs and apprenticeships Why do kids stay at school? Why do others leave? The importance of listening to our children Specialised/alternative education - small, independent, relational places of education  Competence, confidence, connection, self-discipline Creating networks and supports for students at risk of dropping out  Learning to pass exams vs learning how to apply knowledge National Study of Mental Health and Wellbeing, 2020-2022 | Australian Bureau of Statistics (abs.gov.au) Holistic health and holistic learning Neurodiversity Responsiveness of schools to struggling students - honesty, compassion, connection How important is the ATAR system? What does it mean for schools? Resilience and success Articles in The Conversation written by Nigel Howard - Parents have just started their own school in Sydney – this is part of a long tradition in Australia 20% of Australian students don't finish high school: non-mainstream schools have a lot to teach us about helping kids stay School attendance rates are dropping. We need to ask students why Are flexible learning options giving schools a convenient way out of taking responsibility for 'difficult' students? How to Help when School Sucks - a Happy Families article   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

School matters, and education is important... but they are not "the be-all and end-all". If you are a parent who is worried about your child and their education, know that in spite of educational failings there are many, many remarkable people who have done incredible things in life. Your graduating child can look forward to their future with excitement and positivity irrespective of grades or academic outcomes. From humble beginnings growing up in the west of Ireland, to retiring at 41 years of age, Tom O'Brien shares his powerful story of how life can play out regardless of your level of formal education.  Topics in this episode: Work ethic and motivation Do kids today need the 'safety net' of a university degree to get a good job? Opportunities - where and how to find them? Tools for success in life Chasing your passion When decisions need to be made - taking chances or playing it safe? When your child decides to drop out of school or university Opportunity, effort, and doing hard things How do we measure failure or success? Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is your child experiencing exam pressure, final year stress, or feeling burdened by expectations? Are they worried about their future? It's time to reassure them that it is going to be ok - THEY are going to be ok - regardless of academic results. This week Dr Justin is having some incredible conversations with people who may not have done so well at school but have made incredible contributions to the world in spite of their lacklustre early educational experience.  Listen in for fantastic advice and encouragement from Dr Susan Rogers, who graduated from high school at the age of 44 and then obtained a PhD in Music and Psychology (after working as Sound Engineer for Prince!).   Topics in this episode: Difficulties in youth when parents are unwell Bright kids, challenging circumstances Pursuing passions The Guardian - Prince's sound engineer, Susan Rogers: 'He needed to be the alpha male to get things done' "Lightbulb moments" Stepping into the world of the unknown after school Learning to listen to the voice within Mature-aged students Parental expectations Dr Susan Rogers' book - This is what it sounds like: What the music you love says about you Questions to ask your child - helping to figure out what success looks like for them Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Education is important - but how it looks differs for every child. The messages around education that we are delivering to our children need to develop their initiative, their character and their thinking skills - especially when it comes to their education. These conversations matter, because education matters to us all. Today's guest is Cam Barber, who started as a public speaking coach, and then broadened out to leadership skills/marketing messages. His clients include Paramount Pictures and Hawthorn Football Club. Topics in this episode: Cam Barber's story, and his bestselling book "What's Your Message". Homework and self-discipline The change from Primary School to Highschool in structure, routine, and overall ease Exchange Student Program, Tertiary/Tafe programs, work experience  Deferring University Twice gifted children Getting an education outside of the educational system  "Vivid" messages - valuable, customisable parenting messages  How to Help when School Sucks - a Happy Families article Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Educational successes and failures, high school dropouts, the pressure of HSC exams, and finding your passion in life... these are BIG and pressing issues for our graduating kids! Learn how to have conversations with your children about educational outcomes and choices, and what being successful in school (and in life) looks like to them. Today we're talking with Ian Steel, who despite being a high school dropout, has gone on to run a string of successful businesses, and is the founder of the South Australian charity Kickstart for Kids.   Topics in this episode: Why school can be so hard ADHD, dyslexia How the school experience differs for girls vs boys Research report:  Understanding the non-completion of apprentices (ncver.edu.au) The importance of education School, trade/apprenticeship, or paid employment? Kickstart for Kids - supporting at-risk children Breaking the cycle of unemployment and poverty Relationship between hunger and classroom behaviours Do exams matter? The teenage brain - a Happy Families article How to Help when School Sucks - a Happy Families article Last day to register for the 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' course hosted by Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this week's "I'll Do Better Tomorrow" Kylie shares the pros and cons of unschooling, and Justin cooks the best omelet EVER as he strives to make Every Second Count. And a sneak-peak into next week's lineup of comforting conversations for any parent raising kids who are struggling with school or experiencing HSC pressure. Topics in this episode: HSC stress School dropouts Outcomes of kids who do finish school, and those who don't Reflecting on how to be more intentional with parenting Homeschooling / unschooling in the Coulson household The challenge of finding rhythm in change Child-initiated conversations Sibling rivalry / connection 'The Bear' receives a rave review from Justin  Every second counts!  Last chance to register for the BRAND-NEW 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' course hosted by Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is being a mindful and present parent really that important? How does household chaos impact on family communication? Should corporal punishment be banned in Australia? In this week's 'From the Doctor's Desk' Justin and Kylie unpack these questions and more - sharing the science that will help make you a better parent. Topics in this episode: Mindful parenting  Positive parenting and childhood stress The hippocampus, memory and learning The impact of household chaos on healthy family communication (particularly adolescent disclosure) Smacking/corporal punishment Mindfulness in schools Joan Grusec - 'Mindful Parents, Mindful Children' Jamie Hansen - Positive parenting can help protect against the effects of stress in childhood and adolescence Professor Daryl Higgins - Corporal punishment of children in Australia: The evidence-based case for legislative reform  Why It's Not Ok To Smack Your Kids - a Happy Families article Jackie Nelson - A Hidden Source of Disconnection Between Teens and Parents The MYRIAD project - Mindfulness in schools    Register for the BRAND-NEW 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' course hosted by Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Journalist, broadcaster and TV host Amanda Keller has just won the Commercial Radio Australia Award for Best On-air Team with her co-host Brendan Jones. To celebrate we are re-playing her Lightning Round interview with Justin - a series of short, sharp questions about parenting life. (Replay) Topics in this episode: IVF Can you have a favourite child? Parental expectations Benefits of tag-team parenting Teaching children to drive The ultimate joy of parenthood Why Amanda would be happy to go into Witness Protection with her kids Amanda's biggest parenting win   Register for the BRAND-NEW 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' course hosted by Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The meltdown out of nowhere, an angry and aggressive child, the emotionally flooded teen - kids of all ages have BIG emotions, and experience emotional dysregulation! Discover the tools and skills that will help you respond to your child with compassion and kindness, and build emotional awareness and regulation for you both. Topics in this episode: No Matter What Emotion regulation  The magic of Nature Moving forward, finding solutions Responding with compassion and gentleness Emotion Coaching- a Happy Families article  Little People, Big Feelings - a Happy Families webinar  Register for the BRAND-NEW 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' course hosted by Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parent behaviour at children's sporting events can directly impact the child's experience. Thankfully the majority of parents do seem to encourage having fun over putting the pressure on their child to be the best. Journalist Shona Hendley unpacks why sports parents get a bad rap - but are in fact the angels of society.   Topics in this episode -  Competitive parents coaching from the side Shona Hedley's article - Taking kids to sport all the time Dedication - time, money, energy Training, competitions, camps, social events, volunteering & more! Why do children drop out of sports early? "Doing your best" vs winning vs simply loving the experience Competence & connection Report cards: grades vs effort The current mental health crisis with young people Government policies and decisions re sport    Register for tonight's webinar 'Enough: Helping our children overcome anxiety, perfectionism & self-loathing' Register for the BRAND-NEW 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' course hosted by Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Family life can be hard, particularly after a long day when everyone is tired!  We share 3 things you can do to overcome the challenges of Witching Hour - helping you move forward when you really just want to run away.  Topics in this episode -  Arsenic hour The challenges younger kids face in the late afternoon Emotional regulation HALTS - "Justin-isms" Digital Phone Wallpapers When the working parent gets home! The power of recognising 'hard'  Outsource help   Register for the BRAND-NEW 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' course hosted by Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Time-crunch moments to get through the challenges of lunch, because the need for food is never ending! Listen in for 5 time-tested ideas to help you deal with the challenges of knowing what food to pack so that your child will actually eat at school. Topics in this episode: Tuck shop is awesome... but expensive Canteen pricelists from the 1980's Weekend baking Leftovers Taking the pressure off! Home menus Podcast episode #862 - Solving Lunch Box Headaches with Deb Blakley   Register for this month's webinar 'Enough: Helping our children overcome anxiety, perfectionism & self-loathing' Register for the BRAND-NEW 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' course hosted by Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How can you do it all - AND still be a good parent? 5 ideas for 'Creating Margin' that will make all the difference when it comes to an over scheduled, over-busy life! Topics discussed in this episode: Creating order from chaos Household tasks Connection Parental exhaustion Washing machine analogy Stephen Covey - 'Big Rocks'  Structure and routine Poet Annie Dillard - 'How We Spend Our Days'  Chores   You can purchase early bird tickets for the new course 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' at the Happy Families website Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Become a Happy Families member today - Happy Families Membership Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"What's for dinner?" This has to be the most frustrating question that any parent deals with on a daily basis. Listen in for 8 solutions to help you overcome the dreaded dinner dilemma! Topics in this episode - Summer Fit by Sally Fitzgibbons – Book Review Themed nights Rotating roster The cognitive tax of cooking and planning Involving the kids Adam Liaw  Sharing the load   Register for this month's webinar 'Enough: Helping our children overcome anxiety, perfectionism & self-loathing' Register for the BRAND-NEW 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' course hosted by Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We all have Time Crunch Moments - where the pressure is on, time is limited, and our kids are NOT being compliant! Mornings can be tough, right? But they don't have to be! Whether you have young kids or sleepy teenagers, there are 4 things you can do ahead of time to slow things right down - even when you need to go fast!   Topics discussed in this episode: A change in the 'Making Mornings Magic'' formula! Teenagers vs young children Back to school Routine and structure Deadlines, fast-paced living Being present Kids and transitions Every family is different 'Fast is slow and slow is fast' - a Happy Families article   You can purchase early bird tickets for the new course 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' at the Happy Families website Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Become a Happy Families member today - Happy Families Membership Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When moving homes means changing schools again, and again... and again(!!) it can be hard for children to feel a true sense of belonging within a school community. With this being an ongoing experience for some of the Coulson kids, a momentous decision has been made to break away from mainstream education! And on this path to new beginnings, Justin experiences a break of a different kind - rather more painful, and nothing short of miraculous!   Topic's discussed in this episode: Australia's educational system  The 3 basic psychological needs of every child - what happens when these are not being met at school? Educational lessons learned during the Covid lockdowns Homeschooling  When children struggle with emotional regulation and attention at school Becoming grandparents Holidays, surfing, and the power of slowing down Challenging days and changing direction Moving? How to help your child settle into a new school - a Happy Families article School refusal - a Happy Families article      Register for the Happy Families October Webinar - "Enough: Helping our children overcome anxiety, perfectionism & self-loathing" Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Become a Happy Families member today - Happy Families Membership Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We all love a good book! Here are some that may pique your interest and get you reading. A storyline that will consume your life and keep you guessing right up to the last page, a blistering critique on the elite and political classes, learning to be comfortable in solitude, the heroes fighting online predators, unpacking generational differences, and a first-aid manual for supporting your teen’s mental health!  'Homecoming' by Kate Morton 'Winners Take All: The Elite Charade of Changing the World' by Anand Giridharadas 'The Secret Life of You' by Kerry Sackville 'The Ideas Industry' Daniel Drezner 'Saving Our Kid' by Madonna King 'When Life Sucks' by Dr Jo Prendergast 'Generations' by Dr Jean Twenge We've mentioned the book club Birds of a Feather before on the podcast - both Homecoming and The Secret Life of You were on the reading list. Check it out for some great suggestions for children, teens and adults.   Register for the Happy Families October Webinar - "Enough: Helping our children overcome anxiety, perfectionism & self-loathing" Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Become a Happy Families member today - Happy Families Membership Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Does your child whine and moan about what you pack in their lunchbox? Are you sick of preparing healthy lunchboxes only to have it come home untouched? Knowing what food to send to school with your child can be so challenging! Deb Blakely shares tips and tricks for making lunch time easier, and why you CAN give your child quick and easy food that they will actually eat - guilt free! (Replay) Topics included in this episode - Investigating things that can impact your child's ability to eat at school How to support kids with special needs Problem-solve together Should white bread sandwiches, chip packets, cheese sticks and juice be demonized? School is not the time to be stretching our kids Food safety Why foods that look, smell and taste good ARE good (yes - even carbohydrates and sugar!) Communicating with teachers Learn more about Deb Blakley from Kids Dig Food To access the Feed Your Picky Eater [without going crazy] evergreen online course for parents: https://kidsdigfood.com.au/resources/ Book an appointment with an APD from the Kids Dig Food team: https://kidsdigfood.com.au/appointments/ Register for the BRAND-NEW 'Supporting Autistic Children: Nurturing Neurodiversity' course hosted by Dr Justin Coulson & Dr Joey Lawrence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is your child stressed out, apprehensive or just feeling like life is too hard? Does anxiety or perfectionism cause them to feel they are not enough? All hope is not lost! Three ways you can BUILD HOPE in your child's life - helping them to do well and feel well as they experience the power of hope. Research by Rick Snyder, Shane Lopez  'In search of Bob Cat' TikTok Failure, anxiety, resilience Our children need to feel hopeful before they can feel they are enough What does the research say about hopeful people? What is hope, and why are our youth feeling hopeless? How to be a hope-builder Enough: Overcoming Anxiety, Perfectionism, & Self Loathing - a Happy Families article Register for the Happy Families October Webinar - "Enough: Helping our children overcome anxiety, perfectionism & self-loathing" Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Become a Happy Families member today - Happy Families Membership. Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A late-night phone call, unexpected tears, and a sneaky case of stealth-mode to see a special someone.  The miracle of birth An emotional journey after a sudden change of mind Grandparents - navigating boundaries, roles, and visiting rights? A cautionary tale Trickiness of in-law relationships Watching your adult child grow into parenthood Dad’s Guide to Pregnancy For Dummies - by Dr Justin Coulson What to Do When Parents and Grandparents Disagree - a Happy Families Article   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Become a Happy Families member today - Happy Families Membership. Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Managing the home-work-life juggle can sometimes feel impossible! Parents - there's no "easy fix" for the balancing act of life, but you can have routine, prioritise connection and create a network of support when times get tough!  (Replay) Topics included in this episode - The increasing cost of living   Justin & Kylie share a personal story about their past financial struggles Get creative Routine, predictability Give them in fantasy what they can't have in reality Helping others I work full-time. How do I connect with my kids? - a Happy Families article Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Become a Happy Families member today - Happy Families Membership. Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Part 2 of Justin speaking with author & associate Professor Katie Davis about her new book Topics discussed in this episode -  Technology's Child by Katie Davis Justin asks Katie some rapid fire questions about her own family life Using technology to reinforce technology rules Finding a balance Video games aren't all bad The impact of social media Further reading/watching: Screens And Our Boys - a Happy Families Article 5 Better Conversations To Have About Screens - a Happy Families Article Keeping your child focused on study and away from social media - a Happy Families Article Tweens, Teens & Screens - a Happy Families Webinar Digital Kids - a Happy Families Article Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You can be a "good-enough" digital parent! Two questions every parent needs to ask when choosing apps or games for their child plus learn how to guide your child's relationship with screens in the best direction - guilt free! (Replay) Topics discussed in this episode -  Technology's Child: Digital Media’s Role in the Ages and Stages of Growing Up - by Katie Davis What are the risks for children under 3? Why are screens so compelling to kids? Using screens as the default "fix" when your child is upset or you just need a break Why screens are such an effective regulator (emotionally and behaviorally) Executive functioning and self-regulation 'Bottom-up' vs top-down' process of attention "Educational" apps Sign up for Katie's newsletter here Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Girls can really struggle with friendship issues, particularly when lacking the maturity and skills to properly navigate these tricky situations. These powerful ideas and practical solutions will help you support your child when they encounter friend troubles - giving them options and building resilience without trying to jump in and "fix it".   Topics included in this episode - The difference between boy & girl play Boys use their bodies, girls use their words Optionality equals resilience  Autonomy, and feeling seen, heard and valued When should the school get involved? Avoidance reinforces anxiety Things you can you do to help your daughter Why Your Kids Need a Tribe - a Happy Families article   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

To praise, or not to praise, that is the question! Is praise actually decreasing your child's intrinsic motivation, and encouraging comparison and competition? Learn the science of how to praise a child - and why you really shouldn't! (Replay) Topics included in this episode - The way we give feedback to our children matters Why do people use praise? 'Podcast Episode #150 "Unconditional Parenting, with Alfie Kohn" What is the right way to praise a child? Why we should end the praise craze - a Happy Families webinar The Most Important Words We Can Say To Our Children - a Happy Families article Asking questions How to help our kids listen to - and express - their inner voice The paradoxical effects of praise & criticism on perceived ability' - Meyer "That's Not Just Beautiful-That's Incredibly Beautiful!" - Brummelman 'The effects of praise on children's intrinsic motivation' - Henderlong & Lepper   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Daniel H. Pink is the author of five New York Times bestsellers, including his latest, The Power of Regret: How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward.  His other books include the New York Times bestsellers When and A Whole New Mind — as well as the #1 New York Times bestsellers Drive and To Sell is Human.  Dan’s books have won multiple awards, have been translated into 42 languages, and have sold millions of copies around the world. He lives in Washington, DC, with his family.  Today on the podcast, Justin talks to Dan about his parenting style, parenting tips and thoughts on family life in a Happy Families Lightning Round. Hear more from Dan in Episode #629 as he talks with Justin about The Power of Regret To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Motherhood can often be accompanied by an overwhelming loss of identity. So how do you "find yourself" again?  Three things every mum should do in their quest to develop a sense of self; how to rewrite the script and the art of finding satisfaction and joy in life again. (Replay)   Topics included in this episode - Kylie shares a recent article from Kylie's Corner (monthly articles written by Kylie exclusively for our Happy Families Premium Members).   Adult friendships Sense of identity - feeling lost or stuck? When life feels all-consuming Embracing discomfort Some big questions to ask yourself! Job satisfaction Who and what lights you up? Looking after yourself - a Happy Families article   Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you constantly rushing your child? Is the "Mum guilt" creeping in? Practical solutions to building relationships, maintaining the fun AND learning how to slow life down a little.  (R)   Intentional parenting Emotional regulation The importance of routine & structure  Breathing techniques Fast is Slow and Slow is Fast - a Happy Families article Transitions - a Happy Families article Creating margin - a Happy Families podcast What to do When Kids Won't Listen - a Happy Families article Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you feel like you are doing it all? Are you spent with nothing more to give? And what is the secret to actually showing up, in whatever capacity that may look like? Learn how to make "a plan of kindness" to ensure your partnership works - sharing the load together. (R)   What is a partnership? Brene Brown suggests marriage and relationships are never 50/50 in terms of energy, patience and kindness.  Should we always strive to give 100%?  Communication is key Compassion and kindness How focusing on the division of labour can doom a relationship! Plan for and communicate when you have nothing more to give 3 questions to ask your partner   To become a Happy Families member, find out more here: Happy Families Membership. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Struggling to implement structure whilst still giving your child some freedom? Three things every parent needs to know to successfully set rules, limits and boundaries in a way that supports your child's autonomy rather than detracting from it.    3 basic psychological needs  Structure & boundary setting Autonomy Competence Creating a sense of predictability Swimming pool analogy Command, control and conquer? Justin shares a story from his new book  The Parenting Revolution   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A super-fast "How I Parent Lightning Round" with Dr Amantha Imber, founder of Inventium, host of the How I Work podcast. and author of Time Wise. To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

With holidays just around the corner, we've dug out Justin and Kylie's massive family movie list - some fun inspiration for when you just need to put your feet up and have some family bonding time.    Find the complete list of Kylie & Justin's favourite movies, including ones for teenagers here! Movies & Kids: When is it ok for them to watch that? - A Happy Families Article Monster's Inc Brother Bear Finding Nemo Mulan Brave Moana The Lego Movie Wreck It Ralph Tarzan Pocahontas The Princess Bride The Greatest Showman The Sandlot Kids The Sound of Music Mary Poppins Spirit Toy Story How To Train a Dragon Cheaper By The Dozen National Treasure The Slipper & The Rose The King & I The Scarlet Pimpernel   Today is the Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit! Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We teach our kids to be safe, kind and respectful online - but are we taking our own advice? Shona Hendley unpacks the negative repercussions of frequent sharing, oversharing and inappropriate sharing - and the steps Online School Parent Forums can take to set a good example for the next generation.   The School Carpark Marfia has moved to WhatsApp! Shona Hendley's article: "Help! My school WhatsApp group is making me hate other parents! Follow Kirra Pendergast at Safe on Social Be a role model for your children What are the legal issues surrounding online defamation and bullying? Is airing grievances about other parents/students/teachers ever appropriate? Advice for helping your child become a discerning digital citizen 3 Simple Tips for Managing Screen Time for the Whole Family - A Happy Families Article   Purchase your ticket for the Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit at the Happy Families website. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families. Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Frustrated by fibs and "tall stories"? Understand the WHY behind the LIE and learn how to respond honestly to your child's dishonesty - without rupturing relationships.   Topics included in this episode - Why do we lie? Why do kids lie? Lying is a developmental achievement Theory of mind Focus on the relationship What to do when your child lies to you   You can purchase tickets for the Smells Like Teen Summit at the Happy Families website. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are smartphones dumbing down relationships and making your marriage miserable? Four easy ways to help parents quit the phubbing and increase relationship satisfaction - without blame or judgement!   "Phubbing"  'More Scrolling, More Marital Problems' - from the Insitute for Families Studies 'How relationships come to an end and the scourge of the smartphone' - Andrew Sofin What have phones and screens actually replaced? The very real impacts of excessive phone usage  How screentime analysis can be helpful Boundaries around screens for adults - how and why   You can purchase tickets for the “Smells Like Teen Spirit” Summit at the Happy Families website. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families. Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hard to stay calm when your child is in fight or flight mode? Listen in for some emotion-regulating tools to add to your parenting tool kit - and discover why slowing down actually speeds things up! Anxiety in kids Mixing logic and emotions Fight/ flight mode Emotional intelligence Slow down to go fast  Facing our own childhood experiences    You can purchase tickets for the “Smells Like Teen Spirit” Summit at the Happy Families website. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families. Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is pranking your kids ever ok? And why are girls dropping out of sport? The big issue these two questions have in common is something every parent needs to talk about! The egg-crack challenge Kellie Scott's ABC Everyday interview with Kristyn Sommer Long-term ramifications of pranks Consent Women's World Cup and the unwanted kiss Girls, sport and the importance of female representation in higher levels   Body Image   You can purchase tickets for the Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit at the Happy Families website. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families. Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parenting teens is like a kickass 90's playlist. Wild transitions, raw angst, and unexpected moments of reverberating depth. Find out how you can have more Nirvana, less drama... AND the actual kickass playlist!  The Happy Families Team has put together a "Smells Like Teen Spirit" Summit playlist!  Meet a world-class lineup of speakers Play along with us - guess the song! Get the low down on Summit topics including friendships, sex, and neurodiversity in adolescents Follow Justin on TikTok Last day to purchase early bird tickets for the Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families. Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is there tension and disagreement in your home when it comes to parenting? Improve your family life with three simple questions! We hear from a listener who has started right from the beginning Weekly couple's meeting Creating the space Daily habits Getting your systems right Creating alignment Parenting on the Same Page - A Happy Families webinar  Purchase early bird tickets for the Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit at the Happy Families website. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Living in chaos and feeling the pressure? Four steps to reducing household havoc and replacing chaos with calm and connection.   'Household chaos and mother–adolescent communication' led by Jackie Nelson of the University of Texas Spontaneous disclosure vs parental questioning Routine (James Clear) Creating margin Making mornings magic Digging deeper into our emotional self-barometer Rebellious, angry teenagers - but are they really?   Register for tonight's Webinar 'Fatherhood Redefined' at the Happy Families website. Purchase early bird tickets for the Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit at the Happy Families website. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families. Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are fears and challenges limiting ability? Learn how you (or your child!) can overcome fears and get comfortable with failure. The Resilient Kids Conference is in Adelaide this weekend An update on the grandbaby! Life-changing adventure for Kylie Leading by example Food fight at the Coulson table Why are Dads so important? The (starchy) secret to a happy family   Register for the Father's Day Webinar 'Fatherhood Redefined' at the Happy Familie's website. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families. Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Father's Day is just around the corner! Listen in for practical ways you can show up to be an involved, present and connected Dad. A conversation with Lucy and Kel from The Light FM. Parenting is a humbling (and exhausting) experience Lessons learned in lock-down The unique relationship between child and father Why intention matters Incredible benefits of Dad being present (according to science!) Justin's exciting news!   Register for the Father's Day Webinar 'Fatherhood Redefined' at the Happy Familie's website. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning. Topics discussed are not intended for young children* Do you know how to protect your children from online predators? A must-not miss episode with guest Madonna King.  Sextortion and our kids Horrifying statistics  Learn how girls and boys are targeted online in very different ways Why kids won't share their online experiences with you Children, smart phones and social media How to have the conversation with our children "Saving our children: The inside story of Taskforce Argos, Detective Inspector Jon Rouse and their mission to protect our children online" by Madonna King   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is body image a big issue in your home? You're not alone! Listen in for simple ways to help your children have positive body image! "Beauty Sick" by Renee Engeln Astonishing statistics Body image and teenage girls  Nature vs society's ideal Peer vs parental influence What determines our innate worth? What to focus on instead of body image "I like myself" by Karen Beaumont "Misconnection: Why your teenage daughter "hates" you, expects the world, and needs to talk" by Justin Coulson    Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss the right age for certain milestones Staying at home alone The laws in QLD Mobile phones Kids need smart parents, not smart phones Smart parents give their kids dumb phones Boyfriends & girlfriends #816 Tween Relationships: How Young is Too Young? Sleepovers Walking to school or the shops alone Ear piercing    Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is there a Monopoly on Energy? It's a controversial topic in the Coulson home! Holisitic, alternative therapies Psychologist vs kinesiologist  Emotional intelligence "No Matter What" by Kristen Crowhurst Justin has a new book! "Being a Great Dad for Dummies" Justin destroys the kids in Monopoly    You can purchase early bird tickets for the Smells Like Teen Summit at the Happy Families website. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin shares a sneak peek into the free webinar Teenage Dirtbag Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Deb about picky eaters The origins of picky eaters What kids used to eat Age to expect pickiness When it gets better Neurodiversity Biggest mistakes parents make When the joy goes out of eating, nutrition suffers  How can we help? Learn more about Deb Blakley from Kids Dig Food To access the Feed Your Picky Eater [without going crazy] evergreen online course for parents: https://kidsdigfood.com.au/resources/ Book an appointment with an APD from the Kids Dig Food team: https://kidsdigfood.com.au/appointments/   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie respond to a listener question about choosing the right school Fun, Friends & Fit Results, Resources & Reputation NAPLAN Sending your children to more than one school  Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sneak peek into tonight's webinar  We Need to Talk About Parent Wellbeing Mental health vs mental illness How screens affect mental health Brains aren't designed to optimise our wellbeing Doing hard things What we can do to feel good Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Happy birthday to Justin's Dad! Kylie's going away Justin's spending time with the kids The power of intention Kylie meets her eldest daughter's new friends The village  Building connections We Need to Talk About Parent Wellbeing Free webinar - Teenage Dirtbag Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning. Topics discussed are not intended for children* Online roulette: the popular chat sites that are drawing in children and horrifying parents The dark side of Omegle  Parental Guidance episode 1, season 2 Knowledge is power Be engaged Develop processes together Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Emotional Lives of Teenagers by Dr Lisa Damour Shame vs guilt Criticism  Social awareness Teens & friends Cold & hot reasoning Perspective The ladder of life Lisa answers some rapid fire questions The reality of girls & boys maturing at different rates Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie respond to a listener question about emotional volcanoes Name it to tame it Emotional regulation High emotions - low intelligence Tunnel vision/rigid thinking Seen, heard & valued Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Should we be allowing our kids to drink non alcoholic drinks? Justin tries his first non-alcoholic beer What to know before giving your teen non-alcoholic beer or wine Providing Alcohol for Underage Youth: What Messages Should We Be Sending Parents? An acquired taste The Mediterranean Effect Parental endorsement of consumption Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning. Topics discussed are not intended for children* Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Internet safety Unsolicited Instagram messages Rotten Tomatoes A conversation about calories Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Discussing criticisms of Gentle Parenting Permissiveness  The emotional toll on parents Building emotional intelligence Building an expansive emotional vocabulary Empathy for the child vs other people around them Supporting our child's autonomy Needs supportive parenting Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are we taking emotion coaching too far? The Emotional Lives of Teenagers by Dr Lisa Damour Emotion coaching Start with empathy Shielding children from emotions Internal board of directors Trauma Regulating emotions Good coping brings relief and does no harm Dosing The value in kids experiencing pain Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie respond to a listener question about learning to parent after a childhood with a parent who was mentally unwell Justin reads some 5 star reviews from their listeners Focusing on our strengths Individual differences Single parenthood Absent parents The importance of relationships outside of the home Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak about the importance of The Village Neighbours Teachers Friends Community leaders Medical professionals Surrogate Aunts & Uncles Surrogate Grandparents Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Discussing the response to the Barbie podcast Justin recycles Kylie has a moment with each of her 3 youngest daughters Highs & lows Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie give their reviews of the Barbie & Oppenheimer movies Topics discussed: Justin was not keen for the movie The recommended age to watch the movie The Patriarchy Femininity & masculinity Being the main character of your own story Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - This episode is not intended for children* Justin speaks with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about sex & intimacy Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife How parenting impacts your sex life Creating a space of rejuvination What to do when your child walks in on you What more people need to understand about sex Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie respond to a listener question regarding their daughter having a boyfriend at the age of 10. Topics discussed: Minimising access to smart phones Talking to our kids about relationships early and often Listening to anxiety and following that to stay safe Knowing that delaying relationships is in general a good idea Teaching kids to know their worth Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak about whether or not children need to be bored Providing an environment that encourages learning Justin & Kylie confess what they got up to when they were bored as children What the data shows A boredom experiement What DO kids need? Being in relationship with others Change things up Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time A gender reveal in the Coulson family Kylie's listening to all the old podcasts The Coulson's need to slow down Getting on the same page Purchase a ticket to Parenting ADHD [The Course] Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - This episode contains topics that are not intended for children* Justin & Kylie share what's happening this week in parenting Controversial sex book pulled from Big W shelves after staff abused Psychiatrist claims parents should be allowed to give kids a 'little smack' Longitudinal study of kindergarteners suggests spanking is harmful for children’s social competence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - This episode is not intended for children* Justin speaks with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about sex & intimacy Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife Shared responsibilities in the home Cognitive load Division of labour High/low desire Men vs women's sexual desires Justin shares a recent study about being mindfully present Virtue of desire & pleasure Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about favouritism Do Justin & Kylie have a favourite child? Unconditional love Kylie shares an analogy about treating everyone the same What the research says about favouritism Being seen, heard & valued Explore, explain, empower Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie discuss a hot topic on social media Justin reads a listener's email about The Parenting Revolution Structure & boundary setting Competence Creating a sense of predictability Justin shares a story from his new book Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Justin takes too much on and ends up crashing and burning The Coulson's go on a holiday without Justin Justin's washing machine analogy The Coulson's create a new game Time confetti Purchase a ticket to Parenting ADHD [The Course] Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share their list of favourite books they're reading at the moment Justin's reading Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir The Emotional Lives of Teenagers by Dr Lisa Damour Parenting Like an Australian by Damien Cave Just Kids by Patty Smith The Whole Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson Kylie's reading The Parenting Revolution - Dr Justin Coulson Grace Where You Are & Grace To Beome by Emily Belle Freeman The Drover's Wife by Leah Purcell The Dictionary of Lost Words & The Bookbinder of Jericho Pip Williams Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin has a conversation with Damien Cave about his new book Parenting Like an Australian Damien talks about how he began surfing Understanding risk How adults live their lives Is Australian parenting leaning towards American parenting? Optimism  Competence builds confidence Perfection vs proficiency Damien shares how he & his family are taking risks Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about autonomy Little People, Big Feelings Theory of mind Basic need for autonomy Reactance  Importance of transitions Moments of connection Celebrating successes Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's podcast is inspired by Brene Brown's statement that marriage and relationships are never 50/50 in terms of energy, patience and kindness. So Justin and Kylie sat down to unpack this statement, and whether it holds true in their marriage. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Justin & Kylie make a listener cry Justin goes for a surf Kylie shares how she struggles to support Justin when he's having a hard time The youngest Coulson gives a poignant prayer Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share what's happening this week in parenting Parenting is the perfect leveller  Gentle parenting Parental Guidance viewers are slamming gentle parenting and I'm confused Devilish Dilemmas by Ginger Fox Mum shaming on Tiktok Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Yish Koh, MD from KIT Inflation, cost of living, interest rates New study published - Financial Capability Australian parents are talking to their kids about money Spending strategies Donating to charity The take-home message Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about angry teenage boys Self regulation Empathy. Congnitive vs affective. Power Masculinity High emotions = low intelligence Male role models Expanding your emotional vocabulary Atlas of the heart - Brene Brown Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feeling overwhelmed? You’re not alone. In this episode of the How I Work crossover series you’ll learn some low-effort and high-impact ways to remove reoccurring stressors in your life. Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Justin is struggling being a parent right now Justin's focusing on we-time Kylie is struggling with one of her daughters preparing to move out Autonomy supportive parenting Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie chat aboout what to do during the cold Winter months The average teen uses 7-9 hours of screen time What Justin & Kylie did in Winter as kids What we can do when it's cold Fire in the backyard S'mores Camp out inside Paint n Sip sessions Crochet/knitting Beading Baking Slumber party Visit the elderly Guitar lessons Building websites Local library Puzzles Board games Card games Play dates Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Brad Morgan from Emerging Minds Mental health What Emerging Minds has to offer Helping children make sense together Practical strategies to help Available resources Emerging Minds Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about a traumatic family experience Happy 4th of July to our American listeners! Happy Canada Day to our Canadian listeners! What is anxiety? Anxiety is a healthy response to a stressful situation How to respond to anxiety  Anxiety & trauma disorders Don't fight the emotion Say what you see - Name it to tame it The Emotional Lives of Teenagers by Lisa Damour Panic attacks Is it necessary to talk about the trauma? Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Staying healthy doesn’t need to be a pain. In this episode of the How I Work crossover series you’ll hear some tips and tricks to get exercise into your life in a meaningful way – no matter how busy your home and work schedules are. Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Detective Superintendent, Jayne Crossling Ep 1 of Parental Guidance - the online challenge Why they used an actor instead of a real officer Having continual conversations around online safety The public's reaction to the show ThinkUKnow ACCCE with the AFP Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Emotion coaching Justin is run off his feet Definition of joy Kylie has a profound moment with her daughter Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with the winner of Parental Guidance Season 2 Kat shares how it's felt having the show air A lesson on honesty How Kat felt about sitting on the couch alone Kat struggles with compliments Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about slowing things down Rushing our children through tasks Mum guilt Emotional regulation Solutions Introducing routine & structure Transitions Wiggle room or wriggle room? Breathing techniques Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the How I Work crossover series we cover all things work life balance. Is it even possible in 2023? Yes, but you have to set some strong guidelines and keep them enforced. You’ll get actionable tips to help demarcate your family time starting from today. Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Justin overshares a little Justin shares a nice email from a listener Attend the Resilient Kids Conference Creating margin The Coulsons spend a slow Sunday morning together Weekly family meeting Showing humility Kylie unexpectedly presents a quick keynote Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak with the host of Parental Guidance Season Two Topics included in this episode - Ally shares how filming the show changed her own parenting style Celebrating each parenting style individually Ally's fears for her future in parenting The 3 C's Ally shares the challenge that was most difficult for her Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Warning - this episode does include spoilers* Justin & Kylie discuss the finale of Parental Guidance Season Two Topics included in this episode - Are the Coulson's a slow or gentle family? The winner is announced Having a mirror held up to your parenting What is a good parent? Giving your children a voice Intrinsic motivation Tiger parenting Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss episode 6 of Parental Guidance Season Two Topics included in this episode - The ice cream challenge Natural consequences Autonomy Find your way home challenge Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss Parental Guidance Season Two Topics included in this episode - The swing assembly challenge How every family on Parental Guidance is great while being different The delivery driver test Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Who doesn’t love a collaboration? This is the first episode in a four-week crossover series with the popular podcast How I Work all about how to improve health and wellbeing in your home life. In this episode we talk about why you need to stop treating sleep like a luxury item. We go through why it matters and how to get more of it. Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics discussed in this episode -  The Coulson's watch Parental Guidance together Justin's been working away a lot Justin sings his daughter a lullaby song The Coulson girls make cupcakes Recognising when you've got it wrong Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss Parental Guidance Season Two Topics included in this episode - Benefits of spirital/religious families The reverse parking challenge Giving our kids a voice Pornography Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss episode 4 of Parental Guidance Season Two Topics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie discuss all the new families we meet in episode 4 Life skills Kids are challenged with organising dinner Fire safety Dreams/goals for your kids Motivation Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss episode 3 of Parental Guidance Season Two Topics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie discuss all the new families we meet in episode 3 Justin stages an intervention with the Team family Emotion coaching Say what you see If you can name it, you can tame it Unrealistic expectations How bodies work - naming anatomy Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A sneak peek of Kylie's Corner Topics included in this episode - Episode 3 of Parental Guidance airs tonight Kylie shares her latest article from Kylie's Corner Sense of identity Feeling job satisfaction Developing a sense of self Become a member of the Happy Families family Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Daniel H. Pink is the author of five New York Times bestsellers, including his latest, The Power of Regret: How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward.  His other books include the New York Times bestsellers When and A Whole New Mind — as well as the #1 New York Times bestsellers Drive and To Sell is Human.  Dan’s books have won multiple awards, have been translated into 42 languages, and have sold millions of copies around the world. He lives in Washington, DC, with his family.  Today on the podcast, Justin talks to Dan about his parenting style, parenting tips and thoughts on family life in a Happy Families Lightning Round. To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss week 1 of Parental Guidance Season Two Topics included in this episode - Supervision of children Water safety Drowning is silent Gentle parenting Child loss Emotion coaching Smacking Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss episode 2 of Parental Guidance Season Two Topics included in this episode - The bystander effect Teaching our kids to hit back? Non violent responses Autonomy support "Fear is temporary. Regret is forever" Competence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss episode 1 of Parental Guidance Season Two Topics included in this episode - Online safety Families were challenged to have their children play a game online Why kids lie about what they're doing online How to have the 'online safety' conversation with your kids Talk early. Talk often. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak with Melissa Maclean from Channel 9 Topics included in this episode - Parental Guidance Season Two starts TONIGHT How was Dr Justin selected as the expert for the show? What was Justin like on set? How did they come up with the challenges? What was the feedback from Season 1? What to expect from episode 1? Online safety Bullying Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics discussed in this episode -  Justin's been doing PR for his new book - The Parenting Revolution Kylie has an 'aha' moment while she reads Justin's new book Needs supportive parenting Unconditional love Justin has a moment with 3 of his daughters Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parenting Topics discussed in this episode -  Who would you seek support from if you were experiencing a personal or emotional problem? Teens experience the highs & lows of life at a greater intensity Girls experience greater emotional instability than boys Awe by Dacher Keltner Move in nature Research articles mentioned Survey says mum's the top source of emotional support for Australian young people Understanding Emotion in Adolescents: A Review of Emotional Frequency, Intensity, Instability, and Clarity Awe Sparks Prosociality in Children Exercise more effective than medicines to manage mental health Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin shares a sneak peek from the upcoming teen summit with Dr Leonard Sax Topics included in this episode - Dr Sax speaks about his book Boys Adrift Why is there a large portion of young men that don't feel motivated to work? Gender discrepancies What, Why & How Women are looking for equal mates The Collapse of Parenting Boy's current role models  Objectification of women Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about Grandparents that aren't so helpful Topics included in this episode - Kylie has an ideal view of what her Grandparenting experience will look like Grandparents will do things differently, and that's okay Justin shares a memory about how he dealt with their parents as Grandparents Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss how to praise a child - and why you shouldn't Topics included in this episode - The way we give feedback to our children matters Why people praise Attempting to boost our child's self esteem We praise the kids that we think need it It feels like it's right to say nice things The paradoxical effects of praise & criticism on perceived ability 'That's not beautiful, that's incredibly beautiful' Inflated praise decreases challenge seeking in children with low self esteem The effects of praise on children's intrinsic motivation  The right way to praise a child Ask questions It takes practice Say what you see Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics discussed in this episode -  Couple wants to name their baby after the devil Justin presents at the Resilient Kids Conference Justin spends some quality time with his daughter The Tooth Fairy is rich! The eldest Coulson daughter is craving attention Kylie gets some help around the house Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on the podcast it's time for Book Club!  Justin and Kylie talk all about the books that have been on the bedside table this past month. Books mentioned in this episode: Love Stories by Trent Dalton The Wedding Party by Cathy Kelly I’ll Leave This With You by Kylie Ladd The 100 Years of Lenni and Margot by Marianne Cronin The Making of Men by Dr Arne Rubinstein Man Raises Boy by Rob Sturrock Gina Rinehart - The Untold Story of the Richest Woman in the World by Adele Ferguson The Changing World Order - Why Nations Succeed or Fail by Ray Dalio Magic Words by Jonah Berger Testosterone - The Story of the Hormone that Dominates and Divides Us by Carole Hooven Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Julie about teenagers & anxiety Topics included in this episode - Sneak peek of Julie's summit conversation Definition of adult Why do adults not feel like adults? Parental anxiety & control Anxiety In Children Have you fulfilled your potential? We are our child's best role model Find out more about Julie Lythcott-Haims Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about friendship difficulties Topics included in this episode - The difference between boy & girl play Justin shares a recent study  Boys use their bodies, girls use their words Friendship issue solutions Optionality equals resilience  Control Give them the opportunity come up with their own ideas Contact the school Get to know other families Avoidance reinforces anxiety Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss The Parenting Revolution webinar Topics included in this episode - Sneak peek for tonight's webinar - The Parenting Revolution Kylie hasn't read Justin's new book Parenting styles The history of parenting The parenting style model Need Supportive Parenting 3 basic psychological needs Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics discussed in this episode -  Origins of Mother's Day The Coulson girls have a craft day #266 I'll Do Better Tomorrow - The Noah's Ark Edition Justin struggles with gift ideas for his Mum Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's This Week in Parenting, where Justin and Kylie look at parenting stories that are making the news. Topics discussed: Why you need a does-band, not a husband, and what trend a US divorce lawyer is seeing Robert De Niro is a dad again at 79, but is that too old? Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode of the Happy Families podcast we're playing part of Justin's conversation with Amy Taylor-Kabbaz in our recent Hot Mess Summit. Topics included in this episode - Why you can't do it all as a mum What motherhood means and why historical stereotypes aren't helpful The concept of matrescence  Amy Taylor-Kabbaz is the founder of the Happy Mama Movement, hosts the Happy Mama Movement Podcast and is the author of 'Mama Rising (Discovering the New You Through Motherhood'. You can purchase the full Hot Mess Summit at the Happy Families website. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answser a listener's question about boys playing rough in the playground Topics included in this episode - Feel free to listen to the podcast on a faster speed! Toxic masculinity & over feminisation Justin wanted to be a SNAG Boys vs girls The issue with making masculinity problematic Schools are taking away opportunities for boys to use their bodies in the playground Building empathy Banning friendships Unstructured play Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin joins some big names to discuss a smart phone ban in schools Topics included in this episode - Swombies - social media zombies How social media effects kids -  Self expression & validation Appearance comparison Fear of missing out Bullying & harmful content The brain drain studies As smart phone use goes up, academic performance goes down Arguments from the other side of the debate Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics discussed in this episode -  Justin has been receiving some fantastic feedback on his new book What does Justin find rewarding in parenting? Justin recommends a gap year  Kylie listens to the Happy Families podcast and gets some advice The power of 'no matter what'  Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Part 2 of Justin speaking with author & associate Professor Katie Davis about her new book Topics discussed in this episode -  Technology's Child by Katie Davis Justin asks Katie some rapid fire questions about her own family life Using technology to reinforce technology rules Finding a balance Video games aren't all bad The impact of social media Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with author & associate Professor Katie Davis about her new book Topics discussed in this episode -  Technology's Child by Katie Davis What are the risks for children under 3? Be keen observers Be aware of when you tend to reach for a device when you need a break The relationship between emotional & behavioural regulation  Why are screens such an effective regulator? Executive function "Educational" apps Look for self directed & community supported apps Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin speaks with Kristy Thomas about being mindful of who is having a hard time this Mother's Day Topics discussed in this episode -  Feel The Magic Insensitive questions from well-meaning kids & adults What to say to your children that are struggling Future planning is helpful Validation Avoidane reinforces anxiety (but be aware of timing & context) Empower them to make their own choices 1/20 children have lost a parent by the time they're 18 Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie answer a listener question about whether or not they should push their 10 year old son into attending school camp, even though he is extremely anxious about it. Topics discussed in this episode -  Addressing some of the key concerns about the camp Avoidance reinforcing anxiety The 3 psychological needs of children Ways to prepare kids for a school camp Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin's pro's & con's list for cruising Topics discussed in this episode -  Justin & Kylie have been cruising Should you take your kids on a cruise? Justin gets seasick Would the Coulson's cruise again? Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parenting Topics discussed in this episode -  How males develop their impulse control  Sensation seeking The difference between male & female's impulse control trajectory Empathetic vs emotionally distant parents Research articles mentioned Sex differences in the developmental trajectories of impulse control and sensation-seeking from early adolescence to early adulthood Antecedents of empathic capacity  Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Olivia White aka House of White Topics discussed in this episode -  Cost of living Discussing money with kids Finding other sources of income Comparison Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer listener's questions Topics discussed in this episode -  Justin's got a lot to say! Kylie answer's a listener's question about what keeps her up at night Justin & Kylie answer's a listener's question about school work for unmotivated kids How do you know if someone is 'trying their best'?  The Motivation Continuum  Different forms of motivation Let them evaluate themselves  Autonomy supportive conversations Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin's new book is out today! Topics included in this episode - History behind May Day Purchase The Parenting Revolution The horrible history of parenting We need a parenting revolution Parental Guidance Season 2 is coming soon Autonomy support Self determination theory Need supportive approach Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics included in this episode - An update on Justin wanting to quit parenting Justin reads an email from a listener A surfing metaphor Kylie shares how she struggles to support Justin when he's having a hard time Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Michelle Mitchell about her new book - Tweens Topics included in this episode - Tweens by Michelle Mitchell What is the difference between tweens and teens? Changes in social behaviour Perspective taking Comparisons Physical changes Cognitive changes Self esteem Technology Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Dr Anthea Rhodes about parents and play Topics included in this episode - Dr Anthea Rhodes from RCH National Child Health Poll Australian Families: How We Play How play has changed over the years Play is repetitive  Bandit from Bluey has set a high bar Options for play partners Screen play Outside play Risk taking & safety concerns Extracurricular activities Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A special Anzac day episode with Dr Justin Coulson. Lest we forget.   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - Parental discretion advised* Topics included in this episode - Is it risky to post photos of your children online in their school uniform? How often are these photos used in grooming & sexual extortion cases? How to post online safely Use appropriate privacy settings Do you know all of your 'friends' on social media? Have conversations very early around devices & social media ACCCE with the AFP Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie are headed to the Richard Marx concert Coulson daughter #2 is headed to the other side of the world Kylie had a rough week & called her Dad Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode - Justin reads an email from a listener What is ChatGPT? ChatGPT writes a poem about school refusal  Justin shares how he plans to use ChatGPT in his work Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: The Impact of Instagram Mommy Blogger Content on the Perceived Self-Efficacy of Mothers How the content we view online impacts how we see ourselves How social media influences parents The Alpha mum The results to the study were surprising Media literacy Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Purchase the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about sensitive souls Purchase Justin's new book - The Parenting Revolution Purchase the Raising Resilient Kids Summit Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Renee Jain about anxiety and your little person.  Renee Jain is the founder and Chief Storyteller of  GoZen!  She has been recognized as a pioneer in marrying technology and child psychology in a unique approach that nurtures the hearts and minds of kids. Through her writing, product invention and development, masterclasses for parents, and children’s advocacy, she works to build the emotional intelligence of kids. Originally a tech entrepreneur who suffered with her own anxiety, Renee founded GoZen! to help a new generation of kids, parents and therapists. Renee earned her Master’s degree in Positive Psychology — the scientific study of optimal human functioning — from the University of Pennsylvania and is the NYT bestselling co-author of Superpowered: Transform Anxiety into Courage, Confidence, and Resilience. Purchase the Little People, Big Feelings Summit Purchase Justin's new book - The Parenting Revolution Purchase the Raising Resilient Kids Summit Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Kylie is taking a well earned break, and filling in on the podcast is Christine Layton. In this episode Christine & Justin are discussing what to do when your child's friend is a bad influence. Purchase Justin's new book - The Parenting Revolution Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Purchase the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Kylie is taking a well earned break, and filling in on the podcast is Christine Layton. In this episode Christine & Justin are discussing how to help your children find themselves. Purchase Justin's new book - The Parenting Revolution Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Purchase the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Kylie is taking a well earned break, and filling in on the podcast is Christine Layton. In this episode Christine & Justin are discussing the history of parenting & what to do when a child starts lying. Purchase Justin's new book - The Parenting Revolution Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Purchase the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Kylie is taking a well earned break, and filling in on the podcast is Christine Layton. In this episode Christine & Justin are discussing what to do when your child starts to idolise a popstar. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Purchase the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Kylie Wild about her son's Type 1 Diabetes diagnosis Topics included in this episode - What is Type 1 Diabetes?  How do you get it? How does it effect kids? How do parents manage it? Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Purchase the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Justin and Kylie are taking a well earned break, and filling in on the podcast is Beck Delahoy. Beck is a Mum of 3, a parenting researcher, a home educator, and is challenging assumptions about what it means to parent on her Substack, which you can read here. In this episode Beck shares about how rest & recovery is not optional. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Purchase the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Justin and Kylie are taking a well earned break, and filling in on the podcast is Beck Delahoy. Beck is a Mum of 3, a parenting researcher, a home educator, and is challenging assumptions about what it means to parent on her Substack, which you can read here. In this episode Beck shares about how knowing intellectually about thoughts and feelings isn't always enough to control them. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Purchase the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Justin and Kylie are taking a well earned break, and filling in on the podcast is Beck Delahoy. Beck is a Mum of 3, a parenting researcher, a home educator, and is challenging assumptions about what it means to parent on her Substack, which you can read here. In this episode Beck shares about how their family uses their activity jar. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Purchase the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Justin and Kylie are taking a well earned break, and filling in on the podcast is Beck Delahoy. Beck is a Mum of 3, a parenting researcher, a home educator, and is challenging assumptions about what it means to parent on her Substack, which you can read here. In this episode Beck shares how a wicked mouse could help you get a little bit of cooperation from your kids! Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every Friday Justin and Kylie look back on the week that was, reflecting on the wins and losses from family life. Topics discussed in today's episode: Showing compassion and empathy, even when it's hard Helping our kids do hard things, or things that they're afraid of....like needles Justin sleeps through everything! Justin's also been away a lot over the past week. The holiday that Kylie can't wait for, but might make Justin sick Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today at Happy Families it's the Raising Resilient Kids Summit! So Justin and Kylie chat about ways we can help our kids develop resilience, ahead of a day devoted to that very topic. The Raising Resilient Kids Summit is an online event, with multiple ways to participate.  You can do the retreat, and block out the whole day to watch the entire summit as it drops. You can also listen to the summit as a podcast; you'll have lifetime access, so there's no time pressure.  Or you can choose the on demand option - our highlight reels will give you the gist of what's in each session. Come back and refer to the resources as you need them! Learn practical tools and techniques to: Give your kids the best start for a resilient life Help them to accept the gift of failure Support their identity development Use humour to build their resilience Stay calm during life’s trickier moments The speaker lineup includes: Justin Coulson | Raising Resilient Kids | 10am Maggie Dent | 10 Building Blocks to Resilience | 11am Jessica Lahey | The Gift of Failure | 12pm Marty Wilson | The Funny Business of Resilience | 1pm James Anderson | Resilience & the Skill of Learning | 2pm Alfie Kohn | Unconditional Parenting | 3pm Dr Robert Brooks | Coping with Adversity | 4pm Yasmin London | Digital Resilience | 5pm Michael McQueen | Post Covid World Kids | 6pm Dr Laura Markham | Calm Parents, Happy Kids | 7pm Justin Coulson | Live Q&A | 8pm Click here for more information and to register. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - Parental discretion advised* Topics included in this episode - Detective Superintendent Jayne Crossling shares about a new book created by the AFP & ACCCE - Jack Changes The Game Keeping children safe from online grooming Is there an age that's too young to discuss online grooming? Find the book in your school's library A family online safety contract 7 Day Family Online Safety Challenge ACCCE with the AFP Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about how to parent on the same page Topics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie share the things they've disagreed on in parenting Having conversations without the children present Obtaining alignment Know what you want & why Learn to articulate yourself The 3 E's - Explore, Explain & Empower Children need stability Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Coulson family has some BIG news! Topics included in this episode - Coulson daughter #1 is having a baby! Justin & Kylie are going to be Grandparents! What they're most excited about What they're most worried about Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every Friday Justin and Kylie look back on the week that was, reflecting on the wins and losses from family life.   Topics discussed in today's episode: Justin & Kylie share about their anniversary getaway Justin's been away all week When you can't be with your kids, make sure you connect Kylie's been drawing with the girls Kylie received a nice email from her daughter living abroad   Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

March's Book Club - Justin & Kylie share their list of favourite books they're reading at the moment. Kylie's reading Bonds That Make Us Free by Terry Warner Justin's reading The Case Against The Sexual Revolution by Louise Perry Love Stories by Trent Dalton Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How do parents best support their neuordiverse kids with food? Topics discussed in today's episode: How family meals look different with a neurodivergent child Sensory challenges/differences at meal times Helping children become aware of their body's needs Eating at school Food selections Autonomy Cook/shop together   Learn more about Deb Blakley from Kids Dig Food To access the Feed Your Picky Eater [without going crazy] evergreen online course for parents: https://kidsdigfood.com.au/resources/ Book an appointment with an APD from the Kids Dig Food team: https://kidsdigfood.com.au/appointments/   Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

25 Lessons for Making Marriage Magic Topics discussed in today's episode: Justin & Kylie are celebrating 25 years of marriage 25 Lessons for Making Marriage Magic Don't keep score It's not brilliant all the time We're not the same people The big values matter Privacy is important Going to bed mad is okay Balance your mutual & personal interest Always order extra bread rolls Never measure contribution Prioritising intimacy  Confirmation bias can be really strong No issue should ever be allowed to become bigger than your love Never add to your spouse's struggle Marry the person you love being with more than anyone else, then work super hard to keep it that way  Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

25 Lessons for Making Marriage Magic Topics discussed in today's episode: Justin & Kylie are celebrating 25 years of marriage 25 Lessons for Making Marriage Magic Skin to skin contact A loving, thriving marriage is a choice Seeing each other as equal counterparts  How can I better support you today? My love is bigger than any problem we have Gratitude is key to happiness When I meet your needs, you're better able to meet mine Regular, uninterrupted, scheduled, intentional time alone Daily acts of kindness "I love you" is shown On the bad days, remind yourself why you said yes Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in today's episode: Justin is taking Kylie away for their 25th anniversary Kylie is trying new creative outlets Play is critical Doing hard things Justin is riding again Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in today's episode: The Explosive Child, by Dr Ross Greene an associate clinical professor at Harvard Medical School CPS model Inflexibility + inflexibility = Meltdown Problem solving proactively The truth about consequences Punishment vs problem solving Lives In The Balance Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in today's episode: The Explosive Child, by Dr Ross Greene an associate clinical professor at Harvard Medical School Kids do well if they can Flexibility & adaptability Problem solving High emotions, low intelligence Lagging skills research Motivation vs ability How to work with intensely rigid children Problem solving Explore, Explain, Empower Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about how to explain the need for psychological help to your child Topics discussed in today's episode: Teach your children that you don't have all the answers and sometimes we need to reach out to people who do 3 basic psychological needs that must be met Do you want space or do you want a cuddle? Coping skills Behaviour regulation Emotional regulation Normalise it Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin shares a sneak peek into the next summit from Happy Families Topics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie are about to celebrate their 25th anniversary Justin is planning a big surprise Raising Resilient Kids Summit on the 30th of March Justin shares a study on kids & resilience Why resilience is a buzz word right now The lineup for the summit Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every Friday Justin and Kylie look back on the week that was, reflecting on the wins and losses from family life. Topics discussed in today's episode: Kylie returns refreshed from a week away at a health retreat. The things Justin learnt from flying solo...there is a lot of driving! Being grateful for what we have and showing empathy to others.   Get in touch with your questions and feedback to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more and register for the Raising Resilient Kids Summit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Dr Anthea Rhodes about parents and play Topics included in this episode - Dr Anthea Rhodes from RCH National Child Health Poll Australian Families: How We Play How play has changed over the years Play is repetitive  Bandit from Bluey has set a high bar Options for play partners Screen play Outside play Risk taking & safety concerns Extracurricular activities Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Introducing a brand new show on SBS - The Swap Topics included in this episode - Just introduces Ali Kadri, CEO of the Islamic College of Brisbane The Swap on SBS Ali shares why the show was created Holy envy Religious differences  Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about juggling work and parenthood Topics included in this episode - The increasing cost of living   Justin & Kylie share a personal story about their past financial struggles Get creative Routine Predictability Give them in fantasy what they can't have in reality Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin shares a sneak peek of Thursday's FREE webinar, a Resilient Parent Topics included in this episode - Justin reads an email from a listener What is ChatGPT? ChatGPT writes a poem about school refusal  Justin shares how he plans to use ChatGPT in his work Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics included in this episode - Mom explains why she doesn't teach her kids about 'stranger danger' and it makes a ton of sense Kaboose App Justin shares some feedback from a listener about the Roald Dahl episode Justin & Kylie enjoyed the Richard Marx concert The Coulson's say goodbye to their 2nd daughter Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What's happening in parenting in the news? Topics included in this episode - 'We love kids but it's time to take control': Restaurant bans anyone under 10 Rihanna credits motherhood for headlining Super Bowl show: 'You can do anything' Instant noodles are a leading cause of childhood burn injuries, new study Wild way Australian kids are outsmarting new school phone bans Aunt sparks outrage after taking toddler for 'mullet' haircut, without permission Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Michelle Mitchell about her new book - Tweens Topics included in this episode - Tweens by Michelle Mitchell What is the difference between tweens and teens? Changes in social behaviour Perspective taking Comparisons Physical changes Cognitive changes Self esteem Technology Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

February's Book Club - Justin & Kylie share their list of favourite books they're reading at the moment. Justin's reading Guns, Germs & Steel by Jared Diamond Love on the Brain by Ali Hazelwood Get It Done by Ayelet Fishbach Silas Marner by George Elliot Freely Determined by Kennon M Sheldon That All Shall Be Saved by David Bentley Hart Kylie's reading Outlander series by Diana Gabaldon Birds of a Feather Book Club The Soulmate by Sally Hepworth Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What to do when your kid hates school! Topics included in this episode - Sneak peek for tonight's webinar - How To Help When School Sucks Tips for parents Attitude is everything Finding purpose in school Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie are headed to the Richard Marx concert Coulson daughter #2 is headed to the other side of the world Kylie had a rough week & called her Dad Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share how they feel about the censorship of Roald Dahl's books Topics included in this episode - Puffin are making changes to Roald Dahl's work Words like "fat" and "ugly" have been removed Gender neutral terms are being used "The past is a foreign country; they do things differently there." Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does Dr Mona think about gentle parenting? Topics included in this episode - Justin speaks with Dr Mona Delahooke Brain-Body Parenting Responsive parenting Permissive parenting Reading your child's cues Bottom-up behaviours are instinctual Behavioural biomarkers What to do instead Red & green zones Being responsive with time constraints Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about reasonable expections for kids & chores Topics included in this episode - Kylie shares her experience of being pregnant & family life continuing  Justin shares a sneak peek of his new book  Force creates resistance  What are the developmental realities? Involvement Competence  Hunt, Gather, Parent  Autonomy It's a long game Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parenting Topics included in this episode - Adverse Childhood Experiences Which generation experiences the most ACE's? Time pressure today Life is getting harder for a lot of us What does communicating online do to our brains? Research articles mentioned Adverse Childhood Experiences Across Birth Generation and LGBTQ + Identity, Behavioral Risk Factor Surveillance System, 2019 Technologically-assisted communication attenuates inter-brain synchrony Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics included in this episode - An update on Justin wanting to quit parenting Justin reads an email from a listener A surfing metaphor Kylie shares how she struggles to support Justin when he's having a hard time Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you are a parent, how do you comfort your child after a major loss? Justin chats with Christine Layton form ABC Perth  How we can talk to our kids about grief The emotion train What behaviours do grieving children exhibit? Acknowledge their pain Avoidance reinforces anxiety How to prepare a child for a funeral Shenton College's Facebook post Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How best to support your greiving child Topics included in this episode - Kristy introduces herself & Feel The Magic 1 in 20 of children in Australia will lose a parent by the time they're 18 Grief is isolating Camp Magic How children usually respond to grief How parents should respond to their child's grief Feel it to heal it Use your words intentionally Look after yourself & your grief Learn more about Kristy Thomas & Feel The Magic Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about how to cope when your kids are fighting Topics included in this episode - "Such a Good Dad" song How to help your kids navigate the conflict in healthy ways Teach them that high emotions = low intelligence Soft start ups If emotions are high, sort it out later The vicious circle Psychological distancing Problem solving Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - Parental discretion advised* Is it risky to post photos of your children online in their school uniform? How often are these photos used in grooming & sexual extortion cases? How to post online safely Use appropriate privacy settings Do you know all of your 'friends' on social media? Have conversations very early around devices & social media ACCCE with the AFP Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics included in this episode - School refusal is beginning again in the Coulson house Justin is tired & struggling with parenting right now Kylie is struggling with one of her daughters preparing to move out Purchase How to Help When School Sucks Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Should we be encouraging Valentine's Day traditions during childhood? Topics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie share their childhood Valentine's Day memories The history of St Valentine's Day Should kids have a Valentine? Teaching children the art of expressing love The Coulson Valentine's Day tradition Inclusivity  Consent Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What conversations should we be having with our kids at the start of the term? Topics included in this episode - Getting into the mindset We are our child's primary educator Outsourcing education What are we teaching our kids? We're all on the same team What do we send our kids to school for? Is learning a competition? Learning is about relationships Learn more about Gabbie Stroud Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about how to help your sensitive child Topics included in this episode - How to handle other people's opinions/judgments about your children It's none of our business what other people think of us Be careful not to label your own child The emotion train analogy Separation anxiety Pre-arm your child Give them something to look forward to School avoidance How to Help when School Sucks School Refusal Purchase How to Help When School Sucks Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - topics discussed are not appropriate for children* Topics included in this episode -  A recent survey has found that over 30% of teen boys look up to internet celebrity and self-described misogynist Andrew Tate. A recent online spat with climate activist Greta Thunberg led to his arrest on human trafficking charges in Romania, after Tate left a clue to his location in one of the posts. Why are teenage boys resonating with the messages of Andrew Tate, and how can we respond as parents? You can read the ABC article that Justin refers to here.   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics included in this episode - Marie Kondo breaking news Kylie is enjoying school going back School refusal Justin's running with his girls Purchase How to Help When School Sucks Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tips to make lunch time a little easier Topics included in this episode - Why is it so challenging for so many families? How to support kids with special needs Problem solve together School is not the time to be stretching our kids Food safety Learn more about Deb Blakley from Kids Dig Food To access the Feed Your Picky Eater [without going crazy] evergreen online course for parents: https://kidsdigfood.com.au/resources/ Book an appointment with an APD from the Kids Dig Food team: https://kidsdigfood.com.au/appointments/   Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Embrace Your Body Topics included in this episode - Justin speaks with Australian of the year, Taryn Brumfitt The issue of body image Body image influences social groups, identity, and social media Is there a difference in body image issues between boys and girls? Beauty is heavily influenced by society Beauty has nothing to do with how someone looks How do we stop kids from losing their perception of true beauty?  Be the role model for fun Purchase The Miss-connection Summit Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Should we be expecting our kids to complete their homework? Topics included in this episode - Justin shares his strong opinions on homework What is the theory behind why we gives kids homework? What does the science say? Tutoring vs homework Kylie shares her thoughts on homework Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Helping your kids thrive at school Topics included in this episode - Easy afternoons & easy evenings Prepare them for 5 days a week Sleep is not a luxury item Mornings begin the night before Meet other parents Foster relationships Support their autonomy Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics included in this episode - First week back at school School fees Justin didn't holiday very well Kylie's on a health journey A Coulson birthday party Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  Topics included in this episode - Renee Jain is an award-winning tech entrepreneur turned speaker and certified life coach and she spoke to Justin about anxiety and how it plays it in young children. Renee is the founder of GoZen! - which helps kids with their emotional wellbeing. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer all your extra curricular activity questions Topics included in this episode - Season 2 of Parental Guidance is coming SOON How many extra curricular activities should our kids be doing? Follow your children's interest Relationships matter Should you let them change their mind? It's okay to push a little bit Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tips to help start the new school year right Topics included in this episode - Help them be familiar with the school Wear in the school shoes Learn to tie shoe laces Meet the teacher earlier Organise a play date before school starts Communicate extra needs with the teacher Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Getting the routine right for school mornings Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - What to do when you're kids say they're bored! Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Journalist, broadcaster and TV host Amanda Keller sat down with Justin for a lightning round - a series of short, sharp questions about parenting life. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - When have things been best for your family? Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - The simple things that make family life work Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Tips on how to manage parent fatigue Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Tips on summer sleepovers, what age is appropriate, how to keep your kids safe during this summer sleepover season. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Media entrepreneur Mia Freedman has two boys and she discusses how she defines masculinity as well as her parenting journey.  Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Road trips are a quintessential part of summer life; here's how to make your road trip a success, in stead of the kids driving everyone car-azy. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Ways to make your day at the beach a totally epic summer experience! Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Why forming positive habits, especially those with our kids and in our families is so important. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Ideas on how to motivate your kids and set goals as a family. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Broadcaster and author Madonna King about how daughters can thrive through time spent with their fathers. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Why putting pen to paper and journalling might help you to do life better in 2023. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Justin and Kylie discuss some ways they are going to be better parents in 2023. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin announces the brand new Parenting ADHD course. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Summer Series Topics included in this episode - Dr Kaylene Henderson tells us what babies and young children need from us Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year from all of us at Happy Families!   Purchase Parenting ADHD [the Course] Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share their favourite Christmas movies Topics included in this episode - G rated options The Polar Express Klaus Arthur Christmas Elf Home Alone Santa Clause Honourable (grown up) mentions Christmas Chronicles Bad Santa The Holiday Purchase Tis the Season to be Cranky or How to Unspoil your Kids this Christmas Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Brad discuss an article released by the Oxford Internet Institute Topics included in this episode - When should a parent be worried about their child's screen time? What are the warning signs? Impacted sleep Why are boys (in particular) so drawn into games and screens? Learn more about Brad Marshall, The Unplugged Psychologist For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Content warning. This episode is not meant for children's ears Topics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie share 3 quick tips to embrace Christmas with your young children Traditions (even the accidental ones) Get excited The Christmas Book Flood Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin makes a special announcement.  A brand new course is being launched on January 18th 2023. Early bird special (only $99) finishes 31st December. Find all the details here: https://happyfamiliesfamilyeducation.ac-page.com/parenting-adhd-the-course Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin announces the brand new Parenting ADHD course.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie share 3 secrets for getting through the busiest time of the year. Topics included in this episode - Being intentional Playing with the kids The power of 'no' People matter, things don't Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

3 Secrets for getting through the busiest time of the yearTopics included in this episode - Be intentional Learn to say no People matter. Things don't. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Topics included in this episode - Justin is loving being in Holiday Mode Justin & Kylie manage a kid-free weekend away Kylie & her daughter had a petrol blunder People matter. Things don't. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parentingTopics included in this episode - Justin plays the part of The Grinch for a moment Why Justin doesn't like giving gifts Why Kylie loves giving gifts Expectations of the giver Motivations for gift giving What would make a Merry Christmas in the Coulson house? Research articles mentioned In-Laws and Outlaws: the Impact of Divorce and Remarriage Upon Christmas Gift Exchange WHAT MAKES FOR A MERRY CHRISTMAS? Vote for Happy Families hereFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Surviving the holidaysTopics included in this episode - Why are Aussie parents feeling anxious about the holidays? The power of 'No'. How Kiddo can help your family Learn more about Kiddo or find them on FacebookFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is it okay to send your kids on sleepovers?Topics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie share their sleepover memories Research shows that there is risk associated with sleepovers Delay, delay, delay! What are the risks involved? What do kids get up to at sleepovers? How to prepare your kids for a sleepover Should there be a bedtime at sleepovers? Talking to other parents Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss a recent study on providing alcohol to childrenTopics included in this episode - Is it okay to give your teenagers some alcohol? Providing Alcohol for Underage Youth: What Messages Should We Be Sending Parents? The Mediterranean Effect Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Christmas came early to the Coulson house One of the Coulson girls gets into a car accident Kylie becomes The Best Auntie on their family weekend Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listenter's question about dealing with Grandparents Topics included in this episode - Partners need to speak with their respective parents Learning to 'let it go' Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you ready for Summer?Topics included in this episode - Justin shares a very personal story related to water safety Drowning can take 20 seconds Drowning is often silent Swimming lessons RCH National Child Health Poll NATIONAL DROWNING REPORTS Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin answers a listener's question about their child with ADHDTopics included in this episode - Behavioural strategies Rewards Different forms of motivation Developing a sense of autonomy Competence Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss when to give kids phonesFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The latest news and updates in parenting, Justin and Kylie share 4 parenting stories.Topics discussed in this episode Michelle Obama - a story on parenting Jason Gunn's genius parenting hack Recent research on strict parenting Controversial topic - mother v. father duties with a new baby Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's episode is taken from the Happy Families Bringing Up Boys Summit.Dr Arne Rubinstein is the author of The Making of Men, and discusses with Justin the idea of a boys “rite of passage”. Find the Bringing Up Boys Summit on the Happy Families webstore.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about lyingTopics included in this episode - Why do we lie? Why do kids lie? Lying is a developmental achievement Theory of mind What to do when they do lie Focus on the relationship Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Esther Wojcicki has some pretty good bragging rights; she's raised two CEO's (including the CEO of Youtube) and a doctor.She recently wrote an article on the upbringing of her kids, and why they turned out "successful". But should we all be raising CEO's and doctors? That's the topic of discussion on today's Happy Families podcast.You can read the article here.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Justin's excited that school assemblies are almost over for the year Justin & Kylie attend their daughter's Year 12 formal Let the kids be themselves Check out our Black Friday sales Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share their list of favourite books they're reading at the moment Justin's reading The Satanic Verses by Salman Rushdie Kylie's reading That Sugar Book by Damon Gameau The Girl You Left Behind by Jojo Moyes Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

RCH Health Poll - Recognising anxiety in childrenTopics discussed in this episode: Parents report 50% of children aged three years and over are experiencing problems with anxiety, with 36% experiencing ‘somewhat of’ a problem and 14% experiencing a ‘big’ problem. One in five children (19%) are anxious about attending school or kindergarten. On average, parents recognise only half of the common signs and symptoms of mental health problems in children. Only one in three parents are confident they could tell the difference between ‘normal’ worries in children and anxiety that might need professional help. What are kids anxious about? What is driving the increase in anxiety in kids? What helps people be less anxious? For more information, including info on the signs of anxiety, when and where to seek help, and a range of ways to support children with anxiety, RCH developed a new fact sheet: Anxiety - primary school aged children Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listeners question about chores & pocket moneyTopics discussed in this episode: Getting paid for chores is problematic Frustration tolerance Goal orientation Capacity for responsibility Undermining motivation Rewards are ultimately a punishment Kylie shares an object lesson Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss why sleep is so important Topics discussed in this episode: DadPod with Charlie Clausen and Osher Günsberg Bike riding as a form of therapy Teaching our kids to not be as tired as we are Want to Raise Successful Kids? Neuroscience Says Teach Them This Crucial Brain Habit Establish a regular bedtime Sleep hygiene Why is sleep so important? Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - 5 weeks until Christmas Justin & Kylie make space for a weekend away Justin dealt with another case of school refusal with Miss 8 Unconditionality Purchase a ticket to No Damage Discipline or find it in your Happy Families MembershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parentingTopics included in this episode - Kylie is having sugar withdrawals Pros & cons of giving kids devices Body image Kids language skills are struggling High quality communication is active Research articles mentioned “You’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t”: a qualitative exploration of parent motives for provision of mobile screen devices in early childhood Psychology experts urge social media giants to increase transparency around algorithms to protect users’ mental health Screen Time of Preschool-Aged Children and Their Mothers, and Children’s Language Development Vote for Happy Families hereFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - Parental disgression advised*Topics discussed in this episode: ACCCE with the AFP How is ACCCE different to the eSafety Commissioner? How often is online sexual extortion happening? What does it generally look like? Are there any particular platforms that are worse than others? Why are parents disengaged from their child's online activity? How to prevent this from happening? What to do once it has happened? Avoid blame Seek professional help Do not pay the scammers Response kit Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Should our kids get part-time jobs? Justin & Kylie share about their first jobs The pros and cons of kids getting jobs Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie respond to a listener who is struggling with depression, anxiety and burnout.Topics discussed in this episode: Taking control of the controllable Practicing self care and compassion Accepting help when its offered Understanding that we can't do it all, especially in those early years of parenting Vote for the Happy Families Podcast in the Listener's Choice of the Australian Podcast Awards (just type Dr Justin in the search bar and click on the Happy Families podcast to vote).Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Justin & Kylie get a surprise guest in the middle of the day What to do when there's not answer to your parenting problem Even the parenting expert struggles sometimes Two of the Coulson girls are having a hard time getting along Kylie struggles to show compassion for her daughter in a particularly difficult moment Purchase a ticket to No Damage Discipline or find it in your Happy Families MembershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin explains why he doesn't love the term Gentle ParentingTopics discussed in this episode: Justin wants to get Ryan Reynolds on the podcast Justin & Kylie don't 'get the kids in trouble' What to do instead Emotional regulation How to not add to your child's suffering Register for our free course The Time-out AlternativeFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode Justin and Kylie answer the question:"My daughter has been diagnosed with ADHD, autism and now dyslexia. How do you talk about a diagnosis with a child and how do you know if they can understand?"Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin speaks to Paul Dillon from Drug and Alcohol Research Training Australia about getting ready for the schoolies season.Find out more about Paul Dillon at the Drug and Alcohol Research Training Australia website.Topics discussed in this episode: The cons of letting your kids celebrate schoolies abroad How safe are organised schoolies events? Why schoolies is the last opportunity for parents to talk safety with their kids before they are legally adults Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parentingTopics mentioned in this episode - Machine learning uncovers the most robust self-report predictors of relationship quality across 43 longitudinal couples studies The National Marriage Project It's not who you're with, it's about the dynamic Scott Stanley, Sliding vs Deciding Perceived partner commitment Appreciation Level of sexual satisfaction Perceived partner satisfaction Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Justin had an accident involving his very fancy bike The Coulson's home has become THE Halloween House Kylie struggles with the bed time routine Purchase a ticket to No Damage Discipline or find it in your Happy Families MembershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin scours the internet for weird news in parentingTopics mentioned in this episode - This Psychologist Says Don't High-Five Kids And... Excuse Me, What?! Justin's advice - High Five as many kids as possible! Internal vs extrinsic motivation Parents of boys age at a faster rate than those who have girls, claims study WHY WE LONG FOR THE MOST DIFFICULT DAYS OF PARENTHOOD Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin speaks with Dan Pink about the power of regret Topics included in this episode - The Power of Regret Why do people say that they don't have regrets? Your regrets say a lot about you as a person Your regrets can inform your future decisions Reframing regret Inward, outward, forward "Atleast"ing and "ifonly"ing Dan's advice for time poor parents Normalising the emotion of regret Talk to your kids about your regrets Dan shares some of his regrets Learn more about Dan Pink & his booksFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss how parents can help motivate their kids to studyTopics included in this episode - Kylie confesses to wagging school Justin reads out his report card from Year 12 Justin shares how he turned things around for himself There are always options Say yes to everything until you're 40. Say no to almost everything after 40 Trust Establish basic rules and parameters Follow the energy Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie discuss why we think we're boring now that we're parents, but that we're actually experiencing a heap of personal growth.Topics included in this episode - Kylie's friend who feels lost after becoming a mum Ideas for creativity through those hard years when you feel exhausted Why we keep growing all throughout life Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Justin has an 'aha' moment One of the Coulson girls has a hard time & Justin helps them through it Emilie adopts a lizard The Coulson's take a look at their family budget Purchase a ticket to the Hot Mess Summit in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share their list of favourite books they're reading at the momentJustin's reading Carrie Soto Is Back by Taylor Jenkins Reid A Kind of Magic by Anna Spargo-Ryan Stolen Focus: Why You Can't Pay Attention by Johann Hari Kylie's reading We Are Wolves by Katrina Nannestad What Happened to You? by Oprah Winfrey, Dr Bruce Perry The Book of Dreams by Nina George Purchase the Better Together webinar in our online web shop or find it in your Happy Families membershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Helping families find the right help for their mental health challenges.Topics included in this episode - How to get the help you need Finding the right GP Involve the kids Get the kids outside Get back to basics What happens when you can't afford to get help? Mental health care plan Involve school teachers Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's podcast is all about recognising where you are on the parental burnout scale.Kylie takes the Parental Burnout Assessment - and you can do an online version here.Find the free Burnt Out webinar in the Happy Families Shop.Register for the Happy Families Hot Mess Summit, happening this Saturday October 29, here.Don't forget, you can also purchase the Hot Mess Summit and view all the presentations at your convenience.The speaker lineup includes: Dr Justin Coulson | Love, Limits & Laughter | 10am AEDT Amy Taylor Kabbaz | Mama Rising | 11am AEDT Trish Purnell-Webb | Creating a Strong Relationship With Your Partner | 12pm AEDT Ian Kerner | Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex | 1pm AEDT Michaeleen Doucleff | Hunt, Gather, Parent | 2pm AEDT Shefali Tsabary | The Awakened Family | 3pm AEDT Wally Goddard | How to Discipline with Love & Laughter | 4pm AEDT Chelsea Pottenger | Stress management | 5pm AEDT Jessica Rowe | The Art of Being a Crap Housewife | 6pm AEDT Amanda Keller | Having Fun When Your Life Is a Hot Mess | 7pm AEDT Dr Justin Coulson | Bonus Q&A | 8pm AEDT Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Top 5 solutions for dealing with anxiety at homeTopics included in this episode - Defining what anxiety is Experiencing anxiety vs a chronic anxiety disorder #609 Parenting & Mental Illness: A Discussion With Anna Spargo-Ryan Solutions Quality of the attachment relationship between parents & children Other connections/relationships Help them to lean in Being outside Service/volunteering Purchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Kylie shares her recent article she wrote for Kylie's Corner Kylie shares her experience with being physically disciplined as a child and how that effected her ability to share her emotions Purchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parentingTopics included in this episode - Effectiveness of mindfulness Rise of mental illness during Covid Kids doing more chores is linked to better executive function Does the gender of your sibling effect your personality? Research articles mentioned School-based mindfulness training in early adolescence: what works, for whom and how in the MYRIAD trial? Doing more chores linked to better executive functioning in kids – but direction of effect is unclear No Evidence That Siblings’ Gender Affects Personality Across Nine Countries Purchase a ticket to Autistic Not Weird at Happy FamiliesFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Anxiety in kids transitioning from Primary to High SchoolTopics included in this episode - Anxiety in kids transitioning from Primary to High School Guide to Thrive from Life Education What happens when we get the transition right? We need to be having these conversations much earlier Why girls are struggling more Do older siblings play a role? What are kids biggest concerns? Heirarchy in high school Has Covid had an impact? How to help them prepare? Purchase the Better Together webinar in our online web shop or find it in your Happy Families membershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about dealing with the disruption of a moveTopics included in this episode - Kylie's move from NZ to Aus when she was 10 Justin's shares his experience with moves as a kid Justin & Kylie share about their own family moves What does the research say? Which kids are most affected? Attitude is everything Top tips Be intentional & proactive Organise play dates Initiate conversations Activity days Be there for your kids Really listen Purchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss smacking, and the recent calls for Australia to outlaw physical discipline of our children.Some of the topics include: The full 'A Current Affair' interview with Chris O'Keefe Some of the responses to that interview The research that has consistently linked physical discipline to negative outcomes Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Kylie created a sugar free birthday for Justin A $6 chilli Justin & Kylie have a heightened conversation with one of their daughters Parenting adult children Purchase a ticket to Autistic Not Weird at Happy FamiliesFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin shares 3 conversation principals that can help Topics included in this episode - The way that we speak to our children becomes their inner voice Justin & Kylie share some of their inner thoughts/voices from childhood 3 conversation principals that can help A voice that encourages belonging, understanding & empathy. A voice that expresses confidence in their capacity. A voice that encourages autonomy. How do we find our own inner voice?Purchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Dave about men and perinatal depression & anxietyTopics discussed in today's podcast: Dave shares his own personal experience Antenatal classes Communication Symptoms What to do Talk to someone, music, reading, join a group Telehealth SMS for Dads Gidget Virtual Village for Dads Panda hotline Find more about Dave Edwards and the Gidget FoundationPurchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - topics in this episode will not be suitable to small children*Topics discussed in today's podcast: What is digital self-harm? Digital self-harm: Rising trend of teens cyberbullying themselves Teens trolling themselves online Suicidal thoughts How do we protect our kids? 5 signs that a child may be a target of cyber bullying Shift in social relationships - when should parents step in? Make a plan. Get involved esafety Commissioner - Get help now Get a ticket to Burnt Out in our online shop or find it in your Happy Families membershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin & Kylie talk about depression in kidsTopics included in this episode - What does it look like? What is the difference between a bad day/a depressive episode/depression Stinking thinking Apathy Cognitive behavioural therapy Cognitive distortions How can parents help? Acceptance Breathe Get outside Move Connect Learn Serve Make a plan Get help Look after your own mental health Purchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Justin didn't do much holidaying during his holidays Kylie celebrates the girls half birthdays The Coulson's have a street breakfast School refusal in the Coulson house & not the usual suspect Purchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today's episode - a new segment - This Week in Parenting, where Justin and Kylie look at some of the recent news stories that we as parents need to be across. Find out more about the arrest of Dutch cyclist Mathieu van der Poel here Read the story about secret fight clubs here More on the coroner's findings that Molly Russell's cause of death was suicide caused by social media here Discover why a video game developer won't let his kids play video games Find out more about the book Stolen Focus here.Purchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin speaks with Anna about her story with mental illnessTopics discussed in today's podcast: Mental health & mental illness exist on two different planes Being happy & depressed at the same time Learning how to advocate for yourself Parenting with debilitating anxiety/mental illness Intergenerational transfer of mental illness How to break the cycle Find more about Anna Spargo-Ryan - A Kind of MagicPurchase our Justin-ism's Posters in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

October is Mental Health Awareness Month, so all month long we'll be looking at ways to improve your family's mental health.Today on the podcast Justin and Kylie look at ways you can support a child who has been diagnosed with ADHD.To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests*Today's guest is Michaeleen Doucleff.To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests*Today's guest is Chelsea Pottenger.To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests*Today's guest is Amy Taylor-Kabbaz.To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests*Today's guest is Daniel Pink.To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests*Today's guest is Jessica Rowe, a proud Crap Housewife.Find our last episode with Jessica Rowe here - #122 Crap Housewives, IVF & Mental Health (Featuring Jessica Rowe)To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests*Today's guest is Dr Amantha Imber, host of the How I Work podcast. To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests*Today's guest is acclaimed author and expert, Dr Shefali Tsabary.To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests*Today's guest - Sex Therapist, Ian KernerTo become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jo Ryan shares her experience with babies and sleeping, settling and establishing routines for your baby.Topics discussed in today's podcast: Babies and sleep training How to help kids and parents get to bed Jo's 3 main concerns with sleep training Jo's advice to the tired and sleep-exhausted parent Learn more about Jo Ryan and her book 'Babybliss by Jo Ryan'.Download the free Starting School Activity Book in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests*Today's guest - Amanda Keller, Radio & Tv Personality.To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests*Today's guest - Kylie Coulson, Mrs Happy Families Purchase the Better Together webinar in the Happy Families shop or find it in your Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics discussed in today's podcast: *Someone* in the Coulson household has a chocolate addiction The Coulson family go on a family bike ride Movie night at the Coulson house turns into an anatomy lesson Purchase a ticket to the webinar Boys & ScreensFind the Your Growth Guide webinar on the Happy Families shop, or find it in your Happy Families Premium membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parentingTopics discussed in today's podcast: The importance of play Strong social networks Quality of friendships & relationships 20% of mothers experience PPD Responsiveness Self soothing Connectedness & involvement during adolescence Articles mentioned in this episode Pre-school play with friends lowers risk of mental health problems later How mothers calm their distressed infants with soothing signals Follow the leader: Maternal transmission of physiological regulatory support to distressed infants in real-time. Helping babies to sleep more Effect of the INSIGHT Firstborn Parenting Intervention on Secondborn Sleep Mother and Father Connectedness and Involvement During Early Adolescence Find The Miss-connection Summit in the Happy Families shop.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sharon shares her traumatic experience as a patient, who also happened to be a midwifeTopics discussed in today's podcast: Patient dismissal Birth trauma 20-48% of women describe their births as traumatic What qualifies as birth trauma? Learn more about Sharon Stoliar and her book Scars of Gold. Ending Birth TraumaContact Sharon - sharonstoliar@gmail.comPurchase Miss-connection in the Happy Families shopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about their tween daughterTopics discussed: 3 basic psychological needs - Relatedness, Competence & Control Seeing your child as a person vs only seeing their problems Correction & directions vs connection Competence needs to be satisfied Explore, explain, empower Purchase the Better Together webinar in the Happy Families shop or find it in your Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In today's podcast, Justin and Kylie look at a recent article in Forbes magazine, about navigating the world of social media with your teen or tween.Topics discussed in today's podcast: You can fence the pool but you can't fence the ocean. Four styles of parenting and pros and cons when it comes to teens, tweens and social media. Three things you need to remember when you discuss social media with your kids. Staying across the apps and tech so we can have real conversations with the kids. Read the Forbes article here.Find the 'Pixel Perfect' webinar on the Happy Families shop, or in your premium membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In I'll Do Better Tomorrow, Justin and Kylie look back on the week that was and reflect on their parenting wins and losses.Topics discussed in today's podcast: Book Week is hard work! Kids spell love T.I.M.E Letting our kids be themselves Purchase 'I Like Myself' by by Karen Beaumont at Booktopia.Find the free webinar 'Can We Please Talk About Boys' in the Happy Families shop.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today is R U OK? Day, and did you know that building hope in our kids is one of the most important things we can do as parents?So in today's podcast, Justin and Kylie discuss ways that we can build hope and some of the ways that we can hold onto hope.Topics discussed: The three facets of hope: Having goals, having a pathway to reach those goals and belief in yourself. Things that can cause us to lose hope. Justin and Kylie's list for how we can build and hold onto hope. Purchase the Bringing Up Boys Summit in the Happy Families shop.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today on the podcast, Dr Justin chats with Gus Worland ahead of R U OK? Day tomorrow.Gus is an Australian TV and radio personality and is the founder of the Gotcha4Life Foundation - which delivers what Gus calls 'mental fitness' programs to engage, educate and empower communities, on the way to their vision of zero suicides.Topics discussed in this episode: Mental Fitness, and why we need to seek help from those around us. Raising our hands for help on the beach or in the car park, rather than waiting until we're drowning before raising our hands. Using technology to check in on those we love. Formalising who 'your village' is - the people that you can't live without, and work hard on the relationships within the village. Discover more about Gus' work with Gotcha4Life here, and how you can improve your mental fitness.Find out all the information about R U OK? Day here.Purchase A Parent's Guide to Autism in the Happy Families shop, or find it in your premium membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week is Child Protection Week, so today on the podcast Justin speaks with Act for Kids CEO, Dr Katrina Lines.Dr Lines is a registered psychologist and child protection advocate, and has been involved in numerous national taskforces advocating for the rights of children.In particular, this conversation touches on the new 'Get Comfy' initiative, where Act for Kids are encouraging families to start having conversations with their children about sex, body, consent, and relationships.It comes off the back of research that has found that Australians feel underprepared when it comes to real-life experiences.Topics discussed in this podcast: Some of the 'Get Comfy' research findings, including the fact that 1 in 3 Australians never received sex education at school, and over half of all Aussies aren't comfortable talking to their parents about sex and intimacy. Consent, and why this needs to be a focus in sex education and conversations about intimacy. Ways in which your family could introduce age appropriate conversations about our bodies. The problem with adolescents getting most of their sex-ed from porn, and why this needs to change Find out more about the 'Get Comfy' initiative here.Purchase the 'Your Growth Guide' webinar in the Happy Families shop, or find it in your premium membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One of the most common questions in our podcast inbox is how to make the couple relationship stronger, and navigating bumps along the road. On today's podcast Justin and Kylie discuss a recent relationship 'wipeout'.Topics discussed in this podcast: Why surfing with the boys caused issues between Justin and Kylie Ways to get over these wipeouts that can so easily occur in relationships Owning your issues and trying to see things from your partner's perspective Find the Bringing Up Boys Summit in the Happy Families shop.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In lieu of the normal weekly reflection that takes place on a Friday, Justin and Kylie turn their attention to Father's Day, with a reflection on what fatherhood means.Topics discussed in today's podcast: Why Justin doesn't like presents on Father's Day. Justin's Lightning Round - answering Kylie's questions about his fatherhood journey. Is Justin really that funny after all? The kids have their say. Dad jokes The influence and importance of fathers and father figures. Find the 'Anxiety in Your Child Webinar' at the Happy Families Shop, or in your Happy Families Premium Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In the lead-up to Father's Day, Justin is talking to some of the most interesting dads around!Today on the podcast we hear from James Breakwell who is a comedy writer, dad to four daughters, and tweets to his 1 million plus followers on Twitter under the handle of @XplodingUnicorn.Topics discussed on this podcast: Seeing the funny side of parenting James' parenting style What his kids think of his internet career Follow James' on Twitter here or sign up for his newsletter and check out the Exploding Unicorn podcast here.You can find James' books, including Bare Minimum Parenting (The Ultimate Guide to Not Quite Ruining Your Child) on Booktopia.Find the 'Dadding Done Right Webinar' at the Happy Families Shop, or in your Happy Families Premium Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on the podcast Justin is talking to some of Australia's most interesting dads.Today's podcast features a great chat with David Campbell, who's a platinum-selling recording artist, the host of Today Extra, an author and has even done cabaret in New York!He's also the dad to three kids, including a set of twins, and is the son of legendary Aussie singer, Jimmy Barnes.Topics discussed in this podcast: David's family of origin and childhood experiences His journey as a father Not repeating the mistakes of our parents Find out more about David's books, Stupid Carrots, Bedtime is Boring and My Tooth is Looth here.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In the lead-up to Father's Day, Justin is talking to some of the most interesting dads around!Justin speaks with Osher Gunsberg about what life is like for him, as a dad.Topics included in this episode: Helping kids to regulate their emotions Understanding our kid's development and how that helps us to parent better Osher answers 10 Dad questions What Osher enjoys the most about being a dad Advice he would give himself as a new dad Find Osher on DadPod, Twitter & InstagramPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Justin Rouillon on the Bluey's Brisbane PodcastTopics included in this episode: What makes Bandit a great Dad Having kids means your life is not going to be efficient The 'Dumb Dad' in pop culture Imaginative & creative play Is Bandit a good representation of the modern Dad? Bluey's schooling experience Find Bluey's Brisbane on Facebook, Twitter & InstagramPurchase Building Better Boys or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time.Topics included in this episode: Justin reads an email from a listener about mums & social media Kylie receives a hand written letter Two of the Coulson girls struggle in their relationship together Justin has been surfing. A lot. Purchase Teaching Kids Kindness or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share their list of favourite books they're reading at the momentKylie's reading Minding Frankie by Maeve Binchy When Grace Went Away by Meredith Appleyard Rex by Cathleen Lewis The Boy, The Mole, The Fox & The Horse by Charlie Mackesy Justin's reading Working Class Boy by Jimmy Barnes Working Class Man by Jimmy Barnes Time Wise by Amantha Imber Raised by Animals by Jennifer L. Verdolin Purchase The Screaming Spiral or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - the topics discussed in this episode may not be suitable for children*Topics included in this episode: Sleep divorce Sharing The Covers by Wendy Troxel Why couples choose to sleep apart Sleep disorders Active decision vs reactive strategy We spend a third of our lives asleep The impact of sleep loss Sleep and sex Justin reads out some Facebook responses Disadvantages to a sleep divorce Find more about Wendy on Instagram @sharingthecovers Purchase Pot, Pills & Parenting or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin chats with his builder and helps make his family happierTopics included in this episode: Meet Carl the builder Carl has a house full of teenagers School refusal What is 'bad behaviour'? Our children are not out to get us Is it okay to 'reward' kids after 'bad behaviour'? Is it okay to walk away when conversations come to a head? Purchase Building Better Boys or find it inyour Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What to do after a tantrum/meltdown/blowupTopics included in this episode: Being kind and soft does not reinforce bad behaviour Repair after rupture Create positive self talk Give the kids some space Power struggles Acknowledge their feelings Purchase 21 Days to a Happier Family or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time.Topics included in this episode: Kylie's been selling on Facebook Marketplace Coulson Family Meeting What went well, What didn't, What we're gonna do about it Kylie slept through the Family Meeting Kylie gets a sweet compliment from the littlest Coulson Purchase The Miss-connection Summit or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parentingTopics included in this episode: Effects of Limiting Recreational Screen Media Use on Physical Activity and Sleep in Families With Children When parents reduce their screen time, kids are more physically active To what extent does confounding explain the association between breastfeeding duration and cognitive development up to age 14? Breastfeeding duration associated with cognition Kids that are breastfed tend to score higher on cognitive tests Physical abuse less likely when spanking is eliminated The association between spanking and physical abuse of young children in 56 low- and middle-income countries If we can remove smacking from our communities, we can reduce physical abuse by 30% New research challenges established ideas about infant crying The cry curve Purchase your copy of Miss-Connection Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin interviews Eloise Germic about her research around social media and parentsTopics included in this episode: The Impact of Instagram Mommy Blogger Content on the Perceived Self-Efficacy of Mothers How the content we view online impacts how we see ourselves How social media influences parents The Alpha mum The results to the study were surprising Media literacy Download your FREE Starting School Activity BookHappy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about telling our kids they're beautifulTopics discussed in today's podcast: Should we tell our kids that they're beautiful? Renee Engeln - Beauty Sick Justin shares some ideas from his book Miss-Connection Teach your daughters about media/Photoshop/magazines/models Try not focusing on appearance when you bump into a friend Focus on your child's inner strengths/beauty "Instead of watching what goes into our kid's mouths, we should watch what comes out of ours." - James Corden Purchase Pixel Perfect or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss tonight's webinar on building listening in your kids. Magpies are back! Why don't kids listen? Tips to help kids follow instructions Justin's story from when his daughter ignores him These days "compliance" is a dirty word in the parenting blogosphere. For many people compliance means that a parent is a demanding authoritarian, expecting children to follow orders regardless of preferences otherwise. Compliance connotes coercion and intrusiveness. Tonight's Happy Families webinar is all about what to do when the kids just won't listen! Sometimes they just have to buckle up in the car. They actually should swim between the flags, wear shoes while riding a scooter, and stop throwing knives at their brother! These are safety issues. And they matter. And sometimes the table does need to be cleared, the school bag put away, or the stinky sports gear placed in the laundry basket. It’s called being part of the family and learning to do your part. So what do we do when our kids “won’t listen” and it actually does matter? Find more details and register for tonight's What To Do When Kids Won't Listen webinar here.   Purchase the 12 x A5 “Justin-isms” Posters Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time.Topics included in this episode: Audience feedback from episodes #568, #566, #565 Big feelings and emotional overload High emotions, low intelligence Neuroscience Child safety around adults, strangers and those well-known Child abduction Watch the free webinar Can We Please Talk About Boys or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share their moments of regretTopics included in this episode: Justin is using his phone less What moments would you take back and do differently? Parenting out of fear The first law of holes Advantages of regret It improves our decision making Regrets deepen meaning Purchase the Teaching Kids Kindness or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A book for soon-to-be, 2nd or 3rd time Dad's!Topics discussed in today's podcast: Justin announces his brand new book - Dad's Guide to Pregnancy For Dummies  Kylie interviews Justin What did Justin add to the book? Consent during/after pregnancy Birth partners What Justin hopes readers will take away from the book What Justin wishes he knew as a new Dad Purchase The Screaming Spiral or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How to know if you should move schoolsTopics discussed in today's podcast: When schools don't deliver on their promises Reputation, Results & Resources Fun, Friends & Philosophy Quality of your relationship with your child Purchase Pot, Pills & Parenting or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Things Justin & Kylie are intentionally doing differently than their parentsTopics discussed in today's podcast: We hear from some members of the public about how they parent differently to their parents Justin & Kylie discuss how they parent differently Things Justin & Kylie are intentionally doing differently than their parents How parenting has changed over time How to have the "Was I a good parent?" conversation with your parents Purchase Building Better Boys or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics discussed in today's podcast: Justin reads out some emails with feedback from last week's episode Kylie continues to struggle with Miss 8's school refusal Kylie has a heartwarming conversation with one of her adult children Miss 8 finds a bird Purchase 21 Days to a Happier Family or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are your kids pushing your buttons? How to take back your power.Topics discussed in today's podcast: Children 'pushing our buttons' Understand your own buttons/triggers HALTS We have to look after ourselves Unmet needs WIN - Wonder, Imagine, Notice Recruit the kids to your team Download your Starting School Activity BookHappy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Madonna King about the pressures our teen kids are facingTopics included in this episode: Madonna King - L Platers The age that teens are asked to choose their senior subjects Curiosity being stifled in schools Mental health concerns due to work load in school Perfectionism We have to let them fail University isn't the be-all and end-all University is for adults, not children Follow Rebecca Sparrow on Facebookwww.testingtimesatschool.com.auPurchase the "Justin-isms" Digital Phone Wallpapers Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - Some coarse language. May not be appropriate for small children*Topics discussed in today's podcast: Justin & Kylie respond to a listener's question about swearing How should parents respond when their children swear? Words have power Why are your children swearing? HALTS #474 The Art of Insubordination With Todd Kashdan “Profanity is the effort of a feeble brain to express itself forcibly.” - Spencer W. Kimball Justin & Kylie's top tips - Explain what the words mean Discuss the importance of the consideration of others Emotion coaching Be mindful of the content your children are exposed to Never accept abuse Recognise that habits are hard to break Purchase Your Growth Guide or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie debunk the myth that parents are responsible for their kid's happinessTopics discussed in today's podcast: Myth - It's our job to make our kids happy Things that could go wrong if you think it's your job to make your kids happy - You're going to make short sighted decisions It's impossible to satisy their craving for happiness It's a heavy burden to carry We set them up to fail Nobody can make you feel good What ARE we responsible for? Teaching them to find their own happiness Happiness isn't in the search for it How to understand their emotions Teach them how to have positive relationships Teach them how to do hard things Teach them to be responsible for their own emotions Purchase Better Together or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's that time of the week where Justin and Kylie reflect on the week that was, what they did right and what they got wrong.Also up for discussion was: Why parents may be choosing Minions over Lightyear The encouraging feedback Justin received from listeners Staying calm and listening to your heart Purchase the Miss-Connection Summit or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Justin & Kylie will be debunking some parenting mythsTopics discussed in today's podcast: Myth 5 - You should be able to continue your lifestyle after having children Myth 6 - Kids should fall into your pre-kids lifestyle Myth 7 - You will love and connect with your baby instantly Myth 8 - Teenagers are stupid Purchase Pixel Perfect or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How we can help our children become better learners Topics discussed in today's podcast: #529 The Growth Mindset with James Anderson Learnership Mindset - fixed vs growth. Lifelong learners Finding and following your strengths Choosing what you want to become Learning zones Comfort zone - easy things you haven't done yet Learn more about James Anderson - LEARNERSHIP: The Skill Of LearningPurchase A Parent's Guide to Autism or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Justin & Kylie will be debunking some parenting mythsTopics discussed in today's podcast: Myth 3 - Can you be friends with your kids? Myth 4 - Can you tell whether someone is a good parent by how good their kids turn out? Purchase Anxiety in your Child or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Justin & Kylie will be debunking some parenting mythsTopics discussed in today's podcast: What does it mean to be a good parent? Each child brings a new parenting challenge Parenting teaches you a lot about yourself How do we measure our success as a parent? Myth 1 - Being a good parent means to self-sacrifice Myth 2 - If you're a good parent you'll put your kids before your spouse Purchase Dadding Done Right or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics discussed in today's podcast: Justin had a very difficult parenting week Kylie had a chance to spend some quality time with friends Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share their list of favourite books they're reading at the momentTopics discussed in today's podcast:Kylie's reading Mama Rising - Amy Taylor-Kabbaz The Anatomy of Peace - The Arbinger Institute Justin's reading Malibu Rising - Taylor Jenkins Reid The Art of Insubordination - Todd B. Kashdan Act Natural - A Cultural History of Misadventures in Parenting - Jennifer Traig Purchase Teaching Kids Kindness or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Amantha discuss her new book TimewiseTopics discussed in today's podcast: Amantha shares how she came up with the idea for her new book, Timewise A clever technique to stop you picking up your phone so much Building healthy habits Learning how to say no A physical device that helps curb phone usage Amantha's first podcast ep with us - #379 How I Work with Amantha ImberAmantha's podast - How I Work with Amantha ImberAmantha's new book - TimewisePurchase The Screaming Spiral or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why Dad's are angry and what they can do about itTopics discussed in today's podcast: WHY IS DAD SO MAD? Raising Raffi: The First Five Years Defining what it means to be a man Self discovery Parenting is about you, not about your kids Anger management Tips To Tame Anger The mantra - Be calm and kind Speak softly Speak to your angry self in the 3rd person Channel your inner mental mentor Do the opposite Seek professional help Purchase Pot, Pills & Parenting or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ways that we can help our children find joyTopics discussed in today's podcast:How to refill your child's joy tank Understand their sources of joy Connection Play Break the routine Get them to do hard things Artistic endeavours Purchase Building Better Boys or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics discussed in today's podcast: How is parenting like playing the piano? Justin shares some of his experiences with his daughters this week Spend time with the kids Kylie shares about dealing with school refusal Sometimes it's worth pushing through the hard Get out of your kids way and allow them some autonomy Purchase 21 Days to a Happier Family or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ways that we can help our children find joyTopics discussed in today's podcast: Kylie is training for a 10km run "People say parenting is the hardest job in the world - they're wrong - growing up is. We all just forget how hard it was." - Draco Malfoy How to refill your child's joy tank Understand their sources of joy Connection Listen to the podcast on Monday for the rest of the list!Purchase “Justin-isms” PostersHappy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The best ways to teach your kids about moneyTopics discussed in today's podcast: Learn more about the KIT app Where is the best place for kids to learn about money? Financial literacy vs financial capability Financial socialisation Delayed gratification Online games & marketing tactics Gambling Are parents feeling equipped to teach their kids about money? Talk about money Give your kids hands on experience with money Looks for ways to collaborate with your kids Find KIT on Instagram, Facebook or LinkedInDownload your Starting School Activity Book or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about teaching values & respecting differencesTopics discussed in today's podcast: All families are different Spend time with people whose values and lifestyles are different to our own Racism and body confidence issues Create some perspective taking and some empathy If you want your daughter to love her body, you have to love yours Celebrate what your body can do Purchase Your Growth Guide or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is your anxiety having an impact on how you raise your kids?Topics discussed in today's podcast: We're seeing an increase in anxiety What is anxiety? Anxiety is necessary and natural Proportionate vs unproportionate anxiety Emotional contagion High emotions - low intelligence Helpful tips - Learn your triggers Model stress tolerance Explain our anxiety Make a plan Ask for help from your support network Set boundaries Under pressure we revert to our most practiced habit Create mindful practices Research review: the relation between child and parent anxiety and parental control: a meta-analytic reviewPurchase The Miss-connection Summit or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode - #191 Dark Horses With Todd RosePurchase Pixel Perfect or find it in your Happy Families Membership - because a happy family doesn't just happenSend us your voice memos here: podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode - #211 We Don't Need To Know Everything with Susan EngelPurchase A Parent's Guide to Autism or find it in your Happy Families Memberships - because a happy family doesn't just happen.Take a look at Dr Justin's Books in the Happy Families BookshopFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode - #264 The Gift of Failure with Jessica Lahey Part 2Purchase the webinar Better TogetherFind out more about our Happy Families Memberships - because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode - #237 Lenore Skenazy - Meet the World's Worst MumPurchase Pixel Perfect or find it in your Happy Families Membership - because a happy family doesn't just happen.Want to be on the podcast? Send us your voice memos here: podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode - #249 Best of - Discipline, Punishment & Rewards with Dr Alfie KohnPurchase A Parent's Guide to Autism or find it in your Happy Families Memberships - because a happy family doesn't just happen.Take a look at Dr Justin's Books in the Happy Families Bookshop.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode - #294 Generation Alpha with Mark McCrindlePurchase the webinar Better TogetherFind out more about our Happy Families Memberships - because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode - #324 Fully Human with Steve BiddulphPurchase Pixel Perfect or find it in your Happy Families Membership - because a happy family doesn't just happenSend us your voice memos here: podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode - #329 Tricky Behaviours with Andrew FullerPurchase A Parent's Guide to Autism or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Take a look at Dr Justin's books here in the Happy Families Shop.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode - #344 Introducing Wally GoddardPurchase Anxiety in your Child the webinar.Find out more about Happy Families Memberships - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode - #379 How I Work with Amantha ImberPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics discussed in today's podcast: We hear some listener responses from the smacking episode Justin references the book Hunt, Gather, Parent by Michaleen Doucleff Justin shares an experience where he asked his daughters to help with a task Lilli finally gets to watch "She's The Man" Purchase Dadding Done Right or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Mature themes included in this podcast*Topics discussed in today's podcast: Justin & Kylie share their list of favourite books they're reading at the moment Kylie's top 5 Untamed by Glennon Doyle Come As You Are by Emily Nagosaki Atomic Habits by James Clear The Anatomy of Peace by The Arbinger Institute The Book of Longings by Sue Monk Kidd Justin's favs She Comes First by Ian Kerner Hunt, Gather, Parent by Michaleen Doucleff Purchase Teaching Kids Kindness or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How parents are coping post CovidTopics discussed in today's podcast: Study finds burnout among working parents resulted in more mental health concerns and punitive behavior toward kids Parent burnout Why women experience more burnout than men Cognitive load Additional needs of children and how that adds to parental burnout What are the solutions? The working parent burnout scale Find more about Dr Kate GawlinkPurchase The Screaming Spiral or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why do kids refuse to go to school and how can we help them? Why do children refuse to go to school? Emotion based school avoidance Problematic absenteeism 1-2% of children experience school refusal What counts as school refusal? 8 solutions The Secret to Magic Mornings? Put the Kids to Work School Refusal   Purchase Pot, Pills & Parenting or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Susie O'Brien has just written an explosive article for the Herald Sun in Victoria about smacking and corporal punishment, and how it should be outlawed.Its attracted a lot of media attention following the revelation that 6 in 10 young Australians had been smacked repeatedly by their parents, and that those 6 are nearly twice as likely to develop anxiety and depression as teens and adults.You can read Justin's 'I Turned Out Fine' article for the New York Times here.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every Friday Justin and Kylie look back at their week and discuss how they'll do better tomorrow with their parenting journey.Pre-order Justin's new book 'Dad's Guide to Pregnancy for Dummies' at Dymocks or Booktopia.Purchase the Building Better Boys webinar, or find it in your Happy Families Premium Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr Justin shares the latest academic studies related to parentingTopics discussed in today's podcast: Diet plays key role in ADHD symptoms in children Eating more fruit & vegetables reduces some of the symptoms of ADHD Food insecurity Frequent external childcare can affect children's behavior, survey suggests Problematic behaviour related to time spent in external childcare Children in childcare are exposed to other values Parenting Instagram accounts can make mothers feel supported, but also less competent The impact of parenting related Instagram accounts on Mums Purchase 21 Days to a Happier Family or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss helping our children develop resilienceTopics discussed in today's podcast: Justin and James discuss being a 'natural' vs. putting in 'hard work' Self-limiting beliefs Fixed mindset and growth mindset Motivating kids to try hard things Purchase 12 x A5 “Justin-isms” Posters from the Happy Families shop - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about how to parent twinsTopics discussed in today's podcast: We hear from Justin's Mum, who raised two sets of twins! What does the science say? Let them be themselves Minimise comparison Starting School Activity BookPurchase Better Together or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you want to make the most of most moments...Topics discussed in today's podcast: How we can be present & in the moment Leo Tolstoy Quote: “There is only one time that is important – NOW! It is the most important time because it is the only time that we have any power.” If you want to make the most of most moments, be where your feet are Let go of the agenda Transitions matter Awareness & being present Be focused & intentional Be open to spontaneity The biggest impediment to being present is exhaustion Take time to be grateful Purchase Your Growth Guide or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics discussed in today's podcast: Monotask not multitask We hear from 2 podcast listeners Say yes The Coulson's are early risers Some days don't go the way you want them to Be intentional & purposeful Sometimes as a parent you need to set your expectations Purchase The Miss-connection SummitHappy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How do you decide which extra curricular activities to put the kids into?Topics discussed in today's podcast: Take their age into account Experience vs learning a skill Available resources Don't force the 'life lessons' Competence & confidence What are your values? Competition can be undermining for kids wellbeing Purchase Better Together or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Ready-made baby and toddler foods are a common choice for Australian families, as one in three young children eat these foods at least once a week, and one in five eat them most days. However, many parents are unaware these foods are often not healthy, and the majority falsely believe they are regulated by the government to ensure they provide good nutrition for children."Topics discussed in today's podcast: The latest RCH National Child Health Poll 'Ready-made baby foods: Do parents know the facts?’ How common is ready-made baby foods in Australian homes? Do parents know what's in ready-made food? Regulations in Australia for toddler food products How to choose the better products The most damaging product added into these foods Check the ingredients list & nutritional panel Find more from Dr Anthea Rhodes at RCH Poll or the Kids Health Info podcastPurchase Pixel Perfect or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Arguments are inevitable, but what's the best way to have them?Topics discussed in today's podcast: Fighting in inevitable High conflict is linked to higher levels of negative symptoms in children Children that come from secure homes are less likely to choose high risk behaviours Children learn communication skills from their parents Children need to see positive conflict resolution Adult only conversations Use the 3 E's Find your FREE Starting School Activity Book in our online storeHappy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How to have a conversation that doesn't lead to conflictTopics discussed in today's podcast: Fights that parents have to have with their kids Sleeping & eating Friends, parties & sleepovers Social media, alcohol & drugs, intimacy, pornography, dress What matters is how we have the conflict It's worth having a fight if their safety is at risk How to have a conversation that doesn't lead to conflict Justin's ladder metaphor The relationship should always come first It's not worth going to war over preferences Preferences vs principles Purchase A Parent's Guide to Autism or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time.Topics discussed in today's podcast: The Coulson's have a family meeting Siblings sharing bedrooms Kylie's morning routine Justin struggles with the morning rush Purchase Anxiety in Your Child or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Mature themes included - not appropriate for children*Topics discussed in today's podcast: Justin's writing a new book - Dad's Guide to Pregnancy for Dummies Habits of healthy relationships Make time Laughter Honour the other Encourage positive illusions Emotional attunement No name calling Forgive Three things that apply specifically to adult relationships Flirt Consent Keep each other updated on your day-to-day plans Purchase Dadding Done Right or find it in your Premium Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How to support a child with depressionTopics discussed in today's podcast: Rachel speaks about her new book - A Blue Kind of Day How do we respond when our kids experience emotions that make us feel uncomfortable? It's okay to not be okay How does depression display in children? How children describe symptoms of depression How to support a child with depression Find more about Rachel Tomlinson and her books Teaching Kids to be Kind and A Blue Kind of DayPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Habits of healthy relationshipsTopics discussed in today's podcast: Make time Laughter Honour the other Encourage positive illusions Purchase Teaching Kids Kindness or find it in your Premium Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Things that we can say to our kids when things are looking a bit rough I am sorry How can I help? Can't means don't want to You matter to me much more than this matters to me You've gotta love the hills I love you no matter what Purchase The Screaming Spiral or find it in your Premium Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time.Topics discussed in today's podcast: The Coulson's have had a WEEK Kylie learns to apologise The Coulson's review The Bad Guys The Coulson girls have new rollerskates Stay calm and sweat the stuff that matters Don't let other people's emotions effect you You're probably doing a better job than you think Purchase Pot, Pills & Parenting or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How to be happier as a parentTopics discussed in today's podcast: Justin shares some terrible Dad jokes Can we be happier as parents? Kylie tries faking a smile The research does show that your happiness drops after children There is no bandaid fix 7 things that we can do to be happier parents Make the decision to be happier Get your ego out of the way Lower your expectations Create time affluence Invest in the relationship Music Look after yourself Monday's podcast episde - #512 Finding More Time In Your DayPurchase 21 Days to a Happier Family or find it in your Premium Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Speech & language milestones & what to do if your child isn't quite reaching themTopics discussed in today's podcast: How are speech and language different? Speech & language milestones What can parents do to accelerate their child's speech? What shouldn't parents do? Overgeneralisation Model & repetition When should a parent seek help from a speech pathologist? What are the warning signs? Skill development Helpful tips Follow your child's lead Don't ask lots and lots of questions - provide comments & narrate 4 comments to every 1 question Add onto their used words Use a variety of words Minimise screen time Reading - slow it down & let them lead We have a health care provider shortageCaitlin O'Meara, speech pathologist & WA State Manager at Allied Health company Physio InqPurchase Building Better Boys or find it in your Premium Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about screen time limitsTopics discussed in today's podcast: Give a man a fish and he eats for a day, teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime Control is easy but it doesn't teach You can fence the pool but you can't fence the ocean How long can we bubble wrap our kids? Cocooning Reasoned cocoon Prearming Reasoned deference Deference What do we do when they make a mistake? Purchase our Justin-isms Posters.Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you're time poor and just need more hours in the day!Topics discussed in today's podcast:Kylie's top 3 tips to find more time in your day Work out when you're most productive & maximise that time Sit down at the beginning of the week and make a list Keep yourself accountable Justin's top 3 tips to find more time in your day Create margins Do less Don't fill in the spaces Purchase Your Growth Guide or find it in your Premium Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode: Intentional reflection Justin struggles with isolation while having Covid Kylie shares a story about a Scout raft building competition Purchase The Miss-connection Summit from the Happy Families shop. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Rebecca Sparrow and Michelle Mitchell have both spoken out recently on just how bad Tik Tok can be for our kids and teens.Is Tik Tok that bad? And is it any worse than other social media platforms?If you've been wanting to call time on Tik Tok, or even just provide a safer experience for your child, then this episode is a must listen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The cost of raising a family and what you can do about itTopics discussed in today's podcast: What does it cost to raise a child? Why do we hate budgets? Why budgeting isn't about restriction Budgeting is personal You will have more expensive seasons in your life Talk with your kids about budgeting Find Victoria Devine on Instagram, listen to her podcast She's On The Money or purchase her book She's On The MoneyPurchase Pixel Perfect or find it in your Premium Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin answers a listener's question about toddlers sharing time between two homesTopics included in this episode: The research suggests that kids do well with a 50/50 share Small children need stability, routine & predictability Attachment hierarchy How to make the transition smoother 5 C's of separation & divorce Closeness Caregiving Conflict Change Cash Purchase Teaching Kids Kindness webinar from the Happy Families shop. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin shares a sneak peek into tonight's webinar Carrots & SticksTopics discussed in this episode: Punishment, reward, timeout, praise The lowest form of education Let's get away from the reward charts History of why we parent the way we do Punishment & rewards creates problems Motivation continuum Purchase a ticket to tonight's live webinar Carrots & SticksPurchase Anxiety in your Child or find premium content with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics discussed in today's podcast: Good parent vs bad parent Teaching our kids a lesson vs doing something kind for them Justin takes the girls to music lessons & Miss 8 does not want to go Celebrate the wins Kylie's read 4 of Justin's 6 books Autonomy supported parenting is HARD work It's hard to get everything right consistently Just because it's hard, that doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong Purchase 21 Days to a Happier Family online program or find it in your Premium Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin discusses some recent studies about mindfulnessTopics included in this episode: Dr's Desk episode on mindfulness Mindfulness training experiment Is mindfulness the be-all and end-all? Calm Mum = calm baby Breathing exercises Pay attention to your senses Count down to calm Articles mentioned -Effects of a Mindfulness-Based Intervention on Distress, Weight Gain, and Glucose Control for Pregnant Low-Income Women: A Quasi-Experimental Trial Using the ORBIT ModelPrenatal mindfulness program improves stress response in infantsPurchase A Parent's Guide to Autism webinar from the Happy Families shop. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Purchase a ticket to Monday night's live webinar Carrots & SticksFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - this episode discusses topics that may not be appropriate for children*Topics discussed in this episode: Airdropping & cyber flashing Check your privacy settings What not to do when a child reports an incident Talk to your kids proactively Turn it off, move away & talk to someone Sextortion (combination of sexual & extortion) Check in regularly with your kids & their social accounts Kirra's first episode - #464 Teens and TikTok with Kirra PendergastFind Kirra Pendergast on Safe on SocialEpisode with Kristen Jenson - #458 Porn Proofing Your Kids - An Interview With Kristen JensonPurchase Anxiety in your Child or find premium content with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The positives & negatives of homeschooling vs the traditional schooling systemTopics discussed in today's podcast: Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about homeschooling Issues with the school system - Competition Classes learn at the rate of the lowest child Expectations Cultural views Bullying Joy for children in chool Reasons why the Coulson's never went down the homeschooling path - Feelings of inadequacy Lack of knowledge Shift in lifestyle Justin & Kylie call a friend who has just started homeschooling Purchase Dadding Done Right webinar or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What to do when we start to notice our worst traits coming out in our kidsTopics included in this episode: Which Coulson daughter is most like their Dad? Are we being triggered? Personal acceptance Your child is their own person Show your child compassion Hold space for your children Allow your children to have a voice Standards Purchase the Tweens, Teens & Screens webinar from the Happy Families shop. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics discussed in this episode: Justin speaks about the time he spent with Dr Shefali at her event last week Why do we make our kids do things they don't want to do? Justin takes his daughters surfing, involuntarily The Coulson's have a Super Saturday that didn't go to plan Purchase Teaching Kids Kindness or find premium content with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you taught your teens enough to go out into life and succeed?Topics discussed in today's podcast: 100 Essential Life Skills Teens Needs to Learn at Home Saying 'no' Setting goals Communicating with & getting to know teachers Read bank statements Using ride share apps Mail a package Address an envelope Turn off an overflowing toilet What to do in a power outage Laundry Walk away from anything Finding a doctor/accountant Eating healthy Manage subscription services Basic first aid Understand medical coverage Complete a LinkedIn profile Write a resume Dress for an interview Drink safely Obtaining birth control When to seek medical attention Turn off a smoke alarm Fire extinguisher Grown & FlownPurchase The Screaming Spiral webinar or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What science has told us about the risks and dangers of vaping Topics discussed in today's podcast: Lexi Frydenberg Vaping in Australia Regulations and how kids are getting around them What science has told us about the risks and dangers RCH poll Parents are not aware of the health risks Parents are asking for more regulation EVALI disease Exploding vapes Nic-sick Find Dr Lexi Frydenberg on the Kids Health Info podcastPurchase the Pot, Pills & Parenting webinar from the Happy Families shop. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Vaping… why are our kids doing it and what we can do about it. Dr Lisa Damour introduces herself E-cigarette usage among teenagers has more than double in recent times Why are kids doing it? Our kids are victims of a sophisticated marketing scheme Designers have made vapes incredibly attractive Adolescent brains aren't fully developed until mid 20's Vaping is socially rewarding How should we talk to our kids about this? Get curious, not furious Understand, don't reprimand Explore, don't explode Open a discussion with questions, not lectures Purchase Pixel Perfect Webinar and find premium content with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Answering a listener question - "How do you support kids to be more assertive with their peers?"Topics discussed in today's podcast: Identitiy & development What does 'being your own person' really mean? Positives & negatives of personal qualities Assertiveness training The I-message Allowing children to have a voice and be heard Actively and expressly encourage your children to have an opinion at home Children need to know that you won't dismiss or disapprove of their emotions Purchase the Better Together webinar or find it in your Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Navigating the sagas, challenges, and adversities of life.Topics discussed in today's podcast: Meltdown in the shops Smart parenting Inspiration from Hamish Blake Sharing your love at bedtime Connection Purchase 12 x A5 “Justin-isms” Posters from the Happy Families shop. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Kylie's naming process with their daughters Taylor A. Humphrey, the professional baby namer #460 What’s in a Name? Predictors of resilience Reading helps with resilience, particularly for those at risk Aussie study on resilience and reading NZ study (Otago) about building memories and greater resilience Reminiscing Active & constructive conversations Purchase Pixel Perfect Webinar and find premium content with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How much sleep do our teenagers really need to be getting?Topics discussed in today's podcast: Teenage sleep is worse than ever Teenager's sleep clock is naturally later to bed, later to rise The second wind Light delays sleep Tips for winding down Dark room for sleep Dim lights up to 2 hours before bed time Turn screens off Give kids the impression that the whole household is winding down NSW government is looking at starting school earlier Can we adjust a teenager's body clock? Anxiety & depression are on the rise Teenagers need at least 8-9 hours of sleep per night Purchase Generation Sleepless or The Happy SleeperPurchase the Miss-Connection Summit Happy Families Membership - Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: What the research says about playing with guns If you do let your kids play with toy/nerf guns some tips for safe play Red flags around aggressive or manipulative behaviour Purchase The Growth Guide Webinar and find premium content with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A special Anzac day episode with Dr Justin Coulson. Lest we forget.Purchase The Miss-Connection Summit or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time.Topics discussed in today's podcast: Kids finish some well known sayings Justin's verbal crutches Touch points Unspectacular moments One of the Coulson girls is getting creative with her money making endeavours Kylie shares a moment from her childhood Purchase Your Growth Guide or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What parents can do to encourage their children to manage their own risksTopics included in this episode: Watch Old Enough on Netlfix Justin & Kylie discuss the errands they did as small children In Japan, there is a culture of neighbourhoods functioning as a village Helicopter parenting #237 Lenore Skenazy - Meet the World's Worst Mum How much freedom do we give? What if something happens? Purchase The Miss-Connection Summit or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with associate Professor Jenet EricksonTopics included in this episode: The different roles that mothers and fathers can offer their children Mothers impact development by building core Fathers impact how children relate to the outside world Mums and Dads hold their babies differently A key predictor of college graduation is the involvement of a father Blue brain vs pink brain Fathers promote risk taking Nuturing is both holding close AND letting go Children benefit from both processes Daughters whose fathers are not present are more likely to engage sexually at a younger age Boys need to see their fathers showing love to women and children in non sexual ways Gender and Parenthood by Brad Wilcox Love is happiness. The intentional family is a ritualising family Purchase Better Together or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There has been a push recently for the teaching of resilience in schools - but should teachers be forced to teach wellness and psychology in the classroom?Topics discussed in today's podcast: Why the home is the best place for teaching resilience and some tips for parents Being flexible, goals, values and circumstances The importance of parents being hope builders For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode #137 Punishment & Rewards with Alfie KohnFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode #119 What Does Free Diving & Parenting Have In Common? (Featuring Ant Williams)For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode #128 Self Control Can Be A Learned Behaviour (Featuring Ethan Kross)For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode #270 Maggie Dent on Raising Boys Part 2First conversation with Maggie - #269 Maggie Dent on Raising Boys Part 1For more information on Maggie Dent and her book From Boys to MenFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode #319 The A to Z of Feelings with Andrew FullerAndrew Fuller's new book The A to Z of FeelingsFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode #324 Fully Human with Steve BiddulphLearn more about Steve Biddulph and his new book Fully HumanFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode #339 Jeremy Macvean Founder of The FatherhoodLearn more about Jeremy MacveanPurchase his book - The Father Hood: Inspiration for the new dad generationFind The Fatherhood on Facebook and InstagramFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Highlights from episode #344 Introducing Wally GoddardFollow Wally on FacebookFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

20% of our days are allocated to leisureLearn more about Susie O'Brien or purchase her book The Secret to Half-Arsed Parenting#354 Susie O'Brien - Half-Arsed ParentingPurchase a ticket to the Bringing Up Boys SummitPurchase Pixel Perfect or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A conversation with an aussie icon (Mem Fox)Topics discussed in this episode:Justin asks Mem Fox some small but insightful questions about her experiences in motherhood#124 Conversation With an Aussie Icon (Featuring Mem Fox)Purchase a ticket to the Bringing Up Boys SummitFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Matt Tyler is our special guest on this episode ahead of the Happy Families Bringing Up Boys Summit on Wednesday April 6.Matt Tyler is Executive Director of The Men’s Project at Jesuit Social Services working with a team committed to intervening earlier to prevent violence, mental ill-health and other harmful behaviours among boys and men.The Man Box is the first comprehensive study that focuses on the attitudes to manhood and the behaviours of young Australian men aged 18 to 30.The Man Box is a set of beliefs within and across society that place pressure on men to be a certain way – to be tough; not to show any emotions; to be the breadwinner, to always be in control, use violence to solve problems; and to have many sexual partners.Get your ticket to the Bringing Up Boys Summit here.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time.Topics discussed in this episode: Some April fools jokes Dr Justin's clothing mishap Kylie's experience taking things too seriously Lighten up Purchase a ticket to the Bringing Up Boys SummitFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss a listener's question about how to talk to your kids about family members and friends who are deep into conspiracy theories,Topics discussed in this episode: How can we talk to our kids about family members and friends who are deep into conspiracy theories How can we encourage our kids to have respectful relationships with family members with differing views and not take their opinions on board Get curious, not furious Kylie shares her 5 tips on what to discuss with your kids Justin shares his tips on having conversational boundaries with family members and friends without hurting the relationship How pivoting the conversation can help Reminding your kids that you're a safe space for them if they want to debrief or unpack conversations that made them feel uncomfortable #374 Getting Back to School After COVID with Michael ParkerLearn more about Michael Parker or buy his book, Talk With Your Kids About Things That Matter.Purchase a ticket to the Bringing Up Boys SummitFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How do we raise children who are independent, critical thinkers while also fitting in?Topics included in this episode: Justin speaks with Todd Kashdan about his new book "We want our youth to be compelling - likeability plus confidence." Instilling values Basketball free throws Losing while you stick to your principles is better than winning by taking the shortcuts Stereotyped, non-conforming behaviour Masculinity and insubordination Learn more about Todd Kashdan or buy his book, The Art of InsubordinationPurchase a ticket to the Bringing Up Boys SummitPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Purchase The Do's & Dont's of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why Kids Who 'Talk Back' Grow Up To Be Better AdultsTopics included in this episode: Article mentioned - Why Kids Who 'Talk Back' Grow Up To Be Better Adults Kylie was a compliant child. Justin was not. His family encouraged speaking up for yourself. "the inability to say "No" — the inability to set personal boundaries — is one of the most common, insidious causes of human suffering." - Clinical psychologist Kelly M. Flanagan Our job as parents is to teach them how to say no and push back effectively Get curious, not furious Kids need to be able to practice being heard Kids need to know that we trust them Acknowledge that your children have preferences Come into the conversation with compassion If our children don't feel safe saying 'no' to us, who else are they going to have trouble saying 'no' to? Purchase a ticket to the Bringing Up Boys SummitPurchase The Do's & Dont's of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are we being too soft on kids these days?Topics included in this episode: Kylie takes Miss 7 to an activity, which results in a large meltdown but ends sweetly Labelling their feelings Understanding their development better Emotional regulation High emotions = low intelligence Name it to tame it Purchase a ticket to the Bringing Up Boys SummitPurchase The Do's & Dont's of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time.Topics included in this episode: Check out Lisa Damour's books Kylie has started one-on-one walks with her girls Justin shares a story from his book What Your Child Needs From You Purchase a ticket to the Bringing Up Boys SummitPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share about how they manage their family.Topics discussed in this episode: Weekly couples meeting, weekly family meeting & quarterly couples immersion. How to get your partner on the same page. Find all the information about the 'Can We Please Talk About Boys' webinar here.Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

During COVID some fascinating things have happened when it comes to the work life of parents.Jenet Erickson is an associate professor at Brigham Young University whose research is all about the distinct contribution of parents in children's development. She is also a research fellow at the Institute for Family Studies in the US, and recently published an article there called The Work Family Reset in Post-COVID America.Her research into maternal and child wellbeing has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, U.S. News and World Report and the Today Show. Purchase a ticket to the Bringing Up Boys SummitPurchase The Do's & Dont's of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"What if the rewards of having children are different from, and deeper, than happiness?"Topics included in this episode: It's scientifically proven that when children are born, parent's happiness decreases Justin & Kylie discuss how they felt after becoming parents & their levels of happiness All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood "What if the rewards of having children are different from, and deeper, than happiness?" Children improve our Life Satisfaction Meaning & purpose Purchase a ticket to the Bringing Up Boys SummitPurchase The Do's & Dont's of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - this episode includes topics that are not suitable for children*Today on the podcast we're addressing a recent question on the Happy Families Facebook page about siblings 'experimenting'. This question created differing responses from people who have been in this situation - so how should we respond? Miranda Bain is the Therapy Services Director at Act for Kids; a psychologist who works to help children and families going through abuse and trauma. Miranda has practiced in the USA as well as Australia and New Zealand, and since moving to Australia has focused on the impact of abuse and trauma on children. Actively addressing the impact of pornography and online sexual imagery on the sexual development of children is a particular area of interest. Act for Kids is a for-purpose organisation that delivers evidence-led professional therapy and support services to children and families who have experienced or are at risk of harm. Find out more about Act for Kids Education Services here. Learn more about True's school programs here. Information about the Australian Childhood Foundation can be found here. For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time.Topics discussed in this episode: The Coulson girls start at a new school Miss 7 is struggling with all the changes Kylie had a win Justin had a loss that turned into a teaching moment for him Register for our free webinar Can We Please Talk About Boys?!Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“When you criticise your child, they don’t stop loving you. They stop loving themselves.”Purchase a ticket to the Bringing Up Boys SummitFor a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - this episode may not be appropriate for children to listen to*Topics discussed in this episode: TikTok's algorithm Kirra explains the kind of content our children are viewing on TikTok Teens & their desire to be TikTok famous The danger of online predators TikTok's terms & conditions Parents, educate yourselves on TikTok and how it works Know how to block & report and teach it to your children Look through your children's followers list and make sure they personally know them Clean your children's feed Click here to read Julie Jargon's Washington Post article about teen girls posting risqué videos on Tik Tok.Find out more about Kirra at the Safe on Social website.Register for our free webinar Can We Please Talk About Boys?!Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this short and sweet episode Justin reminds us that connection is key, and that kids spell love T.I.M.E.Register for the free 'Can We Talk About Boys?' webinar.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss some common Dutch parenting styles that can help make children more self-reliant.You can read the article about Dutch parenting that was mentioned in the episode here.Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie are struggling with finding their new home Justin geeks out and shares a metaphor about space shuttles and committing Kylie shares a sweet moment with Miss 7 on the beach Provide your kids with opportunities to brainstorm & collaborate Register for our free webinar Can We Please Talk About Boys?!Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's official, Australia's most bogan baby names for 2022 have been revealed in a news.com.au article.Now we are not judging or shaming anyone - we are just reporting what news.com.au have printed.If you want to check out the full list of 2022's most bogan baby names you can do that here.There is some science around unusual names and what that does to your child's chances of success in life, so Justin will unpack what that could look like.Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today Justin and Kylie have a chat about something that blew up on the socials.When we shared the video on the Happy Families page, it blew up with some people being so happy while others were so upset about what was going on.It was the video of a little girl pouring juice but making a big mess! But it was also a video about giving a child the opportunity to grow; often it's through making those mistakes, and making the big mess that goes along with it a real difference.You can watch the video here.Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Proofing our kids against pornographyTopics discussed in this episode: Justin speaks with Kristen Jenson about porn proofing our kids Kids will see porn at some point - they need to be prepared When do we need to start the conversation? #soonerissafer Recognise a bad picture, understand that it's harmful & have a plan. Start with simple definitions The universal agreement that pornography is harmful for children Defend Young MindsGood Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today's Young KidsGood Pictures Bad Pictures Jr.: A Simple Plan to Protect Young MindsOr they can be purchased via the Focus on the Family New Zealand website:GPBP: https://family.org.nz/product/good-pictures-bad-pictures/Jr: https://family.org.nz/product/good-picture-bad-pictures-jr/My Kid Saw Porn—Now What?Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*Content warning - this episode may not be suitable for children*Topics included in this episode: Justin & Kylie sit down with their kids once a month to discuss intimacy Encourage the kids to ask questions If you're confident, they'll have condfidence in you Emphasise the positives The most important conversation - consent Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics discussed in this episode: Justin shares some kind feedback that came through from a listener One of the Coulson daughters successfully manages on her own during the floods The Coulson's are preparing to sell their home Equip your kids Let kids be kids For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Weighing up the positives & negatives of vaccinating our children against Covid19Topics discussed in this episode: Justin speaks with Professor Alison McMillann, Officer for the Commonwealth Department of Health Why are parents hesitant to vaccinate their children agaisnt Covid19? Misinformation Impact on fertility If kids don't get sick from Covid, why do we need to vaccinate them? Statistics of adverse reactions to the vaccine Find your nearest vaccination clinicPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Julie Inman Grant From the Australian eSafety Commission Topics discussed in this episode: Kids aged 9-12 are reporting sending nude images What does the Australian eSafety Commissioner do? Prevention, Protection & Proactive Change User empowerment tools Disenfranchised grief Talk early, talk often, be present, teach them to block/mute, don't take away devices as punishment Set parental controls Have your children use their devices in open areas of the home Digital resilience Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have your kids been seeing the images coming out of Ukraine and wondering what is going on, and if they are safe?In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss how to respond to our kids when they have questions about the war.Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie discuss weaponised incompetence In this episode, they discuss: What is weaponised incompetence (or strategic incompetence) Justin's mum's advice Justin & Kylie share their own weaponised incompetencies 3 ways to overcome legitimate weaponised incompetence Click here to read the Huffington Post article For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics discussed in this episode: Kylie struggled through a difficult weekend with some little people with big feelings We need to remember to be kind to ourselves Force creates resistance High emotions = low intelligence Why being a parenting expert sucks sometimes Justin feels a little under the microscope Purchase a ticket to our Emotion Coaching WorkshopPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One of the most important parts of your child's day - sleep!Topics discussed in this episode: University of Houston study - In your face: Children’s expressions tell the story of poor sleep How much sleep to kids of different ages need? How can we optimise their sleep? Sleep hygiene Quality vs quantity The importance of waking up at the same time every day Take the pressure off your teenagers Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are screens really as bad for our kids as we think they are?In this episode, they discuss: Justin & Brad discuss an article released by the Oxford Internet Institute Brad shares the number one piece of advice - think of screens holisticly Does limiting screen time work? What kind vs how much The most common complaint from parents - sleep & money Gambling online Learn more about Brad Marshall, The Unplugged PsychologistFor a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie answer a question from a listener about how to allow our adult children to leave the nestTopics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie talk us through their experience with having their oldest child leave the family home As adults, we need to remember what it was like to be a maturing teen & what it was that we needed from our parents Parents need to let go of the control to decrease anxiety in both the parent & the maturing child Learn to let go from the very beginning Parents need to provide the scaffolding to allow their childen to make safe choices Justin reads an excerpt from his book Miss-Connection Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie discuss two hot schooling topics - homework and school hours.You can read Justin's homework letter here.Click here to read Rebecca Sparrow's Facebook post about homework.You can read an article about the potential change to NSW school hours here.For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeIn this episode, they discuss: Kylie's reading Atlas Of The Heart by Dr Brené Brown Positive emotions disappear quickly and gratitude helps us relive those moments Kylie shares an experience with one of their daughters Justin helps Kylie through a tricky experience with their youngest daughter The Coulson's got adventurous over the weekend For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss: Forgiveness, apologies and holding grudges Theory of Mind - understanding other peoples thoughts and beliefs in order to then understand their behaviour Helping children to apologise Justin's 4-Step Apology Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The biggest mistakes typical families make when their kids are being fussyIn this episode, they discuss: What are the main reasons for why kids become picky eaters? Is there an age where we should expect pickiness? Is there an age where we can expect kids to get over their pickiness? The biggest mistakes typical families make when their kids are being fussy - Pressure, comparison, worry. "When the joy goes out of eating, nutrition suffers." Top 3 solutions - 1. Trust. 2. Never back kids into a corner. 3. Provide opportunities for kids to explore food Learn more about Deb Blakley from Kids Dig FoodTo access the Feed Your Picky Eater [without going crazy] evergreen online course for parents: https://kidsdigfood.com.au/resources/Book an appointment with an APD from the Kids Dig Food team: https://kidsdigfood.com.au/appointments/Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Michael Gross from Parenting IdeasIn this episode, they discuss: What was parenting like in the early 90's? What Michael is most proud of in his parenting career Justin & Michael share a huge announcement Learn more about For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Trigger Warning - This episode discusses nudity in adults and children. The conversation does not address abuse, however, we understand that this discussion may be sensitive for some of our listeners.Justin and Kylie discuss if it's okay to be naked in front of the kids.Topics included in this podcast: Kylie shares more about her 'Pink Lunchbox' tradition for Valentines Day Justin and Kylie discuss when is nude too rude Respecting your kid's boundaries and talking to them about privacy, consent and body safety Teaching kids that bodies of all shapes and sizes are natural, normal and healthy Catch up on Justin's latest webinar, Better Together.Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin and Kylie review what went well or not so well from this week.In this episode, they discuss: Watch what you say around your kids First day at school Acknowledging your kids' fears Justin creates drama at home Endings matter Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie talk through some of the topics that will be discussed on tonight's 'Better Together' webinar.The webinar starts at 7pm Queensland time and 8pm for those in New South Wales and Victoria.'Better Together' is free for Happy Families members or can be purchased for $30.Discover more about the 'Better Together' webinar.Find out more about becoming a Happy Families member.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin speaks with Dr Catherine Ball about Girls, technology and looking towards the future.In this episode, they discuss: Gender equality and representation What parents can do to help give their kids the tools to flourish in the things that matter most to them How to steer our kids into technology avenues Learn more about Dr Catherine BallFor a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this podcast: A listener question about how to help kids learn to take responsibility and ownership of their belongings without shaming them 5 ways to help our kids learn to be more responsible Justin and Kylie share a recent family experience where they practised what they preached Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in the Monday Mixed Bag: The 60 Minutes interview with Cleo Smith's parents. Citipointe Christian College's controversial contract. A letter that radio host Fitzy wrote to his son before he started high school. For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next timeTopics included in this episode - Kylie's enjoying watching their girls' relationships strengthen since their move The Coulson's take a hot, sweaty walk For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Teaching kids manners Being selfless is easy when being selfless is fun Focusing on the good and accept that the rough stuff will exist For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why some people go through hard times & grow from it and others don't Topics included in this podcast - Justin introduces Amy & her work 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do Why some people go through hard times & grow from it and others don't Our emotional wounds are like our physical wounds - you have to take care of them 3 things mentally strong people don't do 1. Waste time feeling sorry for themselves 2. Give away their power 3. Make the same mistakes over and over again 13 Things Strong Kids Do Kids need to be kept in the loop to avoid them drawing their own conclusions Kids need to feel heard. Validate their feelings. Make gratitude a process in your house Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What to do when you get sprung by the kids!Topics included in this episode - Guy Sebastian has shared about how he & his wife were 'caught in the act' Justin & Kylie share their own moments of exposure What should parents do in these moments? Teach kids to knock & what a closed door means Children need to hear about sex & intimacy via healthy conversations How to carve out time for intimacy For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Children all around the country are returning to school, and for many of those kids, it's a day of firsts.Topics covered in this episode: Coping with nerves and first-day fears, both for children and parents Giving our kids security and predictability around their schooling Coping with COVID and the fears and anxiety that can be present around the issues schools are facing Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie share the story of their last minute sea change. Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Getting your morning routine happening again after the holidaysTopics included in this episode - The bucket metaphor - Connecting & correcting vs connecting 4 tips for making your mornings magic 1 - Your morning starts the night before 2 - Breakfast menu & lunch list 3 - Softly wake the children up a little earlier 4 - Don't tell, ask Kylie's tip - Use gentle reminders For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's a public holiday today, so we've prepared a super short episode of the podcast so that you can get back to spending quality time with your family.Today we're exploring why when we praise or reward kids for being brilliant, this can lead to them avoiding things they might fail at.For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If needles of any kind are on the horizon for your kids, this is the episode for you!Topics discussed in this episode: Ways we can help our kids cope with the fear experienced by needles Justin and Kylie share some of their needle experiences, both as kids and as parents Some of the research that's gone into distraction interventions and why it matters Links to some of the research papers mentioned in this episode: Distraction Intervention Children With Rheumatic Diseases Trajectories of Distress Regulation During Pre-School Vaccinations Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kylie shares her mental health struggles at the end of 2021Topics discussed in this episode Kylie's back! Justin & Kylie discuss the school holidays being extended by Covid The podcast had 1.95 million downloads last year The Coulson's had the worst Christmas ever Kylie shares her mental health struggles at the end of 2021 Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kate reflect on their week and determine what they can do better next time Kate took a mum-cation & worries about the mum-guilt Justin's been struggling with not having enough time for the kids For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Top 5 things we've said to our kids these holidaysTopics included in this podcast: Justin's writing a new book Top 5 things Justin & Kate said to their kids this holidays Join Justin for a live Q&A in your Happy Families Membership. Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kate answer a Happy Families Premium member's question about dinner timeTopics discussed in this episode Why is dinner time so difficult? One of Justin's daughter's has decided to go vegetarian The history of fussy eating Justin & Kate share their top tips Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kate discuss the challenges of isolation for familiesTopics discussed in this episode Justin & Kate discuss the current status of Covid in Australia Kate's daughter contracted Covid The challenges of 10 days of isolation Solutions for children in isolation Relax in screen time Make meal times fun Get them outside every day For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy New Year to all the Happy Families Podcast listeners!Justin and Kylie have big news with a move underway - more on that to come on the podcast soon. So filling in this week for Kylie is radio host and producer Kate Meade.Kate is a mum to three kids, has hosted a breakfast radio show and is also the host of the Women of Influence Podcast. As well as founding the Victorian Dance Festival, one of the largest dance festivals in Australia, Kate was named in the Australian Financial Review’s 100 Women of Influence in 2018.Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

3 tips to help you have a very Merry ChristmasTopics discussed in this episode 3 things to help you have a very Merry Christmas Check in with your own value system Kylie's top 3 values at Christmas - connecting with the family, simplicity, it's not about the gifts. Be really intentional about the way you engage with each other Don't get sunburnt! Be safe. Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

6 things to help you do Christmas on a budgetTopics discussed in this episode The 4 gifts of Christmas - Something they want, something they need, something to wear & something to read Stick to a budget Determine who you want to gift to Getting the list of gifts right Going second-hand or hand-made Quality vs quantity Utilising sales and laybuy Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie open up about the true meaning of Christmas for them & their familyTopics discussed in this podcast: 10 sleeps till Christmas! How to make Christmas holy for your family Having a more Christ-centered Christmas The 3 levels of Christmas Level 1 - Santa, presents, food etc. Bringing people together. Level 2 - Oh Holy Night. Christmas carols. The nativity. Level 3 - Recognising Christ's life of sacrifice & love. Joy, peace & hope. We hear from some podcast listeners about how they make Christmas holy Going to church Singing carols The Nativity Serve others Purchase How To Unspoil The Kids This Christmas or Tis the Season to be Cranky or find it in your Happy Families MembershipFor a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie are unprepared for Christmas so they ask some Premium members to share how they plan and prepare.Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Some of the Happy Families listeners share their Christmas traditionsTopics discussed in this episode Some of the Happy Families listeners share their Christmas traditions Justin and Kylie talk about their festive traditions Thinking of others - Larissa's idea about Christmas Ninjas is a great example Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie list their all-time favourite Christmas movies The Polar Express Klaus Arthur Christmas Elf Home Alone The Santa Clause Christmas Chronicles Must mention - Bad Santa, The Holiday (Justin's never seen them) Some Christian Christmas movies 7 Christian Christmas Movies to Enjoy Again and Again The Nativity The Christ Child: A Nativity Story Purchase How To Unspoil The Kids This Christmas or Tis the Season to be Cranky or find it in your Happy Families MembershipFor a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The best list of road trip games to keep everyone entertained.Topics discussed in this episode: I-spy Spotto I went to the shops and I bought The alphabet game Car cricket Old MacDonald Had A Farm Bingo This Is The Song That Never Ends Peel The Avocado The Fart Game Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Making Christmas a happy time for everyoneTopics included in this episode: how to keep things calm this Christmas creating structure for a smoother day practicing acceptance getting on with relatives and others being in our space Purchase the 'Tis The Season to be Cranky webinar, or find it in your Happy Families Premium Membership.For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How to avoid materialism in your children this ChristmasTopics discussed in this episode: How to avoid materialism in your children Don't try to keep up with the Jones's Get creative Plan ahead Change the focus Be an example Material Parenting: How the Use of Goods in Parenting Fosters Materialism in the Next GenerationPurchase How To Unspoil The Kids This Christmas or find it in your Happy Families MembershipPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families MembershipFind us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: What research says about how we can help those suffering from depression. Connection, physical activity and mentors. Why curiosity and a desire to learn can help overcome depression. You can contact Kids Helpline anytime on 1800 55 1800.You can call Lifeline anytime on 13 11 14.Invest in your family with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Subjects up for discussion: Littlest Miss Coulson was excited for a special Saturday chore Justin took one of his daughters out for a special birthday ice-cream Kids spell love T.I.M.E Kylie left the kids with a list of chores and she came home to a wonderful surprise If we don't give our children opportunities to surprise us, they never will Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this best of episode Justin & Kylie chat about ways we can be more playful with our kids. It's a really important conversation, especially ahead of the holidays!Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak with Alfie Kohn about report cardsIn this episode, they discuss: Alfie's opinion on report cards When children are being evaluated, it reduces their motivation Intrinsic vc extrinsic motivation Grades for effort What should parents do with the report cards? Learn more about Alfie Kohn#137 Punishment & Rewards with Alfie Kohn#150 Unconditional Parenting with Alfie Kohn#160 The Trouble With Time Out with Alfie Kohn#249 Best of - Discipline, Punishment & Rewards with Dr Alfie KohnPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: A listener question about co-parenting when the other parent is not quite meeting their responsibilities The 7 C's of Separation and Divorce Why and how you need to work together with your ex when it comes to parenting Read Dr Justin Coulson's 7 C's of Separation and Divorce.Invest in your family with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Kylie's week off at her health retreat Is taking holidays apart a good or bad thing? Appreciating your partner Invest in your family with a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Podcast listeners share what they learnt from Parental GuidanceIn this episode, they discuss: Black Friday sales! Coparenting, boundaries, setting routines, nature parenting Which parents did you connect the most with? Justin's tender moment with his most difficult child Kylie's experience with her daughter who didn't get a "gold hat" Measuring kids by 'awards' and 'rewards' Click here to locate our Black Friday SalesPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak with Deb from Parental Guidance!In this episode, they discuss: What made her want to go into homeschooling? How does she juggle everything? What is the hardest thing about homeschooling? Do her kids really get along well? Her daughter's struggle to give up her screen How did the experience on the show affect her family? What were her biggest learnings? Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak with Brett & Tony from Parental Guidance!In this episode, they discuss: How did Tony & Brett end up with quadriplets? What made them want to have kids? What was their biggest learning? Were they disappointed they didn't go through to go camping? Which parents would they put through to the Crowded House? Would you recommend a season 2? Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin & Kylie speak with Andrew & Miriam from Parental Guidance!In this episode, they discuss: What did they hope to gain from being on the show? Their impressions while watching the show How did the kids feel about being on TV? How did the show impact their parenting? Which parenting style impacted them the most? How did the show strengthen your family? For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Justin shares his favourite part of the whole show from Parental Guidance! In this episode, they discuss: What were their expectations going into the show? Debbie's disappointment in how she was portrayed on the show Did they question their own parenting style? Were they always on the same page with their parenting? "Never Give Up" Justin's favourite part of the entire show How has the experience strengthened their family? Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss: The Coulson family discussed how they can make their family happy after watching the show The girls share which parenting style they think Justin & Kylie use The girls share which set of parents they liked the most Which parenting style will the girls use when they're parents? What would the girls like to do more of? Purchase Tweens, Teens, & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss: What it was like working with Justin Ally's parenting style Ally's favourite parenting style on the show How Ally's parenting has changed since the show Are Justin & Ally perfect parents? What has changed in Ally's home since the show Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Justin & Kylie speak with Penny & Daniel, the winners of Parental Guidance How they feel about winning Were they always on the same page about their parenting? How their childhoods effected their parenting Parenting from fear How being on the show effected their parenting How the experience strengthened their family For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss: a recap of last night's episode of Parental Guidance giving kids instruction a review on Brett and Tony's approach of using routine emotions are contagious tips to reign our own emotions back in anger, fear, control Purchase Tweens, Teens, & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss: a recap of last night's episode of Parental Guidance ways to notice strengths in our kids an analysis of free range parenting Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Kylie is working with an emotion coach Kylie shares what she's learnt with her daughter ABC model Stinking thinking Justin nailed it this week with Miss 7 at bedtime For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Justin and Kylie discuss: a recap of last night's episode of Parental Guidance how different parenting styles affect compromise within our families why forcing kids to apologise is teaching kids to lie Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Justin & Kylie discuss last night's episode of Parental Guidance Kids earning money How far do you push your kids? Kylie shares a story from her childhood Facing your fears When to let children trust their gut It's not about pushing. It's about encouraging and supporting. Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: We look back at the new parents we met last night in Parental Guidance Washing kids' mouth with soap Screen time use from little kids to teens Setting boundaries with screens Purchase Tweens, Teens, & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: We look back at the little lies that came up during the cake decorating challenge in Parental Guidance Why our kids lie and how we can respond The fact that telling lies is a normal part of growing up For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Kylie shares some feedback from a listener about a sensitive episode last week Justin shares some feedback from a listener about sleep training Kylie shares her reflections she's had while watching Parental Guidance Justin wants to get into nature with the family and spend some quality time For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Family photos The chocolate test Why does self control matter? 7 ways we can help build self control Out of sight, out of mind Be consistent & follow through Gentle reminders Self control games Motivation Support their autonomy Be a model Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

***Trigger warning - Episode discussses child abuse***Topics on the podcast today: Justin & Kylie discuss last night's episode of Parental Guidance Stranger danger conversation Statistics around child abuse 5 important things to talk to your kids about Most strangers are good people If a stranger approaches you, check with a parent If you're going somewhere with a stranger, always stay in public Heirarchy of helpers If you ever feel unsafe, find another adult Common sense rules If you feel unsafe, move away If a stranger promises you things, say no If a stranger ever touches you in a way that makes you feel unsafe, scream as loud as you can! How to help your children be safe around family/friends Your body is yours No one should ever touch your body If a person ever tells you to keep a secret related to your body, they're an untrustworthy person Talk to your parents Keeping our Children Safe from Child AbusePurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Parental Guidance aired last night The spanking debate We do the best we can until we know better The science is clear - smacking is ineffective Should smacking be illegal? What does the word punishment mean? The 3 E's Articles mentioned in this episode:The Fallacy of the ‘I Turned Out Fine’ ArgumentThe Spanking Debate: Changing Minds Takes a Generation7 Reasons Australia is WRONG about smacking our kidsPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie respond to a listener's question about why some kids thrive despite adversity. Children's personalities, temperaments and environments. One stable adult in a child's life. A sense of mastery over life. Listen to episode #375 Not What I Expected here.Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

***Trigger Warning - Episode discusses infant loss***Topics on the podcast today:Kylie shares an emotional experience that made her reflect on her experiences with her childrenFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We spoke to some of the Happy Families Podcast listeners to discover what their most recent 'it's all been worth it' moment was.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics on the podcast today: The history about sleep training Kylie shares her experience with sleep training What can we do? Educate yourself on normal sleep behaviour for your baby's age Be flexible Room sharing Breast milk supply Contact naps Baby wearing Partner involvement Little Sparklers & their Facebook pageThe Beyond Sleep Training Project & their Facebook pagePurchase Teens, Tweens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics on the podcast today: 6 more sleeps until Parental Guidance airs Justin & Kylie respond to a listener's question about boundaries Behaviour regulation Little People, Big Feelings Consistency Understanding developmental stages Lighten up For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Here's why you should not imitate Mila Kunis, when she dished out some on-the-fly conflict resolution advice to her child.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Up for discussion in this week's I'll Do Better Tomorrow is using family traditions to help our children know that they belong to something bigger than themselves.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Links to studies mentioned: Screen time and early adolescent health Developing a Representational Theory of Mind Physical Activity and Mental Health For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How our phones distract us from life Distraction free phones Nudge theory What Amantha has done in her home to make it a distraction free zone How to make hard work fun Chronotypes How I Work with Amantha ImberGreg McKeown, EffortlessPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics included in this episode: Getting started, pushing through & keep things moving Learning to be comfortable with feeling uncomfortable An analogy about space shuttles & perserverance Kylie shares an anecdote about their family choosing to do something hard For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Why there's no such thing as the perfect school Why kids, especially our senior students, should stress less when it comes to grades and test scores School marketing and university created scarcity Read Justin's thoughts on homework in this article.Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's that time of the week where we sit back and reflect on the wins, and what we can do better next time.Topics discussed in this episode: Going to bed on time, "night guy" Messy rooms and cleanup Teaching their kids to drive Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode we take a deep dive into all the weird, crazy and downright disgusting things our kids have done.A big thank you to everyone who sent us a story, and fair warning - most of them include bums, penises, poo, wee and a little dose of vomit just for good measure!Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Michael Parker wrote a book called Talk With Your Kids About Things That Matter Getting back into the swing of things after lockdown What to do if your child would prefer to be at home than at school? How are the seniors coping? Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie answer a question about how important are extracurricular activities for children's development? Am I good enough as a parent? Kylie's experience growing up with no extracurricular activities How many extra-curricular activities to get involved in? When to start extra-curricular activities? The power of free play Children exploring lots of different activities and giving things up fast Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: the hit Netflix show 'Squid Game' why this show is a hard no for viewing by children ways we can discuss with our kids what they should do if their friends show them clips from 'Squid Game' why you should not be letting your kids play versions of 'Squid Game' online Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Happy birthday Mrs Happy Families The Coulson family go on vacation One of the Coulson girls gets a little scare on a boat An accidental trip to a nudist beach Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie speak with Dr Jessica Kaufman about Covid 19 vaccines for kids How are Australian parents feeling about vaccinating their kids? Do children need to be vaccinated? What side effects to children experience from the vaccine? Does it matter which brand children receive? Needle phobia Learn more about Dr Jessica KaufmanPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin and Kylie discuss asking hypothetical questions with your kids Philosophy and curiosity Justin and Kylie share an experience they had with their kids asking hypothetical questions Michael shares tips for talking about meaningful things with your kids Asking 'Why' Find Michael's book here: Talk With Your Kids About Things That MatterFor a happy family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: A very big announcement about a new TV show How to respond when your child does something out of character The Miss-Connection Summit For a happy family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today it's a public holiday in Queensland, so we've prepared a short tip for the day so you can spend more time with your family!For a happy family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: School holidays is ending 5 Questions to ask your kids at bedtime to create high quality night time nurture experiences Gratitude Optimism Open conversations Admitting your mistakes Endearing acknowledgements of love For a happy family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: What to do when the expert's parenting techniques 'don't work' Getting parenting right isn't about habits, it's about our hearts Are we supposed to intervene? Knowing when to step out The vicious cycle For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: What to do when the kids just won't stop fighting Better ways to resolve conflict Emotion catching Intervening Shorter disputes - warmer relationships For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie share about how they manage their family Weekly couples meeting, weekly family meeting & quarterly couples immersion How to get your partner on the same page See previous episode #273 Coordinating EverythingPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Ingratitude & entitlement Gratitude inspires us to do good How to tell if your kids are entitled Red flags Modelling gratitude Working together No doesn't always have to be a hard no Minimise competition For a happier family, try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: In this episode Justin & Kylie chat about ways we can be more playful with our kids. Creating margin Intention Mindset Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin is struggling with the amount of devices & device time in their house Justin & Kylie discuss a news report about an 8 year old who turned Pro at Fortnite The 3 C's of screen time - Consumption, Connection & Creation Active vs passive use of screens Kids and smartphones: a warning for parents about harmful impactsPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin's life motto is "Always bite off more than you can chew!" 3 tips to help you create margin in your life "The things that matter most must never be at the mercy of the things that matter least." - Steven R. Covey Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie review a past episode: #207 Taming That Voice Inside Your Head A listener wrote into the show with a curly question for Justin & Kylie Could there be an indirect impact on our children based on what we say about ourselves? Intergenerational transfer of cognitive mindset Tips on how to filter our own mindsets and inner voice Find out more about the Miss-Connection summit herePurchase a Spacetalk Adventurer WatchPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie discuss their discovery of Hellofresh Justin & Kylie review a past episode: #195 Yes, It's a Chore They answer a question from a listener about how to get her kids to do their chores Kylie explains the 10 Minute Tidy and why it works for them, as well as other chore strategies 3 key principles to remember when it comes to chores Find the episode with Alfie Kohn here - #137 Punishment & Rewards with Alfie KohnFind the pocket money episode here - #5: Turning your children into “Savers”For a happier family, try our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How the Coulson's teach their kids about music appreciation Justin & Kylie get a night away without the kids Kylie makes an icecream cake Justin makes the kids at the birthday party put up their own tent Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: 03:20 The impact of Covid19 lockdowns on our children 08:26 Children who are youngest in their cohort tend to be diagnosed with ADHD 13.48 Associations between school enjoyment at age 6 and later educational achievement Links to studies mentioned -Global Prevalence of Depressive and Anxiety Symptoms in Children and Adolescents During COVID-19Youth, the pandemic and a global mental health crisisThe Combined Effects of Young Relative Age and Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder on Negative Long-Term OutcomesYounger children in a school class at greater risk of long-term negative outcomes like low educational achievement and substance misuseChildren Who Enjoy School Aged Six Tend To Get Better Grades Ten Years LaterAssociations between school enjoyment at age 6 and later educational achievement: evidence from a UK cohort studyFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Susie shares about how she got to this point in her career Comparing how our parents parented vs how we parent Permission to parent the way you want to Learn to say yes/no when you want to Learn more about Susie O'Brien or purchase her book The Secret to Half-Arsed ParentingPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie slow dance in the kitchen Justin & Kylie answer a listener's question about negative self-talk Stinking Thinking High emotions = low intelligence Cognitive distortions Focus on how they feel, not their words Gentle explore their emotions Empower them to problem solve Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Crazes amongst teens over the years Why Justin got caught up in some of them in his youth How to start a conversation about safety if your teen is participating in internet crazes For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie reflect on the podcasts for the week One of the Coulson girls plays a practical joke on Justin Kylie does the 54321 with her youngest daughter For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: A lot of the country continue with life in lockdown We hear from some of these families For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Lea shares a statistical update on the mental health of teenagers (in regards to lockdown) Covid fatigue Responding to sceptics of positive psychology tactics Small things you can do to feel happier amidst the pandemic 3 key scientific tips for lockdown How to build on your family's strengths Find Lea on social media @profleawaters or on her website leawaters.comPurchase Lea's book The Strength SwitchPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: COVID week on the podcast Dr Justin and Kylie discuss getting along and sibling relationships Tips for helping siblings to get along Role modeling Compassion and empathy Episode mentioned in the podcast: #344 Introducing Wally GoddardPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Mental health tips for when you can't access professional help The toll that the pandemic is taking on families and children Ways to help your mental health if you're in a state that's experiencing a lockdown For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's podcast is a very special Father's Day Tribute for Justin, with some really special messages from his daughters.Justin shares some of his own thoughts about being a father & what he's learnt along the way Parenting isn't about the kids. The product of parenting isn't the kids, it's the parents It really does go too fast You will feel that you can never be enough Showing up is the main game As a parent, you have to a hope builder Dancing is joy The trust they place in you is impossible to live up to Letting go is harder than you can imagine Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How Justin ended up on the back of a paddy wagon His first impression of Kylie What does he know now that he wishes he knew when he had small children Justin's favourite memory of his Dad What is he most grateful for? Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Wally explains how he became a parenting expert Wally talks about his experience with foster parenting Investing time into your family Justin talks about why Wally means so much to him Teach compassion by living compassion Enjoy life with your children Wally talks about his father Follow Wally on FacebookFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ahead of Father's Day this Sunday, Justin and Kylie sat down for a heartwarming interview with Kylie's Dad.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Don't sweat the small stuff. Screen time during lockdowns. The association between adolescent health and screen use. For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin & Kylie immerse themselves in their mistakes One of the Coulson girls take the family car without permission & Justin responds in a way that surprised everyone Kylie reflects on the accuracy of her memories from childhood For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: A listener calls in with her concerns about the children she is a nanny for Lack of connection can result in children acting out Ongoing nurturing connections Emotional regulation Limit setting, structure & clear expectations Children need to have experiences tailored to their individual needs Cultural continuity Purchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: What is the movement The Fatherhood all about? The new generation of Dads Jeremy talks about what's in his new book Is fatherhood what Jeremy expected? How do fathers manage the struggle between work & family? Jeremy's best advice for fathers Learn more about Jeremy MacveanPurchase his book - The Father Hood: Inspiration for the new dad generationFind The Fatherhood on Facebook and InstagramPurchase The Do's & Dont's of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Lockdown is hard on our kids Toys and games to entertain kids Activity ideas for young kids and big kids Encouragement if you're struggling and stressed For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin and Kylie's principles for being great parents Do the important things first before the 'not so important' things fill up your life. Why you need to get enough sleep! Check out Steven Covey's Big Rocks video here.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Tips for getting through 'the monthly cycle'. Reading recommendations for older kids. Spontaneous family adventures. Check out Justin's reading recommendations: The Keepers Trilogy by Lian Tanner The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S Lewis For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: 01.09 - Smacking Physical punishment consistently predicts increases in child behaviour problems over time Physical punishment is not associated with positive outcomes over time Physical punishment increases the risk of involvement with child protection services The only evidence of children illiciting physical punishment is for externalising behaviour Physical punishment predicts worsening behaviour over time 07.20 Screen usage and reading When do children need to start learning to read? What do screens get in the way of? 10.45 Which country has the most burnt out parents? How do we assess parental burnout? How to minimise and navigate parental burnout? Physical punishment and child outcomes: a narrative review of prospective studiesLongitudinal Associations Between Screen Use and Reading in Preschool-Aged ChildrenParental Burnout Around the Globe: A 42-Country Study International Investigation of Parental BurnoutFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Study stress What causes all of the stress? Stress isn't about having too much to do, it's about how to get it all done Motivation & wellbeing Life balance Tips to help kids get through their exams The obession with 'the number' at the end of year 12 Time management vs scheduled outcomes Command words Unmotivated teens You can get a copy of Katie’s Free Parent Guide:‘The 3 Huge Mistakes (even smart!) Students Make in Exams and Assignments’at www.rocksolidstudy.comAnd check out her free and super-practical video tips at the Grade Transformation blog:www.gradetransformation.com.auPurchase Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How to guide an 18 year old while respecting their decisions Minimising the contention at home Having an honest conversation The importance of autonomy Connection Purchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Important ADHD background information Tips for parenting ADHD children Three basic psychological needs For more information and to register for Justin's ADHD webinar click here.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Jacob Townsend's powerful example of confidence with a stutter Justin's experience with his daughter - connection is the currency of our relationships Kids spell love T-I-M-E Justin and Kylie's experience in guiding their daughter through a breakup For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How we create influence through connection Why trust is so important Asking a simple question like 'what do you think' can empower our kids For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Timestamps for this episode: 00.32 Justin introduces Andrew 00.53 Is it appropriate to say we manage the tricky behaviours of others around us? 01.53 Andrew's acronym R.E.S.O.L.V.E. 02.09 R.espond with respect 02.46 E.ngage 03.35 S.eek understanding 04.39 O.bserve their feelings 05.47 L.ower the tone 07.37 V.alue add 08.17 E.mpower 08.55 Ad break 09.40 How to use the R.E.S.O.L.V.E. model with a tricky toddler 12.23 How to use the R.E.S.O.L.V.E. model with a tricky teenager 15.12 Technology and teens 16.24 Justin's summary 17.46 Andrew's process of forming his model Tricky Behaviours by Andrew FullerFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: How toddlers and pre-schoolers are biologically wired Tips and tricks for working parents during lockdowns Change and variety will keep toddlers entertained for longer Read Dr Jenny Chesters' 'Parenting During Lockdown' article here.Read Dr Jenny Chesters' full report on 'Life Satisfaction During the 2020 Pandemic in Australia' here.For a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Justin has been thoroughly enjoying watching the Olympics The sexism on display when the Norwegian Beach Handball Team chose to compete in shorts instead of bikini bottoms How we can encourage our children in any activity without taking it too far Facebook post mentioned#321 I'll Do Better TomorrowFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: Kylie reviews her decision to read her daughter's journal Justin was distracted from quality time with his daughter #321 I'll Do Better TomorrowFor a happier family try a Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Topics discussed in this episode: The Goonies Grease The Princess Bride North Shore Pretty Woman Dirty Dancing Dead Poet's Society Remember The Titans Hidden Figures She's The Man Bend It Like Beckham Jumanji Cinderella Man Les Misérables We Bought A Zoo Ferris Bueller's Day Off The Last of the Mohicans #320 And the Oscar Goes ToPurchase The Do's & Don'ts of Discipline or find it in your Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.